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? Don't care what you
think about it ?
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? Ain't here to please nobody
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? I'm running undercover
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? Here comes trouble now
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? Me and my wicked ways
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? I'll get you into
trouble now ?
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? It's just so hard to behave
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? Got you seeing double, now
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? I'm the one
your mama told you ?
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? I'll play
the one that's told you ?
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? A risk you can't afford
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? And here comes trouble now
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? Turning it up all night
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? Got you feeling all right
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? Turning it up all night
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? Got you feeling all right
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? Get you into trouble, now
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- One would imagine
that in America,
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we're a lot more liberal
when it comes to sexuality.
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In our country,
we're still so judgmental.
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Things are very taboo.
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- Right now it's not
really happening for me.
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I just survived
The Summer of Celibacy.
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- I would say my sex life is--
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I'm a very, like,
erotic kind of guy,
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so I like the--
the slow, passionate--
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you know, I like the build-up.
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- If I could eat pussy
all day, I would.
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But to me,
what I love the most is,
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I like to eat pussy,
like to have sex,
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When I'm done,
I gotta go have a sandwich.
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People know that about me.
When I'm done having sex,
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I'm gonna go have a sandwich,
come back,
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and have sex again.
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And then I'm gonna go get
another sandwich.
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- Ideally, I'd have sex
twice a day.
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Breakfast,
and fucking dinner.
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- I think talking about sex
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is highly important
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for everyone to do,
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because we don't
talk about it enough.
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- I'm London.
- I'm Donovan.
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- Kelly.
- Michael, and this--
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- And this--
- And this--
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Both: And this is our sex life.
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- Oww!
- But don't tell my mother.
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- People come to
these Erotic Sleepovers
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because they really need
and want to experience
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true freedom and liberation.
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- There's a spiritual
component of it.
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Really getting into the energy,
learning about energies
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and the sensuality
of it all.
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Sex is good.
We say "yes" to pleasure.
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We say "yes" to variety,
both women and men.
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We say "yes" to sharing!
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- I want them to leave
with their lives changed
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forever at their core.
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That's the power of
what we're doing here.
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- You have 360 degrees
of access to your partner.
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- Right.
- And so you can really
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position her in any position
and play
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and just have
a really good time.
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- We have been married
for three years,
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been together for four.
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Loving every single
moment of it.
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- You better.
- [ chuckles ]
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- She's spicy.
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Very, very spicy.
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- Are you from Atlanta?
- No.
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- No?
- We've only been here
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for about a year now.
She's from New York.
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- New York.
- Louisiana.
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- Oh, okay, okay.
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- Bringing in an extra toy
or two, whatever,
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it's spicy, it's sexy.
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It keeps
your relationship alive.
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- I think this toy is a really--
an amazing showpiece.
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- Hmm.
- It enhances everything.
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- Exactly, and that's
what we're about.
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We're about enhancing
each other's pleasure.
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- Yeah.
- That's what we're here for.
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- And if it can enhance
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more than what he already does?
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- Mm-hmm.
- I'll just be like,
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coming on the walls.
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- Bring your poncho.
Bring your poncho.
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He's just looking at me.
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- Hey, if you can work up
to it and you feel
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comfortable with it,
I say let's go for it.
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- Do you think they'll
have some of those
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at the Erotic Sleepover?
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- All right, son everybody,
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we're gonna go ahead
and get started.
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First off, I want to say
thank all of y'all people
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for coming and participating
in Erotic Sleepover 3.0.
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I don't know how many
of you guys know me,
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but I am gonna introduce
myself so you know
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who the fuck I am.
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I'm Cidney Green.
This is my brain child.
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It started off as just
an idea and here we are,
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three years later,
doing it.
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And this is actually
a bit surreal.
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You know what I'm saying?
So it's cool!
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An Erotic Sleepover
is an all-inclusive,
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luxury, spiritual,
sexual retreat.
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The people that come
to the Erotic Sleepover,
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you get all walks of life.
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I think the common thread
that keeps all of us together
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is the desire for sexual
freedom and sexual expression.
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And what I provide here
is just really a safe place.
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It has to be safe
as far as not being judged,
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safe as far as
just physical safety
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and it's a very loving,
warm environment.
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- I mean...
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I've never been on
an Erotic Sleepover before.
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- Mm-hmm.
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- So I'm just...nervous?
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- Nervous?
- Nervous.
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- What kind of things
make you nervous about it?
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- Being outside of our bedroom.
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- Right, that's--
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- So, again, we haven't
been outside
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of our bedroom, sexually.
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So being there
with a bunch of people--
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I don't even know
how many people--50 people.
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You know what I mean?
It's just gonna be like--
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it's--it's not normal,
it seems.
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But then, what's normal?
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- Yeah, nobody else can
define your normal,
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but you.
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- I guess.
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- So let's go define our normal.
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- I guess.
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So hopefully, like,
we walk in and just find
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the people that we're looking
to hook up with.
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- Uh-huh.
- Like, that's the dream.
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- That's the dream scenario?
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- Like, I don't want
to go searching.
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- All right,
so you open the door.
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Boom. Pow. Door open.
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You walk in.
Describe the person you see.
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- Girl or guy?
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- Let's start with guy.
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- Shirtless.
- Okay.
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- Abs.
- All right.
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- And he's sweating.
- Okay.
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- He's like--
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Sweat, sweat, sweat,
sweat, sweat. "You!"
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And then I'm just like,
"Oh, ah!"
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And then you're like,
"Do you want him?"
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And then I'm just like,
"Yeah,"
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and then we, like,
attack him.
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Like, that's my--
when we walk through the door.
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- Uh-huh.
- That's fantasy.
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- First thing?
- First thing.
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- Okay.
- Soon as we open the door.
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And it's just like "Whoa!"
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- I think, honestly,
if more people did this,
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there'd be a lot less cheating
in relationships.
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- There would be,
and people would be together.
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- That's one thing I can say.
- People would be together
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and people would be happy.
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- Mm-hmm, mm-hmm.
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I agree.
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- High five! Pow!
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- What about this space?
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What about--we could
put some maybe in here?
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- We have to have a place
for people to sleep.
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- Are those
air mattresses fluffy?
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This is looking kind of--
it's still looking kind of--
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Yeah, like, there needs
to be no wrinkles in it.
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Stephanie, do you have all the
alcohol stations planned out?
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I can put that
in Milo's quarters
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if you want to,
with the trays.
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I don't know if you want
the trays to be
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already in Milo's quarters or
have the trays at your station.
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- Yeah, the trays are
gonna be split up.
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- So this year's
Erotic Sleepover,
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we're gonna have 30 guests.
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And this venue is by far
the best venue we've ever had,
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the biggest and the most
grandest venue we ever had.
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So I just can't wait
for people to see it.
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Thank y'all.
Again, if I'm sharp,
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it is not because I don't
love and appreciate y'all.
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I'm just--
this is just sharp time.
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Like, I gotta be sharp.
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I grew up
in Monroe, Louisiana,
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obviously the South, okay.
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So my mom did not raise
us in the church
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like a lot of families were.
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Even though my mom was
relatively liberal,
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you still get
those ideals that sex is--
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you shouldn't do it
and masturbation is bad.
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But I started playing
with my pussy young.
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I started masturbating young,
okay?
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I started figuring out
that things felt good
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when you touched
them a certain way
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when I was about eight.
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And to this day,
you should not trust me
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around pool jets
because I will position myself
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and act like I'm
reading a book when really,
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I'm letting
the water hit my clit.
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Yes, I like that.
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But, I'm saying all this
to say
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I still remember feeling guilt
about sexuality.
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I had to figure out a way
to stop giving a fuck
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about what I thought
a man wanted or what I thought
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society expected of me,
being a black woman.
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And I had to sit with myself,
just really figuring out
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if there was no such thing
as a social norm at all,
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would I like having more
than one man that love me? Yes.
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Would I want to be
monogamous? No.
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Would I want to have
sex as much as I want
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and all this
other time? Yeah.
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And I fell in love
with all of it.
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And I fell in love with
the person who
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had those beliefs
and had those desires.
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And so yeah, I figured out
who the fuck I was
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and fell in love with
that person and here you are.
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I was repressed and now I'm not.
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- This is what we've
been waiting for.
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- Yep.
- The moment we have
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been waiting for.
- Here we go.
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Look how huge this house is!
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Don't forget your mask.
- I got it. You got yours?
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- Yeah.
- All right.
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- Sounds loud in there.
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- Hello.
- Hello!
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Hello! Hello! Hello!
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- Cidney is my sister.
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- Cidney is your sister, really?
- Yes.
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- All right, I'm Mike.
It's nice to meet you.
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- Nice to meet you.
Welcome, welcome.
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- You're in room one.
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'Cause you're number one.
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- We are number one. Ohh!
- Ohh!
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- When people come
to my events,
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it's a very freeing,
liberating feeling.
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You get to be yourself.
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They get to know themselves
on a level
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that they've never gotten
to know themselves before.
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- Thank you, and your name is?
- Kamia.
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- And her titties are not fake.
They are real.
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- I see, they're gorgeous!
- They look very real.
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- Those are real tits.
- Very, very, real.
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- Are yours real too?
- If you need a towel,
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if you need your head massaged,
whatever it is.
248
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- Which head, though?
249
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- My name is Princess.
250
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I'm the event manager
and model coordinator
251
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for the Erotic Sleepover
this year.
252
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I'm here for both of you.
253
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I'm here all night
if you need me.
254
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People are really coming
just for that ambiance,
255
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for that freedom,
for the spirituality.
256
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- I'm looking forward
to a whole lot of voyeurism.
257
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Like, I want to see
all sorts of sex.
258
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All sorts of sex--
juicy sex, saucy sex,
259
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morning sex,
nighttime sex.
260
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I want to see sex, sex, sex.
261
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In the room,
in the closet, everywhere.
262
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This event has a spiritual
twist or spin to it.
263
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- Yes, yes, and you are?
264
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- I'm J. Jose!
265
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- J. Jose! All right, man!
266
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Good to meet you, man.
Good to meet you.
267
00:13:31,288 --> 00:13:35,336
- So it's not your typical orgy
or sex party at all.
268
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- That's what I'm talking about.
Get it girl, get it, get it.
269
00:13:37,773 --> 00:13:39,644
- It's my quads.
- I need to get more like you.
270
00:13:39,688 --> 00:13:41,124
I should start twerking more.
271
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- What do you do?
272
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- Eat fish.
273
00:13:45,694 --> 00:13:49,176
- Brown people are
very sexually inhibited.
274
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Don't believe all
the twerk videos you see on TV.
275
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That's not the truth,
not for the mass populace.
276
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We're not liberated in that way.
277
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So if people come and
they just really want
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to have good, clean, open fun,
279
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an event like this can
open them up
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to another
part of themselves
281
00:14:06,106 --> 00:14:07,847
that they didn't know existed.
282
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- We have a couple of
activities for you guys, okay?
283
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But the first thing we're
gonna do
284
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is introduce
you to King Heff.
285
00:14:20,163 --> 00:14:25,038
- I teach the sensual art
of impact play, right?
286
00:14:25,081 --> 00:14:27,344
So tonight, I'm gonna do
a little demonstration.
287
00:14:27,388 --> 00:14:29,433
We're gonna do a little
breath play, okay?
288
00:14:29,477 --> 00:14:31,000
So if y'all don't
know what breath play is,
289
00:14:31,044 --> 00:14:34,177
breath play is a little
choking, all right?
290
00:14:34,221 --> 00:14:36,832
So before I do this,
consent is very key
291
00:14:36,876 --> 00:14:38,921
and very sexy, all right?
292
00:14:38,965 --> 00:14:41,750
So Junita, do I have your
consent to choke you tonight?
293
00:14:41,793 --> 00:14:44,622
Yes.
294
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- I'm watching everything
you guys do.
295
00:14:47,712 --> 00:14:49,410
- Consent is very important.
296
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Consent for everything,
not even just sex, okay?
297
00:14:53,066 --> 00:14:55,938
If you want to touch somebody,
298
00:14:55,982 --> 00:14:57,548
you have to get a hard "yes."
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Anything that's not a "hell yes"
is a "hell no."
300
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A "I guess you can"?
301
00:15:01,509 --> 00:15:03,337
No. That's a "no," okay?
302
00:15:03,380 --> 00:15:05,469
Everything has
to be a hard "yes."
303
00:15:23,444 --> 00:15:25,707
- Oh, yes sir!
304
00:15:25,750 --> 00:15:27,709
- I had strict
Caribbean parents,
305
00:15:27,752 --> 00:15:29,189
and I grew up very private.
306
00:15:29,232 --> 00:15:31,321
In my house,
we always were clothed.
307
00:15:31,365 --> 00:15:33,758
You know, come out the shower,
you have a towel on,
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00:15:33,802 --> 00:15:35,586
you have a robe on,
you have something on.
309
00:15:35,630 --> 00:15:38,198
So if I ever had anything
little on with company over,
310
00:15:38,241 --> 00:15:39,590
my mom's like,
"Put on some pants."
311
00:15:39,634 --> 00:15:41,375
You know, so we were
very covered.
312
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Very--you know, sex wasn't open.
313
00:15:44,987 --> 00:15:48,208
So just seeing everyone
do that was a lot.
314
00:15:48,251 --> 00:15:53,778
- Remember
that 10,000 years ago,
315
00:15:53,822 --> 00:15:56,738
prior to sexual repression.
316
00:15:58,305 --> 00:16:00,698
Prior to the Victorian Age!
317
00:16:03,136 --> 00:16:04,833
- I could definitely tell
318
00:16:04,876 --> 00:16:06,356
that she was first starting
to get uncomfortable
319
00:16:06,400 --> 00:16:09,055
right when we started
to sit on the beds.
320
00:16:09,098 --> 00:16:10,447
And I think it was just
the overwhelming
321
00:16:10,491 --> 00:16:13,059
of emotions
and sensory overload,
322
00:16:13,102 --> 00:16:14,930
kind of with everything
that was going on.
323
00:16:14,974 --> 00:16:16,758
So it was just a lot for
her to take in
324
00:16:16,801 --> 00:16:21,023
and it was--it just started
going south, unfortunately.
325
00:16:21,067 --> 00:16:23,983
- In societies where people
take care of each other,
326
00:16:24,026 --> 00:16:27,551
all people have sex
together, who want to.
327
00:16:27,595 --> 00:16:29,423
- And that's why I tried
to pay more attention to her,
328
00:16:29,466 --> 00:16:32,382
every once in a while,
reach over and give her a kiss,
329
00:16:32,426 --> 00:16:34,341
grab her hand
and try to hold her close,
330
00:16:34,384 --> 00:16:37,039
let her know that everything's
going to be all right.
331
00:16:37,083 --> 00:16:39,085
- If you would,
come around this way
332
00:16:39,128 --> 00:16:41,174
and we're gonna get into
an exact circle.
333
00:16:41,217 --> 00:16:45,265
Preferably male, female,
male, female.
334
00:16:45,308 --> 00:16:46,483
- I'm going to
the room real quick.
335
00:16:46,527 --> 00:16:47,571
- Say again?
336
00:16:47,615 --> 00:16:48,746
- I'm going to
the room real quick.
337
00:16:48,790 --> 00:16:49,747
- You need me?
338
00:16:57,103 --> 00:16:58,234
- She's in the bathroom.
339
00:16:58,278 --> 00:17:00,454
- Oh.
- She'll be back.
340
00:17:00,497 --> 00:17:02,543
- ...where you're going
to practice consent.
341
00:17:02,586 --> 00:17:07,069
So the woman is going
to ask for a sexual favor.
342
00:17:07,113 --> 00:17:10,072
- How do I kiss two people
at the same time?
343
00:17:10,116 --> 00:17:11,508
- We can kiss you
at the same time.
344
00:17:11,552 --> 00:17:14,033
- Okay, that works for me.
345
00:17:28,264 --> 00:17:35,010
- Four, three, two,
and motherfucking one.
346
00:17:35,054 --> 00:17:37,404
- I felt uptight,
a little prudish.
347
00:17:37,447 --> 00:17:39,754
Like, "Oh my god,
they're naked!"
348
00:17:39,797 --> 00:17:41,277
Like, you know what I mean?
349
00:17:41,321 --> 00:17:42,931
So I just needed something
to loosen up
350
00:17:42,974 --> 00:17:44,324
and nothing was working.
351
00:17:44,367 --> 00:17:45,499
- Where are you at?
Come on, scatter,
352
00:17:45,542 --> 00:17:46,804
scatter, scatter.
353
00:17:46,848 --> 00:17:49,155
Get new groups!
Come on, scatter.
354
00:17:49,198 --> 00:17:52,071
- It was just like,
"Come on, Sunshine."
355
00:17:52,114 --> 00:17:55,117
- Is anybody gonna
come to my bed?
356
00:17:57,119 --> 00:18:01,471
- I would like to have
an ass massage
357
00:18:01,515 --> 00:18:03,995
at the same time
as having a boob massage.
358
00:18:04,039 --> 00:18:05,301
- Okay.
359
00:18:05,345 --> 00:18:06,520
- Is that something
you guys can do?
360
00:18:06,563 --> 00:18:07,651
- We can do that.
- [ laughs ]
361
00:18:07,695 --> 00:18:08,957
- We can do that.
362
00:18:09,000 --> 00:18:10,393
You can take one of each
363
00:18:10,437 --> 00:18:12,134
and I'll take one of each.
- I got you.
364
00:18:12,178 --> 00:18:14,789
Yes!
365
00:18:14,832 --> 00:18:17,531
I'm surrounded by
beautiful, younger men.
366
00:18:35,505 --> 00:18:37,638
- Oh, of course.
367
00:18:37,681 --> 00:18:39,770
- I didn't really know
what was going on out there
368
00:18:39,814 --> 00:18:44,297
but I wasn't comfortable enough
to go back out there.
369
00:18:44,340 --> 00:18:47,387
- Very strong.
370
00:18:47,430 --> 00:18:49,693
Women, you can tell
your guy that they are
371
00:18:49,737 --> 00:18:51,913
very powerful,
they are very strong.
372
00:18:51,956 --> 00:18:53,871
[ voice on phone video ]
...change your expectation
373
00:18:55,569 --> 00:18:57,745
- You're very soft, very silky.
374
00:18:57,788 --> 00:19:01,052
- So I don't know, I didn't
really know how to feel.
375
00:19:13,674 --> 00:19:15,371
...absence of what you want,
376
00:19:15,415 --> 00:19:17,156
you'll get in the presence
of what you want.
377
00:19:17,199 --> 00:19:18,853
It's just that simple.
378
00:19:18,896 --> 00:19:21,943
Distraction from
the absence of what you want.
379
00:19:21,986 --> 00:19:25,338
- What's going on, babe?
Come here.
380
00:19:25,381 --> 00:19:27,253
- Hey, go out there
and have fun.
381
00:19:29,777 --> 00:19:32,649
- It's okay, I do understand
and I thank you.
382
00:19:32,693 --> 00:19:34,956
But I want you to go
out there and enjoy yourself.
383
00:19:34,999 --> 00:19:36,175
- Look...
384
00:19:58,240 --> 00:19:59,546
- For those people
who've never been
385
00:19:59,589 --> 00:20:01,635
to an Erotic Sleepover before,
386
00:20:01,678 --> 00:20:04,812
first thing I would say is,
feel the nervousness,
387
00:20:04,855 --> 00:20:07,336
feel some of the fear
and work through it.
388
00:20:07,380 --> 00:20:09,295
Because on the other side
of fear is everything
389
00:20:09,338 --> 00:20:11,340
that you've ever desired.
390
00:20:11,384 --> 00:20:15,257
- So I know how last night
ended and we continue
391
00:20:15,301 --> 00:20:16,954
to try and support
each other and
392
00:20:16,998 --> 00:20:19,957
make sure we don't get
a repeat of last night.
393
00:20:20,001 --> 00:20:22,264
- In my head, I was like,
"Yeah, we're gonna do this,
394
00:20:22,308 --> 00:20:23,700
"we're gonna do that.
Oh, my God,
395
00:20:23,744 --> 00:20:25,398
what if we had six guys?
What if you had--"
396
00:20:25,441 --> 00:20:28,314
And you know, it was
all of this built-up excitement.
397
00:20:28,357 --> 00:20:31,708
And then when I get there,
it was just a shock.
398
00:20:31,752 --> 00:20:35,059
I didn't know what to expect
and it was just--
399
00:20:35,103 --> 00:20:37,279
it was very overwhelming,
I guess.
400
00:20:37,323 --> 00:20:38,933
- If you're not doing well
and you're not feeling well,
401
00:20:38,976 --> 00:20:40,891
I'll get you up
and I'll bring you out.
402
00:20:40,935 --> 00:20:42,502
You won't even have
to do that on your own.
403
00:20:42,545 --> 00:20:44,286
- Okay, I appreciate that.
404
00:20:44,330 --> 00:20:46,114
- I got you, babe.
- I appreciate that.
405
00:20:46,157 --> 00:20:47,289
- Hey!
406
00:20:47,333 --> 00:20:49,030
- So you guys are ready to play?
407
00:20:49,073 --> 00:20:50,379
- The lovely Miss Princess.
408
00:20:50,423 --> 00:20:52,729
- You look beautiful!
- Thank you!
409
00:20:52,773 --> 00:20:54,862
I'm still gonna give you guys
your massage tonight.
410
00:20:54,905 --> 00:20:56,342
- Princess has just told me
about this massage
411
00:20:56,385 --> 00:20:57,343
since we've been here.
412
00:20:57,386 --> 00:20:58,996
She's like "Oh, my God.
413
00:20:59,040 --> 00:21:00,737
Wait till you feel my massages!"
414
00:21:00,781 --> 00:21:04,306
So we're excited to see
Princess's skills.
415
00:21:07,266 --> 00:21:10,312
Ooh!
416
00:21:18,102 --> 00:21:20,322
- Soft kisses on my leg.
417
00:21:20,366 --> 00:21:21,628
- I don't know what you're
talking about.
418
00:21:21,671 --> 00:21:24,021
- I would like
to feel more open.
419
00:21:24,065 --> 00:21:27,764
I felt like I was closed off
yesterday to almost everything.
420
00:21:30,724 --> 00:21:32,769
To take everything outside
of the bedroom,
421
00:21:32,813 --> 00:21:34,902
into this open forum,
you know,
422
00:21:34,945 --> 00:21:37,078
is completely opposite
of what I'm used to.
423
00:21:37,121 --> 00:21:38,645
So I want to be open about it.
424
00:21:38,688 --> 00:21:40,777
Yeah.
425
00:21:40,821 --> 00:21:41,952
- How does your butt feel?
426
00:21:41,996 --> 00:21:43,432
- So good.
427
00:21:43,476 --> 00:21:45,434
- How does it feel for you?
- So soft.
428
00:21:45,478 --> 00:21:48,002
- Your skin is soft!
429
00:21:52,398 --> 00:21:53,834
I've gotten a lot of massages
in the past,
430
00:21:53,877 --> 00:21:57,228
but like, this was different.
431
00:21:57,272 --> 00:22:00,362
She would rub a leg,
and then Mike would rub a leg,
432
00:22:00,406 --> 00:22:05,062
and it was very soft,
very sensual.
433
00:22:06,673 --> 00:22:09,371
For me to just have a moment
with my husband, Princess,
434
00:22:09,415 --> 00:22:12,896
all in that like, more
comfortable type of setting,
435
00:22:12,940 --> 00:22:16,422
I had more of a calmness to me.
436
00:22:16,465 --> 00:22:20,382
Oh! That felt amazing!
437
00:22:20,426 --> 00:22:23,472
Let me just relax and
everything is going to be okay.
438
00:22:23,516 --> 00:22:26,214
So, it's just
a different mindset
439
00:22:26,257 --> 00:22:27,650
going into the second day.
440
00:22:27,694 --> 00:22:30,392
Ah, I feel so relaxed!
- Yeah, you do.
441
00:22:30,436 --> 00:22:34,265
- People coming to an Erotic
Sleepover for the first time,
442
00:22:34,309 --> 00:22:37,660
your programming and your
conditioning is gonna come up.
443
00:22:37,704 --> 00:22:40,750
You're gonna feel triggered,
you're gonna feel uncomfortable.
444
00:22:46,626 --> 00:22:48,584
- So I support people
in shifting their mindset.
445
00:22:48,628 --> 00:22:51,674
You want to feel that feeling
and push forward anyway.
446
00:22:51,718 --> 00:22:54,242
Or ask for support,
move through it,
447
00:22:54,285 --> 00:22:56,766
so that you can open up,
de-stress,
448
00:22:56,810 --> 00:22:59,943
and come back to
your natural, sexual self.
449
00:23:05,819 --> 00:23:07,821
- Hmm.
450
00:23:07,864 --> 00:23:12,303
- Hey.
451
00:23:12,347 --> 00:23:14,001
- Come hither.
452
00:23:14,044 --> 00:23:17,265
- Hi, what you guys doing?
453
00:23:18,875 --> 00:23:20,616
- It's a special contest.
454
00:23:20,660 --> 00:23:22,052
- Special contest?
455
00:23:23,750 --> 00:23:26,405
- Oh, wow.
- It's one on one.
456
00:23:29,756 --> 00:23:31,801
- Let's go. Let's do it.
457
00:23:33,716 --> 00:23:35,805
- All right, let's go.
458
00:23:35,849 --> 00:23:37,154
- Let's go.
459
00:23:37,198 --> 00:23:39,374
- Ready, ladies?
- Let's go. Let's do it.
460
00:24:02,484 --> 00:24:04,486
- We're on the beds
and they both just
461
00:24:04,530 --> 00:24:07,750
went to town on us,
and that was exciting.
462
00:24:07,794 --> 00:24:09,491
That was definitely exciting.
463
00:24:09,535 --> 00:24:16,672
Oh, shit! [ moans ]
464
00:24:16,716 --> 00:24:19,980
Mike pleasuring me
while another woman
465
00:24:20,023 --> 00:24:21,460
next to me
was definitely new.
466
00:24:21,503 --> 00:24:24,767
We have never
done that before, ever.
467
00:24:27,248 --> 00:24:29,859
It was hot to hear her
moaning from being pleasured
468
00:24:29,903 --> 00:24:31,208
from her guy
and then I'm moaning
469
00:24:31,252 --> 00:24:32,906
from being pleasured
from my guy.
470
00:24:32,949 --> 00:24:36,562
It was all a hot experience.
It's definitely a fantasy
471
00:24:36,605 --> 00:24:38,041
that we didn't
even realize we had.
472
00:24:43,264 --> 00:24:45,484
- At this point, I am wet.
473
00:24:45,527 --> 00:24:49,270
So I was just like "Oh, no,
no, no, no, this has to happen.
474
00:24:49,313 --> 00:24:50,576
"He gon' stick it in.
475
00:24:50,619 --> 00:24:51,707
He gon' stick it in
or I'm gon' stick it in."
476
00:24:54,797 --> 00:24:56,495
We just had to
get into the sex.
477
00:24:56,538 --> 00:24:58,627
There was just
no other way to do it.
478
00:25:45,413 --> 00:25:48,547
- Like, we just toned
everybody out from around us
479
00:25:48,590 --> 00:25:51,680
and we were just doing us,
we were being us.
480
00:25:51,724 --> 00:25:53,856
We did come here
for new sexual experience,
481
00:25:53,900 --> 00:25:58,600
so that was, by golly,
a new experience.
482
00:25:58,644 --> 00:26:03,213
It was so exciting just
to be there and to feel it
483
00:26:03,257 --> 00:26:04,998
and to feel them
and their energy
484
00:26:05,041 --> 00:26:06,565
and what they're going through.
485
00:26:06,608 --> 00:26:08,610
And for it to be
something new for us
486
00:26:08,654 --> 00:26:11,178
that we did together
for the first time,
487
00:26:11,221 --> 00:26:12,919
it was beautiful.
It was wonderful.
488
00:26:18,359 --> 00:26:20,753
- With Erotic Sleepovers,
I'm creating
489
00:26:20,796 --> 00:26:23,973
a culture of acceptance
and really working through
490
00:26:24,017 --> 00:26:26,236
the barriers of things
that society just does not
491
00:26:26,280 --> 00:26:28,978
talk about, especially
in the black community.
492
00:26:33,330 --> 00:26:35,289
We really are
creating a culture
493
00:26:35,332 --> 00:26:37,987
of melananted acceptance
and sex positivity.
494
00:26:38,031 --> 00:26:39,510
That's what we do here.
495
00:26:39,554 --> 00:26:41,512
That's what the fuck
the culture's about.
496
00:26:41,556 --> 00:26:42,862
- I hope we get
to do this again, baby.
497
00:26:42,905 --> 00:26:44,298
It was so much fun with you.
498
00:26:44,341 --> 00:26:45,995
- It was very fun
with you as well,
499
00:26:46,039 --> 00:26:48,215
and it's a maybe
on doing it again.
500
00:26:48,258 --> 00:26:52,175
What I expected it to be,
which was just sex everywhere
501
00:26:52,219 --> 00:26:54,047
and everyone acting crazy
and things like that.
502
00:26:54,090 --> 00:26:55,918
- Right.
- It wasn't like that.
503
00:26:55,962 --> 00:26:57,659
- Okay.
- I mean, there was
504
00:26:57,703 --> 00:26:59,313
sex everywhere and everyone
was acting crazy, yes.
505
00:26:59,356 --> 00:27:01,228
But it was more than that.
It was more than that.
506
00:27:01,271 --> 00:27:02,708
- Right.
- So it surpassed expectation.
507
00:27:02,751 --> 00:27:04,753
We're out of here.
508
00:27:04,797 --> 00:27:08,583
- Ahh! No! Don't leave!
509
00:27:12,239 --> 00:27:14,284
- I thought maybe
there would be another
510
00:27:14,328 --> 00:27:18,462
Erotic Sleepover in the future.
511
00:27:18,506 --> 00:27:20,029
I don't know how soon, though.
512
00:27:20,073 --> 00:27:21,640
- I don't want you guys
to leave, seriously.
513
00:27:21,683 --> 00:27:23,337
- I know.
I wish we didn't have to.
514
00:27:23,380 --> 00:27:24,599
- I didn't get to do anything
strange with y'all.
515
00:27:24,643 --> 00:27:25,861
- I didn't like that.
- I know,
516
00:27:25,905 --> 00:27:26,819
we didn't do
anything with you.
517
00:27:26,862 --> 00:27:28,255
- I feel the same way,
518
00:27:28,298 --> 00:27:30,344
that I would definitely
love to do
519
00:27:30,387 --> 00:27:31,911
another Erotic Sleepover
in the future.
520
00:27:31,954 --> 00:27:34,696
Not too sure when,
but because of what
521
00:27:34,740 --> 00:27:37,394
this experience did for us,
I would love to do it again.
522
00:27:37,438 --> 00:27:39,179
I would love to experience
more new things
523
00:27:39,222 --> 00:27:40,789
and continue to build
on our relationship,
524
00:27:40,833 --> 00:27:42,399
continue to build
on the sexuality,
525
00:27:42,443 --> 00:27:44,401
continue to build
on the community that we found
526
00:27:44,445 --> 00:27:46,012
and just keep going.
527
00:27:46,055 --> 00:27:49,145
So I do believe
we would be back.
528
00:27:49,189 --> 00:27:51,365
- We might.
529
00:27:52,714 --> 00:27:55,456
Thank you so much.
530
00:27:55,499 --> 00:27:58,198
- Oh, Lord, save me.
531
00:27:58,241 --> 00:28:01,636
- We love you!
532
00:28:13,213 --> 00:28:17,130
- I think my ultimate
fantasy man is long hair,
533
00:28:17,173 --> 00:28:19,741
long beard, Viking-like.
534
00:28:19,785 --> 00:28:21,874
- Usually, I tend to like boys
535
00:28:21,917 --> 00:28:24,267
that look like Cindy Crawford.
536
00:28:24,311 --> 00:28:28,619
Sometimes, like, a short-haired
archeologist will pop up.
537
00:28:28,663 --> 00:28:31,187
- My fantasy woman
is a very strong,
538
00:28:31,231 --> 00:28:32,711
dark-skinned woman,
539
00:28:32,754 --> 00:28:35,104
is what I always
thought I was gonna be with.
540
00:28:35,148 --> 00:28:38,238
And I fell in love with
blonde hair, blue-eyed,
541
00:28:38,281 --> 00:28:41,371
all-American woman
and I'm completely happy.
542
00:28:41,415 --> 00:28:43,852
- If I could have
my fantasy man,
543
00:28:43,896 --> 00:28:47,464
he would look exactly like
Michael B. Jordan.
544
00:28:47,508 --> 00:28:49,162
I'm thinking about like 6'3".
545
00:28:49,205 --> 00:28:53,514
I really like tall men,
even though I am 4'11".
546
00:28:53,557 --> 00:28:54,863
We're not gonna talk
about that, though.
547
00:28:54,907 --> 00:28:56,299
We're talking about
the dream guy.
548
00:28:56,343 --> 00:28:58,562
- My ultimate fantasy
woman would be
549
00:28:58,606 --> 00:29:02,262
probably like a '60s
sort of spy movie Bond girl
550
00:29:02,305 --> 00:29:04,264
mixed with
a little bit of a vampire--
551
00:29:04,307 --> 00:29:05,700
like, just a touch.
552
00:29:05,744 --> 00:29:07,571
That's also
like Jennifer Connelly,
553
00:29:07,615 --> 00:29:10,009
"Career Opportunities"
with, like, a little bit
554
00:29:10,052 --> 00:29:11,314
of Sharon Tate going on.
555
00:29:11,358 --> 00:29:13,577
You know, just ballpark.
556
00:29:30,159 --> 00:29:32,031
- When you're watching
VR porn,
557
00:29:32,074 --> 00:29:33,859
you're immersed
in the experience.
558
00:29:33,902 --> 00:29:35,208
- Hello.
559
00:29:35,251 --> 00:29:36,775
You feel like you've
been transported
560
00:29:36,818 --> 00:29:38,907
to this new place.
561
00:29:38,951 --> 00:29:41,823
It's about creating
a sense of connection
562
00:29:41,867 --> 00:29:44,130
in addition to arousal.
563
00:29:44,173 --> 00:29:47,089
- I still can't believe
we're doing this.
564
00:29:47,133 --> 00:29:49,831
- And that's what I think
VR is really, really great at,
565
00:29:49,875 --> 00:29:52,094
is making you feel connected
with the person
566
00:29:52,138 --> 00:29:56,664
that you're watching.
567
00:29:56,707 --> 00:30:02,452
- It's an intensely erotic,
sensual, and sensory experience.
568
00:30:02,496 --> 00:30:03,845
She's right there
in front of you.
569
00:30:03,889 --> 00:30:05,542
She's talking to you,
she wants you,
570
00:30:05,586 --> 00:30:08,545
and you're now
your own porn star, basically.
571
00:30:12,114 --> 00:30:14,943
- I want you feel
your skin against my skin.
572
00:30:14,987 --> 00:30:16,075
- Rolling.
573
00:30:16,118 --> 00:30:17,685
- Rolling.
- Action.
574
00:30:34,963 --> 00:30:37,748
- I've been performing in porn
for about ten years now,
575
00:30:37,792 --> 00:30:40,099
though I don't perform
much anymore.
576
00:30:40,142 --> 00:30:44,712
After I shot my first VR
solo scene,
577
00:30:44,755 --> 00:30:47,802
we watched it
on the early Oculus Rift.
578
00:30:47,846 --> 00:30:51,588
And I hate watching myself
on camera,
579
00:30:51,632 --> 00:30:54,504
I hate watching my own scenes,
but when I watched that,
580
00:30:54,548 --> 00:30:57,029
I felt present and transported
581
00:30:57,072 --> 00:30:59,988
and this sense of awe
and whimsy and wonder.
582
00:31:00,032 --> 00:31:03,122
And that was sort of
the moment that I realized
583
00:31:03,165 --> 00:31:05,298
that this medium is gonna
be really incredible
584
00:31:05,341 --> 00:31:08,344
for the content that I produce.
585
00:31:08,388 --> 00:31:09,911
For this occasion.
586
00:31:09,955 --> 00:31:12,000
- I like that.
- We like this, right.
587
00:31:12,044 --> 00:31:13,480
- So first of all, let me hear
what you were thinking.
588
00:31:13,523 --> 00:31:15,134
- So I want to do
a lot of oral stuff.
589
00:31:15,177 --> 00:31:17,310
I want to do the lollipop.
I want to do the vape.
590
00:31:17,353 --> 00:31:19,573
But I was thinking pantyhose
because I have
591
00:31:19,616 --> 00:31:21,009
a lot of pantyhose fans
and it's something
592
00:31:21,053 --> 00:31:22,706
that makes me feel sexy.
- Okay.
593
00:31:22,750 --> 00:31:25,057
- The adult industry has
been on the forefront
594
00:31:25,100 --> 00:31:27,102
of technology
for quite some time.
595
00:31:27,146 --> 00:31:28,799
And you want to stay
ahead of the game,
596
00:31:28,843 --> 00:31:31,019
you want to give your viewers
something exciting
597
00:31:31,063 --> 00:31:32,629
and something
that entices them
598
00:31:32,673 --> 00:31:34,327
to keep paying
for your content.
599
00:31:34,370 --> 00:31:37,373
And I think that with VR,
that's definitely been the case.
600
00:31:37,417 --> 00:31:38,635
- Alex?
- Yep?
601
00:31:38,679 --> 00:31:40,289
- We're ready.
- Okay.
602
00:31:40,333 --> 00:31:41,943
- When you're watching
something on your phone
603
00:31:41,987 --> 00:31:43,945
or your computer
or on your TV,
604
00:31:43,989 --> 00:31:47,209
there's literally a fourth wall
that is in front of you.
605
00:31:47,253 --> 00:31:49,472
But when you put
the headset on,
606
00:31:49,516 --> 00:31:51,126
all of that goes away.
607
00:31:51,170 --> 00:31:53,389
The fourth wall is broken.
608
00:31:53,433 --> 00:31:56,305
- All I want is for you
609
00:31:56,349 --> 00:32:03,878
to be right here with me,
right now.
610
00:32:03,922 --> 00:32:06,315
And here you are.
611
00:32:06,359 --> 00:32:08,578
- Oh, my God.
612
00:32:08,622 --> 00:32:12,321
- Ana, my colleague, she's
innovative, she's brilliant,
613
00:32:12,365 --> 00:32:14,497
she's pioneered so many things.
614
00:32:14,541 --> 00:32:16,760
And she makes
the best VR porn
615
00:32:16,804 --> 00:32:18,284
that you're ever gonna see.
616
00:32:18,327 --> 00:32:20,286
- Literally, you're gonna
come right in here.
617
00:32:20,329 --> 00:32:21,722
- Okay.
618
00:32:21,765 --> 00:32:23,463
- What I'm looking
to do in VR porn
619
00:32:23,506 --> 00:32:28,163
is to affect you emotionally.
620
00:32:28,207 --> 00:32:31,862
Give you an experience,
so that you feel,
621
00:32:31,906 --> 00:32:36,215
when you come away
from it, like,
622
00:32:36,258 --> 00:32:41,307
just maybe you were
in a different place.
623
00:32:45,311 --> 00:32:46,921
- How did you sleep?
624
00:32:46,965 --> 00:32:49,054
- The big thing
that really blew people away
625
00:32:49,097 --> 00:32:53,449
is your favorite performer
is right there in front of you.
626
00:32:53,493 --> 00:32:54,929
And you look through
the headset
627
00:32:54,973 --> 00:32:57,671
and there is the star
looking at you,
628
00:32:57,714 --> 00:33:00,717
and she feels real.
629
00:33:00,761 --> 00:33:02,458
- And you can look down
and there's a body
630
00:33:02,502 --> 00:33:05,984
that sort of becomes your body.
631
00:33:06,027 --> 00:33:09,988
- I mean, you feel like
you feel good.
632
00:33:11,598 --> 00:33:12,947
It's pretty cool.
633
00:33:12,991 --> 00:33:14,514
- And that's the cool thing
about VR.
634
00:33:14,557 --> 00:33:16,298
It's almost like there's
this physical sensation
635
00:33:16,342 --> 00:33:17,908
that happens when you
watch something
636
00:33:17,952 --> 00:33:19,562
that feels so immersive.
637
00:33:25,873 --> 00:33:29,964
Black Box was born
out of the idea of
638
00:33:30,008 --> 00:33:33,837
taking VR to another level.
639
00:33:33,881 --> 00:33:37,189
We're going to make
VR porn even more immersive.
640
00:33:37,232 --> 00:33:39,582
We're gonna make VR porn
even more realistic.
641
00:33:41,584 --> 00:33:45,806
- Black Box is
a solo VR series.
642
00:33:45,849 --> 00:33:49,462
It's a performer
in literally a black box
643
00:33:49,505 --> 00:33:52,117
with a camera in it
and the performer
644
00:33:52,160 --> 00:33:54,075
is right in front
of the camera.
645
00:33:54,119 --> 00:33:56,599
So when you watch it,
you feel like you're
646
00:33:56,643 --> 00:33:58,949
in this very isolated space
647
00:33:58,993 --> 00:34:00,429
with the performer
in front of you...
648
00:34:00,473 --> 00:34:02,562
- Camera.
- ...talking to you.
649
00:34:02,605 --> 00:34:04,999
- I'm so glad that we can
be here together right now.
650
00:34:05,043 --> 00:34:06,696
- Engaging with you.
651
00:34:06,740 --> 00:34:12,267
- You caught my eye
from the minute you boarded.
652
00:34:12,311 --> 00:34:18,056
Um, I'm not supposed to
give second drinks.
653
00:34:18,099 --> 00:34:21,755
But you're so cute,
I couldn't help myself.
654
00:34:21,798 --> 00:34:23,278
- Enticing you.
655
00:34:25,411 --> 00:34:27,108
Flirting with you.
656
00:34:27,152 --> 00:34:29,197
- Can I place my lips
against your lips?
657
00:34:29,241 --> 00:34:31,895
- What I wanted to
create was an experience
658
00:34:31,939 --> 00:34:34,811
where it's
just you and the girl
659
00:34:34,855 --> 00:34:36,857
and all you can see
and hear
660
00:34:36,900 --> 00:34:38,772
is what she is saying
directly to you.
661
00:34:38,815 --> 00:34:43,777
- Are you feeling relaxed
with me right now?
662
00:34:43,820 --> 00:34:45,605
- You're not distracted
by the other things
663
00:34:45,648 --> 00:34:47,911
that are happening, because
there's nothing else to see.
664
00:34:47,955 --> 00:34:50,523
- I feel so comfortable
with you.
665
00:34:50,566 --> 00:34:54,875
- You feel a sense of reciprocal
affection and attraction.
666
00:34:54,918 --> 00:34:59,271
- You've just got
the most beautiful eyes.
667
00:34:59,314 --> 00:35:02,404
I just can't stop
staring at you.
668
00:35:07,105 --> 00:35:11,239
- The audio plays
a very important role.
669
00:35:11,283 --> 00:35:13,676
So remember, this is
a lot about the audio.
670
00:35:13,720 --> 00:35:15,200
It's way turned up.
- Okay.
671
00:35:24,513 --> 00:35:28,517
- ASMR stands for autonomous
sensory meridian response.
672
00:35:28,561 --> 00:35:29,910
- Cheers.
673
00:35:29,953 --> 00:35:31,651
- It's really big right now.
674
00:35:31,694 --> 00:35:33,261
There's a Super Bowl commercial,
675
00:35:33,305 --> 00:35:35,568
all the kids
are doing it on YouTube.
676
00:35:37,091 --> 00:35:38,353
You're watching and listening
677
00:35:38,397 --> 00:35:40,877
to certain cues and triggers
678
00:35:40,921 --> 00:35:44,316
that create a sensation
within your body.
679
00:35:44,359 --> 00:35:45,882
People describe tingles.
680
00:35:45,926 --> 00:35:48,885
They describe extreme states
of relaxation.
681
00:35:48,929 --> 00:35:51,192
They're affected by it,
physically.
682
00:35:51,236 --> 00:35:53,194
- Mm.
683
00:35:55,849 --> 00:35:59,722
- The ears, I use binaural mics.
684
00:35:59,766 --> 00:36:01,289
It's actually shaped
like ears
685
00:36:01,333 --> 00:36:03,378
and the microphones themselves
are imbedded
686
00:36:03,422 --> 00:36:05,337
within the ear canal
so that the sound quality
687
00:36:05,380 --> 00:36:08,557
is very similar to what
you would hear naturally.
688
00:36:08,601 --> 00:36:14,389
This is like a guy's eyes
and his ear length.
689
00:36:14,433 --> 00:36:17,827
And I thought, "This would
be an incredible way
690
00:36:17,871 --> 00:36:20,439
to use ASMR techniques..."
691
00:36:21,918 --> 00:36:23,355
- ...and adapt that
692
00:36:23,398 --> 00:36:26,401
into a virtual reality
porn scene."
693
00:36:28,142 --> 00:36:29,796
- So you have the ultimate
sensory experience...
694
00:36:30,971 --> 00:36:33,452
- ...and just blow your mind.
695
00:36:33,495 --> 00:36:35,628
Wow.
696
00:36:35,671 --> 00:36:36,977
Action, Ela.
697
00:36:37,020 --> 00:36:39,066
- Combining ASMR and VR,
698
00:36:39,109 --> 00:36:41,895
it seems like kind of
the obvious next step.
699
00:36:41,938 --> 00:36:43,636
With binaural microphones,
700
00:36:43,679 --> 00:36:46,421
with positional sound
within the headset,
701
00:36:46,465 --> 00:36:48,031
you can take
an ASMR experience
702
00:36:48,075 --> 00:36:51,252
and really bring it
to a whole new level.
703
00:36:51,296 --> 00:36:54,212
- Rolling. Action!
704
00:36:54,255 --> 00:36:58,607
- just...yeah.
705
00:36:58,651 --> 00:37:03,090
- I kind of just want to
show you everything about me.
706
00:37:03,133 --> 00:37:04,787
And I just want you
to see me,
707
00:37:04,831 --> 00:37:07,573
not as a stewardess,
708
00:37:07,616 --> 00:37:09,836
but just as a woman
709
00:37:09,879 --> 00:37:12,665
who just wants to be touched.
710
00:37:16,277 --> 00:37:18,497
- What I wanted to do
was to create an experience
711
00:37:18,540 --> 00:37:20,542
that men, women,
or whomever
712
00:37:20,586 --> 00:37:25,286
could watch and feel
like they were included
713
00:37:25,330 --> 00:37:26,853
and being spoken to.
714
00:37:26,896 --> 00:37:28,898
- It's not that I do
this on every flight.
715
00:37:28,942 --> 00:37:32,511
Honestly, I've been
in this business for
716
00:37:32,554 --> 00:37:34,164
two years now and
this is--
717
00:37:34,208 --> 00:37:36,906
you are honestly
the first passenger.
718
00:37:36,950 --> 00:37:38,517
- So I specifically
told the girls,
719
00:37:38,560 --> 00:37:40,736
no "Your cock
is getting hard."
720
00:37:40,780 --> 00:37:43,652
No "I want you to jerk it off."
721
00:37:43,696 --> 00:37:46,220
None of that.
722
00:37:46,264 --> 00:37:48,831
- God, just looking at you,
723
00:37:48,875 --> 00:37:51,181
you just make me want
to touch myself.
724
00:37:51,225 --> 00:37:53,314
- Why not create it
for everybody?
725
00:37:53,358 --> 00:37:55,621
We're already
suspending reality.
726
00:37:55,664 --> 00:37:57,275
- I just feel like you see me.
727
00:37:57,318 --> 00:37:58,928
- And so, that was very
important to me,
728
00:37:58,972 --> 00:38:01,540
to make sure that it
was gender-neutral.
729
00:38:17,120 --> 00:38:19,297
- I want to feel you.
730
00:38:19,340 --> 00:38:21,255
I want to feel your body.
731
00:38:21,299 --> 00:38:23,518
I want to feel your flesh.
732
00:38:24,824 --> 00:38:28,218
Think of a secret
that nobody else knows.
733
00:38:31,700 --> 00:38:35,138
I'm so glad to have you
here with me.
734
00:38:36,488 --> 00:38:38,838
- I'm excited to see
where this goes.
735
00:38:38,881 --> 00:38:41,928
I'm excited to see where--
how it's received.
736
00:38:41,971 --> 00:38:45,366
This project has really
opened up this desire
737
00:38:45,410 --> 00:38:47,063
to keep pushing
the envelope and seeing
738
00:38:47,107 --> 00:38:50,328
where we can take this next
and how we can refine it
739
00:38:50,371 --> 00:38:51,894
and make it
an even better experience.
740
00:38:54,114 --> 00:38:56,682
- Come back and play with me
again soon.
741
00:39:03,341 --> 00:39:04,385
- Cut.
742
00:39:12,262 --> 00:39:14,047
- I think I go both ways
in the bedroom.
743
00:39:14,090 --> 00:39:17,180
I prefer to be submissive
but men are cowards.
744
00:39:17,224 --> 00:39:18,573
Sorry, you guys,
I don't mean all men.
745
00:39:18,617 --> 00:39:20,227
I just mean the ones
I've been with.
746
00:39:20,270 --> 00:39:21,968
- I wear the suit and the tie.
I'm the boss.
747
00:39:22,011 --> 00:39:23,883
She can wear whatever
she wants and,
748
00:39:23,926 --> 00:39:25,101
you know, she's a submissive.
You know, that's how it works.
749
00:39:25,145 --> 00:39:27,626
- I was friends with a couple.
750
00:39:27,669 --> 00:39:32,892
And they had asked me
to partner with the husband
751
00:39:32,935 --> 00:39:35,068
and I was
super uncomfortable with that.
752
00:39:35,111 --> 00:39:37,331
I'm like,
"What if it goes awry?"
753
00:39:37,375 --> 00:39:39,551
- I have introduced Pat
to BDSM
754
00:39:39,594 --> 00:39:41,509
and it is something
that we experiment.
755
00:39:41,553 --> 00:39:43,381
It's good, as long as
you keep it safe
756
00:39:43,424 --> 00:39:45,078
and know
each other's limits.
757
00:39:45,121 --> 00:39:47,210
We do use spanking, yes.
758
00:39:47,254 --> 00:39:48,647
And Pat does enjoy that.
759
00:39:48,690 --> 00:39:50,779
She's sometimes
asked me to do that.
760
00:39:52,346 --> 00:39:54,304
- When I was in
my BDSM relationship,
761
00:39:54,348 --> 00:39:57,569
I was such a bitch,
I would never use the safe word
762
00:39:57,612 --> 00:39:59,309
and it freaked him out.
763
00:39:59,353 --> 00:40:01,921
I wanted to see how far
his boundaries would go
764
00:40:01,964 --> 00:40:04,271
and he was way more of
a chicken than I.
765
00:40:11,974 --> 00:40:13,759
- When you're really sick,
you look at the world
766
00:40:13,802 --> 00:40:17,110
in such a different way.
767
00:40:17,153 --> 00:40:19,895
So many things seem
so trivial
768
00:40:19,939 --> 00:40:22,332
when you're literally
fighting to save your life.
769
00:40:24,596 --> 00:40:28,643
Our association with pain
before was positive.
770
00:40:28,687 --> 00:40:30,166
Kink pain and medical pain
771
00:40:30,210 --> 00:40:32,778
are just two
completely different things
772
00:40:32,821 --> 00:40:36,042
and it was something
that we had to deal with.
773
00:40:45,573 --> 00:40:47,401
- Cool, okay.
774
00:40:47,445 --> 00:40:49,664
Radishes, peppers.
775
00:40:49,708 --> 00:40:52,232
Yeah, that's it.
776
00:40:52,275 --> 00:40:54,495
Have to have that pre-heated.
777
00:40:54,539 --> 00:40:56,018
Medium pot with water.
778
00:40:56,062 --> 00:40:58,020
We'll do orange.
779
00:40:58,064 --> 00:41:01,197
Peel and medium dice, okay.
780
00:41:01,241 --> 00:41:04,723
Hi. I know, you're waiting
for food to drop. Mm-hmm.
781
00:41:07,726 --> 00:41:09,423
How long have we been
doing these for?
782
00:41:09,467 --> 00:41:12,861
- I mean, we started after
you moved in, right?
783
00:41:12,905 --> 00:41:14,210
- Yes.
784
00:41:14,254 --> 00:41:16,561
- So probably two years or so.
785
00:41:16,604 --> 00:41:19,346
We used to say
"kiss girlfriend."
786
00:41:19,389 --> 00:41:21,391
Now it should be--
- "Kiss wife," yeah.
787
00:41:21,435 --> 00:41:22,871
- The extra ingredient
788
00:41:22,915 --> 00:41:24,264
that they don't include
in the recipes.
789
00:41:24,307 --> 00:41:26,092
- Kinzie and I have
been together for
790
00:41:26,135 --> 00:41:27,876
about three and a half years
791
00:41:27,920 --> 00:41:30,488
and married
for the past few months.
792
00:41:30,531 --> 00:41:36,537
- We met on a BDSM
social networking website.
793
00:41:36,581 --> 00:41:39,932
He found me on
the "Kinky Jews" group.
794
00:41:42,674 --> 00:41:44,806
Yeah.
795
00:41:44,850 --> 00:41:47,417
The first date was awesome.
796
00:41:47,461 --> 00:41:48,854
We ended up doing
some spanking
797
00:41:48,897 --> 00:41:50,333
on the roof
of our building.
798
00:41:50,377 --> 00:41:53,815
And I remember just crying,
799
00:41:53,859 --> 00:41:56,165
but it wasn't
a cathartic cry.
800
00:41:56,209 --> 00:41:58,951
I just realized
I had never felt so safe
801
00:41:58,994 --> 00:42:00,256
with another person before.
802
00:42:00,300 --> 00:42:02,389
I mean, when I started
803
00:42:02,432 --> 00:42:04,347
I was mainly
looking for kink stuff.
804
00:42:04,391 --> 00:42:06,045
I had, like, no idea...
- Yeah.
805
00:42:06,088 --> 00:42:07,394
...about the poly world.
806
00:42:07,437 --> 00:42:09,309
- I introduced you to that,
I guess.
807
00:42:09,352 --> 00:42:10,702
- You introduced me
to the poly world.
808
00:42:10,745 --> 00:42:12,747
- We like to say that
we're, you know,
809
00:42:12,791 --> 00:42:14,836
emotionally monogamous
to each other
810
00:42:14,880 --> 00:42:16,621
but physically
non-monogamous.
811
00:42:16,664 --> 00:42:18,840
- I mean, to say
that there's never jealousy,
812
00:42:18,884 --> 00:42:22,191
that's just not accurate.
813
00:42:22,235 --> 00:42:24,933
But jealousy to us isn't
an ugly negative emotion.
814
00:42:24,977 --> 00:42:27,109
It's something
that we can grow from.
815
00:42:27,153 --> 00:42:29,938
- I find it a turn-on
knowing that my partner
816
00:42:29,982 --> 00:42:33,420
is enjoying herself
with other people.
817
00:42:33,463 --> 00:42:35,378
- I've had a lot of friends
tell me,
818
00:42:35,422 --> 00:42:37,990
"I don't know if
I could handle your life."
819
00:42:38,033 --> 00:42:39,252
- It's not for everybody.
820
00:42:39,295 --> 00:42:40,601
- It's definitely
the most work
821
00:42:40,645 --> 00:42:42,168
I've ever put
into a relationship
822
00:42:42,211 --> 00:42:43,561
and it's definitely
the best relationship
823
00:42:43,604 --> 00:42:45,171
I've ever been in.
824
00:42:45,214 --> 00:42:48,304
- Likewise.
- Yeah, so...
825
00:42:48,348 --> 00:42:53,788
- For me, I like that he can
give women positive experiences.
826
00:42:53,832 --> 00:42:57,139
I'm very close with
all of his female partners.
827
00:42:57,183 --> 00:42:58,663
They're very good
friends of mine.
828
00:43:00,403 --> 00:43:02,014
- Come on.
829
00:43:02,057 --> 00:43:04,190
Come on.
830
00:43:05,800 --> 00:43:10,283
August of 2016, I started
feeling pain in my chest
831
00:43:10,326 --> 00:43:11,850
that kind of felt
like a sore muscle.
832
00:43:11,893 --> 00:43:14,548
And then I went
for a breast exam
833
00:43:14,592 --> 00:43:16,158
at Planned Parenthood.
834
00:43:16,202 --> 00:43:18,639
And they said,
"Let's do a biopsy."
835
00:43:18,683 --> 00:43:20,772
'Cause I have a family history
of breast cancer.
836
00:43:20,815 --> 00:43:23,644
We have a family history
of the BRCA1 mutation.
837
00:43:23,688 --> 00:43:25,777
And what the doctor
said to me, she said,
838
00:43:25,820 --> 00:43:27,648
"We found some cancer cells."
839
00:43:27,692 --> 00:43:30,085
So I said,
"So it's a cancerous tumor?"
840
00:43:30,129 --> 00:43:32,305
And she said, "Yes." And I said,
"So it's breast cancer?"
841
00:43:32,348 --> 00:43:33,349
And she said, "Yes."
842
00:43:39,704 --> 00:43:42,707
- It was-- I mean, that
conversation was very surreal.
843
00:43:42,750 --> 00:43:46,928
I don't think it
fully sunk in right away.
844
00:43:46,972 --> 00:43:51,019
I mean, it definitely
took days, weeks, kind of,
845
00:43:51,063 --> 00:43:54,283
to realize, like,
what we were in for.
846
00:43:56,677 --> 00:43:59,724
- He was with me
at every appointment
847
00:43:59,767 --> 00:44:02,204
and was there for me
the entire time
848
00:44:02,248 --> 00:44:04,293
when all of this
was going on.
849
00:44:04,337 --> 00:44:07,862
- It was a long journey
but we made it through it.
850
00:44:07,906 --> 00:44:08,863
- Mm-hmm.
851
00:44:11,736 --> 00:44:13,912
- I mean, we didn't
really have the kink lifestyle
852
00:44:13,955 --> 00:44:17,089
when I was going through
cancer, we couldn't.
853
00:44:17,132 --> 00:44:20,396
- Yeah. I mean, we were just
so preoccupied.
854
00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:22,616
We just needed that simplicity.
855
00:44:22,660 --> 00:44:24,923
That whole part
of our relationship
856
00:44:24,966 --> 00:44:26,968
had to be put on hold.
857
00:44:27,012 --> 00:44:29,101
- The focus wasn't
on us being monogamous.
858
00:44:29,144 --> 00:44:30,842
The focus was on me not dying.
859
00:44:34,802 --> 00:44:36,282
"If I have cancer,
we're getting a dog."
860
00:44:36,325 --> 00:44:37,718
"Okay."
861
00:44:37,762 --> 00:44:39,589
What 25-year-old gets
breast cancer?
862
00:44:40,895 --> 00:44:42,984
- Didn't realize
what I was getting into.
863
00:44:43,028 --> 00:44:44,943
- Into the dog or
into the whole marriage?
864
00:44:44,986 --> 00:44:47,467
- In terms of agreeing
to the dog.
865
00:44:53,516 --> 00:44:54,996
- Do you want to go look
at stuff for tonight?
866
00:44:55,040 --> 00:44:57,172
We don't have to decide now,
we can just look.
867
00:44:57,216 --> 00:44:58,826
- Yeah.
- So tonight,
868
00:44:58,870 --> 00:45:00,175
we're going
to a BYO kink party.
869
00:45:02,830 --> 00:45:07,530
We haven't been to
a kink party since cancer
870
00:45:07,574 --> 00:45:10,142
so this is a big deal for us.
871
00:45:10,185 --> 00:45:13,928
Okay, so we don't want
any floggers
872
00:45:13,972 --> 00:45:17,497
'cause they're gonna be--
we're gonna hit people.
873
00:45:17,540 --> 00:45:20,369
It was really challenging
going through cancer
874
00:45:20,413 --> 00:45:22,371
and being kinky.
875
00:45:22,415 --> 00:45:24,852
My first surgery was
a really big one.
876
00:45:24,896 --> 00:45:27,550
I had a 10-hour surgery.
877
00:45:27,594 --> 00:45:32,555
I had did a total mastectomy
of the left breast.
878
00:45:32,599 --> 00:45:35,297
They took out 12 lymph nodes.
879
00:45:35,341 --> 00:45:39,824
So these are the scars
on my thighs.
880
00:45:39,867 --> 00:45:42,957
When they reconstructed
my left breast,
881
00:45:43,001 --> 00:45:46,134
they took tissue
from both sides of the thigh.
882
00:45:46,178 --> 00:45:49,964
They cut the tissue out and
they made it into a new breast.
883
00:45:50,008 --> 00:45:52,184
This big circle here.
884
00:45:52,227 --> 00:45:55,274
And then I have the scars
on the side of my breasts
885
00:45:55,317 --> 00:45:57,145
that are actually
looking really good.
886
00:45:57,189 --> 00:45:59,669
- This is one that's always fun.
887
00:46:01,584 --> 00:46:04,370
- So right now,
we are slowly getting back
888
00:46:04,413 --> 00:46:06,067
into the kink world.
889
00:46:06,111 --> 00:46:10,202
I like it better, I think,
when it's moved faster.
890
00:46:10,245 --> 00:46:12,204
When it's really slow,
it reminds me of needles
891
00:46:12,247 --> 00:46:15,076
and that's, like,
not a good reminder for me.
892
00:46:15,120 --> 00:46:16,991
- Mm-hmm.
- Not a good image for me.
893
00:46:17,035 --> 00:46:19,820
- We want to get back
to how we were before cancer.
894
00:46:22,518 --> 00:46:24,259
- I'm gonna wear one
of my corsets.
895
00:46:24,303 --> 00:46:26,827
Maybe I'll pare them down
and I can ask Daphne which one.
896
00:46:26,871 --> 00:46:28,698
I'll ask Daphne.
897
00:46:35,618 --> 00:46:37,664
- Okay, which corset?
898
00:46:37,707 --> 00:46:39,579
Because you were saying
that you were thinking--
899
00:46:39,622 --> 00:46:41,668
wait, what happened to the--
oh, no, this is the purple one.
900
00:46:41,711 --> 00:46:43,713
My name is Daphne and
I would identify as
901
00:46:43,757 --> 00:46:46,542
being bi-sexual, kinky,
and ethically non-monogamous
902
00:46:46,586 --> 00:46:48,022
or polyamorous.
903
00:46:48,066 --> 00:46:49,676
You have a lot of corsets.
I did not know
904
00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:51,460
that you had this many.
- I have six corsets.
905
00:46:51,504 --> 00:46:52,853
I have a collection.
I want 12.
906
00:46:52,897 --> 00:46:54,289
- Lady, I have, like, two.
907
00:46:54,333 --> 00:46:57,292
- I found Daphne intriguing,
and, like,
908
00:46:57,336 --> 00:46:58,859
asked her out
on a coffee date.
909
00:46:58,903 --> 00:47:00,905
Kinzie came home.
910
00:47:00,948 --> 00:47:03,342
Daphne and I were
in bed together
911
00:47:03,385 --> 00:47:04,865
and Kinzie just kind of--
912
00:47:04,909 --> 00:47:07,172
- Joined.
- Joined and--
913
00:47:07,215 --> 00:47:09,087
- And then--
- So, I love the design of this,
914
00:47:09,130 --> 00:47:11,219
but I think I look better
in this one.
915
00:47:11,263 --> 00:47:12,525
- I think you should
go with this one.
916
00:47:12,568 --> 00:47:14,092
- She helped me through cancer
917
00:47:14,135 --> 00:47:16,659
and she's always
in our lives.
918
00:47:16,703 --> 00:47:18,661
My thighs are smaller now,
as you see from
919
00:47:18,705 --> 00:47:20,881
the gigantic scars that I have
running down my legs.
920
00:47:20,925 --> 00:47:22,143
- Yes.
- Yeah.
921
00:47:22,187 --> 00:47:24,058
- The scar is numb.
- Yeah.
922
00:47:24,102 --> 00:47:27,409
- That's like the main thing,
is the sensation of my body--
923
00:47:27,453 --> 00:47:29,847
- Is different.
- Feels so different.
924
00:47:29,890 --> 00:47:31,761
When I was going through
physical therapy,
925
00:47:31,805 --> 00:47:34,286
even though my thighs
were completely healed,
926
00:47:34,329 --> 00:47:35,940
it still felt like
there was pain,
927
00:47:35,983 --> 00:47:37,463
even though there wasn't.
928
00:47:37,506 --> 00:47:41,815
In terms of kink
and enjoying positive pain,
929
00:47:41,859 --> 00:47:44,296
my body felt weird
about it but my head
930
00:47:44,339 --> 00:47:46,994
was like, "I really want this."
931
00:47:47,038 --> 00:47:49,388
It's getting my body
back into that.
932
00:47:49,431 --> 00:47:52,478
It's my first time in a corset
since my last surgery.
933
00:47:52,521 --> 00:47:53,827
- Nice.
934
00:47:53,871 --> 00:47:55,350
It's good.
935
00:47:55,394 --> 00:47:57,265
- Oh, my God,
my boobs are so much flatter
936
00:47:57,309 --> 00:47:58,614
than they used to be!
937
00:47:58,658 --> 00:48:01,269
- Correct.
- Elan, I'm so flat now!
938
00:48:01,313 --> 00:48:03,184
What happened to my boobs?
939
00:48:03,228 --> 00:48:06,840
- She says,
with this curvature to her.
940
00:48:06,884 --> 00:48:08,624
- I think going to parties
will help me
941
00:48:08,668 --> 00:48:11,976
feel more comfortable
with my new body.
942
00:48:12,019 --> 00:48:15,980
It's kind of like a first step
back into the kinky world.
943
00:48:16,023 --> 00:48:20,288
I feel nervous, so it's just
a matter of me making sure
944
00:48:20,332 --> 00:48:24,553
I use my safe word and that I
don't push myself too hard.
945
00:48:49,709 --> 00:48:50,884
- Hello.
946
00:48:50,928 --> 00:48:52,233
- Oh, it's warm in here.
947
00:48:52,277 --> 00:48:53,321
- Are you familiar
with our rules?
948
00:48:53,365 --> 00:48:54,496
- Yes.
- We are.
949
00:48:54,540 --> 00:48:55,541
- Of course.
- Thank you.
950
00:48:55,584 --> 00:48:56,498
- Enjoy.
- Thanks.
951
00:48:56,542 --> 00:48:58,022
You know, we walk in.
952
00:48:58,065 --> 00:49:00,111
It was exciting because
953
00:49:00,154 --> 00:49:02,504
there's a good amount
of people there.
954
00:49:02,548 --> 00:49:03,766
It's a space
we're familiar with.
955
00:49:03,810 --> 00:49:06,334
I have to mark my territory.
956
00:49:06,378 --> 00:49:08,684
- Marking your territory?
- Yes.
957
00:49:08,728 --> 00:49:11,861
- I think that Kinzie
wants to get back into impact,
958
00:49:11,905 --> 00:49:13,733
get back into
feeling that she's
959
00:49:13,776 --> 00:49:15,648
reclaiming parts of her kink.
960
00:49:17,519 --> 00:49:20,827
- I'm gonna be doing a lot of...
[ deep breath ] tonight.
961
00:49:20,870 --> 00:49:25,049
- And going into that with
both her partner and with me
962
00:49:25,092 --> 00:49:27,573
is a very comfortable way
of doing that
963
00:49:27,616 --> 00:49:28,966
and feeling like they can
964
00:49:29,009 --> 00:49:30,706
start to reclaim
that part of their lives.
965
00:49:42,936 --> 00:49:44,372
- Oh, I like that thing.
966
00:49:44,416 --> 00:49:46,287
Can we do that thing
with impact?
967
00:49:46,331 --> 00:49:47,680
- Yeah.
- We can.
968
00:49:47,723 --> 00:49:49,160
- Yeah, I want to do that
with impact.
969
00:49:49,203 --> 00:49:51,727
These cuffs hanging
from this metal bar
970
00:49:51,771 --> 00:49:54,817
reminded me of the first time
I was suspended from rope
971
00:49:54,861 --> 00:49:57,559
and that was a really
good experience for me.
972
00:49:57,603 --> 00:50:00,736
- We'll do, you know,
a good warm-up and build-up.
973
00:50:00,780 --> 00:50:02,303
- Yes, please.
- Yes.
974
00:50:02,347 --> 00:50:03,826
- It's been a while since
I've had impact, so...
975
00:50:03,870 --> 00:50:05,915
- I know.
- Okay, I love you.
976
00:50:10,920 --> 00:50:14,533
- It's a challenge for us
getting back to our lifestyle
977
00:50:14,576 --> 00:50:17,144
because finding
that, like, line
978
00:50:17,188 --> 00:50:20,104
between good pain
and bad pain is tricky.
979
00:50:22,715 --> 00:50:23,803
- You look so happy.
980
00:50:25,631 --> 00:50:29,156
- The voyeurism and
exhibitionism of public parties
981
00:50:29,200 --> 00:50:31,289
is a big draw for us.
982
00:50:32,638 --> 00:50:37,251
- Kink for me is definitely
a big stress relief.
983
00:50:37,295 --> 00:50:40,211
I also like the different
personalities that come out,
984
00:50:40,254 --> 00:50:42,082
like my brat persona.
985
00:50:42,126 --> 00:50:43,605
You're gonna mess up my hair.
986
00:50:43,649 --> 00:50:45,738
- Oh, I'm sorry.
987
00:50:47,435 --> 00:50:48,697
Yeah.
988
00:50:48,741 --> 00:50:50,438
Such a brat.
- I'm such a brat.
989
00:50:50,482 --> 00:50:53,789
I love being a brat because
so much of my life
990
00:50:53,833 --> 00:50:55,574
is about being in control.
991
00:50:55,617 --> 00:50:59,143
And when I'm a brat,
I don't have to keep composure.
992
00:50:59,186 --> 00:51:02,798
I don't have expectations.
I don't have to be in control.
993
00:51:02,842 --> 00:51:07,151
- By nature, I am very shy
and introverted.
994
00:51:07,194 --> 00:51:11,764
But when I'm in a scene
at a public party,
995
00:51:11,807 --> 00:51:13,722
I'm focused on my partner,
996
00:51:13,766 --> 00:51:17,248
I'm focused on
the task at hand.
997
00:51:17,291 --> 00:51:19,032
- You're supposed to encourage.
You're not playing tonight.
998
00:51:19,076 --> 00:51:23,689
Ow! Ow! Ow! Ow!
999
00:51:23,732 --> 00:51:24,994
I said "Ow!"
1000
00:51:25,038 --> 00:51:26,648
- "Ow" is not a safe word.
1001
00:51:43,839 --> 00:51:49,802
- Okay.
- Okay.
1002
00:51:49,845 --> 00:51:52,848
I felt some anxiety
building up.
1003
00:51:52,892 --> 00:51:55,590
I realized I actually just
needed the scene to be done.
1004
00:51:57,157 --> 00:51:59,072
- Yeah.
- That's fine.
1005
00:51:59,116 --> 00:52:01,466
- Emotions are kind of
starting to bubble up.
1006
00:52:03,120 --> 00:52:04,382
- It is.
1007
00:52:04,425 --> 00:52:05,774
- I have to undo
the corset a little bit.
1008
00:52:05,818 --> 00:52:07,733
I just need a break.
1009
00:52:07,776 --> 00:52:08,734
I need to undo it a little bit.
1010
00:52:14,392 --> 00:52:15,393
I got it. I got it.
1011
00:52:22,530 --> 00:52:24,402
So much better.
1012
00:52:24,445 --> 00:52:25,751
Oh, my God.
1013
00:52:27,970 --> 00:52:29,929
Yeah.
1014
00:52:29,972 --> 00:52:33,846
A lot of the impact we were
doing was pretty light.
1015
00:52:33,889 --> 00:52:38,372
It's not something that is
really, really painful.
1016
00:52:38,416 --> 00:52:41,158
But after, I came down
a lot harder than I normally do
1017
00:52:41,201 --> 00:52:43,334
for bratty scenes.
1018
00:52:43,377 --> 00:52:44,857
I don't know why,
but that scene
1019
00:52:44,900 --> 00:52:47,686
took more out of me
than I thought it would.
1020
00:52:47,729 --> 00:52:51,080
I feel like I'm emotionally
drained right now.
1021
00:52:51,124 --> 00:52:54,562
Usually, I can focus
on one type of pain
1022
00:52:54,606 --> 00:52:56,260
or one place
the pain's coming from.
1023
00:52:56,303 --> 00:52:58,958
It was more of a challenge
than I was anticipating.
1024
00:52:59,001 --> 00:53:00,481
I have to know my body's limits.
1025
00:53:00,525 --> 00:53:02,875
- Yes.
- Which doesn't always align
1026
00:53:02,918 --> 00:53:05,443
with what I
actually want to do, yeah.
1027
00:53:05,486 --> 00:53:07,923
There's this huge part
of me that wanted it
1028
00:53:07,967 --> 00:53:10,361
and then this other part of me
that was scared of it.
1029
00:53:10,404 --> 00:53:12,493
I think something in
your mind triggers, like,
1030
00:53:12,537 --> 00:53:15,453
"I'm allowed to be upset
if I'm in physical pain."
1031
00:53:15,496 --> 00:53:17,237
- You feeling like this
is very normal.
1032
00:53:17,281 --> 00:53:20,022
- I know.
- I would think.
1033
00:53:20,066 --> 00:53:21,937
- I'm okay.
1034
00:53:21,981 --> 00:53:24,201
I love you a lot.
- I love you a lot.
1035
00:53:24,244 --> 00:53:26,333
- I'm glad we're back out here.
- Mm-hmm.
1036
00:53:26,377 --> 00:53:30,032
- I feel like I didn't
fully get the release
1037
00:53:30,076 --> 00:53:33,035
I'm used to with impact.
1038
00:53:33,079 --> 00:53:34,776
Can we do a little more
impact, like on a bed?
1039
00:53:34,820 --> 00:53:36,822
- Do you think that's what--
- Yeah.
1040
00:53:36,865 --> 00:53:38,302
- Okay.
- I think I need a little more,
1041
00:53:38,345 --> 00:53:39,781
just like--
I don't think I hit a peak.
1042
00:53:39,825 --> 00:53:41,261
- Straight impact?
- Yeah.
1043
00:53:41,305 --> 00:53:44,133
So I want to like,
do straight impact
1044
00:53:44,177 --> 00:53:46,527
where I can just relax and
have him hit me
1045
00:53:46,571 --> 00:53:50,227
and get out
whatever I need to get out.
1046
00:54:09,202 --> 00:54:15,382
? All these choices
that we make ?
1047
00:54:18,559 --> 00:54:21,301
? How they leave
1048
00:54:21,345 --> 00:54:26,350
? The mended ones to break
1049
00:54:26,393 --> 00:54:28,656
- Knowing that I have this
person who's holding my hand...
1050
00:54:28,700 --> 00:54:30,484
- You can squeeze.
1051
00:54:30,528 --> 00:54:34,445
- ...and helping me through
something that I chose to do
1052
00:54:34,488 --> 00:54:37,578
is very important for me.
1053
00:54:37,622 --> 00:54:41,321
And I think really,
mentally healing
1054
00:54:41,365 --> 00:54:44,150
past the cancer process.
1055
00:54:47,414 --> 00:54:53,290
? And I despise
your wicked love ?
1056
00:54:53,333 --> 00:55:00,688
? Your
1057
00:55:00,732 --> 00:55:02,995
? Your wicked love
1058
00:55:10,959 --> 00:55:12,744
Aah!
Yellow, yellow.
1059
00:55:19,577 --> 00:55:22,275
I was in so much pain
for so long,
1060
00:55:22,319 --> 00:55:25,409
for me to be able to get
that cathartic release,
1061
00:55:25,452 --> 00:55:29,587
to do some impact
and experience positive pain
1062
00:55:29,630 --> 00:55:32,067
and feel safe again,
1063
00:55:32,111 --> 00:55:35,941
reaffirms "Oh, this is stuff
that we dolike to do."
1064
00:55:35,984 --> 00:55:40,293
And it's almost nostalgic
in a way.
1065
00:55:40,337 --> 00:55:42,774
- Did I do good?
- You did very good.
1066
00:55:44,384 --> 00:55:46,168
- You did good.
1067
00:55:51,652 --> 00:55:53,741
? Your wicked love
1068
00:56:00,357 --> 00:56:03,055
- Cheers.
- Cheers.
1069
00:56:03,098 --> 00:56:04,186
- This one's really good.
1070
00:56:04,230 --> 00:56:05,840
- I like mine better.
1071
00:56:05,884 --> 00:56:07,494
- Well, I like mine better.
- Well, fine, then.
1072
00:56:07,538 --> 00:56:09,844
We'll just both be happy.
- Okay.
1073
00:56:13,152 --> 00:56:15,328
- It was really nice to, like,
get back out there tonight.
1074
00:56:15,372 --> 00:56:16,634
- Mm-hmm.
1075
00:56:16,677 --> 00:56:18,026
- Um.
1076
00:56:18,070 --> 00:56:20,420
- I liked the bratty scene.
- Mm-hmm.
1077
00:56:20,464 --> 00:56:24,990
The night at House of Scorpio
was a lot of fun.
1078
00:56:25,033 --> 00:56:28,036
It was really nice
to get back out there
1079
00:56:28,080 --> 00:56:33,346
and feel more like ourselves
again and feel that bonding.
1080
00:56:33,390 --> 00:56:35,696
- It's a good reset for us.
1081
00:56:35,740 --> 00:56:40,092
The party atmosphere, like,
helped me get in the headspace.
1082
00:56:40,135 --> 00:56:41,702
- Yay.
- That was good.
1083
00:56:41,746 --> 00:56:43,269
- Yeah, you felt, like,
back to your old self,
1084
00:56:43,312 --> 00:56:45,053
which was nice.
- Mm-hmm.
1085
00:56:45,097 --> 00:56:47,534
- I haven't felt that
excitement for play in a while.
1086
00:56:47,578 --> 00:56:50,494
- Yay.
- So it's nice to, like,
1087
00:56:50,537 --> 00:56:52,147
go and be excited about things.
1088
00:56:52,191 --> 00:56:54,367
- Mm-hmm.
- It's nice to feel excited.
1089
00:56:54,411 --> 00:56:58,327
- Yeah.
We deserve nights like this.
1090
00:56:58,371 --> 00:56:59,807
- Yeah.
1091
00:56:59,851 --> 00:57:03,855
It's something
that we owe to ourselves,
1092
00:57:03,898 --> 00:57:10,644
to make sure that we're
keeping up with who we are
1093
00:57:10,688 --> 00:57:12,298
and what makes
us feel good.
1094
00:57:16,955 --> 00:57:19,784
- Overall, being at
that party was really great,
1095
00:57:19,827 --> 00:57:22,090
I think in that it makes
us remember
1096
00:57:22,134 --> 00:57:25,833
that cancer didn't destroy
that part of our relationship.
1097
00:57:37,018 --> 00:57:38,498
- Mm-hmm.
- Mm-hmm.
1098
00:57:38,542 --> 00:57:40,892
I'm a cancer survivor.
1099
00:57:40,935 --> 00:57:45,505
We're two people
who grow and communicate
1100
00:57:45,549 --> 00:57:47,246
and love each other.
1101
00:57:47,289 --> 00:57:52,033
And I think that no matter
what happens, like,
1102
00:57:52,077 --> 00:57:54,253
we're gonna get through it.
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