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These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:00,767 --> 00:00:03,567 [music playing] 2 00:00:17,967 --> 00:00:19,033 Still got it. 3 00:00:29,467 --> 00:00:31,733 [bell tolling] 4 00:00:34,233 --> 00:00:36,700 [monks singing chants] 5 00:00:47,200 --> 00:00:49,900 After an awful lot of miserable years in the closet, 6 00:00:50,000 --> 00:00:51,567 I'm finally coming out and telling 7 00:00:51,667 --> 00:00:54,700 people that-- that I am a homosexual and I don't mind it. 8 00:01:03,467 --> 00:01:06,900 This is the first time I've felt like a full woman, 9 00:01:07,000 --> 00:01:10,467 besides being in love-- in bed with my lover. 10 00:01:10,567 --> 00:01:13,967 MONK: (SINGING) My children, our love is not 11 00:01:14,067 --> 00:01:17,267 to be just words or mere talk-- 12 00:01:17,367 --> 00:01:21,333 I think in New York, there's about a million gay people. 13 00:01:21,433 --> 00:01:25,300 And I think if everybody comes out, it would be much easier. 14 00:01:25,400 --> 00:01:27,767 MONK: (SINGING) Only by this can we be certain 15 00:01:27,867 --> 00:01:32,567 that we are children of the truth. 16 00:01:32,667 --> 00:01:36,133 Anyone who fails to love can never have 17 00:01:36,233 --> 00:01:41,100 known God, because God is love. 18 00:01:41,200 --> 00:01:43,900 I'd like to see more gay people become proud enough 19 00:01:44,000 --> 00:01:46,133 and confident enough to make an open stand, 20 00:01:46,233 --> 00:01:48,767 and not-- not care and not give up 21 00:01:48,867 --> 00:01:50,133 their power to heterosexuals. 22 00:01:50,233 --> 00:01:53,100 Well, it should have happened a long time ago. 23 00:01:53,200 --> 00:01:54,467 That's all I think about it. 24 00:01:54,567 --> 00:01:56,733 I mean, I've been living better all my life. 25 00:01:56,833 --> 00:01:58,000 'Cause I ain't scared of nobody. 26 00:01:58,100 --> 00:01:59,867 I never hide in no closet. 27 00:01:59,967 --> 00:02:02,400 I been gay since I was so small. 28 00:02:02,500 --> 00:02:05,833 Gay liberation is just not being ashamed of what you are, 29 00:02:05,933 --> 00:02:08,000 and being gay is a very natural thing. 30 00:02:51,700 --> 00:02:53,200 [school bell rings] 31 00:02:55,100 --> 00:02:57,600 [chatter] 32 00:03:05,100 --> 00:03:07,300 Now, you have three important themes 33 00:03:07,400 --> 00:03:08,800 from the play on the board. 34 00:03:08,900 --> 00:03:10,600 What I would like you to do for the rest of the period 35 00:03:10,700 --> 00:03:14,767 is to pick one theme, write a short essay, in your own words, 36 00:03:14,867 --> 00:03:19,467 describing how you feel that this theme applies and is as 37 00:03:19,567 --> 00:03:21,800 meaningful to our present-day situation 38 00:03:21,900 --> 00:03:24,600 as it was in the time of Shakespeare. 39 00:03:24,700 --> 00:03:26,200 OK? 40 00:03:26,300 --> 00:03:29,567 And, uh, just to keep you from vegetating over the weekend-- 41 00:03:29,667 --> 00:03:31,167 [students groan] 42 00:03:46,967 --> 00:03:47,867 How much? 43 00:03:47,967 --> 00:03:50,433 $5. 44 00:03:50,533 --> 00:03:51,433 Thank you. 45 00:03:51,533 --> 00:03:54,433 [music playing] 46 00:04:27,133 --> 00:04:28,733 ALAN: David! -Hey. 47 00:04:28,833 --> 00:04:29,633 Good to see you. 48 00:04:29,733 --> 00:04:31,033 Hey, good to see you. 49 00:04:31,133 --> 00:04:33,400 David, I'd like you to meet Hughey, my latest. 50 00:04:33,500 --> 00:04:36,600 Hughey, say hello to David, one of my very oldest friends 51 00:04:36,700 --> 00:04:37,600 from Schenectady. 52 00:04:37,700 --> 00:04:38,433 Hello. 53 00:04:38,533 --> 00:04:40,767 Hi. 54 00:04:40,867 --> 00:04:43,700 Wow, would you look at the guy who just walked in? 55 00:04:43,800 --> 00:04:44,533 The blond. 56 00:04:48,033 --> 00:04:50,600 ALAN: Oh, you should be so lucky. 57 00:04:50,700 --> 00:04:53,600 He looks conceited, anyway. 58 00:04:53,700 --> 00:04:54,600 Not bad. 59 00:07:20,500 --> 00:07:21,233 Hm. 60 00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:25,933 Hey, come on. 61 00:07:26,033 --> 00:07:27,067 Cut that out. 62 00:07:27,167 --> 00:07:28,467 I'm just being affectionate. 63 00:07:28,567 --> 00:07:29,300 Yeah, I know. 64 00:07:29,400 --> 00:07:32,333 But that went out in the '50s. 65 00:07:32,433 --> 00:07:34,733 Oh? 66 00:07:34,833 --> 00:07:36,633 I hadn't heard. 67 00:07:36,733 --> 00:07:37,467 Thanks. 68 00:07:40,000 --> 00:07:41,767 Hey, how old are you, anyway? 69 00:07:41,867 --> 00:07:44,567 23 or so? 70 00:07:44,667 --> 00:07:46,900 26, actually. 71 00:07:47,000 --> 00:07:49,233 You don't look that old. 72 00:07:49,333 --> 00:07:50,767 Hey, you ought to be ashamed of yourself. 73 00:07:50,867 --> 00:07:54,533 A dirty old man like you, seducing a young guy like me. 74 00:07:54,633 --> 00:07:55,467 [both laugh] 75 00:07:58,133 --> 00:07:59,333 How old are you? 76 00:07:59,433 --> 00:08:00,167 23. 77 00:08:03,933 --> 00:08:06,700 How long have you been out? 78 00:08:06,800 --> 00:08:10,567 Oh, I suppose since prep school. 79 00:08:10,667 --> 00:08:12,333 I still make it with chicks once in a while. 80 00:08:12,433 --> 00:08:15,733 It's-- it's not all that bad. 81 00:08:15,833 --> 00:08:16,733 But I know what I prefer. 82 00:08:19,900 --> 00:08:20,700 And you? 83 00:08:20,800 --> 00:08:21,700 What? 84 00:08:21,800 --> 00:08:22,533 How long? 85 00:08:25,200 --> 00:08:28,233 Oh, I've known I was gay for a couple of years. 86 00:08:28,333 --> 00:08:31,767 But if you mean practicing, for only about the last six months. 87 00:08:31,867 --> 00:08:33,433 I thought so. 88 00:08:33,533 --> 00:08:34,300 Refreshing. 89 00:08:40,933 --> 00:08:43,000 DAVID: I had a big religious hang-up. 90 00:08:43,100 --> 00:08:46,400 I was even a monk for a couple of years. 91 00:08:46,500 --> 00:08:48,033 What? 92 00:08:48,133 --> 00:08:50,667 A monk, in a monastery. 93 00:08:50,767 --> 00:08:52,567 God, how quaint. 94 00:08:52,667 --> 00:08:55,233 Thanks. 95 00:08:55,333 --> 00:08:59,567 I was still going to Mass when I first came to New York. 96 00:08:59,667 --> 00:09:03,333 But after a while, when I accepted being gay 97 00:09:03,433 --> 00:09:09,500 and realized-- I finally came out, I guess. 98 00:09:09,600 --> 00:09:12,033 None of it made any sense to me anymore. 99 00:09:16,767 --> 00:09:18,100 Hm. 100 00:09:18,200 --> 00:09:21,333 The church is a pretty straight business, you know? 101 00:09:21,433 --> 00:09:23,933 Bible doesn't have anything nice to say about guys 102 00:09:24,033 --> 00:09:25,433 who dig sex with other guys. 103 00:09:31,100 --> 00:09:34,733 The church generously offered me two choices-- 104 00:09:34,833 --> 00:09:36,300 either a life of religious celibacy 105 00:09:36,400 --> 00:09:41,367 or a life of sexual abstinence in the world. 106 00:09:41,467 --> 00:09:42,200 Some choice. 107 00:09:42,300 --> 00:09:44,667 Yeah. 108 00:09:44,767 --> 00:09:46,633 I was crazy to think I could go through life 109 00:09:46,733 --> 00:09:47,567 without sex, anyway. 110 00:09:50,233 --> 00:09:53,267 Anyway, the whole thing left me with a bad taste in my mouth 111 00:09:53,367 --> 00:09:56,100 about God. 112 00:09:56,200 --> 00:09:59,233 Like he's either sadistic or incompetent-- 113 00:09:59,333 --> 00:10:01,667 if he's out there at all. 114 00:10:04,467 --> 00:10:08,033 [chuckles] But I don't think you are interested in getting 115 00:10:08,133 --> 00:10:10,467 into my theology. 116 00:10:10,567 --> 00:10:13,133 Well, look, uh, I'm flying out of here in the morning 117 00:10:13,233 --> 00:10:14,900 for a business meeting in Cleveland 118 00:10:15,000 --> 00:10:17,933 and a week's stay with my folks, so. 119 00:10:18,033 --> 00:10:19,300 I get the hint. 120 00:10:19,400 --> 00:10:20,700 [laughter] -No, really. 121 00:10:20,800 --> 00:10:21,967 I'm not kidding. 122 00:10:22,067 --> 00:10:22,833 The plane ticket's in there in the desk. 123 00:10:22,933 --> 00:10:23,767 Go see for your-- 124 00:10:23,867 --> 00:10:25,333 I believe you. 125 00:10:25,433 --> 00:10:28,533 Well, I'd better get out of here and let you get some sleep. 126 00:10:31,867 --> 00:10:33,333 [sigh] 127 00:10:38,033 --> 00:10:40,367 Do you think we'll ever see each other again? 128 00:10:43,633 --> 00:10:44,433 I don't know. 129 00:10:44,533 --> 00:10:46,667 What do you think? 130 00:10:46,767 --> 00:10:49,700 I'd like to see you again. 131 00:10:49,800 --> 00:10:53,100 Well, when I get back into town, I'll give you a call, 132 00:10:53,200 --> 00:10:55,267 and we'll see what happens, OK? 133 00:10:55,367 --> 00:10:56,200 OK. 134 00:10:56,300 --> 00:10:57,133 Come on. 135 00:10:57,233 --> 00:10:59,333 Be quiet and let me get some sleep. 136 00:11:06,733 --> 00:11:08,600 [humming] 137 00:11:16,833 --> 00:11:17,567 Mark? 138 00:11:21,367 --> 00:11:22,633 I thought you were somebody else. 139 00:11:22,733 --> 00:11:23,633 MAN: Hey! [non-english speech] 140 00:11:23,733 --> 00:11:24,600 Ow! 141 00:11:24,700 --> 00:11:26,167 MAN: [non-english speech] 142 00:11:26,267 --> 00:11:27,633 Why don't you look where you're going? 143 00:11:27,733 --> 00:11:29,067 I mean, I was trying to-- 144 00:11:57,267 --> 00:11:59,567 Hey, uh, have you seen Murray and the kid lately? 145 00:11:59,667 --> 00:12:01,067 I stopped by on Tuesday. 146 00:12:01,167 --> 00:12:03,467 Murray's still down in the mountain, fishing. 147 00:12:03,567 --> 00:12:04,967 -Well, I'll see you Monday. -All right, Mark. 148 00:12:05,067 --> 00:12:06,300 Have a good weekend. -Have a nice weekend. 149 00:12:06,400 --> 00:12:07,800 -Bye-bye. -Yeah, right. 150 00:12:07,900 --> 00:12:08,933 I took Sammy a Frisbee. 151 00:12:09,033 --> 00:12:10,567 You know the kid's a genius? 152 00:12:43,933 --> 00:12:46,033 [key turning in lock] 153 00:12:54,433 --> 00:12:55,333 Oh, wow. 154 00:12:55,433 --> 00:12:56,367 I'm sorry. 155 00:12:56,467 --> 00:12:57,233 Dave? 156 00:12:59,433 --> 00:13:00,133 Heh, yeah. 157 00:13:00,233 --> 00:13:02,167 DAVID: Uh, half an hour? 158 00:13:02,267 --> 00:13:03,200 I'm sorry, Valerie. 159 00:13:03,300 --> 00:13:04,733 VALERIE: It's all right. Bye. 160 00:13:04,833 --> 00:13:05,700 DAVID: All right, bye-bye. 161 00:13:05,800 --> 00:13:06,700 VALERIE: Bye. 162 00:13:06,800 --> 00:13:08,667 [laughs] 163 00:13:17,067 --> 00:13:18,367 DAVID: Here's to your return. 164 00:13:23,567 --> 00:13:25,633 Hey, I thought you said you had a roommate. 165 00:13:25,733 --> 00:13:26,667 I do. 166 00:13:26,767 --> 00:13:28,267 But he's hardly ever here. 167 00:13:28,367 --> 00:13:31,100 He stays over at his chick's place almost all the time. 168 00:13:33,967 --> 00:13:35,467 He even sleeps there. 169 00:13:35,567 --> 00:13:37,467 Oh, how convenient. 170 00:13:37,567 --> 00:13:38,800 He's straight? 171 00:13:38,900 --> 00:13:40,133 I hope so. 172 00:13:40,233 --> 00:13:43,467 I mean, does he know your scene? 173 00:13:43,567 --> 00:13:44,167 Yeah. 174 00:13:44,267 --> 00:13:45,567 But it doesn't matter. 175 00:13:45,667 --> 00:13:46,967 He just needs somebody to help out with the rent 176 00:13:47,067 --> 00:13:49,333 until they get married. 177 00:13:49,433 --> 00:13:51,100 They're getting pretty serious, I guess. 178 00:13:51,200 --> 00:13:52,167 Well, sounds like they're trying 179 00:13:52,267 --> 00:13:53,667 to ruin a good relationship. 180 00:13:57,967 --> 00:13:59,033 [sigh] 181 00:14:00,833 --> 00:14:01,800 I'm too excited. 182 00:14:01,900 --> 00:14:03,433 I can't eat any of this. 183 00:14:06,900 --> 00:14:09,000 I don't have any appetite. 184 00:14:36,500 --> 00:14:38,233 [MUSIC SAMUEL BARBER, "ADAGIO FOR STRINGS, OP. 185 00:14:38,333 --> 00:14:41,267 11"] 186 00:16:31,733 --> 00:16:34,633 [garbage truck clanking] 187 00:16:48,867 --> 00:16:50,800 I think I'm falling for you. 188 00:16:50,900 --> 00:16:54,800 Christ, what are you, some kind of romantic nut or something? 189 00:16:54,900 --> 00:16:57,433 You're a pretty good fuck for a former monk, you know? 190 00:16:57,533 --> 00:17:01,067 I suppose that's all you smart-ass Yalies know about. 191 00:17:01,167 --> 00:17:03,967 Oh, well, thank you, Miss Ali McGraw! 192 00:17:04,067 --> 00:17:05,533 [laughter] 193 00:17:05,633 --> 00:17:08,467 [music playing] 194 00:17:26,067 --> 00:17:27,500 DAVID (VOICEOVER): Hey, Mark. 195 00:17:27,600 --> 00:17:28,600 MARK (VOICEOVER): Yeah? 196 00:17:28,700 --> 00:17:30,033 DAVID (VOICEOVER): How much do you love me? 197 00:17:30,133 --> 00:17:31,600 MARK (VOICEOVER): Aw, cut it out, huh? 198 00:17:31,700 --> 00:17:34,167 I'm not even sure I believe in love at all. 199 00:17:34,267 --> 00:17:35,367 DAVID (VOICEOVER): But I feel it. 200 00:17:35,467 --> 00:17:37,233 I know I shouldn't ask, but still-- 201 00:17:37,333 --> 00:17:38,833 MARK (VOICEOVER): Still nothing. 202 00:17:38,933 --> 00:17:40,800 Look, we enjoy each other, right? 203 00:17:40,900 --> 00:17:43,467 We have fun together, and that's all. 204 00:17:43,567 --> 00:17:48,033 Love means never having to say you're in love. 205 00:17:48,133 --> 00:17:51,233 [music playing] 206 00:18:10,367 --> 00:18:11,800 DAVID (VOICEOVER): Mark, have you ever been 207 00:18:11,900 --> 00:18:13,867 involved with anyone before? 208 00:18:13,967 --> 00:18:15,667 MARK (VOICEOVER): Before what? [laughs] 209 00:18:16,800 --> 00:18:17,867 DAVID (VOICEOVER): Before now. 210 00:18:17,967 --> 00:18:20,333 Come on, just answer the question. 211 00:18:20,433 --> 00:18:22,200 MARK (VOICEOVER): No, not really. 212 00:18:22,300 --> 00:18:24,700 I never wanted to be, particularly. 213 00:18:24,800 --> 00:18:26,667 I guess there were a couple of guys along the way, 214 00:18:26,767 --> 00:18:28,300 but nothing ever worked out. 215 00:18:28,400 --> 00:18:30,300 I'm really not up for that sort of thing yet. 216 00:18:30,400 --> 00:18:31,567 DAVID (VOICEOVER): Oh, great. 217 00:18:31,667 --> 00:18:34,200 So what am I supposed to do, just wait? 218 00:18:34,300 --> 00:18:36,033 Be just another guy along the way? 219 00:18:36,133 --> 00:18:37,200 MARK (VOICEOVER): There you go again, 220 00:18:37,300 --> 00:18:39,467 pushing this romantic thing. 221 00:18:39,567 --> 00:18:43,133 Why do you have to be so intense all the time? 222 00:18:43,233 --> 00:18:45,167 Look, I'm flattered that you'd like to include me 223 00:18:45,267 --> 00:18:47,067 in this fairytale world you're building up, 224 00:18:47,167 --> 00:18:50,333 but it's just not my line. 225 00:18:50,433 --> 00:18:52,700 [music playing] 226 00:19:42,700 --> 00:19:43,600 MARK (VOICEOVER): All right. 227 00:19:43,700 --> 00:19:44,933 All right, so I'm involved. 228 00:19:45,033 --> 00:19:46,133 What more do you want from me? 229 00:19:46,233 --> 00:19:47,433 DAVID (VOICEOVER): Well, for a start, 230 00:19:47,533 --> 00:19:48,967 why don't you knock off the Joe Cool crap 231 00:19:49,067 --> 00:19:50,900 and admit we're lovers? 232 00:19:51,000 --> 00:19:53,167 I mean, what else do you call it when two guys are seeing 233 00:19:53,267 --> 00:19:55,233 each other and have really great sex, 234 00:19:55,333 --> 00:19:56,767 and this goes on for months? 235 00:19:56,867 --> 00:19:58,733 Who do you think you're kidding? 236 00:19:58,833 --> 00:19:59,733 Come on. 237 00:19:59,833 --> 00:20:03,267 Out with it, god damn it! 238 00:20:03,367 --> 00:20:05,033 Ow! 239 00:20:05,133 --> 00:20:06,367 Say it. -Wait! 240 00:20:06,467 --> 00:20:07,000 Say it! 241 00:20:07,100 --> 00:20:08,167 Well, wait a minute. 242 00:20:08,267 --> 00:20:08,800 No. 243 00:20:08,900 --> 00:20:09,933 [laughter] 244 00:20:10,033 --> 00:20:11,533 Say it. 245 00:20:11,633 --> 00:20:13,533 OK. 246 00:20:13,633 --> 00:20:14,667 I-- I love you. 247 00:20:14,767 --> 00:20:16,433 Again! 248 00:20:16,533 --> 00:20:17,467 I love you. 249 00:20:17,567 --> 00:20:18,767 Now let go of me. 250 00:20:18,867 --> 00:20:19,800 Yeah, right, you do. 251 00:20:19,900 --> 00:20:20,700 Now once more for good measure? 252 00:20:20,800 --> 00:20:22,233 [laughter] 253 00:20:22,333 --> 00:20:23,067 Hell no! 254 00:20:23,167 --> 00:20:25,333 Now what do you think of this? 255 00:20:25,433 --> 00:20:28,067 Once more. 256 00:20:28,167 --> 00:20:31,633 You win, my fucking romantic friend. 257 00:20:31,733 --> 00:20:33,000 I love you. 258 00:20:33,100 --> 00:20:34,867 Whatever that means. 259 00:20:34,967 --> 00:20:36,733 [laughter] 260 00:20:37,867 --> 00:20:40,700 [music - "here comes the bride"] 261 00:21:09,433 --> 00:21:13,167 PRIEST: Dearly beloved, we are gathered here in the presence 262 00:21:13,267 --> 00:21:17,267 of God to join together this man and this woman 263 00:21:17,367 --> 00:21:21,967 in holy matrimony, which is an honorable estate ordained 264 00:21:22,067 --> 00:21:24,667 of God unto the fulfilling and perfecting 265 00:21:24,767 --> 00:21:30,200 of the love of man and woman in mutual honor and forbearance. 266 00:21:30,300 --> 00:21:35,533 And therefore it is not by any to be taken in hand lightly 267 00:21:35,633 --> 00:21:40,367 or thoughtlessly, but reverently, discreetly, 268 00:21:40,467 --> 00:21:43,033 soberly, and in the fear of God. 269 00:21:46,300 --> 00:21:52,800 Into this holy estate, these two persons come now to be joined. 270 00:21:52,900 --> 00:21:55,667 Therefore, if any man can show just 271 00:21:55,767 --> 00:22:00,800 cause why they may not lawfully be joined together, 272 00:22:00,900 --> 00:22:04,667 let him now speak or else, hereafter, 273 00:22:04,767 --> 00:22:07,167 forever hold his peace. 274 00:22:07,267 --> 00:22:09,867 Marriage is, therefore, not by any 275 00:22:09,967 --> 00:22:15,433 to be undertaken lightly or ill-advisedly, but seriously 276 00:22:15,533 --> 00:22:18,833 and prayerfully, duly considering the purposes 277 00:22:18,933 --> 00:22:22,933 for which it is ordained, that husband and wife may give 278 00:22:23,033 --> 00:22:27,167 to each other lifelong companionship, help, 279 00:22:27,267 --> 00:22:32,000 and comfort, both in prosperity and adversity; 280 00:22:32,100 --> 00:22:35,233 that God may hallow and direct the natural instincts 281 00:22:35,333 --> 00:22:40,500 and affections created by himself and redeemed in Christ; 282 00:22:40,600 --> 00:22:44,700 and that, marriage being thus held in honor, human society 283 00:22:44,800 --> 00:22:48,700 may stand upon firm foundations. 284 00:22:48,800 --> 00:22:50,700 [music playing] 285 00:23:08,967 --> 00:23:10,467 [keys jingling] 286 00:23:21,733 --> 00:23:22,933 Hey. 287 00:23:23,033 --> 00:23:24,800 [laughs] Let's not stay around here all day. 288 00:23:24,900 --> 00:23:26,633 Let's go to a movie. 289 00:23:26,733 --> 00:23:28,033 All righty. 290 00:23:28,133 --> 00:23:29,433 What do you want to see? 291 00:23:29,533 --> 00:23:32,367 I don't know. 292 00:23:32,467 --> 00:23:33,533 What's on? 293 00:23:33,633 --> 00:23:35,633 Hey, how about this thing with Robert Redford? 294 00:23:35,733 --> 00:23:36,900 OK. 295 00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:38,233 Even if it's bad, he's good to look at. 296 00:23:38,333 --> 00:23:40,333 What time's it go on? 297 00:23:40,433 --> 00:23:41,267 Uh, 12:00, 298 00:23:41,367 --> 00:23:45,300 BOTH: 2:00, 4:00, 6:00, 8:00. 299 00:23:45,400 --> 00:23:46,700 [laughter] 300 00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:50,300 [music playing] 301 00:24:04,200 --> 00:24:05,100 Can I help you? 302 00:24:05,200 --> 00:24:06,700 Can I have tube of K-Y? 303 00:24:35,767 --> 00:24:38,267 [drumming] 304 00:24:50,767 --> 00:24:52,667 Karen, I'm going in. 305 00:24:52,767 --> 00:24:53,867 You're not going in yet. 306 00:24:53,967 --> 00:24:55,033 What do you mean, I'm not going in? 307 00:24:55,133 --> 00:24:56,067 I've been out rowing for an hour. 308 00:24:56,167 --> 00:24:56,967 KAREN: You're not going in yet. 309 00:24:57,067 --> 00:24:57,967 Oh, Linda, look at you. 310 00:24:58,067 --> 00:24:59,900 You've got it all over you. 311 00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:03,400 Hey, lady, how would you like it if somebody did that to you? 312 00:25:03,500 --> 00:25:04,733 Hey! 313 00:25:04,833 --> 00:25:07,867 Hey, just shut up and mind your own business, all right? 314 00:25:07,967 --> 00:25:10,900 What a bitch. 315 00:25:11,000 --> 00:25:12,700 You're a slob, that's what you are. 316 00:25:12,800 --> 00:25:13,533 I'm not a slob! 317 00:25:13,633 --> 00:25:14,367 Turn around. 318 00:25:14,467 --> 00:25:15,333 Linda! 319 00:25:15,433 --> 00:25:17,667 [music playing] 320 00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:35,367 [groans] 321 00:25:39,767 --> 00:25:40,667 [music stops] 322 00:25:43,433 --> 00:25:44,267 Brr. Brr. 323 00:25:44,367 --> 00:25:44,933 It's cold. 324 00:25:45,033 --> 00:25:45,767 Ooh! 325 00:25:45,867 --> 00:25:47,000 Your hands are cold. 326 00:25:49,433 --> 00:25:50,167 Sorry. 327 00:25:55,133 --> 00:25:56,867 Come on, I gotta use the stool. -Come on, cut it out. 328 00:25:56,967 --> 00:25:58,067 I'm gonna be late. 329 00:25:58,167 --> 00:25:59,667 I have to get dressed too, you know. 330 00:25:59,767 --> 00:26:02,500 Oh, does the old man need the stool now to put his socks on? 331 00:26:02,600 --> 00:26:05,367 What am I supposed to do, perch on one leg like a crane? 332 00:26:05,467 --> 00:26:07,800 Hell, no, just stand there like this, take your sock, 333 00:26:07,900 --> 00:26:08,867 and slip it on. 334 00:26:08,967 --> 00:26:09,967 DAVID: I'm gonna break your neck. 335 00:26:10,067 --> 00:26:12,633 Lookit. 336 00:26:12,733 --> 00:26:13,467 Ow. 337 00:26:13,567 --> 00:26:14,300 Shoot. 338 00:26:19,767 --> 00:26:20,633 Ow. 339 00:26:20,733 --> 00:26:21,633 Damn. 340 00:26:21,733 --> 00:26:22,767 Have you seen my blue shirt? 341 00:26:22,867 --> 00:26:23,933 No, I haven't seen you blue shirt. 342 00:26:24,033 --> 00:26:25,167 Did you get the laundry out Saturday? 343 00:26:25,267 --> 00:26:26,367 Did I get the laundry out Saturday? 344 00:26:26,467 --> 00:26:28,233 Did I get the laundry out Saturday? 345 00:26:28,333 --> 00:26:30,733 God, why don't you just stay in bed in the morning 346 00:26:30,833 --> 00:26:32,367 until I'm finished dressing, OK? 347 00:26:32,467 --> 00:26:34,000 Oh, fuck you. 348 00:26:34,100 --> 00:26:35,567 Just see if I bother to get up and give 349 00:26:35,667 --> 00:26:37,800 you my comforting presence at the breakfast table anymore. 350 00:26:37,900 --> 00:26:38,967 Hah. 351 00:26:39,067 --> 00:26:40,367 There's hardly enough time to talk. 352 00:26:40,467 --> 00:26:42,600 Besides, who wants to talk in the morning, anyway? 353 00:26:42,700 --> 00:26:43,900 All right. 354 00:26:44,000 --> 00:26:47,667 Just see if I care. 355 00:26:47,767 --> 00:26:49,233 [sigh] 356 00:26:56,067 --> 00:26:56,833 Better hurry. 357 00:26:56,933 --> 00:26:58,567 You're gonna be late. 358 00:26:58,667 --> 00:27:00,767 Jennifer, could you bring me the Thompson file 359 00:27:00,867 --> 00:27:01,600 before you go to lunch? 360 00:27:06,033 --> 00:27:06,900 [phone ringing] 361 00:27:07,000 --> 00:27:08,100 Yeah? 362 00:27:08,200 --> 00:27:09,600 "If it had gone to thee, I know mine 363 00:27:09,700 --> 00:27:13,667 would have taught thine heart to show more pity unto me. 364 00:27:13,767 --> 00:27:18,667 But love, alas, at one first blow did shiver at his glass. 365 00:27:18,767 --> 00:27:22,500 Those pieces still, though they be not unite, 366 00:27:22,600 --> 00:27:25,333 and now as broken glasses show a hundred lesser 367 00:27:25,433 --> 00:27:34,167 faces, so my rags of heart can wish, like, and adore, 368 00:27:34,267 --> 00:28:45,633 but after one such love, can love no more." 369 00:28:45,733 --> 00:28:48,233 [water spraying] 370 00:28:50,700 --> 00:28:51,700 MARK: What are you doing? 371 00:28:51,800 --> 00:28:52,667 DAVID: Transplanting these. 372 00:28:55,567 --> 00:28:57,567 Hey, I think I'll go out for a walk. 373 00:28:57,667 --> 00:28:59,000 It's a great day. 374 00:28:59,100 --> 00:29:00,867 If you wait a minute, I'll go with you. 375 00:29:00,967 --> 00:29:02,600 I'm almost finished. 376 00:29:02,700 --> 00:29:03,500 You don't have to. 377 00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:04,533 But I want to. 378 00:29:07,900 --> 00:29:11,900 MARK: Well, you know, actually, I think I'd prefer to go alone. 379 00:29:12,000 --> 00:29:13,833 Oh. 380 00:29:13,933 --> 00:29:15,433 MARK: I'll only be a little while. 381 00:29:22,067 --> 00:29:24,367 Mark, what's wrong? 382 00:29:24,467 --> 00:29:25,933 Nothing. 383 00:29:26,033 --> 00:29:28,500 Really, nothing. 384 00:29:28,600 --> 00:29:32,767 Look, I just feel like being alone, that's all. 385 00:29:32,867 --> 00:29:33,667 OK. 386 00:29:33,767 --> 00:29:35,700 You want to skip dinner? 387 00:29:35,800 --> 00:29:37,000 Hell no. 388 00:29:37,100 --> 00:29:39,900 Look, I'll only be gone for a little while. 389 00:29:40,000 --> 00:29:42,100 Stop creating things that aren't there, OK? 390 00:29:45,467 --> 00:29:46,233 I'm sorry. 391 00:29:46,333 --> 00:29:47,200 [laughs] 392 00:29:47,800 --> 00:29:48,533 MARK: OK. 393 00:29:51,867 --> 00:29:53,667 Well, see you in a little while. 394 00:29:53,767 --> 00:29:54,500 OK. 395 00:30:04,967 --> 00:30:07,467 [music playing] 396 00:30:12,767 --> 00:30:13,500 MARK: I'm home. 397 00:30:17,333 --> 00:30:18,033 Hi. 398 00:30:18,133 --> 00:30:19,433 Did you have a nice dinner? 399 00:30:22,233 --> 00:30:25,400 MARK: Snoopy taking good care of you? 400 00:30:25,500 --> 00:30:26,333 Yeah. 401 00:30:26,433 --> 00:30:28,033 That's more than I can say for you. 402 00:30:28,133 --> 00:30:29,100 MARK: Awww. 403 00:30:38,600 --> 00:30:40,233 Anything good on? 404 00:30:40,333 --> 00:30:41,767 There's a new movie coming on later. 405 00:30:51,600 --> 00:30:52,467 [kiss] 406 00:30:52,567 --> 00:30:54,833 [kissy noises] 407 00:30:54,933 --> 00:30:57,833 Don't try to kissy-face me. 408 00:30:57,933 --> 00:30:58,667 Hey. 409 00:31:01,467 --> 00:31:03,567 Feel like, uh, futzing around a little bit? 410 00:31:03,667 --> 00:31:04,533 Huh? 411 00:31:04,633 --> 00:31:05,500 Huh? 412 00:31:05,600 --> 00:31:06,633 I don't know. 413 00:31:06,733 --> 00:31:09,433 I feel fine just being with you here like this. 414 00:31:09,533 --> 00:31:10,800 MARK: Oh. 415 00:31:10,900 --> 00:31:12,367 So now he's going to punish me. 416 00:31:12,467 --> 00:31:13,533 No I'm not. 417 00:31:13,633 --> 00:31:16,400 I'm just not into it right now, that's all. 418 00:31:20,800 --> 00:31:23,467 Well. 419 00:31:23,567 --> 00:31:26,633 So I guess you're going to make me rape you, is that it? 420 00:31:26,733 --> 00:31:28,133 Yeah, Macho Mark. 421 00:31:28,233 --> 00:31:29,200 Is that why you're sitting there giving me those looks? 422 00:31:29,300 --> 00:31:30,400 DAVID: I want to watch the movie. 423 00:31:30,500 --> 00:31:31,500 MARK: You want to play hard to get? 424 00:31:31,600 --> 00:31:33,333 Jeez, will you stop it? 425 00:31:33,433 --> 00:31:35,367 Well, shit, you never used to talk like that. 426 00:31:35,467 --> 00:31:38,800 DAVID: Christ, we had sex three times already this week. 427 00:31:38,900 --> 00:31:42,567 That's more than we had in the good old honeymoon days. 428 00:31:42,667 --> 00:31:44,733 Besides, I'm a little sore, if you don't mind. 429 00:31:52,433 --> 00:31:56,100 --[laughs] Here, Snoopy, you take care of him. 430 00:31:56,200 --> 00:31:59,933 Oh, poor Snoopy, is he making fun of you? 431 00:32:00,033 --> 00:32:01,433 You want to have sex with me? 432 00:32:01,533 --> 00:32:02,367 Hm? 433 00:32:02,467 --> 00:32:03,200 Hm? 434 00:32:03,300 --> 00:32:04,400 You do? 435 00:32:04,500 --> 00:32:07,733 Hey, you want to have a threesome? 436 00:32:07,833 --> 00:32:09,233 You, me, and Snoopy, huh? 437 00:32:09,333 --> 00:32:10,767 Go get him, Snoopy. Get him. 438 00:32:10,867 --> 00:32:11,767 Come on. Come on! 439 00:32:21,167 --> 00:32:22,700 Aw, hell, I've had enough of this. 440 00:32:22,800 --> 00:32:23,567 I'm going to bed. 441 00:32:23,667 --> 00:32:24,533 I'm sick and tired. 442 00:32:24,633 --> 00:32:26,267 Come on, watch the movie. 443 00:32:26,367 --> 00:32:27,400 Come on. 444 00:32:27,500 --> 00:32:28,400 MARK: No. 445 00:32:28,500 --> 00:32:29,767 DAVID: Movie. 446 00:32:29,867 --> 00:32:31,033 Please, you'll like it. 447 00:32:31,133 --> 00:32:32,067 You knocked over my beer can, you know. 448 00:32:32,167 --> 00:32:33,100 MARK: Sorry. 449 00:32:36,900 --> 00:32:38,167 Well, OK. 450 00:32:38,267 --> 00:32:41,133 Just for a little bit. 451 00:32:41,233 --> 00:32:45,233 God, I don't know why I had to marry such a schmaltz. 452 00:32:45,333 --> 00:32:47,733 You should just be glad you married at all, period. 453 00:32:58,167 --> 00:32:59,967 ALAN: And I didn't bring any chicken with me. 454 00:33:00,067 --> 00:33:00,833 [laughter] 455 00:33:00,933 --> 00:33:01,667 EDGAR: You did, too. 456 00:33:01,767 --> 00:33:02,600 I beg your pardon. 457 00:33:02,700 --> 00:33:03,467 ALAN: He's over 18. 458 00:33:03,567 --> 00:33:04,467 [laughter] 459 00:33:04,567 --> 00:33:06,233 EDGAR: Barely. 460 00:33:06,333 --> 00:33:09,200 Oh, and the guy-- and we just, you know-- 461 00:33:09,300 --> 00:33:10,500 They have some nice things. 462 00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:12,267 They had a Pinot Chardonnay the other night. 463 00:33:12,367 --> 00:33:13,500 it was really-- It was only about $2. 464 00:33:13,600 --> 00:33:15,400 Oh, I'm trying to have other wines. 465 00:33:15,500 --> 00:33:17,067 It's like-- you know, it was like $4 a bottle. 466 00:33:17,167 --> 00:33:17,900 Did you like it? 467 00:33:18,000 --> 00:33:18,733 Me? 468 00:33:18,833 --> 00:33:19,667 Yes, I did. 469 00:33:19,767 --> 00:33:20,567 Yeah, it was good. 470 00:33:20,667 --> 00:33:21,500 Oh, thank you. 471 00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:22,433 This is so good. 472 00:33:22,533 --> 00:33:23,067 [laughter] 473 00:33:23,167 --> 00:33:23,967 It really is. 474 00:33:24,067 --> 00:33:24,800 Thank you. 475 00:33:24,900 --> 00:33:25,633 Great coffee. 476 00:33:25,733 --> 00:33:26,700 Do you cook? 477 00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:27,933 A little bit. A little bit. 478 00:33:28,033 --> 00:33:29,233 He does most of the cooking. 479 00:33:29,333 --> 00:33:30,933 Mark, do you want some more Grand Marnier? 480 00:33:31,033 --> 00:33:31,933 What? 481 00:33:32,033 --> 00:33:33,167 [laughter] 482 00:33:33,267 --> 00:33:34,433 I think I'm getting-- 483 00:33:34,533 --> 00:33:36,067 While I'm up, does anyone want more coffee? 484 00:33:36,167 --> 00:33:37,467 -Uh, please. -One? 485 00:33:37,567 --> 00:33:38,467 -Yes. -Two? 486 00:33:38,567 --> 00:33:39,933 Three. Fine. 487 00:33:40,033 --> 00:33:41,467 Oh, why don't we move into the other room 488 00:33:41,567 --> 00:33:43,933 where it's more comfortable, and I'll serve you in there. 489 00:33:44,033 --> 00:33:46,500 OK. 490 00:33:46,600 --> 00:33:49,767 So this is the coveted new linen you bought in Brussels. 491 00:33:49,867 --> 00:33:51,167 Someone finally noticed. 492 00:33:53,767 --> 00:33:54,600 It's very nice. 493 00:33:54,700 --> 00:33:55,900 Thank you. 494 00:33:56,000 --> 00:33:56,833 Davey, will you help me clear off the table? 495 00:33:56,933 --> 00:33:58,433 Sure, be glad to. 496 00:33:58,533 --> 00:34:01,200 You'd better keep a protective eye out for your jewels, Davey. 497 00:34:06,067 --> 00:34:07,533 [laughter] 498 00:34:08,900 --> 00:34:10,133 EDGAR: Word of advice. 499 00:34:10,233 --> 00:34:11,733 If you want a marriage to work, you have to own 500 00:34:11,833 --> 00:34:14,233 something substantial together. 501 00:34:14,333 --> 00:34:16,633 Miguel and I were thinking about taking a house 502 00:34:16,733 --> 00:34:18,167 at the Grove next summer. 503 00:34:18,267 --> 00:34:20,600 That's not quite what I meant. 504 00:34:20,700 --> 00:34:22,300 Oh. 505 00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:24,833 Mark, are you actually going to leave David alone 506 00:34:24,933 --> 00:34:26,900 out there with that old lech? 507 00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:29,467 Charles isn't nearly so bad as Alan here makes out he is. 508 00:34:29,567 --> 00:34:33,067 He just likes to pretend around you two, that's all. 509 00:34:33,167 --> 00:34:35,100 Charles and I are different, you know. 510 00:34:35,200 --> 00:34:37,600 I don't need the sex that he does. 511 00:34:37,700 --> 00:34:40,567 With him, it's sort of a-- a confirmation 512 00:34:40,667 --> 00:34:43,467 that he's still desirable. 513 00:34:43,567 --> 00:34:46,967 I used to be hellishly jealous when we first got together. 514 00:34:47,067 --> 00:34:49,033 I made him throw away his old telephone numbers 515 00:34:49,133 --> 00:34:50,500 and his dirty magazines. 516 00:34:50,600 --> 00:34:52,200 [laughter] 517 00:34:52,300 --> 00:34:55,500 But that doesn't change somebody's basic nature. 518 00:34:55,600 --> 00:34:58,367 There has to be a lot of give and take in a marriage. 519 00:34:58,467 --> 00:35:02,033 I know I'm a bitch, and he just has to put up with it. 520 00:35:02,133 --> 00:35:05,533 Life is, as they say, full of compromises. 521 00:35:05,633 --> 00:35:08,100 At this point, I could care less if he brought a different trick 522 00:35:08,200 --> 00:35:09,633 in here every night. 523 00:35:09,733 --> 00:35:13,033 But let him bring the same dewy-eyed little 524 00:35:13,133 --> 00:35:15,567 innocent in here twice and began acting like he's 525 00:35:15,667 --> 00:35:19,167 serious about it, and I manage to wheedle myself into that bed 526 00:35:19,267 --> 00:35:21,467 right between them. 527 00:35:21,567 --> 00:35:24,333 I've put five years of hard work into this marriage, 528 00:35:24,433 --> 00:35:29,400 and I don't intend to let anyone or anything fuck it up for me. 529 00:35:29,500 --> 00:35:33,800 ALAN: Well, I don't know, but it seems to me 530 00:35:33,900 --> 00:35:35,200 that we're all a little depressed 531 00:35:35,300 --> 00:35:36,700 over these sordid revelations. 532 00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:38,367 There's nothing sordid about it. 533 00:35:38,467 --> 00:35:40,533 It's just the way things are. 534 00:35:47,400 --> 00:35:49,633 CHARLES: Miguel, more coffee? 535 00:35:49,733 --> 00:35:51,400 You're so quiet. 536 00:35:51,500 --> 00:35:53,733 You haven't said two words all evening. 537 00:35:53,833 --> 00:35:56,133 Oh, I think Miguel is a little bit 538 00:35:56,233 --> 00:35:58,033 overawed by the surroundings. 539 00:35:58,133 --> 00:36:00,000 And he's kind of shy. 540 00:36:00,100 --> 00:36:02,567 Well, with his looks, he shouldn't be. 541 00:36:02,667 --> 00:36:03,400 I know. 542 00:36:03,500 --> 00:36:04,333 Thank you. 543 00:36:04,433 --> 00:36:05,600 You have a very lovely apartment. 544 00:36:05,700 --> 00:36:07,233 EDGAR: Thank you. 545 00:36:07,333 --> 00:36:09,733 MIGUEL: Are we still going to the bar? 546 00:36:09,833 --> 00:36:11,133 I did promise Teddy we'd meet him. 547 00:36:11,233 --> 00:36:13,000 ALAN: Let me finish my coffee, and then we'll go. 548 00:36:13,100 --> 00:36:16,000 Anybody else care to join us? 549 00:36:16,100 --> 00:36:17,733 Good Lord, no. 550 00:36:17,833 --> 00:36:21,833 Edgar and I haven't been out together in a bar in ages. 551 00:36:21,933 --> 00:36:23,233 Everyone standing around like statues, 552 00:36:23,333 --> 00:36:25,033 and that deafening music? 553 00:36:25,133 --> 00:36:26,467 It gets worse every year. 554 00:36:26,567 --> 00:36:30,133 EDGAR: I should think you'd be tired of it by now. 555 00:36:30,233 --> 00:36:33,200 Yeah, well, I am, sort of. 556 00:36:33,300 --> 00:36:37,067 But Miguel wants to go. 557 00:36:37,167 --> 00:36:40,067 Such devotion. 558 00:36:40,167 --> 00:36:43,567 Well, as they say, may we never have it worse. 559 00:36:43,667 --> 00:36:44,767 [laughter] 560 00:36:44,867 --> 00:36:46,767 [laughs] Who says that? 561 00:36:46,867 --> 00:36:49,267 I do. 562 00:36:49,367 --> 00:36:52,000 I just don't like spending my Saturday nights with a bunch 563 00:36:52,100 --> 00:36:53,133 of faggots, that's all. 564 00:36:53,233 --> 00:36:55,067 If you weren't so goddamn critical 565 00:36:55,167 --> 00:36:56,833 of all of our friends-- 566 00:36:56,933 --> 00:36:58,567 Whose friends? 567 00:36:58,667 --> 00:37:00,967 All right, my friends. 568 00:37:01,067 --> 00:37:02,600 But we've been with Alan before. 569 00:37:02,700 --> 00:37:03,900 Why the sudden change? 570 00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:06,267 David, I never really liked him that much. 571 00:37:06,367 --> 00:37:09,533 I only put up with him because he was your friend. 572 00:37:09,633 --> 00:37:10,533 Mark, sit down. 573 00:37:10,633 --> 00:37:11,633 Come on, please? 574 00:37:18,367 --> 00:37:21,967 Something's really been bugging you lately. 575 00:37:22,067 --> 00:37:25,333 Don't you think it's better to talk about it? 576 00:37:25,433 --> 00:37:27,633 Sometimes I think we can talk too much. 577 00:37:27,733 --> 00:37:30,700 I don't think we talk enough. 578 00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:31,533 What's the matter? 579 00:37:38,167 --> 00:37:39,300 OK, David, we'll talk. 580 00:37:42,267 --> 00:37:46,467 I just don't understand why we have to do everything together. 581 00:37:46,567 --> 00:37:48,733 Just because we're lovers doesn't make us inseparable, 582 00:37:48,833 --> 00:37:50,233 does it? 583 00:37:50,333 --> 00:37:52,067 I mean, I thought we agreed we wouldn't be possessive. 584 00:37:52,167 --> 00:37:53,100 I thought you understood. 585 00:37:53,200 --> 00:37:55,833 I thought we-- what's the use? 586 00:37:55,933 --> 00:37:57,033 I'm sorry, I don't-- 587 00:37:57,133 --> 00:37:58,367 And cut this "I'm sorry" crap. 588 00:37:58,467 --> 00:38:00,167 You make me sound like I'm the one to blame, 589 00:38:00,267 --> 00:38:02,233 like-- like I'm the one that's being difficult to live with. 590 00:38:02,333 --> 00:38:04,200 But you hold everything in until you explode. 591 00:38:04,300 --> 00:38:05,467 If we could just talk things out more! 592 00:38:05,567 --> 00:38:08,567 David, you know it wouldn't work. 593 00:38:08,667 --> 00:38:11,500 Look, why don't you go on home, and I'll-- I'll meet 594 00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:12,300 you back there later. 595 00:38:12,400 --> 00:38:14,367 I have some thinking to do. 596 00:38:14,467 --> 00:38:17,600 Why don't you just come home and sleep it off? 597 00:38:17,700 --> 00:38:19,233 I promise I won't be in the way. 598 00:38:19,333 --> 00:38:21,767 Look, David, I need some time to be by myself. 599 00:38:21,867 --> 00:38:23,100 Can't you understand that? 600 00:38:23,200 --> 00:38:25,333 Where are you going this time? 601 00:38:25,433 --> 00:38:26,967 To the baths? 602 00:38:27,067 --> 00:38:28,133 Oh, fuck you. 603 00:38:30,833 --> 00:38:32,333 [heavy sigh] 604 00:38:38,767 --> 00:38:40,267 [door closes] 605 00:38:50,300 --> 00:38:52,567 Mark? 606 00:38:52,667 --> 00:38:53,733 MARK: Oh no. 607 00:38:53,833 --> 00:38:54,567 Jesus. 608 00:39:01,033 --> 00:39:05,500 I thought you'd be asleep by now. 609 00:39:05,600 --> 00:39:06,867 I couldn't sleep. 610 00:39:06,967 --> 00:39:10,900 Why didn't you take a pill? 611 00:39:11,000 --> 00:39:12,600 Where have you been? 612 00:39:12,700 --> 00:39:14,600 We'll talk about that tomorrow. 613 00:39:14,700 --> 00:39:15,567 Mark, please. 614 00:39:15,667 --> 00:39:16,700 I won't be able to sleep. 615 00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:18,033 I don't want to talk about it now. 616 00:39:18,133 --> 00:39:19,467 I'm tired, and we have all day tomorrow, OK? 617 00:39:19,567 --> 00:39:20,833 We have now. 618 00:39:20,933 --> 00:39:23,000 Look, David, if you don't shut up, I'm going to go in there 619 00:39:23,100 --> 00:39:23,833 and sleep on the couch. 620 00:39:23,933 --> 00:39:26,367 Is that a threat? 621 00:39:26,467 --> 00:39:27,933 Jesus Christ. 622 00:39:28,033 --> 00:39:29,033 Go back to sleep. 623 00:39:33,133 --> 00:39:34,600 [heavy sigh] 624 00:39:42,033 --> 00:39:44,967 So where did you go last night? 625 00:39:45,067 --> 00:39:46,667 Oh, for a walk. 626 00:39:46,767 --> 00:39:49,500 Some walk. 627 00:39:49,600 --> 00:39:51,767 To the park, OK? 628 00:39:51,867 --> 00:39:53,000 You don't have to get upset. 629 00:39:53,100 --> 00:39:54,533 And you don't have to be so jealous. 630 00:39:54,633 --> 00:39:56,233 Oh, I know. 631 00:39:56,333 --> 00:39:58,533 I realize that it doesn't mean anything, that you're just 632 00:39:58,633 --> 00:39:59,933 letting off steam, bu-t-- 633 00:40:00,033 --> 00:40:01,467 Look, David, you're just going to have 634 00:40:01,567 --> 00:40:05,667 to stop imposing your screwed-up romantic ideas on my life. 635 00:40:05,767 --> 00:40:09,233 I mean, I can understand why you feel the way you do. 636 00:40:09,333 --> 00:40:10,700 Sleeping around while being married 637 00:40:10,800 --> 00:40:13,033 is a sin, and all that crap. 638 00:40:13,133 --> 00:40:17,100 But I just don't fit into that mold. 639 00:40:17,200 --> 00:40:19,633 I'm liberated. 640 00:40:19,733 --> 00:40:22,567 I'm not quite as traditional as you are, and you know that. 641 00:40:22,667 --> 00:40:25,500 You knew that. 642 00:40:25,600 --> 00:40:28,300 I didn't think it would be such a hassle, but it is. 643 00:40:28,400 --> 00:40:31,467 I'm not sure if I know how to handle it. 644 00:40:36,667 --> 00:40:38,267 Well, we're going to have to do something. 645 00:40:38,367 --> 00:40:41,567 We can't go on like this, fighting 646 00:40:41,667 --> 00:40:44,367 and making up and fighting and making up again. 647 00:40:44,467 --> 00:40:45,433 It's no good. 648 00:40:48,133 --> 00:40:49,333 I've been thinking. 649 00:40:49,433 --> 00:40:50,167 Yeah? 650 00:40:53,967 --> 00:40:55,467 Well, we're in a rut. 651 00:40:55,567 --> 00:40:57,000 And I think we should try experimenting 652 00:40:57,100 --> 00:40:58,033 with different things. 653 00:41:00,933 --> 00:41:02,667 Like what? 654 00:41:02,767 --> 00:41:05,667 [music playing] 655 00:42:34,800 --> 00:42:37,300 [men talking] 656 00:42:42,767 --> 00:42:44,267 [laughter] 657 00:42:46,767 --> 00:42:47,667 Hi. 658 00:42:47,767 --> 00:42:49,067 Hi. 659 00:42:49,167 --> 00:42:50,633 Good enough? 660 00:42:50,733 --> 00:42:51,767 [laughter] 661 00:42:51,867 --> 00:42:53,167 GUEST: Have you had a wine enema? 662 00:42:53,267 --> 00:42:54,967 GUEST: What's a wine enema? 663 00:42:55,067 --> 00:42:57,267 It-- yeah, it gets you really stoned, 664 00:42:57,367 --> 00:43:01,400 and it bypasses the stomach so you don't get sick. 665 00:43:01,500 --> 00:43:02,200 Come on, open up. 666 00:43:02,300 --> 00:43:03,167 What's with the [inaudible]? 667 00:43:06,067 --> 00:43:07,000 Come on. 668 00:43:07,100 --> 00:43:10,067 DAVID: Can you come back later? 669 00:43:10,167 --> 00:43:11,567 Who is that? 670 00:43:11,667 --> 00:43:13,533 [inaudible]. 671 00:43:13,633 --> 00:43:14,667 Come on. 672 00:43:14,767 --> 00:43:15,700 DAVID: I'm sorry. 673 00:43:15,800 --> 00:43:17,867 You'll have to come back later. 674 00:43:17,967 --> 00:43:19,100 MARK: All right. 675 00:43:19,200 --> 00:43:20,500 I'm going downstairs and take a shower. 676 00:43:20,600 --> 00:43:22,267 When I come back, I expect this door to be open. 677 00:43:27,067 --> 00:43:30,133 [music playing] 678 00:43:40,567 --> 00:43:41,900 You OK? 679 00:43:42,000 --> 00:43:43,233 Sure. 680 00:43:43,333 --> 00:43:45,300 Are you sure you want to go through with it? 681 00:43:45,400 --> 00:43:49,200 This is what you want me out here for, isn't it? 682 00:43:49,300 --> 00:43:53,400 Well, might as well make the best of it. 683 00:45:01,967 --> 00:45:03,333 DAVID: It's not that I'm uptight or anything. 684 00:45:03,433 --> 00:45:06,267 It's just, what do you do if it doesn't turn you on? 685 00:45:06,367 --> 00:45:08,867 Stupid question, that is. 686 00:45:08,967 --> 00:45:11,233 Don't even think about it. 687 00:45:11,333 --> 00:45:14,833 Half the time, you don't even know who it is. 688 00:45:14,933 --> 00:45:16,033 Go on. 689 00:46:26,667 --> 00:46:27,467 Why? 690 00:46:27,567 --> 00:46:29,400 Because I can't do this. 691 00:46:32,333 --> 00:46:33,933 It was your idea to come out here. 692 00:46:34,033 --> 00:46:34,933 It was not my idea. 693 00:46:35,033 --> 00:46:36,100 I'm sorry. 694 00:47:21,300 --> 00:47:25,567 Neither you or I are the same person he was last year. 695 00:47:25,667 --> 00:47:28,400 But you simply won't let go of your romantic notions, 696 00:47:28,500 --> 00:47:31,100 will you? 697 00:47:31,200 --> 00:47:33,867 Well, anyway, we're still living together, aren't we? 698 00:47:33,967 --> 00:47:35,000 This the first thing we're doing 699 00:47:35,100 --> 00:47:37,767 together in almost two weeks. 700 00:47:37,867 --> 00:47:40,600 Look, David, we both have our own separate lives to live, 701 00:47:40,700 --> 00:47:42,167 and you just don't seem to understand that. 702 00:47:42,267 --> 00:47:43,067 DAVID: I understand. 703 00:47:43,167 --> 00:47:44,400 But then why be lovers? 704 00:47:44,500 --> 00:47:46,133 I mean, what's the point of living together if we 705 00:47:46,233 --> 00:47:48,033 each have our separate lives? 706 00:47:48,133 --> 00:47:49,567 Because we get along so well. 707 00:47:49,667 --> 00:47:50,800 Always the wise-ass. 708 00:47:50,900 --> 00:47:54,300 You can't ever be serious, can you? 709 00:47:54,400 --> 00:47:55,867 You know, half the time you avoid 710 00:47:55,967 --> 00:47:58,533 the problem by walking away from it, and the other half, 711 00:47:58,633 --> 00:47:59,867 you're joking. 712 00:47:59,967 --> 00:48:04,067 If you weren't so hung up with your goddamn masculinity! 713 00:48:04,167 --> 00:48:07,400 My stomach's always in knots lately. 714 00:48:07,500 --> 00:48:09,567 It hardly seems to affect you at all. 715 00:48:09,667 --> 00:48:10,467 It affects me. 716 00:48:10,567 --> 00:48:11,300 DAVID: So how? 717 00:48:15,300 --> 00:48:16,167 [sigh] 718 00:48:17,633 --> 00:48:18,367 I can't eat. 719 00:48:18,467 --> 00:48:21,033 I can't work. 720 00:48:21,133 --> 00:48:22,967 My whole system's fucked up from tension 721 00:48:23,067 --> 00:48:24,433 and worrying all the time. 722 00:48:24,533 --> 00:48:25,967 Well, don't worry. 723 00:48:26,067 --> 00:48:29,133 Mark, what are we going to do? 724 00:48:29,233 --> 00:48:30,333 Come on, let's get going. 725 00:48:30,433 --> 00:48:30,967 No, wait. 726 00:48:31,067 --> 00:48:31,900 Let's-- please stay. 727 00:48:32,000 --> 00:48:32,733 Let's talk! 728 00:48:32,833 --> 00:48:33,900 You and your talk. 729 00:48:34,000 --> 00:48:34,700 There's nothing more to talk about. 730 00:48:34,800 --> 00:48:35,733 DAVID: Mark-- 731 00:48:35,833 --> 00:48:36,767 Look, it's cold and I'm tired. 732 00:48:36,867 --> 00:48:38,033 Do you mind? 733 00:48:38,133 --> 00:48:39,100 Will you wait a minute and listen to me? 734 00:48:39,200 --> 00:48:40,000 There's nothing more to be said. 735 00:48:40,100 --> 00:48:41,200 Now let go of me. 736 00:48:41,300 --> 00:48:42,200 Mark, I'm going to get through to you 737 00:48:42,300 --> 00:48:43,033 if it's the last thing I do. 738 00:48:43,133 --> 00:48:44,267 Now you tell me-- 739 00:48:44,367 --> 00:48:45,267 (SHOUTING) David, get hold of yourself 740 00:48:45,367 --> 00:48:45,767 and get off my fucking back! 741 00:49:09,567 --> 00:49:11,233 Well, at least tell me where you're going. 742 00:49:13,733 --> 00:49:16,467 I'll call you when I know where I'll be staying. 743 00:49:23,800 --> 00:49:25,233 [sigh] 744 00:49:31,000 --> 00:49:32,433 I'll pick up the rest of the stuff later. 745 00:49:39,633 --> 00:49:41,367 Call me? 746 00:49:41,467 --> 00:49:42,233 Yeah. 747 00:49:54,633 --> 00:49:57,100 [music playing] 748 00:50:38,500 --> 00:50:42,867 ALAN: You know, it's not the end of the world. 749 00:50:42,967 --> 00:50:45,300 Tomorrow's another day. 750 00:50:45,400 --> 00:50:49,667 No one knows that better than I do. 751 00:50:49,767 --> 00:50:50,867 It's funny. 752 00:50:50,967 --> 00:50:52,933 Whenever I thought of us breaking up, 753 00:50:53,033 --> 00:50:55,000 if it ever did happen, I always thought Mark 754 00:50:55,100 --> 00:50:58,500 would be the one to walk out. 755 00:50:58,600 --> 00:50:59,867 It's funny. 756 00:50:59,967 --> 00:51:01,467 Not so strange. 757 00:51:01,567 --> 00:51:03,300 From what you told me about Mark, 758 00:51:03,400 --> 00:51:05,900 he never could make decisions. 759 00:51:06,000 --> 00:51:09,867 He's not as secure as he appears to be. 760 00:51:09,967 --> 00:51:11,600 I don't know. 761 00:51:11,700 --> 00:51:12,933 Well, now, you listen to me. 762 00:51:13,033 --> 00:51:14,667 Now I know those types. 763 00:51:14,767 --> 00:51:18,033 They're in control as long as you let them be in control. 764 00:51:18,133 --> 00:51:20,667 It was you who always had the real power. 765 00:51:20,767 --> 00:51:22,833 You convinced him that you should be lovers, 766 00:51:22,933 --> 00:51:25,400 and then you moved in with him. 767 00:51:25,500 --> 00:51:31,600 And now that it's over, it's the result of your move again. 768 00:51:31,700 --> 00:51:34,533 Shit, I don't want to control or be controlled. 769 00:51:34,633 --> 00:51:38,200 It wasn't like that. 770 00:51:38,300 --> 00:51:39,633 It was. 771 00:51:39,733 --> 00:51:41,167 And it still is. 772 00:51:45,100 --> 00:51:47,333 Your problem is that you-- you worry 773 00:51:47,433 --> 00:51:49,800 too much about the perfect relationship, 774 00:51:49,900 --> 00:51:53,867 where you're always happy and having a good time and sharing. 775 00:51:53,967 --> 00:51:55,067 It's all a lot of crap. 776 00:51:55,167 --> 00:51:56,967 It's a myth. 777 00:51:57,067 --> 00:51:59,967 I learned it the hard way. 778 00:52:00,067 --> 00:52:03,200 My trouble used to be that I believed. it. 779 00:52:03,300 --> 00:52:05,400 You remember Miguel? 780 00:52:05,500 --> 00:52:08,067 I thought, now here's the person I'd like to spend 781 00:52:08,167 --> 00:52:09,833 the rest of my life with. 782 00:52:09,933 --> 00:52:12,000 I honestly thought that. 783 00:52:12,100 --> 00:52:14,567 And I convinced myself into believing it. 784 00:52:17,367 --> 00:52:20,300 But then the same thing happened. 785 00:52:20,400 --> 00:52:22,467 Only this time, I became bored with him. 786 00:52:25,300 --> 00:52:29,733 Alas, I got bored with him. 787 00:52:29,833 --> 00:52:31,100 But no more. 788 00:52:31,200 --> 00:52:33,733 I'm through pushing things. 789 00:52:33,833 --> 00:52:37,233 I meet a guy, we hit it off, and we make it, and that's it. 790 00:52:37,333 --> 00:52:40,233 No illusions, no plans for the future-- I 791 00:52:40,333 --> 00:52:41,767 enjoy it for what it is. 792 00:52:41,867 --> 00:52:42,667 Just what is it? 793 00:52:45,300 --> 00:52:47,533 Usually some nice company. 794 00:52:47,633 --> 00:52:49,167 Some nice sex. 795 00:52:49,267 --> 00:52:51,733 Sometimes even great sex. 796 00:52:51,833 --> 00:52:53,033 But that's enough. 797 00:52:53,133 --> 00:52:56,300 I'm-- I'm through with expectations. 798 00:52:56,400 --> 00:52:58,700 You've certainly become the cynical one. 799 00:53:02,800 --> 00:53:04,867 No, not cynical. 800 00:53:04,967 --> 00:53:07,633 Simply realistic. 801 00:53:07,733 --> 00:53:10,667 Well, I don't think I'm being unrealistic. 802 00:53:10,767 --> 00:53:12,800 Mark and I were in love. 803 00:53:12,900 --> 00:53:13,833 We could have made it together. 804 00:53:13,933 --> 00:53:14,700 We still might. 805 00:53:18,200 --> 00:53:20,100 David, don't be a fool and cause 806 00:53:20,200 --> 00:53:21,900 yourself unnecessary grief. 807 00:53:22,000 --> 00:53:23,567 Accept the fact that it's over. 808 00:53:26,467 --> 00:53:29,200 The sooner you get him out of your system, the better. 809 00:53:29,300 --> 00:53:32,800 There's no use making things any worse than they are already. 810 00:53:32,900 --> 00:53:35,033 I can't just not see him anymore. 811 00:53:39,167 --> 00:53:41,000 We've had arguments before. 812 00:53:41,100 --> 00:53:42,067 They blow over. 813 00:53:44,767 --> 00:53:48,833 It's just a little more serious this time, that's all. 814 00:53:48,933 --> 00:53:50,533 We need time to be away from each other, 815 00:53:50,633 --> 00:53:51,433 to think things out. 816 00:53:51,533 --> 00:53:52,433 That's all. 817 00:53:55,900 --> 00:53:57,567 Well, you're certainly welcome to stay 818 00:53:57,667 --> 00:53:59,767 here for the time being. 819 00:53:59,867 --> 00:54:03,467 You know, it's not the kind of time that you want to be alone. 820 00:54:03,567 --> 00:54:04,133 Thanks, Alan. 821 00:54:04,233 --> 00:54:07,833 I really appreciate it. 822 00:54:07,933 --> 00:54:09,300 You know, you're one of the few people 823 00:54:09,400 --> 00:54:12,467 that I can actually talk to? 824 00:54:12,567 --> 00:54:14,233 Something Mark could never understand. 825 00:54:18,967 --> 00:54:22,767 Well, how do you feel now? 826 00:54:22,867 --> 00:54:23,733 [laughs] 827 00:54:23,833 --> 00:54:26,433 Have you had dinner? 828 00:54:26,533 --> 00:54:27,267 [sigh] 829 00:54:27,367 --> 00:54:28,300 Why don't you have something? 830 00:54:28,400 --> 00:54:29,533 There's some leftover meatloaf. 831 00:54:29,633 --> 00:54:30,167 Come on. 832 00:54:30,267 --> 00:54:31,233 You'll feel better. 833 00:54:40,633 --> 00:54:43,133 [funhouse laughter] 834 00:54:46,567 --> 00:54:47,467 [bell ringing] 835 00:54:47,567 --> 00:54:48,867 MARK: I won. 836 00:54:48,967 --> 00:54:51,033 [laughs] 837 00:54:56,600 --> 00:54:57,867 DAVID: I guess it wasn't a very good 838 00:54:57,967 --> 00:55:00,467 idea, seeing each other today. 839 00:55:00,567 --> 00:55:02,033 It's good seeing you. 840 00:55:05,467 --> 00:55:06,333 How's work? 841 00:55:06,433 --> 00:55:08,100 Oh, OK. 842 00:55:08,200 --> 00:55:09,867 The kids are getting restless. 843 00:55:09,967 --> 00:55:13,467 Spring fever, I guess. 844 00:55:13,567 --> 00:55:16,900 I've missed you, Mark. 845 00:55:17,000 --> 00:55:18,433 I've missed you too. 846 00:55:21,767 --> 00:55:22,700 Hey, how's your stomach? 847 00:55:22,800 --> 00:55:23,533 Better. 848 00:55:23,633 --> 00:55:24,233 MARK: See? 849 00:55:24,333 --> 00:55:26,600 Time can heal wounds. 850 00:55:26,700 --> 00:55:27,433 Yeah. 851 00:55:33,200 --> 00:55:37,000 Have you been seeing anyone lately? 852 00:55:37,100 --> 00:55:40,600 Not really. 853 00:55:40,700 --> 00:55:42,600 How about you? 854 00:55:42,700 --> 00:55:44,000 Nah. 855 00:55:44,100 --> 00:55:46,467 I've had a couple tricks. 856 00:55:46,567 --> 00:55:49,200 Actually, I've been playing it cool. 857 00:55:49,300 --> 00:55:51,167 I've been pretty busy at the office, 858 00:55:51,267 --> 00:55:53,433 you know, and usually get finished around 8 o'clock. 859 00:55:53,533 --> 00:55:54,933 And by then, I'm so exhausted, I just 860 00:55:55,033 --> 00:55:56,133 want to come home and collapse. 861 00:56:01,833 --> 00:56:05,533 Have any plans for tonight? 862 00:56:05,633 --> 00:56:08,500 I'm supposed to go to a bar with Alan. 863 00:56:08,600 --> 00:56:15,000 You think he'd be annoyed if you changed your plans? 864 00:56:15,100 --> 00:56:15,833 I don't think so. 865 00:56:15,933 --> 00:56:17,367 Why? 866 00:56:17,467 --> 00:56:19,467 I thought you could come home with me. 867 00:56:22,867 --> 00:56:24,367 I don't know. 868 00:56:28,167 --> 00:56:29,133 Would that be a good idea? 869 00:56:29,233 --> 00:56:33,467 I mean, what would it mean? 870 00:56:33,567 --> 00:56:35,633 Why does it have to mean anything? 871 00:56:35,733 --> 00:56:38,267 You said you missed me. 872 00:56:38,367 --> 00:56:41,367 I do, but not only sexually. 873 00:56:41,467 --> 00:56:43,567 I-- I don't think it'd be good for my head. 874 00:56:46,100 --> 00:56:48,800 What do you think? 875 00:56:48,900 --> 00:56:52,067 Hell, I don't know, you know? 876 00:56:52,167 --> 00:56:53,300 We could try and see. 877 00:56:56,267 --> 00:56:58,533 I can't figure you out, Mark. 878 00:56:58,633 --> 00:57:00,533 Well, don't try. 879 00:57:00,633 --> 00:57:02,867 Come on, let's go. 880 00:57:02,967 --> 00:57:04,467 I want to suck your cock. 881 00:57:04,567 --> 00:57:05,600 Jesus, Mark. 882 00:57:05,700 --> 00:57:06,767 How can you say that? 883 00:57:06,867 --> 00:57:08,433 You said you missed me, didn't you? 884 00:57:08,533 --> 00:57:09,967 But how do you expect me to forget 885 00:57:10,067 --> 00:57:11,933 what's happened between us? 886 00:57:12,033 --> 00:57:13,633 You think I'm just a trick you can pick up 887 00:57:13,733 --> 00:57:14,967 and ball and then ask to leave? 888 00:57:15,067 --> 00:57:16,300 MARK: Oh, David, don't. 889 00:57:16,400 --> 00:57:18,933 Or you want me available when you're in the mood. 890 00:57:19,033 --> 00:57:21,567 How can you treat me like that? 891 00:57:21,667 --> 00:57:25,133 Look, David, I obviously have feelings for you. 892 00:57:25,233 --> 00:57:27,367 Do you think I'd be here if I didn't? 893 00:57:27,467 --> 00:57:29,733 Now, let's not try to solve all our problems in one 894 00:57:29,833 --> 00:57:32,467 afternoon, OK? 895 00:57:32,567 --> 00:57:36,000 Look, the point is now I want to go to bed with you. 896 00:57:36,100 --> 00:57:37,533 Do you want to go to bed with me? 897 00:57:53,267 --> 00:57:55,767 We were together Sunday for the first time in almost a month. 898 00:57:58,633 --> 00:58:00,767 He asked me to stay over. 899 00:58:04,367 --> 00:58:08,333 I didn't want to, but I missed him. 900 00:58:11,167 --> 00:58:13,200 David, you're looking for trouble. 901 00:58:21,867 --> 00:58:22,767 All we could do is reminisce. 902 00:58:25,467 --> 00:58:27,667 We couldn't talk about the present, our feelings. 903 00:58:27,767 --> 00:58:29,133 It was damn awkward. 904 00:58:31,500 --> 00:58:33,867 Did you really expect things to change? 905 00:58:33,967 --> 00:58:36,333 I didn't know. 906 00:58:36,433 --> 00:58:38,700 I still think I love him, Alan. 907 00:58:38,800 --> 00:58:42,033 He still turns me on. 908 00:58:42,133 --> 00:58:45,033 But things weren't the same in bed. 909 00:58:45,133 --> 00:58:46,433 What do you mean? 910 00:58:46,533 --> 00:58:49,967 DAVID: I felt as if I were being tested. 911 00:58:50,067 --> 00:58:51,233 Being used. 912 00:58:51,333 --> 00:58:52,767 I felt like an object in an experiment. 913 00:58:55,367 --> 00:58:57,700 It was almost as though he were trying to figure 914 00:58:57,800 --> 00:59:01,100 out if he were over me yet. 915 00:59:01,200 --> 00:59:03,233 Yeah, well, that sounds like Mark. 916 00:59:06,433 --> 00:59:07,300 [girl yelps] 917 00:59:07,400 --> 00:59:08,300 Oh! 918 00:59:08,400 --> 00:59:11,567 I'll get it. [laughs] Hi. 919 00:59:11,667 --> 00:59:12,967 What's your name? 920 00:59:13,067 --> 00:59:14,900 You have a cute daughter. 921 00:59:15,000 --> 00:59:17,167 Thank you. 922 00:59:17,267 --> 00:59:18,900 Did you thank the man for the ball? 923 00:59:19,000 --> 00:59:20,900 Daddy gave it to me. 924 00:59:21,000 --> 00:59:22,467 [whistles] 925 00:59:27,933 --> 00:59:28,867 GIRL: Bye-bye. 926 00:59:28,967 --> 00:59:29,700 Bye. 927 00:59:29,800 --> 00:59:30,533 ALAN: Bye-bye. 928 00:59:32,700 --> 00:59:33,433 Bye. 929 00:59:33,533 --> 00:59:34,533 Bye. 930 00:59:34,633 --> 00:59:35,433 ALAN: (POINTEDLY) Bye-bye. 931 00:59:38,300 --> 00:59:40,367 What do you make of him? 932 00:59:40,467 --> 00:59:42,733 I'd love to. 933 00:59:42,833 --> 00:59:43,733 [laughter] 934 00:59:45,633 --> 00:59:48,267 ALAN (VOICEOVER): Why don't you try the baths? 935 00:59:48,367 --> 00:59:50,233 DAVID (VOICEOVER): I don't think I'd like that. 936 00:59:50,333 --> 00:59:53,033 ALAN (VOICEOVER): Oh, David, you take everything so seriously. 937 00:59:53,133 --> 00:59:54,267 Go ahead. 938 00:59:54,367 --> 00:59:55,600 It'll take your mind off your troubles. 939 01:00:20,667 --> 01:00:23,133 [heavy breathing] 940 01:00:29,433 --> 01:00:33,133 [rhythmic sighing and moaning] 941 01:00:38,000 --> 01:00:40,500 [eerie music playing] 942 01:00:46,000 --> 01:00:48,500 [skin slapping skin] 943 01:02:30,133 --> 01:02:33,233 [subway train roaring on tracks] 944 01:02:40,667 --> 01:02:42,533 [brakes squealing] 945 01:03:00,900 --> 01:03:03,400 [kids shouting and playing] 946 01:03:37,533 --> 01:03:38,667 A! CROWD: A! 947 01:03:38,767 --> 01:03:39,667 O! 948 01:03:39,767 --> 01:03:40,667 CROWD: O! 949 01:03:40,767 --> 01:03:41,633 W! 950 01:03:41,733 --> 01:03:42,467 CROWD: W! 951 01:03:43,433 --> 01:03:45,167 [drumming] 952 01:03:46,100 --> 01:03:49,067 [crowd chanting indistinctly] 953 01:04:17,767 --> 01:04:19,833 My feelings about gay pride? 954 01:04:19,933 --> 01:04:21,067 I'm quite proud of myself. 955 01:04:21,167 --> 01:04:22,500 Well, not proud. 956 01:04:22,600 --> 01:04:25,233 I'm very accepting of myself and other gay people. 957 01:04:25,333 --> 01:04:27,433 I'm bisexual myself, and you know, 958 01:04:27,533 --> 01:04:30,200 I think everybody should be able to let live and do as they see 959 01:04:30,300 --> 01:04:31,833 fit in their own sexual life. 960 01:04:31,933 --> 01:04:35,967 This means that we can walk the streets as ourselves, 961 01:04:36,067 --> 01:04:38,700 and not be harassed by anybody, and be ourselves. 962 01:04:38,800 --> 01:04:40,467 Be proud to be ourselves. 963 01:04:40,567 --> 01:04:41,467 CAMERAMAN: Thank you. 964 01:04:41,567 --> 01:04:42,433 You're welcome. 965 01:04:42,533 --> 01:04:45,167 [bagpipes playing] 966 01:04:45,267 --> 01:04:46,733 [horse whinnies] 967 01:04:48,100 --> 01:04:49,600 MAN (VOICEOVER): Just exchange the word 968 01:04:49,700 --> 01:04:52,267 "faggot" for "nigger," "kike, or "cunt" at the appropriate time. 969 01:04:52,367 --> 01:04:54,333 It's all part of the same mentality. 970 01:04:54,433 --> 01:04:58,933 It's an inability to cope with human diversity. 971 01:04:59,033 --> 01:05:01,433 MAN (VOICEOVER): Its' a pretty fucked up society when the Army 972 01:05:01,533 --> 01:05:03,367 gives me a medal for killing a man 973 01:05:03,467 --> 01:05:06,667 and a dishonorable discharge for loving one. 974 01:05:06,767 --> 01:05:09,000 MAN (VOICEOVER): I think we need a radically new definition of 975 01:05:09,100 --> 01:05:10,567 what it means to be masculine. 976 01:05:26,100 --> 01:05:27,333 MAN (VOICEOVER): Well, I think gay people 977 01:05:27,433 --> 01:05:30,233 may well be performing an historic function. 978 01:05:30,333 --> 01:05:32,533 I mean in the sense that they're undermining 979 01:05:32,633 --> 01:05:34,433 the ridiculous notion in our society 980 01:05:34,533 --> 01:05:36,933 that you should only have sex with one person, 981 01:05:37,033 --> 01:05:38,900 and that's the person you're married to. 982 01:05:39,000 --> 01:05:40,200 WOMAN (VOICEOVER): The public always 983 01:05:40,300 --> 01:05:42,667 goes looking for role-playing, who's dominant 984 01:05:42,767 --> 01:05:43,867 and who's submissive. 985 01:05:43,967 --> 01:05:45,233 The great thing about gay relationship 986 01:05:45,333 --> 01:05:46,767 is that you both come into a relationship 987 01:05:46,867 --> 01:05:50,733 as two equal human beings. 988 01:05:50,833 --> 01:05:53,200 MAN (VOICEOVER): For me, being gay means not limiting 989 01:05:53,300 --> 01:05:55,400 my feelings to one person. 990 01:05:55,500 --> 01:05:58,333 But it's also not being afraid to commit my feelings 991 01:05:58,433 --> 01:06:01,800 to one person many times over. 992 01:06:01,900 --> 01:06:04,367 [crowd chanting] 993 01:06:21,667 --> 01:06:24,833 There definitely is a need for the homosexual to be free 994 01:06:24,933 --> 01:06:26,567 in what he does or what he does in bed. 995 01:06:26,667 --> 01:06:28,600 But I don't think it's something that should 996 01:06:28,700 --> 01:06:31,067 be having to be protested. 997 01:06:31,167 --> 01:06:32,500 I think it should just come very natural. 998 01:06:32,600 --> 01:06:35,367 It's an innate part of you, something to appreciate. 999 01:06:35,467 --> 01:06:37,533 We preach in our church that people should 1000 01:06:37,633 --> 01:06:39,767 be proud of themselves, proud of being 1001 01:06:39,867 --> 01:06:41,267 gay in all parts of their life. 1002 01:06:41,367 --> 01:06:44,400 And being gay is good, so one should be proud of it. 1003 01:06:44,500 --> 01:06:46,333 Uh, being able to live your life. 1004 01:06:46,433 --> 01:06:47,767 Live it the way you see it. 1005 01:06:47,867 --> 01:06:51,333 Uh, not being ashamed of loving one of your own sex. 1006 01:06:51,433 --> 01:06:54,500 It means that I'm very proud of my son 1007 01:06:54,600 --> 01:06:57,067 and that I want to fight all ignorance 1008 01:06:57,167 --> 01:07:00,467 and bigotry for all gay people. 1009 01:07:00,567 --> 01:07:02,433 [cheering] 1010 01:07:04,267 --> 01:07:07,467 MAN (ON LOUDSPEAKER): Belzec, Pilsen, Auschwitz, Buchenwald, 1011 01:07:07,567 --> 01:07:09,300 in which a million of our brothers and sisters 1012 01:07:09,400 --> 01:07:11,867 were scooped up off the streets of Europe 1013 01:07:11,967 --> 01:07:15,033 and taken to that place and there submitted 1014 01:07:15,133 --> 01:07:18,167 to the ultimate solution to gayness-- incinerated 1015 01:07:18,267 --> 01:07:20,633 and turned into soap. 1016 01:07:20,733 --> 01:07:22,200 Never again. 1017 01:07:22,300 --> 01:07:26,800 Never again, will we allow this to happen. 1018 01:07:26,900 --> 01:07:28,733 [cheering] 1019 01:07:38,833 --> 01:07:41,467 It means getting out and making the people realize that all 1020 01:07:41,567 --> 01:07:43,200 these years, they've been wrong about what 1021 01:07:43,300 --> 01:07:44,600 they've been thinking about us. -It was a celebration. 1022 01:07:44,700 --> 01:07:46,567 You know, not so much a political thing. 1023 01:07:46,667 --> 01:07:48,133 I'm not very political. 1024 01:07:48,233 --> 01:07:52,367 But for me, it was a celebration of just who I am. 1025 01:07:52,467 --> 01:07:55,467 And being with other gay people. 1026 01:07:55,567 --> 01:07:56,400 I don't know. 1027 01:07:56,500 --> 01:07:57,900 All I know is I'm gay and I proud. 1028 01:07:58,000 --> 01:08:00,333 And I worked for it, and I'll continue to work 1029 01:08:00,433 --> 01:08:02,267 for it until the day I die. 1030 01:08:02,367 --> 01:08:04,300 And I have no qualms about it. 1031 01:08:04,400 --> 01:08:06,467 And if anybody wants to fight me about it, 1032 01:08:06,567 --> 01:08:10,400 these may not be too big, but I got big shoes. 1033 01:08:10,500 --> 01:08:11,733 I don't know. 1034 01:08:11,833 --> 01:08:14,200 It just means that I'm glad to be what I am-- a lesbian. 1035 01:08:14,300 --> 01:08:15,967 I think it's important that we all came out today, 1036 01:08:16,067 --> 01:08:17,500 and I'm glad that I came out today, 1037 01:08:17,600 --> 01:08:20,033 even though it's going to be on film all over 1038 01:08:20,133 --> 01:08:21,567 wherever it's going to be. 1039 01:08:21,667 --> 01:08:22,400 Let 'em see. 1040 01:08:22,500 --> 01:08:23,233 I'm out. 1041 01:08:28,467 --> 01:08:30,167 [laughter] 1042 01:08:30,267 --> 01:08:32,733 [WOMAN SPEAKING INDISTINCTLY ON LOUDSPEAKER] 1043 01:08:43,133 --> 01:08:45,600 [crowd chanting] 1044 01:08:51,033 --> 01:08:53,367 This the first march you've been on? 1045 01:08:53,467 --> 01:08:55,000 Actually, I was just watching. 1046 01:08:55,100 --> 01:08:56,000 I wasn't really in the march. 1047 01:08:56,100 --> 01:08:58,100 I just happened by. 1048 01:08:58,200 --> 01:09:00,667 You sound apologetic? 1049 01:09:00,767 --> 01:09:01,900 Not really. 1050 01:09:02,000 --> 01:09:03,367 I'm just not a very political person. 1051 01:09:03,467 --> 01:09:05,633 I was very hung-up with ideology at one point in my life, 1052 01:09:05,733 --> 01:09:08,333 so now I'm pretty skeptical about causes or soapboxes. 1053 01:09:08,433 --> 01:09:11,200 And that's what you think this is all about? 1054 01:09:11,300 --> 01:09:12,800 I don't say I'm against it. 1055 01:09:12,900 --> 01:09:13,633 Just skeptical. 1056 01:09:16,533 --> 01:09:20,133 I just never knew enough about it to become involved with it. 1057 01:09:20,233 --> 01:09:22,433 I never felt I had to advertise my homosexuality. 1058 01:09:22,533 --> 01:09:23,767 I don't go out of my way to conceal 1059 01:09:23,867 --> 01:09:25,133 it, except perhaps at work, where I 1060 01:09:25,233 --> 01:09:27,933 keep my social life to myself. 1061 01:09:28,033 --> 01:09:32,067 There's a lot of people who think like that. 1062 01:09:32,167 --> 01:09:34,200 I'm just not so sure that marching down Seventh Avenue 1063 01:09:34,300 --> 01:09:36,133 shouting, "Gay is good!" is going to change the way 1064 01:09:36,233 --> 01:09:38,200 straight people feel about us. 1065 01:09:38,300 --> 01:09:40,133 You can't say that shutting up about it 1066 01:09:40,233 --> 01:09:41,567 has done much good, either. 1067 01:09:41,667 --> 01:09:44,167 It doesn't matter to me whether they like us or not. 1068 01:09:44,267 --> 01:09:45,967 I just simply think that gay people ought 1069 01:09:46,067 --> 01:09:48,200 to have their rights, too. 1070 01:09:48,300 --> 01:09:50,600 Sometimes you've got to make noise and organize 1071 01:09:50,700 --> 01:09:52,033 to get things changed. 1072 01:09:52,133 --> 01:09:55,367 To me, I guess that's what this march is all about. 1073 01:09:55,467 --> 01:09:57,967 I don't believe that coming out for one day a year 1074 01:09:58,067 --> 01:09:59,333 is going to liberate these people 1075 01:09:59,433 --> 01:10:01,667 or change the system that much. 1076 01:10:01,767 --> 01:10:03,400 I mean, how many of these people who marched today 1077 01:10:03,500 --> 01:10:05,000 will go back in their closets tomorrow, 1078 01:10:05,100 --> 01:10:09,167 afraid to even talk about it? 1079 01:10:09,267 --> 01:10:10,533 You're probably right. 1080 01:10:10,633 --> 01:10:11,500 Some of them. 1081 01:10:11,600 --> 01:10:14,200 I'm a teacher, right? 1082 01:10:14,300 --> 01:10:16,467 Being-- well, letting people at work 1083 01:10:16,567 --> 01:10:18,233 know that I'm gay would complicate 1084 01:10:18,333 --> 01:10:20,067 things, to say the least. 1085 01:10:20,167 --> 01:10:22,233 And does coming out mean I tell the kids, too? 1086 01:10:24,900 --> 01:10:26,167 I enjoy my work. 1087 01:10:26,267 --> 01:10:28,367 Being completely honest about my personal life 1088 01:10:28,467 --> 01:10:31,167 would jeopardize my professional life. 1089 01:10:31,267 --> 01:10:32,700 Whether I like it or not, that's the way 1090 01:10:32,800 --> 01:10:36,400 it is-- for me, and for many of these people, too. 1091 01:10:36,500 --> 01:10:40,433 I mean, we can't always be as honest as we'd like. 1092 01:10:40,533 --> 01:10:41,933 But that's exactly what this march is 1093 01:10:42,033 --> 01:10:43,067 trying to do something about. 1094 01:10:43,167 --> 01:10:44,600 I mean, yeah, I know you're right. 1095 01:10:44,700 --> 01:10:47,800 The way that society is now, there are certain people 1096 01:10:47,900 --> 01:10:49,267 that can't afford to march. 1097 01:10:49,367 --> 01:10:53,267 So those who can do it on behalf of those who can't, 1098 01:10:53,367 --> 01:10:55,433 that in hopes that someday, there'll be no need 1099 01:10:55,533 --> 01:10:57,867 to demonstrate the right to make love to anybody 1100 01:10:57,967 --> 01:11:00,800 you want, any way you want. 1101 01:11:00,900 --> 01:11:03,733 Well, you gotta start somewhere. 1102 01:11:03,833 --> 01:11:04,733 I suppose. 1103 01:11:08,400 --> 01:11:10,067 [laughter] 1104 01:11:10,167 --> 01:11:12,033 Really got carried away. 1105 01:11:12,133 --> 01:11:13,633 DAVID: Yeah, we're really into it. 1106 01:11:29,000 --> 01:11:30,800 How long have you been living here? 1107 01:11:30,900 --> 01:11:32,400 Just about a year. 1108 01:11:35,267 --> 01:11:37,733 I guess I've been too busy surviving and putting 1109 01:11:37,833 --> 01:11:40,400 myself back together after Mark to take on the world's problems 1110 01:11:40,500 --> 01:11:41,267 yet. 1111 01:11:43,367 --> 01:11:45,333 Liberating myself's the most important thing for me 1112 01:11:45,433 --> 01:11:46,633 right now. 1113 01:11:46,733 --> 01:11:47,833 JASON: Well, that's really all part of the same thing, 1114 01:11:47,933 --> 01:11:49,500 isn't it? 1115 01:11:49,600 --> 01:11:50,333 Maybe. 1116 01:11:56,100 --> 01:11:58,733 Been separated for almost a year now. 1117 01:11:58,833 --> 01:12:02,033 The divorce will be final in a couple of months. 1118 01:12:02,133 --> 01:12:04,800 How long were you married? 1119 01:12:04,900 --> 01:12:06,900 Two years. 1120 01:12:07,000 --> 01:12:11,033 Wife, kid, duplex apartment-- the whole bit. 1121 01:12:11,133 --> 01:12:12,567 And we get along better now that we're 1122 01:12:12,667 --> 01:12:15,867 separated than we ever did when we were living together. 1123 01:12:15,967 --> 01:12:17,967 Guess you could sort of say, uh, we're more 1124 01:12:18,067 --> 01:12:22,267 reasonable with one another. 1125 01:12:22,367 --> 01:12:23,600 Marriage. 1126 01:12:23,700 --> 01:12:28,067 Why do people bother to get married in the first place? 1127 01:12:28,167 --> 01:12:29,333 Why did you get married? 1128 01:12:29,433 --> 01:12:33,000 I keep going through changes. 1129 01:12:33,100 --> 01:12:36,533 She said I-- I know myself better now. 1130 01:12:36,633 --> 01:12:37,900 And you? 1131 01:12:38,000 --> 01:12:41,733 I mean, do you ever see the guy that you were living with? 1132 01:12:41,833 --> 01:12:43,467 No, not anymore. 1133 01:12:43,567 --> 01:12:46,933 We were seeing each other for a while, 1134 01:12:47,033 --> 01:12:51,033 but we kept looking for things that I guess just 1135 01:12:51,133 --> 01:12:52,067 weren't there. 1136 01:12:54,667 --> 01:12:56,667 It's over now. 1137 01:12:56,767 --> 01:13:00,633 And I'm not as depressed and desperate anymore. 1138 01:13:00,733 --> 01:13:01,600 I'm desperate. 1139 01:13:04,967 --> 01:13:06,133 For your body. 1140 01:13:06,233 --> 01:13:08,300 I've been hot for you all day. 1141 01:13:08,400 --> 01:13:08,933 Oh? 1142 01:13:09,033 --> 01:13:10,233 I hadn't noticed. 1143 01:13:10,333 --> 01:13:11,533 I thought we were just coming back here to, 1144 01:13:11,633 --> 01:13:12,900 uh, have something to eat. 1145 01:13:13,000 --> 01:13:14,500 JASON: That's what I need. 1146 01:13:14,600 --> 01:13:15,500 I'm starved. 1147 01:13:23,567 --> 01:13:24,867 [kid shouting] 1148 01:13:24,967 --> 01:13:27,067 [laughter] 1149 01:13:36,333 --> 01:13:37,200 JASON'S EX-WIFE: Oh, jeez. 1150 01:13:37,300 --> 01:13:40,200 What are you doing? 1151 01:13:40,300 --> 01:13:43,933 JASON: Let me see your thumb. 1152 01:13:44,033 --> 01:13:44,833 JASON'S EX-WIFE: OK. 1153 01:13:44,933 --> 01:13:46,767 I'll hold on to this. 1154 01:13:46,867 --> 01:13:48,367 You want to run over here? 1155 01:13:52,667 --> 01:13:57,333 Well, school will be open in a couple of weeks. 1156 01:13:57,433 --> 01:13:58,733 Then what? 1157 01:13:58,833 --> 01:14:02,833 I've kind of been neglecting PJ. 1158 01:14:02,933 --> 01:14:05,900 My mom and dad have been more parents to him than I have, 1159 01:14:06,000 --> 01:14:07,867 babysitting, you know? 1160 01:14:07,967 --> 01:14:10,967 I really have to spend more time with him. 1161 01:14:11,067 --> 01:14:13,967 Anyway, I'll have my degree by February, 1162 01:14:14,067 --> 01:14:15,633 and my friend Anne says that she's 1163 01:14:15,733 --> 01:14:18,933 going to keep her eyes open in case a job opens up at school. 1164 01:14:19,033 --> 01:14:21,700 It's pretty hard finding a job in the middle of the semester, 1165 01:14:21,800 --> 01:14:22,967 isn't it? 1166 01:14:23,067 --> 01:14:26,033 Yeah, but Anne says that someone usually 1167 01:14:26,133 --> 01:14:29,033 gets pregnant and has to leave. 1168 01:14:29,133 --> 01:14:30,400 So maybe I'll get lucky. 1169 01:14:30,500 --> 01:14:31,433 And get pregnant? 1170 01:14:31,533 --> 01:14:33,300 [both laugh] 1171 01:14:35,100 --> 01:14:36,733 Look, I'm-- I'm covering a concert 1172 01:14:36,833 --> 01:14:38,000 at Madison Square Friday night. 1173 01:14:38,100 --> 01:14:39,333 Do you want to go with me? 1174 01:14:39,433 --> 01:14:42,267 Does that mean I have to carry your equipment? 1175 01:14:42,367 --> 01:14:46,533 Well, maybe just a couple of cameras. 1176 01:14:46,633 --> 01:14:48,667 Sounds like old times. 1177 01:14:48,767 --> 01:14:51,933 Say, since we're extending invitations to each other, 1178 01:14:52,033 --> 01:14:54,733 I was wondering if maybe you'd like to spend Labor Day weekend 1179 01:14:54,833 --> 01:14:58,067 with us in the Hamptons. 1180 01:14:58,167 --> 01:14:59,867 It would be great for PJ. 1181 01:14:59,967 --> 01:15:03,633 And-- well, it was my folks' idea. 1182 01:15:03,733 --> 01:15:06,000 They'd really like to see you. 1183 01:15:06,100 --> 01:15:07,100 Look, I've made other plans. 1184 01:15:07,200 --> 01:15:08,433 I'm going to the Cape. 1185 01:15:08,533 --> 01:15:10,267 JASON'S EX-WIFE: Can't you change your plans? 1186 01:15:13,633 --> 01:15:15,067 I'm going with somebody. 1187 01:15:18,800 --> 01:15:20,233 Look, you'd like him. 1188 01:15:20,333 --> 01:15:24,067 He's got eyes like you. 1189 01:15:24,167 --> 01:15:26,267 No, not exactly like yours. 1190 01:15:29,533 --> 01:15:32,000 You know, I can really talk to him? 1191 01:15:34,900 --> 01:15:37,000 He likes Emily Dickinson. 1192 01:15:43,867 --> 01:15:45,767 I'm happy for you, Jason. 1193 01:16:19,133 --> 01:16:21,600 [rain pouring down] 1194 01:17:20,267 --> 01:17:22,367 [foghorn blows in distance] 1195 01:17:25,433 --> 01:17:27,067 DAVID: (LAUGHING) What are you doing? 1196 01:17:27,167 --> 01:17:29,133 I'm making the best of our situation. 1197 01:17:29,233 --> 01:17:29,967 Do you believe it? 1198 01:17:30,067 --> 01:17:31,900 Three days of rain? 1199 01:17:32,000 --> 01:17:34,067 [shutter clicking] 1200 01:17:34,967 --> 01:17:36,533 Say cheese. 1201 01:17:36,633 --> 01:17:37,367 Cheese. 1202 01:17:41,700 --> 01:17:42,533 [click] 1203 01:17:42,633 --> 01:17:43,367 Fromage. 1204 01:17:46,600 --> 01:17:47,500 Provolone. 1205 01:17:47,600 --> 01:17:48,833 Say I love you. 1206 01:17:48,933 --> 01:17:50,733 Ah, I love you. 1207 01:17:50,833 --> 01:17:53,133 JASON: I need you? 1208 01:17:53,233 --> 01:17:54,667 DAVID: I need you. 1209 01:17:57,667 --> 01:17:58,900 [click] 1210 01:17:59,000 --> 01:18:01,233 And that you absolutely cannot live without me. 1211 01:18:01,333 --> 01:18:04,833 --[laughs] I absolutely cannot live without you. 1212 01:18:04,933 --> 01:18:06,000 [click] 1213 01:18:07,833 --> 01:18:10,067 Then why don't we live together? 1214 01:18:10,167 --> 01:18:11,733 DAVID: Then why don't we live together? 1215 01:18:11,833 --> 01:18:13,867 I didn't think you'd ever ask me. 1216 01:18:13,967 --> 01:18:15,267 DAVID: But I didn't. 1217 01:18:15,367 --> 01:18:18,600 Have you thought about it? 1218 01:18:18,700 --> 01:18:21,300 Of course I have, believe me. 1219 01:18:21,400 --> 01:18:25,800 But I'm very wary of putting myself in that position again. 1220 01:18:25,900 --> 01:18:28,333 I'm not as aware of who I am yet as I'd like to be, 1221 01:18:28,433 --> 01:18:31,633 at least before I live with someone again. 1222 01:18:31,733 --> 01:18:33,967 Can't we work at that together? 1223 01:18:34,067 --> 01:18:36,467 We do, Jason. 1224 01:18:36,567 --> 01:18:38,567 But we don't have to live together to do that. 1225 01:18:42,567 --> 01:18:44,800 Now we're spending all of our time together, 1226 01:18:44,900 --> 01:18:47,133 and that's because we want to. 1227 01:18:47,233 --> 01:18:50,133 You want to, and I want to. 1228 01:18:50,233 --> 01:18:52,100 But somehow when two people live together, "want to" 1229 01:18:52,200 --> 01:18:54,267 gets mixed up with "have to." 1230 01:18:54,367 --> 01:18:56,433 I don't want you to ever have to do anything for me, 1231 01:18:56,533 --> 01:18:59,333 and I don't ever want to have to do anything for you. 1232 01:18:59,433 --> 01:19:02,533 For now, let's just enjoy wanting to be together. 1233 01:19:02,633 --> 01:19:04,200 David, what you're trying to tell me 1234 01:19:04,300 --> 01:19:06,900 is that you're afraid of commitment. 1235 01:19:07,000 --> 01:19:08,933 I am committed to you, Jason, but not probably 1236 01:19:09,033 --> 01:19:10,733 the way you want me to be. 1237 01:19:18,600 --> 01:19:21,133 Look, Jason, after Mark, I thought I would never want 1238 01:19:21,233 --> 01:19:24,433 to live with anyone ever again. 1239 01:19:24,533 --> 01:19:26,267 And yet when I met him for the first time, 1240 01:19:26,367 --> 01:19:28,333 I was as much in love with him and involved with him 1241 01:19:28,433 --> 01:19:30,567 as I believe we are with each other. 1242 01:19:33,933 --> 01:19:37,567 [sigh] But I pushed it. 1243 01:19:37,667 --> 01:19:40,067 And we moved in together, and then a year and a half 1244 01:19:40,167 --> 01:19:42,267 later, we don't even see each other. 1245 01:19:42,367 --> 01:19:45,800 I can look back and say, OK, I was wrong. 1246 01:19:45,900 --> 01:19:50,067 And that's good, because I don't waste any time longing for him. 1247 01:19:50,167 --> 01:19:53,167 And I can start looking for someone else. 1248 01:19:56,733 --> 01:19:59,367 But I don't want to do that for the rest of my life, either. 1249 01:19:59,467 --> 01:20:02,833 You can end up searching for Mr. Right for as long 1250 01:20:02,933 --> 01:20:04,400 as you live. 1251 01:20:19,367 --> 01:20:24,833 Look, I know that what I'm asking for, 1252 01:20:24,933 --> 01:20:27,600 very few people could give me. 1253 01:20:27,700 --> 01:20:29,433 But I believe there are people. 1254 01:20:45,767 --> 01:20:46,500 OK. 1255 01:20:49,600 --> 01:20:51,900 Say, I love you. 1256 01:20:52,000 --> 01:20:52,733 [click] 1257 01:20:55,600 --> 01:20:58,767 [music playing] 81987

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