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We're going to start the shoot now.
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Anybody needs Viagra?
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Here we shoot two or three
times per week, bukkakes.
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Are you allowed to shoot
porn on the beach?
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In Spain when we are
finished, they applaud.
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LAUGHTER
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Do you think this is realistic?
Yeah, this is more realistic.
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You think this is realistic sex?
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The point where I got up was
when some of the girls overdosed.
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Have you ever been offered
a lot of money from a fan
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to have sex with you?
Yeah, of course.
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You're the only woman.
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And I'm just worried about you.
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It's OK.
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OK? Don't worry. Yeah.
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I love you. Thank you.
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Porn is such a taboo subject
and I think it really needs talking
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about, especially in
the younger generation.
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A lot of our sex education
has come from porn,
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because I didn't really have a good
sex education at school.
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It was just "get a banana, put
a condom on it, that's it."
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I think it's hard to talk
about an industry which you only
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know, sort of, what
the media tells you.
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Actually seeing this industry
live in the flesh,
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I want to see all sides of it.
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The good bits and the bad bits.
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How lovely. This is nice. Ambient.
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My generation have really grown up
with porn since we were, like,
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10, 11 years old.
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And I think that exploring
how that affects young people
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is really interesting.
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So, I watch of lot of
different types of porn.
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Like, spanking porn,
I just, like, get off to
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a gay video, for example.
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Growing up, if I watched a gay porn
video I would then straight away
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make myself watch a straight video.
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Because at the time I was feeling
guilty for liking those videos,
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and it took me a really long time to
realise that once you accept
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yourself and love yourself,
then you can happily watch whatever
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porn video you want.
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Do you feel like it affects
you in, like, real sex
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situations at all?
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It definitely makes me want to
pursue stuff like that in the
bedroom. Mmm.
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I'm at a stage now whereby, like, I
know myself, I know my sexuality,
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I know I'm not gay, like, I'm
sexually fluid.
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So, I haven't watched porn
for about three years.
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I didn't have any sexual experiences
until the age of 16,
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even a kiss. I'd only had porn.
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Almost every day from
the age of 12 to 15.
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So, my entire bodily reaction to any
arousal was triggered by porn.
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You don't hear the side of it from
women who are affected by that
as well.
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Yeah, there's not. That's really
interesting. I never knew that.
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Yeah, well, I also,
when I was googling, didn't find
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that many, but there
are some as well.
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There are women who also have the
physical effects of watching porn.
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The current mass production of porn
made by men, for men, using women
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as collateral is harmful.
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It completely permeates our
society, I would say.
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So, I think it does
impact on everything.
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I thought that I would not
get on with a feminist.
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But after her speaking
about how she feels on some things
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in the porn industry,
it was interesting.
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I don't 100% agree with her,
but I kind of get
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where she's coming from.
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I've kind of become not addicted,
but more watching porn, like, every,
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like, couple days, maybe every day.
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It's definitely not a good thing,
cos it's made my expectation
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for normal girls to be sky-high.
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I do watch porn on, like,
a semi-regular basis.
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But I have no kind of, I'd say,
like an emotional attachment to it.
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Any particular genres
tickle your fancy?
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I kind of, like, delve
into lesbian a little bit.
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And purely because I find
it a little bit
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more visually stimulating.
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I've always thought
that porn and sex are two
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completely different things.
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So, I wouldn't kind of look at porn
and think "Oh, that's what I should
be doing."
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I've had threesomes with girls,
I've had threesomes with one girl,
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one boy, I've done that,
I like to experiment.
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I want to be who I am today.
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I want to find my voice,
without porn, if anything.
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So, I grew up in care.
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And then I got abused in care
up to the age of 17.
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I've gone through the counselling,
I've been though the wars.
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It kind of made me feel like men
had this hierarchy,
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you're just supposed
to do what they say.
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Since I've started exploring porn
and exploring my body, I've learned
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that that is not the case.
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That's why porn for me I think is,
it's what gave me back my voice.
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I don't have to watch it every day,
but I know it's there for me.
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I'm really proud of Nariece.
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I think it took a lot of courage
and bravery to speak to
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five strangers about what
you've been through.
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Especially when you've been through
something as heartbreaking
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and traumatising as abuse.
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She struggled a lot, clearly,
and I think now she's sort of come
out the other side.
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So, today we've got
a neurologist coming from LA.
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And she's going to be kind of
delving into the world of arousal
with us.
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I've always been very
interested in the brain,
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neuroscience side of porn.
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She is going to do some scientific
tests on us about arousal
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in relation to porn.
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I'm Nicole Prause.
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And I'm hoping to look at kind
of how your brain responds
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to different types of pornography.
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So, today we're hoping
to do a couple of tests.
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The thing I'd like to test
is to show you a variety
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of relatively short, like,
two-minute film clips of different
sexual acts,
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and see, kind of, how your brain
and body respond to those.
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So, I'll ask you, like, how sexually
aroused you feel,
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and then I'd see how that
mapped up or failed to map up
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with what your body responded.
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So, do we have any volunteers?
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I'm happy to participate.
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I'd be interested to see
what results are found.
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I feel like I need to do it.
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Excellent.
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First I'm going to run through
a little demonstration with you.
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I want to see if you feel
you've been influenced having viewed
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sex films on your
perception of the body.
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Right, so, I would like you to
take a look at our models.
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Oh, wow.
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So, which of these do
you think is the average
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represented in pornography?
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Wait, is this is flaccid or erect?
Erect, yeah.
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So, average size erect man.
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Is that even, like, normal?
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NICOLE LAUGHS
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It's possible.
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I think this is the average penis
size, and this is like the porn
star penis size?
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That one. So, I think this is
probably the average porn penis.
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I'd say this one is the average
porn star penis.
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I think you guys are thinking
that everyone in porn
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has a big willy.
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We don't actually know
what the average size
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is as performers,
but we have an idea
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of what the average size guy is.
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That happens to be this. Ah.
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So, average size we think
is about five inches,
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around six inches long.
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There's a question in pornography
when you see these unusual sizes
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or atypical bodies,
how much you realise
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that you're looking at a fantasy.
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And I think you are all able to say,
like, "Oh, yeah, well, porn is
bigger but that's not
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"the normal guy."
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So, how do you think viewing
pornography has influenced,
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if it has, your body perception?
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I think I've always sort of known
that within pornography penises
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are generally larger.
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Obviously, looking at females
represented in porn, you sort of
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have unrealistic expectations
of how girls' bodies are.
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I think as a woman there's
not very much variation
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in vaginas in pornography.
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And I think that actually a lot
of girls grow up and feel
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like their vagina isn't normal.
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I think that that's where I got
my first expectation,
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that I needed to shave all my pubes
off, was from watching porn.
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OK, interesting.
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Right, I think we're done here.
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So, why don't we go see how the
brain responds to pornography
directly?
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DREW EXHALES
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Good luck. I can do this, guys.
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THEY LAUGH
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So, first we're going to get
the connection between
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this and your head.
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So, this measures brain waves,
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it's called electroencephalography,
or EEG.
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And it gets through the skull,
all the way to the outside
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of your head, then we can pick
it up, as electrical changes.
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Does it mess my hair up?
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It's definitely going to
mess your hair up. Oh, no.
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So, in addition to the headset
that you've already got on,
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we're going to add two measures.
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We're going to use galvanic skin
response. That's going to go on your
hand.
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And we're going to add a penile
response that goes around the shaft
of the penis.
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When you get more erect, it expands.
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And that's just a measure
of sexual arousal. OK.
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And for women, you have this inside.
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It basically shines light
out into the vagina,
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and as more blood comes into the
vaginal wall, it'll reflect more
light back to the instrument.
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We're going to be showing
you that series of films.
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After each film we'll ask you to
rate your sexual arousal level.
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So, I'll rate that myself?
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So, we'll be measuring
your physiology to tell us some
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of that information as well, but
then we're also interested in what
your impression is.
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So, I'm going to go ahead
and leave the room,
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shut the door, so you have
complete privacy in here.
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And the test should start in just a
minute. Cool, thank you.
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RECORDED VOICE: In this test we will
ask you to do several short tasks.
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A WOMAN MOANS
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Sit quietly with your eyes open.
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Are you dressed? Yeah, yeah, I'm
dressed. Come on in. OK.
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Did your head do OK?
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Yeah, it was all right. Yeah, I just
felt a little bit weird towards the
end,
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to see the gay porn, it, like,
freaked me out a little bit.
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How did it go?
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I didn't personally feel turned on.
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I wasn't getting, like,
a boner or anything.
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I felt, like, the same level
of arousal at most of them.
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OK.
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And it didn't seem to change very
much depending on the situation.
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So, going in there taking
the test was kind of, it took me a
little a bit aback,
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because, having things put
on my head, on my hands,
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especially having to put
something on my, like, penis.
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And I just thought
that was proper weird.
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It was the first time I've watched
porn for about seven
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or eight months.
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I think what's really
interesting for me
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is that just because you disagree
with something doesn't mean
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that you aren't aroused by it.
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Think we finished all our
testing for today,
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so I'm going to take off, analyse
those results and get back
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to you tomorrow.
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See you later. Bye.
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It's kind of weird that a third
party's going to analyse
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what gets me off and what doesn't.
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So, yeah, we shall see what happens.
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Meeting Doctor Nikki,
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I'd never thought about what a
normal penis is.
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And it's just kind of freaked
me out a little bit.
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So, today me and Drew are going to
go and meet a plastic surgeon.
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His main kind of thing that he does
is penis enlargements.
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Throughout this whole process,
I've kind of been drawing
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comparisons between porn and
society.
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And I think plastic surgery is a
really good, kind of, bridge for
those two worlds.
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And it'll be interesting to see
how people with issues of body
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confidence or body image are trying
to replicate those ideal body
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types through surgery.
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Do you think, like, watching a lot
of pornography would sort of make
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you want to have a bigger penis?
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Yeah, cos it's definitely a porn
thing.
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But especially if you're consuming
porn from early teenage, kind of,
years,
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maybe you looking at pornography
and seeing a big dick would make
you think that that's normal.
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Good afternoon. Dr Sanza. Hello.
Nice to meet you.
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Hi. Nice to meet you. Nice to
meet you. Nice to meet you. OK.
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We can go to the office.
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I want to see you with
another patient, OK?
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OK.
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So, Alex, what led you to go
to this length to change
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your penis size?
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Because I was watching pornography.
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And I saw these guys having very
large and thick, wide penis.
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And then I decided that I was going
to have a procedure.
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So, do you think porn's the main
influence for the reason you've got
it done?
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It's porn and watching everybody
else having bigger dicks than I do.
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So, as a doctor do you get more
women patients coming to you saying
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they want their vaginas altered?
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So, what happens next, then?
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Of course, yeah.
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So, how are you going
to enlarge Alex's testicles?
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So, just to be clear, he's going
to have four testicles?
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So, the current testicles will just
sort of sit higher and the bigger
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ones will be underneath? Yeah.
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Looking at your balls now,
I think they're quite big.
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So, what sort of made
you want to get your testicles
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bigger as well?
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Oh. So, it's just for the whole
package, really?
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You want everything bigger? Exactly.
Even it up. OK.
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May I ask how much this type
of procedure costs?
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10,000.
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Euro? Something like that. Euro.
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Yeah, yeah.
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So, Alex, how long is the operation,
and how long does it take
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you to recover?
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Almost three hours, I think.
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And the recovering, it's one month.
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Will you get erections, like,
as normal, or will it take
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a while for everything for
everything to kind of get working?
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I'm taking a medication which...
It avoids me to have an erection.
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So, do you avoid watching porn
and stuff like that?
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Yeah, I have to avoid watching
any kind of porn or having any
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kind of sexual contact with anybody.
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How are you going to survive?
A month's a long time with...
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I wish it could be less.
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Yes, I can imagine!
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Do you think you're going
to be squeamish? Yeah.
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What's going on at the moment?
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What are they doing to his stomach?
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Gross, man.
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So, that's the testicle?
Testicle, yeah?
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Si, si. This is madness.
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Oh, oh!
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Makes you squirm,
it's going to be like "bleurgh."
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Like, they're actually
skinning his penis.
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They're skinning his dick.
It's horrible.
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I just don't understand why
you'd put yourself through this.
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I'm getting out of here.
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It's just too much.
It's just too much crazy.
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Absolute crazy.
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Watching it, I just felt
like this is not normal,
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getting that done.
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And it made me feel a bit sad,
because I feel like porn
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has driven him into
these false thoughts of,
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"This is right."
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And actually standing there while
they're doing it, this is so wrong.
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Hello. Hi.
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We thought we'd come and check
up on you, see that you're OK.
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Yeah.
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Thank you very much.
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Are you in a lot of pain down there?
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I just felt kind of sad, really,
because Alex's penis was pretty
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average and pretty normal and not
something that needed
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to be meddled with.
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He's trying to find happiness
in cosmetic surgery to get something
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enlarged that doesn't
need to be large,
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which is ridiculous, because I feel
like porn, it's selling
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false dreams to people
and it's not fair.
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Nikki Prause is coming back
to the villa today to give us
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the results of the arousal tests
that we took part in.
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Hello, crew!
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Hi! Hi, Nikki.
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So, I have some results for you.
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I'm a bit nervous, because I don't
know what I'm going to see.
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I'm pretty scared
right now, to be fair.
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I think Ryan, in his head,
is definitely 100% sure
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what turns him on and what doesn't.
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He might find out today
that he's really into gay porn.
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So, I'll start with Drew.
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In the first test,
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you watched a series of erotic
films, one that was an image
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of a black couple having sex,
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another that was a heterosexual
couple,
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and then the final was
a homosexual male clip.
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So, we'll get to look a little bit
at how your brain responded
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to those different films as well.
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And I'll take a second
to orient you to this.
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This is called a spectrogram.
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Wherever there is light,
that means there's more power
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in that band at that time.
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So, the light equals
the more aroused?
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So, yeah.
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It's like the northern lights,
it's beautiful.
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Your arousal is so beautiful!
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So, from this, what would you say
mostly aroused Drew?
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Amongst all of these,
kind-of strongest sexual arousal
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ratings, he really likes
the black content.
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I do really like the black content.
Yeah.
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So, initially when the sexual film
comes on, essentially your brain
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is like, "Oh, what's that?"
"Oh, hello!" Yeah.
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Paying attention to that.
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But pretty quickly, like,
within the first minute,
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it starts to say, "Yeah, yeah."
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"Over it. Next!"
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You're bored. I was really into
the black couple having sex,
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but then it got to a point where I
was like, "Come on, switch it up,
move positions."
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Like, I got bored of it.
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And I think if I was watching
that in my, like, downtime,
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I'd click on another video.
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So, I think it just shows how,
sort of, disposable pornography is.
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Anna, shall we? Mm-hmm.
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So, we're going to do the same
thing, look at your spectrogram.
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How often do you watch
porn these days?
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That was the first time I've watched
porn for about eight months.
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What I think is remarkable
is you have a lot of activity
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throughout the entire session.
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Was it unusual that I was pretty
aroused for all of it across the
board?
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No. So, you show what's a classic
gender distinction in this respect.
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So, women have a low specificity
through a lot of research.
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And that is, you can show women
movies of monkeys having sex
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and they'll have somewhat
of a vaginal response, even to that.
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That's crazy.
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Ryan, you're up. You ready?
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Not really.
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So, I think the way
that you rated the films was,
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for example, that's feeling
more neutral about the first film,
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then the heterosexual, kind
of, more standard fare...
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Is this test telling us
what we're actually aroused by?
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Because I've never really watched,
say, like, erm, the two...
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The black lady and
the black man have sex.
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I've never really watched
that type of porn.
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There are a few things we might be
able to tell from it. Yeah.
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It could be sexually arousing,
it could be disgusting.
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Like, there could be a lot
of emotional things happening.
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So, Ryan, is it predominantly white
porn that you watch?
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It's rare that I watch the black
girls, cos I don't really...
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Why is that? I don't think
I'm into black girls.
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I just got a bad experience
with a black girl that I tried
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to date a few years back.
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You had a bad experience
with a mixed-race girl and now
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you feel that you couldn't
have any sexual relations
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with any girl that's black?
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Yeah, I just don't fancy
mixed-race or black girls.
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Based on one experience
with a black girl?
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Pretty much, yeah.
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That's really closed-minded, but OK.
Yeah.
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I'm not saying
that I dislike black girls.
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I'm saying that I just don't find
black girls attractive.
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I tried dating a black girl,
tried being open-minded.
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They're not a sweet
to try in a candy shop, Ryan.
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Yeah, I understand what you're
saying. I've had people say that
to me.
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When guys say things like that,
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"I'm sexually objectifying
"you according to your race only."
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And I think that that's something
that's actually cemented in porn.
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You are casting off an entire race
of women purely down to their
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skin colour, as opposed
to what they are inside.
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Right, one more.
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Are you ready?
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When I get to the homosexual film,
the first thing I noticed,
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in your case, your head's
all over the place.
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You are not looking at the film,
you're looking around the room.
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Why are you so worried
about watching homosexual porn?
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Just don't want to watch that.
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I just kind of know that, like,
I just know I'm not gay.
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You shouldn't be able to not
expose yourself to things
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just because it doesn't
follow your own sexuality,
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that it kind of questions
a little bit about how comfortable
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you are with your own
sexuality, maybe?
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It's just not for me. I know it's
not for me. It's not my cup of tea.
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For me, that creates
a very closed-minded view.
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Exhibit A, when you see the gay porn
you're looking around the room.
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Exhibit B, you're saying
you don't like black women in porn
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because you've had a bad
experience before.
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I'm sad, because I'm hearing you say
these problematic things
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and I'm hearing you upset people
and you're upsetting me,
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but I'm most sad for you.
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You're doing things like this,
looking around the room.
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"Oh, I can't look at something gay.
Oh, my God, I might be gay."
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It's a very sad,
closed existence, Ryan.
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Not to be offensive, but I don't
really care what people think.
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I'm just going to be honest.
That's the problem.
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I think what Ryan said
was really controversial without him
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knowing what he was saying.
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For someone to say
that they are not attracted to,
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or interested in dating,
any women with the skin colour
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of black or brown,
it's very offensive.
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To hear that someone
doesn't want to even take the test
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seriously, I feel sorry for him,
because he's clearly not confident
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within himself and he's not secure
within his own masculinity.
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I just feel like we're all
on this adventure,
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we've all got different opinions.
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And then I have people saying
how I'm kind of closed-minded.
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I don't care what
they think, obviously.
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I like what I like and I'm not
changing because they've got
different opinions.
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Ryan had said, after an experience
with a mixed race girl he had dated,
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he was not attracted
to any black or brown women.
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It's very offensive for someone
to say that they are not interested
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in dating any women of black
or brown skin colour.
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I think that is an insane
generalisation.
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And, even though I felt
quite offended by it,
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it actually made me really want
to sit down and kind of deconstruct
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that idea that he has in his head.
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So, when you said, "I'm not
attracted to black or brown girls"
yesterday... Yeah.
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..can you see at all why that would
be offensive to a black or brown
girl?
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No, not really, no.
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Because I felt like
I was being honest.
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I just don't fancy black girls.
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I don't fancy mixed race girls.
Yeah, I think...
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So, from my perspective... Yeah?
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..guys have said that to me before,
"I'm not into brown girls."
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Yeah.
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And for me, because I am
an individual with my own
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character and personality... Yeah.
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..it's really hard when someone
writes you off just because
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of your skin colour. Yeah.
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Do you see that?
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00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:06,240
I get that, but I think
you need to look away from the fact
457
00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:08,400
that I'm not using
racial stereotypes.
458
00:26:08,400 --> 00:26:10,280
I just know what I'm into.
I get that.
459
00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:12,680
And do you think that porn
460
00:26:12,680 --> 00:26:17,680
has influenced your view of certain
race girls?
461
00:26:17,680 --> 00:26:21,320
Maybe porn has kind of gave me
that effect about black girls,
462
00:26:21,320 --> 00:26:24,280
as to the way that they are in porn.
Big bums and things like that.
463
00:26:24,280 --> 00:26:26,640
Well, this is... So, this one of my
issues with it... Yeah?
464
00:26:26,640 --> 00:26:31,640
..is that, in your head,
you have lots of conscious
465
00:26:31,640 --> 00:26:35,880
and subconscious prejudices
against black and brown girls,
466
00:26:35,880 --> 00:26:40,440
and you're using stereotypes
that aren't true... Yeah.
467
00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:43,200
..to generalise. I just know...
Do you see what I mean?
468
00:26:43,200 --> 00:26:46,320
I see what you mean, yeah. I just
feel like as a person I need to
learn...
469
00:26:46,320 --> 00:26:47,600
Be more sensitive?
470
00:26:47,600 --> 00:26:50,880
..learn it's a sensitive subject
and kind of explaining situations
471
00:26:50,880 --> 00:26:53,520
in a better way.
472
00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:57,000
I just think it's important that,
in the future, maybe,
473
00:26:57,000 --> 00:27:01,240
when you're looking at girls
in racialized terms,
474
00:27:01,240 --> 00:27:05,360
so looking at them as, "Oh, those
are black girls and this is these
girls,"
475
00:27:05,360 --> 00:27:10,160
is to try and challenge yourself
and think
476
00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:14,560
if you're applying a lot
of stereotypes to them.
477
00:27:14,560 --> 00:27:19,400
Ryan hasn't had any proper
conversations with any women of
colour.
478
00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:22,080
I think porn definitely
influences how he sees women
479
00:27:22,080 --> 00:27:23,440
of different races.
480
00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:30,120
Porn presents a very stereotypical
and one-dimensional view.
481
00:27:31,920 --> 00:27:36,560
Maybe spending more time with me
will open his mind up a little bit.
482
00:27:36,560 --> 00:27:39,640
I'm learning on other people's
opinions and I feel like we kind of
483
00:27:39,640 --> 00:27:42,120
met in the middle, where we was at.
484
00:27:42,120 --> 00:27:45,440
And I feel like, going forward,
it's not right to say
485
00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:47,920
I don't fancy black girls
in front of a black girl.
486
00:27:57,640 --> 00:28:01,480
I've been invited to meet a gay porn
producer who's massive here in
Spain,
487
00:28:01,480 --> 00:28:03,840
and I'm bringing Cameron
along for the ride.
488
00:28:03,840 --> 00:28:06,560
I personally have used gay porn
as an empowering tool.
489
00:28:15,280 --> 00:28:17,720
Have you ever watched gay porn,
out of curiosity?
490
00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:19,880
I have watched it out of curiosity.
Yeah?
491
00:28:19,880 --> 00:28:21,600
Just to see, kind of, what it's
like.
492
00:28:21,600 --> 00:28:24,760
Obviously we've looked a lot
at how women are affected by porn.
493
00:28:24,760 --> 00:28:28,800
I'm very interested to see how gay
men sort of take on the role
494
00:28:28,800 --> 00:28:31,120
of a porn star and a porn actor.
495
00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:42,000
Hello! Hey, hello, guys!
496
00:28:42,000 --> 00:28:43,720
My name's Drew,
nice to meet you, sir.
497
00:28:43,720 --> 00:28:45,440
Hey, Drew, welcome to Barcelona.
498
00:28:49,160 --> 00:28:52,120
So, we are going to dive
into my crazy world!
499
00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:53,920
Ready to jump in! Just follow me.
500
00:28:55,960 --> 00:28:58,600
Everybody, can I have you here?
501
00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:00,360
These are the actors today.
502
00:29:00,360 --> 00:29:03,600
And we have the lady
of the house, Judy! Woo!
503
00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:05,040
APPLAUSE
504
00:29:05,040 --> 00:29:08,920
She has the biggest tits
and the biggest dick of the room!
505
00:29:08,920 --> 00:29:09,960
LAUGHTER
506
00:29:11,480 --> 00:29:13,640
So, this is Judy. Hi, Judy!
507
00:29:13,640 --> 00:29:15,560
She's playing the maid today.
508
00:29:15,560 --> 00:29:18,680
The maid who is secretly dreaming
of fucking the prince.
509
00:29:18,680 --> 00:29:19,960
Exactly. Yeah.
510
00:29:19,960 --> 00:29:22,920
Things that happens to us every day.
511
00:29:22,920 --> 00:29:24,480
OK. OK.
512
00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:32,440
So, I think there's
a kind of plot twist
513
00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:36,560
in this, that Julie's hiding
something, maybe between her legs.
514
00:29:36,560 --> 00:29:39,400
OK, and off. Let's go working.
Time to start.
515
00:29:39,400 --> 00:29:41,320
There is Viagra here.
516
00:29:41,320 --> 00:29:42,800
Anybody needs Viagra?
517
00:29:44,640 --> 00:29:48,440
No? No? OK. OK.
518
00:29:48,440 --> 00:29:51,360
It was my duty to propose.
LAUGHTER
519
00:29:51,360 --> 00:29:52,480
Do you always ask them?
520
00:29:52,480 --> 00:29:55,800
Yeah, because my models
need to shoot two, three hours.
521
00:29:55,800 --> 00:29:58,680
It's a lot for someone to do without
taking Viagra, time, you know?
522
00:29:58,680 --> 00:30:00,440
I would be unable.
523
00:30:00,440 --> 00:30:01,920
That's why I'm not an actor!
524
00:30:01,920 --> 00:30:04,960
Victor is like, he's soft
and you say, "Action,"
525
00:30:04,960 --> 00:30:09,960
oh, you take a camera out
and you see him rising.
526
00:30:09,960 --> 00:30:11,280
So, I'm like, "OK!"
527
00:30:13,960 --> 00:30:15,000
Silence!
528
00:30:16,080 --> 00:30:17,120
Action!
529
00:30:23,920 --> 00:30:24,960
MOANING
530
00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:28,880
HE SPANKS TWICE
531
00:30:35,040 --> 00:30:37,120
LOUD MOAN
532
00:30:37,120 --> 00:30:41,880
OK, enough. Cos the condom has
to appear like magic. Yes.
533
00:30:41,880 --> 00:30:46,040
Serge, do you always make the actors
in your production wear condoms?
534
00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:48,840
I ask them to shoot with condoms.
535
00:30:48,840 --> 00:30:52,480
I consider that I have
an educational duty,
536
00:30:52,480 --> 00:30:58,600
a little bit, towards people
by encouraging them to wear condoms.
537
00:31:00,800 --> 00:31:02,440
A MAN MOANS
538
00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:10,200
What is that?
539
00:31:12,520 --> 00:31:14,280
Fake cum? Yeah.
540
00:31:14,280 --> 00:31:17,560
It is the same texture
and colour and even
541
00:31:17,560 --> 00:31:18,960
the smell, sometimes.
542
00:31:18,960 --> 00:31:20,840
OK, silence!
543
00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:23,920
Judy, action!
544
00:31:36,680 --> 00:31:38,520
It's a little bit full-on, isn't it?
545
00:31:38,520 --> 00:31:40,560
It's a lot to take in,
I'll be honest.
546
00:31:40,560 --> 00:31:44,240
You know, I've never seen
anything like this before.
547
00:31:44,240 --> 00:31:46,280
MOANING
548
00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:51,920
Weirdly, I feel very comfortable...
Yeah, definitely. ..on this set.
549
00:31:51,920 --> 00:31:55,200
I think there's a lot less, kind of,
toxic masculinity. Yeah, yeah.
550
00:31:55,200 --> 00:31:57,600
Kind of... DEEP VOICE: "Oh, I'm
going to fucking come, ner-ner..."
551
00:31:57,600 --> 00:32:01,000
It's all very much more like,
I don't know, just more
552
00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:03,240
friendlier atmosphere, I think.
Yeah, definitely.
553
00:32:03,240 --> 00:32:04,880
Stop.
554
00:32:04,880 --> 00:32:06,400
OK.
555
00:32:06,400 --> 00:32:09,880
For me, growing up,
I felt very, kind of, guilty
556
00:32:09,880 --> 00:32:11,240
for watching gay porn.
557
00:32:11,240 --> 00:32:15,320
Did porn help you, sort of, come out
as gay, and did it help
558
00:32:15,320 --> 00:32:18,160
you with your sexuality growing up?
Definitely.
559
00:32:18,160 --> 00:32:23,960
Porn gave me a sensation
of control on my life.
560
00:32:23,960 --> 00:32:26,960
When you discover porn,
it's like, "Oh, shit,
561
00:32:26,960 --> 00:32:29,800
"there are other people out
there who are like me.
562
00:32:29,800 --> 00:32:31,240
So, what country are you from?
563
00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:35,280
Oh, I'm from Cameroon, and
being gay can lead you to prison
564
00:32:35,280 --> 00:32:37,440
for three years. Really?
565
00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:41,720
I'm applauded by the world,
but in my own country it's like,
566
00:32:41,720 --> 00:32:45,040
"OK, come back, the prison
is waiting for you."
567
00:32:45,040 --> 00:32:49,160
I think it's easy for us to sort of
ignore the fact that there are some
568
00:32:49,160 --> 00:32:52,400
parts of the world where being gay
is extremely difficult,
569
00:32:52,400 --> 00:32:55,280
and for these people to emigrate
to a country like Spain
570
00:32:55,280 --> 00:32:59,440
and be successful in their careers,
no matter what you feel in regards
571
00:32:59,440 --> 00:33:03,440
to porn, I think you have
to kind of respect that.
572
00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:06,800
It was really interesting to see,
kind of the different sides,
you know,
573
00:33:06,800 --> 00:33:10,520
and how such a big story
can be put into the porn film.
574
00:33:10,520 --> 00:33:12,760
And, I mean, as soon
as we walked in there,
575
00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:15,480
you know, it was a really
comfortable environment to be in.
576
00:33:15,480 --> 00:33:18,440
It just kind of made me feel proud,
because
577
00:33:18,440 --> 00:33:23,200
for, like, a long time I repressed
and kind of ignored a side
578
00:33:23,200 --> 00:33:24,480
to my sexuality.
579
00:33:24,480 --> 00:33:30,240
I think representation of various
sexualities within various different
fields is a good thing.
580
00:33:39,960 --> 00:33:44,240
Leaving that, I feel very empowered
and I feel very proud of who I am.
581
00:33:57,120 --> 00:33:59,240
So, today I'm going
to meet a therapist.
582
00:33:59,240 --> 00:34:03,000
It's going to be very interesting
to kind of speak about my feelings,
583
00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:05,240
maybe feel uncomfortable
speaking about them,
584
00:34:05,240 --> 00:34:08,040
but it's just the journey
that I'm on at the moment.
585
00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:15,680
I'd like to kind of get
on track with my feelings,
586
00:34:15,680 --> 00:34:17,960
cos I'm kind of into girls
that you wouldn't want to introduce
587
00:34:17,960 --> 00:34:20,800
to your mum, like girls what aren't
really good for you.
588
00:34:20,800 --> 00:34:25,120
I'm just nervous about today,
because I don't really want to kind
of discuss my feelings with people.
589
00:34:25,120 --> 00:34:27,080
I don't discuss my feelings
with people at home,
590
00:34:27,080 --> 00:34:31,320
so discussing it with a stranger
is going to be kind of breathtaking.
591
00:34:33,320 --> 00:34:36,600
You're seeking
a long-term relationship? Yeah.
592
00:34:36,600 --> 00:34:40,040
A lot of girls kind of explain me
as I'm good for, like, having sex
593
00:34:40,040 --> 00:34:43,880
with and stuff like that,
but I'm not boyfriend material.
594
00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:46,360
Which is quite, like,
upsetting in a way.
595
00:34:46,360 --> 00:34:52,840
Do you feel like you're so
desensitised to sex at this point
596
00:34:52,840 --> 00:34:56,440
that you can only really be matched
with a certain type of partner?
597
00:34:56,440 --> 00:35:00,000
I feel like it's the porn
that I'm watching is making me want
598
00:35:00,000 --> 00:35:01,440
that type of girl.
599
00:35:01,440 --> 00:35:03,520
The stripper type of girl,
the dirty type of girl,
600
00:35:03,520 --> 00:35:05,560
the girls that go out
and sleep with everyone.
601
00:35:05,560 --> 00:35:12,480
And I feel like that porn
has kind of conned me into the girl
602
00:35:12,480 --> 00:35:16,520
that I'm going for, cos these girls
aren't going to bring me happiness.
603
00:35:16,520 --> 00:35:21,640
What were you like before you came
here, in terms of your view of porn?
604
00:35:21,640 --> 00:35:23,160
I felt good of the porn industry.
605
00:35:23,160 --> 00:35:27,640
Now, I feel like it's all, "You've
been selling me a false dream."
606
00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:30,640
What have you seen that has led
you to now believe that?
607
00:35:30,640 --> 00:35:35,280
RYAN EXHALES
We went to Madrid and we met
a guy called Torbe.
608
00:35:35,280 --> 00:35:38,080
It's kind of made me kind of
look at porn a different way,
609
00:35:38,080 --> 00:35:41,960
kind of made me nervous
about what type of porn I watch.
610
00:35:41,960 --> 00:35:44,200
So, what's your goal, right now?
611
00:35:44,200 --> 00:35:47,280
Where I'm on this journey,
I feel like my goal is to kind of
612
00:35:47,280 --> 00:35:50,320
be at one with how I feel.
613
00:35:50,320 --> 00:35:54,000
I'm sensing a self-esteem
issue here.
614
00:35:54,000 --> 00:35:57,320
You're chasing girls
that you can't have.
615
00:35:57,320 --> 00:36:00,920
The rest of them can
just kind of be used for sex,
616
00:36:00,920 --> 00:36:02,600
they're kind of disposable.
617
00:36:02,600 --> 00:36:04,680
I'm scared to reveal
my life to people.
618
00:36:04,680 --> 00:36:08,320
I'm scared to kind of speak to girls
and tell them about my life.
619
00:36:08,320 --> 00:36:10,880
So, there's a fear of intimacy here?
Yeah.
620
00:36:10,880 --> 00:36:13,160
A phobia of intimacy?
Massive phobia.
621
00:36:13,160 --> 00:36:16,720
Would it be that something
bad has to happen for you to change?
622
00:36:16,720 --> 00:36:21,720
I feel like I have hit my
rock-bottom, and it still didn't
make me change.
623
00:36:21,720 --> 00:36:24,320
How painful was what happened?
Massively painful.
624
00:36:26,360 --> 00:36:29,520
It made me hate women.
It made me hate women.
625
00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:32,960
I was scared. I was scared of the
situation that a girl has put me
626
00:36:32,960 --> 00:36:37,200
in and made me feel,
even though I know I'm not a nasty
627
00:36:37,200 --> 00:36:39,080
or a horrible person.
628
00:36:39,080 --> 00:36:40,880
Were you accused of rape?
629
00:36:41,960 --> 00:36:45,200
Yeah. Erm, I got...
630
00:36:47,400 --> 00:36:49,000
It's OK, just breathe.
631
00:36:56,560 --> 00:36:57,600
Jesus.
632
00:37:00,120 --> 00:37:01,440
I'm here with you.
633
00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:04,040
It's OK to let some emotions out.
634
00:37:04,040 --> 00:37:06,000
I know this is hard for you.
635
00:37:07,960 --> 00:37:10,560
I just felt like I can't trust
with what happened.
636
00:37:10,560 --> 00:37:14,240
I just can't trust women
any more, because of that.
637
00:37:17,080 --> 00:37:23,520
And it's like, it was probably two
months of it getting investigated.
638
00:37:23,520 --> 00:37:27,480
I never got convicted,
never even got anywhere near court
639
00:37:27,480 --> 00:37:29,160
or anything like that.
640
00:37:29,160 --> 00:37:31,520
It ruined me as a person,
to be fair.
641
00:37:31,520 --> 00:37:33,680
I'm so sorry you had
to go through that.
642
00:37:33,680 --> 00:37:35,840
I'm scared to this day.
I'm scared to this day.
643
00:37:35,840 --> 00:37:38,520
So, for example, if I take a girl
out and then sleep with them
644
00:37:38,520 --> 00:37:40,880
on that night, I'm scared that...
645
00:37:42,520 --> 00:37:45,520
..what they're going to...
What's going to happen the next day?
646
00:37:45,520 --> 00:37:49,840
I'd like to really help
you learn that, actually,
647
00:37:49,840 --> 00:37:54,600
women can be trusted,
and learning how to trust again.
648
00:37:54,600 --> 00:37:58,320
I think that you deserve
companionship in your life.
649
00:38:00,440 --> 00:38:04,160
Now, I'm not sure how
sex addicted you are,
650
00:38:04,160 --> 00:38:07,120
so that might be for
another conversation,
651
00:38:07,120 --> 00:38:11,720
but I think it's a very good thing
for you to consider really delaying
652
00:38:11,720 --> 00:38:15,880
sex with women, if possible,
in order to see who
653
00:38:15,880 --> 00:38:17,520
they are as people.
654
00:38:17,520 --> 00:38:21,640
I know that I want to change
and I know that change is needed.
655
00:38:21,640 --> 00:38:24,880
The conversation that we are
having is telling me that you've got
656
00:38:24,880 --> 00:38:26,760
really good self-awareness.
657
00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:30,480
You know exactly what's not serving
you well in your life and that means
658
00:38:30,480 --> 00:38:34,000
that you can then decide
when you're ready.
659
00:38:34,000 --> 00:38:36,760
I'm just scared
how I'll, like, feel.
660
00:38:36,760 --> 00:38:40,800
Like, this is why a lot of people
in this house have said I'm kind of
661
00:38:40,800 --> 00:38:43,520
like just a bit of a lads' lad.
662
00:38:43,520 --> 00:38:46,000
That's because I don't want
to get my emotions out.
663
00:38:46,000 --> 00:38:49,480
How do you feel that you've shared
that experience, that awful
experience, with me?
664
00:38:49,480 --> 00:38:51,280
I feel I've come a long
way on this journey,
665
00:38:51,280 --> 00:38:55,000
but I need to let go
of the hate that I have inside.
666
00:38:57,040 --> 00:39:00,880
I don't know how she got me to kind
of speak how I actually feel and
667
00:39:00,880 --> 00:39:04,120
what's actually stopping me
from meeting someone.
668
00:39:04,120 --> 00:39:08,400
Ryan, it's been a real pleasure
speaking to you today. Thank you
very much.
669
00:39:08,400 --> 00:39:10,920
Thank you. I mean, I've really got
something from this.
670
00:39:10,920 --> 00:39:14,080
After seeing the therapist,
I've realised I have a massive
671
00:39:14,080 --> 00:39:17,720
unhealthy relationship with porn,
and I need to kind of take
672
00:39:17,720 --> 00:39:21,120
a look at myself and kind of get
away from that and put that energy
673
00:39:21,120 --> 00:39:24,320
that I'm putting into porn, put it
into something else, really.
674
00:39:34,240 --> 00:39:36,360
Today we're going to go
and meet a Youtuber.
675
00:39:36,360 --> 00:39:39,840
He will talk to us
about his NoFap movement,
676
00:39:39,840 --> 00:39:42,480
which is basically someone
that watches no porn
677
00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:43,920
and doesn't masturbate.
678
00:39:43,920 --> 00:39:47,160
He's had some experience
with porn addiction.
679
00:39:47,160 --> 00:39:49,520
I think it's going to be
really important for me,
680
00:39:49,520 --> 00:39:51,760
because I've gone
through that personally.
681
00:40:00,280 --> 00:40:03,280
I was watching porn almost every
day from the age of 12
682
00:40:03,280 --> 00:40:05,160
to about 15, 16.
683
00:40:05,160 --> 00:40:08,920
And I really noticed,
during real life intimacy,
684
00:40:08,920 --> 00:40:13,160
my physical arousal
was really affected.
685
00:40:19,480 --> 00:40:22,920
I decided to stop using porn,
and after about six months,
686
00:40:22,920 --> 00:40:26,480
I returned to my natural
physical arousal.
687
00:40:30,960 --> 00:40:32,000
Hello.
688
00:40:35,600 --> 00:40:37,840
I wanted you guys to come here.
689
00:40:37,840 --> 00:40:41,320
I just want to bring you
to nature to do some videos.
690
00:40:41,320 --> 00:40:42,840
Let's go. Let's go.
691
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Wow, nice view! Wow!
692
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I think that this is the best place
for starting my video. OK.
693
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Hello, Naturals.
Here is Jesus the Natural.
694
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And I'm here with some friends.
695
00:40:56,320 --> 00:40:59,040
We are talking about
the consequences of porn.
696
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So, Neelam, what's your
personal experience?
697
00:41:03,560 --> 00:41:07,960
From the age of about 12 to 15,
I used to watch porn
698
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almost every day.
699
00:41:09,680 --> 00:41:13,480
My real life intimacy
with my boyfriend was affected.
700
00:41:13,480 --> 00:41:15,440
My libido was low.
701
00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:17,480
I couldn't get physically aroused.
702
00:41:17,480 --> 00:41:19,840
It's the same that happened to me.
703
00:41:19,840 --> 00:41:22,600
How old were you when
you started watching porn?
704
00:41:22,600 --> 00:41:25,880
I think that it was around 12.
705
00:41:25,880 --> 00:41:27,160
Yeah, same as me.
706
00:41:29,720 --> 00:41:32,920
I was so addicted and my
brain was so into it,
707
00:41:32,920 --> 00:41:35,080
I couldn't, like, satisfy
myself without porn.
708
00:41:35,080 --> 00:41:36,360
It's like a drug.
709
00:41:36,360 --> 00:41:39,800
You feel like you want to keep
watching, keep watching.
710
00:41:39,800 --> 00:41:44,040
Now it's worse, because teenagers
have mobile phones,
711
00:41:44,040 --> 00:41:48,920
and I've heard people of eight years
watching porn.
712
00:41:48,920 --> 00:41:52,600
I'm at the stage at the moment
where I rely on porn a lot.
713
00:41:52,600 --> 00:41:55,120
Instead of going out and meeting
girls, porn is just easy.
714
00:41:55,120 --> 00:41:59,880
So, what's your top tips for me to
kind of not go on it, or think about
it?
715
00:41:59,880 --> 00:42:02,800
First do a detox -
stop watching porn.
716
00:42:02,800 --> 00:42:06,800
For example, you actually can, like,
unfollow every girl that you follow.
717
00:42:06,800 --> 00:42:09,120
It would take me all
day if I did that.
718
00:42:09,120 --> 00:42:12,160
Lots of people would say
that masturbating is kind of part
719
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of a healthy lifestyle.
Why stop masturbating altogether?
720
00:42:16,480 --> 00:42:19,600
If you still masturbate,
you don't reset your brain.
721
00:42:19,600 --> 00:42:23,080
If you stop masturbating
you will reboot your brain,
722
00:42:23,080 --> 00:42:27,600
you will start feeling more
socialised, making relationships,
connections.
723
00:42:27,600 --> 00:42:32,080
What's better than your personal
experience, to prove something for
yourself?
724
00:42:32,080 --> 00:42:33,360
Yeah, I get that.
725
00:42:33,360 --> 00:42:37,080
I feel like I've just realised right
now that I've got an addiction.
726
00:42:37,080 --> 00:42:38,160
I didn't think I had.
727
00:42:38,160 --> 00:42:40,680
And I never thought this was one
of my addictions until,
728
00:42:40,680 --> 00:42:43,920
like, meeting you,
and knowing how to kind of get
729
00:42:43,920 --> 00:42:45,320
past those problems.
730
00:42:45,320 --> 00:42:47,280
It's just kind of inspirational
for myself.
731
00:42:47,280 --> 00:42:49,280
Honestly, it's a pleasure
to meet you, man.
732
00:42:49,280 --> 00:42:52,320
Such a pleasure, man. Pleasure, man.
Seriously, thank you.
733
00:42:54,040 --> 00:42:56,280
Beautiful, that, honestly. Yeah.
734
00:42:56,280 --> 00:42:59,480
It was impressive to see Ryan
kind of listen to Jesus,
735
00:42:59,480 --> 00:43:02,520
actually really take on board and
engage with what he was saying.
736
00:43:02,520 --> 00:43:05,800
He just needed to meet someone who'd
gone through the same thing.
737
00:43:08,560 --> 00:43:10,960
It was breathtaking
to learn from Jesus.
738
00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:14,920
I feel like porn should just
be a tool when you need it,
739
00:43:14,920 --> 00:43:16,280
now and then.
740
00:43:16,280 --> 00:43:19,320
And I feel like I've got a bit
too deep involved with it.
741
00:43:19,320 --> 00:43:23,840
I feel like I shouldn't be hiding
behind porn and using
742
00:43:23,840 --> 00:43:25,200
that as an escape.
743
00:43:25,200 --> 00:43:30,600
I should be kind of going and
enjoying my life and meeting nice
girls.
744
00:43:40,640 --> 00:43:43,920
People's relationships with porn
is always very personal.
745
00:43:43,920 --> 00:43:47,520
Some people do think
that porn can be empowering,
746
00:43:47,520 --> 00:43:50,040
but I think the problems
that it causes society
747
00:43:50,040 --> 00:43:55,520
are kind of more important, really,
than somebody's personal
satisfaction.
748
00:43:57,360 --> 00:43:59,600
Porn isn't this sugar-coated thing.
749
00:43:59,600 --> 00:44:01,640
It is a complex issue.
750
00:44:01,640 --> 00:44:05,800
And no matter what your opinions
towards it are, you need to be aware
751
00:44:05,800 --> 00:44:09,400
of every single
implication that it has.
752
00:44:09,400 --> 00:44:12,360
Where I thought the porn industry
was black and white,
753
00:44:12,360 --> 00:44:16,560
there's actually black,
white, grey, blue, green.
754
00:44:16,560 --> 00:44:20,440
The main thing I've learned, so far,
is that you definitely
755
00:44:20,440 --> 00:44:23,560
need to sort of fill in the gaps,
rather than throw a blanket
756
00:44:23,560 --> 00:44:27,240
on it and be like, "This is all
wrong" or "this is all right."
757
00:44:27,240 --> 00:44:30,200
Throughout this journey
I've become more informed,
758
00:44:30,200 --> 00:44:34,800
but probably also more conflicted
about how I feel about porn.
759
00:44:34,800 --> 00:44:36,600
I still feel very unsure.
760
00:44:41,280 --> 00:44:44,200
Public disgrace stuff
gets filmed here? Yeah, it's here.
761
00:44:45,320 --> 00:44:47,680
Is that Rob? Is that Rob Diesel?
762
00:44:47,680 --> 00:44:51,440
I would never want anyone
to treat me like that, ever.
763
00:44:51,440 --> 00:44:55,000
Female pleasure,
that is extremely important to me.
764
00:44:55,000 --> 00:44:57,680
The industry is dark in many ways.
765
00:44:57,680 --> 00:45:02,360
Pornography is the very last thing
you should be watching.
766
00:45:02,360 --> 00:45:05,240
I just feel like the world
would kind of crumble without porn.
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