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These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:42,126 --> 00:00:45,964 Hey Tasha, do you want 2 00:00:42,126 --> 00:00:45,964 to go to the playground? 3 00:00:47,131 --> 00:00:48,967 We've been sitting here 4 00:00:47,131 --> 00:00:48,967 all day. 5 00:00:49,008 --> 00:00:50,092 So? 6 00:00:51,302 --> 00:00:53,679 Let's go inside and 7 00:00:51,302 --> 00:00:53,679 play on my Game Boy. 8 00:00:53,721 --> 00:00:55,932 No Bernie, I just 9 00:00:53,721 --> 00:00:55,932 wanna sit here. 10 00:00:59,518 --> 00:01:02,688 Look at what we got here. 11 00:01:02,730 --> 00:01:04,273 Let me see this. 12 00:01:04,315 --> 00:01:05,691 Give it back! 13 00:01:05,733 --> 00:01:07,526 Give it back to him! 14 00:01:09,153 --> 00:01:11,906 Go home and cry to 15 00:01:09,153 --> 00:01:11,906 your sickly mother! 16 00:01:11,948 --> 00:01:13,741 Don't you ever 17 00:01:11,948 --> 00:01:13,741 say that again! 18 00:01:19,163 --> 00:01:20,080 Tasha! 19 00:01:22,166 --> 00:01:23,083 Come here. 20 00:01:28,506 --> 00:01:30,508 Come all the way here, baby. 21 00:01:32,176 --> 00:01:34,094 What's wrong? 22 00:01:34,136 --> 00:01:35,095 Nothing. 23 00:01:35,137 --> 00:01:36,472 What happened? 24 00:01:36,514 --> 00:01:38,724 You and Bernie get mad 25 00:01:36,514 --> 00:01:38,724 at each other again? 26 00:01:40,726 --> 00:01:43,270 I see, somebody bothered you? 27 00:01:43,312 --> 00:01:44,897 Who was it? 28 00:01:44,939 --> 00:01:47,274 It was William. 29 00:01:44,939 --> 00:01:47,274 He was being mean. 30 00:01:47,316 --> 00:01:49,109 William? 31 00:01:49,151 --> 00:01:51,153 Oh girl, that boy ain't 32 00:01:49,151 --> 00:01:51,153 nothing but trouble. 33 00:01:51,195 --> 00:01:52,488 I'll go handle this. 34 00:01:52,530 --> 00:01:53,489 Uh Mama, lay back down. 35 00:01:53,531 --> 00:01:55,741 No, I can't have that, baby. 36 00:01:59,495 --> 00:02:03,708 I guess as much as I wanna get 37 00:01:59,495 --> 00:02:03,708 up I can't, baby. I... 38 00:02:05,501 --> 00:02:07,252 I just can't. 39 00:02:07,294 --> 00:02:09,129 It's okay, Mama. 40 00:02:10,214 --> 00:02:13,175 Go on stand in the 41 00:02:10,214 --> 00:02:13,175 middle of the floor. 42 00:02:13,217 --> 00:02:14,010 Go on. 43 00:02:16,512 --> 00:02:17,889 Now what? 44 00:02:17,930 --> 00:02:20,182 All right, I want you 45 00:02:17,930 --> 00:02:20,182 to ball your fists up 46 00:02:20,224 --> 00:02:23,268 as tightly as you can, and I 47 00:02:20,224 --> 00:02:23,268 want you to spin 'em around 48 00:02:23,310 --> 00:02:24,729 like a windmill. 49 00:02:26,271 --> 00:02:27,899 Huh? 50 00:02:27,940 --> 00:02:30,192 You know, like the big 51 00:02:27,940 --> 00:02:30,192 windmills we see on the farm. 52 00:02:30,234 --> 00:02:32,070 Why? 53 00:02:32,111 --> 00:02:34,196 Because when something or 54 00:02:32,111 --> 00:02:34,196 somebody bothers you, sweetie, 55 00:02:34,238 --> 00:02:35,447 you gotta fight back. 56 00:02:37,241 --> 00:02:39,451 I'm not always gonna be 57 00:02:37,241 --> 00:02:39,451 around to defend you. 58 00:02:41,286 --> 00:02:43,706 No, uh uh. Don't do that. 59 00:02:44,957 --> 00:02:46,333 Pick your head up. 60 00:02:47,251 --> 00:02:49,087 All right? Now on 61 00:02:47,251 --> 00:02:49,087 the count of three, 62 00:02:49,128 --> 00:02:52,256 I want you to spin your 63 00:02:49,128 --> 00:02:52,256 arms as wild as you can 64 00:02:52,297 --> 00:02:54,550 until you knock 'em down, okay? 65 00:02:54,592 --> 00:02:59,889 - Mm-hmm. 66 00:02:54,592 --> 00:02:59,889 - One, two, three. 67 00:02:59,931 --> 00:03:02,474 Spin 'em Tasha, there you 68 00:02:59,931 --> 00:03:02,474 go, there you go, baby. 69 00:03:03,768 --> 00:03:04,643 I'm dizzy. 70 00:03:06,896 --> 00:03:08,230 All right, come here. 71 00:03:09,273 --> 00:03:10,900 Get up here with me. 72 00:03:14,112 --> 00:03:17,281 You see Tasha, strength 73 00:03:14,112 --> 00:03:17,281 isn't just physical, 74 00:03:18,490 --> 00:03:21,077 it's mental and emotional too. 75 00:03:21,119 --> 00:03:23,704 And I need you to be strong. 76 00:03:25,123 --> 00:03:27,249 All right? You understand? 77 00:03:27,291 --> 00:03:28,208 You promise? 78 00:03:29,710 --> 00:03:30,711 Promise. 79 00:03:32,130 --> 00:03:33,672 Come here. 80 00:03:41,889 --> 00:03:46,685 ♪ Happy birthday to you ♪ 81 00:03:48,104 --> 00:03:53,067 ♪ Happy birthday dear Tasha ♪ 82 00:03:53,109 --> 00:03:54,443 ♪ My beautiful, sexy, 83 00:03:53,109 --> 00:03:54,443 intelligent wife ♪ 84 00:03:54,485 --> 00:03:56,445 ♪ Who always makes me put 85 00:03:54,485 --> 00:03:56,445 the toilet seat down ♪ 86 00:04:03,452 --> 00:04:06,288 Oh God Bernie! 87 00:04:06,330 --> 00:04:09,333 You woke me up when I have 88 00:04:06,330 --> 00:04:09,333 15 minutes of sleep left. 89 00:04:09,374 --> 00:04:12,419 Well, so what? 90 00:04:09,374 --> 00:04:12,419 It's your birthday. 91 00:04:12,461 --> 00:04:19,468 ♪ Happy birthday to you ♪ 92 00:04:21,095 --> 00:04:25,099 Oh sing, my Barry White. Sing! 93 00:04:26,684 --> 00:04:28,310 So go ahead. 94 00:04:28,352 --> 00:04:31,271 Make a wish and blow 95 00:04:28,352 --> 00:04:31,271 out that candle. 96 00:04:34,525 --> 00:04:35,734 Yeah, oh. 97 00:04:36,485 --> 00:04:38,320 My goodness, baby. 98 00:04:38,362 --> 00:04:39,530 What? 99 00:04:39,571 --> 00:04:41,866 Ohhh, I hope your wish 100 00:04:39,571 --> 00:04:41,866 was for fresher breath. 101 00:04:41,907 --> 00:04:43,325 - Bernie. 102 00:04:41,907 --> 00:04:43,325 - Goodness, woman. 103 00:04:43,367 --> 00:04:46,328 You need to use all of the 104 00:04:43,367 --> 00:04:46,328 toothpaste this morning. 105 00:04:46,370 --> 00:04:47,412 Are you serious-- 106 00:04:47,454 --> 00:04:49,040 And the mouthwash and 107 00:04:47,454 --> 00:04:49,040 you need to floss too. 108 00:04:49,081 --> 00:04:52,043 And you need to get 109 00:04:49,081 --> 00:04:52,043 a pack of Tic Tacs 110 00:04:52,084 --> 00:04:53,252 on your way to work. 111 00:04:53,293 --> 00:04:54,336 Shut it, Bernie. 112 00:04:54,378 --> 00:04:55,629 I'm just saying. 113 00:04:55,671 --> 00:04:56,839 Would you shut up? 114 00:04:56,881 --> 00:05:00,425 Anyway, uh, me and Tony 115 00:04:56,881 --> 00:05:00,425 we gotta go lay a carpet 116 00:05:00,467 --> 00:05:03,262 at that new office 117 00:05:00,467 --> 00:05:03,262 complex on Blakely Road. 118 00:05:03,303 --> 00:05:05,848 It's not that far. I 119 00:05:03,303 --> 00:05:05,848 should be back in time 120 00:05:05,890 --> 00:05:07,641 to head out to your 121 00:05:05,890 --> 00:05:07,641 dad's for dinner. 122 00:05:07,683 --> 00:05:09,643 Is that tonight? 123 00:05:09,685 --> 00:05:11,854 Your birthday on another 124 00:05:09,685 --> 00:05:11,854 night we don't know about? 125 00:05:11,896 --> 00:05:15,274 No, it's just, you know 126 00:05:11,896 --> 00:05:15,274 I was just trying to think 127 00:05:15,315 --> 00:05:17,442 if maybe we could 128 00:05:15,315 --> 00:05:17,442 skip all the dramatics 129 00:05:17,484 --> 00:05:21,822 and just spend a nice quiet 130 00:05:17,484 --> 00:05:21,822 evening just the two of us. 131 00:05:21,864 --> 00:05:24,408 Like he's going to allow that. 132 00:05:24,449 --> 00:05:26,035 Melvin ain't the boss of me. 133 00:05:26,077 --> 00:05:28,495 No, he's just the 134 00:05:26,077 --> 00:05:28,495 boss of your birthday. 135 00:05:28,537 --> 00:05:31,540 - Hmm, he is isn't he? 136 00:05:28,537 --> 00:05:31,540 - Hmm. 137 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:34,418 Fine. 138 00:05:34,459 --> 00:05:38,380 You know, I'm going back to 139 00:05:34,459 --> 00:05:38,380 sleep for ten more minutes then. 140 00:05:38,422 --> 00:05:40,632 You got a little 141 00:05:38,422 --> 00:05:40,632 icing right there. 142 00:05:40,674 --> 00:05:42,093 Mmm, thank you. 143 00:05:42,134 --> 00:05:44,095 You get your last ten minutes 144 00:05:42,134 --> 00:05:44,095 of sleep birthday girl. 145 00:05:44,136 --> 00:05:45,971 All right my Barry White. 146 00:05:46,013 --> 00:05:47,472 - And I'll see you later. 147 00:05:46,013 --> 00:05:47,472 - I heard you. 148 00:05:47,514 --> 00:05:50,392 ♪ Happy 149 00:05:47,514 --> 00:05:50,392 breath day to you ♪ 150 00:05:50,434 --> 00:05:51,393 Stop, stop. 151 00:05:53,645 --> 00:05:56,398 Boys and girls, I need you 152 00:05:53,645 --> 00:05:56,398 to be writing these math-- 153 00:05:57,858 --> 00:05:59,235 Math equations in 154 00:05:57,858 --> 00:05:59,235 your notebooks. 155 00:06:01,653 --> 00:06:03,405 Enough with all the giggling. 156 00:06:05,449 --> 00:06:06,825 Okay, what did I te-- 157 00:06:06,867 --> 00:06:10,829 Happy 158 00:06:06,867 --> 00:06:10,829 birthday, Mrs. Jackson. 159 00:06:10,871 --> 00:06:13,415 Oh, would you look at this. 160 00:06:13,457 --> 00:06:17,419 Thank you, that was so kind 161 00:06:13,457 --> 00:06:17,419 and thoughtful of each of you. 162 00:06:17,461 --> 00:06:19,421 Now if you would, please line up 163 00:06:19,463 --> 00:06:21,048 and place your beautiful 164 00:06:19,463 --> 00:06:21,048 cards on my desk. 165 00:06:21,090 --> 00:06:23,259 I will enjoy them later. 166 00:06:23,301 --> 00:06:26,220 Single file line everyone, 167 00:06:23,301 --> 00:06:26,220 single file line. 168 00:06:26,262 --> 00:06:28,013 Thank you, my dear. 169 00:06:28,055 --> 00:06:30,224 Thank you so much. 170 00:06:30,266 --> 00:06:31,642 That's so thoughtful. 171 00:06:37,856 --> 00:06:40,109 Ew! 172 00:06:41,693 --> 00:06:44,446 Kids, if-- If you could excuse 173 00:06:41,693 --> 00:06:44,446 me for a moment, 174 00:06:44,488 --> 00:06:46,365 Take your seats. 175 00:06:44,488 --> 00:06:46,365 Take your seats. Okay. 176 00:06:46,406 --> 00:06:47,699 You know I threw 177 00:06:46,406 --> 00:06:47,699 up in front of the kids 178 00:06:47,741 --> 00:06:48,867 and grossed them out today? 179 00:06:48,909 --> 00:06:52,454 Yes, yes you 180 00:06:48,909 --> 00:06:52,454 told me several times. 181 00:06:52,496 --> 00:06:57,501 I got my usual morning coffee 182 00:06:52,496 --> 00:06:57,501 but... maybe the milk was sour. 183 00:06:57,542 --> 00:07:00,838 Yeah, maybe and you 184 00:06:57,542 --> 00:07:00,838 told me that too, look. 185 00:07:01,964 --> 00:07:04,925 We just stay a little while 186 00:07:01,964 --> 00:07:04,925 then we leave, all right? 187 00:07:04,967 --> 00:07:07,094 Hour tops. 188 00:07:07,136 --> 00:07:08,304 You promise? 189 00:07:08,346 --> 00:07:10,597 Yeah, I'm not trying to 190 00:07:08,346 --> 00:07:10,597 stay here all night. 191 00:07:11,849 --> 00:07:13,475 Come on, let's get 192 00:07:11,849 --> 00:07:13,475 this out of the way. 193 00:07:17,437 --> 00:07:19,481 Why is it so dark in 194 00:07:17,437 --> 00:07:19,481 here, man. It's nighttime. 195 00:07:19,523 --> 00:07:20,816 Turn the lights on. 196 00:07:20,858 --> 00:07:22,609 Surprise! 197 00:07:26,071 --> 00:07:28,199 There's 198 00:07:26,071 --> 00:07:28,199 my birthday girl. 199 00:07:28,240 --> 00:07:29,283 Were you surprised? 200 00:07:29,325 --> 00:07:31,410 Surprised is an 201 00:07:29,325 --> 00:07:31,410 understatement, Daddy. 202 00:07:31,451 --> 00:07:33,662 You really didn't have to 203 00:07:31,451 --> 00:07:33,662 go through all this trouble. 204 00:07:33,704 --> 00:07:34,997 It was Brenda's idea. 205 00:07:35,039 --> 00:07:36,498 Melvin get that 206 00:07:35,039 --> 00:07:36,498 camera out of her face, 207 00:07:36,540 --> 00:07:37,875 the girl just got here. 208 00:07:37,916 --> 00:07:40,085 Happy 30th birthday, Tasha. 209 00:07:40,127 --> 00:07:41,295 Thank you so much, Brenda. 210 00:07:41,337 --> 00:07:43,505 Somebody make Tasha a plate. 211 00:07:43,547 --> 00:07:45,674 She's the birthday girl. 212 00:07:43,547 --> 00:07:45,674 She gets served first. 213 00:07:45,716 --> 00:07:50,179 And put a heap of my 214 00:07:45,716 --> 00:07:50,179 mac 'n' cheese on 215 00:07:45,716 --> 00:07:50,179 there, not Carol's. 216 00:07:50,221 --> 00:07:51,889 You don't want any of 217 00:07:50,221 --> 00:07:51,889 Carol's mac 'n' cheese, 218 00:07:51,930 --> 00:07:54,433 she don't use the right 219 00:07:51,930 --> 00:07:54,433 cheeses or seasonings, 220 00:07:54,474 --> 00:07:55,684 and I don't even know 221 00:07:54,474 --> 00:07:55,684 why she brought it 222 00:07:55,726 --> 00:07:57,519 when she knows mine is the best. 223 00:07:57,561 --> 00:07:59,688 Oh, trust me, I don't need a 224 00:07:57,561 --> 00:07:59,688 heap of anything tonight, okay? 225 00:07:59,730 --> 00:08:02,691 Of course you do, look at 226 00:07:59,730 --> 00:08:02,691 you, you're skin and bones. 227 00:08:02,733 --> 00:08:04,651 What you have against 228 00:08:02,733 --> 00:08:04,651 hips I'll never know. 229 00:08:04,693 --> 00:08:07,279 Wait are you serious, 230 00:08:04,693 --> 00:08:07,279 have you seen my, mmm. 231 00:08:07,321 --> 00:08:08,280 Okay, well put it there. 232 00:08:08,322 --> 00:08:09,531 Uhhh, uhhh. 233 00:08:09,573 --> 00:08:10,490 One more. 234 00:08:10,532 --> 00:08:11,283 Uhhh. 235 00:08:11,325 --> 00:08:13,535 - All right now. 236 00:08:11,325 --> 00:08:13,535 - All right now. 237 00:08:13,577 --> 00:08:15,495 Wow what a spread 238 00:08:13,577 --> 00:08:15,495 we got tonight, huh? 239 00:08:15,537 --> 00:08:16,330 Hi. 240 00:08:17,331 --> 00:08:19,666 Everybody come on in 241 00:08:17,331 --> 00:08:19,666 here and get some food. 242 00:08:19,708 --> 00:08:22,669 Okay, 'cause after 243 00:08:19,708 --> 00:08:22,669 this we're gonna watch 244 00:08:22,711 --> 00:08:24,880 Tasha's birth video. 245 00:08:24,922 --> 00:08:26,340 No, Daddy not tonight. 246 00:08:26,382 --> 00:08:28,092 Please, can we skip the 247 00:08:26,382 --> 00:08:28,092 birth video this year? 248 00:08:28,133 --> 00:08:29,427 You talking crazy. 249 00:08:29,468 --> 00:08:31,303 We watch that video every 250 00:08:29,468 --> 00:08:31,303 year since you was born. 251 00:08:31,345 --> 00:08:32,471 But we can skip this year. 252 00:08:32,512 --> 00:08:34,681 How about-- 253 00:08:32,512 --> 00:08:34,681 Help me. 254 00:08:34,723 --> 00:08:36,100 Hi everybody. 255 00:08:36,141 --> 00:08:38,060 Daddy, we really gotta 256 00:08:36,141 --> 00:08:38,060 upgrade you on that camera. 257 00:08:38,102 --> 00:08:40,312 It's the best investment 258 00:08:38,102 --> 00:08:40,312 that I ever made this camera. 259 00:08:40,354 --> 00:08:41,188 VHS? 260 00:08:44,566 --> 00:08:46,485 Get that God damn 261 00:08:44,566 --> 00:08:46,485 camera out of my face 262 00:08:46,526 --> 00:08:47,486 and help me you idiot. 263 00:08:50,448 --> 00:08:53,451 - Screw you! 264 00:09:08,840 --> 00:09:09,591 Oh my God. 265 00:09:09,633 --> 00:09:12,177 Baby, hey, Tasha. 266 00:09:12,219 --> 00:09:14,596 - Baby, hey, hey. 267 00:09:12,219 --> 00:09:14,596 - What happened? 268 00:09:14,638 --> 00:09:15,597 Could 269 00:09:14,638 --> 00:09:15,597 somebody get some water? 270 00:09:15,639 --> 00:09:16,556 Tasha? 271 00:09:18,642 --> 00:09:19,935 - Hey listen. 272 00:09:18,642 --> 00:09:19,935 - Hmm. 273 00:09:19,977 --> 00:09:24,398 - Um... 274 00:09:19,977 --> 00:09:24,398 - What? 275 00:09:24,440 --> 00:09:25,607 I think you should 276 00:09:24,440 --> 00:09:25,607 take one of those 277 00:09:25,649 --> 00:09:28,402 home pregnancy tests. 278 00:09:28,444 --> 00:09:32,572 Oh, Bernie. Honey for what? 279 00:09:32,614 --> 00:09:36,994 Seven years of being told 280 00:09:32,614 --> 00:09:36,994 that my eggs aren't fertile? 281 00:09:37,035 --> 00:09:39,413 Bernie, a baby isn't 282 00:09:37,035 --> 00:09:39,413 possible for us. 283 00:09:39,455 --> 00:09:42,249 Well, babe I get 284 00:09:39,455 --> 00:09:42,249 all that, but look... 285 00:09:44,001 --> 00:09:46,378 You threw up at school, 286 00:09:44,001 --> 00:09:46,378 you passed out at the party 287 00:09:46,420 --> 00:09:49,173 and your cycle is late. 288 00:09:49,214 --> 00:09:51,383 Isn't that what happen to a 289 00:09:49,214 --> 00:09:51,383 woman when she's pregnant? 290 00:09:51,425 --> 00:09:53,177 It's impossible. 291 00:09:53,218 --> 00:09:55,012 Okay, how late are you? 292 00:09:56,805 --> 00:09:59,641 - Two weeks. 293 00:09:56,805 --> 00:09:59,641 - See, two-- Come on. 294 00:09:59,683 --> 00:10:01,601 - What? 295 00:09:59,683 --> 00:10:01,601 - Just take the test, baby. 296 00:10:01,643 --> 00:10:05,689 Honey, if I am pregnant, I 297 00:10:01,643 --> 00:10:05,689 need a doctor to confirm it. 298 00:10:05,730 --> 00:10:08,275 Honey, listen it's almost 299 00:10:05,730 --> 00:10:08,275 time for my annual exam, 300 00:10:08,317 --> 00:10:11,028 I'll just get the 301 00:10:08,317 --> 00:10:11,028 full work up, okay? 302 00:10:11,069 --> 00:10:12,488 - Yeah? 303 00:10:11,069 --> 00:10:12,488 - That work? 304 00:10:12,530 --> 00:10:13,905 - That works. 305 00:10:12,530 --> 00:10:13,905 - Good. 306 00:10:13,947 --> 00:10:15,615 Good, all right. 307 00:10:18,369 --> 00:10:19,619 Get some rest. 308 00:10:21,705 --> 00:10:24,124 Okay, fine so 309 00:10:21,705 --> 00:10:24,124 let's play what if. 310 00:10:24,166 --> 00:10:25,543 Are you ready? 311 00:10:25,584 --> 00:10:26,335 Do I have a choice. 312 00:10:26,377 --> 00:10:28,920 - No. Okay. 313 00:10:26,377 --> 00:10:28,920 - Okay. 314 00:10:28,962 --> 00:10:34,676 What if, by some divine 315 00:10:28,962 --> 00:10:34,676 intervention, I am pregnant? 316 00:10:34,718 --> 00:10:36,720 - Hmm. 317 00:10:34,718 --> 00:10:36,720 - Mm-hmm. 318 00:10:36,761 --> 00:10:41,766 Would you want a baby 319 00:10:36,761 --> 00:10:41,766 boy or a baby girl? 320 00:10:43,185 --> 00:10:45,145 Well... 321 00:10:45,187 --> 00:10:48,357 Yeah, I don't know. It 322 00:10:45,187 --> 00:10:48,357 doesn't really matter. 323 00:10:48,399 --> 00:10:50,150 I just want a healthy baby. 324 00:10:50,192 --> 00:10:52,110 Boy, stop playing. 325 00:10:52,152 --> 00:10:55,322 You know you want a boy. You 326 00:10:52,152 --> 00:10:55,322 know you want a baby boy. 327 00:10:55,364 --> 00:10:58,576 Yeah, yeah, yeah. I 328 00:10:55,364 --> 00:10:58,576 mean, I admit I would... 329 00:10:59,743 --> 00:11:01,703 have a little more 330 00:10:59,743 --> 00:11:01,703 in common with a boy. 331 00:11:01,745 --> 00:11:03,121 Mm-hmm, just a little. 332 00:11:03,163 --> 00:11:04,122 Just a little bit. 333 00:11:05,749 --> 00:11:11,088 - If he was anything like me 334 00:11:05,749 --> 00:11:11,088 he'd have that throwing arm. 335 00:11:05,749 --> 00:11:11,088 - Mm-hmm. 336 00:11:11,129 --> 00:11:13,090 I'd train him all 337 00:11:11,129 --> 00:11:13,090 the way up to the NFL. 338 00:11:13,131 --> 00:11:14,341 Aww. 339 00:11:15,967 --> 00:11:18,720 And he could buy us a 340 00:11:15,967 --> 00:11:18,720 big house in the Hamptons. 341 00:11:18,762 --> 00:11:21,348 Where all the rich people live. 342 00:11:21,390 --> 00:11:23,141 We could go to all 343 00:11:21,390 --> 00:11:23,141 the dinner parties, 344 00:11:23,183 --> 00:11:26,895 and sip on our wine, and um... 345 00:11:23,183 --> 00:11:26,895 I would develop an accent, 346 00:11:26,937 --> 00:11:28,313 and I would go 347 00:11:26,937 --> 00:11:28,313 around saying things 348 00:11:28,355 --> 00:11:31,900 like um... "Lovely weather 349 00:11:28,355 --> 00:11:31,900 we're having, darling." 350 00:11:31,942 --> 00:11:33,527 Right, right? 351 00:11:33,569 --> 00:11:34,736 "How do you do? 352 00:11:34,778 --> 00:11:36,071 How do you do? 353 00:11:36,113 --> 00:11:38,323 How is the weather; Crisp 354 00:11:36,113 --> 00:11:38,323 and clean and fresh?" 355 00:11:38,365 --> 00:11:39,783 - Right. 356 00:11:38,365 --> 00:11:39,783 - You see I talk well? 357 00:11:39,824 --> 00:11:41,535 Yeah, yeah you 358 00:11:39,824 --> 00:11:41,535 gonna talk like that? 359 00:11:41,577 --> 00:11:43,120 You gonna have to do that on 360 00:11:41,577 --> 00:11:43,120 the other side of the room. 361 00:11:43,161 --> 00:11:46,123 Oh. And you don't 362 00:11:43,161 --> 00:11:46,123 drink wine so... 363 00:11:46,164 --> 00:11:48,542 - I bet I would start. 364 00:11:46,164 --> 00:11:48,542 - Right. 365 00:11:48,584 --> 00:11:51,545 When you're paying a hundred 366 00:11:48,584 --> 00:11:51,545 dollars a bottle, or a sip? 367 00:11:51,587 --> 00:11:52,712 - Shoot. 368 00:11:54,798 --> 00:11:59,303 Okay so, what if we had a girl. 369 00:11:59,344 --> 00:12:01,763 Oh, a baby girl? 370 00:11:59,344 --> 00:12:01,763 She'd be so cute. 371 00:12:01,805 --> 00:12:03,098 Yeah. 372 00:12:03,140 --> 00:12:08,103 I don't know maybe she 373 00:12:03,140 --> 00:12:08,103 would become president. 374 00:12:08,145 --> 00:12:09,521 Yes. 375 00:12:09,563 --> 00:12:11,731 And bring about world peace. 376 00:12:11,773 --> 00:12:12,524 I like that. 377 00:12:12,566 --> 00:12:13,775 - You like that? 378 00:12:12,566 --> 00:12:13,775 - Mm-hmm. 379 00:12:13,817 --> 00:12:15,777 Mmm. 380 00:12:13,817 --> 00:12:15,777 Oh. 381 00:12:18,113 --> 00:12:19,323 Namaste. 382 00:12:20,824 --> 00:12:23,785 I'm pretty sure your using 383 00:12:20,824 --> 00:12:23,785 that word in the wrong context. 384 00:12:23,827 --> 00:12:28,332 I told you I just like 385 00:12:23,827 --> 00:12:28,332 saying it, joy stealer. 386 00:12:28,373 --> 00:12:30,334 All right, you keep saying 387 00:12:28,373 --> 00:12:30,334 it. Say it real low 388 00:12:30,375 --> 00:12:31,293 'cause I'm going to sleep. 389 00:12:31,335 --> 00:12:32,503 Stop. 390 00:12:32,544 --> 00:12:34,754 - Go to bed lady, goodness. 391 00:12:32,544 --> 00:12:34,754 - Whatever. 392 00:12:35,339 --> 00:12:38,425 Well Tasha, we're all done 393 00:12:35,339 --> 00:12:38,425 with your annual physical, 394 00:12:38,467 --> 00:12:40,010 we have your blood work, 395 00:12:40,051 --> 00:12:42,220 but because of your family's 396 00:12:40,051 --> 00:12:42,220 history with breast cancer... 397 00:12:42,262 --> 00:12:44,640 Ah, let me guess, you 398 00:12:42,262 --> 00:12:44,640 need me to go to radiology 399 00:12:44,682 --> 00:12:46,433 next door for my mammogram? 400 00:12:46,475 --> 00:12:47,476 Precisely. 401 00:12:48,852 --> 00:12:50,646 I've been getting mammograms 402 00:12:48,852 --> 00:12:50,646 for the past five years 403 00:12:50,688 --> 00:12:53,023 Doctor Bailey, I 404 00:12:50,688 --> 00:12:53,023 know the routine. 405 00:12:53,064 --> 00:12:56,818 But those machines, oh my God, 406 00:12:53,064 --> 00:12:56,818 they are so uncomfortable. 407 00:12:56,860 --> 00:12:59,446 I know that mammograms 408 00:12:56,860 --> 00:12:59,446 can be uncomfortable, 409 00:12:59,488 --> 00:13:01,823 but because you carry the 410 00:12:59,488 --> 00:13:01,823 mutated gene for breast cancer, 411 00:13:01,865 --> 00:13:03,659 it's really important 412 00:13:01,865 --> 00:13:03,659 that you get your checkups 413 00:13:03,701 --> 00:13:05,285 at this early age. 414 00:13:06,662 --> 00:13:07,663 Understood. 415 00:13:12,876 --> 00:13:14,794 But what if I am pregnant? 416 00:13:16,463 --> 00:13:19,424 I mean is it okay for me to 417 00:13:16,463 --> 00:13:19,424 get a mammogram right now? 418 00:13:19,466 --> 00:13:21,843 With all that radiation, 419 00:13:19,466 --> 00:13:21,843 it's just-- I don't-- 420 00:13:21,885 --> 00:13:24,429 Normally, mammograms 421 00:13:21,885 --> 00:13:24,429 are safe during pregnancy 422 00:13:24,471 --> 00:13:27,015 because the amount of 423 00:13:24,471 --> 00:13:27,015 radiation is minimal. 424 00:13:27,057 --> 00:13:30,644 But Tasha, I don't want 425 00:13:27,057 --> 00:13:30,644 you getting your hopes up. 426 00:13:30,686 --> 00:13:32,437 Your chances are less 427 00:13:30,686 --> 00:13:32,437 than five percent 428 00:13:32,479 --> 00:13:34,439 of becoming pregnant. 429 00:13:34,481 --> 00:13:36,816 Your eggs just aren't fertile. 430 00:13:40,028 --> 00:13:40,820 I got it. 431 00:13:41,863 --> 00:13:43,198 I know. 432 00:13:43,240 --> 00:13:45,409 Are you gonna be okay? 433 00:13:45,450 --> 00:13:48,245 I will be. 434 00:13:48,286 --> 00:13:51,831 Okay well, get dressed 435 00:13:48,286 --> 00:13:51,831 and we'll talk soon okay? 436 00:13:51,873 --> 00:13:53,833 Thank you, Doctor Bailey. 437 00:13:58,046 --> 00:14:01,883 So we get the carpet 438 00:13:58,046 --> 00:14:01,883 out, ready to install it, 439 00:14:01,925 --> 00:14:05,429 and I unroll it and 440 00:14:01,925 --> 00:14:05,429 I see all these cuts, 441 00:14:05,470 --> 00:14:06,638 all through the whole roll, 442 00:14:06,680 --> 00:14:08,265 a whole bunch of 443 00:14:06,680 --> 00:14:08,265 cuts on the carpet. 444 00:14:08,306 --> 00:14:13,270 Yeah, it was completely 445 00:14:08,306 --> 00:14:13,270 ruined. Couldn't use any of it. 446 00:14:13,395 --> 00:14:17,190 The customer was unsatisfied, 447 00:14:13,395 --> 00:14:17,190 of course, for obvious reasons. 448 00:14:17,232 --> 00:14:18,817 And it set me and 449 00:14:17,232 --> 00:14:18,817 Tony back two days, 450 00:14:18,858 --> 00:14:19,984 we'll have to get new carpet 451 00:14:20,026 --> 00:14:21,319 and still have it 452 00:14:20,026 --> 00:14:21,319 installed on time. 453 00:14:21,361 --> 00:14:23,071 - Hmm. 454 00:14:21,361 --> 00:14:23,071 - It's crazy. 455 00:14:24,864 --> 00:14:25,657 Tasha? 456 00:14:26,866 --> 00:14:27,618 Baby? 457 00:14:27,659 --> 00:14:29,202 What's up? 458 00:14:29,244 --> 00:14:30,621 Have you listened 459 00:14:29,244 --> 00:14:30,621 to a word I said? 460 00:14:30,662 --> 00:14:34,291 Yeah, you said, "carpet, 461 00:14:30,662 --> 00:14:34,291 slices, pushback." 462 00:14:34,332 --> 00:14:35,125 Right. 463 00:14:36,668 --> 00:14:38,629 It's this funny thing about me 464 00:14:36,668 --> 00:14:38,629 though, you know, it's like 465 00:14:38,670 --> 00:14:43,467 when I talk to someone, I like 466 00:14:38,670 --> 00:14:43,467 when they interact with me, so. 467 00:14:44,426 --> 00:14:46,595 - Honey, I'm sorry. 468 00:14:44,426 --> 00:14:46,595 - Hmm. 469 00:14:46,637 --> 00:14:48,388 I don't know. I've just been 470 00:14:46,637 --> 00:14:48,388 having so much on my mind 471 00:14:48,430 --> 00:14:49,807 and of course I'm tired, 472 00:14:49,848 --> 00:14:51,391 I don't know what's 473 00:14:49,848 --> 00:14:51,391 going on with me. 474 00:14:51,433 --> 00:14:53,602 Well, thinking about 475 00:14:51,433 --> 00:14:53,602 the test results 476 00:14:53,644 --> 00:14:55,186 is not gonna make the 477 00:14:53,644 --> 00:14:55,186 phone ring any faster. 478 00:14:55,228 --> 00:14:56,020 Yeah. 479 00:14:59,232 --> 00:15:02,193 Well, it did make something 480 00:14:59,232 --> 00:15:02,193 ring now didn't it? 481 00:15:02,235 --> 00:15:04,696 - Mm, mm, mm. 482 00:15:02,235 --> 00:15:04,696 - Yeah, you're funny. Not really. 483 00:15:06,657 --> 00:15:07,866 - Be right back. 484 00:15:06,657 --> 00:15:07,866 - Mm-hmm. 485 00:15:11,870 --> 00:15:13,204 We have a guest. 486 00:15:13,246 --> 00:15:14,038 Hey. 487 00:15:15,666 --> 00:15:17,793 Just thought I'd come by 488 00:15:15,666 --> 00:15:17,793 and see how she was doing. 489 00:15:17,835 --> 00:15:19,961 Oh, I'm doing good 490 00:15:17,835 --> 00:15:19,961 Daddy, much better. 491 00:15:20,003 --> 00:15:20,962 How you doing, young man? 492 00:15:21,004 --> 00:15:22,589 I'm good man, we 493 00:15:21,004 --> 00:15:22,589 just having dinner. 494 00:15:22,631 --> 00:15:23,965 Good. 495 00:15:24,007 --> 00:15:25,383 'Cause I am hungry. 496 00:15:25,425 --> 00:15:27,427 Oh, I'll get you a bowl. 497 00:15:29,471 --> 00:15:31,807 So, Bernie informed me 498 00:15:29,471 --> 00:15:31,807 that the other night 499 00:15:31,849 --> 00:15:34,976 you got some really 500 00:15:31,849 --> 00:15:34,976 great video footage. 501 00:15:35,018 --> 00:15:37,937 - I always get good 502 00:15:35,018 --> 00:15:37,937 video footage. 503 00:15:35,018 --> 00:15:37,937 - Mm-hmm. 504 00:15:40,190 --> 00:15:44,152 Well, she says 505 00:15:40,190 --> 00:15:44,152 that she can't stand 506 00:15:44,194 --> 00:15:47,989 the fact that you always 507 00:15:44,194 --> 00:15:47,989 gotta video tape everything. 508 00:15:48,031 --> 00:15:48,990 I don't video everything. 509 00:15:49,032 --> 00:15:51,785 I just video the 510 00:15:49,032 --> 00:15:51,785 important stuff. 511 00:15:51,827 --> 00:15:53,995 So, me passing out at 512 00:15:51,827 --> 00:15:53,995 my party was important? 513 00:15:54,037 --> 00:15:56,164 Well, yeah. 514 00:15:56,206 --> 00:15:57,999 Daddy, come on, 515 00:15:56,206 --> 00:15:57,999 that is embarrassing. 516 00:15:58,041 --> 00:16:00,001 Don't show that video to anyone. 517 00:16:00,043 --> 00:16:02,003 When you say 518 00:16:00,043 --> 00:16:02,003 anyone, you mean what? 519 00:16:02,045 --> 00:16:03,421 Anyone. 520 00:16:06,216 --> 00:16:07,008 Fine. 521 00:16:09,052 --> 00:16:12,013 But one day, you're gonna 522 00:16:09,052 --> 00:16:12,013 look back at that footage 523 00:16:12,055 --> 00:16:14,015 and you gonna appreciate it. 524 00:16:14,057 --> 00:16:17,018 And then you gonna realize 525 00:16:14,057 --> 00:16:17,018 why I video everything. 526 00:16:17,060 --> 00:16:19,604 Because life is precious, baby, 527 00:16:19,646 --> 00:16:21,398 and I capture those moments 528 00:16:21,439 --> 00:16:24,150 so that you have 529 00:16:21,439 --> 00:16:24,150 something to hold onto. 530 00:16:24,192 --> 00:16:26,778 You even hold onto your 531 00:16:24,192 --> 00:16:26,778 mothers memory because of it. 532 00:16:26,820 --> 00:16:29,364 Yes, Daddy, and I 533 00:16:26,820 --> 00:16:29,364 do appreciate it, 534 00:16:29,406 --> 00:16:32,992 but video of me fainting 535 00:16:29,406 --> 00:16:32,992 needs to be destroyed. 536 00:16:34,411 --> 00:16:35,370 Have you gone to 537 00:16:34,411 --> 00:16:35,370 the doctor to find out 538 00:16:35,412 --> 00:16:36,371 why you passed out? 539 00:16:36,413 --> 00:16:40,584 Yes, and we're 540 00:16:36,413 --> 00:16:40,584 waiting on the results. 541 00:16:40,625 --> 00:16:45,171 Well, Brenda and I think it's 542 00:16:40,625 --> 00:16:45,171 because you don't eat right. 543 00:16:45,213 --> 00:16:47,006 You seriously gonna 544 00:16:45,213 --> 00:16:47,006 start that tonight? 545 00:16:47,048 --> 00:16:49,175 Well, just look at 546 00:16:47,048 --> 00:16:49,175 this for example, huh? 547 00:16:49,217 --> 00:16:53,054 I mean, what is this okay, 548 00:16:49,217 --> 00:16:53,054 this "egg poo young" nonsense? 549 00:16:53,096 --> 00:16:55,766 It's egg foo yong, Melvin. 550 00:16:55,807 --> 00:17:00,854 "Poo young". Whatever it 551 00:16:55,807 --> 00:17:00,854 is, okay? It's not a 552 00:16:55,807 --> 00:17:00,854 wholesome meal. 553 00:17:00,896 --> 00:17:02,355 You know what you 554 00:17:00,896 --> 00:17:02,355 need to do, right? 555 00:17:02,397 --> 00:17:04,065 Take some cooking classes. 556 00:17:04,107 --> 00:17:05,149 Exactly. 557 00:17:05,191 --> 00:17:06,777 Excuse me? 558 00:17:06,818 --> 00:17:08,361 I didn't say nothing. 559 00:17:08,403 --> 00:17:11,448 You didn't marry me for 560 00:17:08,403 --> 00:17:11,448 my cooking, now did you? 561 00:17:11,489 --> 00:17:14,576 Mm. No ma'am I did not. 562 00:17:14,618 --> 00:17:17,913 Excuse me, I ain't trying 563 00:17:14,618 --> 00:17:17,913 to hear all that now, all right? 564 00:17:17,955 --> 00:17:18,789 What, Daddy? 565 00:17:18,830 --> 00:17:19,998 That we have sex? 566 00:17:20,039 --> 00:17:20,791 Tasha. 567 00:17:22,417 --> 00:17:24,168 ♪ Let's get it on ♪ 568 00:17:24,210 --> 00:17:25,587 I tried to have 569 00:17:24,210 --> 00:17:25,587 that talk with you 570 00:17:25,629 --> 00:17:27,171 when you was a little girl. 571 00:17:27,213 --> 00:17:29,007 That talk with you about sex? 572 00:17:29,048 --> 00:17:30,759 You didn't want to 573 00:17:29,048 --> 00:17:30,759 hear nothing about it. 574 00:17:30,801 --> 00:17:32,343 Now look at you. 575 00:17:40,184 --> 00:17:43,146 Tasha. Tasha. 576 00:17:44,022 --> 00:17:44,815 Yeah? 577 00:17:46,149 --> 00:17:49,027 I want to talk to 578 00:17:46,149 --> 00:17:49,027 you for a minute. 579 00:17:52,405 --> 00:17:56,159 Brenda suggested that 580 00:17:52,405 --> 00:17:56,159 maybe you stay home today. 581 00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:59,370 You know since you, well you 582 00:17:56,200 --> 00:17:59,370 know, started menstruation. 583 00:17:59,412 --> 00:18:01,790 God Dad, don't 584 00:17:59,412 --> 00:18:01,790 say that out loud. 585 00:18:01,832 --> 00:18:05,209 I'm sorry, okay? I don't 586 00:18:01,832 --> 00:18:05,209 know all the rules. 587 00:18:06,169 --> 00:18:11,132 Um, did she teach you about 588 00:18:06,169 --> 00:18:11,132 those little pads? 589 00:18:11,174 --> 00:18:13,551 Please let this to 590 00:18:11,174 --> 00:18:13,551 be the end of the talk. 591 00:18:13,593 --> 00:18:14,594 Or my life. 592 00:18:16,179 --> 00:18:17,138 Do you want me to 593 00:18:16,179 --> 00:18:17,138 take you to the store? 594 00:18:17,180 --> 00:18:18,139 Do you need something? 595 00:18:18,181 --> 00:18:19,975 No. 596 00:18:20,017 --> 00:18:23,144 So, do you have any questions? 597 00:18:23,186 --> 00:18:24,103 No. 598 00:18:25,605 --> 00:18:29,359 Tasha, you know, since you are 599 00:18:25,605 --> 00:18:29,359 becoming a woman as of today, 600 00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:32,362 I don't know, I thought maybe 601 00:18:29,400 --> 00:18:32,362 you might have a few questions. 602 00:18:32,403 --> 00:18:34,906 Questions about what? 603 00:18:36,199 --> 00:18:37,325 What do you know about sex? 604 00:18:37,367 --> 00:18:38,326 I'm not having 605 00:18:37,367 --> 00:18:38,326 this talk with you. 606 00:18:38,368 --> 00:18:40,161 Yes you are, okay. 607 00:18:40,203 --> 00:18:43,540 Your mother is not 608 00:18:40,203 --> 00:18:43,540 here, okay so, 609 00:18:43,581 --> 00:18:45,583 who else are you gonna 610 00:18:43,581 --> 00:18:45,583 talk to about it but me? 611 00:18:45,625 --> 00:18:46,543 Dad. 612 00:18:46,584 --> 00:18:49,170 Look Tasha, I am 613 00:18:46,584 --> 00:18:49,170 serious about this okay? 614 00:18:49,212 --> 00:18:52,757 When I was a kid, no one 615 00:18:49,212 --> 00:18:52,757 told me anything about sex. 616 00:18:52,799 --> 00:18:54,342 Everything I learned about sex 617 00:18:54,384 --> 00:18:57,595 was from a song called 618 00:18:54,384 --> 00:18:57,595 "Let's Get It On." 619 00:18:58,179 --> 00:18:59,180 Hmm. 620 00:18:59,222 --> 00:19:00,431 Have to look that one up. 621 00:19:00,473 --> 00:19:02,183 No you don't. 622 00:19:02,225 --> 00:19:07,355 Look many years from now... 623 00:19:02,225 --> 00:19:07,355 maybe when you're 60 or so, 624 00:19:07,397 --> 00:19:09,190 you know you're 625 00:19:07,397 --> 00:19:09,190 gonna wanna have sex. 626 00:19:09,232 --> 00:19:10,191 60 dad? 627 00:19:10,233 --> 00:19:11,192 Come on. 628 00:19:11,234 --> 00:19:13,945 All right, 40, 45, 629 00:19:11,234 --> 00:19:13,945 something like that. 630 00:19:13,987 --> 00:19:15,947 I'm not waiting that long, 631 00:19:15,989 --> 00:19:18,324 and let me save us both 632 00:19:15,989 --> 00:19:18,324 from this devastation. 633 00:19:18,366 --> 00:19:21,202 I've already had 634 00:19:18,366 --> 00:19:21,202 sex ed at school. 635 00:19:21,244 --> 00:19:25,206 I know about sex, the vagina, 636 00:19:21,244 --> 00:19:25,206 penis, egg, and sperm. 637 00:19:25,248 --> 00:19:27,375 Sexually transmitted 638 00:19:25,248 --> 00:19:27,375 diseases, all that. 639 00:19:27,417 --> 00:19:29,753 - Okay, but there's more-- 640 00:19:27,417 --> 00:19:29,753 - But nothing, Dad. 641 00:19:29,794 --> 00:19:31,337 Stop stressing. I'm gonna wait 642 00:19:31,379 --> 00:19:33,965 till I get married to have sex. 643 00:19:34,007 --> 00:19:35,550 I want to have a 644 00:19:34,007 --> 00:19:35,550 beautiful wedding, 645 00:19:35,592 --> 00:19:37,176 just like you and Mom had. 646 00:19:37,218 --> 00:19:40,221 I want a house full 647 00:19:37,218 --> 00:19:40,221 of children, five. 648 00:19:40,263 --> 00:19:41,765 Five? 649 00:19:41,806 --> 00:19:43,725 And I have their 650 00:19:41,806 --> 00:19:43,725 names picked out too. 651 00:19:43,767 --> 00:19:46,310 Patricia, after Mom of course. 652 00:19:46,352 --> 00:19:49,188 Candice, so I can 653 00:19:46,352 --> 00:19:49,188 nickname her Candy. 654 00:19:50,774 --> 00:19:53,151 Oh wait, that sounds like a 655 00:19:50,774 --> 00:19:53,151 stripper name. Scratch that one. 656 00:19:53,192 --> 00:19:55,319 And Alfonzo is gonna be amazing. 657 00:19:55,361 --> 00:19:58,406 Okay. I see you have this 658 00:19:55,361 --> 00:19:58,406 all planned out, all right? 659 00:19:58,448 --> 00:20:00,617 We don't have to go through 660 00:19:58,448 --> 00:20:00,617 every single detail. 661 00:20:00,658 --> 00:20:04,328 Great. Now I 662 00:20:00,658 --> 00:20:04,328 gotta go to school. 663 00:20:09,375 --> 00:20:10,585 Good talk, huh? 664 00:20:13,379 --> 00:20:14,213 I hope. 665 00:20:19,177 --> 00:20:20,511 Great work, Zinobia. 666 00:20:26,017 --> 00:20:28,436 All right class, I need 667 00:20:26,017 --> 00:20:28,436 to return a quick call, 668 00:20:28,478 --> 00:20:31,272 but I will be right at 669 00:20:28,478 --> 00:20:31,272 the door if you need me. 670 00:20:31,314 --> 00:20:34,567 You may talk. Quietly. 671 00:20:39,572 --> 00:20:41,282 Hello? 672 00:20:41,324 --> 00:20:44,786 Yes, this is Tasha Jackson 673 00:20:41,324 --> 00:20:44,786 returning your call. 674 00:20:46,579 --> 00:20:48,957 Okay, so my results aren't in? 675 00:20:48,999 --> 00:20:50,000 Oh, they are? 676 00:20:51,334 --> 00:20:53,503 Well, why can't you just give 677 00:20:51,334 --> 00:20:53,503 them to me over the phone? 678 00:20:56,173 --> 00:20:57,715 Oh, of course my husband 679 00:20:56,173 --> 00:20:57,715 and I will be there 680 00:20:57,757 --> 00:20:59,300 if Dr. Bailey insists. 681 00:21:05,974 --> 00:21:07,934 I apologize for the delay. 682 00:21:07,976 --> 00:21:09,310 It's all right. 683 00:21:09,352 --> 00:21:12,147 Mr. and Mrs. Jackson, 684 00:21:09,352 --> 00:21:12,147 Tasha's results are in 685 00:21:12,189 --> 00:21:14,357 but I wanted to speak 686 00:21:12,189 --> 00:21:14,357 with you personally 687 00:21:14,398 --> 00:21:18,195 because her results are 688 00:21:14,398 --> 00:21:18,195 well, delicate in nature. 689 00:21:19,779 --> 00:21:21,531 What is it, Doctor? 690 00:21:21,572 --> 00:21:23,116 I thought about 691 00:21:21,572 --> 00:21:23,116 how to tell you this 692 00:21:23,158 --> 00:21:25,035 but there's only one 693 00:21:23,158 --> 00:21:25,035 way to say it so, 694 00:21:25,076 --> 00:21:27,704 I'm just gonna come out with it. 695 00:21:27,745 --> 00:21:30,915 You have defied the odds, Tasha. 696 00:21:30,957 --> 00:21:32,333 You're pregnant. 697 00:21:32,375 --> 00:21:33,334 - Oh my God! 698 00:21:32,375 --> 00:21:33,334 - Are you serious? 699 00:21:33,376 --> 00:21:34,335 Oh my God! 700 00:21:35,962 --> 00:21:37,338 Oh, Bernie. 701 00:21:37,380 --> 00:21:38,923 Are you serious? 702 00:21:38,965 --> 00:21:40,508 Nine weeks along. 703 00:21:40,550 --> 00:21:41,342 A baby. 704 00:21:42,969 --> 00:21:44,012 Wow. 705 00:21:46,556 --> 00:21:51,061 But a mass was found 706 00:21:46,556 --> 00:21:51,061 on your mammogram. 707 00:21:51,102 --> 00:21:53,730 - Wait. 708 00:21:51,102 --> 00:21:53,730 - What? 709 00:21:53,771 --> 00:21:57,901 Wait no, no, no. I've been 710 00:21:53,771 --> 00:21:57,901 getting my mammogram for years, 711 00:21:57,942 --> 00:22:00,195 and my results have 712 00:21:57,942 --> 00:22:00,195 always been clean. 713 00:22:00,237 --> 00:22:02,321 I know, and I'm sorry, 714 00:22:02,363 --> 00:22:05,700 but unfortunately 715 00:22:02,363 --> 00:22:05,700 this result was not. 716 00:22:05,742 --> 00:22:07,952 Whoa hold on a second, wait. 717 00:22:09,537 --> 00:22:10,914 Just so I can 718 00:22:09,537 --> 00:22:10,914 understand you clearly, 719 00:22:10,955 --> 00:22:12,916 are you saying my wife 720 00:22:10,955 --> 00:22:12,916 has breast cancer? 721 00:22:12,957 --> 00:22:14,918 No, I'm not saying that at all. 722 00:22:14,959 --> 00:22:17,503 A biopsy will have to be 723 00:22:14,959 --> 00:22:17,503 preformed to determine that. 724 00:22:17,545 --> 00:22:20,131 What I'm saying is 725 00:22:17,545 --> 00:22:20,131 that Tasha has a mass, 726 00:22:20,173 --> 00:22:22,341 and as you both already know 727 00:22:20,173 --> 00:22:22,341 she carries a mutated gene. 728 00:22:22,383 --> 00:22:24,719 The BRCA1 she inherited 729 00:22:22,383 --> 00:22:24,719 from her mother. 730 00:22:24,761 --> 00:22:26,721 This mutation causes 731 00:22:24,761 --> 00:22:26,721 a greater risk 732 00:22:26,763 --> 00:22:28,973 of developing breast cancer. 733 00:22:29,015 --> 00:22:30,349 Okay, but... 734 00:22:32,518 --> 00:22:34,896 but, she can get the biopsy back 735 00:22:34,938 --> 00:22:37,899 and find out the 736 00:22:34,938 --> 00:22:37,899 mass isn't cancerous, 737 00:22:37,941 --> 00:22:40,401 and she and the baby 738 00:22:37,941 --> 00:22:40,401 will be fine, right? 739 00:22:40,443 --> 00:22:41,903 Yes, of course. 740 00:22:41,945 --> 00:22:44,405 The mass can be benign. 741 00:22:44,447 --> 00:22:46,324 And what if it isn't? 742 00:22:46,365 --> 00:22:49,327 If it's malignant, 743 00:22:46,365 --> 00:22:49,327 then your oncologist will 744 00:22:49,368 --> 00:22:50,411 talk to you about 745 00:22:49,368 --> 00:22:50,411 the next steps. 746 00:22:50,453 --> 00:22:54,415 No, no, Doc, you could 747 00:22:50,453 --> 00:22:54,415 just tell us right now. 748 00:22:54,457 --> 00:22:57,794 You're a doctor, you have 749 00:22:54,457 --> 00:22:57,794 an idea of what'll happen. 750 00:22:57,835 --> 00:22:58,628 Please. 751 00:23:00,838 --> 00:23:01,965 I'm sorry I... 752 00:23:05,135 --> 00:23:09,555 Listen, we've been wanting 753 00:23:05,135 --> 00:23:09,555 this baby for a long time. 754 00:23:09,597 --> 00:23:11,057 Yes. 755 00:23:11,099 --> 00:23:14,936 Right, we've been through 756 00:23:11,099 --> 00:23:14,936 too much so just, just tell us. 757 00:23:15,728 --> 00:23:18,940 Okay normally, in a case such 758 00:23:15,728 --> 00:23:18,940 as this, with the pregnancy 759 00:23:18,982 --> 00:23:24,321 in it's early stages, if the 760 00:23:18,982 --> 00:23:24,321 mass is indeed malignant, 761 00:23:24,362 --> 00:23:27,115 depending on the 762 00:23:24,362 --> 00:23:27,115 stage that it's in, 763 00:23:27,157 --> 00:23:28,449 then your 764 00:23:27,157 --> 00:23:28,449 oncologist might suggest 765 00:23:28,491 --> 00:23:30,118 that you terminate the pregnancy 766 00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:33,121 and receive treatment 767 00:23:30,160 --> 00:23:33,121 immediately. 768 00:23:33,163 --> 00:23:34,956 Terminate the pregnancy? 769 00:23:38,335 --> 00:23:40,920 God. Bernie. 770 00:23:47,135 --> 00:23:47,927 Tasha. 771 00:23:51,514 --> 00:23:55,101 If it's between 772 00:23:51,514 --> 00:23:55,101 you and this baby... 773 00:23:55,143 --> 00:23:58,938 I mean, it's no... real choice 774 00:23:55,143 --> 00:23:58,938 in the matter, you know? 775 00:24:00,481 --> 00:24:01,524 Are you serious? 776 00:24:02,733 --> 00:24:06,696 Just, we have options. 777 00:24:02,733 --> 00:24:06,696 Right? 778 00:24:06,737 --> 00:24:08,489 Tasha let me order the biopsy 779 00:24:08,531 --> 00:24:10,658 and let's look at the results 780 00:24:08,531 --> 00:24:10,658 before you get yourself upset. 781 00:24:10,700 --> 00:24:13,536 I mean, in your condition 782 00:24:10,700 --> 00:24:13,536 it is very important 783 00:24:13,577 --> 00:24:14,495 that you remain calm. 784 00:24:14,537 --> 00:24:15,496 Oh God, I can't. 785 00:24:15,538 --> 00:24:16,497 Tasha, baby. 786 00:24:16,539 --> 00:24:17,707 I can't! 787 00:24:18,916 --> 00:24:20,084 Thank you. 788 00:24:20,126 --> 00:24:21,085 Tasha. 789 00:24:38,353 --> 00:24:39,520 Tasha. 790 00:24:39,562 --> 00:24:40,897 Don't you speak to me. 791 00:24:40,938 --> 00:24:43,524 Wait, don't use that 792 00:24:40,938 --> 00:24:43,524 teacher voice on me. 793 00:24:43,566 --> 00:24:46,652 How dare you say 794 00:24:43,566 --> 00:24:46,652 that if it's between me 795 00:24:46,694 --> 00:24:48,863 and the baby there's 796 00:24:46,694 --> 00:24:48,863 no other choice? 797 00:24:48,905 --> 00:24:50,907 My body, my choice. 798 00:24:50,948 --> 00:24:52,700 Hey, wait a second, 799 00:24:50,948 --> 00:24:52,700 you're my wife, okay? 800 00:24:52,742 --> 00:24:54,327 - I have a say in this. 801 00:24:52,742 --> 00:24:54,327 - No, you don't, Bernie. 802 00:24:54,369 --> 00:24:57,121 Yes, I do, Tasha! 803 00:24:54,369 --> 00:24:57,121 I do have a say! Okay? 804 00:25:05,129 --> 00:25:07,548 Why is this happening to me? 805 00:25:07,590 --> 00:25:09,717 Why is this happening to us? 806 00:25:10,718 --> 00:25:11,552 Listen. 807 00:25:11,594 --> 00:25:12,511 What? 808 00:25:14,347 --> 00:25:16,474 Let's not do 809 00:25:14,347 --> 00:25:16,474 this to each other. 810 00:25:16,515 --> 00:25:17,516 Not right now. 811 00:25:19,894 --> 00:25:22,563 The biopsy could 812 00:25:19,894 --> 00:25:22,563 come back benign 813 00:25:22,605 --> 00:25:25,608 and everything will be okay. 814 00:25:25,649 --> 00:25:26,650 All right? 815 00:25:28,527 --> 00:25:29,946 - Okay. 816 00:25:28,527 --> 00:25:29,946 - Okay. 817 00:25:29,987 --> 00:25:31,281 - Come on. 818 00:25:29,987 --> 00:25:31,281 - I'm sorry, Bernie. 819 00:25:31,322 --> 00:25:34,075 No, that's okay, come on. 820 00:25:34,117 --> 00:25:35,118 It's gonna be all right. 821 00:25:41,707 --> 00:25:42,583 Daddy. 822 00:25:47,630 --> 00:25:49,590 It's malignant. 823 00:25:49,632 --> 00:25:50,549 Damn it. 824 00:25:51,884 --> 00:25:54,304 My baby, my baby, my baby. 825 00:25:56,097 --> 00:25:57,640 When I had that biopsy done, 826 00:25:57,681 --> 00:26:01,394 I just knew that everything 827 00:25:57,681 --> 00:26:01,394 was gonna be okay. 828 00:26:02,645 --> 00:26:05,564 But the oncologist 829 00:26:02,645 --> 00:26:05,564 said that I have... 830 00:26:06,690 --> 00:26:09,902 I have invasive ductal 831 00:26:06,690 --> 00:26:09,902 carcinoma stage two. 832 00:26:12,322 --> 00:26:15,074 It's an aggressive 833 00:26:12,322 --> 00:26:15,074 form of breast cancer. 834 00:26:15,116 --> 00:26:19,537 I know. It's what your 835 00:26:15,116 --> 00:26:19,537 mother had, stage four. 836 00:26:20,538 --> 00:26:23,624 Yeah so, Melvin, 837 00:26:20,538 --> 00:26:23,624 Brenda will you please 838 00:26:23,666 --> 00:26:25,042 help me talk some 839 00:26:23,666 --> 00:26:25,042 sense into her? 840 00:26:25,084 --> 00:26:26,627 Please? 841 00:26:26,669 --> 00:26:29,630 The oncologist said that we 842 00:26:26,669 --> 00:26:29,630 should terminate the pregnancy 843 00:26:29,672 --> 00:26:31,841 now so that she can 844 00:26:29,672 --> 00:26:31,841 start her treatment. 845 00:26:31,882 --> 00:26:33,259 Terminate the pregnancy? 846 00:26:33,301 --> 00:26:34,260 Yes. 847 00:26:34,302 --> 00:26:35,636 This is our baby, Bernie. 848 00:26:35,678 --> 00:26:37,638 How many times do I have 849 00:26:35,678 --> 00:26:37,638 to remind you of that? 850 00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:39,265 That's our baby. 851 00:26:39,307 --> 00:26:41,476 Tasha honey, 852 00:26:39,307 --> 00:26:41,476 this is your life. 853 00:26:41,518 --> 00:26:46,481 Yes. Yes. This 854 00:26:41,518 --> 00:26:46,481 is my life. Mine. 855 00:26:46,523 --> 00:26:48,065 Who around this table 856 00:26:46,523 --> 00:26:48,065 understands that? 857 00:26:48,107 --> 00:26:49,859 What is there to understand? 858 00:26:49,900 --> 00:26:51,652 Huh? 859 00:26:51,694 --> 00:26:54,071 The oncologist said that 860 00:26:51,694 --> 00:26:54,071 her cancer's treatable 861 00:26:54,113 --> 00:26:55,614 if we start now, Tasha. 862 00:26:58,075 --> 00:26:59,452 Did you ask the 863 00:26:58,075 --> 00:26:59,452 doctor what would happen 864 00:26:59,494 --> 00:27:00,703 if she's waits till 865 00:26:59,494 --> 00:27:00,703 after the pregnancy? 866 00:27:00,744 --> 00:27:03,456 Yeah, and if she waits 867 00:27:00,744 --> 00:27:03,456 until the baby is born, 868 00:27:03,498 --> 00:27:04,665 then the cancer could grow 869 00:27:04,707 --> 00:27:07,251 and it may be too late 870 00:27:04,707 --> 00:27:07,251 to do anything about it. 871 00:27:07,293 --> 00:27:12,256 Tasha, baby, what 872 00:27:07,293 --> 00:27:12,256 do you want to do? 873 00:27:12,298 --> 00:27:14,633 I want to have our baby. 874 00:27:15,885 --> 00:27:18,262 Look, whatever time I 875 00:27:15,885 --> 00:27:18,262 have left on this earth 876 00:27:18,304 --> 00:27:20,681 I would rather spend it 877 00:27:18,304 --> 00:27:20,681 having a baby to love, 878 00:27:20,723 --> 00:27:22,099 than without one. 879 00:27:23,726 --> 00:27:29,023 Daddy, this is a miracle. 880 00:27:23,726 --> 00:27:29,023 This baby is a gift from God. 881 00:27:29,065 --> 00:27:32,235 What part about that don't 882 00:27:29,065 --> 00:27:32,235 you understand, Bernie? 883 00:27:32,276 --> 00:27:35,029 You know what, I'm not gonna 884 00:27:32,276 --> 00:27:35,029 sit here and listen to this. 885 00:27:35,071 --> 00:27:36,447 So what, you're 886 00:27:35,071 --> 00:27:36,447 just gonna walk away? 887 00:27:36,489 --> 00:27:39,700 You're just gonna walk away? 888 00:27:39,742 --> 00:27:42,912 Let him go. He has 889 00:27:39,742 --> 00:27:42,912 a lot to process. 890 00:27:43,704 --> 00:27:44,663 Trust me, I know. 891 00:27:46,082 --> 00:27:47,458 The thought about 892 00:27:46,082 --> 00:27:47,458 losing the only woman 893 00:27:47,500 --> 00:27:50,836 that you've ever loved... 894 00:27:47,500 --> 00:27:50,836 It's a lot to deal with. 895 00:27:50,878 --> 00:27:52,463 So what? 896 00:27:52,505 --> 00:27:54,715 You two gonna gang up on me too? 897 00:27:54,757 --> 00:27:56,259 Is that it? 898 00:27:56,300 --> 00:27:58,844 We're not gonna 899 00:27:56,300 --> 00:27:58,844 gang up on you, Tasha, 900 00:27:58,886 --> 00:28:02,723 but if your doctor is urging 901 00:27:58,886 --> 00:28:02,723 you to terminate the pregnancy, 902 00:28:02,765 --> 00:28:05,643 then you need to listen to him. 903 00:28:05,684 --> 00:28:08,646 I seen what this disease 904 00:28:05,684 --> 00:28:08,646 can do first hand 905 00:28:08,687 --> 00:28:11,232 and baby, I don't 906 00:28:08,687 --> 00:28:11,232 wish that on you. 907 00:28:13,859 --> 00:28:14,860 Hey, come here. 908 00:28:16,070 --> 00:28:17,696 Come over here with us. 909 00:28:20,741 --> 00:28:21,576 My girls. 910 00:28:27,123 --> 00:28:31,043 ♪ And I try to care from 911 00:28:27,123 --> 00:28:31,043 an angel made for me ♪ 912 00:28:31,085 --> 00:28:32,044 ♪ Made for me ♪ 913 00:28:32,086 --> 00:28:33,837 ♪ Made for me ♪ 914 00:28:33,879 --> 00:28:37,758 ♪ Made for me ♪ 915 00:28:37,800 --> 00:28:38,676 Patricia. 916 00:28:40,094 --> 00:28:40,928 Patricia. 917 00:28:44,474 --> 00:28:46,850 Tasha, call 911 like 918 00:28:44,474 --> 00:28:46,850 we practiced, come on. 919 00:28:46,892 --> 00:28:47,726 Tasha, now! 920 00:28:49,479 --> 00:28:50,271 Patricia. 921 00:28:52,106 --> 00:28:57,153 Even though I 922 00:28:52,106 --> 00:28:57,153 saw how much pain this 923 00:28:52,106 --> 00:28:57,153 disease caused her, 924 00:28:57,820 --> 00:29:00,781 I was equally hurt 925 00:28:57,820 --> 00:29:00,781 that you had to grow up 926 00:29:00,823 --> 00:29:02,492 without her guidance. 927 00:29:06,412 --> 00:29:08,914 Hey Tashy, 928 00:29:06,412 --> 00:29:08,914 you wanna come out 929 00:29:08,956 --> 00:29:09,790 and get something to eat? 930 00:29:09,832 --> 00:29:12,751 I know you must be hungry. 931 00:29:12,793 --> 00:29:14,920 I'm not hungry. 932 00:29:14,962 --> 00:29:15,754 You sure? 933 00:29:20,176 --> 00:29:25,806 You know, Tasha you can 934 00:29:20,176 --> 00:29:25,806 talk to me about anything. 935 00:29:25,848 --> 00:29:28,559 Just like your momma did. 936 00:29:28,601 --> 00:29:31,979 I mean, I wasn't her 937 00:29:28,601 --> 00:29:31,979 best friend for nothing. 938 00:29:34,898 --> 00:29:35,774 Okay. 939 00:29:37,818 --> 00:29:39,153 I'm here if you need me. 940 00:29:51,624 --> 00:29:52,416 Hey, Tasha. 941 00:29:52,458 --> 00:29:53,751 Hey, Bernie. 942 00:29:53,792 --> 00:29:56,337 Your mommy's 943 00:29:53,792 --> 00:29:56,337 gone to Heaven, huh? 944 00:29:56,379 --> 00:29:59,840 My dog Split went to heaven 945 00:29:56,379 --> 00:29:59,840 too, guess it's a good place. 946 00:29:59,882 --> 00:30:01,842 That's what they say in church. 947 00:30:01,884 --> 00:30:03,927 Remember the day 948 00:30:01,884 --> 00:30:03,927 of the funeral? 949 00:30:03,969 --> 00:30:07,765 How could I forget? Yeah. 950 00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:11,769 Heard your mom kicked 951 00:30:09,600 --> 00:30:11,769 the bucket, shrimp. 952 00:30:16,148 --> 00:30:18,526 When I pulled you 953 00:30:16,148 --> 00:30:18,526 out of that fight... 954 00:30:18,568 --> 00:30:19,902 Tasha, stop! 955 00:30:19,943 --> 00:30:22,530 Tasha, I said stop! 956 00:30:22,572 --> 00:30:26,909 ...I knew right then and there, 957 00:30:22,572 --> 00:30:26,909 I could only do so much for you. 958 00:30:26,950 --> 00:30:29,870 You really need to think 959 00:30:26,950 --> 00:30:29,870 about the possibility 960 00:30:29,912 --> 00:30:32,790 of this child growing 961 00:30:29,912 --> 00:30:32,790 up without you. 962 00:30:34,375 --> 00:30:36,960 Now come on, Daddy's 963 00:30:34,375 --> 00:30:36,960 gonna take you home. 964 00:30:38,379 --> 00:30:41,882 I mean one minute we 965 00:30:38,379 --> 00:30:41,882 can't have any kids. 966 00:30:41,924 --> 00:30:45,302 The next minute... 967 00:30:41,924 --> 00:30:45,302 You know? 968 00:30:45,803 --> 00:30:49,890 It's all so much all 969 00:30:45,803 --> 00:30:49,890 of a sudden, man. 970 00:30:49,932 --> 00:30:51,642 Yeah, I know. 971 00:30:51,684 --> 00:30:54,562 I mean, I can't pretend I never 972 00:30:51,684 --> 00:30:54,562 wanted children, you know? 973 00:30:56,105 --> 00:30:57,106 Hmm. 974 00:30:59,149 --> 00:31:01,736 But when we found out 975 00:30:59,149 --> 00:31:01,736 Tasha couldn't have any, 976 00:31:01,778 --> 00:31:03,904 I was cool with that, you know. 977 00:31:03,946 --> 00:31:06,532 I wasn't going 978 00:31:03,946 --> 00:31:06,532 anywhere. I love her. 979 00:31:06,574 --> 00:31:07,784 Yeah, I get it. 980 00:31:15,792 --> 00:31:17,960 I don't want this baby, Tony. 981 00:31:20,588 --> 00:31:25,593 It might not be right 982 00:31:20,588 --> 00:31:25,593 but, that's how I feel. 983 00:31:27,553 --> 00:31:29,513 You'll come around. 984 00:31:29,555 --> 00:31:30,556 I doubt it. 985 00:31:33,976 --> 00:31:35,894 - She needs you man. 986 00:31:33,976 --> 00:31:35,894 - Mm-mm. 987 00:31:37,146 --> 00:31:41,358 Bro, she don't need me. 988 00:31:37,146 --> 00:31:41,358 She got it all figured out. 989 00:31:42,568 --> 00:31:43,736 She's so damn stubborn. 990 00:31:43,778 --> 00:31:44,570 Yeah. 991 00:31:56,999 --> 00:32:00,586 I tucked her in just like 992 00:31:56,999 --> 00:32:00,586 I did when she was little. 993 00:32:00,628 --> 00:32:02,505 She was spent. 994 00:32:02,546 --> 00:32:03,339 I'm sure. 995 00:32:08,135 --> 00:32:10,929 I can't believe 996 00:32:08,135 --> 00:32:10,929 this is happening. 997 00:32:10,971 --> 00:32:11,764 Not to her. 998 00:32:14,975 --> 00:32:16,560 Can I get a cup of tea? 999 00:32:21,023 --> 00:32:22,024 What? 1000 00:32:22,065 --> 00:32:23,984 You mad at me? 1001 00:32:24,026 --> 00:32:25,944 I don't know, am I? 1002 00:32:26,987 --> 00:32:29,990 What does-- 1003 00:32:26,987 --> 00:32:29,990 What's that 1004 00:32:26,987 --> 00:32:29,990 supposed to mean. 1005 00:32:30,032 --> 00:32:33,994 It means... When will I 1006 00:32:30,032 --> 00:32:33,994 be enough for you, Melvin? 1007 00:32:34,036 --> 00:32:37,748 I don't know what the 1008 00:32:34,036 --> 00:32:37,748 hell you talking about. 1009 00:32:44,547 --> 00:32:45,715 All these years I've been here, 1010 00:32:45,756 --> 00:32:47,925 I feel like I'm 1011 00:32:45,756 --> 00:32:47,925 invisible to you. 1012 00:32:47,966 --> 00:32:49,092 Invisible? 1013 00:32:49,134 --> 00:32:50,010 You're standing 1014 00:32:49,134 --> 00:32:50,010 right in front of me. 1015 00:32:50,052 --> 00:32:51,094 Do you see me? 1016 00:32:51,136 --> 00:32:54,515 'Cause I feel like I'm 1017 00:32:51,136 --> 00:32:54,515 standing in Patricia's shadow. 1018 00:32:54,557 --> 00:32:56,726 Nothing I do is ever 1019 00:32:54,557 --> 00:32:56,726 good enough for you. 1020 00:32:56,767 --> 00:32:58,018 Not when I helped you take care 1021 00:32:58,060 --> 00:33:00,103 of my best friend 1022 00:32:58,060 --> 00:33:00,103 until her death. 1023 00:33:00,145 --> 00:33:02,022 Not even when I 1024 00:33:00,145 --> 00:33:02,022 helped you raise Tasha 1025 00:33:02,064 --> 00:33:03,399 while I'm raising my own boys. 1026 00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:07,027 Not once have I ever 1027 00:33:03,440 --> 00:33:07,027 felt appreciated. 1028 00:33:07,069 --> 00:33:09,822 We're in a relationship Brenda, 1029 00:33:07,069 --> 00:33:09,822 that's not enough for you? 1030 00:33:09,864 --> 00:33:11,198 No, it's not. 1031 00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:12,408 Then what do you 1032 00:33:11,240 --> 00:33:12,408 want from me, huh? 1033 00:33:12,449 --> 00:33:14,034 A thank you? 1034 00:33:14,076 --> 00:33:15,244 Do you love me? 1035 00:33:17,454 --> 00:33:19,206 My only child 1036 00:33:17,454 --> 00:33:19,206 just walked in here 1037 00:33:19,248 --> 00:33:21,625 and told me she 1038 00:33:19,248 --> 00:33:21,625 has breast cancer 1039 00:33:21,667 --> 00:33:23,419 and she's foregoing treatment 1040 00:33:23,460 --> 00:33:26,046 for a child she may never raise. 1041 00:33:27,464 --> 00:33:30,634 Every bit of love, 1042 00:33:27,464 --> 00:33:30,634 every bit of support, 1043 00:33:30,676 --> 00:33:33,637 every bit of strength, 1044 00:33:30,676 --> 00:33:33,637 everything I have in me 1045 00:33:33,679 --> 00:33:36,181 is going to my daughter. 1046 00:33:36,223 --> 00:33:39,226 You either accept that, or not. 1047 00:33:41,061 --> 00:33:42,020 I'm going to bed. 1048 00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:01,039 Tasha baby, 1049 00:33:58,120 --> 00:34:01,039 please open the door. 1050 00:34:02,458 --> 00:34:04,084 Tasha's in the bathroom, 1051 00:34:02,458 --> 00:34:04,084 she won't come out. 1052 00:34:04,126 --> 00:34:06,295 I didn't know what to 1053 00:34:04,126 --> 00:34:06,295 do so I called you. 1054 00:34:06,336 --> 00:34:10,007 It's fine. She's 12 years old. 1055 00:34:10,048 --> 00:34:14,094 If she's not coming out of the 1056 00:34:10,048 --> 00:34:14,094 bathroom it's for one reason. 1057 00:34:14,136 --> 00:34:18,056 Sanitary napkins. She's 1058 00:34:14,136 --> 00:34:18,056 crossed over into womanhood. 1059 00:34:19,308 --> 00:34:21,101 How could I not know that? 1060 00:34:21,143 --> 00:34:23,520 Don't beat 1061 00:34:21,143 --> 00:34:23,520 yourself up about it. 1062 00:34:23,562 --> 00:34:26,565 Tasha honey, it's Brenda. 1063 00:34:27,858 --> 00:34:28,859 Can I come in? 1064 00:34:35,658 --> 00:34:37,618 I'll be in the kitchen. 1065 00:34:37,660 --> 00:34:38,661 It'll be fine. 1066 00:34:38,702 --> 00:34:39,536 Yeah. 1067 00:34:46,418 --> 00:34:47,711 She's growing up. 1068 00:34:48,838 --> 00:34:51,131 Best to let her stay 1069 00:34:48,838 --> 00:34:51,131 home from school today. 1070 00:34:51,173 --> 00:34:52,967 Experiencing that 1071 00:34:51,173 --> 00:34:52,967 for the first time 1072 00:34:53,009 --> 00:34:54,677 can be a little traumatic. 1073 00:34:54,718 --> 00:34:55,678 Thank you, Brenda. 1074 00:34:55,719 --> 00:34:57,095 Mm-hmm. No problem. 1075 00:35:01,141 --> 00:35:03,978 You know, 1076 00:35:04,020 --> 00:35:06,146 with Patricia 1077 00:35:04,020 --> 00:35:06,146 gone I just feel as though 1078 00:35:06,188 --> 00:35:08,524 there's so much 1079 00:35:06,188 --> 00:35:08,524 she's missing out on 1080 00:35:08,565 --> 00:35:09,817 that I can't give to her. 1081 00:35:09,859 --> 00:35:11,151 Well, I'm not her mother, 1082 00:35:11,193 --> 00:35:14,613 but I'm always here 1083 00:35:11,193 --> 00:35:14,613 to help you with her. 1084 00:35:14,655 --> 00:35:16,198 I don't want to burden you. 1085 00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:19,117 It's no burden. 1086 00:35:16,239 --> 00:35:19,117 I can help her. 1087 00:35:20,995 --> 00:35:21,996 And you. 1088 00:35:30,212 --> 00:35:32,172 - I can't. 1089 00:35:30,212 --> 00:35:32,172 - Yes, you can. 1090 00:35:41,640 --> 00:35:42,432 Melvin. 1091 00:35:44,434 --> 00:35:47,021 You're a man with needs. 1092 00:35:47,063 --> 00:35:49,439 I'm a woman with the same needs. 1093 00:35:51,233 --> 00:35:54,152 My needs are taken 1094 00:35:51,233 --> 00:35:54,152 care of just fine. 1095 00:35:55,696 --> 00:35:58,156 Oh, I see. 1096 00:35:59,909 --> 00:36:03,871 So, you can be with other 1097 00:35:59,909 --> 00:36:03,871 women, just not me. Is that it? 1098 00:36:03,913 --> 00:36:06,456 Brenda, it's not 1099 00:36:03,913 --> 00:36:06,456 easy for you and me. 1100 00:36:06,498 --> 00:36:09,251 You were her best friend. 1101 00:36:09,292 --> 00:36:10,878 It's been four years. 1102 00:36:10,920 --> 00:36:13,089 You think I don't know that? 1103 00:36:13,130 --> 00:36:17,885 She's gone Melvin, and 1104 00:36:13,130 --> 00:36:17,885 I'm here, and I love you. 1105 00:36:17,927 --> 00:36:19,469 And that little girl upstairs, 1106 00:36:19,511 --> 00:36:21,847 - I love her like she's my own. 1107 00:36:19,511 --> 00:36:21,847 - I know that. 1108 00:36:21,889 --> 00:36:22,848 Then why? 1109 00:36:22,890 --> 00:36:24,850 I just-- Look I 1110 00:36:22,890 --> 00:36:24,850 just can't, okay? 1111 00:36:24,892 --> 00:36:26,852 Can't is not a reason. 1112 00:36:26,894 --> 00:36:28,228 Why don't you just 1113 00:36:26,894 --> 00:36:28,228 consider the fact that-- 1114 00:36:28,270 --> 00:36:31,690 Look, I'm still in 1115 00:36:28,270 --> 00:36:31,690 love with my wife, okay? 1116 00:36:33,109 --> 00:36:36,862 Look, I don't want 1117 00:36:33,109 --> 00:36:36,862 to hurt you, Brenda. 1118 00:36:36,904 --> 00:36:38,238 I took care of her 1119 00:36:36,904 --> 00:36:38,238 when that cancer 1120 00:36:38,280 --> 00:36:40,198 was just eating her away. 1121 00:36:41,700 --> 00:36:44,244 I did everything I 1122 00:36:41,700 --> 00:36:44,244 could to keep her here. 1123 00:36:44,286 --> 00:36:47,456 Because Tasha needed her mother. 1124 00:36:47,497 --> 00:36:49,458 I took care of her too. 1125 00:36:49,499 --> 00:36:51,501 I was right there with you. 1126 00:36:52,836 --> 00:36:56,715 So you expect me to just 1127 00:36:52,836 --> 00:36:56,715 make love to her best friend? 1128 00:36:56,757 --> 00:36:57,758 Yes. 1129 00:36:59,676 --> 00:37:01,720 You just don't understand. 1130 00:37:01,762 --> 00:37:03,639 I can't betray 1131 00:37:01,762 --> 00:37:03,639 Patricia like that. 1132 00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:06,266 You can't betray a dead woman. 1133 00:37:08,477 --> 00:37:12,856 I didn't mean that. I'm sorry. 1134 00:37:12,898 --> 00:37:15,985 Look, I know she's dead, okay? 1135 00:37:16,026 --> 00:37:19,279 And she's not coming back. 1136 00:37:19,321 --> 00:37:24,660 And you're a beautiful 1137 00:37:19,321 --> 00:37:24,660 woman. Any man would be 1138 00:37:19,321 --> 00:37:24,660 lucky to have you. 1139 00:37:24,701 --> 00:37:26,286 But I'm not gonna sit here 1140 00:37:26,328 --> 00:37:30,707 and pretend that I want any 1141 00:37:26,328 --> 00:37:30,707 more from you than friendship. 1142 00:37:30,749 --> 00:37:32,751 I don't need anymore friends. 1143 00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:39,883 I can't do this anymore. 1144 00:37:41,343 --> 00:37:45,889 Brenda, don't leave. 1145 00:37:41,343 --> 00:37:45,889 Tasha needs you. 1146 00:37:47,850 --> 00:37:49,893 If only you needed me too. 1147 00:38:02,572 --> 00:38:03,573 Hey. 1148 00:38:04,366 --> 00:38:05,617 Hey. 1149 00:38:05,659 --> 00:38:09,329 I have a sonogram 1150 00:38:05,659 --> 00:38:09,329 appointment this morning. 1151 00:38:09,371 --> 00:38:11,456 You think you could make it? 1152 00:38:13,834 --> 00:38:19,256 Um, yeah, I don't think so 1153 00:38:13,834 --> 00:38:19,256 babe. I don't think I can. 1154 00:38:19,297 --> 00:38:20,465 Could you try? 1155 00:38:23,177 --> 00:38:24,220 I gotta work. 1156 00:38:35,939 --> 00:38:40,861 All right. Okay, thanks 1157 00:38:35,939 --> 00:38:40,861 for telling me. Okay. 1158 00:38:40,903 --> 00:38:45,032 That was Tasha. She has 1159 00:38:40,903 --> 00:38:45,032 a sonogram this morning. 1160 00:38:45,074 --> 00:38:47,826 What? You still 1161 00:38:45,074 --> 00:38:47,826 not talking to me? 1162 00:38:47,868 --> 00:38:49,411 For what? 1163 00:38:49,452 --> 00:38:51,329 I don't have anything to say. 1164 00:38:51,371 --> 00:38:53,957 Then don't say 1165 00:38:51,371 --> 00:38:53,957 anything. 1166 00:38:53,999 --> 00:38:57,211 We just uh... 1167 00:38:53,999 --> 00:38:57,211 make up. 1168 00:38:59,171 --> 00:39:02,340 Aren't we a little 1169 00:38:59,171 --> 00:39:02,340 too old for make up sex? 1170 00:39:02,382 --> 00:39:06,344 I don't know. 1171 00:39:02,382 --> 00:39:06,344 Tell me when we're finished. 1172 00:39:11,725 --> 00:39:13,393 The gel is warm. 1173 00:39:13,435 --> 00:39:14,352 Okay. 1174 00:39:18,398 --> 00:39:19,775 Oh. 1175 00:39:23,112 --> 00:39:25,530 All right, here we go. 1176 00:39:29,952 --> 00:39:30,953 There. 1177 00:39:32,454 --> 00:39:35,415 It looks like a 1178 00:39:32,454 --> 00:39:35,415 little kidney bean. 1179 00:39:37,209 --> 00:39:40,003 Yes, that's what it's supposed 1180 00:39:37,209 --> 00:39:40,003 to look like at this gestation. 1181 00:39:40,045 --> 00:39:41,297 Wow. 1182 00:39:41,713 --> 00:39:43,465 Well, is everything okay, 1183 00:39:41,713 --> 00:39:43,465 is the heart beating? 1184 00:39:43,506 --> 00:39:46,302 Heart beat is strong. 1185 00:39:46,343 --> 00:39:47,427 You're about 11 weeks along. 1186 00:39:54,143 --> 00:39:56,436 Miss Jackson, are you okay? 1187 00:39:56,478 --> 00:39:58,897 I wish my husband 1188 00:39:56,478 --> 00:39:58,897 was here is all. 1189 00:39:58,939 --> 00:40:01,483 We'll print a 1190 00:39:58,939 --> 00:40:01,483 picture out for him. 1191 00:40:01,524 --> 00:40:03,443 No one wants to do 1192 00:40:01,524 --> 00:40:03,443 the first... ya know, 1193 00:40:03,485 --> 00:40:04,903 sonogram alone, you know? 1194 00:40:04,945 --> 00:40:06,404 Oh yeah, I understand. 1195 00:40:07,489 --> 00:40:08,698 Did we miss it? 1196 00:40:08,740 --> 00:40:10,492 Oh my God, you're here? 1197 00:40:10,533 --> 00:40:16,165 Oh, Brenda and Daddy. 1198 00:40:10,533 --> 00:40:16,165 Oh, here you go. 1199 00:40:17,207 --> 00:40:18,458 We would have been 1200 00:40:17,207 --> 00:40:18,458 here earlier but um-- 1201 00:40:18,500 --> 00:40:19,709 Traffic. 1202 00:40:19,751 --> 00:40:21,295 - Yeah. 1203 00:40:19,751 --> 00:40:21,295 - We were caught in traffic. 1204 00:40:21,337 --> 00:40:24,089 Yeah, caught in traffic, good 1205 00:40:21,337 --> 00:40:24,089 traffic-- I mean, big traffic. 1206 00:40:24,131 --> 00:40:25,465 Yeah. 1207 00:40:25,507 --> 00:40:26,424 Okay? 1208 00:40:27,926 --> 00:40:29,469 All right, let's fire this thing 1209 00:40:27,926 --> 00:40:29,469 up so I can see this baby. 1210 00:40:29,511 --> 00:40:31,096 Oh, yeah, sure thing. 1211 00:40:31,138 --> 00:40:33,015 Oh, yeah. 1212 00:40:33,056 --> 00:40:36,810 Look, I got the baby 1213 00:40:33,056 --> 00:40:36,810 on film before it's even here! 1214 00:40:38,687 --> 00:40:41,564 I know. It's so tiny. 1215 00:40:43,108 --> 00:40:45,319 Okay, here goes nothing. 1216 00:40:48,488 --> 00:40:54,995 Hello there, um... well, today 1217 00:40:48,488 --> 00:40:54,995 has been all in all, uh... 1218 00:40:55,037 --> 00:40:56,997 Oh my God. 1219 00:40:57,039 --> 00:41:01,168 What the hell am 1220 00:40:57,039 --> 00:41:01,168 I trying to say? 1221 00:41:01,210 --> 00:41:02,585 Oh, I got it. 1222 00:41:04,838 --> 00:41:09,968 All right, um... Hey there 1223 00:41:04,838 --> 00:41:09,968 little person, whoever you are. 1224 00:41:10,010 --> 00:41:12,512 My name is Tasha, Tasha Jackson 1225 00:41:12,554 --> 00:41:18,310 and um... 1226 00:41:12,554 --> 00:41:18,310 I recently turned 30 and um... 1227 00:41:18,352 --> 00:41:22,522 Damn it. This thing's 1228 00:41:18,352 --> 00:41:22,522 not even recording. 1229 00:41:22,564 --> 00:41:24,524 Okay, okay here we go. 1230 00:41:28,695 --> 00:41:30,488 Hello, little one. 1231 00:41:32,324 --> 00:41:34,993 I am your mommy, Tasha, 1232 00:41:35,035 --> 00:41:38,997 and right now you 1233 00:41:35,035 --> 00:41:38,997 are in my tummy, see? 1234 00:41:41,583 --> 00:41:45,545 Um, I am recording this 1235 00:41:41,583 --> 00:41:45,545 because apparently 1236 00:41:45,587 --> 00:41:48,590 your grandfather Melvin 1237 00:41:45,587 --> 00:41:48,590 had it right all along. 1238 00:41:48,631 --> 00:41:52,010 Important things should 1239 00:41:48,631 --> 00:41:52,010 be captured on film. 1240 00:41:52,052 --> 00:41:56,181 So here I am recording 1241 00:41:52,052 --> 00:41:56,181 this just for you. 1242 00:41:56,223 --> 00:42:00,643 So, I am 11 weeks 1243 00:41:56,223 --> 00:42:00,643 pregnant with you 1244 00:42:00,685 --> 00:42:04,564 and I also have breast cancer. 1245 00:42:04,606 --> 00:42:06,233 Just like my mom. 1246 00:42:09,611 --> 00:42:11,238 But I want you to know 1247 00:42:12,364 --> 00:42:19,204 that no matter what 1248 00:42:12,364 --> 00:42:19,204 happens, I chose you. 1249 00:42:19,246 --> 00:42:25,543 You are loved, 1250 00:42:19,246 --> 00:42:25,543 and I will always, 1251 00:42:25,585 --> 00:42:27,963 always be here with you. 1252 00:42:29,631 --> 00:42:31,383 Tasha. 1253 00:42:31,425 --> 00:42:34,177 That's your loud daddy. 1254 00:42:34,219 --> 00:42:35,595 Yeah? 1255 00:42:35,637 --> 00:42:36,554 Breakfast. 1256 00:42:42,018 --> 00:42:43,437 What's all this? 1257 00:42:45,439 --> 00:42:47,774 What do you mean, 1258 00:42:45,439 --> 00:42:47,774 it's breakfast. 1259 00:42:47,816 --> 00:42:50,777 Well, I can see that, it's 1260 00:42:47,816 --> 00:42:50,777 just your idea of breakfast 1261 00:42:50,819 --> 00:42:52,195 is usually cereal. 1262 00:42:52,237 --> 00:42:53,238 Yeah, well. 1263 00:42:55,449 --> 00:42:56,241 Not today. 1264 00:42:58,243 --> 00:43:00,120 Bernie, don't do this. 1265 00:43:01,663 --> 00:43:02,956 Do what? 1266 00:43:02,998 --> 00:43:06,584 Start doing all this 1267 00:43:02,998 --> 00:43:06,584 extra unnecessary stuff. 1268 00:43:07,794 --> 00:43:09,587 It's just breakfast, Tasha. 1269 00:43:09,629 --> 00:43:14,384 No, it's not, it's um... 1270 00:43:09,629 --> 00:43:14,384 "You know I think you're 1271 00:43:09,629 --> 00:43:14,384 gonna die soon, 1272 00:43:14,426 --> 00:43:17,179 so let me start doing this 1273 00:43:14,426 --> 00:43:17,179 extra stuff to compensate 1274 00:43:17,220 --> 00:43:18,763 for what I should have 1275 00:43:17,220 --> 00:43:18,763 been doing all along." 1276 00:43:18,805 --> 00:43:20,765 That's not fair, Tasha. 1277 00:43:20,807 --> 00:43:24,186 Okay? I made breakfast 1278 00:43:20,807 --> 00:43:24,186 because I wanted to. 1279 00:43:24,227 --> 00:43:25,603 So this is the 1280 00:43:24,227 --> 00:43:25,603 part where we start 1281 00:43:25,645 --> 00:43:26,771 talking about what's fair? 1282 00:43:26,813 --> 00:43:27,981 No, you don't want to 1283 00:43:26,813 --> 00:43:27,981 have that conversation 1284 00:43:28,023 --> 00:43:29,399 with me right now, trust me. 1285 00:43:29,441 --> 00:43:32,652 Oh, yes I do. I do want 1286 00:43:29,441 --> 00:43:32,652 to have this conversation. 1287 00:43:32,694 --> 00:43:34,571 All right, let's have 1288 00:43:32,694 --> 00:43:34,571 the conversation. 1289 00:43:34,612 --> 00:43:37,574 How are you gonna 1290 00:43:34,612 --> 00:43:37,574 convince me or anybody else 1291 00:43:37,615 --> 00:43:39,576 that you're being fair to 1292 00:43:37,615 --> 00:43:39,576 yourself and your husband 1293 00:43:39,617 --> 00:43:42,662 by keeping this baby instead 1294 00:43:39,617 --> 00:43:42,662 of saving your own life? 1295 00:43:42,704 --> 00:43:46,583 Hmm? Explain to me how 1296 00:43:42,704 --> 00:43:46,583 that's fair. I'm listening. 1297 00:43:46,624 --> 00:43:50,753 Bernie, this is not 25 years 1298 00:43:46,624 --> 00:43:50,753 ago when my mother had cancer. 1299 00:43:50,795 --> 00:43:53,590 There are new treatments 1300 00:43:50,795 --> 00:43:53,590 and medicines... 1301 00:43:53,631 --> 00:43:56,385 You are acting as if you're 1302 00:43:53,631 --> 00:43:56,385 about to plan my funeral. 1303 00:43:56,426 --> 00:43:58,595 I might have to. 1304 00:43:58,636 --> 00:44:01,056 Do you understand that, 1305 00:43:58,636 --> 00:44:01,056 Tasha? I just might have to. 1306 00:44:01,097 --> 00:44:03,683 God, you don't think 1307 00:44:01,097 --> 00:44:03,683 that I'm afraid of that? 1308 00:44:03,725 --> 00:44:05,768 I am, God knows I wanna live. 1309 00:44:05,810 --> 00:44:08,646 Then do what needs 1310 00:44:05,810 --> 00:44:08,646 to be done, okay? 1311 00:44:18,907 --> 00:44:19,908 God. 1312 00:44:21,201 --> 00:44:26,206 You are so damn 1313 00:44:21,201 --> 00:44:26,206 stubborn and naive. 1314 00:44:27,749 --> 00:44:30,168 And what if I lose you, huh? 1315 00:44:30,210 --> 00:44:31,169 Hmm? What then? 1316 00:44:31,211 --> 00:44:32,421 What do I do? 1317 00:44:36,425 --> 00:44:39,428 I've loved you my 1318 00:44:36,425 --> 00:44:39,428 entire life, Tasha. 1319 00:44:40,429 --> 00:44:43,557 Oh Bernie, I am so sorry. 1320 00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:48,604 I am so-- 1321 00:44:44,600 --> 00:44:48,604 I am so sorry. 1322 00:44:49,771 --> 00:44:52,148 Ok, um... 1323 00:44:52,190 --> 00:44:53,567 Look, you ready to go? 1324 00:44:53,609 --> 00:44:55,944 Oh my God, my feet 1325 00:44:53,609 --> 00:44:55,944 are killing me. 1326 00:44:55,985 --> 00:44:57,571 You're walking around 1327 00:44:55,985 --> 00:44:57,571 campus all day 1328 00:44:57,613 --> 00:44:58,738 and then you come 1329 00:44:57,613 --> 00:44:58,738 here work at night, 1330 00:44:58,780 --> 00:45:00,490 I bet your feet do hurt. 1331 00:45:02,075 --> 00:45:04,369 Don't expect no foot 1332 00:45:02,075 --> 00:45:04,369 rub or nothing, though. 1333 00:45:04,411 --> 00:45:05,954 Thanks for coming all 1334 00:45:04,411 --> 00:45:05,954 this way to pick me up. 1335 00:45:05,995 --> 00:45:10,917 It aint nothing, you know, 1336 00:45:05,995 --> 00:45:10,917 that's what best friends 1337 00:45:05,995 --> 00:45:10,917 are for, right? 1338 00:45:10,959 --> 00:45:11,960 Yes. 1339 00:45:12,419 --> 00:45:14,921 Why 1340 00:45:12,419 --> 00:45:14,921 am I picking you up? 1341 00:45:14,963 --> 00:45:16,756 Because I asked you to. 1342 00:45:16,798 --> 00:45:19,759 I know that, your dad 1343 00:45:16,798 --> 00:45:19,759 couldn't pick you up? 1344 00:45:19,801 --> 00:45:22,929 - I'm trying to surprise him. 1345 00:45:19,801 --> 00:45:22,929 - Aww. 1346 00:45:22,971 --> 00:45:24,764 Ain't that sweet. 1347 00:45:24,806 --> 00:45:25,932 Why are you coming home now? 1348 00:45:25,974 --> 00:45:28,560 It's not a holiday or 1349 00:45:25,974 --> 00:45:28,560 a break or anything. 1350 00:45:28,602 --> 00:45:31,521 Tomorrow's the 1351 00:45:28,602 --> 00:45:31,521 anniversary of Mom's death. 1352 00:45:33,815 --> 00:45:36,359 I don't like leaving 1353 00:45:33,815 --> 00:45:36,359 him home alone you know? 1354 00:45:36,401 --> 00:45:39,946 Yeah, I bet that. 1355 00:45:36,401 --> 00:45:39,946 That's what's up. 1356 00:45:39,988 --> 00:45:40,947 Don't act like you 1357 00:45:39,988 --> 00:45:40,947 ain't gonna put no money 1358 00:45:40,989 --> 00:45:42,782 in my gas tank, though. 1359 00:45:42,824 --> 00:45:44,159 So what, you broke again? 1360 00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:45,577 What? 1361 00:45:45,619 --> 00:45:47,912 Girl, you got jokes. 1362 00:45:45,619 --> 00:45:47,912 Nah, I ain't broke. 1363 00:45:47,954 --> 00:45:49,122 I got a little 1364 00:45:47,954 --> 00:45:49,122 something happening. 1365 00:45:49,164 --> 00:45:50,748 Doing what? 1366 00:45:50,790 --> 00:45:51,916 Don't look at me like that. 1367 00:45:51,958 --> 00:45:54,586 I ain't doing nothing 1368 00:45:51,958 --> 00:45:54,586 illegal, Tasha. 1369 00:45:54,628 --> 00:45:55,545 Hey yo, 1370 00:45:54,628 --> 00:45:55,545 for real, I'm not. 1371 00:45:57,589 --> 00:45:59,757 I got a job at this 1372 00:45:57,589 --> 00:45:59,757 carpet company. 1373 00:45:59,799 --> 00:46:02,218 Bernie, you the dude 1374 00:45:59,799 --> 00:46:02,218 that can barely vacuum. 1375 00:46:02,260 --> 00:46:05,930 Well, I guess that's something 1376 00:46:02,260 --> 00:46:05,930 we got in common then. 1377 00:46:05,972 --> 00:46:07,599 Well, good for you then. 1378 00:46:09,392 --> 00:46:12,187 Take care of you 1379 00:46:09,392 --> 00:46:12,187 too, if you let me. 1380 00:46:14,814 --> 00:46:16,733 Okay, you see Bernie that's 1381 00:46:14,814 --> 00:46:16,733 what I'm talking about. 1382 00:46:16,816 --> 00:46:17,775 You play too much. 1383 00:46:26,159 --> 00:46:28,953 Brenda, hey. It's been a while. 1384 00:46:31,164 --> 00:46:33,791 Melvin, hi. 1385 00:46:34,959 --> 00:46:38,129 Yeah, what five years at least. 1386 00:46:38,171 --> 00:46:39,964 Six years to be exact. 1387 00:46:41,591 --> 00:46:43,552 What are you doing here? 1388 00:46:43,593 --> 00:46:44,844 Well, you know a 1389 00:46:43,593 --> 00:46:44,844 little market like this 1390 00:46:44,886 --> 00:46:46,137 is the best place to 1391 00:46:44,886 --> 00:46:46,137 get a good steak. 1392 00:46:46,179 --> 00:46:47,764 It's the best market in town. 1393 00:46:47,805 --> 00:46:49,932 I was just picking up my 1394 00:46:47,805 --> 00:46:49,932 seasonings for my jerk chicken. 1395 00:46:49,974 --> 00:46:51,768 Ah, your jerk chicken, yeah. 1396 00:46:51,809 --> 00:46:53,144 I remember that. 1397 00:46:53,186 --> 00:46:54,896 So, how's Tasha? 1398 00:46:54,937 --> 00:46:56,523 - She's in college now. 1399 00:46:54,937 --> 00:46:56,523 - Wow. 1400 00:46:56,565 --> 00:46:58,941 Yeah, actually I was 1401 00:46:56,565 --> 00:46:58,941 hoping she'd come home 1402 00:46:58,983 --> 00:47:01,819 in a few days, for you know... 1403 00:47:02,779 --> 00:47:04,531 Uh, but she's busy studying. 1404 00:47:04,573 --> 00:47:07,534 Tomorrow's the anniversary 1405 00:47:04,573 --> 00:47:07,534 of Patricia's passing. 1406 00:47:07,576 --> 00:47:09,911 Yeah. What's going on 1407 00:47:07,576 --> 00:47:09,911 with you? You married? 1408 00:47:09,952 --> 00:47:11,538 You not married? What? 1409 00:47:11,580 --> 00:47:14,541 No, no, no. Been 1410 00:47:11,580 --> 00:47:14,541 there done that. 1411 00:47:14,583 --> 00:47:16,543 Yeah, I remember you having 1412 00:47:14,583 --> 00:47:16,543 a hard time with your divorce. 1413 00:47:16,585 --> 00:47:20,880 Oh, no not really. He 1414 00:47:16,585 --> 00:47:20,880 was a lying, manipulative, 1415 00:47:20,922 --> 00:47:24,926 narcissistic, weak example of 1416 00:47:20,922 --> 00:47:24,926 a man. Easy to walk away from. 1417 00:47:24,967 --> 00:47:26,762 Damn, tell me how 1418 00:47:24,967 --> 00:47:26,762 you really feel. 1419 00:47:30,139 --> 00:47:33,727 Well, listen, it was 1420 00:47:30,139 --> 00:47:33,727 good to see you Melvin. 1421 00:47:33,769 --> 00:47:36,896 Give Tasha my love and 1422 00:47:33,769 --> 00:47:36,896 tell her I miss her. 1423 00:47:36,938 --> 00:47:41,859 What about me? I mean, do 1424 00:47:36,938 --> 00:47:41,859 you miss me even a little? 1425 00:47:44,153 --> 00:47:47,532 You were such a constant 1426 00:47:44,153 --> 00:47:47,532 in our lives for years, 1427 00:47:47,574 --> 00:47:50,535 and these past years without 1428 00:47:47,574 --> 00:47:50,535 you, I really regret it. 1429 00:47:50,577 --> 00:47:54,330 If I could go back I 1430 00:47:50,577 --> 00:47:54,330 would-- Well it's not important. 1431 00:47:54,372 --> 00:47:56,124 I really miss you, Brenda. 1432 00:47:56,165 --> 00:47:58,126 I'm not Patricia, Melvin. 1433 00:47:58,167 --> 00:47:59,586 I know that. 1434 00:48:01,630 --> 00:48:03,923 I was never trying 1435 00:48:01,630 --> 00:48:03,923 to take her place. 1436 00:48:03,965 --> 00:48:06,926 I was just trying to be there 1437 00:48:03,965 --> 00:48:06,926 in whatever capacity I could. 1438 00:48:06,968 --> 00:48:11,765 I realize that, and I took 1439 00:48:06,968 --> 00:48:11,765 you for granted and I'm sorry. 1440 00:48:12,557 --> 00:48:16,561 Yes, I do miss you. 1441 00:48:18,354 --> 00:48:20,940 Well, what are you 1442 00:48:18,354 --> 00:48:20,940 doing tonight? 1443 00:48:20,982 --> 00:48:21,983 Are you busy? 1444 00:48:22,024 --> 00:48:23,109 Would you like to have dinner? 1445 00:48:23,151 --> 00:48:25,570 Remember, I cook a mean steak. 1446 00:48:26,988 --> 00:48:32,952 Thank you, but um... 1447 00:48:26,988 --> 00:48:32,952 I'm gonna pass on dinner. 1448 00:48:32,994 --> 00:48:34,579 You take care of yourself, okay? 1449 00:48:48,217 --> 00:48:49,135 Melvin. 1450 00:48:51,346 --> 00:48:53,139 I like my steaks rare. 1451 00:48:54,766 --> 00:48:55,933 Okay. 1452 00:48:55,975 --> 00:48:56,768 Cabernet? 1453 00:48:59,771 --> 00:49:00,730 Daddy! 1454 00:49:02,023 --> 00:49:02,940 Daddy, I'm home! 1455 00:49:07,028 --> 00:49:07,945 Daddy! 1456 00:49:10,114 --> 00:49:10,948 Brenda? 1457 00:49:12,116 --> 00:49:12,950 Oh! 1458 00:49:16,037 --> 00:49:18,289 Oh my God, I can't believe this. 1459 00:49:18,331 --> 00:49:20,082 And on the anniversary 1460 00:49:18,331 --> 00:49:20,082 of my mother's death? 1461 00:49:20,124 --> 00:49:22,001 That is totally disrespectful. 1462 00:49:22,043 --> 00:49:24,921 Well, technically it's 1463 00:49:22,043 --> 00:49:24,921 not on the anniversary. 1464 00:49:24,962 --> 00:49:27,965 That's tomorrow, but I mean-- 1465 00:49:28,966 --> 00:49:31,720 To me, your dad and Brenda 1466 00:49:28,966 --> 00:49:31,720 makes sense, you know? 1467 00:49:31,761 --> 00:49:32,721 Really, Bernie? 1468 00:49:32,762 --> 00:49:34,305 She was my mother's best friend. 1469 00:49:34,347 --> 00:49:36,933 Yeah I know, but I mean... 1470 00:49:36,974 --> 00:49:39,018 What do you mean? 1471 00:49:36,974 --> 00:49:39,018 What do you mean? 1472 00:49:39,060 --> 00:49:43,481 Look, it's not like he's 1473 00:49:39,060 --> 00:49:43,481 cheating on your moms, you know? 1474 00:49:43,523 --> 00:49:47,610 And Brenda, I mean, I'm just 1475 00:49:43,523 --> 00:49:47,610 saying-- I'd hit it. 1476 00:49:48,528 --> 00:49:50,029 Ow, hey come on 1477 00:49:48,528 --> 00:49:50,029 stop hitting on me. 1478 00:49:50,071 --> 00:49:52,031 No, not when you 1479 00:49:50,071 --> 00:49:52,031 say dumb crap like that. 1480 00:49:52,073 --> 00:49:53,491 Come on Tasha, are you serious? 1481 00:49:53,533 --> 00:49:55,493 What, you think your dad's 1482 00:49:53,533 --> 00:49:55,493 gonna go the rest of his life 1483 00:49:55,535 --> 00:49:57,036 without gettin' some? 1484 00:49:57,078 --> 00:49:59,915 Come on man, you 1485 00:49:57,078 --> 00:49:59,915 need to chill out. 1486 00:49:59,956 --> 00:50:01,290 I don't need to do anything, 1487 00:50:01,332 --> 00:50:03,919 but go back to school right now. 1488 00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:06,504 No. no. Right now? 1489 00:50:06,546 --> 00:50:07,881 - Yes. 1490 00:50:06,546 --> 00:50:07,881 - No, no. 1491 00:50:07,923 --> 00:50:09,090 We're not going back right 1492 00:50:07,923 --> 00:50:09,090 now, we just got here. 1493 00:50:09,131 --> 00:50:13,970 I'm not turning around and 1494 00:50:09,131 --> 00:50:13,970 taking you all the way back. 1495 00:50:14,303 --> 00:50:15,430 Fine. 1496 00:50:18,099 --> 00:50:20,685 Can I spend the night 1497 00:50:18,099 --> 00:50:20,685 at your house then? 1498 00:50:20,727 --> 00:50:23,521 I really don't want 1499 00:50:20,727 --> 00:50:23,521 to got home tonight. 1500 00:50:25,106 --> 00:50:26,691 Are you finished yet? 1501 00:50:26,733 --> 00:50:28,484 Bernie, I told you not to look. 1502 00:50:28,526 --> 00:50:31,905 I'm not looking, 1503 00:50:28,526 --> 00:50:31,905 all right? I'm just tired. 1504 00:50:31,947 --> 00:50:33,072 You know, it took me four 1505 00:50:31,947 --> 00:50:33,072 hours to come get you 1506 00:50:33,114 --> 00:50:35,116 and four hours to come back. 1507 00:50:41,122 --> 00:50:41,915 Okay, I'm done. 1508 00:50:41,957 --> 00:50:42,749 Thank you. 1509 00:50:52,508 --> 00:50:55,470 Bernie, what are you doing? 1510 00:50:55,511 --> 00:50:58,514 I'm not sleeping 1511 00:50:55,511 --> 00:50:58,514 in my clothes. 1512 00:51:00,809 --> 00:51:02,184 Oh, man. 1513 00:51:03,728 --> 00:51:06,272 No, no, no, no, no, 1514 00:51:03,728 --> 00:51:06,272 you sleep on the floor 1515 00:51:06,314 --> 00:51:07,899 and I'm gonna sleep in the bed. 1516 00:51:07,941 --> 00:51:09,484 Tasha, I am not sleeping 1517 00:51:07,941 --> 00:51:09,484 on the floor okay? 1518 00:51:09,525 --> 00:51:12,194 I'm tired. I just wanna 1519 00:51:09,525 --> 00:51:12,194 get in my own bed. 1520 00:51:12,236 --> 00:51:14,280 Ain't nobody gonna 1521 00:51:12,236 --> 00:51:14,280 touch you girl, move. 1522 00:51:14,322 --> 00:51:16,115 But, what if your mom comes in? 1523 00:51:16,157 --> 00:51:18,868 She's not coming in here. 1524 00:51:16,157 --> 00:51:18,868 She works the night shift now. 1525 00:51:25,291 --> 00:51:26,083 Bernie? 1526 00:51:28,586 --> 00:51:30,005 Huh? 1527 00:51:30,505 --> 00:51:33,132 How many girls 1528 00:51:30,505 --> 00:51:33,132 have you been with? 1529 00:51:33,174 --> 00:51:34,091 What? 1530 00:51:36,594 --> 00:51:39,014 Tasha, you crazy girl, 1531 00:51:36,594 --> 00:51:39,014 go to bed. 1532 00:51:44,393 --> 00:51:46,395 Did you love any of them? 1533 00:51:51,233 --> 00:51:52,027 No. 1534 00:51:53,611 --> 00:51:56,113 So, you've never been in love? 1535 00:51:57,198 --> 00:51:58,783 Well, yeah. 1536 00:52:01,870 --> 00:52:02,871 With who? 1537 00:52:13,798 --> 00:52:14,590 With you. 1538 00:52:15,884 --> 00:52:18,177 Me? 1539 00:52:18,219 --> 00:52:21,180 You can't be in love with me. 1540 00:52:18,219 --> 00:52:21,180 I'm your best friend. 1541 00:52:21,222 --> 00:52:23,850 That's more the reason, right? 1542 00:52:33,026 --> 00:52:34,527 Make love to me, then. 1543 00:52:34,569 --> 00:52:35,319 What? 1544 00:52:35,361 --> 00:52:36,153 Nah. 1545 00:52:37,238 --> 00:52:38,155 What do you mean, "nah"? 1546 00:52:38,197 --> 00:52:39,741 No. 1547 00:52:39,782 --> 00:52:42,201 What, is there 1548 00:52:39,782 --> 00:52:42,201 something wrong with me? 1549 00:52:42,243 --> 00:52:44,746 No, there's nothing 1550 00:52:42,243 --> 00:52:44,746 wrong with you I'm just... 1551 00:52:44,787 --> 00:52:46,789 Okay, well then why not? 1552 00:52:56,382 --> 00:52:59,969 I'm not making love to 1553 00:52:56,382 --> 00:52:59,969 you until I marry you, okay? 1554 00:53:00,011 --> 00:53:01,178 Marry me? 1555 00:53:04,181 --> 00:53:07,769 Bernie you are so stupid 1556 00:53:04,181 --> 00:53:07,769 sometimes. Oh my gosh. 1557 00:53:08,770 --> 00:53:09,562 Marry me. 1558 00:53:11,773 --> 00:53:14,776 No, I'm not stupid, Tasha. 1559 00:53:17,779 --> 00:53:19,781 I'm gonna marry you one day. 1560 00:53:21,574 --> 00:53:22,575 I'm serious. 1561 00:53:27,204 --> 00:53:30,332 But, for right now I'm gonna 1562 00:53:27,204 --> 00:53:30,332 get some sleep. All right? 1563 00:53:30,374 --> 00:53:31,208 Goodnight. 1564 00:53:39,759 --> 00:53:41,260 Come on in and take a seat. 1565 00:53:41,302 --> 00:53:43,304 We're just getting started. 1566 00:53:43,345 --> 00:53:45,765 Okay. Thank you. 1567 00:53:46,766 --> 00:53:48,143 I know we are 1568 00:53:46,766 --> 00:53:48,143 all going through 1569 00:53:48,184 --> 00:53:50,311 a lot of emotion right now. 1570 00:53:50,352 --> 00:53:54,941 Ranging from fear 1571 00:53:50,352 --> 00:53:54,941 to self pity to, well, 1572 00:53:54,983 --> 00:53:57,526 feeling less than a woman. 1573 00:53:57,568 --> 00:53:59,946 But your focus should 1574 00:53:57,568 --> 00:53:59,946 not be on those things. 1575 00:53:59,988 --> 00:54:03,032 Your focus should be 1576 00:53:59,988 --> 00:54:03,032 sharing your information 1577 00:54:03,074 --> 00:54:06,202 and your resources 1578 00:54:03,074 --> 00:54:06,202 to help one another. 1579 00:54:08,329 --> 00:54:10,498 Black women are more 1580 00:54:08,329 --> 00:54:10,498 likely to be diagnosed 1581 00:54:10,539 --> 00:54:13,501 with breast cancer, and 1582 00:54:10,539 --> 00:54:13,501 have more aggressive forms 1583 00:54:13,542 --> 00:54:16,504 of the disease than white women. 1584 00:54:16,545 --> 00:54:20,133 Each of you have your own 1585 00:54:16,545 --> 00:54:20,133 set of unique circumstances, 1586 00:54:20,175 --> 00:54:22,927 but we are dealing with a 1587 00:54:20,175 --> 00:54:22,927 disease that can be cured 1588 00:54:22,969 --> 00:54:26,305 if monitored and 1589 00:54:22,969 --> 00:54:26,305 treated properly. 1590 00:54:26,347 --> 00:54:30,977 We need to give our breasts 1591 00:54:26,347 --> 00:54:30,977 the attention they deserve. 1592 00:54:32,561 --> 00:54:35,731 So, does anyone want to share? 1593 00:54:35,773 --> 00:54:36,565 Anybody? 1594 00:54:38,567 --> 00:54:40,319 Oh yeah, Denise. 1595 00:54:40,361 --> 00:54:45,491 Well, I just had day 30 of 1596 00:54:40,361 --> 00:54:45,491 my chemo, I'm almost done. 1597 00:54:47,743 --> 00:54:51,330 I know, what a wonderful thing. 1598 00:54:51,372 --> 00:54:53,332 And I feel good today. 1599 00:54:53,374 --> 00:54:54,667 I'm strong. 1600 00:54:56,377 --> 00:54:59,338 I know I can beat this thing. 1601 00:54:59,380 --> 00:55:02,008 How wonderful for you, Denise, 1602 00:55:02,050 --> 00:55:03,509 but some of us don't 1603 00:55:02,050 --> 00:55:03,509 have enough time left 1604 00:55:03,551 --> 00:55:05,553 to think about next year. 1605 00:55:06,762 --> 00:55:09,348 Let me just remind you 1606 00:55:09,390 --> 00:55:12,351 that we were just at Jasmine's 1607 00:55:09,390 --> 00:55:12,351 funeral last weekend. 1608 00:55:12,393 --> 00:55:15,479 I mean, she was just sitting 1609 00:55:12,393 --> 00:55:15,479 here with us, now she's gone. 1610 00:55:15,521 --> 00:55:19,358 I haven't forgotten 1611 00:55:15,521 --> 00:55:19,358 about Jasmine. 1612 00:55:19,400 --> 00:55:23,112 Yeah, well, some of us are 1613 00:55:19,400 --> 00:55:23,112 barely hanging on to hope. 1614 00:55:23,154 --> 00:55:25,364 But y'all wanna post your 1615 00:55:23,154 --> 00:55:25,364 little pictures on social media 1616 00:55:25,406 --> 00:55:27,700 of your bald heads 1617 00:55:25,406 --> 00:55:27,700 and your smiles, 1618 00:55:27,742 --> 00:55:30,119 like this isn't killing women. 1619 00:55:30,161 --> 00:55:32,496 Women do that to 1620 00:55:30,161 --> 00:55:32,496 encourage one another; 1621 00:55:32,538 --> 00:55:36,375 to let each other know 1622 00:55:32,538 --> 00:55:36,375 they can get through this. 1623 00:55:36,417 --> 00:55:38,502 I'm angry. 1624 00:55:38,544 --> 00:55:39,962 I'm hurt. 1625 00:55:41,422 --> 00:55:43,340 And I hate... 1626 00:55:45,801 --> 00:55:49,305 that this 1627 00:55:45,801 --> 00:55:49,305 is happening to me. 1628 00:55:49,346 --> 00:55:53,101 My cancer is terminal. 1629 00:55:53,142 --> 00:55:58,147 I have kids for God's sake. 1630 00:55:58,522 --> 00:56:02,151 What are they gonna 1631 00:55:58,522 --> 00:56:02,151 do without me? 1632 00:56:04,820 --> 00:56:06,322 Tell me that? 1633 00:56:06,363 --> 00:56:08,407 Look, I know that 1634 00:56:06,363 --> 00:56:08,407 you are so angry-- 1635 00:56:08,449 --> 00:56:09,617 You're damn right I am. 1636 00:56:09,658 --> 00:56:13,412 I wanna live! 1637 00:56:13,454 --> 00:56:14,705 Oh, God, we all want that. 1638 00:56:14,747 --> 00:56:18,167 I'm sorry, excuse 1639 00:56:14,747 --> 00:56:18,167 me? What did you say? 1640 00:56:20,211 --> 00:56:22,004 You wanna talk? 1641 00:56:20,211 --> 00:56:22,004 Tell me your name. 1642 00:56:24,924 --> 00:56:29,095 I'm Tasha Jackson and 1643 00:56:24,924 --> 00:56:29,095 I was simply agreeing 1644 00:56:29,137 --> 00:56:31,722 with the fact that 1645 00:56:29,137 --> 00:56:31,722 we all want to live. 1646 00:56:33,724 --> 00:56:37,478 Well, the great news is 1647 00:56:33,724 --> 00:56:37,478 that I just found out 1648 00:56:37,519 --> 00:56:41,440 that I'm pregnant 1649 00:56:37,519 --> 00:56:41,440 with my first child. 1650 00:56:41,482 --> 00:56:46,321 A baby that I have wanted and 1651 00:56:41,482 --> 00:56:46,321 prayed for my entire life. 1652 00:56:46,362 --> 00:56:49,782 A baby that, clinically 1653 00:56:46,362 --> 00:56:49,782 speaking, I was never supposed 1654 00:56:49,824 --> 00:56:53,828 to be able to conceive 1655 00:56:49,824 --> 00:56:53,828 because I'm infertile. I was. 1656 00:56:53,869 --> 00:56:58,082 On the flip side is the 1657 00:56:53,869 --> 00:56:58,082 reason we are all here. 1658 00:56:58,124 --> 00:57:01,794 I too have been diagnosed 1659 00:56:58,124 --> 00:57:01,794 with breast cancer. 1660 00:57:03,504 --> 00:57:07,466 My doctor has advised that 1661 00:57:03,504 --> 00:57:07,466 I terminate my pregnancy 1662 00:57:07,508 --> 00:57:11,637 in order to begin 1663 00:57:07,508 --> 00:57:11,637 treatments immediately. 1664 00:57:11,679 --> 00:57:14,307 But sacrificing my 1665 00:57:11,679 --> 00:57:14,307 child's life in order 1666 00:57:14,349 --> 00:57:18,936 to save mine is a decision 1667 00:57:14,349 --> 00:57:18,936 that I simply cannot make. 1668 00:57:20,104 --> 00:57:21,689 Adopt a baby. 1669 00:57:21,730 --> 00:57:25,193 Terminate your pregnancy 1670 00:57:21,730 --> 00:57:25,193 and save your life. 1671 00:57:25,234 --> 00:57:27,486 Take it from someone who 1672 00:57:25,234 --> 00:57:27,486 isn't gonna beat this thing. 1673 00:57:27,528 --> 00:57:29,530 Charlene, please. 1674 00:57:31,740 --> 00:57:36,495 Can you tell me, why 1675 00:57:31,740 --> 00:57:36,495 is it so important 1676 00:57:36,537 --> 00:57:39,957 that you would risk your 1677 00:57:36,537 --> 00:57:39,957 own life for this baby? 1678 00:57:42,835 --> 00:57:44,461 Do you have children? 1679 00:57:44,503 --> 00:57:46,463 Yes, I have three. 1680 00:57:48,549 --> 00:57:52,761 Would you risk your life 1681 00:57:48,549 --> 00:57:52,761 in order to protect them? 1682 00:57:52,803 --> 00:57:55,723 Would you die to save them? 1683 00:57:55,764 --> 00:57:57,766 Of course I would. 1684 00:57:58,559 --> 00:58:03,064 Even though my child 1685 00:57:58,559 --> 00:58:03,064 is still inside of me, 1686 00:58:03,105 --> 00:58:05,482 I feel that exact same way. 1687 00:58:09,570 --> 00:58:11,572 Okay ladies, I'll 1688 00:58:09,570 --> 00:58:11,572 see you next week. 1689 00:58:17,578 --> 00:58:20,664 Uh, Tasha. 1690 00:58:20,706 --> 00:58:23,459 This is Dr. Lopez's card. 1691 00:58:26,670 --> 00:58:28,547 I know you think 1692 00:58:26,670 --> 00:58:28,547 you're the only woman 1693 00:58:28,589 --> 00:58:32,260 who has cancer while 1694 00:58:28,589 --> 00:58:32,260 pregnant, but you're not. 1695 00:58:32,301 --> 00:58:33,052 Go see him. 1696 00:58:37,598 --> 00:58:39,558 I was told that you 1697 00:58:37,598 --> 00:58:39,558 could help me Dr. Lopez. 1698 00:58:40,601 --> 00:58:43,604 There has to be another option. 1699 00:58:43,645 --> 00:58:45,564 Now, I have received all 1700 00:58:43,645 --> 00:58:45,564 of your medical records 1701 00:58:45,606 --> 00:58:47,608 that were transferred 1702 00:58:45,606 --> 00:58:47,608 to my office, 1703 00:58:47,649 --> 00:58:49,818 and I cannot say that 1704 00:58:47,649 --> 00:58:49,818 terminating your pregnancy 1705 00:58:49,860 --> 00:58:54,490 at this juncture was the wrong 1706 00:58:49,860 --> 00:58:54,490 advice from your oncologist. 1707 00:58:55,116 --> 00:58:58,827 In fact, it's normal practice 1708 00:58:55,116 --> 00:58:58,827 to suggest termination 1709 00:58:58,869 --> 00:59:01,914 in the first trimester when 1710 00:58:58,869 --> 00:59:01,914 there's cancer present. 1711 00:59:01,956 --> 00:59:05,626 You need treatment Mrs. 1712 00:59:01,956 --> 00:59:05,626 Jackson, you need it now. 1713 00:59:05,667 --> 00:59:08,421 You have an aggressive 1714 00:59:05,667 --> 00:59:08,421 form of breast cancer. 1715 00:59:08,463 --> 00:59:10,589 Hormones that your body's 1716 00:59:08,463 --> 00:59:10,589 producing during your pregnancy 1717 00:59:10,631 --> 00:59:15,470 will only cause the tumor 1718 00:59:10,631 --> 00:59:15,470 to grow and possibly spread. 1719 00:59:15,844 --> 00:59:18,597 You cannot afford to wait. 1720 00:59:18,639 --> 00:59:23,602 What I can't afford 1721 00:59:18,639 --> 00:59:23,602 is to abort my baby. 1722 00:59:23,644 --> 00:59:25,020 Then I will do 1723 00:59:23,644 --> 00:59:25,020 everything in my power 1724 00:59:25,062 --> 00:59:29,442 to keep your baby safe 1725 00:59:25,062 --> 00:59:29,442 while you receive treatment. 1726 00:59:29,484 --> 00:59:31,402 You will? 1727 00:59:31,444 --> 00:59:32,236 I will. 1728 00:59:33,654 --> 00:59:35,614 But this will be 1729 00:59:33,654 --> 00:59:35,614 a long hard road, 1730 00:59:35,656 --> 00:59:38,242 nothing about this will be easy. 1731 00:59:40,661 --> 00:59:42,579 What do we need to do? 1732 00:59:42,621 --> 00:59:46,167 Well, the first step is a 1733 00:59:42,621 --> 00:59:46,167 mastectomy of the left breast 1734 00:59:46,208 --> 00:59:49,586 with a partial 1735 00:59:46,208 --> 00:59:49,586 reconstruction, immediately. 1736 00:59:51,213 --> 00:59:52,631 I understand your concerns. 1737 00:59:52,673 --> 00:59:55,968 Surgery is always a 1738 00:59:52,673 --> 00:59:55,968 risk, pregnant or not. 1739 00:59:56,010 --> 00:59:59,596 And the closer the 1740 00:59:56,010 --> 00:59:59,596 surgery is to the uterus, 1741 00:59:59,638 --> 01:00:03,600 we run the risk of a 1742 00:59:59,638 --> 01:00:03,600 spontaneous abortion. 1743 01:00:03,642 --> 01:00:07,396 However, I feel certain that 1744 01:00:03,642 --> 01:00:07,396 we can preform the surgery 1745 01:00:07,438 --> 01:00:09,231 and keep the baby safe. 1746 01:00:10,232 --> 01:00:11,984 So that's it? 1747 01:00:12,026 --> 01:00:14,153 We do the surgery now, 1748 01:00:12,026 --> 01:00:14,153 while I'm pregnant, 1749 01:00:14,195 --> 01:00:15,612 and the chemo after? 1750 01:00:16,989 --> 01:00:18,157 You will be receiving chemo 1751 01:00:18,199 --> 01:00:20,159 during your pregnancy 1752 01:00:18,199 --> 01:00:20,159 Mrs. Jackson. 1753 01:00:20,201 --> 01:00:21,743 What? 1754 01:00:21,785 --> 01:00:24,663 How on earth is that possible? 1755 01:00:24,705 --> 01:00:27,958 Dr. Lopez, I saw first hand what 1756 01:00:24,705 --> 01:00:27,958 that chemo did to my mother 1757 01:00:28,000 --> 01:00:30,586 and it sucked the 1758 01:00:28,000 --> 01:00:30,586 life out of her. 1759 01:00:30,627 --> 01:00:32,171 How could I go through 1760 01:00:30,627 --> 01:00:32,171 something like that 1761 01:00:32,213 --> 01:00:35,757 while I'm pregnant? How 1762 01:00:32,213 --> 01:00:35,757 could my baby survive that? 1763 01:00:35,799 --> 01:00:38,760 While there are certain 1764 01:00:35,799 --> 01:00:38,760 types of chemo that would harm 1765 01:00:38,802 --> 01:00:42,681 the baby, there are other 1766 01:00:38,802 --> 01:00:42,681 types that will be harmless, 1767 01:00:42,723 --> 01:00:45,767 spread out over a period of 1768 01:00:42,723 --> 01:00:45,767 every three weeks for six 1769 01:00:42,723 --> 01:00:45,767 months, 1770 01:00:45,809 --> 01:00:47,728 and I will connect 1771 01:00:45,809 --> 01:00:47,728 with your obstetrician. 1772 01:00:47,769 --> 01:00:51,648 We will monitor both you 1773 01:00:47,769 --> 01:00:51,648 and the baby very closely. 1774 01:00:53,401 --> 01:00:56,404 I'm sorry, but this 1775 01:00:53,401 --> 01:00:56,404 is a lot to process. 1776 01:00:58,739 --> 01:01:00,157 I must tell you that 1777 01:00:58,739 --> 01:01:00,157 while I am certain 1778 01:01:00,199 --> 01:01:02,826 that we can keep the baby safe, 1779 01:01:02,868 --> 01:01:06,747 I cannot be certain of 1780 01:01:02,868 --> 01:01:06,747 how the cancer will react. 1781 01:01:06,788 --> 01:01:09,708 So what you're 1782 01:01:06,788 --> 01:01:09,708 telling me is that 1783 01:01:09,750 --> 01:01:15,214 I could go through all of 1784 01:01:09,750 --> 01:01:15,214 this and still won't be cured? 1785 01:01:15,631 --> 01:01:16,965 Yes. 1786 01:01:17,007 --> 01:01:18,717 The reality is we can 1787 01:01:17,007 --> 01:01:18,717 give you this treatment 1788 01:01:18,759 --> 01:01:21,345 and it will not work. 1789 01:01:21,387 --> 01:01:24,139 Even as doctors we cannot 1790 01:01:21,387 --> 01:01:24,139 ignore the possibility 1791 01:01:24,181 --> 01:01:30,605 that your husband would raise 1792 01:01:24,181 --> 01:01:30,605 this child, your child, alone. 1793 01:01:31,772 --> 01:01:33,732 The choice is yours, 1794 01:01:31,772 --> 01:01:33,732 Mrs. Jackson. 1795 01:01:33,774 --> 01:01:37,612 But I promise to be with 1796 01:01:33,774 --> 01:01:37,612 you every step of the way. 1797 01:01:40,406 --> 01:01:42,699 I see that you're married too. 1798 01:01:43,992 --> 01:01:46,954 What would you tell your wife 1799 01:01:46,995 --> 01:01:50,958 if she were the one 1800 01:01:46,995 --> 01:01:50,958 that was sitting here? 1801 01:01:50,999 --> 01:01:52,751 I'd tell her to keep that baby 1802 01:01:52,793 --> 01:01:55,212 and to start her treatment now. 1803 01:01:58,799 --> 01:02:02,052 This is the... 1804 01:01:58,799 --> 01:02:02,052 This is the lobby. 1805 01:02:02,678 --> 01:02:03,638 All right, this 1806 01:02:02,678 --> 01:02:03,638 must be upstairs. 1807 01:02:03,679 --> 01:02:04,930 Yeah. 1808 01:02:04,972 --> 01:02:06,348 I hope they got 1809 01:02:04,972 --> 01:02:06,348 the AC up there. 1810 01:02:06,390 --> 01:02:08,684 I know, this 1811 01:02:06,390 --> 01:02:08,684 heat is killing me. 1812 01:02:08,725 --> 01:02:09,685 You ain't lying. 1813 01:02:11,812 --> 01:02:13,564 And this is the extra for... 1814 01:02:13,606 --> 01:02:14,649 I don't even know 1815 01:02:13,606 --> 01:02:14,649 what this is for. 1816 01:02:14,690 --> 01:02:16,358 We got room 1817 01:02:14,690 --> 01:02:16,358 for the other one. 1818 01:02:16,400 --> 01:02:17,192 Hey. 1819 01:02:18,193 --> 01:02:19,987 I need to talk to you. 1820 01:02:21,614 --> 01:02:22,364 Hey, Tony. 1821 01:02:22,406 --> 01:02:23,782 Hey, Tasha. 1822 01:02:23,824 --> 01:02:26,327 Bernie told me about the 1823 01:02:23,824 --> 01:02:26,327 baby, congratulations. 1824 01:02:26,368 --> 01:02:27,119 Thanks. 1825 01:02:27,161 --> 01:02:27,953 What? 1826 01:02:29,955 --> 01:02:31,915 You mind giving us a minute? 1827 01:02:31,957 --> 01:02:33,750 I'll be inside. 1828 01:02:33,792 --> 01:02:34,543 Good seeing you, Tasha. 1829 01:02:34,585 --> 01:02:35,461 Bye. 1830 01:02:38,380 --> 01:02:41,758 What do you gotta tell 1831 01:02:38,380 --> 01:02:41,758 me that couldn't be-- 1832 01:02:41,800 --> 01:02:43,802 couldn't be said 1833 01:02:41,800 --> 01:02:43,802 on the phone Tasha? 1834 01:02:43,844 --> 01:02:46,138 All right, first you need to get 1835 01:02:43,844 --> 01:02:46,138 rid of your little attitude. 1836 01:02:46,180 --> 01:02:48,807 I'm working babe, okay? 1837 01:02:48,849 --> 01:02:50,142 What is it? 1838 01:02:50,184 --> 01:02:51,560 I went to see a new 1839 01:02:50,184 --> 01:02:51,560 oncologist this morning 1840 01:02:51,602 --> 01:02:54,771 to get a second opinion. 1841 01:02:54,813 --> 01:02:55,772 So, you went to the 1842 01:02:54,813 --> 01:02:55,772 doctor without me? 1843 01:02:55,814 --> 01:02:56,691 Yes. 1844 01:02:58,400 --> 01:02:59,735 I mean, it's not 1845 01:02:58,400 --> 01:02:59,735 like you were there 1846 01:02:59,776 --> 01:03:01,820 for my sonogram appointment, 1847 01:02:59,776 --> 01:03:01,820 so what's your point? 1848 01:03:01,862 --> 01:03:04,823 Babe, you're really 1849 01:03:01,862 --> 01:03:04,823 pushing it, all right? 1850 01:03:04,865 --> 01:03:07,826 Just tell me what happened. 1851 01:03:07,868 --> 01:03:10,538 He said that I 1852 01:03:07,868 --> 01:03:10,538 can keep the baby 1853 01:03:10,579 --> 01:03:14,124 and begin treatment for 1854 01:03:10,579 --> 01:03:14,124 the cancer right now. 1855 01:03:14,166 --> 01:03:17,545 That he could keep 1856 01:03:14,166 --> 01:03:17,545 our baby safe. 1857 01:03:17,586 --> 01:03:18,546 He said that? 1858 01:03:18,587 --> 01:03:19,380 Yeah. 1859 01:03:21,798 --> 01:03:26,387 But in addition to the chemo, 1860 01:03:21,798 --> 01:03:26,387 I also have to have a surgery. 1861 01:03:27,179 --> 01:03:28,597 What kind of surgery? 1862 01:03:30,807 --> 01:03:31,808 A mastectomy. 1863 01:03:33,561 --> 01:03:37,773 That I have to have my left 1864 01:03:33,561 --> 01:03:37,773 breast removed immediately. 1865 01:03:40,568 --> 01:03:44,154 But Bernie, the point is, 1866 01:03:40,568 --> 01:03:44,154 we can keep our baby. 1867 01:03:49,159 --> 01:03:51,119 Yeah, yeah. 1868 01:03:52,913 --> 01:03:54,331 That's exactly what 1869 01:03:52,913 --> 01:03:54,331 we're gonna do. 1870 01:03:54,373 --> 01:03:57,167 Oh God, I was hoping 1871 01:03:54,373 --> 01:03:57,167 you would say that. 1872 01:03:58,835 --> 01:04:04,341 My big announcement is... 1873 01:03:58,835 --> 01:04:04,341 my husband and I are 1874 01:03:58,835 --> 01:04:04,341 having a baby. 1875 01:04:06,927 --> 01:04:09,513 Now, because I will 1876 01:04:06,927 --> 01:04:09,513 need plenty of rest, 1877 01:04:09,555 --> 01:04:11,724 I am going on leave after today, 1878 01:04:11,766 --> 01:04:14,893 and you all are getting 1879 01:04:11,766 --> 01:04:14,893 a substitute teacher. 1880 01:04:16,771 --> 01:04:19,898 I know, I will miss each 1881 01:04:16,771 --> 01:04:19,898 and every one of you 1882 01:04:19,940 --> 01:04:23,235 very, very much. 1883 01:04:23,277 --> 01:04:24,194 Yes, Aubrey? 1884 01:04:24,236 --> 01:04:25,529 But your tummy isn't big. 1885 01:04:27,823 --> 01:04:30,909 That's because the 1886 01:04:27,823 --> 01:04:30,909 baby is still growing. 1887 01:04:30,951 --> 01:04:32,536 KJ. 1888 01:04:32,578 --> 01:04:33,537 How did the baby 1889 01:04:32,578 --> 01:04:33,537 get in your stomach? 1890 01:04:35,581 --> 01:04:37,332 We all know the 1891 01:04:35,581 --> 01:04:37,332 stork doesn't drop off 1892 01:04:37,374 --> 01:04:39,668 the baby at the hospital. 1893 01:04:39,710 --> 01:04:40,877 Mm-hmm. 1894 01:04:41,754 --> 01:04:44,923 Okay, let's change 1895 01:04:41,754 --> 01:04:44,923 the subject, shall we? 1896 01:04:44,965 --> 01:04:49,303 If you all could open up your 1897 01:04:44,965 --> 01:04:49,303 science readers to page 11, 1898 01:04:49,344 --> 01:04:51,930 and not that kind of science. 1899 01:04:51,972 --> 01:04:55,934 Okay mammals, that's what we're 1900 01:04:51,972 --> 01:04:55,934 gonna talk about, mammals. 1901 01:05:04,151 --> 01:05:06,737 Bernie honey, come on, 1902 01:05:04,151 --> 01:05:06,737 come on and sit down. 1903 01:05:06,779 --> 01:05:08,739 You gotta think positive. 1904 01:05:08,781 --> 01:05:09,948 I'm sure Tasha and the baby 1905 01:05:09,990 --> 01:05:11,950 are gonna get through 1906 01:05:09,990 --> 01:05:11,950 the surgery just fine. 1907 01:05:11,992 --> 01:05:13,910 And what if they don't? 1908 01:05:15,537 --> 01:05:16,913 You know, cause if 1909 01:05:15,537 --> 01:05:16,913 Tasha wakes up, 1910 01:05:16,955 --> 01:05:20,292 and finds out anything 1911 01:05:16,955 --> 01:05:20,292 happened to that baby. 1912 01:05:20,334 --> 01:05:22,294 She'll never forgive 1913 01:05:20,334 --> 01:05:22,294 herself, or me. 1914 01:05:22,336 --> 01:05:23,295 None of this is your fault. 1915 01:05:23,337 --> 01:05:25,130 It is my fault, Melvin. 1916 01:05:26,965 --> 01:05:30,761 I should have done something 1917 01:05:26,965 --> 01:05:30,761 else, I don't know. 1918 01:05:35,349 --> 01:05:38,310 Mom and baby are fine. 1919 01:05:38,769 --> 01:05:40,103 Mrs. Jackson did great. 1920 01:05:40,145 --> 01:05:42,981 We were able to get her 1921 01:05:40,145 --> 01:05:42,981 left breast and the tumor. 1922 01:05:47,110 --> 01:05:48,696 Thank you, Doc. 1923 01:05:48,737 --> 01:05:49,488 Thank you. 1924 01:05:49,530 --> 01:05:50,698 Your welcome. 1925 01:05:50,739 --> 01:05:53,283 Hey, you'll be able 1926 01:05:50,739 --> 01:05:53,283 to see her soon. 1927 01:05:53,325 --> 01:05:54,075 Okay. 1928 01:06:03,210 --> 01:06:06,087 ♪ Butterflies and 1929 01:06:03,210 --> 01:06:06,087 Barbie dolls ♪ 1930 01:06:06,129 --> 01:06:09,299 ♪ Pigtails, playing 1931 01:06:06,129 --> 01:06:09,299 in my mothers heels ♪ 1932 01:06:09,341 --> 01:06:14,137 ♪ Summer days playing dress 1933 01:06:09,341 --> 01:06:14,137 up just being so innocent ♪ 1934 01:06:16,139 --> 01:06:19,685 ♪ Catching fireflies 1935 01:06:16,139 --> 01:06:19,685 trying to count the stars ♪ 1936 01:06:19,727 --> 01:06:23,021 ♪ Singing and dancing no 1937 01:06:19,727 --> 01:06:23,021 matter where we were ♪ 1938 01:06:23,063 --> 01:06:26,066 ♪ Finding laughter in 1939 01:06:23,063 --> 01:06:26,066 anything and everything ♪ 1940 01:06:26,107 --> 01:06:30,946 ♪ Just being girls ♪ 1941 01:06:31,613 --> 01:06:35,992 ♪ And that's all I want ♪ 1942 01:06:38,078 --> 01:06:44,919 ♪ That's all I've 1943 01:06:38,078 --> 01:06:44,919 got to remember you ♪ 1944 01:06:44,960 --> 01:06:49,757 ♪ When we were young 1945 01:06:44,960 --> 01:06:49,757 wild and free ♪ 1946 01:06:51,091 --> 01:06:52,551 There you go. 1947 01:06:54,177 --> 01:06:57,472 You showed me this recipe, now 1948 01:06:54,177 --> 01:06:57,472 you're gonna eat this thing. 1949 01:06:57,514 --> 01:07:00,976 ♪ Double Dutch and lollipops ♪ 1950 01:07:01,017 --> 01:07:02,644 ♪ One dollar bills running 1951 01:07:01,017 --> 01:07:02,644 for the ice cream truck ♪ 1952 01:07:02,686 --> 01:07:04,062 - Ok, ok sweetie. 1953 01:07:04,104 --> 01:07:06,690 ♪ Fire crackers on the fourth ♪ 1954 01:07:06,732 --> 01:07:10,736 ♪ Hit the pool do a 1955 01:07:06,732 --> 01:07:10,736 belly flop ♪ 1956 01:07:19,119 --> 01:07:22,080 Come on not too much, Brenda. 1957 01:07:22,122 --> 01:07:23,916 Listen. 1958 01:07:23,958 --> 01:07:26,251 If there's one thing I know 1959 01:07:23,958 --> 01:07:26,251 how to do it's beat a face. 1960 01:07:30,798 --> 01:07:32,048 Yeah. 1961 01:07:32,507 --> 01:07:34,509 All right, here ya go. 1962 01:07:36,136 --> 01:07:36,971 Oh. 1963 01:07:37,012 --> 01:07:38,054 Do you like it? 1964 01:07:40,015 --> 01:07:43,059 Oh, I look just like Mama. 1965 01:07:44,686 --> 01:07:46,062 Yeah, ya do. 1966 01:07:49,817 --> 01:07:52,987 Brenda, I miss her so much. 1967 01:07:53,028 --> 01:07:57,115 Me too, but she would 1968 01:07:53,028 --> 01:07:57,115 be so proud of you. 1969 01:07:57,157 --> 01:08:00,368 And so happy about 1970 01:07:57,157 --> 01:08:00,368 that grandbaby. 1971 01:08:00,410 --> 01:08:01,411 I know. 1972 01:08:03,246 --> 01:08:07,125 Brenda, I know for 1973 01:08:03,246 --> 01:08:07,125 the first two years 1974 01:08:07,167 --> 01:08:10,545 I was very upset 1975 01:08:07,167 --> 01:08:10,545 about you and Daddy. 1976 01:08:10,587 --> 01:08:14,132 Oh, listen that's water 1977 01:08:10,587 --> 01:08:14,132 under the bridge girl. 1978 01:08:14,174 --> 01:08:20,263 I know that I was young, 1979 01:08:14,174 --> 01:08:20,263 and I just didn't understand. 1980 01:08:21,015 --> 01:08:23,976 But, I want you to know 1981 01:08:21,015 --> 01:08:23,976 how beyond grateful 1982 01:08:24,018 --> 01:08:26,020 I am that he has you. 1983 01:08:27,187 --> 01:08:30,106 And even though he may be a 1984 01:08:27,187 --> 01:08:30,106 little complicated at times... 1985 01:08:33,234 --> 01:08:37,656 -...know how much he loves you. 1986 01:08:33,234 --> 01:08:37,656 - Well, 1987 01:08:37,698 --> 01:08:39,825 I can certainly 1988 01:08:37,698 --> 01:08:39,825 say I love him. 1989 01:08:41,493 --> 01:08:45,080 Now, let's get that dress on. 1990 01:08:45,121 --> 01:08:47,082 We are going to 1991 01:08:45,121 --> 01:08:47,082 shower you with gifts. 1992 01:08:50,585 --> 01:08:52,170 Aw. 1993 01:08:54,756 --> 01:08:56,717 That is so adorable. 1994 01:09:01,304 --> 01:09:04,058 Look at these booty shorts. 1995 01:09:04,099 --> 01:09:05,183 Baby booty-- 1996 01:09:04,099 --> 01:09:05,183 Come on man. 1997 01:09:05,225 --> 01:09:07,185 Look at this! 1998 01:09:05,225 --> 01:09:07,185 The little-- Who did this one? 1999 01:09:07,227 --> 01:09:10,313 Oh my God, that 2000 01:09:07,227 --> 01:09:10,313 is so beautiful. 2001 01:09:10,355 --> 01:09:12,691 Oh. Precious. Isn't 2002 01:09:10,355 --> 01:09:12,691 that sweet, Carol? 2003 01:09:12,733 --> 01:09:14,234 It's so precious. 2004 01:09:14,275 --> 01:09:17,195 Oh, we're not gonna have 2005 01:09:14,275 --> 01:09:17,195 to buy clothes for years. 2006 01:09:17,237 --> 01:09:18,864 Thank you so much. 2007 01:09:22,993 --> 01:09:24,953 A diaper bag. 2008 01:09:24,995 --> 01:09:26,204 You can use that. 2009 01:09:26,246 --> 01:09:28,749 Oh, let's see if I 2010 01:09:26,246 --> 01:09:28,749 can put it on now. 2011 01:09:30,208 --> 01:09:32,961 Oh, look at that. 2012 01:09:30,208 --> 01:09:32,961 That is so great. 2013 01:09:35,797 --> 01:09:37,049 Nice. 2014 01:09:38,466 --> 01:09:41,803 Oh, get up off the floor. 2015 01:09:38,466 --> 01:09:41,803 What is wrong with you? 2016 01:09:41,845 --> 01:09:45,807 Would you get up off the floor? 2017 01:09:41,845 --> 01:09:45,807 You are out of your mind. 2018 01:09:45,849 --> 01:09:48,226 Get up off the floor, would you? 2019 01:09:48,268 --> 01:09:50,020 You are in the way. 2020 01:09:50,062 --> 01:09:51,813 Daddy gets every shot-- 2021 01:09:50,062 --> 01:09:51,813 Oh, here we go again. 2022 01:09:51,855 --> 01:09:54,232 Here we are again bro. 2023 01:09:51,855 --> 01:09:54,232 Melvin. 2024 01:09:54,274 --> 01:09:55,817 Here we go. Look. 2025 01:09:58,278 --> 01:10:01,865 Today, I am 33 weeks pregnant, 2026 01:10:02,282 --> 01:10:05,243 and we also had 2027 01:10:02,282 --> 01:10:05,243 your baby shower. 2028 01:10:07,287 --> 01:10:11,249 The biggest news, is that 2029 01:10:07,287 --> 01:10:11,249 you are gonna be here 2030 01:10:11,291 --> 01:10:14,210 in about, oh just 2031 01:10:11,291 --> 01:10:14,210 a few short weeks. 2032 01:10:15,295 --> 01:10:18,006 Oh honey, see the 2033 01:10:15,295 --> 01:10:18,006 doctor's gonna perform 2034 01:10:18,048 --> 01:10:20,258 what they call a C-section. 2035 01:10:20,300 --> 01:10:22,803 And that means he's gonna 2036 01:10:20,300 --> 01:10:22,803 cut you outta mommy's tummy. 2037 01:10:22,844 --> 01:10:24,805 Now, I know that may sound gross 2038 01:10:24,846 --> 01:10:26,807 and it may be too 2039 01:10:24,846 --> 01:10:26,807 much information, 2040 01:10:26,848 --> 01:10:30,602 but the point is that you 2041 01:10:26,848 --> 01:10:30,602 are going to be here soon 2042 01:10:30,644 --> 01:10:32,813 and safe. 2043 01:10:32,854 --> 01:10:37,025 Keep on doing what you're 2044 01:10:32,854 --> 01:10:37,025 doing girl, you are so strong. 2045 01:10:37,067 --> 01:10:41,237 And promise me that you're 2046 01:10:37,067 --> 01:10:41,237 always gonna be that way. 2047 01:10:43,949 --> 01:10:45,283 Oof! 2048 01:10:45,325 --> 01:10:49,079 My goodness, time 2049 01:10:45,325 --> 01:10:49,079 for a potty break. 2050 01:10:49,121 --> 01:10:51,081 Mommy can't keep going like this 2051 01:10:51,123 --> 01:10:54,250 with a three pound 2052 01:10:51,123 --> 01:10:54,250 Patricia on her bladder. 2053 01:10:56,503 --> 01:10:57,462 All right. 2054 01:10:58,505 --> 01:11:01,758 How do I get out of this chair? 2055 01:11:01,800 --> 01:11:04,260 Okay, here goes. 2056 01:11:09,349 --> 01:11:11,476 Oh my God. 2057 01:11:11,518 --> 01:11:15,522 Bernie? I think my 2058 01:11:11,518 --> 01:11:15,522 water just broke! 2059 01:11:23,363 --> 01:11:24,865 The baby's here. 2060 01:11:24,906 --> 01:11:26,950 She and Tasha are 2061 01:11:24,906 --> 01:11:26,950 doing just fine. 2062 01:11:28,368 --> 01:11:30,328 Congratulations, Daddy. 2063 01:11:30,370 --> 01:11:32,914 Ah, thank you. Oh, my God. 2064 01:11:34,499 --> 01:11:38,670 She's uh... She's a 2065 01:11:34,499 --> 01:11:38,670 little small, but they say 2066 01:11:34,499 --> 01:11:38,670 she's doing good. 2067 01:11:38,712 --> 01:11:39,671 Amazing. 2068 01:11:39,713 --> 01:11:41,089 - Yeah. 2069 01:11:39,713 --> 01:11:41,089 - And how's my baby girl? 2070 01:11:41,131 --> 01:11:43,675 She was a champ bro. 2071 01:11:41,131 --> 01:11:43,675 Melvin, she was a champ. 2072 01:11:43,717 --> 01:11:44,885 Oh, that's my baby. 2073 01:11:44,926 --> 01:11:46,678 Thank God. Thank God. 2074 01:11:46,720 --> 01:11:48,471 I cannot believe this. 2075 01:11:46,720 --> 01:11:48,471 I'm a papa. 2076 01:11:48,513 --> 01:11:49,472 Yes, you are. 2077 01:11:49,514 --> 01:11:52,517 And uh... 2078 01:11:49,514 --> 01:11:52,517 you're a proud grandpapa. 2079 01:11:54,394 --> 01:11:56,437 Yeah, uh, okay. I guess I am. 2080 01:11:58,690 --> 01:12:01,526 Congratulations. 2081 01:12:01,985 --> 01:12:03,987 Baby, you did so good. 2082 01:12:05,113 --> 01:12:08,283 Oh yes, we just saw 2083 01:12:05,113 --> 01:12:08,283 the baby in NICU. 2084 01:12:08,324 --> 01:12:10,660 Daddy, could you stop? 2085 01:12:08,324 --> 01:12:10,660 I look a mess. 2086 01:12:10,702 --> 01:12:12,079 What you talking about? 2087 01:12:12,120 --> 01:12:14,873 You look great, I 2088 01:12:12,120 --> 01:12:14,873 mean considering. 2089 01:12:16,917 --> 01:12:19,920 Tasha's a mommy. You did it. 2090 01:12:21,504 --> 01:12:22,672 I did, didn't I? 2091 01:12:22,714 --> 01:12:24,465 Yes, you did, baby. 2092 01:12:24,507 --> 01:12:26,426 She's healthy and wonderful. 2093 01:12:26,467 --> 01:12:28,428 Yeah, she is. 2094 01:12:28,469 --> 01:12:30,264 Knock knock. 2095 01:12:30,305 --> 01:12:32,057 Oh, Dr. Lopez. 2096 01:12:32,099 --> 01:12:33,433 Your OB called my office 2097 01:12:33,474 --> 01:12:35,643 and let me know you 2098 01:12:33,474 --> 01:12:35,643 delivered the baby last night 2099 01:12:35,685 --> 01:12:37,437 and everything went well. 2100 01:12:37,478 --> 01:12:39,273 Thank you. 2101 01:12:39,314 --> 01:12:41,399 No thanks needed. I'm just 2102 01:12:39,314 --> 01:12:41,399 glad she arrived safely. 2103 01:12:41,441 --> 01:12:42,776 Yes. 2104 01:12:42,817 --> 01:12:43,651 A little earlier 2105 01:12:42,817 --> 01:12:43,651 than we would have liked. 2106 01:12:44,694 --> 01:12:45,445 A little early. 2107 01:12:45,486 --> 01:12:46,863 What about Tasha? 2108 01:12:46,905 --> 01:12:49,074 Well, she has two 2109 01:12:46,905 --> 01:12:49,074 more chemo sessions. 2110 01:12:49,116 --> 01:12:51,659 And then we'll get the 2111 01:12:49,116 --> 01:12:51,659 MRI, see if she's cleared. 2112 01:12:51,701 --> 01:12:53,494 Could we not talk 2113 01:12:51,701 --> 01:12:53,494 about that right now 2114 01:12:53,536 --> 01:12:55,538 and focus on celebrating? 2115 01:12:55,580 --> 01:12:59,417 Well, you do that and 2116 01:12:55,580 --> 01:12:59,417 I will see you later. 2117 01:12:59,459 --> 01:13:00,418 Everybody take care. Huh? 2118 01:13:00,460 --> 01:13:02,129 - Thank you. 2119 01:13:00,460 --> 01:13:02,129 - Thank you. 2120 01:13:03,463 --> 01:13:04,923 Well, I don't know about ya'll, 2121 01:13:04,965 --> 01:13:07,717 but I can't wait to 2122 01:13:04,965 --> 01:13:07,717 get that baby home. 2123 01:13:07,759 --> 01:13:09,136 Now listen, you don't have 2124 01:13:07,759 --> 01:13:09,136 to worry about a thing. 2125 01:13:09,177 --> 01:13:10,929 I'm gonna come over. I'm 2126 01:13:09,177 --> 01:13:10,929 gonna sleep on the couch. 2127 01:13:10,971 --> 01:13:13,932 I'm gonna fix the formula. 2128 01:13:10,971 --> 01:13:13,932 I'm gonna change the diapers. 2129 01:13:13,974 --> 01:13:16,434 I'm gonna get up in the middle 2130 01:13:13,974 --> 01:13:16,434 of the night with the baby. 2131 01:13:16,476 --> 01:13:17,435 I know Bernie don't know nothing 2132 01:13:17,477 --> 01:13:18,728 about taking care of no baby. 2133 01:13:20,396 --> 01:13:22,941 I was praying 2134 01:13:20,396 --> 01:13:22,941 you would say that. 2135 01:13:22,983 --> 01:13:26,153 I don't know what we would 2136 01:13:22,983 --> 01:13:26,153 do without you, Brenda. 2137 01:13:26,194 --> 01:13:29,447 I don't think Bernie knows 2138 01:13:26,194 --> 01:13:29,447 how to change a diaper. 2139 01:13:29,489 --> 01:13:30,531 I don't think so either. 2140 01:13:36,537 --> 01:13:38,039 Look who's here. 2141 01:13:38,539 --> 01:13:40,334 Oh, honey. 2142 01:13:40,375 --> 01:13:42,502 I know, I know. 2143 01:13:42,543 --> 01:13:44,338 Oh my God, would you 2144 01:13:42,543 --> 01:13:44,338 look at that girl? 2145 01:13:44,379 --> 01:13:45,505 Look at this big old baby. 2146 01:13:45,546 --> 01:13:47,341 Oh. 2147 01:13:47,382 --> 01:13:49,550 - Hey, little mama. 2148 01:13:47,382 --> 01:13:49,550 - Oh. 2149 01:13:49,592 --> 01:13:51,219 - Come here. 2150 01:13:49,592 --> 01:13:51,219 - How precious is she? 2151 01:13:51,261 --> 01:13:52,512 Come here, what 2152 01:13:51,261 --> 01:13:52,512 you smiling at? 2153 01:13:52,553 --> 01:13:55,515 - Hi. 2154 01:13:52,553 --> 01:13:55,515 - Huh, what you smiling at? 2155 01:13:55,556 --> 01:13:56,933 Come on. 2156 01:13:56,975 --> 01:13:59,102 - I know, I know, I know. 2157 01:13:59,144 --> 01:14:01,188 - It's okay. 2158 01:13:59,144 --> 01:14:01,188 - Come to Mama. 2159 01:14:01,604 --> 01:14:04,732 It's okay. 2160 01:14:04,774 --> 01:14:06,526 Patricia, it's fine. 2161 01:14:06,567 --> 01:14:07,485 It's all right, baby. 2162 01:14:07,527 --> 01:14:08,486 Don't cry, honey. 2163 01:14:08,528 --> 01:14:09,487 Here you go. 2164 01:14:09,529 --> 01:14:10,488 It's okay. 2165 01:14:10,530 --> 01:14:12,157 - Here you go. 2166 01:14:10,530 --> 01:14:12,157 - There you go. 2167 01:14:14,368 --> 01:14:16,494 That's what that girl wanted. 2168 01:14:16,536 --> 01:14:18,538 Good job, Daddy. 2169 01:14:19,747 --> 01:14:21,916 And Mommy can't wait 2170 01:14:19,747 --> 01:14:21,916 to get up from here 2171 01:14:21,958 --> 01:14:23,918 and take care of you herself. 2172 01:14:23,960 --> 01:14:25,503 Mommy needs to 2173 01:14:23,960 --> 01:14:25,503 give it some time. 2174 01:14:25,545 --> 01:14:26,504 I know. 2175 01:14:26,546 --> 01:14:27,922 All right, don't over do it. 2176 01:14:27,964 --> 01:14:29,132 You just finished your 2177 01:14:27,964 --> 01:14:29,132 last chemo session, 2178 01:14:29,174 --> 01:14:30,717 and you need your energy 2179 01:14:30,758 --> 01:14:32,927 to celebrate this 2180 01:14:30,758 --> 01:14:32,927 little lady coming home. 2181 01:14:32,969 --> 01:14:34,512 Hey, baby. 2182 01:14:34,554 --> 01:14:35,471 Oh, wow. 2183 01:14:36,556 --> 01:14:37,557 Honey, could you 2184 01:14:36,556 --> 01:14:37,557 please take her? 2185 01:14:37,598 --> 01:14:38,516 Hm? 2186 01:14:38,558 --> 01:14:40,101 Take her I can't. 2187 01:14:40,143 --> 01:14:43,521 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 2188 01:14:40,143 --> 01:14:43,521 I got you. I got you. 2189 01:14:43,563 --> 01:14:48,026 When are, um, Daddy and Brenda 2190 01:14:43,563 --> 01:14:48,026 supposed to get here? 2191 01:14:48,860 --> 01:14:50,237 Um, they said they should 2192 01:14:48,860 --> 01:14:50,237 be here within the hour. 2193 01:14:51,279 --> 01:14:52,406 Okay. 2194 01:14:53,489 --> 01:14:56,534 Did you make that last 2195 01:14:53,489 --> 01:14:56,534 bottle before you left? 2196 01:14:56,576 --> 01:14:58,036 I'm doing it right now. 2197 01:14:58,078 --> 01:15:00,705 Baby, are you sure you 2198 01:14:58,078 --> 01:15:00,705 got it? 'Cause I don't... 2199 01:15:00,747 --> 01:15:02,916 Yeah, sure, yeah. 2200 01:15:02,957 --> 01:15:04,542 You don't sound too convincing. 2201 01:15:04,584 --> 01:15:05,752 I got it. 2202 01:15:12,842 --> 01:15:15,262 Okay, okay, Mommy's coming. 2203 01:15:17,138 --> 01:15:19,515 Mommy's coming, baby. 2204 01:15:17,138 --> 01:15:19,515 Don't cry, honey. 2205 01:15:20,558 --> 01:15:21,351 Okay. 2206 01:15:22,560 --> 01:15:25,521 Just give Mommy some time, okay? 2207 01:15:25,563 --> 01:15:27,107 Mommy time. 2208 01:15:27,148 --> 01:15:30,318 Oh, Patricia don't cry, baby. 2209 01:15:30,360 --> 01:15:31,527 Okay? 2210 01:15:32,153 --> 01:15:34,155 Okay, I'm coming baby. 2211 01:15:35,365 --> 01:15:38,368 I'm coming. Just give 2212 01:15:35,365 --> 01:15:38,368 me some time, okay? 2213 01:15:39,619 --> 01:15:42,580 Okay, I'm coming, baby. 2214 01:15:42,622 --> 01:15:44,582 Okay, I'm coming. 2215 01:15:49,379 --> 01:15:52,006 Here we go. I don't know if 2216 01:15:49,379 --> 01:15:52,006 this is gonna be enough, but... 2217 01:15:52,048 --> 01:15:52,840 Tasha! 2218 01:15:55,469 --> 01:15:58,430 Between the chemo 2219 01:15:55,469 --> 01:15:58,430 and the pregnancy, 2220 01:15:58,472 --> 01:16:00,265 she's extremely anemic. 2221 01:16:01,641 --> 01:16:03,310 She's losing blood 2222 01:16:01,641 --> 01:16:03,310 flow to her brain 2223 01:16:03,351 --> 01:16:05,603 and it's caused her 2224 01:16:03,351 --> 01:16:05,603 to slip into a coma. 2225 01:16:05,645 --> 01:16:07,814 Now, there are different 2226 01:16:05,645 --> 01:16:07,814 medicines we are trying, 2227 01:16:07,855 --> 01:16:11,651 but a blood transfusion 2228 01:16:07,855 --> 01:16:11,651 may have to be performed. 2229 01:16:14,488 --> 01:16:17,615 Without proper blood 2230 01:16:14,488 --> 01:16:17,615 flow to her brain, 2231 01:16:17,657 --> 01:16:19,617 her organs could shut down. 2232 01:16:19,659 --> 01:16:23,788 And if that happens, there's 2233 01:16:19,659 --> 01:16:23,788 not much that we can do. 2234 01:16:23,830 --> 01:16:25,623 Mrs. Jackson needs to fight. 2235 01:16:31,463 --> 01:16:36,009 Did you know you were 2236 01:16:31,463 --> 01:16:36,009 named after your grandmama? 2237 01:16:36,050 --> 01:16:40,638 That's right. 2238 01:16:36,050 --> 01:16:40,638 I loved me some her. 2239 01:16:40,680 --> 01:16:44,642 She was my bestest friend 2240 01:16:40,680 --> 01:16:44,642 in the whole world. 2241 01:16:44,684 --> 01:16:46,811 I had just moved 2242 01:16:44,684 --> 01:16:46,811 to the neighborhood, 2243 01:16:46,853 --> 01:16:49,814 and I didn't have one friend. 2244 01:16:49,856 --> 01:16:51,649 For weeks I sat up on my porch 2245 01:16:51,691 --> 01:16:54,986 and watched her playing 2246 01:16:51,691 --> 01:16:54,986 jump rope across the street. 2247 01:16:55,028 --> 01:16:56,988 Finally one day, she 2248 01:16:55,028 --> 01:16:56,988 marched over to me 2249 01:16:57,030 --> 01:17:00,200 and said, "What's 2250 01:16:57,030 --> 01:17:00,200 wrong with you? 2251 01:17:00,241 --> 01:17:03,661 Get off that porch right now 2252 01:17:00,241 --> 01:17:03,661 and come and play with me." 2253 01:17:03,703 --> 01:17:07,623 And from that day forward we 2254 01:17:03,703 --> 01:17:07,623 were connected at the hip. 2255 01:17:07,665 --> 01:17:09,250 Until the day she passed. 2256 01:17:11,044 --> 01:17:12,628 I never heard that story about 2257 01:17:12,670 --> 01:17:15,006 how you and Patricia met before. 2258 01:17:15,048 --> 01:17:17,258 I didn't hear you come in. 2259 01:17:19,719 --> 01:17:20,636 How's Tasha? 2260 01:17:24,432 --> 01:17:26,684 Nothing's really changed. 2261 01:17:26,726 --> 01:17:29,645 I mean, she had a... 2262 01:17:31,689 --> 01:17:37,695 pregnancy, 2263 01:17:31,689 --> 01:17:37,695 a mastectomy, chemo, 2264 01:17:37,737 --> 01:17:41,074 delivered a baby 2265 01:17:37,737 --> 01:17:41,074 safely, all for what? 2266 01:17:41,115 --> 01:17:43,743 So she can get laid up in a 2267 01:17:41,115 --> 01:17:43,743 hospital fighting for her life? 2268 01:17:43,784 --> 01:17:44,660 Anemic? 2269 01:17:46,538 --> 01:17:47,705 And we still don't know 2270 01:17:46,538 --> 01:17:47,705 if the cancer's gone 2271 01:17:47,747 --> 01:17:48,873 into remission yet. 2272 01:17:48,915 --> 01:17:49,707 I know. 2273 01:17:51,125 --> 01:17:54,879 It's so unfair. I wish 2274 01:17:51,125 --> 01:17:54,879 I could go see her. 2275 01:17:54,921 --> 01:17:59,050 You can. I can sit with 2276 01:17:54,921 --> 01:17:59,050 the baby. 2277 01:17:59,092 --> 01:18:02,720 No, she'd want me to stay 2278 01:17:59,092 --> 01:18:02,720 here and take care of Patricia. 2279 01:18:02,762 --> 01:18:06,766 I was thinking that uh... 2280 01:18:02,762 --> 01:18:06,766 we should get married. 2281 01:18:10,604 --> 01:18:15,316 I've been waiting a long 2282 01:18:10,604 --> 01:18:15,316 time to hear those words, but... 2283 01:18:16,776 --> 01:18:17,735 But what? 2284 01:18:19,112 --> 01:18:21,739 You're scared 2285 01:18:19,112 --> 01:18:21,739 right now, Melvin. 2286 01:18:21,781 --> 01:18:24,075 You don't know what's 2287 01:18:21,781 --> 01:18:24,075 gonna happen with Tasha, 2288 01:18:24,117 --> 01:18:25,743 and you want me to stick around. 2289 01:18:25,785 --> 01:18:26,869 That's not it. 2290 01:18:26,911 --> 01:18:28,746 Yes, it is. 2291 01:18:28,788 --> 01:18:32,667 I left once and you're 2292 01:18:28,788 --> 01:18:32,667 thinking maybe I'll leave again. 2293 01:18:32,708 --> 01:18:35,253 And you don't like to be alone. 2294 01:18:35,295 --> 01:18:38,047 Don't tell me what I'm 2295 01:18:35,295 --> 01:18:38,047 feeling and what I'm thinking. 2296 01:18:38,089 --> 01:18:41,676 I asked you because I love you. 2297 01:18:41,717 --> 01:18:43,470 And yes, I know what I said 2298 01:18:41,717 --> 01:18:43,470 to you when I found out 2299 01:18:43,511 --> 01:18:46,847 about Tasha was harsh, 2300 01:18:43,511 --> 01:18:46,847 and I'm sorry for that. 2301 01:18:46,889 --> 01:18:49,684 But I really do love you. 2302 01:18:49,725 --> 01:18:52,520 And you've taken care 2303 01:18:49,725 --> 01:18:52,520 of my family for me. 2304 01:18:52,562 --> 01:18:54,939 You think I do 2305 01:18:52,562 --> 01:18:54,939 all this for you? 2306 01:18:56,941 --> 01:18:59,860 I take care of all of 2307 01:18:56,941 --> 01:18:59,860 you because my best 2308 01:18:56,941 --> 01:18:59,860 friend isn't here 2309 01:18:59,902 --> 01:19:02,614 to take care of you herself. 2310 01:19:05,074 --> 01:19:06,784 I'm taking care of the baby 2311 01:19:06,826 --> 01:19:08,453 and trying to make sure 2312 01:19:06,826 --> 01:19:08,453 Bernie has a hot meal 2313 01:19:08,495 --> 01:19:09,829 when he gets home. 2314 01:19:09,870 --> 01:19:14,292 I don't have time to think 2315 01:19:09,870 --> 01:19:14,292 about marrying you right now. 2316 01:19:25,052 --> 01:19:26,304 Tasha. 2317 01:19:28,764 --> 01:19:29,599 Wake up. 2318 01:19:34,854 --> 01:19:36,523 Patricia needs you, baby. 2319 01:19:37,732 --> 01:19:38,816 I need you. 2320 01:19:51,871 --> 01:19:53,831 I'm sorry. It'll be over... 2321 01:19:51,871 --> 01:19:53,831 It'll be over soon. I'm sorry. 2322 01:19:54,874 --> 01:19:56,834 I'm sorry. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. 2323 01:19:56,876 --> 01:19:58,712 Oh my God, I'm sorry. 2324 01:20:04,050 --> 01:20:08,846 Oh my God. I know. 2325 01:20:04,050 --> 01:20:08,846 I know, I'm sorry. 2326 01:20:17,897 --> 01:20:18,814 Tasha. 2327 01:20:20,650 --> 01:20:21,651 Tasha. 2328 01:20:27,448 --> 01:20:28,866 Mama? 2329 01:20:28,908 --> 01:20:30,535 I thought I 2330 01:20:28,908 --> 01:20:30,535 taught you to fight? 2331 01:20:32,328 --> 01:20:33,871 You did. 2332 01:20:33,913 --> 01:20:36,957 Well, why aren't you 2333 01:20:33,913 --> 01:20:36,957 fighting this, baby? 2334 01:20:36,999 --> 01:20:40,545 Mama, I fought the 2335 01:20:36,999 --> 01:20:40,545 good fight, but I can't. 2336 01:20:40,587 --> 01:20:42,922 - I'm tired. 2337 01:20:40,587 --> 01:20:42,922 - Oh, you fight anyway, honey. 2338 01:20:42,963 --> 01:20:45,550 You ball your fist up and 2339 01:20:42,963 --> 01:20:45,550 you swing at this thing 2340 01:20:45,592 --> 01:20:48,762 with everything you got, honey. 2341 01:20:48,803 --> 01:20:50,471 - But, I can't-- 2342 01:20:48,803 --> 01:20:50,471 - No buts. 2343 01:20:52,890 --> 01:20:56,852 Don't give up. 2344 01:20:52,890 --> 01:20:56,852 You can't give up. 2345 01:20:58,938 --> 01:21:00,898 - Mama. 2346 01:20:58,938 --> 01:21:00,898 - You got it. 2347 01:21:00,940 --> 01:21:02,108 Mama, wait. 2348 01:21:02,149 --> 01:21:06,195 Mama, wait don't go. 2349 01:21:02,149 --> 01:21:06,195 Mama. 2350 01:21:06,946 --> 01:21:09,865 Mama, don't leave 2351 01:21:06,946 --> 01:21:09,865 me again, please. 2352 01:21:19,875 --> 01:21:22,044 Bernie, wake up. She's awake. 2353 01:21:23,254 --> 01:21:24,422 Baby! 2354 01:21:24,464 --> 01:21:25,632 I'm gonna 2355 01:21:24,464 --> 01:21:25,632 go get a nurse. 2356 01:21:25,673 --> 01:21:28,008 Okay. Hey, hey look 2357 01:21:25,673 --> 01:21:28,008 at me, hey baby look, 2358 01:21:28,050 --> 01:21:29,927 you have a tube in your throat. 2359 01:21:29,969 --> 01:21:30,928 Somebody's coming to get it. 2360 01:21:30,970 --> 01:21:31,721 Melvin went to go 2361 01:21:30,970 --> 01:21:31,721 get someone, okay? 2362 01:21:31,763 --> 01:21:34,515 Relax. 2363 01:21:31,763 --> 01:21:34,515 They'll take it out, okay. 2364 01:21:43,566 --> 01:21:50,573 ♪ Happy birthday, Mommy 2365 01:21:43,566 --> 01:21:50,573 Happy birthday, Mommy ♪ 2366 01:21:53,951 --> 01:22:00,333 ♪ Happy birthday dear Mommy ♪ 2367 01:22:00,374 --> 01:22:06,213 ♪ Happy birthday to you ♪ 2368 01:22:09,258 --> 01:22:11,552 Go ahead. Make a wish. 2369 01:22:13,554 --> 01:22:14,972 All my wishes have come true. 2370 01:22:15,014 --> 01:22:15,931 Yes. 2371 01:22:17,016 --> 01:22:18,518 Where's that little munchkin? 2372 01:22:18,559 --> 01:22:21,729 She's finally asleep, right 2373 01:22:18,559 --> 01:22:21,729 as we're about to leave. 2374 01:22:21,771 --> 01:22:23,147 Oh, course she is. 2375 01:22:24,732 --> 01:22:27,276 You know what, um, I've been 2376 01:22:24,732 --> 01:22:27,276 playing with this for a while. 2377 01:22:27,318 --> 01:22:30,488 This short hair's 2378 01:22:27,318 --> 01:22:30,488 not so bad is it? 2379 01:22:30,530 --> 01:22:33,991 I think you look 2380 01:22:30,530 --> 01:22:33,991 gorgeous either way. 2381 01:22:34,033 --> 01:22:36,911 Gorgeous and cancer-free. 2382 01:22:36,952 --> 01:22:39,163 Gorgeous and cancer-free. 2383 01:22:39,205 --> 01:22:39,997 Yes. 2384 01:22:42,958 --> 01:22:45,085 So what, you're just 2385 01:22:42,958 --> 01:22:45,085 gonna eat my cupcake? 2386 01:22:45,127 --> 01:22:46,713 You gonna eat this? 2387 01:22:46,754 --> 01:22:48,715 - Really, Bernie? 2388 01:22:46,754 --> 01:22:48,715 - What? 2389 01:22:48,756 --> 01:22:50,299 ♪ When I heard your 2390 01:22:48,756 --> 01:22:50,299 heart beat ♪ 2391 01:22:50,341 --> 01:22:52,343 ♪ When I heard your 2392 01:22:50,341 --> 01:22:52,343 heart beat ♪ 2393 01:22:52,385 --> 01:22:59,058 ♪ I made me right 2394 01:22:52,385 --> 01:22:59,058 Oh Oh ♪ 2395 01:22:59,099 --> 01:23:03,020 ♪ When I heard your heart beat 2396 01:22:59,099 --> 01:23:03,020 When I heard your heart beat ♪ 2397 01:23:03,062 --> 01:23:07,983 ♪ I changed my life ♪ 2398 01:23:10,110 --> 01:23:13,489 ♪ When I heard your heart beat 2399 01:23:10,110 --> 01:23:13,489 When I heard your heart beat ♪ 2400 01:23:13,531 --> 01:23:15,032 And it's about time 2401 01:23:13,531 --> 01:23:15,032 you put a ring on it. 2402 01:23:22,081 --> 01:23:23,040 There we go. 2403 01:23:44,311 --> 01:23:49,316 ♪ This overwhelming 2404 01:23:44,311 --> 01:23:49,316 love I have inside me ♪ 2405 01:23:49,525 --> 01:23:54,113 ♪ Could ignite the 2406 01:23:49,525 --> 01:23:54,113 city lights, yeah ♪ 2407 01:23:55,155 --> 01:24:00,787 ♪ Unconditional love I 2408 01:23:55,155 --> 01:24:00,787 understand now as I hold you ♪ 2409 01:24:01,621 --> 01:24:04,373 ♪ Ever so tight ♪ 2410 01:24:04,415 --> 01:24:07,877 ♪ When I heard your heart beat 2411 01:24:04,415 --> 01:24:07,877 when I heard your heart beat ♪ 2412 01:24:07,919 --> 01:24:11,923 ♪ I made things right ♪ 2413 01:24:12,506 --> 01:24:15,676 ♪ Yeah ♪ 2414 01:24:15,718 --> 01:24:18,721 ♪♪ 2415 01:24:38,491 --> 01:24:43,537 ♪ This overwhelming love 2416 01:24:38,491 --> 01:24:43,537 I have inside me ♪ 2417 01:24:43,579 --> 01:24:46,081 ♪ Could ignite the 2418 01:24:43,579 --> 01:24:46,081 city lights ♪ 2419 01:24:46,123 --> 01:24:47,082 ♪ Yeah ♪ 2420 01:24:49,168 --> 01:24:55,466 ♪ Unconditional love I 2421 01:24:49,168 --> 01:24:55,466 understand now as I hold you ♪ 2422 01:24:55,508 --> 01:24:58,135 ♪ Ever so tight ♪ 2423 01:24:58,177 --> 01:25:01,555 ♪ When I heard your heart beat 2424 01:24:58,177 --> 01:25:01,555 when I heard your heart beat ♪ 2425 01:25:01,597 --> 01:25:06,101 ♪ I changed my life ♪ 2426 01:25:06,143 --> 01:25:08,688 ♪ Changed my life ♪ 2427 01:25:08,729 --> 01:25:12,441 ♪ When I heard your heart beat 2428 01:25:08,729 --> 01:25:12,441 when I heard your heart beat ♪ 2429 01:25:12,483 --> 01:25:16,654 ♪ I made things right ♪ 2430 01:25:16,696 --> 01:25:19,156 ♪ Made things right ♪ 2431 01:25:19,198 --> 01:25:22,869 ♪ When I heard your heart beat 2432 01:25:19,198 --> 01:25:22,869 when I heard your heart beat ♪ 2433 01:25:22,910 --> 01:25:27,456 ♪ I made things right ♪ 2434 01:25:27,498 --> 01:25:28,499 ♪ Yeah ♪ 2435 01:25:31,502 --> 01:25:37,257 ♪ Just to know you are 2436 01:25:31,502 --> 01:25:37,257 on your way ♪ 2437 01:25:37,299 --> 01:25:42,179 ♪ Makes life more living 2438 01:25:37,299 --> 01:25:42,179 every day ♪ 2439 01:25:42,221 --> 01:25:47,852 ♪ To give a home 2440 01:25:42,221 --> 01:25:47,852 and your seed ♪ 2441 01:25:47,894 --> 01:25:51,064 ♪ And she'll give you 2442 01:25:47,894 --> 01:25:51,064 back your legacy ♪ 2443 01:25:51,105 --> 01:25:52,732 ♪ Ohh ♪ 2444 01:25:52,773 --> 01:25:55,651 ♪ When I heard your heart beat 2445 01:25:52,773 --> 01:25:55,651 when I heard your heart beat ♪ 2446 01:25:55,693 --> 01:26:00,197 ♪ I changed my life ♪ 2447 01:26:00,239 --> 01:26:02,199 ♪ Yeah ♪ 2448 01:26:02,241 --> 01:26:06,203 ♪ When I heard your heart beat 2449 01:26:02,241 --> 01:26:06,203 when I heard your heart beat ♪ 2450 01:26:06,245 --> 01:26:10,875 ♪ I made things right ♪ 2451 01:26:10,917 --> 01:26:13,210 ♪ Ohh ♪ 2452 01:26:13,252 --> 01:26:17,214 ♪ When I heard your heart beat 2453 01:26:13,252 --> 01:26:17,214 when I heard your heart beat ♪ 2454 01:26:17,256 --> 01:26:21,427 ♪ I changed my life ♪ 2455 01:26:21,468 --> 01:26:23,846 ♪ Ohh ♪ 2456 01:26:23,888 --> 01:26:28,059 ♪ When I heard your heart beat 2457 01:26:23,888 --> 01:26:28,059 when I heard your heart beat ♪ 2458 01:26:28,101 --> 01:26:32,438 ♪ I made things right ♪ 2459 01:26:32,479 --> 01:26:34,231 ♪ Yeah ♪ 2460 01:26:34,273 --> 01:26:40,195 ♪♪ 150392