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You blew up my cottage.
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You bought a house
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without talking about it
to me first.
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John!
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You can't
go rogue like that.
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We're lucky we didn't
get another fail.
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John, you want
to bring kids into this life
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after a day like we had today?
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- What about family? What...
- I didn't think
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you were that simpleminded,
like, that traditional.
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Don't call me stupid
just 'cause...
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So you're mad
that I saved the day?
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I'm mad that you
take all the credit.
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We made this pact that we would
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make a certain amount of money
and then
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we'd part ways.
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Yeah, like, you two can just...
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you know, break up
and quit, like...
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Can you imagine if the Company
was that open-minded?
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- This place is beautiful.
- Yeah.
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- It's so nice that you work from here.
- Thank you.
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Thank you. We finally
moved out of the city.
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This is my little dream home.
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- Well, it's gorgeous.
- Yeah. - Thank you. I just...
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I feel very present here.
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It's really nice.
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- It's awesome.
- Yeah.
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- Yeah.
- So...
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...what brings you to therapy?
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I think...
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lately, me and Jane have...
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h-have not been aligned
on, just, some things.
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- Mm-hmm.
- Yeah. I think, um...
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I think John's
under the impression
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that our boss favors me.
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- Well, he-he does.
- But...
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- I mean, h-he does favor...
- Well...
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He doesn't really fa... I...
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I mean, well,
he-he wanted you to replace me.
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- He asked you if... to replace me.
- To which I-I said,
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"Absolutely not," you know?
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I said, "John is
a great partner,"
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which is true, um...
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and, yeah, I just, I...
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I said I don't want to move up
unless I'm with him.
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- So you two work together?
- Yes.
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And what is it that you two do?
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- We're...
- We're computer, uh,
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- software engineers.
- Software engineers.
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So, where else
are you feeling misaligned?
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on kid stuff.
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- Kid stuff.
- Yeah.
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That's a very big subject.
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Let's talk about kids.
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Do you...
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Um, I-I w...
I want to have them...
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- Mm-hmm.
- ...and she doesn't.
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What are you reservations
about children, Jane?
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I f... I...
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I just feel like,
in the line of work that we do,
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it doesn't really
feel responsible.
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As software engineers?
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- Yeah. I think they're just the...
- Yeah.
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- It's stressful, you know?
- You know,
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- it's just a fast-moving business.
- It's high-intensity.
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I had no idea software
engineering was so intense.
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Yeah, there's a lot of...
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- pressure.
- It can be.
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So, working together,
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- living together...
- Mm.
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How is that?
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- It's good.
- It's tricky.
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- Tricky?
- It's okay.
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This is, this is...
this happens.
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It's why we're here.
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Well, can I ask
how it's tricky?
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Or in-in what way
does it feel...
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- Tricky?
- ...tricky to you?
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- Why?
- Well...
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...it's one of those things
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where I feel like
her default is...
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...to be controlling.
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- Hmm.
- Controlling of the situation.
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That's really interesting.
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I don't agree.
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I think, uh,
that feels a little unfair.
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I just, that's how I feel.
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And I feel like
that's unfair to say.
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Can you give me an example?
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- Yeah, uh...
- Contextualize it for both
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- Jane and myself?
- Yeah, uh...
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You know, like, the thing
we did the other w...
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the weekend.
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How many?
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Three. Only one
that seems to be armed.
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The dude in the yellow.
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I want to take the lead
on this one.
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You want
to take the lead on this?
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Are you sure you can handle it?
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Got to show my stuff for Hihi.
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If I have any problems,
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you'll hear me and I'll say,
"I have to use the bathroom."
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That's a horrible idea.
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What if you actually have
to use the bathroom?
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I won't actually have
to use the bathroom.
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It's a half-hour job, tops.
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Was this
work-related,
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or were these just
friends of yours, John?
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They were clients
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that we were
trying to, you know,
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we were trying
to close a deal with them.
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- Or c... yeah, court.
- Yeah.
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And did you sign them?
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What'd you say
your name again was?
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- John?
- Yeah, John.
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I didn't know Lif had
any cousins in New York.
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He don't talk about family?
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Yeah, that's Khalif.
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Call.
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Don't eat those, man.
They're, like, a year old, bro.
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Peanut butter in a pretzel
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is, like, the perfect combo.
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Shit, it's weird it's not
more of a staple snack.
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They don't
got good branding.
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You know,
branding is everything.
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I was just talking
to my mains about cops.
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Now, they got good branding.
You know, that's what...
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even Michelle Obama,
she was like,
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"I wish the presidency
had a promo budget."
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Because optics are everything.
The way people come to you
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- is the way people see you, you know?
- Mm.
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And cops have
really good branding.
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Black people
need better branding.
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Shit, that copaganda,
man, is real.
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And they don't slip up a lot.
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And when
they do slip,
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they make you forget
about that shit fast as fuck.
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- Mm-hmm.
- Have them doing them little TikTok dances
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- next day at the crime scene and shit.
- I know, yeah.
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They be sitting there like...
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That's what I'm saying, nigga.
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- That's what I'm saying.
- He was taking forever.
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No, you just don't like that I
was doing it well without you.
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- That...
- That's what... That's the problem.
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Oh, and you feel
that this bothers Jane?
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I know it does.
I mean...
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if we're being honest,
I was bonding
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with Black people...
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- Oh, my God.
- ...and it was something
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that she can't do as well.
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So I had access in a way
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that she will never have,
and it bothered her.
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You were in there with these
guys, they were just talking
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about different kinds
of girls and w-wh...
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- submissive girls, I mean...
- No.
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What you were bonding over
was being sexist.
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- That's what it was.
- How so?
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Say-say more about that.
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No, we were talking about Mya.
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You know who I was
obsessed with back in the day?
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Mya.
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- '01, '02?
- I remember Mya. Oh, shit.
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I used to run home, 4:00,
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Wednesday afternoon, MTV,
just sitting there...
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...trying-trying to get
Sisqo out of the way.
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Just like...
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"Fuck, nigga."
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What did ever happen to Mya?
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That's exactly
what we were talking about.
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We were saying, like,
I think she married, like, rich
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and then was like,
"I-I just don't need this,"
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- and just decided to, like, be on her own.
- Yeah.
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She was like, "Oh, I'm just
gonna..." But I just...
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We were like, "Oh,
remember that song," like...
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d Forget about d
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Yes, I do. Yeah, yeah.
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- I remember loving that video.
- Oh.
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- It's so good.
- Yeah.
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- With Sisqo?
- Yeah.
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Like, we were just talking
about how much we love Mya.
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Your body language
is saying a lot right now.
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What's hard
about this is that
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I think you perform a bit
when you're around other men.
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- No. No.
- Yeah.
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I think...
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You were performing with them.
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You weren't even
laughing like yourself.
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Well, we were doing a...
uh, that's how I laugh.
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Nope. I have never
heard you laugh like that.
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That's how I laugh when I think
something's actually funny.
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That's my real laugh.
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- What?
- "Actually funny." Did you hear that?
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John, let's...
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let's try to refrain from using
cruel or absolute language
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while we're in here.
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Outside of here, you can
do whatever you want.
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Not really, but you know.
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I think
it's something that he does
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when he's around men.
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- Mm-hmm.
- And I don't know
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if it has something
to do with his dad
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or if it's something to do with
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- the way you grew up, with how your mom...
- Wow. Okay. L-Listen.
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We have a therapist.
We have a therapist here.
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Let her do her job, okay?
You don't...
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Y-You're being
out of pocket, all right?
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What-what does that even mean?
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I think what John means
by "being out of pocket"
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is that you are
crossing a boundary.
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- Thank you.
- Okay.
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Okay, fine. He was
crossing a lot of boundaries
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when he was
in this conversation.
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Yes.
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- What boundaries?
- You...
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You were being racist.
He was saying racist things
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- about me.
- I was not.
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I love Latina women,
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but I don't
love they families, man.
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I mean, they just,
they just be too involved.
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I don't know
about that.
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- I can't trust a woman who isn't close to her family.
- Facts.
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Something wrong with a woman
who's not close with her family.
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I-It tells you
a lot about them.
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- You have a ring.
- Mm.
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You must be married.
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- Yep.
- She a Latina?
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- Asian, actually.
- Oh.
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- Nigga, word?
- I went East.
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Yo, you went East with...
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East of the border?
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You a lucky man,
'cause I love me some Asians.
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- Yeah.
- They low-key conservative.
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- That's facts.
- They know their role.
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- Mm-hmm.
- Not mine.
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She's not like that at all.
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She must be Filipino.
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She's Japanese,
but I never met her family,
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so she could be low-key Korean.
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I don't even know, it's like...
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I-I know
you're not low-key Korean.
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Like, that's obvious.
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- Like, I...
- No, no, no.
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I do recognize that in
your individual communities,
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certain ways of communicating
are permissible,
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but...
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I think bonding over racism
within that community
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at your wife's expense
is-is hardly the way
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- to go about that.
- This...
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00:10:30,791 --> 00:10:33,625
our... the problem
wasn't about that, okay?
250
00:10:33,626 --> 00:10:35,083
It wasn't about what I said.
251
00:10:35,084 --> 00:10:36,541
It was about what she did.
252
00:10:38,833 --> 00:10:40,665
See? That's the thing
with this nigga.
253
00:10:40,666 --> 00:10:42,083
- Nigga, it hurts.
- No, no, no, no.
254
00:10:42,084 --> 00:10:44,625
Let me t... No, no, no, no.
Let me talk.
255
00:10:44,626 --> 00:10:46,332
I keep telling this nigga,
256
00:10:46,333 --> 00:10:47,874
don't crack your neck
like that.
257
00:10:47,875 --> 00:10:49,333
- Fuck that.
- You're gonna regret it later, man.
258
00:10:49,334 --> 00:10:50,583
That's what
I'm trying to tell him, nigga.
259
00:10:50,584 --> 00:10:52,312
Do some yoga.
15 minutes when you get up.
260
00:10:52,313 --> 00:10:53,968
- Mm-hmm.
- 15 minutes?
261
00:10:53,969 --> 00:10:55,624
- That's asking a lot.
- Look,
262
00:10:55,625 --> 00:10:57,666
somebody explain to this nigga
what I'm talking about.
263
00:10:57,667 --> 00:10:59,124
Look, right now, you're young.
264
00:10:59,125 --> 00:11:00,582
You probably
don't need to do it.
265
00:11:00,583 --> 00:11:02,436
You know, 15 minutes seems like
a long time in the morning.
266
00:11:02,437 --> 00:11:04,291
I mean, I've been
through some shit, but then...
267
00:11:04,292 --> 00:11:05,749
- Listen...
- Maintenance. The more
268
00:11:05,750 --> 00:11:07,625
you put into your body,
the more you'll get out of it.
269
00:11:07,626 --> 00:11:09,082
You know those old folks
that you see
270
00:11:09,083 --> 00:11:10,749
walking down the street
with their necks like that?
271
00:11:10,750 --> 00:11:12,312
- You don't want to be that.
- Y'all do look like
272
00:11:12,313 --> 00:11:13,875
- y'all struggle up the steps.
- Don't do that.
273
00:11:13,876 --> 00:11:15,708
I appreciate that.
Thank you, John.
274
00:11:15,709 --> 00:11:17,208
Life is maintenance.
275
00:11:17,209 --> 00:11:19,332
I like that.
276
00:11:19,333 --> 00:11:21,208
Yo, who is this nigga?
277
00:11:21,209 --> 00:11:23,208
Yo, I-I really like that, man.
278
00:11:23,209 --> 00:11:25,249
I'm telling you,
it's real shit.
279
00:11:25,250 --> 00:11:27,290
Are these niggas
serious?
280
00:11:27,291 --> 00:11:29,491
I have no idea what
the fuck they're talking...
281
00:11:37,209 --> 00:11:39,333
Nah, nah, nah, nah!
282
00:11:51,958 --> 00:11:53,728
Ugh,
I'm fucking starving.
283
00:11:53,729 --> 00:11:55,500
Just grab the bag
and get out of there.
284
00:11:57,833 --> 00:11:59,499
Oh,
so Jane closed it?
285
00:11:59,500 --> 00:12:02,291
- Yeah.
- Yeah. Very, very aggressively.
286
00:12:02,292 --> 00:12:05,083
Mom!
287
00:12:05,084 --> 00:12:07,249
I am so sorry.
288
00:12:07,250 --> 00:12:10,332
This is one of the consequences
of working from home.
289
00:12:10,333 --> 00:12:13,083
I'm just gonna tell him I'm in a session.
290
00:12:13,084 --> 00:12:14,666
- Okay.
- All right.
291
00:12:16,958 --> 00:12:18,916
Just tell her
you were jealous
292
00:12:18,917 --> 00:12:20,332
and that you almost
got me killed.
293
00:12:20,333 --> 00:12:21,791
- Oh, what?
- You almost got me killed.
294
00:12:21,792 --> 00:12:23,728
I didn't get you killed.
I fucking saved you.
295
00:12:23,729 --> 00:12:25,468
You didn't save me.
I didn't need your help.
296
00:12:25,469 --> 00:12:27,208
Oh, really? Did you die?
Are you dead right now?
297
00:12:27,209 --> 00:12:28,250
- Am I dead right now?
- Yeah, are you?
298
00:12:28,251 --> 00:12:29,374
What? Are you insane?
299
00:12:29,375 --> 00:12:30,541
Like, who do you think you are?
300
00:12:30,542 --> 00:12:31,708
- God?
- Keep your voice down.
301
00:12:31,709 --> 00:12:32,957
- Down.
- I almost died.
302
00:12:32,958 --> 00:12:35,083
So...
303
00:12:35,084 --> 00:12:37,124
- so sorry about that.
- No.
304
00:12:37,125 --> 00:12:38,541
Oh, it's no problem.
He sounds sweet.
305
00:12:38,542 --> 00:12:40,541
Yeah, he's disrespectful.
306
00:12:40,542 --> 00:12:42,624
Um... Sorry.
307
00:12:42,625 --> 00:12:43,916
It's okay.
308
00:12:43,917 --> 00:12:45,665
- Forgive me.
- No.
309
00:12:45,666 --> 00:12:47,270
- It's all right.
- Sorry.
310
00:12:47,271 --> 00:12:48,875
- It's okay.
- Yeah.
311
00:12:48,876 --> 00:12:51,165
So, John,
312
00:12:51,166 --> 00:12:53,874
do you think we can
come up with a word
313
00:12:53,875 --> 00:12:56,583
other than "controlling"
to explain
314
00:12:56,584 --> 00:12:58,500
why Jane might have intervened?
315
00:13:04,041 --> 00:13:06,082
I feel like...
316
00:13:06,083 --> 00:13:10,916
maybe Jane intervened
possibly because she's...
317
00:13:10,917 --> 00:13:15,165
s-she can be... anxious.
318
00:13:15,166 --> 00:13:18,416
And do you want Jane
to feel that anxious?
319
00:13:19,583 --> 00:13:20,707
No.
320
00:13:20,708 --> 00:13:24,416
I want her to let me help her
321
00:13:24,417 --> 00:13:26,083
be less anxious.
322
00:13:27,333 --> 00:13:29,833
And do you think you can
let John do that more?
323
00:13:31,541 --> 00:13:33,665
- Yeah.
- That's great.
324
00:13:33,666 --> 00:13:35,791
That's so great.
325
00:13:35,792 --> 00:13:37,291
Nice work, John.
326
00:13:42,916 --> 00:13:44,832
I do... I...
327
00:13:44,833 --> 00:13:47,083
I don't know,
I just have trouble,
328
00:13:47,084 --> 00:13:49,832
still, with the idea of-of...
329
00:13:49,833 --> 00:13:52,041
Like, how do I do that
without making sacrifices
330
00:13:52,042 --> 00:13:53,457
to the parts of...
331
00:13:53,458 --> 00:13:55,208
You know, without
sacrificing parts of myself
332
00:13:55,209 --> 00:13:57,479
that make me me.
333
00:13:59,750 --> 00:14:03,812
You know, when I was
spending some time
334
00:14:03,813 --> 00:14:07,874
in the jungles
of Tortuguero, Costa Rica,
335
00:14:07,875 --> 00:14:12,666
a, uh, rare mantled howler,
the Alouatta palliata,
336
00:14:12,667 --> 00:14:16,312
stared at me
directly in my eyes.
337
00:14:16,313 --> 00:14:19,958
And at first,
I held his stare...
338
00:14:21,541 --> 00:14:24,875
...until I realized,
if I didn't heed his warning,
339
00:14:24,876 --> 00:14:27,375
he was ready to take
a chunk out of my face.
340
00:14:28,625 --> 00:14:30,749
So I averted my gaze,
341
00:14:30,750 --> 00:14:35,125
because sometimes we just
have to listen to nature.
342
00:14:36,583 --> 00:14:38,416
You know what I mean?
343
00:14:38,417 --> 00:14:40,249
- Yeah.
- Mm.
344
00:14:46,666 --> 00:14:48,124
We are out of time.
345
00:14:48,125 --> 00:14:51,625
- Oh.
- But this has been great.
346
00:14:51,626 --> 00:14:53,124
- Okay?
- Yeah.
347
00:14:53,125 --> 00:14:54,853
So, same time next week?
348
00:14:54,854 --> 00:14:56,426
- Um...
- Yeah, we can...
349
00:14:56,427 --> 00:14:57,999
I-I think we can do that.
350
00:14:58,000 --> 00:14:59,520
- Okay, great.
- Thank you so much.
351
00:14:59,521 --> 00:15:00,885
- Thank you.
- You're so welcome.
352
00:15:00,886 --> 00:15:02,400
- No problem.
- The Venmo, uh, code
353
00:15:02,401 --> 00:15:04,387
is on a sticky note
right by the door.
354
00:15:04,388 --> 00:15:06,374
- Okay. Okay, great.
- You have...
355
00:15:06,375 --> 00:15:07,875
- I have the phone.
- You can take a picture of it, there...
356
00:15:07,876 --> 00:15:09,583
My son is... It's a...
it's been done, it's out there.
357
00:15:11,000 --> 00:15:12,840
- Thank you so much.
- Thank you.
358
00:15:19,291 --> 00:15:21,958
What do you think she meant
by the monkey story?
359
00:15:21,959 --> 00:15:23,582
I don't know.
360
00:15:23,583 --> 00:15:26,583
I was thinking about that.
I was very lost.
361
00:15:26,584 --> 00:15:28,500
I didn't know where to look.
362
00:15:29,750 --> 00:15:31,832
I don't...
363
00:15:31,833 --> 00:15:33,791
- Was the monkey me?
- Or was the monkey me, I thought.
364
00:15:33,792 --> 00:15:35,895
Was she, was that a, like,
a racist, like,
365
00:15:35,896 --> 00:15:38,000
"Don't make eye contact with me."
366
00:15:50,208 --> 00:15:52,124
Beautiful floors, Doc.
367
00:15:52,125 --> 00:15:54,270
Thank you
for noticing, John.
368
00:15:54,271 --> 00:15:56,416
The wood on the floor, uh,
believe it or not,
369
00:15:56,417 --> 00:15:59,125
actually came
from my childhood home.
370
00:15:59,126 --> 00:16:01,666
I had them fly it in ages ago.
371
00:16:03,583 --> 00:16:05,750
- You love this house. I can tell.
- I do love this house.
372
00:16:05,751 --> 00:16:08,208
It's a real, um, cocoon for me.
373
00:16:08,209 --> 00:16:10,665
So...
374
00:16:10,666 --> 00:16:14,250
how did things feel,
since our last session?
375
00:16:18,541 --> 00:16:20,520
Not good, honestly.
376
00:16:20,521 --> 00:16:22,499
It wasn't great.
377
00:16:22,500 --> 00:16:24,749
Jane, do you notice
that you do that a lot?
378
00:16:24,750 --> 00:16:27,374
- Answer for the both of you?
- Well, he's not...
379
00:16:27,375 --> 00:16:30,000
I mean, last time, I feel like,
in the last session,
380
00:16:30,001 --> 00:16:32,082
he was doing that for me.
381
00:16:32,083 --> 00:16:35,103
But now I just feel like he's not...
382
00:16:35,104 --> 00:16:38,125
...answering, he's looking
to me to answer, so...
383
00:16:38,126 --> 00:16:40,415
Okay,
and that's fair.
384
00:16:40,416 --> 00:16:42,791
John, do you notice
that you do that a lot?
385
00:16:42,792 --> 00:16:45,166
Look to Jane for the answer?
386
00:16:46,500 --> 00:16:48,270
Yeah, I guess
I've just gotten used to
387
00:16:48,271 --> 00:16:50,041
her thinking she has
all the answers.
388
00:16:50,042 --> 00:16:52,125
Can you rephrase that, John?
389
00:16:55,416 --> 00:16:56,625
I...
390
00:16:58,041 --> 00:16:59,916
...don't know as much as her.
391
00:17:00,916 --> 00:17:02,375
Great.
392
00:17:04,000 --> 00:17:07,750
Has Jane been able to
let you take the lead at all
393
00:17:07,751 --> 00:17:09,833
since we saw each other last?
394
00:17:13,416 --> 00:17:14,832
I tried.
395
00:17:18,166 --> 00:17:20,416
- Out of the way!
- Hold up!
396
00:17:20,417 --> 00:17:22,625
Fuck. Fuck.
397
00:17:26,125 --> 00:17:27,499
It's not my fault
you have asthma.
398
00:17:27,500 --> 00:17:30,125
- Uh...
- Why-why even say that?
399
00:17:30,126 --> 00:17:32,165
H-How is asthma relevant here?
400
00:17:32,166 --> 00:17:34,208
- She's just using it to cut me down.
- Don't do the thing
401
00:17:34,209 --> 00:17:35,708
where you twist it around
and make it seem like
402
00:17:35,709 --> 00:17:37,416
you're the good guy
and I'm being bad.
403
00:17:37,417 --> 00:17:39,458
I'm not, I'm pointing out...
404
00:17:39,459 --> 00:17:40,582
I'm not the villain.
405
00:17:40,583 --> 00:17:41,728
You were the one
who was actually mean.
406
00:17:41,729 --> 00:17:42,875
- I'm not the villain, either.
- Yeah...
407
00:17:42,876 --> 00:17:44,749
How so? How so?
Elaborate on that.
408
00:17:44,750 --> 00:17:46,958
So, there was
a software malfunction.
409
00:17:46,959 --> 00:17:48,833
I'm saving the computer
from crashing.
410
00:17:48,834 --> 00:17:50,833
You always have to be first
411
00:17:50,834 --> 00:17:52,479
to troubleshoot a problem
412
00:17:52,480 --> 00:17:54,124
when it's fine the way it is.
413
00:17:54,125 --> 00:17:55,415
I don't need
to troubleshoot.
414
00:17:55,416 --> 00:17:57,458
I start at zero
and I go up through the codes.
415
00:17:57,459 --> 00:17:58,749
You go up through the codes?
416
00:17:58,750 --> 00:18:00,207
- Yeah.
- My files are clean.
417
00:18:00,208 --> 00:18:02,707
- My-my files are fine.
- Your files are so corrupt.
418
00:18:02,708 --> 00:18:05,208
The amount that I have
to clean up after you is wild.
419
00:18:05,209 --> 00:18:06,249
- Really?
- Yeah.
420
00:18:06,250 --> 00:18:07,707
'Cause the malware you have
421
00:18:07,708 --> 00:18:09,165
- is i-incredible.
- Okay.
422
00:18:09,166 --> 00:18:12,125
- Uh-huh.
- Okay? it's crazy that it's still even running.
423
00:18:12,126 --> 00:18:13,750
You're the one
who did the thing after.
424
00:18:13,751 --> 00:18:15,375
That's-that's the...
that's the thing
425
00:18:15,376 --> 00:18:17,166
that actually fucked me up.
426
00:18:26,625 --> 00:18:28,708
You never want to
give me credit for anything.
427
00:18:28,709 --> 00:18:30,333
Okay? I'm good at pivoting.
428
00:18:30,334 --> 00:18:31,583
I taught you that.
429
00:18:42,375 --> 00:18:44,083
I'm always communicating
with you, on the job.
430
00:18:44,084 --> 00:18:45,625
I'm keeping you in the loop.
431
00:18:45,626 --> 00:18:47,291
Third floor!
432
00:18:47,292 --> 00:18:48,957
Oh, come on.
433
00:18:48,958 --> 00:18:50,333
Fourth floor.
434
00:18:51,666 --> 00:18:53,875
- Fifth!
- Oh, God.
435
00:18:53,876 --> 00:18:55,020
- Whatever, Jane.
- I...
436
00:18:55,021 --> 00:18:56,166
Always the martyr. I get it.
437
00:18:59,458 --> 00:19:01,874
Ninth floor! Tenth floor!
438
00:19:01,875 --> 00:19:03,291
I'm gonna
fucking kill this guy.
439
00:19:03,292 --> 00:19:04,937
I'm gonna kill this guy.
440
00:19:04,938 --> 00:19:06,593
Eleventh!
441
00:19:06,594 --> 00:19:08,250
Twelfth!
442
00:19:13,166 --> 00:19:15,791
Fuck... you, you motherfucker.
443
00:19:17,417 --> 00:19:19,041
Fifteen!
444
00:19:21,500 --> 00:19:23,166
Sixteenth floor!
445
00:19:32,666 --> 00:19:34,750
We're
heading onto the roof!
446
00:19:46,750 --> 00:19:48,812
Die, motherfucker.
447
00:19:57,250 --> 00:20:00,500
What? What are you saying?
448
00:20:01,541 --> 00:20:03,832
Who are you talking to?
449
00:20:03,833 --> 00:20:05,957
What that... Who was that for?
450
00:20:05,958 --> 00:20:08,208
Was that for you
or was that for me?
451
00:20:10,292 --> 00:20:11,707
Babe.
452
00:20:11,708 --> 00:20:14,082
"Die, motherfucker"?
453
00:20:14,083 --> 00:20:16,874
Did I miss
your first movie?
454
00:20:16,875 --> 00:20:18,374
- Holy shit.
- He laughed at me.
455
00:20:18,375 --> 00:20:20,791
In my face. 'Cause he couldn't
keep up with coding.
456
00:20:20,792 --> 00:20:23,000
And I was saving you...
457
00:20:23,001 --> 00:20:24,207
Stop laughing.
458
00:20:24,208 --> 00:20:26,540
It was funny,
that you said that.
459
00:20:26,541 --> 00:20:28,375
It was a c...
Y-You said a catchphrase
460
00:20:28,376 --> 00:20:30,000
while we were c-coding.
461
00:20:30,001 --> 00:20:31,624
What?
462
00:20:31,625 --> 00:20:34,500
Imagine if I had said something
like that, if I was like,
463
00:20:34,501 --> 00:20:37,250
"That's what's up,
chicken butt."
464
00:20:37,251 --> 00:20:38,416
Like, if I said that,
you would've...
465
00:20:38,417 --> 00:20:39,790
Y-You're laughing.
466
00:20:39,791 --> 00:20:42,020
Because that's not
what I said, first of...
467
00:20:42,021 --> 00:20:44,250
- Yeah, but it was funny.
- It's hurtful
468
00:20:44,251 --> 00:20:45,832
when you laugh
at something like that.
469
00:20:45,833 --> 00:20:47,166
- Come on.
- I needed to say that to go there.
470
00:20:47,167 --> 00:20:48,374
To-to go where?
471
00:20:48,375 --> 00:20:50,124
It's just a moment.
472
00:20:50,125 --> 00:20:52,582
And it's... y-you're taking it
like I'm belittling you.
473
00:20:52,583 --> 00:20:54,083
- It's not belittling. You're the one who thinks...
- You are.
474
00:20:54,084 --> 00:20:56,104
...that I can't live without
you. That's belittling.
475
00:20:56,105 --> 00:20:58,125
I've had to save you
many times, it's just a fact.
476
00:20:58,126 --> 00:21:01,166
When have you...
when have you saved my life?
477
00:21:01,167 --> 00:21:02,624
Ski work trip.
478
00:21:02,625 --> 00:21:05,020
- The ski trip?
- Mm-hmm.
479
00:21:05,021 --> 00:21:07,072
You saved my dick.
That is not my life.
480
00:21:07,073 --> 00:21:08,952
That's not
a small feat. That...
481
00:21:08,953 --> 00:21:10,833
Oh, it's not like
I get to use it anymore.
482
00:21:10,834 --> 00:21:12,165
- It's like...
- Jesus.
483
00:21:12,166 --> 00:21:14,165
...when it comes to you,
and all your problems
484
00:21:14,166 --> 00:21:16,166
and your point of view,
I have to be there
485
00:21:16,167 --> 00:21:17,791
and support it
and understand it,
486
00:21:17,792 --> 00:21:19,416
but when it comes to me
and my stuff,
487
00:21:19,417 --> 00:21:20,624
no one gives a fuck.
488
00:21:20,625 --> 00:21:21,833
- Sorry.
- It's okay.
489
00:21:21,834 --> 00:21:25,082
He's being brave. And honest.
490
00:21:25,083 --> 00:21:26,561
Uh, I-I'm so sorry.
491
00:21:26,562 --> 00:21:28,697
Uh, please
don't play that piano.
492
00:21:28,698 --> 00:21:30,833
- Sorry, it's not for playing.
- Oh.
493
00:21:30,834 --> 00:21:32,874
It was my grandfather's.
494
00:21:32,875 --> 00:21:34,625
It was the one thing
my grandparents
495
00:21:34,626 --> 00:21:36,374
were able to save from the war.
496
00:21:36,375 --> 00:21:38,375
One of the Nazis loved
to hear them play it.
497
00:21:38,376 --> 00:21:39,916
- It saved their lives.
- Oh, Jesus.
498
00:21:39,917 --> 00:21:42,290
I'm sorry. I didn't...
499
00:21:42,291 --> 00:21:43,916
You should, you should
return to your seat, John.
500
00:21:43,917 --> 00:21:46,000
- Okay.
- Thank you so much.
501
00:21:49,500 --> 00:21:52,978
I didn't realize that was not
a play... p-playing piano.
502
00:21:52,979 --> 00:21:56,458
I know. A lot
of people do that, so it's okay.
503
00:21:56,459 --> 00:21:58,666
It's okay. You should
get a little sign.
504
00:21:58,667 --> 00:22:01,583
I mean, you got
a QR code, so...
505
00:22:05,625 --> 00:22:08,249
So...
506
00:22:08,250 --> 00:22:10,666
Is this the, uh,
traditional dynamic
507
00:22:10,667 --> 00:22:12,499
between the two of you?
508
00:22:12,500 --> 00:22:16,250
Jane taking the lead,
in a leadership role, always?
509
00:22:18,250 --> 00:22:20,208
It-it wasn't like that
at the beginning.
510
00:22:20,209 --> 00:22:22,083
In the beginning,
I had more, um,
511
00:22:22,084 --> 00:22:24,020
uh, coding experience than her,
512
00:22:24,021 --> 00:22:26,343
and, you know,
there was a lot...
513
00:22:26,344 --> 00:22:28,666
I-I trained her,
in a lot of ways.
514
00:22:28,667 --> 00:22:30,375
You trained me?
515
00:22:32,041 --> 00:22:34,332
Uh, I gave you
a lot more guidance.
516
00:22:34,333 --> 00:22:36,041
- Mm.
- You know, and if I'm being honest,
517
00:22:36,042 --> 00:22:38,332
I felt more comfortable
in that role
518
00:22:38,333 --> 00:22:41,166
'cause it-it felt like
she was looking up to me.
519
00:22:42,166 --> 00:22:44,665
And I miss that.
520
00:22:44,666 --> 00:22:46,707
What a vulnerable thing
to admit.
521
00:22:46,708 --> 00:22:48,750
How does that
make you feel, Jane?
522
00:22:49,791 --> 00:22:51,916
I do still
look up to you, John.
523
00:22:53,375 --> 00:22:56,249
Sometimes you act like...
like I'm holding you back.
524
00:22:56,250 --> 00:22:58,458
- It feels like you-you think I'm holding you back.
- I don't feel that way.
525
00:22:58,459 --> 00:23:00,666
I don't think
you're holding me back.
526
00:23:01,666 --> 00:23:02,791
I don't.
527
00:23:04,416 --> 00:23:06,416
Do you feel that?
528
00:23:07,625 --> 00:23:10,750
That's the power of the work
that we're doing here together.
529
00:23:10,751 --> 00:23:14,208
It's the power of this room.
530
00:23:16,208 --> 00:23:19,874
So, I think what
I would like for you
531
00:23:19,875 --> 00:23:23,541
to try to do
is to try saying "time-out"
532
00:23:23,542 --> 00:23:25,332
when things start heating up.
533
00:23:25,333 --> 00:23:27,500
It might sound silly,
but my husband and I do it,
534
00:23:27,501 --> 00:23:29,665
and it really does work.
535
00:23:29,666 --> 00:23:32,833
You say "time-out,"
you take 20 minutes,
536
00:23:32,834 --> 00:23:34,540
and then,
if you want to revisit
537
00:23:34,541 --> 00:23:37,082
the conversation or the topic,
of course you can.
538
00:23:37,083 --> 00:23:39,625
But the funny thing is,
nine times out of ten, it...
539
00:23:39,626 --> 00:23:42,291
it no longer
feels as important.
540
00:23:43,458 --> 00:23:45,416
Do you think you can try this?
541
00:23:45,417 --> 00:23:47,437
- Mm-hmm.
- Okay, so next time?
542
00:23:47,438 --> 00:23:49,458
- Next time.
- Great.
543
00:23:53,791 --> 00:23:55,625
She likes you more than me.
544
00:23:57,625 --> 00:23:59,749
- That's not true.
- No, it's true.
545
00:23:59,750 --> 00:24:03,333
Everyone likes you more.
You're very likeable.
546
00:24:21,208 --> 00:24:23,083
Why don't we start this session
547
00:24:23,084 --> 00:24:25,124
saying one great thing
548
00:24:25,125 --> 00:24:27,416
that your partner does for you?
549
00:24:31,250 --> 00:24:32,458
Jane?
550
00:24:37,291 --> 00:24:39,916
John always leaves
the toilet seat down.
551
00:24:51,416 --> 00:24:54,500
Did something happen
this week at work?
552
00:24:56,750 --> 00:24:57,958
John?
553
00:25:03,083 --> 00:25:05,208
Okay, look,
I'm just gonna call out
554
00:25:05,209 --> 00:25:07,582
the elephant in the room here.
555
00:25:07,583 --> 00:25:12,041
It seems like work is a real
point of contention for you.
556
00:25:12,042 --> 00:25:14,832
Yeah. It, uh...
557
00:25:14,833 --> 00:25:17,520
it wasn't a good work week.
558
00:25:17,521 --> 00:25:20,405
And a lot of this
might be depression
559
00:25:20,406 --> 00:25:23,291
from-from looking
at screens all day.
560
00:25:23,292 --> 00:25:25,082
It's not the screens.
561
00:25:25,083 --> 00:25:26,833
What would you say it is, then?
562
00:25:26,834 --> 00:25:29,041
What happened this week?
563
00:25:31,041 --> 00:25:33,666
We went on a work retreat.
564
00:25:33,667 --> 00:25:34,915
Camping.
565
00:25:36,625 --> 00:25:40,082
This is taking longer
than Hihi said it would.
566
00:25:40,083 --> 00:25:43,541
Why wouldn't they include
coordinates to find this guy?
567
00:25:43,542 --> 00:25:45,958
They probably
don't know where he is.
568
00:25:45,959 --> 00:25:48,104
He's obviously off the grid.
569
00:25:48,105 --> 00:25:50,250
Are you sure
we're not lost?
570
00:25:55,166 --> 00:25:56,583
So, what
were you actually doing
571
00:25:56,584 --> 00:25:57,999
on this retreat?
572
00:25:58,000 --> 00:26:00,624
- We were hunting.
- Wow.
573
00:26:00,625 --> 00:26:04,916
I-I didn't see you two
as the hunting type.
574
00:26:06,541 --> 00:26:08,625
What were you hunting?
575
00:26:08,626 --> 00:26:10,937
Just big game.
576
00:26:10,938 --> 00:26:13,249
It was big.
577
00:26:13,250 --> 00:26:15,832
John is a big game hunter.
578
00:26:15,833 --> 00:26:18,332
John is
a big game hunter?
579
00:26:20,833 --> 00:26:23,645
It all looks the same.
580
00:26:23,646 --> 00:26:25,760
Not to me.
581
00:26:25,761 --> 00:26:27,875
The woods are the woods.
582
00:26:27,876 --> 00:26:30,250
We're-we're lost here.
583
00:26:35,208 --> 00:26:37,332
You think, after two days,
584
00:26:37,333 --> 00:26:39,208
you're just gonna
magically get service?
585
00:26:40,541 --> 00:26:43,020
Look, we're not lost.
Would you trust me?
586
00:26:43,021 --> 00:26:45,500
- You always get like this.
- Like what?
587
00:26:45,501 --> 00:26:47,375
All stressed and worried and...
588
00:26:47,376 --> 00:26:49,249
We're not gonna
fail the mission.
589
00:26:49,250 --> 00:26:51,416
I know you're worried about it,
but we're just not.
590
00:26:51,417 --> 00:26:53,125
We'll find him
before nightfall, okay?
591
00:26:54,541 --> 00:26:56,082
It was nice
at the beginning.
592
00:26:56,083 --> 00:26:58,332
Because it felt like
she needed me again,
593
00:26:58,333 --> 00:27:01,000
and it felt like there was
a spark that was being relit.
594
00:27:05,083 --> 00:27:06,291
Jane?
595
00:27:08,375 --> 00:27:12,666
Yeah, there was, there was
a small spark in the beginning.
596
00:27:12,667 --> 00:27:15,415
So, where did things go wrong?
597
00:27:15,416 --> 00:27:19,291
We were working,
camping, doing the hunting,
598
00:27:19,292 --> 00:27:21,666
and then he got all machismo.
599
00:27:30,583 --> 00:27:32,083
You impressed?
600
00:27:33,125 --> 00:27:34,875
If you catch something
with it, I will be.
601
00:27:37,208 --> 00:27:39,541
This whole mission is weird.
602
00:27:39,542 --> 00:27:42,124
How?
603
00:27:42,125 --> 00:27:44,333
I mean, you're acting
like this is Disneyland,
604
00:27:44,334 --> 00:27:45,708
like y-you're camping.
605
00:27:45,709 --> 00:27:47,583
It's...
606
00:27:47,584 --> 00:27:49,457
I don't know.
607
00:27:49,458 --> 00:27:51,250
We haven't seen
a trace of the target.
608
00:27:52,250 --> 00:27:55,166
There's no reception here,
nobody's here.
609
00:27:55,167 --> 00:27:57,540
We're just...
610
00:27:57,541 --> 00:27:59,875
How do we even know
he's still here?
611
00:28:05,166 --> 00:28:07,458
- Okay, fuck it.
- What are you doing?
612
00:28:07,459 --> 00:28:09,124
The fuck?
613
00:28:09,125 --> 00:28:10,790
Chill.
614
00:28:10,791 --> 00:28:13,395
Stop, Jo... The Hunter
is gonna hear you.
615
00:28:13,396 --> 00:28:15,614
- Are you crazy?
- Then he'll come to us.
616
00:28:15,615 --> 00:28:17,833
We can't find him,
so he'll come to us.
617
00:28:22,063 --> 00:28:23,875
What is happening?
618
00:28:25,250 --> 00:28:27,000
See, the trick is
you got to shoot
619
00:28:27,001 --> 00:28:29,125
under it, not at it.
620
00:28:30,708 --> 00:28:32,708
I didn't read a book.
621
00:28:34,875 --> 00:28:36,040
That's what happened.
622
00:28:36,041 --> 00:28:38,583
That's how you're
gonna talk about this?
623
00:28:38,584 --> 00:28:40,645
That's what you're gonna say?
624
00:28:40,646 --> 00:28:42,707
This is all because of a book.
625
00:28:42,708 --> 00:28:45,291
I'm-I'm sorry, what-what
was this, uh, about a book?
626
00:28:45,292 --> 00:28:46,499
He lied.
627
00:28:52,250 --> 00:28:53,791
That's sad.
628
00:28:53,792 --> 00:28:55,333
What's sad?
629
00:28:56,875 --> 00:29:00,541
There was a bug
that was attracted to this...
630
00:29:01,541 --> 00:29:03,083
It's nothing.
631
00:29:04,958 --> 00:29:06,790
You got to try and relax.
632
00:29:06,791 --> 00:29:09,541
Whenever you think
of something sad...
633
00:29:12,250 --> 00:29:16,000
...try and think about
the joy that's in it, you know?
634
00:29:17,375 --> 00:29:19,499
Like, right now, it...
635
00:29:19,500 --> 00:29:21,624
underneath the stars.
636
00:29:21,625 --> 00:29:24,500
Most people don't get
to see this anymore.
637
00:29:27,750 --> 00:29:29,958
It's like The Prophet.
638
00:29:31,333 --> 00:29:34,625
"The Joy and the Sorrow."
639
00:29:49,458 --> 00:29:51,291
I'm tired.
640
00:29:53,333 --> 00:29:55,333
I'm gonna go to bed.
641
00:30:21,833 --> 00:30:25,000
Do you actually
like The Prophet?
642
00:30:26,375 --> 00:30:28,332
What?
643
00:30:28,333 --> 00:30:30,583
The book. The Prophet.
644
00:30:32,583 --> 00:30:34,686
Yeah. What-what about it?
645
00:30:34,687 --> 00:30:36,791
Have you even read it?
646
00:30:38,708 --> 00:30:41,208
N... No.
647
00:30:42,333 --> 00:30:44,291
So this was about a book?
648
00:30:46,750 --> 00:30:49,416
It started off about a book.
It's not about a book.
649
00:30:49,417 --> 00:30:51,291
Well, then,
what is it about, then?
650
00:30:53,083 --> 00:30:54,332
You told me it was
your favorite book.
651
00:30:54,333 --> 00:30:55,583
- You said...
- When did I say that?
652
00:30:55,584 --> 00:30:57,165
I said it was my favorite book,
653
00:30:57,166 --> 00:30:58,790
I said the Hot Neighbor
loved it...
654
00:30:58,791 --> 00:31:00,416
...and then you said...
655
00:31:00,417 --> 00:31:02,332
What?
656
00:31:02,333 --> 00:31:05,791
That, yeah, I mean, yeah,
then that's probably why.
657
00:31:05,792 --> 00:31:09,082
I was...
I-I don't like that guy.
658
00:31:09,083 --> 00:31:11,166
- I just, I don't like how he flirts with you.
- Oh, my God.
659
00:31:11,167 --> 00:31:13,583
I don't understand that,
so I prob...
660
00:31:13,584 --> 00:31:15,645
I-I said that to...
661
00:31:15,646 --> 00:31:17,708
It's-it's just a book.
662
00:31:17,709 --> 00:31:19,166
So you lied.
663
00:31:20,250 --> 00:31:22,790
Yeah. Yeah, I lied.
664
00:31:22,791 --> 00:31:25,416
I-I don't think it warrants
this kind of reaction.
665
00:31:25,417 --> 00:31:26,958
I thought that was
why we matched,
666
00:31:26,959 --> 00:31:28,499
because it's our favorite book.
667
00:31:28,500 --> 00:31:31,582
You think
an international spy agency
668
00:31:31,583 --> 00:31:34,541
put us together because
we like the same book?
669
00:31:34,542 --> 00:31:38,625
- No.
- Like it's OkCupid or something?
670
00:31:40,041 --> 00:31:42,270
- No, I-I'm wrong.
- Right. What do you mean?
671
00:31:42,271 --> 00:31:44,843
I'm wrong, 'cause I actually
have never seen you
672
00:31:44,844 --> 00:31:47,416
read a book in the entire time
I've known you, so...
673
00:31:48,458 --> 00:31:50,415
- It makes sense.
- I know you, Jane.
674
00:31:50,416 --> 00:31:53,186
And you're very calculated
about how you put things.
675
00:31:53,187 --> 00:31:55,957
So if you want to call me
stupid, just call me stupid...
676
00:31:55,958 --> 00:31:57,250
- I'm not calling you stupid.
- ...and we can have a conversation about it.
677
00:31:57,251 --> 00:31:58,749
No, I'm not calling you stupid,
678
00:31:58,750 --> 00:32:01,541
I'm just saying you don't
read books, which is true.
679
00:32:03,708 --> 00:32:05,999
What are you...
680
00:32:06,000 --> 00:32:08,582
Yo. Can we just
please go to sleep?
681
00:32:08,583 --> 00:32:10,916
All right?
We can argue about...
682
00:32:10,917 --> 00:32:13,250
books in the morning,
all right?
683
00:32:13,251 --> 00:32:15,541
Yeah, I'm tired. Let's...
684
00:32:16,583 --> 00:32:19,583
You've been teaching me all day
like I'm your student, so...
685
00:32:22,916 --> 00:32:25,499
I've...
686
00:32:25,500 --> 00:32:27,125
I've been trying to
share things with you.
687
00:32:27,126 --> 00:32:28,832
We were doing things together.
688
00:32:28,833 --> 00:32:31,166
- I was showing you...
- No, it was pretty condescending
689
00:32:31,167 --> 00:32:32,790
and controlling, so...
690
00:32:32,791 --> 00:32:35,250
I'm condescending
and controlling?
691
00:32:37,375 --> 00:32:39,291
Jane, you don't even
let me eat you out
692
00:32:39,292 --> 00:32:41,415
without telling me
how to do it.
693
00:32:41,416 --> 00:32:43,041
- I have to tell you how to do it...
- Every fucking time,
694
00:32:43,042 --> 00:32:44,624
like I've never seen
a fucking vagina before.
695
00:32:44,625 --> 00:32:46,625
You don't know how I like it,
so I have to tell you...
696
00:32:46,626 --> 00:32:48,582
- Every fucking time?
- If you learned
697
00:32:48,583 --> 00:32:50,436
and listened, maybe I wouldn't
have to fucking say
698
00:32:50,437 --> 00:32:52,926
- how to lick my pussy.
- This is classic Jane.
699
00:32:52,927 --> 00:32:55,415
"I have to emasculate you
so I feel worth it."
700
00:32:55,416 --> 00:32:57,457
I have to teach you everything
because you don't know...
701
00:32:57,458 --> 00:32:58,750
- You don't have to teach me shit.
- ...how to do a lot of things.
702
00:32:58,751 --> 00:32:59,791
- I... You act like a baby!
- You're sitting
703
00:32:59,792 --> 00:33:01,457
underneath a shelter I made.
704
00:33:01,458 --> 00:33:02,811
- Oh! "Oh, I'm man.
- I made this fire,
705
00:33:02,812 --> 00:33:04,166
- I got you this fish...
- I build shelter,
706
00:33:04,167 --> 00:33:06,353
food, fire, water."
707
00:33:06,354 --> 00:33:08,426
- Fuck you.
- Nice.
708
00:33:08,427 --> 00:33:10,499
Why are you like this?
709
00:33:10,500 --> 00:33:12,478
Why do you do that?
I-I just don't get it.
710
00:33:12,479 --> 00:33:14,458
- I just have deeper priorities.
- You got...
711
00:33:14,459 --> 00:33:16,332
- you have deeper priorities?
- Yeah.
712
00:33:16,333 --> 00:33:18,082
You don't have the capacity
to understand it, so...
713
00:33:18,083 --> 00:33:19,833
Just shut up. Y-You're always
trying to make somebody
714
00:33:19,834 --> 00:33:21,125
- feel stupid.
- "Shut up." "Shut up."
715
00:33:21,126 --> 00:33:22,604
"Fuck you."
Is that how your mom
716
00:33:22,605 --> 00:33:24,083
taught you
how to talk to women?
717
00:33:25,875 --> 00:33:27,562
You're obsessed with my mom.
718
00:33:27,563 --> 00:33:29,249
Wait, wait. Okay.
719
00:33:29,250 --> 00:33:31,500
You're saying
I'm obsessed with your mom?
720
00:33:31,501 --> 00:33:33,790
You call her five times a day.
721
00:33:33,791 --> 00:33:36,332
It-it's a little unhealthy
and it's...
722
00:33:36,333 --> 00:33:38,666
- You need boundaries.
- Oh, oh, like, the boundaries thing?
723
00:33:38,667 --> 00:33:40,915
- Yeah, you need that.
- That-that's the whitest thing
724
00:33:40,916 --> 00:33:43,125
- that you... and-and you... you're always like...
- Oh, what a fucking cool dig.
725
00:33:43,126 --> 00:33:45,875
Like, you don't even know
what that means.
726
00:33:45,876 --> 00:33:48,270
Her husband died.
I'm the man in her life.
727
00:33:48,271 --> 00:33:50,676
I take care of her
because I came out of her.
728
00:33:50,677 --> 00:33:53,083
What did you do for your dad
when your mom died?
729
00:33:53,084 --> 00:33:56,958
Other than not
talk to him ever again.
730
00:33:56,959 --> 00:33:58,457
She's a good mother.
731
00:33:58,458 --> 00:34:00,165
You wouldn't know
anything about that
732
00:34:00,166 --> 00:34:02,250
'cause you're too busy
gallivanting around
733
00:34:02,251 --> 00:34:04,290
with a fucking cat.
734
00:34:04,291 --> 00:34:06,124
So don't talk about her.
735
00:34:06,125 --> 00:34:08,125
Don't fucking bring her up
736
00:34:08,126 --> 00:34:10,166
every time we have
a disagreement,
737
00:34:10,291 --> 00:34:12,374
'cause you don't
understand feelings.
738
00:34:12,375 --> 00:34:15,333
You don't know what it's like
to care about somebody.
739
00:34:15,334 --> 00:34:19,000
You just pretend,
and fucking robotic mimic
740
00:34:19,001 --> 00:34:21,249
everything somebody else does.
741
00:34:21,250 --> 00:34:23,666
I don't know if you're
on the spectrum or what,
742
00:34:23,667 --> 00:34:25,832
but it's fucking weird,
and all you do
743
00:34:25,833 --> 00:34:28,500
is make other people
feel bad for feeling shit.
744
00:34:29,500 --> 00:34:32,375
You said it yourself:
You wouldn't be a good mom.
745
00:34:32,376 --> 00:34:35,500
So don't come here
and talk that shit to me.
746
00:34:45,041 --> 00:34:47,958
We already failed
this fucking mission, anyway.
747
00:35:01,041 --> 00:35:03,208
Who is your emergency contact?
748
00:35:04,708 --> 00:35:06,000
What?
749
00:35:07,166 --> 00:35:09,375
Who is your emergency contact?
750
00:35:10,916 --> 00:35:13,125
My mom.
751
00:35:14,166 --> 00:35:16,375
You're mine.
752
00:35:20,791 --> 00:35:24,541
Our boss was unhappy,
to say the least.
753
00:35:24,542 --> 00:35:26,790
I have a thought.
754
00:35:26,791 --> 00:35:30,625
Are you ever able
to take time off from work?
755
00:35:32,375 --> 00:35:35,124
- Not really. No.
- No. Not really.
756
00:35:35,125 --> 00:35:38,500
What about working on
separate projects for a while,
757
00:35:38,501 --> 00:35:41,375
rather than-than
doing it all together?
758
00:35:41,376 --> 00:35:44,250
- It doesn't really work that way.
- Yeah.
759
00:35:45,875 --> 00:35:49,478
Okay, guys, honestly,
it's just a job.
760
00:35:49,479 --> 00:35:53,083
Just a job.
It is not life and death.
761
00:35:54,958 --> 00:35:58,832
I know that a lot of this
is really tough,
762
00:35:58,833 --> 00:36:02,750
but you guys have to remember
that no one is forcing you
763
00:36:02,751 --> 00:36:05,250
to stay together.
764
00:36:06,750 --> 00:36:09,583
No one is holding
a gun to your head.
765
00:36:11,958 --> 00:36:16,291
You can leave
this relationship at any time.
766
00:36:16,292 --> 00:36:18,875
You are choosing to stay in it.
767
00:36:18,876 --> 00:36:20,541
It's a choice.
768
00:36:21,833 --> 00:36:25,833
Right now, you are
choosing to be better.
769
00:36:28,500 --> 00:36:30,541
Otherwise you wouldn't be
showing up here every week,
770
00:36:30,542 --> 00:36:33,125
saying all of the hard things.
771
00:36:39,500 --> 00:36:45,207
You know,
maybe we ask Hih... um...
772
00:36:45,208 --> 00:36:49,957
him, our boss,
if we could get separate...
773
00:36:49,958 --> 00:36:54,708
- um, coding projects for a while.
- Yeah.
774
00:36:54,709 --> 00:36:56,458
- That could be good.
- Mm-hmm.
775
00:36:57,666 --> 00:37:00,875
That sounds like a solid plan.
776
00:37:03,291 --> 00:37:04,500
Do you feel better?
777
00:37:06,250 --> 00:37:07,875
- Yeah. Yeah, yeah.
- Yeah.
778
00:37:09,250 --> 00:37:11,874
Great. So I will
see you next week?
779
00:37:11,875 --> 00:37:14,499
- Mm-hmm. Thank you.
- Yeah, thank you.
780
00:37:14,500 --> 00:37:17,125
Oh, and before I forget,
I want to give you this.
781
00:37:17,126 --> 00:37:18,749
What's that?
782
00:37:18,750 --> 00:37:21,208
Uh, those are the recordings.
783
00:37:22,208 --> 00:37:25,082
R-Recordings? Well, um...
784
00:37:25,083 --> 00:37:26,499
Yes, remember
the contract you signed?
785
00:37:26,500 --> 00:37:28,374
I record all of the sessions,
and then, that way,
786
00:37:28,375 --> 00:37:30,250
at the end of every month,
you can watch it back,
787
00:37:30,251 --> 00:37:31,666
we can unpack anything
we might have missed,
788
00:37:31,667 --> 00:37:33,208
listen for tone.
789
00:37:34,583 --> 00:37:36,790
- Great.
- Great.
790
00:37:36,791 --> 00:37:39,832
Where are all the, um,
the cameras and...
791
00:37:39,833 --> 00:37:42,875
- microphones and stuff?
- Oh, goodness,
792
00:37:42,876 --> 00:37:44,790
they are hidden
all over the room.
793
00:37:44,791 --> 00:37:46,458
I feel, when people
can see the cameras,
794
00:37:46,459 --> 00:37:48,416
they tend to behave inorganically.
795
00:37:48,417 --> 00:37:50,332
Of course. Yeah.
796
00:37:50,333 --> 00:37:52,124
- Yeah.
- Well, uh...
797
00:37:52,125 --> 00:37:53,333
We're gonna listen to this.
798
00:37:53,334 --> 00:37:54,874
- Yeah. Cool.
- Yeah.
799
00:37:54,875 --> 00:37:56,458
Totally forgot that, yeah,
we were recording.
800
00:37:56,459 --> 00:37:58,000
- Yeah. Thank you.
- Thank you.
801
00:37:58,001 --> 00:38:00,040
- Thanks.
- Oh.
802
00:38:00,041 --> 00:38:02,250
What is that?
That's-that's a great piece.
803
00:38:02,251 --> 00:38:04,999
Oh. Well, thank you very much.
804
00:38:05,000 --> 00:38:07,333
That was actually made
by a person in Kutahya,
805
00:38:07,334 --> 00:38:09,082
who's no longer with us.
806
00:38:09,083 --> 00:38:11,750
An artist by the name
of Ulu Bakmancho.
807
00:38:12,750 --> 00:38:14,916
This was his final piece.
808
00:38:16,291 --> 00:38:20,500
He said, "This ends with me."
809
00:38:21,875 --> 00:38:23,582
All right.
810
00:38:23,583 --> 00:38:25,332
Thank you.
See you next week.
811
00:38:25,333 --> 00:38:27,083
- Beautiful house.
- Thank you again.
812
00:38:28,125 --> 00:38:30,791
Don't forget the, uh,
Venmo by the door.
813
00:38:31,833 --> 00:38:33,125
Got it.
814
00:38:37,917 --> 00:38:40,375
Jesus Christ.
815
00:38:57,791 --> 00:38:59,832
Mom. Mom.
816
00:38:59,833 --> 00:39:03,333
Mommy's working!
She's still working!
817
00:39:08,541 --> 00:39:10,500
Mom, there's a fire!
818
00:39:12,041 --> 00:39:14,290
Think we should try again
with someone else?
819
00:39:14,291 --> 00:39:16,540
- No. It's not for us.
- I-I know it's not fun,
820
00:39:16,541 --> 00:39:18,708
- but there's something good...
- But you know what? Now you're gonna use it against me.
821
00:39:18,709 --> 00:39:20,999
- Anytime we get into a fight, you're gonna say, "Oh...
- I'm not angry at you.
822
00:39:21,000 --> 00:39:23,208
- I'm just trying to say...
- ...if we just had therapy," and that would be the thing
823
00:39:23,209 --> 00:39:25,375
- that we would be able to do.
- Would you... Time-out!
824
00:39:25,376 --> 00:39:27,833
Yes, my house
is completely on fire.
825
00:39:27,834 --> 00:39:30,082
There's smoke b-billowing out.
826
00:39:31,501 --> 00:39:33,457
I don't know.
827
00:39:33,458 --> 00:39:35,749
Yes, yes, I have so many
special things in that house.
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