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[♪]
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[woman]
Get the fuck away from me!
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[man] Jenny, just hold onsecond let me explain.
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Stay away from me!
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You're a little confused.
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You're filming this?
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I just want to talk to you.
You're being overdramatic.
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You don't need that!
I'm not gonna hurt you.
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You know me, remember?
You know my heart.
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I would never hurt you.
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[tense music playing]
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[Jenny gasping]
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[Jenny crying]
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[muffled conversations]
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[woman on computer]
Lilly, what'cha drinking?
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I'm sorry, was that for me?
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Yeah. What you drinking?
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Oh, it's, um, just tea.
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Ooh, do you put honey in it?Honey and some lemon?That's really good.
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Especiallyfor the "kckk" throat.
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Uh, no, I haven't.
I haven't tried that.
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Try yerba mate.It's really good.
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Someone just told methat green tea is, like,better for you than water.
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[overlapping dialogue]
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[woman]
Caffeine releasesslower over time,
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but I have to have coffee.
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[man]
I hear boba's nice.
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-[man 2] Oh, yeah.
-[woman] I don't like boba.
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-[woman 2] Yeah.
-[muffled conversations]
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[music starts to build]
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[Lilly]
I wish you lived closer.
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[woman]
It's not that far.
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[Lilly]
Feels like it.
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[woman]
I know. It sucks.
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It really does.
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You sure you're okay, hon?I worry about you.
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I don't want to cry.
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Then don't.
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You know what I mean.
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I know.
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[sighs]
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Honestly, I...
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don't really feel like
anything's getting any better.
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Have you thought anymoreabout seeing a therapist again?
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No. I'm not going
back to that guy.
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He's a mansplaining prick.
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I don't think he was
listening half the time.
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Well, maybe there'ssomeone else that's--
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No. I said no.
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Okay. What if youstarted vlogging again?
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[sighs]
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Hear me out!It is not a terrible idea.
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Yes, it is.
It's stupid and it's
a waste of time.
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No, it is not.
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Everyone needs an outlet
to get their shit out
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otherwise it-- it festers
and it ties you up in knots,
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and it makes you sick.
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And, besides,your videos were alwaysso funny and so sincere,
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and you're sucha good writer, I just...
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what if you just tried oneand saw how it felt?
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Nobody ever watched
my dumb videos.
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I did.And they're not dumb!
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I don't know.
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Who came upwith the word Vlog anyway?
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It's, like, so gross.
It's like the sound you make
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when a barf gets stuck
in your throat.
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It's like...
[retching sounds]
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Ew! Gross!
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Wait, but what if, hold on.
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If it's a barf
and a gag mixed together
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wouldn't that
be called a barg?
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Or a garf? Could be a garf.
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-[cooking timer beeps]
-Gar-- oh!
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My cookies.Hold on a second.
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It's cool,
just call me later.
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Okay. Love you!
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-Love you!
-Garf!
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[chuckles]
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[ethereal, upbeat music]
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[Lilly on video]
Hi, guys! Happy Tuesday!
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For this Tips Tuesday,
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as requested in the comments,thank you guys,
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I am goingto be doing a littletips about plant care.
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Uh, as you guys know,I am a crazy plant lady.
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If you haven't seenmy place,
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uh, Tyler and I haveso many plants, like,it's ridiculous.
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So, specifically todayI want to talk aboutwatering
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and making surethat you get the light--
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Hi, guys! Happy Wednesday!
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Uh, I wanted to do somethinga little different today,
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so we were shooting outside.Please don't mind allthe crazy noises,
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um, but I wanted to showyou guys my happy place.
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This is my park.Um, well, that's the corner.
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That's the park, see?I park myself, like,right over there.
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I don't know if you can see,the dog park is right there.
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I situate myselfand look out at the dog parkas if I had a dog
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also playing in the parkalong with all the otherpeople watching the dogs.
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And all the dogs run upand they want to play
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and they want to be petand I get to, like, snugglewith them.
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And then people are like,
"Oh, which one's yours?"
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I'm like, oh, the fluffyone over there.
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And no one ever knows.
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Oh, favorite quote...
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you guys ready for this?...of the day.
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It reminds me of the dogs.
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Outside of a dog, a bookis a man's best friend.
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Inside of a dog,it's too dark to read.
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[laughter]
Okay, that's really stupid.
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I get that, but I do.I love it.
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[ethereal music builds]
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[ethereal music plays]
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[no audible dialog]
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[music builds]
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[phone buzzing]
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[groans]
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[yawns]
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Oh, fuck.
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[sighs]
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[woman on voice mail]
Hey, Lill!
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I just watched your vlog
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and I am so,so, so proud of you!
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It was amazing!I loved it!
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And there's all these commentsand views and likes!
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And someone saidthey shared it on Reddit!
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It just seems like peopleare really connecting
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-with what you have to say.
-[Lilly sighs]
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-Shit.
-I'm just so proud of you
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for getting itall out there!
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I just know this is goingto be exactly what you need.
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-Move on,start over and just...
-[Lilly groans]
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[music plays]
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[no audible dialogue]
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[music continues]
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[birds chirping]
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[text message beep]
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[text message beeps]
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[ominous music]
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[clicks]
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[ominous music builds]
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[phone vibrating]
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[teapot steaming]
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[blow dryer humming]
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[overlapping conversation]
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[woman on computer]
Oh! Lilly you lookso cute today.
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[Lilly]
Oh, thanks. I showered.
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Nice! I showered today, too.
[laughter]
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Check it off the list.
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Soon as I get off this call.
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[ominous music builds]
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[car door shuts]
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Lill! Come on!
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I'm sorry. I froze.
I wasn't wearing any makeup
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And I was feeling bloated
and gross
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and also just not in the mood
to chat up a weird guy.
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You said he was cute.
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Well, yeah, but who just waves
at strangers like that?
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You're right. I just finished
the Night Stalker documentary,
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and Richard Ramirez was just
known for walking around
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waving at strangers.
It's a known serial
killer thing.
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Really?
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No! It is perfectly acceptable
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to greet and/or show interest
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in another human being
one finds attractive
by smiling at them
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and yes, even waving.
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Very funny.
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Oh, gotta go. Date night.
Talk to you tomorrow?
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-Okay. Bye. Talk tomorrow.
-Bye. Love you!
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[sighs]
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[phone vibrating]
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[electric toothbrush humming]
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Morning everybody.
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[overlapping greetings]
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-TGIF!-Yes.
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[overlapping conversations]
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[soft music playing]
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[man] Hey.
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What? Hi.
[coughs]
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-Are you okay?
-Oh, my God. I am so sorry.
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-No. No, no you don't--
-That was incredibly gross.
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I'm so sorry
you had to witness that.
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You don't have to apologize.
I'm the one that startled you.
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You did kinda
sneak up on me there.
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What can I say,
I'm light on my feet.
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Makes it easier to sneak up
on my victims that way.
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-[coughs]
-You're all right?
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Yeah. I'm fine.
I'm sufficiently embarrassed,
but good.
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What's that
you're choking on there?
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Um, just veggies and pesto.
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Veggies and hummus.
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Do you mind if I sit down
and eat next to you?
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Sure. Yeah. I mean,
I'm just not staying super long
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'cause I have to get back
to work at some point so...
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Understood.
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I'm Tom.
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Lilly.
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Lilly.
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-I love that name.
-[scoffs]
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What?
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I mean, it's fine.
It's a pretty common name.
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No, I'm being genuine.
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I love it when girls
have flower names,
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like Lilly or Rose.
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-Violet.
-Petunia?
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[chuckles]
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Okay, maybe not
that one quite so much.
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Sorry if I'm making
this awkward. I'm just...
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I'm not sure if I remember
how to do it correctly.
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-Do what?
-You know.
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Talk to a cute girl
I just met.
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My last relationship
didn't exactly end well...
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and I haven't spent
a whole ton of time around
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people lately so...
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Trust me, I-- I get that.
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-You're doing fine.
-Yeah?
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Yeah.
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Scale outta 10?
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Um, like...
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like a 6.5?
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65 percent?
That's like a D.
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No, I said 6.5.
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-Yeah. It's the same thing
-That's different.
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-I'm basically failing--
oh, my God.
-Oh, my God!
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-I'm so sorry! I'm sorry!
-[both laughing]
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Was that not suave?
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No, I'm crying. I can't.
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-I'm sorry. I just um--
-Here. Here.
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Okay. Thank you.
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Oh, my God. That is what I get
for wearing makeup today.
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Shit.
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I think you look lovely.
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I'm sorry, this is all
just a little surreal.
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Strange men don't throw
sandwiches at you in
the park every day?
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[alarm goes off]
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Oh, shit.
I gotta go. Zoom meeting.
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-Oh. Yuck.
-Tell me about it.
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My entire life is staring
at assholes
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in small boxes
on a screen all day.
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Not literal assholes.
Like, the people I work with.
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They're-- they are assholes.
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Yeah. I got that.
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Sorry. I just really
have to get going.
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Yeah. Of course. No worries
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-Missing something?
-Yeah, your handkerchief
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-I was gonna wash it for you.
-No, it's all good.
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Uh, I got it.
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Are you sure?
It's kind of gross.
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Wait a second.
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Is this your sneaky way of
getting to see me again?
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No.
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If that's
what you're doing...
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No! I wasn't, I was...
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Okay, maybe that's what
I was doing, but I wasn't
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aware that I was doing it.
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00:16:25,920 --> 00:16:29,423
Must have been subconscious.
I don't know.
255
00:16:33,126 --> 00:16:35,530
I'm at the park for lunch
almost every day.
256
00:16:36,965 --> 00:16:39,801
So, yeah,
257
00:16:39,834 --> 00:16:42,937
you can do with that
information whatever you want.
258
00:16:43,838 --> 00:16:45,172
The park it is.
259
00:16:48,008 --> 00:16:49,309
Okay.
260
00:16:49,844 --> 00:16:51,011
Bye.
261
00:17:19,874 --> 00:17:22,409
-[woman shrieks]
-Oh, my God, my ears!
262
00:17:22,442 --> 00:17:24,646
I'm sorry!I'm just so excited!
263
00:17:24,679 --> 00:17:26,480
Okay, it's not a big deal.
264
00:17:26,514 --> 00:17:29,182
It is a big deal!It's a huge deal!
265
00:17:29,216 --> 00:17:32,185
You haven't so much as talked
to another guy since Tyler.
266
00:17:32,887 --> 00:17:34,989
Oh, fuck. Sorry.
267
00:17:35,023 --> 00:17:37,625
No, it's okay.
It's not like he's Voldemort.
268
00:17:37,659 --> 00:17:39,259
We should probably be able
to talk about him
269
00:17:39,293 --> 00:17:41,829
or say his name
or whatever at this point.
270
00:17:41,863 --> 00:17:44,331
Giving him any more power
over me isn't going
to help anything.
271
00:17:44,364 --> 00:17:46,901
So just, yeah.
It's all good.
272
00:17:47,735 --> 00:17:49,436
Good.
273
00:17:49,469 --> 00:17:51,005
I'm okay.
274
00:17:51,039 --> 00:17:52,540
Yeah?
275
00:17:52,574 --> 00:17:55,843
Yeah. I don't want
to fucking cry anymore.
276
00:17:55,877 --> 00:17:57,512
I'm sick of it.
277
00:17:57,545 --> 00:18:00,447
His name was Tyler
and he was a fucking asshole.
278
00:18:00,480 --> 00:18:02,584
See? There. I'm fine.
279
00:18:04,052 --> 00:18:06,253
Oh, Jesus!Please don't start.
280
00:18:06,286 --> 00:18:07,822
I literally just said
I don't want to cry
281
00:18:07,855 --> 00:18:09,389
and if you start
then I'm gonna start, too.
282
00:18:09,423 --> 00:18:12,359
I'm sorry
I'm just so proud of you.
283
00:18:13,226 --> 00:18:14,762
Thank you.
284
00:18:15,530 --> 00:18:16,831
[taps the door]
285
00:18:16,864 --> 00:18:19,000
Okay. Talk tomorrow.
Love you.
286
00:18:19,033 --> 00:18:20,702
Love you. Bye.
287
00:18:20,735 --> 00:18:23,136
Have fun with Mark or whatever
you're doing tonight
288
00:18:25,573 --> 00:18:26,708
[sighs]
289
00:18:26,741 --> 00:18:28,977
[ominous music builds]
290
00:18:53,635 --> 00:18:55,903
[woman's muffled voice]
291
00:19:02,242 --> 00:19:03,611
Hey.
292
00:19:03,645 --> 00:19:05,913
[muffled voice continues]
293
00:19:11,919 --> 00:19:13,387
-Hey.
-Oh, shit!
294
00:19:13,420 --> 00:19:14,756
I'm sorry.
I didn't mean to scare you.
295
00:19:14,789 --> 00:19:16,256
It's okay.
296
00:19:16,289 --> 00:19:17,959
It's the most action
I've had in a while.
297
00:19:17,992 --> 00:19:19,794
[laughs]
298
00:19:19,827 --> 00:19:23,196
Kidding, of course.
Although, not really.
299
00:19:23,765 --> 00:19:25,033
The same.
300
00:19:31,471 --> 00:19:33,941
So, what were you watching?
You were so focused there.
301
00:19:34,575 --> 00:19:36,243
Nothing.
302
00:19:36,276 --> 00:19:38,112
Nothing, oh yeah.
I've definitely seen that one.
303
00:19:38,146 --> 00:19:39,614
Yeah.
304
00:19:41,749 --> 00:19:43,316
I don't know, it's...
305
00:19:44,284 --> 00:19:45,452
it's kind of embarrassing.
306
00:19:45,485 --> 00:19:47,722
Oh, was it porn?
[laughs]
307
00:19:47,755 --> 00:19:50,525
Yeah, you got me.
I was watching porn in
the park before our date.
308
00:19:56,430 --> 00:19:58,365
Fine. It was a...
309
00:20:01,602 --> 00:20:03,171
a self-help video.
310
00:20:04,105 --> 00:20:06,841
That's nothing
to be embarrassed about.
I watch those, too.
311
00:20:06,874 --> 00:20:08,643
-Really?
-Yeah.
312
00:20:08,676 --> 00:20:10,410
Who was it?
I probably know them.
313
00:20:12,312 --> 00:20:13,748
Barry Wright.
314
00:20:13,781 --> 00:20:15,449
Yeah!
My Emotions Belong to Me.
315
00:20:15,482 --> 00:20:16,918
She's my favorite.
I watch all of her videos.
316
00:20:16,951 --> 00:20:18,318
-Some of the more than once.
-Really?
317
00:20:18,351 --> 00:20:19,954
-I even have her book. Yeah!
-No way.
318
00:20:19,987 --> 00:20:22,090
Me, too!
That's awesome.
319
00:20:22,123 --> 00:20:25,860
It's just, you know,
it's embarrassing to have
to admit that.
320
00:20:27,128 --> 00:20:29,097
There's nothing wrong
with trying to better yourself.
321
00:20:30,198 --> 00:20:31,165
I know.
322
00:20:31,199 --> 00:20:33,433
But...
323
00:20:33,467 --> 00:20:36,436
watching self-help videos
isn't necessarily
the most attractive...
324
00:20:37,638 --> 00:20:40,875
It's not the first thing
that I want to reveal myself
on a first date.
325
00:20:42,375 --> 00:20:44,444
I just said
that I watched them too.
326
00:20:45,479 --> 00:20:46,514
Right.
327
00:20:46,881 --> 00:20:48,281
Shit.
328
00:20:48,315 --> 00:20:50,218
I am digging myself
in deeper here.
329
00:20:50,250 --> 00:20:51,719
[sharply inhales]
Um...
330
00:20:53,054 --> 00:20:54,354
Okay, how about
I just start over again?
331
00:20:56,323 --> 00:20:58,860
Hi! I'm Tom.
332
00:20:58,893 --> 00:21:01,495
Sometimes, I watch
self-help videos
333
00:21:01,529 --> 00:21:03,231
to help me deal
with some tough things
334
00:21:03,263 --> 00:21:05,032
that I've been through
in my life.
335
00:21:05,066 --> 00:21:07,568
And, I know that's nothing
that I should be ashamed of
336
00:21:07,602 --> 00:21:10,171
because lots of people
watch self-help videos.
337
00:21:10,204 --> 00:21:13,306
They can really be a mirror
338
00:21:13,340 --> 00:21:15,676
to kind of reflect
everything that you've
been going through.
339
00:21:15,710 --> 00:21:17,512
[speech becomes muffled]
And it's good to hear someone
else's perspective...
340
00:21:17,545 --> 00:21:20,615
-[unintelligible]
-[music builds]
341
00:21:21,582 --> 00:21:23,885
You want to go for a walk?
342
00:21:24,252 --> 00:21:26,587
[muffled]
343
00:21:28,022 --> 00:21:29,157
Lilly?
344
00:21:29,190 --> 00:21:30,591
Hmm?
345
00:21:30,625 --> 00:21:33,094
[laughs]
Uh, I was saying
346
00:21:33,127 --> 00:21:35,495
that it might be nice to
go for a walk if you're up--
347
00:21:35,530 --> 00:21:37,231
Yeah! Yeah! Yeah.
Sure! I'd love that.
348
00:21:37,265 --> 00:21:38,833
Okay.
349
00:21:42,637 --> 00:21:46,007
[ethereal music builds]
350
00:22:25,847 --> 00:22:28,950
[ethereal music continues]
351
00:23:13,661 --> 00:23:16,664
[ticking clock]
352
00:23:35,883 --> 00:23:37,218
[Lilly gasps]
353
00:23:37,251 --> 00:23:38,619
Was that okay?
I didn't mean to--
354
00:23:38,653 --> 00:23:40,487
Yeah, no. It was great.
Really.
355
00:23:40,521 --> 00:23:42,556
I'm good. I'm great.
I'm good.
356
00:23:42,590 --> 00:23:44,258
You pulled back.
357
00:23:45,559 --> 00:23:47,662
It's just been a really long
time since I've kissed anyone,
358
00:23:47,695 --> 00:23:51,832
or even wanted
to kiss anyone and I just...
359
00:23:51,866 --> 00:23:53,901
feel...
360
00:23:55,069 --> 00:23:59,206
really happy right now,
which is just kind of
bizarre in its own way.
361
00:23:59,240 --> 00:24:02,410
And I just felt
a little bit overwhelmed.
362
00:24:02,442 --> 00:24:04,078
That's all.
363
00:24:06,414 --> 00:24:07,882
You take
all the time you need.
364
00:24:09,583 --> 00:24:12,720
I get it. Believe me.
365
00:24:14,622 --> 00:24:16,624
It's like Barry says,
"You have to...
366
00:24:17,625 --> 00:24:21,262
hold on to your boundaries
until you're comfortable
breaking them down."
367
00:24:22,129 --> 00:24:26,634
And that shows trust.
It took me a long time, too.
368
00:24:27,635 --> 00:24:31,172
My last relationship
was a complete disaster,
369
00:24:32,640 --> 00:24:36,110
and afterwards
I had to move and start
my whole life over again.
370
00:24:36,978 --> 00:24:40,948
Ever since I barely
interacted with anyone
371
00:24:40,982 --> 00:24:45,252
except for you
and my computer.
372
00:24:47,188 --> 00:24:50,558
So, you really were
watching porn in the park.
I knew it.
373
00:24:50,591 --> 00:24:52,760
-[chuckles]
-Yeah. You got me.
374
00:24:56,496 --> 00:25:00,468
[music plays]
375
00:25:08,476 --> 00:25:12,279
[podcaster] I'd be willingto bet you that AleisterCrowley probably was a Gray.
376
00:25:12,313 --> 00:25:15,816
-He knew some shit...
-[woman] Way to go
sandwich guy.
377
00:25:15,850 --> 00:25:18,619
Mark, can you turn
that down, please?
378
00:25:19,186 --> 00:25:20,821
[sighs]
379
00:25:20,855 --> 00:25:24,592
Respectful and supportive
and a good kisser?
380
00:25:24,625 --> 00:25:26,427
Sounds good on paper.
381
00:25:26,460 --> 00:25:28,763
Tom. His name is Tom.
382
00:25:28,796 --> 00:25:31,265
T-O-M or T-H-O-M?
383
00:25:31,298 --> 00:25:33,401
I don't know.
I think just regular.
384
00:25:33,434 --> 00:25:37,471
Good. I do not trust
a Tom with a T-H.
385
00:25:37,506 --> 00:25:39,940
-Oh, yeah. Me neither.
-Either way...
386
00:25:39,974 --> 00:25:41,842
to Thom.
387
00:25:43,944 --> 00:25:46,847
Ugh! I completely recoiled
like his lips were covered
in acid
388
00:25:46,881 --> 00:25:48,916
and he somehow took it
like a champ.
389
00:25:48,949 --> 00:25:51,252
I was pleasantly surprised.
390
00:25:51,285 --> 00:25:53,921
You're hot.
Guys put up with a lot
when you're hot.
391
00:25:53,954 --> 00:25:55,423
[Lilly laughs]
392
00:25:55,456 --> 00:25:57,291
I mean, I think
it could possibly be
393
00:25:57,324 --> 00:25:59,193
that he's just actually
a good guy.
394
00:25:59,226 --> 00:26:00,761
Perhaps.
395
00:26:00,795 --> 00:26:02,696
And he likes Barry Wright!
396
00:26:02,730 --> 00:26:04,498
Your YouTube lady?
397
00:26:04,533 --> 00:26:07,101
Yeah, I don't know.
398
00:26:07,134 --> 00:26:10,204
It was just so great to be
around someone like that,
that was, like,
399
00:26:10,237 --> 00:26:12,873
warm and caring and
400
00:26:12,907 --> 00:26:15,776
also speaks my language,
which is a huge bonus.
401
00:26:15,810 --> 00:26:18,612
I mean, we haven't really
gotten into all the details,
but from what he said
402
00:26:18,646 --> 00:26:21,715
his last relationship was,
like, totally fucked, too.
403
00:26:21,749 --> 00:26:24,452
And he had to completely
start over and start, like,
a whole new life.
404
00:26:24,485 --> 00:26:26,921
And so we talked about Barryand how much her books
405
00:26:26,954 --> 00:26:29,990
have helped us both
deal with the guilt and shame
of being powerless.
406
00:26:30,024 --> 00:26:32,493
And... [sighs]
I don't know.
407
00:26:32,527 --> 00:26:36,130
It's weird.
It's kind of like
we're the same person.
408
00:26:37,098 --> 00:26:38,699
He almost makes me feel...
409
00:26:39,767 --> 00:26:41,102
normal.
410
00:26:41,902 --> 00:26:43,437
Almost.
411
00:26:44,872 --> 00:26:47,875
Okay, you're not gonna
like this, but
412
00:26:47,908 --> 00:26:51,513
I just feel like I have to saysomething because I love you.
413
00:26:51,546 --> 00:26:53,681
Um...
414
00:26:53,714 --> 00:26:56,817
while I'm all for you having
some no-strings-attached
fun with a guy
415
00:26:56,851 --> 00:26:59,253
which I have been saying
for a while now.
416
00:26:59,286 --> 00:27:03,424
Um, do you really feel like
this is the right guy
to do it with?
417
00:27:03,457 --> 00:27:08,229
Just because two peoplewith trauma who are stillhealing,
418
00:27:09,230 --> 00:27:11,765
just seems likeit might get a little...
419
00:27:12,466 --> 00:27:13,667
A little what?
420
00:27:14,536 --> 00:27:16,237
Dangerous.
421
00:27:16,270 --> 00:27:18,005
I'm gonna fucking
hang up on you.
422
00:27:18,038 --> 00:27:19,907
No, please, please don't.
423
00:27:19,940 --> 00:27:22,710
-I like him.
-I know.
424
00:27:22,743 --> 00:27:26,013
And I'm really happy for you
and he seems really nice.
425
00:27:26,046 --> 00:27:28,249
It's just... I'm worried
426
00:27:28,282 --> 00:27:31,586
you're being a little manicabout this whole thing,
427
00:27:31,620 --> 00:27:34,623
and I just caution youto take things slow.
428
00:27:34,655 --> 00:27:36,023
Especially with a guylike this.
429
00:27:36,056 --> 00:27:37,224
Manic?
430
00:27:37,258 --> 00:27:39,393
Now you're calling me manic?
431
00:27:39,426 --> 00:27:41,395
'Cause two seconds ago you
said this was a good idea!
432
00:27:41,428 --> 00:27:43,130
What the fuck?
433
00:27:43,164 --> 00:27:46,367
Okay, that might have been
the wrong choice of words.
434
00:27:46,400 --> 00:27:48,369
Don't get mad at me.
I just--
435
00:27:48,402 --> 00:27:50,804
Okay, remember
at the hospital at our
survivors' group?
436
00:27:50,838 --> 00:27:53,807
Dr. Collier specifically said
that two people
437
00:27:53,841 --> 00:27:55,709
with emotional wounds
who are still healing
438
00:27:55,743 --> 00:27:58,547
can create a trauma bond that
feels intensely like love.
439
00:27:59,947 --> 00:28:01,682
Well, I'm sorry.
440
00:28:02,349 --> 00:28:04,251
I'm sorry, okay?
441
00:28:04,285 --> 00:28:07,388
I guess I'm a terrible person
because I'm enjoying the fact
442
00:28:07,421 --> 00:28:09,223
that someone
wants to kiss me and hold me
443
00:28:09,256 --> 00:28:11,626
and be supportive
and be nice to me.
444
00:28:11,660 --> 00:28:14,128
What the fuck
could I possibly be thinking?
445
00:28:14,161 --> 00:28:17,765
I am desperately lonely, Deb.
Do you not get that?
446
00:28:17,798 --> 00:28:20,768
'Cause I am by myself,
like, all of the time,
447
00:28:20,801 --> 00:28:22,403
and you're always busy
with your boyfriend
448
00:28:22,436 --> 00:28:24,805
and you do these things
to try to protect me,
449
00:28:24,838 --> 00:28:29,076
but you don't actually
understand what I'm going
through and he does, okay?
450
00:28:29,109 --> 00:28:31,412
He gets it
'cause he's going
through it, too.
451
00:28:31,445 --> 00:28:34,248
And maybe we could
help each other heal.
Did you ever think about that?
452
00:28:34,281 --> 00:28:36,450
Did that ever occur to you?
453
00:28:36,483 --> 00:28:39,920
Oh, no. I forgot.
You're too busy pretending
to be my therapist
454
00:28:39,954 --> 00:28:42,189
to actually know
what the fuck you're
talking about!
455
00:28:42,223 --> 00:28:43,757
[slams closed]
456
00:28:47,061 --> 00:28:49,430
-[ominous music]
-Fuck.
457
00:28:49,463 --> 00:28:51,198
[sighs]
458
00:28:51,232 --> 00:28:53,133
Don't puta silver lining on it.
459
00:28:53,167 --> 00:28:54,468
Don't try to fix it.
460
00:28:54,501 --> 00:28:56,638
Don't try to play optimist.
461
00:28:56,671 --> 00:28:59,039
All that they need to hear
462
00:28:59,073 --> 00:29:01,643
is a reflectionthat you see them.
463
00:29:01,676 --> 00:29:06,447
So what do I mean by that?For example, you can usephrases like,
464
00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:10,150
"Wow. I see how hardthat was for you."
465
00:29:10,184 --> 00:29:12,286
Or, "I can see"--
466
00:29:12,319 --> 00:29:14,054
Wow.
467
00:29:14,088 --> 00:29:16,691
I see how hard
that was for you.
468
00:29:16,725 --> 00:29:18,492
Wow.
469
00:29:18,526 --> 00:29:20,961
I see how hard
that was for you.
470
00:29:23,097 --> 00:29:27,569
"...how hard you're workingto try and get past that."
471
00:29:27,602 --> 00:29:31,539
And the best phrase of alleverybody needs to hear is,
472
00:29:31,573 --> 00:29:33,642
"You are not alone."
473
00:29:33,675 --> 00:29:35,943
You are not alone.
474
00:29:37,211 --> 00:29:39,113
You are not alone.
475
00:29:41,015 --> 00:29:43,384
You are not alone.
476
00:29:45,587 --> 00:29:48,657
So, I hope that throughthis video
477
00:29:48,690 --> 00:29:50,224
and in my new book,
478
00:29:50,257 --> 00:29:53,160
you will findall sorts of new ways
479
00:29:53,193 --> 00:29:55,863
to build trustand vulnerabilityand just remember:
480
00:29:55,896 --> 00:29:58,499
no matter how hard you try,
481
00:29:58,533 --> 00:30:03,904
how patient you are,how open and vulnerableyou are with yourself,
482
00:30:03,937 --> 00:30:08,075
your partner may notopen up to you onthe timeline you expect,
483
00:30:08,108 --> 00:30:10,679
or with the depththat you expect.
484
00:30:10,712 --> 00:30:12,514
And it couldget frustrating.
485
00:30:12,547 --> 00:30:16,417
But in those moments alwayscome back to our mantra.
486
00:30:16,450 --> 00:30:19,353
My emotions belong to me.
487
00:30:21,255 --> 00:30:23,758
[woman's garbled voice]
488
00:30:23,792 --> 00:30:27,027
...so we're gonna enda little early today.
489
00:30:27,061 --> 00:30:30,164
Does anyone haveany last words beforewe sign off?
490
00:30:32,667 --> 00:30:35,302
Tom, you've been quiet today.
491
00:30:35,336 --> 00:30:39,940
Is there anythingthat you would like to shareor comment or...?
492
00:30:41,175 --> 00:30:42,610
Um...
493
00:30:42,644 --> 00:30:44,111
no.
494
00:30:44,813 --> 00:30:48,082
I feel like I'm learning
a lot and making progress
495
00:30:48,115 --> 00:30:49,950
just from listening.
Thank you.
496
00:30:49,983 --> 00:30:51,251
Great!
497
00:30:51,285 --> 00:30:53,487
That is great!
498
00:30:53,521 --> 00:30:57,491
It is important that we allgo at our own pace.
499
00:30:57,525 --> 00:30:59,927
Jenny, would you liketo say anything else?
500
00:30:59,960 --> 00:31:01,061
[Jenny]
Um...
501
00:31:02,363 --> 00:31:05,099
Yeah. I guess, um,
502
00:31:05,132 --> 00:31:08,936
I just want to thank you guysfor being so supportive
503
00:31:08,969 --> 00:31:12,039
and just, like,express how grateful I amthat I found this group.
504
00:31:13,808 --> 00:31:15,810
I, um...
[sighs]
505
00:31:15,844 --> 00:31:19,279
don't really trust myselfin relationships right now,
506
00:31:19,313 --> 00:31:24,084
but I also needto be with people, so,
507
00:31:24,118 --> 00:31:27,287
I'm just really gratefulthat I'm, I'm here.
508
00:31:27,321 --> 00:31:29,323
So thanks.
509
00:31:29,356 --> 00:31:31,760
[woman]
We're here for you Jenny.
510
00:31:31,793 --> 00:31:35,697
And I am gratefulfor all of you.
511
00:31:35,730 --> 00:31:37,898
See you all againnext Wednesday.
512
00:31:39,400 --> 00:31:40,702
Bye.
513
00:31:45,305 --> 00:31:48,275
[Jenny] Yes! I swear
it was the same guy.
514
00:31:48,308 --> 00:31:50,612
I wanted to scream at him.
In the span of a day,
515
00:31:50,645 --> 00:31:52,312
he'd completely forgotten
who I was
516
00:31:52,346 --> 00:31:54,982
and now all of a sudden
was pretending to be a vet
517
00:31:55,015 --> 00:31:58,452
with cancer,
which is just all kinds
of despicable.
518
00:31:58,485 --> 00:32:00,454
-No way.
-Yeah!
519
00:32:00,487 --> 00:32:02,791
-[chuckles] That's gross.
-I know!
520
00:32:02,824 --> 00:32:04,759
So what did you do?
521
00:32:05,426 --> 00:32:07,729
I mean. Nothing.
I just turned around
522
00:32:07,762 --> 00:32:10,130
and walked away and now
I'm venting to you.
523
00:32:10,164 --> 00:32:12,801
Oh, I felt like such a wuss.
I wish I would have punched
him in the face.
524
00:32:12,834 --> 00:32:14,268
[Tom laughs]
525
00:32:15,670 --> 00:32:18,506
If it makes you feel any
better, I probably wouldn't
have done anything either.
526
00:32:18,540 --> 00:32:20,575
I would have just texted
you venting about it.
527
00:32:20,608 --> 00:32:23,511
You know, we've got the same
issues with confrontation.
528
00:32:23,545 --> 00:32:26,881
Oh, my God! Wait!
That reminds me.
I wanted to tell you.
529
00:32:26,915 --> 00:32:28,750
Um, I was doing more reading
on RW Wayne,
530
00:32:28,783 --> 00:32:30,819
and he said something that
really hit me.
531
00:32:30,852 --> 00:32:33,487
He said that being afraid
of confrontation
532
00:32:33,521 --> 00:32:36,390
is essentially
the same as being fearful
of being rejected.
533
00:32:36,423 --> 00:32:40,260
When he said that I was,
like, that is so accurate.
534
00:32:40,294 --> 00:32:42,362
Once again, it all comes back
to the abandonment stuff,
535
00:32:42,396 --> 00:32:45,065
which is, like, such a part
of my freaking DNA.
536
00:32:49,704 --> 00:32:51,506
Tom?
537
00:32:51,539 --> 00:32:56,176
Huh? Oh! Sorry, I was just
thinking about what you said.
538
00:32:56,210 --> 00:32:57,779
You do that a lot.
539
00:32:58,245 --> 00:32:59,279
What?
540
00:32:59,881 --> 00:33:01,850
-Think?
-[laughs] Yes!
541
00:33:02,617 --> 00:33:05,520
It's like you're studying
what I say sometimes.
542
00:33:07,120 --> 00:33:08,957
If that's weird,
I can try and stop.
543
00:33:08,989 --> 00:33:11,526
Wait, no!
That's-- no, please don't.
544
00:33:11,559 --> 00:33:14,629
Most men don't even listen
to half the things you say.
545
00:33:14,662 --> 00:33:19,132
They're just thinking about
boobs and football the rest
of the time.
546
00:33:20,668 --> 00:33:22,002
You're different.
547
00:33:23,437 --> 00:33:25,138
It's one of the things
I like about you so much.
548
00:33:26,574 --> 00:33:27,942
I feel like
you actually listen.
549
00:33:29,409 --> 00:33:30,612
I do.
550
00:33:31,913 --> 00:33:33,280
And that you really care.
551
00:33:39,754 --> 00:33:41,355
I care about you.
552
00:33:46,861 --> 00:33:47,996
I care about you, too.
553
00:33:51,933 --> 00:33:53,066
Good.
554
00:33:58,038 --> 00:34:00,008
[music builds]
555
00:34:21,029 --> 00:34:22,830
This is magical.
[laughs]
556
00:34:22,864 --> 00:34:25,065
I feel like
I'm high or something.
557
00:34:26,233 --> 00:34:27,367
Yeah.
558
00:34:30,237 --> 00:34:31,739
You make me very happy.
559
00:34:34,042 --> 00:34:35,275
Same.
560
00:34:38,378 --> 00:34:40,648
It's amazing
561
00:34:40,682 --> 00:34:44,184
to have found someone
that I can truly trust
562
00:34:44,217 --> 00:34:47,187
and completely
let my guard down with.
563
00:34:47,755 --> 00:34:48,957
I know.
564
00:35:13,715 --> 00:35:15,349
[sighs]
No.
565
00:35:15,382 --> 00:35:16,985
I can't do this.
566
00:35:33,935 --> 00:35:35,235
What just happened?
567
00:35:37,270 --> 00:35:39,007
-Did I do something wrong?
-[car starts]
568
00:35:41,274 --> 00:35:42,577
Tom!
569
00:35:45,145 --> 00:35:47,682
[pulsing music plays]
570
00:36:16,611 --> 00:36:18,546
Are you gonna tell me
what the fuck is going on?
571
00:36:20,915 --> 00:36:22,016
Tom?
572
00:36:24,284 --> 00:36:25,318
Tom!
573
00:36:27,755 --> 00:36:29,524
What the fuck?
Will you talk to me, please?
574
00:36:54,281 --> 00:36:56,249
I don't think we should
see each other anymore.
575
00:36:57,118 --> 00:36:58,152
This was a mistake.
576
00:37:00,154 --> 00:37:01,189
What?
577
00:37:03,658 --> 00:37:05,325
I don't understand
what's happening right now.
578
00:37:05,358 --> 00:37:07,427
Did I do something wrong?
579
00:37:07,461 --> 00:37:09,664
It was stupid of me
to think I could be with
someone like you.
580
00:37:10,631 --> 00:37:11,933
Someone like what?
581
00:37:11,966 --> 00:37:13,701
[music builds]
582
00:37:15,469 --> 00:37:16,771
Someone like what?
583
00:37:20,641 --> 00:37:22,043
Broken.
584
00:37:22,076 --> 00:37:24,078
[jarring music plays]
585
00:37:38,593 --> 00:37:40,027
Fuck you!
586
00:37:40,061 --> 00:37:41,696
-I'm sorry!
-No, you're not!
587
00:37:41,729 --> 00:37:44,132
-It's okay.
-No, stop it!
588
00:37:44,165 --> 00:37:46,466
-I'm so confused.
-It's okay.
589
00:37:46,500 --> 00:37:49,036
-It's okay.
-What are you...? No!
590
00:37:49,070 --> 00:37:51,139
I don't--
I don't understand!
591
00:37:53,708 --> 00:37:55,743
What are you doing?
592
00:37:55,777 --> 00:37:57,645
Oh, my God!
593
00:37:57,678 --> 00:37:59,514
What are you doing?
Stop it!
594
00:37:59,547 --> 00:38:01,115
Let me go!
595
00:38:02,449 --> 00:38:03,584
[car door slams]
596
00:38:04,619 --> 00:38:06,554
[Jenny]
Get the fuck away from me!
597
00:38:06,587 --> 00:38:08,990
[Tom] Jenny.
Just hold on for a second.
Let me explain.
598
00:38:09,023 --> 00:38:10,290
[Jenny]
Stay away from me!
599
00:38:14,461 --> 00:38:16,831
[ominous music plays]
600
00:38:40,955 --> 00:38:42,924
[spraying]
601
00:38:49,630 --> 00:38:51,833
[phone vibrates]
602
00:39:00,908 --> 00:39:03,044
[Deb]
Okay, before you hang up,just let me talk first.
603
00:39:04,278 --> 00:39:05,445
Fine.
604
00:39:06,914 --> 00:39:12,452
I'm sorry I didn't
support you in the way that
you needed and I love you.
605
00:39:14,989 --> 00:39:16,190
That's it.
606
00:39:17,992 --> 00:39:19,227
Thank you.
607
00:39:19,961 --> 00:39:24,265
I just worry about you
and I want you to be safe.
608
00:39:24,298 --> 00:39:27,735
I know. And I admit
this is moving a little fast,
609
00:39:27,768 --> 00:39:31,404
but it's taken a really
long time for me to get here
and I just...
610
00:39:31,438 --> 00:39:33,373
wish you could
be happy for me.
611
00:39:33,774 --> 00:39:35,009
I am.
612
00:39:37,477 --> 00:39:39,547
But, like,
for real happy for me.
613
00:39:40,948 --> 00:39:42,049
I am.
614
00:39:46,320 --> 00:39:48,022
He's coming over tonight.
615
00:39:48,055 --> 00:39:49,489
Oh, really?
616
00:39:49,523 --> 00:39:50,591
Mm-hmm.
617
00:39:51,391 --> 00:39:54,896
I'm cleaning now
and then I'm gonna shower
and shave.
618
00:39:55,395 --> 00:39:56,764
What's the plan?
619
00:39:57,732 --> 00:39:59,000
I don't know.
620
00:39:59,499 --> 00:40:01,702
I just think it's important
for me
621
00:40:01,736 --> 00:40:03,604
to have a guy in my apartment
who's not Tyler.
622
00:40:05,339 --> 00:40:06,908
I'm really proud of you.
623
00:40:08,910 --> 00:40:12,280
Thanks.
I'm proud of me, too.
624
00:40:12,880 --> 00:40:14,682
I think if I can
get through tonight
625
00:40:14,715 --> 00:40:16,851
without acting like a total
freak at any point or crying
626
00:40:16,884 --> 00:40:19,787
that would bea major milestone.
627
00:40:19,820 --> 00:40:24,457
Okay, well keep me updated
and touch base with me later.
628
00:40:25,425 --> 00:40:26,961
I will.
629
00:40:26,994 --> 00:40:28,396
I love you.
630
00:40:40,007 --> 00:40:42,143
[Jenny]
Get the fuck away from me.
631
00:40:42,176 --> 00:40:44,245
Jenny!Just hold on for a second.Let me explain.
632
00:40:44,278 --> 00:40:46,314
Stay away from me.
633
00:40:46,347 --> 00:40:47,548
[ragged breathing]
634
00:40:47,581 --> 00:40:48,816
You're a little confused.
635
00:40:48,849 --> 00:40:50,084
You're filming this?
636
00:40:50,952 --> 00:40:54,155
Okay, just calm down.You're being overdramatic.
637
00:40:54,188 --> 00:40:55,488
[keys jangling]
638
00:40:56,090 --> 00:40:57,291
You don't need that.
639
00:40:58,759 --> 00:41:00,561
I'm not gonna hurt you.
640
00:41:02,096 --> 00:41:04,298
I would never hurt you.You know me.
641
00:41:06,634 --> 00:41:07,835
You know my heart.
642
00:41:07,868 --> 00:41:10,271
[masturbation sounds]
643
00:41:26,320 --> 00:41:29,590
[ominous music plays]
644
00:41:39,934 --> 00:41:41,969
[sniffles]
645
00:41:44,305 --> 00:41:46,273
[chuckles]
646
00:41:50,911 --> 00:41:53,114
[pretend sobbing]
647
00:42:05,760 --> 00:42:08,396
[Lilly]
Hi guys! Um...
648
00:42:09,663 --> 00:42:11,465
I haven't postedin a while.
649
00:42:11,499 --> 00:42:14,969
You probably noticed, um,
650
00:42:16,604 --> 00:42:18,472
I don't know if anyone'seven gonna watch this,
651
00:42:18,507 --> 00:42:20,608
but my friend Deb...
[sniffles]
652
00:42:20,641 --> 00:42:23,177
told methat it might be, uh,
653
00:42:24,378 --> 00:42:27,148
really healthy for meto release some stuff
654
00:42:27,181 --> 00:42:29,316
and, uh...
655
00:42:30,284 --> 00:42:32,753
I don't know.If I've learned one thingit's that Deb is always right.
656
00:42:32,787 --> 00:42:34,155
So...
657
00:42:35,156 --> 00:42:38,559
I don't know what the fuckI'm doing, but I'm here.So, hi.
658
00:42:39,627 --> 00:42:40,928
Um...
659
00:42:43,297 --> 00:42:45,166
some of you guys
660
00:42:46,734 --> 00:42:51,772
might remember, uh, metalking about my boyfriend
661
00:42:51,806 --> 00:42:55,544
on the blog before and...
662
00:43:01,215 --> 00:43:05,419
I guess I just want to,um, tell the truth.
663
00:43:07,421 --> 00:43:10,891
Because I told you guysthat he was, um,
664
00:43:10,925 --> 00:43:13,562
kind and funny and
665
00:43:14,595 --> 00:43:17,998
and smart and that we lovedeach other unconditionally
666
00:43:18,032 --> 00:43:19,467
and, um,
667
00:43:21,502 --> 00:43:23,671
it's just really hard for meto go back and watch those
668
00:43:23,704 --> 00:43:28,109
because it's just really,really embarrassing.
669
00:43:30,744 --> 00:43:34,549
And everyone just keepstelling me that I'm, uh,you know, a survivor
670
00:43:34,583 --> 00:43:37,184
and I'm a warriorand I'm-- I'm so strong,
671
00:43:37,218 --> 00:43:39,987
but I just don't feelthat way.
672
00:43:40,020 --> 00:43:43,057
And I'd like to thinkthat maybe there'll be a timethat I could feel that way,
673
00:43:43,090 --> 00:43:44,925
but right now I just...
674
00:43:49,564 --> 00:43:52,266
I just feel, like,really fucking embarrassed.
675
00:43:54,603 --> 00:43:55,936
[sobs]
676
00:43:55,970 --> 00:43:57,171
And...
677
00:44:00,141 --> 00:44:02,076
-[panting]
-You know, it's really easy
678
00:44:02,109 --> 00:44:03,911
if you've never been inan abusive relationship
679
00:44:03,944 --> 00:44:06,413
to judge someone else,you know?
680
00:44:06,447 --> 00:44:09,350
Like, I get that.Like, I get that fromthe outside it's so simple.
681
00:44:09,383 --> 00:44:11,620
Like, just leave.Why wouldn't you just leave?
682
00:44:11,652 --> 00:44:13,687
Why would you staywith someone that treatsyou like that?
683
00:44:13,721 --> 00:44:15,022
But...
684
00:44:16,457 --> 00:44:18,425
from the inside, it's...
[sighs]
685
00:44:21,462 --> 00:44:24,798
it's, like, warped,you know?
686
00:44:26,400 --> 00:44:31,272
Like, I somehowconvinced myself thatI wasn't a victim.
687
00:44:31,305 --> 00:44:36,443
I was a strong woman who justhappened to fall in love
688
00:44:36,477 --> 00:44:38,679
with a really troubled man.
689
00:44:44,619 --> 00:44:46,854
[sobs]
And...
690
00:44:48,455 --> 00:44:51,492
it's really hard to admit
691
00:44:51,526 --> 00:44:56,230
how bad it got, um,but it got really bad.
692
00:44:58,165 --> 00:44:59,200
And, uh...
693
00:45:01,769 --> 00:45:02,903
the drinking got worse
694
00:45:02,937 --> 00:45:05,172
and the violence got worse.
695
00:45:05,206 --> 00:45:08,475
And I was just living
696
00:45:08,510 --> 00:45:12,479
in this constantstate of dread.
697
00:45:14,882 --> 00:45:17,586
This dreadthat the next time
698
00:45:17,619 --> 00:45:21,623
I still wouldn't be ableto stand up for myself
699
00:45:21,656 --> 00:45:23,457
'cause that's whatwould happen.
700
00:45:23,490 --> 00:45:25,694
I would tell myself thisisn't gonna happen again.
701
00:45:25,726 --> 00:45:27,494
You're gonna stand upfor yourself.
702
00:45:27,529 --> 00:45:29,163
You're gonna do something.You're gonna leave.
703
00:45:29,196 --> 00:45:31,065
You're gonna walk awayand then I just...
704
00:45:32,466 --> 00:45:33,702
[sobs]
705
00:45:34,835 --> 00:45:36,003
freeze.
706
00:45:38,739 --> 00:45:40,642
This...
707
00:45:40,675 --> 00:45:44,411
thing would wash over meand I wouldn't...
708
00:45:46,213 --> 00:45:48,082
I don't know. I just...
709
00:45:49,551 --> 00:45:51,885
He could make mefeel so weak.
710
00:45:53,020 --> 00:45:56,991
And I would just sit thereand cry
711
00:45:57,024 --> 00:45:59,460
while he screamed at me.And I...
712
00:46:00,894 --> 00:46:02,329
[sniffles]
713
00:46:02,363 --> 00:46:04,365
I don't know whyI let him do that.
714
00:46:05,933 --> 00:46:10,371
And then he would hit mewith his fist or whateverhe could find nearby
715
00:46:10,404 --> 00:46:12,973
and I would tell myselfthat somehow I deserved it.
716
00:46:14,041 --> 00:46:15,909
And it was my fault.
717
00:46:20,781 --> 00:46:22,617
I wanted him to die.
718
00:46:26,554 --> 00:46:29,023
I wanted him to dieso bad because I knew
719
00:46:29,056 --> 00:46:31,492
that that's the only wayI'd ever be rid of him.
720
00:46:32,893 --> 00:46:35,396
And I wished for it.
721
00:46:35,429 --> 00:46:37,231
I wished for itevery single day.
722
00:46:37,264 --> 00:46:39,366
I sat there and I wishedthat he would die.
723
00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:42,002
And then he did.
724
00:46:47,207 --> 00:46:49,176
He died on the floorright in front of me.
725
00:46:49,209 --> 00:46:50,779
Right there.And I was...
726
00:46:53,080 --> 00:46:54,982
I was heartbroken.
727
00:46:56,917 --> 00:46:59,186
And I am so fucking ashamedto admit that,
728
00:46:59,219 --> 00:47:01,088
but I was heartbroken'cause I loved him.
729
00:47:01,121 --> 00:47:03,157
Despite everythingthat he did to me,
730
00:47:03,190 --> 00:47:05,159
I still loved him and I...
731
00:47:06,761 --> 00:47:09,163
I'm just so confused.
732
00:47:11,465 --> 00:47:12,701
And I...
733
00:47:15,903 --> 00:47:21,041
I've spent every single daysince just being consumedby the guilt and...
734
00:47:22,176 --> 00:47:25,112
So fucking confused.
[sniffles]
735
00:47:29,684 --> 00:47:31,318
What is wrong with me?
736
00:47:34,121 --> 00:47:38,492
I'm sorry, I--I wanted this to be, like,
737
00:47:38,526 --> 00:47:43,030
inspirational and happyand I'm sorry it's not.It's not.
738
00:47:44,264 --> 00:47:47,368
I don't have any answers.I'm just tired.
739
00:47:48,268 --> 00:47:50,037
I'm really fucking tired.
740
00:47:57,512 --> 00:47:58,912
[sighs]
741
00:48:02,282 --> 00:48:05,219
[traffic sounds]
742
00:48:35,750 --> 00:48:37,886
[phone clicking]
743
00:48:44,158 --> 00:48:47,461
[music builds]
744
00:48:50,865 --> 00:48:52,567
[knock at the door]
745
00:49:21,896 --> 00:49:23,497
-Thank you.
-You're welcome.
746
00:49:27,569 --> 00:49:28,603
You like it?
747
00:49:31,205 --> 00:49:32,272
Yeah, it's good.
748
00:49:33,608 --> 00:49:35,577
Booze is pretty much
all the same to me, but,
749
00:49:35,610 --> 00:49:38,145
yeah, I like this.
750
00:49:43,718 --> 00:49:44,853
I like you.
751
00:50:06,139 --> 00:50:08,710
What were we talking about?
[laughs]
752
00:50:08,743 --> 00:50:10,545
Yeah. Um...
753
00:50:10,578 --> 00:50:13,715
Oh, you were telling me
about the movie you were
754
00:50:13,748 --> 00:50:15,282
watching when you were
supposed to be working.
755
00:50:15,315 --> 00:50:18,151
Mmm, very,
very important stuff.
756
00:50:18,185 --> 00:50:19,319
Um...
757
00:50:20,354 --> 00:50:21,723
I don't know.
758
00:50:21,756 --> 00:50:23,791
It was sci-fi.
I heard it was good.
759
00:50:23,825 --> 00:50:25,392
It wasn't good.
760
00:50:25,425 --> 00:50:27,327
-It's kind of the whole story.
-[both laugh]
761
00:50:28,428 --> 00:50:29,697
It's fascinating.
762
00:50:30,598 --> 00:50:32,232
Sci-fi is my favorite,
763
00:50:32,266 --> 00:50:34,067
-so I've probably
seen it anyway.
-Oh, yeah?
764
00:50:34,101 --> 00:50:36,504
Yeah. Especially if it has
anything to do with androids.
765
00:50:36,538 --> 00:50:37,839
How come?
766
00:50:39,974 --> 00:50:41,241
I don't know.
767
00:50:48,883 --> 00:50:51,853
I haven't tried to talk
about this with a human
in a while.
768
00:50:52,654 --> 00:50:54,822
Usually doesn't go
quite like I'd hoped.
769
00:50:55,890 --> 00:50:57,190
You can tell me.
770
00:50:58,125 --> 00:51:00,595
With everything I've been
through, I promise
771
00:51:00,628 --> 00:51:03,430
I'm the last human
who would ever judge you
772
00:51:03,463 --> 00:51:04,933
for anything you want
to share with me.
773
00:51:07,735 --> 00:51:08,836
Okay.
774
00:51:09,971 --> 00:51:11,039
Um...
775
00:51:13,073 --> 00:51:14,408
[sighs]
776
00:51:16,310 --> 00:51:19,013
I identify with the tragedy
of their lives.
777
00:51:20,682 --> 00:51:22,717
All of that potential.
778
00:51:23,383 --> 00:51:26,186
All that beautiful
engineering, but...
779
00:51:27,555 --> 00:51:29,958
their existence
is ultimately hollow.
780
00:51:32,894 --> 00:51:34,394
Is that how you feel?
781
00:51:35,530 --> 00:51:37,832
Androids don't actually
feel anything.
782
00:51:37,865 --> 00:51:39,534
They're just mimics.
783
00:51:43,605 --> 00:51:45,272
See, I knew
you wouldn't understand.
784
00:51:46,074 --> 00:51:48,442
-No, I-- I--
-No. It's okay.
It's my fault.
785
00:51:51,846 --> 00:51:53,748
I should have known
someone like you
wouldn't get it.
786
00:51:55,016 --> 00:51:56,718
Someone like me?
We're the same--
787
00:51:56,751 --> 00:51:58,385
-No, we're not. No.
-Yes, we are.
788
00:51:58,418 --> 00:51:59,921
Just because you don't want
to talk about it--
789
00:51:59,954 --> 00:52:01,388
You think I don't want
to talk about it?
790
00:52:03,791 --> 00:52:06,728
I wish I could talk about it
with you and everybody else.
791
00:52:08,195 --> 00:52:09,564
But, I can't.
792
00:52:12,366 --> 00:52:15,168
You said you weren't going
to judge me and I feel
pretty judged right now.
793
00:52:16,638 --> 00:52:19,239
You're making me feel
like I'm crazy or something.
794
00:52:26,814 --> 00:52:28,448
The look on your face.
795
00:52:29,483 --> 00:52:31,853
-I--
-It's like...
796
00:52:33,988 --> 00:52:36,490
someone just died
right in front of you
or something.
797
00:52:47,769 --> 00:52:49,137
[door slams]
798
00:52:49,937 --> 00:52:51,673
[sobbing]
799
00:53:05,285 --> 00:53:06,654
Lilly?
800
00:53:08,589 --> 00:53:10,625
[sobbing]
801
00:53:12,093 --> 00:53:14,194
-[knocking on door]
-Lilly, are you okay?
802
00:53:15,362 --> 00:53:17,497
I'm fine.
I just need a second.
803
00:53:29,777 --> 00:53:32,345
I'm sorry if I said anything
that made you upset.
804
00:53:33,480 --> 00:53:35,248
[knocking on door]
805
00:53:35,282 --> 00:53:37,985
-Can I come in?
-I just need a second,
please.
806
00:53:41,488 --> 00:53:42,857
[quiet sobbing]
807
00:54:24,565 --> 00:54:26,366
[bottle sprays]
808
00:54:48,455 --> 00:54:49,557
You okay?
809
00:54:50,892 --> 00:54:54,695
Yeah. I'm-- I'm fine.
It's just something you said.
810
00:54:54,729 --> 00:54:57,665
It was a major trigger for me
and it's not your fault.
811
00:54:57,698 --> 00:54:58,766
You didn't know.
812
00:54:59,801 --> 00:55:02,236
I guess I'm just not as tough
as I thought.
813
00:55:04,639 --> 00:55:06,339
It's not about being tough.
814
00:55:07,575 --> 00:55:09,277
All survivors have triggers.
815
00:55:11,879 --> 00:55:13,514
At least,
816
00:55:13,548 --> 00:55:15,983
now I know what happens
when I hit yours.
817
00:55:22,156 --> 00:55:23,291
Can I have a hug?
818
00:55:37,772 --> 00:55:39,907
I'm sorry.
I really have to pee.
819
00:55:39,941 --> 00:55:41,542
We can talk about it
after, okay?
820
00:55:41,576 --> 00:55:42,710
Okay.
821
00:56:22,717 --> 00:56:23,885
Hey, Tom.
822
00:56:27,521 --> 00:56:28,756
Tom?
823
00:56:32,059 --> 00:56:33,194
What?
824
00:56:33,728 --> 00:56:35,529
Do you think
you'll want another drink?
825
00:56:35,563 --> 00:56:37,798
I was thinking I could open
us another bottle of wine
826
00:56:37,832 --> 00:56:39,934
or maybe a cocktail
or something?
827
00:56:42,169 --> 00:56:43,237
Sure.
828
00:56:44,672 --> 00:56:45,873
Okay.
829
00:56:53,681 --> 00:56:55,383
[sighs]
830
00:56:56,684 --> 00:56:59,120
[door opening]
831
00:57:12,600 --> 00:57:13,968
Okay.
832
00:57:20,741 --> 00:57:23,244
-Mmm.
-Yeah.
833
00:57:25,179 --> 00:57:26,814
Let's go again.
834
00:57:27,447 --> 00:57:28,883
[sighs]
835
00:57:32,620 --> 00:57:37,325
[slow pulsing music]
836
00:58:03,651 --> 00:58:05,619
[sighs]
837
00:58:12,660 --> 00:58:14,695
[water running]
838
00:58:20,468 --> 00:58:21,769
[water turns off]
839
00:58:30,978 --> 00:58:34,715
[pulsing music builds]
840
00:58:46,327 --> 00:58:48,295
[gasps]
841
00:58:48,329 --> 00:58:49,663
[exhausted exhale]
842
00:58:58,773 --> 00:59:01,909
[phone vibrating]
843
00:59:10,951 --> 00:59:12,319
Hey.
844
00:59:12,353 --> 00:59:13,888
[Tom]
Morning.
845
00:59:17,358 --> 00:59:19,593
So, how are you?
846
00:59:19,627 --> 00:59:22,830
Pretty good.
You know, a little tired.
847
00:59:23,631 --> 00:59:25,132
What time did you get up?
848
00:59:25,166 --> 00:59:27,168
I'm not sure.
I was kind of up all night.
849
00:59:27,536 --> 00:59:29,136
Sorry I kept you up too late.
850
00:59:29,170 --> 00:59:30,638
No, no, no, no.
It's not your fault.
851
00:59:30,671 --> 00:59:32,239
I just don't always
sleep super well.
852
00:59:32,907 --> 00:59:35,910
Kind of hard to turn the brain
off sometimes, you know?
853
00:59:36,577 --> 00:59:39,514
Yeah. Apparently I did not
have that problem last night.
854
00:59:39,548 --> 00:59:43,084
I must have passed out on you.
Sorry. It's embarrassing.
855
00:59:50,424 --> 00:59:52,359
-So...
-So...
856
00:59:52,393 --> 00:59:54,361
No, no you go first.
857
00:59:54,395 --> 00:59:56,864
I need to see you againas soon as possible.
858
00:59:56,897 --> 00:59:59,166
Would you want to go
somewhere with me?
859
00:59:59,200 --> 01:00:00,468
Sure.
860
01:00:00,501 --> 01:00:01,969
I mean,
go somewhere like a trip.
861
01:00:03,204 --> 01:00:04,805
Oh.
862
01:00:04,839 --> 01:00:06,640
Just for a couple of days.No big deal.
863
01:00:08,275 --> 01:00:09,810
Where were you thinking?
864
01:00:11,112 --> 01:00:13,314
I could tell you or...
865
01:00:14,549 --> 01:00:15,916
we could make it a surprise.
866
01:00:17,751 --> 01:00:19,653
Surprise sounds fun.
867
01:00:19,687 --> 01:00:22,656
Um, I guess
just let me know
868
01:00:22,690 --> 01:00:25,259
if I need to bring anything
special, otherwise I'm--
869
01:00:25,292 --> 01:00:26,627
I'm good with that.
870
01:00:27,761 --> 01:00:29,230
Pick you up tomorrow morning?
871
01:00:30,097 --> 01:00:31,566
So soon?
872
01:00:32,066 --> 01:00:33,767
-Is that a problem?
-No.
873
01:00:33,801 --> 01:00:35,803
No, no I'm--
874
01:00:36,403 --> 01:00:40,074
I'm one of those people that
just, like, loves adventure.
875
01:00:40,107 --> 01:00:41,175
Uh...
876
01:00:42,042 --> 01:00:44,178
Yeah, I guess I couldjust bring my laptop
877
01:00:44,211 --> 01:00:46,847
and do some work from thereif I need to.
878
01:00:46,881 --> 01:00:48,282
Great.
879
01:00:48,315 --> 01:00:49,917
Adventure it is then.
880
01:00:49,950 --> 01:00:51,452
Okay.
881
01:00:52,820 --> 01:00:54,755
I guess I'll see you
tomorrow then.
882
01:00:56,957 --> 01:00:58,292
Bye.
883
01:00:58,325 --> 01:00:59,660
Bye.
884
01:01:07,001 --> 01:01:09,604
[Lilly]
Hi, guys. Um...
885
01:01:11,071 --> 01:01:14,675
I haven't posted in a while.You probably noticed.
886
01:01:15,442 --> 01:01:16,511
Um...
887
01:01:17,778 --> 01:01:19,747
I don't know if anyone'seven gonna watch this,
888
01:01:19,780 --> 01:01:24,485
but my friend Deb told methat it might be, uh...
889
01:01:25,686 --> 01:01:28,789
really healthy for meto release some stuff
890
01:01:28,822 --> 01:01:30,324
and, um...
891
01:01:31,660 --> 01:01:33,260
I don't know.If I've learned one thing
892
01:01:33,294 --> 01:01:34,862
it's that Deb is alwaysright, so...
893
01:01:38,699 --> 01:01:42,169
[ominous music plays]
894
01:03:10,592 --> 01:03:11,825
Ta-da!
895
01:03:14,228 --> 01:03:15,597
Uh, this is it?
896
01:03:15,630 --> 01:03:17,599
Yeah, you like?
897
01:03:18,566 --> 01:03:20,301
Um, yeah.
898
01:03:21,135 --> 01:03:22,537
Yeah, it seems nice.
899
01:03:22,570 --> 01:03:23,738
[Tom laughs]
900
01:03:23,772 --> 01:03:24,972
What?
901
01:03:26,373 --> 01:03:28,075
We're not here for the house.
902
01:03:29,476 --> 01:03:33,581
We're here for the hiking
and the Joshua trees
and the sunsets.
903
01:03:35,249 --> 01:03:38,952
I know you said
you've been feeling a little
cooped up lately so...
904
01:03:40,054 --> 01:03:42,657
I figured you could use
a couple of days in
the great outdoors.
905
01:03:44,858 --> 01:03:47,529
Mmm, so thoughtful.
Thank you.
906
01:03:49,731 --> 01:03:50,864
You're the best.
907
01:03:52,399 --> 01:03:54,001
[seatbelts unbuckle]
908
01:03:54,769 --> 01:03:57,605
Yeah, we're kind of
in the middle of nowhere,
but it's cute.
909
01:03:57,639 --> 01:03:59,340
He said he thought
I needed some time outside.
910
01:04:00,474 --> 01:04:02,976
I'm almost done, I swear.
I just want to show Deb
the place.
911
01:04:03,010 --> 01:04:04,779
Here, come here.
Say hi.
912
01:04:07,047 --> 01:04:08,916
-Hey.
-[Deb] Hi.
913
01:04:08,949 --> 01:04:11,318
Took my girl out tothe middle of nowhere, huh?
914
01:04:11,352 --> 01:04:12,787
Yep.
915
01:04:12,821 --> 01:04:15,055
Where are you guys, exactly?
916
01:04:15,089 --> 01:04:17,057
Uh, near Joshua Treesomewhere.
917
01:04:17,091 --> 01:04:18,492
I gotta pee.
Nice to meet you.
918
01:04:21,862 --> 01:04:24,632
Um, so, how is everythinggoing thus far?
919
01:04:24,666 --> 01:04:27,836
Great! I think
he's just a little tired.
920
01:04:27,868 --> 01:04:32,106
Okay, um, well have fun,um, and be safe, please.
921
01:04:32,139 --> 01:04:35,175
And text me the addressor just at least dropme a pin.
922
01:04:35,209 --> 01:04:37,478
I will. Love you!
923
01:04:37,512 --> 01:04:38,879
Love you!
924
01:04:56,029 --> 01:04:57,030
Everything good?
925
01:04:57,064 --> 01:04:58,566
Yeah!
926
01:04:59,534 --> 01:05:03,505
I was thinking maybe
I'd get cleaned up and put on
something more comfortable?
927
01:05:04,204 --> 01:05:05,439
Sounds great.
928
01:05:06,574 --> 01:05:08,743
Okay.
Be back soon.
929
01:05:11,846 --> 01:05:14,616
[ominous music plays]
930
01:05:18,887 --> 01:05:20,220
Something's not right.
931
01:05:22,724 --> 01:05:24,958
-Huh?
-I wasn't talking to you.
932
01:05:26,193 --> 01:05:27,428
Okay.
933
01:05:29,597 --> 01:05:31,766
Something's not right.
I can feel it.
934
01:05:32,767 --> 01:05:35,135
What-- are--
are you talking to me now?
935
01:05:35,169 --> 01:05:37,037
Yes.
Take your headphones off.
936
01:05:37,938 --> 01:05:39,641
What do you want?
937
01:05:39,674 --> 01:05:41,275
Just come here.
938
01:05:44,244 --> 01:05:45,713
[sighs]
939
01:05:49,283 --> 01:05:50,451
What?
940
01:05:51,853 --> 01:05:53,020
I'm worried about Lilly.
941
01:05:53,053 --> 01:05:55,890
Oh, I'm shocked.
Hey, hey!
942
01:05:55,924 --> 01:05:57,592
I'm being serious.
943
01:05:57,625 --> 01:05:59,661
Yeah, I know. So am I.
944
01:06:01,462 --> 01:06:04,431
You're worried about Lilly,
like, legit 90 percent
of the time.
945
01:06:04,465 --> 01:06:06,233
This is different.
946
01:06:06,266 --> 01:06:08,736
This guy has her
in a random house
in the desert.
947
01:06:08,770 --> 01:06:10,237
I just...
948
01:06:10,270 --> 01:06:11,940
I have a really bad
feeling about it.
949
01:06:13,307 --> 01:06:15,543
That true crime shit's
really warping your brain, huh?
950
01:06:15,577 --> 01:06:18,880
No, they practically just met
and he takes her
951
01:06:18,913 --> 01:06:23,016
to some
extremely remote mystery
location as a surprise?
952
01:06:23,718 --> 01:06:25,854
He was super sketchy
on the phone and apparently
953
01:06:25,887 --> 01:06:27,956
he has some really
fucked-up past.
954
01:06:27,988 --> 01:06:30,090
And get this, I tried
to look him up online
955
01:06:30,123 --> 01:06:31,926
and no pictures.
956
01:06:31,960 --> 01:06:34,529
I even tried to do
a background check
and nothing!
957
01:06:34,562 --> 01:06:35,964
Jesus, Deb!
958
01:06:36,997 --> 01:06:38,131
What?!
959
01:06:38,165 --> 01:06:40,000
Something is wrong! I'm--
960
01:06:40,802 --> 01:06:42,436
I'm not crazy!
961
01:06:43,303 --> 01:06:44,772
Right?
962
01:06:46,473 --> 01:06:48,408
I mean, I don't know. I...
963
01:06:48,442 --> 01:06:49,644
I'm gonna track her phone.
964
01:06:50,277 --> 01:06:51,980
We have to know
where she is.
965
01:06:53,615 --> 01:06:56,518
Right. Well, I'm gonna
go back to my game.
966
01:07:00,354 --> 01:07:01,890
[sighs]
967
01:07:01,923 --> 01:07:04,024
[humming]
968
01:07:08,630 --> 01:07:11,031
[ominous music]
969
01:07:52,205 --> 01:07:53,206
Hey.
970
01:07:53,240 --> 01:07:54,341
Hi.
971
01:07:55,510 --> 01:07:56,711
Wow.
972
01:07:57,477 --> 01:07:58,880
Yeah? You like?
973
01:07:59,413 --> 01:08:00,582
Yeah.
974
01:08:01,381 --> 01:08:03,250
-You look incredible.
-Thanks.
975
01:08:06,654 --> 01:08:08,823
So I feel really vulnerable
and kind of silly,
976
01:08:08,856 --> 01:08:11,224
but I really want to have
sex with you this weekend.
977
01:08:11,258 --> 01:08:13,861
And I figure that it probably
would happen eventually,
978
01:08:13,895 --> 01:08:15,797
so maybe it's better
just to get it out
of the way now
979
01:08:15,830 --> 01:08:17,164
because otherwise
I'm gonna be super anxious
980
01:08:17,197 --> 01:08:19,067
and nervous about it
all weekend.
981
01:08:20,602 --> 01:08:21,703
Okay.
982
01:08:22,904 --> 01:08:25,974
I guess we should just get it
out of the way then.
983
01:08:34,348 --> 01:08:36,283
[Lilly sighs]
984
01:08:38,586 --> 01:08:40,287
[Lilly]
What's your tattoo mean?
985
01:08:41,089 --> 01:08:42,657
It's a birthmark.
986
01:08:53,467 --> 01:08:55,069
You're so special.
987
01:08:57,304 --> 01:08:59,172
Are you sure
you want to do this?
988
01:09:00,240 --> 01:09:01,976
Just fuck me already.
989
01:09:08,281 --> 01:09:10,317
[gasping]
990
01:09:17,625 --> 01:09:19,359
[gasps]
991
01:09:21,896 --> 01:09:24,264
[moaning]
992
01:09:33,941 --> 01:09:35,777
[gasps]
Her phone is off!
993
01:09:36,476 --> 01:09:37,979
What?
994
01:09:38,012 --> 01:09:40,313
Lilly's phone is off!
995
01:09:41,015 --> 01:09:42,382
How do you know?
996
01:09:42,416 --> 01:09:44,217
Because it disappeared
on the app.
997
01:09:46,120 --> 01:09:47,655
Find my phone.
998
01:09:47,689 --> 01:09:49,157
That's how I know it's off!
999
01:09:49,189 --> 01:09:51,125
[scoffs] You need to leave
her alone.
1000
01:09:51,159 --> 01:09:52,760
Honey.
1001
01:09:52,794 --> 01:09:54,562
The day that I picked up
Lilly from the hospital
1002
01:09:54,595 --> 01:09:56,764
I promised her
I would never turn
1003
01:09:56,798 --> 01:09:58,566
off my phone
in case she needed me.
1004
01:09:58,599 --> 01:10:01,368
And she swore to me
that she would do the same.
1005
01:10:01,869 --> 01:10:04,304
Since that day, she has not
turned off her phone
1006
01:10:04,337 --> 01:10:06,507
or let it die once.
1007
01:10:09,944 --> 01:10:11,145
It's never off?
1008
01:10:11,179 --> 01:10:13,081
No, never.
1009
01:10:13,114 --> 01:10:14,214
Huh.
1010
01:10:14,682 --> 01:10:16,117
I'm calling the police.
1011
01:10:16,150 --> 01:10:18,019
To tell them what?
1012
01:10:18,720 --> 01:10:20,988
They're not going
to drive all the way out
to the boondocks
1013
01:10:21,022 --> 01:10:23,490
to check on her
just 'cause her friend
is worried about her.
1014
01:10:23,524 --> 01:10:26,994
We don't even know if anything
bad has actually happened.
1015
01:10:27,028 --> 01:10:30,198
Maybe she just forgot
her charger or something.
1016
01:10:30,230 --> 01:10:31,699
No way.
1017
01:10:31,733 --> 01:10:34,434
I'm calling them
and telling them whatever
1018
01:10:34,468 --> 01:10:36,838
I need to say for them to go
and check up on her.
1019
01:10:36,871 --> 01:10:40,541
Ehh, it's not really a great
idea to lie to the police.
1020
01:10:42,577 --> 01:10:44,912
And I don't even
know where they are.
1021
01:10:47,181 --> 01:10:48,983
You said you had
her location on--
1022
01:10:49,016 --> 01:10:50,952
I did, but I didn't
write it down!
1023
01:10:53,386 --> 01:10:54,555
All right.
1024
01:10:54,589 --> 01:10:55,790
Same team.
1025
01:10:57,859 --> 01:11:00,094
[soft music plays]
1026
01:11:30,224 --> 01:11:32,593
[music turns ominous]
1027
01:11:35,530 --> 01:11:37,999
[gasping]
1028
01:11:41,035 --> 01:11:43,171
[moaning]
1029
01:11:53,413 --> 01:11:55,917
[crying]
1030
01:12:03,390 --> 01:12:06,994
It's good.
It's all good, baby.
1031
01:12:08,729 --> 01:12:10,430
It's all good.
1032
01:12:13,067 --> 01:12:14,702
It's all good.
1033
01:12:23,077 --> 01:12:25,012
[breathing heavy]
1034
01:12:30,651 --> 01:12:32,553
what are you doing?
1035
01:12:34,255 --> 01:12:36,157
Stop.
1036
01:12:36,190 --> 01:12:38,326
[Tom panting]
Yes!
1037
01:12:38,358 --> 01:12:39,794
Yes!
1038
01:12:53,373 --> 01:12:56,577
[moans loudly]
1039
01:13:01,481 --> 01:13:04,518
[maniacal laughter]
1040
01:13:10,490 --> 01:13:13,060
[Lilly sobs]
1041
01:13:28,709 --> 01:13:30,745
It's like your eyes
bleed opium.
1042
01:13:35,149 --> 01:13:37,919
Although opium never did
for me what you can.
1043
01:13:40,187 --> 01:13:41,956
We make a good team.
1044
01:13:45,359 --> 01:13:47,929
Stop trying to hide.
I'm talking to you.
1045
01:13:50,064 --> 01:13:51,198
Lilly.
1046
01:13:52,833 --> 01:13:54,769
[Lilly whimpers]
1047
01:13:56,837 --> 01:13:59,807
They say that the eyes
are windows to the soul.
1048
01:14:04,779 --> 01:14:06,580
When you look into mine,
1049
01:14:09,250 --> 01:14:10,785
do you see anything there?
1050
01:14:17,258 --> 01:14:18,693
Lilly,
1051
01:14:18,726 --> 01:14:21,162
I'm not going
to ask you again.
1052
01:14:22,096 --> 01:14:23,998
[Lilly sobs]
1053
01:14:28,636 --> 01:14:30,738
You said you wanted
to know more about me.
1054
01:14:32,440 --> 01:14:33,507
Well...
1055
01:14:36,877 --> 01:14:39,280
there is no software fix,
1056
01:14:40,247 --> 01:14:43,084
no god, no drugs,
1057
01:14:43,117 --> 01:14:45,286
no daredevil shit,
no puppies to hug,
1058
01:14:45,319 --> 01:14:47,755
no pussy
that does anything for me.
1059
01:14:48,823 --> 01:14:49,924
Nothing.
1060
01:14:50,958 --> 01:14:52,660
It's all like styrofoam.
1061
01:14:55,763 --> 01:14:58,099
But one little taste
of you...
1062
01:14:59,967 --> 01:15:03,804
And there's this
explosion of pain
1063
01:15:04,672 --> 01:15:06,440
and sorrow
1064
01:15:06,907 --> 01:15:10,277
and anger and in that moment
1065
01:15:10,311 --> 01:15:12,046
I know joy.
1066
01:15:16,017 --> 01:15:19,020
I don't expect
your feeble little brain
to understand that, but...
1067
01:15:19,954 --> 01:15:21,756
it's like
1068
01:15:21,789 --> 01:15:24,725
I get to be a real boy
even if it's just for a second.
1069
01:15:26,794 --> 01:15:28,396
Can I go home now?
1070
01:15:29,997 --> 01:15:31,999
-Please. Please.
-No.
1071
01:15:33,334 --> 01:15:35,236
No, baby.
We're not done yet.
1072
01:15:37,338 --> 01:15:40,541
-[whimpering]
-Shh.
1073
01:15:42,343 --> 01:15:44,912
-[coughing]
-Shh, shh.
1074
01:15:44,945 --> 01:15:47,048
Are you not listening to me?
1075
01:15:47,848 --> 01:15:51,419
I could kill you right now
and I wouldn't feel anything.
1076
01:15:51,986 --> 01:15:55,322
Not guilt or remorse.
Nothing.
1077
01:15:55,890 --> 01:15:57,625
I can watch the life
leave your body
1078
01:15:57,658 --> 01:16:00,061
and never think of it
for a second afterwards.
1079
01:16:02,830 --> 01:16:04,432
[Tom sighs]
1080
01:16:06,167 --> 01:16:07,902
But then where would we be?
1081
01:16:09,637 --> 01:16:11,372
That would be a total waste,
1082
01:16:11,405 --> 01:16:14,175
and I'd just have to start over
again with somebody else.
1083
01:16:15,643 --> 01:16:17,311
Somebody
1084
01:16:17,344 --> 01:16:18,946
disposable.
1085
01:16:20,848 --> 01:16:22,249
But not you.
1086
01:16:24,251 --> 01:16:26,454
I think I'm gonna
keep you for a while.
1087
01:16:29,023 --> 01:16:33,594
[breathes heavily]
1088
01:16:37,665 --> 01:16:39,066
We're going. Get your bat.
1089
01:16:39,100 --> 01:16:41,068
I-- mmm.
1090
01:16:42,169 --> 01:16:43,404
Fine.
1091
01:16:43,437 --> 01:16:45,574
[dramatic music]
1092
01:16:47,542 --> 01:16:48,876
I couldn't find my bat.
1093
01:16:50,211 --> 01:16:51,546
Are you sure you want
to do this?
1094
01:16:52,547 --> 01:16:54,014
I mean, we don't even
know where they are.
1095
01:16:54,048 --> 01:16:55,584
Yes we do.
I saw it on the map.
1096
01:16:55,616 --> 01:16:57,918
I don't know
the specific street name,
1097
01:16:57,952 --> 01:16:59,920
but, once we're close,
I'm sure it'll look familiar.
1098
01:16:59,954 --> 01:17:01,590
But even if you're right,
it's gonna take,
1099
01:17:01,622 --> 01:17:03,324
like, three hours
just to drive there.
1100
01:17:03,357 --> 01:17:04,658
And then what?
1101
01:17:04,692 --> 01:17:06,227
There's hundreds
of houses out there.
1102
01:17:06,260 --> 01:17:07,695
It could be any one of them.
1103
01:17:07,728 --> 01:17:09,697
So we'll knock
on doors all night.
1104
01:17:09,730 --> 01:17:12,066
I'm not gonna let this
happen again, okay?
1105
01:17:12,099 --> 01:17:13,634
Okay. Okay. All right.
1106
01:17:14,702 --> 01:17:17,037
Look, it was not your fault.
1107
01:17:17,071 --> 01:17:18,239
You didn't know.
1108
01:17:19,640 --> 01:17:21,510
I love you,
1109
01:17:21,543 --> 01:17:23,744
but you need to get your ass
in the fucking car right now.
1110
01:17:25,146 --> 01:17:26,313
Okay.
1111
01:17:28,983 --> 01:17:30,818
[gasps]
1112
01:17:44,231 --> 01:17:45,966
[knocking on door]
1113
01:17:48,169 --> 01:17:49,203
Hey.
1114
01:17:53,608 --> 01:17:54,975
[puts cup down]
1115
01:17:55,610 --> 01:17:57,311
[sighs]
1116
01:18:01,115 --> 01:18:02,283
I am...
1117
01:18:04,519 --> 01:18:08,155
so sorry that things got
a little rough last night.
1118
01:18:11,091 --> 01:18:13,060
I didn't mean
to hurt you like that.
1119
01:18:14,261 --> 01:18:15,296
But...
1120
01:18:16,665 --> 01:18:18,165
you kind of made me do it.
1121
01:18:23,137 --> 01:18:24,573
Is it okay if I sit?
1122
01:18:27,808 --> 01:18:29,977
[bed creaks]
1123
01:18:33,814 --> 01:18:36,585
I think the best thing
for us to do would be
1124
01:18:37,117 --> 01:18:40,487
to just put it behind us
and move on.
1125
01:18:41,055 --> 01:18:42,256
Yeah?
1126
01:18:45,993 --> 01:18:47,529
I want to show
you something.
1127
01:18:53,968 --> 01:18:55,836
I found this in the garage.
1128
01:19:01,141 --> 01:19:04,078
It's just like what
he used when he almost
killed you, isn't it?
1129
01:19:06,880 --> 01:19:09,216
Steel toe and everything.
Oof.
1130
01:19:11,418 --> 01:19:13,521
Yeah, I saw it
sitting there...
1131
01:19:16,524 --> 01:19:18,259
and I just started
picturing it...
1132
01:19:20,327 --> 01:19:21,762
You...
1133
01:19:23,230 --> 01:19:26,066
huddled up in a little ball,
kind of like you are now.
1134
01:19:26,867 --> 01:19:28,335
So
1135
01:19:28,369 --> 01:19:31,138
-weak and helpless.
-[Lilly whimpers]
1136
01:19:32,707 --> 01:19:35,976
Him just raining blow
after blow down on you.
1137
01:19:37,444 --> 01:19:41,616
Fracturing your ribs,
breaking your skull.
1138
01:19:44,084 --> 01:19:46,120
How long did it take
you to recover?
1139
01:19:55,229 --> 01:19:56,463
That man...
1140
01:19:57,865 --> 01:19:59,266
was a monster.
1141
01:20:00,635 --> 01:20:02,836
I would never do anything
like that to you.
1142
01:20:06,073 --> 01:20:07,575
You know that, right?
1143
01:20:13,581 --> 01:20:15,316
Think of me...
1144
01:20:16,216 --> 01:20:17,818
more like a gardener.
1145
01:20:20,321 --> 01:20:22,990
I just want my beautiful
Lilly to blossom.
1146
01:20:23,891 --> 01:20:25,292
So,
1147
01:20:25,326 --> 01:20:27,328
I'm gonna give her
what she needs.
1148
01:20:33,500 --> 01:20:34,769
Speaking of...
1149
01:20:35,969 --> 01:20:38,138
Lilies need water, so...
1150
01:20:46,080 --> 01:20:49,316
It's just water. Here.
Take it.
1151
01:20:51,085 --> 01:20:52,486
You need to hydrate.
1152
01:20:56,857 --> 01:20:59,093
-[Lilly sobs]
-There you go.
1153
01:20:59,126 --> 01:21:00,961
[gulps]
1154
01:21:02,863 --> 01:21:04,131
[exhales loudly]
1155
01:21:04,164 --> 01:21:05,734
That's my girl.
1156
01:21:06,300 --> 01:21:08,168
Can't let the tank
go empty, can we?
1157
01:21:12,339 --> 01:21:13,407
Okay, well...
1158
01:21:14,875 --> 01:21:17,978
you get some rest
and I'll be back in
a little bit.
1159
01:21:19,213 --> 01:21:21,014
[bed creaks]
1160
01:21:32,527 --> 01:21:35,429
[sobs]
1161
01:21:38,833 --> 01:21:40,501
[muffled screams]
1162
01:21:43,504 --> 01:21:46,674
[tense music builds]
1163
01:21:48,375 --> 01:21:50,177
[Mark]
So, where to next?
1164
01:21:50,911 --> 01:21:53,715
I think just go north
one more street
1165
01:21:53,748 --> 01:21:55,683
and we'll turn left
the next place we can
1166
01:21:55,717 --> 01:21:59,086
and it's starting
to look familiar.
1167
01:22:02,423 --> 01:22:04,024
Okay.
1168
01:22:12,266 --> 01:22:13,535
[door opens]
1169
01:22:13,568 --> 01:22:15,068
Hey.
1170
01:22:15,102 --> 01:22:16,905
Ready for round two?
1171
01:22:18,338 --> 01:22:19,973
Please.
1172
01:22:21,543 --> 01:22:23,812
Don't act like
I'm some pathetic rapist.
1173
01:22:24,579 --> 01:22:26,648
I told you
that's not what I want.
1174
01:22:33,253 --> 01:22:34,756
What I want is this.
1175
01:22:38,760 --> 01:22:40,461
This is incredible.
1176
01:22:41,295 --> 01:22:42,831
[chuckles]
1177
01:22:44,431 --> 01:22:46,668
I've lost track of how many
times I've watched this.
1178
01:22:48,770 --> 01:22:50,003
You want to see?
1179
01:22:58,412 --> 01:23:01,415
[Lilly sobbing]
He could make mefeel so weak,
1180
01:23:02,550 --> 01:23:04,117
and I would just
1181
01:23:04,819 --> 01:23:09,022
sit there and cry whilehe screamed at me and I...
1182
01:23:11,124 --> 01:23:12,493
[sharp exhale]
1183
01:23:16,063 --> 01:23:18,298
You are not
a strong person, Lilly.
1184
01:23:23,003 --> 01:23:25,172
You let Tyler do anything
he wanted to you.
1185
01:23:26,841 --> 01:23:28,308
Why didn't you just leave?
1186
01:23:31,946 --> 01:23:34,014
You must have had
a thousand chances.
1187
01:23:38,853 --> 01:23:40,655
It's because you couldn't.
1188
01:23:40,688 --> 01:23:41,990
Right?
1189
01:23:44,358 --> 01:23:46,293
Because you didn't want to.
1190
01:23:52,165 --> 01:23:53,601
[sniffles]
1191
01:23:53,635 --> 01:23:55,803
I don't know whyI let him do that.
1192
01:23:57,605 --> 01:24:00,140
And then he would hit mewith his fist
1193
01:24:00,173 --> 01:24:02,510
or whatever he couldfind nearby and I would
1194
01:24:02,544 --> 01:24:04,879
tell myself that somehowI deserved it.
1195
01:24:05,547 --> 01:24:07,015
And it was my fault.
1196
01:24:08,315 --> 01:24:09,584
See?
1197
01:24:10,484 --> 01:24:11,920
You said it yourself.
1198
01:24:15,557 --> 01:24:20,895
There are some people
in this world who are,
at their core, victims.
1199
01:24:22,564 --> 01:24:24,364
Born prey animals.
1200
01:24:29,369 --> 01:24:31,673
That wasn't the first time
someone hurt you, was it?
1201
01:24:35,977 --> 01:24:37,679
And it wasn't gonna
be the last.
1202
01:24:41,516 --> 01:24:44,217
You have a role to play,
1203
01:24:45,687 --> 01:24:50,090
and you play it over
and over and over again.
1204
01:24:59,934 --> 01:25:01,869
I wanted him to die.
1205
01:25:05,540 --> 01:25:07,909
I wanted him to die so bad
1206
01:25:07,942 --> 01:25:10,778
'cause I knew thatthat's the only way I'd everbe rid of him.
1207
01:25:11,846 --> 01:25:14,481
And I wished for it.
1208
01:25:14,515 --> 01:25:16,584
I wished for itevery single day.
1209
01:25:16,618 --> 01:25:21,055
I sat there and I wishedthat he would die,and then he did.
1210
01:25:26,761 --> 01:25:29,162
He died on the floorright in front of me--right there--
1211
01:25:29,196 --> 01:25:33,968
and I wasjust heartbroken.
1212
01:25:35,770 --> 01:25:38,539
And I am so fucking ashamedto admit that,
1213
01:25:38,573 --> 01:25:40,908
but I was heartbroken'cause I loved him.
1214
01:25:40,942 --> 01:25:44,277
Despite everythingthat he did to me, I stillloved him and I--
1215
01:25:46,114 --> 01:25:48,281
I'm just so confused.
1216
01:25:50,317 --> 01:25:51,451
And I...
1217
01:25:54,756 --> 01:25:57,025
I've spent every singleday since
1218
01:25:57,058 --> 01:26:00,193
just being consumedby the guilt and...
1219
01:26:01,428 --> 01:26:04,364
so fucking confused.
1220
01:26:08,770 --> 01:26:10,605
What is wrong with me?
1221
01:26:12,507 --> 01:26:14,474
[sobs]
1222
01:26:14,509 --> 01:26:16,443
[exhales]
1223
01:26:18,278 --> 01:26:19,614
Wow.
1224
01:26:23,316 --> 01:26:25,053
What is wrong with you?
1225
01:26:31,025 --> 01:26:32,860
You killed him, Lilly.
1226
01:26:36,496 --> 01:26:38,666
You can't say
it wasn't your fault.
1227
01:26:41,268 --> 01:26:43,671
Maybe if you'd been
a more caring...
1228
01:26:45,540 --> 01:26:47,041
supportive partner.
1229
01:26:49,209 --> 01:26:51,244
More understanding
of his mental illness,
1230
01:26:51,278 --> 01:26:52,747
you wouldn't have been
so miserable.
1231
01:26:55,348 --> 01:26:56,651
But, no.
1232
01:27:05,059 --> 01:27:06,426
You weren't.
1233
01:27:09,664 --> 01:27:10,932
You were selfish.
1234
01:27:12,900 --> 01:27:14,234
Self-absorbed.
1235
01:27:16,403 --> 01:27:18,740
Completely consumed
with your own shit.
1236
01:27:24,244 --> 01:27:26,714
You put the bottle
in his hand.
1237
01:27:32,352 --> 01:27:37,525
You sat and watched
as he tore himself apart
drink by drink...
1238
01:27:38,492 --> 01:27:41,229
and you
just cowered there...
1239
01:27:42,530 --> 01:27:45,365
as his head went right
through that glass table...
1240
01:27:47,034 --> 01:27:48,536
three feet
in front of you...
1241
01:27:51,338 --> 01:27:53,908
and then bled out
all over the floor.
1242
01:27:57,912 --> 01:28:00,447
I bet you can still smell
the blood, can't you?
1243
01:28:10,691 --> 01:28:13,761
[tense music playing]
1244
01:28:13,795 --> 01:28:15,763
If it's any consolation,
1245
01:28:18,966 --> 01:28:21,002
I'm sure that he
never really loved you.
1246
01:28:22,904 --> 01:28:25,606
Because how could anyone
love someone like you?
1247
01:28:31,245 --> 01:28:35,049
No one will ever want
to be with you
1248
01:28:35,082 --> 01:28:36,984
except to use you.
1249
01:28:38,719 --> 01:28:40,021
Like he did.
1250
01:28:43,758 --> 01:28:45,492
Like I am.
1251
01:28:50,164 --> 01:28:52,166
Because that's all
you're good for.
1252
01:28:57,404 --> 01:29:01,042
And deep down, you know
that's what you deserve.
1253
01:29:02,977 --> 01:29:04,278
Oh, yeah.
1254
01:29:05,613 --> 01:29:06,781
Yeah.
1255
01:29:07,849 --> 01:29:09,584
That's my girl.
1256
01:29:09,617 --> 01:29:11,018
[Lilly sobs]
1257
01:29:11,986 --> 01:29:13,020
Yeah.
1258
01:29:14,021 --> 01:29:15,488
Oh, that's so good.
1259
01:29:16,824 --> 01:29:18,559
[whimpers]
1260
01:29:42,516 --> 01:29:44,051
[Tom screams]
1261
01:29:45,620 --> 01:29:47,221
[muffled screams]
1262
01:29:52,660 --> 01:29:54,195
[spits]
1263
01:29:55,029 --> 01:29:56,998
[continues yelling]
1264
01:30:01,569 --> 01:30:04,071
[music builds]
1265
01:30:16,817 --> 01:30:19,452
[breathing heavily]
1266
01:30:38,005 --> 01:30:41,474
[ethereal music plays]
1267
01:31:19,613 --> 01:31:20,948
Mark!
1268
01:31:35,229 --> 01:31:36,897
Lilly!
1269
01:31:36,931 --> 01:31:38,766
Oh, my God, you're hurt!
1270
01:31:38,799 --> 01:31:40,868
No, it's not my blood.
I'm okay.
1271
01:31:40,901 --> 01:31:43,704
I'm here.
It's okay, I'm here.
1272
01:31:43,738 --> 01:31:46,474
All right,
come on, let's get you
to the hospital. Let's go.
1273
01:31:46,507 --> 01:31:48,976
No, police first.
Wait, what are you guys
doing here?
1274
01:31:49,944 --> 01:31:51,579
I think you're in shock.
1275
01:31:51,612 --> 01:31:53,447
-Come on.
-I'm okay. I'm good.
1276
01:31:53,481 --> 01:31:55,149
I'm good. I'm okay
1277
01:32:16,303 --> 01:32:17,805
What did he do to you?
1278
01:32:20,875 --> 01:32:22,710
He wanted me to cry.
1279
01:32:29,150 --> 01:32:30,519
I'm done crying.
1280
01:32:52,873 --> 01:32:55,510
["Tearsucker Motherfucker"
by Ian Pitts]
1281
01:33:17,064 --> 01:33:20,535
♪ Give me your sadness ♪
1282
01:33:21,001 --> 01:33:24,205
♪ Give me your pain ♪
1283
01:33:24,972 --> 01:33:28,609
♪ This love is madness ♪
1284
01:33:29,009 --> 01:33:31,812
♪ I feel insane ♪
1285
01:33:32,746 --> 01:33:35,983
♪ Coming for your fears ♪
1286
01:33:36,917 --> 01:33:39,787
♪ Preying on your tears ♪
1287
01:33:40,788 --> 01:33:43,624
♪ Eat you up inside ♪
1288
01:33:44,859 --> 01:33:47,661
♪ Nowhere you can hide ♪
1289
01:33:47,695 --> 01:33:50,565
♪ Tearsucker motherfucker ♪
1290
01:33:51,665 --> 01:33:54,468
♪ Tearsucker motherfucker ♪
1291
01:33:55,436 --> 01:33:58,172
♪ Tearsucker motherfucker ♪
1292
01:33:59,373 --> 01:34:02,243
♪ Tearsucker motherfucker ♪
1293
01:34:02,276 --> 01:34:04,912
♪ I'm here to drain you ♪
1294
01:34:06,180 --> 01:34:08,682
♪ I'm here to drain you ♪
1295
01:34:10,217 --> 01:34:12,653
♪ Open up your eyes ♪
1296
01:34:13,988 --> 01:34:16,157
♪ I'm here to drain you ♪
1297
01:34:18,159 --> 01:34:23,964
♪ Open up your eyes ♪
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01:34:49,857 --> 01:34:51,392
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