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- Mark interview take one.Mark?
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- [sighs]
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[indistinct chatter]
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Oh, man.
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- Yeah, go ahead.
You were right.
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[somber music]
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♪ ♪
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- It's tough, but it's...
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it was inevitable.I know.
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I've been lucky
to live long enough,
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and it's just, uh...
part of the deal.
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And it's just tough.
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- I Facetimed with her.
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I had to come back to work...
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shoot "Stu"
and the rest of it...
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So there wasn't much choice.
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♪ ♪
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There wasn't much choice.
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[spray can clicking]
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[paint can hissing]
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♪ ♪
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[car honks distantly]
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[moody music]
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♪ ♪
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[background chatter]
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- Good.
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- Quiet on the set, please.
- Rolling.
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- When Mark told me
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that his mother had passed away
the night before...
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Cut for a second.
- All right.
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- You know, I asked him
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if he was up for
working that day
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and, um--and he said yes.
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It just so happenedthat we were filming
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two sort of comedic scenesthat day,
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which made me nervous,because I thought,
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"Gosh, what a tall order
to ask somebody to be funny
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"on, um--on a day
when you're dealing
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with one of the most tragic
things in your life."
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[crewman, indistinct]
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- Hey, I hit it big,
I'll take you with me
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all the way to the top.
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- Payment's due Monday.
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- Don't sell yourself short,
baby.
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[taps twice]
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- In hindsight,maybe that was a blessing
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because to try
to shoot something
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deeply feeling and-and
emotional instead
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may have just opened
the floodgates
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in a way that would have beenunbearable for him.
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- Oh, shit.
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Hollywood, baby.
Hollywood! [chuckles]
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God damn,
we went Hollywood, kid.
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Oh, shit.
We made it.
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- Action, camera.
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- Camera rolling.
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- People, I think, look at himas being superhuman
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with the number of businesseshe has
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and how many projects
he's able to take on,
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and, you know,
so many responsibilities.
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Back to one?
- Okay.
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And we're cutting back to one.
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- But the thingthat impresses me the most
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about him is he hasincredible mental strength
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and fortitude to be ableto perform and carry on
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with what had just happened.
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- Hello, everybody.
- Uh-oh.
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- I'm so happy to meet you.
- Happy to meet you too.
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- I love all your shows.
- Oh, thank you.
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- Well, this is where I live
and Kathy lives upstairs.
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- Thank you
for the hospitality.
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- I can't wait to see
your film.
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- It--this is a good one.
God bless you.
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- I just--you know,
I'm a big fan.
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- Thank you.
Nice to meet you.
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- Bye.
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♪ ♪
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[plane engine whistling]
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♪ ♪
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- The older you get...
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The more lossyou experience...
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If you're lucky enough to...
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just stick arounda long time.
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♪ ♪
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You know?
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- Did Mark and my mom havea special relationship?
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Absolutely. He was the baby.
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That's just the way it is.
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It made her so proudto say that
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"He calls me every dayfrom wherever he is."
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Was he her favorite?
I don't know.
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We'll debate that forever.
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- Who's your favorite?
- You are.
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You are my favorite.
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- Am I your favorite son, yet?
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- Yes.
- Finally.
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- Oh, come on!
- You know, there was
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this whole big joke--Mom's favorite.
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And everybody would say,"I'm Mom's favorite."
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I mean, she hadthis really special way
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of making sure that you knew
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that it was you.
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You were her favorite.
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♪ ♪
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- Growing up as humbly
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as she did and we did,
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you know, that's something
that-that she was proud of.
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- Growing up in Boston,we grew up in a tough area.
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You know, we didn't havea lot.
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It was nine of us living ina three-bedroom apartment.
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Two to a bed.
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There was a unity,
if you will, right?
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And-and it was a unity
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that we were tied together
by poverty.
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- Well, my dad and momhad to work a lot
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to get us what it seemed like
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everybody else had
pretty easily.
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- My mother worked overnight.
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She'd get home, I don't--
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she wouldn't even see
my father.
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He's already be gone to work.
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- I've eaten plenty
of mayonnaise sandwiches.
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"Builds character.
You'll be fine."
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- I think we were raisedto just be good people, right?
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That's what my mother
would always say.
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I didn't matter to her
how much we made.
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You know, if you're successfuland you're a young guy,
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you're thinking, "Oh,I'm gonna get a Ferrari."
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Right? And-and my mother
would always sort of ground you
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and be like,
"Okay, but-but what--
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but what are you gonna do
with it," right?
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Like, you havethis opportunity now
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to make a differencein the world.
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- I worked on "Wahlburgers"for, like, seven seasons.
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You really sawwhere the light and spirit,
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the kindness
that the Wahlbergs have,
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was in Alma.
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And I think that "Wahlburgers"
gave her the opportunity
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to be in the spotlight.
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- I was walking
through the airport
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in Boston, and I walked by
Wahlburgers,
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and there she was on every TV.
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It was greatbecause I knew that...
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Sort of the world
got to know her a little bit
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and how awesome she was.
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- The show allowed herto feel special
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because she was special.
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It was everything to her.
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- Bye, Alma.
- Yay.
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- I never anticipatedthat we'd have
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a true friendship.
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Um...
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♪ ♪
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- It's tough.
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I recently lost my father
a couple years ago.
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He was on his way to see me.
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When you lose
someone you love...
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It's tough.
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And you just have
to keep going.
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Um...
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It's tough.
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- The most important thingto my mother--
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she was so happy and grateful
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that we all sort of found
our way.
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- When she was happy,we were happy.
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You were convinced thatwhat you were dealing with
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was gonna be okay.
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[clears throat]
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♪ ♪
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- The motorcycle scene is
really the turning point
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in Stu's journey.
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It's in the wake of that
that he has
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this very profoundspiritual experience.
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It was important to me
to shoot it in a way
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that made it clearthat Mark was
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in fact riding the motorcycle.
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[tense music]
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♪ ♪
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The big challenge of directingthe motorcycle accident was
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I knew that we had one take
to get it right
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because it was--
there was a high, uh, risk
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associated with that stunt.
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We had this amazing stuntman,
JJ.
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But I only wantedto do it once.
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I know the stunt guy onlywanted to do it once.
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We were hoping we couldace it and move on.
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- Good.
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- Okay, here we go.
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All right.
Everybody tuck in!
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And three, two, one, go.
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[motorcycle engine rumbling]
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- Okay, cut.
- You okay?
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You all right?
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- Certainly something happened.
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That looked awful,
[chuckles]
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but he said it was
exhilarating and he was fine.
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- Yeah, baby. Great job.
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[moody music]
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♪ ♪
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- Yeah. That's really nice.
- Yeah, I think so too.
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- I love that.
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The whole course of
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the principle photography,
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all of his hair,it was all his own.
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But he had shaved offall of his facial hair.
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So we had to use
a fake mustache and a wig.
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[chuckles]
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- Can't even talk like this.
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- [chuckles]
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- I think we have wasted
all of our time coming here.
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- Um, honestly, the--
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the mustache is just too bushy.
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- It's all too bushy.
- [chuckles]
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- But how--let's-let's just
not shoot too close today
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and then just try to have them
trim it tomorrow.
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- Yeah.
- 'Cause it's just ridiculous.
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It's like fucking Yosemite Sam.
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[growls] Rrr!
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- Poor guy, I know he didn'tfeel real comfortable.
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And we're supposed to shootin, like, five minutes.
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- Just slating and then we go?
- Yeah.
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- I don't feel very...
inspired right now.
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- Action.
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- He had had a hoodie on.
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And so we just put the hood on
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so you couldn't really seethe wig.
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And we found a wayto make it work.
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[indistinct]
- All right.
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- Who gives a fuck?
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- [chuckles]
- Better start walking.
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- What?
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- Come on, just-just
get me the fuck
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out of this thing.
- Yeah.
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- Unfortunately,
grief is a living thing
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that will visit at will.
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I booked myself crazy.
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I-I remember doing
about 300 shows
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the year my mother died,
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and it waitedfor me to stop working.
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But all I was doingwas prolonging the inevitable.
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It totally catches upwith you.
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- [sighs]
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- You have to let it come
as it comes.
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[moody music]
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♪ ♪
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[indistinct chatter]
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- One of the last sceneswe filmed,
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it was really challenging.
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♪ ♪
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I could tell the momentMark walked out of his trailer
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that something
was not quite right.
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So I took him asideand asked him if he was okay.
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And-and he said yes.
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- The loss of my moma week before--
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I couldn't really dealwith it.
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So I really kind of kept itall bottled up inside.
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- Apple-1-2-2-Charlie,take one.
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- It was like one take.
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Just roll the cameras,and let's go.
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And it just started to hit me.
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And all the thingsthat I was trying to suppress,
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they started becomingvery real.
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Why?
264
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[yelling] Why?
[sniffles]
265
00:13:27,181 --> 00:13:30,184
I wanna know why.
266
00:13:30,267 --> 00:13:32,937
I wanna know--
I wanna know now.
267
00:13:33,020 --> 00:13:34,897
Why?
268
00:13:34,980 --> 00:13:38,192
Why have you forsaken me
here, now?
269
00:13:38,275 --> 00:13:41,320
[weeping]
270
00:13:44,865 --> 00:13:46,617
[sniffles]
271
00:13:48,661 --> 00:13:52,456
What do you got me doing here
like this on my--[sniffles]
272
00:13:52,540 --> 00:13:53,999
on my own?
273
00:13:54,083 --> 00:13:56,752
[whispering indistinctly]
...with me.
274
00:13:56,835 --> 00:13:58,254
[sniffles]
275
00:13:59,880 --> 00:14:05,427
- Mark is somebody who feelsa lot of things very deeply
276
00:14:05,511 --> 00:14:08,430
and doesn't try to shut
those feelings off
277
00:14:08,514 --> 00:14:12,101
but makes those a source
of empowerment.
278
00:14:12,184 --> 00:14:13,561
- [weeps]
279
00:14:13,644 --> 00:14:18,274
- That is his brillianceas an actor.
280
00:14:18,357 --> 00:14:19,775
- [sniffles, sighs]
281
00:14:19,858 --> 00:14:22,486
Why did you bring me here?
282
00:14:22,570 --> 00:14:24,863
- I just let him gountil I knew
283
00:14:24,947 --> 00:14:26,365
that I had more than enough.
284
00:14:29,410 --> 00:14:32,079
- Yeah.
- Cut.
285
00:14:38,002 --> 00:14:39,795
- Just being able to call her.
286
00:14:43,716 --> 00:14:45,384
Talk to her.
287
00:14:45,467 --> 00:14:49,221
[sighs] Well, I talked to her
every day until I couldn't.
288
00:14:51,223 --> 00:14:53,642
- Her phone wasalways ringing.
289
00:14:53,726 --> 00:14:56,437
And it was alwaysone of her kids.
290
00:14:56,520 --> 00:14:59,189
I think everybodyin my family,
291
00:14:59,273 --> 00:15:01,150
we take for granted
292
00:15:01,233 --> 00:15:03,485
that that phone
is gonna get picked up.
293
00:15:03,569 --> 00:15:05,154
And that person
294
00:15:05,237 --> 00:15:06,864
that is the most important
person in the world to you
295
00:15:06,947 --> 00:15:10,367
that's just always been there
for your entire life
296
00:15:10,451 --> 00:15:12,328
is gonna be on the other end
of the phone.
297
00:15:12,411 --> 00:15:14,204
- [sighs]
298
00:15:14,288 --> 00:15:15,664
- I think everybodyin my family
299
00:15:15,748 --> 00:15:18,000
is missing that the most.
300
00:15:19,960 --> 00:15:22,212
- What do I miss about my mom?
301
00:15:22,296 --> 00:15:24,923
Yeah, I mean,
what's not to miss about her?
302
00:15:25,007 --> 00:15:30,012
She's just--you know,
she was larger than life.
303
00:15:30,095 --> 00:15:31,347
- [clears throat]
304
00:15:32,431 --> 00:15:36,018
- Uh, I just--I misseverything about her.
305
00:15:36,769 --> 00:15:40,814
Yeah.
I miss everything about her.
306
00:15:41,899 --> 00:15:43,484
- People have asked me, like,
307
00:15:43,567 --> 00:15:45,819
"If you could have a meal
anywhere, what would it be?"
308
00:15:45,903 --> 00:15:52,534
And it's very simply a-a-a dish
that my mom or dad made
309
00:15:52,618 --> 00:15:57,122
because I can't get
that anymore.
310
00:15:57,206 --> 00:15:58,540
And...
311
00:15:59,458 --> 00:16:03,045
That's that thing--
that-that feeling of home.
312
00:16:03,128 --> 00:16:05,631
You know, you wish
they could make another meal.
313
00:16:09,009 --> 00:16:11,220
- It hurts. It's hard.[sighs]
314
00:16:13,430 --> 00:16:16,266
It just becomes, uh,
unavoidable after a while.
315
00:16:16,350 --> 00:16:19,478
You just gotta kind of deal
with it, you know?
316
00:16:19,561 --> 00:16:20,938
It's, uh--it's just--
again,
317
00:16:21,021 --> 00:16:22,606
it's just being
on this side of--
318
00:16:22,690 --> 00:16:24,191
this side of life.
319
00:16:29,530 --> 00:16:36,745
♪ ♪
320
00:16:36,829 --> 00:16:39,957
[background chatter]
321
00:16:59,226 --> 00:17:02,146
[birds chirping]
322
00:17:02,229 --> 00:17:09,069
♪ ♪
323
00:17:09,153 --> 00:17:11,530
- Chef's doing this.
- Yeah, yeah, yeah, Chef-y.
324
00:17:11,613 --> 00:17:13,490
- [chuckles]
- Mm-hmm.
325
00:17:13,574 --> 00:17:16,452
- Whoa ho ho!
[background chatter]
326
00:17:16,535 --> 00:17:18,579
- Thank you, brother.
Looks perfect.
327
00:17:19,705 --> 00:17:21,457
- Blessings, amen.
Thank you for the bite.
328
00:17:21,540 --> 00:17:23,125
- Amen.
329
00:17:23,208 --> 00:17:24,793
- One good thingwithin this time
330
00:17:24,877 --> 00:17:26,962
is that we've been ableto really spend
331
00:17:27,045 --> 00:17:28,922
quality time together.
332
00:17:29,006 --> 00:17:31,300
Um, and these sort of thingscan either,
333
00:17:31,383 --> 00:17:34,219
uh, push you apart
or make you stronger
334
00:17:34,303 --> 00:17:36,180
and-and bring you
closer together.
335
00:17:36,263 --> 00:17:37,765
How good is that steak?
336
00:17:37,848 --> 00:17:38,724
- Really good.
337
00:17:38,807 --> 00:17:41,143
- Mm?
- Good.
338
00:17:41,226 --> 00:17:43,979
- Dealingwith so many losses--
339
00:17:44,062 --> 00:17:48,942
my mother passed away,
David Stern passed away,
340
00:17:49,026 --> 00:17:52,321
then, you know,
Kobe and Gianna.
341
00:17:52,404 --> 00:17:56,200
[sighs] You know, um...
342
00:17:56,283 --> 00:17:59,328
you-you lose a piece
of yourself
343
00:17:59,411 --> 00:18:04,041
that forever changes you
and how you look at things
344
00:18:04,124 --> 00:18:08,378
and the comfort that you findin the familiar
345
00:18:08,462 --> 00:18:11,256
and bringing people together.
346
00:18:11,340 --> 00:18:15,010
Coming together
in times of grief is
347
00:18:15,093 --> 00:18:18,096
what humanity is all about.
348
00:18:19,139 --> 00:18:20,182
- [indistinct] the whiskey?
- Yep.
349
00:18:20,265 --> 00:18:21,517
Look at him, dog. Yeah.
350
00:18:21,600 --> 00:18:22,851
- Yeah.
351
00:18:22,935 --> 00:18:26,688
- Calling you medium rare.
- [chuckles]
352
00:18:26,772 --> 00:18:29,149
Well done.
[chuckles]
353
00:18:30,609 --> 00:18:33,821
[soft music]
354
00:18:33,904 --> 00:18:36,782
♪ ♪
355
00:18:36,865 --> 00:18:38,075
- Whoa.
356
00:18:40,786 --> 00:18:41,745
- Ooh.
- All right.
357
00:18:41,829 --> 00:18:43,956
You got that, Brendan.
358
00:18:44,039 --> 00:18:46,458
- Oh, you catch it?
- On the catch, you got 'em.
359
00:18:46,542 --> 00:18:47,793
- Good catch.
360
00:18:47,876 --> 00:18:49,378
You're frozen
on the outside corner.
361
00:18:49,461 --> 00:18:52,548
- I'm sorry [murmurs].
- Aw. Love you.
362
00:18:52,631 --> 00:18:53,757
- I love you too.
363
00:18:53,841 --> 00:18:55,425
- [indistinct]
364
00:18:56,969 --> 00:19:01,056
[emotional music]
365
00:19:01,139 --> 00:19:04,518
- The year that I lost my dad,
strangely,
366
00:19:04,601 --> 00:19:07,855
while it was probably the most
painful year of my life,
367
00:19:07,938 --> 00:19:10,148
it was also the year
that I grew the most
368
00:19:10,232 --> 00:19:11,650
in my life.
369
00:19:11,733 --> 00:19:13,694
And it gave mealmost the strength
370
00:19:13,777 --> 00:19:16,947
to have this internal fireinside me
371
00:19:17,030 --> 00:19:20,075
where I felt a sense ofresponsibility and conviction
372
00:19:20,158 --> 00:19:23,495
to live up to the expectations
of our loved ones.
373
00:19:25,998 --> 00:19:27,583
- I promised my dad
when he died
374
00:19:27,666 --> 00:19:30,085
that I'd make him proud of me,
because his vision--
375
00:19:30,168 --> 00:19:33,755
in his life he didn't haveenough time to manifest it.
376
00:19:35,632 --> 00:19:39,052
And so I'm-I'm completing
that cycle for him, right?
377
00:19:39,136 --> 00:19:40,929
He would be proud
of this moment.
378
00:19:41,013 --> 00:19:44,099
- [grunting]
379
00:19:46,852 --> 00:19:48,312
- They want you to carry on.
380
00:19:48,395 --> 00:19:52,941
They want you to-to be
your best.
381
00:19:53,025 --> 00:19:54,276
- Show him your will.
382
00:19:54,359 --> 00:19:55,527
Show him your will.
- I got it.
383
00:19:55,611 --> 00:19:57,029
- You hear me?
- I got it.
384
00:19:57,112 --> 00:19:59,197
[chuckles]
385
00:19:59,281 --> 00:20:01,366
I love this shit, man.
386
00:20:01,450 --> 00:20:03,493
This is what I do.
[grunts]
387
00:20:03,577 --> 00:20:05,579
- Let's go, let's go.
388
00:20:06,622 --> 00:20:13,712
♪ ♪
389
00:20:19,718 --> 00:20:22,846
[indistinct chatter]
390
00:20:24,556 --> 00:20:26,058
- And action.
391
00:20:26,141 --> 00:20:30,520
- The last scene we shot,when Mel is watching Stu
392
00:20:30,604 --> 00:20:33,231
wheel up to the care centerand disappear in there--
393
00:20:33,315 --> 00:20:36,234
so it's the last momentbetween those two characters--
394
00:20:36,318 --> 00:20:38,111
um, gosh, I got really--
395
00:20:38,195 --> 00:20:41,323
I got--I got teary-eyed
watching that.
396
00:20:44,576 --> 00:20:50,749
There was something so...
so beautiful and understated
397
00:20:50,832 --> 00:20:53,126
about the exchangeand the moment.
398
00:20:56,463 --> 00:20:57,422
- Cut.
399
00:20:57,506 --> 00:20:58,590
- That's cut.
400
00:20:58,674 --> 00:21:00,425
- And that is a picture wrap,
401
00:21:00,509 --> 00:21:02,177
and "Father Stu" is done.
402
00:21:02,260 --> 00:21:04,972
[applause]
403
00:21:05,055 --> 00:21:06,765
- Whoo-hoo.
404
00:21:12,562 --> 00:21:15,857
- It's the end of, uh...the end of the run,
405
00:21:15,941 --> 00:21:18,235
and I was kind of emotional.
406
00:21:18,318 --> 00:21:20,529
- I've made 50 some odd movies,
407
00:21:20,612 --> 00:21:23,740
and I've never seen
as many people care
408
00:21:23,824 --> 00:21:25,701
and involved and working
for the same cause.
409
00:21:25,784 --> 00:21:28,370
And, uh, you know, this movie
is certainly special to me.
410
00:21:28,453 --> 00:21:29,621
And it's all about love.
411
00:21:29,705 --> 00:21:31,123
I really appreciate
everybody's work.
412
00:21:31,206 --> 00:21:32,958
I felt that
from every single person here.
413
00:21:33,041 --> 00:21:34,334
I really appreciate
all you guys.
414
00:21:34,418 --> 00:21:36,545
Thank you. God bless you.
415
00:21:36,628 --> 00:21:39,047
I bless you all.
[applause]
416
00:21:39,131 --> 00:21:43,218
Stu's journey and finally
finding his purpose,
417
00:21:43,301 --> 00:21:46,680
and then how well he handledwith grace and dignity
418
00:21:46,763 --> 00:21:49,266
all that he facedand all the adversity--
419
00:21:49,349 --> 00:21:51,977
it kind of helps put things
in perspective,
420
00:21:52,060 --> 00:21:53,979
that's for sure.
421
00:21:54,062 --> 00:21:57,649
[indistinct chatter]
- Why can't we use the bus?
422
00:21:58,984 --> 00:22:05,991
♪ ♪
423
00:22:06,742 --> 00:22:08,785
- If we don't capitalizeon it now,
424
00:22:08,869 --> 00:22:10,078
we're gonna miss out
on opportunities.
425
00:22:10,162 --> 00:22:11,705
Momentum is everything.
426
00:22:11,788 --> 00:22:13,415
Lot of moving parts, too,
by the way.
427
00:22:13,498 --> 00:22:15,208
But, you know,
let's get it going.
428
00:22:15,292 --> 00:22:21,089
♪ ♪
429
00:22:21,173 --> 00:22:22,632
I still got the same attitude.
430
00:22:22,716 --> 00:22:25,677
I'm more hungry now
than I've ever been.
431
00:22:25,761 --> 00:22:32,851
♪ ♪
432
00:22:35,270 --> 00:22:36,980
[chuckling]
433
00:22:42,861 --> 00:22:46,615
- They have you scheduled,
like, every waking minute.
434
00:22:46,698 --> 00:22:48,575
- Yeah.
- He's gonna be just nonstop.
435
00:22:48,658 --> 00:22:50,035
- No, no, no. Well, listen,
we've been doing it
436
00:22:50,118 --> 00:22:51,536
every city
that we've gone to.
437
00:22:51,620 --> 00:22:53,497
- Well, I just don't want
my people to kill you.
438
00:22:53,580 --> 00:22:54,831
- No, no, no.
- 'Cause they--
439
00:22:54,915 --> 00:22:56,166
- It's just part
of what we're doing.
440
00:22:56,249 --> 00:22:57,250
- It's the whole chain.
- Yeah.
441
00:22:57,334 --> 00:22:59,419
- Um...wow.
- Great.
442
00:23:01,838 --> 00:23:03,965
- I haven't been
in a restaurant
443
00:23:04,049 --> 00:23:06,218
since my mom passed.
444
00:23:07,344 --> 00:23:08,303
- Wow.
445
00:23:08,386 --> 00:23:15,477
♪ ♪
446
00:23:22,109 --> 00:23:24,986
- Mama, I love you.
We miss you.
447
00:23:25,070 --> 00:23:26,863
[kisses]
Muah.
448
00:23:29,491 --> 00:23:36,331
♪ ♪
449
00:23:36,414 --> 00:23:38,083
Yeah.
450
00:23:45,590 --> 00:23:47,050
I know.
451
00:23:48,885 --> 00:23:51,847
She's certainly the reason
why all this happened.
452
00:23:51,930 --> 00:23:53,140
All the good in our lives is
453
00:23:53,223 --> 00:23:56,935
from all the hard work
that she put in.
454
00:23:58,186 --> 00:24:01,398
Yeah. Yeah. Ma.
455
00:24:08,446 --> 00:24:10,198
All right. How are you, sir?
Good to see you, brother.
456
00:24:10,282 --> 00:24:11,700
Appreciate your hard work.
457
00:24:11,783 --> 00:24:13,034
- What's up, buddy?
- Hi.
458
00:24:13,118 --> 00:24:14,369
- How are you?
- Good, how are you?
459
00:24:14,452 --> 00:24:15,871
Nice to see you.
- Nice to see you.
460
00:24:15,954 --> 00:24:17,372
- So we're gonna go
to the Grimes store
461
00:24:17,455 --> 00:24:19,374
in front
of the Wahlburgers kiosk.
462
00:24:19,457 --> 00:24:21,376
There's a prompter,
so it should go real quick.
463
00:24:21,459 --> 00:24:22,711
- And I'm at Wahlburgers,
464
00:24:22,794 --> 00:24:24,254
and I'm looking
at these sliders.
465
00:24:24,337 --> 00:24:27,591
And this burger...
and oh, my gosh,
466
00:24:27,674 --> 00:24:29,217
can you say hi?
- Hey.
467
00:24:29,301 --> 00:24:30,927
- Who is your favorite
Optimus Prime or Bumblebee?
468
00:24:31,011 --> 00:24:33,638
- Bumblebee.
- I know them both very well.
469
00:24:33,722 --> 00:24:35,223
Thank you guys.
- Thank you so much.
470
00:24:35,307 --> 00:24:36,683
- I appreciate it.
It's a pleasure.
471
00:24:36,766 --> 00:24:39,352
- All right. Everybody smiling?
472
00:24:39,436 --> 00:24:42,480
[heavy, emotional chords]
473
00:24:42,564 --> 00:24:47,986
♪ ♪
474
00:24:54,659 --> 00:24:57,704
[stirring music]
475
00:24:57,787 --> 00:25:04,836
♪ ♪
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