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These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:01,650 --> 00:00:08,650 Sync by www.DocumentaryMania.com Simply the best Documentaries 2 00:00:35,230 --> 00:00:38,180 Being a dad is one of the great privileges of my life. 3 00:00:41,070 --> 00:00:45,120 Give my son a BB gun, and that's just about all the emotional support he needs. 4 00:00:45,570 --> 00:00:52,690 My daughter, on the other hand, I've heard people say that there are no differences between male and female. 5 00:00:53,490 --> 00:00:55,330 Those people are idiots. 6 00:00:56,250 --> 00:00:57,218 I'm a husband. 7 00:00:57,314 --> 00:00:58,762 I'm a father of four. 8 00:00:58,956 --> 00:01:00,406 I host a talk show. 9 00:01:00,528 --> 00:01:03,130 I give speeches, I write books. 10 00:01:03,810 --> 00:01:05,580 I like to make sense of things. 11 00:01:06,450 --> 00:01:09,394 But making sense of females is a whole other matter. 12 00:01:09,552 --> 00:01:12,684 Even astrophysicist Stephen Hawking, who could come up with 13 00:01:12,708 --> 00:01:15,840 a theory on black holes, was completely dumbfounded by women. 14 00:01:16,230 --> 00:01:19,394 Women, they are a complete mystery. 15 00:01:19,562 --> 00:01:23,203 And now our culture is telling us that the differences between girls and boys 16 00:01:23,227 --> 00:01:26,820 don't matter, that if you identify as something, then you are that thing. 17 00:01:27,750 --> 00:01:31,594 How do we help our kids make sense of this when they're bombarded with 18 00:01:31,618 --> 00:01:36,300 conflicting messages about gender and identity? Forget trying to figure out women. 19 00:01:36,870 --> 00:01:42,396 The real question is, what is a woman? As you grow, your 20 00:01:42,420 --> 00:01:47,946 body changes from that of a young girl to that of a woman. 21 00:01:48,138 --> 00:01:51,052 Soon Molly will be a young woman having dates, 22 00:01:51,076 --> 00:01:53,990 going to dances, and lovely romantic dresses. 23 00:01:54,610 --> 00:01:56,668 The boy's shoulders are broad and his body 24 00:01:56,692 --> 00:01:59,154 muscular, while the girl's body is more curved. 25 00:01:59,202 --> 00:02:02,010 I'd like to know more about different kinds of hormones. 26 00:02:02,130 --> 00:02:04,930 The presence of these hormones in the blood brings 27 00:02:04,954 --> 00:02:08,270 about many changes in the bodies of both boys and girls. 28 00:02:11,690 --> 00:02:14,960 Being a woman is one of the things I like best about myself. 29 00:02:15,530 --> 00:02:17,180 I think you'll like it, too. 30 00:02:32,790 --> 00:02:34,800 I like to come out here to think. 31 00:02:36,570 --> 00:02:41,820 Nature seems to always tell the truth, even when we don't want to hear it. 32 00:02:44,770 --> 00:02:49,923 Truth is, I'm not very good at fishing, but what is 33 00:02:49,947 --> 00:02:55,100 truth? Is there a truth? 34 00:02:55,124 --> 00:03:00,328 Is this what progress looks like? Can my boys really become girls? Do I have four 35 00:03:00,352 --> 00:03:05,455 daughters? Do I now have to pay for four weddings? 36 00:03:05,479 --> 00:03:10,356 Is there a son trapped in my daughter's body? If 37 00:03:10,380 --> 00:03:15,258 so, how do I get them out? Are any of my kids who 38 00:03:15,282 --> 00:03:20,412 they claim to be? Who are these people? Who am I? 39 00:03:20,436 --> 00:03:25,566 I better see a therapist in the state of Tennessee. 40 00:03:25,578 --> 00:03:27,846 I'm a licensed marital and family therapist, which 41 00:03:27,870 --> 00:03:29,998 basically means I've been trained up to think 42 00:03:30,022 --> 00:03:32,054 about, like, systems, family systems, how we 43 00:03:32,078 --> 00:03:34,442 were raised up, how that shapes who we are today. 44 00:03:34,576 --> 00:03:36,711 So on your website, if you'll bear with me 45 00:03:36,735 --> 00:03:39,342 quoting you say I use a combination of approaches 46 00:03:39,366 --> 00:03:43,974 in my therapeutic work, including anti oppression, feminist, and narrative frameworks. 47 00:03:44,022 --> 00:03:46,190 I rely deeply on systems theory and understanding 48 00:03:46,214 --> 00:03:48,654 that individuals are products of and in dialogue with 49 00:03:48,678 --> 00:03:50,867 our surroundings, including our families, broader 50 00:03:50,891 --> 00:03:53,310 culture, workplaces, nature, and political climates. 51 00:03:53,490 --> 00:03:56,980 What does that mean? Yeah. 52 00:03:57,550 --> 00:04:01,158 So thinking about the modalities that I use, I'm 53 00:04:01,182 --> 00:04:04,790 definitely informed by feminist family therapy. 54 00:04:05,110 --> 00:04:10,184 And the idea is that we've lived in gendered worlds where there are certain imperatives 55 00:04:10,208 --> 00:04:15,282 that are placed on us about who we are and what we do based on how we've been gendered. 56 00:04:15,366 --> 00:04:18,048 From the minute I was assigned female, I was told, okay, 57 00:04:18,072 --> 00:04:20,754 these are the kind of clothing that you're going to wear. 58 00:04:20,802 --> 00:04:24,930 These are the type of play that you're going to engage in as a child, 59 00:04:24,954 --> 00:04:29,082 the path that maybe your life will take because of social expectations. 60 00:04:29,226 --> 00:04:35,486 What do you mean by assigned female? Who assigns female? Yeah. 61 00:04:35,548 --> 00:04:38,871 So most times people, when they're born, they're 62 00:04:38,895 --> 00:04:41,934 assigned to gender by the doctor doctors. 63 00:04:41,982 --> 00:04:42,580 Yeah. 64 00:04:43,330 --> 00:04:50,210 What are they based that assignment on? So basically it's based on genitalia. 65 00:04:51,070 --> 00:04:56,500 So people are looking at genitalia and deciding, okay, this is a girl or a boy. 66 00:04:57,190 --> 00:05:01,914 And we know now that sex and gender are so much more than just this binary. 67 00:05:02,022 --> 00:05:05,210 Some women have penises, right? Some men have vaginas. 68 00:05:06,250 --> 00:05:08,500 That's not how gender work. 69 00:05:09,010 --> 00:05:12,278 How do we know that that's not true? Where did we 70 00:05:12,302 --> 00:05:15,570 learn that? Yeah, well, I learned that from hearing 71 00:05:15,594 --> 00:05:18,822 from transgender people who said, like, oh, I'm a 72 00:05:18,846 --> 00:05:22,614 trans woman, and just because I happen to have a penis. 73 00:05:22,662 --> 00:05:22,838 Right. 74 00:05:22,864 --> 00:05:26,805 That doesn't mean that this is like who I am as 75 00:05:26,829 --> 00:05:30,770 a person or that genitalia doesn't equal gender. 76 00:05:31,510 --> 00:05:34,190 Who they are, their gender, their gender expression. 77 00:05:35,770 --> 00:05:36,170 Yeah. 78 00:05:36,220 --> 00:05:39,640 Trans woman is a woman with the fluidity of these things. 79 00:05:39,970 --> 00:05:44,690 How do I know if I'm a woman? That's a great question. 80 00:05:44,860 --> 00:05:46,362 I like scented candles. 81 00:05:46,506 --> 00:05:48,040 I've watched Sex in the City. 82 00:05:50,990 --> 00:05:54,460 So how do I know? Yeah, Matt, that question right 83 00:05:54,484 --> 00:05:57,882 there, that question is when it's asked with a 84 00:05:57,906 --> 00:06:01,340 lot of curiosity, that's the beginning of a lot 85 00:06:01,364 --> 00:06:04,798 of people's gender identity development journeys. 86 00:06:04,954 --> 00:06:09,885 If my mom who gave birth to me is a woman and my wife 87 00:06:09,909 --> 00:06:14,840 is a woman, so I haven't asked her, maybe I should. 88 00:06:16,430 --> 00:06:22,842 But if they're all women and also the boy who sits down with you and says, 89 00:06:22,866 --> 00:06:29,278 I think I'm a girl actually is one, then what is a woman? Great question. 90 00:06:29,364 --> 00:06:32,640 I'm not a woman, so I can't really answer that. 91 00:06:37,870 --> 00:06:40,550 I thought therapy would make me less confused. 92 00:06:54,170 --> 00:06:57,094 we're talking about gender in society. 93 00:06:57,262 --> 00:06:59,070 Let me start with a real basic question. 94 00:07:08,310 --> 00:07:11,530 I don't want to assume, but you guys are all women. 95 00:07:11,640 --> 00:07:12,300 Yeah. 96 00:07:12,690 --> 00:07:18,046 How would you define it? Like in the simplest terms, that is hard. 97 00:07:18,168 --> 00:07:18,526 Yeah. 98 00:07:18,588 --> 00:07:20,126 It is a stumper. 99 00:07:20,258 --> 00:07:23,612 A woman is someone that likes to be pretty and 100 00:07:23,636 --> 00:07:26,990 think of themselves as a delicate creature. 101 00:07:27,110 --> 00:07:28,510 I'm pretty indelicate. 102 00:07:29,250 --> 00:07:30,418 I could be a woman, too. 103 00:07:30,504 --> 00:07:31,318 Yes, you could. 104 00:07:31,404 --> 00:07:36,866 Defining womanhood is just a product of someone who identifies as a woman. 105 00:07:36,938 --> 00:07:41,642 Yeah, but I'm saying, what do they identify as they identify as a woman. 106 00:07:41,666 --> 00:07:48,240 But what is that as they do now? It's a simple question. 107 00:08:06,770 --> 00:08:11,900 for all of human existence, women were understood to be a certain thing. 108 00:08:14,850 --> 00:08:19,200 So what changed? No one can seem to answer the question now. 109 00:08:20,070 --> 00:08:22,210 Over 2000 surgeries and counting, Dr. 110 00:08:22,260 --> 00:08:25,510 Marcy Bowers is the nation's preeminent sex change surgeon. 111 00:08:36,190 --> 00:08:36,662 talking to. 112 00:08:36,676 --> 00:08:39,326 Marcy Bowers, first of all, thanks for talking to us. 113 00:08:39,448 --> 00:08:40,122 My pleasure. 114 00:08:40,206 --> 00:08:42,978 So you're a world renowned gynecologist and surgeon. 115 00:08:43,074 --> 00:08:44,750 You're also a transgender woman. 116 00:08:45,190 --> 00:08:49,010 Can you tell me a little bit about that? I identify as a woman. 117 00:08:49,810 --> 00:08:52,670 But you're a woman, right? I'm a woman. 118 00:08:53,230 --> 00:08:55,660 That's my life day to day. 119 00:08:55,990 --> 00:08:57,820 But I have a transgender history. 120 00:08:58,630 --> 00:09:02,274 So one thing on your website, it says gender affirm Gav. 121 00:09:02,382 --> 00:09:04,790 Gender affirming vaginal plasty. 122 00:09:05,290 --> 00:09:12,778 What is that exactly? Vaginaplasty is the creation of a female vagina. 123 00:09:12,874 --> 00:09:13,762 And Balva. 124 00:09:13,846 --> 00:09:18,735 We're altering the physical characteristics of the individual 125 00:09:18,759 --> 00:09:23,158 to fit better with a gender identity that is female. 126 00:09:23,314 --> 00:09:25,642 This is all constructed from the penis. 127 00:09:25,786 --> 00:09:26,886 Yes, that's right. 128 00:09:27,008 --> 00:09:31,717 The surgeries are quite refined in the sense that they really not only do they 129 00:09:31,741 --> 00:09:36,450 look like female anatomy, but they also function that way for the most part. 130 00:09:36,500 --> 00:09:39,094 I mean, certainly it's a bit of a Faustian bargain. 131 00:09:39,202 --> 00:09:40,206 It's not perfect. 132 00:09:40,328 --> 00:09:45,138 Does anyone ever regret their surgeries? We know they do. 133 00:09:45,164 --> 00:09:47,347 But how often do people regret their surgeries? 134 00:09:47,371 --> 00:09:49,506 Well, actually, we don't know that they do. 135 00:09:49,568 --> 00:09:54,255 There are legitimate detransitioners, and there are people who 136 00:09:54,279 --> 00:09:58,966 truly feel that in their journey they may have made a mistake. 137 00:09:59,158 --> 00:10:04,198 Now, fortunately, this is a really uncommon phenomenon. 138 00:10:04,294 --> 00:10:08,142 I don't know if you've ever heard of people in the trans abled community. 139 00:10:08,276 --> 00:10:11,710 These are people who are physically able bodied but 140 00:10:11,734 --> 00:10:15,582 feel like they should be disabled or identify as such. 141 00:10:15,716 --> 00:10:19,700 For example, a man who has two arms but feels like you should have one. 142 00:10:20,030 --> 00:10:24,190 If a man in this kind of marginalized community went to 143 00:10:24,214 --> 00:10:28,373 the doctor and said, I want to have my arm cut off, do 144 00:10:28,397 --> 00:10:32,551 you think that doesn't have anything to do with gender 145 00:10:32,575 --> 00:10:37,200 identity? Someone's self identity? That's someone who has. 146 00:10:39,390 --> 00:10:44,198 And I'll accept it as a mental diagnosis, a psychiatric condition. 147 00:10:44,294 --> 00:10:49,140 I don't even pretend to know what abdomen affiliate is all about, but somehow it's 148 00:10:49,164 --> 00:10:54,430 the idea that you're fascinated or charmed by having a limb or part of a limb missing. 149 00:10:55,110 --> 00:11:02,050 Okay, I would say that's, pardon my non medical language, Kooky. 150 00:11:02,910 --> 00:11:04,080 You don't see any. 151 00:11:04,530 --> 00:11:07,920 Do you think this is totally irrelevant? Yes. 152 00:11:08,610 --> 00:11:13,746 So the biggest broadest question is, what is a woman? A 153 00:11:13,770 --> 00:11:19,478 woman is a combination of your physical attributes and then 154 00:11:19,502 --> 00:11:24,924 what you're showing to the world and the gender clues that 155 00:11:24,948 --> 00:11:30,370 you give, and hopefully those match your gender identity. 156 00:11:30,690 --> 00:11:37,260 The critics on the other side of this issue, there aren't many. 157 00:11:37,710 --> 00:11:38,746 But go ahead. 158 00:11:38,868 --> 00:11:42,430 There aren't many who would disagree with what you're saying 159 00:11:42,454 --> 00:11:46,440 about, well, the dinosaurs of the world are certainly out there. 160 00:11:54,010 --> 00:11:57,482 How long have you been running the shop here? 25 years. 161 00:11:57,616 --> 00:11:58,166 Wow. 162 00:11:58,288 --> 00:12:02,020 Now you had an incident here a little while ago that went really viral online. 163 00:12:02,350 --> 00:12:04,190 Lots of reaction in the public. 164 00:12:04,300 --> 00:12:07,800 Aberdeen Councilwoman ties confronted owner Don 165 00:12:07,824 --> 00:12:11,858 Sucker about a sign he posted in his store one day. 166 00:12:11,884 --> 00:12:15,177 I just put the sign up over here and he came around 167 00:12:15,201 --> 00:12:18,494 the corner and I thought, okay, I recognize him. 168 00:12:18,532 --> 00:12:20,630 I said, oh, I recognize you. 169 00:12:20,680 --> 00:12:22,410 You're our new city Councilman. 170 00:12:22,530 --> 00:12:25,566 He says, no, I'm your new city Council woman. 171 00:12:25,698 --> 00:12:28,430 So it was kind of on from there. 172 00:12:28,540 --> 00:12:30,590 You know what? It's bullshit. 173 00:12:31,390 --> 00:12:32,946 Your spouting is bullshit. 174 00:12:33,018 --> 00:12:33,902 No, it's not. 175 00:12:34,036 --> 00:12:34,946 Women are women. 176 00:12:35,008 --> 00:12:37,206 Sir, that sign is bullshit. 177 00:12:37,278 --> 00:12:39,400 I've been doing this 25 years. 178 00:12:39,790 --> 00:12:42,110 I've never had a problem with anybody. 179 00:12:42,220 --> 00:12:44,618 Whether they're gay, trans, sex, anything. 180 00:12:44,764 --> 00:12:49,138 Now you're saying, Councilman he, this individual is saying, 181 00:12:49,162 --> 00:12:53,238 I'm a woman, right? And you said, you're not a woman. 182 00:12:53,394 --> 00:13:01,460 How do you know that person is not a woman? How do I know? Well, common sense. 183 00:13:04,970 --> 00:13:09,930 Doesn't the science say that if someone identifies as 184 00:13:09,954 --> 00:13:14,914 a woman, then they are? No, that's completely bogus. 185 00:13:15,082 --> 00:13:20,960 I don't care if you think you're a sheep dog and you come into my store. 186 00:13:21,290 --> 00:13:22,494 It don't matter to me. 187 00:13:22,532 --> 00:13:25,978 Just don't come in and try to shove that shit down my throat. 188 00:13:26,074 --> 00:13:27,414 If it makes someone feel better. 189 00:13:27,512 --> 00:13:30,394 What about their feelings? I don't give a shit about their feelings. 190 00:13:30,442 --> 00:13:31,218 I'm old. 191 00:13:31,364 --> 00:13:38,823 What about a Star Wars universe charge our banks pansexual? Do you think 192 00:13:38,847 --> 00:13:46,306 transgender? Why would I even care if it's his truth? Well, it ain't true. 193 00:13:46,428 --> 00:13:47,354 You're not a scientist. 194 00:13:47,402 --> 00:13:48,610 You're not a gender studies major. 195 00:13:48,660 --> 00:13:50,014 Or are you? No. 196 00:13:50,112 --> 00:13:50,554 Okay. 197 00:13:50,652 --> 00:13:55,630 How do you know that you're a man? How do I know that? I guess because I got a Dick. 198 00:13:57,970 --> 00:14:00,280 Well, I guess Don isn't overthinking it. 199 00:14:00,790 --> 00:14:06,230 He admits he's not a gender studies major or at the very least, a doctor. 200 00:14:07,150 --> 00:14:08,920 Maybe I should go talk to one. 201 00:14:20,430 --> 00:14:26,114 My name is Michelle 14, and I have a medical degree from University of Connecticut. 202 00:14:26,162 --> 00:14:29,174 Residency, University of Utah Pediatrics. 203 00:14:29,282 --> 00:14:33,142 And I've worked for a number of different plant Parenthoods for 20 years. 204 00:14:33,276 --> 00:14:37,993 I do advanced contraception and abortion, as well as gender hormones and sort 205 00:14:38,017 --> 00:14:42,734 of looking at the whole sort of schema of gender, sex and reproductive justice. 206 00:14:42,782 --> 00:14:44,074 So you've done a lot of work in this field. 207 00:14:44,112 --> 00:14:46,260 Could you just start by telling us? Sure. 208 00:14:46,770 --> 00:14:51,608 At what age can a child first begin to transition into another 209 00:14:51,632 --> 00:14:56,470 gender or identify themselves as a gender different from how 210 00:14:56,494 --> 00:15:01,090 they were born? Yeah, well, there's research and data that 211 00:15:01,114 --> 00:15:06,194 show that babies and infants understand differences in gender. 212 00:15:06,362 --> 00:15:10,920 Some children figure out their gender really early. 213 00:15:11,250 --> 00:15:13,877 And the reason why we say, oh, that's interesting 214 00:15:13,901 --> 00:15:16,144 or important is because they're figuring 215 00:15:16,168 --> 00:15:18,603 out their gender identity is not necessarily 216 00:15:18,627 --> 00:15:21,062 congruent with their sexist signed at birth. 217 00:15:21,206 --> 00:15:25,042 When the doctor sees the penis and says, this is a 218 00:15:25,066 --> 00:15:29,530 male as a sex of male, that's an arbitrary distinction. 219 00:15:29,910 --> 00:15:35,151 Telling that family based on that little penis that your child is 220 00:15:35,175 --> 00:15:41,400 absolutely 100% male identified, no matter what else occurs in their life. 221 00:15:41,910 --> 00:15:43,246 That's not correct. 222 00:15:43,428 --> 00:15:47,851 So what is gender affirmation care you're a big proponent of if we walk 223 00:15:47,875 --> 00:15:52,298 through a child is sitting down with you is questioning their gender. 224 00:15:52,394 --> 00:15:55,625 What's the gender affirmation process? Affirmation 225 00:15:55,649 --> 00:15:58,616 means that as a pediatrician, as someone who 226 00:15:58,640 --> 00:16:01,739 says my job is to provide the best medical care 227 00:16:01,763 --> 00:16:04,862 for you is I need to listen really carefully. 228 00:16:05,006 --> 00:16:07,414 And how I put it in words for kids so that 229 00:16:07,438 --> 00:16:10,200 they can understand it is tell me your story. 230 00:16:10,650 --> 00:16:13,888 Where have you been in terms of your gender and 231 00:16:13,912 --> 00:16:17,150 your gender identity? Where are you right now? 232 00:16:17,174 --> 00:16:20,233 And more excitingly, where would you like to 233 00:16:20,257 --> 00:16:23,673 be in the future? Have you ever met a four year 234 00:16:23,697 --> 00:16:26,935 old who believes in Santa Claus? This is someone 235 00:16:26,959 --> 00:16:30,197 who believes that fat man is traveling through 236 00:16:30,221 --> 00:16:33,600 the sky and a flying reindeer at lightning speed, 237 00:16:33,624 --> 00:16:36,720 coming down his chimney with presence? Yes. 238 00:16:37,050 --> 00:16:40,250 Would you say that this is someone who maybe has a tenuous grasp on 239 00:16:40,274 --> 00:16:43,766 reality? They have an appropriate four year old handle on the reality. 240 00:16:43,838 --> 00:16:45,358 That's very real for them. 241 00:16:45,444 --> 00:16:46,166 Agreed. 242 00:16:46,298 --> 00:16:47,818 But Santa Claus is real for them. 243 00:16:47,844 --> 00:16:49,630 But Santa Claus is not actually real. 244 00:16:49,680 --> 00:16:53,170 Yeah, but Santa Claus does deliver their Christmas presents. 245 00:16:53,490 --> 00:16:57,420 Yeah, but he's not real, though, to that child they are. 246 00:16:57,870 --> 00:17:02,878 When I see a child who believes in Santa Claus and then let's say this is a boy and he 247 00:17:02,902 --> 00:17:07,910 says, I'm a girl, this is someone who can't distinguish between fantasy and reality. 248 00:17:07,970 --> 00:17:14,263 So how could you take that as a reality? I would say that as a pediatrician and 249 00:17:14,287 --> 00:17:20,580 as a parent, I would say how wonderful my four year old in their imagination is. 250 00:17:26,650 --> 00:17:30,692 Aren't kids famous for their active imaginations? 251 00:17:30,716 --> 00:17:34,759 Should we really let our children define reality? 252 00:17:34,783 --> 00:17:38,189 If I said that I feel a certain way, then 253 00:17:38,213 --> 00:17:42,560 obviously you can't tell me I don't feel that way. 254 00:17:43,010 --> 00:17:46,740 But just because I feel that way, does that mean 255 00:17:46,764 --> 00:17:50,494 that it's true? Truly, like none of my business. 256 00:17:50,652 --> 00:17:53,438 So we all have our own identity realities. 257 00:17:53,534 --> 00:17:57,386 What if I said, I want you to say that it's true that I'm a woman. 258 00:17:57,578 --> 00:18:02,700 Would you say that? I would also say that if you want I honestly don't care. 259 00:18:03,150 --> 00:18:04,582 Whatever makes you happy. 260 00:18:04,716 --> 00:18:07,620 What's true to you can be false to me. 261 00:18:09,690 --> 00:18:13,534 What if I said that my truth is that you don't exist? Does that 262 00:18:13,558 --> 00:18:17,402 mean you no longer exist? I mean, if that's your true chair. 263 00:18:17,486 --> 00:18:18,350 I don't. 264 00:18:18,530 --> 00:18:20,040 Because it's so you do. 265 00:18:20,670 --> 00:18:22,800 I mean, if you're saying that I do that I do. 266 00:18:23,430 --> 00:18:25,318 Well, but even if I said that you don't, you still do. 267 00:18:25,344 --> 00:18:30,240 Because we're having this conversation, are we? I think so. 268 00:18:30,630 --> 00:18:31,860 That's what you think. 269 00:18:33,330 --> 00:18:37,030 Well, I should have known it would be hard to define reality in Hollywood. 270 00:18:37,650 --> 00:18:41,108 I should probably look to the place where truth 271 00:18:41,132 --> 00:18:44,590 is the foremost pursuit, the American University. 272 00:18:52,750 --> 00:18:57,171 What we do in gender studies is not just reduce gender to what 273 00:18:57,195 --> 00:19:02,634 psychologists might call individual differences, but rather thinking about 274 00:19:02,658 --> 00:19:07,332 gender, not women and man, but gender as a social form, something 275 00:19:07,356 --> 00:19:12,542 that kind of infuses itself into virtually all aspects of social life. 276 00:19:12,736 --> 00:19:13,658 Let's talk about that. 277 00:19:13,684 --> 00:19:14,260 Then. 278 00:19:15,610 --> 00:19:19,025 I guess we should start with we've got gender and sex, right? 279 00:19:19,049 --> 00:19:22,464 What's the difference between the two? Is there a difference? 280 00:19:22,488 --> 00:19:25,903 I saw that in your questions, and I thought, my goodness, this 281 00:19:25,927 --> 00:19:29,342 is what we spend an entire semester kind of thinking through. 282 00:19:29,416 --> 00:19:36,321 But what we tend to think about in the social Sciences today is that sex refers to 283 00:19:36,345 --> 00:19:43,250 a set of biological characteristics, and gender is a social constructor category. 284 00:19:43,690 --> 00:19:46,580 What I think is often misleading about that character, 285 00:19:46,604 --> 00:19:49,494 that it's allowed to be sort of messy and complicated. 286 00:19:49,602 --> 00:19:53,587 But in that framing, when you split them up into these wholly discrete constructs, 287 00:19:53,611 --> 00:19:57,498 study scholars and really more specifically, people who study gender and sex. 288 00:19:57,534 --> 00:19:59,560 We're not talking about sexuality right now. 289 00:20:00,010 --> 00:20:03,003 Academic universe that I travel in is that we see 290 00:20:03,027 --> 00:20:06,021 how deeply gendered ideas, cultural ideas about 291 00:20:06,045 --> 00:20:09,008 masculinity, feminine, maleness and femaleness, 292 00:20:09,032 --> 00:20:11,930 both in humans and in lots of other animals. 293 00:20:14,110 --> 00:20:16,300 So our gender and sex two different things. 294 00:20:16,810 --> 00:20:20,430 Well, I think that they both are and they aren't. 295 00:20:20,550 --> 00:20:23,614 I'm comfortable saying that gender and sex are two different 296 00:20:23,638 --> 00:20:26,702 constructs, but they're deeply intertwined with each other. 297 00:20:26,776 --> 00:20:30,182 We're talking about gender and sex, and there's a lot of controversies there. 298 00:20:30,256 --> 00:20:36,925 If we're talking about a trans woman has all of the male physical characteristics, 299 00:20:36,949 --> 00:20:43,041 so would that not be a male, then? Couldn't we plainly say this person is 300 00:20:43,065 --> 00:20:49,527 a male? Well, I guess it's like, why are you asking the question? I think I want 301 00:20:49,551 --> 00:20:55,850 to understand sort of why that's so important to sort of understand reality. 302 00:20:57,670 --> 00:21:00,830 Well, I mean, I think when someone tells you who they are, you should believe them. 303 00:21:00,880 --> 00:21:04,209 So if a person says that they're a woman or they're 304 00:21:04,233 --> 00:21:07,562 a man, then that's them telling you their gender is. 305 00:21:07,696 --> 00:21:13,361 I'm not so sure what social interactions would have to do with maleness 306 00:21:13,385 --> 00:21:18,726 or femaleness that we I'm not even talking about social context. 307 00:21:18,858 --> 00:21:21,590 I'm just trying to start by getting to the truth. 308 00:21:24,050 --> 00:21:24,378 Yeah. 309 00:21:24,404 --> 00:21:27,277 I mean, I'm really uncomfortable with that language 310 00:21:27,301 --> 00:21:30,174 of, like, getting to the truth again in social life. 311 00:21:30,272 --> 00:21:34,640 Why is that uncomfortable? Because it sounds actually deeply transphobic to me. 312 00:21:35,390 --> 00:21:38,610 And if you keep probing, we're going to stop the interview. 313 00:21:38,930 --> 00:21:41,755 If I probe about what the truth is, you keep invoking 314 00:21:41,779 --> 00:21:44,494 the word truth, which is condescending and rude. 315 00:21:44,602 --> 00:21:48,139 I'm saying to you, how is the word truth condescending and 316 00:21:48,163 --> 00:21:51,700 rude? Why don't you tell me what your truth is, and you're 317 00:21:51,724 --> 00:21:55,321 walking on 30 seconds more of the nights before I get up what 318 00:21:55,345 --> 00:21:58,822 my truth is? Well, I don't think I really have the truth. 319 00:21:58,846 --> 00:22:02,910 I think that there's just the truth, like the reality. 320 00:22:03,290 --> 00:22:07,400 And so we should begin by trying to figure out what the reality is. 321 00:22:09,230 --> 00:22:12,981 And why are you concerned when someone else tells you that 322 00:22:13,005 --> 00:22:17,085 they're a man, or even if they use the word male, why are you 323 00:22:17,109 --> 00:22:21,489 concerned with not believing them? Well, you keep bringing it back 324 00:22:21,513 --> 00:22:25,758 to how do you respond in a social situation? That's what I do. 325 00:22:25,784 --> 00:22:26,806 I'm a social scientist. 326 00:22:26,878 --> 00:22:27,318 Well, right. 327 00:22:27,344 --> 00:22:28,354 But we're in a University. 328 00:22:28,402 --> 00:22:31,614 This is a place of understanding truth, isn't it? Absolutely. 329 00:22:31,772 --> 00:22:33,166 We pursue truth. 330 00:22:33,238 --> 00:22:35,598 And I'm a social scientist, and that's what I did. 331 00:22:35,624 --> 00:22:37,342 You just say the truth is transphobic. 332 00:22:37,486 --> 00:22:42,810 That you would say if you're saying the truth is that I get to say you're not a man. 333 00:22:42,920 --> 00:22:44,014 Show me your genitalia. 334 00:22:44,062 --> 00:22:44,902 That's transphobic. 335 00:22:44,926 --> 00:22:46,414 No, I don't want to see if it's genitalia. 336 00:22:46,522 --> 00:22:51,334 I just mean someone can make a statement about themselves that could be untrue. 337 00:22:51,382 --> 00:22:56,083 Like, for example, if I were to say that I'm a 338 00:22:56,107 --> 00:23:00,808 black man, would you accept that, or would you 339 00:23:00,832 --> 00:23:05,533 be skeptical? Are you black? Are you African 340 00:23:05,557 --> 00:23:10,258 American? Are you biracial? I don't think so. 341 00:23:10,404 --> 00:23:11,410 Well, you don't look that. 342 00:23:11,460 --> 00:23:13,442 And I don't think that's a it doesn't sound 343 00:23:13,466 --> 00:23:15,780 like that's a genuine statement of who you are. 344 00:23:18,490 --> 00:23:18,818 Okay. 345 00:23:18,844 --> 00:23:19,706 So that's my point. 346 00:23:19,768 --> 00:23:21,614 I could make a statement about who I am. 347 00:23:21,712 --> 00:23:23,166 That's incorrect. 348 00:23:23,358 --> 00:23:23,870 Of course. 349 00:23:23,920 --> 00:23:25,974 I think it's well established that human beings can lie. 350 00:23:26,022 --> 00:23:26,620 Yes. 351 00:23:27,070 --> 00:23:27,846 Or not even lie. 352 00:23:27,858 --> 00:23:29,390 I mean, I could just be mistaken. 353 00:23:31,270 --> 00:23:32,020 Yeah. 354 00:23:34,910 --> 00:23:39,293 I guess this all comes back just all comes down to really 355 00:23:39,317 --> 00:23:44,250 one question, especially women, gender and sexuality studies. 356 00:23:53,830 --> 00:24:01,190 Why do you ask the question? I just really like to know, what do you think the answer 357 00:24:01,214 --> 00:24:08,310 to that question is? Well, I'm asking that's why I came to a College Professor. 358 00:24:10,650 --> 00:24:11,940 This is what you do. 359 00:24:20,050 --> 00:24:23,246 a lot of like this where you're not answering? I've gotten a lot of that. 360 00:24:23,368 --> 00:24:26,078 I think it's interesting that you say that some of the 361 00:24:26,102 --> 00:24:29,222 people you've interviewed have been reluctant to answer it. 362 00:24:29,236 --> 00:24:31,863 And I think that has a lot to do with the the way questions that 363 00:24:31,887 --> 00:24:34,974 preceded it and the way that you've conducted yourself in the interview. 364 00:24:35,082 --> 00:24:39,665 How have I conducted myself? How do you think you've conducted yourself? You 365 00:24:39,689 --> 00:24:44,211 just really don't want to answer the questions, do you? I came today very 366 00:24:44,235 --> 00:24:48,720 willing and enthusiastic about answering questions about women and gender 367 00:24:48,744 --> 00:24:53,854 sexuality studies, which is you wanted to answer questions about women's studies. 368 00:24:53,902 --> 00:24:56,389 And so the first answer you should be able to 369 00:24:56,413 --> 00:24:58,900 provide is what exactly is a woman? Well, for 370 00:24:58,924 --> 00:25:01,411 me, it's actually a really simple answer, and 371 00:25:01,435 --> 00:25:03,922 that's the person who identifies as a woman. 372 00:25:04,006 --> 00:25:09,411 But what are they identifying as a woman? What is that as 373 00:25:09,435 --> 00:25:14,840 a woman? Do you know what a circular definition is? I do. 374 00:25:16,730 --> 00:25:19,206 It's sort of like what you're doing right now. 375 00:25:19,268 --> 00:25:23,577 Where is a woman? Because you're seeking what we would call 376 00:25:23,601 --> 00:25:27,910 in my field of work, an essentialist definition of gender. 377 00:25:28,030 --> 00:25:32,462 I think it sounds like you would like me to give you a set of biological or 378 00:25:32,486 --> 00:25:36,918 cultural characteristics that are associated with one gender or the other. 379 00:25:37,004 --> 00:25:38,554 I'm not seeking any type of definition. 380 00:25:38,602 --> 00:25:40,342 I'm just seeking a definition. 381 00:25:40,426 --> 00:25:41,780 Yeah, I gave you one. 382 00:25:42,770 --> 00:25:44,900 Well, now I can say I've been to College. 383 00:25:45,590 --> 00:25:47,250 Glad I didn't pay for it. 384 00:25:47,420 --> 00:25:50,419 Is there anyone willing to give me a straight answer? 385 00:25:50,443 --> 00:25:54,080 Ideally somebody with a bunch of medical degrees on the wall. 386 00:25:54,590 --> 00:25:54,954 Dr. 387 00:25:54,992 --> 00:25:57,102 Grossman, thanks for talking to us. 388 00:25:57,176 --> 00:25:59,751 You're a psychiatrist and medical doctor and 389 00:25:59,775 --> 00:26:02,350 you've done a lot of work in child psychiatry. 390 00:26:02,530 --> 00:26:06,680 What is transgenderism? From a psychiatric 391 00:26:06,704 --> 00:26:12,274 standpoint? The best way to approach it is by speaking 392 00:26:12,298 --> 00:26:16,687 about gender dysphoria, which is an intense 393 00:26:16,711 --> 00:26:22,042 loathing and discomfort with one's biological sex. 394 00:26:22,186 --> 00:26:31,866 They exist anywhere between one in 30,000 people and one in 1100. 395 00:26:32,048 --> 00:26:36,372 It's important to distinguish those people from 396 00:26:36,396 --> 00:26:40,719 what's happening much more recently, which is 397 00:26:40,743 --> 00:26:45,067 kids that never had any discomfort or dysphoria, 398 00:26:45,091 --> 00:26:49,414 as it's now called, with their biological sex. 399 00:26:49,522 --> 00:26:56,062 And then quite suddenly, as preteens or as adolescents, they come out and 400 00:26:56,086 --> 00:27:03,262 they announce that they are gender fluid or they start to question their sex. 401 00:27:03,406 --> 00:27:07,270 So first, let's define the terms sex and gender. 402 00:27:07,330 --> 00:27:08,178 Yes, please. 403 00:27:08,324 --> 00:27:11,670 Sex is biology. 404 00:27:12,530 --> 00:27:15,046 Sex is unchanging. 405 00:27:15,178 --> 00:27:17,770 It's based on chromosomes. 406 00:27:17,950 --> 00:27:26,110 99 point 99% of the cells in the body are marked either male or female. 407 00:27:26,290 --> 00:27:29,250 Gender, on the other hand, is a perception. 408 00:27:29,570 --> 00:27:30,646 It's a feeling. 409 00:27:30,718 --> 00:27:33,980 It's a way of identifying it's an experience. 410 00:27:34,610 --> 00:27:37,486 Okay, that's subjective. 411 00:27:37,618 --> 00:27:43,202 It sounds like what you're saying is that if a man is male 412 00:27:43,226 --> 00:27:48,810 but thinks of himself as a woman, he's not actually a woman. 413 00:27:49,250 --> 00:27:50,300 That's correct. 414 00:27:51,890 --> 00:27:53,362 Male gametes. 415 00:27:53,446 --> 00:27:54,562 That's what makes me male. 416 00:27:54,646 --> 00:27:57,130 No, your sperm don't make you male. 417 00:27:57,250 --> 00:28:01,590 Then what does it's a constellation in reality. 418 00:28:01,970 --> 00:28:03,142 In truth. 419 00:28:03,286 --> 00:28:05,507 Okay, whose truth are we talking about? The same truth 420 00:28:05,531 --> 00:28:08,046 that says we're sitting in this room right now, you and I. 421 00:28:08,108 --> 00:28:10,138 No, you're not listening. 422 00:28:10,294 --> 00:28:14,125 If I see a chicken laying eggs and I say that's a female chicken laying 423 00:28:14,149 --> 00:28:17,870 eggs, did I assign female or am I just observing a physical reality 424 00:28:17,894 --> 00:28:21,724 that's happening in the world? Does a chicken have gender identity? Does 425 00:28:21,748 --> 00:28:25,470 a chicken cry? Does a chicken commit suicide because you're talking. 426 00:28:25,580 --> 00:28:26,274 You're trying. 427 00:28:26,372 --> 00:28:27,118 Chicken has sex. 428 00:28:27,154 --> 00:28:30,390 Like any biological organism, an assigned gender. 429 00:28:31,010 --> 00:28:32,938 But a chicken doesn't have a gender identity. 430 00:28:32,974 --> 00:28:35,278 So we assign female the chickens and they lay eggs. 431 00:28:35,374 --> 00:28:37,666 We assume they're female if they lay eggs. 432 00:28:37,798 --> 00:28:42,449 Now, I was told that really, everyone agrees with the current 433 00:28:42,473 --> 00:28:46,890 approach to gender and transitioning kids and all that. 434 00:28:46,940 --> 00:28:51,493 And if you don't agree that you are a dinosaur and a bigot, are 435 00:28:51,517 --> 00:28:56,070 you a bigoted dinosaur? I'm not bigoted and I am not a dinosaur. 436 00:28:56,690 --> 00:29:01,290 I am rooted in reality and in science. 437 00:29:01,790 --> 00:29:04,890 Who's reality? There's one reality. 438 00:29:08,250 --> 00:29:10,933 The first race that I competed against a 439 00:29:10,957 --> 00:29:14,400 transgender athlete was during my freshman year. 440 00:29:17,470 --> 00:29:20,966 And once the gun went off, the two transgender athletes 441 00:29:20,990 --> 00:29:24,486 took off flying and left all of us girls in the dust. 442 00:29:24,618 --> 00:29:26,373 Throughout all four years of high school, I 443 00:29:26,397 --> 00:29:28,446 was forced to compete against biological males. 444 00:29:28,518 --> 00:29:32,526 I only competed against them in the sprinting events, but I raced against these 445 00:29:32,550 --> 00:29:36,558 athletes over a dozen times throughout the years, and every single time I lost. 446 00:29:36,654 --> 00:29:41,364 Did they inch you out of metals that you would have won otherwise or trophies you 447 00:29:41,388 --> 00:29:46,098 would have won? They beat me out by 20 meters out of medals and qualifying spots. 448 00:29:46,134 --> 00:29:48,110 I missed out on qualifying for New England. 449 00:29:48,550 --> 00:29:52,602 I had to go in the long jump and the four X 200 meters relay. 450 00:29:52,626 --> 00:29:55,050 So I was forced on the sidelines in my own event, and if 451 00:29:55,074 --> 00:29:57,498 they were not there, I would have been able to qualify. 452 00:29:57,654 --> 00:30:00,642 So I missed out on so much throughout my high school career. 453 00:30:00,726 --> 00:30:03,772 Did they win all the events or almost all the events between 454 00:30:03,796 --> 00:30:07,154 the two of them? They want every single event they competed in. 455 00:30:07,312 --> 00:30:10,751 How does that feel? It is so frustrating and heartbreaking 456 00:30:10,775 --> 00:30:13,791 because we elite female athletes train so hard to 457 00:30:13,815 --> 00:30:17,072 shave distractions of a second off of our time and going 458 00:30:17,096 --> 00:30:20,294 into races knowing that we will never be able to win. 459 00:30:20,332 --> 00:30:22,850 It feels like all that work gone to waste. 460 00:30:38,810 --> 00:30:39,174 Case. 461 00:30:39,212 --> 00:30:44,898 In Connecticut, there were two male track runners, trainers, girls, right. 462 00:30:45,044 --> 00:30:48,238 Who decided that they were going to race against the girls. 463 00:30:48,334 --> 00:30:51,514 And you look at those individuals, you look at 464 00:30:51,538 --> 00:30:54,718 their times against the men, against the boys. 465 00:30:54,754 --> 00:30:57,642 So they were kind of middle of the pack, and then they're 466 00:30:57,666 --> 00:31:00,450 racing the girls and they're first and second place. 467 00:31:00,560 --> 00:31:05,742 Is that indicative of some kind of unfair advantage that those individuals 468 00:31:05,766 --> 00:31:11,374 might have against the girls? No, it's not indicative of an unfair advantage. 469 00:31:11,422 --> 00:31:15,900 And I think part of the proof of this is that more transgender girls are 470 00:31:15,924 --> 00:31:20,782 coming out in high school and still playing sports and they're not winning. 471 00:31:20,866 --> 00:31:23,158 The Connecticut case is the exception. 472 00:31:23,314 --> 00:31:28,206 It got a lot of attention because those two trans girls performed well. 473 00:31:28,328 --> 00:31:33,274 But there are many more trans girls competing in sports, and they don't excel. 474 00:31:33,442 --> 00:31:37,130 At the end of the day, whether or not you win a game is about how 475 00:31:37,154 --> 00:31:40,842 hard you work in your practice, and most of us aren't going to win. 476 00:31:40,916 --> 00:31:43,100 And that goes for transgender athletes, too. 477 00:31:44,330 --> 00:31:45,380 Let's go. 478 00:31:54,570 --> 00:31:59,486 The norm is that transgender youth don't win that much in sports games. 479 00:31:59,558 --> 00:32:03,142 Alana McLaughlin was very appreciative for Provost to take this by. 480 00:32:03,156 --> 00:32:06,370 I don't know how appreciative now, but she got a couple of punches in. 481 00:32:06,480 --> 00:32:11,486 It is very much the exception when a transgender young person does 482 00:32:11,510 --> 00:32:16,980 win, and it's because there's not really an advantage to being trans. 483 00:32:17,310 --> 00:32:20,220 Only a few people are going to lead the pack. 484 00:32:39,130 --> 00:32:43,217 if there was a big advantage to being transgender in sports, 485 00:32:43,241 --> 00:32:47,190 then we would see transgender women totally dominating. 486 00:32:47,250 --> 00:32:52,028 And over the last half of the pool, nobody will 487 00:32:52,052 --> 00:32:56,830 touch Leah Thomas and man a feel like a woman. 488 00:32:56,950 --> 00:33:00,634 Transgender swimmer Leah Thomas breaking barriers and records. 489 00:33:00,682 --> 00:33:03,398 But in a new article, Sports Illustrated calls the 490 00:33:03,422 --> 00:33:06,694 College senior the most controversial athlete in America. 491 00:33:06,862 --> 00:33:11,106 Leah obviously helps us do better, right? Swimming really fast. 492 00:33:11,228 --> 00:33:15,066 Leah's performance helps the University of Pennsylvania swim team. 493 00:33:15,128 --> 00:33:18,430 The feeling of winning doesn't feel as good anymore because it feels painted. 494 00:33:18,550 --> 00:33:21,386 There was a lot of things you couldn't talk about that 495 00:33:21,410 --> 00:33:24,246 were very concerning, like a locker room situation. 496 00:33:24,428 --> 00:33:28,090 If you even brought up concerns about it, you were transphobic. 497 00:33:28,150 --> 00:33:30,518 If you even bring up the fact that Leah swimming 498 00:33:30,542 --> 00:33:32,910 might not be fair, you were immediately shut down. 499 00:33:32,960 --> 00:33:36,094 This being called a hateful person or transphobic. 500 00:33:36,142 --> 00:33:38,446 But there's never any conversation. 501 00:33:38,518 --> 00:33:40,517 The coaches don't sit everyone down and 502 00:33:40,541 --> 00:33:43,122 acknowledge what everyone's really upset about. 503 00:33:43,196 --> 00:33:45,163 So kind of actually brought in people high 504 00:33:45,187 --> 00:33:47,154 up in the athletic Department to talk to us. 505 00:33:47,192 --> 00:33:49,566 They brought in someone from the LGBTQ center. 506 00:33:49,688 --> 00:33:52,398 They brought in someone from the psychological services. 507 00:33:52,544 --> 00:33:56,982 So you're upset about what's happening and so you need psychological help. 508 00:33:57,056 --> 00:33:57,366 Yeah. 509 00:33:57,428 --> 00:34:00,232 And they told us in this meeting, they said, look, we understand 510 00:34:00,256 --> 00:34:03,418 there's an array of emotions, but Leah, swimming is a non negotiable. 511 00:34:03,514 --> 00:34:06,366 However, we can help you make that okay. 512 00:34:06,488 --> 00:34:07,602 That's what we here for. 513 00:34:07,676 --> 00:34:09,922 So you're anonymous for this interview. 514 00:34:10,006 --> 00:34:15,280 Why did you decide that you can't have your face out there saying these things? They've made it pretty clear that 515 00:34:15,304 --> 00:34:17,929 if you speak up about it and you say anything negative 516 00:34:17,953 --> 00:34:20,578 that your life will be over in some way, you'll be lost. 517 00:34:20,614 --> 00:34:21,478 It all over the Internet. 518 00:34:21,514 --> 00:34:22,282 As a transphobe. 519 00:34:22,306 --> 00:34:24,762 If you come out and then you'll never be able to get a job. 520 00:34:24,836 --> 00:34:26,996 Like anyone who wants to hire you will look you up 521 00:34:27,020 --> 00:34:29,180 and see your transphobic and your life will be over. 522 00:34:31,790 --> 00:34:35,374 Let's say that I identified as a woman tomorrow, and I 523 00:34:35,398 --> 00:34:38,982 wanted to go into the same locker room where you are. 524 00:34:39,176 --> 00:34:44,010 Should I be allowed to do that? As long as I identify that way, I don't know. 525 00:34:44,060 --> 00:34:48,942 I just feel that other women would be uncomfortable by you walking in. 526 00:35:01,710 --> 00:35:05,798 controversy at a health club in Korea Town over the issue of gender. 527 00:35:05,894 --> 00:35:06,478 That's right. 528 00:35:06,564 --> 00:35:09,958 Video of spa goers complaining was posted on social media. 529 00:35:10,044 --> 00:35:11,700 I just want to be clear with you. 530 00:35:12,930 --> 00:35:16,003 It's okay for a man to go into the women's 531 00:35:16,027 --> 00:35:19,702 section, show his penis around the other women. 532 00:35:19,776 --> 00:35:21,910 Young, little girls under age. 533 00:35:22,080 --> 00:35:23,186 Your spa. 534 00:35:23,318 --> 00:35:24,934 We spa condone that. 535 00:35:24,972 --> 00:35:30,540 Is that what you're saying? Like I asked, he could stay there. 536 00:35:31,110 --> 00:35:32,580 He could stay there. 537 00:35:33,930 --> 00:35:35,174 Busettual orientation. 538 00:35:35,222 --> 00:35:36,050 I see a ditch. 539 00:35:36,110 --> 00:35:38,408 Police identified the person involved as 52 540 00:35:38,432 --> 00:35:40,730 year old Darren Morager of Riverside County. 541 00:35:40,790 --> 00:35:43,830 Moragor, who has been a registered sex offender since 542 00:35:43,854 --> 00:35:47,246 2006, now faces five felony counts of indecent exposure. 543 00:35:47,318 --> 00:35:49,574 Hello, I'm Congressman Mark Dakano. 544 00:35:49,742 --> 00:35:53,563 Trans month of visibility is a time to recognize the strength, 545 00:35:53,587 --> 00:35:57,094 diversity and resiliency of the transgender community. 546 00:35:57,192 --> 00:36:02,531 Together, we can make our country and our world a more accepting place by speaking out against 547 00:36:02,555 --> 00:36:08,700 transphobia at the source and supporting the trans community by getting the quality acts signed into law. 548 00:36:09,390 --> 00:36:11,278 Congressman, thank you for being here. 549 00:36:11,304 --> 00:36:12,130 Thanks for joining us. 550 00:36:12,180 --> 00:36:15,445 You are the first member of Congress who's a member of 551 00:36:15,469 --> 00:36:18,734 the LGBT community and also a person of Asian descent. 552 00:36:18,842 --> 00:36:21,814 You're also a big proponent of the Equality Act. 553 00:36:21,972 --> 00:36:22,582 Yes. 554 00:36:22,716 --> 00:36:26,458 What is the Equality Act? If you were to just summarize it very briefly, I know it does a lot. 555 00:36:26,604 --> 00:36:32,665 The most simplest way to talk about the Equality Act is that it simply amends 556 00:36:32,689 --> 00:36:38,510 the Civil Rights Act to include sexual orientation and gender identity. 557 00:36:38,630 --> 00:36:42,600 So public accommodations is one area. 558 00:36:42,990 --> 00:36:49,570 What's a way that someone who's LGBT could be discriminated in public accommodations. 559 00:36:49,950 --> 00:36:55,882 Currently, public accommodations is the whole area 560 00:36:55,906 --> 00:37:01,838 of hotels and motels, bathrooms and sports teams. 561 00:37:01,874 --> 00:37:02,650 Is that. 562 00:37:02,820 --> 00:37:06,458 I say bathrooms, sports teams, athletic events. 563 00:37:06,554 --> 00:37:09,886 Let's get into more specific policy issues. 564 00:37:10,068 --> 00:37:13,380 There are some women who say and I've talked to a few who say this. 565 00:37:13,710 --> 00:37:18,722 They say, hey, I'd like some Privacy in the bathroom. 566 00:37:18,866 --> 00:37:21,962 I'd prefer not to encounter naked penises. 567 00:37:22,046 --> 00:37:31,930 Frankly, they say even that the penis is a telltale sign that someone is a male. 568 00:37:32,730 --> 00:37:39,610 There are people really bought into the rumor that only men have penises. 569 00:38:18,830 --> 00:38:21,080 we're talking not about a lot of people. 570 00:38:24,930 --> 00:38:28,896 I think a person who wants to use a woman's bathroom, who identifies 571 00:38:28,920 --> 00:38:32,530 as transgender really does think of themselves as a female. 572 00:38:40,450 --> 00:38:49,300 respect their basic right to live? I think it will be an important part of this law. 573 00:38:51,550 --> 00:38:52,480 Wait a minute. 574 00:38:53,950 --> 00:39:01,350 Bathrooms are where you want to take this conversation instead of the basic right to 575 00:39:01,374 --> 00:39:08,774 dislike is something that I'm kind of mystified that you're kind of not focusing on. 576 00:39:08,812 --> 00:39:12,710 First, we're going straight to the controversy over bathrooms. 577 00:39:14,290 --> 00:39:18,938 So you know what? I think this interview is overview is over. 578 00:39:18,964 --> 00:39:20,380 I just had one last question. 579 00:39:21,670 --> 00:39:22,514 The interview is over. 580 00:39:22,552 --> 00:39:25,910 We want to know what is a woman? Please turn off the camera. 581 00:39:29,590 --> 00:39:30,986 I just wanted to know. 582 00:39:31,168 --> 00:39:35,018 I came all this way to know what they're fair. 583 00:39:35,044 --> 00:39:36,650 Quote, I just wanted to know what is a woman. 584 00:39:48,950 --> 00:39:51,999 My trip to California isn't providing many 585 00:39:52,023 --> 00:39:55,520 answers, but at least I'm making new friends. 586 00:39:56,210 --> 00:39:59,368 Do you worry about kids walking around out here? No, because I 587 00:39:59,392 --> 00:40:02,914 raised two daughters they're two of the most well adjusted adults. 588 00:40:02,962 --> 00:40:05,058 They grew up around naked people. 589 00:40:05,144 --> 00:40:09,075 And there's been studies that have shown that children raised around 590 00:40:09,099 --> 00:40:13,030 non sexual nudity actually have fewer hang ups when they're adults. 591 00:40:13,090 --> 00:40:13,882 People do have hang ups. 592 00:40:13,906 --> 00:40:16,950 There's a lot of things hanging right now during this conversation. 593 00:40:17,870 --> 00:40:20,979 Can anyone be any gender they want to be? Can a man become a 594 00:40:21,003 --> 00:40:24,430 woman if he wants to be what people do? That's personal choice. 595 00:40:24,490 --> 00:40:26,610 People can live the life they want to. 596 00:40:26,660 --> 00:40:28,422 I'm trying to live the life I want to. 597 00:40:28,436 --> 00:40:29,574 An authentic life. 598 00:40:29,732 --> 00:40:33,798 That's why I respect other people's rights to choose what they want to do. 599 00:40:33,884 --> 00:40:37,333 Well, why are you asking the gay man as to what it means to be a woman? You 600 00:40:37,357 --> 00:40:40,806 should be asking women what it means to be women, especially trans women. 601 00:40:40,988 --> 00:40:42,558 Who what it means to be women. 602 00:40:42,584 --> 00:40:43,890 I'm asking all kinds of people. 603 00:40:44,000 --> 00:40:47,900 Can anyone have an opinion about it? Only people who are women. 604 00:40:48,350 --> 00:40:50,938 Gay men don't know nothing about what it means to be a woman. 605 00:40:51,094 --> 00:40:55,185 Have you told gay men here in San Francisco that they're not allowed to talk about 606 00:40:55,209 --> 00:40:59,300 this? No, but it's not like I come around and say what a gay man is allowed to be. 607 00:41:00,530 --> 00:41:05,063 So you're saying if you're not a woman, then you shouldn't have an opinion? Where 608 00:41:05,087 --> 00:41:09,620 does the guy get a right to say what a woman is? Women only know what women are. 609 00:41:10,130 --> 00:41:12,980 Are you a cat? No. 610 00:41:20,550 --> 00:41:22,154 This is actually a genuine mistake. 611 00:41:22,202 --> 00:41:24,060 I'm sorry I even came up here. 612 00:41:25,650 --> 00:41:32,254 Do you want to tell us what a woman is? If my friend in the purple hat is correct 613 00:41:32,278 --> 00:41:39,460 and only women can tell me what a woman is, I guess I need to go where the women are. 614 00:41:58,810 --> 00:41:59,862 Oh, you're at the women's March. 615 00:41:59,886 --> 00:42:01,060 You must have some idea. 616 00:42:05,750 --> 00:42:08,850 So I see girls vagina. 617 00:42:09,710 --> 00:42:12,148 Does that mean that they're the only people who can get pregnant? 618 00:42:12,172 --> 00:42:14,840 If men can get pregnant, too, I think they want the right to choose. 619 00:42:15,710 --> 00:42:16,894 But men can get pregnant. 620 00:42:16,942 --> 00:42:19,466 We're saying someone who was born as a woman 621 00:42:19,490 --> 00:42:22,014 but identifies as a man, that's a real man. 622 00:42:22,112 --> 00:42:22,854 It's a real man. 623 00:42:22,892 --> 00:42:23,480 Yeah. 624 00:42:24,830 --> 00:42:26,780 So men can get pregnant? Yes. 625 00:42:27,470 --> 00:42:29,130 They have the parts. 626 00:42:29,510 --> 00:42:31,686 Is it just women that give birth or is it. 627 00:42:31,868 --> 00:42:32,646 Yeah. 628 00:42:32,828 --> 00:42:36,980 So men could give birth to Dino, but that could be a man or one. 629 00:42:37,310 --> 00:42:40,174 Well, I mean, I think that's the whole point, right? That it's fluid. 630 00:42:40,222 --> 00:42:42,642 The way that we define these things changes a lot. 631 00:42:42,716 --> 00:42:44,655 What are you doing here? I'm asking these questions, 632 00:42:44,679 --> 00:42:46,542 okay? I'm trying to figure out what a woman is. 633 00:42:46,556 --> 00:42:47,370 That's why I'm here. 634 00:42:47,480 --> 00:42:48,322 This is the women's March. 635 00:42:48,346 --> 00:42:49,854 I figured it's a good place to find out. 636 00:42:49,952 --> 00:42:51,570 I've come all this way, ask that question. 637 00:42:51,620 --> 00:43:02,260 Can anyone tell me what a woman is? What is that? Am I ask her a question. 638 00:43:33,690 --> 00:43:34,090 please. 639 00:43:34,140 --> 00:43:36,540 If one person could tell me what a woman is. 640 00:43:40,750 --> 00:43:43,540 Do you guys know what a woman is by any chance? No. 641 00:43:45,790 --> 00:43:48,050 I've been all over America. 642 00:43:49,870 --> 00:43:51,880 I still can't find an answer. 643 00:43:55,490 --> 00:43:57,380 Maybe I'm looking too close to home. 644 00:44:39,910 --> 00:44:44,562 We came a long way to come and talk to you guys thousands of miles from America. 645 00:44:44,706 --> 00:44:46,902 Thank you for inviting us into your tribe. 646 00:44:46,926 --> 00:44:52,658 First of all, I can say it is my pleasure to meet you and feel most welcome. 647 00:44:52,804 --> 00:44:54,866 But you're here to learn with me. 648 00:44:54,928 --> 00:44:56,186 I'm here to learn with you too. 649 00:44:56,248 --> 00:44:56,860 Great. 650 00:45:08,310 --> 00:45:09,960 with the elbow? Yeah. 651 00:45:12,970 --> 00:45:13,770 I mean, they're laughing. 652 00:45:13,830 --> 00:45:16,082 I guess it's not good, but I thought it was pretty good. 653 00:45:16,156 --> 00:45:17,740 Not good enough to be a man yet. 654 00:45:18,370 --> 00:45:22,608 What does a man do? What are his roles within the tribe? 655 00:45:22,632 --> 00:45:26,870 At the role of a man, you need to work for your woman. 656 00:45:27,310 --> 00:45:30,170 Secondly, to have children. 657 00:45:30,280 --> 00:45:32,600 If you have children and you don't have 658 00:45:32,624 --> 00:45:35,680 something to feed them, you are not still a man. 659 00:46:04,310 --> 00:46:07,220 The best raw kidney I've had in my life. 660 00:46:24,610 --> 00:46:28,634 in Masai community? It will not exist at all. 661 00:46:28,732 --> 00:46:29,810 It doesn't exist. 662 00:46:47,090 --> 00:46:51,915 A woman has its own duty and a man has its own duty and a lady cannot 663 00:46:51,939 --> 00:46:56,550 duty the duty of a man and a man cannot do the duty of a woman. 664 00:47:05,970 --> 00:47:06,720 No. 665 00:47:17,710 --> 00:47:18,460 No. 666 00:47:18,790 --> 00:47:22,146 It looks like if you want to become a lady, but 667 00:47:22,170 --> 00:47:25,526 your man, you have something wrong in your mom. 668 00:47:25,648 --> 00:47:27,158 Something wrong in your family. 669 00:47:27,244 --> 00:47:28,780 Something wrong in you. 670 00:47:29,830 --> 00:47:35,570 What about if someone was non binary? Come again? Non binary. 671 00:47:44,570 --> 00:47:45,826 Someone is neither. 672 00:47:56,970 --> 00:47:57,682 he's saying. 673 00:47:57,756 --> 00:48:02,426 We have never seen things like this for a man, he has a penis. 674 00:48:02,498 --> 00:48:04,622 For a woman, he has a vagina. 675 00:48:04,766 --> 00:48:06,314 So we know this is a lady. 676 00:48:06,422 --> 00:48:07,500 This is a man. 677 00:48:21,430 --> 00:48:22,550 People are laughing. 678 00:48:28,310 --> 00:48:31,614 They're just laughing because they have never heard something like that. 679 00:48:31,652 --> 00:48:33,020 This is their first time. 680 00:48:33,350 --> 00:48:34,506 I never heard it before. 681 00:48:34,628 --> 00:48:38,470 A woman has a Penny and she's a woman. 682 00:48:38,650 --> 00:48:40,662 In my country, I can't go day without hearing it. 683 00:48:40,676 --> 00:48:41,634 We hear it every day. 684 00:48:41,732 --> 00:48:44,449 So in my country, sometimes you'll hear people say a 685 00:48:44,473 --> 00:48:47,190 man will say that I'm a woman trapped in a man's body. 686 00:48:47,240 --> 00:48:49,880 And so they say that I have a woman trapped inside. 687 00:49:00,330 --> 00:49:03,806 They want to know a woman has the breast. 688 00:49:03,998 --> 00:49:04,850 Breast. 689 00:49:05,030 --> 00:49:07,450 Secondly, he has a vagina. 690 00:49:07,890 --> 00:49:08,762 Vagina. 691 00:49:08,906 --> 00:49:14,753 And the question is, does this man deliver? Does 692 00:49:14,777 --> 00:49:20,500 he deliver babies? No, not as far as I know. 693 00:49:24,230 --> 00:49:29,208 The question is, let's say if you want to sleep a 694 00:49:29,232 --> 00:49:34,730 woman, definitely you'll do sexy, is it? But for the 695 00:49:34,754 --> 00:49:40,095 man, where do you you ask that question? I don't know 696 00:49:40,119 --> 00:49:45,254 all the logistics of it based on what I'm saying. 697 00:50:04,590 --> 00:50:07,214 She saved a woman, delivered. 698 00:50:07,382 --> 00:50:08,530 A man cannot. 699 00:50:08,910 --> 00:50:13,706 So it sounds like you don't spend a lot of time thinking about gender. 700 00:50:13,838 --> 00:50:14,974 You just kind of live your lives. 701 00:50:15,012 --> 00:50:16,030 You don't think much about it. 702 00:50:16,080 --> 00:50:17,100 It doesn't matter. 703 00:50:19,990 --> 00:50:23,306 He said no because we believe that's a God plan. 704 00:50:23,428 --> 00:50:28,742 God's plan? He's saying that I'm shocked on what you're telling me. 705 00:50:28,876 --> 00:50:30,280 He's shocked? Yeah. 706 00:50:31,870 --> 00:50:32,622 The Messiah. 707 00:50:32,646 --> 00:50:37,670 People don't think much about gender, but they have a firm sense of their identity. 708 00:50:38,230 --> 00:50:42,450 It's clear that gender ideology is a uniquely Western phenomenon. 709 00:50:42,630 --> 00:50:46,939 So where did all this come from? Who came up with 710 00:50:46,963 --> 00:50:51,182 it and why? Matt, I want to show this to you. 711 00:50:51,196 --> 00:50:53,810 You're a parent, right? Okay. 712 00:50:53,980 --> 00:50:57,950 It's perfectly normal for ten years. 713 00:51:07,430 --> 00:51:13,974 for ten and up, huh? It's unspeakable what these people have done to our children. 714 00:51:14,132 --> 00:51:17,678 When did that start? When was it decided that we need to start teaching kids 715 00:51:17,702 --> 00:51:21,200 about this stuff at such a young age? So I'll answer that with one word. 716 00:51:21,530 --> 00:51:22,590 Kinsey. 717 00:51:22,970 --> 00:51:28,030 Kinsey was a social reformer. 718 00:51:28,150 --> 00:51:33,772 He wanted to rid society of JudeoChristian values when it came to 719 00:51:33,796 --> 00:51:40,650 sexuality, and he worked very hard to do that, and I would say he succeeded. 720 00:51:41,330 --> 00:51:44,120 Kinsey would be very happy with our culture today. 721 00:51:44,870 --> 00:51:48,310 His idea was that children are sexual from birth, that 722 00:51:48,334 --> 00:51:52,294 we're all inherently sexual creatures from cradle to grave. 723 00:51:52,402 --> 00:51:55,694 He believed that true happiness is found in a life of 724 00:51:55,718 --> 00:51:59,010 perverse sexual experimentation, no matter the age. 725 00:51:59,120 --> 00:52:02,610 What came out is that his research was fraudulent. 726 00:52:03,350 --> 00:52:05,822 Kinsey based his fraudulent conclusions on data he 727 00:52:05,846 --> 00:52:08,926 collected from convicted sex offenders and child molesters. 728 00:52:09,058 --> 00:52:12,346 His research was conducted in prisons, not everyday America. 729 00:52:12,478 --> 00:52:17,660 He also performed horrific sexual experiments on children, some under the age of one. 730 00:52:18,530 --> 00:52:21,459 His most influential book, Sexual Behavior in the 731 00:52:21,483 --> 00:52:24,412 Human Male, contains an infamous chart called table 732 00:52:24,436 --> 00:52:27,094 34, which documents the orgasms of very young 733 00:52:27,118 --> 00:52:30,260 kids, including babies as young as five months old. 734 00:52:30,890 --> 00:52:34,572 But instead of suffering the consequences for his heinous actions, 735 00:52:34,596 --> 00:52:38,050 he was, and still is, celebrated by academia and Hollywood. 736 00:52:38,110 --> 00:52:42,378 His ideas form the foundation for sexual education and public schools today. 737 00:52:42,524 --> 00:52:46,198 How do we get from this to you can choose your own gender. 738 00:52:46,294 --> 00:52:49,462 Okay, well, now we have another and very important character. 739 00:52:49,546 --> 00:52:52,040 And his name was John Money. 740 00:52:52,490 --> 00:52:56,730 John Money was a psychologist and professor at Johns Hopkins University. 741 00:52:57,230 --> 00:52:59,790 Gender ideology was his brainchild. 742 00:53:00,350 --> 00:53:03,870 In fact, he coined the terms gender identity and gender roles. 743 00:53:04,370 --> 00:53:07,775 And according to Money, babies are gender neutral at birth, and 744 00:53:07,799 --> 00:53:11,866 ultimately, environment determines whether a person is a man or a woman. 745 00:53:11,998 --> 00:53:16,045 Money was telling the world about his theory that a boy 746 00:53:16,069 --> 00:53:20,566 could be raised as a girl and do just fine and vice versa. 747 00:53:20,638 --> 00:53:25,225 And so Money tried out his theory on two young twin boys, the Rhymer Twins, 748 00:53:25,249 --> 00:53:29,650 when the twins were eight months old and they went to be circumcised. 749 00:53:29,770 --> 00:53:34,586 The first twin, whose name was Bruce, something went 750 00:53:34,610 --> 00:53:39,426 wrong with the machinery and his penis was burnt off. 751 00:53:39,548 --> 00:53:41,671 They stopped and didn't do a second circumcision 752 00:53:41,695 --> 00:53:43,590 on the other twin, as you might imagine. 753 00:53:43,910 --> 00:53:46,938 And the parents, of course, didn't know what to do. 754 00:53:47,084 --> 00:53:49,560 How are they going to raise this child? John Money 755 00:53:49,584 --> 00:53:52,518 convinced Bruce's parents to transition him into a girl. 756 00:53:52,664 --> 00:53:56,419 Money also conducted sexually abusive experiments on the twins throughout 757 00:53:56,443 --> 00:54:00,198 their childhood, including forcing them to simulate sex acts on each other. 758 00:54:00,284 --> 00:54:04,820 He reported up to the age of ten that this was a complete success. 759 00:54:05,270 --> 00:54:07,962 Well, it wasn't true. 760 00:54:08,156 --> 00:54:10,534 The results were a disaster. 761 00:54:10,702 --> 00:54:13,390 Bruce could never fully accept his female identity. 762 00:54:13,510 --> 00:54:16,401 Eventually, his parents told him the truth, and he chose 763 00:54:16,425 --> 00:54:19,210 to transition back to a boy, taking the name David. 764 00:54:19,390 --> 00:54:24,030 As an adult, David spoke out about the abuse and the damage done to him by John Money. 765 00:54:24,200 --> 00:54:27,578 The girls would do their things with their barbecues 766 00:54:27,602 --> 00:54:30,980 and things like that, and that wouldn't interest me. 767 00:54:31,430 --> 00:54:35,510 And things such as trucks and rolling forts 768 00:54:35,534 --> 00:54:40,198 and getting to the fist fight, climbing trees. 769 00:54:40,234 --> 00:54:41,514 That's the kind of stuff that I like. 770 00:54:41,552 --> 00:54:42,550 But it was unacceptable. 771 00:54:42,610 --> 00:54:46,674 So I never as a girl, as a girl, I had no place to fit in. 772 00:54:46,772 --> 00:54:52,770 The trauma that he and his brother and his entire family went through left deep scars. 773 00:54:53,390 --> 00:55:01,890 His brother died of an overdose when he was 38, and then David committed suicide. 774 00:55:02,930 --> 00:55:06,558 There was never a retraction or an apology from John Money. 775 00:55:06,704 --> 00:55:09,701 Instead, his ideas were adopted by mainstream psychology, 776 00:55:09,725 --> 00:55:12,560 and they formed the basis of gender ideology today. 777 00:55:13,010 --> 00:55:17,453 Why don't more people know about John Money and offered Kinsey? 778 00:55:17,477 --> 00:55:21,920 Evidently, there are forces that don't want this information out. 779 00:55:26,610 --> 00:55:30,338 I never said I was an Alpha female sales executive. 780 00:55:30,374 --> 00:55:32,640 That kind of just didn't fit in any box. 781 00:55:35,770 --> 00:55:39,882 When psychologists or somebody that I was in love with or whatever said 782 00:55:39,906 --> 00:55:43,960 that I was in the wrong body, I started to think, well, maybe I am. 783 00:55:47,170 --> 00:55:51,374 I'm a biological woman that medically transitioned to 784 00:55:51,398 --> 00:55:56,250 appear like a male through synthetic hormones and surgery. 785 00:55:56,370 --> 00:55:59,380 I will never be a man. 786 00:55:59,770 --> 00:56:05,136 Is it transphobic for me to tell the truth? Why is it then, a couple of hundred years 787 00:56:05,160 --> 00:56:08,122 from now, if you dug up my body, they're going 788 00:56:08,146 --> 00:56:10,910 to go, yeah, that was a woman had babies. 789 00:56:11,530 --> 00:56:18,050 Can you tell me about the procedures that you had? I've had seven surgeries. 790 00:56:18,730 --> 00:56:20,474 I've had one stress heart attack. 791 00:56:20,632 --> 00:56:24,090 I've had a helicopter life ride with pulmonary embolism. 792 00:56:24,150 --> 00:56:27,606 I've had 17 rounds of antibiotics. 793 00:56:27,738 --> 00:56:32,282 I had six inches of hair on the inside of my retrain for 17 months. 794 00:56:32,476 --> 00:56:34,751 Nobody would help me, including the doctor that 795 00:56:34,775 --> 00:56:37,000 did this to me because I lost my insurance. 796 00:56:37,390 --> 00:56:39,770 I get infections every three to four months. 797 00:56:39,820 --> 00:56:42,340 I'm probably not going to live very long. 798 00:56:43,630 --> 00:56:52,370 Was there any real discussion of the risks and the side effects? No, there's not. 799 00:56:52,540 --> 00:56:55,660 And I know that people want to think that there is, but there's not. 800 00:56:56,410 --> 00:56:59,910 The truth is that medical transition is experimental. 801 00:57:00,090 --> 00:57:03,508 We have studies that said that medical transition 802 00:57:03,532 --> 00:57:06,950 helps mental health, helps mental health of kids. 803 00:57:07,000 --> 00:57:10,614 They've all been retracted, modified, changed. 804 00:57:10,782 --> 00:57:16,174 But the only long term study tells us seven to ten years is 805 00:57:16,198 --> 00:57:21,590 when transgender people are the most suicidal after surgery. 806 00:57:21,970 --> 00:57:26,909 But that's transphobic to say for the first time in history, a 807 00:57:26,933 --> 00:57:32,522 marginalized group has a huge dollar sign on the top of their head. 808 00:57:32,716 --> 00:57:40,060 We have five children's hospitals in the United States promoting that. 809 00:57:43,610 --> 00:57:44,758 That's a paleoplasty. 810 00:57:44,794 --> 00:57:46,150 That's a bottom surgery. 811 00:57:46,330 --> 00:57:52,069 We have five children's hospitals in the United States 812 00:57:52,093 --> 00:57:57,398 telling girls that they can be boys at $70,000 a 813 00:57:57,422 --> 00:58:02,618 pop in a surgery that has a 67% complication rate 814 00:58:02,642 --> 00:58:08,490 that will kill me from infection that I can't sue on. 815 00:58:08,660 --> 00:58:10,835 We're butchering a generation of children 816 00:58:10,859 --> 00:58:13,580 because nobody's willing to talk about anything. 817 00:58:13,970 --> 00:58:20,820 I have three kids at the age that they're doing this to kids. 818 00:58:22,410 --> 00:58:24,254 I'm not transphobic. 819 00:58:24,422 --> 00:58:27,406 I love my kids and I love other people's kids. 820 00:58:27,468 --> 00:58:28,860 And you should, too. 821 00:58:30,090 --> 00:58:35,290 This is wrong on so many levels. 822 00:58:35,610 --> 00:58:37,523 Can kids consent? Do you think kids are 823 00:58:37,547 --> 00:58:40,018 capable of consenting to that? No, they're not. 824 00:58:40,164 --> 00:58:48,326 Being a parent is loving the hell out of your kids and helping them see around corners what's the 825 00:58:48,350 --> 00:58:52,979 youngest patient that you've operated on? The youngest 826 00:58:53,003 --> 00:58:57,194 patient I've done vaginal plastic on is age 16. 827 00:58:57,302 --> 00:59:03,428 Do you worry that minors just don't understand enough about themselves? They're not 828 00:59:03,452 --> 00:59:06,683 neurologically developed enough yet to make 829 00:59:06,707 --> 00:59:10,402 permit life altering decisions? Absolutely not. 830 00:59:10,596 --> 00:59:13,510 A young person's self perception. 831 00:59:13,830 --> 00:59:18,814 One day they may be clear, the next day they may be totally confused and not sure. 832 00:59:18,972 --> 00:59:22,967 And you're affirming it with hormones that have 833 00:59:22,991 --> 00:59:27,770 never been used in this way in the field of medicine. 834 00:59:27,890 --> 00:59:31,990 You're talking about puberty blockers blockers and then opposite sex hormones. 835 00:59:32,430 --> 00:59:36,578 What age does the medical transition begin with medication. 836 00:59:36,734 --> 00:59:41,506 So medical affirmation begins when the patient says they're ready for it. 837 00:59:41,688 --> 00:59:45,190 So that could be a kiddo who is just starting puberty 838 00:59:45,214 --> 00:59:48,581 and panicking because they're getting breast buds 839 00:59:48,605 --> 00:59:51,764 or their penis is getting bigger and busier and 840 00:59:51,788 --> 00:59:55,498 they're worried about all kinds of masculine changes. 841 00:59:55,644 --> 01:00:01,171 And that way puberty blockers, which are completely reversible and don't have 842 01:00:01,195 --> 01:00:06,722 permanent effects, are wonderful because we can put that pause on puberty. 843 01:00:06,866 --> 01:00:10,764 It's like if you were listening to music, you put the pause on and we 844 01:00:10,788 --> 01:00:14,686 stopped the blockers and puberty would go right back to where it was. 845 01:00:14,808 --> 01:00:18,994 The next note in the song just delayed that period of time. 846 01:00:19,152 --> 01:00:20,822 You can just pause puberty. 847 01:00:20,906 --> 01:00:22,774 No, you can't and then pick it up. 848 01:00:22,812 --> 01:00:23,318 No, you can't. 849 01:00:23,354 --> 01:00:23,830 In the future. 850 01:00:23,880 --> 01:00:24,818 No, you can't. 851 01:00:24,974 --> 01:00:27,649 How many studies do they have? Long term 852 01:00:27,673 --> 01:00:31,106 studies on hormone blockers with children? None. 853 01:00:31,298 --> 01:00:36,432 I just spoke a month or two ago with a mother 854 01:00:36,456 --> 01:00:41,590 whose 14 year old daughter was put on blockers. 855 01:00:41,910 --> 01:00:46,994 They discovered after two years, this 14 year old girl has osteoporosis. 856 01:00:47,042 --> 01:00:49,198 That's something that like old women get. 857 01:00:49,284 --> 01:00:53,543 How can doctors assure parents that a certain medicine is totally 858 01:00:53,567 --> 01:00:57,826 safe? Based on what you're saying, they can't possibly know that. 859 01:00:57,948 --> 01:01:06,097 How can they be removing the healthy breaths of 15 year old girls? How can they be sterilizing kids? How can this 860 01:01:06,121 --> 01:01:09,927 whole thing be happening? Matt, every child that they 861 01:01:09,951 --> 01:01:14,270 convince is transgender and in need of medical transition. 862 01:01:14,330 --> 01:01:18,146 It generates $1.3 million to Pharma. 863 01:01:18,278 --> 01:01:24,878 And we're believing a pharmaceutical company, loopron hormone blockers, reversible. 864 01:01:24,974 --> 01:01:28,824 So they say, well, the truth is that in 2003, Lupron was 865 01:01:28,848 --> 01:01:33,120 sued and deemed a criminal enterprise by the US government. 866 01:01:33,810 --> 01:01:38,686 They paid the most fine of any pharmaceutical company at that time. 867 01:01:38,808 --> 01:01:42,082 $874,000,000 wrote a check. 868 01:01:42,216 --> 01:01:46,080 Is Lupron chemical castration? Yes. 869 01:01:49,270 --> 01:01:52,560 We're giving it to Pedophiles, aren't we? We're giving it to people that are dying 870 01:01:52,584 --> 01:01:55,874 and we're giving it to kids telling them that they were born in the wrong body. 871 01:01:55,912 --> 01:01:57,246 And it's completely safe. 872 01:01:57,378 --> 01:01:58,914 One of the drugs used as Lupron. 873 01:01:58,962 --> 01:01:59,174 Right. 874 01:01:59,212 --> 01:02:04,130 Which has actually been used to chemically pass rate sex offenders. 875 01:02:04,570 --> 01:02:07,381 You know what? I'm not sure that we should continue with this 876 01:02:07,405 --> 01:02:10,734 interview because it seems like it's going in a particular direction. 877 01:02:10,842 --> 01:02:12,234 Well, you're a medical professional. 878 01:02:12,282 --> 01:02:13,746 I am a medical professional. 879 01:02:13,818 --> 01:02:17,886 So you don't want to talk about the drugs that you give 880 01:02:17,910 --> 01:02:21,978 to kids? Again, I'm a physician and I use medication. 881 01:02:22,134 --> 01:02:26,114 You're choosing exploitive words, drugs I give to you. 882 01:02:26,152 --> 01:02:28,866 I'm choosing a chemical word that was in a dictionary. 883 01:02:28,938 --> 01:02:31,050 That's not a correct term for puberty blocking. 884 01:02:31,110 --> 01:02:33,238 I could look it up on my phone, but I'm pretty sure 885 01:02:33,262 --> 01:02:35,390 if I looked it up, you can look it up on your phone. 886 01:02:35,440 --> 01:02:39,167 It says medical definition, the administration of a drug to bring about a Mark 887 01:02:39,191 --> 01:02:42,918 reduction in the body's production of androgens and especially testosterone. 888 01:02:42,954 --> 01:02:47,204 And I'm saying as a pediatrician who takes care of hundreds of these 889 01:02:47,228 --> 01:02:52,050 kids, when you use that terminology, you were being malignant and harmful. 890 01:02:52,230 --> 01:02:54,840 There are some who would say that giving chemical 891 01:02:54,864 --> 01:02:57,474 castration drugs to kids is malignant and harmful. 892 01:02:57,582 --> 01:03:03,234 It's about the context of caring for a child and seeing the suffering 893 01:03:03,258 --> 01:03:08,910 that kids can have that have not been in affirmative home situations. 894 01:03:08,970 --> 01:03:12,773 What do you say to the claim that we have to do this for 895 01:03:12,797 --> 01:03:16,600 these kids? Because if we don't, they'll kill themselves. 896 01:03:17,410 --> 01:03:19,374 They'll resort to drugs and self harm. 897 01:03:19,482 --> 01:03:21,230 A lot of them were hurting themselves. 898 01:03:21,340 --> 01:03:24,774 A lot of them were suicidal before they even discovered gender. 899 01:03:24,942 --> 01:03:28,170 That is never part of the discussion. 900 01:03:28,290 --> 01:03:33,898 And they say, what would you rather have? A living daughter or a dead son? If 901 01:03:33,922 --> 01:03:39,530 this is what the professionals are saying, it's terrible emotional blackmail. 902 01:03:43,550 --> 01:03:45,474 Hello? Hey, is this. 903 01:03:45,632 --> 01:03:46,134 This is. 904 01:03:46,172 --> 01:03:46,698 Yes. 905 01:03:46,844 --> 01:03:48,630 Hey, it's Matt Walsh. 906 01:03:49,070 --> 01:03:50,420 Where are you right now. 907 01:03:51,170 --> 01:03:54,140 I'm in Vancouver, British Columbia, Canada, right now. 908 01:03:55,190 --> 01:03:58,870 Are you able to leave? I'm not able to leave BC. 909 01:03:58,930 --> 01:04:01,520 I can't even go to another province in Canada right now. 910 01:04:01,970 --> 01:04:04,470 And it's because I'm technically out on bail. 911 01:04:26,850 --> 01:04:30,694 how exactly did this get into the courts to begin with? Right. 912 01:04:30,732 --> 01:04:34,555 So what happened is we set up a meeting with BC Children's Hospital, and according 913 01:04:34,579 --> 01:04:38,402 to the BC Children's Hospital website, there's going to be a thorough evaluation. 914 01:04:38,486 --> 01:04:39,538 And I'm thinking, good. 915 01:04:39,624 --> 01:04:40,978 This is going to be the end of it all. 916 01:04:41,004 --> 01:04:44,222 You're going to clearly see that my child is not the opposite sex. 917 01:04:44,306 --> 01:04:47,894 So my ex wife brings my child into VC Children's Hospital. 918 01:04:48,002 --> 01:04:51,738 I get a call less than an hour into that appointment is that they were going 919 01:04:51,762 --> 01:04:55,498 to pump or pull across sex hormones within the hour, and I put a halt to that. 920 01:04:55,524 --> 01:04:56,520 I said no. 921 01:04:57,090 --> 01:04:59,230 They agreed to stop for the moment. 922 01:04:59,280 --> 01:05:01,102 They figured, well, let's get the dad on board to you. 923 01:05:01,116 --> 01:05:01,990 This is all going to be better. 924 01:05:02,040 --> 01:05:03,586 Let's just get everybody on the same page. 925 01:05:03,648 --> 01:05:04,954 I said it's not going to happen. 926 01:05:05,052 --> 01:05:09,811 So I get a letter from BC Children's Hospital in December of 2018, and it says that 927 01:05:09,835 --> 01:05:14,594 under the BC Infants Act, they will start injecting my child with cross sex hormones. 928 01:05:14,642 --> 01:05:18,586 And I have two weeks to respond with legal action if I still choose. 929 01:05:18,768 --> 01:05:22,034 And so that's how I ended up in court, because I did respond with legal action. 930 01:05:22,202 --> 01:05:28,306 So you called your daughter she and you went to jail for that. 931 01:05:28,428 --> 01:05:32,702 It's considered criminal violence to not use the preferred pronouns. 932 01:05:32,786 --> 01:05:35,196 It's no different than, let's say I were to take a 933 01:05:35,220 --> 01:05:37,630 broomstick and whack one of my kids over the head. 934 01:05:37,740 --> 01:05:39,914 So they were treating it in a similar fashion. 935 01:05:39,962 --> 01:05:41,438 That misgendering. 936 01:05:41,474 --> 01:05:45,086 Mispronouncing my child was the equivalent of family violence. 937 01:05:45,278 --> 01:05:49,630 Is she on the hormone pills now? She is. 938 01:05:49,740 --> 01:05:56,883 The court ordered that she could do whatever she wanted 2010 until 939 01:05:56,907 --> 01:06:04,050 I would say 2016, I would say 80% of my clients were trans youth. 940 01:06:04,170 --> 01:06:05,114 Now it is. 941 01:06:05,212 --> 01:06:08,850 You identify, you take hormones, you do surgery. 942 01:06:08,970 --> 01:06:11,898 There isn't any other pathways. 943 01:06:12,054 --> 01:06:15,089 So if you have two parents, one parent wants to 944 01:06:15,113 --> 01:06:18,678 affirm the trans identity, the other parent doesn't. 945 01:06:18,714 --> 01:06:21,710 Who wins that battle? The one who wants to affirm every time. 946 01:06:21,760 --> 01:06:22,718 Every single time. 947 01:06:22,804 --> 01:06:26,800 The goal is to get the parents to affirm the kid. 948 01:06:32,150 --> 01:06:35,098 There's no such thing as a gender affirming therapist. 949 01:06:35,254 --> 01:06:36,774 That's a contradiction in terms. 950 01:06:36,872 --> 01:06:38,434 Why? Because you don't affirm. 951 01:06:38,482 --> 01:06:41,430 If you're a therapist, it's not your business to affirm. 952 01:06:42,050 --> 01:06:44,130 You come to see me because there's something wrong. 953 01:06:44,300 --> 01:06:46,537 Maybe you come to see me because a destructive 954 01:06:46,561 --> 01:06:48,798 element of you is wreaking havoc in your life. 955 01:06:48,944 --> 01:06:52,446 I'm on the side of the part of you that wants to aim up, man. 956 01:06:52,628 --> 01:06:54,174 That's what I'm on the side of. 957 01:06:54,212 --> 01:06:55,614 Okay? Now, I don't know what that means. 958 01:06:55,652 --> 01:06:58,194 In your case, we're going to talk about it. 959 01:06:58,292 --> 01:07:02,586 Am I going to affirm what you think? No, it's not up to me to affirm it. 960 01:07:02,648 --> 01:07:05,008 You don't get a casual pad on the back from a 961 01:07:05,032 --> 01:07:08,038 therapist for your pre existing axiomatic conclusions. 962 01:07:08,134 --> 01:07:09,226 That's not therapy. 963 01:07:09,298 --> 01:07:10,678 That's a rubber stamp. 964 01:07:10,834 --> 01:07:16,994 Is anybody at any point explaining to these kids the real long term consequences 965 01:07:17,018 --> 01:07:23,178 of hormones and puberty blockers? I don't think they're explaining it to the kids. 966 01:07:23,264 --> 01:07:26,398 That has frightened me that it's become that 967 01:07:26,422 --> 01:07:29,994 we're even talking to the kids about it at ten. 968 01:07:30,092 --> 01:07:31,834 We're presenting it in schools. 969 01:07:31,942 --> 01:07:38,194 So this generation, they're the labyrinths biological sex binary. 970 01:07:38,302 --> 01:07:41,754 It's been binary for like 100 million years longer than that. 971 01:07:41,792 --> 01:07:43,222 Temperament is not binary. 972 01:07:43,306 --> 01:07:44,590 Temperamental personality. 973 01:07:44,650 --> 01:07:45,622 So it's gender. 974 01:07:45,766 --> 01:07:46,786 Temperament is gender. 975 01:07:46,858 --> 01:07:53,650 Well, gender is not a good word because it's vague and it isn't measurable. 976 01:07:53,710 --> 01:07:57,132 So do we need it? Why can we just say temperament? What do we even need 977 01:07:57,156 --> 01:08:00,578 the word gender for? Well, I don't need it, but what I would say is that 978 01:08:00,602 --> 01:08:03,828 people who talk about the diversity and gender are actually talking 979 01:08:03,852 --> 01:08:07,422 about diversity and personality and temperament, but they don't know it. 980 01:08:07,496 --> 01:08:11,928 You can have a masculine temperament if you're a woman, maybe one in ten women have 981 01:08:11,952 --> 01:08:16,330 the average temperament of a man and you can have feminine men temperamentally. 982 01:08:16,390 --> 01:08:18,712 And it's not that uncommon because the differences 983 01:08:18,736 --> 01:08:21,486 between men and women temperamentally aren't that great. 984 01:08:21,608 --> 01:08:23,110 There are masculine girls. 985 01:08:23,170 --> 01:08:24,658 There are feminine boys. 986 01:08:24,814 --> 01:08:28,772 What are we going to do about that? Carve them up? You as someone 987 01:08:28,796 --> 01:08:32,754 who started your professional life, you know, transgender care. 988 01:08:32,852 --> 01:08:33,500 Yeah. 989 01:08:34,010 --> 01:08:39,054 Now you're sitting here talking to me and I'm a dangerous man. 990 01:08:39,092 --> 01:08:39,980 I've been told. 991 01:08:40,970 --> 01:08:45,838 Are you worried about reprisals? Are you worried about how this is going to play among 992 01:08:45,862 --> 01:08:48,514 your professional peers? I am worried that I 993 01:08:48,538 --> 01:08:51,190 can't have conversations with any other peers. 994 01:08:51,250 --> 01:08:54,188 I don't know any other peer that will speak 995 01:08:54,212 --> 01:08:57,150 to me around these things, that question it. 996 01:08:57,200 --> 01:09:02,660 I just don't think developmentally this is helpful to our children. 997 01:09:03,290 --> 01:09:04,978 You step wrong as a therapist. 998 01:09:05,014 --> 01:09:07,537 You say the wrong thing once and your bloody career 999 01:09:07,561 --> 01:09:09,982 is over and now it's the same with physicians. 1000 01:09:10,066 --> 01:09:12,277 How's that going to work? You're going to go have 1001 01:09:12,301 --> 01:09:14,744 an honest conversation with your physician when he's 1002 01:09:14,768 --> 01:09:16,955 terrified out of his mind if he'll say something 1003 01:09:16,979 --> 01:09:19,446 politically incorrect during the diagnostic process. 1004 01:09:19,568 --> 01:09:22,470 Hey, man, you're sick with whatever you want to be. 1005 01:09:22,640 --> 01:09:23,600 See you later. 1006 01:09:24,110 --> 01:09:26,645 You want a prescription for something? I left 1007 01:09:26,669 --> 01:09:29,724 academia because the climate had become too stifling 1008 01:09:29,748 --> 01:09:32,632 politically, especially when it comes to the topic 1009 01:09:32,656 --> 01:09:35,362 of gender identity and the science of gender. 1010 01:09:35,446 --> 01:09:38,538 It is absolutely impossible to do good research. 1011 01:09:38,624 --> 01:09:40,893 You basically have to decide beforehand what you're 1012 01:09:40,917 --> 01:09:43,186 going to find so that you don't upset activists. 1013 01:09:43,258 --> 01:09:44,974 And that is not how you do science. 1014 01:09:45,082 --> 01:09:48,171 Why has this shift occurred where all of a sudden 1015 01:09:48,195 --> 01:09:51,091 gender and sex has become so politically and 1016 01:09:51,115 --> 01:09:54,398 culturally charged? There's a really ugly history 1017 01:09:54,422 --> 01:09:57,706 between sex researchers and transgender activists. 1018 01:09:57,838 --> 01:10:04,806 In the past, if any sex researcher spoke out about science that went against activist orthodoxy or particular narratives 1019 01:10:04,830 --> 01:10:08,126 that activists wanted to promote, they would basically 1020 01:10:08,150 --> 01:10:11,446 have their personal and professional reputations ruined. 1021 01:10:11,518 --> 01:10:13,461 So what you see is that only experts who toe 1022 01:10:13,485 --> 01:10:15,702 the party line and say the things that activists 1023 01:10:15,726 --> 01:10:18,058 like, those are the people who get attention, those 1024 01:10:18,082 --> 01:10:20,274 are the people who get lifted up in the media. 1025 01:10:20,372 --> 01:10:23,661 And also, I would say people are incentivized to go along with the 1026 01:10:23,685 --> 01:10:27,430 activist narratives and gender ideology because that helps their career. 1027 01:10:27,550 --> 01:10:28,818 Trans is very cool. 1028 01:10:28,964 --> 01:10:32,600 Trans is a way of giving yourself value. 1029 01:10:32,930 --> 01:10:36,106 Given the way society at the moment is functioning. 1030 01:10:36,178 --> 01:10:39,650 All of the things that used to give us anchors of identity 1031 01:10:39,674 --> 01:10:43,146 have become very fluid or very volatile in recent years. 1032 01:10:43,268 --> 01:10:46,989 And in that context, I think what you find then is 1033 01:10:47,013 --> 01:10:50,734 new identities start to fill the void of the vacuum. 1034 01:10:50,842 --> 01:10:54,400 Whereas in the past I might have got my sense of self worth from 1035 01:10:54,424 --> 01:10:57,926 being part of the village where I grew up, now I might get my 1036 01:10:57,950 --> 01:11:01,480 sense of self worth through being part of the online community 1037 01:11:01,504 --> 01:11:05,034 that I connect with or part of the sexual identity community. 1038 01:11:05,192 --> 01:11:09,883 So now we are seeing kids that are identifying as animals going 1039 01:11:09,907 --> 01:11:14,598 to school, and they are purring instead of answering questions. 1040 01:11:14,684 --> 01:11:18,241 And they Meow and the teachers are not allowed to 1041 01:11:18,265 --> 01:11:22,342 question it because it's considered a queer identity. 1042 01:11:22,486 --> 01:11:27,470 So you have kids that are going to school and they're saying, 1043 01:11:27,494 --> 01:11:32,394 I'm a cat, and the teachers have to affirm them as a cat. 1044 01:11:32,552 --> 01:11:33,260 Yes. 1045 01:11:34,790 --> 01:11:35,578 Literal zoos. 1046 01:11:35,614 --> 01:11:43,010 Now, basically they are I am a 27 year old transgender woman. 1047 01:11:43,190 --> 01:11:46,490 I am a Wolf theory and a member of the Furry fandom. 1048 01:11:46,610 --> 01:11:52,502 When and how did you discover this inner wolfness? Probably around age ten or eleven. 1049 01:11:52,586 --> 01:11:57,282 I was watching an anime about Wolves and see the Wolf running across 1050 01:11:57,306 --> 01:12:02,002 the screen, and I'm somehow just intrinsically like, oh, that's me. 1051 01:12:02,076 --> 01:12:05,340 Have you spent any time around biological Wolves? Yes. 1052 01:12:05,730 --> 01:12:06,914 That sounds dangerous. 1053 01:12:06,962 --> 01:12:10,490 Also, what context are you? So I was a volunteer with 1054 01:12:10,514 --> 01:12:14,042 a preserve, and I've also visited many Wolf preserves. 1055 01:12:14,186 --> 01:12:18,879 Are you able to communicate with the Wolf? Am I going to have a conversation 1056 01:12:18,903 --> 01:12:23,470 with a Wolf in the way that I'm communicating? You and I obviously not. 1057 01:12:23,580 --> 01:12:27,330 Am I going to read their body language, respond appropriately 1058 01:12:27,354 --> 01:12:30,540 to their behaviors and their nonverbal cues? Yes. 1059 01:12:30,990 --> 01:12:34,543 Would you be able to give us an example of this Wolf 1060 01:12:34,567 --> 01:12:38,050 communication? No, I'm not comfortable doing so. 1061 01:12:38,160 --> 01:12:38,542 Okay. 1062 01:12:38,616 --> 01:12:39,094 All right. 1063 01:12:39,192 --> 01:12:43,162 How exactly have these ideas become pervasive? First of 1064 01:12:43,186 --> 01:12:47,673 all, I think we need to remember that in the west, at least, 1065 01:12:47,697 --> 01:12:51,672 we have it drilled into our minds from childhood onwards 1066 01:12:51,696 --> 01:12:56,178 that personal happiness is the key to individual flourishing. 1067 01:12:56,274 --> 01:12:58,766 Secondly, we think of ourselves in psychological terms. 1068 01:12:58,828 --> 01:13:00,066 I am my feelings. 1069 01:13:00,198 --> 01:13:04,434 And in order for me to be happy, I have to be able to express my feelings. 1070 01:13:04,482 --> 01:13:08,430 I have to be outwardly that which I feel myself to be inwardly. 1071 01:13:08,550 --> 01:13:13,922 Thirdly, we're taught that interfering with somebody else's happiness is very bad. 1072 01:13:14,056 --> 01:13:17,199 We need to acknowledge that there are powerful lobby groups, 1073 01:13:17,223 --> 01:13:20,740 powerful cultural and political lobby groups driving this thing. 1074 01:13:21,070 --> 01:13:26,358 Hollywood is pressing LGBTQ plus matters in so many movies. 1075 01:13:26,514 --> 01:13:30,066 We're seeing it in the way Amazon sets up its algorithms. 1076 01:13:30,198 --> 01:13:33,518 There are all kinds of factors in society that 1077 01:13:33,542 --> 01:13:36,862 are pushing what would really be numerically a 1078 01:13:36,886 --> 01:13:40,206 fairly minority interest into being one of the 1079 01:13:40,230 --> 01:13:43,550 main political focal points of this generation. 1080 01:13:46,790 --> 01:13:49,750 After my operation, I will be a woman. 1081 01:13:49,870 --> 01:13:54,546 Why can't she just be a lesbian? Because she's not a lesbian mom. 1082 01:13:54,608 --> 01:13:55,806 She's a boy. 1083 01:13:55,988 --> 01:13:58,026 Because I was born in a girl's body. 1084 01:13:58,148 --> 01:14:04,255 Can I ask you a question? Why don't you kiss me? The whole idea of social contagion, that there could be 1085 01:14:04,279 --> 01:14:07,175 something in one social environment that could play 1086 01:14:07,199 --> 01:14:10,386 some role in somebody coming out identifying as trans. 1087 01:14:10,448 --> 01:14:13,911 Would you say that that is definitely part of your story? 1088 01:14:13,935 --> 01:14:17,336 When I look back, I don't think I would have ever even 1089 01:14:17,360 --> 01:14:21,294 considered seeing myself as a boy without these social aspects, 1090 01:14:21,318 --> 01:14:24,870 especially if I hadn't joined these online communities. 1091 01:14:26,630 --> 01:14:28,426 I identify as non binary. 1092 01:14:28,498 --> 01:14:30,870 I'll officially be changing my pronouns to theyh them. 1093 01:14:30,920 --> 01:14:34,354 My pronouns are Dhamm and demonstrate selfs. 1094 01:14:34,402 --> 01:14:36,894 I've been going by they them pronouns for four years now. 1095 01:14:36,932 --> 01:14:40,306 I'm pretty comfortable pronounced. 1096 01:14:40,378 --> 01:14:44,214 There was literally a period of a few weeks to a few months. 1097 01:14:44,312 --> 01:14:46,509 I started out as an ally, and then eventually 1098 01:14:46,533 --> 01:14:48,730 I was starting to identify as transgender. 1099 01:14:48,790 --> 01:14:49,918 We are transmitted. 1100 01:14:49,954 --> 01:14:52,820 So they go on the Internet and they're told that all 1101 01:14:52,844 --> 01:14:55,710 their problems will be solved if they become a man. 1102 01:14:55,820 --> 01:14:57,214 Kids are being taught. 1103 01:14:57,322 --> 01:15:00,222 You might feel like you're a boy, even if you have a 1104 01:15:00,246 --> 01:15:03,546 vagina and you're a girl, you are what you feel you are. 1105 01:15:03,608 --> 01:15:06,502 Some people are girls, some are boys, some are both, some are neither. 1106 01:15:06,586 --> 01:15:10,426 Gender is all about how we feel on the inside and how we express ourselves. 1107 01:15:10,558 --> 01:15:12,346 Ah, the gender fluid teacher. 1108 01:15:12,418 --> 01:15:15,610 What do I go by in the classroom? I go by teacher fan BRAINI. 1109 01:15:15,670 --> 01:15:17,761 As a queer and trans teacher, my agenda is to 1110 01:15:17,785 --> 01:15:20,114 show little boys that they don't have to be like 1111 01:15:20,138 --> 01:15:22,492 esteriotypically masculine, that they can paint 1112 01:15:22,516 --> 01:15:24,870 their nails and wear earrings and still be a guy. 1113 01:15:24,920 --> 01:15:25,986 And it can be cool. 1114 01:15:26,048 --> 01:15:31,028 Do you worry that there could be a sort of social contagion element of 1115 01:15:31,052 --> 01:15:36,610 this? A teeny tiny bit, maybe? Looking back on it, it was the same pattern. 1116 01:15:36,670 --> 01:15:41,362 Just kids who were really struggling, kids who were very alone and isolated. 1117 01:15:41,446 --> 01:15:42,550 They have anxiety. 1118 01:15:42,670 --> 01:15:44,398 They don't fit in with their peers. 1119 01:15:44,554 --> 01:15:46,726 They don't know where they belong. 1120 01:15:46,858 --> 01:15:49,470 Maybe they didn't have a welcoming family life. 1121 01:15:49,580 --> 01:15:52,146 They just got caught up in these communities online. 1122 01:15:52,268 --> 01:15:57,198 Then they discover, hey, there's this group of people and they also don't fit in. 1123 01:15:57,224 --> 01:15:57,762 They're different. 1124 01:15:57,836 --> 01:15:59,262 They're not sure who they are. 1125 01:15:59,336 --> 01:16:01,122 Gee, that's where I fit in. 1126 01:16:01,196 --> 01:16:04,054 Today is the day before my top surgery. 1127 01:16:04,162 --> 01:16:05,958 I am waking up tomorrow at 05:00 A.m. 1128 01:16:06,044 --> 01:16:08,230 To have a subcutaneous mastectomy. 1129 01:16:08,350 --> 01:16:12,320 We're telling children when they haven't fully developed that 1130 01:16:12,344 --> 01:16:16,314 all you have to do is medically transition and you fit in. 1131 01:16:16,412 --> 01:16:18,150 I was one of those kids. 1132 01:16:18,320 --> 01:16:20,310 It got me at 42. 1133 01:16:20,480 --> 01:16:23,660 Your child doesn't have a chance. 1134 01:16:27,870 --> 01:16:30,110 This is only going in one direction. 1135 01:16:30,290 --> 01:16:39,906 You will respect us as parents come to understand more about gender identity. 1136 01:16:39,978 --> 01:16:41,886 Kids are coming out at younger ages. 1137 01:16:41,958 --> 01:16:43,026 It's exciting. 1138 01:16:43,218 --> 01:16:46,722 And you know who gets it right is the next generation. 1139 01:16:46,866 --> 01:16:50,921 The next generation who's already telling us that our antiquated 1140 01:16:50,945 --> 01:16:55,000 ideas of things have to be a certain way just don't apply to them. 1141 01:16:56,230 --> 01:16:59,238 They're rejecting a lot of our social mores. 1142 01:16:59,334 --> 01:17:00,760 They are tweaking the system. 1143 01:17:05,270 --> 01:17:09,678 I just don't think it's realistic to put this decision on them. 1144 01:17:25,410 --> 01:17:27,790 I'm a physician and I use medication. 1145 01:17:28,170 --> 01:17:28,606 Certainly. 1146 01:17:28,668 --> 01:17:30,758 It's a bit of a Faustian bargain. 1147 01:17:30,914 --> 01:17:34,210 Puberty blockers, which are completely reversible. 1148 01:17:36,970 --> 01:17:41,154 You keep invoking the word truth, which is condescending. 1149 01:17:41,202 --> 01:17:45,590 And Ruth, some women have penises, right? Some men have vaginas. 1150 01:17:46,870 --> 01:17:50,357 Does the chicken cry? Does a chicken commit suicide? 1151 01:17:50,381 --> 01:17:53,800 I'm not a woman, but I can't really answer that. 1152 01:17:54,490 --> 01:17:56,620 I guess because I got it there. 1153 01:18:13,770 --> 01:18:16,870 Somehow this madness has affected our entire society. 1154 01:18:18,210 --> 01:18:22,320 Am I the crazy one? I'm done asking questions. 1155 01:18:27,850 --> 01:18:31,698 Tanner Cross is on administrative leave for what he said about gender identity. 1156 01:18:31,794 --> 01:18:35,790 He said he would not call a student who is transgender by their preferred pronoun. 1157 01:18:35,850 --> 01:18:39,961 I can't lie to children, and I got to also represent a whole community that 1158 01:18:39,985 --> 01:18:44,486 believes in biological facts and scientific facts, and I can't do that to kids. 1159 01:18:44,548 --> 01:18:46,262 You get into teaching because you love kids. 1160 01:18:46,336 --> 01:18:51,302 This policy started coming into play and I was like, wait a minute, it's causing me. 1161 01:18:51,376 --> 01:18:54,410 I'm going to have to lie to my kids the ones I've always wanted to protect. 1162 01:18:54,520 --> 01:18:59,733 Do we have assaults in our bathrooms and our locker rooms regularly? To my 1163 01:18:59,757 --> 01:19:04,970 knowledge, we don't have any records of assaults occurring in our restroom. 1164 01:19:10,610 --> 01:19:14,142 The predator transgender student is or person. 1165 01:19:14,336 --> 01:19:16,114 Simply, it does not exist. 1166 01:19:16,222 --> 01:19:19,637 The Virginia Department of Education says it is now reviewing whether the 1167 01:19:19,661 --> 01:19:23,362 Loudon County School District has properly reported cases of sexual assault. 1168 01:19:23,386 --> 01:19:27,197 This comes after a 15 year old was charged on two separate occasions 1169 01:19:27,221 --> 01:19:30,690 for assaulting two different students at different schools. 1170 01:19:32,450 --> 01:19:36,346 Dozens rallying Center Loudon County to protest the school's policies. 1171 01:19:36,418 --> 01:19:38,704 So that includes limiting who can talk during 1172 01:19:38,728 --> 01:19:41,014 public comment portions of board meetings. 1173 01:19:41,122 --> 01:19:44,190 One speaker leased property in the area just so he could speak. 1174 01:19:44,240 --> 01:19:47,482 Tonight, Fox Five Paris Jones'live with the details. 1175 01:19:47,566 --> 01:19:47,994 That's right. 1176 01:19:48,032 --> 01:19:51,449 Conservative commentator Matt Wallace told me he's leasing 1177 01:19:51,473 --> 01:19:54,890 out someone's basement in Loudoun County so he'd be able 1178 01:19:54,914 --> 01:19:58,358 to speak during tonight's meeting, I decided last week to 1179 01:19:58,382 --> 01:20:02,134 fulfill my lifelong dream of being a Loudon County resident. 1180 01:20:02,242 --> 01:20:05,254 I've always felt like I lived in Tennessee. 1181 01:20:05,302 --> 01:20:08,746 I felt sort of like a Virginian trapped in a Tennessee. 1182 01:20:08,758 --> 01:20:12,282 In his body, I identified sort of state fluid, I guess. 1183 01:20:12,356 --> 01:20:14,002 This is Matt Wall, she tweeted. 1184 01:20:14,086 --> 01:20:18,305 How do you do, fellow Virginians? Now I just got explained to my 1185 01:20:18,329 --> 01:20:22,950 wife and kids that we're going to be staying in someone's basement. 1186 01:20:27,990 --> 01:20:31,866 They tried to muzzle me by not allowing me to speak, and 1187 01:20:31,890 --> 01:20:36,190 when that didn't work, they tried to muzzle me with a mask. 1188 01:20:38,950 --> 01:20:40,614 I would thank you all for allowing me to speak 1189 01:20:40,638 --> 01:20:42,302 to you tonight, but you tried not to allow it. 1190 01:20:42,316 --> 01:20:43,360 Yet here I am. 1191 01:20:43,870 --> 01:20:45,282 Now, you only give us 60 seconds. 1192 01:20:45,306 --> 01:20:46,574 So let me get to the point. 1193 01:20:46,732 --> 01:20:48,498 You are all child abusers. 1194 01:20:48,654 --> 01:20:51,266 You prey upon impressionable children and indoctrinate 1195 01:20:51,290 --> 01:20:53,604 them into your insane ideological cult, a cult 1196 01:20:53,628 --> 01:20:56,316 which holds many fanatical views, but none so deranged 1197 01:20:56,340 --> 01:20:58,926 as the idea that boys are girls and girls or boys. 1198 01:20:59,118 --> 01:21:01,517 By imposing this vile nonsense on students to the 1199 01:21:01,541 --> 01:21:04,341 point even of forcing young girls to share locker rooms 1200 01:21:04,365 --> 01:21:07,141 with boys, you deprive these kids of safety and Privacy 1201 01:21:07,165 --> 01:21:09,890 and something more fundamental, too, which is truth. 1202 01:21:10,270 --> 01:21:13,530 If education is not grounded in truth, then it is worthless. 1203 01:21:13,710 --> 01:21:15,198 Worse, it is poison. 1204 01:21:15,354 --> 01:21:16,746 You are poison. 1205 01:21:16,938 --> 01:21:18,306 You are predators. 1206 01:21:18,438 --> 01:21:20,186 I can see why you try to stop us from speaking. 1207 01:21:20,248 --> 01:21:22,326 You know that your ideas are indefensible. 1208 01:21:22,518 --> 01:21:25,566 You silence the opposing side because you have no argument. 1209 01:21:25,758 --> 01:21:28,315 You can only hide under your beds like pathetic 1210 01:21:28,339 --> 01:21:31,454 little gutless cowards, hoping we shut up and go away. 1211 01:21:31,492 --> 01:21:35,380 But we won't, I promise you that. 1212 01:21:48,150 --> 01:21:51,010 Johnny is a boy with a big imagination. 1213 01:21:52,890 --> 01:22:01,674 One day he's a dog, the next day a crustacean Johnny's mom loves her son's. 1214 01:22:01,722 --> 01:22:08,480 Make believe time you're Johnny the Walrus till you change your mind. 1215 01:22:10,430 --> 01:22:12,954 Matt Walsh is out with a new children's book. 1216 01:22:12,992 --> 01:22:15,250 The book is called Johnny the Walrus. 1217 01:22:15,310 --> 01:22:19,974 What is this about? It's sold out on Amazon in a few hours. 1218 01:22:20,072 --> 01:22:23,818 I have embraced my true calling as a children's author, hence the cardigan. 1219 01:22:23,854 --> 01:22:28,222 The book is about a little boy who is very imaginative and playful. 1220 01:22:28,366 --> 01:22:31,247 I have four kids and they all have an imagination and he likes to 1221 01:22:31,271 --> 01:22:34,558 pretend to be different things, and one day he pretends to be a walrus. 1222 01:22:34,714 --> 01:22:38,974 And unfortunately, his mother is very progressive and thus confused. 1223 01:22:39,022 --> 01:22:42,974 And so she's convinced by the Internet and by society that if your 1224 01:22:42,998 --> 01:22:46,950 child is identifying as something, then he really is that thing. 1225 01:22:47,060 --> 01:22:50,403 And so she tries to raise her child as a walrus, as 1226 01:22:50,427 --> 01:22:53,770 a sort of trans walrus, respecting his self identity. 1227 01:22:53,830 --> 01:22:57,913 One morning he came downstairs barking and clapping wood spoons 1228 01:22:57,937 --> 01:23:01,822 for tusks and sock, fins of flapping it spoons his mouth. 1229 01:23:01,846 --> 01:23:03,390 He's pretending to be a walrus. 1230 01:23:04,550 --> 01:23:07,570 I'm Johnny the Walrus, he said with Aurora. 1231 01:23:07,690 --> 01:23:10,590 Johnny the Walrus. 1232 01:23:17,310 --> 01:23:19,574 This is a hot topic. 1233 01:23:19,742 --> 01:23:21,850 That's a good thing, right? Yeah, absolutely. 1234 01:23:22,020 --> 01:23:23,738 It's good for us to have these conversations. 1235 01:23:23,834 --> 01:23:27,170 People open their minds and relearn and unlearn to what we've been taught. 1236 01:23:27,230 --> 01:23:30,840 So I want this to be a safe place to talk about and learn. 1237 01:23:31,950 --> 01:23:36,410 As you can see, there's an ongoing evolution of language and how people can identify. 1238 01:23:36,530 --> 01:23:39,982 My next guest, author and conservative host of Daily 1239 01:23:40,006 --> 01:23:43,254 The Matt Walsh Show, talking about his recently 1240 01:23:43,278 --> 01:23:46,492 published children's book that has since been 1241 01:23:46,516 --> 01:23:49,730 removed online by a popular large retail chain. 1242 01:23:49,910 --> 01:23:57,010 Now, Matt says gender is not a social construct, but rooted firmly in biology. 1243 01:23:57,330 --> 01:23:58,618 True, true. 1244 01:23:58,704 --> 01:24:00,641 As human beings, we have a sex, male or 1245 01:24:00,665 --> 01:24:03,166 female, but it's a biological, scientific fact. 1246 01:24:03,288 --> 01:24:05,522 Now, gender is a linguistic term. 1247 01:24:05,666 --> 01:24:06,734 Words have gender. 1248 01:24:06,782 --> 01:24:09,273 People don't you can have whatever self perception 1249 01:24:09,297 --> 01:24:11,431 you want, but you can't expect me to take 1250 01:24:11,455 --> 01:24:13,973 part in that self perception or to take part in 1251 01:24:13,997 --> 01:24:16,514 this kind of charade, this theatrical production. 1252 01:24:16,682 --> 01:24:19,034 You don't get your own pronouns, just like you don't 1253 01:24:19,058 --> 01:24:21,410 get your own prepositions or your own adjectives. 1254 01:24:21,530 --> 01:24:26,438 It's like if I were to tell you my adjectives are handsome and brilliant. 1255 01:24:26,474 --> 01:24:29,036 And whatever you're talking about me, you have to describe 1256 01:24:29,060 --> 01:24:31,622 me as handsome and brilliant because that's how I identify. 1257 01:24:31,766 --> 01:24:35,722 So you think it's a delusion? Well, this is one of the problems with this left wing 1258 01:24:35,746 --> 01:24:37,906 gender ideology is that no one who espouses 1259 01:24:37,930 --> 01:24:40,090 it can even tell you what these words means. 1260 01:24:40,140 --> 01:24:44,654 Like what is a woman? Can you tell me what a woman is? No, I can't. 1261 01:24:44,822 --> 01:24:47,714 Womanhood is something that is an umbrella term. 1262 01:24:47,822 --> 01:24:53,174 It includes people that describes what people who identify as a woman. 1263 01:24:53,342 --> 01:24:55,980 What is that? What's to each their own. 1264 01:24:56,550 --> 01:24:59,104 Each man, each person is going to have a different relation 1265 01:24:59,128 --> 01:25:01,682 with their own gender identity and define it differently. 1266 01:25:01,766 --> 01:25:02,734 You want to reduce women. 1267 01:25:02,772 --> 01:25:04,779 You want to reduce men down to maybe just 1268 01:25:04,803 --> 01:25:07,214 their genetics, our genitals, our chromosomes. 1269 01:25:07,262 --> 01:25:08,866 Right? That's what you want to do. 1270 01:25:09,048 --> 01:25:11,414 What you want to do is appropriate woman. 1271 01:25:11,522 --> 01:25:13,946 You want to appropriate womanhood and turn it 1272 01:25:13,970 --> 01:25:16,394 into basically a costume that could be worn. 1273 01:25:16,502 --> 01:25:18,286 Joining us on stage is Dr. 1274 01:25:18,348 --> 01:25:21,926 Susie Denbo, associate professor at Kent State University. 1275 01:25:21,998 --> 01:25:26,067 Doctor Denbo, how do you feel those who oppose using pronouns are 1276 01:25:26,091 --> 01:25:30,159 taking the wrong approach in this conversation? There's the extreme 1277 01:25:30,183 --> 01:25:34,341 approach that you are admittedly taking, and then there's also just 1278 01:25:34,365 --> 01:25:38,902 ordinary people that might not be comfortable with the language change. 1279 01:25:38,976 --> 01:25:41,186 She began by saying that my view is extreme. 1280 01:25:41,258 --> 01:25:41,458 Okay. 1281 01:25:41,484 --> 01:25:43,879 So the view that every single person on Earth 1282 01:25:43,903 --> 01:25:46,298 has held up until 15 seconds ago is extreme. 1283 01:25:46,394 --> 01:25:49,712 They are conflating gender and sex because on one hand, they say, well, you 1284 01:25:49,736 --> 01:25:53,054 got your biological sex, but then your gender is whatever social construct. 1285 01:25:53,162 --> 01:25:56,146 But then they turn around and say that trans women are women. 1286 01:25:56,328 --> 01:25:59,104 So a man who identifies with the gender, the 1287 01:25:59,128 --> 01:26:02,357 social construct of womanhood actually is a woman 1288 01:26:02,381 --> 01:26:05,318 part of me wants to ask why you care so much, 1289 01:26:05,342 --> 01:26:08,280 because it's really not that big of a deal. 1290 01:26:09,570 --> 01:26:10,958 I care about the truth. 1291 01:26:11,114 --> 01:26:12,482 So basic truth matters. 1292 01:26:12,506 --> 01:26:14,522 I want to live in a society where people care about the truth. 1293 01:26:14,606 --> 01:26:18,768 I care about children, and these insane ideas about gender 1294 01:26:18,792 --> 01:26:22,954 are being foisted on kids, and that bothers me quite a bit. 1295 01:26:23,052 --> 01:26:26,590 I care about the women who are having their opportunities stolen from them. 1296 01:26:26,640 --> 01:26:27,418 I care quite a bit. 1297 01:26:27,444 --> 01:26:27,670 Yeah. 1298 01:26:27,720 --> 01:26:32,446 I wanted us to have a safe place to be able to talk about this. 1299 01:26:32,508 --> 01:26:35,912 And it seems like we should just keep the dialogue 1300 01:26:35,936 --> 01:26:39,130 going and hopefully find some middle ground. 1301 01:27:17,450 --> 01:27:20,908 What do you say to parents? A parent comes to you and 1302 01:27:20,932 --> 01:27:24,390 says, My eight year old son is telling me he's a girl. 1303 01:27:24,560 --> 01:27:29,089 Great, you're going to have him do an experimental procedure that creates the most 1304 01:27:29,113 --> 01:27:33,586 suicidal ideation of any other population seven to ten years after transition. 1305 01:27:33,718 --> 01:27:35,590 And here's what I tell parents. 1306 01:27:35,770 --> 01:27:42,546 You don't have the right to medically transition your child. 1307 01:27:42,668 --> 01:27:46,902 We have no research on long term hormone use. 1308 01:27:46,976 --> 01:27:51,006 We will be seeing the first generation of long term hormone use. 1309 01:27:51,188 --> 01:27:53,677 And we already know, at least with ten years 1310 01:27:53,701 --> 01:27:56,190 of hormones, you're giving yourself cancer. 1311 01:27:57,110 --> 01:27:59,549 What's your message to parents who are trying to cope with 1312 01:27:59,573 --> 01:28:02,398 this? The first thing is to tell parents that they're not alone. 1313 01:28:02,494 --> 01:28:06,318 It is our responsibility as a parent to be the front line defense for our children. 1314 01:28:06,404 --> 01:28:08,991 And I know with my child, a lot of people will say, 1315 01:28:09,015 --> 01:28:11,601 Was it worth it because you now seemingly have lost 1316 01:28:11,625 --> 01:28:14,290 your child? And I'll say, yeah, but at least I saved 1317 01:28:14,314 --> 01:28:16,822 my conscience and my morals and my convictions. 1318 01:28:16,906 --> 01:28:21,054 And when my child turns 25 and says, dad, where were you? I'll say, I was there. 1319 01:28:21,092 --> 01:28:22,554 I was fighting as hard as I could. 1320 01:28:22,592 --> 01:28:24,560 I was not prepared to let this happen. 1321 01:28:32,710 --> 01:28:37,453 This really matters is another question matters for those 1322 01:28:37,477 --> 01:28:42,050 who are getting double mastectomies when they're 16. 1323 01:28:42,430 --> 01:28:45,178 Why should we care if we live in a society where 1324 01:28:45,202 --> 01:28:48,420 gender is? Well, I cared because my government decided 1325 01:28:48,444 --> 01:28:51,339 that I had to call people by the terms that they 1326 01:28:51,363 --> 01:28:54,258 designated or I'd be subject to legal penalties. 1327 01:28:54,414 --> 01:28:58,540 It's like, no, I'm not doing that. 1328 01:28:59,290 --> 01:29:01,180 I don't care what your reason is. 1329 01:29:01,750 --> 01:29:03,762 You don't get control of my tongue. 1330 01:29:03,906 --> 01:29:08,770 We live in a climate now in which no one seems to care about the safety of women and 1331 01:29:08,794 --> 01:29:13,658 girls who are going through a very developmentally challenging time in their lives. 1332 01:29:13,804 --> 01:29:16,794 They may not want to share spaces with their male peers. 1333 01:29:16,902 --> 01:29:17,838 I would not be surprised. 1334 01:29:17,874 --> 01:29:21,366 In a few years, there will no longer be women's sports. 1335 01:29:21,498 --> 01:29:25,350 It will literally be men's sports and transgender sports. 1336 01:29:25,470 --> 01:29:28,886 The question being asked by the trans person is a legitimate one. 1337 01:29:28,948 --> 01:29:33,425 How can I be happy? The answer being given by having my body transformed 1338 01:29:33,449 --> 01:29:37,925 to look like the other gender, by having myself pumped full of hormones 1339 01:29:37,949 --> 01:29:42,426 clearly isn't working, and we have to find a better and the more humane 1340 01:29:42,450 --> 01:29:46,926 way of dealing with individuals who are struggling with gender dysphoria. 1341 01:29:47,058 --> 01:29:53,946 I have the utmost compassion for people who suffer from gender dysphoria. 1342 01:29:54,018 --> 01:29:57,582 It's a nightmare for them and their families. 1343 01:29:57,726 --> 01:30:01,142 The vast majority, up to 90% of kids. 1344 01:30:01,216 --> 01:30:05,078 If they go through a normal puberty, they're going to be okay. 1345 01:30:05,224 --> 01:30:09,528 They will be at peace with their bodies, and they will have avoided 1346 01:30:09,552 --> 01:30:13,790 dangerous and experimental medical interventions and surgeries. 1347 01:30:14,350 --> 01:30:18,073 Maybe we're up against a battle here, up against a Hill 1348 01:30:18,097 --> 01:30:21,820 that perhaps we're not going to necessarily win today. 1349 01:30:22,210 --> 01:30:26,500 But if we don't pave the way for a win, we'll never get there. 1350 01:30:28,910 --> 01:30:30,570 So we're going on this journey. 1351 01:30:31,310 --> 01:30:32,278 Boys can be girls. 1352 01:30:32,314 --> 01:30:33,406 Girls can be boys. 1353 01:30:33,538 --> 01:30:34,314 Men can be women. 1354 01:30:34,352 --> 01:30:35,420 Women can be men. 1355 01:30:35,750 --> 01:30:41,404 It makes me wonder, what is a woman? What is a woman? A woman is someone 1356 01:30:41,428 --> 01:30:47,082 who claims that as their identity, it could be many things to many people. 1357 01:30:47,216 --> 01:30:54,493 I think the question really brings up the fact that it is pretty relative, right? That if you ask 1358 01:30:54,517 --> 01:30:58,411 women across race, across identities, across class, 1359 01:30:58,435 --> 01:31:02,250 across culture, you will get a different answer. 1360 01:31:02,360 --> 01:31:06,538 Some of it is based on biology, some of it is based on hormones. 1361 01:31:06,574 --> 01:31:11,082 Some of it is based on what you wear and how you present yourself. 1362 01:31:11,216 --> 01:31:13,002 A woman is not anything in particular. 1363 01:31:13,136 --> 01:31:14,694 There's no one particular thing. 1364 01:31:14,792 --> 01:31:16,698 There is not one particular thing. 1365 01:31:16,844 --> 01:31:21,862 A woman is someone who says that she is a woman and transitions to be a woman. 1366 01:31:21,886 --> 01:31:28,503 She says that she's what? Can you define the word woman without 1367 01:31:28,527 --> 01:31:36,000 using the word woman? Actually kind of like it's a curious question. 1368 01:31:43,150 --> 01:31:45,424 We've been journeying across the country asking 1369 01:31:45,448 --> 01:31:48,220 people this question, and almost nobody can answer it. 1370 01:31:49,510 --> 01:31:53,020 What is a woman? What is a woman? Marry one and find out. 1371 01:31:54,910 --> 01:31:56,798 So I should go home and ask my wife, I guess. 1372 01:31:56,884 --> 01:31:57,520 Yeah. 1373 01:32:08,390 --> 01:32:10,820 I mean, to ask you something. 1374 01:32:15,166 --> 01:32:16,333 What is a woman? 1375 01:32:22,118 --> 01:32:23,518 An adult human female 1376 01:32:25,857 --> 01:32:27,724 Who needs help opening this. 1377 01:33:06,490 --> 01:33:11,457 Can you provide a definition for the word woman? 1378 01:33:11,481 --> 01:33:16,130 Can I provide a definition? Yeah, I can't. 1379 01:33:16,450 --> 01:33:21,402 You can't not in this context. 1380 01:33:21,486 --> 01:33:24,799 I'm not in biology of the word woman is so unclear 1381 01:33:24,823 --> 01:33:28,610 and controversial that you can't give me a definition. 1382 01:33:28,990 --> 01:33:36,114 Senator, in my work as a judge, what I do is I address disputes. 1383 01:33:36,222 --> 01:33:41,916 If there's a dispute about a definition, people make arguments and I 1384 01:33:41,940 --> 01:33:48,061 look at the law and I decide the fact that you can't give me a straight 1385 01:33:48,085 --> 01:33:54,290 answer about something as fundamental as what a woman is underscores the 1386 01:33:54,314 --> 01:34:00,520 dangers of the kind of progressive education that we are hearing about. 1387 01:34:00,910 --> 01:34:04,831 Just last week, an entire generation of young 1388 01:34:04,855 --> 01:34:09,313 girls watched as our taxpayer funded institutions 1389 01:34:09,337 --> 01:34:13,653 permitted a biological man to compete and beat a 1390 01:34:13,677 --> 01:34:18,546 biological woman in the NCAA swimming Championships. 1391 01:34:30,130 --> 01:34:30,642 Senator. 1392 01:34:30,666 --> 01:34:33,606 I'm not sure what message that sends. 1393 01:34:33,738 --> 01:34:37,000 If you're asking me about the legal issues related to it. 1394 01:34:38,410 --> 01:34:42,018 Those are topics that are being hotly discussed. 1395 01:34:42,054 --> 01:34:44,670 As you say could come to the court. 126398

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