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problem is always that we mistake the
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problem is always that we mistake the
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problem is always that we mistake the
idea of love for attachment you know we
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idea of love for attachment you know we
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idea of love for attachment you know we
imagine that the the grasping and
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imagine that the the grasping and
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imagine that the the grasping and
clinging that we have for in our
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clinging that we have for in our
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clinging that we have for in our
relationships shows that we love whereas
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relationships shows that we love whereas
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relationships shows that we love whereas
actually it is just attachment which
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actually it is just attachment which
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actually it is just attachment which
causes pain you know because the more we
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causes pain you know because the more we
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causes pain you know because the more we
grasp the more we are afraid to lose
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grasp the more we are afraid to lose
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grasp the more we are afraid to lose
then if we do lose then of course we are
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then if we do lose then of course we are
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then if we do lose then of course we are
going to suffer I mean genuine love is
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going to suffer I mean genuine love is
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going to suffer I mean genuine love is
well attachment says you know I love you
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well attachment says you know I love you
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well attachment says you know I love you
therefore I want you to make me happy
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therefore I want you to make me happy
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therefore I want you to make me happy
and genuine love says I love you
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and genuine love says I love you
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and genuine love says I love you
therefore I want you to be happy if that
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therefore I want you to be happy if that
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therefore I want you to be happy if that
includes me great if it doesn't include
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includes me great if it doesn't include
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includes me great if it doesn't include
me I just want your happiness and so
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me I just want your happiness and so
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me I just want your happiness and so
it's a very different feeling you know
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it's a very different feeling you know
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it's a very different feeling you know
attachment is like holding very tight
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attachment is like holding very tight
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attachment is like holding very tight
but genuine love is like holding very
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but genuine love is like holding very
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but genuine love is like holding very
gently nurturing but allowing things to
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gently nurturing but allowing things to
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gently nurturing but allowing things to
float not to be held tightly the more
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float not to be held tightly the more
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float not to be held tightly the more
tightly hold on to others the more we
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tightly hold on to others the more we
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tightly hold on to others the more we
will suffer but it's very hard for
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will suffer but it's very hard for
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will suffer but it's very hard for
people to understand that you because
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people to understand that you because
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people to understand that you because
they think that the more they hold on to
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they think that the more they hold on to
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they think that the more they hold on to
someone the more it shows that that they
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someone the more it shows that that they
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someone the more it shows that that they
care about them but it's not it's really
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care about them but it's not it's really
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care about them but it's not it's really
just that they're they're trying to
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just that they're they're trying to
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just that they're they're trying to
grasp or something because they're
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grasp or something because they're
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grasp or something because they're
afraid that otherwise they will they
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afraid that otherwise they will they
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afraid that otherwise they will they
themselves will be hurt any kind of
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themselves will be hurt any kind of
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themselves will be hurt any kind of
relationship which imagines that we can
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relationship which imagines that we can
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relationship which imagines that we can
fulfill ourselves through another is
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fulfill ourselves through another is
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fulfill ourselves through another is
bound to
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bound to
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bound to
be very tricky I mean ideally people
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be very tricky I mean ideally people
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be very tricky I mean ideally people
should come together already feeling
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should come together already feeling
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should come together already feeling
fulfilled within themselves and and just
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fulfilled within themselves and and just
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fulfilled within themselves and and just
therefore appreciating that in the other
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therefore appreciating that in the other
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therefore appreciating that in the other
rather than expecting the other two to
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rather than expecting the other two to
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rather than expecting the other two to
supply that sense of well-being which
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supply that sense of well-being which
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supply that sense of well-being which
they don't feel on their own there's a
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they don't feel on their own there's a
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they don't feel on their own there's a
lot of problems and also along with the
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lot of problems and also along with the
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lot of problems and also along with the
projection which comes with romance
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projection which comes with romance
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projection which comes with romance
where we project all our our ideas
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where we project all our our ideas
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where we project all our our ideas
ideals and and desires and and romantic
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ideals and and desires and and romantic
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ideals and and desires and and romantic
fantasies on to the other which the
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fantasies on to the other which the
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fantasies on to the other which the
other cannot possibly fulfill once you
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other cannot possibly fulfill once you
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other cannot possibly fulfill once you
get to know them you recognize that it's
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get to know them you recognize that it's
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get to know them you recognize that it's
not Prince Charming or Cinderella it's
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not Prince Charming or Cinderella it's
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not Prince Charming or Cinderella it's
just you know a very ordinary person
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just you know a very ordinary person
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just you know a very ordinary person
also struggling and unless one is able
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also struggling and unless one is able
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also struggling and unless one is able
to see them with two like them as well
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to see them with two like them as well
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to see them with two like them as well
as feel desire for them and and to also
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as feel desire for them and and to also
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as feel desire for them and and to also
have loving kindness and compassion then
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have loving kindness and compassion then
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have loving kindness and compassion then
it's going to be a very difficult
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it's going to be a very difficult
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it's going to be a very difficult
relationship
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