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Andrew:
Welcome to room 320. Hello.
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Hello, how are you? Hello.
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Hi.
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It is so good to see so many
of you come here tonight.
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Thank you so much. Kids?
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Lets welcome our parents!
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(Applauding)
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Boy:
Thats my dad!
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All right, now,
the kids have worked
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really, really hard to make sure
you guys have a very fun night.
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And one of the things we did
is we came up with a game.
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Uh, the first ones kind of
like a... its like a pop quiz.
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But its-its totally fine,
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because youve had
11 years to study.
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Now, all these drawings
behind me,
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the children made
in response to the statement,
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"how I see me."
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So, you assignment is
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to go find your Childs drawing,
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and then place it on
his or her desk.
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So lets go.
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Mother:
Ill find it.
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(Talking indistinctly)
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Trust you to be
wrong every time.
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Me, wrong?
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Its a girls drawing.
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Janet:
Its a house.
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Men build houses.
Some men even buy them.
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Oh, but not me, right?
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Well, save your breath,
basketballs his favorite sport.
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-Well, it used to be.
-It still is.
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And dont act like you
know my son better than me.
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You dont live there.
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You dont see how much
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he likes living in
a house with a yard.
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All that stuff I could
never give him, right?
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-Mm.
-Andrew: Um, you know...
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There are no grades here.
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This is just a fun kind of
warm-up activity.
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Well, you dont see
how much he likes
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watching the game with me.
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Believe me,
I know what my son likes.
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Well, so do I.
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Youre both wrong.
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John:
Heres your picture, Brett.
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Heh.
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My mother the volcano.
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You are the one
who is always exploding.
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I think that picture
explains everything.
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Tess:
How so?
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Well, the volcano
exploding is, um...
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Its like all the anger
that he feels.
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And the dinosaur?
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The dinosaurs...
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Very lonely.
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The world he knew
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has become extinct.
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Divorce can do that to children.
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At least Andrew has
gotten John to a point
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where he can make
a drawing like that.
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Well, its one thing
to draw a volcano,
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but its a whole other thing
to be one.
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Johns parents have divided
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their friends, their money,
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their furniture, but they...
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But they cant figure out
how to divide their own son.
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(Sighs)
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♪ When you walk
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♪ down the road
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♪ heavy burden
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♪ heavy load
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♪ I will rise
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♪ and I will walk with you
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♪ ill walk with you
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♪ till the sun
dont even shine ♪
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♪ walk with you
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♪ every time, I tell you
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♪ ill walk with you
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♪
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Walk with you
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♪ believe me,
ill walk with you. ♪
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(School bell ringing,
kids talking)
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(Sighs, sniffs)
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Hey.
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Wow, thats a great dinosaur.
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That looks like the guy that you
drew in that volcano picture.
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Its a comp.
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Its short for compsognathus,
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one of the smallest
dinosaurs ever.
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He lived in Canada
around the Jurassic period.
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Oh.
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That mustve been kind of tough.
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Being a little guy with all
those... those big guys
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stomping around all the time.
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(Horn honking)
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Girl:
Hi, mom!
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Woman:
Hi, honey, lets go!
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Whos coming to get you?
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(Sighs)
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Um, on Fridays its my dad,
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but... but sometimes,
if he has to work late,
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which is okay, cause money
doesnt grow on trees,
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and you gotta do
what you gotta do,
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well, then it could be my mom.
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But if shes stuck, she could
send my grandmother.
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Or Phil.
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And thats your stepdad, right?
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Phil? You call him Phil?
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I dont know what else
to call him.
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Well, I tell you what.
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What if I go inside,
and give your mom a call.
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You know, just to let her know
that... that youre not alone.
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If you want.
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I want.
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Janet:
So, you like your new teacher?
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Yeah.
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He seems like
hed be a lot of fun.
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Yeah.
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You know what
ive been in the mood for?
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Ice cream.
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How about on Sunday,
when you get home,
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-we take a trip to the dq?
-Ice cream in winter?
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Cool!
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I guess thats whats
so great about your mom.
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She gets to make up
her own rules.
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Well... when do I
get to make some up?
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When youre a grown-up.
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Phil: Thats the way
of the world, John.
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You dont get to
make up new rules
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until you understand
the old ones.
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(Doorbell chimes)
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Finish your dinner!
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Its his turn to wait.
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-Hey.
-Hi, dad!
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How you doing, kiddo?
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-Sorry im late.
-Oh, thats okay.
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Uh, hold on,
let me go get my stuff.
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So you forgot
your gloves, too, huh?
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(Sighs, sniffs)
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I didnt forget him.
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I had to work late.
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I didnt say anything.
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Right.
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So, that things
still running, huh?
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Dont worry. Its safe.
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Well, you finally got those rims
you were always talking about.
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Yeah.
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They look good, dont they?
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Yeah. Congratulations.
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(Footsteps running down stairs)
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Hey. You got your homework?
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-Yeah.
-Mm.
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Martin:
Whoopsie.
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There you go.
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Go, baby, warm it up.
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(Car engine growls)
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Ready, buddy?
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-Yes!
-Oh, yeah.
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Martin:
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I dont know what
your mother told you,
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but I got stuck
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fixing a fuel mix situation
on a Ford probe.
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Its okay, dad.
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Those-those car computers
can be a real headache.
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You said it. Hey.
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Probably worked on
my last Plymouth today.
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Cant believe
they cut those out.
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Youre telling me.
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Man, if I was in charge
of Chrysler, I would...
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Hey, what do you say
we go to my place,
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catch a shower,
well grab a pizza,
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check out the game
on big screen?
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I already ate.
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Oh, yeah, right.
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Well, I-I could eat again.
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Thats a nice jacket.
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Is it new?
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Yeah.
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We just went to get socks,
and mom saw it...
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-...and so she just...
-Mom bought it for you,
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just right then and there,
didnt she?
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Yeah.
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What was wrong with
the one I got you?
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(Music playing, talking)
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You want some tokens?
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Hey, look, its my teacher.
Remember?
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Martin:
Oh, yeah.
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Looks like hes
got a girlfriend.
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Uh, you want to go say hi?
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Nah, you know what?
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Dont bother him.
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Play the games.
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Okay.
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(Pinball machine chiming)
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Hey. Hey, John!
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Hi. Dont mind me.
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Come here. Come on.
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I want you to meet
a friend of mine.
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This is Monica.
Monica... this is John.
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-Hi.
-Hello.
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Andrews teaching me how to
play, im not very good, but...
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(Monica gasps happily)
Would you look at that?
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John:
Hes a pretty good teacher.
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Oh, well...
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Thank you.
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Hey, take my turn.
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Okay.
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So, are you a teacher, too?
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Uh, no, but I suppose
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I do the sorts of things
that teachers do.
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Like what?
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Well, I teach people how
to solve their problems.
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Like in math?
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Well, no. Harder than math.
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I mean, in math you either
add or subtract or multiply,
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and you still come up
with the same answer.
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Lifes not that simple.
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Sometimes things dont add up
no matter how hard you try.
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Yeah. Thats when you know
you really got a problem.
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Thats where I come in.
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I help people find new answers.
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Like a private eye?
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Well, Monica is an advocate.
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Oh, so like a lawyer.
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Well, yeah,
lawyers are advocates.
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So if I had a problem,
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youd be on my side, right?
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Right.
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Oh, no, I forgot my book.
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So much for helping him
with his homework.
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-Were eating first.
-You didnt even look
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to see if he had his books
when he left the house.
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He said he had them.
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Great! And if he says hes
finished his homework,
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are you just gonna take
him at his word then, too?
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Hes 11! I cant trust him
to match his socks
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much less monitor
his own homework.
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Well, I trust my kid.
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Well, so do I,
but I still check.
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Thats not trust. It wasnt
before and it isnt now.
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Ill go.
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Please do not make this
about US!
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-You just made it about US.
-I did not!
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Guys, guys, please. Come on.
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Can you settle this outside?
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Sorry.
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I am so sick of this.
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Will you be my advocate?
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Yes, but do you have a problem?
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Yeah, big one.
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I dont have much money.
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Well, the moneys not important.
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What do you want me to do?
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I want to get a divorce
from my parents.
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John, I know that this is has
been really, really hard on you,
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but divorce is
very, very serious from anyone.
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It should only be used
as a last resort.
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It is! They only fight
when they get together,
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and the only reason they
get together is cause of me.
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And if im gone,
then they wont fight anymore.
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But its not that simple, John.
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You cant just be gone.
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I mean, youll have to go to
court and so will your parents.
264
00:14:16,455 --> 00:14:18,591
Youll have to talk to a judge.
265
00:14:18,624 --> 00:14:21,360
Youll have to make some
very painful choices.
266
00:14:21,393 --> 00:14:24,630
It cant hurt any more
than it already does.
267
00:14:25,998 --> 00:14:27,967
Okay, you know what I think?
268
00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:30,703
I think you need a break,
not a divorce.
269
00:14:30,736 --> 00:14:32,104
So, tell you what.
270
00:14:32,137 --> 00:14:33,539
Im gonna go over,
talk to you dad
271
00:14:33,572 --> 00:14:35,207
and ask him if itd be okay
272
00:14:35,241 --> 00:14:37,376
for you and I just
to spend the day together,
273
00:14:37,409 --> 00:14:40,145
just hanging out, just
the two of US, all right?
274
00:14:40,179 --> 00:14:42,481
Then maybe thatll allow
your mom and your dad
275
00:14:42,514 --> 00:14:46,452
a little time to settle
some things, okay?
276
00:14:46,485 --> 00:14:48,053
Okay.
277
00:14:48,087 --> 00:14:50,089
Lets go.
278
00:14:53,192 --> 00:14:54,260
Well?
279
00:14:54,293 --> 00:14:57,196
Well, John wants to ask his
parents for a divorce,
280
00:14:57,229 --> 00:15:00,699
but I think weve managed
to talk him out of it.
281
00:15:00,733 --> 00:15:03,569
I see. Now there are two more
adults telling
282
00:15:03,602 --> 00:15:05,604
that child how he should feel.
283
00:15:08,474 --> 00:15:12,011
John:
Oh, cool.
284
00:15:12,044 --> 00:15:16,248
Do you think it would be,
like, like, too dumb
285
00:15:16,282 --> 00:15:18,751
if I worked with dinosaurs
when I grew up?
286
00:15:18,784 --> 00:15:21,620
No, I dont think
thatd be dumb.
287
00:15:21,654 --> 00:15:24,123
Even though theyre extinct?
288
00:15:24,156 --> 00:15:26,325
Just because theyre not roaming
up and down the street
289
00:15:26,358 --> 00:15:28,327
doesnt mean that we cant learn
stuff from them.
290
00:15:28,360 --> 00:15:31,764
Hey, and its not like
im learning anything
291
00:15:31,797 --> 00:15:33,365
at basketball practice, so...
292
00:15:34,733 --> 00:15:37,736
John, tell me something.
293
00:15:37,770 --> 00:15:40,406
If you dont like basketball,
why do you play?
294
00:15:40,439 --> 00:15:43,409
My dad says if hed played
on a team in high school,
295
00:15:43,442 --> 00:15:46,745
he could have gotten a
scholarship and gone to college.
296
00:15:46,779 --> 00:15:50,582
I mean, a lot of guys
dumber than him did.
297
00:15:50,616 --> 00:15:52,418
Phil did.
298
00:15:52,451 --> 00:15:54,353
Phil played basketball?
299
00:15:54,386 --> 00:15:57,756
Golf. But it was a team.
300
00:15:58,757 --> 00:16:01,126
Whoa!
301
00:16:01,160 --> 00:16:03,429
Youve got everything
an artist needs there.
302
00:16:03,462 --> 00:16:05,531
I paid for it all by myself.
303
00:16:05,564 --> 00:16:06,665
Thats a big deal.
304
00:16:08,267 --> 00:16:09,635
How do you know?
305
00:16:09,668 --> 00:16:12,705
Well, your dad cant get mad
that your mom bought it,
306
00:16:12,738 --> 00:16:15,207
and you mom cant get mad
that your dad bought it.
307
00:16:15,240 --> 00:16:17,676
Yeah.
308
00:16:19,845 --> 00:16:22,681
Andrew/john: ♪ 67 bottles
of root beer on the wall ♪
309
00:16:22,715 --> 00:16:25,050
♪ 67 bottles of root beer
on the wall ♪
310
00:16:25,084 --> 00:16:26,819
♪ 67 bottles of root beer
311
00:16:26,852 --> 00:16:29,722
♪ you take one down
and pass it around ♪
312
00:16:29,755 --> 00:16:32,157
♪ 66 bottles of root beer
on the wall ♪
313
00:16:32,191 --> 00:16:33,659
65...
314
00:16:33,692 --> 00:16:35,761
If hed stay with me longer,
ID put it up over there!
315
00:16:35,794 --> 00:16:38,330
No, because thats not
our custody agreement!
316
00:16:38,364 --> 00:16:41,633
They always argue when dad
comes to Phils house.
317
00:16:41,667 --> 00:16:43,369
Im sorry, John.
318
00:16:45,838 --> 00:16:48,140
I had a nice day.
319
00:16:48,173 --> 00:16:51,076
Yeah, me, too.
320
00:16:52,511 --> 00:16:54,680
(Indistinct arguing)
321
00:16:56,448 --> 00:16:57,649
Janet:
Why dont you call first!
322
00:16:57,683 --> 00:16:59,551
What do you mean, call?
I came with the...
323
00:16:59,585 --> 00:17:01,387
This is my house, Martin,
not yours.
324
00:17:01,420 --> 00:17:03,088
No, no, its
my sons house, too.
325
00:17:03,122 --> 00:17:05,324
And this is for my son.
326
00:17:05,357 --> 00:17:08,293
Dont tell me about your son.
He is my son.
327
00:17:08,327 --> 00:17:10,662
Hey, kiddo.
Hey, check this out.
328
00:17:10,696 --> 00:17:12,765
Im gonna hang it up
over there.
329
00:17:12,798 --> 00:17:14,266
Pretty soon, youll be
a scoring machine.
330
00:17:14,299 --> 00:17:16,402
That is not staying here,
Martin.
331
00:17:16,435 --> 00:17:17,836
Hey, get her. She thinks
332
00:17:17,870 --> 00:17:19,805
shes the only one that can buy
you stuff.
333
00:17:19,838 --> 00:17:22,174
All right, thats it.
I want you out of here now!
334
00:17:22,207 --> 00:17:24,676
Oh, sweetheart, oh, dont pay
any attention to him.
335
00:17:24,710 --> 00:17:26,111
Its gonna be okay.
336
00:17:26,145 --> 00:17:28,447
-Its not my fault.
-Yes, its your fault.
337
00:17:28,480 --> 00:17:30,149
Everything would have been
if you hadnt gotten in the way.
338
00:17:30,182 --> 00:17:31,683
You come here, you bring all
your toys...
339
00:17:31,717 --> 00:17:33,619
Shut up! Just shut up!
340
00:17:35,521 --> 00:17:39,291
See?! Forget it, Andrew.
341
00:17:39,324 --> 00:17:41,894
I want to do it.
342
00:17:41,927 --> 00:17:44,096
Just gotta do it.
343
00:17:53,472 --> 00:17:54,807
Do what?
344
00:18:02,247 --> 00:18:05,350
Evening.
Are you Janet grabowski?
345
00:18:05,384 --> 00:18:06,885
Yes.
346
00:18:06,919 --> 00:18:07,820
There you go.
347
00:18:12,825 --> 00:18:14,293
Phil?
348
00:18:15,461 --> 00:18:17,930
Martin wants custody again?
349
00:18:17,963 --> 00:18:20,799
No, youre not
gonna believe this.
350
00:18:20,833 --> 00:18:23,769
I dont get it.
351
00:18:23,802 --> 00:18:26,872
How does a kid get a custody
hearing for himself?
352
00:18:26,905 --> 00:18:29,775
Well, Martin had to put him
up to this.
353
00:18:29,808 --> 00:18:32,444
He had to. He just cant stand
for me to win.
354
00:18:32,478 --> 00:18:33,946
(Doorbell rings)
355
00:18:33,979 --> 00:18:35,481
Win?
356
00:18:35,514 --> 00:18:36,915
Well, I got John in the divorce,
357
00:18:36,949 --> 00:18:38,917
and then I got you.
What has Martin got?
358
00:18:38,951 --> 00:18:40,853
(Knocking)
359
00:18:40,886 --> 00:18:43,388
-Martin: Whats this?
-You got one, too.
360
00:18:43,422 --> 00:18:45,924
Which one of you put him
up to this?
361
00:18:45,958 --> 00:18:48,727
US. You just wont let US
settle down and be happy.
362
00:18:48,760 --> 00:18:49,828
You put him up to this!
363
00:18:49,862 --> 00:18:53,632
No, no, no, no, no, this has
your prints all over it.
364
00:18:53,665 --> 00:18:55,501
Dont you remember?
Calling in the lawyers
365
00:18:55,534 --> 00:18:57,202
the first time was your idea,
too.
366
00:18:57,236 --> 00:18:58,937
Look, if John did this
on his own,
367
00:18:58,971 --> 00:19:01,406
then its clearly a cry
for help.
368
00:19:01,440 --> 00:19:04,309
My son would never do this
on his own.
369
00:19:04,343 --> 00:19:06,879
(Voice breaks):
Why would he do this at all?
370
00:19:06,912 --> 00:19:10,182
Why dont we ask him?
371
00:19:38,911 --> 00:19:40,712
♪
372
00:20:00,032 --> 00:20:00,999
All rise.
373
00:20:01,033 --> 00:20:04,269
Summit county family court
is now in session.
374
00:20:08,407 --> 00:20:09,575
(Gavel bangs)
375
00:20:09,608 --> 00:20:11,610
This court is called to order
376
00:20:11,643 --> 00:20:16,014
in the matter of
377
00:20:11,643 --> 00:20:16,014
ashburn v.
Ashburn and grabowski.
378
00:20:11,643 --> 00:20:16,014
In the matter of
379
00:20:11,643 --> 00:20:16,014
ashburn v.
Ashburn and grabowski.
380
00:20:16,048 --> 00:20:18,884
You may be seated.
381
00:20:18,917 --> 00:20:22,020
Now this is a case,
in my opinion,
382
00:20:22,054 --> 00:20:24,890
that never should have come
to court in the first place.
383
00:20:26,692 --> 00:20:29,494
The young man felt he had
no other choice, your honor.
384
00:20:32,798 --> 00:20:34,533
Martin: Your honor, excuse me,
your honor.
385
00:20:34,566 --> 00:20:36,802
Uh, we can solve this whole
thing really easy.
386
00:20:36,835 --> 00:20:38,904
All you got to do is
give me custody.
387
00:20:38,937 --> 00:20:40,739
I mean, thats what should
have happened
388
00:20:40,772 --> 00:20:41,740
in the first place.
389
00:20:41,773 --> 00:20:43,942
Did I ask for your opinion, sir?
390
00:20:43,976 --> 00:20:46,778
Um, im sorry, but...
391
00:20:46,812 --> 00:20:49,014
She just doesnt pay him
enough attention
392
00:20:49,047 --> 00:20:50,749
ever since she got married.
393
00:20:50,782 --> 00:20:51,950
You cant blame this on me.
394
00:20:51,984 --> 00:20:54,486
Janet: Your honor,
this man has not kept
395
00:20:54,519 --> 00:20:55,754
a single custody condition
since our....
396
00:20:55,787 --> 00:20:59,891
I want quiet and I want it now!
397
00:20:59,925 --> 00:21:02,661
Now, it doesnt take a lot
of legal mumbo jumbo
398
00:21:02,694 --> 00:21:04,329
to show me that this is
a situation
399
00:21:04,363 --> 00:21:06,932
that needs a time-out.
400
00:21:06,965 --> 00:21:09,601
I know a time-out is
usually for children,
401
00:21:09,635 --> 00:21:12,404
but in this case,
I cannot tell the difference
402
00:21:12,437 --> 00:21:14,673
between the adults
and the children.
403
00:21:14,706 --> 00:21:16,975
She cant say that.
Can she say that?
404
00:21:17,009 --> 00:21:20,012
Mr. Ashburn, this is my court.
405
00:21:20,045 --> 00:21:24,049
I can say what I want
to when I want to.
406
00:21:24,082 --> 00:21:25,951
And you get a chance to listen.
407
00:21:25,984 --> 00:21:29,054
Unless you want me to give you
my decision now.
408
00:21:29,087 --> 00:21:31,723
No.
409
00:21:31,757 --> 00:21:33,625
I didnt think so.
410
00:21:33,659 --> 00:21:37,696
Now if there ever was a
situation that needed everybody
411
00:21:37,729 --> 00:21:39,998
to take a step back
and let it settle,
412
00:21:40,032 --> 00:21:40,832
this is it.
413
00:21:40,866 --> 00:21:43,869
And so thats what were
going to do.
414
00:21:43,902 --> 00:21:45,103
In the meantime, Monica,
415
00:21:45,137 --> 00:21:47,773
who is the advocate
for this minor child,
416
00:21:47,806 --> 00:21:50,108
is going to take
some depositions.
417
00:21:50,142 --> 00:21:53,845
The rest of you are gonna
take a deep breath
418
00:21:53,879 --> 00:21:55,647
and cool yourselves off.
419
00:22:00,686 --> 00:22:04,990
John, if you had to live with
someone other than your parents
420
00:22:05,023 --> 00:22:07,092
for a few days,
where could you live?
421
00:22:16,902 --> 00:22:18,837
I want to live with him.
422
00:22:22,774 --> 00:22:24,042
Uh, you mean at my house?
423
00:22:24,076 --> 00:22:25,477
Uh-huh.
424
00:22:25,510 --> 00:22:27,479
Your honor, tha...
425
00:22:29,014 --> 00:22:30,549
That would be fine.
426
00:22:30,582 --> 00:22:33,118
At my house.
427
00:22:33,151 --> 00:22:36,088
Tess:
Temporary custody is granted.
428
00:22:36,121 --> 00:22:39,157
And this court
will reconvene in two days.
429
00:22:39,191 --> 00:22:41,026
Bailiff:
All rise.
430
00:23:13,892 --> 00:23:15,861
Tess (muffled): Nobody comes in
until im finished.
431
00:23:16,795 --> 00:23:18,063
Oh, there you are.
432
00:23:18,096 --> 00:23:22,467
Were having a bit
of a dispute over decor.
433
00:23:22,501 --> 00:23:23,201
Andrew:
Ah.
434
00:23:23,235 --> 00:23:25,537
But its about to be solved.
435
00:23:32,144 --> 00:23:33,211
(Laughs)
436
00:23:33,245 --> 00:23:34,813
Entrez.
437
00:23:38,150 --> 00:23:39,751
Andrew:
Whoa!
438
00:23:39,785 --> 00:23:41,019
(Laughing):
This is...
439
00:23:44,089 --> 00:23:46,224
...am-- uh, amazing!
440
00:23:46,258 --> 00:23:47,893
Its my own design.
441
00:23:47,926 --> 00:23:50,595
I wanted you to have
something elegant and classic
442
00:23:50,629 --> 00:23:53,165
and strong,
like an angel should be.
443
00:23:53,198 --> 00:23:55,133
Well, its-its
all those things.
444
00:23:55,167 --> 00:23:57,502
Im very pleased with it.
445
00:23:57,536 --> 00:23:59,604
Monica:
However, angels
446
00:23:59,638 --> 00:24:03,942
are also peaceful,
comforting and warm,
447
00:24:03,975 --> 00:24:06,211
and I think that your home
should reflect that,
448
00:24:06,244 --> 00:24:08,713
because thats really
who you are.
449
00:24:08,747 --> 00:24:09,881
I am.
450
00:24:09,915 --> 00:24:11,516
You are.
451
00:24:14,252 --> 00:24:19,291
This, th-this is very... um...
452
00:24:19,324 --> 00:24:21,259
Very... um...
453
00:24:22,861 --> 00:24:24,029
...its very beautiful, too.
454
00:24:24,062 --> 00:24:27,299
Theyre both
very beautiful in each...
455
00:24:27,332 --> 00:24:31,169
Each in their own way
are very... really...
456
00:24:31,203 --> 00:24:32,971
Which one do you like better?
457
00:24:33,004 --> 00:24:35,540
Well, uh, you know, I...
458
00:24:35,574 --> 00:24:37,075
Come on, which one will it be?
459
00:24:37,108 --> 00:24:38,777
Weve got a little boy waiting.
460
00:24:40,779 --> 00:24:43,949
Andrew...
Which one is it going to be?
461
00:24:47,052 --> 00:24:48,119
(Anxious laugh)
462
00:24:49,221 --> 00:24:51,189
I wasnt sure how long itd be,
463
00:24:51,223 --> 00:24:52,691
so I didnt know what to pack.
464
00:24:52,724 --> 00:24:53,825
It shouldnt be too long.
465
00:24:53,859 --> 00:24:56,962
Well, I may have to stay here
till I go to college.
466
00:24:56,995 --> 00:24:58,029
College, huh?
467
00:24:58,063 --> 00:24:59,965
Okay, well... (Laughs)
468
00:24:59,998 --> 00:25:02,267
I guess we need to get to work
on those grades, then.
469
00:25:03,168 --> 00:25:04,169
Come on in.
470
00:25:09,207 --> 00:25:11,142
What do you think?
471
00:25:11,176 --> 00:25:13,845
Its, uh... its interesting.
472
00:25:15,780 --> 00:25:16,882
Wheres the TV?
473
00:25:16,915 --> 00:25:18,650
Im not sure.
474
00:25:18,683 --> 00:25:20,051
See, I had these two
really good friends,
475
00:25:20,085 --> 00:25:21,720
they wanted to help me
decorate the apartment,
476
00:25:21,753 --> 00:25:24,222
so some of these things are what
one of them wanted,
477
00:25:24,256 --> 00:25:27,125
and some of these things are
what the other one wanted.
478
00:25:28,627 --> 00:25:30,729
Well... wheres the stuff
you wanted?
479
00:25:30,762 --> 00:25:31,830
I dont know.
480
00:25:31,863 --> 00:25:34,599
I was so busy trying
not to hurt their feelings...
481
00:25:35,834 --> 00:25:37,269
(Chuckles)
482
00:25:37,302 --> 00:25:40,238
...that I forgot to be
honest with them.
483
00:25:40,272 --> 00:25:41,606
Tell you what, though--
484
00:25:41,640 --> 00:25:43,842
this time, the guys
fix the place up.
485
00:25:48,380 --> 00:25:49,948
Excellent.
486
00:25:51,283 --> 00:25:53,285
You made some changes to it
487
00:25:53,318 --> 00:25:54,619
since the parent-teacher night.
488
00:25:54,653 --> 00:25:56,221
Well, seeing
the real thing helped.
489
00:25:56,254 --> 00:25:59,858
You know, the cop mightve made
it to the meteor crash,
490
00:25:59,891 --> 00:26:04,095
but he was stomped out by
two bigger dinosaurs.
491
00:26:04,129 --> 00:26:08,099
Like t-Rex or gigantosaurus,
im not sure which.
492
00:26:08,133 --> 00:26:11,269
A lot of people dont know
he was ever here.
493
00:26:11,303 --> 00:26:12,971
Thats just a theory, John.
494
00:26:13,004 --> 00:26:14,806
Its like the meteor crash.
495
00:26:14,839 --> 00:26:17,242
You know,
the scientists dont know
496
00:26:17,275 --> 00:26:19,177
what brought the dinosaurs
to extinction,
497
00:26:19,210 --> 00:26:20,412
but two bigger dinosaurs
498
00:26:20,445 --> 00:26:23,682
couldnt make the little guy
just disappear.
499
00:26:23,715 --> 00:26:28,019
Yeah, well, they got their
theories and I got mine.
500
00:26:28,053 --> 00:26:29,387
Right.
501
00:26:29,421 --> 00:26:31,756
Everybody has a right
to their own theory.
502
00:26:31,790 --> 00:26:33,959
For example...
503
00:26:33,992 --> 00:26:37,429
I have a theory that this, uh,
this leopard pillow
504
00:26:37,462 --> 00:26:38,997
should pretty much
be in the trash.
505
00:26:41,299 --> 00:26:42,367
Leopard...
506
00:26:42,400 --> 00:26:43,902
Do you mind if I call you Janet?
507
00:26:45,437 --> 00:26:47,839
I know this must be very
difficult for you.
508
00:26:49,441 --> 00:26:51,376
Do you have any idea why John
509
00:26:51,409 --> 00:26:53,678
decided to pursue
this legal action?
510
00:26:53,712 --> 00:26:55,313
No, I dont.
511
00:26:55,347 --> 00:26:57,749
And thats
whats so upsetting about it.
512
00:26:59,484 --> 00:27:01,686
I mean,
John likes living with US--
513
00:27:01,720 --> 00:27:04,322
with Phil and I, I mean.
514
00:27:04,356 --> 00:27:06,891
Its the first time
that hes seen two adults
515
00:27:06,925 --> 00:27:09,060
who are not at each others
throats all the time.
516
00:27:09,094 --> 00:27:12,697
And Martin cant stand that,
so he does things
517
00:27:12,731 --> 00:27:15,367
to undermine me all the time.
518
00:27:15,400 --> 00:27:19,204
Ive tried to make Sunday night
dinner a special event--
519
00:27:19,237 --> 00:27:20,972
and Martin knows that--
520
00:27:21,006 --> 00:27:23,842
but he still brings him home
late every time.
521
00:27:23,875 --> 00:27:26,011
Do you think that Martin
is a good father?
522
00:27:26,044 --> 00:27:29,914
Martin doesnt act like
a father with him.
523
00:27:29,948 --> 00:27:31,983
He treats their time together
524
00:27:32,017 --> 00:27:34,986
like its a 48-hour free pass
to Disneyland.
525
00:27:35,020 --> 00:27:38,923
What happens to a boy who never
learns how to handle
526
00:27:38,957 --> 00:27:40,759
the really tough things
in life?
527
00:27:40,792 --> 00:27:42,494
Martin:
Of course I make my time
528
00:27:42,527 --> 00:27:44,863
with John like Disneyland.
529
00:27:44,896 --> 00:27:46,931
I only get him
for two days a week.
530
00:27:46,965 --> 00:27:49,734
I gotta make that time
as pleasant as I can.
531
00:27:49,768 --> 00:27:51,936
If he has homework or something
important to do,
532
00:27:51,970 --> 00:27:54,339
would it kill her to tell me?
533
00:27:54,372 --> 00:27:57,075
ID get it done.
534
00:27:57,108 --> 00:28:00,412
I may not have a fancy degree,
like Phil, but...
535
00:28:00,445 --> 00:28:02,047
Im not stupid.
536
00:28:02,080 --> 00:28:04,015
As for getting him
home late, eh...
537
00:28:04,049 --> 00:28:05,917
I dont watch the clock
when im with him.
538
00:28:13,391 --> 00:28:14,392
(Sighs)
539
00:28:14,426 --> 00:28:17,028
Actually, thats not true.
540
00:28:18,496 --> 00:28:20,732
I do nothing
but watch the clock.
541
00:28:23,268 --> 00:28:24,769
Every minute of every weekend,
542
00:28:24,803 --> 00:28:27,472
I know exactly how much longer
I have with my son.
543
00:28:30,241 --> 00:28:31,443
Thats not fair.
544
00:28:31,476 --> 00:28:34,379
So...
545
00:28:34,412 --> 00:28:36,781
If I bring him home late,
once in awhile...
546
00:28:38,516 --> 00:28:40,452
...sue me.
547
00:28:42,220 --> 00:28:44,155
I-I-I think things
have to change
548
00:28:44,189 --> 00:28:46,391
when you add something new
to the family equation.
549
00:28:46,424 --> 00:28:49,794
And dont get me wrong-- I think
John is a great kid.
550
00:28:49,828 --> 00:28:53,498
I even asked him to give me
his mothers hand in marriage.
551
00:28:53,531 --> 00:28:56,301
And, uh, he said he thought
it would be okay,
552
00:28:56,334 --> 00:28:57,268
after he thought
for a long time,
553
00:28:57,302 --> 00:28:59,370
as long as I didnt ask him
to call me dad,
554
00:28:59,404 --> 00:29:02,140
which I would never do.
555
00:29:02,173 --> 00:29:06,010
But... mm, I mean,
if you want to know
556
00:29:06,044 --> 00:29:07,579
where I think hed be
better off,
557
00:29:07,612 --> 00:29:10,482
ID have to say it would be
with Janet.
558
00:29:10,515 --> 00:29:14,085
Although I can see
where Martins coming from...
559
00:29:16,287 --> 00:29:19,791
...its a difficult position
to be in, you know?
560
00:29:21,926 --> 00:29:23,495
Ive read through
the depositions,
561
00:29:23,528 --> 00:29:26,598
and ive had a chance
to see this
562
00:29:26,631 --> 00:29:29,334
through the eyes of the parents.
563
00:29:29,367 --> 00:29:33,571
John, now ID like to see it
564
00:29:33,605 --> 00:29:36,508
from your particular
point of view.
565
00:29:44,549 --> 00:29:46,618
-Martin: Uh, your honor--
-Janet: This is completely--
566
00:29:46,651 --> 00:29:47,619
not a word.
567
00:29:47,652 --> 00:29:49,554
You people have had your chance.
Just sit down.
568
00:29:55,894 --> 00:29:58,263
John...
569
00:29:58,296 --> 00:30:01,599
Im going to have to ask you
some questions,
570
00:30:01,633 --> 00:30:05,336
and I want you to answer
as honestly as you can, okay?
571
00:30:06,638 --> 00:30:08,573
Okay.
572
00:30:08,606 --> 00:30:11,543
Have either of your parents
ever beaten you
573
00:30:11,576 --> 00:30:14,279
or hurt you physically
in any way?
574
00:30:14,312 --> 00:30:15,480
No.
575
00:30:15,513 --> 00:30:18,316
Have they ever locked you
out in the cold?
576
00:30:18,349 --> 00:30:19,617
No.
577
00:30:19,651 --> 00:30:21,953
Have they ever
made you go hungry
578
00:30:21,986 --> 00:30:23,555
when there was food
in the house?
579
00:30:23,588 --> 00:30:25,957
John:
No.
580
00:30:25,990 --> 00:30:26,991
Tess:
Okay.
581
00:30:27,025 --> 00:30:28,960
Thank you.
Youre doing great.
582
00:30:30,628 --> 00:30:32,530
Now...
583
00:30:32,564 --> 00:30:34,165
Honey, I need for you to tell me
584
00:30:34,199 --> 00:30:35,633
your side of the story.
585
00:30:48,646 --> 00:30:52,083
I...
586
00:30:52,116 --> 00:30:54,419
I dont...
587
00:30:54,452 --> 00:30:55,687
I changed my mind.
588
00:30:55,720 --> 00:30:58,990
I... I dont want a divorce.
589
00:30:59,023 --> 00:31:01,426
Im fine. Its okay.
590
00:31:01,459 --> 00:31:04,529
John, I know this is hard,
591
00:31:04,562 --> 00:31:07,565
but you asked for our help,
592
00:31:07,599 --> 00:31:11,102
and we cant help you decide
where to live
593
00:31:11,135 --> 00:31:14,072
unless you talk to me.
594
00:31:20,578 --> 00:31:22,580
Youre not gonna
make me pick, are you?
595
00:31:24,115 --> 00:31:25,984
Because I cant.
596
00:31:30,655 --> 00:31:33,458
If I have to pick...
597
00:31:33,491 --> 00:31:35,260
I choose not to pick.
598
00:31:40,298 --> 00:31:42,667
In light of this, your honor,
599
00:31:42,700 --> 00:31:46,604
ID like to enter a motion
to dismiss.
600
00:31:46,638 --> 00:31:49,641
As you said, this should never
have come before this court.
601
00:31:49,674 --> 00:31:51,276
Sit down, sir.
602
00:31:52,310 --> 00:31:53,978
Ive seen enough to know
603
00:31:54,012 --> 00:31:56,281
that this matter
will not be resolved
604
00:31:56,314 --> 00:31:59,384
by simply dismissing it today.
605
00:31:59,417 --> 00:32:02,520
Now, John, I know you dont
want to hear this,
606
00:32:02,553 --> 00:32:05,323
but you brought this matter
to court,
607
00:32:05,356 --> 00:32:09,027
and we take things
very seriously here,
608
00:32:09,060 --> 00:32:11,062
and we cant just forget it,
609
00:32:11,095 --> 00:32:13,631
even if you changed
your mind.
610
00:32:15,066 --> 00:32:17,535
And the truth is, baby...
611
00:32:17,568 --> 00:32:19,070
You dont want
to leave here today
612
00:32:19,103 --> 00:32:22,073
and go back
to the way it was, do you?
613
00:32:22,106 --> 00:32:23,574
Its okay.
614
00:32:23,608 --> 00:32:24,776
I can handle it.
615
00:32:24,809 --> 00:32:26,644
Baby, you shouldnt have to.
616
00:32:28,446 --> 00:32:29,681
Were gonna take a recess.
617
00:32:29,714 --> 00:32:32,183
And when I come back,
some decisions
618
00:32:32,216 --> 00:32:33,651
are gonna be made here.
619
00:32:34,652 --> 00:32:37,055
Well reconvene in ten minutes,
620
00:32:37,088 --> 00:32:41,326
and I will see the parents
in my chambers now.
621
00:32:41,359 --> 00:32:42,327
(Gavel bangs)
622
00:32:42,360 --> 00:32:44,128
Bailiff:
All rise.
623
00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:57,709
Theyre all gonna hate me.
624
00:32:57,742 --> 00:33:01,012
Everybodys gonna hate me.
625
00:33:13,224 --> 00:33:16,060
Im going to tell you a story.
626
00:33:16,094 --> 00:33:19,163
Two women were fighting
over one child.
627
00:33:19,197 --> 00:33:21,065
It seems they both claimed
to be the mother.
628
00:33:21,099 --> 00:33:23,067
And they couldnt
settle the argument,
629
00:33:23,101 --> 00:33:25,203
so they went to
wise king Solomon
630
00:33:25,236 --> 00:33:26,771
for a judgment.
631
00:33:27,805 --> 00:33:29,707
I know its an old story,
632
00:33:29,741 --> 00:33:31,242
but its a good one.
633
00:33:31,275 --> 00:33:32,243
So listen up.
634
00:33:32,276 --> 00:33:35,513
Solomon couldnt tell
just by looking at them
635
00:33:35,546 --> 00:33:38,116
who was the true parent.
636
00:33:38,149 --> 00:33:40,218
And so he called for a sword
637
00:33:40,251 --> 00:33:43,154
to cut the baby in two,
638
00:33:43,187 --> 00:33:45,156
so that each woman
could have a half.
639
00:33:45,189 --> 00:33:48,159
And one of the ladies said,
"well, good.
640
00:33:48,192 --> 00:33:50,228
That way well both lose."
641
00:33:50,261 --> 00:33:52,497
And the other lady said, "oh,
please, no, dont-dont do that.
642
00:33:52,530 --> 00:33:54,732
I would rather that the child
643
00:33:54,766 --> 00:33:57,235
live with her than be harmed."
644
00:33:57,268 --> 00:34:00,738
And thats how Solomon
knew the real mother
645
00:34:00,772 --> 00:34:03,408
from the pretender.
646
00:34:03,441 --> 00:34:07,712
Because the real mother
did not care about winning.
647
00:34:07,745 --> 00:34:10,148
She just cared about her baby.
648
00:34:10,181 --> 00:34:12,250
Well, with all due respect,
your honor,
649
00:34:12,283 --> 00:34:14,118
but that was a case between
650
00:34:14,152 --> 00:34:16,320
one real parent
651
00:34:16,354 --> 00:34:18,156
and one person pretending
to be a parent.
652
00:34:18,189 --> 00:34:20,491
I mean, were both real parents.
653
00:34:20,525 --> 00:34:21,726
Mm.
654
00:34:21,759 --> 00:34:25,530
But both of you are willing to
let your son get torn apart.
655
00:34:27,432 --> 00:34:28,733
Tess:
A real parent wouldnt do that.
656
00:34:28,766 --> 00:34:32,336
Your son sees the sword coming.
657
00:34:32,370 --> 00:34:34,539
And hes been
crying out for help.
658
00:34:34,572 --> 00:34:37,375
But you havent heard him,
because youve been so busy
659
00:34:37,408 --> 00:34:40,478
arguing all the time.
660
00:34:40,511 --> 00:34:44,415
And then... he came to US.
661
00:34:44,449 --> 00:34:46,350
And we listened.
662
00:34:46,384 --> 00:34:48,386
And thats frightening you.
663
00:34:48,419 --> 00:34:49,654
Janet:
Of course it is.
664
00:34:49,687 --> 00:34:51,923
No one is going to
take my child from me.
665
00:34:51,956 --> 00:34:54,158
Are you going to
hold onto him so tightly
666
00:34:54,192 --> 00:34:56,594
that he tears in half,
and you lose him anyway?
667
00:34:56,627 --> 00:34:58,496
Look, hes just confused,
were not losing him.
668
00:34:58,529 --> 00:35:00,398
Tess:
Not yet.
669
00:35:00,431 --> 00:35:04,268
But every time you fight
670
00:35:04,302 --> 00:35:06,504
in front of him,
671
00:35:06,537 --> 00:35:08,673
you pull further away,
672
00:35:08,706 --> 00:35:11,809
and hes more alone and angrier.
673
00:35:11,843 --> 00:35:15,713
And one day, that anger
is going to express itself
674
00:35:15,746 --> 00:35:17,882
in a terribly ugly way.
675
00:35:17,915 --> 00:35:20,218
And the two of you are
going to look at each other.
676
00:35:20,251 --> 00:35:21,552
"What happened?
677
00:35:21,586 --> 00:35:23,454
"How could such a sweet child
678
00:35:23,488 --> 00:35:27,492
turn into such a bitter,
hateful creature?"
679
00:35:28,826 --> 00:35:31,229
And the answer is...
680
00:35:31,262 --> 00:35:33,297
He grew up with two of them.
681
00:35:39,337 --> 00:35:41,839
I dont even know
why I came here.
682
00:35:41,873 --> 00:35:44,308
And I dont want to
talk to anybody,
683
00:35:44,342 --> 00:35:47,211
because nobodys going to
listen to me anyway.
684
00:35:47,245 --> 00:35:48,546
Im listening.
685
00:35:48,579 --> 00:35:50,481
Monicas listening,
the judge is listening.
686
00:35:50,515 --> 00:35:52,817
And most importantly,
god is listening.
687
00:35:52,850 --> 00:35:54,719
God?
688
00:35:54,752 --> 00:35:56,821
Like up in the sky god?
689
00:35:57,855 --> 00:36:00,992
Well... god isnt just
up in the sky.
690
00:36:01,025 --> 00:36:02,493
Where is he, then?
691
00:36:02,527 --> 00:36:04,495
God is everywhere.
692
00:36:04,529 --> 00:36:05,696
Well, how do you know?
693
00:36:05,730 --> 00:36:07,298
Maybe hes just a story.
694
00:36:07,331 --> 00:36:10,434
May...maybe he used to be,
but he went extinct.
695
00:36:10,468 --> 00:36:12,236
Like the dinosaurs.
696
00:36:13,271 --> 00:36:15,439
No, John.
697
00:36:15,473 --> 00:36:17,475
God is not extinct.
698
00:36:19,610 --> 00:36:22,713
He is here, right now.
699
00:36:22,747 --> 00:36:25,016
He heard your prayers.
700
00:36:25,049 --> 00:36:28,286
He saw your tears.
701
00:36:28,319 --> 00:36:30,821
And thats why
he sent you some angels
702
00:36:30,855 --> 00:36:32,857
to help you through this.
703
00:36:34,458 --> 00:36:35,560
John:
Whoa...
704
00:36:35,593 --> 00:36:37,595
Youre angels?
705
00:36:38,763 --> 00:36:39,764
Really?
706
00:36:39,797 --> 00:36:41,465
Oh, yeah.
707
00:36:41,499 --> 00:36:44,402
And god sent US here
to give you a message.
708
00:36:46,404 --> 00:36:48,372
He knows that you were
feeling like that dinosaur
709
00:36:48,406 --> 00:36:50,041
that we saw in the museum.
710
00:36:50,074 --> 00:36:52,276
That you were afraid
of being trampled.
711
00:36:52,310 --> 00:36:55,846
But god wants you to know
that hes there for you.
712
00:36:55,880 --> 00:36:57,648
He will give you
the strength you need
713
00:36:57,682 --> 00:36:58,649
to get through this problem.
714
00:36:58,683 --> 00:37:01,586
He will always give you
the strength you need
715
00:37:01,619 --> 00:37:04,455
to survive, and find your way.
716
00:37:04,488 --> 00:37:05,990
He will?
717
00:37:06,023 --> 00:37:07,792
Monica:
He will.
718
00:37:07,825 --> 00:37:09,994
God loves you so much, John.
719
00:37:10,027 --> 00:37:11,963
Thats why he send US here,
720
00:37:11,996 --> 00:37:15,800
to help you find
a way to be heard.
721
00:37:15,833 --> 00:37:17,635
And he sent another angel, too,
722
00:37:17,668 --> 00:37:19,370
to talk to your parents.
723
00:37:19,403 --> 00:37:20,538
The judge.
724
00:37:22,373 --> 00:37:24,408
Maybe theyll listen to her.
725
00:37:24,442 --> 00:37:26,744
They dont listen
to me any more.
726
00:37:26,777 --> 00:37:29,947
Oh, I promise you,
theyll listen to her.
727
00:37:29,981 --> 00:37:32,717
And do you know what
shes going to tell them?
728
00:37:32,750 --> 00:37:35,620
Shes going to tell them
to listen to you.
729
00:37:36,387 --> 00:37:38,356
Andrew:
John...
730
00:37:38,389 --> 00:37:40,825
That means that
you have to talk.
731
00:37:40,858 --> 00:37:42,960
Now, I know youre afraid.
732
00:37:42,994 --> 00:37:46,063
But youve got to
tell them how you feel.
733
00:37:46,097 --> 00:37:51,002
Because, sometimes, parents
teach their children things.
734
00:37:51,035 --> 00:37:55,072
And sometimes, children have to
teach their parents things.
735
00:37:55,106 --> 00:37:56,907
Like what?
736
00:37:56,941 --> 00:37:59,610
Like who you are.
737
00:37:59,644 --> 00:38:01,112
What
738
00:37:59,644 --> 00:38:01,112
you
739
00:37:59,644 --> 00:38:01,112
feel.
740
00:37:59,644 --> 00:38:01,112
What
741
00:37:59,644 --> 00:38:01,112
you
742
00:37:59,644 --> 00:38:01,112
feel.
743
00:38:01,145 --> 00:38:03,447
What
744
00:38:01,145 --> 00:38:03,447
you
745
00:38:01,145 --> 00:38:03,447
want.
746
00:38:03,481 --> 00:38:06,517
Now, god wants you
to obey your parents, John.
747
00:38:06,550 --> 00:38:09,420
But he also wants them
to know how you feel.
748
00:38:09,453 --> 00:38:13,658
Youve been teaching
your parents all your life.
749
00:38:14,992 --> 00:38:17,928
From the moment
every child is born,
750
00:38:17,962 --> 00:38:22,800
their parents see the world
all over again, brand-new.
751
00:38:22,833 --> 00:38:24,502
And through their Childs eyes,
752
00:38:24,535 --> 00:38:27,872
they see that
colors are more vibrant,
753
00:38:27,905 --> 00:38:30,408
flowers are more fragrant,
754
00:38:30,441 --> 00:38:32,843
and music fills their soul
755
00:38:32,877 --> 00:38:35,079
in a way they could
never even imagine.
756
00:38:36,113 --> 00:38:37,982
And when the child
learns to walk,
757
00:38:38,015 --> 00:38:39,850
it reminds their parents that
758
00:38:39,884 --> 00:38:41,385
when you fall down,
759
00:38:41,419 --> 00:38:44,055
you should just get
right back up again.
760
00:38:44,088 --> 00:38:46,791
And when a child
stands and says,
761
00:38:46,824 --> 00:38:50,895
"I know who I am, and I know
that god loves me,"
762
00:38:50,928 --> 00:38:52,630
it reminds their parents
763
00:38:52,663 --> 00:38:56,434
that every child
deserves to be respected.
764
00:38:56,467 --> 00:39:00,004
You can teach
your parents that lesson.
765
00:39:00,037 --> 00:39:01,605
God will help you.
766
00:39:01,639 --> 00:39:03,641
(Sighs)
767
00:39:12,450 --> 00:39:15,453
We have a difficult matter
before this court
768
00:39:15,486 --> 00:39:19,557
that requires not simply
a fair decision,
769
00:39:19,590 --> 00:39:21,726
but more importantly,
770
00:39:21,759 --> 00:39:25,563
a decision in the best interest
of this child.
771
00:39:25,596 --> 00:39:29,066
Unfortunately,
but understandably,
772
00:39:29,100 --> 00:39:31,135
John has found it hard
773
00:39:31,168 --> 00:39:33,137
to tell me how
he feels about this,
774
00:39:33,170 --> 00:39:36,874
so I will have to make
a decision without his input.
775
00:39:36,907 --> 00:39:38,476
Excuse me.
776
00:39:38,509 --> 00:39:39,543
Yes, baby?
777
00:39:39,577 --> 00:39:40,945
-I think...
-Martin: Uh, John...
778
00:39:40,978 --> 00:39:43,514
Dont, uh, dont
interrupt the judge.
779
00:39:44,548 --> 00:39:46,417
Did I call you "baby?"
780
00:39:47,017 --> 00:39:49,019
You hush.
781
00:39:50,488 --> 00:39:51,655
Go ahead, baby.
782
00:39:51,689 --> 00:39:54,658
I think... I think
im ready to talk now.
783
00:39:54,692 --> 00:39:55,693
Excellent!
784
00:39:56,761 --> 00:39:57,962
Come up here by me.
785
00:39:57,995 --> 00:40:01,165
I-I think this witness box kind
of scares you a little bit.
786
00:40:19,283 --> 00:40:21,585
Yes, I am...
787
00:40:21,619 --> 00:40:23,020
And yes, he is.
788
00:40:23,053 --> 00:40:26,457
And hes listening right now.
789
00:40:27,625 --> 00:40:31,095
Have you figured out what
you want everybody to hear?
790
00:40:31,128 --> 00:40:33,497
Yeah.
791
00:40:33,531 --> 00:40:35,533
But...
792
00:40:36,867 --> 00:40:39,069
Theyre always
yelling at each other.
793
00:40:39,103 --> 00:40:41,672
When theyre not doing that,
794
00:40:41,705 --> 00:40:44,809
theyre yelling at me
about each other.
795
00:40:44,842 --> 00:40:46,877
I cant talk to them.
796
00:40:46,911 --> 00:40:48,846
I just want to talk to them.
797
00:40:49,880 --> 00:40:52,716
What is it you want to say?
798
00:40:53,551 --> 00:40:56,053
I-I want to say that...
799
00:40:56,086 --> 00:40:57,655
Say it to them.
800
00:40:57,688 --> 00:40:58,956
Tell them, baby.
801
00:40:59,990 --> 00:41:01,959
(Sighs)
802
00:41:01,992 --> 00:41:04,695
I want to be able to wear
803
00:41:04,728 --> 00:41:07,631
whatever coat
I feel like wearing,
804
00:41:07,665 --> 00:41:09,733
and not have someone mad at me
805
00:41:09,767 --> 00:41:11,802
because im not wearing theirs.
806
00:41:14,605 --> 00:41:16,574
I want to be able to say,
807
00:41:16,607 --> 00:41:18,909
"im going home,"
808
00:41:18,943 --> 00:41:23,581
not "moms house,"
or "dads house," just
809
00:41:18,943 --> 00:41:23,581
home.
810
00:41:24,715 --> 00:41:26,684
I dont want to have to eat
811
00:41:26,717 --> 00:41:29,086
twice in one night,
812
00:41:29,119 --> 00:41:31,889
just to make
both of you feel good.
813
00:41:31,922 --> 00:41:33,657
Thats not my job.
814
00:41:33,691 --> 00:41:34,825
(Sobs)
815
00:41:34,859 --> 00:41:38,696
Im not supposed to
take care of you,
816
00:41:38,729 --> 00:41:41,065
youre supposed to
take care of me.
817
00:41:41,098 --> 00:41:42,066
(Sniffs)
818
00:41:42,099 --> 00:41:43,300
Im the kid!
819
00:41:43,334 --> 00:41:45,970
I just want to be the kid again.
820
00:41:47,638 --> 00:41:49,306
(John sobs)
821
00:41:49,340 --> 00:41:51,876
I dont want to feel
822
00:41:51,909 --> 00:41:54,645
that if I dont
do everything right,
823
00:41:54,678 --> 00:41:57,147
all the time,
824
00:41:57,181 --> 00:41:58,883
youll stop loving me.
825
00:41:58,916 --> 00:42:00,684
What?
826
00:42:02,720 --> 00:42:05,723
You stopped loving each other.
827
00:42:06,757 --> 00:42:09,927
Maybe you could stop
loving me, too.
828
00:42:14,131 --> 00:42:15,933
-(Crying)
-Janet: Oh John,
829
00:42:15,966 --> 00:42:18,636
wed never do that
to you, we love you!
830
00:42:18,669 --> 00:42:19,870
Martin (whispering):
Oh, that would never happen.
831
00:42:19,904 --> 00:42:22,773
Never happen.
We love you so much.
832
00:42:22,806 --> 00:42:24,008
Both of US.
833
00:42:24,041 --> 00:42:25,175
Janet: Oh...
834
00:42:25,209 --> 00:42:27,978
That would never happen,
my sweetheart.
835
00:42:28,012 --> 00:42:29,713
-Yeah.
-Never.
836
00:42:29,747 --> 00:42:32,816
We were both just so... busy,
837
00:42:32,850 --> 00:42:35,185
thinking about how hurt we were,
838
00:42:35,219 --> 00:42:36,620
that we just didnt see...
839
00:42:36,654 --> 00:42:39,323
We didnt see
how much we hurt you.
840
00:42:39,356 --> 00:42:41,025
I know, thats no excuse.
841
00:42:41,058 --> 00:42:43,127
Good.
842
00:42:43,160 --> 00:42:46,130
Cause we dont need
any more excuses.
843
00:42:46,163 --> 00:42:48,933
And we sure dont need
any more blame.
844
00:42:48,966 --> 00:42:51,001
We need change.
845
00:42:51,035 --> 00:42:53,771
This child needs parents
846
00:42:53,804 --> 00:42:57,808
that love him,
and will listen to him.
847
00:42:57,841 --> 00:43:01,011
No matter how they feel
about each other.
848
00:43:01,045 --> 00:43:03,380
Thats all hes asking,
849
00:43:03,414 --> 00:43:06,650
and it doesnt take
somebody like Solomon
850
00:43:06,684 --> 00:43:10,154
to see the wisdom in that.
851
00:43:10,187 --> 00:43:13,190
So im not calling for
a sword today.
852
00:43:14,758 --> 00:43:18,929
Im waiting to hear
two parents say... "Enough."
853
00:43:20,431 --> 00:43:21,966
Can you say that?
854
00:43:23,000 --> 00:43:24,735
Enough.
855
00:43:26,837 --> 00:43:28,305
Enough.
856
00:43:29,340 --> 00:43:31,709
What do you think, John?
857
00:43:31,742 --> 00:43:33,210
Do you believe them?
858
00:43:35,245 --> 00:43:37,014
They yell...
859
00:43:37,047 --> 00:43:39,049
But I dont think they lie.
860
00:43:41,285 --> 00:43:45,189
Well, then, what happens
next is left to you.
861
00:43:45,222 --> 00:43:47,725
Do I make my decision,
862
00:43:47,758 --> 00:43:50,995
or do I say, "case dismissed?"
863
00:43:51,028 --> 00:43:53,731
Case dismissed.
864
00:43:53,764 --> 00:43:55,766
I like the sound of that.
865
00:44:16,086 --> 00:44:17,955
They handed in
their new pictures today.
866
00:44:17,988 --> 00:44:20,924
He really has a lot of talent,
doesnt he?
867
00:44:20,958 --> 00:44:22,993
Yeah, and a brand
new jacket, too.
868
00:44:23,027 --> 00:44:24,061
(Laughs)
869
00:44:24,094 --> 00:44:26,096
Andrew:
Thats the best part.
870
00:44:30,034 --> 00:44:31,902
Thank you, sir.
871
00:44:31,935 --> 00:44:34,772
I had no idea you knew
so much about dinosaurs.
872
00:44:34,805 --> 00:44:36,040
You are so smart.
873
00:44:36,073 --> 00:44:39,076
And a pretty good teacher, too.
874
00:44:39,109 --> 00:44:41,278
Well, theres your dad.
Hes right on time.
875
00:44:43,247 --> 00:44:45,249
Come here.
876
00:44:47,084 --> 00:44:48,886
Give me a big kiss.
877
00:44:49,920 --> 00:44:51,388
Bye, mom.
878
00:44:51,422 --> 00:44:53,257
-Bye, Phil!
-See you.
879
00:44:58,929 --> 00:44:59,897
Oof! Ah...
880
00:44:59,930 --> 00:45:01,398
Oh, hi, dad!
881
00:45:01,432 --> 00:45:03,767
Hey, buddy.
882
00:45:03,801 --> 00:45:04,902
Ah, did you have a good time?
883
00:45:04,935 --> 00:45:06,203
Oh, we had a great time.
884
00:45:06,236 --> 00:45:07,938
-Are you hungry?
-Starving.
885
00:45:07,971 --> 00:45:10,307
Can, uh, can we get some pizza?
886
00:45:10,340 --> 00:45:11,442
Whatever you want.
61394
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