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- ♪ The way that you
pull me close ♪
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♪ The way that you kiss me
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♪ When I'm dancing
on the ceiling ♪
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- Four newlywed couples put
their trust in the experts
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to find love.
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They marry as total strangers.
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♪
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Last time,
they began their honeymoon
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in beautiful Cancún, Mexico.
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♪
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- [laughs]
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Being out on the water
with Austin,
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you get all those jitters
and those butterflies.
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But then at the same time,
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it also feels
like we've been together
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for, like, four years.
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So we're like,
yep, we got this.
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[shouts]
- Ooh!
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- Yeah, this feels right.
[chuckles]
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♪
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- What about, like, sex?
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- I think we're building on it.
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Like, the physical
is coming naturally,
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which is really nice.
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How do you feel about it?
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- I am willing
to just take your lead.
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♪
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- I'm learning that we are
very different people.
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- I think we're very similar
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with very different viewpoints
and perspectives,
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which I actually think
is really interesting.
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- I mean, we'll figure
it out at some point.
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It's just--it's a lot
to take in right now.
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♪
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- There is massive amount
of pride, you know,
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in who I am
and where I come from.
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- And I see that,
and I respect that.
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- I would never want you
to feel heated
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in the way that I did
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because I said
something I wasn't aware of.
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- Okay.
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♪
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[upbeat music]
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♪
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- And tonight
the honeymoon continues...
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before they return back to
their lives in the real world.
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[laughter]
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- Seeing her smiling
and having fun around me
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makes me think that she's
feeling more attracted to me.
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- Me being an overthinker,
I'm already thinking
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about the things that will go
wrong when we're back.
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- Trust for me is one of
the biggest things I look for,
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and I feel like you're really
starting to earn my trust.
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- I'm not in the circle yet.
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- If we continue
to let that happen,
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it would be
a very disastrous situation.
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- Yeah.
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♪
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- How do you feel
that I had sex two months ago?
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- Being honest, uh...
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it kind of took sex
off the table for me.
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♪
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- ♪ It's all or nothing
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- This is
"Married at First Sight."
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- ♪ There's no other way
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♪
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♪ It's all or nothing
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- [vocalizing]
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♪ Come on, baby,
where you going? ♪
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[vocalizing]
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♪ Come on, baby,
quédate conmigo ♪
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- It's A and B, live
from the honeymoon.
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We are sleepy.
- [mumbles]
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- He is sleepy.
She is sleepy.
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- [chuckles]
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- Emily, do you need sunscreen?
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- I'm a little concerned
about my hand.
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A little, since my fingers
are so swollen.
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- Our couples are midway
through their honeymoons.
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- Is that your size?
Maybe a little longer--
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I mean, your swim trunks
were a little short.
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I'm not going to lie.
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What do you think, Cameron?
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- I thought that was
something you were into.
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- Oh, well, that
was an assumption.
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- And we hope they use
these last few days
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to further get to know the
stranger they just married...
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- Sir, how do you feel...
- Get closer.
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- When you hear about
strangers marrying each other?
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♪
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Do you think we have a chance?
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[indistinct chatter]
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Thank you for your time.
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- Because in just
over seven weeks,
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they'll have to make
a decision,
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whether they want to stay
married or get a divorce.
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- Last night I started to sleep
separately from my husband
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just to give some more space.
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I'm trying to figure some
things out for myself too.
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I did eventually go upstairs
and get in the bed
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around 5:00 a.m.
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just so that he wouldn't wake
up to me not in the bed.
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- So things do feel
a bit offbeat.
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But, you know, today
I am really looking forward
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to opening
a narrative with Lauren.
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♪
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- ♪ Oh, give it to me
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♪ Give it, give it to me
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♪ Oh, give it to me
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- On our way to go flyboarding.
I've always wanted to do this.
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I've only seen videos
of people doing it,
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and it looked really fun.
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So it's definitely been on the
bucket list for a while now.
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- Might be a little difficult,
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considering I can't feel
my hand.
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I walked out
of the shower, slipped,
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and, like, severely sprained
my hand.
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- So...
- My goal is to just not be
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a flopping fish.
- Okay.
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- [vocalizing]
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[upbeat music]
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♪
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- Good luck.
[engine turning over]
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♪
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I feel like he's going to do
backflips and stuff.
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[upbeat rock music]
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♪
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[music fades, stops]
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This is not looking
good for me.
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- Are you okay?
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- Whoo!
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♪
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Whoo!
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- Wish I could clap.
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- ♪ Everybody wait
for the count ♪
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♪ Takewon coming at you
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- Whoo!
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- ♪ Come on, you can't
argue with that ♪
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- He did so well.
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I'm not good when
I'm not good at things.
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I wish my hand didn't hurt.
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If anything, it'll be
entertaining to watch me.
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That's for sure.
[chuckles]
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- ♪ You're checking me out
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- You're going to kill it.
- Okay.
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- Was it hard?
- Um, yeah. [chuckles]
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- Oh, great. Super.
- Are you ready?
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- Yes.
- Have fun.
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- Thanks.
- Good luck.
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- That stressed me out
a little bit more.
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- Just use your "leggies."
Go do it.
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- I'm going to struggle.
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♪
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- Do it, girl.
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I'm not worried.
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My ring almost fell off.
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I'm excited to see this.
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She's probably
going to kill it.
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♪
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[music stops]
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Come on, Em.
You got it.
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[rock music]
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♪
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She's going to get on this one.
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Yes, yes.
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♪
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[scattered cheers]
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♪
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- Yeah!
Let's go!
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- Yeah!
Balance.
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- ♪ Some girls know
how to have some fun ♪
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- Atta girl!
Good job.
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- ♪ Some girls get
anything they want ♪
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- Emily is flyboarding
with, you know, a hurt wrist,
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and it just shows that she's
motivated and passionate,
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and I just love that.
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Just nothing, you know,
knocks her down.
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I think she's a catch,
and I think she's awesome.
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So, yeah, I'm excited
about our life together.
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Good job.
- Thanks.
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- You did good.
- Did I?
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- Yeah, you did.
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- I got some air
at the end, right?
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- Yeah, you did.
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That feeling of shooting
out of the water is,
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like, the coolest thing ever.
- I know. It's great.
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It was kind of fun being
tossed around in the water.
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- [laughs] Okay.
- Like, whoo.
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- I'm proud of you.
- Thanks.
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That was fun.
I'm glad we did that.
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♪
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[seagull cries]
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- ♪ Eyes wide shut
to what's right in front ♪
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♪ Where do we go from here?
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♪ Where do we go from here?
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♪ Lost the trust
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♪ But we're still in love
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♪ Where do we go from here?
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♪ Where do we go from...
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- Last night was--it was
difficult for both of us.
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♪
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Oh, it's cold.
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I put him in a predicament
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where he not only
felt offended,
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but he also had to give
a history lesson.
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And it's like, when a minority
has to do that,
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it's like insult to injury.
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♪
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We're still getting
to know each other.
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And so navigating
difficult conflict
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is going to take
some time to see
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what's best for both of us.
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But, you know, we're trying.
[sighs]
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♪
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Oh, no.
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So this is nice
to kind of, like, just get
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out of the city a little bit
and get off the resort.
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- Kind of where
the noise isn't.
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- Yeah.
- Mm-hmm.
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- How are you feeling
since yesterday?
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- Well, like, okay.
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- Yeah?
- Yeah.
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- Just okay.
- Just okay?
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- Yeah.
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♪
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Nothing that was said
yesterday was out of malice.
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- It was a lot.
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- Yeah.
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- It was a lot.
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There are a lot of things
I don't move on.
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- Mm-hmm.
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- And as you discovered
yesterday,
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one of them is who I am,
where I come from, you know.
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and I hold a lot of pride
in it, and I know you do too.
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I did, you know, take a walk.
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You know, I wasn't upset.
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I just--my ducks
were not in a row.
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- Yeah.
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- So, with that, I wasn't
able to formulate words
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where I felt like
I would be respectful to you.
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- Mm-hmm.
- You know, and so with that,
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you know, there's no need
for me to say anything.
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- I think taking space
in that moment
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was the best for both of us.
- Mm-hmm.
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- Like you said, I wasn't mad
or angry in that time.
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I did spend a lot of time just
reflecting on, what can we do?
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What can I do to make sure
that my husband
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feels safe and valued
and seen in this marriage?
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Because I know that you
don't necessarily feel safe
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and valued
and seen in this world,
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and I want to be sure that you
feel that at home...
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genuinely.
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- And the same goes for you.
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The same goes for you.
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- As it pertains to race,
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I think that
in just culture in general,
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we both deal with just, like,
a lot of insincere
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and ignorant comments
almost, like, every day.
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And neither one
of us should have
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to come back home
to that same ignorance
261
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and ruin what we're
trying to create.
262
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- Absolutely.
263
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- Because I think
that we're trying
264
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to create something beautiful.
265
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And I still do
think we can create
266
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something beautiful together.
267
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- Every conversation,
every situation,
268
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even if it's hard, you know,
269
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I don't want us
to run away from it.
270
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You know?
271
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Race, religion, things that
people hold core values in,
272
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it's always going to be
an intense conversation
273
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because it's guaranteed
274
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there's going to be an opposing
side about something.
275
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- Always.
And not even just opposing,
276
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sometimes just differing.
- Yeah.
277
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And so I feel like...
278
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the conversation
had to happen at some point--
279
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I don't know, in some way.
- But--
280
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- But if there's
any upside to this,
281
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we have the time and the space
to do this,
282
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like, really trying to, like,
283
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take advantage
of this opportunity we have
284
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on our honeymoon
to, like, dig deep.
285
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And it's kind of hard to stay
mad in paradise, I think.
286
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- Exactly.
287
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- Because I could see
this going differently
288
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if we were, like, at home, and
we also had all the other tasks
289
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we have when we get back.
- Mm-hmm.
290
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- So I think it's good
for us to...
291
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learn how to navigate this
292
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so that if something--when
something else comes up,
293
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no matter what it is,
we'll be--
294
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just know how to do it better.
295
00:11:20,458 --> 00:11:22,875
- We got this.
- Yeah. Yeah.
296
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- ♪ 'Cause I, I've got you
297
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♪ I know I'm stronger
298
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♪ I know that I've got you
299
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[upbeat tropical music]
300
00:11:37,375 --> 00:11:42,542
♪
301
00:11:42,625 --> 00:11:45,417
- Ooh, look at this.
- Hola.
302
00:11:45,500 --> 00:11:47,417
- Oh, we're about to have fun.
303
00:11:47,500 --> 00:11:48,542
- Wow, this is
going to get messy.
304
00:11:48,667 --> 00:11:50,000
- ¿Cómo están?
How are you?
305
00:11:50,083 --> 00:11:51,500
- Bien, ¿y tú?
- Good.
306
00:11:51,500 --> 00:11:53,208
- Excelente,
excelente, señores.
307
00:11:53,208 --> 00:11:55,625
- I feel like my relationship
with Cameron
308
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has been very, um...
309
00:11:58,167 --> 00:11:59,375
serious.
310
00:11:59,458 --> 00:12:02,875
[giggles] Like, I want
to see a side of him
311
00:12:02,875 --> 00:12:06,000
that is more than just, like,
the serious side.
312
00:12:06,125 --> 00:12:07,875
I think this is
a very, like, fun space,
313
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and it's just going to be
a more playful experience,
314
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so I'm excited.
315
00:12:11,500 --> 00:12:13,208
Cameron, are you
a good painter?
316
00:12:13,292 --> 00:12:15,500
- Yeah, I was born
with a paintbrush in my hand.
317
00:12:15,583 --> 00:12:16,875
- That's news to me.
- That was--
318
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- You're very--[laughing]
- That was not accurate either.
319
00:12:21,000 --> 00:12:24,208
- I don't know if Cameron has
romantic feelings for me yet.
320
00:12:24,333 --> 00:12:25,833
I think maybe
there's attraction there,
321
00:12:25,958 --> 00:12:28,542
but I'm not fully sure.
322
00:12:28,625 --> 00:12:30,375
He's very apprehensive,
and so am I.
323
00:12:30,500 --> 00:12:33,000
Like, we're both kind of like,
are we attracted to each other?
324
00:12:33,125 --> 00:12:34,958
Are we not?
Like, I don't know.
325
00:12:35,042 --> 00:12:37,292
It's a very confusing point
of the relationship.
326
00:12:37,375 --> 00:12:39,375
- When I count to three,
327
00:12:39,375 --> 00:12:42,667
you're going to flick the first
splatter on your canvas.
328
00:12:42,750 --> 00:12:45,167
One, two, three, señores.
329
00:12:45,250 --> 00:12:48,208
Eso. Mero. There you go.
- Look at that.
330
00:12:48,208 --> 00:12:50,292
We're having fun.
We're having fun.
331
00:12:50,375 --> 00:12:53,375
You just want it all one color?
- I have a process.
332
00:12:53,500 --> 00:12:55,000
Thank you very much.
- Okay.
333
00:12:55,083 --> 00:12:58,250
Again, you have a logical way
of doing this, I'm sure.
334
00:12:58,250 --> 00:13:00,250
♪
335
00:13:00,333 --> 00:13:03,000
Okay.
[giggles]
336
00:13:03,083 --> 00:13:04,833
Can I add one to yours or no?
337
00:13:04,958 --> 00:13:06,500
- No.
- Okay.
338
00:13:06,542 --> 00:13:07,875
- I know it needs something.
339
00:13:07,875 --> 00:13:09,667
I'm just trying to
decide what it needs.
340
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♪
341
00:13:11,208 --> 00:13:12,500
Oi!
342
00:13:14,750 --> 00:13:16,167
- Mine, I think--
343
00:13:16,208 --> 00:13:18,125
- I would never
disrupt an artist.
344
00:13:18,208 --> 00:13:20,042
- No, I'm just--
345
00:13:20,042 --> 00:13:21,500
Go ahead.
- You got it.
346
00:13:21,625 --> 00:13:24,333
- No, you.
This is all you.
347
00:13:24,333 --> 00:13:25,792
♪
348
00:13:25,875 --> 00:13:27,875
Oh.
Oh, oh!
349
00:13:27,958 --> 00:13:32,042
[laughs] Are you kidding me?
350
00:13:32,125 --> 00:13:34,625
[laughter, indistinct chatter]
351
00:13:34,625 --> 00:13:37,542
Hold me back.
Hold me back.
352
00:13:37,625 --> 00:13:40,500
[laughing]
353
00:13:40,583 --> 00:13:42,875
♪
354
00:13:42,958 --> 00:13:44,875
I'm getting screwed over.
355
00:13:44,958 --> 00:13:47,792
- You know, I would always
be careful around me.
356
00:13:47,875 --> 00:13:49,417
- [laughs]
357
00:13:49,417 --> 00:13:51,708
You win.
You win.
358
00:13:51,708 --> 00:13:53,375
Maybe that was
pent-up, like, energy
359
00:13:53,500 --> 00:13:55,333
that I just needed to express.
360
00:13:55,417 --> 00:13:58,167
And I think he is
feeling the same way.
361
00:13:58,250 --> 00:14:00,625
- Paso uno, señores.
Perfecto.
362
00:14:00,708 --> 00:14:02,708
Paso dos.
363
00:14:02,792 --> 00:14:04,250
And paso tres!
364
00:14:04,250 --> 00:14:05,500
- That's cheating!
365
00:14:05,583 --> 00:14:07,500
- I like Clare.
[chuckles]
366
00:14:07,625 --> 00:14:11,208
Seeing her smiling
and having fun around me
367
00:14:11,292 --> 00:14:15,083
makes me think that she's
feeling more attracted to me.
368
00:14:15,167 --> 00:14:16,667
- That was completely
against the rules.
369
00:14:16,750 --> 00:14:18,500
- The rules of marriage?
- [laughs]
370
00:14:18,583 --> 00:14:21,833
- So I hope maybe
the splattering of the paint
371
00:14:21,833 --> 00:14:25,833
has allowed her and me
to come to a place
372
00:14:25,917 --> 00:14:29,333
where we can find a romantic
connection between us.
373
00:14:29,375 --> 00:14:31,000
- So much fun.
374
00:14:31,083 --> 00:14:32,792
Wow, to the right.
375
00:14:32,875 --> 00:14:35,625
Sticky, slimy situation.
376
00:14:35,625 --> 00:14:39,208
I do sometimes feel like,
yeah, you're just a large kid.
377
00:14:39,208 --> 00:14:41,542
♪
378
00:14:41,625 --> 00:14:42,958
All right.
379
00:14:44,417 --> 00:14:46,167
I feel gross.
[laughs]
380
00:14:46,250 --> 00:14:48,125
- Yep.
- I need a shower.
381
00:14:48,208 --> 00:14:49,708
- Not me.
382
00:14:49,792 --> 00:14:52,125
- [laughs]
I could not look worse.
383
00:14:52,208 --> 00:14:54,333
- Covered in goo, lovely wife.
384
00:14:54,375 --> 00:14:56,625
- I'm sure I look the best
I ever have right now.
385
00:14:56,625 --> 00:14:58,167
- Stunning.
- Stunning.
386
00:14:58,167 --> 00:14:59,792
But, yeah, that was fun.
387
00:14:59,792 --> 00:15:03,167
- Yeah.
No, I think you took my...
388
00:15:03,167 --> 00:15:05,708
my aggressive play well.
389
00:15:05,708 --> 00:15:06,958
- It was funny.
390
00:15:07,042 --> 00:15:08,667
- Yeah, yeah.
391
00:15:08,667 --> 00:15:11,292
- And that was really great to
not be so serious, you know?
392
00:15:11,375 --> 00:15:12,500
- Yes, yes.
393
00:15:12,583 --> 00:15:14,292
- And I think that's
important that we remember
394
00:15:14,375 --> 00:15:15,958
that we can have fun.
- Yeah.
395
00:15:16,042 --> 00:15:18,625
- Every activity we do,
I'm seeing a different side,
396
00:15:18,625 --> 00:15:20,500
and I am grateful for that.
397
00:15:20,583 --> 00:15:23,875
Cheers to new experiences
and to getting to know
398
00:15:24,000 --> 00:15:25,208
different sides of each other.
399
00:15:25,542 --> 00:15:27,667
- Do you think they'll let us
jump in the pool like this?
400
00:15:27,792 --> 00:15:29,458
- [laughs]
401
00:15:29,542 --> 00:15:33,167
- ♪ Why don't you
fly away with me? ♪
402
00:15:33,292 --> 00:15:35,500
♪ Why don't we start again?
403
00:15:35,583 --> 00:15:37,500
- Today was so fun.
404
00:15:37,542 --> 00:15:42,250
We got to do the Jet Ski
thing--"thingamabobber."
405
00:15:42,375 --> 00:15:44,167
Unfortunately,
my hair has turned
406
00:15:44,250 --> 00:15:45,708
into huge dreads
coming out of that.
407
00:15:45,792 --> 00:15:49,042
So now we're in a little bit
of a situation, but it's okay.
408
00:15:49,042 --> 00:15:51,875
Now I get to go spend time
with the girls
409
00:15:51,875 --> 00:15:54,750
and then brush out
these dreads
410
00:15:54,833 --> 00:15:56,542
for probably
the rest of the time.
411
00:15:56,542 --> 00:15:58,125
♪
412
00:15:58,125 --> 00:16:01,083
- ♪ From here to eternity
413
00:16:01,167 --> 00:16:02,833
- We haven't had time to,
like, just chill at the pool.
414
00:16:02,917 --> 00:16:04,250
- Or hang out with just us.
- Right.
415
00:16:04,375 --> 00:16:06,208
- Or just the girls, you know.
- So I'm excited.
416
00:16:06,292 --> 00:16:07,667
- We haven't had
a proper girls' day.
417
00:16:07,708 --> 00:16:08,833
- Later, boys.
We don't need you.
418
00:16:08,917 --> 00:16:10,292
- Cheers, boys.
- Good seeing you guys.
419
00:16:10,375 --> 00:16:12,208
- It's nice to
have a sunny day.
420
00:16:12,292 --> 00:16:14,208
- I'm just saying, it's nice
to, like, bond
421
00:16:14,292 --> 00:16:15,625
with you guys about this.
all: Yes.
422
00:16:15,708 --> 00:16:17,500
- That's a good part
of this process, honestly.
423
00:16:17,583 --> 00:16:19,500
- I think they're very
happy to be together.
424
00:16:19,625 --> 00:16:21,042
- Right.
- I'm sure they are.
425
00:16:21,042 --> 00:16:22,500
- Just like we're
very happy to be together.
426
00:16:22,542 --> 00:16:26,375
- So being married,
how do we like that?
427
00:16:26,500 --> 00:16:28,167
- It's kind of crazy, right?
- yeah.
428
00:16:28,250 --> 00:16:30,000
- Like, you just meet
a stranger--
429
00:16:30,125 --> 00:16:31,917
- Get along with them
so incredibly well.
430
00:16:32,042 --> 00:16:33,458
both: Yeah.
431
00:16:33,542 --> 00:16:35,000
- Are you guys all
getting along really well?
432
00:16:35,083 --> 00:16:37,333
- I think Clare and I--
today we had a bit
433
00:16:37,375 --> 00:16:38,875
of, like,
a breakthrough moment.
434
00:16:38,875 --> 00:16:40,250
- Yeah?
435
00:16:40,333 --> 00:16:42,583
- She's a lot more
playful than I realized.
436
00:16:42,667 --> 00:16:45,083
We have a lot
of intense conversations,
437
00:16:45,083 --> 00:16:48,167
and we're both
this really weird mixture
438
00:16:48,250 --> 00:16:50,500
of, like, silly and serious.
439
00:16:50,583 --> 00:16:54,833
We both get stuck in the same
mode at the same time.
440
00:16:54,917 --> 00:16:57,167
And it actually
makes it really hard
441
00:16:57,167 --> 00:16:59,042
to progress in a relationship.
442
00:16:59,125 --> 00:17:00,958
But she is so good
443
00:17:01,042 --> 00:17:03,833
at communicating
exactly how she feels,
444
00:17:03,917 --> 00:17:08,333
but she's not great at helping
me understand what she wants.
445
00:17:08,417 --> 00:17:10,208
- Cameron and I aren't
the most...
446
00:17:10,292 --> 00:17:11,792
- I'm going to sit.
- Yeah, sit.
447
00:17:11,875 --> 00:17:13,000
No, this is a conversation--
448
00:17:13,042 --> 00:17:15,250
- This feels like
a sitting conversation.
449
00:17:15,333 --> 00:17:16,708
- My ass is...
- We're getting in.
450
00:17:16,875 --> 00:17:19,833
- Cameron and I, we aren't the
most physically affectionate.
451
00:17:19,917 --> 00:17:24,542
And I was wondering if you
have advice for me 'cause--
452
00:17:24,542 --> 00:17:25,500
- How are you typically
453
00:17:25,583 --> 00:17:27,375
in, like, past romantic
relationships?
454
00:17:27,375 --> 00:17:29,042
Like, are you super
physically affectionate?
455
00:17:29,042 --> 00:17:31,917
- You know, I think that I have
struggled with that in the past
456
00:17:32,000 --> 00:17:34,292
just because a lot
of the guys I've been with
457
00:17:34,292 --> 00:17:38,417
haven't been willing to show me
off, like, in public
458
00:17:38,500 --> 00:17:40,292
or not willing
to, like, hold my hand,
459
00:17:40,375 --> 00:17:42,375
and so I think
that I'm used to that.
460
00:17:42,375 --> 00:17:44,042
So, for me, it's not
the weirdest thing.
461
00:17:44,125 --> 00:17:45,458
But when I see you guys,
462
00:17:45,542 --> 00:17:47,167
I'm like, well,
it is kind of weird.
463
00:17:47,250 --> 00:17:49,667
The attraction that you all
have with your partners
464
00:17:49,708 --> 00:17:51,542
was immediate, and that's fair
to say, correct?
465
00:17:51,625 --> 00:17:53,833
both: Yeah.
- That's where we differ.
466
00:17:53,875 --> 00:17:56,833
It hasn't been
that experience for us.
467
00:17:56,833 --> 00:17:59,167
- I'm really attracted
to Clare.
468
00:17:59,250 --> 00:18:01,542
I think she is very attractive.
469
00:18:01,542 --> 00:18:05,375
While we aren't
the most intimate people yet,
470
00:18:05,458 --> 00:18:08,625
like, I'm very much looking
forward to us...
471
00:18:08,708 --> 00:18:10,792
you know, getting there.
472
00:18:10,875 --> 00:18:13,208
- We have not kissed
nor cuddled.
473
00:18:13,208 --> 00:18:14,417
- Have you hugged?
- Yes.
474
00:18:14,500 --> 00:18:16,958
- Who would be the one
to initiate it?
475
00:18:17,042 --> 00:18:18,583
- If he does do
those things,
476
00:18:18,583 --> 00:18:20,333
like, try to do something
back to him,
477
00:18:20,375 --> 00:18:21,875
like, 'cause that's
his bit of love.
478
00:18:21,875 --> 00:18:23,542
I'm putting my arm around you.
479
00:18:23,542 --> 00:18:25,333
It might not be big,
but, like--
480
00:18:25,417 --> 00:18:26,750
- For him, it is.
For him, it is big.
481
00:18:26,750 --> 00:18:27,917
- Yeah, no, definitely.
482
00:18:28,000 --> 00:18:29,208
- It might not
feel comfortable.
483
00:18:29,208 --> 00:18:30,500
Like, you might just be
like, meh.
484
00:18:30,583 --> 00:18:32,167
[laughter]
485
00:18:32,167 --> 00:18:33,792
Let it sit for a minute, right?
Like...
486
00:18:33,875 --> 00:18:35,875
- Yeah, I mean, I don't even
think he'll do that, ladies,
487
00:18:35,958 --> 00:18:37,500
to be honest, but--
- He did.
488
00:18:37,542 --> 00:18:39,167
He had his arm around you.
- Yes.
489
00:18:39,167 --> 00:18:41,042
- I mean, I'm steady as a rock.
- Right, so...
490
00:18:41,042 --> 00:18:43,417
- But I got a lot steadier
when I saw you.
491
00:18:43,500 --> 00:18:45,833
- When I was looking
around everywhere.
492
00:18:45,875 --> 00:18:47,250
- Okay, that's true.
- He did.
493
00:18:47,375 --> 00:18:49,000
- Yeah.
- He's trying.
494
00:18:49,042 --> 00:18:50,625
- His body language
was, like, towards you.
495
00:18:50,708 --> 00:18:51,833
all: Yeah.
496
00:18:51,958 --> 00:18:53,458
- Try your best
to look for the good,
497
00:18:53,458 --> 00:18:54,833
and the more you look
for it, you'll see it.
498
00:18:54,917 --> 00:18:56,333
- Yeah.
499
00:18:56,583 --> 00:18:58,042
- Just literally grab his face
and make out the next time
500
00:18:58,042 --> 00:18:59,625
we're all hanging out.
- Oh, yeah.
501
00:18:59,625 --> 00:19:01,167
That'll be easy for us,
I think.
502
00:19:01,250 --> 00:19:03,042
From zero to 100 real quick.
503
00:19:03,125 --> 00:19:04,667
- Just know that
you're not the only one
504
00:19:04,708 --> 00:19:06,792
going through difficult
relationship problems.
505
00:19:06,875 --> 00:19:09,292
They may be different, but
we all got our own [bleep].
506
00:19:09,292 --> 00:19:10,750
With Orion and I, we've dealt
507
00:19:10,875 --> 00:19:13,083
with some really
uncomfortable conversations.
508
00:19:13,167 --> 00:19:14,833
I mean, let's be real.
No one's blind.
509
00:19:14,917 --> 00:19:16,792
We're in a whole-ass
interracial relationship.
510
00:19:16,875 --> 00:19:20,167
So we're trying to understand
each other as individuals
511
00:19:20,208 --> 00:19:23,583
while also understanding
each other's cultures.
512
00:19:23,667 --> 00:19:26,292
And so it adds, like,
another layer of, like,
513
00:19:26,292 --> 00:19:27,958
[bleep] damn, [bleep] damn,
[bleep] damn to this.
514
00:19:28,042 --> 00:19:29,292
both: Yeah.
515
00:19:29,458 --> 00:19:31,208
- But I think we're handling
those conversations
516
00:19:31,292 --> 00:19:32,333
really well.
517
00:19:32,417 --> 00:19:33,875
We had--not our first fight
518
00:19:33,958 --> 00:19:36,292
but more like a very just,
like, uncomfortable discussion
519
00:19:36,292 --> 00:19:37,875
yesterday, honestly.
520
00:19:38,000 --> 00:19:41,500
And it made us feel very,
very separated from each other.
521
00:19:41,625 --> 00:19:43,542
And that was the
first time we kind of looked
522
00:19:43,625 --> 00:19:45,167
at each other, like,
wow, we are different.
523
00:19:45,250 --> 00:19:48,667
- I wouldn't say
marriage is everything
524
00:19:48,667 --> 00:19:50,042
I thought it would be,
525
00:19:50,042 --> 00:19:52,000
you know, 'cause it is
too soon to tell.
526
00:19:52,083 --> 00:19:54,167
But I would say that
Lauren is everything
527
00:19:54,250 --> 00:19:55,667
that I've wanted in a partner.
528
00:19:55,750 --> 00:19:57,458
- Right on. Hell, yeah.
- That's sweet.
529
00:19:57,542 --> 00:19:58,917
- Yeah.
- There's something growing.
530
00:19:59,042 --> 00:20:03,250
You know, there's something
there, and, yeah, it's nice.
531
00:20:03,333 --> 00:20:05,083
- I don't feel like
yesterday was a loss for us.
532
00:20:05,208 --> 00:20:07,292
It's just--
I got a learning curve, y'all.
533
00:20:07,292 --> 00:20:09,000
- But the fact that
you're comfortable enough
534
00:20:09,000 --> 00:20:11,417
to vocalize that to each other
is a very healthy--
535
00:20:11,500 --> 00:20:12,750
- Yeah.
- We're going to say things.
536
00:20:12,875 --> 00:20:14,458
We're going to do things.
It's a relationship.
537
00:20:14,542 --> 00:20:15,833
- Absolutely.
- And it's hard,
538
00:20:15,833 --> 00:20:17,667
and we're going to have
difficult conversations.
539
00:20:17,708 --> 00:20:19,917
But knowing that it's
not just you invested
540
00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:21,333
in having that
difficult conversation,
541
00:20:21,375 --> 00:20:22,917
it makes all the difference.
542
00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:24,500
- Definitely surprising
to hear
543
00:20:24,583 --> 00:20:27,875
that Lauren and Orion are
maybe more distant
544
00:20:27,958 --> 00:20:29,375
than I thought that they were.
545
00:20:29,458 --> 00:20:31,458
I don't know what the
conversation they had was,
546
00:20:31,542 --> 00:20:33,042
but it sounds like
it was something
547
00:20:33,167 --> 00:20:34,708
really, really heavy.
548
00:20:34,708 --> 00:20:37,375
So I feel sad.
I also feel just surprised.
549
00:20:37,458 --> 00:20:40,375
I just hope that they can work
through it, yeah.
550
00:20:40,500 --> 00:20:42,667
- We're both
very resolution-oriented.
551
00:20:42,792 --> 00:20:45,458
So we're comfortable
with acknowledging
552
00:20:45,542 --> 00:20:46,833
there's conflict.
- That's huge.
553
00:20:46,875 --> 00:20:48,583
That is huge.
- And we want to navigate it.
554
00:20:48,667 --> 00:20:50,500
- I love that.
- Yeah, that's amazing.
555
00:20:50,583 --> 00:20:52,417
- Yeah.
556
00:20:52,417 --> 00:20:54,000
- I feel like I'm just waiting
for the other shoe to drop.
557
00:20:54,083 --> 00:20:55,375
- That's kind of
how I feel too.
558
00:20:55,500 --> 00:20:57,333
- Like, I'm like, he's got
a wife and family back home.
559
00:20:57,458 --> 00:20:58,833
[laughs]
- Because you--
560
00:20:58,875 --> 00:20:59,833
So, yeah, to ask about that.
561
00:20:59,917 --> 00:21:01,208
Has that happened in the past,
562
00:21:01,208 --> 00:21:04,000
where things are going,
like, swimmingly,
563
00:21:04,083 --> 00:21:07,042
and then, you know, all of
a sudden, it's just like, boom?
564
00:21:07,042 --> 00:21:08,917
Why do you feel like that?
- I think that's hard for me
565
00:21:08,917 --> 00:21:10,583
'cause I've never had
a relationship, so I'm like--
566
00:21:10,667 --> 00:21:12,083
- I forget about that.
- Yeah.
567
00:21:12,167 --> 00:21:13,542
Oh, my God,
let's talk about that.
568
00:21:13,625 --> 00:21:15,042
- First relationship,
first marriage.
569
00:21:15,042 --> 00:21:17,042
- How is it to go from
single to married for you?
570
00:21:17,042 --> 00:21:19,333
- I mean, it's been, luckily--
- Does it feel normal?
571
00:21:19,333 --> 00:21:21,000
- Normal, yeah,
and, like, comfortable.
572
00:21:21,042 --> 00:21:22,750
- Wow.
- I'm like, is this normal?
573
00:21:22,833 --> 00:21:24,250
Like, I'm trying to, like,
figure out--
574
00:21:24,333 --> 00:21:25,833
I'm almost trying to seek out
an issue.
575
00:21:25,917 --> 00:21:28,417
But I, like, kind of just feel
like, what is our issue?
576
00:21:28,500 --> 00:21:30,000
- It's going good.
577
00:21:30,042 --> 00:21:33,208
Really, what I wanted was
a best friend and a partner.
578
00:21:33,333 --> 00:21:35,125
I'm just trying to learn
more and more about her.
579
00:21:35,208 --> 00:21:37,125
Like, today we learned, like,
580
00:21:37,208 --> 00:21:39,042
just how much fun
we can have together
581
00:21:39,167 --> 00:21:41,875
when we're kind of doing the
things we're passionate about,
582
00:21:42,000 --> 00:21:44,042
which is trying new things.
583
00:21:44,042 --> 00:21:45,500
And it was cool to just see
584
00:21:45,625 --> 00:21:48,000
how, like, she just embraced
it, like, the same way I did.
585
00:21:48,083 --> 00:21:49,208
- Yeah.
586
00:21:49,208 --> 00:21:51,375
- So it was just
really refreshing,
587
00:21:51,375 --> 00:21:53,833
and excited
to do more firsts with her.
588
00:21:53,833 --> 00:21:55,667
- I know you wanted to
have sex on your honeymoon.
589
00:21:55,750 --> 00:21:57,167
You were like,
it's going to be weird
590
00:21:57,208 --> 00:21:58,708
if we don't have sex
on your honeymoon.
591
00:21:58,792 --> 00:21:59,875
Has that changed?
592
00:21:59,958 --> 00:22:01,083
- I would say for me, like,
593
00:22:01,083 --> 00:22:02,625
I'm trying to take it
differently
594
00:22:02,708 --> 00:22:04,083
because this is
my first relationship.
595
00:22:04,083 --> 00:22:06,708
So I've really enjoyed, like,
not jumping in it
596
00:22:06,792 --> 00:22:08,500
and, like, us being on that
same page
597
00:22:08,583 --> 00:22:10,333
and just really building,
598
00:22:10,375 --> 00:22:13,917
like, a more stable,
emotional connection.
599
00:22:14,000 --> 00:22:15,500
So it's been different.
600
00:22:15,542 --> 00:22:17,583
I feel like that's
a good thing...
601
00:22:17,667 --> 00:22:19,333
- Yeah, of course.
- And change for me.
602
00:22:19,417 --> 00:22:22,250
- I feel like Brennan secretly
is like a snuggle bug.
603
00:22:22,333 --> 00:22:25,333
- He likes to be touched.
- Yeah, that's good.
604
00:22:25,417 --> 00:22:28,000
- He likes--yeah, yeah.
- Love buggies.
605
00:22:28,083 --> 00:22:29,458
- And just, like, giggle-wise--
606
00:22:29,625 --> 00:22:32,042
like, I catch you two just,
like, giggling together a lot.
607
00:22:32,167 --> 00:22:33,833
- I thought it was just him.
608
00:22:33,917 --> 00:22:35,875
- Oh, please, smiley.
- Oh, please, girl.
609
00:22:35,875 --> 00:22:38,500
- Yeah, that is..
- She is a walking smiley face.
610
00:22:38,542 --> 00:22:40,292
- Yes.
- We love it.
611
00:22:40,375 --> 00:22:42,333
- Ahh...
- Emily has such a good spirit.
612
00:22:42,458 --> 00:22:44,458
I mean, she's a champion.
613
00:22:44,542 --> 00:22:46,667
This girl, like, you know,
her hand kind of got hurt.
614
00:22:46,750 --> 00:22:47,958
- Oh, yeah.
- A little bit.
615
00:22:47,958 --> 00:22:50,042
- I slipped and, like,
severely sprained
616
00:22:50,042 --> 00:22:51,792
my hand night number one.
617
00:22:51,875 --> 00:22:53,958
Yeah, and then my hair
has been in dreads
618
00:22:53,958 --> 00:22:55,333
ever since this morning.
619
00:22:55,417 --> 00:22:56,833
[laughter]
So...
620
00:22:56,958 --> 00:22:58,667
- Her hair was
in a million different--
621
00:22:58,667 --> 00:23:00,792
I said, wow.
[laughter continues]
622
00:23:00,875 --> 00:23:02,625
But I love her
attitude about it.
623
00:23:02,625 --> 00:23:04,375
- There are so many other women
that would have been like,
624
00:23:04,375 --> 00:23:05,792
I can't go
to this thing tonight.
625
00:23:05,875 --> 00:23:07,208
And, like, I can't do this.
- Right, right.
626
00:23:07,292 --> 00:23:08,542
And she's like, no.
627
00:23:08,875 --> 00:23:10,792
She really just walked through
50 people and did not care.
628
00:23:10,875 --> 00:23:12,375
- Everything's fine.
Everything's fine.
629
00:23:12,458 --> 00:23:14,750
- It's fine.
- Everything's [bleep] great.
630
00:23:14,750 --> 00:23:17,167
Everything's [bleep] great.
[laughter]
631
00:23:17,250 --> 00:23:19,833
- Austin, so what is
going well for you?
632
00:23:19,917 --> 00:23:21,500
- I don't know.
633
00:23:21,625 --> 00:23:22,958
There's not, like,
one specific thing
634
00:23:23,042 --> 00:23:25,750
that I'm, like,
really attached to, so...
635
00:23:25,750 --> 00:23:28,042
- You guys look like
you're literally, like,
636
00:23:28,042 --> 00:23:29,833
communicating telepathically.
637
00:23:29,958 --> 00:23:33,125
[laughter]
Just you guys look so close.
638
00:23:33,208 --> 00:23:35,625
- Yeah. Um...
639
00:23:35,708 --> 00:23:37,708
So, like, yeah, I don't know.
640
00:23:37,708 --> 00:23:40,292
I just--things are going well.
641
00:23:40,375 --> 00:23:42,125
♪
642
00:23:42,208 --> 00:23:45,042
- We're definitely just, like,
getting into things, right?
643
00:23:45,042 --> 00:23:46,375
So, like, there are topics
644
00:23:46,500 --> 00:23:48,708
that, like, we haven't talked
about in depth yet,
645
00:23:48,833 --> 00:23:51,083
where I'm like, this needs
to be addressed at some point.
646
00:23:51,083 --> 00:23:53,167
We haven't talked
about, like, goals, religion,
647
00:23:53,250 --> 00:23:55,833
politics, like, a lot of that
stuff, the heavy hitters.
648
00:23:55,917 --> 00:23:57,042
- Yeah.
- Mm-hmm.
649
00:23:57,042 --> 00:23:58,917
Yeah, but, like, I typically
tend to, like, go
650
00:23:59,000 --> 00:24:00,833
right into all of those
right away.
651
00:24:00,917 --> 00:24:02,542
And so I don't think
it's a bad thing
652
00:24:02,542 --> 00:24:03,792
that I'm waiting.
- Yeah.
653
00:24:03,792 --> 00:24:05,417
It's really hard
for me to stay present.
654
00:24:05,500 --> 00:24:08,042
Like, I've had to work
on practicing and learning
655
00:24:08,125 --> 00:24:09,625
how to stay present.
656
00:24:09,708 --> 00:24:11,167
I know for a lot of people,
it just comes naturally,
657
00:24:11,292 --> 00:24:12,542
and it just doesn't for me.
658
00:24:12,625 --> 00:24:14,333
It's something that,
in relationships,
659
00:24:14,375 --> 00:24:16,375
can definitely
cause complications
660
00:24:16,500 --> 00:24:17,667
and rightfully so.
661
00:24:17,750 --> 00:24:19,542
I watch, like, how patient
he is with me,
662
00:24:19,625 --> 00:24:20,917
because sometimes I'm like,
663
00:24:20,917 --> 00:24:22,500
well, we should talk
about this right now.
664
00:24:22,583 --> 00:24:23,833
And he's just like, yeah,
but what about if we talked
665
00:24:23,875 --> 00:24:26,375
about chips and salsa?
[laughter]
666
00:24:26,375 --> 00:24:28,375
I'm more, like, let's
figure this out now.
667
00:24:28,375 --> 00:24:29,750
- He's definitely
not that person.
668
00:24:29,750 --> 00:24:31,542
- [laughing] I know. I know.
- Truly.
669
00:24:31,625 --> 00:24:33,208
- So, like, with that said,
670
00:24:33,333 --> 00:24:34,833
just because, like,
me and Austin
671
00:24:34,875 --> 00:24:36,625
are more physically
affectionate
672
00:24:36,708 --> 00:24:38,000
with each other right now
673
00:24:38,042 --> 00:24:39,667
does not mean that, like,
we're more likely to last.
674
00:24:39,708 --> 00:24:40,917
- Right.
- Like, when you look
675
00:24:41,042 --> 00:24:42,625
at, like, friends
and past relationships,
676
00:24:42,708 --> 00:24:44,667
where it's like, oh, my gosh,
like, the chemistry was there,
677
00:24:44,750 --> 00:24:46,708
everything was there, and then
it's like, what happened?
678
00:24:46,833 --> 00:24:49,000
I don't know which side I'd
rather be on--grass is greener.
679
00:24:49,083 --> 00:24:51,167
Sometimes, I, like, look
at your situation,
680
00:24:51,167 --> 00:24:52,667
and I'm like, that feels better
because there's actually room
681
00:24:52,750 --> 00:24:54,292
for it to go uphill...
- Sure.
682
00:24:54,375 --> 00:24:55,917
versus, like, right now
it feels
683
00:24:56,000 --> 00:24:57,958
like there's only room for it
to go downhill.
684
00:24:58,042 --> 00:24:59,333
You know?
685
00:24:59,417 --> 00:25:01,583
♪
686
00:25:05,375 --> 00:25:06,292
- ♪ I think that maybe
687
00:25:06,375 --> 00:25:08,042
♪ We're just getting started
688
00:25:08,042 --> 00:25:14,333
♪
689
00:25:14,417 --> 00:25:18,167
♪ We're just getting started
690
00:25:18,167 --> 00:25:21,042
- Ca-caw!
- [chuckles] Ca-caw!
691
00:25:21,042 --> 00:25:22,708
What's up, love?
692
00:25:22,792 --> 00:25:24,500
- [laughing]
What are you doing?
693
00:25:24,542 --> 00:25:26,917
- I don't know. I'm trapped.
- [laughs]
694
00:25:27,000 --> 00:25:28,333
- Come join me.
695
00:25:28,417 --> 00:25:29,792
- Where should I join you?
- Right here.
696
00:25:29,875 --> 00:25:31,625
- Oh, no.
- Oh, yeah.
697
00:25:31,708 --> 00:25:33,542
- Oh, no.
- There we go.
698
00:25:33,542 --> 00:25:35,167
[chuckles]
- Hi.
699
00:25:35,250 --> 00:25:36,625
- You're slightly lifted.
700
00:25:36,708 --> 00:25:38,792
- Wait, this is comfy.
701
00:25:38,875 --> 00:25:40,000
- Good night.
- Good night.
702
00:25:40,167 --> 00:25:41,417
Hi.
- What's up?
703
00:25:41,500 --> 00:25:42,875
- Not much.
- Oh, my butt's touching.
704
00:25:42,958 --> 00:25:44,167
- Is it?
- Yep.
705
00:25:44,167 --> 00:25:45,750
- Is it sandy?
- Yep.
706
00:25:45,833 --> 00:25:48,167
- Did you play volleyball?
- Nope.
707
00:25:48,250 --> 00:25:50,458
- What'd you do?
- We sat around and talked.
708
00:25:50,542 --> 00:25:51,917
- Yeah?
- Yeah.
709
00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:55,542
Like, how's
your marriage going, and...
710
00:25:55,625 --> 00:25:57,500
and how much do
you love your wife?
711
00:25:57,583 --> 00:25:59,250
And... [laughs]
You know, man stuff.
712
00:25:59,333 --> 00:26:02,125
- What can you work on, and
how good is communication?
713
00:26:02,208 --> 00:26:04,125
- Literally, exactly.
714
00:26:04,208 --> 00:26:06,042
I...
715
00:26:06,167 --> 00:26:07,625
downplayed...
- Mm.
716
00:26:07,708 --> 00:26:09,875
- Our relationship to them
717
00:26:09,875 --> 00:26:13,542
because I don't want them
to feel bad...
718
00:26:13,625 --> 00:26:15,542
- Mm.
- About us.
719
00:26:15,625 --> 00:26:17,958
- So I'm going to be hurt
instead of them.
720
00:26:18,042 --> 00:26:22,417
- Well, no, because we know
our relationship.
721
00:26:22,500 --> 00:26:24,500
- Mm.
- And I don't think about--
722
00:26:24,542 --> 00:26:27,000
I mean, I don't know.
Would you be hurt?
723
00:26:27,083 --> 00:26:29,333
- Um...
724
00:26:29,375 --> 00:26:31,042
I mean, it depends
on what you said.
725
00:26:31,042 --> 00:26:32,708
[both laugh]
726
00:26:32,708 --> 00:26:34,542
I don't know what you said.
- I didn't say anything bad.
727
00:26:34,625 --> 00:26:36,500
Promise--all good things...
- Yeah.
728
00:26:36,500 --> 00:26:38,833
- Just not
over-the-top good things.
729
00:26:38,917 --> 00:26:40,333
- Oh, good.
- No, no, no.
730
00:26:40,375 --> 00:26:42,542
- I talked over-the-top good
things, but that's good.
731
00:26:42,542 --> 00:26:44,708
- No, no, no, no.
I meant--I just, like--
732
00:26:44,833 --> 00:26:48,208
I can imagine that it's hard
733
00:26:48,208 --> 00:26:50,042
for other couples
734
00:26:50,042 --> 00:26:52,750
when they aren't
instantly connected
735
00:26:52,875 --> 00:26:54,042
like we are.
- Mm-hmm.
736
00:26:54,125 --> 00:26:55,792
- And I don't want
to discourage them
737
00:26:55,875 --> 00:26:58,250
from thinking that
their relationships
738
00:26:58,333 --> 00:27:01,375
are right and good just because
they don't have what we have.
739
00:27:01,458 --> 00:27:03,958
- But by extinguishing
your own candle,
740
00:27:03,958 --> 00:27:06,333
you don't light someone else's.
- Wait.
741
00:27:06,375 --> 00:27:08,875
Wait, do you think
I'm extinguishing our candle?
742
00:27:08,875 --> 00:27:11,500
- No. No, I'm saying, like,
by downplaying what you have,
743
00:27:11,542 --> 00:27:13,625
you don't give something
to somebody else.
744
00:27:13,708 --> 00:27:15,375
- I don't know.
I think we're good.
745
00:27:15,375 --> 00:27:19,458
So do I need to rub it
in the faces of other people
746
00:27:19,542 --> 00:27:21,375
that we're doing so well?
- No.
747
00:27:21,375 --> 00:27:23,583
- That seems insensitive to me.
- That's not what I did.
748
00:27:23,583 --> 00:27:25,167
- Okay.
749
00:27:25,250 --> 00:27:27,875
- They asked if we had, like,
discussed big topics.
750
00:27:27,875 --> 00:27:31,000
And I just said, not yet,
but that that's hard for me
751
00:27:31,000 --> 00:27:33,875
because I like to talk
about deep things.
752
00:27:33,958 --> 00:27:37,250
- [chuckles]
Yeah, I appreciate that.
753
00:27:37,375 --> 00:27:39,375
Thank you.
- You're welcome.
754
00:27:39,375 --> 00:27:41,208
- Yeah.
755
00:27:41,208 --> 00:27:45,625
♪
756
00:27:45,708 --> 00:27:47,625
- So I had a good day.
757
00:27:47,708 --> 00:27:49,750
Yeah, I met up
with the guys on the beach.
758
00:27:49,833 --> 00:27:51,333
- Yeah.
- We actually mostly
759
00:27:51,417 --> 00:27:53,625
kind of just, like, hung out...
760
00:27:53,708 --> 00:27:55,333
gossiped, you know.
761
00:27:55,333 --> 00:27:57,875
- Talked about your feelings.
- Yeah, like, a bunch of hens.
762
00:27:58,000 --> 00:27:59,292
- [laughs]
763
00:27:59,375 --> 00:28:02,833
- Made myself a little bit
vulnerable to the guys.
764
00:28:02,875 --> 00:28:06,042
I said something that I'm
noticing
765
00:28:06,125 --> 00:28:09,667
about being married
specifically to you...
766
00:28:09,667 --> 00:28:11,000
- Mm-hmm.
767
00:28:11,042 --> 00:28:13,167
- Is that I thought I was
a great communicator,
768
00:28:13,250 --> 00:28:16,083
but you're on, like,
a whole other level.
769
00:28:16,167 --> 00:28:18,083
And maybe it's through
your training, you know,
770
00:28:18,167 --> 00:28:20,583
or it's just who you are.
- That's so nice.
771
00:28:20,708 --> 00:28:22,667
- And that
I kind of feel behind.
772
00:28:22,667 --> 00:28:24,583
There are things that
I can be better at.
773
00:28:24,583 --> 00:28:25,667
♪
774
00:28:25,750 --> 00:28:27,292
- First of all,
thank you for that.
775
00:28:27,292 --> 00:28:28,583
I think that's really sweet.
776
00:28:28,708 --> 00:28:30,458
It's not saying that I'm right
and you're wrong.
777
00:28:30,542 --> 00:28:31,958
They're just different,
and that's okay.
778
00:28:32,042 --> 00:28:34,625
I think I need to
realize, too, that not
779
00:28:34,708 --> 00:28:36,333
everyone communicates
the way that I do,
780
00:28:36,417 --> 00:28:38,667
in a very open, honest way.
781
00:28:38,708 --> 00:28:40,083
But I think same here.
782
00:28:40,167 --> 00:28:42,208
Like, with the girls,
I think it's also
783
00:28:42,208 --> 00:28:44,333
a very vulnerable position
for me to be in, too,
784
00:28:44,333 --> 00:28:46,292
because it seemed like
I was comparing with them
785
00:28:46,375 --> 00:28:48,167
and what they're doing
and what we're not doing.
786
00:28:48,167 --> 00:28:49,917
And from their advice, it was
just, like--
787
00:28:50,042 --> 00:28:52,042
they had mentioned they noticed
788
00:28:52,042 --> 00:28:53,917
that you were putting
your arm around me,
789
00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:55,792
and I didn't even, like,
acknowledge that.
790
00:28:55,875 --> 00:28:58,542
And I feel bad in that way
because I feel like,
791
00:28:58,667 --> 00:29:03,125
wow, I haven't even focused on
the amount that he is trying.
792
00:29:03,125 --> 00:29:06,625
And I'm sorry that I haven't
been more, like, aware of that.
793
00:29:06,708 --> 00:29:08,500
- Thank you.
I appreciate you saying that.
794
00:29:08,500 --> 00:29:12,167
I think it's fair to say
we are both trying, right?
795
00:29:12,250 --> 00:29:13,500
- Yeah.
- Yeah.
796
00:29:13,542 --> 00:29:15,833
♪
797
00:29:15,917 --> 00:29:17,125
- I'm really hot.
- Yeah.
798
00:29:17,208 --> 00:29:18,375
- I feel like
I'm going to pass out.
799
00:29:18,458 --> 00:29:19,792
- The water is super hot.
800
00:29:19,917 --> 00:29:21,958
I think today we saw
the other side of us...
801
00:29:21,958 --> 00:29:23,583
- Mm-hmm.
- Where we can play
802
00:29:23,667 --> 00:29:25,250
and be goofy
and have a good time.
803
00:29:25,333 --> 00:29:27,208
- Right. Yeah, which we need
to do more, I feel.
804
00:29:27,292 --> 00:29:29,875
- Yes, maybe we just need
to, you know, relax
805
00:29:29,958 --> 00:29:32,042
and have, like, the time
like we did today...
806
00:29:32,042 --> 00:29:34,083
- Right.
- And just kind of have fun.
807
00:29:34,167 --> 00:29:38,875
I'm actually super optimistic
about our future.
808
00:29:38,875 --> 00:29:42,167
- I agree.
I totally agree.
809
00:29:42,167 --> 00:29:45,125
♪
810
00:29:46,750 --> 00:29:49,750
- Hey, stranger. [giggles]
- Hey, how are you?
811
00:29:49,833 --> 00:29:52,125
What are these?
- Got you some ice cream.
812
00:29:52,208 --> 00:29:54,458
- Yeah, what kind?
- Favorite flavor.
813
00:29:54,458 --> 00:29:56,375
- Oh, you remembered.
- I do.
814
00:29:56,375 --> 00:29:58,125
I like to remember things
about my husband.
815
00:29:58,208 --> 00:29:59,542
- I only brought
it up once too.
816
00:29:59,708 --> 00:30:02,042
- Do you like mint chocolate?
- I do like mint chocolate.
817
00:30:02,125 --> 00:30:03,250
- Me too.
818
00:30:03,417 --> 00:30:05,208
I feel like people either
love it, or they hate it.
819
00:30:05,208 --> 00:30:06,625
- I like mint chocolate
or strawberry ice cream.
820
00:30:06,708 --> 00:30:08,208
- Strawberry ice cream, okay.
821
00:30:08,292 --> 00:30:09,708
I got a good memory.
822
00:30:09,833 --> 00:30:12,042
- Yeah?
- Mm-hmm.
823
00:30:12,125 --> 00:30:13,833
You know, I met
with the girls.
824
00:30:13,875 --> 00:30:15,375
We did, like, some pool time,
lady chitchat.
825
00:30:15,500 --> 00:30:16,542
- How was that?
- It was cute.
826
00:30:16,542 --> 00:30:18,000
You know, it was real cute.
827
00:30:18,042 --> 00:30:19,833
Everyone's like,
you guys are so cute.
828
00:30:19,833 --> 00:30:21,375
You guys are so this.
829
00:30:21,375 --> 00:30:23,250
And it's like, we are, but
we are also navigating...
830
00:30:23,375 --> 00:30:24,750
- Our own big things.
831
00:30:24,750 --> 00:30:26,542
- And that's why I want them to
know, like, we're not perfect.
832
00:30:26,667 --> 00:30:28,667
We're literally just two people
committed to the marriage.
833
00:30:28,667 --> 00:30:29,708
- Yeah, yeah.
834
00:30:29,708 --> 00:30:31,167
- And this is what
it looks like
835
00:30:31,208 --> 00:30:33,417
when you're committed to the
person that you're married to.
836
00:30:33,542 --> 00:30:36,083
- Agreed. Even with our...
837
00:30:36,167 --> 00:30:38,208
conversation, you know,
on the balcony--
838
00:30:38,292 --> 00:30:41,083
- I've used terms that,
when I was younger,
839
00:30:41,167 --> 00:30:43,042
that I didn't even know
were derogatory.
840
00:30:43,125 --> 00:30:44,375
- Redskin?
- No.
841
00:30:44,458 --> 00:30:46,292
I didn't even know what
redskin means, honestly.
842
00:30:46,375 --> 00:30:49,667
Oh, I do.
I just looked at your face.
843
00:30:49,750 --> 00:30:51,083
♪
844
00:30:51,333 --> 00:30:53,333
I didn't--I didn't--I'm sorry.
- That was a little rough.
845
00:30:53,417 --> 00:30:55,208
- That was a little rough?
I'm sorry.
846
00:30:55,292 --> 00:30:56,958
- I still have trust
in you, 100%.
847
00:30:56,958 --> 00:30:58,958
- I'm glad, because I was
worried about that.
848
00:30:59,042 --> 00:31:00,375
I was really
worried about how--
849
00:31:00,458 --> 00:31:02,875
like, even
if you didn't have trust,
850
00:31:02,958 --> 00:31:06,042
I was worried about how much
was gone, you know?
851
00:31:06,125 --> 00:31:08,333
- Right.
- Yeah, because I know that--
852
00:31:08,417 --> 00:31:10,250
you know, that could
be hard to rebuild.
853
00:31:10,333 --> 00:31:12,042
It's much easier to destroy.
- Yeah. Yes.
854
00:31:12,042 --> 00:31:13,583
- And so I was really hoping--
855
00:31:13,583 --> 00:31:15,417
I think that was where a lot
of my emotions came from too.
856
00:31:15,500 --> 00:31:18,042
Like, damn, I [bleep] this up,
you know?
857
00:31:18,042 --> 00:31:19,667
So it feels really comforting.
858
00:31:19,708 --> 00:31:21,333
- But you didn't.
You didn't.
859
00:31:21,417 --> 00:31:22,375
- Thanks.
860
00:31:22,375 --> 00:31:24,125
♪
861
00:31:24,208 --> 00:31:26,583
I tend to bask
in shame and guilt
862
00:31:26,583 --> 00:31:28,042
when I make mistakes a lot,
863
00:31:28,125 --> 00:31:30,458
and so it feels good to get
grace from my husband.
864
00:31:30,458 --> 00:31:32,042
I'm not stupid.
865
00:31:32,125 --> 00:31:34,000
I know we're going to have
more conflicts in the marriage.
866
00:31:34,083 --> 00:31:35,833
It feels good to
make it past one.
867
00:31:35,875 --> 00:31:37,333
Like, yeah, I [bleep] up.
868
00:31:37,458 --> 00:31:40,250
But if there's one feeling
and one adjective I want
869
00:31:40,333 --> 00:31:42,292
my husband to feel, it's safe.
870
00:31:42,375 --> 00:31:45,000
We're, like, halfway through
the honeymoon already.
871
00:31:45,125 --> 00:31:48,708
I want to set that standard now
that no matter what happens
872
00:31:48,708 --> 00:31:50,417
throughout the night,
in the morning,
873
00:31:50,500 --> 00:31:52,875
we get those cuddles in, those
kisses in,
874
00:31:52,958 --> 00:31:55,583
whatever it looks like
for what mood we're in.
875
00:31:55,583 --> 00:31:59,542
And we just get to go about our
day feeling like, all right,
876
00:31:59,542 --> 00:32:04,417
I'm cared by this person, and
this person feels cared by me.
877
00:32:04,417 --> 00:32:06,958
- You know, I love that.
878
00:32:07,042 --> 00:32:08,917
I absolutely love that.
- I'm glad you do.
879
00:32:09,000 --> 00:32:12,250
- Because, you know, I've not
had anybody like that.
880
00:32:12,375 --> 00:32:15,500
I have never had
consistent reciprocation.
881
00:32:15,625 --> 00:32:17,292
- Me neither, so...
- Mm-hmm.
882
00:32:17,375 --> 00:32:19,292
- I think we get that
about each other,
883
00:32:19,417 --> 00:32:21,458
and that's why we're working...
- Yeah.
884
00:32:21,542 --> 00:32:24,333
- Because we're both givers.
- Mm-hmm.
885
00:32:24,375 --> 00:32:26,708
- And we deserve to be
in a relationship
886
00:32:26,833 --> 00:32:28,542
where it's reciprocated.
- Yeah.
887
00:32:28,542 --> 00:32:31,208
♪
888
00:32:31,292 --> 00:32:33,583
- I'm happy.
- I'm very happy too.
889
00:32:35,208 --> 00:32:37,500
- Let's continue that.
- Yeah.
890
00:32:37,583 --> 00:32:39,875
- Because life might get crazy
after this, okay?
891
00:32:39,875 --> 00:32:41,042
- Yep.
892
00:32:41,125 --> 00:32:42,417
- ♪ So good, so good
893
00:32:42,417 --> 00:32:44,042
♪ I want to be here
in the moment ♪
894
00:32:44,042 --> 00:32:45,917
♪ 'Cause I'd really like
to get to know ya ♪
895
00:32:49,708 --> 00:32:50,667
- [singing in Spanish]
896
00:32:50,750 --> 00:32:52,500
♪
897
00:32:52,542 --> 00:32:55,875
- Cameron, where are you?
- I'm in Cancún.
898
00:32:55,958 --> 00:32:57,083
- [laughs]
899
00:32:57,250 --> 00:32:59,958
Today we are meeting up
with the other couples.
900
00:33:00,042 --> 00:33:03,042
And I think we're
going to go on a boat.
901
00:33:03,167 --> 00:33:04,875
This is the first, like, group
activity that we've done.
902
00:33:05,000 --> 00:33:06,500
Cameron...
903
00:33:06,500 --> 00:33:08,292
- Do you think we're
going to see dolphins?
904
00:33:08,375 --> 00:33:10,375
- Who knows if that'll happen?
But that would be pretty cool.
905
00:33:10,375 --> 00:33:12,083
- The dolphins will have
to decide for us.
906
00:33:12,083 --> 00:33:14,000
- Right.
Okay, let's go.
907
00:33:14,042 --> 00:33:15,875
- Let's go.
908
00:33:15,958 --> 00:33:17,542
- ♪ You're droppin'
down to the floor ♪
909
00:33:17,625 --> 00:33:19,500
♪ You're making
me want you more ♪
910
00:33:19,542 --> 00:33:21,458
- You excited to
go boating today?
911
00:33:21,542 --> 00:33:22,833
- I love boats.
- Yeah.
912
00:33:22,917 --> 00:33:24,458
- Later, nerds.
913
00:33:24,542 --> 00:33:26,000
♪
914
00:33:26,083 --> 00:33:29,000
- Yo, the vibes
today are immaculate.
915
00:33:29,042 --> 00:33:30,458
I'm just saying.
- Vibin' high, baby.
916
00:33:30,458 --> 00:33:31,500
- Whoo-hoo.
917
00:33:31,542 --> 00:33:32,750
♪
918
00:33:32,833 --> 00:33:34,333
- I feel like we're
in third grade.
919
00:33:34,417 --> 00:33:36,458
- [laughs]
- Where's our field trip today?
920
00:33:36,458 --> 00:33:37,833
both: A boat!
921
00:33:37,917 --> 00:33:39,333
- Y'all trying shake
some ass on the boat?
922
00:33:39,417 --> 00:33:40,875
- Yeah, let's shake some ass.
923
00:33:40,958 --> 00:33:42,292
- We're going to shake
some ass on the boat.
924
00:33:42,375 --> 00:33:43,833
- There's some dark clouds
over there.
925
00:33:43,917 --> 00:33:45,042
- I know, right?
926
00:33:45,042 --> 00:33:46,042
- I'm going to have
to do Em's hair.
927
00:33:46,125 --> 00:33:47,917
So you scooch in this way,
928
00:33:47,917 --> 00:33:50,625
and then Brennan
will sit right here.
929
00:33:50,708 --> 00:33:52,042
- So you're moving?
- Yeah.
930
00:33:52,125 --> 00:33:53,250
- Oh, okay.
931
00:33:53,375 --> 00:33:54,375
- Hi, honey.
932
00:33:54,458 --> 00:33:55,625
- Yo.
- Yo.
933
00:33:55,625 --> 00:33:57,708
- How are you feeling
about your hair?
934
00:33:57,708 --> 00:33:59,167
- Great.
- [laughs]
935
00:33:59,250 --> 00:34:00,625
- Oh, Lord.
- Oh, my God.
936
00:34:00,708 --> 00:34:03,500
- Do you want to touch it?
- Oh, my God.
937
00:34:03,542 --> 00:34:05,083
Holy [bleep].
938
00:34:05,083 --> 00:34:07,000
- Okay, that's going to
make her feel better.
939
00:34:07,042 --> 00:34:08,667
- Not good.
- I mean--
940
00:34:08,708 --> 00:34:10,250
- Let's all just scream holy
[bleep] and look at her hair.
941
00:34:10,333 --> 00:34:11,875
- It's literally, like, matted.
942
00:34:11,958 --> 00:34:14,500
- Are there birds in there?
- Yeah, it's a bird's nest.
943
00:34:14,542 --> 00:34:16,333
- There's creatures
living in the hair.
944
00:34:16,375 --> 00:34:18,208
Critters are living
in that hair.
945
00:34:18,292 --> 00:34:19,583
- It's all good.
It's all good.
946
00:34:19,667 --> 00:34:20,583
- It's great.
947
00:34:20,708 --> 00:34:22,000
She rocks the space bun.
948
00:34:22,083 --> 00:34:23,625
Imagine if she couldn't
rock a space bun.
949
00:34:23,708 --> 00:34:25,875
- This is what Princess Leia
looks like
950
00:34:26,000 --> 00:34:28,708
when she takes her braids out.
[laughter]
951
00:34:28,833 --> 00:34:32,167
- I just keep saying, at
least her face is so pretty.
952
00:34:32,250 --> 00:34:33,958
My hair is what
makes me pretty.
953
00:34:34,042 --> 00:34:36,542
If I ever had to go bald,
bad news.
954
00:34:36,625 --> 00:34:38,000
- No way.
955
00:34:38,083 --> 00:34:39,417
- But now I'm married,
so he can't leave.
956
00:34:39,542 --> 00:34:40,458
[laughter]
957
00:34:40,542 --> 00:34:42,667
- What'd you say?
- Nothing.
958
00:34:42,667 --> 00:34:44,208
- Who whispered something?
959
00:34:44,292 --> 00:34:47,708
- It looks--it looks so
much better, so much better.
960
00:34:47,792 --> 00:34:49,875
- Space buns are the move.
961
00:34:49,958 --> 00:34:51,625
Brennan, you can
have your wife back.
962
00:34:51,708 --> 00:34:54,375
- Look at this magic
that has been worked.
963
00:34:54,375 --> 00:34:56,292
- Wow, wow.
Holy [bleep].
964
00:34:56,375 --> 00:34:59,000
- She's a new girl.
- That literally looks amazing.
965
00:34:59,042 --> 00:35:00,542
- Everything's fine.
- Everything's fine.
966
00:35:00,625 --> 00:35:02,042
- Well done.
967
00:35:02,042 --> 00:35:03,792
- They get you that
appointment, Emily?
968
00:35:03,875 --> 00:35:06,875
- Yep, I'm really scared to
trust someone with my hair.
969
00:35:06,875 --> 00:35:09,917
[laughing]
But desperate times...
970
00:35:10,042 --> 00:35:15,333
♪
971
00:35:15,375 --> 00:35:17,000
- The weather has
officially failed us.
972
00:35:17,083 --> 00:35:18,208
- Not yet. It could pass.
973
00:35:18,500 --> 00:35:20,042
- The weather changes
really fast here, though.
974
00:35:20,042 --> 00:35:21,458
- Like, it rains,
and then it stops.
975
00:35:21,542 --> 00:35:22,708
- Yeah, so...
976
00:35:22,792 --> 00:35:25,917
- Hopefully there's, like,
a cover on the boat.
977
00:35:26,000 --> 00:35:27,542
- Yeah, the port is over here.
978
00:35:27,667 --> 00:35:29,500
[thunder rumbles]
979
00:35:29,625 --> 00:35:34,208
♪
980
00:35:36,417 --> 00:35:37,500
- Mm-hmm.
981
00:35:37,625 --> 00:35:38,792
♪
982
00:35:38,875 --> 00:35:41,167
- Now everybody's sleepy.
983
00:35:41,250 --> 00:35:43,750
[peaceful music]
984
00:35:43,833 --> 00:35:46,042
[light snoring]
985
00:35:46,042 --> 00:35:48,625
♪
986
00:35:49,792 --> 00:35:51,250
- I was just...
987
00:35:52,875 --> 00:35:55,875
♪
988
00:35:55,875 --> 00:35:57,500
- Hello, guys!
- Hola.
989
00:35:57,542 --> 00:35:59,167
all: Hola!
990
00:35:59,250 --> 00:36:03,083
- So, unfortunately,
it's raining a lot.
991
00:36:03,167 --> 00:36:05,667
The boat is not
going to happen, so...
992
00:36:05,708 --> 00:36:07,333
- No.
- Unfortunately.
993
00:36:07,417 --> 00:36:08,833
- So now we just turn around?
994
00:36:08,917 --> 00:36:10,375
♪
995
00:36:10,375 --> 00:36:12,500
- Yeah, probably.
We'll see.
996
00:36:12,583 --> 00:36:14,500
- Thank you.
- All right, see you.
997
00:36:14,500 --> 00:36:17,292
♪
998
00:36:17,375 --> 00:36:18,542
- I don't know why you moved.
999
00:36:18,625 --> 00:36:20,208
I mean, you could put
your legs that way.
1000
00:36:20,333 --> 00:36:22,167
- Yeah, I know, but for me
to be comfortable,
1001
00:36:22,250 --> 00:36:24,375
I would have had
to have gone back quite a bit.
1002
00:36:24,500 --> 00:36:26,083
- You could've.
- Oh, okay.
1003
00:36:26,167 --> 00:36:27,417
- Mm-hmm.
- I'm sorry.
1004
00:36:27,500 --> 00:36:29,292
I just--I made
a poor assumption, then.
1005
00:36:29,375 --> 00:36:30,583
- You did.
That was an assumption.
1006
00:36:30,667 --> 00:36:32,917
- I didn't realize I had
my pillow right here.
1007
00:36:33,042 --> 00:36:34,958
- Mm-hmm.
1008
00:36:35,042 --> 00:36:37,792
- ♪ Say we can make
this work ♪
1009
00:36:37,792 --> 00:36:40,333
♪ We can make this work
1010
00:36:40,417 --> 00:36:43,042
♪ We can make this work
1011
00:36:43,125 --> 00:36:44,667
♪
1012
00:36:44,750 --> 00:36:47,042
- Wow.
- Well...
1013
00:36:47,125 --> 00:36:48,583
- Wow.
1014
00:36:48,583 --> 00:36:51,125
- Well...
- Well, well, well...
1015
00:36:51,208 --> 00:36:53,083
- Could you pass me
that sandwich plate?
1016
00:36:53,167 --> 00:36:55,708
- Oh, the bagels.
1017
00:36:55,708 --> 00:36:58,292
- What's that, Becca?
- A box. [laughs]
1018
00:36:58,292 --> 00:37:01,083
Okay, I know we're bummed
that we're not on the boat.
1019
00:37:01,167 --> 00:37:02,667
Waa.
- Waa.
1020
00:37:02,750 --> 00:37:03,792
- Waa.
- Waa.
1021
00:37:03,875 --> 00:37:05,750
- I have some questions
for us to answer,
1022
00:37:05,833 --> 00:37:07,292
if we feel interested.
1023
00:37:07,417 --> 00:37:09,708
They're meant mainly for more,
like, intimate conversations,
1024
00:37:09,708 --> 00:37:11,250
but I feel like
when you pick up a card,
1025
00:37:11,375 --> 00:37:13,250
you can just choose
who you want to ask it to.
1026
00:37:13,375 --> 00:37:15,167
- Oh, that's good.
- So, like, pick up a card.
1027
00:37:15,250 --> 00:37:17,833
Read the question,
and then ask whoever.
1028
00:37:17,875 --> 00:37:19,542
Okay, so I'll go first.
1029
00:37:19,625 --> 00:37:23,500
Cameron, what's your
biggest pet peeve?
1030
00:37:23,542 --> 00:37:25,000
- If I walk
into a grocery store
1031
00:37:25,083 --> 00:37:26,917
that doesn't have
self-checkout,
1032
00:37:27,000 --> 00:37:28,583
I literally walk
right back out.
1033
00:37:28,667 --> 00:37:30,792
[laughter]
- I am not standing in line.
1034
00:37:30,875 --> 00:37:32,875
I'd rather go hungry.
1035
00:37:32,958 --> 00:37:34,417
- Love that answer.
1036
00:37:34,417 --> 00:37:36,292
- Becca...
- Mm-hmm.
1037
00:37:36,375 --> 00:37:37,750
Yes?
- [chuckles]
1038
00:37:37,875 --> 00:37:40,708
In what areas of your life
do you feel most fulfilled?
1039
00:37:40,875 --> 00:37:43,708
- Mm. I feel like...
1040
00:37:43,833 --> 00:37:45,875
my first answer...
1041
00:37:47,417 --> 00:37:49,458
Is romance right now.
1042
00:37:49,542 --> 00:37:51,750
all: Aw.
- I feel very happy.
1043
00:37:51,833 --> 00:37:54,000
all: Yeah.
1044
00:37:54,083 --> 00:37:55,333
- Okay, I got one for Lauren.
1045
00:37:55,417 --> 00:37:57,458
And I think this is
a good one for you too.
1046
00:37:57,542 --> 00:37:59,875
Who in your life can you be
the most vulnerable with?
1047
00:37:59,875 --> 00:38:03,625
What about them makes you feel
the most comfortable?
1048
00:38:03,708 --> 00:38:05,375
- I feel like I can be
the most vulnerable
1049
00:38:05,458 --> 00:38:06,958
with my little sister.
1050
00:38:07,042 --> 00:38:09,542
Before her, it was my mom,
so I was just like...
1051
00:38:09,542 --> 00:38:10,958
[sighs]
1052
00:38:11,042 --> 00:38:12,708
But my little sister, for sure.
1053
00:38:12,792 --> 00:38:14,875
Like, we have a very similar
sense of humor.
1054
00:38:14,958 --> 00:38:17,042
She doesn't judge me.
1055
00:38:17,042 --> 00:38:19,042
- How old is she?
- She's 27.
1056
00:38:19,167 --> 00:38:20,667
Her and my husband,
the same age.
1057
00:38:20,750 --> 00:38:22,458
all: Wow.
1058
00:38:22,542 --> 00:38:25,292
- I always forget you're 27.
- Me too.
1059
00:38:25,375 --> 00:38:26,875
- This one's for Emily.
1060
00:38:26,958 --> 00:38:30,667
What are you curious about
that you haven't explored yet?
1061
00:38:30,750 --> 00:38:33,542
- I would say I'm most curious
1062
00:38:33,625 --> 00:38:35,958
about actually being in love,
1063
00:38:36,042 --> 00:38:38,167
which is why I'm here,
1064
00:38:38,208 --> 00:38:40,000
'cause I haven't
had a relationship
1065
00:38:40,083 --> 00:38:41,458
and I haven't had that chance.
1066
00:38:41,542 --> 00:38:44,667
But I feel like
so far, so good.
1067
00:38:44,708 --> 00:38:47,042
♪
1068
00:38:47,042 --> 00:38:48,958
- What am I teaching you?
1069
00:38:49,042 --> 00:38:50,958
- Mm-hmm.
1070
00:38:50,958 --> 00:38:54,333
- You're teaching me
how to talk about the future.
1071
00:38:54,417 --> 00:38:56,625
You know, and in doing that,
1072
00:38:56,625 --> 00:38:58,792
you know,
I kind of caught feelings.
1073
00:38:58,875 --> 00:39:00,333
- I know.
[laughter]
1074
00:39:00,333 --> 00:39:02,042
- Yeah, yeah.
1075
00:39:02,042 --> 00:39:03,583
- [clears throat]
- Okay.
1076
00:39:03,583 --> 00:39:05,417
- You're teaching me a lot.
1077
00:39:05,542 --> 00:39:09,458
What am I teaching you
in our relationship?
1078
00:39:09,458 --> 00:39:12,167
- I don't think I was not good
at this before,
1079
00:39:12,250 --> 00:39:14,542
but I think you're helping me
expand on just
1080
00:39:14,708 --> 00:39:17,333
what it actually looks like
to give grace in action
1081
00:39:17,458 --> 00:39:18,833
and to be really patient--
1082
00:39:18,917 --> 00:39:20,750
not that you've tested
my patience so much,
1083
00:39:20,833 --> 00:39:23,875
but I think you are just
very patient and kind
1084
00:39:24,000 --> 00:39:25,583
and gentle with me.
1085
00:39:25,667 --> 00:39:27,000
And because I haven't
had that so much,
1086
00:39:27,083 --> 00:39:30,375
it's helping me to, like, be
more of that for you.
1087
00:39:30,458 --> 00:39:32,333
And I really appreciate that
because it's like,
1088
00:39:32,458 --> 00:39:35,833
I get to be comfortable
doing that too.
1089
00:39:35,833 --> 00:39:37,667
I haven't been able
to be comfortable
1090
00:39:37,708 --> 00:39:39,667
doing that with someone,
and so it feels nice
1091
00:39:39,750 --> 00:39:42,542
to kind of, like,
get to do that in action.
1092
00:39:42,625 --> 00:39:44,208
Yeah.
1093
00:39:44,208 --> 00:39:46,417
Stop looking at me like that.
all: Aw.
1094
00:39:46,500 --> 00:39:48,125
- That's so cute.
1095
00:39:48,208 --> 00:39:50,333
- Clare, what's one
of the biggest life lessons
1096
00:39:50,417 --> 00:39:52,125
you've learned?
1097
00:39:52,208 --> 00:39:55,708
- I think for me,
it's to just make sure
1098
00:39:55,792 --> 00:39:57,958
that you show the people that
you care about you love them
1099
00:39:58,042 --> 00:40:00,000
because you could lose them
at any moment.
1100
00:40:00,125 --> 00:40:02,500
You know what I mean? And I've
lost people that are very--
1101
00:40:02,542 --> 00:40:03,667
I lost my brother.
1102
00:40:03,750 --> 00:40:04,833
Like, and so for me, it's like,
1103
00:40:04,958 --> 00:40:06,750
if you don't show the people
you care about
1104
00:40:06,750 --> 00:40:08,333
you love them, you can miss out
1105
00:40:08,458 --> 00:40:10,708
on a major opportunity to just
express that love.
1106
00:40:10,708 --> 00:40:11,917
And that's a scary feeling.
1107
00:40:12,000 --> 00:40:13,750
So it's like,
if you have feelings,
1108
00:40:13,833 --> 00:40:15,542
never hold back
because you're afraid
1109
00:40:15,542 --> 00:40:17,792
of how it's going to be
reciprocated or whatever.
1110
00:40:17,875 --> 00:40:20,292
And at the end of the day,
life is very short.
1111
00:40:20,292 --> 00:40:22,125
And it's like,
we all realize that,
1112
00:40:22,208 --> 00:40:24,000
because, I mean, here we are.
1113
00:40:24,042 --> 00:40:26,000
- I'm very guilty of taking
people I love for granted.
1114
00:40:26,083 --> 00:40:27,917
- Mm. That's a hard thing
to be self-aware of,
1115
00:40:28,000 --> 00:40:29,542
like, to come to terms with.
- For sure.
1116
00:40:29,625 --> 00:40:31,250
- Anytime I think about
a friend or a family member,
1117
00:40:31,333 --> 00:40:32,958
just call them and, like, tell
them I appreciate them,
1118
00:40:33,042 --> 00:40:34,292
because like you say,
1119
00:40:34,375 --> 00:40:35,833
you just never know
what's going to happen.
1120
00:40:35,958 --> 00:40:38,167
- Now I need to go text
all my people.
1121
00:40:38,208 --> 00:40:40,917
♪
1122
00:40:41,000 --> 00:40:42,875
- Cameron...
1123
00:40:43,000 --> 00:40:47,167
what is the hardest part
of yourself to accept?
1124
00:40:47,208 --> 00:40:49,208
♪
1125
00:40:49,208 --> 00:40:50,792
- It's interesting
that I don't--
1126
00:40:50,792 --> 00:40:52,333
- Hold on. Sorry.
He just has a little--
1127
00:40:52,375 --> 00:40:53,917
You just got a little--
all: Aw.
1128
00:40:54,000 --> 00:40:57,083
- Sorry.
Thank you.
1129
00:40:57,208 --> 00:40:59,208
- I wish I spent that time
thinking about my answer.
1130
00:40:59,292 --> 00:41:00,500
[laughter]
1131
00:41:00,708 --> 00:41:04,542
The hardest part of accepting,
you know, who I am
1132
00:41:04,625 --> 00:41:07,333
is that a lot of my memories
1133
00:41:07,458 --> 00:41:10,125
don't align
with who I am anymore.
1134
00:41:10,208 --> 00:41:11,167
- Hmm.
1135
00:41:11,250 --> 00:41:12,375
♪
1136
00:41:12,375 --> 00:41:14,292
And I have large
portions of my life
1137
00:41:14,375 --> 00:41:18,417
that are like watching a movie.
- Mm-hmm.
1138
00:41:18,542 --> 00:41:22,833
- And that feels difficult...
1139
00:41:22,875 --> 00:41:25,167
because they don't feel
like my memories anymore.
1140
00:41:25,250 --> 00:41:26,625
- Hmm.
1141
00:41:26,708 --> 00:41:29,708
- When I was younger,
I definitely hated school.
1142
00:41:29,833 --> 00:41:32,375
I was more of a troublemaker.
1143
00:41:32,375 --> 00:41:34,583
And then my parents
got divorced,
1144
00:41:34,667 --> 00:41:37,167
and it affected me a lot.
1145
00:41:37,208 --> 00:41:40,458
But because of that,
I just think, serendipitously,
1146
00:41:40,542 --> 00:41:42,042
things have aligned.
1147
00:41:42,125 --> 00:41:45,375
And now here we are in
paradise with my wife.
1148
00:41:45,375 --> 00:41:47,083
♪
1149
00:41:47,167 --> 00:41:50,000
- That is your journey, and,
like, you know, those are what
1150
00:41:50,083 --> 00:41:51,708
made you who you are today.
- Absolutely.
1151
00:41:51,833 --> 00:41:53,417
- You learn
from your experiences,
1152
00:41:53,500 --> 00:41:55,042
whether they're good or bad.
- Yeah, of course.
1153
00:41:55,125 --> 00:41:57,292
- And we all love you
for who you are today.
1154
00:41:57,292 --> 00:41:58,542
- Absolutely.
- Thank you.
1155
00:41:58,625 --> 00:42:00,792
- So we're thankful
for all the different parts
1156
00:42:00,875 --> 00:42:02,833
of you that came before...
- For sure.
1157
00:42:02,875 --> 00:42:04,208
- Thank you.
- Whatever that looks like.
1158
00:42:04,292 --> 00:42:05,583
♪
1159
00:42:05,583 --> 00:42:07,333
- I know that took
a lot for him to say.
1160
00:42:07,333 --> 00:42:09,708
That's taking a lot for him
to bring that up to the table.
1161
00:42:09,792 --> 00:42:11,875
And so I'm seeing
a whole new side of him.
1162
00:42:11,958 --> 00:42:13,792
I'm learning so many things
about him,
1163
00:42:13,875 --> 00:42:16,000
and I am feeling connected
1164
00:42:16,000 --> 00:42:17,875
through this
whole conversation to him.
1165
00:42:17,958 --> 00:42:19,792
- We're all so wise.
- I know.
1166
00:42:19,875 --> 00:42:21,708
- Yeah, what the hell?
[laughter]
1167
00:42:21,792 --> 00:42:24,500
- We all feel like we got
some really great husbands.
1168
00:42:24,542 --> 00:42:26,042
- Yeah.
- We do.
1169
00:42:26,125 --> 00:42:27,875
I think we lucked out.
- We're lucky.
1170
00:42:27,875 --> 00:42:29,458
- Yeah, very lucky.
- Very lucky.
1171
00:42:29,542 --> 00:42:32,042
- So don't screw it up.
[laughter]
1172
00:42:32,125 --> 00:42:35,750
- ♪ I really try to be
my best for you ♪
1173
00:42:39,542 --> 00:42:40,875
[upbeat music]
1174
00:42:40,958 --> 00:42:43,958
♪
1175
00:42:44,042 --> 00:42:46,333
- Are you going to cut
the extensions out?
1176
00:42:46,417 --> 00:42:47,792
- Are you okay with that?
[chuckles]
1177
00:42:47,875 --> 00:42:50,542
- I think it's happening.
1178
00:42:50,625 --> 00:42:53,125
Luckily, we did get
a professional in.
1179
00:42:53,208 --> 00:42:54,500
Didn't speak English,
1180
00:42:54,583 --> 00:42:56,458
which was another extra layer
of stress,
1181
00:42:56,542 --> 00:42:58,125
given everything else
that was going on.
1182
00:42:58,208 --> 00:43:01,333
[tense music]
1183
00:43:01,375 --> 00:43:03,833
♪
1184
00:43:03,917 --> 00:43:05,458
[ripping]
1185
00:43:05,542 --> 00:43:12,333
♪
1186
00:43:14,375 --> 00:43:17,375
I don't know exactly what's
happening behind my head.
1187
00:43:17,375 --> 00:43:18,792
♪
1188
00:43:18,875 --> 00:43:21,458
I'm scared that scissors
are being used.
1189
00:43:21,542 --> 00:43:23,875
♪
1190
00:43:23,875 --> 00:43:26,958
I'm feeling a little uneasy.
1191
00:43:27,042 --> 00:43:29,958
That's one thing my hair person
said to do is don't cut them.
1192
00:43:30,042 --> 00:43:31,250
♪
1193
00:43:31,375 --> 00:43:33,000
- Oh, yeah.
1194
00:43:33,083 --> 00:43:34,417
Progress.
1195
00:43:34,500 --> 00:43:36,417
- Surgery.
- Wow.
1196
00:43:36,500 --> 00:43:38,833
I have no idea
what I'm looking at.
1197
00:43:38,917 --> 00:43:40,500
I'm trying to be as supportive
as I can
1198
00:43:40,625 --> 00:43:42,708
and understand the severity
of the situation
1199
00:43:42,833 --> 00:43:44,292
and where she's coming from.
1200
00:43:44,375 --> 00:43:45,750
Wow.
1201
00:43:45,958 --> 00:43:49,125
I'm a guy, so when my hair gets
messed up, I just brush it.
1202
00:43:49,208 --> 00:43:51,042
Let's do it up.
- Yeah.
1203
00:43:51,125 --> 00:43:53,875
He's just so confused
by all of this.
1204
00:43:54,042 --> 00:44:01,000
♪
1205
00:44:03,042 --> 00:44:05,000
Wow.
[chuckles]
1206
00:44:05,042 --> 00:44:10,833
♪
1207
00:44:10,917 --> 00:44:12,917
Oh, my God, I'm bald now.
1208
00:44:13,042 --> 00:44:15,375
♪
1209
00:44:15,375 --> 00:44:17,792
I feel like I did lose hair.
1210
00:44:17,875 --> 00:44:19,833
[laughing]
Pretty traumatizing.
1211
00:44:19,917 --> 00:44:21,667
♪
1212
00:44:21,750 --> 00:44:25,167
[upbeat music]
1213
00:44:25,167 --> 00:44:28,208
♪
1214
00:44:28,333 --> 00:44:29,667
- We're going on a boat!
1215
00:44:29,792 --> 00:44:32,375
- I want to catch a shark
with my bare hands.
1216
00:44:32,375 --> 00:44:33,833
- He wants to
swim with a shark.
1217
00:44:34,000 --> 00:44:35,125
- [roars]
1218
00:44:35,208 --> 00:44:36,750
- He doesn't want to
hurt the shark, right?
1219
00:44:36,875 --> 00:44:38,125
- No, I just want to hug it.
1220
00:44:38,208 --> 00:44:39,500
- All right, let's go.
1221
00:44:39,625 --> 00:44:41,833
♪ Let's go on a boat
1222
00:44:41,917 --> 00:44:43,708
♪ Try number two
1223
00:44:43,792 --> 00:44:45,458
- Allow me.
1224
00:44:45,542 --> 00:44:47,083
Okay.
- Oh.
1225
00:44:47,083 --> 00:44:49,750
♪
1226
00:44:49,833 --> 00:44:53,000
- And let the adventure begin.
1227
00:44:53,083 --> 00:44:55,333
♪
1228
00:44:55,417 --> 00:44:58,000
- Oh, it's raining again.
- You're kidding.
1229
00:44:58,083 --> 00:45:00,625
- Oh, maybe it was
the windshield wiper.
1230
00:45:00,708 --> 00:45:02,667
- It was the windshield.
- Sorry to scare everyone.
1231
00:45:02,792 --> 00:45:04,833
- I was like, oh, no.
1232
00:45:04,875 --> 00:45:07,375
- Take two!
[all cheer]
1233
00:45:07,458 --> 00:45:09,833
- Sun's out, buns out.
1234
00:45:09,917 --> 00:45:12,750
- Emily's buns are gone,
which is nice.
1235
00:45:12,875 --> 00:45:14,750
[laughter]
No more space buns.
1236
00:45:14,750 --> 00:45:17,000
- And we're thankful for that.
- Mm-hmm.
1237
00:45:17,042 --> 00:45:19,417
- What did they do?
- Open-weave surgery.
1238
00:45:19,417 --> 00:45:21,708
[laughter]
- Brennan, did you go?
1239
00:45:21,792 --> 00:45:24,000
- I watched. I had to deliver
the anesthesia.
1240
00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:26,042
- He was administering
daiquiris.
1241
00:45:26,042 --> 00:45:28,333
- Administering daiquiris.
[laughter]
1242
00:45:28,458 --> 00:45:29,750
♪
1243
00:45:29,750 --> 00:45:31,083
- ♪ Do it, do it,
do it right ♪
1244
00:45:31,167 --> 00:45:32,417
♪ Get into it, let it slide
1245
00:45:32,500 --> 00:45:33,917
♪ No, this ain't a vacay
1246
00:45:34,000 --> 00:45:35,042
♪ Baby, this is just my life
1247
00:45:35,125 --> 00:45:36,375
♪ Get it, get it every day
1248
00:45:36,458 --> 00:45:37,583
♪ Work it out into the night
1249
00:45:37,583 --> 00:45:38,833
♪ No, this ain't a vacay
1250
00:45:38,917 --> 00:45:40,125
♪ Baby, this is just my life
1251
00:45:40,208 --> 00:45:42,583
- Yay, we're on a boat, guys!
We made it!
1252
00:45:42,667 --> 00:45:43,708
- Thank you.
1253
00:45:43,875 --> 00:45:45,292
- We made it, guys.
[scattered cheers]
1254
00:45:45,375 --> 00:45:47,750
It's been a long journey
to get here, but we're here.
1255
00:45:47,833 --> 00:45:49,333
- Hoist the mainsail!
1256
00:45:49,333 --> 00:45:50,875
- Don't start without us.
1257
00:45:50,875 --> 00:45:51,833
- Who wants it in the bow?
1258
00:45:51,958 --> 00:45:53,417
- Wow.
- Whoa, whoa.
1259
00:45:53,542 --> 00:45:54,875
- ♪ No this ain't a vacay
1260
00:45:54,875 --> 00:45:56,667
♪ Baby, this is just my life
1261
00:45:56,708 --> 00:45:58,792
- Drinks.
- Drinks!
1262
00:45:58,917 --> 00:46:01,167
all: Oh!
- Party time, party time.
1263
00:46:01,208 --> 00:46:02,333
- Here we go.
1264
00:46:02,375 --> 00:46:04,667
- Ooh, I want this one,
whatever this is.
1265
00:46:04,750 --> 00:46:06,167
Wait, what is it?
1266
00:46:06,208 --> 00:46:07,667
- Sex on the beach,
tequila sunrise, margaritas.
1267
00:46:07,708 --> 00:46:09,583
- Oh, yeah.
- Which one's a marg?
1268
00:46:09,708 --> 00:46:11,333
- Gracias.
- Tequila, tequila.
1269
00:46:11,458 --> 00:46:13,167
- This is sex on the beach?
1270
00:46:13,208 --> 00:46:16,083
- Sex on the boat.
[laughter]
1271
00:46:16,083 --> 00:46:17,333
- Cheers.
1272
00:46:17,417 --> 00:46:19,292
- Cheers for boat life.
- Cheers for boat life.
1273
00:46:19,375 --> 00:46:21,375
- Cheers!
- Boat life!
1274
00:46:21,375 --> 00:46:24,125
- Oh, my God, we're moving.
We're leaving the dock!
1275
00:46:24,208 --> 00:46:28,708
- ♪ Let's go
1276
00:46:28,708 --> 00:46:31,417
♪ Oh, oh, oh
1277
00:46:31,542 --> 00:46:34,625
♪ Wherever you want to,
I want to, I want you ♪
1278
00:46:34,708 --> 00:46:38,250
♪ Let's go
1279
00:46:38,250 --> 00:46:39,500
♪
1280
00:46:39,625 --> 00:46:40,875
- [giggles]
- This boat's nice.
1281
00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:42,667
- I know.
It is really nice.
1282
00:46:42,750 --> 00:46:45,292
- Yeah, so look
at the different shades
1283
00:46:45,375 --> 00:46:46,667
of water, you know.
1284
00:46:46,750 --> 00:46:48,500
- I was noticing that
as we were walking up.
1285
00:46:48,583 --> 00:46:50,125
- So pretty.
- I know. It is pretty.
1286
00:46:50,208 --> 00:46:52,667
This is fun, though.
- Yeah, yeah.
1287
00:46:52,708 --> 00:46:55,292
- It's fun to relax
with the other couples.
1288
00:46:55,292 --> 00:46:58,042
- Oh, my God. Boats bring
the best out in people.
1289
00:46:58,042 --> 00:47:00,667
It's just--it's an experience--
- You can't be mad on a boat.
1290
00:47:00,750 --> 00:47:01,708
- Yeah.
1291
00:47:01,875 --> 00:47:03,333
- And if you are,
that's concerning.
1292
00:47:03,375 --> 00:47:04,708
- Yeah.
- [chuckles]
1293
00:47:04,708 --> 00:47:07,083
- I love
that you've just, like,
1294
00:47:07,083 --> 00:47:08,917
been great
with, like, everything,
1295
00:47:08,917 --> 00:47:10,750
even me having dreads.
1296
00:47:10,875 --> 00:47:12,167
Like, it was great,
1297
00:47:12,250 --> 00:47:13,583
'cause, like, honestly,
it did mean a lot.
1298
00:47:13,792 --> 00:47:16,083
I know you probably don't get
that 'cause it's just hair,
1299
00:47:16,167 --> 00:47:18,625
but in this setting
specifically,
1300
00:47:18,708 --> 00:47:21,542
it was very stressful, but,
like, it felt, like, fine.
1301
00:47:21,667 --> 00:47:24,375
I can go to bed with, like,
two bird's nests in my hair.
1302
00:47:24,375 --> 00:47:26,708
It'll be fine.
- Didn't bother me at all.
1303
00:47:26,792 --> 00:47:29,042
I thought you looked
great, regardless.
1304
00:47:29,125 --> 00:47:30,792
I just appreciate you, like--
1305
00:47:30,875 --> 00:47:32,500
I obviously don't know
1306
00:47:32,583 --> 00:47:34,167
what it's like.
- [laughs]
1307
00:47:34,250 --> 00:47:37,292
- But I could tell
it was upsetting you.
1308
00:47:37,375 --> 00:47:39,792
And you still had a smile
on your face
1309
00:47:39,875 --> 00:47:41,875
and still made me
smile the whole day.
1310
00:47:41,875 --> 00:47:45,125
And it didn't affect
the outcome of the day.
1311
00:47:45,208 --> 00:47:47,125
- Yeah.
I love that I make you smile.
1312
00:47:47,208 --> 00:47:50,250
- You do, whenever I see you.
- Even in my darkest of times.
1313
00:47:50,333 --> 00:47:52,375
- Mm-hmm. Yeah.
- Which means a lot.
1314
00:47:52,458 --> 00:47:54,583
It's, like, a little thing
1315
00:47:54,667 --> 00:47:57,042
that still, I think, shows,
like, I know you're going to be
1316
00:47:57,125 --> 00:47:59,000
there for me, vice versa.
1317
00:47:59,125 --> 00:48:00,500
♪
1318
00:48:00,500 --> 00:48:02,667
And that's important to me.
- Especially in a marriage.
1319
00:48:02,750 --> 00:48:04,292
- Yes.
1320
00:48:04,375 --> 00:48:05,042
- ♪ I found you,
and you found me ♪
1321
00:48:08,875 --> 00:48:09,917
- ♪ It's all or nothing
1322
00:48:10,125 --> 00:48:11,000
- ♪ Thank God
for the moments like this ♪
1323
00:48:11,208 --> 00:48:12,875
♪ 'Cause I never
could quite fit ♪
1324
00:48:12,875 --> 00:48:15,167
- It is gorgeous out here.
- It is so beautiful.
1325
00:48:15,292 --> 00:48:16,625
This is, like--this is
why I like boats,
1326
00:48:16,708 --> 00:48:18,667
just kind of, like--
- Yeah, it's very relaxing.
1327
00:48:18,750 --> 00:48:20,208
- Vibing, like,
beautiful views.
1328
00:48:20,292 --> 00:48:21,625
- Yeah.
1329
00:48:21,708 --> 00:48:23,542
- This has been
a good honeymoon.
1330
00:48:23,542 --> 00:48:26,333
We've been wanting what
we have now for so long,
1331
00:48:26,417 --> 00:48:28,792
and so that probably is
what adds to the feeling
1332
00:48:28,875 --> 00:48:30,250
that we've been
together for so long.
1333
00:48:30,333 --> 00:48:31,667
- Yeah, it's great
to, like, have that,
1334
00:48:31,750 --> 00:48:33,250
'cause in my past
relationships,
1335
00:48:33,333 --> 00:48:35,167
it hasn't been that easy.
- Mm-hmm.
1336
00:48:35,292 --> 00:48:37,250
Do you think the comfort
you're finding
1337
00:48:37,333 --> 00:48:39,167
in your marriage is
because you have--
1338
00:48:39,292 --> 00:48:41,042
'Cause I feel like,
with us at least,
1339
00:48:41,125 --> 00:48:42,458
we have a lot of similarities.
1340
00:48:42,458 --> 00:48:44,167
Like, you guys have found,
like, similarities.
1341
00:48:44,250 --> 00:48:46,167
Do you think that is
what adds to the comfort
1342
00:48:46,208 --> 00:48:47,875
in your marriage,
or is it something else?
1343
00:48:48,000 --> 00:48:50,542
- I definitely think that's
a part of it, for sure.
1344
00:48:50,667 --> 00:48:53,500
- You know, the big thing
for me was just reciprocation,
1345
00:48:53,583 --> 00:48:56,583
because I myself am just
a giver in relationships,
1346
00:48:56,667 --> 00:48:58,458
friendships, whatever it is.
1347
00:48:58,542 --> 00:49:00,875
But a lot of the times,
it was never reciprocated.
1348
00:49:00,875 --> 00:49:02,667
- Yeah. You told me about this.
- You know?
1349
00:49:02,792 --> 00:49:04,750
And so I just kind of withered
in the wind, you know?
1350
00:49:04,833 --> 00:49:05,917
both: Yeah.
1351
00:49:06,083 --> 00:49:07,875
- Because I'm such
a giver, to have that,
1352
00:49:07,875 --> 00:49:10,250
even though it seems small,
it's, like...
1353
00:49:10,250 --> 00:49:12,500
it's not small for me.
- No.
1354
00:49:12,583 --> 00:49:14,667
- And I feel like that adds
to, like, the quickness
1355
00:49:14,792 --> 00:49:16,250
of how we're feeling.
both: Yeah.
1356
00:49:16,333 --> 00:49:17,333
- It definitely has.
- I--
1357
00:49:17,458 --> 00:49:19,583
- Yeah, it's a relief
for me, too,
1358
00:49:19,667 --> 00:49:20,750
'cause it's like--
1359
00:49:20,833 --> 00:49:22,875
Do you want to go?
- No.
1360
00:49:22,875 --> 00:49:25,000
[laughter]
You're good. I'll go next.
1361
00:49:25,042 --> 00:49:28,917
- He's going to explode.
- Wah, I got something to say!
1362
00:49:29,000 --> 00:49:32,750
- But it's like,
I kept asking the experts,
1363
00:49:32,750 --> 00:49:35,375
like, please just give me,
like, a genuinely good person.
1364
00:49:35,375 --> 00:49:36,458
- Yes.
1365
00:49:36,458 --> 00:49:38,042
- Or, like, just, like,
a normal person.
1366
00:49:38,125 --> 00:49:39,250
Well, he's pretty weird.
1367
00:49:39,250 --> 00:49:40,792
- Yeah, I don't know
about normal.
1368
00:49:40,792 --> 00:49:43,458
- And so, like, when we
started talking,
1369
00:49:43,458 --> 00:49:45,833
I was like, oh, my gosh,
thank goodness.
1370
00:49:45,875 --> 00:49:47,292
- Mm-hmm.
- So it also feels safe
1371
00:49:47,292 --> 00:49:48,917
to fall because of that.
- Yeah.
1372
00:49:48,917 --> 00:49:51,750
- You made me feel incredibly
safe, which isn't something
1373
00:49:51,750 --> 00:49:54,208
that, like, I wanted
going into this.
1374
00:49:54,292 --> 00:49:56,375
But, like, once we--
- Now that you have it--
1375
00:49:56,458 --> 00:49:58,167
- Yeah, now that I have it--
- It's comforting.
1376
00:49:58,250 --> 00:49:59,792
- It's so, so relieving.
- Mm-hmm.
1377
00:49:59,875 --> 00:50:01,875
- Like, what a weight
off my shoulders
1378
00:50:01,875 --> 00:50:05,542
to know that, like,
she has my back.
1379
00:50:05,542 --> 00:50:07,167
It's incredible.
1380
00:50:07,250 --> 00:50:09,708
♪
1381
00:50:09,875 --> 00:50:12,708
- I feel like I wouldn't want
to do this with anyone else.
1382
00:50:12,833 --> 00:50:17,000
I'm getting a best friend,
which is special to me,
1383
00:50:17,083 --> 00:50:19,333
because I have a very,
very close circle.
1384
00:50:19,417 --> 00:50:23,250
And, you know, I only have
a couple of friends
1385
00:50:23,250 --> 00:50:26,208
that I let in, you know,
my circle.
1386
00:50:26,292 --> 00:50:28,833
And the fact
that you're getting close
1387
00:50:28,833 --> 00:50:32,000
to being inside the circle,
I think, is a huge deal,
1388
00:50:32,083 --> 00:50:34,958
because trust, for me,
is one of the biggest things
1389
00:50:35,042 --> 00:50:36,375
I look for.
1390
00:50:36,458 --> 00:50:38,208
And I feel like
you're really starting
1391
00:50:38,292 --> 00:50:40,167
to earn my trust, you know,
1392
00:50:40,208 --> 00:50:42,542
which is not easy
for me to say.
1393
00:50:42,542 --> 00:50:44,875
So I just appreciate you
1394
00:50:44,958 --> 00:50:47,333
and just doing
all the little things
1395
00:50:47,417 --> 00:50:51,625
that make me trust you more
and more each and every day.
1396
00:50:51,708 --> 00:50:53,625
- So I'm not in the circle yet?
1397
00:50:53,708 --> 00:50:56,167
- We're getting there.
- We're in the outer ring.
1398
00:50:56,250 --> 00:50:58,875
- We're working on it.
- Okay, I'll take that.
1399
00:50:58,958 --> 00:51:00,792
- I'm sure you have
your own trust circle.
1400
00:51:00,875 --> 00:51:02,375
And...
1401
00:51:02,375 --> 00:51:04,375
- It doesn't seem
as hard as yours.
1402
00:51:04,458 --> 00:51:06,917
♪
1403
00:51:07,000 --> 00:51:09,083
- Sorry.
- [giggles] No, you're good.
1404
00:51:09,167 --> 00:51:10,208
You're good.
1405
00:51:10,292 --> 00:51:12,375
[laughs]
- Um...
1406
00:51:12,458 --> 00:51:14,042
♪
1407
00:51:14,167 --> 00:51:15,625
[clears throat]
1408
00:51:15,708 --> 00:51:17,042
Yesterday...
- Mm-hmm.
1409
00:51:17,042 --> 00:51:20,542
- There was this,
like, sea change between us,
1410
00:51:20,542 --> 00:51:23,750
where everything was going
in one direction,
1411
00:51:23,875 --> 00:51:26,167
but now things are going in a
completely different direction,
1412
00:51:26,250 --> 00:51:27,708
changing of the tides,
you know?
1413
00:51:27,792 --> 00:51:28,792
- Right.
1414
00:51:28,875 --> 00:51:30,458
- I was hesitating
a lot around you,
1415
00:51:30,542 --> 00:51:32,375
I think, in things
that I say...
1416
00:51:32,500 --> 00:51:34,208
- Right.
- And things that I do.
1417
00:51:34,292 --> 00:51:37,500
And it's really comfortable
for me now where I can--
1418
00:51:37,542 --> 00:51:39,375
I can just--
I can hold your hand.
1419
00:51:39,500 --> 00:51:42,042
I can put my arm around you,
and I'm not even--
1420
00:51:42,042 --> 00:51:43,542
I don't even have to think
about it now.
1421
00:51:43,542 --> 00:51:45,208
- Yeah, I think
I feel the same.
1422
00:51:45,208 --> 00:51:46,875
I don't feel uncomfortable.
1423
00:51:46,875 --> 00:51:49,500
It doesn't feel
as scary as it did.
1424
00:51:49,542 --> 00:51:51,833
Yeah, it just feels
a lot more organic
1425
00:51:51,917 --> 00:51:53,333
than I thought that it would.
1426
00:51:53,458 --> 00:51:55,042
- Can I say something--
Don't, like--
1427
00:51:55,042 --> 00:51:56,792
I'm not trying
to hurt your feelings,
1428
00:51:56,875 --> 00:51:58,375
but between the two of us,
1429
00:51:58,500 --> 00:52:00,667
I think this has been hardest
on you.
1430
00:52:00,792 --> 00:52:02,917
- Why would you say that?
1431
00:52:03,042 --> 00:52:05,708
- I think...
1432
00:52:05,792 --> 00:52:07,708
I'm...
1433
00:52:07,792 --> 00:52:11,167
I'm more willing to...
1434
00:52:11,250 --> 00:52:14,833
to be in an uncomfortable
situation than you.
1435
00:52:14,917 --> 00:52:16,542
I think I was
kind of feeding off
1436
00:52:16,625 --> 00:52:18,583
of just the energy
that was between us,
1437
00:52:18,667 --> 00:52:20,583
which was, like, just--
1438
00:52:20,667 --> 00:52:22,167
- Awkward.
- Yeah.
1439
00:52:22,208 --> 00:52:23,958
- Yeah.
- Yeah.
1440
00:52:24,042 --> 00:52:26,042
- Right.
No, and I would agree.
1441
00:52:26,042 --> 00:52:29,167
If we continue to let
that happen,
1442
00:52:29,208 --> 00:52:32,042
it would be
a very disastrous situation.
1443
00:52:32,042 --> 00:52:33,625
- Yeah.
1444
00:52:33,708 --> 00:52:35,125
♪
1445
00:52:38,750 --> 00:52:40,125
♪
1446
00:52:40,208 --> 00:52:42,750
- I think I was
kind of feeding off
1447
00:52:42,750 --> 00:52:44,292
of just the energy that was
between us, which was like--
1448
00:52:44,292 --> 00:52:45,542
- Awkward.
- Yeah.
1449
00:52:45,542 --> 00:52:47,000
- Yeah.
- Yeah.
1450
00:52:47,042 --> 00:52:50,417
- If we continue
to let that happen,
1451
00:52:50,500 --> 00:52:53,375
it would be
a very disastrous situation.
1452
00:52:53,458 --> 00:52:55,833
- Yeah, but I feel
like we've made
1453
00:52:56,000 --> 00:52:59,417
a really big change.
- Mm-hmm.
1454
00:52:59,500 --> 00:53:01,958
- And, you know, the tide
was going out,
1455
00:53:02,042 --> 00:53:03,333
and now the tide is coming in.
1456
00:53:03,375 --> 00:53:04,958
That's what it
feels like to me.
1457
00:53:05,042 --> 00:53:07,917
- You're on par with
the sea situation.
1458
00:53:08,042 --> 00:53:09,250
- Yeah.
- And I agree.
1459
00:53:09,375 --> 00:53:11,833
- You know, may as well
reference the background.
1460
00:53:11,917 --> 00:53:13,042
- [laughs]
1461
00:53:13,167 --> 00:53:15,583
- But it's not just
like, oh, I feel
1462
00:53:15,667 --> 00:53:17,833
more comfortable around you,
so I feel less hesitant.
1463
00:53:17,917 --> 00:53:19,250
It's actually like I feel
1464
00:53:19,250 --> 00:53:21,125
like we're in a completely
different relationship
1465
00:53:21,208 --> 00:53:23,208
than we were
when we woke up yesterday.
1466
00:53:23,375 --> 00:53:25,333
- And I think that's a good way
to look at it,
1467
00:53:25,375 --> 00:53:27,667
'cause I think for me, it's,
like, we're making small steps.
1468
00:53:27,792 --> 00:53:29,667
And I don't know why I keep
saying that to myself,
1469
00:53:29,667 --> 00:53:32,083
'cause it's like, no--
- We're making massive steps.
1470
00:53:32,167 --> 00:53:33,417
- Right.
1471
00:53:33,500 --> 00:53:37,208
- I'll say that I truly had
1472
00:53:37,292 --> 00:53:39,458
no idea what to expect.
1473
00:53:39,542 --> 00:53:41,542
I had no idea
what to expect with you.
1474
00:53:41,625 --> 00:53:44,417
I had no idea what to expect
on this honeymoon.
1475
00:53:44,542 --> 00:53:47,292
- Mm-hmm.
- Specific to you,
1476
00:53:47,292 --> 00:53:51,542
I'm just unbelievably
pleasantly surprised.
1477
00:53:51,667 --> 00:53:55,542
You know, you are truly
such an amazing person.
1478
00:53:55,625 --> 00:53:56,958
- Aw.
1479
00:53:57,042 --> 00:53:59,750
- And it doesn't help
that you're easy on the eyes.
1480
00:53:59,833 --> 00:54:01,500
I mean, it helps--
1481
00:54:01,583 --> 00:54:03,500
it helps that you're
easy on the eyes.
1482
00:54:03,583 --> 00:54:05,000
- [laughs]
1483
00:54:05,042 --> 00:54:06,833
♪
1484
00:54:06,875 --> 00:54:09,042
- I'm kind of excited
to, like, go into real life.
1485
00:54:09,125 --> 00:54:11,042
- Mm-hmm.
- Like, this is great, but--
1486
00:54:11,125 --> 00:54:13,167
- Next step in our journey.
- Yeah.
1487
00:54:13,292 --> 00:54:15,333
- I'm not worried.
1488
00:54:15,333 --> 00:54:18,083
I feel like it's just going
to be less palm trees.
1489
00:54:18,167 --> 00:54:20,250
- Yeah. Yeah, honestly.
- You know?
1490
00:54:20,333 --> 00:54:22,542
There's nothing I'm really,
like, concerned about
1491
00:54:22,667 --> 00:54:23,833
in the future.
1492
00:54:23,917 --> 00:54:26,500
- Like, I feel like
we're building this foundation
1493
00:54:26,583 --> 00:54:29,667
that's going to prepare us to
take on the rest of the world.
1494
00:54:29,792 --> 00:54:31,917
- The world. [chuckles]
- You know?
1495
00:54:32,042 --> 00:54:33,500
So...
1496
00:54:33,625 --> 00:54:35,500
- Power-couple vibes.
- Power couple.
1497
00:54:35,542 --> 00:54:37,708
- Mm-hmm.
Yeah, I'm happy.
1498
00:54:37,792 --> 00:54:40,000
- Me too.
1499
00:54:40,000 --> 00:54:43,458
- Do you guys have any fears
of what might change
1500
00:54:43,542 --> 00:54:45,083
when reality comes back?
1501
00:54:45,167 --> 00:54:46,958
- Honestly speaking,
like, I don't.
1502
00:54:47,042 --> 00:54:48,833
But I also...
1503
00:54:48,833 --> 00:54:50,292
- You're a very
"in the moment" person.
1504
00:54:50,375 --> 00:54:51,625
- I'm in the moment,
1505
00:54:51,708 --> 00:54:53,458
and I don't like to, like, set
expectations.
1506
00:54:53,542 --> 00:54:58,167
And I'm very much, like, a
positive-outlook type of guy.
1507
00:54:58,208 --> 00:55:01,000
And I honestly, like, think
we're going to do pretty well.
1508
00:55:01,083 --> 00:55:02,917
- Me being an overthinker,
I'm already thinking
1509
00:55:03,042 --> 00:55:05,042
about the things that will go
wrong when we're back.
1510
00:55:05,042 --> 00:55:06,458
But, like, what could go right?
1511
00:55:06,542 --> 00:55:08,083
- And I'm thinking
more about that.
1512
00:55:08,167 --> 00:55:09,333
That's where I'm at with it.
1513
00:55:09,375 --> 00:55:10,833
Like, I've been thinking
what could go right.
1514
00:55:10,875 --> 00:55:13,375
I don't think the worry has,
like, actually set in
1515
00:55:13,500 --> 00:55:15,083
because it's so good.
1516
00:55:15,083 --> 00:55:18,833
So it's even hard for me to
know what the worry could be,
1517
00:55:18,917 --> 00:55:22,042
especially given the topics
we've already discussed.
1518
00:55:22,042 --> 00:55:24,500
And I know that there's always
relationship problems, right?
1519
00:55:24,583 --> 00:55:25,750
- Yeah, exactly.
- But I don't think
1520
00:55:25,833 --> 00:55:28,125
there's going to be much that
could make us
1521
00:55:28,208 --> 00:55:30,000
just, like, absolutely hate
each other
1522
00:55:30,042 --> 00:55:31,500
to do the D word, you know?
1523
00:55:31,542 --> 00:55:34,417
So I'm not worried yet,
but I'm also an overthinker,
1524
00:55:34,500 --> 00:55:36,917
and we are in paradise
right now, so I haven't...
1525
00:55:37,042 --> 00:55:39,500
- Yeah, yeah, yeah, exactly.
- Had to overthink much.
1526
00:55:39,583 --> 00:55:40,542
- Yeah.
1527
00:55:40,625 --> 00:55:42,375
- And just saying, like,
this feels good.
1528
00:55:42,500 --> 00:55:44,208
I feel very comfortable
giving my heart to Orion.
1529
00:55:44,292 --> 00:55:45,625
You know, I'm still like,
I'm going to keep
1530
00:55:45,625 --> 00:55:46,958
a little bit for me.
- Yeah.
1531
00:55:47,042 --> 00:55:49,292
- But I do feel like trusting
in that he's not going
1532
00:55:49,375 --> 00:55:50,708
to throw it in the ocean.
1533
00:55:50,792 --> 00:55:52,500
And like you said,
I deserve this.
1534
00:55:52,583 --> 00:55:53,833
- You do.
- Yeah.
1535
00:55:53,917 --> 00:55:55,667
Yeah, I think we
all deserve this.
1536
00:55:55,750 --> 00:55:57,500
- Yeah.
1537
00:55:57,583 --> 00:55:58,625
♪
1538
00:55:58,708 --> 00:55:59,958
- ♪ We're feeling all right
1539
00:56:00,042 --> 00:56:01,083
- Oh!
1540
00:56:01,083 --> 00:56:02,833
- ♪ We're living our lives
1541
00:56:02,875 --> 00:56:04,500
[singing indistinctly]
1542
00:56:04,542 --> 00:56:08,042
♪ We're turning loose, hey-a,
hey-a, hey-a ♪
1543
00:56:08,125 --> 00:56:09,167
♪ We like to talk
1544
00:56:09,208 --> 00:56:11,458
♪ Eh, eh, eh
1545
00:56:11,542 --> 00:56:13,000
[singing indistinctly]
1546
00:56:13,042 --> 00:56:14,833
♪ Yeah, eh, eh
1547
00:56:14,875 --> 00:56:16,333
♪ Oh, yeah
1548
00:56:16,417 --> 00:56:18,917
♪ We like to talk
in the air at night ♪
1549
00:56:19,042 --> 00:56:20,875
♪ We like to talk
1550
00:56:20,958 --> 00:56:22,708
- Wait, scooch that way.
1551
00:56:22,792 --> 00:56:24,792
- You're so happy.
- I know.
1552
00:56:24,792 --> 00:56:27,000
- And we got a sunset cruise.
- Yeah.
1553
00:56:27,000 --> 00:56:28,875
- Look out yonder.
Isn't that amazing?
1554
00:56:29,000 --> 00:56:30,500
- Look at the pink!
1555
00:56:30,583 --> 00:56:32,542
- It's me in a sunset.
- It's you.
1556
00:56:32,542 --> 00:56:34,250
You're in a sunset.
- Do I blend in?
1557
00:56:34,333 --> 00:56:35,750
- You blend in.
1558
00:56:35,833 --> 00:56:37,625
- Wait, wait, where
did Becca go, guys?
1559
00:56:37,708 --> 00:56:39,833
Where's Becca?
- Becca's a chameleon.
1560
00:56:39,875 --> 00:56:42,000
- Did she fall off the boat?
[laughter]
1561
00:56:42,000 --> 00:56:43,625
- So I know it's, like,
kind of been, like,
1562
00:56:43,708 --> 00:56:44,667
a roller coaster for days.
1563
00:56:44,792 --> 00:56:46,250
We thought we were
going boating.
1564
00:56:46,333 --> 00:56:48,000
- Now it couldn't
be more perfect.
1565
00:56:48,083 --> 00:56:50,083
- But, honestly, it has
been a great day for me,
1566
00:56:50,167 --> 00:56:52,292
and I feel like I've gotten
closer to all of you,
1567
00:56:52,375 --> 00:56:53,792
and I love that.
1568
00:56:53,875 --> 00:56:56,000
- We got on a plane
with a bunch of strangers,
1569
00:56:56,083 --> 00:56:58,208
and now we're best friends.
1570
00:56:58,292 --> 00:56:59,833
It's insane.
1571
00:56:59,917 --> 00:57:01,542
- And married.
1572
00:57:01,625 --> 00:57:05,292
- Everyone just seems like
really basking in the love
1573
00:57:05,375 --> 00:57:07,042
that is in the air.
1574
00:57:07,042 --> 00:57:08,667
A lot of love being displayed
1575
00:57:08,708 --> 00:57:10,542
with everyone
and their partners.
1576
00:57:10,625 --> 00:57:12,583
I feel really blessed
to be around that
1577
00:57:12,583 --> 00:57:14,708
and to be also basking
in that love
1578
00:57:14,708 --> 00:57:16,875
that I feel
for my husband too.
1579
00:57:16,875 --> 00:57:18,875
- ♪ Oh, I love the way
that you are ♪
1580
00:57:19,000 --> 00:57:22,458
♪ I love the way
that you are, are, are ♪
1581
00:57:22,458 --> 00:57:25,833
♪ I love the way
that you are ♪
1582
00:57:25,833 --> 00:57:28,625
♪
1583
00:57:32,542 --> 00:57:33,750
- ♪ I want to be
your everything ♪
1584
00:57:33,875 --> 00:57:36,000
♪ Now, if I was everything
that you wanted ♪
1585
00:57:36,000 --> 00:57:38,500
♪ Every little thing
that you need ♪
1586
00:57:38,500 --> 00:57:40,833
♪ I want to explore
your boundaries ♪
1587
00:57:40,875 --> 00:57:43,167
♪ What we need to do
to get deep ♪
1588
00:57:43,250 --> 00:57:45,292
♪
1589
00:57:45,375 --> 00:57:47,542
- Ooh, this is nice.
- This is nice.
1590
00:57:47,625 --> 00:57:49,333
It's cute.
- Yeah.
1591
00:57:49,458 --> 00:57:51,208
- All the rose petals,
that's the theme.
1592
00:57:51,208 --> 00:57:53,333
[laughter]
- Yeah, the rose petals.
1593
00:57:53,375 --> 00:57:55,875
I do like the rose petals.
- Yeah.
1594
00:57:55,875 --> 00:57:57,708
- Oh, it feels so good
to sit down.
1595
00:57:57,708 --> 00:57:58,667
- Yeah.
1596
00:57:58,708 --> 00:58:00,417
- Did you have
a good day today?
1597
00:58:00,417 --> 00:58:01,667
- I had a great day.
1598
00:58:01,917 --> 00:58:03,625
I think today was my favorite
day out of all the days.
1599
00:58:03,750 --> 00:58:04,917
- Yeah?
1600
00:58:05,000 --> 00:58:06,625
- I just caught myself
staring at you like, wow.
1601
00:58:06,708 --> 00:58:08,292
- Yeah!
- That's my husband.
1602
00:58:08,375 --> 00:58:10,208
- Would you like
some champagne?
1603
00:58:10,208 --> 00:58:12,208
- Yes, please.
- Yes, please.
1604
00:58:12,208 --> 00:58:14,667
- What do you think
the highlight of today was?
1605
00:58:14,750 --> 00:58:16,750
- I had a lot of fun
dancing on the boat.
1606
00:58:16,833 --> 00:58:18,833
Thank you, sir.
- Thank you.
1607
00:58:18,875 --> 00:58:21,458
I really enjoy touching you.
1608
00:58:21,542 --> 00:58:23,042
I feel like we got
a little touchy-feely
1609
00:58:23,208 --> 00:58:24,333
with you in the van.
- Yeah.
1610
00:58:24,458 --> 00:58:27,000
- I like, like,
skin-to-skin contact.
1611
00:58:27,125 --> 00:58:29,500
- I really enjoyed that.
1612
00:58:29,583 --> 00:58:32,375
- Now I'm at the point where
I'm, like, just imagining
1613
00:58:32,458 --> 00:58:34,917
what it would be like with you.
- Yeah?
1614
00:58:35,042 --> 00:58:36,542
♪
1615
00:58:36,625 --> 00:58:38,042
How does that start?
1616
00:58:38,042 --> 00:58:40,125
- I feel like the foreplay
probably starts
1617
00:58:40,208 --> 00:58:41,333
with fellatio from you.
1618
00:58:41,417 --> 00:58:43,333
I could see you just
jumping right into it.
1619
00:58:43,417 --> 00:58:45,333
- I would say you're right.
I am a giver.
1620
00:58:45,375 --> 00:58:47,708
Because for me,
I think I would start...
1621
00:58:47,792 --> 00:58:49,417
- Where would you start?
1622
00:58:49,500 --> 00:58:51,500
- Head to toe--
so I like kissing, you know?
1623
00:58:51,625 --> 00:58:52,792
- You like kissing?
- Yeah.
1624
00:58:52,875 --> 00:58:54,667
I like touching
and kissing neck, yeah.
1625
00:58:54,750 --> 00:58:56,458
- I could see that.
- Working down.
1626
00:58:56,542 --> 00:58:57,917
- Working down and around?
- Mm-hmm, yeah.
1627
00:58:58,000 --> 00:58:59,833
- I like the, like,
down and around,
1628
00:58:59,875 --> 00:59:01,667
like, without going, like,
straight for it.
1629
00:59:01,708 --> 00:59:03,542
- Mm-hmm.
- I would like that.
1630
00:59:03,542 --> 00:59:05,292
- Okay.
[both giggle]
1631
00:59:05,375 --> 00:59:06,750
- I have a question.
- Okay.
1632
00:59:06,833 --> 00:59:09,708
- How do you feel
about sex toys
1633
00:59:09,708 --> 00:59:12,542
being involved with the sex?
1634
00:59:12,542 --> 00:59:15,250
- You know, I...
1635
00:59:15,250 --> 00:59:17,833
have a little collection
of my own.
1636
00:59:17,917 --> 00:59:19,625
- What are you talking about--
a collection?
1637
00:59:19,708 --> 00:59:21,083
That means
you've been building it.
1638
00:59:21,167 --> 00:59:23,333
- It's, like, less than five,
less than five.
1639
00:59:23,417 --> 00:59:25,250
- Okay.
- I don't have a red room.
1640
00:59:25,333 --> 00:59:27,250
- We could have that
in our house.
1641
00:59:27,333 --> 00:59:28,667
- Oh, yeah?
1642
00:59:28,750 --> 00:59:31,000
Okay.
- We could have a red room.
1643
00:59:31,042 --> 00:59:33,042
- It sounds like
you like to explore.
1644
00:59:33,042 --> 00:59:34,333
- I love to explore.
1645
00:59:34,458 --> 00:59:35,792
I like to explore
my partner's body too.
1646
00:59:35,792 --> 00:59:37,500
I feel like it's a map.
1647
00:59:37,583 --> 00:59:40,417
I really want to learn
all your erogenous zones,
1648
00:59:40,500 --> 00:59:42,833
and I feel like we
would do really good
1649
00:59:42,917 --> 00:59:44,542
at doing that for each other.
1650
00:59:44,542 --> 00:59:46,500
- Especially with us
getting closer together...
1651
00:59:46,583 --> 00:59:48,833
- Mm-hmm.
- Would be very hard to resist.
1652
00:59:48,917 --> 00:59:50,667
It would be very hard
for me to resist.
1653
00:59:50,750 --> 00:59:55,500
- I want it to be, like,
a very organic start to it.
1654
00:59:55,542 --> 00:59:57,500
So there's definitely
no pressure here.
1655
00:59:57,583 --> 00:59:59,125
- Honestly,
hearing you say that,
1656
00:59:59,208 --> 01:00:01,500
that actually brings
a lot of comfort for me,
1657
01:00:01,583 --> 01:00:03,333
because going
through this process,
1658
01:00:03,417 --> 01:00:05,250
when I was asked
about, do I want this,
1659
01:00:05,333 --> 01:00:07,667
you know, my answer was,
you know, I would love
1660
01:00:07,708 --> 01:00:09,000
to have sex with my wife,
1661
01:00:09,083 --> 01:00:11,583
but I don't expect it
to happen that quick.
1662
01:00:11,667 --> 01:00:12,875
- Right.
1663
01:00:12,875 --> 01:00:14,917
- And I guess
the reason for that
1664
01:00:14,917 --> 01:00:18,667
is because it's been
a bit of a time
1665
01:00:18,708 --> 01:00:20,625
since I last had sex.
1666
01:00:20,708 --> 01:00:22,542
- Like, when was the last time
you had sex?
1667
01:00:22,542 --> 01:00:24,000
- A little more than
a year and a half...
1668
01:00:24,083 --> 01:00:25,417
- Oh, wow.
1669
01:00:25,500 --> 01:00:26,542
- That I was intimate
with somebody.
1670
01:00:26,667 --> 01:00:27,792
- Okay.
- Mm-hmm.
1671
01:00:27,875 --> 01:00:29,000
It's definitely something more
1672
01:00:29,083 --> 01:00:31,333
than just the physical act
for me.
1673
01:00:31,417 --> 01:00:32,583
- Same.
1674
01:00:32,667 --> 01:00:34,292
It's definitely been
less time for me.
1675
01:00:34,375 --> 01:00:36,500
So it was a couple months ago--
1676
01:00:36,542 --> 01:00:39,417
two months probably
to the day, honestly.
1677
01:00:39,500 --> 01:00:41,667
[dramatic note]
1678
01:00:41,750 --> 01:00:45,500
- You know, right now I am
feeling a bit uncomfortable.
1679
01:00:45,583 --> 01:00:47,708
[dramatic music]
1680
01:00:47,792 --> 01:00:50,250
My mindset going into it was,
1681
01:00:50,375 --> 01:00:53,167
when they revealed it to me
that they found me a match...
1682
01:00:53,250 --> 01:00:54,333
- Mm-hmm.
- I was engaged.
1683
01:00:54,375 --> 01:00:56,042
- That was my mindset too.
1684
01:00:56,125 --> 01:00:57,917
Like, I had sex
before the reveal.
1685
01:00:58,000 --> 01:00:59,542
- Right.
- I didn't have sex,
1686
01:00:59,625 --> 01:01:01,625
like, finding out, like,
oh, I'm engaged.
1687
01:01:01,708 --> 01:01:03,250
Let me go have sex now.
- Right, right.
1688
01:01:03,250 --> 01:01:05,417
And it could just be just--
1689
01:01:05,417 --> 01:01:08,417
I don't know--honestly, very
different in our approach.
1690
01:01:08,542 --> 01:01:10,833
I'm at a point to where...
1691
01:01:10,917 --> 01:01:13,292
I know what I'm worth,
you know.
1692
01:01:13,375 --> 01:01:16,542
And so with that, I just
don't want to hand myself out.
1693
01:01:16,542 --> 01:01:18,000
♪
1694
01:01:18,083 --> 01:01:19,542
You know?
1695
01:01:19,667 --> 01:01:22,833
- How do you feel that
I had sex two months ago?
1696
01:01:22,917 --> 01:01:24,000
♪
1697
01:01:24,083 --> 01:01:26,875
It's not like I'm, like,
a walking horn ball.
1698
01:01:26,958 --> 01:01:28,875
[chuckles]
Like..
1699
01:01:28,958 --> 01:01:31,167
- Being honest, uh...
1700
01:01:31,250 --> 01:01:34,875
it kind of took sex
off the table for me.
1701
01:01:35,000 --> 01:01:39,792
- ♪ Everything is not okay
- ♪ Everything
1702
01:01:39,792 --> 01:01:41,833
♪ Everything
1703
01:01:41,875 --> 01:01:43,958
- All right, what's next?
Sex is done.
1704
01:01:43,958 --> 01:01:47,458
- ♪ Everything is not okay
1705
01:01:47,542 --> 01:01:50,625
♪
1706
01:01:50,625 --> 01:01:52,625
[upbeat music]
1707
01:01:52,625 --> 01:01:54,583
- Next time
on "Married at First Sight"...
1708
01:01:54,583 --> 01:01:58,750
♪
1709
01:01:58,750 --> 01:02:00,875
- Oh.
- Whoo!
1710
01:02:00,958 --> 01:02:03,333
- Our couples enjoy the final
days of their honeymoon.
1711
01:02:03,375 --> 01:02:04,875
- Aw.
1712
01:02:04,958 --> 01:02:06,000
♪
1713
01:02:06,083 --> 01:02:08,292
- Oh, thank you.
1714
01:02:08,375 --> 01:02:10,792
- I think something that we
haven't dove into super deep
1715
01:02:10,875 --> 01:02:12,125
is religion.
1716
01:02:12,125 --> 01:02:14,292
- We should talk about that.
- Right now?
1717
01:02:14,375 --> 01:02:15,667
- No, probably not now.
1718
01:02:15,667 --> 01:02:17,167
♪
1719
01:02:17,292 --> 01:02:19,333
- Do you know how to have fun?
- Do you like to have fun?
1720
01:02:19,417 --> 01:02:21,583
What the [bleep]?
God.
1721
01:02:21,667 --> 01:02:23,667
- I have to go
to the hospital in Cancún.
1722
01:02:23,750 --> 01:02:25,958
- Hopefully he didn't
leave and go home.
1723
01:02:26,042 --> 01:02:28,542
I don't know.
- It's his escape plan.
1724
01:02:28,667 --> 01:02:29,708
- Our honeymoon has been
1725
01:02:29,917 --> 01:02:31,792
a little bit
of a roller coaster, I'd say.
1726
01:02:31,875 --> 01:02:33,958
- She was saying
that I am lying
1727
01:02:34,042 --> 01:02:35,583
about how things played out.
1728
01:02:35,667 --> 01:02:37,250
- I just had this
huge blowup with him
1729
01:02:37,333 --> 01:02:39,667
in which I was yelling
and I asked for a divorce.
1730
01:02:39,750 --> 01:02:41,125
- Do you want a divorce?
1731
01:02:41,208 --> 01:02:43,875
- I have no idea
where we go from here.
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- Okay.
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