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KATE LANGBROEK: Previously
on My Mum, Your Dad...
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Let's go!
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..a bunch of single parents
were taken to a retreat
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by their kids
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to find love.
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They've been secretly watching
their every move...
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Can't believe I'm spying on Dad.
Unreal.
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..and pulling the strings.
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Give each other a peck.
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And in the end, it's the ones
who love the most
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who have the ultimate power.
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If your parents make
a special connection,
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you decide if this can or can't work
in the real world.
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What if I say yes and then
it doesn't work out?
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Or what if I say no
and it was meant to be?
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Here's where we left it last time.
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This is what we want to see!
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Kristy and Shane sealed the deal...
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(CHEERING)
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..with the retreat's first big kiss.
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It was nice.
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Darren and Petula's off-site date
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had Drhys and Tess watching
closer than ever...
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They had absolutely no idea.
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Nice bed-head.
(BOTH LAUGH)
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..as their parents' connection
deepened.
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(LAUGHS)
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I think Darren could be
my forever love.
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Ooh!
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Meanwhile, things were getting
steamy with Carole and Roe.
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She's beautiful, she's sexy...
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But...
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Hi, guys!
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..with the arrival of Tim...
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and Michelle...
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No way!
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Va-va-va-voom!
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First impression...
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Wow.
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..things heat up in the retreat.
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Ooh-whee.
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She looks hot!
This just go spicy.
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"The time has come
to cast your secret votes
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"and to send one parent home."
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It feels evil.
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I don't know what to do.
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Your time here will be determined
by the dating consultants,
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who are watching from afar.
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What we're looking for here
is for people to make connections.
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If you fail to make a connection,
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you run the risk of being sent home.
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Here we go, guys.
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And I'm sorry to say, tonight...
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one of you will be
leaving the retreat.
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That person has been chosen
by the dating consultants.
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Oh, wow.
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The person leaving the retreat
tonight is...
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it's you, Marette.
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I'm sorry.
That's alright.
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Hmm, I don't care.
I'm happy to see my mum, so...
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That's alright. It's... I'm fine.
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I'm fine.
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Yeah, I 100% was expecting Kate
to say 'Marette'.
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Alright. Who the f--- voted
for my mum? I want to know.
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Anyway, it's lovely to see that, um,
nobody really liked Marette.
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I love that.
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I'm definitely here to defend my mum
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and I'll always back her.
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Sorry - can I just
make something clear?
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So, you guys have voted
individually...
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Yeah. We all had a vote.
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..against your mother.
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Mm-hm.
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Oh, that's... Yeah, OK.
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Tonya, her reactions were...
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you know, being expressed, um...
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Haven't sent one person in that's,
like, my mum's proper type,
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so it's like, what's her point
in even being here?
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Just to, what - stand around
and look hot?
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I definitely felt like there was...
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yeah, just a little bit
of sly comments from her.
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I feel great, guys.
Thanks for asking.
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How are you feeling, Marette?
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Haven't found my man, so it's fine.
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I don't feel bad about it at all.
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I've met some amazing people and...
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I'm not gonna force anything.
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You came in here saying
that you had your walls up.
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Do you think that your walls
have come down in this process?
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Um, I just think this has changed me
to make me stronger,
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to know what I will
and won't have and...
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and I know
what I will and won't accept
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and I just haven't found that person
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and I totally get it
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and we're not here for friends -
we are here...
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for everyone to find love.
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TONYA: Seeing Mum break down
just broke my heart.
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She was really gutted.
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It's just a pity that, for you,
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love didn't translate romantically.
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Yeah.
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But the outside world awaits.
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Love awaits
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and there'll be plenty of people
waiting to slide into your DMs.
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(LAUGHTER)
I can guarantee it.
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MAN: Oh, yeah. For sure.
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TONYA: How's that fair?
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Is my mum here?
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Bring her in. I want to leave.
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Seeing Tonya's reaction -
it was very hard.
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I think because, you know,
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she took it personal
when it wasn't personal.
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Can you please not film this?
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Can you close the door,
Tess, please?
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Alright.
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MARETTE: I do feel
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coming in here and talking
about things with everybody
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has made me realise
how closed I am.
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I didn't have a connection,
so I'm going home.
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Oh, my god. I missed you so much!
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I missed you so much.
I'm so proud of you.
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Yeah. I'm so proud of you.
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Oh, this is the best feeling
in the whole world.
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I wouldn't have chosen
anyone for you anyway.
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Why would I make you
go through that?
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And we're not gonna do
people-pleasing.
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Exactly.
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My mum deserves a man who will
treat her with respect,
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be really compassionate and kind,
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just someone that will want to
share their life with her.
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KATE: And just like that,
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Rapunzel and her daughter
retreated back to her tower.
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At the bunker, the shockwaves
of Marette's departure are rippling.
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The emotions. It's a bit
of a roller-coaster.
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Yeah, it's horrid, isn't it?
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I didn't want to see
the elimination happen.
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I think it's probably been the
hardest time in the bunker
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for me so far.
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Oh...
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I just, you know,
didn't know how to feel.
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It's getting, you know, full-on now,
'cause these...
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Everyone's kind of
solidifying connections,
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so throwing new people in the mix
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is gonna be really
interesting to see...
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I thought it would definitely
ruffle a few feathers.
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..yeah, how that
changes the dynamic.
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MAN: Could shake up some couples
and...yeah. Yeah, re-write 'em.
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Hopefully not.
Feathers have been ruffled!
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Yeah.
(LAUGHS)
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KATE: To stay in the retreat,
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the only way
is to find a connection,
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so rocker Tim
makes a beeline for Mel.
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TIM: So, how are you feeling?
Are you OK?
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Yeah, I'm OK. Yeah.
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When I entered the retreat,
I noticed Mel.
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I thought that she was
very attractive.
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She lights up the room
and she is a really nice person.
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Like, I went on a date with Shane,
here, yeah, but we're not quite...
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Why don't you tell me who
he hasn't been on a date with,
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instead of who he's been
on a date with?
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We've shared him for a while, Mel.
Yes, yes.
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Jeez, Shane,
you're a popular man, brother.
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Can you tell me what
the secret is, mate?
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You've obviously got...
Yeah, he's, like...
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Got it down pat.
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Shane's the man
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I've gotta do some one-on-one
training with, potentially.
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Oh, yeah.
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I think Mel's Dad's type.
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I think that they do have
a connection.
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Hopefully they hit it off.
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KATE: And speaking of
hitting it off,
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Michelle has no shortage
of dad-attention.
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OK. So, do we clean up now?
What's the story?
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No. No, no, no, no.
You're not cleaning up.
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We're the guests, love.
You're the guests.
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We're the special guests, love!
This is all for you guys.
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Michelle is absolutely stunning.
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It was really nice to connect
instantly with someone.
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Just relax...you're gonna relax,
sit at the bench...
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No, I don't want to.
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Hopefully the feeling
is reciprocated.
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Do you want another drink?
Um... I'm alright.
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I'm just, like...
It's like someone's...
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There's a death in the family.
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It's, like, a bittersweet...
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So, as long as you can
hold yourself in a room,
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I think she'll really like you.
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And you'll know
if my mum likes someone.
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She'll giggle like a schoolkid.
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She's such a flirt.
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Well, hopefully, she likes
firefighters, then, eh?
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Are you going for your dad?
Yeah.
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This is where they need
to send in shots.
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What?
Send in what?
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Send in shots.
Shots?
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Just to spark us up.
Oh! (LAUGHS)
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Naughty.
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Darren - he's confident.
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Got a bit of naughtiness
in him, for sure.
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But you called me cheeky
when I first came in.
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I know you're cheeky. I can tell.
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Thank you.
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I've been around the pond
a few times, love.
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The pond?
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Kissed many frogs.
Oh, a lot of frogs!
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Oh, yeah.
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I'm a little bit concerned
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that Darren could be
interested in Michelle.
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To see him now directing his...
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his attention, his focus
towards Michelle
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and she's lapping it up.
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I work with my daughter, so...
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Well, um, me and my baby
are like this.
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We're like best mates.
We go out together.
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We hang out together.
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How old is she? 23?
She's just turned 22.
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Oh, 22.
And I turned 52.
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I'm 56.
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I'm worried about Darren's eyes
being diverted.
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I'm always sceptical.
I'm always protective over Mum.
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I love her and she's always
gonna come first
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and I don't want Mum to get hurt.
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Mmm. You look young for it.
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We are very, uh...
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Emotional? Really? You're emotional?
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I'm not.
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Um, it's making me feel vulnerable.
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It's making me feel
a little threatened.
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Michelle doesn't know me.
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She doesn't know that
there's a connection.
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She doesn't know that
Darren and I spent time together.
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You weren't expecting my accent when
I walked through the door, were you?
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WOMAN: Yeah, no, no.
It was fine. No, I loved it.
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I do. I love it.
You want to see when I'm working.
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When I'm flying and I walk up to
the passengers and I'm like...
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Oh, so you're a hostie, are you?
Yeah.
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Oh, OK.
I'm a flight attendant.
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I didn't pick that one up.
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I'm a flight attendant,
not a hostie.
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Flight attendant.
Yeah.
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But they do struggle with my accent
when I'm flying.
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You reckon they'll get along...
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Your accent is easy.
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Like...
You can understand me, can you?
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Your accent's easy.
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Let me know if you
need a translator.
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(LAUGHS)
Did you like that?
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This could jeopardise
our connection.
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KATE: Coming up,
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Petula pulls away from Darren...
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..like I'm just too boring for you.
253
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..as a new single dad
enters the retreat.
254
00:11:27,080 --> 00:11:28,960
MAN: I think this is
my next chance at love.
255
00:11:29,000 --> 00:11:30,480
I mean, that's why I'm here.
256
00:11:30,520 --> 00:11:32,520
You have got a great smile.
Oh, thank you.
257
00:11:32,560 --> 00:11:34,640
I actually felt a little bit
of a connection straightaway.
258
00:11:34,680 --> 00:11:38,880
And as our parents pour out
their hearts by day...
259
00:11:38,920 --> 00:11:41,920
I never thought I could ever
find love again.
260
00:11:41,960 --> 00:11:43,360
Aww!
261
00:11:43,400 --> 00:11:47,480
..by night, things get much deeper.
262
00:11:50,000 --> 00:11:52,400
Oh!
(LAUGHTER)
263
00:11:52,440 --> 00:11:54,320
Um... yeah, I have no comment.
264
00:12:02,680 --> 00:12:05,000
KATE: It's a slow morning
in the retreat
265
00:12:05,040 --> 00:12:07,040
after an eventful night.
266
00:12:07,080 --> 00:12:09,120
Marette went home
267
00:12:09,160 --> 00:12:12,320
and two new single parents
joined the love quest -
268
00:12:12,360 --> 00:12:15,600
rocker Tim
and flight attendant Michelle.
269
00:12:15,640 --> 00:12:18,000
I woke up and honestly,
I thought I was dreaming.
270
00:12:18,040 --> 00:12:19,520
Oh. (CHUCKLES)
271
00:12:19,560 --> 00:12:21,400
It might be a dream for Michelle
272
00:12:21,440 --> 00:12:24,880
but for others,
it's more like a nightmare.
273
00:12:24,920 --> 00:12:28,160
PETULA: I think instantly,
some women might have been
274
00:12:28,200 --> 00:12:30,800
a little bit concerned
when she walked in -
275
00:12:30,840 --> 00:12:32,360
I might have been as well.
276
00:12:32,400 --> 00:12:34,560
Last night, when I was arriving,
277
00:12:34,600 --> 00:12:36,800
I just went through that door
and that was it.
278
00:12:36,840 --> 00:12:39,720
It was like
Alice in the Wonderland walk.
279
00:12:39,760 --> 00:12:41,080
Thank you.
280
00:12:41,120 --> 00:12:43,200
Straightaway, the dynamic changes.
281
00:12:43,240 --> 00:12:46,400
Shane, Heath, Darren,
282
00:12:46,440 --> 00:12:48,000
they're hovering around.
283
00:12:48,040 --> 00:12:51,360
Everything is 'babe', 'sweetie',
'honey', 'love'...
284
00:12:51,400 --> 00:12:54,040
So, did you come in on your own,
did you say?
285
00:12:54,080 --> 00:12:56,000
We all came in...
All individually?
286
00:12:56,040 --> 00:12:58,000
Yeah, we were all sort of...
Weren't you freaking out?
287
00:12:58,040 --> 00:12:59,200
No, not really.
288
00:12:59,240 --> 00:13:01,840
DARREN: The emotions were
running pretty high last night.
289
00:13:01,880 --> 00:13:03,640
New people coming in,
it sparks it up.
290
00:13:03,680 --> 00:13:05,360
It gives you a little bit more
to talk about
291
00:13:05,400 --> 00:13:06,480
but it also makes it hard
292
00:13:06,520 --> 00:13:08,360
when you're actually trying
to build a relationship,
293
00:13:08,400 --> 00:13:10,600
because there's distractions
on the side.
294
00:13:22,880 --> 00:13:25,120
Darren and I
are gelling really nicely.
295
00:13:25,160 --> 00:13:28,840
Shane and Kristy continue to grow,
296
00:13:28,880 --> 00:13:30,960
Carole and Roe have got their
little thing going on
297
00:13:31,000 --> 00:13:32,640
on the side
298
00:13:32,680 --> 00:13:35,320
and now Michelle
comes into the retreat.
299
00:13:35,360 --> 00:13:37,560
We don't know what's
gonna happen next.
300
00:13:37,600 --> 00:13:40,840
Here's hoping the balance doesn't
change too much and it isn't...
301
00:13:40,880 --> 00:13:42,600
Let's not rock the boat.
302
00:13:51,880 --> 00:13:54,240
I could live in a place like this.
Could you imagine?
303
00:13:54,280 --> 00:13:55,760
How nice.
304
00:13:56,440 --> 00:14:00,240
KATE: While Michelle's rapidly
becoming the centre of attention,
305
00:14:00,280 --> 00:14:05,520
new arrival Tim has quietly piqued
the interest of someone else.
306
00:14:06,680 --> 00:14:08,640
You've got a bit of a glow up, Mel.
307
00:14:08,680 --> 00:14:11,120
I've had a nanna nap.
No!
308
00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:12,400
That's what it's called.
309
00:14:12,440 --> 00:14:14,280
No, you've got a little bit
of a glow.
310
00:14:14,320 --> 00:14:16,520
No, it's a nanna nap.
Yeah? Oh, OK.
311
00:14:16,560 --> 00:14:18,560
Yes. I got enough...
That's what it does, does it?
312
00:14:18,600 --> 00:14:20,200
Yes. Yes.
Yeah?
313
00:14:21,760 --> 00:14:26,600
So, Tim is starting to talk to Mel,
or Mel is starting to talk to Tim.
314
00:14:26,640 --> 00:14:28,640
There is a little connection there
315
00:14:28,680 --> 00:14:30,720
and if you asked her, she would go,
"Oh, no, no, no!"
316
00:14:30,760 --> 00:14:32,440
She'd grab a pillow
and close herself off
317
00:14:32,480 --> 00:14:36,880
but yeah, it's nice to watch
something that may blossom.
318
00:14:36,920 --> 00:14:38,760
TIM: What are you doing?
Oh!
319
00:14:38,800 --> 00:14:41,400
Oh, you scared me!
Oh, you're loading it?
320
00:14:41,440 --> 00:14:42,560
Yeah.
321
00:14:42,600 --> 00:14:44,400
Aww! They're cleaning together!
322
00:14:44,960 --> 00:14:46,720
Awww!
323
00:14:46,760 --> 00:14:50,240
Straightaway, we've sort of clicked,
324
00:14:50,280 --> 00:14:51,720
which is nice.
325
00:14:51,760 --> 00:14:53,320
He seems really gentle.
326
00:14:53,960 --> 00:14:55,640
So, do you live with your son?
327
00:14:55,680 --> 00:14:57,040
He's come back home now, yeah.
328
00:14:57,080 --> 00:14:58,560
Oh, OK.
He's a Tik-Tokker.
329
00:14:58,600 --> 00:15:00,640
"TiK ToK." Really, like,
emphasise the K's.
330
00:15:00,680 --> 00:15:01,720
"Tik-Tokker."
331
00:15:01,760 --> 00:15:03,840
He's good at it.
Oh, wow.
332
00:15:03,880 --> 00:15:06,320
He's got, like, 3.2 million...
(GASPS)
333
00:15:06,920 --> 00:15:09,320
Ooh!
I've seen you on Tik Tok.
334
00:15:09,360 --> 00:15:11,680
Yeah. Really?
Yeah.
335
00:15:11,720 --> 00:15:12,960
MEL: I wonder if I've seen him,
336
00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:14,800
because sometimes,
when I can't sleep...
337
00:15:14,840 --> 00:15:15,840
Probably.
338
00:15:15,880 --> 00:15:17,360
..I just go through, you know,
339
00:15:17,400 --> 00:15:19,560
when you just flick it up
and just see all the things...
340
00:15:19,600 --> 00:15:22,040
TIM: I've been nominated, obviously,
by James, for the retreat
341
00:15:22,080 --> 00:15:24,400
because, um, I've been single
for three years.
342
00:15:24,440 --> 00:15:29,800
I've tried many forms and it hasn't
happened, for whatever reason.
343
00:15:29,840 --> 00:15:32,360
This was a great opportunity,
to enter the retreat,
344
00:15:32,400 --> 00:15:34,240
to find a connection.
345
00:15:35,640 --> 00:15:37,200
Oh, jeez, I'm nervous.
346
00:15:37,920 --> 00:15:40,720
It's not easy at our age, is it?
Yeah. Oh, no.
347
00:15:40,760 --> 00:15:43,960
And I won't go on a dating app.
Never been. Won't do it.
348
00:15:44,000 --> 00:15:45,480
It's stupid.
Nah.
349
00:15:45,520 --> 00:15:48,200
People bullshit, people don't
get back to you and they say...
350
00:15:48,240 --> 00:15:49,680
Yeah. You know what it is?
351
00:15:49,720 --> 00:15:51,800
..and they say, "Communication's
really important to me."
352
00:15:51,840 --> 00:15:53,160
Yeah.
You know?
353
00:15:53,200 --> 00:15:54,400
Yeah.
354
00:15:57,040 --> 00:15:58,600
Yeah, I know.
355
00:15:58,640 --> 00:16:01,120
It's, like, the first time seeing
her not, like, get like...
356
00:16:01,160 --> 00:16:02,560
Yeah. Recoil.
357
00:16:02,600 --> 00:16:04,040
Yeah. Yeah.
358
00:16:04,080 --> 00:16:06,880
She really struggles
to trust new people.
359
00:16:06,920 --> 00:16:09,000
But I feel like, with Tim,
360
00:16:09,040 --> 00:16:11,680
um, they're a little bit more
relaxed and, um,
361
00:16:11,720 --> 00:16:15,680
there may be a potential, you know,
love interest for my mum.
362
00:16:15,720 --> 00:16:19,080
Come on, Tim. Step it up. For Mel.
363
00:16:19,120 --> 00:16:21,920
This could be the one
that cracks Mel, you know?
364
00:16:21,960 --> 00:16:23,360
Yeah. Hopefully.
365
00:16:23,400 --> 00:16:27,280
Mel can kind of relax and just
let herself enjoy a bit of romance.
366
00:16:27,320 --> 00:16:28,920
Yeah. Let's hope.
Fingers crossed.
367
00:16:28,960 --> 00:16:30,800
And she sounds really good
for Dad as well.
368
00:16:30,840 --> 00:16:33,840
Tim is... a really nice guy.
369
00:16:33,880 --> 00:16:36,400
I think I'd like to spend
some time with Tim.
370
00:16:38,400 --> 00:16:40,200
(CLAPS) Chop, chop!
371
00:16:40,240 --> 00:16:42,640
I want to see you
get married to Tim.
372
00:16:42,680 --> 00:16:44,880
(LAUGHS)
373
00:16:44,920 --> 00:16:48,160
KATE: With only a few days left
before the blessing ceremony,
374
00:16:48,200 --> 00:16:51,320
here's hoping Mel doesn't hold back.
375
00:16:51,360 --> 00:16:54,200
Speaking of not holding back...
376
00:16:54,240 --> 00:16:56,520
So, what is your favourite fruit?
377
00:16:58,080 --> 00:16:59,720
Cherries.
378
00:17:00,440 --> 00:17:01,840
Oh!
379
00:17:03,960 --> 00:17:06,160
That little trick
which you've just...
380
00:17:06,200 --> 00:17:07,480
The cherry stem.
381
00:17:07,520 --> 00:17:10,200
Oh, god! I can't do it.
382
00:17:10,240 --> 00:17:14,600
Put it on your tongue
and you try to make a bow out of it,
383
00:17:14,640 --> 00:17:16,240
just using your tongue only.
384
00:17:17,120 --> 00:17:19,040
Sorry!
385
00:17:20,080 --> 00:17:21,760
(LAUGHS)
386
00:17:21,800 --> 00:17:24,000
OK. Enough, 'cause I've just got
a tingle in my...
387
00:17:24,040 --> 00:17:25,640
(LAUGHS) I'm sorry.
388
00:17:27,640 --> 00:17:30,400
Ooh-hoo-hoo!
389
00:17:34,880 --> 00:17:38,720
Yes, well, when I saw you,
I thought you seemed excited!
390
00:17:38,760 --> 00:17:41,240
Oh, my god! I'm so excited!
391
00:17:41,280 --> 00:17:43,760
The cherries. Oh!
392
00:17:43,800 --> 00:17:48,200
Oh, my god. I just feel the whole
cherry running down my body.
393
00:17:49,360 --> 00:17:51,280
Oh!
394
00:17:51,320 --> 00:17:53,200
No, I can't!
395
00:17:53,240 --> 00:17:57,160
Oh, my god. I've got the chocolate.
I just need the fruit.
396
00:17:59,040 --> 00:18:01,680
I'm gonna be squirmy.
I'm not watching. I'm leaving.
397
00:18:01,720 --> 00:18:03,520
I can't. It's too much.
398
00:18:03,560 --> 00:18:06,120
I guess this is just, you know,
the negative side
399
00:18:06,160 --> 00:18:08,800
to having to watch
our parents' every move.
400
00:18:08,840 --> 00:18:10,840
You have to hear things like that!
401
00:18:10,880 --> 00:18:13,200
Does he eat lollies?
Forget the lollies!
402
00:18:13,240 --> 00:18:16,560
We're into the fruit. Now, let's
just get the fruit happening, babe.
403
00:18:16,600 --> 00:18:18,000
You've gotta put yourself out there.
404
00:18:18,040 --> 00:18:19,960
I want to live life to the fullest.
405
00:18:20,000 --> 00:18:22,280
It's a bit of excitement,
a bit of spark.
406
00:18:22,320 --> 00:18:23,720
Ta-da!
407
00:18:23,760 --> 00:18:25,840
My daughter told me to behave.
408
00:18:25,880 --> 00:18:27,800
Well, that's gone out the door.
409
00:18:27,840 --> 00:18:29,480
I'm not listening to that.
410
00:18:29,520 --> 00:18:31,720
I didn't really
want to be hearing that.
411
00:18:32,760 --> 00:18:37,520
KATE: But there are always
two sides to every story.
412
00:18:40,400 --> 00:18:42,720
Uh, Carole is very interesting.
413
00:18:42,760 --> 00:18:45,000
Uh, I had a chance
to speak with Carole
414
00:18:45,040 --> 00:18:46,440
a few different times
415
00:18:46,480 --> 00:18:49,480
and she's forthcoming
in what she wants with me.
416
00:18:49,520 --> 00:18:52,320
But Carole can definitely be
over-the-top,
417
00:18:52,360 --> 00:18:54,200
more than she needs to be.
418
00:18:54,240 --> 00:18:56,800
I mean, I'm... The bells
and whistles don't impress me.
419
00:18:56,840 --> 00:18:59,920
I've... I've had bells
and a lot of whistles.
420
00:19:01,480 --> 00:19:03,480
I think that she has
a lot of good qualities.
421
00:19:03,520 --> 00:19:04,720
She's caring, which is great,
422
00:19:04,760 --> 00:19:08,120
but I'm saying... the extra
is not needed.
423
00:19:08,160 --> 00:19:10,600
Do you think, if you
got to know her a bit better,
424
00:19:10,640 --> 00:19:13,560
that something... you know,
a connection could happen?
425
00:19:14,880 --> 00:19:16,480
Yeah.
Yeah?
426
00:19:16,520 --> 00:19:17,920
Yeah, it's a possibility.
427
00:19:17,960 --> 00:19:21,280
She's very confident,
she's got a great body,
428
00:19:21,320 --> 00:19:23,960
she's got a wonderful smile.
429
00:19:24,000 --> 00:19:26,120
Let me get to know more
about who she is.
430
00:19:26,760 --> 00:19:28,520
My dad...
431
00:19:28,560 --> 00:19:30,360
is definitely feeling your mum
432
00:19:30,400 --> 00:19:33,400
but I just need to see more and be
more than just, you know,
433
00:19:33,440 --> 00:19:35,080
the... the sexual side of things.
434
00:19:35,120 --> 00:19:37,280
There's an obvious sexual tension
between the two
435
00:19:37,320 --> 00:19:38,720
and chemistry but...
436
00:19:38,760 --> 00:19:42,760
you know, lust doesn't
sustain relationships - love does.
437
00:19:47,080 --> 00:19:51,840
KATE: And lust is becoming a problem
for Petula and Darren,
438
00:19:51,880 --> 00:19:55,520
as his eyes wander
towards newcomer Michelle.
439
00:19:56,840 --> 00:19:59,600
Do you reckon Darren
would go there with Michelle?
440
00:19:59,640 --> 00:20:01,000
He might!
441
00:20:03,880 --> 00:20:06,880
Mmm. Interesting.
442
00:20:06,920 --> 00:20:08,720
Interesting.
443
00:20:09,440 --> 00:20:12,800
She's not coming in here to go,
"OK - you're taken, you're taken,
444
00:20:12,840 --> 00:20:14,400
"you're taken -
I'm just gonna look at you."
445
00:20:14,440 --> 00:20:16,040
Everyone is here looking for love.
446
00:20:16,920 --> 00:20:19,480
I'm aware that we're here
to make a connection
447
00:20:19,520 --> 00:20:21,200
and time is running out.
448
00:20:21,240 --> 00:20:23,840
New people are coming in,
people are leaving -
449
00:20:23,880 --> 00:20:26,720
I'm really conscious
of the possibility
450
00:20:26,760 --> 00:20:28,880
between Michelle and Darren.
451
00:20:29,880 --> 00:20:33,800
I'm aware of how the dynamics
can change very quickly.
452
00:20:33,840 --> 00:20:36,760
Nothing's changed -
I am still attracted to him.
453
00:20:36,800 --> 00:20:38,320
Mmm.
He ticks all the boxes.
454
00:20:38,360 --> 00:20:40,240
Yeah.
As what I know so far.
455
00:20:40,280 --> 00:20:42,360
I'm just a little bit confused.
456
00:20:42,920 --> 00:20:44,560
It's making me feel vulnerable.
457
00:20:45,200 --> 00:20:50,280
I realise that I've got to
make my intentions clear.
458
00:20:50,320 --> 00:20:52,840
I need to make sure
I don't lose this guy.
459
00:20:52,880 --> 00:20:54,560
Anything could happen.
460
00:21:00,600 --> 00:21:04,000
KATE: Indeed, anything CAN happen
in the retreat.
461
00:21:04,040 --> 00:21:06,120
Heath's spotted
a potential connection
462
00:21:06,160 --> 00:21:07,960
between Darren and Michelle,
463
00:21:08,000 --> 00:21:10,320
so he decides to make a move.
464
00:21:10,360 --> 00:21:13,760
When you came in,
you owned the room.
465
00:21:13,800 --> 00:21:15,560
You reckon?
Yeah, 100%.
466
00:21:15,600 --> 00:21:17,920
Oh!
Aww!
467
00:21:17,960 --> 00:21:20,640
You lifted the room up
when you walked in.
468
00:21:20,680 --> 00:21:22,800
So... you were glowing. It was nice.
469
00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:24,200
Aww!
470
00:21:24,240 --> 00:21:25,520
It was a nice energy.
471
00:21:25,560 --> 00:21:26,800
Aww!
Aww!
472
00:21:26,840 --> 00:21:28,520
Thank you.
473
00:21:28,560 --> 00:21:30,520
Oh, my goodness.
She has that little grin.
474
00:21:31,360 --> 00:21:34,480
And then we were all excited
to meet the couple of new people.
475
00:21:34,520 --> 00:21:36,960
I'm assuming that everybody is...
Oh, we're all looking for someone.
476
00:21:37,000 --> 00:21:38,600
Exactly.
Yeah.
477
00:21:38,640 --> 00:21:40,960
I haven't connected with anybody.
478
00:21:43,080 --> 00:21:44,520
Aww!
479
00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:49,240
Haydn, your dad seems so nervous.
480
00:21:49,280 --> 00:21:51,680
I reckon he is a little bit nervous.
481
00:21:51,720 --> 00:21:53,520
She has that effect.
482
00:21:55,680 --> 00:21:59,520
Do you have a set, sort of, look
that you go for?
483
00:22:01,240 --> 00:22:03,760
Well, I can't describe
any more than...
484
00:22:05,200 --> 00:22:07,080
Oh, get lost!
(LAUGHS)
485
00:22:07,120 --> 00:22:08,560
God, you're full of it!
486
00:22:08,600 --> 00:22:10,160
(BOTH LAUGH)
487
00:22:11,120 --> 00:22:15,280
I think Heath was definitely
showing some signs.
488
00:22:15,320 --> 00:22:17,280
Yeah, I think he likes me.
489
00:22:18,400 --> 00:22:20,920
And what about you?
What are you thinking?
490
00:22:22,760 --> 00:22:24,480
Loads. I'm thinking loads.
491
00:22:24,520 --> 00:22:27,320
(LAUGHS) I'm thinking loads.
492
00:22:28,440 --> 00:22:31,080
HAYDN: Dad's definitely put his
heart on the table with Michelle
493
00:22:31,120 --> 00:22:34,080
and I feel like she's a little bit
reluctant and she's really...
494
00:22:34,120 --> 00:22:37,480
kept to herself and hasn't really
given him much yet.
495
00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:40,440
She's just taking it slow.
Taking it slow.
496
00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:42,400
Yep.
497
00:22:43,480 --> 00:22:45,160
Do you reckon this is
how she normally acts?
498
00:22:45,200 --> 00:22:46,680
Like... is this normal for her?
499
00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:48,280
I think she's on her best behaviour
500
00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:50,400
and maybe she's listened
to my advice.
501
00:22:50,440 --> 00:22:51,760
She's taking it slow.
502
00:22:51,800 --> 00:22:53,800
She's just really sussing them out
503
00:22:53,840 --> 00:22:56,000
before, you know,
she puts both feet in.
504
00:22:56,040 --> 00:22:58,320
'Cause I, you know,
did tip her off, saying,
505
00:22:58,360 --> 00:23:01,640
"Sit back, watch, digest -
then go in."
506
00:23:01,680 --> 00:23:03,120
(CHUCKLES)
507
00:23:03,160 --> 00:23:06,120
I have a habit of being a bit
too spontaneous and I rush in,
508
00:23:06,160 --> 00:23:07,720
with both feet.
509
00:23:07,760 --> 00:23:10,520
I'm doing things a lot different.
510
00:23:10,560 --> 00:23:13,480
For the first time ever,
I'm stepping back
511
00:23:13,520 --> 00:23:17,280
and trying to change
my normal behaviour,
512
00:23:17,320 --> 00:23:18,760
slow it.
513
00:23:18,800 --> 00:23:22,880
I'm learning now
that things need to be different.
514
00:23:24,520 --> 00:23:25,920
KATE: Next...
515
00:23:25,960 --> 00:23:27,440
ROE: Uh-oh - new message!
516
00:23:27,480 --> 00:23:28,800
Oh!
517
00:23:28,840 --> 00:23:31,400
"A new single dad is waiting
at the tennis court.
518
00:23:32,480 --> 00:23:35,720
..our single mums
have stars in their eyes
519
00:23:35,760 --> 00:23:38,520
as our final new dad arrives.
520
00:23:38,560 --> 00:23:41,120
Oh, my god.
He was like Richard Gere.
521
00:23:41,160 --> 00:23:42,680
God, you're tall! Nice.
522
00:23:42,720 --> 00:23:43,800
Like, sexy.
523
00:23:43,840 --> 00:23:45,480
What's he like?
Oh, he's OK.
524
00:23:45,520 --> 00:23:47,000
Who would be his match?
525
00:23:47,040 --> 00:23:49,200
Michelle, I think.
(GASPS)
526
00:23:58,520 --> 00:24:01,000
KATE: When new singles
enter the retreat,
527
00:24:01,040 --> 00:24:03,360
it creates waves on interest
528
00:24:03,400 --> 00:24:06,240
and Darren seems to be drowning.
529
00:24:07,160 --> 00:24:09,160
Having Michelle come in last night,
530
00:24:09,200 --> 00:24:10,920
bubbly, you know, looks great -
531
00:24:10,960 --> 00:24:12,920
it's just thrown
the spanner in the works,
532
00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:14,680
'cause she's my normal type.
533
00:24:14,720 --> 00:24:17,040
You go, "Ooh! Ooh, she's nice."
534
00:24:17,080 --> 00:24:19,880
But you know, then you've got
relationships with others.
535
00:24:19,920 --> 00:24:21,920
You want to do the right thing
by everyone,
536
00:24:21,960 --> 00:24:23,680
so it's... it is really difficult.
537
00:24:23,720 --> 00:24:28,560
So Darren rounds up his
primary interest, Petula,
538
00:24:28,600 --> 00:24:30,320
for some one-on-one.
539
00:24:32,120 --> 00:24:33,720
He said something
along the lines of,
540
00:24:33,760 --> 00:24:35,640
"Petula, I'd like
to have a chat with you,"
541
00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:37,080
So I was like, "Oh, OK. Fine."
542
00:24:37,720 --> 00:24:39,760
I don't know what's going to happen.
543
00:24:39,800 --> 00:24:41,320
I'm nervous.
544
00:24:44,800 --> 00:24:46,600
How are you feeling
about the whole thing?
545
00:24:46,640 --> 00:24:48,000
Good.
Yeah?
546
00:24:48,040 --> 00:24:50,040
Yeah. I like the connection
that we have.
547
00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:51,560
I like everything so far.
548
00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:54,120
Yeah.
549
00:24:54,160 --> 00:24:56,240
What's... How are you feeling?
What's your take on it all?
550
00:24:59,600 --> 00:25:01,120
Yeah, look, it's been great for me.
551
00:25:01,160 --> 00:25:04,120
I've never talked about my feelings
so much.
552
00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:06,800
Every day, day in, day out,
talking about how you're feeling
553
00:25:06,840 --> 00:25:08,360
and all that sort of stuff
554
00:25:08,400 --> 00:25:11,640
but I... The best thing for me
was actually getting to know you.
555
00:25:14,360 --> 00:25:16,640
Petula's a really calming soul
556
00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:19,040
and the vibe is everything I want.
557
00:25:19,080 --> 00:25:21,640
I'm more patient
in this relationship,
558
00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:23,120
so I've gotta give that a chance.
559
00:25:23,160 --> 00:25:26,400
Sometimes I was like, "Oh, maybe
I'm just too boring for you.
560
00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:28,320
"I'm too quiet. I'm not,
you know, out-there."
561
00:25:28,360 --> 00:25:33,440
But I was just like... well, I would
hope, um, that we build on this...
562
00:25:33,480 --> 00:25:35,080
you know, what we've got
563
00:25:35,120 --> 00:25:37,880
and see where it goes, you know?
564
00:25:38,440 --> 00:25:41,640
SAM: I think your mum is just
trying to be, you know, mature
565
00:25:41,680 --> 00:25:42,960
in all this,
566
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:46,520
in the sense where it's not
a regular experience
567
00:25:46,560 --> 00:25:50,080
and people are entitled
to explore their options.
568
00:25:50,120 --> 00:25:53,120
And it's a great sign - she can see,
like, different sides to all...
569
00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:54,960
Mmm. Open-hearted.
Yeah.
570
00:25:55,000 --> 00:25:57,120
I think Mum's always an open book.
571
00:25:57,160 --> 00:25:58,560
She always spoke from the heart
572
00:25:58,600 --> 00:26:01,200
and that's by far
one of her best traits.
573
00:26:01,240 --> 00:26:04,000
Yeah and that's it - it's, um...
it's just digging deeper
574
00:26:04,040 --> 00:26:05,840
and finding that connection.
575
00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:11,920
I came into the retreat to change
the way I looked at relationships.
576
00:26:11,960 --> 00:26:15,720
Tess said, "Dad, maybe
give love more of a chance,"
577
00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:18,600
and I've got one connection
and I'm hoping to work on that.
578
00:26:18,640 --> 00:26:21,360
TESS: Yeah, I think
it was really nice.
579
00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:23,800
That's what they're all...
we've all sent them there to do,
580
00:26:23,840 --> 00:26:26,480
is really find connection
and find love.
581
00:26:26,520 --> 00:26:29,360
DRHYS: 100%. They were being
very open and very genuine.
582
00:26:29,400 --> 00:26:31,080
They definitely have a connection
583
00:26:31,120 --> 00:26:33,160
and I don't see that ending
any time soon.
584
00:26:33,200 --> 00:26:39,560
Petula is so amazing and from what
I've seen on the surveillance cams,
585
00:26:39,600 --> 00:26:43,320
Dad would be very lucky
to have her in his life
586
00:26:43,360 --> 00:26:45,120
but I can definitely see him
587
00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:48,080
kind of opening up
and relaxing a little bit,
588
00:26:48,120 --> 00:26:50,600
so it's gonna be interesting,
where it goes from here
589
00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:52,640
and I think Dad's definitely
showing some real interest.
590
00:26:53,720 --> 00:26:56,960
KATE: Now that Darren's
all in with Petula,
591
00:26:57,000 --> 00:26:59,120
Everyone's nicely coupled-up.
592
00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:01,320
ROE: They're very sexy on you.
Look at you.
593
00:27:01,360 --> 00:27:02,520
You see?
594
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:05,560
And they lived happily ever after.
595
00:27:07,800 --> 00:27:09,680
It's nice and peaceful, innit?
596
00:27:09,720 --> 00:27:11,520
It is. Yeah.
597
00:27:14,480 --> 00:27:16,640
Hang on - what's this?
598
00:27:17,560 --> 00:27:21,520
A new player is entering the field,
ready to score?
599
00:27:22,760 --> 00:27:25,680
Meet dashing single dad Neil.
600
00:27:25,720 --> 00:27:27,680
Looks like we're here, eh?
The retreat.
601
00:27:27,720 --> 00:27:29,720
The house.
It's not bad. That's not bad.
602
00:27:29,760 --> 00:27:31,840
I've nominated my dad, honestly,
603
00:27:31,880 --> 00:27:33,400
to kind of throw him
in the deep end.
604
00:27:33,440 --> 00:27:36,480
He's a big kid. I think it's time
for him to grow up and settle down.
605
00:27:36,520 --> 00:27:38,200
I reckon Dad's a good catch.
606
00:27:38,240 --> 00:27:40,360
He's likable.
He's got a lot of energy.
607
00:27:40,400 --> 00:27:41,920
Absolutely great sort.
608
00:27:41,960 --> 00:27:44,200
A great sort!
I'll take that any day.
609
00:27:44,240 --> 00:27:46,200
Ah, well, it's gonna be
a nice little place
610
00:27:46,240 --> 00:27:48,560
to stay for a little while,
meet some nice girls.
611
00:27:48,600 --> 00:27:50,360
I was married twice
and engaged once.
612
00:27:50,400 --> 00:27:51,760
Let's go!
613
00:27:51,800 --> 00:27:54,760
It's been five years, I guess,
where I've been happily single
614
00:27:54,800 --> 00:27:56,840
but look, I think a woman
is missing in my life.
615
00:27:56,880 --> 00:27:59,560
Cracking day, cracking place.
616
00:27:59,600 --> 00:28:01,360
It's gonna be good times.
617
00:28:01,400 --> 00:28:04,480
Sport's been good for me.
AFL was a big part of my life.
618
00:28:04,520 --> 00:28:06,400
Played footy with St Kilda
and Richmond
619
00:28:06,440 --> 00:28:09,320
and some females are
attracted to sporting people,
620
00:28:09,360 --> 00:28:11,800
so life wasn't too hard
in that environment.
621
00:28:11,840 --> 00:28:13,640
What's your final words
of advice, buddy?
622
00:28:13,680 --> 00:28:16,000
Don't be an idiot.
OK. I'll take it.
623
00:28:17,720 --> 00:28:22,120
I'm looking to meet a girl
that's outgoing, athletic
624
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:24,480
and... fun-loving.
625
00:28:24,520 --> 00:28:26,680
I think this is my next chance
at love.
626
00:28:26,720 --> 00:28:28,400
I mean, that's why I'm here.
627
00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:35,080
(INDISTINCT CONVERSATION)
628
00:28:35,120 --> 00:28:38,120
I've never been but my sister's...
Uh-oh. New message!
629
00:28:38,160 --> 00:28:39,520
Oh!
630
00:28:39,560 --> 00:28:43,640
"Ladies, a new single dad
is waiting at the tennis court.
631
00:28:43,680 --> 00:28:46,400
(GASPS) Another one!
632
00:28:46,440 --> 00:28:48,960
Oh, my days!
633
00:28:50,200 --> 00:28:52,840
Boogie, boogie. Wonderland.
634
00:28:53,640 --> 00:28:55,400
Another male.
635
00:28:55,440 --> 00:28:58,840
"You will each have 10 minutes
to get to know him.
636
00:28:58,880 --> 00:29:01,520
"Could he be your perfect match?"
637
00:29:02,840 --> 00:29:04,120
Yeah, I'm like, "Oh, my god."
638
00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:05,920
That's confusing now.
639
00:29:05,960 --> 00:29:07,720
That is confusing, isn't it?
Yeah.
640
00:29:08,280 --> 00:29:09,960
Isn't he married?
641
00:29:11,440 --> 00:29:13,680
Straightaway, the dynamic changes.
642
00:29:13,720 --> 00:29:16,680
Shane, Darren, Heath -
643
00:29:16,720 --> 00:29:19,760
they become quite territorial.
644
00:29:19,800 --> 00:29:21,600
For the dads, this is not good news.
645
00:29:21,640 --> 00:29:25,080
It's like the competition is now on.
Yeah.
646
00:29:25,120 --> 00:29:26,760
That's what it feels like
to me, anyway.
647
00:29:26,800 --> 00:29:30,560
First thought is, Dad should maybe,
uh, be a little bit worried.
648
00:29:31,720 --> 00:29:34,040
I mean, he's really gonna
have to up his game here.
649
00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:42,760
What?
Oh, my god!
650
00:29:42,800 --> 00:29:44,520
What is that?
You're kidding me!
651
00:29:44,560 --> 00:29:46,040
What is that?
Another one!
652
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:49,160
We are spying on our parents.
That's outrageous.
653
00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:53,320
Uh, seeing all those TVs
with everyone's parents...
654
00:29:53,360 --> 00:29:55,080
Something out of a spy movie,
to be honest.
655
00:29:55,120 --> 00:29:57,240
Not something you see every day/
656
00:29:57,280 --> 00:29:59,480
Basically, this is
the surveillance room
657
00:29:59,520 --> 00:30:02,600
and we get to watch
our parents' every move.
658
00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:04,480
Get me in on that.
That's gonna be hilarious.
659
00:30:04,520 --> 00:30:07,000
Most of my life,
Dad's been keeping tabs on me
660
00:30:07,040 --> 00:30:08,760
and I guess it's my turn to...
661
00:30:08,800 --> 00:30:10,320
hold him accountable.
662
00:30:10,360 --> 00:30:11,760
And I kinda like it a little bit.
663
00:30:11,800 --> 00:30:13,680
I've been told I'm a great wingman.
664
00:30:13,720 --> 00:30:15,400
(LAUGHTER)
Whoo!
665
00:30:15,440 --> 00:30:18,680
KATE: With that,
the game is on for Neil
666
00:30:18,720 --> 00:30:20,480
and for the kick-off...
667
00:30:20,520 --> 00:30:22,920
Hello! I'm Carole.
668
00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:24,400
How are you, Carole? I'm Neil.
669
00:30:24,440 --> 00:30:26,160
How are you, Neil?
Good, good, good.
670
00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:28,200
Lovely to meet you.
I'll do a little peck.
671
00:30:28,240 --> 00:30:29,840
Oh, my god. Neil!
672
00:30:29,880 --> 00:30:32,800
The minute I saw him,
it was like, "Whew!"
673
00:30:32,840 --> 00:30:34,520
I mean, how the hell...
674
00:30:34,560 --> 00:30:37,520
It's like the world map - where do
you start and where do you finish?
675
00:30:37,560 --> 00:30:39,600
CHLOE: How tall is he?
He's 6'7".
676
00:30:39,640 --> 00:30:41,720
(GIRLS EXCLAIM)
677
00:30:41,760 --> 00:30:42,960
6'7"?!
678
00:30:43,000 --> 00:30:44,800
You're gonna have to
climb that like a tree!
679
00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:47,280
CAROLE: Oh, my god. How are you?
Good.
680
00:30:47,320 --> 00:30:49,280
Welcome to the house.
681
00:30:50,120 --> 00:30:52,760
So, um, beautiful tennis court
right there.
682
00:30:52,800 --> 00:30:55,320
I'd, uh... if you played tennis,
I'd ask you for a hit.
683
00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:57,920
No but I don't mind juggling balls.
Oh, well...
684
00:30:57,960 --> 00:30:59,720
(LAUGHS)
You know, hey, perfect. Perfect.
685
00:30:59,760 --> 00:31:01,720
(LAUGHTER)
686
00:31:01,760 --> 00:31:04,120
I know how Lebanese are.
What do you mean, how Lebanese are?
687
00:31:04,160 --> 00:31:07,560
We're just vivacious.
Yes, I know you guys can be so...
688
00:31:07,600 --> 00:31:09,600
Your poor dad's gonna
have a heart attack.
689
00:31:09,640 --> 00:31:12,000
He's stuffed that.
She's stuffed him real good.
690
00:31:13,080 --> 00:31:16,560
Carole's my type of person that
I would go out and have fun with.
691
00:31:16,600 --> 00:31:17,800
Very, very bubbly.
692
00:31:19,760 --> 00:31:22,360
KATE: That was a steamy start
693
00:31:22,400 --> 00:31:25,680
and now the more demure Mel.
694
00:31:25,720 --> 00:31:28,400
This is... whose?
That's my mum.
695
00:31:28,440 --> 00:31:29,680
Your mum?
696
00:31:29,720 --> 00:31:32,080
She's straight
to the comfort pillow.
697
00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:33,560
TESS: Security pillow, yep.
698
00:31:33,600 --> 00:31:35,960
Oh, so you're putting champagne
in your orange juice?
699
00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:37,880
Yeah. Do you want a...
Oh. No, no, thank you.
700
00:31:37,920 --> 00:31:39,560
I was just gonna say,
if you want to try it...
701
00:31:39,600 --> 00:31:40,880
No, that's fine.
702
00:31:40,920 --> 00:31:42,640
This is a weekend of...
a week of trying.
703
00:31:42,680 --> 00:31:44,560
Oh, OK. Yes.
So...
704
00:31:44,600 --> 00:31:46,240
I've tried quite a few things, yes.
705
00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:48,960
Have you done any dates here?
706
00:31:49,000 --> 00:31:51,640
Yeah, I'm having fun. Yeah.
Are you letting your hair down?
707
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:53,080
Oh, a little bit.
708
00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:56,280
She does, you know,
keep her walls up high
709
00:31:56,320 --> 00:31:59,200
but I feel like, with Tim,
she's more relaxed.
710
00:31:59,240 --> 00:32:02,680
KATE: Maybe Neil will have
better luck with Kristy.
711
00:32:03,480 --> 00:32:06,280
So, what are you looking for
at the retreat?
712
00:32:06,320 --> 00:32:09,640
Is this your mum?
No, my step-mum. Dad's girlfriend.
713
00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:13,360
Came in, obviously, to try and find
a connection with someone
714
00:32:13,400 --> 00:32:15,440
and, um... yeah, I met Shane
715
00:32:15,480 --> 00:32:18,560
and I've sort of been
getting to know him.
716
00:32:19,360 --> 00:32:21,800
She's already made her mind up.
Big no.
717
00:32:22,400 --> 00:32:24,080
Next.
718
00:32:24,120 --> 00:32:26,440
KATE: Will Petula be the one, then?
719
00:32:27,200 --> 00:32:29,160
You have got a great smile.
Well, thank you.
720
00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:30,880
Connections? Any dates? Tell me...
721
00:32:30,920 --> 00:32:32,640
Yeah, yeah.
I've been on a few dates.
722
00:32:32,680 --> 00:32:35,800
With Darren, the connection
was quite instant.
723
00:32:35,840 --> 00:32:37,160
Yep.
724
00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:39,280
Dad might be
at a bit of a disadvantage.
725
00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:41,080
He's come in late to the retreat.
726
00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:44,040
All the other parents had a couple
of days to get to know each other
727
00:32:44,080 --> 00:32:45,760
and form connections.
728
00:32:48,440 --> 00:32:50,400
What's... what's he like?
Which bloke?
729
00:32:50,440 --> 00:32:51,840
Tall, dark and handsome?
730
00:32:51,880 --> 00:32:53,640
No, he's OK.
Young? Old?
731
00:32:54,320 --> 00:32:56,360
Oh, maybe 57, 58?
732
00:32:57,000 --> 00:32:59,640
As each of us
come back from our date,
733
00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:01,640
the men are right there -
"How tall is he?"
734
00:33:01,680 --> 00:33:03,840
"What's his name?"
"What does he do?"
735
00:33:03,880 --> 00:33:06,640
So they're really anxious
to find more information
736
00:33:06,680 --> 00:33:09,240
about who could match
with this new gentleman.
737
00:33:09,280 --> 00:33:11,640
Who would be his match?
738
00:33:11,680 --> 00:33:13,400
Michelle, I think.
739
00:33:19,720 --> 00:33:21,880
NEIL: Hello!
Hi!
740
00:33:21,920 --> 00:33:25,520
Oh, my god. He was like
your tall Richard Gere.
741
00:33:25,560 --> 00:33:27,160
God, you're tall! Nice.
742
00:33:27,200 --> 00:33:28,720
Like, sexy.
743
00:33:28,760 --> 00:33:30,040
Oh, my goodness!
744
00:33:30,080 --> 00:33:32,280
They reckon it doesn't matter
when you're lying down, so...
745
00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:34,440
Oh, hey, I'm not complaining.
(LAUGHTER)
746
00:33:37,400 --> 00:33:40,480
TESS: Do you think that
Neil is your mum's type?
747
00:33:40,520 --> 00:33:42,200
Yeah.
748
00:33:43,160 --> 00:33:45,640
Yeah. This is...
this is huge for Dad.
749
00:33:45,680 --> 00:33:47,840
I know he's obviously
smitten already.
750
00:33:52,480 --> 00:33:54,080
Uh, cheers. Cheers.
Cheers. Cheers.
751
00:33:54,120 --> 00:33:56,280
Nice to meet you.
Yes. Nice to meet you.
752
00:33:56,320 --> 00:33:58,200
That's making me
a little bit worried.
753
00:33:58,240 --> 00:34:01,680
As much as I like Michelle, I really
don't want him to get hurt again.
754
00:34:15,240 --> 00:34:16,600
Cheers. Cheers.
755
00:34:16,640 --> 00:34:18,600
KATE: Michelle has joined
the final quarter...
756
00:34:18,640 --> 00:34:20,040
It's nice to meet you.
757
00:34:20,080 --> 00:34:21,840
..of this speedy dating game
758
00:34:21,880 --> 00:34:26,960
and ex-AFL player Neil
is trying hard to win the trophy
759
00:34:27,000 --> 00:34:29,400
for best on ground.
760
00:34:29,440 --> 00:34:31,080
Who brought you in?
761
00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:32,520
My daughter's Chloe.
762
00:34:32,560 --> 00:34:35,400
Um, we're both very adventurous
and ambitious
763
00:34:35,440 --> 00:34:37,960
and spontaneous in life and...
764
00:34:38,000 --> 00:34:40,120
Jeez, you've just about named
everything I'm looking for.
765
00:34:40,160 --> 00:34:41,400
(LAUGHS)
Um, so...
766
00:34:41,440 --> 00:34:42,880
I'll bet you've said that
to all of them.
767
00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:44,600
Your dad's kind of keen.
768
00:34:44,640 --> 00:34:46,680
Yeah, he definitely is.
I'm getting, like...
769
00:34:46,720 --> 00:34:48,760
That was the first time I've,
like... kind of, like,
770
00:34:48,800 --> 00:34:50,640
SAM: Seen him react like that.
Yeah.
771
00:34:51,800 --> 00:34:53,080
What's your, sort of, type?
772
00:34:53,120 --> 00:34:55,480
Looks, to start with, and then, um,
773
00:34:55,520 --> 00:34:57,240
the connection comes with
the communication.
774
00:34:57,280 --> 00:34:59,360
You can be in a room - don't have to
speak for any amount of time,
775
00:34:59,400 --> 00:35:00,800
you don't feel awkward.
776
00:35:00,840 --> 00:35:02,200
I like.
777
00:35:04,640 --> 00:35:07,720
(LAUGHS)
That's one tick. That's a start, eh?
778
00:35:07,760 --> 00:35:10,240
Well, I hope that you find somebody
779
00:35:10,280 --> 00:35:12,120
that gives you that spark.
780
00:35:13,480 --> 00:35:16,200
HAYDN: It felt like Dad and Michelle
were really onto something
781
00:35:16,240 --> 00:35:17,800
and Dad's got
a bit of competition now,
782
00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:20,000
so he's gotta really fight
for this relationship
783
00:35:20,040 --> 00:35:23,040
and try and get the most out of it
before Neil takes over.
784
00:35:23,600 --> 00:35:26,760
TESS: Do you think that Neil
is your mum's type?
785
00:35:26,800 --> 00:35:28,320
Yeah.
786
00:35:28,360 --> 00:35:31,640
I had my heart set a little bit
with Haydn's dad, Heath.
787
00:35:32,560 --> 00:35:37,280
However, like, I know my mum's gonna
be attracted to... your father.
788
00:35:37,960 --> 00:35:41,040
It was really good to see Dad get in
there and try and make a connection
789
00:35:41,080 --> 00:35:42,600
as early as he can.
790
00:35:42,640 --> 00:35:44,920
There's another little love triangle
in the house now.
791
00:35:44,960 --> 00:35:46,320
Spanner in the works.
792
00:35:46,360 --> 00:35:48,400
They got some sharp edges,
that triangle, yeah.
793
00:35:49,920 --> 00:35:51,600
MICHELLE: Watch your step.
794
00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:54,960
I actually felt a little bit of
connection straightaway there.
795
00:35:55,000 --> 00:35:57,120
I've been a naughty girl, yeah?
Oh, uh-huh.
796
00:35:57,160 --> 00:35:59,000
Oh!
Oh!
797
00:35:59,040 --> 00:36:00,960
NEIL: So, they saved the best
till last.
798
00:36:01,560 --> 00:36:03,960
From that point, uh, in my mind,
799
00:36:04,000 --> 00:36:06,160
I've felt that there's been
something there
800
00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:07,720
that I need to explore
801
00:36:07,760 --> 00:36:09,840
and, um, she's been the stand-out.
802
00:36:10,560 --> 00:36:12,480
MICHELLE: Let's go in.
803
00:36:12,520 --> 00:36:13,880
Let's do it.
804
00:36:15,400 --> 00:36:16,880
Hey.
805
00:36:17,560 --> 00:36:19,280
Hey, hey!
Hey!
806
00:36:19,320 --> 00:36:21,600
Guess who I've brought!
807
00:36:21,640 --> 00:36:22,880
Oh!
Oh!
808
00:36:22,920 --> 00:36:24,640
Reveal!
Oh!
809
00:36:24,680 --> 00:36:27,000
Now, look at this
vast array of people.
810
00:36:27,040 --> 00:36:28,560
Everybody, this is Neil.
811
00:36:28,600 --> 00:36:29,960
Hello, Neil.
812
00:36:30,000 --> 00:36:32,240
Ooh!
Ooh.
813
00:36:33,000 --> 00:36:34,640
Yeah. What happened?
814
00:36:35,880 --> 00:36:38,280
Dad's reaction - straightaway,
he looks stumped.
815
00:36:39,560 --> 00:36:42,240
I think he's just thinking,
"Should I be worried?"
816
00:36:42,280 --> 00:36:44,120
NEIL: Guys, guys.
817
00:36:44,160 --> 00:36:48,120
Seeing Michelle and Neil
walk back into the room,
818
00:36:48,160 --> 00:36:49,480
holding hands...
819
00:36:50,720 --> 00:36:52,600
I could feel Heath's pain.
820
00:36:52,640 --> 00:36:54,960
I knew that he was
going to be disappointed
821
00:36:55,000 --> 00:36:56,640
with how this was unfolding.
822
00:37:03,480 --> 00:37:05,040
What brought you to the retreat?
823
00:37:05,080 --> 00:37:08,480
Well, the same reason as probably
you and you and you and you and you.
824
00:37:08,520 --> 00:37:10,040
(LAUGHTER)
825
00:37:23,560 --> 00:37:25,640
HAYDN: It's so awkward to watch.
826
00:37:25,680 --> 00:37:28,280
Sometimes you just want to leave
the room and not watch anymore,
827
00:37:28,320 --> 00:37:30,280
'cause, you know, you just
want to be able to help him.
828
00:37:32,800 --> 00:37:34,200
DRHYS: And how are you feeling?
829
00:37:34,240 --> 00:37:35,760
'Cause obviously, you were ecstatic
830
00:37:35,800 --> 00:37:37,520
to see your dad finally
have a connection.
831
00:37:37,560 --> 00:37:39,240
Yeah. Pressure's on now, isn't it?
832
00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:41,480
Or do you think he's gonna,
sort of, retreat?
833
00:37:41,520 --> 00:37:43,160
I just think he's gotta
put in some work.
834
00:37:43,200 --> 00:37:45,120
I just want to go in there
and just...
835
00:37:45,840 --> 00:37:49,000
get him to, you know, up his game
and really go for it.
836
00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:50,800
I want Dad to fight for Michelle.
837
00:37:52,360 --> 00:37:53,920
(MAN SPEAKS INDISTINCTLY)
838
00:37:53,960 --> 00:37:55,600
Welcome to paradise.
839
00:37:55,640 --> 00:37:57,920
MICHELLE: What are you thinking
so far? You like?
840
00:37:57,960 --> 00:37:59,920
Yeah. Look, I mean, it's...
it's, uh...
841
00:37:59,960 --> 00:38:01,920
It's just...
Feeling comfortable?
842
00:38:01,960 --> 00:38:03,960
Yeah. Oh! I'm never uncomfortable.
843
00:38:04,000 --> 00:38:05,840
That's good.
844
00:38:05,880 --> 00:38:07,600
It is confusing, in a sense.
845
00:38:07,640 --> 00:38:10,840
You can obviously see the dynamics
of a couple brewing.
846
00:38:10,880 --> 00:38:12,600
(LAUGHS)
847
00:38:17,240 --> 00:38:18,760
Mmm.
848
00:38:30,960 --> 00:38:32,920
I don't want to be seen
as this puppy dog
849
00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:35,080
that's following her
around this place.
850
00:38:41,000 --> 00:38:43,600
Heath, I absolutely love so much
851
00:38:43,640 --> 00:38:45,600
and I hate that he hasn't
had a connection.
852
00:38:45,640 --> 00:38:48,680
And I know he genuinely
wants to find love.
853
00:38:56,600 --> 00:38:59,000
Michelle has come in here,
you know...
854
00:38:59,040 --> 00:39:01,360
I'm already thinking, "Well,
if I connected with this person,
855
00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:03,200
"would I be hurt again?"
856
00:39:03,240 --> 00:39:05,920
Starting to get... in myself,
starting to get frustrated,
857
00:39:05,960 --> 00:39:08,800
as to why... what are my walls?
858
00:39:08,840 --> 00:39:11,480
Like, is there... am I...
have I got these barriers up?
859
00:39:11,520 --> 00:39:14,280
Why am I... What is wrong with me?
860
00:39:14,320 --> 00:39:15,880
Um...
861
00:39:15,920 --> 00:39:17,600
You start to second-guess,
862
00:39:17,640 --> 00:39:19,600
um, what sort of person you are
863
00:39:19,640 --> 00:39:21,640
and... yeah, so...
864
00:39:25,520 --> 00:39:27,000
OK.
865
00:39:54,200 --> 00:39:57,960
KATE: You'd think that halfway
through this romance boot-camp,
866
00:39:58,000 --> 00:40:00,400
our parents would be
all loved-up by now.
867
00:40:02,920 --> 00:40:06,040
But no - they still need some help.
868
00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:08,960
So, I turn my back for one night
869
00:40:09,000 --> 00:40:12,400
and suddenly, there are
so many new people.
870
00:40:12,440 --> 00:40:17,680
Dylan, did you get a shock when you
walked into the surveillance room?
871
00:40:17,720 --> 00:40:20,200
Oh, yeah. Was not expecting that,
at all.
872
00:40:20,240 --> 00:40:21,560
No.
Not one bit.
873
00:40:21,600 --> 00:40:24,880
Well, as you know,
you won't just be watching.
874
00:40:24,920 --> 00:40:27,320
I've got a job for you.
875
00:40:27,360 --> 00:40:31,160
Today, your parents will have
some time to reflect,
876
00:40:31,200 --> 00:40:35,600
during a special session
about self-love
877
00:40:35,640 --> 00:40:37,040
and confidence.
878
00:40:37,080 --> 00:40:40,320
Do any of your parents
need help in that area?
879
00:40:40,960 --> 00:40:42,560
But you know what?
880
00:40:42,600 --> 00:40:44,840
You'll have an impact
on the workshop
881
00:40:44,880 --> 00:40:47,640
and on your parents, from afar.
882
00:40:47,680 --> 00:40:52,080
Today, you'll be able to communicate
with your mum or your dad.
883
00:40:53,280 --> 00:40:56,520
With just one word.
884
00:40:56,560 --> 00:40:58,040
Only one word?
Exciting.
885
00:40:58,080 --> 00:40:59,800
It's gonna be tough but...
That's hard!
886
00:40:59,840 --> 00:41:01,920
And the word you choose
887
00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:05,600
should be one that helps guide
your mum or your dad.
888
00:41:08,840 --> 00:41:11,000
Think about your word carefully.
889
00:41:14,600 --> 00:41:18,520
CHLOE: So, Kate told us
to pick one word only
890
00:41:18,560 --> 00:41:21,160
and this word was gonna go
to our parents.
891
00:41:21,200 --> 00:41:25,080
Our parents are not gonna know
it is from us.
892
00:41:25,120 --> 00:41:28,800
I think all of us wanted to be
greedy and write a whole sentence.
893
00:41:29,920 --> 00:41:32,040
It was very difficult
894
00:41:32,080 --> 00:41:36,240
to try and put a whole conversation
into one word.
895
00:41:36,280 --> 00:41:38,600
I was really focussed around
896
00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:40,920
trying to give him some type of...
897
00:41:41,960 --> 00:41:44,480
you know, self-motivation to...
898
00:41:44,520 --> 00:41:46,200
to believe in himself.
899
00:41:46,240 --> 00:41:49,840
Sachem, have you come up with a word
for your dad, Roe?
900
00:41:49,880 --> 00:41:51,200
Yes.
901
00:41:51,240 --> 00:41:54,080
I came up with 'intuition'.
902
00:41:54,120 --> 00:41:55,440
Ah.
903
00:41:55,480 --> 00:41:57,520
I reckon, if he just
listens to his gut,
904
00:41:57,560 --> 00:42:00,560
he will find himself
in the right direction.
905
00:42:00,600 --> 00:42:03,200
Carole could be a potential partner
for him.
906
00:42:03,240 --> 00:42:06,560
He is feeling her but he's also
holding back a little bit.
907
00:42:06,600 --> 00:42:09,600
I know that if he just
trusted his intuition, he would...
908
00:42:10,600 --> 00:42:12,040
be there, next to her.
909
00:42:12,080 --> 00:42:14,960
Tess, what message are you
gonna send to Darren?
910
00:42:15,000 --> 00:42:17,920
I chose 'depth'.
911
00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:21,280
Just reminding him to show
that true side of him,
912
00:42:21,320 --> 00:42:25,760
because he can come across
as quite arrogant or peacocky.
913
00:42:25,800 --> 00:42:27,600
Perfect.
914
00:42:27,640 --> 00:42:30,720
Sam. What word do you have for Mel?
915
00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:33,800
I chose 'trust'.
916
00:42:33,840 --> 00:42:35,240
Aww!
917
00:42:35,280 --> 00:42:37,000
My mum struggles with trust
918
00:42:37,040 --> 00:42:41,920
and I wanted to, you know, say,
"Trust is what you need."
919
00:42:41,960 --> 00:42:44,360
If you're not open
with your trust, then...
920
00:42:44,400 --> 00:42:45,960
you're not gonna get...
921
00:42:46,000 --> 00:42:47,840
Yeah. Nothing can advance.
No.
922
00:42:49,360 --> 00:42:50,760
Haydn.
923
00:42:51,720 --> 00:42:53,320
Uh, 'confidence'.
924
00:42:53,360 --> 00:42:54,800
Ah.
925
00:42:54,840 --> 00:42:56,720
So, he's been hurt
in the past, hasn't he?
926
00:42:56,760 --> 00:42:58,120
He has.
927
00:42:58,160 --> 00:43:00,040
And do you think
that's where, maybe,
928
00:43:00,080 --> 00:43:02,880
his confidence has taken
a little bit of a... beating?
929
00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:04,680
Um, yeah. For sure.
930
00:43:04,720 --> 00:43:06,600
So I'm hoping he reads this
and he...
931
00:43:07,440 --> 00:43:10,360
you know, just gets a bit confident
and just sticks to his guns,
932
00:43:10,400 --> 00:43:12,800
'cause I know if he does that,
he'll be perfectly fine.
933
00:43:12,840 --> 00:43:15,560
I just want him to, you know,
up his game
934
00:43:15,600 --> 00:43:17,160
and really go for it,
935
00:43:17,200 --> 00:43:19,320
because I really want him
and Michelle to work out.
936
00:43:20,680 --> 00:43:24,640
KATE: Back at the retreat,
confidence expert Anthony Ikin
937
00:43:24,680 --> 00:43:27,120
is charged with delivering
the kids',
938
00:43:27,160 --> 00:43:30,440
I mean the dating consultants',
secret messages.
939
00:43:31,160 --> 00:43:35,440
Today is all about self-confidence
and self-love.
940
00:43:35,480 --> 00:43:38,160
There's a real power
in vulnerability.
941
00:43:39,360 --> 00:43:41,160
The more you open up,
942
00:43:41,200 --> 00:43:43,520
the better the results you will get
out of this session.
943
00:43:44,680 --> 00:43:48,080
I'm gonna pass out one word
to each of you.
944
00:43:48,880 --> 00:43:52,280
Just share what that one word
means to you.
945
00:43:53,800 --> 00:43:55,920
Michelle, I'm gonna start with you.
946
00:43:55,960 --> 00:43:57,680
(LAUGHS)
Whoo!
947
00:43:58,640 --> 00:44:00,400
Thanks, Babe.
(ANTHONY LAUGHS)
948
00:44:01,720 --> 00:44:04,360
So, my word is 'grounded'.
949
00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:09,800
And I believe, for me,
that I am grounded.
950
00:44:09,840 --> 00:44:11,440
Yes, you are.
951
00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:13,720
I think it's took to be on my own
952
00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:17,840
to realise I have got
good things about me.
953
00:44:17,880 --> 00:44:19,360
(APPLAUSE)
954
00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:22,280
Are you willing to share
those great things about yourself?
955
00:44:22,320 --> 00:44:24,160
Yeah, absolutely.
I've got loads to give.
956
00:44:24,200 --> 00:44:25,680
A hundred million percent.
957
00:44:25,720 --> 00:44:28,360
So, whoever gets me
is a lucky guy.
958
00:44:29,560 --> 00:44:30,640
I agree.
959
00:44:32,320 --> 00:44:33,760
Grounded.
960
00:44:33,800 --> 00:44:35,360
Stay with what you're doing.
961
00:44:35,400 --> 00:44:38,320
Stay grounded and stay who you are
and keep going, Mum.
962
00:44:38,360 --> 00:44:40,000
Know your worth, babe.
963
00:44:41,240 --> 00:44:43,480
My message is 'depth'
964
00:44:43,520 --> 00:44:47,600
and that's probably the last thing
that my daughter said to me.
965
00:44:48,640 --> 00:44:51,680
It was more looking for
deeper connections.
966
00:44:51,720 --> 00:44:53,120
And she said, delve deeper.
967
00:44:53,160 --> 00:44:55,040
Feel deeper feelings.
968
00:44:55,080 --> 00:44:58,240
You know, just take it to that
extra level in meeting people,
969
00:44:58,280 --> 00:45:00,160
understanding people,
understanding their feelings.
970
00:45:01,360 --> 00:45:02,680
I think he immediately caught on.
971
00:45:02,720 --> 00:45:05,280
He definitely understood that
972
00:45:05,320 --> 00:45:07,920
it's a word that he's constantly
growing towards.
973
00:45:07,960 --> 00:45:10,200
My word, 'brave'.
974
00:45:11,320 --> 00:45:16,560
For me, bravery is knowing that
it's scary but doing it anyway.
975
00:45:16,600 --> 00:45:17,800
ANTHONY: Mmm.
976
00:45:17,840 --> 00:45:20,640
I had a high school sweetheart
977
00:45:20,680 --> 00:45:22,800
that I thought I was going to
live forever with.
978
00:45:22,840 --> 00:45:24,240
Had two beautiful kids.
979
00:45:25,680 --> 00:45:27,960
And that failed.
980
00:45:30,280 --> 00:45:32,640
And that was the end of the world
for me
981
00:45:32,680 --> 00:45:35,520
so I never thought I could
ever like,
982
00:45:35,560 --> 00:45:39,720
even survive not having my kids
with me 24 hours a day,
983
00:45:39,760 --> 00:45:41,640
let alone...
984
00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:44,200
(SHANE GETS EMOTIONAL)
985
00:45:47,280 --> 00:45:50,920
Yeah, let alone finding love again
986
00:45:51,960 --> 00:45:55,720
or believing in happiness again.
987
00:45:59,160 --> 00:46:03,680
I love this word because I am brave
and I'll continue to be brave.
988
00:46:03,720 --> 00:46:06,480
ANTHONY: Yes! That's incredible.
989
00:46:08,080 --> 00:46:10,120
That was so beautifully said.
990
00:46:10,160 --> 00:46:13,520
When I heard my dad expressing
what brave meant to him,
991
00:46:13,560 --> 00:46:16,240
it was just very special.
992
00:46:16,280 --> 00:46:19,200
Having to leave his children,
993
00:46:19,240 --> 00:46:22,080
he didn't know how he would be
able to cope.
994
00:46:22,120 --> 00:46:24,640
He didn't know that he would find
love again.
995
00:46:24,680 --> 00:46:27,760
And for me, I just know that he
can take on anything.
996
00:46:27,800 --> 00:46:30,840
He's the most incredible human being
I've ever met.
997
00:46:32,120 --> 00:46:33,360
(SIGHS)
998
00:46:35,400 --> 00:46:36,800
'Connection'.
999
00:46:38,920 --> 00:46:40,960
What that means?
Mmm.
1000
00:46:41,000 --> 00:46:42,680
Connecting with Roe.
1001
00:46:42,720 --> 00:46:44,120
Yeah?
Yeah.
1002
00:46:45,040 --> 00:46:46,840
And how has that been for you
so far?
1003
00:46:46,880 --> 00:46:48,480
Fantastic.
1004
00:46:49,800 --> 00:46:51,920
Do you think connection's
been missing from your life?
1005
00:46:51,960 --> 00:46:53,480
A hundred percent.
1006
00:46:53,520 --> 00:46:54,840
How long for?
1007
00:46:54,880 --> 00:46:58,200
Twenty-one years. God.
(SOBS)
1008
00:46:58,240 --> 00:47:00,720
You know, it's nice to have someone
1009
00:47:00,760 --> 00:47:03,040
just even take time to
get to know you.
1010
00:47:05,520 --> 00:47:09,080
What people don't know about my
mum is even though she has a loud
1011
00:47:09,120 --> 00:47:11,840
and vivacious exterior,
1012
00:47:11,880 --> 00:47:15,480
she's a big softy and
quite vulnerable on the inside.
1013
00:47:15,520 --> 00:47:18,120
Being Lebanese so,
I came from a strict family.
1014
00:47:18,160 --> 00:47:19,240
Mmm?
1015
00:47:19,280 --> 00:47:21,360
And I was in a relationship
for nine years
1016
00:47:21,400 --> 00:47:24,680
and then to fall pregnant
and then he just walked out.
1017
00:47:24,720 --> 00:47:29,960
My sort of culture which is a no-no
to have a child without a wedlock.
1018
00:47:30,000 --> 00:47:32,480
So, I was called every name
under the sun.
1019
00:47:34,960 --> 00:47:37,240
And then I had to deal with
my mother saying,
1020
00:47:37,280 --> 00:47:39,760
(BITTER, CONDESCENDING TONE)
"You see what you've done?"
1021
00:47:39,800 --> 00:47:42,240
It actually shattered me
as a person.
1022
00:47:43,080 --> 00:47:47,320
But then there's a child here
that needed to be cared for so...
1023
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:50,680
For me it's been a gift
and my daughter is my life.
1024
00:47:50,720 --> 00:47:51,760
Yes.
1025
00:47:51,800 --> 00:47:53,600
And I'm very proud of that.
Yep.
1026
00:47:53,640 --> 00:47:55,840
I got emotional because yeah,
1027
00:47:55,880 --> 00:47:59,320
I tapped into my past
and my vulnerability.
1028
00:47:59,360 --> 00:48:01,480
I just put it all on the line.
1029
00:48:01,520 --> 00:48:02,960
I wanna just connect.
1030
00:48:03,000 --> 00:48:05,040
I wanna really see what it's like
1031
00:48:05,080 --> 00:48:09,680
for me to just focus a little bit
on myself, on my personal needs.
1032
00:48:09,720 --> 00:48:11,600
Put your arm around her.
1033
00:48:13,200 --> 00:48:16,640
Now you've made me cry and I don't
have any waterproof mascara on.
1034
00:48:16,680 --> 00:48:18,600
(LAUGHTER)
1035
00:48:22,720 --> 00:48:26,240
What's it like for you to have
connection with new people?
1036
00:48:26,280 --> 00:48:29,920
I love how they accept me
for who I am and how I am.
1037
00:48:29,960 --> 00:48:33,240
Even though I'm loud and out there.
1038
00:48:34,680 --> 00:48:38,120
That's all I've ever wanted
is just to be accepted for who I am.
1039
00:48:38,160 --> 00:48:40,520
And that's real connection.
Yes.
1040
00:48:41,480 --> 00:48:48,000
# I'm finding a place
that warms my heart again... #
1041
00:48:48,040 --> 00:48:50,440
Not alright.
Not alright.
1042
00:48:50,480 --> 00:48:51,840
Anyway.
1043
00:48:51,880 --> 00:48:54,200
Thank you for sharing that.
My pleasure.
1044
00:48:55,200 --> 00:48:56,760
In the group session, Carole,
1045
00:48:56,800 --> 00:49:00,560
what she went through and she
had to find a strength and power.
1046
00:49:00,600 --> 00:49:03,040
I really appreciate her for that.
I really do.
1047
00:49:03,080 --> 00:49:06,840
You know, I felt like that was
a starting point to
1048
00:49:06,880 --> 00:49:11,200
getting to know her better
on another level, emotionally.
1049
00:49:11,240 --> 00:49:12,840
And that's what I'm looking for.
1050
00:49:12,880 --> 00:49:14,760
More of an emotional connection
with Carole.
1051
00:49:16,440 --> 00:49:17,640
KATE: Next...
1052
00:49:17,680 --> 00:49:20,000
Mel inches closer to trust.
1053
00:49:20,600 --> 00:49:23,600
When you walked in I thought,
oh, he sounds nice.
1054
00:49:23,640 --> 00:49:25,960
We've only known each other
a short time but you're authentic.
1055
00:49:26,880 --> 00:49:28,640
You've got a nice smile.
Really?
1056
00:49:28,680 --> 00:49:29,920
Yeah, of course.
1057
00:49:29,960 --> 00:49:32,000
And later...
They're playing truth or dare.
1058
00:49:32,600 --> 00:49:33,800
(GASPS)
(BLEEP)
1059
00:49:33,840 --> 00:49:35,480
..dangerous games.
1060
00:49:35,520 --> 00:49:37,280
I'll swap anything to answer
this question.
1061
00:49:37,320 --> 00:49:39,200
No! You tell us what it is.
1062
00:49:39,240 --> 00:49:40,440
Oh, no.
1063
00:49:46,760 --> 00:49:48,240
KATE: At the retreat,
1064
00:49:48,280 --> 00:49:51,560
our parents are halfway through
a confidence workshop.
1065
00:49:52,320 --> 00:49:54,200
Intuition.
1066
00:49:55,240 --> 00:49:58,480
ANTHONY: What does your intuition
tell you right now?
1067
00:49:58,520 --> 00:50:01,440
To allow myself to have fun
meeting new people.
1068
00:50:01,480 --> 00:50:02,720
Yeah?
1069
00:50:02,760 --> 00:50:04,120
Yeah, my bro.
1070
00:50:04,960 --> 00:50:08,360
KATE: But what their intuition
isn't telling them
1071
00:50:08,400 --> 00:50:10,240
is the words they're receiving
1072
00:50:10,280 --> 00:50:14,560
are actually secret messages
from their kids.
1073
00:50:15,680 --> 00:50:18,240
'Confidence.' Um...
1074
00:50:19,280 --> 00:50:20,960
Confidence. Yeah, I guess...
1075
00:50:22,600 --> 00:50:28,480
Yeah no, I think you know, I'm
confident in what I do when I work.
1076
00:50:29,720 --> 00:50:33,320
Just gotta have the confidence to
move forward
1077
00:50:33,360 --> 00:50:36,920
and find a person to form
a relationship with.
1078
00:50:36,960 --> 00:50:39,320
What's the confidence like for you
1079
00:50:39,360 --> 00:50:41,840
in the space of a relationship
right now?
1080
00:50:43,200 --> 00:50:45,200
I think...
1081
00:50:45,240 --> 00:50:49,240
I guess I lack it in the sense of,
you know,
1082
00:50:49,280 --> 00:50:51,360
a bit like the trust issue
and the second-guessing.
1083
00:50:51,400 --> 00:50:54,480
My mind is my worst enemy.
1084
00:50:54,520 --> 00:50:56,480
I overthink things.
Yeah.
1085
00:50:57,440 --> 00:50:59,560
Confidence shouldn't be
in what you do.
1086
00:51:01,080 --> 00:51:04,880
It's in who you are and the
relationship you have with yourself.
1087
00:51:04,920 --> 00:51:06,280
Yeah.
1088
00:51:06,920 --> 00:51:08,960
Aw. Go Heath.
1089
00:51:09,000 --> 00:51:10,600
How does that make you feel?
Good.
1090
00:51:10,640 --> 00:51:11,760
Yeah?
1091
00:51:11,800 --> 00:51:14,880
Watching Dad read out the word that
I gave him which was 'confidence'
1092
00:51:14,920 --> 00:51:16,080
was really good.
1093
00:51:17,080 --> 00:51:20,360
I'm just hoping that he just starts
to believe in himself
1094
00:51:20,400 --> 00:51:21,680
because I know he's got it in him.
1095
00:51:23,880 --> 00:51:26,640
ANTHONY: Mel.
Of course.
1096
00:51:26,680 --> 00:51:28,360
What's your word?
Trust.
1097
00:51:29,200 --> 00:51:30,760
(SNIFFS)
Aw!
1098
00:51:30,800 --> 00:51:32,840
What does that mean to you?
1099
00:51:35,240 --> 00:51:37,400
For me it's very hard to
trust someone
1100
00:51:37,440 --> 00:51:39,320
because that trust was broken.
1101
00:51:40,560 --> 00:51:42,400
Do you want to trust?
I do.
1102
00:51:43,160 --> 00:51:44,960
Do you know how to trust?
1103
00:51:48,240 --> 00:51:50,440
I'm OK. It's just hard.
1104
00:51:52,000 --> 00:51:53,560
ANTHONY: The only way to get it back
1105
00:51:53,600 --> 00:51:55,840
is to be back in the game
of trusting.
1106
00:51:55,880 --> 00:51:58,640
I just don't want to
get hurt again.
1107
00:51:58,680 --> 00:52:02,520
ANTHONY: That circumstance doesn't
have to replay itself over again.
1108
00:52:03,720 --> 00:52:06,080
It's not the playbook
for the rest of your life.
1109
00:52:07,160 --> 00:52:09,200
She does get very emotional.
1110
00:52:09,240 --> 00:52:12,600
And I got really emotional watching
it but I kept it together.
1111
00:52:13,640 --> 00:52:15,800
ANTHONY: Are you willing to
trust again?
1112
00:52:15,840 --> 00:52:17,680
Yep. Yep.
1113
00:52:18,880 --> 00:52:21,240
At first my impressions of Mel
1114
00:52:21,280 --> 00:52:23,320
I thought she was
extremely sensitive.
1115
00:52:24,120 --> 00:52:25,800
A bit afraid of everything.
1116
00:52:25,840 --> 00:52:28,680
But she's
in touch with her feelings
1117
00:52:28,720 --> 00:52:30,320
and that's a beautiful trait.
1118
00:52:31,200 --> 00:52:34,840
I think the counsellor's doing
an amazing job by like, you know,
1119
00:52:34,880 --> 00:52:36,160
reassuring all our parents.
1120
00:52:36,200 --> 00:52:37,360
Yeah.
1121
00:52:37,400 --> 00:52:40,000
The word 'trust' felt good.
1122
00:52:40,040 --> 00:52:45,680
I felt like yeah, you know, there
is a light at the end of the tunnel.
1123
00:52:47,040 --> 00:52:48,840
TESS: I think we all nailed
the words.
1124
00:52:48,880 --> 00:52:52,600
I think every word kind of resonated
individually with each parent
1125
00:52:52,640 --> 00:52:53,800
really well.
1126
00:52:53,840 --> 00:52:56,520
And you all should be so proud
of your parents for doing that
1127
00:52:56,560 --> 00:52:59,040
in front of, literally, strangers.
1128
00:52:59,080 --> 00:53:02,240
So, I think it's a proud moment.
Yeah.
1129
00:53:05,640 --> 00:53:08,680
KATE: Inspired by his newfound
confidence, Heath
1130
00:53:08,720 --> 00:53:12,880
kicks off his plan to beat Neil
in the race for Michelle's heart.
1131
00:53:14,400 --> 00:53:16,240
I don't want to leave this retreat
1132
00:53:17,400 --> 00:53:20,280
without knowing why I came here
to make that effort.
1133
00:53:20,320 --> 00:53:21,440
I know my son
1134
00:53:21,480 --> 00:53:24,880
and he'd be extremely disappointed
if I just was closed off
1135
00:53:24,920 --> 00:53:27,360
and not making an effort.
1136
00:53:28,720 --> 00:53:30,920
So far so good?
Yeah I am, actually.
1137
00:53:30,960 --> 00:53:32,120
It's beautiful.
Yeah?
1138
00:53:32,160 --> 00:53:33,880
If I was to take you out for dinner,
1139
00:53:33,920 --> 00:53:36,040
where would you expect me
to take you?
1140
00:53:36,080 --> 00:53:37,840
Do you take loads of girls
out on dates?
1141
00:53:37,880 --> 00:53:40,360
(LAUGHS)
1142
00:53:40,400 --> 00:53:41,720
No. Not at all.
1143
00:53:41,760 --> 00:53:43,600
Really?
No.
1144
00:53:43,640 --> 00:53:44,840
Mmm.
1145
00:53:44,880 --> 00:53:46,920
Do I come across
as that sort of person?
1146
00:53:46,960 --> 00:53:48,360
Don't know. I'm sussing you.
1147
00:53:48,400 --> 00:53:49,840
Sussing me out?
Yeah.
1148
00:53:50,440 --> 00:53:51,720
Yeah, my mum's straight up.
1149
00:53:52,440 --> 00:53:54,640
She wants to sniff the bullshit out.
1150
00:53:54,680 --> 00:53:57,120
Not that your dad has any bullshit
but, you know.
1151
00:53:57,160 --> 00:53:59,480
Can I ask you about what happened
with your ex?
1152
00:53:59,520 --> 00:54:01,040
Yeah.
1153
00:54:01,080 --> 00:54:03,920
The relationship fell apart
when I was 40.
1154
00:54:04,600 --> 00:54:06,520
She played up with my best mate.
1155
00:54:07,440 --> 00:54:09,920
(SOMBRE MUSIC)
1156
00:54:09,960 --> 00:54:11,960
Like, that was what it was over?
Yeah.
1157
00:54:12,000 --> 00:54:15,200
You didn't see it coming?
No. Hit me for six.
1158
00:54:15,240 --> 00:54:17,400
Yeah. I was quite shocked by it all.
1159
00:54:18,040 --> 00:54:19,680
That's crap.
1160
00:54:19,720 --> 00:54:24,040
It all sort of come to a head
six years later.
1161
00:54:24,080 --> 00:54:28,720
And I was sort of, Mister
Mum-and-Dad for... ever since.
1162
00:54:28,760 --> 00:54:30,000
I still am.
1163
00:54:30,040 --> 00:54:32,200
Which is sad in a sense because
I feel like I've failed.
1164
00:54:32,240 --> 00:54:35,040
Did I do something wrong.
Not at all.
1165
00:54:35,080 --> 00:54:38,320
I feel like this has been such
a massive eye-opener about your dad.
1166
00:54:38,360 --> 00:54:40,480
HAYDN: Mmm. It gives an insight
into how he is.
1167
00:54:40,520 --> 00:54:41,680
Yeah, massively.
1168
00:54:41,720 --> 00:54:43,040
He's a good man.
1169
00:54:43,080 --> 00:54:47,040
I was quite dependent on my partner.
1170
00:54:49,520 --> 00:54:51,080
Yeah, OK.
1171
00:54:51,120 --> 00:54:52,880
And then he went and cheated on me.
1172
00:54:52,920 --> 00:54:55,920
(SOMBRE MUSIC)
1173
00:54:57,400 --> 00:54:59,320
That was just the final straw for me
1174
00:54:59,360 --> 00:55:01,240
and I think when somebody
actually does that to you
1175
00:55:01,280 --> 00:55:02,920
then that's it,
there's no going back.
1176
00:55:03,920 --> 00:55:06,800
It's not good feeling, is it?
No.
1177
00:55:06,840 --> 00:55:09,600
It's took me this time
just to sort of figure me out
1178
00:55:09,640 --> 00:55:12,280
and sort myself out, you know?
1179
00:55:12,320 --> 00:55:14,040
I've learnt so much.
Yeah.
1180
00:55:14,800 --> 00:55:16,280
And it makes you grow.
1181
00:55:16,920 --> 00:55:22,360
I think Heath and my mum needed to
get out, away from the whole group.
1182
00:55:23,040 --> 00:55:24,720
That one-on-one time,
1183
00:55:24,760 --> 00:55:28,960
that was amazing 'cause I just think
it's gonna bring them a bit closer.
1184
00:55:29,600 --> 00:55:31,800
So, here in the retreat...
Yeah?
1185
00:55:31,840 --> 00:55:34,360
What do you think you're gonna
get from it?
1186
00:55:34,400 --> 00:55:39,800
Like, just try and get to
know somebody like, in here.
1187
00:55:39,840 --> 00:55:41,840
Yeah.
Do you know what I mean?
1188
00:55:42,880 --> 00:55:44,600
Someone a bit more genuine.
1189
00:55:44,640 --> 00:55:45,840
And there ain't many.
1190
00:55:45,880 --> 00:55:47,840
Maybe you're looking
in the wrong spot.
1191
00:55:49,960 --> 00:55:51,640
Definitely. I reckon.
1192
00:55:51,680 --> 00:55:53,280
(GASPS)
(LITTLE CHUCKLE)
1193
00:55:54,640 --> 00:55:56,600
I like him. He doesn't play games.
1194
00:55:56,640 --> 00:55:58,960
There's more to learn
about each other but...
1195
00:55:59,000 --> 00:56:00,120
Mmm.
1196
00:56:00,160 --> 00:56:02,840
You need to talk to the other guys,
get to know them.
1197
00:56:02,880 --> 00:56:05,080
And you should talk to the girls
as well.
1198
00:56:05,120 --> 00:56:06,720
I've spoken to most of them.
All of them.
1199
00:56:06,760 --> 00:56:07,960
And?
1200
00:56:08,000 --> 00:56:10,280
There's no connections there
with anyone else.
1201
00:56:10,320 --> 00:56:12,080
"Anyone else"?
1202
00:56:12,120 --> 00:56:13,880
Apart from you.
1203
00:56:16,640 --> 00:56:18,640
Major hints have been dropped.
HAYDN: Yeah.
1204
00:56:18,680 --> 00:56:21,520
Your dad just finished
that whole conversation with,
1205
00:56:21,560 --> 00:56:25,160
I do not have another connection
other than with me and you.
1206
00:56:25,200 --> 00:56:27,480
That is a big green flag.
Yeah.
1207
00:56:27,520 --> 00:56:29,360
(LAUGHS)
He's put it out there.
1208
00:56:30,360 --> 00:56:32,840
Like, he's almost laid his heart
on the table, hasn't he?
1209
00:56:32,880 --> 00:56:33,920
Big time.
1210
00:56:33,960 --> 00:56:36,080
Heath is just wanting to get going
1211
00:56:36,120 --> 00:56:38,520
and I don't think my mum
should be scared of that.
1212
00:56:38,560 --> 00:56:39,920
He's not messing around.
1213
00:56:39,960 --> 00:56:43,680
There's no games involved in this
so it's raw and it's real.
1214
00:56:45,400 --> 00:56:47,800
# Can we dance together one time
1215
00:56:49,240 --> 00:56:51,200
# Would you like to be
my friend?... #
1216
00:56:52,160 --> 00:56:54,160
KATE: The retreat
is tailor-made for
1217
00:56:54,200 --> 00:56:57,240
single parents
willing to break old habits.
1218
00:56:58,640 --> 00:57:04,040
The workshop felt good because
I've learnt to trust myself
1219
00:57:04,080 --> 00:57:08,960
and then I'll be able to trust
the next person that comes along.
1220
00:57:10,040 --> 00:57:12,920
So, Mel's taking matters
into her own hands
1221
00:57:12,960 --> 00:57:15,360
and inviting Tim for a walk.
1222
00:57:15,400 --> 00:57:17,880
It was nice chatting this morning.
Yeah, it was nice.
1223
00:57:17,920 --> 00:57:20,120
Just off the cuff, you know?
Yeah.
1224
00:57:20,160 --> 00:57:23,040
You're easy to talk to.
You think so?
1225
00:57:23,080 --> 00:57:24,800
Yeah, I think so.
Oh, that's nice.
1226
00:57:24,840 --> 00:57:26,440
Do you wanna take a seat or...?
Yep. OK.
1227
00:57:26,480 --> 00:57:27,480
OK.
1228
00:57:27,520 --> 00:57:29,320
I don't know why
I've got nerves. Like, I'm...
1229
00:57:29,360 --> 00:57:32,160
You're nervous for them.
I'm nervous for them.
1230
00:57:33,960 --> 00:57:35,800
So, I was married for 28 years.
1231
00:57:35,840 --> 00:57:37,720
My marriage wasn't that fantastic.
1232
00:57:38,800 --> 00:57:42,040
In his eyes, you know, I had it
easy, had everything. You know.
1233
00:57:42,080 --> 00:57:45,400
I had the beautiful home, the kids,
everything but...
1234
00:57:45,440 --> 00:57:48,840
The white picket fairytale.
Yep.
1235
00:57:48,880 --> 00:57:51,080
White picket fence fairytale, right?
Yep, had all that.
1236
00:57:51,120 --> 00:57:57,080
But for me it was just living,
you know, just...
1237
00:57:57,120 --> 00:57:58,600
Day to day.
Yeah.
1238
00:57:58,640 --> 00:58:00,960
Mmm. For the kids.
Yeah.
1239
00:58:01,000 --> 00:58:06,640
I didn't have the respect and,
you know...
1240
00:58:07,640 --> 00:58:09,880
It's hard because...
1241
00:58:09,920 --> 00:58:13,880
when your husband just says to you
"Oh, get over it.
1242
00:58:13,920 --> 00:58:16,200
"There's other people
worse off than you.
1243
00:58:16,240 --> 00:58:17,440
"What's your problem?"
1244
00:58:17,480 --> 00:58:18,640
You know?
Mmm.
1245
00:58:18,680 --> 00:58:20,560
"You've got it easy."
1246
00:58:21,680 --> 00:58:25,640
But the fact that you talk about it
and acknowledge it, that's awesome.
1247
00:58:25,680 --> 00:58:28,480
Yeah but a lot of people
don't wanna to hear it.
1248
00:58:28,520 --> 00:58:30,000
I do.
Yeah. Thank you.
1249
00:58:32,320 --> 00:58:37,880
I feel comfortable talking to Tim
'cause he's calm and genuine.
1250
00:58:38,800 --> 00:58:45,680
The way he talks to you, the way
he makes effort to get to know you.
1251
00:58:45,720 --> 00:58:48,440
For what it's worth, you know,
1252
00:58:48,480 --> 00:58:50,160
we've only known each other
a short time
1253
00:58:50,200 --> 00:58:52,360
but you're very open and honest
to talk about it.
1254
00:58:52,400 --> 00:58:53,640
OK. Yeah.
1255
00:58:53,680 --> 00:58:56,720
And I think that's sometimes
difficult but you're authentic.
1256
00:58:57,480 --> 00:58:59,280
Really?
Yeah, of course.
1257
00:58:59,320 --> 00:59:01,240
You've got a nice smile. You know.
1258
00:59:03,920 --> 00:59:05,480
Mel's a beautiful woman.
1259
00:59:05,520 --> 00:59:07,600
She really opened up.
1260
00:59:07,640 --> 00:59:08,800
And that's what I like.
1261
00:59:08,840 --> 00:59:10,520
People are genuine and real
and that's...
1262
00:59:10,560 --> 00:59:12,040
Don't hold it in.
1263
00:59:12,080 --> 00:59:14,120
And that's what I love about Mel.
1264
00:59:14,160 --> 00:59:17,040
I don't have any concerns with Tim.
1265
00:59:17,080 --> 00:59:19,880
I think he's being you know,
really respectful,
1266
00:59:19,920 --> 00:59:23,640
gentleman-like,
and nice to my mum.
1267
00:59:23,680 --> 00:59:27,720
I think I'm just grateful to see
the evolution of my mother from the
1268
00:59:27,760 --> 00:59:31,360
moment she walked into the retreat
to where she is now, you know.
1269
00:59:31,400 --> 00:59:32,600
And I feel like
1270
00:59:32,640 --> 00:59:34,840
she's gonna walk out of this
a completely different person.
1271
00:59:34,880 --> 00:59:40,000
You can talk to a total stranger
you've known for less than 24 hours.
1272
00:59:40,040 --> 00:59:42,120
Well, there you go.
You know, I think...
1273
00:59:42,160 --> 00:59:45,200
When you walked in I thought oh,
he sounds nice.
1274
00:59:45,760 --> 00:59:47,560
That was a great interaction.
1275
00:59:47,600 --> 00:59:49,320
It felt very natural.
Yep.
1276
00:59:49,360 --> 00:59:51,600
Mel is a lovely, lovely woman.
1277
00:59:51,640 --> 00:59:55,640
She's very genuine and that's
exactly what my dad is looking for.
1278
00:59:57,120 --> 00:59:59,480
I really think that they do have,
you know, that
1279
00:59:59,520 --> 01:00:04,480
connection through personality and
values and all that sort of stuff.
1280
01:00:05,160 --> 01:00:06,680
He seems really gentle.
1281
01:00:08,280 --> 01:00:11,880
We've sort of clicked,
which is nice.
1282
01:00:14,400 --> 01:00:15,520
KATE: Next...
1283
01:00:15,560 --> 01:00:17,200
Is it romance?
1284
01:00:19,880 --> 01:00:22,640
Or is it pure cringe?
1285
01:00:24,360 --> 01:00:26,560
(BLEEP)
Oh, no.
1286
01:00:26,600 --> 01:00:30,680
What's the biggest age gap
you have ever had?
1287
01:00:30,720 --> 01:00:31,840
Oh, no.
1288
01:00:32,680 --> 01:00:33,920
Oh, my gosh.
1289
01:00:42,880 --> 01:00:44,280
KATE: Back in the '80s
1290
01:00:44,320 --> 01:00:48,320
when our single parents were greener
than the gardens of the retreat,
1291
01:00:48,360 --> 01:00:50,680
locking eyes with a love interest
1292
01:00:50,720 --> 01:00:53,240
would have sent their hormones
into a frenzy...
1293
01:00:53,280 --> 01:00:55,640
Oh! New message.
1294
01:00:55,680 --> 01:00:58,040
..so I've decided to
wind back the clock
1295
01:00:58,080 --> 01:01:02,720
with some fun and games to get
those chemicals racing again.
1296
01:01:02,760 --> 01:01:05,680
"Singles, get ready to party."
1297
01:01:05,720 --> 01:01:06,920
Yay!
1298
01:01:07,760 --> 01:01:10,440
"It's '80s Prom night."
1299
01:01:10,480 --> 01:01:12,160
Whoo!
(LAUGHTER)
1300
01:01:12,200 --> 01:01:15,040
Am I gonna be Prom Queen?
'80s Prom night.
1301
01:01:15,080 --> 01:01:16,360
'80s.
1302
01:01:16,400 --> 01:01:17,840
Oh!
1303
01:01:18,480 --> 01:01:19,960
Fancy dress.
1304
01:01:21,000 --> 01:01:22,360
This is amazing!
1305
01:01:22,400 --> 01:01:24,840
(ELECTRONIC DANCE MUSIC)
1306
01:01:24,880 --> 01:01:27,120
The '80s night
is an awesome adventure.
1307
01:01:27,160 --> 01:01:28,560
(SINGS) # You are the one... #
1308
01:01:28,600 --> 01:01:30,720
Yeah, that looks cute on you.
Really?
1309
01:01:30,760 --> 01:01:32,840
I lived my teenage years
through the '80s.
1310
01:01:32,880 --> 01:01:34,040
We've got a crimper.
1311
01:01:34,080 --> 01:01:36,000
So it didn't come as any challenge
1312
01:01:36,040 --> 01:01:41,040
to get dressed up and put the beads
on and do the ponytail on the side.
1313
01:01:41,080 --> 01:01:44,160
And it was so nice to see everyone
else really rocking it.
1314
01:01:44,200 --> 01:01:45,920
Oh, here comes Sandy.
1315
01:01:48,760 --> 01:01:51,360
My mum looks like she just stepped
out of the movie 'Grease'.
1316
01:01:52,800 --> 01:01:54,320
Yeah, she was
just absolutely gorgeous.
1317
01:01:54,360 --> 01:01:56,920
Tell me about it, stud.
(LAUGHTER)
1318
01:01:58,080 --> 01:02:00,040
You want to make them look,
the guys.
1319
01:02:00,080 --> 01:02:02,520
You need that
little bit of sass.
1320
01:02:02,560 --> 01:02:05,080
You look very beautiful.
Thank you.
1321
01:02:05,120 --> 01:02:08,360
The attention that he's giving me
is unbelievable.
1322
01:02:08,400 --> 01:02:09,720
I like that.
1323
01:02:09,760 --> 01:02:11,240
GIRL: The way that Heath
looks at Michelle.
1324
01:02:11,280 --> 01:02:12,480
I know.
1325
01:02:13,880 --> 01:02:16,960
KATE: And what better way
to fan the flames of desire...
1326
01:02:17,000 --> 01:02:18,640
They're playing Truth Or Dare.
No.
1327
01:02:18,680 --> 01:02:20,280
Oh, no.
No way.
1328
01:02:20,320 --> 01:02:22,680
KATE: ..than with a game
of Truth Or Dare.
1329
01:02:22,720 --> 01:02:24,280
(LAUGHS)
1330
01:02:25,040 --> 01:02:26,680
That little laugh.
1331
01:02:26,720 --> 01:02:29,120
I don't think I wanna watch that.
That's where we draw the line.
1332
01:02:31,960 --> 01:02:34,640
"Is your latest crush
better than your previous crush?"
1333
01:02:35,320 --> 01:02:36,680
Wow.
1334
01:02:37,560 --> 01:02:39,520
Wow, now I'm really thinking about
this one.
1335
01:02:39,560 --> 01:02:41,840
Yeah, he could be.
1336
01:02:41,880 --> 01:02:43,240
Could be?
Yeah, he could be.
1337
01:02:43,280 --> 01:02:44,480
Oh!
1338
01:02:44,520 --> 01:02:46,000
And who is it?
1339
01:02:47,440 --> 01:02:49,080
I can't tell you.
1340
01:02:49,120 --> 01:02:51,240
I'm keeping this.
1341
01:02:51,280 --> 01:02:52,480
I like that.
1342
01:02:52,520 --> 01:02:54,920
She's kind of given him an answer
and kind of kept it to herself.
1343
01:02:54,960 --> 01:02:56,600
Yeah.
Mysterious.
1344
01:02:57,360 --> 01:03:00,920
My mum is keeping her cards
quite close to chest.
1345
01:03:00,960 --> 01:03:02,440
Just let them graft
1346
01:03:02,480 --> 01:03:05,400
and I'll just sit back and watch,
watch this space.
1347
01:03:07,720 --> 01:03:09,000
Truth.
1348
01:03:09,040 --> 01:03:12,320
Who was the first person you were
attracted to first in the retreat?
1349
01:03:14,280 --> 01:03:15,880
Ooh!
1350
01:03:17,320 --> 01:03:18,840
Darren, sit down!
1351
01:03:19,760 --> 01:03:22,040
I'll show you.
Oh!
1352
01:03:23,760 --> 01:03:26,760
(EVERYONE SQUEALS)
1353
01:03:27,640 --> 01:03:28,640
Oh, my gosh!
1354
01:03:28,680 --> 01:03:30,120
That was a kiss and a half.
Wow.
1355
01:03:30,160 --> 01:03:31,680
(BLEEP) hell!
1356
01:03:31,720 --> 01:03:34,720
I feel like we're all blushing.
We are.
1357
01:03:35,600 --> 01:03:38,280
This has just escalated.
1358
01:03:42,160 --> 01:03:43,880
Oh, interesting.
1359
01:03:44,880 --> 01:03:46,600
How interesting is it?
1360
01:03:46,640 --> 01:03:49,800
KATE: No surprise,
Roe's taking his time with this one.
1361
01:03:49,840 --> 01:03:51,840
Why are you looking at me?
(LAUGHTER)
1362
01:03:51,880 --> 01:03:54,160
We will decide how interesting
it is.
1363
01:03:54,200 --> 01:03:55,240
(LAUGHS)
1364
01:03:55,280 --> 01:03:57,560
Cat gotcha tongue, bro?
Never that.
1365
01:03:57,600 --> 01:03:59,520
Never?
Never. Hold on for a second.
1366
01:03:59,560 --> 01:04:01,240
I love your dad's voice, eh.
1367
01:04:02,720 --> 01:04:04,880
It's mesmerising.
1368
01:04:05,800 --> 01:04:08,240
The suspense is building.
He didn't read it out.
1369
01:04:09,520 --> 01:04:11,120
He's eyeing the room.
1370
01:04:11,160 --> 01:04:12,240
(GASPS)
1371
01:04:12,280 --> 01:04:13,800
What is it?
1372
01:04:13,840 --> 01:04:15,560
I'm really nervous.
1373
01:04:23,200 --> 01:04:26,080
(GROANS OF EMBARRASSMENT
AND DISGUST)
1374
01:04:26,120 --> 01:04:28,080
(LAUGHTER)
1375
01:04:28,120 --> 01:04:29,800
What the actual...?
1376
01:04:29,840 --> 01:04:31,800
What does it say?
(INDISTINCT SPEECH)
1377
01:04:31,840 --> 01:04:33,160
(CHUCKLES)
1378
01:04:33,200 --> 01:04:35,080
(ROE SPEAKS INDISTINCTLY)
1379
01:04:39,360 --> 01:04:41,320
(ROE WHISPERS INDISTINCTLY)
1380
01:04:43,440 --> 01:04:44,680
There you go.
1381
01:04:50,640 --> 01:04:52,720
Oh, my god!
What was the dare?
1382
01:04:53,640 --> 01:04:56,760
"I dare you to try
your best dirty talk."
1383
01:04:57,920 --> 01:05:00,040
(EXHALES)
That was heavy.
1384
01:05:00,080 --> 01:05:03,240
So, I have got his voice,
his words are in there.
1385
01:05:03,280 --> 01:05:05,800
My hormones are just running.
1386
01:05:05,840 --> 01:05:08,520
I think my menopause
are going off, geez!
1387
01:05:08,560 --> 01:05:10,120
Yeah, I had to get in her ear
1388
01:05:10,160 --> 01:05:12,680
and let her know that she's
dealing with a grown ass man.
1389
01:05:16,080 --> 01:05:18,720
Yeah. Definitely feeling
the cringe factor.
1390
01:05:18,760 --> 01:05:20,520
I'm sorry.
(LAUGHTER)
1391
01:05:20,560 --> 01:05:22,800
I'm sorry. Oh!
1392
01:05:24,200 --> 01:05:26,400
Yeah. I have no comment.
1393
01:05:26,440 --> 01:05:28,760
You can't make this stuff up.
No way.
1394
01:05:31,360 --> 01:05:32,960
(EXHALES)
(BLEEP)
1395
01:05:33,800 --> 01:05:35,040
What?
1396
01:05:35,080 --> 01:05:37,280
Can I... I'll swap anything
to answer this question.
1397
01:05:37,320 --> 01:05:39,360
No! You tell us what it is.
1398
01:05:40,240 --> 01:05:41,720
Oh, no.
1399
01:05:42,600 --> 01:05:46,400
"What's the biggest age gap
you have ever had?"
1400
01:05:46,440 --> 01:05:48,640
(LAUGHTER)
1401
01:05:49,720 --> 01:05:53,480
Hey. And we know the answer.
(LAUGHS)
1402
01:05:53,520 --> 01:05:55,880
Oh, no.
Oh, no!
1403
01:05:56,800 --> 01:05:58,280
Oh, my gosh.
1404
01:05:59,400 --> 01:06:00,880
PETULA: I'm not sure
I wanna hear this.
1405
01:06:06,480 --> 01:06:10,080
KATE: At the retreat, Darren usually
loves nothing more than
1406
01:06:10,120 --> 01:06:13,560
telling everyone
about his dating history.
1407
01:06:13,600 --> 01:06:15,000
(BLEEP)
1408
01:06:15,040 --> 01:06:16,360
What?
1409
01:06:16,400 --> 01:06:18,080
Cat your tongue, Darren?
1410
01:06:18,120 --> 01:06:20,080
Oh, I'll swap anything to
answer this question.
1411
01:06:20,120 --> 01:06:21,960
No! You tell us what it is.
Go.
1412
01:06:22,000 --> 01:06:23,360
Oh, no.
1413
01:06:25,240 --> 01:06:29,000
"What's the biggest age gap
you have ever had?"
1414
01:06:30,160 --> 01:06:32,160
(LAUGHS)
Oh, my gosh!
1415
01:06:32,200 --> 01:06:34,840
Just tell us.
Hey. And we know the answer.
1416
01:06:35,720 --> 01:06:37,120
Tell me, what is it?
1417
01:06:37,680 --> 01:06:39,440
TESS: Tell me when it's over.
1418
01:06:39,480 --> 01:06:41,120
I'm feeling tired.
1419
01:06:41,160 --> 01:06:43,600
I think it's time for me to...
I'm old and...
1420
01:06:43,640 --> 01:06:45,640
Oh, my god!
1421
01:06:45,680 --> 01:06:47,840
Don't lie now.
No, he knows.
1422
01:06:47,880 --> 01:06:50,000
He's just trying to count to 47.
(LAUGHTER)
1423
01:06:53,480 --> 01:06:54,840
Thirty-four years.
1424
01:06:54,880 --> 01:06:56,960
How much?
Thirty-four years?
1425
01:06:57,000 --> 01:06:59,960
Oh, no.
Oh, my god!
1426
01:07:00,720 --> 01:07:04,120
PETULA: Darren's 56.
That means she was 22.
1427
01:07:04,160 --> 01:07:06,040
She's younger than his daughter.
1428
01:07:06,080 --> 01:07:07,640
What the (BLEEP) were you doing?
1429
01:07:08,480 --> 01:07:10,880
Was that a relationship or just...
No, I don't imagine it was.
1430
01:07:10,920 --> 01:07:12,520
OK.
1431
01:07:12,560 --> 01:07:15,440
He pulls out a couple of very
questionable Truth questions
1432
01:07:15,480 --> 01:07:18,040
which I regretfully overheard.
1433
01:07:19,600 --> 01:07:23,960
That I had to just pretend
I was in a safe place.
1434
01:07:24,960 --> 01:07:27,040
Anyway, thank you. Next.
1435
01:07:27,080 --> 01:07:29,240
You know, Darren is 56.
He's lived a life.
1436
01:07:29,280 --> 01:07:32,040
He shares the good, the bad,
and the ugly,
1437
01:07:32,080 --> 01:07:33,880
and that's what I like.
1438
01:07:35,720 --> 01:07:37,200
(EVERYONE GASPS)
1439
01:07:37,240 --> 01:07:38,640
(READS)
1440
01:07:47,080 --> 01:07:49,240
"Who do you choose?"
1441
01:07:49,280 --> 01:07:51,680
Whoo! Spice it up.
1442
01:07:51,720 --> 01:07:54,960
I vote Shane and Kristy.
1443
01:07:55,000 --> 01:07:57,480
I also vote Shane and Kristy.
I agree.
1444
01:07:57,520 --> 01:07:59,280
They haven't even had...
Yeah.
1445
01:07:59,320 --> 01:08:01,360
I think it's a pretty easy decision.
Yep.
1446
01:08:01,400 --> 01:08:03,320
Unanimous? Do we all vote...
Shane and Kristy.
1447
01:08:03,360 --> 01:08:05,200
Shane and Kristy.
1448
01:08:07,200 --> 01:08:08,840
Yay!
1449
01:08:12,160 --> 01:08:15,000
Oh, I'm scared that we're gonna
see sex on the TV.
1450
01:08:15,040 --> 01:08:16,680
(LAUGHTER)
1451
01:08:17,440 --> 01:08:19,080
OK so, you're next.
1452
01:08:19,120 --> 01:08:22,240
Ooh! New message!
1453
01:08:22,280 --> 01:08:24,000
Whoa!
1454
01:08:24,040 --> 01:08:26,040
"Singles, the dating consultants
1455
01:08:26,080 --> 01:08:30,760
"have crowned Shane and Kristy
Prom King and Queen.
1456
01:08:30,800 --> 01:08:32,520
"Congratulations.
1457
01:08:32,560 --> 01:08:34,960
"Tomorrow you'll be heading out
on a special date."
1458
01:08:35,000 --> 01:08:36,400
Aw!
1459
01:08:39,520 --> 01:08:40,960
Aw, yay.
1460
01:08:42,120 --> 01:08:44,960
Yay, Shane and Kristy. Whoo!
1461
01:08:46,440 --> 01:08:49,440
(CHEERING)
1462
01:08:51,360 --> 01:08:53,000
Aw!
1463
01:08:53,040 --> 01:08:54,840
She's so happy.
1464
01:08:55,880 --> 01:08:58,480
I came in here on this retreat
1465
01:08:58,520 --> 01:09:03,320
almost giving up on love and the
fact that I may be single forever.
1466
01:09:05,800 --> 01:09:08,360
So, to find a romantic connection
1467
01:09:08,400 --> 01:09:12,480
and then to be crowned Prom King
and Queen, it felt wonderful.
1468
01:09:12,520 --> 01:09:15,440
Because it shows everyone else
sees what we see in each other.
1469
01:09:17,040 --> 01:09:18,920
And this night is definitely
my turning moment
1470
01:09:18,960 --> 01:09:21,520
where I'm like,
I'm just having a blast.
1471
01:09:22,920 --> 01:09:25,600
And we actually feel like a couple.
1472
01:09:25,640 --> 01:09:27,080
My mum looks so happy.
1473
01:09:27,120 --> 01:09:30,200
I can seriously see them
falling in love now.
1474
01:09:31,440 --> 01:09:33,240
(DISCO MUSIC PLAYS)
1475
01:09:33,280 --> 01:09:36,120
KATE: With the Prom King and Queen
celebrating their win,
1476
01:09:36,160 --> 01:09:38,440
there's only one thing left to do.
1477
01:09:38,480 --> 01:09:40,120
Ready please, Mr Music.
1478
01:09:41,480 --> 01:09:44,400
..and that's fire up the pheromones.
1479
01:09:44,440 --> 01:09:46,400
I love the idea of dance
like no-one's watching.
1480
01:09:47,560 --> 01:09:49,760
I think most of the time when
you see me dancing,
1481
01:09:49,800 --> 01:09:51,120
that pretty much explains it.
1482
01:09:52,120 --> 01:09:54,400
Petula and Dad are quite magnetic.
1483
01:09:54,440 --> 01:09:56,320
Oh, they're very magnetic.
1484
01:09:56,360 --> 01:09:57,920
They're like
old high school sweethearts.
1485
01:09:57,960 --> 01:09:59,160
Yeah, right?
1486
01:09:59,200 --> 01:10:04,080
I definitely think a spark's been
solidified between Petula and Dad.
1487
01:10:04,120 --> 01:10:07,680
Now he can swoon Petula
with some romantic moves.
1488
01:10:09,920 --> 01:10:12,200
Oh, no. Oh, no.
I'm feeling something coming on.
1489
01:10:12,240 --> 01:10:14,360
What? No.
Dad's party trick.
1490
01:10:14,400 --> 01:10:16,960
I can almost sense it
in Dad's moves
1491
01:10:17,000 --> 01:10:18,960
that his party trick's
about to come out.
1492
01:10:19,000 --> 01:10:21,000
I can see the twinkle in his eye.
1493
01:10:21,040 --> 01:10:23,520
Of course he loves to
entertain a crowd
1494
01:10:23,560 --> 01:10:24,760
so it was only a matter of time.
1495
01:10:24,800 --> 01:10:26,480
Michelle, hold this. Hold this.
1496
01:10:28,640 --> 01:10:29,960
No!
1497
01:10:34,560 --> 01:10:35,920
Oh, my god!
1498
01:10:35,960 --> 01:10:38,120
I don't think any man's ever done
the splits in front of Mum.
1499
01:10:38,160 --> 01:10:40,600
She was definitely impressed.
1500
01:10:40,640 --> 01:10:41,960
(LAUGHTER)
1501
01:10:43,240 --> 01:10:45,120
Never ceases to amaze me, that man.
1502
01:10:45,160 --> 01:10:46,760
Your dad is my spirit animal.
1503
01:10:48,320 --> 01:10:50,040
I don't want the retreat to end.
I know.
1504
01:10:50,080 --> 01:10:51,880
They look like they're having
the time of their life.
1505
01:10:51,920 --> 01:10:53,160
I know.
1506
01:10:54,560 --> 01:10:57,080
I thought I was back in high school.
1507
01:10:57,120 --> 01:11:01,520
Roe was dancing with me.
I mean, I really felt special.
1508
01:11:01,560 --> 01:11:02,760
Look at the slow dance.
1509
01:11:02,800 --> 01:11:06,600
I feel like I'm watching a romantic
movie but it's starring our parents.
1510
01:11:10,160 --> 01:11:11,960
This is beautiful.
1511
01:11:12,000 --> 01:11:15,120
I feel like this is his prime.
1512
01:11:15,160 --> 01:11:17,720
He's got that slow move going,
pretty lady.
1513
01:11:17,760 --> 01:11:21,120
Look at my mum. She looks in love.
That's really adorable.
1514
01:11:22,440 --> 01:11:25,880
I saw something there
that I haven't ever seen before.
1515
01:11:25,920 --> 01:11:27,480
(LAUGHTER)
1516
01:11:27,520 --> 01:11:31,880
My dad happy with someone.
1517
01:11:33,040 --> 01:11:35,080
I don't even know the words
to explain it.
1518
01:11:35,120 --> 01:11:37,440
It's kind of everything
I wanted to see for him.
1519
01:11:39,080 --> 01:11:40,360
KATE: Heath may have
1520
01:11:40,400 --> 01:11:42,280
captured Michelle's attention
early in the night
1521
01:11:42,320 --> 01:11:45,760
but newcomer Neil is still lurking.
1522
01:11:46,960 --> 01:11:50,840
Tonight is like musical beds
'cause there's one bed short.
1523
01:11:50,880 --> 01:11:53,840
Where the hell are you going?
Yours.
1524
01:11:53,880 --> 01:11:55,360
(GASPING)
1525
01:11:58,240 --> 01:12:02,680
Neil is also my mum's type so it
has been a bit of a spicy mix.
1526
01:12:02,720 --> 01:12:05,360
But I think she's
got a good one with Heath.
1527
01:12:05,400 --> 01:12:07,760
Tunnel vision, Michelle.
Stay with Heath.
1528
01:12:10,960 --> 01:12:13,320
MICHELLE: Heath's like, "Do you
wanna have a dance?"
1529
01:12:13,360 --> 01:12:14,520
And it's like, OK.
1530
01:12:15,320 --> 01:12:16,720
And you know what? He's so polite.
1531
01:12:16,760 --> 01:12:19,200
He's like, "Is it alright
to pop my hands on your waist?"
1532
01:12:19,240 --> 01:12:20,920
I'm like, "Yeah, that's OK."
1533
01:12:20,960 --> 01:12:22,720
Like, he's a gentleman
which is good.
1534
01:12:22,760 --> 01:12:26,200
Look at my mother
and Haydn's father.
1535
01:12:26,240 --> 01:12:27,760
He's smiling.
1536
01:12:28,440 --> 01:12:30,000
Oh, my god!
1537
01:12:30,800 --> 01:12:34,440
I'm really hoping that Dad might
even try and get a kiss tonight.
1538
01:12:38,520 --> 01:12:40,640
No, guys,
this is a really big moment.
1539
01:12:45,880 --> 01:12:48,200
Do you reckon your mum wants a kiss?
1540
01:12:48,240 --> 01:12:50,160
Yeah.
(LAUGHTER)
1541
01:12:50,200 --> 01:12:51,560
Yeah!
1542
01:12:51,600 --> 01:12:54,120
I don't know if I wanted more though
at this point.
1543
01:12:54,160 --> 01:12:56,120
(LAUGHTER)
1544
01:12:56,160 --> 01:12:59,160
(OPTIMISTIC MUSIC)
1545
01:13:00,080 --> 01:13:01,880
Come on, Dad.
1546
01:13:01,920 --> 01:13:03,640
Make your move, brother.
1547
01:13:13,600 --> 01:13:14,840
Kiss!
1548
01:13:17,200 --> 01:13:19,240
Heath, me boy, come on my bro!
1549
01:13:19,280 --> 01:13:20,800
Come on!
Come on my bro.
1550
01:13:23,920 --> 01:13:26,040
HEATH: Michelle has the most
beautiful blue eyes
1551
01:13:26,080 --> 01:13:27,680
that I've ever looked into.
1552
01:13:28,880 --> 01:13:31,280
Oh, come on. Please kiss.
1553
01:13:31,320 --> 01:13:33,280
Oh, they're so close.
1554
01:13:34,160 --> 01:13:35,880
I think they both want it.
1555
01:13:35,920 --> 01:13:38,120
HEATH: It's nice to just stare
into each others eyes
1556
01:13:38,160 --> 01:13:41,000
'cause that's the only way
you're going to realise that
1557
01:13:41,040 --> 01:13:42,840
the heart pounds for someone.
1558
01:13:44,000 --> 01:13:46,040
(EVERYONE GASPS)
1559
01:13:48,400 --> 01:13:49,400
VOICEOVER: Monday...
1560
01:13:49,440 --> 01:13:51,200
How old are you Michelle?
I'm 52.
1561
01:13:52,840 --> 01:13:54,560
So you date 40-year-olds?
And younger.
1562
01:13:54,600 --> 01:13:56,720
The age gap question...
1563
01:13:56,760 --> 01:13:59,200
On dating apps, we were matching
with the same people.
1564
01:13:59,240 --> 01:14:00,880
..that will divide the nation.
1565
01:14:00,920 --> 01:14:03,200
27 was the youngest.
No way!
1566
01:14:03,240 --> 01:14:04,440
I'm already out.
1567
01:14:04,480 --> 01:14:05,760
And...
1568
01:14:05,800 --> 01:14:08,720
The more I get to know you,
the more attracted I am to you.
1569
01:14:08,760 --> 01:14:09,760
Awh!
1570
01:14:09,800 --> 01:14:11,240
A shock confession...
1571
01:14:11,280 --> 01:14:13,360
I gotta be very careful what I say.
1572
01:14:13,400 --> 01:14:14,520
Oh!
1573
01:14:15,040 --> 01:14:16,040
What?
1574
01:14:16,080 --> 01:14:18,160
..could blow love apart.
1575
01:14:18,200 --> 01:14:19,640
Can't say I'm not concerned.
1576
01:14:19,680 --> 01:14:22,240
I've said all along,
it's actually a deal breaker.
1577
01:14:24,240 --> 01:14:26,560
Monday, 7:30pm on Nine.
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