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- ♪ The best day
of my life, life ♪
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- Emily. Nice to meet you.
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- Six intrepid singles met and
married a complete stranger.
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[cheers and applause]
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- I wrote down a lot of things
that I wanted in a husband.
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And you check a lot of boxes.
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- You are everything
I've envisioned.
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- ♪ This is gonna be
my moment ♪
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- [squeals]
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He was crying
during our ceremony.
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Like, I love an emotional man.
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We need men with emotion.
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And he has it, so I love that.
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♪
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- Do you have a pet?
- I don't have a pet.
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- Aww, then we
have to get a dog.
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- We can get one together.
What kind of dog do you want?
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- A sheepadoodle.
- I love sheepadoodles.
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- You do?
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Feels like this is
gonna maybe work.
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- OK.
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- Please explain.
What is it?
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- Oh, my gosh.
An anteater?
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- What the hell is that?
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Oh, Lord. Yeah.
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I hope he's a good guy.
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Ooh, [bleep].
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♪
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- You're the groom?
- I am.
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- OK, let's do this.
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- Tonight our remaining
couple confronts
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an uncertain destiny...
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- The fantasy is that I
meet the person that I spend
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the rest of my life with.
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- As our newlyweds dive
head first into marriage.
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[glasses clinking]
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- Are you nervous
that she's never been
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in a relationship before?
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[dramatic music]
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- If you don't
understand yourself
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and you can't really,
like, share it with her,
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her anxiety will go crazy.
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- I was like, getting all
the shots off the strippers.
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- What are your expectations
of a marriage?
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- You know, I--
[laughs nervously]
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I don't like
being bossed around.
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♪
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- ♪ It's all or nothing
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- This is
"Married at First Sight."
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- ♪ There's no other way
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♪ It's all or nothing
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- ♪ So we should have
never left, oh, oh ♪
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♪ I know that I'm so lost
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♪ Baby, we got this trust
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♪ To make it last
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- You guys want
to bring it in?
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I love you guys.
- We love you, too.
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- Thank you for walking me
down the aisle.
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♪
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- You're the groom?
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- I am.
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[laughter]
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What's your name?
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- Cameron.
- Cameron.
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This is crazy.
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What are we doing?
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- OK, let's do this.
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- The fantasy is that I
meet the person that I
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spend the rest
of my life with,
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and we build
a family together.
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It doesn't behoove me to
do anything but give 100%.
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And I hope she does the same.
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- All right.
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Everyone, please stand.
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[soft music]
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♪
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- ♪ I really thought
I had seen it all ♪
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♪ Then I saw your face
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♪ Everything could change
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♪ Two became one
as our body's caught ♪
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♪ Your fingerprints
all over me ♪
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♪ Like a diamond
cut from stone ♪
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- Nice to meet you.
- Nice to meet you, too.
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- Hello.
Nice to meet you.
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I'm Clare.
- I'm Cameron.
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- You may be seated.
- Hi.
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- Cameron.
- Joy.
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- Nice to meet you, Joy.
- What was your name?
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- Brian.
- Brian.
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Nice to meet you, Brian.
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- You look nice.
- Thank you.
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You are--I mean,
you are breathtaking.
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- [chuckles]
- Stunning.
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- You have an accent.
- I do.
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- It makes sense--
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your gift makes sense now.
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- I should probably should
have explained it more.
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- [chuckles]
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- Clare, meet for
the very first time, Cameron.
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- Cameron.
- Your husband-to-be.
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- I love it.
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- Cameron, meet
for the very first time,
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Clare, your wife-to-be.
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You are about to enter into
a legally binding marriage.
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So now, Cameron,
Clare's family and friends
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would like you to know
about their Clare-Bear.
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You'll quickly come
to find that Clare
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is a genuine, compassionate,
and faithful soul,
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who loves with all
of her heart.
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Clare truly has
the brightest personality
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and will always make
your day better.
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But it's not until she
starts impersonating you...
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- Oh, no.
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- That you know
you've really made it...
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- Please, don't.
- On her good side.
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- I don't think
I'd get the accent.
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[laughter]
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♪
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- You should know,
Clare has a large, outgoing,
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and occasionally
overwhelming family.
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[laughter]
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They'll open their arms
and their hearts to you.
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But you won't officially be
welcomed until you've survived
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the Kerr family roast session.
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- I'm very roastable, so--
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[laughter]
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- Now, Clare,
Cameron's friends and family
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would like you to know
that behind that tall stature,
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and great head of hair,
is just a tall man
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with a great head of hair.
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[laughter]
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- Are you offended by that?
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- And then once he
starts speaking,
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he's just a tall man
with a great head
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of hair and an accent.
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You'll come to find out
his accent is probably
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the coolest thing about him,
unless you think
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that biking for miles
through the Colorado mountains
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is cool.
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He's very good at that.
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If biking is not your thing,
don't worry.
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You'll be surrounded
by it all the time.
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Cameron owns a bike shop.
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- OK.
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- He fixes bikes
and often goes on bike trips
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with his buddies...
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- Love that.
- Through the rough terrain.
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Buckle up.
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Life with Cameron,
for sure, will be an adventure.
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- Sweet.
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♪
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- Clare, Cameron,
you've written your own vows.
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- To my husband,
still sounds so wild to say,
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on our wedding day.
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Firstly, thank you for joining
me on this wild, and unusual,
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and unique adventure.
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As scary as it is,
I have a sense of calm knowing
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that I have you on my team.
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Thank you for being brave and
taking this next step with me.
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I believe that God
and my guardian angels,
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my brother and everyone
in heaven,
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have led me to this moment.
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On this day, I give you
my heart, my promise
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that I will walk
with you hand in hand,
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wherever our journey
leads us, living,
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learning, and loving together.
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- That was very sweet.
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- [chuckles]
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- I take promises
very seriously.
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I have promises
within my vows I intend
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to keep, even with a stranger.
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So here we go.
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I may not know you, but I
am ready to take this leap
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of faith with you,
like jumping out
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of an airplane with a parachute
someone else packed.
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I vow to share myself
and my life with you,
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except my chocolate.
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That's mine.
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- [laughs]
That's fair.
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- I vow to make the space
and put in the work
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for our relationship to grow
into a strong and loving one.
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And if all else fails,
we can always
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blame it on the experts.
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- [laughs]
True.
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You're funny.
OK, that's good.
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That's a relief.
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- Clare, will you
take Cameron to be
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your lawfully wedded husband,
to live together in matrimony?
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Will you love him,
comfort him, honor him
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and keep him,
in sickness and in health,
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so long as you both shall live?
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- I do.
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- And, Cameron,
will you take Clare
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to be your lawfully
wedded wife,
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to live with her in matrimony?
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Will you love her,
comfort her, honor her,
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and keep her,
in sickness and in health,
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so long as you both shall live?
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- I do.
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[cheering]
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- Clare, please take Cameron's
hand and repeat after me.
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With this ring--
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- With this ring,
I wed you, Cameron.
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- I wed you, Clare,
for today, tomorrow,
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and all the years to come.
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- Please wear it as a sign
of my commitment and a notice
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to the world--
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- That I am your husband.
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- That I am your wife.
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Oh, we're squeezing it.
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- It's OK.
I'll get it.
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I'll get it.
- OK, OK.
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- Oh, actually--
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[laughter]
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- We're blaming the experts.
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- I'm afraid it might
not come back off.
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One out of two ain't bad.
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- I love it.
I love it.
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- And now, by the power
and authority vested in me,
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I now pronounce you
a married couple.
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Cameron, you may now
kiss your bride, Clare.
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[cheering]
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- ♪ And now the skies
are blue ♪
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♪ They show my love for you
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♪ With every breath I take
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- Ladies and gentlemen,
it's now my pleasure
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to introduce for the first time
as husband and wife,
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Clare and Cameron.
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- ♪ And if the clouds
turn gray ♪
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♪ I know we'd be OK
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♪ As long as I've got you
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♪ I've got you
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♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh
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♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
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♪ I've got you
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- Do you go by Cam or Cameron?
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- Always Cameron now.
- Always Cameron, OK.
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- I was Cam
up until I was about ten.
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- OK, and then you outgrew Cam?
- Yes.
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- You felt too old for Cam.
- I became a man.
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- You became a man.
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- I became a man
at a very young age.
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- I'm married, married--
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he is adorable.
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I love your accent.
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- Thank you.
- I love it.
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It's very cute.
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- Well, you're very beautiful.
- Oh, thank you.
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- Much more beautiful
than my accent.
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- Oh, really?
[chuckles]
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- He's tall.
He's handsome.
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He's got a good personality.
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And he's my husband.
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I'm just so excited to get to,
like, know him and talk to him
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and be with him tonight
and the rest of my life.
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This is nice.
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How are you feeling?
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- [sighs] I mean, it's--
- After all of that?
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That was a lot.
- Yeah, it's a relief, right?
260
00:10:34,083 --> 00:10:36,000
- It's a relief.
OK, I'm glad you feel relieved.
261
00:10:36,042 --> 00:10:37,500
- Just to get
to the other side.
262
00:10:37,542 --> 00:10:38,917
- Right, because it
was all the waiting--
263
00:10:39,042 --> 00:10:40,083
- So much.
- The anticipating.
264
00:10:40,167 --> 00:10:41,458
- So much.
265
00:10:41,542 --> 00:10:42,875
- It was just,
like, boiling up.
266
00:10:42,875 --> 00:10:44,333
I was terrified.
- Yeah.
267
00:10:44,458 --> 00:10:46,083
- You seemed really calm.
268
00:10:46,208 --> 00:10:47,667
I was like, he's not shaking.
He's not sweating.
269
00:10:47,750 --> 00:10:49,542
I'm shaking. I'm sweating.
270
00:10:49,625 --> 00:10:51,375
So you were chill.
271
00:10:51,458 --> 00:10:52,917
- There's definitely chemistry.
272
00:10:53,000 --> 00:10:55,625
If we were sitting
in a cafe next to each other,
273
00:10:55,708 --> 00:10:57,333
we would be talking.
274
00:10:57,375 --> 00:11:00,125
I've only got a 15-minute
first impression,
275
00:11:00,208 --> 00:11:02,125
but I can see
that there's someone there
276
00:11:02,208 --> 00:11:04,125
that's ready to try
and make this work.
277
00:11:04,208 --> 00:11:05,542
I'm happy.
278
00:11:05,667 --> 00:11:07,500
- So you have no siblings?
- I have a brother.
279
00:11:07,583 --> 00:11:09,208
- You have--oh, OK.
- He's in New Zealand.
280
00:11:09,333 --> 00:11:10,875
- Right, right, right, right.
281
00:11:10,958 --> 00:11:12,458
- My mother was born in Ohio.
282
00:11:12,542 --> 00:11:13,958
- OK, cool.
283
00:11:14,042 --> 00:11:15,250
- So I'm a dual citizen--
- OK, love that.
284
00:11:15,333 --> 00:11:16,958
- At birth.
285
00:11:17,042 --> 00:11:18,292
So I was born in New Zealand,
raised in New Zealand,
286
00:11:18,375 --> 00:11:21,750
but I moved to the States
for better opportunity.
287
00:11:21,875 --> 00:11:25,625
My mother's college
roommate's neighbors--
288
00:11:25,708 --> 00:11:27,000
- OK, following.
289
00:11:27,083 --> 00:11:28,500
- Was basically
that entire room.
290
00:11:28,583 --> 00:11:29,833
- Oh.
291
00:11:29,958 --> 00:11:31,125
- And literally,
these people just like,
292
00:11:31,208 --> 00:11:32,000
completely took me in--
293
00:11:32,083 --> 00:11:33,875
- Aww.
294
00:11:33,875 --> 00:11:35,708
- Like, gave me a place
to live, gave me a job.
295
00:11:35,708 --> 00:11:37,708
Like--
- That's so sweet.
296
00:11:37,708 --> 00:11:38,833
That's a whole clan
of them, too.
297
00:11:38,917 --> 00:11:41,000
- Yeah, and so I've been,
you know,
298
00:11:41,125 --> 00:11:43,292
I mean, they've
been family for nine years.
299
00:11:43,375 --> 00:11:44,667
- I love that.
300
00:11:44,750 --> 00:11:46,292
Do your parents know, though?
301
00:11:46,375 --> 00:11:47,500
- About this?
- Yes.
302
00:11:47,542 --> 00:11:49,250
- Yeah, so the plan is--
- Uh-huh.
303
00:11:49,333 --> 00:11:51,667
- Is that we go back and
we have a second wedding
304
00:11:51,750 --> 00:11:53,542
in New Zealand.
305
00:11:53,625 --> 00:11:55,125
- Love that.
So they can be there.
306
00:11:55,208 --> 00:11:56,583
- If you--yeah, if you want.
- I'd love that.
307
00:11:56,667 --> 00:11:58,250
- If you want.
It doesn't have to be.
308
00:11:58,250 --> 00:11:59,833
- No, I love that so much.
309
00:11:59,917 --> 00:12:01,167
I love that because, yeah,
you want your parents there.
310
00:12:01,167 --> 00:12:02,542
- Yeah.
311
00:12:02,708 --> 00:12:03,542
- Family is really
important to me, obviously.
312
00:12:03,667 --> 00:12:05,833
And Cameron seems so--
313
00:12:05,917 --> 00:12:08,333
like, the people that
matter to him really matter.
314
00:12:08,375 --> 00:12:10,167
And that's huge.
315
00:12:10,292 --> 00:12:14,333
- So I couldn't quite tell
exactly what was going on,
316
00:12:14,375 --> 00:12:15,500
you know, with the memorial,
317
00:12:15,625 --> 00:12:17,042
but it sounds like
someone important--
318
00:12:17,125 --> 00:12:18,458
- Yeah, yeah.
- You lost.
319
00:12:18,542 --> 00:12:19,708
- So I'm a quadruplet.
320
00:12:19,792 --> 00:12:21,167
- No way.
- Yeah.
321
00:12:21,250 --> 00:12:22,708
- Holy [bleep].
322
00:12:22,708 --> 00:12:23,500
- So four of us were born
at the same time.
323
00:12:23,625 --> 00:12:25,208
- OK.
324
00:12:25,333 --> 00:12:26,542
- So in the quadruplets,
there's three girls, one boy.
325
00:12:26,625 --> 00:12:28,167
But my brother did pass away.
326
00:12:28,250 --> 00:12:29,625
- This is recently?
327
00:12:29,708 --> 00:12:31,000
- It's four years ago.
- Jeez.
328
00:12:31,042 --> 00:12:33,708
- Yeah, yeah, so he passed
away, and so I was like--
329
00:12:33,792 --> 00:12:34,917
- But that's a bond
that like, just--
330
00:12:35,000 --> 00:12:36,458
- Right, and I need
to make him a part
331
00:12:36,542 --> 00:12:38,208
of this special day, you know?
332
00:12:38,292 --> 00:12:39,833
And I feel like he
orchestrated this, in a way.
333
00:12:39,875 --> 00:12:41,000
You know what I mean?
334
00:12:41,042 --> 00:12:42,083
- Really?
- I do feel that.
335
00:12:42,167 --> 00:12:43,667
I feel like I've had signs.
336
00:12:43,750 --> 00:12:45,375
I've had--I've seen him
in, like, dreams.
337
00:12:45,458 --> 00:12:47,667
It just felt so, like--
338
00:12:47,708 --> 00:12:49,458
I'm not a person
who takes risks at all.
339
00:12:49,542 --> 00:12:51,958
I would have never done this
if I didn't feel like I was
340
00:12:52,042 --> 00:12:53,292
being led to do it, you know?
341
00:12:53,417 --> 00:12:54,667
- Mm-hmm, yeah.
342
00:12:54,750 --> 00:12:57,333
- So yeah,
so my sisters were here.
343
00:12:57,417 --> 00:12:58,750
My grandma was here.
344
00:12:58,833 --> 00:13:00,208
- And the people
that walked you on the aisle,
345
00:13:00,292 --> 00:13:01,583
that was your--
that was dad and mom?
346
00:13:01,708 --> 00:13:02,792
- Mama--yeah, that was
my mom and my dad.
347
00:13:02,875 --> 00:13:04,500
Very supportive.
- Yeah.
348
00:13:04,542 --> 00:13:06,500
So how many kids has your--
349
00:13:06,583 --> 00:13:08,083
- Six.
- Wow.
350
00:13:08,208 --> 00:13:10,250
- They had six kids.
It's a big family.
351
00:13:10,333 --> 00:13:13,208
And my sisters
will be grilling you.
352
00:13:13,292 --> 00:13:15,458
They're gonna have
a lot of questions.
353
00:13:15,542 --> 00:13:19,625
They're a lot in the best way,
but they're very protective.
354
00:13:19,708 --> 00:13:21,250
- Don't worry.
- I don't know.
355
00:13:21,375 --> 00:13:22,333
They're just
about to roast you.
356
00:13:22,458 --> 00:13:24,000
- Yeah, no, don't worry.
357
00:13:24,083 --> 00:13:25,208
- I just want you to be
prepared because they're
358
00:13:25,333 --> 00:13:26,375
very in-your-face.
359
00:13:26,458 --> 00:13:27,250
Yeah.
360
00:13:31,708 --> 00:13:32,625
- ♪ It's the right time
361
00:13:32,625 --> 00:13:34,500
♪ Of the night
362
00:13:34,625 --> 00:13:35,833
[cheers and applause]
363
00:13:35,917 --> 00:13:38,792
♪ You're feeling right
364
00:13:38,875 --> 00:13:40,917
♪ Now the DJ's playing
your favorite songs ♪
365
00:13:41,000 --> 00:13:42,917
♪ It's a big crowd
366
00:13:43,000 --> 00:13:44,667
- Don't run away
from my dad, now.
367
00:13:44,708 --> 00:13:45,958
- Oh, boy.
- No, I didn't know if--
368
00:13:46,042 --> 00:13:47,250
No, I didn't know if
it was just them.
369
00:13:47,375 --> 00:13:48,708
- We're gonna do both.
370
00:13:48,833 --> 00:13:49,750
- His bark is worse
than his bite.
371
00:13:49,833 --> 00:13:50,917
- ♪ It's the right time
372
00:13:51,042 --> 00:13:53,167
♪ Of the night
373
00:13:53,250 --> 00:13:54,667
♪ When the drinks kick in
374
00:13:54,750 --> 00:13:56,167
♪ And you're feeling right
375
00:13:56,250 --> 00:13:57,542
- Ah, ah.
376
00:13:57,625 --> 00:13:59,083
The veil.
377
00:13:59,167 --> 00:14:01,125
- You all right?
- It's fine.
378
00:14:01,208 --> 00:14:03,333
It's a long veil.
It was, like, a hazard.
379
00:14:03,417 --> 00:14:04,458
- What do you think
of the ankle-less look?
380
00:14:04,542 --> 00:14:06,000
- Hmm?
381
00:14:06,042 --> 00:14:07,167
- What do you think of
the ankle-less look?
382
00:14:07,208 --> 00:14:08,750
- I like it.
I like the shoes.
383
00:14:08,875 --> 00:14:09,750
I really guys
with trendy shoes.
384
00:14:09,875 --> 00:14:11,250
- I appreciate that.
385
00:14:11,333 --> 00:14:14,167
[cheering]
386
00:14:14,208 --> 00:14:15,708
- I'm a wife.
387
00:14:15,792 --> 00:14:18,000
Feels good. Feels weird.
388
00:14:18,042 --> 00:14:19,667
He was like, this is
your first relationship?
389
00:14:19,750 --> 00:14:20,958
I was like, yeah.
390
00:14:21,042 --> 00:14:23,583
We'll talk
through that more later.
391
00:14:23,667 --> 00:14:25,125
But, like,
I do feel like a wife.
392
00:14:25,208 --> 00:14:26,917
He's making me feel
more like a wife.
393
00:14:27,000 --> 00:14:28,833
Now that I have, like,
the person to make me a wife,
394
00:14:28,958 --> 00:14:30,208
I feel more like a wife.
395
00:14:30,333 --> 00:14:33,667
[cheering]
396
00:14:33,750 --> 00:14:35,208
- And then smile
right here for me.
397
00:14:35,292 --> 00:14:36,208
Ready.
1, 2, 3.
398
00:14:36,292 --> 00:14:37,958
So good.
399
00:14:38,042 --> 00:14:41,042
[upbeat music]
400
00:14:41,125 --> 00:14:43,250
♪
401
00:14:43,333 --> 00:14:44,625
- Yeah, my hubby.
402
00:14:44,708 --> 00:14:46,167
- What up, girl?
403
00:14:46,250 --> 00:14:48,250
I just feel like all
of this is surreal.
404
00:14:48,333 --> 00:14:51,583
To call Emily my wife is just
crazy but it just feels good.
405
00:14:51,667 --> 00:14:55,167
So my hope is that we bond,
you know, really well,
406
00:14:55,292 --> 00:14:57,000
and on Decision Day,
we say yes,
407
00:14:57,125 --> 00:15:00,167
and we spend
a lifetime together.
408
00:15:00,250 --> 00:15:04,792
- ♪ Whoa, whoa, so close
409
00:15:04,875 --> 00:15:07,000
♪ This glitter and gold
410
00:15:07,042 --> 00:15:09,500
- Congratulations,
you married man, you.
411
00:15:09,625 --> 00:15:13,083
- My parents set
the bar really high for me.
412
00:15:13,208 --> 00:15:16,000
They've been together
for about 35 years now.
413
00:15:16,042 --> 00:15:17,625
And they're, you know,
never getting divorced.
414
00:15:17,708 --> 00:15:19,333
They're going to be together
until they grow old.
415
00:15:19,417 --> 00:15:22,000
And for me, that's exactly
what I want with Emily.
416
00:15:22,042 --> 00:15:24,167
So I'm just super excited.
417
00:15:24,292 --> 00:15:25,583
- I feel like
we're doing pretty good
418
00:15:25,667 --> 00:15:26,667
for not knowing each other.
419
00:15:26,708 --> 00:15:28,000
- I know.
- It feels natural.
420
00:15:28,042 --> 00:15:29,625
- For being strangers.
421
00:15:29,708 --> 00:15:31,750
- ♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh
422
00:15:31,875 --> 00:15:33,792
♪ Glitter and gold
423
00:15:33,875 --> 00:15:35,750
♪
424
00:15:35,875 --> 00:15:38,292
♪ Glitter and gold
425
00:15:38,375 --> 00:15:41,625
♪ All over me, all over me,
yeah ♪
426
00:15:41,708 --> 00:15:43,167
- You guys look great.
427
00:15:43,250 --> 00:15:45,125
Both of you take a step
out from each other.
428
00:15:45,208 --> 00:15:46,500
Yep.
Not that far.
429
00:15:46,542 --> 00:15:47,958
Come back a little bit.
- I'm like, whoa.
430
00:15:48,042 --> 00:15:50,167
- I got longer legs.
- [laughs]
431
00:15:50,250 --> 00:15:54,292
I am feeling just, like,
giddy, just excited.
432
00:15:54,375 --> 00:15:57,917
I mean, he's everything
that I was picturing.
433
00:15:58,000 --> 00:16:00,917
But like, whoa,
he's tall, very tall guy.
434
00:16:01,042 --> 00:16:03,750
I just feel so short.
435
00:16:03,833 --> 00:16:05,583
I'm 5-nothing.
436
00:16:05,708 --> 00:16:07,167
You're 5?
437
00:16:07,208 --> 00:16:09,125
- Even.
438
00:16:09,208 --> 00:16:13,208
- And then this hand
goes in one pocket.
439
00:16:13,292 --> 00:16:15,042
- My pocket's
a little high for her.
440
00:16:15,125 --> 00:16:17,333
- There you go.
You guys look great.
441
00:16:17,375 --> 00:16:20,500
♪
442
00:16:20,542 --> 00:16:23,167
We're just gonna to shuffle
to where we have some greenery.
443
00:16:23,208 --> 00:16:25,833
- Right here?
- Yes.
444
00:16:25,875 --> 00:16:27,708
Lean your heads
a little closer.
445
00:16:27,833 --> 00:16:30,000
- Like this?
- Yeah.
446
00:16:30,042 --> 00:16:31,417
Awesome, guys.
447
00:16:31,500 --> 00:16:33,458
It's like you've been
married for years.
448
00:16:33,542 --> 00:16:35,667
♪
449
00:16:35,708 --> 00:16:37,708
- ♪ You making me weak
450
00:16:37,792 --> 00:16:40,167
♪ Weak, weak, weak
451
00:16:40,250 --> 00:16:41,500
- Aww.
452
00:16:41,583 --> 00:16:43,292
Family.
- Aww.
453
00:16:43,375 --> 00:16:44,875
- In-laws.
- We are family.
454
00:16:44,958 --> 00:16:46,375
- Love this.
455
00:16:46,458 --> 00:16:47,500
OK, I'm gonna have all
of you look right here
456
00:16:47,583 --> 00:16:48,500
and smile for me.
457
00:16:48,625 --> 00:16:50,083
- This is so funny.
458
00:16:50,167 --> 00:16:51,917
- It's surreal.
459
00:16:52,000 --> 00:16:53,583
Taking photos,
it feels weird because I'm
460
00:16:53,708 --> 00:16:55,833
a wedding photographer, so
I'm usually on the other end.
461
00:16:55,875 --> 00:16:57,208
Guys, hands in your pockets.
462
00:16:57,292 --> 00:16:59,125
Look alive.
Look alive.
463
00:16:59,208 --> 00:17:00,583
It's like,
a little bit awkward,
464
00:17:00,667 --> 00:17:02,333
but only because I'm usually
the one taking the photos.
465
00:17:02,375 --> 00:17:04,500
So it was like, weird
to not be directing myself.
466
00:17:04,625 --> 00:17:06,542
Well, you don't have to put
your hand in your pocket.
467
00:17:06,625 --> 00:17:08,000
OK, wait.
Put your arm a little lower.
468
00:17:08,042 --> 00:17:09,500
- Did you say no
hands in pockets?
469
00:17:09,583 --> 00:17:11,792
- No, no, no.
- What?
470
00:17:11,875 --> 00:17:12,958
- No, no never mind.
Ignore me.
471
00:17:13,042 --> 00:17:14,458
Ignore me.
472
00:17:14,542 --> 00:17:15,833
- ♪ That goes
through the night ♪
473
00:17:15,875 --> 00:17:17,250
♪ As you're losing
track of time ♪
474
00:17:17,375 --> 00:17:21,500
- She seems very open,
and funny, goofy, and weird.
475
00:17:21,542 --> 00:17:22,583
It's exciting.
476
00:17:22,667 --> 00:17:23,917
- Yeah, yeah, yeah.
477
00:17:24,000 --> 00:17:25,208
Nut to butt, baby.
Nut to butt.
478
00:17:25,292 --> 00:17:27,542
- ♪ Until the sun comes up
479
00:17:27,625 --> 00:17:29,583
- To new friends.
480
00:17:29,708 --> 00:17:32,667
- Whoo!
481
00:17:32,708 --> 00:17:35,833
- ♪ That sunrise love
482
00:17:35,917 --> 00:17:38,083
- Should we make out again?
483
00:17:38,167 --> 00:17:40,500
- ♪ It grows
through the night ♪
484
00:17:40,542 --> 00:17:43,042
♪ As you're losing
track of time ♪
485
00:17:43,125 --> 00:17:45,500
♪ And you don't
want to stop it ♪
486
00:17:45,583 --> 00:17:47,500
♪
487
00:17:47,542 --> 00:17:48,708
- You're the wedding
photographer.
488
00:17:48,833 --> 00:17:50,375
You know what to do.
489
00:17:50,458 --> 00:17:52,125
- As a married woman, I'd
like to tell you a few things
490
00:17:52,208 --> 00:17:53,708
about being married.
491
00:17:53,792 --> 00:17:55,792
Number one, make out often.
492
00:17:55,792 --> 00:17:57,583
Should we do it again?
493
00:17:57,667 --> 00:18:01,167
[laughter]
494
00:18:01,250 --> 00:18:03,667
Number two, make out often.
495
00:18:03,750 --> 00:18:05,333
♪
496
00:18:05,375 --> 00:18:08,667
Number three,
think your husband's hot.
497
00:18:08,708 --> 00:18:10,417
- Later, nerds.
498
00:18:10,500 --> 00:18:13,500
- ♪ I'm obsessed, I-I-I
499
00:18:13,625 --> 00:18:15,250
♪ I'm obsessed
500
00:18:15,333 --> 00:18:18,167
♪ I-I-I, I'm obsessed
501
00:18:18,167 --> 00:18:21,833
♪ I-I-I,
I'm kind of obsessed ♪
502
00:18:21,917 --> 00:18:23,500
- Oh, so cute.
- We know.
503
00:18:23,500 --> 00:18:25,583
♪
504
00:18:29,667 --> 00:18:31,958
- Welcoming
for the very first time,
505
00:18:32,042 --> 00:18:33,792
let's give it up
for the newlyweds.
506
00:18:33,875 --> 00:18:35,250
[upbeat music]
507
00:18:35,333 --> 00:18:38,125
- ♪ Oh, good energy, energy
508
00:18:38,208 --> 00:18:42,167
♪ Got that ooh,
most out of me ♪
509
00:18:42,292 --> 00:18:45,833
♪ I got good vibrations,
no hesitation ♪
510
00:18:45,875 --> 00:18:48,083
♪ Got that energy
511
00:18:48,208 --> 00:18:50,042
- Now, when you first walked
in, it happened like--
512
00:18:50,125 --> 00:18:51,958
- What was
your first impression?
513
00:18:52,042 --> 00:18:53,500
- Floored.
- Yeah?
514
00:18:53,583 --> 00:18:56,000
- Yes.
I thought you were beautiful.
515
00:18:56,083 --> 00:18:57,833
- Thanks.
516
00:18:57,917 --> 00:18:59,333
- All right,
ladies and gentlemen.
517
00:18:59,458 --> 00:19:01,833
At this time, we would like
to invite the newlyweds,
518
00:19:01,917 --> 00:19:03,667
Lauren and Orion,
to the dance floor
519
00:19:03,708 --> 00:19:05,208
for their first dance
520
00:19:05,292 --> 00:19:06,417
as a married couple.
521
00:19:06,542 --> 00:19:08,500
- Here we go.
522
00:19:08,542 --> 00:19:11,917
[soft music]
523
00:19:12,000 --> 00:19:13,917
All right.
524
00:19:13,917 --> 00:19:15,208
- I haven't slow danced
in so long.
525
00:19:15,333 --> 00:19:16,917
- Yeah?
- Does it feel OK?
526
00:19:17,000 --> 00:19:18,083
Is it awkward?
- No.
527
00:19:18,167 --> 00:19:19,083
- I don't know
where my hand goes.
528
00:19:19,167 --> 00:19:20,583
- You're fine. You're fine.
529
00:19:20,708 --> 00:19:23,875
I know, usually you can rest
it, like, on the shoulders.
530
00:19:23,958 --> 00:19:24,875
- OK.
- Yeah.
531
00:19:24,958 --> 00:19:26,500
- OK.
532
00:19:26,542 --> 00:19:29,542
- My mom,
she was a Zumba instructor.
533
00:19:29,625 --> 00:19:32,042
- Shout out to Mom.
- Yeah, so I can dance.
534
00:19:32,167 --> 00:19:34,000
- OK.
- Yeah, I'm a grass dancer.
535
00:19:34,083 --> 00:19:35,125
- What is that?
536
00:19:35,208 --> 00:19:36,667
- Um--
537
00:19:36,750 --> 00:19:39,708
- I'm familiar with some
things, Indigenous culture.
538
00:19:39,792 --> 00:19:41,667
But I feel like,
y'all are not a monolith, so--
539
00:19:41,792 --> 00:19:43,458
- Yeah.
540
00:19:43,542 --> 00:19:44,875
- There's a lot of differences
across the tribes, I'm sure.
541
00:19:44,958 --> 00:19:47,042
- Yeah, so grass dancers,
they are
542
00:19:47,042 --> 00:19:48,833
medicine men of the tribes.
543
00:19:48,917 --> 00:19:53,042
So when tribes migrate,
they find new places to settle,
544
00:19:53,125 --> 00:19:55,333
you know, chasing food,
whatever it may be.
545
00:19:55,458 --> 00:19:57,167
They send out
the grass dancers.
546
00:19:57,208 --> 00:19:59,458
And so the grass, you know,
it's super tall, like,
547
00:19:59,542 --> 00:20:00,625
wheat grass.
548
00:20:00,625 --> 00:20:02,250
And so the grass
dancers come out.
549
00:20:02,375 --> 00:20:03,750
And it's like,
a complete prayer.
550
00:20:03,875 --> 00:20:05,000
- OK.
- Yeah.
551
00:20:05,042 --> 00:20:06,000
Yeah.
- I can see that.
552
00:20:06,042 --> 00:20:07,500
I can't wait to see that.
553
00:20:07,625 --> 00:20:11,625
- ♪ All I want
from you is love ♪
554
00:20:11,708 --> 00:20:15,542
♪
555
00:20:15,625 --> 00:20:17,000
- Your first
immediate impression.
556
00:20:17,083 --> 00:20:18,833
- Oh.
- [bleep] boy.
557
00:20:18,958 --> 00:20:20,417
[laughter]
558
00:20:20,542 --> 00:20:22,208
- No, I literally was,
like, really at ease
559
00:20:22,208 --> 00:20:23,625
when I saw you, which is--
560
00:20:23,750 --> 00:20:25,708
I knew I would.
561
00:20:25,792 --> 00:20:27,333
I was happy you were tall.
562
00:20:27,375 --> 00:20:28,667
I was like, oh,
I could wear my heels.
563
00:20:28,750 --> 00:20:30,000
- Yeah.
564
00:20:30,083 --> 00:20:31,042
- I've never dated
outside my race.
565
00:20:31,042 --> 00:20:32,833
- Really?
- Ever.
566
00:20:32,875 --> 00:20:34,500
- I've never dated my race.
567
00:20:34,583 --> 00:20:36,042
[chuckles]
568
00:20:36,125 --> 00:20:38,667
- Not us being
equal and opposite.
569
00:20:38,708 --> 00:20:40,500
You're going to think
I'm lying, but I'm not.
570
00:20:40,583 --> 00:20:43,292
I've asked God
for a person I can,
571
00:20:43,375 --> 00:20:46,208
like, slow dance in the kitchen
with while we cook.
572
00:20:46,292 --> 00:20:48,292
And so, like, having
that slow dance together
573
00:20:48,375 --> 00:20:49,625
made me realize
it's probably gonna
574
00:20:49,708 --> 00:20:52,500
continue to be awkward
slow dances in the kitchen.
575
00:20:52,583 --> 00:20:55,042
But I'm glad we had
that moment because I
576
00:20:55,125 --> 00:20:57,292
kind of asked for it.
577
00:20:57,292 --> 00:20:59,167
For real.
578
00:20:59,292 --> 00:21:01,333
♪
579
00:21:01,375 --> 00:21:03,042
[cheers and applause]
580
00:21:03,125 --> 00:21:05,917
I forgot y'all were here.
581
00:21:06,042 --> 00:21:07,167
♪
582
00:21:07,250 --> 00:21:08,833
So relax.
583
00:21:08,875 --> 00:21:10,083
- All right!
584
00:21:10,208 --> 00:21:13,000
[upbeat music]
585
00:21:13,042 --> 00:21:15,625
♪
586
00:21:15,708 --> 00:21:18,208
- I would like to
welcome Clare and Cameron
587
00:21:18,333 --> 00:21:21,042
to the dance floor
for their first dance
588
00:21:21,125 --> 00:21:23,167
as a married couple.
589
00:21:23,250 --> 00:21:24,792
- This is the dance floor?
590
00:21:24,875 --> 00:21:25,958
- This is--
[laughs]
591
00:21:26,042 --> 00:21:27,333
- All right.
592
00:21:27,417 --> 00:21:28,917
- Oh, this is not
awkward at all.
593
00:21:29,000 --> 00:21:30,667
- [laughs]
594
00:21:30,750 --> 00:21:35,125
- ♪ They say
your heart speeds up ♪
595
00:21:35,208 --> 00:21:39,333
♪ And the world slows down
596
00:21:39,375 --> 00:21:41,333
- This is so wild.
597
00:21:41,375 --> 00:21:42,958
- Oh, yeah!
598
00:21:43,042 --> 00:21:44,750
- I'm uncomfortable.
599
00:21:44,875 --> 00:21:47,208
It's just the fact
that everyone's staring.
600
00:21:47,292 --> 00:21:51,000
- I can tell that,
you know, this endeavor
601
00:21:51,083 --> 00:21:53,042
has made her very nervous.
602
00:21:53,167 --> 00:21:56,500
But I hope,
very quickly, she realizes
603
00:21:56,583 --> 00:21:58,500
that she's in good hands.
604
00:21:58,625 --> 00:22:02,292
I'm very confident that,
as we get to know each other,
605
00:22:02,375 --> 00:22:04,125
she's got nothing
to worry about.
606
00:22:04,208 --> 00:22:07,208
And I hope that soon
she can be relaxed.
607
00:22:07,292 --> 00:22:11,042
- ♪ Find the one
608
00:22:11,125 --> 00:22:14,250
♪
609
00:22:14,333 --> 00:22:16,833
- Watch out.
We're about to break out.
610
00:22:16,917 --> 00:22:20,125
- [laughs] You're making this
feel less awkward for me.
611
00:22:20,208 --> 00:22:22,542
Were you like,
I don't want a short girl?
612
00:22:22,625 --> 00:22:24,417
- No, I didn't say that.
613
00:22:24,500 --> 00:22:26,417
- [laughs]
I'm just asking.
614
00:22:26,542 --> 00:22:28,167
Did you have a limit?
615
00:22:28,208 --> 00:22:29,958
Because you probably
weren't expecting--
616
00:22:30,042 --> 00:22:33,833
- I might have said
not shorter than like,
617
00:22:33,917 --> 00:22:35,167
5'4" or something, but no.
618
00:22:35,250 --> 00:22:36,500
- 5'4"?
619
00:22:36,542 --> 00:22:37,833
Wait, are you kidding?
620
00:22:37,917 --> 00:22:39,750
- You know, logistically.
- Right, right.
621
00:22:39,875 --> 00:22:41,333
- It's not
an attractive preference.
622
00:22:41,458 --> 00:22:43,000
- OK, OK.
- Truly, truly.
623
00:22:43,083 --> 00:22:46,458
- [laughs]
OK.
624
00:22:46,542 --> 00:22:49,250
Cameron is making me
feel so comfortable.
625
00:22:49,333 --> 00:22:50,167
I don't know
if he knew that he
626
00:22:50,208 --> 00:22:51,667
was dealing with a shorty.
627
00:22:51,708 --> 00:22:54,083
But the experts could not
have made a better match,
628
00:22:54,167 --> 00:22:55,250
I truly don't think.
629
00:22:55,333 --> 00:22:57,333
Like, he is funny.
630
00:22:57,375 --> 00:22:59,583
He's smart.
He's outgoing.
631
00:22:59,708 --> 00:23:02,042
But, yeah, he's my husband and,
like, I feel like we are gonna
632
00:23:02,125 --> 00:23:04,000
be in it for the long haul.
633
00:23:04,083 --> 00:23:09,792
- ♪ Full of joy, full of hope,
full of life, full of love ♪
634
00:23:09,875 --> 00:23:13,667
♪
635
00:23:13,750 --> 00:23:17,083
[upbeat music]
636
00:23:17,167 --> 00:23:22,917
- ♪ My best life is with you
637
00:23:23,000 --> 00:23:24,625
- I feel like we should,
like, do a toast,
638
00:23:24,708 --> 00:23:26,750
but I just need a drink.
639
00:23:26,833 --> 00:23:28,500
- This is gonna feel so good.
640
00:23:28,583 --> 00:23:30,208
[tapping glasses]
641
00:23:30,292 --> 00:23:31,750
- Oh, God.
642
00:23:33,042 --> 00:23:33,958
- Make out!
- Kiss!
643
00:23:34,042 --> 00:23:35,667
- Oh.
644
00:23:35,750 --> 00:23:38,292
[cheering]
645
00:23:38,375 --> 00:23:39,833
- Whoo!
646
00:23:39,958 --> 00:23:41,208
- Throwing us right in.
647
00:23:41,292 --> 00:23:42,667
A little smooch-smooch here.
648
00:23:42,750 --> 00:23:44,750
I feel something there,
whether that's
649
00:23:44,833 --> 00:23:47,708
like, physical attraction
or just like, the energy
650
00:23:47,833 --> 00:23:50,792
and initial vibe,
it really feels
651
00:23:50,875 --> 00:23:54,667
like we're on the path to
a little spice, a little heat.
652
00:23:54,708 --> 00:23:56,542
Yeah, so Lily, best friend,
653
00:23:56,667 --> 00:23:58,500
she's technically
my maid of honor.
654
00:23:58,542 --> 00:24:00,833
And then Shannon and Jen
are the Park City girls.
655
00:24:00,958 --> 00:24:02,833
- How old are they?
656
00:24:02,833 --> 00:24:04,917
- 33.
- Wait, how old are you?
657
00:24:05,000 --> 00:24:06,417
- How old are you?
658
00:24:06,500 --> 00:24:07,833
How old are you?
- Guess.
659
00:24:07,917 --> 00:24:09,417
- No.
660
00:24:09,500 --> 00:24:11,250
OK, I'll guess.
32?
661
00:24:11,333 --> 00:24:13,333
- Wow. I get that a lot.
662
00:24:13,458 --> 00:24:15,125
I'm 28.
663
00:24:15,208 --> 00:24:16,250
- You're younger than me.
664
00:24:16,333 --> 00:24:17,417
Plot twist.
665
00:24:17,500 --> 00:24:19,792
- You're 30.
666
00:24:19,875 --> 00:24:21,292
- 29.
667
00:24:21,375 --> 00:24:23,250
- Oh, that was my next guess.
668
00:24:23,333 --> 00:24:24,458
What do you drive?
669
00:24:24,542 --> 00:24:26,000
- A good old Jeep.
670
00:24:26,042 --> 00:24:27,167
- You have a Jeep?
Wow.
671
00:24:27,208 --> 00:24:29,125
- How about you?
I have an Audi A4.
672
00:24:29,208 --> 00:24:30,542
- Ooh.
673
00:24:30,625 --> 00:24:32,333
Power couple.
- Yes, ma'am.
674
00:24:32,375 --> 00:24:33,833
- I'm a terrible
driver, though.
675
00:24:33,958 --> 00:24:35,500
- OK.
676
00:24:35,625 --> 00:24:38,708
- I'm shocked that I haven't
even, like, crashed it once.
677
00:24:38,792 --> 00:24:40,458
- You said you
haven't crashed it?
678
00:24:40,542 --> 00:24:42,583
- No, even I was like,
Dad, aren't you so proud?
679
00:24:42,708 --> 00:24:43,958
Like, I haven't
crashed it one time.
680
00:24:44,042 --> 00:24:45,000
He's like, yeah.
681
00:24:45,083 --> 00:24:46,625
What else?
682
00:24:46,708 --> 00:24:48,750
Were you, like,
fun at your bachelor party?
683
00:24:48,750 --> 00:24:50,167
- There were strippers.
684
00:24:50,250 --> 00:24:51,333
I wasn't, like,
really into that.
685
00:24:51,375 --> 00:24:53,250
- We were like--
- Crazy?
686
00:24:53,333 --> 00:24:54,458
- White girl wasted, uh-huh.
687
00:24:54,542 --> 00:24:56,625
- Were there strippers?
- Yeah.
688
00:24:56,708 --> 00:25:00,167
I was, like, getting all
the shots off the strippers.
689
00:25:00,208 --> 00:25:01,417
Shot, shot, shot.
690
00:25:01,500 --> 00:25:04,458
- Oh, my God.
691
00:25:04,458 --> 00:25:05,833
You said you had
a belly shot off him?
692
00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:07,417
Oh, my God.
693
00:25:07,542 --> 00:25:08,292
- It's the one thing my aunt
said I shouldn't do.
694
00:25:08,375 --> 00:25:10,000
And I did it.
695
00:25:10,083 --> 00:25:11,500
- You know, I can see that
she's the life of the party,
696
00:25:11,625 --> 00:25:13,292
and I'm a little
more reserved.
697
00:25:13,375 --> 00:25:16,250
But I appreciate
that Emily's trying
698
00:25:16,250 --> 00:25:17,625
to say whatever's on her mind.
699
00:25:17,708 --> 00:25:19,333
Also, you know,
honesty, I just think
700
00:25:19,375 --> 00:25:21,625
it's a major building block
to a successful relationship.
701
00:25:21,708 --> 00:25:23,375
We'll see. Who knows?
702
00:25:23,500 --> 00:25:26,625
But for right now,
it's really nice.
703
00:25:26,708 --> 00:25:28,042
- I need another glass of wine.
704
00:25:28,125 --> 00:25:29,500
Do you need any? No?
705
00:25:29,583 --> 00:25:30,458
- I'm good,
but I can walk with you.
706
00:25:30,542 --> 00:25:31,958
- OK.
707
00:25:32,042 --> 00:25:34,833
[soft music]
708
00:25:34,917 --> 00:25:39,417
♪
709
00:25:39,500 --> 00:25:41,292
- My dress, they altered
it in like, two days,
710
00:25:41,375 --> 00:25:42,667
so it looks like [bleep].
711
00:25:42,750 --> 00:25:43,750
- I think your dress
looks wonderful.
712
00:25:43,833 --> 00:25:45,042
- Thank you.
- Definitely--
713
00:25:45,125 --> 00:25:46,625
- Thank you.
- [laughs]
714
00:25:47,792 --> 00:25:48,958
- Words.
715
00:25:49,042 --> 00:25:50,417
Communication.
716
00:25:50,500 --> 00:25:52,250
Not communicating
is also communicating.
717
00:25:52,375 --> 00:25:53,792
- Well, good.
718
00:25:53,875 --> 00:25:55,417
I hope you're picking up
what I'm laying down, man.
719
00:25:55,500 --> 00:25:57,667
- I definitely pick up
what you're laying down.
720
00:25:57,792 --> 00:25:59,583
They kept asking me,
they were like,
721
00:25:59,667 --> 00:26:01,000
do you think he's
a boob guy or an ass guy?
722
00:26:01,125 --> 00:26:02,333
And I was like,
he literally has no choice.
723
00:26:02,417 --> 00:26:04,833
- [laughs]
724
00:26:04,875 --> 00:26:06,042
- It's so weird to,
like, meet each other
725
00:26:06,042 --> 00:26:06,875
in formal clothes.
726
00:26:06,958 --> 00:26:08,208
- Yeah.
727
00:26:08,292 --> 00:26:10,167
- Like, what do you dress
like outside of this?
728
00:26:10,250 --> 00:26:15,500
- Like a professional skater
who doesn't skate.
729
00:26:15,542 --> 00:26:17,292
[laughs]
730
00:26:17,375 --> 00:26:19,875
- OK. That's a good
description.
731
00:26:19,958 --> 00:26:22,458
I mean, I would honestly
say same for me--
732
00:26:22,542 --> 00:26:23,833
- Yeah?
733
00:26:23,917 --> 00:26:25,292
- Just with, like,
a feminine flair.
734
00:26:25,375 --> 00:26:26,375
Yeah.
But I do rollerblade.
735
00:26:26,458 --> 00:26:27,875
So I do skate a little bit.
736
00:26:28,000 --> 00:26:30,042
- I love going to roller
skate nights at Tracks.
737
00:26:30,125 --> 00:26:31,750
- Do you? [bleep] yeah.
738
00:26:31,833 --> 00:26:32,500
That's what I do
for my birthday every year.
739
00:26:32,583 --> 00:26:34,167
- Really?
740
00:26:34,208 --> 00:26:35,208
- All these bitches,
we always dress up.
741
00:26:35,208 --> 00:26:37,000
- Yes.
742
00:26:37,083 --> 00:26:39,167
I'm learning that we have,
like, a lot of things
743
00:26:39,208 --> 00:26:40,875
in common.
744
00:26:40,958 --> 00:26:44,000
I don't think I could have
asked for anything better.
745
00:26:44,125 --> 00:26:45,625
It isn't common.
746
00:26:45,708 --> 00:26:48,833
It's not like you go
on a Bumble or Hinge date
747
00:26:48,875 --> 00:26:52,167
and, like, you just
agree on everything.
748
00:26:52,292 --> 00:26:54,542
I am slightly allergic to cats.
749
00:26:54,625 --> 00:26:56,125
- Oh, same.
- Oh.
750
00:26:56,208 --> 00:26:57,542
- Yeah.
- Good.
751
00:26:57,625 --> 00:27:00,292
- We literally
married each other.
752
00:27:00,375 --> 00:27:01,833
Like, I married myself.
753
00:27:01,917 --> 00:27:05,000
- Seriously, this is
literally astonishing.
754
00:27:05,083 --> 00:27:06,292
It's very unique.
755
00:27:06,375 --> 00:27:08,167
So that's very exciting.
756
00:27:08,208 --> 00:27:10,458
- So, like, this is
a first date on crack.
757
00:27:10,458 --> 00:27:11,625
- Yeah. Oh, absolutely.
758
00:27:11,708 --> 00:27:13,208
Except, yeah--
759
00:27:13,292 --> 00:27:14,875
- Except we're married.
760
00:27:14,958 --> 00:27:18,500
- It's kind of nice
in a lot of ways.
761
00:27:18,583 --> 00:27:20,042
- Yeah.
- I don't know.
762
00:27:20,125 --> 00:27:21,667
- Like, if we could
have our family
763
00:27:21,792 --> 00:27:24,167
and friends on every
first date, like, amazing.
764
00:27:24,167 --> 00:27:25,458
- [laughs]
- Right?
765
00:27:25,542 --> 00:27:26,667
- Yeah, absolutely.
766
00:27:26,750 --> 00:27:28,458
[tapping glasses]
767
00:27:28,542 --> 00:27:29,833
- Oh, you want us to kiss?
768
00:27:29,917 --> 00:27:31,792
- Oh, is that what that means?
769
00:27:31,875 --> 00:27:33,500
I didn't know that.
770
00:27:33,542 --> 00:27:37,625
- ♪ All my life I've waited
771
00:27:37,708 --> 00:27:42,167
♪ All my life I've waited
772
00:27:42,167 --> 00:27:43,250
♪
773
00:27:47,292 --> 00:27:48,708
- ♪ We got it all
774
00:27:48,708 --> 00:27:50,458
♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh,
775
00:27:50,542 --> 00:27:52,333
♪ Oh, oh, oh, oh
776
00:27:52,417 --> 00:27:54,833
♪ We got it all
777
00:27:54,958 --> 00:27:57,083
- Every time I look up,
someone's staring at me.
778
00:27:57,208 --> 00:27:58,750
- Every time.
779
00:27:58,875 --> 00:28:00,750
Just now, I look up
and my friend's like--
780
00:28:00,833 --> 00:28:03,792
- Yeah. It's just like, hey.
781
00:28:03,875 --> 00:28:07,250
All right, now, honestly,
thank you for making
782
00:28:07,333 --> 00:28:08,833
this a great experience.
783
00:28:08,875 --> 00:28:10,667
- Thank you.
- Yeah.
784
00:28:10,750 --> 00:28:13,292
This has been a lot
of fun, I think.
785
00:28:13,375 --> 00:28:15,208
- Yeah, it's been fun so far.
786
00:28:15,292 --> 00:28:18,500
- What did your dad think
of this process?
787
00:28:18,625 --> 00:28:21,958
- [chuckles]
788
00:28:22,042 --> 00:28:23,750
He was like,
so you're marrying a stranger.
789
00:28:23,833 --> 00:28:25,458
I was like, yeah.
790
00:28:25,542 --> 00:28:26,875
His exact words were,
that's strange.
791
00:28:26,958 --> 00:28:30,125
- Oh, no.
- I was like, oh, OK, great.
792
00:28:30,208 --> 00:28:32,542
But that's what I miss
most about my mom.
793
00:28:32,667 --> 00:28:34,750
My mother passed
away last April.
794
00:28:34,833 --> 00:28:36,333
- Oh, I'm so sorry.
795
00:28:36,417 --> 00:28:39,292
- Honestly, there's no one
in this room that I was--
796
00:28:39,375 --> 00:28:42,417
what I would say that I've ever
been closer to, than my mom.
797
00:28:42,542 --> 00:28:44,000
And I talked to her
about everything.
798
00:28:44,042 --> 00:28:45,750
Like, she was the type
of person I could be like--
799
00:28:45,833 --> 00:28:47,417
I could tell her
I had a one-night stand
800
00:28:47,500 --> 00:28:48,792
and did cocaine
and she wouldn't--
801
00:28:48,875 --> 00:28:50,333
not that I would do that.
802
00:28:50,417 --> 00:28:52,000
But she would just be like,
oh, well, how was it?
803
00:28:52,000 --> 00:28:53,500
And then she'd come back
and be like, OK,
804
00:28:53,583 --> 00:28:55,167
so let's talk about this.
805
00:28:55,250 --> 00:28:57,417
But she was just like--she
was just non-judgmental parent.
806
00:28:57,500 --> 00:28:59,708
And my dad is very opposite.
807
00:28:59,792 --> 00:29:01,833
He's fun, but he's not my mom.
808
00:29:01,917 --> 00:29:06,292
So I feel like I'm missing
my therapist, in a sense.
809
00:29:06,375 --> 00:29:08,500
[soft music]
810
00:29:08,583 --> 00:29:11,375
- Well, this is something
I was a little scared to share.
811
00:29:11,458 --> 00:29:13,250
- It's OK. Just go for it.
812
00:29:13,375 --> 00:29:15,333
- But, you know, I am
finishing classes to become
813
00:29:15,375 --> 00:29:16,333
a real estate broker.
814
00:29:16,417 --> 00:29:17,958
- OK.
815
00:29:18,042 --> 00:29:19,375
- And, you know, being
an independent contractor
816
00:29:19,500 --> 00:29:24,000
in the construction side,
I'm still at home with my mom.
817
00:29:24,083 --> 00:29:25,750
- Have you been, like,
using that time to save
818
00:29:25,833 --> 00:29:26,917
and stuff and--
819
00:29:27,000 --> 00:29:28,208
- Mm-hmm.
- Yeah.
820
00:29:28,208 --> 00:29:29,500
- So--
821
00:29:29,542 --> 00:29:30,875
- It's funny.
822
00:29:31,000 --> 00:29:32,000
My friends asked me,
they were like,
823
00:29:32,083 --> 00:29:32,958
what if he lives with his mom?
824
00:29:33,042 --> 00:29:34,417
And I was like,
well, it depends
825
00:29:34,500 --> 00:29:35,917
on what he's doing with that.
826
00:29:36,042 --> 00:29:37,583
Maybe because my mom died,
or maybe, you know,
827
00:29:37,708 --> 00:29:39,208
that made me want
to be closer to family,
828
00:29:39,375 --> 00:29:41,083
but I honestly wish
I could live with my parents.
829
00:29:41,167 --> 00:29:42,833
Like, I say that all the time.
830
00:29:42,833 --> 00:29:44,375
I tell--my little
sister moved out.
831
00:29:44,500 --> 00:29:46,167
And I told her, I said,
you should have stayed longer.
832
00:29:46,292 --> 00:29:48,167
I said, you're not missing
anything but bills out here.
833
00:29:48,208 --> 00:29:50,500
- Yeah, for real.
- It's tough.
834
00:29:50,625 --> 00:29:53,000
So, like, I don't
feel like worried
835
00:29:53,125 --> 00:29:54,500
that you live with your mom,
as long as you've
836
00:29:54,625 --> 00:29:55,875
been smart with that time.
837
00:29:55,958 --> 00:29:57,458
- Oh, man.
You have put me at ease.
838
00:29:57,542 --> 00:29:59,333
- Stop.
- Oh, man.
839
00:29:59,375 --> 00:30:00,792
- Yeah, I mean, you cook.
840
00:30:00,875 --> 00:30:02,958
You're handy.
841
00:30:03,042 --> 00:30:05,000
This is, like,
what I wanted in a husband.
842
00:30:05,083 --> 00:30:06,458
if I could, like,
write it on paper,
843
00:30:06,542 --> 00:30:07,750
which I did write it on paper.
844
00:30:07,875 --> 00:30:09,833
- Yeah?
845
00:30:09,875 --> 00:30:11,167
- I'm happy.
I'm pleasantly surprised.
846
00:30:11,208 --> 00:30:12,625
- Good.
847
00:30:12,708 --> 00:30:14,625
♪
848
00:30:14,708 --> 00:30:17,958
[upbeat music]
849
00:30:18,042 --> 00:30:19,292
- So you do go,
like, mountain biking?
850
00:30:19,375 --> 00:30:21,167
- Yeah.
851
00:30:21,208 --> 00:30:22,917
- So I don't bike, though.
I don't bike.
852
00:30:23,000 --> 00:30:24,125
- Don't worry.
- I work out.
853
00:30:24,208 --> 00:30:25,833
- Don't worry.
- I work out.
854
00:30:25,875 --> 00:30:28,625
- There's not--but you
said in your vows
855
00:30:28,625 --> 00:30:33,083
that our relationship is built
on our--and I'm paraphrasing,
856
00:30:33,167 --> 00:30:34,708
sorry--
like, our individual--
857
00:30:34,792 --> 00:30:36,083
- No, you need
to know it word for word.
858
00:30:36,167 --> 00:30:38,250
How dare you not
remember every line?
859
00:30:38,375 --> 00:30:39,792
It's terrible.
860
00:30:39,875 --> 00:30:41,667
- It's who we are as
individuals that will build
861
00:30:41,750 --> 00:30:43,000
who we are as a relationship.
862
00:30:43,083 --> 00:30:45,292
- Key.
I'm an independent person.
863
00:30:45,375 --> 00:30:47,208
- We--like, we never want
to become the same people.
864
00:30:47,292 --> 00:30:48,792
- Ever.
- This is for us--
865
00:30:48,875 --> 00:30:50,083
- I will always be myself.
866
00:30:50,167 --> 00:30:51,083
- To learn from each other,
but to still
867
00:30:51,083 --> 00:30:53,292
remain individuals and--
868
00:30:53,375 --> 00:30:54,792
- Have our own hobbies.
869
00:30:54,875 --> 00:30:56,667
But I love that you
have hobbies because--
870
00:30:56,750 --> 00:30:58,333
- It just means
I'm not a loser.
871
00:30:58,417 --> 00:30:59,708
- There's been men
that don't have hobbies,
872
00:30:59,792 --> 00:31:01,167
and that's concerning.
873
00:31:01,292 --> 00:31:03,000
Because then they cling on
to you and they're like,
874
00:31:03,083 --> 00:31:04,167
I don't have friends.
I don't have hobbies.
875
00:31:04,292 --> 00:31:05,542
And it's like--
- Oh, my God.
876
00:31:05,625 --> 00:31:07,333
- That's concerning, you know?
877
00:31:07,417 --> 00:31:09,000
- If anything,
your problem is gonna be like,
878
00:31:09,083 --> 00:31:10,833
oh, he's going riding again.
879
00:31:10,917 --> 00:31:13,583
- Yeah.
[laughs]
880
00:31:13,583 --> 00:31:15,833
I think I've been with a lot
of like very unstable guys
881
00:31:15,958 --> 00:31:17,625
who have, like,
been codependent on me.
882
00:31:17,708 --> 00:31:20,167
- Can I say, no offense,
but you look like you would
883
00:31:20,250 --> 00:31:21,583
attract those kinds of guys.
884
00:31:21,667 --> 00:31:22,583
- Thanks.
- In a sense that--
885
00:31:22,667 --> 00:31:24,667
- I'm not offended.
[laughs]
886
00:31:24,750 --> 00:31:26,958
Huge slay.
No, I'm kidding.
887
00:31:27,042 --> 00:31:28,375
- I just realized when I said.
888
00:31:28,458 --> 00:31:30,667
No, I mean, like--
889
00:31:30,708 --> 00:31:32,833
You just, you know, it's like
a moth to a flame, you know.
890
00:31:32,875 --> 00:31:34,625
And then you just
get caught up.
891
00:31:34,750 --> 00:31:35,958
- Thanks.
I'm glad you think so.
892
00:31:36,042 --> 00:31:37,000
I'm glad you're
attracted to me,
893
00:31:37,083 --> 00:31:37,917
because I'm attracted to you.
894
00:31:38,000 --> 00:31:39,375
- OK, good.
895
00:31:39,542 --> 00:31:40,875
- I was like, that was
a concern, as well.
896
00:31:40,958 --> 00:31:42,000
Because what if we weren't
attracted to each other?
897
00:31:42,208 --> 00:31:44,167
- So, so far, everything
on the surface, you know,
898
00:31:44,250 --> 00:31:46,667
seems like this could work.
899
00:31:46,750 --> 00:31:50,542
[tapping glasses]
900
00:31:50,625 --> 00:31:52,542
- OK. Let's do it.
901
00:31:53,875 --> 00:31:55,750
[cheering]
902
00:31:55,833 --> 00:31:56,875
OK.
903
00:31:57,000 --> 00:31:58,458
- That's all you get.
904
00:31:58,542 --> 00:32:02,167
Most of my life has been
me versus the world.
905
00:32:02,208 --> 00:32:06,000
But it's not, like, who I want
to be and what kind of life
906
00:32:06,125 --> 00:32:07,667
I want to live.
907
00:32:07,708 --> 00:32:12,167
My goal is to build a life
with my now wife, Clare,
908
00:32:12,208 --> 00:32:15,125
and almost become
a new organism.
909
00:32:15,208 --> 00:32:16,750
- OK, so my family's huge.
910
00:32:16,833 --> 00:32:18,417
Usually, weddings
are like, 300 people.
911
00:32:18,500 --> 00:32:20,083
- Oh, yeah?
912
00:32:20,083 --> 00:32:21,375
- Like, my older sister,
400 people at her wedding.
913
00:32:21,458 --> 00:32:22,958
- Wow.
914
00:32:23,042 --> 00:32:24,042
- So I had to cut off
several people from this,
915
00:32:24,125 --> 00:32:26,208
so this is really weird.
916
00:32:26,292 --> 00:32:28,625
It's just weird
to have it so small.
917
00:32:28,708 --> 00:32:30,083
And, like, we go cra--
918
00:32:30,167 --> 00:32:31,792
I mean, we drink,
we dance, we have fun.
919
00:32:31,792 --> 00:32:33,875
We got good people.
920
00:32:33,958 --> 00:32:35,167
- My parents back
in New Zealand,
921
00:32:35,250 --> 00:32:36,833
like, they couldn't
be here today.
922
00:32:36,875 --> 00:32:39,083
But I still have
a great crew.
923
00:32:39,208 --> 00:32:41,458
- Fair.
That's really great.
924
00:32:41,542 --> 00:32:45,542
- But they have led me to be,
from what I understand,
925
00:32:45,542 --> 00:32:47,000
what you are looking for.
926
00:32:47,042 --> 00:32:48,375
- How do you know
what I'm looking for?
927
00:32:48,500 --> 00:32:49,625
- In your vows.
928
00:32:49,708 --> 00:32:51,000
In the letter that you wrote.
929
00:32:51,083 --> 00:32:53,833
Family is first.
- Yeah, it is important.
930
00:32:53,875 --> 00:32:54,875
- So I can take that--
931
00:32:54,958 --> 00:32:55,958
I can take a stab.
932
00:32:56,042 --> 00:32:58,750
- [laughs]
933
00:32:58,833 --> 00:33:00,833
- ♪ I feel
the crowd get hype ♪
934
00:33:00,917 --> 00:33:03,583
♪ No holding back tonight
935
00:33:04,833 --> 00:33:06,250
- Oh, Lord.
936
00:33:06,375 --> 00:33:07,667
- Don't cry.
937
00:33:07,750 --> 00:33:11,750
- We're all crazy
for being here,
938
00:33:11,750 --> 00:33:15,583
crazy in love with Lauren and
her new husband, "Or-ee-on."
939
00:33:15,667 --> 00:33:17,542
- "Oh-ry-an."
940
00:33:17,625 --> 00:33:19,250
"Oh-ry-an."
"Oh-ry-an."
941
00:33:19,333 --> 00:33:20,417
- "Oh-ry-an."
I'm so sorry.
942
00:33:20,500 --> 00:33:21,958
"Oh-ry-an."
943
00:33:22,042 --> 00:33:23,500
- Here are the things I know
for a fact about Austin.
944
00:33:23,625 --> 00:33:24,875
He's loyal.
945
00:33:24,958 --> 00:33:27,500
He's kind.
He's adventurous.
946
00:33:27,625 --> 00:33:31,167
And he will drive you nuts when
you play board games with him.
947
00:33:31,292 --> 00:33:33,583
- Cameron's core motivation
is the consumption
948
00:33:33,667 --> 00:33:35,417
and acquisition of chocolate.
949
00:33:35,500 --> 00:33:37,333
He has few other
tangible needs.
950
00:33:37,458 --> 00:33:39,833
But enough about Cameron,
let's talk about Clare.
951
00:33:39,875 --> 00:33:41,167
- No.
[laughs]
952
00:33:41,250 --> 00:33:43,000
- I could go on for seconds.
953
00:33:43,083 --> 00:33:45,042
[laughter]
954
00:33:45,125 --> 00:33:47,208
- There comes a time
in everyone's life
955
00:33:47,333 --> 00:33:50,750
when they meet their one
true love, their soulmate.
956
00:33:50,875 --> 00:33:55,000
That moment came for Clare
27 years ago and nine months,
957
00:33:55,042 --> 00:33:55,958
when she met me in the womb.
958
00:33:56,042 --> 00:33:58,167
[laughter]
959
00:33:58,250 --> 00:34:00,375
That being said,
Clare is one of the most
960
00:34:00,458 --> 00:34:03,500
special humans on this Earth.
961
00:34:03,542 --> 00:34:07,333
And her new husband has no idea
how lucky he's about to be.
962
00:34:07,375 --> 00:34:10,333
To my new brother-in-law,
Cameron,
963
00:34:10,375 --> 00:34:12,708
I'm not sure if you
picked up on this yet,
964
00:34:12,792 --> 00:34:14,417
but Clare means
everything to me.
965
00:34:14,500 --> 00:34:17,167
And dang, do I have high
expectations for you.
966
00:34:17,208 --> 00:34:18,875
- Emily has dreamed
of getting married
967
00:34:18,958 --> 00:34:20,333
since she was a preschooler.
968
00:34:20,417 --> 00:34:22,875
She's even gone as a bride
for Halloween
969
00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:24,833
three different times.
970
00:34:25,750 --> 00:34:28,417
- All I can say is,
Brennan loves being loved.
971
00:34:28,500 --> 00:34:31,000
And as soon as Emily
entered the room,
972
00:34:31,042 --> 00:34:33,917
he had a smile on his face.
973
00:34:33,917 --> 00:34:37,708
Well, that smile
hasn't left him since.
974
00:34:37,708 --> 00:34:43,583
- So with that,
I invite everyone to a toast
975
00:34:43,667 --> 00:34:45,875
to the happy couple.
976
00:34:45,958 --> 00:34:47,458
- Thank you, Brian.
977
00:34:47,542 --> 00:34:49,042
- Cheers.
978
00:34:49,167 --> 00:34:51,625
[upbeat music]
979
00:34:51,708 --> 00:34:54,042
- Whoo!
980
00:34:54,125 --> 00:34:56,000
- ♪ Real
981
00:34:56,083 --> 00:34:59,458
♪ Now this is how
the party should feel ♪
982
00:34:59,542 --> 00:35:02,000
♪ We gon' have a good time
983
00:35:02,125 --> 00:35:05,375
♪
984
00:35:05,542 --> 00:35:07,708
- At this time,
we would like to invite
985
00:35:07,792 --> 00:35:10,458
the newlyweds to cut the cake.
986
00:35:10,542 --> 00:35:11,750
- You know what you're doing.
- Yeah.
987
00:35:11,833 --> 00:35:13,917
Just hold on to my hand.
- Yeah, I'm holding on.
988
00:35:13,917 --> 00:35:15,667
- I, like--how do you do it?
989
00:35:15,750 --> 00:35:17,792
- Yeah.
990
00:35:17,875 --> 00:35:19,667
We've done this before.
991
00:35:19,750 --> 00:35:21,417
Yeah.
992
00:35:21,542 --> 00:35:23,375
- She's beauty,
and she's grace.
993
00:35:23,458 --> 00:35:26,500
[cheering]
994
00:35:26,625 --> 00:35:31,375
♪
995
00:35:31,458 --> 00:35:33,375
- My arm's got
to really get up there.
996
00:35:33,458 --> 00:35:34,875
- Are your shoulders
getting tired?
997
00:35:35,000 --> 00:35:37,042
- [laughs]
998
00:35:37,125 --> 00:35:38,833
- ♪ Na, na, na, na
999
00:35:38,875 --> 00:35:40,917
♪ Whoa, whoa, whoa, hey
1000
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:42,833
- Good cake though.
1001
00:35:42,917 --> 00:35:46,500
♪
1002
00:35:46,542 --> 00:35:48,625
- General vibes.
How you feeling?
1003
00:35:48,708 --> 00:35:50,042
- Yeah.
1004
00:35:50,167 --> 00:35:52,667
- I am astonished at how
much we have in common.
1005
00:35:52,750 --> 00:35:54,333
- Yeah.
1006
00:35:54,375 --> 00:35:58,458
- It's literally, like,
every sentence her or I say,
1007
00:35:58,542 --> 00:36:00,208
is like, oh, my God, like, yes.
1008
00:36:00,292 --> 00:36:01,667
Agreed.
- What, you too?
1009
00:36:01,708 --> 00:36:03,500
Really?
- Yeah.
1010
00:36:03,583 --> 00:36:05,417
- OK, I'm interested
in hearing first impressions.
1011
00:36:05,500 --> 00:36:07,625
- First impressions,
I don't know.
1012
00:36:07,708 --> 00:36:09,542
I think I've been really
nervous about this process
1013
00:36:09,625 --> 00:36:11,833
that, like, whoever was
gonna do this, like,
1014
00:36:11,958 --> 00:36:14,375
wouldn't be doing it for, like,
the right reasons or like,
1015
00:36:14,500 --> 00:36:16,583
wouldn't be as like genuine
or honest, or like,
1016
00:36:16,667 --> 00:36:18,250
trying to get
the Instagram followers
1017
00:36:18,333 --> 00:36:19,875
or, like, whatever it may be.
1018
00:36:19,958 --> 00:36:22,125
And like, instantly, like,
when I saw him get emotional,
1019
00:36:22,208 --> 00:36:24,125
I was like, no.
1020
00:36:24,208 --> 00:36:26,833
Like, he's in this
for marriage, like, for love.
1021
00:36:26,917 --> 00:36:29,375
He's not in this
for anything else.
1022
00:36:29,500 --> 00:36:30,750
And like,
that was my first impression,
1023
00:36:30,833 --> 00:36:32,000
is that he's very authentic.
1024
00:36:32,083 --> 00:36:33,792
He's cute, too.
That helps.
1025
00:36:33,875 --> 00:36:35,500
[laughter]
1026
00:36:35,542 --> 00:36:36,875
- I think he's
the most authentic person
1027
00:36:36,875 --> 00:36:38,083
I've ever met.
- Really?
1028
00:36:38,167 --> 00:36:39,625
- Yeah, he'll tell
you what's going on.
1029
00:36:39,708 --> 00:36:41,542
- I am also very direct.
1030
00:36:41,625 --> 00:36:43,667
So, like, to be with another
direct person is really nice.
1031
00:36:43,792 --> 00:36:47,625
Like, I'm never, like, unkind
or, like, mean about it.
1032
00:36:47,708 --> 00:36:51,000
But, like, I don't
really have a filter
1033
00:36:51,125 --> 00:36:52,667
to be able to say--
like, I never get
1034
00:36:52,750 --> 00:36:54,667
passive aggressive
or anything like that.
1035
00:36:54,750 --> 00:36:56,625
Like, if something's
bothering me, I say it.
1036
00:36:56,708 --> 00:37:00,167
Like, I don't know
how to not do that.
1037
00:37:00,250 --> 00:37:02,167
- Communication.
1038
00:37:02,250 --> 00:37:03,458
Communication is number one.
- Number one.
1039
00:37:03,542 --> 00:37:05,000
Always number one.
- Number one.
1040
00:37:05,083 --> 00:37:07,375
And the more direct you are
with her, the more in tune
1041
00:37:07,500 --> 00:37:08,667
you are
with your internal process.
1042
00:37:08,750 --> 00:37:10,417
- Sure.
1043
00:37:10,500 --> 00:37:11,583
- And if you just share it
with her, she can understand.
1044
00:37:11,667 --> 00:37:12,958
- Great.
1045
00:37:13,042 --> 00:37:14,833
- But if you're ambiguous,
and if you're--if you
1046
00:37:14,958 --> 00:37:17,417
don't understand yourself,
and you can't really,
1047
00:37:17,542 --> 00:37:20,250
like, share it with her,
her anxiety will go crazy.
1048
00:37:20,333 --> 00:37:23,083
- What's your view
on immediate physicality
1049
00:37:23,167 --> 00:37:24,250
in your relationship?
1050
00:37:24,333 --> 00:37:25,542
- Immediate physicality?
1051
00:37:25,625 --> 00:37:26,792
- In terms of,
you know, are you a girl
1052
00:37:26,875 --> 00:37:29,500
who's looking for,
you know, touch quick,
1053
00:37:29,583 --> 00:37:31,583
or are you waiting your time?
1054
00:37:31,667 --> 00:37:35,000
- It's whatever feels
right at that time, yeah.
1055
00:37:35,125 --> 00:37:36,000
- He's not somebody
who typically
1056
00:37:36,083 --> 00:37:37,167
likes to rush into things.
1057
00:37:37,208 --> 00:37:38,542
- OK.
- Yeah.
1058
00:37:38,667 --> 00:37:40,000
- She will constantly touch
and scratch you.
1059
00:37:40,042 --> 00:37:41,375
- Not into that.
1060
00:37:41,458 --> 00:37:43,333
- I think she sometimes
forgets that, like--
1061
00:37:43,417 --> 00:37:45,167
- Not everybody is--
1062
00:37:45,292 --> 00:37:46,500
- Some people need, like,
need a gentle approach.
1063
00:37:46,625 --> 00:37:48,125
- Yeah.
1064
00:37:48,208 --> 00:37:49,083
- Because she's just
so sex positive, like,
1065
00:37:49,208 --> 00:37:50,333
she's just expansive.
1066
00:37:50,375 --> 00:37:52,083
She's secure in herself.
1067
00:37:52,208 --> 00:37:53,792
She's not traditional at all.
1068
00:37:53,875 --> 00:37:56,917
She's taught me so much about,
like, sex positivity
1069
00:37:57,000 --> 00:37:58,208
and, like, I don't know.
1070
00:37:58,292 --> 00:38:00,208
She just is unapologetic
about, like,
1071
00:38:00,292 --> 00:38:02,750
her beliefs and her morals.
1072
00:38:02,833 --> 00:38:04,708
It's like, she's just like,
nope, this is the way I feel.
1073
00:38:04,833 --> 00:38:06,417
Like, take it or leave it.
- Buckle up, buddy.
1074
00:38:06,500 --> 00:38:08,000
- Yeah.
- [laughs]
1075
00:38:08,125 --> 00:38:09,792
- I mean--
- It's a ride.
1076
00:38:13,833 --> 00:38:15,542
- ♪ And we dance like
we're on fire ♪
1077
00:38:15,542 --> 00:38:18,833
♪ When we sing,
we sing too loud ♪
1078
00:38:18,917 --> 00:38:20,458
- I'm happy.
- Good.
1079
00:38:20,542 --> 00:38:23,375
- I loved your dancing song.
- Thank you, thank you.
1080
00:38:23,458 --> 00:38:24,625
I have no idea what
I'm doing when it
1081
00:38:24,708 --> 00:38:26,083
comes to this kind of dancing.
1082
00:38:26,167 --> 00:38:28,000
- I don't, either.
- OK, good.
1083
00:38:28,083 --> 00:38:29,417
[upbeat music]
1084
00:38:29,500 --> 00:38:31,875
- ♪ Hey, hey, hey
1085
00:38:31,958 --> 00:38:34,042
- All right, ladies
and gentlemen, at this time,
1086
00:38:34,167 --> 00:38:36,167
we're gonna be going live
with the drum.
1087
00:38:36,208 --> 00:38:39,000
And, again, it is
follow the leader.
1088
00:38:39,000 --> 00:38:41,958
[drumbeat and chanting]
1089
00:38:59,083 --> 00:39:00,958
- All right.
1090
00:39:02,042 --> 00:39:05,750
- I'm really glad that he got
to incorporate a really big
1091
00:39:05,875 --> 00:39:09,167
part of his culture into the
reception because it really
1092
00:39:09,167 --> 00:39:12,583
did feel like a co-mingling of
the families, and traditions,
1093
00:39:12,667 --> 00:39:13,875
and different things.
1094
00:39:13,958 --> 00:39:15,083
It was beautiful.
1095
00:39:19,083 --> 00:39:20,333
- Whoo!
1096
00:39:20,375 --> 00:39:23,000
[cheers and applause]
1097
00:39:25,000 --> 00:39:27,917
[upbeat music]
1098
00:39:28,042 --> 00:39:29,667
♪
1099
00:39:29,750 --> 00:39:31,000
- I've known Austin
for a decade.
1100
00:39:31,083 --> 00:39:32,667
- Mm-hmm.
1101
00:39:32,708 --> 00:39:34,208
- We've lived together
for three years, now.
1102
00:39:34,292 --> 00:39:36,500
- How does it feel that I'm
stealing him away from you?
1103
00:39:36,542 --> 00:39:38,833
- No, look, I've asked
all my girlfriends.
1104
00:39:38,958 --> 00:39:40,667
They're like,
you are going to thrive.
1105
00:39:40,708 --> 00:39:42,417
- You can borrow him
anytime you need to.
1106
00:39:42,500 --> 00:39:44,917
If you're like, I miss Austin,
like, you can have him.
1107
00:39:45,042 --> 00:39:47,292
- The only thing I would say--
1108
00:39:47,375 --> 00:39:49,417
like, I don't know, OK.
1109
00:39:49,542 --> 00:39:50,750
He's always going
to be wearing pajamas.
1110
00:39:50,833 --> 00:39:51,583
- So he won't wear
the suit all the time?
1111
00:39:51,708 --> 00:39:52,750
- No, never.
- [bleep]
1112
00:39:52,833 --> 00:39:54,083
- Also--
- Yeah.
1113
00:39:54,083 --> 00:39:56,042
- He loves to start projects.
- I've heard.
1114
00:39:56,125 --> 00:39:57,083
- Not that great
at finishing them.
1115
00:39:57,208 --> 00:39:58,542
- I've heard.
1116
00:39:58,667 --> 00:40:00,667
- So if you come home
and there is
1117
00:40:00,708 --> 00:40:02,750
newspaper all
over your dining room table--
1118
00:40:02,875 --> 00:40:04,500
- I'll be ready.
- You have to say something.
1119
00:40:04,583 --> 00:40:05,667
- This is great advice.
- Yes.
1120
00:40:05,708 --> 00:40:06,667
He will always
take out the trash.
1121
00:40:06,750 --> 00:40:07,958
- Perfect.
1122
00:40:08,042 --> 00:40:09,292
- You don't have to worry
about trash day, ever.
1123
00:40:09,417 --> 00:40:10,042
- Amazing.
- He'll print out the calendar.
1124
00:40:10,125 --> 00:40:11,500
- Amazing.
1125
00:40:11,542 --> 00:40:12,500
- And he'll know which days
are recycling.
1126
00:40:12,708 --> 00:40:13,458
You don't have to worry
about that at all.
1127
00:40:13,542 --> 00:40:14,667
- [bleep].
- I know.
1128
00:40:14,750 --> 00:40:16,083
I'm worried
about that, actually.
1129
00:40:16,167 --> 00:40:16,875
Because I'm like, [bleep],
now I got to do it.
1130
00:40:16,958 --> 00:40:19,250
[laughs]
1131
00:40:19,333 --> 00:40:22,083
- ♪ Good vibes only
1132
00:40:22,167 --> 00:40:23,667
♪ We're living out this life
1133
00:40:23,708 --> 00:40:26,000
♪ And we could do it now
1134
00:40:26,083 --> 00:40:27,833
♪
1135
00:40:27,958 --> 00:40:30,208
- So when did you move here
from New Zealand?
1136
00:40:30,292 --> 00:40:31,667
- In 2013.
1137
00:40:31,708 --> 00:40:33,333
I always laughed
at people who, like,
1138
00:40:33,417 --> 00:40:34,458
never moved away
from their family.
1139
00:40:34,542 --> 00:40:36,083
- Right.
- Because like--
1140
00:40:36,167 --> 00:40:37,208
- That's us.
- That's us.
1141
00:40:37,292 --> 00:40:39,417
- Right, but now, like, I'm--
1142
00:40:39,500 --> 00:40:41,167
- You couldn't leave.
- I don't want to move away.
1143
00:40:41,292 --> 00:40:42,583
Yeah, I don't want to move
away because of the support
1144
00:40:42,667 --> 00:40:43,583
and love I have here.
- Right.
1145
00:40:43,708 --> 00:40:45,583
That's a great--
that's awesome.
1146
00:40:45,667 --> 00:40:47,292
- Your mom is over the moon
about me, by the way.
1147
00:40:47,417 --> 00:40:48,833
- Good.
We do love confidence.
1148
00:40:48,875 --> 00:40:51,125
- No, I mean--I mean,
she's like, she's--
1149
00:40:51,208 --> 00:40:52,917
- She is. I can see it.
1150
00:40:53,000 --> 00:40:54,917
- Yeah, she's had nothing
but nice things to say to me.
1151
00:40:55,042 --> 00:40:56,458
She's been very sweet.
- She's a great person.
1152
00:40:56,542 --> 00:40:57,750
- She's very sweet.
- Our parents are great.
1153
00:40:57,833 --> 00:40:59,833
- [mimicking Cameron]
Clare, my name is Cameron.
1154
00:40:59,917 --> 00:41:02,375
I am a great guy.
1155
00:41:02,458 --> 00:41:04,750
I'm going to be everything
for your sister.
1156
00:41:04,875 --> 00:41:07,833
- I mean, we'll see.
- [laughs]
1157
00:41:07,958 --> 00:41:12,708
- Everything academically
I've excelled at, so I got--
1158
00:41:12,792 --> 00:41:15,333
- Brush your shoulder.
1159
00:41:15,375 --> 00:41:16,375
- Oh.
1160
00:41:16,458 --> 00:41:18,083
- [laughs]
1161
00:41:18,167 --> 00:41:20,083
- I'm pretty good.
1162
00:41:20,167 --> 00:41:21,208
- Your mom loves me.
1163
00:41:21,292 --> 00:41:22,208
I'm pretty great.
1164
00:41:22,292 --> 00:41:24,167
[laughs]
1165
00:41:24,250 --> 00:41:26,000
♪
1166
00:41:26,083 --> 00:41:28,583
- ♪ It's a party outside
all across the globe ♪
1167
00:41:28,708 --> 00:41:30,500
♪ Every woman, every man
coming out they home ♪
1168
00:41:30,542 --> 00:41:34,583
[upbeat music]
1169
00:41:34,667 --> 00:41:35,792
- Are y'all having a good time?
1170
00:41:35,875 --> 00:41:38,125
- I mean, so far,
I'm having a good time.
1171
00:41:38,208 --> 00:41:40,333
And you seem like you're gonna
be a great match for him.
1172
00:41:40,417 --> 00:41:41,667
- Yeah.
1173
00:41:41,792 --> 00:41:42,833
- He seems like he
has a lot of layers.
1174
00:41:42,875 --> 00:41:44,083
Like, he doesn't
seem like he's like--
1175
00:41:44,167 --> 00:41:45,667
- He's an onion.
1176
00:41:45,750 --> 00:41:46,958
- Yeah, that's what my friends
say about me so I think--
1177
00:41:47,042 --> 00:41:48,292
- His nickname
is literally Onion.
1178
00:41:48,375 --> 00:41:49,667
- Literally?
Really?
1179
00:41:49,750 --> 00:41:50,958
- Yeah.
Like, people call him Onion.
1180
00:41:51,042 --> 00:41:52,667
- Good to know.
1181
00:41:52,750 --> 00:41:54,333
I won't call him that, but
it's good to know that that's
1182
00:41:54,417 --> 00:41:55,792
one of his many nicknames.
- Yeah.
1183
00:41:55,875 --> 00:41:57,042
- Yeah.
- Maybe later.
1184
00:41:57,167 --> 00:41:58,875
Definitely.
1185
00:41:59,000 --> 00:42:03,042
- Do you guys have any concerns
about who his wife might be?
1186
00:42:03,167 --> 00:42:04,167
You can be honest.
1187
00:42:04,250 --> 00:42:06,000
I can take a hit.
1188
00:42:06,042 --> 00:42:08,417
- For sure, I mean, you never
know what you're gonna get.
1189
00:42:08,500 --> 00:42:09,417
So...
- Right.
1190
00:42:09,542 --> 00:42:10,875
A complete stranger.
1191
00:42:10,958 --> 00:42:12,792
Do you think
you have any red flags?
1192
00:42:12,875 --> 00:42:14,542
- My red flag is that
I need a little bit
1193
00:42:14,625 --> 00:42:16,500
too much validation.
1194
00:42:16,583 --> 00:42:18,042
And that's something
that I need to work on, myself.
1195
00:42:18,125 --> 00:42:19,167
And I'm working on it.
1196
00:42:19,250 --> 00:42:20,333
I'm not a yeller.
1197
00:42:20,375 --> 00:42:22,625
I'm not really combative.
1198
00:42:22,708 --> 00:42:24,500
Like, I don't know.
1199
00:42:24,542 --> 00:42:25,958
Y'all could tell me
what my real flex is
1200
00:42:26,042 --> 00:42:27,667
once you get to know me.
1201
00:42:27,750 --> 00:42:30,292
But I'm honestly at a loss,
outside of the needing--
1202
00:42:30,375 --> 00:42:32,083
seeking external validation.
1203
00:42:32,167 --> 00:42:33,833
- So like, knowing--
1204
00:42:33,917 --> 00:42:35,375
knowing that and, like,
knowing that about yourself,
1205
00:42:35,458 --> 00:42:37,208
does that make you
like, concerned
1206
00:42:37,208 --> 00:42:39,917
at all, like, coming into like
a marriage with a stranger?
1207
00:42:40,000 --> 00:42:41,833
Or does, like,
your kind of self-awareness
1208
00:42:41,875 --> 00:42:44,000
make you, like, more
comfortable with that?
1209
00:42:44,083 --> 00:42:45,250
- The latter.
1210
00:42:45,375 --> 00:42:46,250
Going into the marriage,
like, I'm at,
1211
00:42:46,333 --> 00:42:48,208
like, honestly my best self.
1212
00:42:48,292 --> 00:42:50,542
I have space for a partner.
1213
00:42:50,625 --> 00:42:52,500
And I'm at the point
of my life where
1214
00:42:52,542 --> 00:42:53,833
I know myself really well.
1215
00:42:53,958 --> 00:42:55,333
- I got you.
1216
00:42:55,375 --> 00:42:56,708
- And I asked for
that in a partner.
1217
00:42:56,792 --> 00:42:57,958
And he seems like he's
very self-aware, too.
1218
00:42:58,042 --> 00:42:59,375
- Definitely.
- And I like that.
1219
00:42:59,458 --> 00:43:01,667
- With your own journey
of validation
1220
00:43:01,667 --> 00:43:03,792
and self-validation,
just voicing like,
1221
00:43:03,875 --> 00:43:05,708
hey, I need validation
right now, that's all
1222
00:43:05,792 --> 00:43:07,083
I really need from you.
1223
00:43:07,167 --> 00:43:08,875
Just listen to me.
1224
00:43:09,042 --> 00:43:11,833
That way he's, like, more aware
of how to be there for you.
1225
00:43:11,958 --> 00:43:17,333
♪
1226
00:43:17,375 --> 00:43:19,000
- I told Lauren.
1227
00:43:19,042 --> 00:43:21,375
I said, there's between
15 and 100 questions
1228
00:43:21,458 --> 00:43:22,958
you need to ask your mate.
1229
00:43:23,042 --> 00:43:26,167
One of the questions is,
does he own a toolbox?
1230
00:43:26,208 --> 00:43:28,458
Because you need to know
if he can fix some [bleep].
1231
00:43:28,583 --> 00:43:29,917
And I'm listening to you.
1232
00:43:29,917 --> 00:43:32,417
I said, OK, got that covered.
1233
00:43:32,542 --> 00:43:33,375
Cool.
1234
00:43:33,500 --> 00:43:34,958
- Yeah, man.
1235
00:43:35,042 --> 00:43:38,167
I've been in the electrical
trade for about seven,
1236
00:43:38,250 --> 00:43:39,833
eight years now.
1237
00:43:39,917 --> 00:43:42,875
I'm licensed for real
estate in New York,
1238
00:43:43,000 --> 00:43:45,833
as well as electrical
in New York.
1239
00:43:45,875 --> 00:43:47,667
- And you're from here, right?
- Yeah.
1240
00:43:47,750 --> 00:43:50,042
- OK, well, now that you
have a new family,
1241
00:43:50,167 --> 00:43:53,125
my daughter as your wife,
do you see yourself
1242
00:43:53,208 --> 00:43:56,583
still looking at Colorado
as your permanent place
1243
00:43:56,708 --> 00:43:58,000
of residence?
1244
00:43:58,042 --> 00:43:59,917
- No.
- OK.
1245
00:44:00,042 --> 00:44:02,625
- I do want a house
on the East Coast,
1246
00:44:02,750 --> 00:44:05,125
you know, a house
here in Colorado.
1247
00:44:05,208 --> 00:44:08,167
That would be really nice, you
know, just to get away and run
1248
00:44:08,250 --> 00:44:10,125
away to the mountains,
go snowboarding,
1249
00:44:10,208 --> 00:44:11,958
you know, go to
the East Coast, you know,
1250
00:44:12,042 --> 00:44:13,708
just go hang out on the beach.
1251
00:44:13,792 --> 00:44:16,167
I just enjoy just getting
up and going, honestly.
1252
00:44:16,208 --> 00:44:20,125
- OK, well, I have a concern
listening to you now,
1253
00:44:20,208 --> 00:44:23,750
because in marriage, have to
make decisions based upon both
1254
00:44:23,833 --> 00:44:25,250
of your likes and dislikes.
1255
00:44:25,333 --> 00:44:28,500
And you just said that you
are willing to, you know,
1256
00:44:28,583 --> 00:44:30,375
spend time between here
and the East Coast.
1257
00:44:30,458 --> 00:44:31,917
- Sure.
1258
00:44:32,042 --> 00:44:33,833
- What I didn't hear
you say is that you're
1259
00:44:33,917 --> 00:44:37,500
willing to also include Lauren
in that decision process.
1260
00:44:37,583 --> 00:44:38,792
- Well--
1261
00:44:38,875 --> 00:44:41,000
- What I didn't hear is,
1262
00:44:41,042 --> 00:44:44,167
hey, I have a wife now,
so the decisions that I
1263
00:44:44,292 --> 00:44:49,833
make have to be always included
with my second person in-hand.
1264
00:44:49,875 --> 00:44:53,833
My concern is, are you chasing
opportunities someplace else,
1265
00:44:53,958 --> 00:44:56,375
and will you
consider what you say
1266
00:44:56,458 --> 00:44:59,625
you want to do has
to always be in consideration
1267
00:44:59,708 --> 00:45:02,542
with your wife?
1268
00:45:02,625 --> 00:45:04,250
- Of course.
- OK.
1269
00:45:04,375 --> 00:45:06,042
- Yeah.
1270
00:45:06,125 --> 00:45:09,167
- What are your expectations of
a marriage, and this marriage?
1271
00:45:09,208 --> 00:45:12,333
And what are your requirements
of a marriage?
1272
00:45:12,375 --> 00:45:17,208
- My expectations in this
marriage, you know, I--
1273
00:45:17,292 --> 00:45:19,000
[chuckles]
1274
00:45:19,083 --> 00:45:21,083
I grew up in a matriarch,
you know?
1275
00:45:21,167 --> 00:45:23,958
So women kind of
ran the show for me.
1276
00:45:24,042 --> 00:45:26,000
And so that's
kind of where, you know,
1277
00:45:26,042 --> 00:45:28,167
I never really dated
within my own culture
1278
00:45:28,250 --> 00:45:30,375
because just--
1279
00:45:30,458 --> 00:45:32,375
I don't like being
bossed around.
1280
00:45:32,458 --> 00:45:34,042
Moving on with that--
1281
00:45:34,125 --> 00:45:35,792
- Could you go back with that?
- Sure.
1282
00:45:35,875 --> 00:45:37,125
- You said you never really
dated in your culture
1283
00:45:37,208 --> 00:45:38,875
because you didn't like
to be bossed around.
1284
00:45:39,000 --> 00:45:43,500
- Well, because
of the matriarch that we have.
1285
00:45:43,583 --> 00:45:45,583
And so with that,
you know, I think
1286
00:45:45,667 --> 00:45:47,667
my expectations,
when it comes to marriage,
1287
00:45:47,750 --> 00:45:49,542
is mutual respect.
1288
00:45:49,625 --> 00:45:52,583
I mean, that's where I sit.
1289
00:45:52,667 --> 00:45:54,250
- Well, Orion,
you know, it really
1290
00:45:54,333 --> 00:45:56,667
doesn't matter anything
we say or ask you,
1291
00:45:56,750 --> 00:45:58,042
because you're already married.
1292
00:45:58,125 --> 00:45:59,333
- Sure.
1293
00:45:59,375 --> 00:46:00,833
- So it's not like
you need my approval.
1294
00:46:00,875 --> 00:46:02,625
It's a done deal.
1295
00:46:02,708 --> 00:46:06,125
- But I also would still
like your approval.
1296
00:46:06,208 --> 00:46:07,417
- OK.
1297
00:46:07,500 --> 00:46:09,750
Well, I have to wait and see.
1298
00:46:09,833 --> 00:46:12,083
[tense music]
1299
00:46:16,000 --> 00:46:18,292
- ♪ Can I hear you
party people ♪
1300
00:46:18,292 --> 00:46:20,500
♪ Yeah, this is
gonna prove that ♪
1301
00:46:20,583 --> 00:46:22,333
♪ Get to your heart stopping
1302
00:46:22,375 --> 00:46:23,875
[upbeat music]
1303
00:46:23,958 --> 00:46:26,250
♪ Hey, yeah, yeah
1304
00:46:26,333 --> 00:46:29,583
♪ This is the week
about to... ♪
1305
00:46:29,708 --> 00:46:32,208
- Whoo!
1306
00:46:32,292 --> 00:46:34,917
[screaming]
1307
00:46:35,000 --> 00:46:36,750
- Whoa, look at all these men.
1308
00:46:36,833 --> 00:46:39,667
- ♪ I'm feeling good, yeah
1309
00:46:39,708 --> 00:46:42,500
♪ I'm feeling good
1310
00:46:42,625 --> 00:46:44,458
♪ I'm feeling good
1311
00:46:44,542 --> 00:46:45,667
♪ I'm feeling
1312
00:46:45,792 --> 00:46:47,792
♪ You know who you are
1313
00:46:47,875 --> 00:46:49,833
♪ Get out of the way
1314
00:46:49,917 --> 00:46:53,542
♪ Sweetest thing, yeah
1315
00:46:53,667 --> 00:46:55,375
♪ I'm feeling good
1316
00:46:55,458 --> 00:46:56,792
♪ I'm feeling good
1317
00:46:56,875 --> 00:46:58,125
- So you want to get married?
1318
00:46:58,208 --> 00:47:01,625
- 1, 2, 3!
1319
00:47:01,708 --> 00:47:03,833
- ♪ I'm feeling good
1320
00:47:03,875 --> 00:47:06,208
♪ I'm feeling,
I'm feeling good ♪
1321
00:47:06,292 --> 00:47:08,292
♪ Feeling good
1322
00:47:08,375 --> 00:47:09,708
♪ Na, na, na
1323
00:47:09,708 --> 00:47:11,750
♪ I'm feeling good
1324
00:47:11,833 --> 00:47:13,250
- How are you feeling?
1325
00:47:13,375 --> 00:47:14,333
- Feeling good.
1326
00:47:14,417 --> 00:47:16,167
- Did she live up
to the expectation?
1327
00:47:16,292 --> 00:47:17,833
- She did.
1328
00:47:17,917 --> 00:47:19,667
You know, I said I wanted
someone who was charismatic,
1329
00:47:19,750 --> 00:47:21,625
fun, liked to go on adventures.
1330
00:47:21,708 --> 00:47:22,917
And--
- That's her.
1331
00:47:23,000 --> 00:47:25,000
- Check, check, check, check.
1332
00:47:25,042 --> 00:47:26,833
So hopefully, I lived up
to the expectations.
1333
00:47:26,875 --> 00:47:29,417
- So why did you
come to do this?
1334
00:47:29,500 --> 00:47:32,167
Like, have your past
relationships been
1335
00:47:32,250 --> 00:47:34,625
disastrous or non-existent?
1336
00:47:34,708 --> 00:47:36,833
- I've been in a couple.
- OK.
1337
00:47:36,917 --> 00:47:38,333
- But I've always
like, left that--
1338
00:47:38,458 --> 00:47:41,333
those relationships realizing
like, what I want, you know?
1339
00:47:41,417 --> 00:47:44,375
And I've gotten one step
closer with each one.
1340
00:47:44,458 --> 00:47:46,667
So that's kind of where I
left off on that last one
1341
00:47:46,708 --> 00:47:48,417
where I was just
like, you know.
1342
00:47:48,500 --> 00:47:50,542
But my next relationship--
it's going to be my lifelong
1343
00:47:50,667 --> 00:47:52,333
partner, so that's why--
1344
00:47:52,417 --> 00:47:54,000
- How long ago was
your last relationship?
1345
00:47:54,083 --> 00:47:55,292
- Like two years.
- OK.
1346
00:47:55,375 --> 00:47:56,542
- Yeah.
1347
00:47:56,625 --> 00:47:58,167
- I feel like, Emily--
or since I've known her--
1348
00:47:58,208 --> 00:48:00,583
has said, the second
I'm in a relationship,
1349
00:48:00,583 --> 00:48:02,125
that's gonna be the person.
1350
00:48:02,208 --> 00:48:04,167
- Amazing.
1351
00:48:04,250 --> 00:48:05,542
- Guys.
1352
00:48:05,667 --> 00:48:06,625
- How you feeling?
1353
00:48:06,708 --> 00:48:08,292
- How are you feeling?
1354
00:48:08,375 --> 00:48:10,417
- First impressions are good.
First impressions are good.
1355
00:48:10,500 --> 00:48:12,333
But we definitely
have some questions.
1356
00:48:12,417 --> 00:48:14,958
- OK, I'm gonna take
the first impressions are good.
1357
00:48:15,042 --> 00:48:17,375
I would expect you to grill me.
1358
00:48:17,500 --> 00:48:19,208
- So you mentioned this
is your first relationship?
1359
00:48:19,292 --> 00:48:20,792
- Yeah.
1360
00:48:20,875 --> 00:48:22,000
- What do you mean
by first relationship?
1361
00:48:22,042 --> 00:48:23,458
Like, long-term
relationship or--
1362
00:48:23,542 --> 00:48:25,417
- Yeah, like, literally,
never had a serious boyfriend.
1363
00:48:25,542 --> 00:48:27,000
- OK.
1364
00:48:27,042 --> 00:48:29,750
- What was
your closest one like?
1365
00:48:29,833 --> 00:48:32,500
- Like, I like,
hooked up with people,
1366
00:48:32,583 --> 00:48:34,125
like, been somewhat serious.
1367
00:48:34,208 --> 00:48:37,333
But I've just never had
a real relationship.
1368
00:48:37,375 --> 00:48:39,167
I know that's probably,
like, a red flag.
1369
00:48:39,250 --> 00:48:42,125
But I don't really think it is.
1370
00:48:42,208 --> 00:48:45,333
I look at it as like, I've had
29 years to focus on myself.
1371
00:48:45,375 --> 00:48:46,750
And I don't actually
think a lot of people
1372
00:48:46,833 --> 00:48:48,500
get that opportunity.
1373
00:48:48,583 --> 00:48:52,000
And I think it's kind of,
like, made me who I am now.
1374
00:48:52,083 --> 00:48:53,917
And I think it's, like,
made me ready for this.
1375
00:48:54,000 --> 00:48:55,708
- Are you nervous
that she's never been
1376
00:48:55,792 --> 00:48:57,708
in a relationship before?
1377
00:48:57,792 --> 00:48:59,583
- I'm not nervous.
1378
00:48:59,667 --> 00:49:01,333
You know, I'm just curious.
1379
00:49:01,375 --> 00:49:03,250
Have you guys ever,
like, met any of her,
1380
00:49:03,333 --> 00:49:05,458
like, short-term
relationships or anything?
1381
00:49:05,542 --> 00:49:07,292
- Yeah.
- Yeah.
1382
00:49:07,375 --> 00:49:08,875
- OK.
1383
00:49:08,958 --> 00:49:11,167
- But no one was like--
no one was that serious.
1384
00:49:11,208 --> 00:49:12,417
- OK.
1385
00:49:12,542 --> 00:49:14,750
- And all the people
I've liked for her,
1386
00:49:14,833 --> 00:49:17,000
she's, like, just shaken off.
1387
00:49:17,125 --> 00:49:19,583
- Or like, hasn't been anyone,
like, worth her time.
1388
00:49:19,583 --> 00:49:21,375
Yeah.
1389
00:49:21,458 --> 00:49:22,792
- Like, she's not the kind
of person that's like, oh,
1390
00:49:22,875 --> 00:49:24,750
well, like, maybe, like,
I'll see if, like,
1391
00:49:24,833 --> 00:49:26,292
I can make this work.
1392
00:49:26,375 --> 00:49:27,667
Like, if it doesn't
work for her--
1393
00:49:27,708 --> 00:49:29,000
and that's kind of
how she is with,
1394
00:49:29,125 --> 00:49:31,500
all aspects of her life--
she's very honest.
1395
00:49:31,583 --> 00:49:34,958
And she doesn't lie to herself
or anyone else around her.
1396
00:49:35,042 --> 00:49:36,458
She won't lie to you, either.
1397
00:49:36,542 --> 00:49:37,792
- Yeah.
1398
00:49:37,875 --> 00:49:39,667
- What do you think it is
1399
00:49:39,792 --> 00:49:42,083
that stopped you from being
in a committed relationship?
1400
00:49:42,167 --> 00:49:44,583
- I think it's just that, like,
I feel like I deserve better
1401
00:49:44,667 --> 00:49:46,958
than how I've been treated,
and I'm like--I don't really--
1402
00:49:47,042 --> 00:49:49,833
if I wanted to get a boyfriend,
I probably could.
1403
00:49:49,875 --> 00:49:51,458
But, like, I choose myself.
1404
00:49:51,542 --> 00:49:54,667
And I just, like,
haven't found the right guy.
1405
00:49:54,708 --> 00:49:57,000
- My question is,
if you haven't
1406
00:49:57,083 --> 00:50:00,167
been in a kind of committed
relationship yet--
1407
00:50:00,208 --> 00:50:01,500
- How do you think
I'm gonna handle marriage?
1408
00:50:01,625 --> 00:50:02,833
- Yeah.
1409
00:50:02,917 --> 00:50:04,875
- I don't think anyone knows.
1410
00:50:04,958 --> 00:50:07,500
But I think
I'm ready to trust myself.
1411
00:50:07,583 --> 00:50:09,083
He has to trust me.
1412
00:50:09,208 --> 00:50:11,125
The one thing
that I said because of this,
1413
00:50:11,208 --> 00:50:14,417
is like, I just feel like
I could always be better
1414
00:50:14,500 --> 00:50:16,292
in constant when I'm
in communication, I think,
1415
00:50:16,375 --> 00:50:18,333
with him, that's going
to be really important.
1416
00:50:18,417 --> 00:50:20,250
- And he also likes to talk.
1417
00:50:20,333 --> 00:50:21,625
So being a good listener
and working
1418
00:50:21,708 --> 00:50:22,875
on those listening skills--
1419
00:50:22,958 --> 00:50:24,458
- I'm happy
that you guys are saying
1420
00:50:24,542 --> 00:50:26,333
about being a better listener
because my mom said that.
1421
00:50:26,375 --> 00:50:28,167
And I know it's something
I need to work on.
1422
00:50:28,208 --> 00:50:30,167
So now I'm gonna be, like,
super conscious about it.
1423
00:50:30,208 --> 00:50:32,250
- The biggest thing
for Brennan is communication.
1424
00:50:32,333 --> 00:50:34,000
He's had a few
serious relationships,
1425
00:50:34,083 --> 00:50:36,708
but most of them end because
of communication issues.
1426
00:50:36,833 --> 00:50:38,167
- Like, how so?
1427
00:50:38,292 --> 00:50:39,583
- Like,
their communication styles
1428
00:50:39,667 --> 00:50:43,417
don't match up,
whether it's being a bad texter
1429
00:50:43,500 --> 00:50:45,875
or just not sharing
how you feel.
1430
00:50:45,958 --> 00:50:47,833
So I think if you
keep that in mind,
1431
00:50:47,958 --> 00:50:49,500
you'll be set up for success.
1432
00:50:49,625 --> 00:50:51,875
- Do you think, like,
she's ready to go all-in,
1433
00:50:52,000 --> 00:50:53,125
like, this time around?
1434
00:50:53,208 --> 00:50:55,208
- I do.
- I actually do.
1435
00:50:55,333 --> 00:51:00,167
I honestly think, for you,
like, just be patient with her
1436
00:51:00,250 --> 00:51:02,583
because I feel like
she does kind of live,
1437
00:51:02,708 --> 00:51:04,208
like, by a short fuse.
1438
00:51:04,292 --> 00:51:05,208
- Yeah.
1439
00:51:05,333 --> 00:51:07,042
- And she's been
so independent.
1440
00:51:07,125 --> 00:51:09,333
She hasn't necessarily
had to consider someone
1441
00:51:09,458 --> 00:51:12,667
else's feelings all the time.
1442
00:51:12,708 --> 00:51:14,833
But I think that's where,
like, a partner will be really
1443
00:51:14,875 --> 00:51:17,708
good for her to, like, ground
her, bring her down to Earth,
1444
00:51:17,708 --> 00:51:19,583
and, like, pull her
out of her own world
1445
00:51:19,667 --> 00:51:23,042
that she's been,
like, in for 30 years.
1446
00:51:27,083 --> 00:51:28,625
- ♪ What's a little love
1447
00:51:28,625 --> 00:51:31,833
♪ Between two friends
1448
00:51:31,917 --> 00:51:34,208
- OK, so, yeah,
this is Cameron.
1449
00:51:34,292 --> 00:51:35,625
- Hi, Cameron.
- Nice to meet you.
1450
00:51:35,708 --> 00:51:37,333
- This is the husband.
- Nice to meet you.
1451
00:51:37,375 --> 00:51:40,292
- Isn't that crazy or what?
- It is crazy.
1452
00:51:40,375 --> 00:51:41,958
- How are you feeling, Geeg,
about this whole thing?
1453
00:51:42,042 --> 00:51:44,333
- Is Cameron begin
with a C or a K?
1454
00:51:44,375 --> 00:51:45,833
We had a debate.
- Oh, good question.
1455
00:51:45,917 --> 00:51:47,000
- C, C.
- Starts with a C.
1456
00:51:47,042 --> 00:51:48,333
- A C.
- OK.
1457
00:51:48,375 --> 00:51:49,500
- OK.
1458
00:51:49,583 --> 00:51:51,000
- Yeah, this has
been a lot, Geeg.
1459
00:51:51,083 --> 00:51:52,333
- Yeah, it's a lot.
I'm ready.
1460
00:51:52,375 --> 00:51:53,250
- You know?
She's ready.
1461
00:51:53,333 --> 00:51:54,750
[laughs]
She's ready.
1462
00:51:54,833 --> 00:51:56,083
She's the cutest.
1463
00:51:56,208 --> 00:51:58,792
- Well, I think
it's so nice that you
1464
00:51:58,875 --> 00:52:00,667
two came over to meet me.
1465
00:52:00,708 --> 00:52:03,167
And I know it's because
I'm the oldest person here.
1466
00:52:03,250 --> 00:52:04,958
- No, no.
- No, no.
1467
00:52:05,042 --> 00:52:06,375
It's the wisest.
- The wisest.
1468
00:52:06,458 --> 00:52:08,500
- The wisest.
- The old--she knows a lot.
1469
00:52:08,542 --> 00:52:11,500
And she was married
for how many years?
1470
00:52:11,583 --> 00:52:12,833
- 60 something.
1471
00:52:12,958 --> 00:52:14,500
- 60 something years,
her marriage.
1472
00:52:14,542 --> 00:52:18,583
What would be the biggest piece
of advice that you have?
1473
00:52:18,667 --> 00:52:20,583
- To not argue.
1474
00:52:20,667 --> 00:52:22,333
To cut it off.
1475
00:52:22,417 --> 00:52:25,208
That one-upsmanship, you know--
1476
00:52:25,292 --> 00:52:26,792
- Yeah.
- Like, you say--
1477
00:52:26,875 --> 00:52:28,125
- Yeah, you did that yesterday.
1478
00:52:28,208 --> 00:52:29,333
- Oh, you're
home late for work.
1479
00:52:29,417 --> 00:52:32,583
And you say, well,
dinner wasn't
1480
00:52:32,667 --> 00:52:35,167
ready yesterday, so I figured
I'd come home late today.
1481
00:52:35,292 --> 00:52:36,500
- Yeah, that's right.
Dinner wasn't ready.
1482
00:52:36,542 --> 00:52:38,125
- And then you would
say something else.
1483
00:52:38,208 --> 00:52:39,625
- You better get used to that.
- [laughs]
1484
00:52:39,708 --> 00:52:41,167
- I mean, it just--
1485
00:52:41,208 --> 00:52:43,042
and you don't forget
those things that people say.
1486
00:52:43,125 --> 00:52:44,375
- Right.
1487
00:52:44,458 --> 00:52:45,833
- It's better
just to walk away.
1488
00:52:45,875 --> 00:52:47,542
- Pick your battles, really.
1489
00:52:47,625 --> 00:52:49,375
And the little battles
are not worth fighting.
1490
00:52:49,458 --> 00:52:51,042
- No. Nobody's perfect.
1491
00:52:51,125 --> 00:52:52,875
- Right.
1492
00:52:52,958 --> 00:52:54,167
- And, you know,
to keep pointing out
1493
00:52:54,292 --> 00:52:56,292
the imperfections,
you got to start
1494
00:52:56,375 --> 00:52:58,333
looking for the good things--
- The good in people.
1495
00:52:58,417 --> 00:52:59,333
Yeah.
1496
00:52:59,417 --> 00:53:00,875
- Instead
of what they do wrong.
1497
00:53:00,958 --> 00:53:02,458
- Yeah.
1498
00:53:02,542 --> 00:53:04,167
- Think of what they do right,
and you'll be happy.
1499
00:53:04,208 --> 00:53:06,167
- What do you think
of this, Gigi?
1500
00:53:06,208 --> 00:53:08,125
- I think the both
of you are suited well.
1501
00:53:08,208 --> 00:53:09,333
- That's very kind.
1502
00:53:09,458 --> 00:53:10,583
- And she would
not just say that.
1503
00:53:10,667 --> 00:53:11,833
- That's very kind.
- Yeah.
1504
00:53:11,917 --> 00:53:13,500
My family is everything to me.
1505
00:53:13,542 --> 00:53:16,167
And I know his parents
couldn't be here,
1506
00:53:16,250 --> 00:53:17,625
but he's vibing
with my family.
1507
00:53:17,708 --> 00:53:20,417
They're mingling.
They're getting along.
1508
00:53:20,500 --> 00:53:22,375
I just feel so excited.
1509
00:53:22,500 --> 00:53:25,333
I feel like he is just
a good, good dude.
1510
00:53:25,417 --> 00:53:27,583
- But don't expect
too much too fast.
1511
00:53:27,667 --> 00:53:28,875
- Oh, and I won't.
1512
00:53:28,958 --> 00:53:30,292
You know, we can't expect--
1513
00:53:30,375 --> 00:53:32,083
- Her expectations
are way down here.
1514
00:53:32,208 --> 00:53:34,250
- [laughs]
- No, that's not what I mean.
1515
00:53:34,375 --> 00:53:35,208
- They can only
go up from here.
1516
00:53:35,375 --> 00:53:38,167
- That's not what I mean.
[laughs]
1517
00:53:38,250 --> 00:53:40,417
- So how do you like your wife?
1518
00:53:40,500 --> 00:53:42,208
- I think she's great.
- Yeah?
1519
00:53:42,333 --> 00:53:44,542
- Yeah, she's a total catch.
Yeah.
1520
00:53:44,667 --> 00:53:45,958
Do you know how many times
I've looked back at her,
1521
00:53:46,042 --> 00:53:47,042
just to see where she's at?
1522
00:53:47,167 --> 00:53:48,417
It's like, yo, can we hang out?
1523
00:53:48,500 --> 00:53:50,125
Like, are we done with talking?
1524
00:53:50,208 --> 00:53:51,667
Like, ah.
1525
00:53:51,750 --> 00:53:53,167
- I'm getting a little bit
of mom energy,
1526
00:53:53,292 --> 00:53:54,667
honestly, out of him.
1527
00:53:54,792 --> 00:53:56,000
And I feel like that's
why I'm kind of like--
1528
00:53:56,083 --> 00:53:57,875
- Probably.
It's very calming.
1529
00:53:57,958 --> 00:53:59,375
- Yeah, it's very calming.
Like, I feel very--
1530
00:53:59,542 --> 00:54:01,250
I think that's why
I keep looking for him.
1531
00:54:01,333 --> 00:54:03,000
Like, he's like
my security blanket already.
1532
00:54:03,125 --> 00:54:04,667
- Already?
1533
00:54:04,750 --> 00:54:06,208
- I feel like y'all
are so connected.
1534
00:54:06,292 --> 00:54:08,500
- Yo, the first kiss--
- That kiss, honey.
1535
00:54:08,542 --> 00:54:10,250
Baby--
- I was not ready.
1536
00:54:10,333 --> 00:54:11,542
- Let me tell you.
- You should've saw my face.
1537
00:54:11,667 --> 00:54:12,958
I was like--
- Let me tell you.
1538
00:54:13,042 --> 00:54:14,500
I said, oh.
1539
00:54:14,583 --> 00:54:16,833
- He was like,
damn, you gorgeous.
1540
00:54:16,917 --> 00:54:19,458
Like, he liked what he saw, OK?
1541
00:54:19,542 --> 00:54:21,500
- That kiss took me aback.
1542
00:54:21,542 --> 00:54:24,667
I mean, it was welcomed, but
I just wasn't expecting that.
1543
00:54:24,833 --> 00:54:27,167
- You think you're
gonna get lucky tonight?
1544
00:54:27,292 --> 00:54:28,958
- Um--
1545
00:54:29,042 --> 00:54:30,500
- Think you're gonna get it on?
1546
00:54:30,542 --> 00:54:32,125
- Honestly,
I kind of don't want
1547
00:54:32,125 --> 00:54:33,708
to do that the first night.
1548
00:54:33,792 --> 00:54:35,250
- No?
1549
00:54:35,375 --> 00:54:37,417
- No.
- What if she starts it?
1550
00:54:37,500 --> 00:54:39,375
- What if she wants it?
- Yeah.
1551
00:54:39,542 --> 00:54:42,833
- Well, then, I'm gonna
have a really hard time.
1552
00:54:42,875 --> 00:54:44,542
OK?
1553
00:54:44,625 --> 00:54:45,875
- You might just have
to take the bullet and--
1554
00:54:45,958 --> 00:54:48,667
- Yeah, just--oh, fine.
1555
00:54:48,708 --> 00:54:50,667
- I don't want you guys
to judge me,
1556
00:54:50,750 --> 00:54:54,375
but I was kind of, like,
we have some sexual attraction.
1557
00:54:54,458 --> 00:54:57,500
I feel like it's not a bad
thing to hook up,
1558
00:54:57,583 --> 00:55:00,167
maybe have sex,
because we are married.
1559
00:55:00,250 --> 00:55:02,083
And I feel like
sometimes it's, like,
1560
00:55:02,167 --> 00:55:04,250
a good segue into,
like, OK, now let's
1561
00:55:04,375 --> 00:55:05,583
get into the emotional stuff.
1562
00:55:05,708 --> 00:55:07,042
I don't feel like
he needs to work for it,
1563
00:55:07,125 --> 00:55:08,375
I need to work for it.
1564
00:55:08,458 --> 00:55:09,500
Like, we're married.
1565
00:55:09,667 --> 00:55:11,000
- He is a good kisser.
- Is he?
1566
00:55:11,083 --> 00:55:12,792
- Yeah.
1567
00:55:12,875 --> 00:55:14,000
- Do you feel like you got,
like, good kissing chemistry?
1568
00:55:14,083 --> 00:55:15,542
- Yeah, yeah.
1569
00:55:15,667 --> 00:55:16,875
He's great.
- How was the first kiss?
1570
00:55:17,000 --> 00:55:18,667
- Great.
- It looked great.
1571
00:55:18,750 --> 00:55:19,875
- It was--
yeah, we're like, juicy.
1572
00:55:19,958 --> 00:55:21,458
Damn.
1573
00:55:21,542 --> 00:55:23,375
- What are you
gonna do tonight?
1574
00:55:23,458 --> 00:55:26,500
- We're gonna go spend
our first night together,
1575
00:55:26,542 --> 00:55:29,667
and hopefully, spend our whole
night talking and playing N64.
1576
00:55:29,750 --> 00:55:31,875
And, like, whatever
she wants, I'll do.
1577
00:55:31,958 --> 00:55:36,458
- I feel like I definitely
want to snuggle him,
1578
00:55:36,542 --> 00:55:38,875
kiss him again,
and we'll see where that goes.
1579
00:55:39,042 --> 00:55:41,833
But, like, medically, I don't
think I feel ready enough
1580
00:55:41,917 --> 00:55:43,333
to do anything more.
1581
00:55:43,458 --> 00:55:45,375
Just excited
to talk to him more.
1582
00:55:45,458 --> 00:55:47,750
- From everything
I've learned tonight
1583
00:55:47,875 --> 00:55:52,167
and from everything I've seen,
I'm excited to, like,
1584
00:55:52,250 --> 00:55:54,792
get to know her
on a deeper level.
1585
00:55:54,875 --> 00:55:56,292
- I, like, really have
a weird feeling about this.
1586
00:55:56,375 --> 00:55:58,125
- I do too.
1587
00:55:58,208 --> 00:55:59,833
- I feel like
it's too good to be true.
1588
00:55:59,917 --> 00:56:02,333
And, like, guys,
I really like this venue.
1589
00:56:02,458 --> 00:56:04,083
- Everything has
been so perfect.
1590
00:56:04,208 --> 00:56:05,958
- I'm gonna cry.
- Why are you gonna cry?
1591
00:56:06,042 --> 00:56:07,958
- 'Cause, like, I just
feel like everything is--
1592
00:56:07,958 --> 00:56:10,167
[sobbing]
So, like, good.
1593
00:56:10,250 --> 00:56:11,708
- You're gonna make me cry.
1594
00:56:11,792 --> 00:56:12,875
- I mean, you've waited
your whole life for this.
1595
00:56:12,958 --> 00:56:14,333
You deserve this.
1596
00:56:14,417 --> 00:56:15,667
- I know, and it's just
weird that it just was
1597
00:56:15,750 --> 00:56:18,500
all better than I expected.
1598
00:56:18,583 --> 00:56:20,917
- So, Emily, you guys
get to the hotel room--
1599
00:56:21,000 --> 00:56:23,375
- Are you gonna whip out
the lingerie and the handcuffs?
1600
00:56:23,458 --> 00:56:25,375
- I don't--
I have the handcuffs.
1601
00:56:25,500 --> 00:56:26,833
I brought the key.
- You brought the handcuffs?
1602
00:56:26,958 --> 00:56:28,417
- But I was like--
1603
00:56:28,500 --> 00:56:30,500
no, I didn't bring the whip.
1604
00:56:30,583 --> 00:56:32,500
- We asked her about like,
hey, sex tonight?
1605
00:56:32,542 --> 00:56:34,042
And then, what did she say?
1606
00:56:34,125 --> 00:56:35,875
- She said, this is
a different circumstance.
1607
00:56:35,958 --> 00:56:37,458
I am now a married woman.
1608
00:56:37,542 --> 00:56:39,458
So she said, you know,
I'm open to whatever happens,
1609
00:56:39,542 --> 00:56:41,375
where, you know,
things go a little bit more.
1610
00:56:41,458 --> 00:56:43,417
- I should have you
talk to her more often.
1611
00:56:43,542 --> 00:56:45,208
[laughter]
- I don't know.
1612
00:56:45,333 --> 00:56:46,917
Do I put on this red
little spicy number?
1613
00:56:47,000 --> 00:56:49,333
- I say, like, feel it out.
See how it goes.
1614
00:56:49,458 --> 00:56:51,375
- I'm going to take his lead.
1615
00:56:51,500 --> 00:56:53,667
- ♪ Put your body on me
1616
00:56:53,750 --> 00:56:54,750
♪ Give it to me right now
1617
00:56:58,667 --> 00:57:03,417
- ♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
1618
00:57:03,500 --> 00:57:07,833
♪ Gosh, we're going strong
1619
00:57:07,875 --> 00:57:10,167
[upbeat music]
1620
00:57:10,250 --> 00:57:14,750
♪ Right where we belong
1621
00:57:14,875 --> 00:57:18,542
♪
1622
00:57:18,625 --> 00:57:20,833
♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
1623
00:57:20,917 --> 00:57:23,667
- I was tired of searching
for my person.
1624
00:57:23,792 --> 00:57:26,833
I really wanted
my person to find me.
1625
00:57:26,917 --> 00:57:30,000
And I honestly feel like
the universe delivered
1626
00:57:30,125 --> 00:57:33,000
a really special person to me.
1627
00:57:33,042 --> 00:57:37,542
- ♪ Ooh, ooh, ooh, ooh
1628
00:57:37,667 --> 00:57:39,583
I know I don't know him yet,
1629
00:57:39,667 --> 00:57:41,792
but I feel like I'm
supposed to know him
1630
00:57:41,875 --> 00:57:44,000
and he's supposed
to be in my life.
1631
00:57:44,083 --> 00:57:46,500
So it's gonna make me
cry a little bit,
1632
00:57:46,583 --> 00:57:50,167
but I got married
to meet Orion.
1633
00:57:50,250 --> 00:57:57,208
♪
1634
00:57:57,292 --> 00:58:00,125
[cheering]
1635
00:58:00,208 --> 00:58:04,500
♪
1636
00:58:04,583 --> 00:58:07,542
- I'm pleasantly
surprised at how excited
1637
00:58:07,667 --> 00:58:09,833
I am to get to know my wife.
1638
00:58:09,917 --> 00:58:11,958
I think Clare is very pretty.
1639
00:58:12,042 --> 00:58:16,750
And not only that, I could see
us working for the long haul.
1640
00:58:16,875 --> 00:58:20,667
♪
1641
00:58:20,708 --> 00:58:23,917
I can't wait
to travel with my wife.
1642
00:58:24,042 --> 00:58:27,708
I can't wait to buy
our first car together,
1643
00:58:27,833 --> 00:58:29,333
you know,
maybe get a dog together,
1644
00:58:29,417 --> 00:58:32,000
to experience a shared life.
1645
00:58:32,083 --> 00:58:35,000
And I think,
from what I can tell,
1646
00:58:35,083 --> 00:58:40,458
Clare is everything that I
wanted and want in a wife.
1647
00:58:40,542 --> 00:58:47,125
♪
1648
00:58:47,208 --> 00:58:50,417
- ♪ Power
1649
00:58:50,500 --> 00:58:54,250
♪ This is the magic
1650
00:58:54,375 --> 00:58:57,375
♪ This is the magic
1651
00:58:57,500 --> 00:59:01,333
♪ This is the magic
1652
00:59:01,417 --> 00:59:04,667
♪ For me and you
1653
00:59:04,750 --> 00:59:06,458
- I'm so happy.
1654
00:59:06,542 --> 00:59:08,458
Austin seems so
kind and genuine
1655
00:59:08,542 --> 00:59:10,125
and, like,
that was my biggest worry.
1656
00:59:10,208 --> 00:59:12,667
So my hopes
for the future are that we
1657
00:59:12,708 --> 00:59:14,167
just continue to get along.
1658
00:59:14,250 --> 00:59:17,250
I'm sure that it won't
always be this great,
1659
00:59:17,333 --> 00:59:19,208
but it feels exciting.
1660
00:59:19,292 --> 00:59:25,250
It feels like this is the first
day of many, many good days.
1661
00:59:25,333 --> 00:59:27,750
- ♪ The magic, magic, magic
1662
00:59:27,833 --> 00:59:31,000
- Yeah, I'm ready to see what
1663
00:59:31,083 --> 00:59:34,250
life has in store,
for better, for worse, baby.
1664
00:59:34,375 --> 00:59:38,750
♪
1665
00:59:38,833 --> 00:59:41,667
- ♪ My, my favorite thing
1666
00:59:41,792 --> 00:59:43,833
♪ You're my everything
1667
00:59:43,875 --> 00:59:46,042
♪ All the joy you bring
1668
00:59:46,167 --> 00:59:48,167
♪ My favorite thing
1669
00:59:48,208 --> 00:59:52,750
- Overall experience
of today was just mind blowing.
1670
00:59:52,875 --> 00:59:56,292
Like, I didn't expect to find
my husband so attractive.
1671
00:59:56,292 --> 00:59:58,000
Like, I love his personality.
I love his family.
1672
00:59:58,083 --> 01:00:00,583
Like, it just was truly,
like, magical.
1673
01:00:00,667 --> 01:00:03,292
- ♪ All the joy you bring
1674
01:00:03,292 --> 01:00:06,000
♪ My favorite thing
1675
01:00:06,042 --> 01:00:10,875
- I'm going to ride the wave
with him now guiding me.
1676
01:00:10,958 --> 01:00:14,042
See where this night takes us.
1677
01:00:14,125 --> 01:00:16,000
♪
1678
01:00:16,083 --> 01:00:18,000
Didn't bring the whip,
but I did bring the handcuffs,
1679
01:00:18,042 --> 01:00:19,333
not the key.
1680
01:00:19,458 --> 01:00:20,542
So that could get
a little tricky.
1681
01:00:20,667 --> 01:00:23,125
- ♪ All the joy you bring
1682
01:00:23,208 --> 01:00:26,042
♪ My favorite thing
1683
01:00:26,125 --> 01:00:27,917
♪
1684
01:00:28,042 --> 01:00:29,708
- Here we go!
1685
01:00:29,792 --> 01:00:32,583
- This season on
"Married at First Sight"...
1686
01:00:32,708 --> 01:00:35,000
- ♪ Here we go, yeah
1687
01:00:35,125 --> 01:00:39,625
♪ Here we go,
na, na, na, na ♪
1688
01:00:39,708 --> 01:00:41,167
♪ Y'all ready for this
1689
01:00:41,250 --> 01:00:43,208
♪ Nothing can stop me now,
here we go ♪
1690
01:00:43,292 --> 01:00:46,625
- I think it is really amazing
how well we got matched
1691
01:00:46,708 --> 01:00:48,167
together by the experts.
1692
01:00:48,292 --> 01:00:49,667
- He's cute.
1693
01:00:49,750 --> 01:00:51,833
- ♪ I'm afraid
1694
01:00:51,917 --> 01:00:54,958
- I love being married
to Austin.
1695
01:00:55,042 --> 01:00:56,375
- Killed it!
1696
01:00:56,500 --> 01:00:59,125
- We're already way beyond
what I could have imagined.
1697
01:00:59,208 --> 01:01:00,625
- ♪ I won't quit
1698
01:01:00,708 --> 01:01:01,667
♪ I'll stick with it
1699
01:01:01,708 --> 01:01:04,042
- Wild send out.
1700
01:01:04,125 --> 01:01:06,458
- This is the type of
relationship I always wanted.
1701
01:01:06,542 --> 01:01:07,833
I'm just hoping I don't puke.
1702
01:01:07,875 --> 01:01:10,625
- ♪ Do it anyway,
do it anyway ♪
1703
01:01:10,708 --> 01:01:12,833
- Totally rad. Oh!
1704
01:01:12,875 --> 01:01:15,708
- ♪ Do it anyway,
do it anyway ♪
1705
01:01:15,833 --> 01:01:18,500
- I don't feel comfortable
with the fact that, you know,
1706
01:01:18,583 --> 01:01:20,000
you did sleep
with somebody else.
1707
01:01:20,083 --> 01:01:22,292
- I did.
1708
01:01:22,375 --> 01:01:23,917
- ♪ Sometimes we fall
1709
01:01:24,000 --> 01:01:25,333
♪ But now we rise
1710
01:01:25,417 --> 01:01:27,167
♪ Keep my head up to the sky
1711
01:01:27,292 --> 01:01:28,875
- Do you see a future with me?
- Well, not--no, let me finish.
1712
01:01:29,000 --> 01:01:30,125
- Do you see a future with me?
1713
01:01:30,208 --> 01:01:31,833
- Cutting me off really
does piss me off.
1714
01:01:31,875 --> 01:01:32,958
- When you act
like that, again,
1715
01:01:33,042 --> 01:01:34,375
it makes feel like [bleep].
1716
01:01:34,458 --> 01:01:36,000
And you can just suck it up.
1717
01:01:36,083 --> 01:01:37,833
- We are appalled
that this happened
1718
01:01:37,875 --> 01:01:40,375
and feel so bad for you.
1719
01:01:40,500 --> 01:01:42,167
- I did feel myself
falling for him.
1720
01:01:42,250 --> 01:01:44,625
And now I'm just like,
well, what the [bleep]?
1721
01:01:44,708 --> 01:01:45,833
- What are y'all
not telling me?
1722
01:01:45,958 --> 01:01:49,375
- How dare you even
ask that question?
1723
01:01:49,458 --> 01:01:50,833
- I still need time
1724
01:01:50,958 --> 01:01:52,875
to, like, work through
certain things that could
1725
01:01:53,000 --> 01:01:54,750
like, really tear us apart.
1726
01:01:54,875 --> 01:01:56,500
- It's really hard.
1727
01:01:56,583 --> 01:01:59,167
- Did I make
the right decision?
1728
01:01:59,292 --> 01:02:02,083
- I can't believe you'd [bleep]
say something like that.
1729
01:02:02,167 --> 01:02:03,792
I've always been
really confident.
1730
01:02:03,875 --> 01:02:05,875
Like, I know this.
But it still like, just sucks.
1731
01:02:05,958 --> 01:02:08,833
- I am really just
feeling heartbroken.
1732
01:02:08,917 --> 01:02:10,917
- I would never take
those days back.
1733
01:02:11,000 --> 01:02:14,167
- I just feel, like, guilty.
1734
01:02:14,208 --> 01:02:15,958
- There's nothing--
more remorse.
1735
01:02:16,042 --> 01:02:17,500
There's nothing I can do.
1736
01:02:17,625 --> 01:02:19,500
[crying]
1737
01:02:19,542 --> 01:02:22,083
[dramatic music]
1738
01:02:22,208 --> 01:02:24,292
- Oh, no.
1739
01:02:24,375 --> 01:02:26,500
[siren wailing]
[bleep]
1740
01:02:26,542 --> 01:02:32,000
♪
1741
01:02:32,042 --> 01:02:34,625
- There has been some
talk about if you
1742
01:02:34,708 --> 01:02:39,333
would be willing
to take another chance.
1743
01:02:39,417 --> 01:02:44,292
♪
1744
01:02:44,375 --> 01:02:48,167
- The time is here
for you to decide...
1745
01:02:48,250 --> 01:02:50,000
- If you want
to stay married...
1746
01:02:50,083 --> 01:02:52,208
- Or do you want
to get a divorce?
1747
01:02:52,292 --> 01:02:59,208
♪
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