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Previously on "You Me Her"...I told you, Izzy,
this was a mistake.

If you walk out that door,
you are dead to me.

Are you sure you left
for the right reasons

and you're still getting
a divorce on Monday

and driving back to Seattle?
-Yes.

We agreed that before
we started talking about

nannies and daycare,
the girls would be 3 years old.

What is wrong with your entire
generation of men?

Oh, oh, oh, oh, oh!

Well, when I was a kid, my dad
used to leave me at a bar

while he did God knows what
in the back.Huh.

How long are you gonna
keep showing up like this?

Until you forgive me
or my project ends.

You know, what would look
really good

on this tiny finger
right there?

Jack, I have an idea.
Why don't Ipropose to you?

-Jack Trakarsky?
-Yes?

-I almost proposed to Jack.
-That's awesome.

Nina, why is Shaun
cooking dinner in your kitchen?

-You're pregnant.
-I am that.

Ky, I'm sorry.
It was a massive mistake.

I'll go with you.

You have a right to know.

♪♪

Jack, did you hear
what I said?

Yeah, um...

When you say
I have a right to know,

we're talking about...

Mm-hmm.

[ Sighs ]

So what happens now?

Haven't really had a chance
to explore my options.

Kylie offered...to take me.

I-I didn't say yes.

I also didn't say no.

-Jack...
-What?

Jack, can we just...

can we just sit down and talk
about this like grownups?

Yeah, I'm supposed to
be playing it cool, I guess.

That's how you want me
to react?

Please. I'm intrigued.

Tell me more about your plan
to abort the baby

we've been trying to have
for the last seven years.

Okay, can you tone down
the righteous indignation

to a seven or an eight, huh?

We both agreed what happened
was a huge mistake.

So it's pretty fucking
complicated, Jack.

You know, we shouldn't have
this conversation here.What? Why?

Because Izzy has a meeting with
her thesis counselor right now.

"The Myth of Polyfidelity."

Great premise. Well done.

Thanks. Uh, I call it
"The Communism of Relationships"

because it's way better in
theory than it is on its feet.

Fascinating.

You have no idea what
I'm talking about, do you?

I'm familiar with
the concept of polyamory.

Oh. Okay.

Uh, well, polyfidelity is
the fucktarded effort

to make polyamory exclusive
and -- and permanent,

or so I've read.

Why are you so afraid of Izzy?

She would freak out if she knew
I was talking to you right now.

-She hates you.
-[ Sighs ]

Your caller ID on her phone
is "Dead to Me."

She didn't return her father's
calls for over a year,

and he only left her once.

I'm meeting him tonight,
by the way.

[ Scoffs ]

-That's a big step.
-I know.

I've had the engagement ring
in my underwear drawer

for five weeks now.
-[ Laughs ]

Well, not one to drag
your feet, are you, Jack?

Remind me, how quickly
did you jump uteruses?

Or -- or is it uteri?

Feeling fucking wounded,
Em, are you?

Okay, well, look at it from
my fucking point of view, okay?

My ex-wife shows up
in slippers

to tell me that
her new girlfriend

is gonna be escorting her
to the Abortion Ball.

[ Whispers ] Okay, that's
so fucking offensive.In what fucking way?

In the way that I am
fucking pregnant.

Holy shit.

[ Whispers ] Yeah.

Aside from the obvious --

cultural conditioning,
insecurity, jealousy,

why do you think
polyfidelity is, uh...

"fucktarded"?

Hello?

Izzy?

I'm 38 years old.
I live in Seattle,

where I'm gonna be
managing partner at my firm.

I'm with a woman who has
literally said

on multiple occasions
these three words --

"Babies are gross."

Is that...

-Dr. Trakarsky --
-Jesus! Wear a bell.

So sorry. That came out
very disrespectful.

Well, is there
a respectful way

to tell your advisor
to wear a bell?

What is she doing here?

[ Scoffs ] Unbelievable.

-What do you want?
-I don't know.

That's why I haven't RSVP'd
to the Abortion Ball.

Maybe you decided
you didn't want kids

when you realized
you couldn't have them.

You really think now is
the time for "I told you so's"?

Actually, I think this should
be the happiest moment

of both of our lives.

Don't have an abortion.

We can figure something out.

Will you at least...
think about it?

I will. I promise.

Don't say anything to Izzy.

Not now.

She and I are just about
to go all in together, and...

You are, um...

undecided.

Are you lost?[ Descending footsteps ]

Couldn't make it
in the big city?

Road the rails back to Portland?

These are my driving clothes.

I like to be comfortable.

Well, how 'bout we just cut
straight to the part

where you tell me
what the fuck is going on?

I am staying at the Carlyle.
I went for a walk.

It's right over there,
just a mile.

And you wore slippers?

Forgot my sneaks.

Okay.

And you didn't tell Jack
you were gonna be in town?

Meeting came together
at the last minute, so...

-You can ask him.
-Oh. I will.

And maybe I'll give you
a call at the Carlyle.

Well, I'm not there.
I'm here. So...

You know, just to see if
you're registered.

Izzy, I don't know why
we can't be amicable.

I-I know that what happened
at the loft --

Look, just stop dropping
in and out of our lives.

Let us move forward.

Okay.

♪ Yeah, we're never
quite right ♪

[ Touchscreen clicking ]

♪♪

♪♪

[ Cellphone vibrates ]

♪♪

-[ Sighs heavily ]
-Yeah, 8's good,

assuming Jack's still alive
by then.

Oh, no. He's perfectly healthy.

But people inexplicably fall
out of windows every day

in this country.

Google it.

Okay. Bye.

[ Knock on door ]Hello?

[ Cellphone vibrates ]

[ Whispers ] Okay.
Okay, Silva. Be cool, be cool.

[ Inhales deeply ]
Just don't be that girl.

Just...

♪♪

I get -- I get that I'm coming
off a little nutty over here.

Um, I'm actually caffeine
sensitive and I just threw back,

like, four cups
of Kenyan Dark, so...

♪♪

Okay, now I hear you wondering
why I would drink four cups

of Kenyan Dark if I have
a caffeine sensitivity.

Well...maybe that's why
I'm seeing the head shrinker.

Did you ever think of that?

-Hey.
-Hi.

-Bumblebutt.
-Bumblebutt?

[ Chuckles ] Yeah.

[ Door closes ]

-How was your meeting?
-Good. Fine.

Yeah?Dad just called.
8 still okay?

Are you a steak guy? Is it weird
that I don't know that?

Hey, we're all steak guys.

Some of us just pretend
we're not

so we can laid by some
pale skinny women.

Hmm.

Speaking of
pale, skinny women...

You -- you saw Emma, too?

Everyone lived?
[ Sighs deeply ]

-Not in my imagination.
-Mm.

"Bitterness is
like drinking poison

to kill your enemy,"
young lady.

-Why you talking like that?
-It's a saying.

Uh...

It felt like it was from
the old times.

Okay, so, um, why is, uh,

why is she here again?

She was at a meeting,

and she's staying
at the Carlyle.

Mm. That's what she said.

-Yeah, that's the gist of it.
-Right.

So why is
my Spidey sense screaming

that something weird's
going down?

[ Exhales deeply ]

I don't know. I mean, you --
we've discussed this.

You have no version
of a sixth sense at all.

-Right.
-You're way below the mean

when it comes to
basic human intuition.
Oh.

So nice try,
but off target.

What?

Ow.

Maybe don't shave.

He's the one on trial,
not you, right?

-Your dad?
-Mm-hmm.

Yeah. I wanna make
a good first impression.

Maybe I'll show up late,
you know, sweat pants on,

half-drunk.
-That's perfect.

-That'd be good, right?
-Yeah. It's perfect.

Oh! [ Laughs ] That...

Okay.

-You're leaving? That's it?
-Yeah.

All right.

-I'll see ya.
-Mm-hmm.

Yeah, have a good one.

[ Door closes ]Fuck me!

Ugh. Mm.

Hey, Carm?

Hi. I just wanna stop by

and say that I love you,

you know, before I go to Seattle
and probably get an abortion.

and beg Kylie to forgive me.

Oh, and yes,
I am mostly wearing

the clothes that
I slept in last night.

But for the record,
I did brush my teeth.

[ Baby babbles and giggles ]

[ Chuckles ]

Wouldn't that be hysterical?
Uh-huh.

Okay, well,
I just wanted to play

that clever little prank
on you.

So best to you and to yours.

[ Front door opens ]You left some banana here.

[ Front door closes ]

Kind of puts our little problem
into perspective, huh?

[ Sighs ] Well, it's not little,
So no. No, it doesn't.

So do you guys want to play
princesses or princesses?

Princesses.

All right.
To the treasure trunk!

[ Imitates rocket firing ]

[ Giggles ]

♪♪

♪ I don't feel your light

♪ I hear a storm inside

♪♪

♪ Reaching like a great divide

♪ I'll be sleeping through...

Mnh.That's okay. You just gotta
aim better.

So how about school?

[ Scoffs ]
Didn't work out too much.

Mm.

[ Gasps ]

Nice one.

♪♪

You really should finish.

You really should mind
your own business.

Okay. Totally cool.

Just getting
my volunteer hours.

You don't know anything
about anything.

I got kicked out junior year,
but...whatever.

For what?

[ Pool balls clack ]

Uh, when my dad bailed,
I went on a bit of a rampage.

Drugs, skipping,
failing, fighting,

all the things.

I went to Algebra on acid.

I do not recommend it.
[ Laughs ]

Hmm. And now,
you're a grad student.

I am. Yeah.

I tested into
a granola bad kids school

and I graduated with honors.

And then I wrote one hell
of a tearjerker essay

for my college apps.

Mm-hmm. You're like a PSA.

In the flesh.

[ Chuckles ]

I can't enroll anyway.
I don't have an address.

[ Balls clack ]

♪♪

No family at all?

No. Well, other than my grandma,
but we haven't talked in years.

And she is nuts.

♪♪

Don't get that stupid
savior look in your eye.

Savior? Me?

No. No, no, no.
That is not my thing. No.

More of the acid-dropping,
pool shark type.

Mm.

-Go ahead.
-Stop smiling. I'm serious.

-Oh, now I can't smile?
-No.

Well, I know you can'tsmile,
but I'm allowed to smile.

Go.

♪♪

Okay, so we've had
a few cancellations
for the party tonight,

but I think we've got
a good representation

from the West Coast princesses,
right?

Now who was in charge of snacks?
Was that you, Callie?[ Front door opens ]

-Callie: No.
-Did you bring any snacks?

Dave: [ Chuckles ] Oh,
was that a little hiccup?

Was it a magic hiccup
or just a regular one?

You have to have your gloves.
That's important.

-Can you help me?
-Yes, of course I can.

Is this a left or the right?
Here we go. Your left.

Okay, now can you make
your fingers like this?Yeah.

[ Laughs ] Hey!

I thought I heard
a persistent ticking

in the background.

In case you're not clear,
that's another, um,
biological clock joke.

-Callie: You did it!
-I did it. We did it together.

What do you want, honey?
This one?

-[ Callie giggles ]
-Put it on nicely, okay?

[ Giggles ]

You can be Princess Monsterface.

[ Scoffs ]That's a good name for you,
'cause you really do...

Oh.

Jeez, uh...

is this about Emma and, um...

Yeah, I mean, she came all
this way to tell me.

That has to mean something,
right?

Why else would she just...
show up like that?

Honestly, I'm, uh, punching out
of my weight class on this one.

Is Carmen around?

No, she ran after Emma.
Grand Central Station here.

-Here you go, sweetie.
-Mm.

What do you think,
Princess Callie?
What should I do?

-Twirl around.
-Just twirl?

-Twirl.
-Oh.

Ready? Like this?

-Mm-hmm.
-Okay.

Do you want wings?
We have extra wings.

No, I feel better already.

-There you go.
-Thanks. Here.

♪♪

See?

♪♪

And then I'm thinking that
I'm gonna open up a, uh,

my own practice,
sex therapy,

but with more of
a holistic approach,
you know?

That's so cool.
And refreshing.

[ Chuckles ] How is that?

Hey, I don't like it when
women impugn my entire gender

like we're one giant organism,

so I sure as hell don't want
to throw it back the other way.

-But...
-But what?

[ Sighs ] Let's just say
it ain't easy out there.

Word to that, my brother.

[ Glasses clink ]

Okay, time's up. Remember
the parameters of our --

Yeah, I'm good for now,
but thanks...

[ Whispers ]
intrusive barkeep.

Right, but you --
you told me that --No, seriously, I'm -- I'm good.

Gotcha. Fuck science, right?

[ Laughter ]

Oh, laughing.

And how about you,
Captain Sensitive Pants?

-Are you -- you good?
-Um...yeah.

Yeah?

-[ Laughs ]
-That's cool.

Cool.

[ Whispers ] I don't know.

That was interesting.

[ Lowered voice ] Yeah, I think
they get a-a tax rebate

for employing him.
-Shaun: I heard that.

[ Indistinct conversations ]

-What?
-Not to make this weird, but...

I feel like I know you,
Nina.

♪♪

Are you...did I --

Did you just say,
"I see you, Nina Martone"?

Actually, no, I said,
"I feel like I know you, Nina."

Let me guess.
You, uh, you got it from

"The Millennial Twat's Guide to
Getting Laid" by Andy Cutler?

Wow, so I'm a twat now.
Nice.

I'm clinging to
a thread of hope here.

Uh, are you fucking with me?

What -- what does that
even mean, anyway?

Like, um, like you -- you can
see my soul? [ Scoffs ]

The -- the vulnerable
little girl

that forever lives
in my heart?

And then, um, seven weeks later,
you wanna slow things down,

which apparently is code for

"I'm breaking up with you
in nine days"?

Did you take an unfortunate
combination of drugs

to prepare for this date?
Or are you just crazy?

[ Glass thuds ]

[ Ice clattering,
drink dripping ]

-Shaun: Oh. Ohh.
-Crazy it is.

Okay.Yeah, I'd say drinks are
on the house instead of your...

your crotch, but, uh...

She works here, so...
Yeah. Cool. Oh.

[ Sighs ] I-I need to admit
something to you, okay?

So don't fuck it up.

♪♪

Okay, but I'm not that good
under pressure.

I...have a...

♪♪

...pretty girl ego.

Oh, is that when I was
supposed to be surprised?

[ Scoffs ] But I've only
seriously opened myself up

to two guys
in my entire life,

and -- and they both
shat on my head.

Disrespectful.

And highly coincidental.
Did they know each other?

I mean, were they part of, uh,
same scatological fraternity?

[ Laughs ] Right?

Listen, I think we've come up

with the real question
of your thesis.

Oh, fuck. [ Exhales sharply ]
Fine, whatever. I'll bite.

What's the real question
of my thesis?

"What is wrong with me?"

♪♪

Like you. You're saying it.

You're saying,
"What is wrong with me?"

You know?
Because you know that's true.

[ Chuckles ]

Okay, um, let's clear
some shit up here, Shaun.

First of all, fuck you

and your latest annoying attempt
at bartender wisdom.

Okay, don't do that. Don't --
don't put up the Nina armor.

I'm just trying to --And I already have
a mejor amiga,fucking clown.

♪♪

[ Footsteps depart ]

♪♪

[ Children shouting playfully,
crow cawing ]

[ Swing creaking ]

Why do I get the sense that
you're correlating

me sitting on a swing,
staring at a stuffed octopus,

with my wanting to keep
this baby?

Am I even necessary
in this conversation?

I should be in my car,

on the way back
to Seattle right now.

Yet here you are,
sitting on a swing,

staring at an octopus.

You know those people
who are so deep in Scientology

that they can't turn back?

Like, even when they know
it's about tiny aliens?

They just forge on because
it's easier than admitting

how fucked up it all is.

So you're saying Seattle's
your Church of Scientology?

Yep.

You don't seem surprised.

Well, that's mostly
because I'm not.

Jack was right.

I wasn't following
my truths.

I was running away.

I mean...

my job is awesome.

And Kylie's awesomer.

Well, a lot of things are
awesome and awesomer.

Em, what really matters is,

what do you want?

♪♪

I want this baby.

And?

And I want my husband.

And Izzy.

Do you think Izzy
will forgive me?

Well, begging for forgiveness is
kind of your thing now, right?

Yeah. Yeah, I mean,
my grovel game is on point.

[ Laughs ]

Yellow roses.

Did you just have a stroke
and say "yellow roses"

out of nowhere?

It's the official flower
of apology.

See? That's why I love you.
You know shit like that.

Oh. [ Exhales slowly ]

Ugh! How come you always get
to be the caged tiger, okay?

Maybe this time, I wanna be
the caged tiger.

-You think about that?
-It's a big cage.

So what? We're supposed to
do it at the same time?

-Why not?
-That's new.

Do I just...do I...

-You just walk.
-Do I like it?

Fuck, yeah.
I think I might like it.You do. It's good. You first.

Fucking Shaun.

-What?
-No, no. [ Laughs ]

No, not me fucking Shaun.
Like, God, no.

Shaun's pissing me off.

Okay. So Shaun can
piss you off now?

Which means you give a damn
about Shaun.

Um, that is so stupid.

Just stop saying stupid shit
and try to be less stupid.

He's big and he's furry
and he wears a rotation

of, like,
four weird t-shirts.

Okay, I get it.
Shaun's not your type.

So, uh, what'd he do
to piss you off?

He... [ Scoffs ] he says that
my thesis isn't really about

the plight of
the millennial male --

that it's about me.

-No.
-Yeah. Yeah.

And h's, um, he says that
I'm trying to figure out

what's wrong with me,
why guys keep leaving me.

Can you believe that?

-No.
-Yeah. And...

Wait. Wait are you saying no,
like, "No fucking shit"?

Yeah, I am.

Nina, there's been 2 guys
in 10 years.

Three including today's
thesis date,

who was actually
a really cool guy.

Okay.

And he, um, took off

when I called him a twat
and threw a drink in his face.

[ Laughs ] What a pussy.

Right?

[ Both laugh ]

-Oh, okay.
-I-I just --

I can't shake this feeling
that Emma's here

for more than
a business meeting, you know?

[ Knock on door ]

-What the fuck?
-I ordered pizza.

-Oh. Sweet.
-Yeah.

I'm starving.

Um... [ Clears throat ]

You can't talk to me
like that,

especially in front
of customers.

Um...o-okay.

So however it's going to be
between us, it is not...

it is not gonna be
like that.

Fine. Um, I'm sorry.

And I'll work on it.

Okay.

Uh...

-Izzy.
-Shaun.

Okay. So to be continued.

Yeah.

Hmm.

[ Footsteps depart ]

So...what have we learned here
today in the tiger cage?

Shaun's got a surprisingly
impressive pair.

[ Laughs ]

And you need to stop
obsessing over Emma.

-What a beer?
-Yeah.

♪♪

Damn it.

Uh, maybe we could save
this look

for the second time
we meet my dad?

[ Sighs ]

Oh, my God.
You are nervous.

That is very cute.

It's the first time I met
someone's dad since Hal Seaver.

Yeah? And how did that go?

He gave me a pamphlet
for conversion therapy.

Ha ha. Well...well,
it looked like it worked.

Mm.

But you have to wait
until we get home.

Okay, then I'm gonna
challenge your father

to a speed eating contest.
-[ Chuckles ]

I love you.Well, duh. I'm touching on
your privates.

[ Knock on door ]

I'll get this one 'cause...

-Yeah. Yeah.
-You know...

[ Exhales deeply ]
Okay, I'll pick out

the perfect pair
of father-meeting undies.

Mm-hmm.

Oh, hey, Em. What the fuck
are you doing here?

Yellow roses,

the official flower
of apology.

Would it help if I knelt?
Others have enjoyed it.

That seems excessive.

But I would move one way
or the other if I were you.

Why?

I dig the vase.

What'd I tell you
this morning, Em?

I told you to
stay the fuck away.

Did it seem like
I was joking?

Yes, would you please
just hear me out?

Who was that?

It was just some lost chick.

A lost chick with a vase?

I know.
That's weird, right?

[ Rah Rah's "Chip Off the Heart"
playing ]

♪ When you left, I thought
we'd left everything okay ♪

♪ I wanted more,
I thought you swore ♪

♪ That you wanted to stay

♪ You touch her hand,
you touch her waist ♪

♪ When you know I could see

♪ Take it easy, take it easy,
take it easy on me ♪

♪ Just another chip, chip,
chip off the heart ♪

♪ Just another chip,
chip, chip off the heart ♪

♪ Just another chip, chip,
chip off the heart ♪

♪ Just another chip,
chip, chip off the heart ♪

♪♪