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FIXES-SYNC
by VaVooM
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And welcome back
to
Good Day Portland.
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I'm Bink Williams.
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With me, as always,
my delightful co-host...
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Misty McAllister.
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And with us in our second hour,
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Dr. Miranda Faraday,
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founder of a new
breakup boot camp
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that's taking Portland by storm.
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Now, correct me
if I'm wrong, Miranda,
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you're a psychologist?
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A Ph.D., yes.
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Right, and you provide
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a six-week
health and wellness program
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to heal the recently
broken-hearted?
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Exactly.
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When you typically
get out of a relationship,
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you want one of two things,
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to have the relationship
not be over,
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or to be over the relationship,
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and one of those things
we can't control,
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but the other
is well within our power.
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Well, it sounds like something
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that could help someone
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who maybe
can't get over lost love.
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Well, sometimes,
people hide their true selves
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until six months in,
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when you witness her
scream at a waiter,
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making him cry,
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but tell us how this all works.
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Each week has a theme.
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"Release, Endurance, Teamwork,
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Connection, Trust, and Closure",
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and we do a coordinated
activity or exercise
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in keeping with
the word of the week.
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People may feel like
broken hearts last forever,
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but I am here to tell them
that it doesn't.
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Okay, folks,
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we're going to go to Rick
for the weather,
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and when we return,
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Dr. Miranda Faraday
will tell us more
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about her program.
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Miranda?
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He's going to need
your business card,
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like, right now.
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Yeah.
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Well, everyone kept saying
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how he's this young,
financial genius,
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and they're crediting
my reporting
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for taking down
what turned out to be
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this massive Ponzi scheme.
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The reason I didn't see you
for three weeks.
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Jen, I'm doing this for us.
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I'm working really hard
to prove myself,
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and they're finally
starting to take notice.
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That's great,
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but I need you to take notice
of other things.
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Like what?
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It's been six months.
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Where are we going?
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Right now,
we're going to dinner.
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Ben, we hardly see each other
these days.
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I'm on track
to become an editor,
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and then I get to be the one
handing out the assignments,
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but in the meantime,
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I kinda gotta write
what they tell me to write.
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And I need someone
who is present.
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I am.
I'm right here.
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Look, let's not focus
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on the time
that we don't spend together,
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and instead
enjoy the time that we do.
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That's not enough for me, Ben.
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Something's got to give.
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Are you asking me to choose
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between you and my career?
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I'm saying, the right answer
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is, "You, Jen.
I choose you".
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I do...
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and I choose my career.
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I'm sorry,
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that's not enough for me.
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Goodbye, Ben.
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He went looking for my car
ages ago.
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I have no idea where he is.
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Think he took it for a joy ride?
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That would be about right
for the night I'm having.
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I swear, it has nothing to do
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with the woman
who just got in a cab
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with my heart
on the bottom of her shoe.
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I think they charge
an extra cleaning fee for that.
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Probably.
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Well, I'm sorry to hear
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that both your car
and your heart are MIA.
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That's all right,
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I didn't really like it
that much anyways.
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Thinking about trading it in
for a newer model.
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The car or the heart?
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I need one of them to get home,
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so I guess the heart
is of less use at the moment.
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And the girlfriend?
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Ex-girlfriend, actually,
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but the bread was great,
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so I guess that sort of
makes up a little
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for getting dumped.
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Do you want to talk about it?
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You've heard the story
a thousand times.
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Boy meets girl.
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Girl gives boy
an unreasonable ultimatum.
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Girl storms out.
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Boy eats both entrees.
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Yeah, we all have one of those.
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Do tell.
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Comfort me with your pain.
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You've heard it a million times.
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Girl meets boy,
girl marries boy.
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Boy leaves girl,
girl takes up kickboxing,
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pretends bag is boy.
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I feel bad for the bag.
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Not so much for the boy.
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This is me.
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Hey...
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Broken hearts do heal.
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I've seen it happen.
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Thanks.
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This letter is your chance
to say it all
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to that person
who broke your heart.
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It's only two minutes,
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so don't hold back.
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This is about you now,
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and you are not the same person
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who signed up for this program
a month and a half ago.
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You have overcome obstacles,
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you have stepped
outside of yourself.
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You have changed in ways
you never thought possible.
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Three, two, one...
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pens down.
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How are we feeling?
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Mine has a lot of swears in it.
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That's perfect.
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Excellent.
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So, as closure week
comes to a close,
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you have to decide
at our bonfire,
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do you send your letter,
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or do you burn it?
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That's all for today.
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I'll see you tomorrow.
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And remember the first rule,
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no cyberstalking your ex.
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You know I'm right.
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Stay off Instagram.
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Chloe, hi.
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The phone has been ringing
off the hook
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since the segment
on
Good Day Portland.
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And Bink Williams
signed up for the program,
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so that's
our best publicity ever.
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We are at capacity again,
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so I had to add another session.
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Good.
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Maybe soon we can get
a dance studio or something,
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so we don't have to share
the space.
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I know.
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It's all happening.
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Are you ready
to lead a session yet?
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You know why
this business works?
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Because I know
how to stay in my lane.
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I handle the business,
you handle the clients.
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Well, it would be pretty easy
for you to just, like,
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toss your blinker on
and change lanes.
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You know this program
like the back of your hand.
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And you are the heart
of the business,
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and I am the head,
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but I am sorting
through resumes,
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and there are
some great candidates.
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I'll set up interviews
this week.
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You will not be on your own
forever, I promise,
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and then, maybe
when the pressure is off,
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you can take some time for you.
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I take plenty of time
for myself.
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I'm going to the rock wall
tonight for a climb.
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That's not what I mean.
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You need to stop moving,
and doing, and climbing,
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and get back out there.
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What would you say to a client
who refused to move on?
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I'm not refusing to move on.
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I will get back out there,
eventually.
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I'm just...
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You know, success
is happening for us right now,
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and I want to ride that wave.
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Thank you.
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Hey, Kim.
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Hi.
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Mom and Dad okay?
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Yeah, they're fine.
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I just need you to talk me
out of doing something.
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My greatest skill.
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Darren's engaged.
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I know it's been a year
since we broke up,
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but it still stings.
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What exactly
am I talking you out of?
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Don't let me call him.
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Okay.
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Or email.
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Yeah, no, don't do that.
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Or ride my bike by his house.
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I will literally
stand in the street
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in front of your bike.
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Look at us.
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It's like we're some
sibling lonely hearts club.
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Speak for yourself.
I'm fine.
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You just think you're fine, Ben,
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because that's what you do
after a breakup,
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ever since Serena.
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Why do you always
have to bring her up?
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That was, like, 10 years ago.
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Because it broke you,
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and ever since,
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you've just been putting
a Band-Aid over a bullet hole.
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Have not.
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I was almost
about to talk to Jen
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about taking it
to the next level.
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"Almost about to"?
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Yeah, big step.
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So, there is this program
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that helps people
get over a breakup,
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and I want you to come with me.
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You remember the last one,
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where they just yelled at you,
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and told you
all the stuff you did wrong?
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Or the walking on hot coals guy
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that promised you
all this empowerment,
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and the coals weren't even real?
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Yeah, I'm still
paying that one off.
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But at least I'm trying.
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Unlike some people
who pretend that they're fine
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and then probably cry
in their cereal every morning.
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I don't even eat cereal.
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Look...
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I just don't want to see you
taken advantage of, okay?
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Give me some credit.
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I did my research.
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She has a great reputation,
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and it's in Campbell Park.
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You love Campbell Park.
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Come on, I'm tired
of feeling like this,
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and I don't want to do it alone,
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and remember?
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Helping your sister?
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Your greatest strength?
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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I hate it when my words
come back to haunt me.
251
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Fine.
252
00:09:36,407 --> 00:09:38,978
Thank you.
253
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Look at her resume.
254
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Advanced psychology degree,
255
00:09:42,880 --> 00:09:44,350
was in private practice,
256
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and she's a Reiki instructor.
257
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I don't know what that means,
258
00:09:47,686 --> 00:09:48,964
but it sounds like
teaching experience to me.
259
00:09:48,988 --> 00:09:50,790
Sounds great,
260
00:09:50,822 --> 00:09:52,624
but I mean, qualifications
aren't everything.
261
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We need to find somebody
who gets what we do.
262
00:09:54,893 --> 00:09:57,363
I have a good feeling about her.
263
00:09:57,396 --> 00:09:59,431
And what I've learned
in my practice
264
00:09:59,465 --> 00:10:01,334
is it's not one size fits all.
265
00:10:01,367 --> 00:10:04,003
You can't treat everyone
out of a textbook.
266
00:10:04,036 --> 00:10:05,771
I could not agree more.
267
00:10:05,803 --> 00:10:07,672
I think that
too much talk therapy,
268
00:10:07,705 --> 00:10:09,575
instead of real action,
269
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can keep people stuck.
270
00:10:10,676 --> 00:10:11,978
Exactly.
271
00:10:12,010 --> 00:10:13,545
So, I was wondering...
272
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how do you feel
273
00:10:14,779 --> 00:10:17,315
about incorporating
past-life regression
274
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into your program?
275
00:10:22,021 --> 00:10:24,824
Well, that is...
276
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not really what...
what we do.
277
00:10:26,457 --> 00:10:27,792
But you should.
278
00:10:27,825 --> 00:10:30,028
Because we aren't always
dealing with trauma
279
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from this lifetime.
280
00:10:34,832 --> 00:10:37,602
Okay, thanks, Gayle.
281
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We will be in touch.
282
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Thank you.
283
00:10:44,542 --> 00:10:46,613
Namaste.
284
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Hi.
285
00:10:53,918 --> 00:10:54,886
Hi. I'm Helen.
286
00:10:54,920 --> 00:10:56,689
It's my second go-round.
287
00:10:56,721 --> 00:10:58,657
I guess it takes more
than six weeks
288
00:10:58,691 --> 00:11:00,292
to get over a 30-year marriage.
289
00:11:00,325 --> 00:11:03,628
Oh, my goodness, Bink Williams!
290
00:11:03,662 --> 00:11:04,897
I watch you every morning.
291
00:11:04,930 --> 00:11:07,566
I guess no one's immune
from heartbreak.
292
00:11:07,599 --> 00:11:09,734
I guess not.
293
00:11:09,768 --> 00:11:11,303
I'm just gonna...
294
00:11:12,671 --> 00:11:13,806
I'm Kim. Hi.
295
00:11:13,839 --> 00:11:14,907
Hi.
296
00:11:14,940 --> 00:11:17,443
I'm here for moral support.
297
00:11:17,475 --> 00:11:19,979
Yes, my brother
is completely unaffected
298
00:11:20,012 --> 00:11:21,080
by his recent breakup,
299
00:11:21,113 --> 00:11:22,448
or any other breakups
300
00:11:22,480 --> 00:11:24,417
that may have happened
in the past.
301
00:11:24,450 --> 00:11:26,352
At least, that's the story
we're going with.
302
00:11:26,384 --> 00:11:27,852
Well, that's because
it's the truth.
303
00:11:27,885 --> 00:11:29,054
- Ben.
- Hi.
304
00:11:29,088 --> 00:11:30,856
We all go at our own pace.
305
00:11:30,888 --> 00:11:32,528
It takes as long as it takes.
No pressure.
306
00:11:32,557 --> 00:11:34,793
Well, we'll remember that.
307
00:11:36,695 --> 00:11:38,364
It's work.
308
00:11:38,397 --> 00:11:39,898
I'm gonna take this outside.
309
00:11:39,931 --> 00:11:41,667
You're gonna want a muffin.
310
00:11:41,700 --> 00:11:43,010
Yeah, I'll see you
in the morning, Leo.
311
00:11:43,034 --> 00:11:44,903
Yeah, bye.
312
00:11:48,407 --> 00:11:49,742
You.
313
00:11:49,774 --> 00:11:51,976
Of all the boot camps
in all the world, right?
314
00:11:52,009 --> 00:11:53,111
Do you know of many others?
315
00:11:53,144 --> 00:11:54,713
Only the military kind.
316
00:11:58,050 --> 00:11:59,452
What are you doing?
317
00:11:59,484 --> 00:12:02,053
Just trying to picture you
with a buzz cut.
318
00:12:02,086 --> 00:12:03,388
And how's that?
319
00:12:03,422 --> 00:12:04,942
I think you picked
the right boot camp.
320
00:12:08,060 --> 00:12:09,929
Well, you don't sound
too thrilled about it.
321
00:12:09,961 --> 00:12:11,797
Well, my sister
wanted to go to this one.
322
00:12:11,830 --> 00:12:13,898
I'm here for moral support.
323
00:12:13,931 --> 00:12:16,568
That, and she knows
all my secrets.
324
00:12:16,601 --> 00:12:18,703
I mean, it's got
a pretty good reputation,
325
00:12:18,736 --> 00:12:20,705
and you can't beat
the view, so...
326
00:12:20,739 --> 00:12:22,975
Well... yeah,
327
00:12:23,008 --> 00:12:25,076
but Miranda's Breakup Boot Camp?
328
00:12:25,109 --> 00:12:26,479
Come on,
I cannot be the only one
329
00:12:26,512 --> 00:12:27,723
that thinks this is
a little out there.
330
00:12:27,747 --> 00:12:31,016
I mean, maybe this lady thinks
she can start some new fad,
331
00:12:31,048 --> 00:12:32,150
make a couple bucks,
332
00:12:32,183 --> 00:12:34,018
I've seen it before.
333
00:12:34,051 --> 00:12:35,171
Everybody likes a quick fix.
334
00:12:36,555 --> 00:12:38,099
You have some pretty
strong feelings about it.
335
00:12:38,123 --> 00:12:40,759
Pretty strong feelings
about a lot of things.
336
00:12:40,792 --> 00:12:42,460
Like pizza.
337
00:12:42,494 --> 00:12:44,162
Want to go grab a slice?
338
00:12:45,797 --> 00:12:47,966
Maybe you shouldn't
knock it before you try it.
339
00:12:47,999 --> 00:12:51,604
I don't know, the whole
kumbaya, circle time,
340
00:12:51,637 --> 00:12:53,773
chanting with strangers
isn't really my thing.
341
00:12:53,806 --> 00:12:56,475
Yeah, no, that's not
my thing at all either, so.
342
00:12:56,508 --> 00:12:58,744
Excellent.
Then we're in agreement.
343
00:12:58,777 --> 00:13:00,113
So, pizza?
344
00:13:01,580 --> 00:13:04,583
Let's just go in,
and just... just give it a try.
345
00:13:04,615 --> 00:13:06,127
You're not going to save me
from this, are you?
346
00:13:06,151 --> 00:13:07,195
Is that what you're saying?
347
00:13:07,219 --> 00:13:09,555
I think only you
can save yourself.
348
00:13:10,489 --> 00:13:11,490
Come on.
349
00:13:13,624 --> 00:13:17,162
Okay, everybody,
give Bink a little space.
350
00:13:17,196 --> 00:13:18,739
And the first thing
that you're gonna learn here
351
00:13:18,763 --> 00:13:19,874
is that we don't date
on the rebound,
352
00:13:19,898 --> 00:13:21,700
yours or anyone else's.
353
00:13:21,733 --> 00:13:23,035
So...
354
00:13:23,067 --> 00:13:25,571
Thank you.
355
00:13:25,604 --> 00:13:26,939
So you're the teacher.
356
00:13:26,971 --> 00:13:29,574
The... breakup boot camper.
357
00:13:29,608 --> 00:13:30,743
Miranda Faraday.
358
00:13:32,076 --> 00:13:34,513
Ready for a little kumbaya,
circle time?
359
00:13:36,047 --> 00:13:37,917
...And by the time
we reach week three,
360
00:13:37,950 --> 00:13:39,585
"Teamwork",
361
00:13:39,618 --> 00:13:41,595
you are going to feel like
completely different people,
362
00:13:41,619 --> 00:13:43,197
and that'll bring us
right into to week four,
363
00:13:43,221 --> 00:13:44,222
"Connection".
364
00:13:44,255 --> 00:13:46,524
Can I chime in really fast?
365
00:13:46,557 --> 00:13:48,726
I'm sorry, is that a thing
we're allowed to do here?
366
00:13:48,759 --> 00:13:51,596
Yes, this is an open dialogue.
367
00:13:51,629 --> 00:13:53,198
What about fear?
368
00:13:53,231 --> 00:13:54,966
What about fear?
369
00:13:54,999 --> 00:13:56,469
Well, I don't see it
on your list.
370
00:13:56,502 --> 00:13:57,545
You have all these buzzwords,
371
00:13:57,569 --> 00:13:59,872
"Trust, Release, Endurance",
372
00:13:59,904 --> 00:14:01,973
but when do we deal with fear?
373
00:14:02,007 --> 00:14:03,183
Because that's why
we're all here, right?
374
00:14:03,207 --> 00:14:05,710
We're afraid to deal with life,
375
00:14:05,744 --> 00:14:07,021
without that person
that just broke our hearts.
376
00:14:07,045 --> 00:14:08,080
Ben...
377
00:14:08,113 --> 00:14:10,181
He's right.
378
00:14:10,215 --> 00:14:11,749
I'm scared to be on my own,
379
00:14:11,782 --> 00:14:14,052
and I can't just move on
380
00:14:14,085 --> 00:14:15,797
since I have to see Bethany
and her new girlfriend,
381
00:14:15,821 --> 00:14:16,888
every other week,
382
00:14:16,922 --> 00:14:18,923
because of Ruth.
383
00:14:18,956 --> 00:14:21,960
We share custody.
384
00:14:21,994 --> 00:14:24,964
It's so hard on the kids,
going back and forth.
385
00:14:24,997 --> 00:14:26,966
Thankfully, mine are grown now.
386
00:14:26,999 --> 00:14:29,100
Ruth is a cat,
387
00:14:29,133 --> 00:14:33,973
but she's definitely struggling.
388
00:14:34,005 --> 00:14:35,840
See, fear is a powerful
motivator for people.
389
00:14:35,874 --> 00:14:38,076
Fear is a symptom.
390
00:14:38,109 --> 00:14:39,878
Trust, endurance,
391
00:14:39,912 --> 00:14:41,747
those are solutions,
392
00:14:41,779 --> 00:14:43,815
and here in my boot camp,
393
00:14:43,849 --> 00:14:45,950
we choose to focus
on the buzzwords that uplift.
394
00:14:45,984 --> 00:14:48,720
Yeah, perhaps the person
with the Ph.D.
395
00:14:48,753 --> 00:14:50,255
can continue
with the orientation.
396
00:14:50,288 --> 00:14:51,590
Unless, of course,
397
00:14:51,623 --> 00:14:52,734
you have a post graduate degree
as well?
398
00:14:52,758 --> 00:14:55,160
No, no, just asking questions.
399
00:14:55,192 --> 00:14:56,160
She said it was allowed.
400
00:14:56,194 --> 00:14:57,296
It's okay.
401
00:14:57,329 --> 00:14:58,197
We're all just
breaking the ice here,
402
00:14:58,229 --> 00:14:59,797
but I do think
403
00:14:59,830 --> 00:15:02,609
that you should do one thing
every day that scares you,
404
00:15:02,633 --> 00:15:04,036
but I call that empowerment.
405
00:15:04,069 --> 00:15:06,205
What are you afraid of?
406
00:15:06,238 --> 00:15:07,205
Heights.
407
00:15:07,239 --> 00:15:08,239
Spiders.
408
00:15:08,273 --> 00:15:10,308
Dentist...
409
00:15:10,341 --> 00:15:13,011
but I'm not going
to the dentist every day.
410
00:15:13,045 --> 00:15:15,281
No, no, no one
is asking you to do that,
411
00:15:15,314 --> 00:15:16,782
but when you face those fears,
412
00:15:16,815 --> 00:15:18,058
the heights, the spiders,
the dentist,
413
00:15:18,082 --> 00:15:20,718
you feel like
you can overcome anything,
414
00:15:20,752 --> 00:15:21,820
including a broken heart,
415
00:15:21,853 --> 00:15:24,323
and that is empowerment.
416
00:15:24,355 --> 00:15:27,625
Because it's easy
to just be negative and cynical
417
00:15:27,658 --> 00:15:29,861
and want to tear things down.
418
00:15:29,894 --> 00:15:31,297
So, this program,
419
00:15:31,330 --> 00:15:33,566
we're gonna focus
on the positive,
420
00:15:33,599 --> 00:15:34,709
and you will see
exactly what I mean
421
00:15:34,733 --> 00:15:36,734
in our kickstart session,
on Thursday,
422
00:15:36,768 --> 00:15:37,768
called "Release".
423
00:15:45,978 --> 00:15:46,978
Ben...
424
00:15:48,312 --> 00:15:50,316
I'll wait for you outside.
425
00:15:50,349 --> 00:15:51,349
Apologize.
426
00:15:55,086 --> 00:15:57,021
You didn't tell me who you were.
427
00:15:57,055 --> 00:15:58,223
You didn't ask.
428
00:15:58,255 --> 00:15:59,857
I just wanted to say
429
00:15:59,891 --> 00:16:01,894
that I know it might be weird
430
00:16:01,926 --> 00:16:04,229
because you were so vulnerable
with me the other night,
431
00:16:04,262 --> 00:16:06,632
but there's no shame
in having your heart broken.
432
00:16:08,133 --> 00:16:11,235
My heart's not broken,
it's gently bruised.
433
00:16:11,268 --> 00:16:13,272
Bruises heal faster than breaks.
434
00:16:13,305 --> 00:16:16,141
Maybe there's
an underlying injury
435
00:16:16,173 --> 00:16:17,173
you don't know about?
436
00:16:18,343 --> 00:16:19,211
Come on, I was there.
437
00:16:19,244 --> 00:16:21,680
I saw you.
438
00:16:21,713 --> 00:16:23,124
It's not as bad
as you're making it out to be.
439
00:16:23,148 --> 00:16:24,716
I'm doing great now.
440
00:16:24,749 --> 00:16:25,783
I'm processing things.
441
00:16:25,816 --> 00:16:26,884
Moving on.
442
00:16:26,917 --> 00:16:28,019
In four days?
443
00:16:28,052 --> 00:16:29,788
Sometimes, four days
is all you need.
444
00:16:31,355 --> 00:16:34,025
Okay.
445
00:16:34,058 --> 00:16:34,892
I think there's
something you want to say,
446
00:16:34,926 --> 00:16:36,269
and I think it has to do
with the fact
447
00:16:36,293 --> 00:16:37,362
that you're famished,
448
00:16:37,396 --> 00:16:38,864
and you really want
to take me up
449
00:16:38,897 --> 00:16:40,132
on that pizza offer right now.
450
00:16:40,165 --> 00:16:42,134
Yeah, that's not
what I was going to say.
451
00:16:42,167 --> 00:16:43,735
I do wonder
452
00:16:43,768 --> 00:16:45,046
if this program
is the right fit for you?
453
00:16:45,070 --> 00:16:48,340
Are you booting me out
of boot camp?
454
00:16:48,373 --> 00:16:49,675
No, I wouldn't do that,
455
00:16:49,707 --> 00:16:51,209
because I can help you,
456
00:16:51,243 --> 00:16:53,345
but it only works
if you take it seriously,
457
00:16:53,378 --> 00:16:55,618
so I think that is something
that you need to figure out.
458
00:17:02,921 --> 00:17:04,756
You just can't help yourself.
459
00:17:04,790 --> 00:17:06,066
You always
have to say something.
460
00:17:06,090 --> 00:17:07,325
Editor of the Harvard Crimson.
461
00:17:07,359 --> 00:17:09,762
You went to an Ivy,
and became a know-it-all.
462
00:17:09,794 --> 00:17:10,696
Oh, stop.
463
00:17:10,730 --> 00:17:12,831
I was a know-it-all
way before Harvard.
464
00:17:14,032 --> 00:17:15,199
You know what, I'm fine.
465
00:17:15,233 --> 00:17:16,869
I can do this on my own.
466
00:17:16,901 --> 00:17:18,036
I mean, it's obvious
467
00:17:18,070 --> 00:17:19,313
you're never going to deal
with your stuff.
468
00:17:19,337 --> 00:17:20,171
Or is it
469
00:17:20,205 --> 00:17:21,682
that I've already
dealt with my stuff,
470
00:17:21,706 --> 00:17:22,742
and this is redundant?
471
00:17:24,275 --> 00:17:26,077
You don't have to come back
on Thursday.
472
00:17:26,110 --> 00:17:28,781
Well, you can't say
we didn't try.
473
00:17:28,813 --> 00:17:30,682
Sure I can.
474
00:17:37,022 --> 00:17:39,157
You've reached
Miranda's Breakup Boot Camp.
475
00:17:39,190 --> 00:17:40,992
Please leave your name
and number,
476
00:17:41,025 --> 00:17:41,893
and someone will get back to you
477
00:17:41,926 --> 00:17:43,128
as soon as possible.
478
00:17:43,160 --> 00:17:44,295
Thanks.
479
00:17:44,329 --> 00:17:46,231
Miranda, hey, Ben Myers here.
480
00:17:46,263 --> 00:17:48,332
Listen, I was thinking
about what you said,
481
00:17:48,366 --> 00:17:52,937
and I think that the program
is not for me,
482
00:17:52,971 --> 00:17:54,907
but I did want to say thank you,
483
00:17:54,939 --> 00:17:56,274
and good luck,
484
00:17:56,308 --> 00:18:00,311
and if you change your mind
about that pizza...
485
00:18:00,344 --> 00:18:03,181
Yeah. Bye.
486
00:18:05,082 --> 00:18:06,118
You got a minute?
487
00:18:06,150 --> 00:18:07,018
I have some news.
488
00:18:07,051 --> 00:18:08,051
Yeah, yeah, sure.
489
00:18:09,420 --> 00:18:11,724
Dean Rossi got a job in Austin.
490
00:18:11,756 --> 00:18:12,999
He's leaving
at the end of the month.
491
00:18:13,023 --> 00:18:15,159
So there's an opening
for a features editor?
492
00:18:15,193 --> 00:18:16,994
The board doesn't know
if you're ready,
493
00:18:17,028 --> 00:18:18,197
but I'm working on them.
494
00:18:18,230 --> 00:18:19,798
You just keep doing
what you're doing.
495
00:18:19,830 --> 00:18:21,265
Whatever it takes.
496
00:18:21,299 --> 00:18:24,136
I appreciate the vote
of confidence, Leo, really.
497
00:18:27,938 --> 00:18:30,341
Miranda's Breakup Boot Camp.
498
00:18:30,375 --> 00:18:32,078
I saw this lady
on
Good Day Portland.
499
00:18:33,344 --> 00:18:35,379
- Are you doing this?
- Well, no.
500
00:18:35,413 --> 00:18:37,850
I went once,
but just to help my sister,
501
00:18:37,882 --> 00:18:39,150
I'm not gonna go back.
502
00:18:39,184 --> 00:18:42,221
She's always into
that self-help, fad stuff.
503
00:18:42,253 --> 00:18:43,222
No, Ben...
504
00:18:43,254 --> 00:18:44,388
You need to go back.
505
00:18:44,421 --> 00:18:46,491
I don't need this, Leo.
I'm fine.
506
00:18:46,524 --> 00:18:48,926
No, I mean, on assignment.
507
00:18:48,959 --> 00:18:50,361
You know more than anyone
508
00:18:50,395 --> 00:18:51,972
that once you start digging
beneath the surface,
509
00:18:51,996 --> 00:18:52,930
sometimes, you strike oil,
510
00:18:52,964 --> 00:18:54,332
like with that Ponzi thing.
511
00:18:54,366 --> 00:18:56,769
Well, I don't know that
this is like the Ponzi thing.
512
00:18:56,801 --> 00:18:58,236
Well, maybe not,
513
00:18:58,270 --> 00:18:59,138
but is this the real deal,
514
00:18:59,170 --> 00:19:00,404
or is it just some fad,
515
00:19:00,437 --> 00:19:02,140
full of empty promises?
516
00:19:02,174 --> 00:19:04,810
These people are everywhere.
517
00:19:04,842 --> 00:19:06,110
Nobody is better than you
518
00:19:06,144 --> 00:19:07,488
at finding the story
beneath the story.
519
00:19:07,512 --> 00:19:09,348
Go back, dig around,
520
00:19:09,380 --> 00:19:10,849
and bring me something good,
521
00:19:10,881 --> 00:19:12,917
and if it turns out as well
as the last piece,
522
00:19:12,951 --> 00:19:15,387
well, that editor job
is as good as yours.
523
00:19:26,097 --> 00:19:27,099
Hey.
524
00:19:27,131 --> 00:19:29,066
Ben isn't gonna be coming back,
525
00:19:29,100 --> 00:19:30,968
so I'll use the extra bag
for demonstration.
526
00:19:31,002 --> 00:19:32,937
- Can I talk to you for a sec?
- Yeah, what's up?
527
00:19:32,971 --> 00:19:35,107
There's a voicemail
you need to listen to.
528
00:19:36,407 --> 00:19:39,043
Hi, it's Dex.
529
00:19:39,077 --> 00:19:40,979
You're probably surprised
to hear from me,
530
00:19:41,012 --> 00:19:43,048
but I,
531
00:19:43,080 --> 00:19:46,517
noticed you liked
one of my photos online,
532
00:19:46,551 --> 00:19:49,053
which was kind of strange,
533
00:19:49,087 --> 00:19:51,356
and I think we should talk.
534
00:19:51,388 --> 00:19:52,523
So can you call me?
535
00:19:52,557 --> 00:19:54,026
Thanks.
536
00:19:54,059 --> 00:19:56,061
You liked one of
your ex-husband's photos?
537
00:19:56,093 --> 00:19:57,128
No!
538
00:19:57,161 --> 00:19:59,330
Not on purpose.
539
00:19:59,363 --> 00:20:01,232
You were cyberstalking him?
540
00:20:01,265 --> 00:20:02,066
I was curious,
541
00:20:02,100 --> 00:20:03,502
I...
542
00:20:03,534 --> 00:20:05,212
kind of like when you're
watching the nature channel,
543
00:20:05,236 --> 00:20:07,071
and you see, like,
a snake eating a frog,
544
00:20:07,105 --> 00:20:09,308
and you just... keep watching.
545
00:20:09,340 --> 00:20:11,209
That is such a weird analogy,
546
00:20:11,243 --> 00:20:12,886
and I don't know
what is going on with you,
547
00:20:12,910 --> 00:20:16,080
but that is exactly what
we tell our clients not to do.
548
00:20:16,113 --> 00:20:18,316
Dex does not deserve
any more of your attention.
549
00:20:18,350 --> 00:20:20,151
I know.
It was one time, Chloe.
550
00:20:20,185 --> 00:20:21,220
Are you gonna call him?
551
00:20:21,253 --> 00:20:22,486
No.
552
00:20:22,520 --> 00:20:24,889
He clearly thinks
that I'm pining over him,
553
00:20:24,923 --> 00:20:25,924
and if I call him back,
554
00:20:25,956 --> 00:20:27,000
it's just gonna confirm that,
555
00:20:27,024 --> 00:20:29,026
so no, I'm not calling him back.
556
00:20:29,060 --> 00:20:30,162
Tell me that you are not.
557
00:20:30,195 --> 00:20:31,196
Not what?
558
00:20:31,228 --> 00:20:32,363
Pining over him.
559
00:20:32,397 --> 00:20:33,599
No!
560
00:20:33,631 --> 00:20:37,235
I am totally, definitely,
categorically
561
00:20:37,269 --> 00:20:38,904
not pining over him.
562
00:20:38,936 --> 00:20:41,572
I don't need to call him back
to prove that.
563
00:20:41,606 --> 00:20:43,876
So, yeah, no,
I'm not calling him back.
564
00:20:43,908 --> 00:20:46,212
And you are deleting
that app off your phone.
565
00:20:52,653 --> 00:20:54,655
I mean, I'm the first one
there in the morning,
566
00:20:54,989 --> 00:20:57,158
I'm the last to leave at night,
567
00:20:57,191 --> 00:20:58,858
I do every assignment
that they give me,
568
00:20:58,892 --> 00:21:00,628
and he still has to sell me
to the board.
569
00:21:00,661 --> 00:21:02,037
You've only been
at the magazine for two years.
570
00:21:02,061 --> 00:21:03,263
These things take time.
571
00:21:03,297 --> 00:21:05,633
But I'm so ready.
572
00:21:05,665 --> 00:21:07,902
I'll do whatever it takes
to prove I'm up to the task.
573
00:21:07,934 --> 00:21:09,069
You'll get there.
574
00:21:09,103 --> 00:21:10,004
Just keep doing
what you're doing.
575
00:21:10,037 --> 00:21:11,139
Yeah.
576
00:21:12,239 --> 00:21:14,709
- Jen.
- Ben.
577
00:21:14,742 --> 00:21:15,843
Hey.
578
00:21:15,876 --> 00:21:18,311
It's not what it looks like.
579
00:21:18,345 --> 00:21:20,014
We just... went to lunch.
580
00:21:20,047 --> 00:21:21,950
Right.
581
00:21:23,651 --> 00:21:25,853
You remember Emmett
from my office?
582
00:21:25,886 --> 00:21:27,622
Yeah. Sure.
583
00:21:27,655 --> 00:21:29,022
No hard feelings, right, bro?
584
00:21:31,191 --> 00:21:32,191
No.
585
00:21:35,194 --> 00:21:37,098
We gotta go to work.
586
00:21:37,130 --> 00:21:38,800
Yeah, us too.
587
00:21:43,037 --> 00:21:45,373
So at least that wasn't awkward.
588
00:21:45,405 --> 00:21:47,241
Well, he seems
perfectly terrible.
589
00:21:47,273 --> 00:21:48,675
I've met him.
He is.
590
00:21:48,709 --> 00:21:51,112
You okay?
591
00:21:51,145 --> 00:21:53,414
I didn't realize
I was that replaceable.
592
00:21:53,446 --> 00:21:55,148
Hey...
593
00:21:55,182 --> 00:21:57,018
this says way more about her
than it does you.
594
00:21:57,050 --> 00:21:59,153
Don't self-help me.
595
00:21:59,185 --> 00:22:01,222
Come on, you sound like
the boot camp instructor.
596
00:22:01,254 --> 00:22:02,956
I'll take that as a compliment.
597
00:22:02,990 --> 00:22:04,125
She's very smart.
598
00:22:04,157 --> 00:22:06,226
Lots of five-star reviews.
599
00:22:06,260 --> 00:22:08,828
Come on, we can
get over this together.
600
00:22:08,861 --> 00:22:10,330
Me and you,
601
00:22:10,364 --> 00:22:11,665
and you and me.
602
00:22:11,698 --> 00:22:12,666
Us. Team.
603
00:22:12,700 --> 00:22:14,035
Power healing.
604
00:22:15,402 --> 00:22:17,304
Fine. I'll go back with you,
605
00:22:17,337 --> 00:22:18,814
but only because I want
to take care of you, all right?
606
00:22:18,838 --> 00:22:20,115
I want to make sure
you don't get sucked in.
607
00:22:20,139 --> 00:22:22,676
Yeah, I don't think
that's the only reason.
608
00:22:23,876 --> 00:22:25,245
Thank you.
609
00:22:26,280 --> 00:22:27,280
Miranda?
610
00:22:28,448 --> 00:22:31,017
Hi, refund.
611
00:22:31,050 --> 00:22:32,953
I'll have Chloe cut you a check.
612
00:22:32,985 --> 00:22:33,987
No, actually...
613
00:22:35,222 --> 00:22:37,458
I've been thinking about it,
614
00:22:37,491 --> 00:22:38,893
and I'm ready to do the work.
615
00:22:38,925 --> 00:22:41,395
That's a pretty big change
from before
616
00:22:41,427 --> 00:22:43,063
when you called it a fad,
617
00:22:43,097 --> 00:22:45,866
and said that I was trying
to con vulnerable people
618
00:22:45,898 --> 00:22:46,766
out of their hard-earned money.
619
00:22:46,800 --> 00:22:47,568
I didn't say that
about you specifically...
620
00:22:47,600 --> 00:22:49,402
- It was implied.
- But not intended.
621
00:22:49,435 --> 00:22:50,804
So, what changed?
622
00:22:50,838 --> 00:22:52,706
I'm a man who knows his flaws.
623
00:22:52,740 --> 00:22:54,775
Do go on.
624
00:22:54,808 --> 00:22:57,744
Okay, I ran into
my ex-girlfriend,
625
00:22:57,778 --> 00:22:59,480
already on a date.
626
00:22:59,512 --> 00:23:01,081
That sucks.
627
00:23:01,115 --> 00:23:02,249
I'm sorry to hear that.
628
00:23:02,281 --> 00:23:03,951
Sounds like a textbook rebound.
629
00:23:03,983 --> 00:23:05,852
Yeah.
The guy called me, "Bro", too.
630
00:23:05,886 --> 00:23:06,953
Yikes.
631
00:23:06,986 --> 00:23:08,154
Extra sorry.
632
00:23:08,187 --> 00:23:10,757
Okay, well, are you ready
633
00:23:10,790 --> 00:23:12,134
to check your inner cynic
at the door?
634
00:23:12,158 --> 00:23:14,328
Because tonight
we sign the pledge.
635
00:23:14,360 --> 00:23:15,428
Of allegiance?
636
00:23:15,462 --> 00:23:17,798
Because if not,
637
00:23:17,830 --> 00:23:19,208
that sounds a little culty,
you know that, right?
638
00:23:19,232 --> 00:23:20,467
What am I signing exactly?
639
00:23:20,501 --> 00:23:21,801
It's a pledge of commitment,
640
00:23:21,835 --> 00:23:22,803
and it's not to me,
641
00:23:22,836 --> 00:23:24,105
it's to you.
642
00:23:24,137 --> 00:23:25,148
If you think you can commit.
643
00:23:25,172 --> 00:23:26,273
I can commit.
644
00:23:26,306 --> 00:23:27,316
I've had the same ficus
for 10 years,
645
00:23:27,340 --> 00:23:28,908
but I never sign anything
646
00:23:28,942 --> 00:23:30,211
until I see the fine print.
647
00:23:30,243 --> 00:23:32,112
Listen, Ben, I want you to know
648
00:23:32,146 --> 00:23:33,414
that I am committed
649
00:23:33,446 --> 00:23:35,281
to helping you
get over your breakup.
650
00:23:35,315 --> 00:23:37,093
And I'm committed
to helping you get over yours.
651
00:23:37,117 --> 00:23:39,420
That's not
how this is gonna work.
652
00:23:39,453 --> 00:23:40,788
But is it, though?
653
00:23:40,820 --> 00:23:42,889
Okay, how about
654
00:23:42,923 --> 00:23:44,959
we just lose
all preconceived notions
655
00:23:44,992 --> 00:23:46,926
we have about one another,
656
00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:47,862
and we start fresh.
657
00:23:47,895 --> 00:23:48,895
Deal?
658
00:23:50,830 --> 00:23:52,031
Deal.
659
00:23:52,065 --> 00:23:54,068
Good.
660
00:23:58,172 --> 00:24:00,007
Kick!
661
00:24:00,040 --> 00:24:03,309
Welcome to week one, "Release".
662
00:24:03,342 --> 00:24:04,778
Punch!
663
00:24:04,811 --> 00:24:06,379
Kick! Come on!
664
00:24:07,481 --> 00:24:08,348
Atta way.
665
00:24:08,382 --> 00:24:10,117
You have anger.
666
00:24:10,149 --> 00:24:12,852
You have pain, you have fear.
667
00:24:12,886 --> 00:24:14,821
Accept those emotions,
668
00:24:14,855 --> 00:24:16,957
and then release them
into that bag.
669
00:24:16,990 --> 00:24:18,425
Just like that.
670
00:24:18,457 --> 00:24:21,161
Kim, do not go easy on that bag.
671
00:24:21,194 --> 00:24:22,505
Did what's-his-name
go easy on your heart?
672
00:24:22,529 --> 00:24:23,830
Darren?
673
00:24:23,864 --> 00:24:25,833
No, he did not.
674
00:24:25,866 --> 00:24:26,834
Atta girl.
675
00:24:26,867 --> 00:24:28,034
Let it out, let it out!
676
00:24:28,068 --> 00:24:30,337
What is going on over here?
677
00:24:30,369 --> 00:24:32,047
I just, I don't see
what good this is doing.
678
00:24:32,071 --> 00:24:34,040
I'm a lover, not a fighter.
679
00:24:35,175 --> 00:24:36,978
Less talking, more punching.
680
00:24:39,879 --> 00:24:42,282
Oh, come on, Ben,
a nine-year-old could take you.
681
00:24:42,316 --> 00:24:43,593
Do better.
You're holding on too tight.
682
00:24:43,617 --> 00:24:46,186
I don't want to pretend
the bag is Jen.
683
00:24:46,220 --> 00:24:47,889
Or someone else from your past?
684
00:24:49,857 --> 00:24:51,058
Okay, then,
685
00:24:51,090 --> 00:24:54,962
why don't you just
give it a hit... bro?
686
00:24:58,397 --> 00:24:59,599
Yes! Better.
687
00:24:59,633 --> 00:25:01,501
Thank you, Ben, for joining us.
688
00:25:01,534 --> 00:25:02,534
Kick!
689
00:25:05,973 --> 00:25:07,174
Sorry.
690
00:25:07,206 --> 00:25:09,309
You're okay.
Let's walk it off.
691
00:25:14,615 --> 00:25:17,184
So, Bink Williams hates me.
692
00:25:17,216 --> 00:25:18,484
I never thought I'd say that.
693
00:25:20,153 --> 00:25:21,513
This does feel good,
though, right?
694
00:25:22,521 --> 00:25:24,157
Yeah, I guess.
695
00:25:27,194 --> 00:25:28,995
- Have a good night.
- See ya.
696
00:25:32,331 --> 00:25:34,467
- Yo, hey.
- How was it?
697
00:25:34,501 --> 00:25:36,302
It was about what you'd expect,
698
00:25:36,336 --> 00:25:37,237
but I got a good workout,
699
00:25:37,271 --> 00:25:39,607
which is a win
since you keep me so busy,
700
00:25:39,639 --> 00:25:41,040
I had to cancel the gym.
701
00:25:41,073 --> 00:25:42,408
So what's the deal?
702
00:25:42,442 --> 00:25:44,645
I don't know yet,
still sussing it out,
703
00:25:44,677 --> 00:25:47,180
but there was
one red flag, though.
704
00:25:47,213 --> 00:25:49,116
This commitment thing
she wants us to sign.
705
00:25:50,384 --> 00:25:52,019
Well, make sure
you read the fine print.
706
00:25:52,051 --> 00:25:53,286
I intend to.
707
00:25:53,319 --> 00:25:54,421
Okay, keep digging, Ben.
708
00:25:54,453 --> 00:25:56,057
Yeah.
709
00:26:04,030 --> 00:26:04,632
Hey...
710
00:26:04,665 --> 00:26:06,367
Hey.
711
00:26:06,399 --> 00:26:07,533
I just wanted to say
712
00:26:07,567 --> 00:26:10,069
that was really good in there.
713
00:26:10,103 --> 00:26:11,572
I'm just really feeling it.
714
00:26:11,605 --> 00:26:14,607
See, once you stop resisting,
it's not so bad.
715
00:26:14,640 --> 00:26:16,342
Yeah...
716
00:26:16,376 --> 00:26:19,146
and starting with Release Week
was super intense.
717
00:26:19,178 --> 00:26:19,946
Anybody ever ask
for their money back
718
00:26:19,980 --> 00:26:20,915
after this point?
719
00:26:20,947 --> 00:26:24,317
I was checking out your terms,
720
00:26:24,350 --> 00:26:27,087
and you're pretty tough
on refunds.
721
00:26:27,119 --> 00:26:28,430
Well, I'm only tough on them
because...
722
00:26:28,454 --> 00:26:30,523
Miranda.
723
00:26:32,425 --> 00:26:33,394
Dex.
724
00:26:33,426 --> 00:26:35,261
You...
725
00:26:35,294 --> 00:26:37,931
you didn't call me back,
and I think we should talk.
726
00:26:37,964 --> 00:26:40,967
Yeah, we totally should,
727
00:26:41,001 --> 00:26:43,069
but tonight is not good for me.
728
00:26:43,103 --> 00:26:44,939
I...
729
00:26:44,972 --> 00:26:47,141
We have a thing.
730
00:26:50,210 --> 00:26:51,444
Right,
731
00:26:51,478 --> 00:26:53,614
and we're late for that thing.
732
00:26:53,646 --> 00:26:55,581
Yeah.
733
00:26:55,615 --> 00:26:56,659
Reservations.
Our favorite restaurant.
734
00:26:56,683 --> 00:26:58,051
Sushi restaurant.
735
00:26:58,085 --> 00:27:01,122
Chef Koji
keeps the hand rolls coming.
736
00:27:02,188 --> 00:27:03,656
They are... good.
737
00:27:05,024 --> 00:27:06,960
And then after,
738
00:27:06,993 --> 00:27:09,663
we go to the overlook,
739
00:27:09,695 --> 00:27:11,264
and drink some wine,
740
00:27:11,298 --> 00:27:13,467
and look out over the city,
741
00:27:13,500 --> 00:27:16,170
and plot out our lives.
742
00:27:19,271 --> 00:27:20,340
Yup, that's us.
743
00:27:20,374 --> 00:27:22,043
Every Thursday night.
744
00:27:24,176 --> 00:27:25,646
Super fun.
745
00:27:25,678 --> 00:27:26,980
You bet.
746
00:27:27,013 --> 00:27:28,715
Right...
747
00:27:28,749 --> 00:27:30,985
Okay...
748
00:27:31,018 --> 00:27:32,553
So, you'll call me
to set up a time?
749
00:27:32,586 --> 00:27:34,154
Yeah, totally...
750
00:27:34,186 --> 00:27:36,323
Bye.
751
00:27:48,201 --> 00:27:50,738
You want to talk about it?
752
00:27:50,771 --> 00:27:52,039
No.
753
00:27:53,272 --> 00:27:56,275
Invisible
teacher-client line, huh?
754
00:27:56,309 --> 00:27:58,378
But I am kind of involved now,
755
00:27:58,412 --> 00:28:00,748
if you did
want to talk about it.
756
00:28:00,780 --> 00:28:02,683
I promise
I wouldn't tell anybody.
757
00:28:03,750 --> 00:28:05,352
That was my ex-husband.
758
00:28:05,385 --> 00:28:06,552
I sort of assumed.
759
00:28:06,586 --> 00:28:07,721
Well, you know what they say
760
00:28:07,753 --> 00:28:09,223
about people who assume...
761
00:28:09,255 --> 00:28:10,423
They're very charming.
762
00:28:12,626 --> 00:28:14,328
So, are you going to call him?
763
00:28:14,360 --> 00:28:16,062
No.
764
00:28:16,096 --> 00:28:17,439
Look, I know
we don't get to closure
765
00:28:17,463 --> 00:28:18,631
until, like, week six,
766
00:28:18,665 --> 00:28:21,310
but maybe
that's why he was here?
767
00:28:21,334 --> 00:28:23,170
I don't need closure.
768
00:28:23,203 --> 00:28:24,781
Oh, come on, you tell
everybody in your classes
769
00:28:24,805 --> 00:28:25,606
to do these things,
770
00:28:25,638 --> 00:28:27,107
but you don't
believe it yourself?
771
00:28:27,139 --> 00:28:28,574
No, that's not what...
772
00:28:28,607 --> 00:28:30,577
Look, he doesn't get
to just leave
773
00:28:30,609 --> 00:28:31,511
without saying a word,
774
00:28:31,544 --> 00:28:33,413
and show back up out of...
775
00:28:33,446 --> 00:28:34,714
What were you talking about,
776
00:28:34,748 --> 00:28:36,784
because that stuff
was very specific.
777
00:28:36,817 --> 00:28:41,488
I was just...
mentioning my favorite place.
778
00:28:41,521 --> 00:28:42,388
I know what you're doing.
779
00:28:42,422 --> 00:28:43,589
What am I doing?
780
00:28:43,623 --> 00:28:44,633
Well, you're turning it
back around on me,
781
00:28:44,657 --> 00:28:46,401
when the moment
was most definitely about you.
782
00:28:46,425 --> 00:28:47,637
Yeah, but you made it about you
783
00:28:47,661 --> 00:28:49,696
when you started getting
super descriptive.
784
00:28:49,729 --> 00:28:51,365
It was hypothetical.
785
00:28:51,397 --> 00:28:52,832
Was it, though?
786
00:28:52,866 --> 00:28:54,100
Yeah.
787
00:28:54,134 --> 00:28:56,069
Yeah, it was...
788
00:28:56,103 --> 00:28:58,505
I would be happy to do that
in real life sometime,
789
00:28:58,538 --> 00:28:59,538
if you're game.
790
00:29:02,209 --> 00:29:05,112
I have to go prep a class
that starts tomorrow,
791
00:29:05,145 --> 00:29:07,481
but thank you very much
792
00:29:07,513 --> 00:29:08,314
for your help,
793
00:29:08,348 --> 00:29:09,517
Ben.
794
00:29:15,191 --> 00:29:17,226
Tough love, but then
I leave out the love part,
795
00:29:17,259 --> 00:29:18,769
because you can't go too easy
on your clients,
796
00:29:18,793 --> 00:29:19,895
or they never learn.
797
00:29:19,928 --> 00:29:22,864
What we're looking for
in our new instructor, Simon,
798
00:29:22,897 --> 00:29:24,634
is someone
who can approach things
799
00:29:24,666 --> 00:29:26,301
from a place of kindness.
800
00:29:26,335 --> 00:29:28,771
Kindness can be mistaken
for weakness,
801
00:29:28,803 --> 00:29:30,773
and I'm not weak.
802
00:29:32,207 --> 00:29:34,643
There's certainly
no question about that.
803
00:29:43,152 --> 00:29:44,120
Well, they can't be all good.
804
00:29:44,153 --> 00:29:45,822
What's that?
805
00:29:45,855 --> 00:29:47,757
47 five-star reviews.
806
00:29:47,790 --> 00:29:49,901
Well, you know people are able
to get those things removed
807
00:29:49,925 --> 00:29:51,035
when they're
particularly scathing.
808
00:29:51,059 --> 00:29:52,061
Yeah.
809
00:29:53,194 --> 00:29:54,630
Miranda did say one thing
810
00:29:54,664 --> 00:29:56,833
that was sort of cryptic
the other night.
811
00:29:56,866 --> 00:29:59,735
Almost as if she doesn't believe
in the things that she's doing,
812
00:29:59,769 --> 00:30:01,304
or follow them herself.
813
00:30:01,337 --> 00:30:05,040
Sounds like something
worth looking into.
814
00:30:05,073 --> 00:30:06,642
I have a meeting in the morning,
815
00:30:06,675 --> 00:30:07,952
so do you mind covering
the feature department meeting
816
00:30:07,976 --> 00:30:09,277
till I get there?
817
00:30:09,310 --> 00:30:10,946
Yeah, for sure, I can do that.
818
00:30:10,980 --> 00:30:12,815
It'll be good practice for you.
819
00:30:12,848 --> 00:30:15,251
You know, for the future.
820
00:30:22,258 --> 00:30:24,193
Welcome to week two.
821
00:30:24,225 --> 00:30:25,261
Endurance.
822
00:30:25,293 --> 00:30:28,830
I hated this week last time.
823
00:30:28,864 --> 00:30:29,966
And squats.
824
00:30:32,334 --> 00:30:33,970
I mean,
it's not like I wasn't warned...
825
00:30:34,002 --> 00:30:35,704
by Misty,
826
00:30:35,738 --> 00:30:38,207
my guy friends...
827
00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:39,776
even my mom...
828
00:30:39,809 --> 00:30:42,211
but she hates everyone,
so I can't really count her.
829
00:30:42,243 --> 00:30:43,780
I get it, Bink.
830
00:30:43,812 --> 00:30:45,213
My dog hated Darren.
831
00:30:45,246 --> 00:30:46,391
That should've been
my first sign.
832
00:30:46,415 --> 00:30:48,017
Dogs know, Kim.
833
00:30:48,050 --> 00:30:49,085
Dogs know.
834
00:30:50,251 --> 00:30:51,887
I should have, too.
835
00:30:51,921 --> 00:30:53,389
I feel like such an idiot.
836
00:30:53,422 --> 00:30:56,225
But there was this undeniable
connection, you know?
837
00:30:57,292 --> 00:30:59,728
She got me in a way
that no one else ever has.
838
00:30:59,761 --> 00:31:01,564
And you're good.
839
00:31:01,696 --> 00:31:05,502
Somebody else will get you
like that again one day, Bink.
840
00:31:05,534 --> 00:31:07,803
In relationships,
we see what we want to see.
841
00:31:07,837 --> 00:31:09,873
This was a lesson
you needed to learn on your own,
842
00:31:09,906 --> 00:31:10,941
and you did.
843
00:31:13,708 --> 00:31:15,254
Okay, jumping jacks, people!
This is endurance!
844
00:31:15,278 --> 00:31:16,580
Come on, come on, come on!
845
00:31:20,683 --> 00:31:22,652
Like a boss, Kim!
846
00:31:24,086 --> 00:31:25,086
Good job!
847
00:31:26,121 --> 00:31:27,256
I don't understand
848
00:31:27,290 --> 00:31:28,758
how this is supposed
849
00:31:28,791 --> 00:31:29,902
to help somebody
get over a breakup.
850
00:31:29,926 --> 00:31:31,828
Challenging yourself
851
00:31:31,860 --> 00:31:34,263
at a point where your confidence
may be depleted
852
00:31:34,296 --> 00:31:35,731
can make you feel powerful.
853
00:31:37,800 --> 00:31:41,571
So I went bungee jumping
this weekend.
854
00:31:41,603 --> 00:31:43,305
I wanted to face my fear,
855
00:31:43,339 --> 00:31:44,741
and it was terrifying...
856
00:31:44,773 --> 00:31:46,075
but in a good way.
857
00:31:47,208 --> 00:31:48,287
She used one of the bad words.
858
00:31:48,311 --> 00:31:50,146
Never mind him.
Go on, Helen.
859
00:31:51,246 --> 00:31:52,614
Well, it was either that,
860
00:31:52,648 --> 00:31:54,583
or call Roger,
861
00:31:54,617 --> 00:31:59,289
so I opted for diving
head first toward the concrete
862
00:31:59,321 --> 00:32:02,257
and praying that the ropes hold.
863
00:32:02,291 --> 00:32:05,061
Well, I'm glad you chose
the safe option.
864
00:32:05,093 --> 00:32:06,228
I wanted to feel alive,
865
00:32:06,262 --> 00:32:09,899
which I really actually
haven't felt since my divorce.
866
00:32:11,100 --> 00:32:13,269
And now
everything looks different.
867
00:32:13,301 --> 00:32:14,571
I feel different.
868
00:32:17,005 --> 00:32:18,574
You're really inspiring, Helen.
869
00:32:18,608 --> 00:32:19,842
I am?
870
00:32:20,976 --> 00:32:22,887
Maybe I'm not so wrong.
You should add a fear week.
871
00:32:22,911 --> 00:32:23,712
Maybe I should,
872
00:32:23,745 --> 00:32:25,065
but I would call it
transcendence.
873
00:32:26,282 --> 00:32:27,984
Good job!
874
00:32:28,016 --> 00:32:31,620
Remember, in this life,
you are not alone.
875
00:32:31,654 --> 00:32:34,190
You have a support system.
876
00:32:34,223 --> 00:32:37,126
We'll get more into it during
the Trust and Teamwork week,
877
00:32:37,158 --> 00:32:39,661
but lean on each other, here.
878
00:32:39,695 --> 00:32:40,696
Your turn.
879
00:32:40,730 --> 00:32:42,999
Get across that beam.
880
00:32:43,032 --> 00:32:44,167
You're so pushy.
881
00:32:44,199 --> 00:32:45,200
Please.
882
00:32:48,003 --> 00:32:50,238
Look at that course.
883
00:32:50,272 --> 00:32:51,273
All of you made it.
884
00:32:51,307 --> 00:32:54,310
Not a single one of you quit.
885
00:32:54,342 --> 00:32:56,044
Next time your confidence
takes a hit,
886
00:32:56,078 --> 00:32:57,245
I want you to remember that,
887
00:32:57,279 --> 00:32:58,915
and I want you to relish it.
888
00:33:00,649 --> 00:33:01,684
Well done.
889
00:33:01,716 --> 00:33:02,651
Helen, how are you feeling?
890
00:33:02,685 --> 00:33:03,820
Oh, yeah.
891
00:33:30,979 --> 00:33:33,499
Looks like I need to find myself
an end-of-the-week ritual, too.
892
00:33:37,953 --> 00:33:39,898
And my sister's yoga teacher
is selling her studio
893
00:33:39,922 --> 00:33:41,557
when she moves
at the end of the summer.
894
00:33:42,791 --> 00:33:43,992
It could be the place.
895
00:33:44,026 --> 00:33:46,028
I mean, if new sign-ups
continue like this,
896
00:33:46,061 --> 00:33:47,830
it's a definite possibility.
897
00:33:49,164 --> 00:33:52,034
So this candidate
has two degrees.
898
00:33:52,067 --> 00:33:54,336
Early childhood education
from NYU
899
00:33:54,369 --> 00:33:56,772
and psychology
from Carnegie Mellon.
900
00:33:56,806 --> 00:33:57,774
Sounds good,
901
00:33:57,807 --> 00:34:00,309
but I know somebody
with an MBA from Columbia
902
00:34:00,343 --> 00:34:01,711
who would be perfect.
903
00:34:01,743 --> 00:34:02,854
This is our business, Miranda.
904
00:34:02,878 --> 00:34:04,114
It's too risky.
905
00:34:05,681 --> 00:34:07,884
Chloe, you've been with me
every step of the way,
906
00:34:07,916 --> 00:34:09,184
since Dex left.
907
00:34:09,217 --> 00:34:12,087
You know this program
better than me, probably.
908
00:34:12,121 --> 00:34:14,257
I just don't have your...
909
00:34:14,289 --> 00:34:15,289
vitality.
910
00:34:16,992 --> 00:34:18,035
Please, between the two of us,
911
00:34:18,059 --> 00:34:19,695
you are the most...
912
00:34:19,728 --> 00:34:21,196
vitalitous.
913
00:34:21,230 --> 00:34:22,230
That is not a word.
914
00:34:23,965 --> 00:34:25,668
It could be, in Canada.
915
00:34:27,369 --> 00:34:28,369
There she is.
916
00:34:39,114 --> 00:34:40,148
You?
917
00:34:40,181 --> 00:34:42,084
Me? You?
918
00:34:42,117 --> 00:34:43,853
You climb here?
I climb here.
919
00:34:43,885 --> 00:34:45,320
Like, all the time.
920
00:34:45,353 --> 00:34:46,254
Funny, I've never seen you.
921
00:34:46,289 --> 00:34:49,025
I was thinking about
the obstacle course.
922
00:34:49,057 --> 00:34:52,394
It was empowering.
923
00:34:52,427 --> 00:34:54,297
Didn't want to lose
the momentum.
924
00:34:54,329 --> 00:34:55,764
Good.
925
00:34:55,797 --> 00:34:57,299
Want to race to the top?
926
00:34:57,333 --> 00:35:00,068
I'm more of a slow and steady
kind of climber.
927
00:35:00,101 --> 00:35:01,036
I'm more of
928
00:35:01,070 --> 00:35:02,247
a challenge yourself,
beat your best time
929
00:35:02,271 --> 00:35:03,773
kinda climber.
930
00:35:03,806 --> 00:35:05,074
Kind of figured.
931
00:35:05,106 --> 00:35:06,375
Always on the move, right?
932
00:35:06,409 --> 00:35:08,311
Classes by day,
climbing walls by night?
933
00:35:10,211 --> 00:35:11,748
It's how I manage my stress,
I guess.
934
00:35:11,780 --> 00:35:12,681
That's fine,
935
00:35:12,715 --> 00:35:14,717
as long as it's not
an avoidance tactic.
936
00:35:15,951 --> 00:35:17,191
I manage mine by sitting still.
937
00:35:20,222 --> 00:35:21,999
You know, your class is a lot
more expensive than you think.
938
00:35:22,023 --> 00:35:24,092
I've had to go
to the chiropractor three times
939
00:35:24,126 --> 00:35:25,828
since I started... my back.
940
00:35:25,860 --> 00:35:28,397
My class is very affordable.
941
00:35:28,431 --> 00:35:29,699
And I'm sorry about your back.
942
00:35:31,132 --> 00:35:32,132
What about your heart?
943
00:35:34,269 --> 00:35:35,269
Strong and sturdy.
944
00:35:37,005 --> 00:35:38,774
Okay. Not ready
to talk about your stuff yet.
945
00:35:38,807 --> 00:35:40,376
That's fine.
946
00:35:40,409 --> 00:35:41,409
We'll work on it.
947
00:35:43,778 --> 00:35:45,014
I don't have stuff.
948
00:35:55,891 --> 00:35:56,891
I'm getting there.
949
00:36:05,735 --> 00:36:06,735
You done already?
950
00:36:09,771 --> 00:36:10,771
Okay.
951
00:36:11,873 --> 00:36:12,808
You want to switch walls?
952
00:36:12,842 --> 00:36:14,343
Yeah, sure.
953
00:36:14,376 --> 00:36:15,244
Can I get some water first?
954
00:36:15,277 --> 00:36:16,445
Sure.
955
00:36:17,378 --> 00:36:18,413
So boot camp?
956
00:36:18,447 --> 00:36:19,715
Where did that come from?
957
00:36:20,882 --> 00:36:22,784
Necessity
is the mother of invention.
958
00:36:22,818 --> 00:36:23,818
Necessity for you?
959
00:36:24,954 --> 00:36:25,988
You're a Ph.D.
960
00:36:26,021 --> 00:36:27,423
You had to be making
a nice living.
961
00:36:29,125 --> 00:36:30,434
It's never
about the money for me.
962
00:36:30,458 --> 00:36:32,060
It says on your website
963
00:36:32,094 --> 00:36:36,999
that you have 417 healed hearts
under your belt.
964
00:36:37,032 --> 00:36:38,367
How many unhealed?
965
00:36:38,400 --> 00:36:40,369
You know, looking for problems
where none exist
966
00:36:40,402 --> 00:36:41,522
is a very unhealthy outlook.
967
00:36:43,038 --> 00:36:45,173
Or focusing on the negative
from time to time
968
00:36:45,206 --> 00:36:46,275
is how we improve.
969
00:36:46,307 --> 00:36:48,244
Grow.
970
00:36:48,277 --> 00:36:49,877
Which I understand
is sort of your thing.
971
00:36:50,980 --> 00:36:53,182
See, I pay attention in class.
972
00:36:55,150 --> 00:36:56,885
Well, sometimes.
973
00:36:56,918 --> 00:36:57,953
But not in my boot camp.
974
00:36:57,987 --> 00:37:02,125
Look, this is how I healed
after a broken heart,
975
00:37:02,157 --> 00:37:02,991
so now it's how I help others.
976
00:37:03,025 --> 00:37:05,461
So the business
was your rebound?
977
00:37:07,195 --> 00:37:09,231
What, is this a workout
or an interrogation?
978
00:37:11,132 --> 00:37:12,768
I'm placing my trust in you,
979
00:37:12,802 --> 00:37:14,036
and I just...
980
00:37:14,068 --> 00:37:16,204
I kind of want to understand
what I should.
981
00:37:16,237 --> 00:37:17,973
Because it works.
982
00:37:19,275 --> 00:37:20,276
You'll see.
983
00:37:20,309 --> 00:37:21,511
Okay.
984
00:37:22,711 --> 00:37:24,322
As long as you're not diving
into other people's problems
985
00:37:24,346 --> 00:37:26,114
so you don't have to deal
with your own.
986
00:37:26,148 --> 00:37:28,117
Is that what you think,
Dr. Freud?
987
00:37:29,485 --> 00:37:30,928
Go. You can have
a head start this time
988
00:37:30,952 --> 00:37:32,387
so it's not
so embarrassing for you.
989
00:37:32,420 --> 00:37:34,256
Right. Here we go again.
990
00:37:35,925 --> 00:37:36,925
Time's up.
991
00:37:38,226 --> 00:37:39,495
Okay...
992
00:37:41,362 --> 00:37:42,964
That's...
993
00:37:42,998 --> 00:37:44,400
as far as I go.
994
00:37:47,436 --> 00:37:49,005
- You're doing great.
- I know.
995
00:37:50,172 --> 00:37:51,340
I'm on to you, you know.
996
00:37:52,608 --> 00:37:54,010
You can tell me the truth.
997
00:37:55,344 --> 00:37:56,878
This was your first time,
wasn't it?
998
00:37:58,280 --> 00:37:59,983
You got me.
999
00:38:01,516 --> 00:38:02,984
As you can see,
1000
00:38:03,018 --> 00:38:05,221
I'm not so good
at being not so good at things.
1001
00:38:05,253 --> 00:38:06,922
That's why you need
to challenge yourself,
1002
00:38:06,956 --> 00:38:08,516
so that you're not
in your head so much.
1003
00:38:10,492 --> 00:38:12,996
Well, I'm a chronic
over-thinker.
1004
00:38:14,496 --> 00:38:16,833
It's hard for me
to just turn it off.
1005
00:38:17,599 --> 00:38:18,467
There he is.
1006
00:38:18,501 --> 00:38:20,269
I was waiting for that guy
to get here.
1007
00:38:20,302 --> 00:38:21,504
What guy?
1008
00:38:21,536 --> 00:38:24,005
Valet stand Ben.
1009
00:38:24,039 --> 00:38:24,840
The one who thought
1010
00:38:24,873 --> 00:38:26,050
he was never
going to see me again,
1011
00:38:26,074 --> 00:38:27,114
so he was completely real.
1012
00:38:28,577 --> 00:38:31,047
Well, I feel the same way
about valet stand Miranda.
1013
00:38:31,079 --> 00:38:32,215
She just listened.
1014
00:38:32,248 --> 00:38:34,383
She didn't try
to analyze or fix me.
1015
00:38:34,416 --> 00:38:35,417
But that's exactly
1016
00:38:35,451 --> 00:38:37,452
what you're paying
Boot Camp Miranda to do, so.
1017
00:38:38,554 --> 00:38:39,489
Not tonight.
1018
00:38:39,521 --> 00:38:41,123
Tonight, we're just
a couple of climbers.
1019
00:38:41,155 --> 00:38:44,192
One very accomplished climber.
1020
00:38:44,226 --> 00:38:46,066
One who's just happy
he didn't break any bones.
1021
00:38:48,496 --> 00:38:49,865
The night I met you...
1022
00:38:49,898 --> 00:38:51,400
I think Serena did me a favor.
1023
00:38:54,402 --> 00:38:55,403
Did she?
1024
00:38:55,436 --> 00:38:56,572
Yeah.
1025
00:38:56,605 --> 00:38:58,340
I was always talking about
1026
00:38:58,373 --> 00:39:00,475
"maybe almost" taking things
to the next level.
1027
00:39:01,643 --> 00:39:03,178
Jen's problem with me.
1028
00:39:03,211 --> 00:39:05,480
I could never get past
"maybe almost".
1029
00:39:09,385 --> 00:39:10,461
What? Why are you
smirking at me?
1030
00:39:10,485 --> 00:39:13,154
It's not a smirk.
1031
00:39:13,188 --> 00:39:14,365
This is exactly
where you should be
1032
00:39:14,389 --> 00:39:15,549
at this point of the program.
1033
00:39:16,692 --> 00:39:18,061
The letting-go stage.
1034
00:39:20,561 --> 00:39:22,331
That means it's working.
1035
00:39:57,101 --> 00:39:58,669
Well, everyone,
welcome to week three.
1036
00:39:58,701 --> 00:39:59,701
Teamwork.
1037
00:40:00,670 --> 00:40:02,339
After a breakup,
1038
00:40:02,373 --> 00:40:04,442
we can feel like
our trust is shattered
1039
00:40:04,475 --> 00:40:05,643
and that we're alone,
1040
00:40:05,676 --> 00:40:06,744
but we're not.
1041
00:40:08,112 --> 00:40:09,781
We can rely on other people
1042
00:40:09,813 --> 00:40:12,149
to help us through anything.
1043
00:40:12,183 --> 00:40:15,420
So, today,
we are going to work together...
1044
00:40:15,453 --> 00:40:17,255
or we are all going to die!
1045
00:40:18,688 --> 00:40:20,491
There is a bomb in this room
1046
00:40:20,523 --> 00:40:22,759
that is big enough
to destroy the entire city,
1047
00:40:22,793 --> 00:40:25,329
and we have 60 minutes
to dismantle it.
1048
00:40:25,362 --> 00:40:26,464
Start the clock!
1049
00:40:28,098 --> 00:40:30,301
The fate of the people
rests in our collective hands.
1050
00:40:30,333 --> 00:40:31,469
Do not let them down.
1051
00:40:31,502 --> 00:40:32,637
Start.
1052
00:40:32,670 --> 00:40:34,030
Seriously, come on.
There's a bomb!
1053
00:40:38,576 --> 00:40:41,746
Okay... One, two...
1054
00:40:41,779 --> 00:40:42,813
five.
1055
00:40:42,846 --> 00:40:44,348
- Come on.
- Four...
1056
00:40:44,380 --> 00:40:45,248
I'm trying to get this right.
1057
00:40:45,281 --> 00:40:47,350
It's not right!
1058
00:40:47,384 --> 00:40:49,219
Don't yell at your partner.
Lean on them.
1059
00:40:49,252 --> 00:40:50,854
Don't make me do math!
1060
00:40:50,888 --> 00:40:52,389
Okay, switch places.
1061
00:40:52,422 --> 00:40:53,422
- Okay.
- Okay.
1062
00:40:54,825 --> 00:40:57,194
In relationships,
1063
00:40:57,227 --> 00:40:58,363
just as in life,
1064
00:40:58,396 --> 00:41:00,516
if something's not working,
we try a different tactic.
1065
00:41:05,368 --> 00:41:06,368
Ben, how you doing?
1066
00:41:09,372 --> 00:41:10,340
Pretty good, actually.
1067
00:41:10,374 --> 00:41:11,975
You want to...
1068
00:41:12,008 --> 00:41:13,844
you want to press
the big red button?
1069
00:41:13,877 --> 00:41:15,546
Just don't blow up the city.
1070
00:41:23,854 --> 00:41:24,955
Cool.
1071
00:41:24,988 --> 00:41:26,223
Secret passage.
1072
00:41:26,256 --> 00:41:27,256
There's no door knob.
1073
00:41:30,127 --> 00:41:31,296
- Yikes.
- Yeah.
1074
00:41:36,133 --> 00:41:37,535
There's no door knob.
1075
00:41:37,568 --> 00:41:38,970
Your teammates have encroached
1076
00:41:39,002 --> 00:41:40,138
on enemy territory
1077
00:41:40,171 --> 00:41:41,239
and have been captured.
1078
00:41:41,272 --> 00:41:42,540
You must rescue them
1079
00:41:42,573 --> 00:41:44,042
in order to receive
your next clue.
1080
00:41:46,209 --> 00:41:47,912
Hang in there, Miranda,
we'll save you!
1081
00:41:49,881 --> 00:41:51,583
And my brother.
1082
00:41:51,615 --> 00:41:53,050
Yeah. Sure, whatever.
1083
00:41:54,352 --> 00:41:55,453
Tell my mother I love her.
1084
00:41:57,955 --> 00:41:59,265
I'm not a big fan
of small spaces.
1085
00:41:59,289 --> 00:42:03,260
I have never been a big fan
of small spaces.
1086
00:42:03,294 --> 00:42:04,896
Can...
1087
00:42:07,365 --> 00:42:08,899
Okay...
1088
00:42:11,202 --> 00:42:13,136
Hey, hey, are you okay?
1089
00:42:13,169 --> 00:42:14,872
Yeah.
1090
00:42:14,906 --> 00:42:16,641
I'm-I'm totally not panicking.
1091
00:42:16,673 --> 00:42:18,242
Except for the part
1092
00:42:18,276 --> 00:42:20,544
where I'm kind of
a little bit panicking.
1093
00:42:20,577 --> 00:42:21,912
Can you just ask me a question
1094
00:42:21,946 --> 00:42:23,915
or distract me
or something, please?
1095
00:42:23,948 --> 00:42:25,150
Yeah. Yeah.
1096
00:42:28,218 --> 00:42:29,153
Favorite ice cream?
1097
00:42:29,185 --> 00:42:30,220
Vanilla.
1098
00:42:30,254 --> 00:42:32,022
Come on, that's so boring.
1099
00:42:32,055 --> 00:42:33,057
What's yours?
1100
00:42:33,089 --> 00:42:34,492
Chocolate chip cookie dough.
1101
00:42:34,524 --> 00:42:36,327
Way too complicated.
I'm a purist.
1102
00:42:38,396 --> 00:42:40,932
We're working on it, you guys!
Making real good progress here.
1103
00:42:42,033 --> 00:42:43,033
No, we're not!
1104
00:42:44,334 --> 00:42:46,570
I know sitting still is not
your favorite activity.
1105
00:42:46,604 --> 00:42:49,307
It's actually right above
being trapped in small spaces,
1106
00:42:49,339 --> 00:42:50,607
so I'm really killing it here.
1107
00:42:50,640 --> 00:42:51,976
Oh, good.
1108
00:42:53,443 --> 00:42:55,154
Can you not tell anyone
out there about this, please?
1109
00:42:55,178 --> 00:42:56,414
Because I do need to maintain
1110
00:42:56,446 --> 00:42:58,349
some sort of
street cred with them.
1111
00:42:59,950 --> 00:43:01,952
I'm not so great
at letting my guard down.
1112
00:43:03,086 --> 00:43:04,688
See, but by telling me that,
1113
00:43:04,722 --> 00:43:06,258
that's exactly
what you're doing.
1114
00:43:07,390 --> 00:43:08,291
Very astute.
1115
00:43:08,325 --> 00:43:10,093
Maybe you should be
teaching this class.
1116
00:43:10,127 --> 00:43:11,663
I'm just trying
to return the favor.
1117
00:43:13,464 --> 00:43:15,066
You take care of everybody else.
1118
00:43:16,434 --> 00:43:17,702
You know...
1119
00:43:17,734 --> 00:43:19,671
you could let
your guard down, too.
1120
00:43:19,703 --> 00:43:21,448
See, that's one of
my least favorite activities...
1121
00:43:21,472 --> 00:43:24,175
right up there with...
1122
00:43:24,207 --> 00:43:26,310
failing at pretty much anything,
1123
00:43:26,343 --> 00:43:28,378
and getting attacked by a shark.
1124
00:43:28,412 --> 00:43:29,652
Well, the shark thing's normal.
1125
00:43:30,814 --> 00:43:32,591
And you don't really strike me
as the type who fails at much.
1126
00:43:32,615 --> 00:43:34,017
See, that's the thing,
1127
00:43:34,051 --> 00:43:37,088
I work really hard
to not fail at much.
1128
00:43:37,120 --> 00:43:38,320
In my business life, at least.
1129
00:43:39,522 --> 00:43:41,292
And in your relationships?
1130
00:43:43,760 --> 00:43:46,997
Suppose I could've
paid those equal attention.
1131
00:43:48,399 --> 00:43:50,101
Yeah...
1132
00:43:50,133 --> 00:43:51,435
same.
1133
00:43:56,740 --> 00:43:57,641
Everyone's dead.
1134
00:43:57,675 --> 00:43:58,977
Great!
1135
00:44:02,345 --> 00:44:03,680
Well, you can't win 'em all,
1136
00:44:03,714 --> 00:44:04,682
but we worked together,
1137
00:44:04,714 --> 00:44:05,682
we enjoyed the journey,
1138
00:44:05,716 --> 00:44:07,452
and that is the lesson.
1139
00:44:08,419 --> 00:44:10,254
So... smile.
1140
00:44:11,589 --> 00:44:13,391
Great. Thank you.
1141
00:44:13,423 --> 00:44:15,063
Get home safe.
I'll see you all next week.
1142
00:44:16,127 --> 00:44:17,128
Hey...
1143
00:44:17,160 --> 00:44:18,095
I had a question.
1144
00:44:18,129 --> 00:44:19,430
Shoot.
1145
00:44:19,463 --> 00:44:20,365
About the letter,
1146
00:44:20,397 --> 00:44:21,598
at the end,
1147
00:44:21,631 --> 00:44:23,200
where we burn it
or send it or whatever.
1148
00:44:24,401 --> 00:44:25,535
Are there rules there,
1149
00:44:25,568 --> 00:44:27,204
or can we change who it's for?
1150
00:44:27,238 --> 00:44:28,281
I mean, you're getting
a little ahead of yourself,
1151
00:44:28,305 --> 00:44:29,272
that's week six,
1152
00:44:29,305 --> 00:44:31,141
but you'll be writing it
1153
00:44:31,175 --> 00:44:32,786
to the person you need
to let go of the most.
1154
00:44:32,810 --> 00:44:34,078
Yeah.
1155
00:44:34,111 --> 00:44:35,311
That's kind of what I thought.
1156
00:44:36,280 --> 00:44:37,280
Serena?
1157
00:44:41,084 --> 00:44:42,052
Kim tell you that?
1158
00:44:42,086 --> 00:44:43,021
You told me that.
1159
00:44:43,053 --> 00:44:44,287
At Rock Wall.
1160
00:44:44,321 --> 00:44:45,189
Freudian slip, maybe,
1161
00:44:45,222 --> 00:44:46,662
when you said Serena,
instead of Jen.
1162
00:44:47,792 --> 00:44:49,260
You're a really good listener.
1163
00:44:49,292 --> 00:44:50,303
That's... that's really annoying.
1164
00:44:50,327 --> 00:44:51,327
It's kind of the job.
1165
00:44:52,396 --> 00:44:53,396
Why the change?
1166
00:44:55,265 --> 00:44:57,401
You know...
1167
00:44:57,435 --> 00:45:00,571
because I was always just
toeing the line with Jen,
1168
00:45:00,604 --> 00:45:02,524
couldn't figure out
why I couldn't really commit.
1169
00:45:02,807 --> 00:45:04,207
Maybe because
1170
00:45:04,240 --> 00:45:05,776
you never really let go
of your one?
1171
00:45:08,312 --> 00:45:09,347
I'll see you next week.
1172
00:45:17,321 --> 00:45:19,524
Welcome to week four...
1173
00:45:19,557 --> 00:45:21,192
Connection.
1174
00:45:21,225 --> 00:45:22,226
This week is all about
1175
00:45:22,260 --> 00:45:25,729
getting back in touch
with our vulnerability.
1176
00:45:25,763 --> 00:45:28,366
And this here is a safe space
where you can feel that.
1177
00:45:28,399 --> 00:45:30,667
This was my favorite week
last go-around,
1178
00:45:30,700 --> 00:45:33,504
and I have to say,
I was pretty darn good at it.
1179
00:45:35,106 --> 00:45:36,339
This is Senora Cornejo.
1180
00:45:36,372 --> 00:45:38,575
She is a world champion
on the salsa circuit.
1181
00:45:38,609 --> 00:45:40,211
She's going to teach us
some moves today.
1182
00:45:40,243 --> 00:45:42,814
We are one short today
because Jess is out,
1183
00:45:42,847 --> 00:45:44,549
so, Bink,
I will be your partner.
1184
00:45:45,548 --> 00:45:47,484
Salsa is not only
a dance of love.
1185
00:45:47,517 --> 00:45:48,819
It's a dance of feeling.
1186
00:45:48,852 --> 00:45:51,188
So I want you
to be in your body,
1187
00:45:51,222 --> 00:45:52,790
and don't worry
about how you look,
1188
00:45:52,823 --> 00:45:55,158
just feel the music
with all of your being.
1189
00:45:55,191 --> 00:45:59,229
We're going to be doing
a very simple dance I created
1190
00:45:59,263 --> 00:46:01,531
called "La Vida Del Amor",
"A Life of Love".
1191
00:46:01,564 --> 00:46:02,564
Is everybody ready?
1192
00:46:03,566 --> 00:46:05,368
I'm sorry.
1193
00:46:05,401 --> 00:46:06,403
This is weird.
1194
00:46:06,437 --> 00:46:09,240
I cannot be partnered
with my brother for this.
1195
00:46:09,272 --> 00:46:10,374
- Yeah.
- Let's switch.
1196
00:46:10,408 --> 00:46:12,443
I'll dance with you
and Ben can dance with Miranda.
1197
00:46:12,475 --> 00:46:13,577
Thank you.
1198
00:46:21,218 --> 00:46:22,687
Trust your partner.
1199
00:46:22,720 --> 00:46:24,856
Do not be afraid
to hold onto each other.
1200
00:46:27,357 --> 00:46:29,359
Dance is an unspoken language.
1201
00:46:29,392 --> 00:46:31,896
We say so much in silence
1202
00:46:31,928 --> 00:46:34,531
as we move, together,
to the music.
1203
00:46:37,334 --> 00:46:39,370
And step, two, three, four.
1204
00:46:39,403 --> 00:46:41,205
And back, two, three, four.
1205
00:46:41,238 --> 00:46:42,205
Twirl out,
1206
00:46:42,238 --> 00:46:43,773
twirl in...
1207
00:46:44,774 --> 00:46:45,642
- Sorry.
- Sorry.
1208
00:46:45,676 --> 00:46:46,716
- I'm sorry.
- That's okay.
1209
00:46:51,381 --> 00:46:53,350
And step, two, three, four.
1210
00:46:53,383 --> 00:46:55,552
And back, two, three, four.
1211
00:46:55,586 --> 00:46:58,321
Twirl out, twirl in, and dip.
1212
00:46:58,354 --> 00:46:59,289
Try that again.
1213
00:46:59,323 --> 00:47:00,591
Okay.
1214
00:47:07,664 --> 00:47:09,800
And step, two, three, four.
1215
00:47:09,832 --> 00:47:11,903
And back, two, three, four.
1216
00:47:11,935 --> 00:47:13,703
Twirl out,
1217
00:47:13,736 --> 00:47:15,173
twirl in,
1218
00:47:15,205 --> 00:47:16,240
and dip.
1219
00:47:25,816 --> 00:47:27,752
Remember...
1220
00:47:27,785 --> 00:47:29,187
remember what it's like
1221
00:47:29,220 --> 00:47:31,388
to feel safe
in the arms of another person.
1222
00:47:32,423 --> 00:47:33,625
You get to have that again.
1223
00:47:35,892 --> 00:47:37,227
We all do.
1224
00:48:11,563 --> 00:48:12,531
Ben. Hi.
1225
00:48:12,565 --> 00:48:14,333
Hey.
1226
00:48:14,366 --> 00:48:15,677
I know this is
sort of outside of your realm,
1227
00:48:15,701 --> 00:48:16,778
but I need your help
with something,
1228
00:48:16,802 --> 00:48:18,579
and I don't think I'm equipped
to handle it alone.
1229
00:48:18,603 --> 00:48:19,739
What's going on?
1230
00:48:19,772 --> 00:48:21,174
It's Kim.
1231
00:48:21,206 --> 00:48:22,316
She wrote
her week-six letter early,
1232
00:48:22,340 --> 00:48:23,585
went to drop it off
to Darren today,
1233
00:48:23,609 --> 00:48:25,086
to show him that
she's doing fine without him,
1234
00:48:25,110 --> 00:48:26,112
and it did not go well.
1235
00:48:26,145 --> 00:48:27,714
Oh, no.
Where is she?
1236
00:48:27,746 --> 00:48:29,291
I'm meeting her at my place
in 10 minutes.
1237
00:48:29,315 --> 00:48:30,183
Can I text you the address?
1238
00:48:30,215 --> 00:48:31,618
Yeah.
1239
00:48:31,650 --> 00:48:33,085
I'll be right there.
1240
00:48:35,588 --> 00:48:37,390
Weekend in Laguna?
Delete.
1241
00:48:39,092 --> 00:48:40,392
Epcot Center?
1242
00:48:40,425 --> 00:48:41,425
Never happened.
1243
00:48:44,463 --> 00:48:46,565
Mom and Dad's
40th wedding anniversary.
1244
00:48:46,599 --> 00:48:48,468
Hey, don't delete them.
1245
00:48:48,501 --> 00:48:49,903
We'll photoshop him out.
1246
00:48:51,336 --> 00:48:52,536
Make George Clooney your date.
1247
00:48:54,206 --> 00:48:55,885
We have a really good
art department at the magazine.
1248
00:48:55,909 --> 00:48:57,943
Okay, but can Chris Pine
be my date?
1249
00:48:58,912 --> 00:48:59,913
Done.
1250
00:49:02,648 --> 00:49:03,648
I'm so stupid.
1251
00:49:05,117 --> 00:49:07,887
I saw his fiancée
and I burst into tears.
1252
00:49:07,921 --> 00:49:09,422
I didn't want to wait.
1253
00:49:09,454 --> 00:49:10,694
I wanted him to know right now.
1254
00:49:11,925 --> 00:49:12,925
That I'm doing just fine.
1255
00:49:15,394 --> 00:49:17,898
But we send those letters
or we burn them for us.
1256
00:49:18,965 --> 00:49:19,965
Not for them.
1257
00:49:20,999 --> 00:49:22,235
I really thought I was okay.
1258
00:49:23,302 --> 00:49:24,970
Yeah.
1259
00:49:25,003 --> 00:49:26,682
Sometimes, it's so much easier
just to be angry at someone
1260
00:49:26,706 --> 00:49:27,786
than it is to forgive them.
1261
00:49:28,675 --> 00:49:30,142
Why is that?
1262
00:49:30,175 --> 00:49:32,511
I guess because
when somebody's wronged us,
1263
00:49:32,544 --> 00:49:33,622
we don't want them
to get away with it.
1264
00:49:33,646 --> 00:49:35,981
I mean, how's that fair?
Why do they get to be happy?
1265
00:49:36,014 --> 00:49:37,250
That's exactly how I feel.
1266
00:49:38,684 --> 00:49:40,920
But all that does
is steal our joy,
1267
00:49:40,954 --> 00:49:42,231
while they're out there,
living their lives,
1268
00:49:42,255 --> 00:49:43,390
none the wiser.
1269
00:49:44,957 --> 00:49:46,927
So don't let him have
that much power over you.
1270
00:49:46,959 --> 00:49:48,494
Don't let him steal your joy.
1271
00:49:50,463 --> 00:49:51,463
You're right.
1272
00:49:53,465 --> 00:49:56,268
And I have
a potential new client to meet.
1273
00:49:56,302 --> 00:49:57,671
So, I am going to go home,
1274
00:49:57,704 --> 00:49:59,205
clean myself up,
1275
00:49:59,238 --> 00:50:02,009
and continue being
hugely successful in my career.
1276
00:50:03,142 --> 00:50:04,142
Way better.
1277
00:50:12,418 --> 00:50:13,418
Thank you.
1278
00:50:16,255 --> 00:50:17,990
That was
pretty great back there.
1279
00:50:18,023 --> 00:50:18,991
Thanks.
1280
00:50:19,025 --> 00:50:21,394
Empowerment can kind of be
a mirage at first.
1281
00:50:22,561 --> 00:50:24,238
It feels so good,
that you think your work's done,
1282
00:50:24,262 --> 00:50:25,364
but...
1283
00:50:25,398 --> 00:50:27,633
really, you're just
getting started.
1284
00:50:27,666 --> 00:50:28,668
It's a process.
1285
00:50:28,702 --> 00:50:32,205
Kind of like two steps forward,
10 steps back.
1286
00:50:32,238 --> 00:50:33,515
Well, how many steps
does it usually take?
1287
00:50:33,539 --> 00:50:34,741
Is this, like,
1288
00:50:34,773 --> 00:50:36,318
a "I need to buy
new running shoes" kind of thing
1289
00:50:36,342 --> 00:50:38,412
or a flip-flop level distance?
1290
00:50:39,579 --> 00:50:41,048
Everybody's different.
1291
00:50:42,247 --> 00:50:43,607
How many steps
did it take for you?
1292
00:50:45,684 --> 00:50:48,020
I will let you know
when I get there.
1293
00:50:49,655 --> 00:50:52,225
Bit of a work in progress?
1294
00:50:52,258 --> 00:50:53,258
Something like that.
1295
00:50:57,764 --> 00:50:59,365
We started with one class
1296
00:50:59,398 --> 00:51:02,267
and now we have five
that run simultaneously.
1297
00:51:02,300 --> 00:51:03,702
Miranda covers them all,
1298
00:51:03,735 --> 00:51:06,338
so you can see
why we need a new instructor,
1299
00:51:06,372 --> 00:51:07,415
especially now that
there's interest
1300
00:51:07,439 --> 00:51:09,376
in expanding outside Portland.
1301
00:51:09,409 --> 00:51:11,111
But Miranda will go over
1302
00:51:11,144 --> 00:51:12,984
the nuts and bolts with you
when she gets here.
1303
00:51:14,546 --> 00:51:16,582
And there's
our illustrious leader now.
1304
00:51:16,615 --> 00:51:18,150
Excuse me for a moment.
1305
00:51:20,052 --> 00:51:21,053
Hey.
1306
00:51:21,086 --> 00:51:23,122
Dex called again.
1307
00:51:23,155 --> 00:51:24,289
He won't stop calling.
1308
00:51:24,322 --> 00:51:25,190
He started talking to me
1309
00:51:25,224 --> 00:51:27,126
about how we were
all such good friends,
1310
00:51:27,160 --> 00:51:28,061
playing on my sympathies.
1311
00:51:28,093 --> 00:51:29,229
What did you say?
1312
00:51:29,262 --> 00:51:30,130
All I could say.
1313
00:51:30,162 --> 00:51:32,032
That I would relay
the message to you.
1314
00:51:34,400 --> 00:51:35,267
I don't think
he's going to let up.
1315
00:51:35,300 --> 00:51:36,335
What are you going to do?
1316
00:51:38,637 --> 00:51:39,671
I don't know.
1317
00:51:39,704 --> 00:51:41,073
Maybe you should hear him out.
1318
00:51:42,441 --> 00:51:44,443
Once you step out
of your comfort zone,
1319
00:51:44,477 --> 00:51:45,645
it becomes a lot easier.
1320
00:51:47,747 --> 00:51:50,117
And you say you're not ready
to run a class.
1321
00:51:52,418 --> 00:51:53,418
He's waiting.
1322
00:51:55,787 --> 00:51:57,466
You did a good job
with that staff meeting.
1323
00:51:57,490 --> 00:51:58,457
You're a natural born leader.
1324
00:51:58,490 --> 00:51:59,458
You think so?
1325
00:51:59,492 --> 00:52:01,227
I do.
1326
00:52:01,260 --> 00:52:02,437
They're coming around
upstairs, too.
1327
00:52:02,461 --> 00:52:05,097
I can be very convincing
when I want to be.
1328
00:52:05,131 --> 00:52:06,251
I appreciate that about you.
1329
00:52:07,332 --> 00:52:08,802
So how's the boot camp
piece coming?
1330
00:52:08,834 --> 00:52:09,635
Anything I can look at yet?
1331
00:52:09,668 --> 00:52:12,204
Still kind of
piecing it together,
1332
00:52:12,238 --> 00:52:15,775
compiling notes, research,
background, stuff like that.
1333
00:52:15,807 --> 00:52:16,675
Plus, there's still
1334
00:52:16,709 --> 00:52:18,211
a couple of weeks left
in the program.
1335
00:52:18,244 --> 00:52:19,746
I have to admit,
1336
00:52:19,778 --> 00:52:21,938
it's not at all what I thought
it was going to be like.
1337
00:52:23,349 --> 00:52:25,251
You're getting involved,
I can tell.
1338
00:52:25,284 --> 00:52:26,495
Are we going
to have to deprogram you?
1339
00:52:26,519 --> 00:52:28,162
Sometimes, the truth
can be ugly, you know?
1340
00:52:28,186 --> 00:52:29,355
It's not like that.
1341
00:52:30,655 --> 00:52:33,358
Listen, don't worry about
how far along it is.
1342
00:52:33,392 --> 00:52:35,261
Just get me your notes,
whatever they are,
1343
00:52:35,293 --> 00:52:36,228
just so I can get an idea
1344
00:52:36,262 --> 00:52:37,902
of how it will best fit
in the next issue.
1345
00:52:38,631 --> 00:52:39,465
And let's talk deadline
later today.
1346
00:52:39,499 --> 00:52:41,367
You think
you can get me some photos?
1347
00:52:41,400 --> 00:52:42,602
Yeah.
1348
00:52:42,635 --> 00:52:43,703
Nice.
1349
00:52:49,876 --> 00:52:50,610
In this day and age,
1350
00:52:50,644 --> 00:52:51,778
where millionaires are made
1351
00:52:51,811 --> 00:52:53,287
in the self-help aisle
of a Barnes & Noble,
1352
00:52:53,311 --> 00:52:55,447
one has to ask oneself,
1353
00:52:55,481 --> 00:52:57,784
can you get over a broken heart
in six short weeks?
1354
00:52:59,285 --> 00:53:01,421
Miranda's Breakup Boot Camp
in Portland, Oregon
1355
00:53:01,454 --> 00:53:02,589
seems to think you can.
1356
00:53:07,827 --> 00:53:09,705
So, should I call her in
for a second interview?
1357
00:53:09,729 --> 00:53:11,164
No.
1358
00:53:11,197 --> 00:53:12,508
You are not going
to let up, are you?
1359
00:53:12,532 --> 00:53:13,575
You've known me since I was 19.
1360
00:53:13,599 --> 00:53:14,599
Have I ever let up?
1361
00:53:17,369 --> 00:53:18,871
Looks like you have a visitor.
1362
00:53:19,939 --> 00:53:21,707
See you.
'Night, Ben.
1363
00:53:21,740 --> 00:53:22,909
'Night.
1364
00:53:22,941 --> 00:53:25,177
You.
1365
00:53:25,211 --> 00:53:27,147
Hey.
1366
00:53:27,180 --> 00:53:28,815
Sorry. I hope this isn't
a bad time.
1367
00:53:28,847 --> 00:53:30,449
I just needed to talk to you.
1368
00:53:30,483 --> 00:53:31,526
No, I was just heading
to Rock Wall.
1369
00:53:31,550 --> 00:53:32,418
You want a rematch?
1370
00:53:32,452 --> 00:53:34,421
Would you be up
for something different?
1371
00:53:35,588 --> 00:53:36,456
Maybe go to one of
my favorite places,
1372
00:53:36,488 --> 00:53:38,008
when I've got
to shake off the cobwebs?
1373
00:53:41,894 --> 00:53:44,164
I guess I could be up
for something different
1374
00:53:44,197 --> 00:53:45,432
this one time.
1375
00:54:05,052 --> 00:54:06,130
When I was just out of college,
1376
00:54:06,154 --> 00:54:07,522
I used to come up here,
1377
00:54:07,554 --> 00:54:09,491
look out at the city,
1378
00:54:09,523 --> 00:54:10,958
and think...
1379
00:54:10,991 --> 00:54:12,160
I'm going to make it here.
1380
00:54:13,261 --> 00:54:14,330
It's so beautiful.
1381
00:54:15,563 --> 00:54:16,803
It's too bad we blew it all up.
1382
00:54:18,266 --> 00:54:19,468
We'll save the city next time.
1383
00:54:23,138 --> 00:54:24,139
- I wanted...
- Look...
1384
00:54:24,172 --> 00:54:25,107
Can I say something?
1385
00:54:25,139 --> 00:54:26,139
Yeah, sure.
1386
00:54:27,475 --> 00:54:28,543
I'm sorry.
1387
00:54:28,576 --> 00:54:30,445
What do you have
to be sorry about?
1388
00:54:30,478 --> 00:54:32,014
I misjudged you.
1389
00:54:32,047 --> 00:54:33,482
I called you a cynic,
1390
00:54:33,514 --> 00:54:35,484
and I didn't give you
the benefit of the doubt
1391
00:54:35,516 --> 00:54:37,518
that I give everyone else
who takes my program.
1392
00:54:40,455 --> 00:54:42,095
But after the escape room
the other day...
1393
00:54:43,357 --> 00:54:44,357
You're a good guy, Ben.
1394
00:54:47,328 --> 00:54:48,397
Well...
1395
00:54:48,429 --> 00:54:49,709
You were sort of right about me.
1396
00:54:50,531 --> 00:54:51,633
Go on.
1397
00:54:53,500 --> 00:54:54,435
Serena.
1398
00:54:54,469 --> 00:54:55,503
Jen.
1399
00:54:57,538 --> 00:54:59,607
Every girlfriend in between.
1400
00:54:59,641 --> 00:55:01,343
It's like for the last 10 years,
1401
00:55:01,375 --> 00:55:04,078
I've kept everybody
at arm's length.
1402
00:55:04,112 --> 00:55:05,281
Avoiding.
1403
00:55:07,514 --> 00:55:08,650
Yeah...
1404
00:55:08,683 --> 00:55:11,119
you maybe...
1405
00:55:11,152 --> 00:55:13,355
were a little bit right
about me, too.
1406
00:55:13,388 --> 00:55:15,090
I'm sorry,
can you say that again?
1407
00:55:15,123 --> 00:55:16,300
I just want to make sure
I heard that right.
1408
00:55:16,324 --> 00:55:17,626
Don't ruin it.
1409
00:55:19,761 --> 00:55:21,128
Boot camp was my rebound.
1410
00:55:21,161 --> 00:55:22,297
After Dex left,
1411
00:55:22,330 --> 00:55:24,565
I threw myself into it,
and it worked.
1412
00:55:24,598 --> 00:55:25,566
So, I just...
1413
00:55:25,600 --> 00:55:27,440
I never really addressed
any underlying issues.
1414
00:55:28,737 --> 00:55:30,748
But your program has helped
so many people to let go.
1415
00:55:30,772 --> 00:55:32,507
And I speak from experience.
1416
00:55:32,540 --> 00:55:33,742
I'd never be here
1417
00:55:33,775 --> 00:55:35,135
if you hadn't dragged it
out of me.
1418
00:55:38,013 --> 00:55:39,547
So...
1419
00:55:39,581 --> 00:55:40,581
what's next?
1420
00:55:42,217 --> 00:55:43,585
Why don't we just stay here?
1421
00:55:45,052 --> 00:55:46,487
It's okay to just stop, Miranda.
1422
00:55:46,520 --> 00:55:47,565
You don't have to do
anything right now,
1423
00:55:47,589 --> 00:55:48,523
except be here.
1424
00:55:48,556 --> 00:55:49,590
With me.
1425
00:55:52,793 --> 00:55:54,330
Okay.
1426
00:56:04,406 --> 00:56:05,674
Welcome to week five.
1427
00:56:07,308 --> 00:56:09,710
Trust. Ben?
1428
00:56:09,743 --> 00:56:12,146
So, I was 24 years-old,
1429
00:56:12,179 --> 00:56:14,215
and I'm shaking, I'm so nervous.
1430
00:56:15,449 --> 00:56:17,551
And I take the ring box
out of my jacket,
1431
00:56:17,585 --> 00:56:18,653
and I get on one knee,
1432
00:56:18,685 --> 00:56:20,721
and I open the box,
1433
00:56:20,755 --> 00:56:21,757
she tells me to get up.
1434
00:56:21,790 --> 00:56:23,359
Says she can't marry me.
1435
00:56:24,391 --> 00:56:25,659
Which, I understand,
1436
00:56:25,692 --> 00:56:27,696
is sort of not how
these things are supposed to go.
1437
00:56:27,728 --> 00:56:29,130
Anyways,
1438
00:56:29,163 --> 00:56:30,440
within three days,
she's packed up,
1439
00:56:30,464 --> 00:56:31,298
moving to Chicago,
1440
00:56:31,333 --> 00:56:33,202
with Dave Friedman,
her first love.
1441
00:56:35,603 --> 00:56:38,072
Totally derailed my life.
1442
00:56:38,105 --> 00:56:39,105
It was bad.
1443
00:56:40,174 --> 00:56:41,574
I'd never seen him
like that before.
1444
00:56:43,177 --> 00:56:44,246
Or since.
1445
00:56:45,746 --> 00:56:47,449
Well, the past isn't prologue.
1446
00:56:48,715 --> 00:56:50,685
You can put your trust
in the next person,
1447
00:56:50,717 --> 00:56:52,388
that they won't let you fall.
1448
00:56:55,255 --> 00:56:56,255
You ready?
1449
00:56:59,427 --> 00:57:00,495
Okay. Three.
1450
00:57:00,527 --> 00:57:01,663
Two.
1451
00:57:01,696 --> 00:57:03,165
One.
1452
00:57:03,197 --> 00:57:04,197
Go.
1453
00:57:21,148 --> 00:57:22,217
Hi, Dex.
1454
00:57:23,217 --> 00:57:24,520
Yeah, sorry.
I've been busy.
1455
00:57:27,621 --> 00:57:28,621
What time?
1456
00:57:29,723 --> 00:57:31,225
Yeah.
I'll meet you there.
1457
00:57:41,368 --> 00:57:42,703
I'm glad you agreed to meet.
1458
00:57:44,304 --> 00:57:46,064
I was starting to think
you weren't going to.
1459
00:57:46,808 --> 00:57:48,409
To be honest, I wasn't,
1460
00:57:48,442 --> 00:57:51,645
but I think it's finally time
for you and I to talk.
1461
00:57:51,679 --> 00:57:52,714
I agree.
1462
00:57:54,315 --> 00:57:56,685
And I...
1463
00:57:56,717 --> 00:57:58,797
I didn't want you to hear
this news from anyone else.
1464
00:58:00,154 --> 00:58:01,154
I'm getting married.
1465
00:58:02,257 --> 00:58:03,425
In June.
1466
00:58:03,458 --> 00:58:05,327
I'm sorry if that's hard
for you to hear.
1467
00:58:13,601 --> 00:58:15,837
Actually, I'm...
1468
00:58:15,869 --> 00:58:17,138
I'm happy for you.
1469
00:58:19,174 --> 00:58:20,208
Really?
1470
00:58:21,808 --> 00:58:23,144
You have no idea
1471
00:58:23,177 --> 00:58:25,513
how much I appreciate you
saying that.
1472
00:58:25,547 --> 00:58:26,815
Yeah. I...
1473
00:58:26,848 --> 00:58:29,451
You know, I was so mad
for so long.
1474
00:58:29,484 --> 00:58:31,386
I mean, you left
without saying anything,
1475
00:58:31,418 --> 00:58:34,288
but I was dreading this moment,
1476
00:58:34,322 --> 00:58:36,590
and now I don't...
1477
00:58:36,623 --> 00:58:38,292
I don't understand why.
1478
00:58:38,326 --> 00:58:40,762
I mean, I know
why I was dreading it.
1479
00:58:40,795 --> 00:58:43,165
But this...
1480
00:58:43,197 --> 00:58:45,317
This is not the reaction
I thought I was going to get.
1481
00:58:46,668 --> 00:58:47,668
You're not mad?
1482
00:58:49,971 --> 00:58:52,840
I wasn't expecting it either,
but no, I'm not mad at all.
1483
00:58:55,509 --> 00:58:56,744
I just see very clearly now
1484
00:58:56,777 --> 00:58:58,712
that you and I
were not right for each other.
1485
00:58:59,746 --> 00:59:01,882
I'm...
1486
00:59:01,915 --> 00:59:05,619
I'm kind of speechless.
1487
00:59:05,652 --> 00:59:06,721
Yeah, it's crazy.
1488
00:59:06,753 --> 00:59:07,898
I talk about it all the time,
1489
00:59:07,922 --> 00:59:09,357
that we...
1490
00:59:09,389 --> 00:59:10,701
we create these scenarios
in our head,
1491
00:59:10,725 --> 00:59:12,460
we build this whole world
around it,
1492
00:59:12,493 --> 00:59:13,862
and...
1493
00:59:13,895 --> 00:59:15,864
it doesn't...
1494
00:59:15,897 --> 00:59:17,799
You know, I just...
I feel lighter.
1495
00:59:20,467 --> 00:59:21,869
Yeah.
1496
00:59:21,902 --> 00:59:23,272
Me too.
1497
00:59:24,739 --> 00:59:25,807
Congratulations.
1498
00:59:35,984 --> 00:59:36,984
Hi.
1499
00:59:38,619 --> 00:59:40,455
Hey, hi.
1500
00:59:40,487 --> 00:59:43,357
Sorry, they said
I could just come back here.
1501
00:59:43,391 --> 00:59:45,360
Yeah. Yeah, please.
Come in.
1502
00:59:49,864 --> 00:59:50,933
So, what's up?
1503
00:59:52,467 --> 00:59:53,568
Let me guess.
1504
00:59:53,601 --> 00:59:55,246
You haven't seen me in 48 hours,
you kind of missed me?
1505
00:59:55,270 --> 00:59:56,905
Smooth.
1506
00:59:56,938 --> 00:59:58,373
You don't have to
say it out loud.
1507
00:59:58,406 --> 00:59:59,407
I can tell these things.
1508
01:00:00,440 --> 01:00:01,942
Can you?
1509
01:00:01,976 --> 01:00:04,479
Interesting, because what
I was actually going to say
1510
01:00:04,511 --> 01:00:05,655
was that I wanted to thank you
1511
01:00:05,679 --> 01:00:07,415
for your friendship
the other night.
1512
01:00:08,650 --> 01:00:09,684
My friendship?
1513
01:00:09,717 --> 01:00:10,785
I'm friend zoned.
1514
01:00:10,817 --> 01:00:12,920
You are my client,
1515
01:00:12,953 --> 01:00:15,589
and you just got out
of a relationship.
1516
01:00:15,623 --> 01:00:16,925
How's that article coming?
1517
01:00:16,958 --> 01:00:18,393
Hey. Hi.
1518
01:00:18,426 --> 01:00:19,661
It's...
1519
01:00:19,694 --> 01:00:20,762
coming along.
1520
01:00:20,795 --> 01:00:21,915
I'm working on it right now.
1521
01:00:23,297 --> 01:00:24,265
I know you.
1522
01:00:24,299 --> 01:00:25,400
Sorry?
1523
01:00:28,536 --> 01:00:30,272
I'm sorry.
1524
01:00:30,304 --> 01:00:31,481
I thought you were someone else.
1525
01:00:31,505 --> 01:00:32,674
My mistake.
1526
01:00:34,375 --> 01:00:36,911
I need a first draft
by tomorrow for the print copy.
1527
01:00:36,944 --> 01:00:38,513
And we'll send
the online version
1528
01:00:38,545 --> 01:00:39,880
to the web team later?
1529
01:00:39,913 --> 01:00:41,350
Yup.
1530
01:00:42,516 --> 01:00:43,876
- I'm working on away.
- Good deal.
1531
01:00:47,654 --> 01:00:49,254
You want to get out of here?
Grab a bite?
1532
01:00:50,692 --> 01:00:51,934
I only have an hour
before my next class,
1533
01:00:51,958 --> 01:00:56,531
but if it's a quick,
friendly bite, sure.
1534
01:00:56,563 --> 01:00:57,708
Excellent.
I know just the place.
1535
01:00:57,732 --> 01:00:58,900
Okay.
1536
01:01:00,503 --> 01:01:02,105
Street meat?
1537
01:01:02,439 --> 01:01:03,582
What's wrong with street meat?
1538
01:01:03,606 --> 01:01:04,675
This guy's an institution.
1539
01:01:04,707 --> 01:01:06,118
He's been on this corner
for decades.
1540
01:01:06,142 --> 01:01:06,976
No, nothing.
1541
01:01:07,010 --> 01:01:08,321
It's just not
what I was expecting.
1542
01:01:08,345 --> 01:01:09,279
Come on, don't be a snob.
1543
01:01:09,312 --> 01:01:10,781
I'm not being a snob.
1544
01:01:10,814 --> 01:01:11,749
You said you had an hour.
1545
01:01:11,781 --> 01:01:13,359
I had to do the best I could
with what I had.
1546
01:01:13,383 --> 01:01:14,318
Beef with mustard, please.
1547
01:01:14,350 --> 01:01:16,386
The usual for me.
1548
01:01:16,419 --> 01:01:17,287
Thank you.
1549
01:01:17,319 --> 01:01:18,722
So...
1550
01:01:18,754 --> 01:01:20,189
don't knock it till you try it.
1551
01:01:20,222 --> 01:01:21,222
You're one to talk.
1552
01:01:22,559 --> 01:01:24,660
Okay, I'll admit,
I was off to a rocky start,
1553
01:01:24,693 --> 01:01:26,304
but you can't say
that I'm not embracing it.
1554
01:01:26,328 --> 01:01:27,564
This is so good.
1555
01:01:27,597 --> 01:01:29,133
Right?
1556
01:01:29,165 --> 01:01:32,035
No, you have actually
been doing very well...
1557
01:01:32,068 --> 01:01:33,569
and so have I,
1558
01:01:33,602 --> 01:01:35,106
especially with Dex
this morning.
1559
01:01:36,472 --> 01:01:37,673
You saw Dex?
1560
01:01:37,707 --> 01:01:38,709
I did.
1561
01:01:38,742 --> 01:01:41,077
And I...
1562
01:01:41,111 --> 01:01:42,213
I closed the book.
1563
01:01:43,479 --> 01:01:44,589
I don't know why I wanted
to tell you that, but...
1564
01:01:44,613 --> 01:01:46,749
after the other night,
I just did.
1565
01:01:46,783 --> 01:01:49,286
This is progress.
1566
01:01:49,318 --> 01:01:51,521
I could tell you were
holding on to something.
1567
01:01:51,555 --> 01:01:52,356
Did you learn anything
in week one?
1568
01:01:52,388 --> 01:01:53,189
That was...
1569
01:01:53,222 --> 01:01:55,291
that was release week,
by the way.
1570
01:01:55,325 --> 01:01:57,493
Well, we go at our own pace,
1571
01:01:57,526 --> 01:01:58,729
and I just took
1572
01:01:58,761 --> 01:02:00,430
a few years longer
than everyone else, so.
1573
01:02:00,464 --> 01:02:02,666
I would maybe not put that
in the brochure.
1574
01:02:05,135 --> 01:02:06,537
So, later on,
1575
01:02:06,569 --> 01:02:08,805
do you want to go
sit in silence again?
1576
01:02:08,839 --> 01:02:10,741
See what else that drums up?
1577
01:02:12,609 --> 01:02:14,411
Sorry.
1578
01:02:14,443 --> 01:02:15,778
We just agreed to be friends.
1579
01:02:15,812 --> 01:02:16,812
Did we?
1580
01:02:18,414 --> 01:02:20,125
I said you are my client,
and how you're on the rebound,
1581
01:02:20,149 --> 01:02:23,619
and I'm kind of
on the rebound, so.
1582
01:02:23,653 --> 01:02:25,355
Yeah, this would be
a terrible idea.
1583
01:02:25,388 --> 01:02:26,708
I won't tell anybody
if you won't.
1584
01:02:28,390 --> 01:02:29,390
I got to go.
1585
01:02:30,760 --> 01:02:31,760
Oh, come on.
Friends?
1586
01:02:33,162 --> 01:02:34,164
Friends?
1587
01:02:34,196 --> 01:02:35,566
- Friends.
- Friends.
1588
01:02:40,169 --> 01:02:42,539
Ben! That was a close one.
1589
01:02:42,571 --> 01:02:44,382
Next time, let me know
when she's coming by the office.
1590
01:02:44,406 --> 01:02:46,776
I didn't know.
She just stopped by.
1591
01:02:46,810 --> 01:02:47,744
Well, anyways...
1592
01:02:47,776 --> 01:02:48,778
rest assured
1593
01:02:48,812 --> 01:02:51,147
that extra dedication
is not going unnoticed.
1594
01:02:57,888 --> 01:02:59,890
When I first started at Harvard,
1595
01:02:59,923 --> 01:03:01,290
I thought I wanted
to be pre-med.
1596
01:03:01,323 --> 01:03:03,226
- Really?
- Yeah.
1597
01:03:03,260 --> 01:03:05,528
Until they took us
to an operating suite,
1598
01:03:05,562 --> 01:03:08,866
and I took one look
at the surgery and I fainted.
1599
01:03:10,267 --> 01:03:11,868
- Stop.
- It gets worse.
1600
01:03:13,502 --> 01:03:16,573
There was a girl in this class
that I really wanted to impress,
1601
01:03:16,606 --> 01:03:18,676
and I fainted on her...
1602
01:03:19,809 --> 01:03:21,278
and I broke her tibia.
1603
01:03:21,310 --> 01:03:23,780
That's embarrassing.
1604
01:03:23,812 --> 01:03:26,383
Yeah, it is. It is.
1605
01:03:26,415 --> 01:03:28,684
So I shifted my focus
to journalism,
1606
01:03:28,718 --> 01:03:30,855
and I found my calling there
pretty quick.
1607
01:03:32,189 --> 01:03:33,424
- Happy accident.
- Yeah.
1608
01:03:34,890 --> 01:03:37,160
I liked that my words could...
1609
01:03:37,193 --> 01:03:39,829
educate and inspire...
1610
01:03:39,863 --> 01:03:41,464
protect.
1611
01:03:41,497 --> 01:03:43,200
Very happy accident.
1612
01:03:44,935 --> 01:03:48,372
Kind of like stumbling across
this crazy boot camp
1613
01:03:48,405 --> 01:03:49,305
and meeting this instructor
1614
01:03:49,339 --> 01:03:51,774
who just will not let you
avoid your stuff.
1615
01:03:52,975 --> 01:03:54,544
Well, sometimes,
1616
01:03:54,577 --> 01:03:56,312
that instructor
comes across a student,
1617
01:03:56,345 --> 01:03:59,249
who calls her out
on her stuff, too.
1618
01:04:02,452 --> 01:04:03,521
I love my job...
1619
01:04:04,888 --> 01:04:06,368
and I'm on track
for this promotion...
1620
01:04:07,656 --> 01:04:08,725
and I've been thinking
1621
01:04:08,758 --> 01:04:10,961
that I never really figured out
1622
01:04:10,993 --> 01:04:13,497
that whole
work/life balance thing.
1623
01:04:14,997 --> 01:04:16,499
Me either, really...
1624
01:04:16,533 --> 01:04:17,935
which is awful,
1625
01:04:17,968 --> 01:04:19,803
because I talk about it
in class all the time.
1626
01:04:21,671 --> 01:04:22,705
I was thinking about
1627
01:04:22,738 --> 01:04:24,018
something else
you said in class.
1628
01:04:26,309 --> 01:04:27,912
Maybe not all rebounds are bad?
1629
01:04:32,249 --> 01:04:33,617
Like...
1630
01:04:33,649 --> 01:04:37,787
maybe they lead you
away from the wrong thing,
1631
01:04:37,821 --> 01:04:40,991
so you can go towards
the right one?
1632
01:04:41,024 --> 01:04:42,792
Exactly.
1633
01:04:45,595 --> 01:04:46,997
I felt it that first night,
1634
01:04:47,030 --> 01:04:48,566
and I think you did, too.
1635
01:04:51,434 --> 01:04:54,305
Maybe rebounds show us
how we really feel.
1636
01:05:11,287 --> 01:05:12,255
And then...
1637
01:05:12,289 --> 01:05:13,457
he kissed me.
1638
01:05:13,490 --> 01:05:16,926
Like, he kissed me.
1639
01:05:16,959 --> 01:05:18,571
Well, you certainly had a day,
didn't you?
1640
01:05:18,595 --> 01:05:19,595
Yes, I did.
1641
01:05:20,597 --> 01:05:21,698
I am speechless!
1642
01:05:21,731 --> 01:05:23,899
And you know me,
I am never speechless.
1643
01:05:23,932 --> 01:05:26,302
But it was a mistake.
He's a client.
1644
01:05:26,336 --> 01:05:27,446
I just...
I got caught up in the moment.
1645
01:05:27,470 --> 01:05:28,470
That's a good thing.
1646
01:05:29,772 --> 01:05:31,307
That is a great thing.
1647
01:05:31,341 --> 01:05:33,277
I haven't seen you like this
in a long time.
1648
01:05:34,877 --> 01:05:35,946
I really like her.
1649
01:05:35,979 --> 01:05:36,979
You like him.
1650
01:05:39,348 --> 01:05:40,458
Why couldn't he have just stayed
1651
01:05:40,482 --> 01:05:42,385
a random stranger
outside of a restaurant?
1652
01:05:42,419 --> 01:05:44,021
Why did he have to join
my class?
1653
01:05:46,589 --> 01:05:47,891
Kim, I got
to tell you something.
1654
01:05:52,729 --> 01:05:53,897
You were right.
1655
01:05:53,930 --> 01:05:55,366
I really needed this class.
1656
01:05:56,399 --> 01:05:57,534
See!
1657
01:05:57,566 --> 01:05:58,978
You should take my advice
more often.
1658
01:05:59,002 --> 01:06:00,437
I'm very smart.
1659
01:06:00,470 --> 01:06:01,437
I know.
1660
01:06:01,470 --> 01:06:02,905
I crossed a line.
1661
01:06:04,606 --> 01:06:06,676
Whatever you decide,
1662
01:06:06,709 --> 01:06:08,544
at least you're finally
over Dex,
1663
01:06:08,577 --> 01:06:10,579
and I don't think
that would've happened,
1664
01:06:10,613 --> 01:06:12,015
if it weren't for Ben.
1665
01:06:13,115 --> 01:06:14,884
My job is to help my clients.
1666
01:06:14,917 --> 01:06:16,385
Not confuse them.
1667
01:06:16,419 --> 01:06:17,429
I can't make this about me.
1668
01:06:17,453 --> 01:06:19,423
I get that,
1669
01:06:19,455 --> 01:06:20,598
but you get to be
happy again, too.
1670
01:06:20,622 --> 01:06:22,492
Remember that?
1671
01:06:24,526 --> 01:06:25,729
There you are.
1672
01:06:25,761 --> 01:06:27,530
What's going on with you, Ben?
1673
01:06:27,564 --> 01:06:28,865
What are you talking about?
1674
01:06:28,897 --> 01:06:29,865
I just read your first draft.
1675
01:06:29,899 --> 01:06:31,501
It's all over the place.
1676
01:06:31,533 --> 01:06:33,436
There's no point of view.
1677
01:06:33,470 --> 01:06:35,372
You're straddling the line.
1678
01:06:35,405 --> 01:06:36,205
I don't understand
1679
01:06:36,238 --> 01:06:37,640
what this boot camp
is all about.
1680
01:06:37,673 --> 01:06:40,509
Where's the conviction?
1681
01:06:40,542 --> 01:06:41,944
Like, take a stand.
1682
01:06:43,412 --> 01:06:44,880
It's just a first draft.
1683
01:06:44,914 --> 01:06:46,415
Good.
1684
01:06:46,448 --> 01:06:47,316
Because I don't think
1685
01:06:47,350 --> 01:06:48,493
you even believe
what you're writing here.
1686
01:06:48,517 --> 01:06:49,686
This is not you.
1687
01:07:09,872 --> 01:07:11,374
I don't know what to say to him.
1688
01:07:11,408 --> 01:07:13,377
You're going to have to talk
to Ben sometime.
1689
01:07:13,410 --> 01:07:15,412
I'll see him in class tomorrow.
1690
01:07:15,444 --> 01:07:16,747
What are you waiting for?
1691
01:07:16,780 --> 01:07:18,381
Why don't you just
kick him out of class
1692
01:07:18,414 --> 01:07:20,516
and ask him out
on a date, already.
1693
01:07:20,550 --> 01:07:22,590
Or better yet, just wait.
The session's almost over.
1694
01:07:23,886 --> 01:07:25,888
Okay, say we do
give it a shot...
1695
01:07:25,921 --> 01:07:28,557
we'd be doing the exact thing
I tell my clients not to do.
1696
01:07:28,591 --> 01:07:29,659
What's that?
1697
01:07:29,691 --> 01:07:31,861
Transfer your feelings
from one person to the next.
1698
01:07:31,894 --> 01:07:33,562
Wait, you still
have feelings for Dex?
1699
01:07:33,595 --> 01:07:34,496
No, no,
1700
01:07:34,531 --> 01:07:36,040
but what if I'm just
a band-aid for Ben?
1701
01:07:36,064 --> 01:07:38,667
And what if a sinkhole opens up
1702
01:07:38,700 --> 01:07:39,969
and swallows the studio whole?
1703
01:07:40,002 --> 01:07:40,970
"What ifs" are pointless.
1704
01:07:41,004 --> 01:07:42,973
No. They are preparation.
1705
01:07:43,006 --> 01:07:44,174
For a sinkhole?
1706
01:07:44,207 --> 01:07:45,675
No. You know what I mean.
1707
01:07:45,707 --> 01:07:47,843
People change their minds
all the time.
1708
01:07:47,877 --> 01:07:49,513
Love is a risk,
1709
01:07:49,546 --> 01:07:50,890
and you're just going
to have to consider...
1710
01:07:50,914 --> 01:07:52,682
is Ben worth the risk?
1711
01:07:54,551 --> 01:07:55,585
You sound like someone.
1712
01:07:55,618 --> 01:07:56,987
What is it?
1713
01:07:57,019 --> 01:07:59,155
A teacher!
1714
01:07:59,189 --> 01:08:00,190
Man, I knew...
1715
01:08:00,222 --> 01:08:01,624
it just sounded so natural.
1716
01:08:01,658 --> 01:08:03,093
You're good at it.
1717
01:08:03,126 --> 01:08:03,959
No...
1718
01:08:03,994 --> 01:08:05,862
On how to handle love,
and breakups,
1719
01:08:05,895 --> 01:08:07,631
and the heart,
and all of those things.
1720
01:08:07,663 --> 01:08:08,898
You could get paid for it!
1721
01:08:11,537 --> 01:08:13,004
Hey, Miranda,
1722
01:08:13,038 --> 01:08:14,373
for the bonfire,
1723
01:08:14,405 --> 01:08:16,007
do we only burn our letters?
1724
01:08:16,040 --> 01:08:19,011
Because Darren left
this sweatshirt at my place,
1725
01:08:19,043 --> 01:08:20,979
and I'm sick of looking at it,
1726
01:08:21,012 --> 01:08:21,814
and I'm definitely
1727
01:08:21,846 --> 01:08:23,181
not going back there
to return it.
1728
01:08:23,214 --> 01:08:24,617
No, you can burn
whatever you like.
1729
01:08:24,850 --> 01:08:26,785
It's anything
to help you let go.
1730
01:08:26,818 --> 01:08:28,154
This ceremony is about you.
1731
01:08:28,186 --> 01:08:29,354
Thanks.
1732
01:08:29,387 --> 01:08:30,823
Good to know.
1733
01:08:30,855 --> 01:08:33,925
Miranda, I'd love
to have you back on the show.
1734
01:08:33,958 --> 01:08:35,560
I could talk about
my experience,
1735
01:08:35,594 --> 01:08:38,230
we could delve
a bit deeper than last time.
1736
01:08:38,262 --> 01:08:40,399
I know you're thinking about
expanding locally,
1737
01:08:40,431 --> 01:08:42,234
but you have the potential
to go national.
1738
01:08:43,435 --> 01:08:44,637
Books, merchandising...
1739
01:08:45,970 --> 01:08:47,839
Let's get you
some real exposure.
1740
01:08:48,873 --> 01:08:50,376
I would love that.
Thank you.
1741
01:08:52,377 --> 01:08:53,345
Ben...
1742
01:08:53,377 --> 01:08:54,380
Bink...
1743
01:08:56,547 --> 01:08:57,627
I think he's coming around.
1744
01:09:01,353 --> 01:09:03,353
Look, I really need
to talk to you about something.
1745
01:09:03,956 --> 01:09:05,190
After class?
1746
01:09:06,457 --> 01:09:07,091
Yeah.
1747
01:09:07,126 --> 01:09:08,593
Street meat for dinner?
It's on me.
1748
01:09:10,162 --> 01:09:11,698
Sounds good.
I'll meet you there.
1749
01:09:14,466 --> 01:09:17,470
Welcome to week six.
Closure.
1750
01:09:17,503 --> 01:09:19,038
You are not the same person
1751
01:09:19,070 --> 01:09:22,274
who signed up for this class
a month and a half ago.
1752
01:09:22,306 --> 01:09:23,441
You have grown.
1753
01:09:23,475 --> 01:09:25,111
You have changed.
1754
01:09:25,144 --> 01:09:27,480
You have overcome obstacles.
1755
01:09:28,579 --> 01:09:29,582
This letter
1756
01:09:29,614 --> 01:09:31,050
is your chance to say it all
1757
01:09:31,083 --> 01:09:32,493
to the person
who broke your heart...
1758
01:09:32,517 --> 01:09:34,119
the person who put you here.
1759
01:09:34,153 --> 01:09:36,254
It's only two minutes,
so don't hold back.
1760
01:09:36,288 --> 01:09:38,091
This is about you now.
1761
01:09:39,757 --> 01:09:42,227
Three, two, one...
1762
01:09:42,261 --> 01:09:43,261
pens down.
1763
01:09:44,529 --> 01:09:45,697
How are we feeling?
1764
01:09:45,730 --> 01:09:48,133
This letter is way better
than the last one.
1765
01:09:48,167 --> 01:09:49,668
Good.
1766
01:09:49,700 --> 01:09:51,270
And tomorrow night
at the bonfire,
1767
01:09:51,302 --> 01:09:52,470
you will make the decision...
1768
01:09:52,503 --> 01:09:54,073
do you send it...
1769
01:09:57,775 --> 01:09:59,244
or do you burn it?
1770
01:10:04,816 --> 01:10:05,684
I'm heading home.
1771
01:10:05,717 --> 01:10:08,253
Here's some stuff
they left at the studio.
1772
01:10:08,286 --> 01:10:09,421
I don't know whose this is.
1773
01:10:09,454 --> 01:10:11,323
That's Ben's.
I'll give it to him later.
1774
01:10:11,455 --> 01:10:12,323
Cool.
1775
01:10:12,357 --> 01:10:13,759
See you tomorrow.
1776
01:10:13,791 --> 01:10:15,460
Bye.
1777
01:10:20,799 --> 01:10:22,368
"Fad or phenomenon?"
1778
01:10:40,818 --> 01:10:42,420
There you are.
I got you a chili dog.
1779
01:10:42,454 --> 01:10:44,256
You left these at the studio.
1780
01:10:45,957 --> 01:10:46,893
- I can explain.
- Can you?
1781
01:10:46,925 --> 01:10:49,294
Because you've had
plenty of opportunities
1782
01:10:49,327 --> 01:10:50,504
and you never mentioned
any article.
1783
01:10:50,528 --> 01:10:52,197
Look, I...
1784
01:10:52,231 --> 01:10:53,166
It's not like I wasn't willing
to do press, Ben.
1785
01:10:53,198 --> 01:10:54,508
You could've just asked me
for an interview.
1786
01:10:54,532 --> 01:10:55,867
Miranda...
1787
01:10:55,901 --> 01:10:56,902
This whole thing
1788
01:10:56,934 --> 01:10:58,536
has been a lie.
1789
01:10:58,570 --> 01:10:59,537
Was there even a Jen?
1790
01:10:59,571 --> 01:11:00,573
Or a Serena?
1791
01:11:00,606 --> 01:11:01,506
Was Kim in on this?
1792
01:11:01,540 --> 01:11:03,441
No. Kim didn't know
anything about this.
1793
01:11:03,474 --> 01:11:04,485
Look, I didn't even know
I was writing it
1794
01:11:04,509 --> 01:11:05,410
when I joined the group.
1795
01:11:05,443 --> 01:11:07,679
But you saw an opportunity
to bring me down
1796
01:11:07,713 --> 01:11:09,215
and you seized it.
1797
01:11:09,247 --> 01:11:10,357
No. Miranda,
everything that I've told you
1798
01:11:10,381 --> 01:11:11,282
from the beginning
has been the truth.
1799
01:11:11,316 --> 01:11:12,184
Except for the part
1800
01:11:12,217 --> 01:11:13,952
about writing
an expose on my business.
1801
01:11:13,986 --> 01:11:15,287
It's not what you think.
1802
01:11:15,320 --> 01:11:17,223
What I think
1803
01:11:17,255 --> 01:11:19,015
is that maybe journalism
wasn't your calling.
1804
01:11:19,991 --> 01:11:21,259
You should've been an actor,
1805
01:11:21,293 --> 01:11:22,827
because that was
a killer performance.
1806
01:12:19,884 --> 01:12:21,786
You've really done it
this time, haven't you?
1807
01:12:21,820 --> 01:12:23,153
Come on.
Let's open this.
1808
01:12:36,802 --> 01:12:37,835
Hey.
1809
01:12:37,869 --> 01:12:38,836
You okay?
1810
01:12:38,870 --> 01:12:40,372
I'm fine.
1811
01:12:42,473 --> 01:12:43,642
No, you're not fine.
1812
01:12:44,742 --> 01:12:46,477
And that's okay, Miranda.
1813
01:12:46,510 --> 01:12:48,647
Why don't you go home,
take the rest of the day off?
1814
01:12:50,448 --> 01:12:51,517
I can't.
1815
01:12:51,549 --> 01:12:52,884
It's kickstart day
for this class.
1816
01:12:52,918 --> 01:12:53,852
We're partners.
1817
01:12:53,884 --> 01:12:55,053
I've got this.
1818
01:12:56,588 --> 01:12:58,756
Plus, if we're going
to buy that yoga studio,
1819
01:12:58,790 --> 01:13:00,470
I should really
work on my teaching skills.
1820
01:13:01,460 --> 01:13:02,428
Are you sure?
1821
01:13:02,460 --> 01:13:03,861
I'm sure.
1822
01:13:03,894 --> 01:13:05,330
Go home.
1823
01:13:05,363 --> 01:13:06,464
Clear your head.
1824
01:13:06,497 --> 01:13:07,737
See you at the bonfire tonight.
1825
01:13:08,733 --> 01:13:09,934
Okay.
1826
01:13:09,969 --> 01:13:13,072
Look, I know things with Ben
didn't go the way you wanted,
1827
01:13:13,104 --> 01:13:14,406
but it was a big step.
1828
01:13:14,438 --> 01:13:17,476
You inspire everyone
to be better.
1829
01:13:17,509 --> 01:13:18,844
To believe in their own power.
1830
01:13:18,876 --> 01:13:21,513
And that's what I'm going to do.
1831
01:13:21,545 --> 01:13:23,749
We are going to expand
this business together.
1832
01:13:23,781 --> 01:13:25,016
Yeah, we are.
1833
01:13:25,049 --> 01:13:26,985
We're going to need,
like, 10 more instructors,
1834
01:13:27,018 --> 01:13:28,087
but I'll do for now.
1835
01:13:29,653 --> 01:13:30,864
I'll see you
at the bonfire tonight.
1836
01:13:30,888 --> 01:13:32,557
Thank you.
1837
01:13:44,068 --> 01:13:46,238
Hey, Miranda,
can I talk to you for a second?
1838
01:13:46,272 --> 01:13:47,439
Sure.
1839
01:13:47,473 --> 01:13:49,308
I swear I didn't know
about the article,
1840
01:13:49,340 --> 01:13:51,309
and I'm furious with him.
1841
01:13:51,343 --> 01:13:52,612
I know you didn't, Kim,
1842
01:13:52,644 --> 01:13:54,312
and I don't hold any of it
against you.
1843
01:13:54,345 --> 01:13:55,915
Thank you.
1844
01:13:55,947 --> 01:13:57,650
But I will say this, Miranda...
1845
01:13:57,683 --> 01:13:59,194
I know he joined the group
for the wrong reason,
1846
01:13:59,218 --> 01:14:00,987
and he can be combative
and annoying,
1847
01:14:01,019 --> 01:14:02,354
but you really did change him.
1848
01:14:03,421 --> 01:14:04,423
I don't know about that.
1849
01:14:04,455 --> 01:14:05,455
Hey...
1850
01:14:06,659 --> 01:14:08,561
...he's a different person,
1851
01:14:08,594 --> 01:14:10,363
and it's 100% because of you.
1852
01:14:14,332 --> 01:14:15,732
I would love
to believe that, but...
1853
01:14:20,138 --> 01:14:21,306
We should go join the group.
1854
01:14:23,976 --> 01:14:26,344
And while we had
three good years together
1855
01:14:26,378 --> 01:14:30,049
and two not so good years,
1856
01:14:30,081 --> 01:14:31,250
I set you free.
1857
01:14:32,384 --> 01:14:34,454
And I set myself free.
1858
01:14:36,621 --> 01:14:37,990
So, that's everyone.
1859
01:14:38,022 --> 01:14:39,925
Actually, there is one more.
1860
01:14:43,362 --> 01:14:45,932
Sometimes, the teacher
learns a thing or two.
1861
01:14:45,964 --> 01:14:47,007
I'm not going
to read it out loud,
1862
01:14:47,031 --> 01:14:49,434
but I will say to this person,
1863
01:14:49,468 --> 01:14:52,138
thank you for your lessons...
1864
01:14:52,170 --> 01:14:53,539
and I release you.
1865
01:14:58,477 --> 01:15:00,513
Now...
1866
01:15:00,545 --> 01:15:02,013
it's time for the big decision.
1867
01:15:02,046 --> 01:15:03,249
Do you burn your letters...
1868
01:15:03,281 --> 01:15:04,582
And this.
1869
01:15:04,616 --> 01:15:05,651
Right.
1870
01:15:05,683 --> 01:15:07,152
Or do we send them?
1871
01:15:09,054 --> 01:15:10,122
Kim?
1872
01:15:10,155 --> 01:15:12,390
I gave Darren
his letter in person,
1873
01:15:12,424 --> 01:15:13,993
but this will do.
1874
01:15:17,228 --> 01:15:18,296
Bethany,
1875
01:15:18,330 --> 01:15:22,034
I wish all the best for you
and your new girlfriend.
1876
01:15:22,067 --> 01:15:24,370
And I am comforted by the fact
1877
01:15:24,402 --> 01:15:26,122
that Ruth will always love me
more than her.
1878
01:15:31,343 --> 01:15:32,311
The first time around,
1879
01:15:32,344 --> 01:15:34,447
I burned my letter.
1880
01:15:34,479 --> 01:15:36,415
But this time...
1881
01:15:36,447 --> 01:15:37,650
I'm sending it.
1882
01:15:37,683 --> 01:15:40,186
Roger is getting
a piece of my mind.
1883
01:15:41,286 --> 01:15:42,521
Thatta girl.
1884
01:15:42,554 --> 01:15:43,556
Bink?
1885
01:15:45,156 --> 01:15:46,156
One second.
1886
01:15:48,160 --> 01:15:49,228
I thought he brought that
1887
01:15:49,260 --> 01:15:50,538
so he'd have
something to sit on.
1888
01:15:50,562 --> 01:15:51,698
Celebrities, you know?
1889
01:15:53,432 --> 01:15:54,633
This...
1890
01:15:54,665 --> 01:15:55,633
this was
Catherine's favorite chair
1891
01:15:55,666 --> 01:15:56,701
at my house.
1892
01:15:56,735 --> 01:15:59,072
I can't look at it
without seeing her mean face.
1893
01:16:04,509 --> 01:16:05,577
Good riddance, Catherine.
1894
01:16:06,745 --> 01:16:08,081
And stop shouting at waiters.
1895
01:16:10,581 --> 01:16:11,616
Someone else will get me.
1896
01:16:24,196 --> 01:16:26,165
Burning the midnight oil,
are we?
1897
01:16:26,197 --> 01:16:27,198
Yeah.
1898
01:16:27,232 --> 01:16:28,300
You asked for conviction.
1899
01:16:28,332 --> 01:16:29,035
That's what
I'm going to give you.
1900
01:16:29,067 --> 01:16:30,235
Great.
1901
01:16:30,268 --> 01:16:31,579
It'll be on your desk
in the morning.
1902
01:16:31,603 --> 01:16:33,172
Can't wait to read it.
1903
01:16:42,115 --> 01:16:43,952
I've seen army cadets
do this course
1904
01:16:44,284 --> 01:16:46,119
and you are blowing them
out of the water.
1905
01:16:46,153 --> 01:16:47,289
Now keep going!
1906
01:16:48,355 --> 01:16:49,456
Three weeks in
1907
01:16:49,489 --> 01:16:50,425
and your class loves you
1908
01:16:50,458 --> 01:16:52,098
more than any of my classes
have loved me.
1909
01:16:53,561 --> 01:16:56,197
Margaret is turning a color
I've never seen before.
1910
01:16:56,230 --> 01:16:58,665
Yeah, maybe give her a break
before the next one,
1911
01:16:58,699 --> 01:17:01,302
but keep with
the inspiring words to the rest.
1912
01:17:01,334 --> 01:17:03,270
Look what you are accomplishing.
1913
01:17:03,303 --> 01:17:06,507
After this, a broken heart
will feel like a hangnail.
1914
01:17:11,479 --> 01:17:13,146
Nine missed calls.
1915
01:17:13,180 --> 01:17:14,414
Yeah, I've got five.
1916
01:17:14,448 --> 01:17:16,417
It's the office.
I hope everything's okay.
1917
01:17:16,449 --> 01:17:18,052
I'll call them.
1918
01:17:20,120 --> 01:17:21,722
Hi, it's Chloe.
What's going on?
1919
01:17:23,490 --> 01:17:25,059
No, I don't know
anything about it.
1920
01:17:25,092 --> 01:17:26,661
We didn't give any interview.
1921
01:17:26,694 --> 01:17:28,329
Is it online?
1922
01:17:28,361 --> 01:17:30,998
No? Okay.
We'll pick one up.
1923
01:17:32,400 --> 01:17:33,401
Ben's article.
1924
01:17:33,434 --> 01:17:35,003
Yeah.
1925
01:17:47,547 --> 01:17:49,384
We live in a cynical world.
1926
01:17:49,416 --> 01:17:50,651
It's easy to assume
1927
01:17:50,684 --> 01:17:52,152
that everyone has
ulterior motives
1928
01:17:52,185 --> 01:17:54,255
because negativity sells.
1929
01:17:54,287 --> 01:17:56,056
Bad news takes the superhighway
1930
01:17:56,090 --> 01:17:58,593
and good news
rides the pony express.
1931
01:17:58,626 --> 01:18:00,962
So, when I joined
Miranda's Breakup Boot Camp,
1932
01:18:00,995 --> 01:18:02,095
little did I know
1933
01:18:02,129 --> 01:18:03,598
that, in six short weeks,
1934
01:18:03,630 --> 01:18:05,966
I would be
a completely different man.
1935
01:18:06,000 --> 01:18:08,202
Each carefully-crafted step
of boot camp
1936
01:18:08,234 --> 01:18:11,104
brought me back
to the man I used to be
1937
01:18:11,138 --> 01:18:12,214
before I had my heart broken
1938
01:18:12,238 --> 01:18:14,942
by the woman
I once thought I'd marry.
1939
01:18:14,975 --> 01:18:17,545
The man, who once believed
in possibility.
1940
01:18:17,577 --> 01:18:18,979
In goodness.
1941
01:18:19,013 --> 01:18:20,148
In love.
1942
01:18:21,282 --> 01:18:22,250
As this article
1943
01:18:22,282 --> 01:18:23,593
walks you through
the steps I took
1944
01:18:23,617 --> 01:18:26,120
to find my way back to myself,
1945
01:18:26,153 --> 01:18:28,523
I invite the reader
to give this program a shot.
1946
01:18:28,555 --> 01:18:30,357
Or two.
1947
01:18:30,390 --> 01:18:32,559
...because healing
is yours for the taking.
1948
01:18:35,028 --> 01:18:36,363
And Dr. Miranda Faraday
1949
01:18:36,397 --> 01:18:38,065
has found the step-by-step guide
1950
01:18:38,099 --> 01:18:39,301
to get you there.
1951
01:18:41,234 --> 01:18:43,705
You want me
to hold down the fort?
1952
01:18:43,737 --> 01:18:45,105
Yes, please.
1953
01:18:50,144 --> 01:18:52,547
That's good.
1954
01:18:52,580 --> 01:18:54,114
Looks good to me.
1955
01:18:56,183 --> 01:18:57,484
Back again?
1956
01:18:57,518 --> 01:18:58,594
Do you know
where I can find Ben?
1957
01:18:58,618 --> 01:19:00,554
Upstairs.
Executive floor.
1958
01:19:00,587 --> 01:19:01,522
With the other editors.
1959
01:19:01,554 --> 01:19:03,056
He got the promotion?
1960
01:19:03,090 --> 01:19:05,593
He did right by you,
1961
01:19:05,626 --> 01:19:06,594
threatened to quit
1962
01:19:06,626 --> 01:19:08,271
if I didn't print his article
word for word.
1963
01:19:08,295 --> 01:19:09,297
But good or bad,
1964
01:19:09,330 --> 01:19:11,064
all I ask for is the truth.
1965
01:19:11,098 --> 01:19:12,367
Negativity sells a bit better.
1966
01:19:12,399 --> 01:19:14,501
Gets more clicks, but...
1967
01:19:14,535 --> 01:19:16,470
I think this is going to be
pretty good for you.
1968
01:19:16,504 --> 01:19:18,538
8th floor.
Corner office.
1969
01:19:18,572 --> 01:19:19,574
Lots of windows.
1970
01:19:20,541 --> 01:19:21,543
Thank you.
1971
01:19:29,116 --> 01:19:31,156
They'll give the corner office
to anyone these days.
1972
01:19:35,355 --> 01:19:36,355
I liked your article.
1973
01:19:37,457 --> 01:19:39,626
I'm glad.
1974
01:19:39,660 --> 01:19:41,696
Sort of wrote it
for an audience of one.
1975
01:19:41,729 --> 01:19:43,205
Yeah, well, my phone
has been ringing off the hook.
1976
01:19:43,229 --> 01:19:45,065
Now I'm in a real situation
because of you.
1977
01:19:45,099 --> 01:19:46,301
Sorry about that.
1978
01:19:47,568 --> 01:19:49,471
In my defense,
not the worst problem to have.
1979
01:19:50,504 --> 01:19:51,506
It's not so bad.
1980
01:19:54,140 --> 01:19:55,609
I really am sorry, Miranda.
1981
01:19:55,643 --> 01:19:57,478
About everything.
1982
01:19:57,510 --> 01:19:59,112
I know.
1983
01:19:59,145 --> 01:20:02,750
And if there were only a way
for you to make it up to me.
1984
01:20:02,782 --> 01:20:04,718
My article wasn't enough?
1985
01:20:04,751 --> 01:20:06,720
It was
a very good starting point,
1986
01:20:06,754 --> 01:20:08,622
but I was thinking
1987
01:20:08,656 --> 01:20:12,359
something more along the lines
of, you know, maybe...
1988
01:20:12,393 --> 01:20:13,393
being my rebound?
1989
01:20:15,462 --> 01:20:16,331
I was in the market
for one of those
1990
01:20:16,363 --> 01:20:18,398
and then I met
this really smart doctor,
1991
01:20:18,431 --> 01:20:19,711
and she said
those were terrible.
1992
01:20:21,734 --> 01:20:23,470
She's a work in progress.
1993
01:20:25,272 --> 01:20:27,142
Aren't we all?
1994
01:20:38,551 --> 01:20:40,353
And, aside from helping me
1995
01:20:40,386 --> 01:20:42,756
to get over
she who shall remain nameless,
1996
01:20:42,790 --> 01:20:45,493
your program helped you
to find love again, as well,
1997
01:20:45,526 --> 01:20:46,727
with Ben here,
1998
01:20:46,760 --> 01:20:47,928
who wrote what I have to say
1999
01:20:47,961 --> 01:20:50,865
was a fantastic article
in
Advantage Monthly Magazine
2000
01:20:50,898 --> 01:20:53,301
about his own experience
at your boot camp.
2001
01:20:53,334 --> 01:20:54,614
She's very good
at what she does.
2002
01:20:55,568 --> 01:20:56,703
Thank you.
2003
01:20:56,737 --> 01:20:59,273
It was a job, but...
2004
01:20:59,305 --> 01:21:02,477
once you realize
that you can commit to the work,
2005
01:21:02,510 --> 01:21:04,712
I guess anything's possible.
2006
01:21:06,246 --> 01:21:07,280
You see, Misty.
2007
01:21:07,313 --> 01:21:08,325
The sooner one begins the work,
2008
01:21:08,349 --> 01:21:09,750
the sooner one can get over
2009
01:21:09,782 --> 01:21:12,252
the guy who pretended
to be a pilot
2010
01:21:12,286 --> 01:21:13,221
and catfished her
over the Internet.
2011
01:21:13,254 --> 01:21:14,522
I know, Bink,
2012
01:21:14,554 --> 01:21:15,589
and she will.
2013
01:21:16,657 --> 01:21:17,692
And coming this Fall,
2014
01:21:17,724 --> 01:21:20,327
Dr. Miranda Faraday's new book,
2015
01:21:20,361 --> 01:21:21,437
Miranda's Breakup Boot Camp,
2016
01:21:21,461 --> 01:21:22,429
will be available
2017
01:21:22,462 --> 01:21:24,665
in all good bookstores
and online retailers,
2018
01:21:24,697 --> 01:21:26,267
so be on the lookout for that.
2019
01:21:26,300 --> 01:21:27,744
Meanwhile, you can sign up
for her classes
2020
01:21:27,768 --> 01:21:30,050
at her brand-new studio
downtown.
2021
01:21:58,051 --> 01:22:04,050
FIXES-SYNC
by VaVooM
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