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NETFLIX PRESENTS
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All of these are memories.
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{\an8}-Oh shit, can we fix this?
-Okay, I know how to do this.
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{\an8}No.
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{\an8}You're doing really well.
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{\an8}Small, stupid and good memories.
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{\an8}Wait, I'm in the middle
of a very interesting thought.
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{\an8}Okay.
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{\an8}We're going to Montreal!
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{\an8}Oui! Très exciting.
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{\an8}Our relationship is full of them.
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{\an8}The special occasions.
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{\an8}Or in everyday stuff.
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{\an8}Doing fun things together.
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{\an8}This has been restored,
but it's really still legit, the same.
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{\an8}This one is really cool too.
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{\an8}Trying to make each other enthusiasticabout what you find cool.
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{\an8}-No way.
-Yes, he cut in it and everything.
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{\an8}Give me more.
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{\an8}Long nights with friends, in bars,with too much beer.
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{\an8}-Oh, sweetie.
-Anne.
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{\an8}Sorry.
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{\an8}Sundays with hangovers.
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{\an8}That was very fun.
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{\an8}Making big announcements.
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{\an8}That you're startingsomething new together.
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{\an8}Will you say it?
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{\an8}-Dad, Mom.
-Yes?
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{\an8}I've got news. It's something good.
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{\an8}I'm going to Montreal.
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{\an8}-Did you get the job?
-Yes.
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{\an8}-Sure?
-And Anne is coming.
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{\an8}Yes, I'm flying there
a couple of months later.
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{\an8}-Really?
-You've found love and a career.
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{\an8}I'm also proud of you.
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{\an8}And then persevere.
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{\an8}We'll be together in a couple of months.
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{\an8}But I'm going to miss you until then.
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{\an8}No matter how stressful that can be.
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{\an8}I love you!
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{\an8}I love you too!
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{\an8}Leave familiar places behind,
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{\an8}and make new memories.
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Change is just good.
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Anyway, back to the present.
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-Hi.-Hi, come on in.
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Yes, thank you for letting me have a look.
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It's nice to get
a sense of the space, you know?
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Yes, definitely.
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-Can I…
-Yes. Go ahead.
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Okay.
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Yep. There goes my lovely home.
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Wonderful, a new house like this.
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Hi, can I have three beers,
three gin and tonics and a mojito, please?
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Yes.
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Hi, sweetie.
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Hi.
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-Do you want a beer too?
-I could use one after today.
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What? What did you say? I can't hear you.
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Where are you?
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I can't understand you.
Sorry, there's a lot of people here.
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-Never mind.
-What?
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I'll call you later.
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I… Okay. Yes. Right, love you.
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SORRY, I REALLY COULDN'T HEAR YOU!
LOVE YOU!
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-Hi, can we have two more Salmaris?
-Oh no, Max.
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Yes, you're drinking way too slowly.
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While you're still in Amsterdam,
we're drinking at the Amsterdam pace.
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-I have to get up really early tomorrow.
-Cut it out, will you? Thanks.
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There, cheers and thanks.
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-Yes.
-Cheers.
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Guys, come watch this,
this is fucking awesome.
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Huh? Jip, hello. Take some.
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Oh my God!
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Who is that?
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-That's Lou.
-Who?
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Lou!
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Close your mouth. You're drooling.
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Hot, right?
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-Hot!
-Yeah.
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Yes. I really want to wear that.
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Come here for a second.
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Hey, are you coming with me?
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-Where to?
-To Jip's.
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Guys. Come on. Come. Are you coming?
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-Where to?
-To Jip's.
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No, I have a very important meeting
with my publisher tomorrow.
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Then you have plenty of time.
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No.
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-Baby!
-Are you all going?
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-What in God's name are you doing?
-French, or I'll lose my day streak.
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Darling, Canadian French is something
completely different from French French.
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Yes, French is French. I don't have money
for expensive language courses.
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Yeah, says the girl who just spent
70 bucks on beer.
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Okay, guys, off to Jip's at full trot.
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And if I want to hear bleating,
I'll buy a goat.
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Yes, got it!
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THE RELATIONSHIP WITH MY TITS
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THAT'S NOT HOW IT SHOULD GO
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Soon you'll be hanging here too, An.
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Yeah, there are some trulyvery beautiful pieces in here.
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And sharp too.
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But I have the feeling
that you lost your way a little bit.
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What do you mean?
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Well, what I mean is that when you sent us
those first chapters back then,
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we were truly very enthusiastic…
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Yes.
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…and impressed with the personal
and authentic nature of it,
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but you seem to have lost that a bit
on the way.
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It has--sorry--become a bit uninteresting.
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It also reads as if you lost
yourself a bit, is that correct?
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Well…
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Well, no, I don't actually think so.
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But the character
is also searching, right?
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Yes, I get that and that is fine,
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but in its current state,
we cannot publish it.
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And also, I don't think it's a bad idea
to make some major improvements, right?
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I mean, the book is already
in our catalog.
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Sorry, but the searching theme
of the book is fine, isn't it?
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That is also part of… It's one of
the characteristics of the main character.
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Yes, but your main character has no goal.
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I mean, she doesn't want to find out,
it seems, what she is searching for.
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What does she want
and how does she get there?
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And is she really the hero of the story?
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Such bullshit.
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Okay.
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But I…
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Okay.
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I know a very nice writing coach.
I'll put you in touch with her.
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And I think it'd be good, Anne,
for you to ask yourself,
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"What do I really want to say?"
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You need to start
making some clear choices.
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So what do you,
Anne Verbeek, have to tell the world?
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Hey, sweetie.
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Hey, sweetie.
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Oh shit, our timing hasn't been
very good lately, has it?
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No, man, shit.
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What time is it there?
Don't you have work in the morning?
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It is fucking early,but we landed a mega big contract,
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so we have the morning off.
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Cool, congrats.
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Thanks. By the way,I've finally fully decorated our home.
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Do you want to see it?See, the little kitchen.
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-Hi.
-And so…
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This lamp!
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Do you remember it in that magazine,you know, of that Italian designer?
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I said to you back then,"This lamp is super expensive."
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-Hello.
-Hello.
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Who was that?
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I'm just going to go to a quiet spot.
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Okay. Yeah, I originally wantedto tell you this tomorrow afternoon,
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my time,
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but, yeah, then this happensand now we're talking anyway,
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so I want to get it off my chest.
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I've started flirting with someone.
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And that was her just now. Zoey.
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That's very fast.
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An?
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Sorry, you froze.
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Where do you know her from?
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She's a friend of a colleague.
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Nice.
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Yes.
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Yes, no, yes, nice, she looks cute.
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-Quite a different type.
-Yes.
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Hey, are you okay? 'Cause…
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If you don't feel comfortable, you know…
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I mean, you knowwhat we agreed upon, right?
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Yes, no…
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…talk about it later. But in good time.
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Yes, that's fine.
Yes. No, I'm completely fine.
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Just go… Sweetie, just go celebrate.
Really, just go.
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Okay.
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An, I love you, right?
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You are my everything.
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I love you too.
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Okay. This is fine.
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This is our agreement.
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What?!
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Is that the big radio celesbian Jip?
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Yes!
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How are you?
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Yeah, well, stuff.
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We'll talk later.
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Sure? You know you can always
talk to me about stuff, right?
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No, it's really okay.
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Hello! We're going
to celebrate your success.
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-Yas.
-Yas. How are you?
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Yeah, good. I'm peaking at the moment.
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I know another cishet woman.
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-Maybe you know her.
-It's possible.
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It's fine as long as it's not in my face.
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Okay. Yes. I love you.
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Gay rights and stuff. Love is love.
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"Gay rights and stuff."
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-Yes, Daan, the true ally.
-Well.
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Dear sweethearts,
I want to toast to this amazing woman,
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my woman, because she is getting
her own fucking radio show!
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Cheers!
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-Look each other in the eye.
-Bad sex otherwise, yes.
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Yes, we don't want that.
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Hey, but seriously, I hope you'll
listen to all the fucking episodes,
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because I plan to become
a fucking big platform for young artists,
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queer artists, artists of color
and just fucking awesome music.
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I have already let everybody know,
I stopped just shy of calling the king.
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No, but seriously,
the first show will be really hard
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and Nana Adjoa is doing a live session…
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-Yes, darling. Very cool.
-And Lionstorm wanted…
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I am really fucking proud of you, Jippie.
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-Yes?
-Yes, really.
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And you? How was the meeting
with that publisher? Do tell.
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Oh, right.
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Yeah, fine.
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I still have to do some rewriting
and make some adjustments.
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-Can we read it soon?
-Almost.
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We're doing something like a goodbye
slash the-book-is-done party, right?
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Oh my God, you're almost leaving.
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Well, there's still a few weeks.
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Doesn't sound very enthusiastic, An.
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Yes, I am,
but I just have to arrange some things.
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Okay, like what?
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Okay. Just stuff.
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-You're still going, right?
-Yes, of course, hello. Yes.
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-I'm calling it. She's not going.
-No?
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Okay, Jesus, guys. I'm just not
super excited for a moment.
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I don't have to be like that all the time.
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I'm just tired, so chill out.
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Okay, sorry.
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It's just annoying that you act
like there's something wrong
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or that I don't finish stuff.
Have a little faith in me.
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-It's going well. Just fine. Really.
-Okay.
234
00:17:17,640 --> 00:17:21,280
Hey, who wants something to eat?
Shall I get a snack?
235
00:17:21,360 --> 00:17:23,480
Are you gonna get that
for us, sweetie? Really?
236
00:17:23,560 --> 00:17:25,320
-Can I have beet balls?
-Beet balls?
237
00:17:25,400 --> 00:17:27,720
-Cheese platter?
-Yes, cheese platter.
238
00:17:29,880 --> 00:17:32,280
Yes. A cheese platter, I heard.
239
00:17:45,080 --> 00:17:47,640
{\an8}I'LL REALLY MISS MY FAM
#FRIENDS #THELASTWEEKS #LOVE
240
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{\an8}LET'S CONTEMPLATE
#LEAVEEVERYTHINGFORAMOMENT
241
00:17:51,040 --> 00:17:52,280
{\an8}THIS WOMAN #LOVE
242
00:17:54,720 --> 00:17:56,200
LE_LOUP IS FOLLOWING YOU
243
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LE_LOUP LIKES YOUR POST
244
00:17:58,200 --> 00:18:00,240
LOU - ACTIVIST - DRAG KING (THEY/THEM)
245
00:18:12,840 --> 00:18:15,520
Yeah, what does the main character want?
246
00:18:15,600 --> 00:18:19,320
Right? What is she working towards?
Is there an antagonist?
247
00:18:21,880 --> 00:18:25,320
It isn't very eventful. It…
Yes, it meanders.
248
00:18:25,400 --> 00:18:29,400
And there is a whole lot of talking,
really quite a lot of talking.
249
00:18:29,480 --> 00:18:31,480
And it's interesting, but because of that
250
00:18:31,560 --> 00:18:34,840
it stays somewhere between plot driven
and character driven.
251
00:18:35,680 --> 00:18:37,280
I do think that you need to…
252
00:18:37,360 --> 00:18:38,640
Does she like women?
253
00:18:41,560 --> 00:18:44,040
Would Saar be jealousif I did stuff with her?
254
00:18:45,720 --> 00:18:47,800
We can also quickly… You and me…
255
00:18:50,240 --> 00:18:51,320
Fuck it.
256
00:19:01,440 --> 00:19:02,640
Anne?
257
00:19:04,080 --> 00:19:06,200
-What?
-Are you listening?
258
00:19:06,720 --> 00:19:12,280
Yes, meanders. It meanders.
259
00:19:17,400 --> 00:19:19,120
Should I send Lou a message?
260
00:19:19,880 --> 00:19:22,840
Yes, of course.
If Sara's got a girl in Montreal,
261
00:19:22,920 --> 00:19:24,880
then you should also be allowed
to DM someone.
262
00:19:24,960 --> 00:19:27,640
-Yes, right? Yes.
-Yes.
263
00:19:30,720 --> 00:19:32,960
Oh, here we go again.
264
00:20:19,040 --> 00:20:21,480
Hey, well, what should I send her?
265
00:20:21,560 --> 00:20:26,120
Or, wait… "them."
It says "they them" in their bio.
266
00:20:27,760 --> 00:20:29,360
Yeah, just send something like,
267
00:20:29,440 --> 00:20:31,720
"Hey, would you like to go out
for a drink some time?"
268
00:20:31,800 --> 00:20:34,120
"My girlfriend is seeing someone
and I want that too
269
00:20:34,200 --> 00:20:35,920
because otherwise the balance is off."
270
00:20:36,000 --> 00:20:37,040
Please…
271
00:20:37,120 --> 00:20:39,200
"And I would rather date someone else too
272
00:20:39,280 --> 00:20:41,520
than talk about it
with my girlfriend. Bye, Anne."
273
00:20:41,600 --> 00:20:42,600
Stop it.
274
00:20:47,800 --> 00:20:49,400
I will just send something like,
275
00:20:50,160 --> 00:20:52,920
"Hey, how was your weekend?"
276
00:20:54,000 --> 00:20:57,880
Very nice. That makes me very horny.
277
00:20:57,960 --> 00:21:01,120
-Lil, seriously.
-Yeah, that's fine. Just send that.
278
00:21:01,640 --> 00:21:02,480
Okay.
279
00:21:05,360 --> 00:21:09,280
Yes, I still have to arrange a few things.
I'm getting my passport this week.
280
00:21:09,960 --> 00:21:13,560
An, how you do everything last minute,really, I couldn't do that.
281
00:21:15,320 --> 00:21:16,600
I know, just let me be.
282
00:21:19,360 --> 00:21:20,800
How's it going with…
283
00:21:22,400 --> 00:21:23,440
-With Zoe?
-Yes.
284
00:21:24,600 --> 00:21:28,560
Yes, good. Fun. We see each otheronce a week or something like that.
285
00:21:30,240 --> 00:21:31,480
She wants to meet you.
286
00:21:33,600 --> 00:21:37,280
Is that okay with youor would you rather not do that at all?
287
00:21:38,560 --> 00:21:42,080
Yes, no, yes, that's… Yes, fun. We can…
288
00:21:42,160 --> 00:21:43,640
we can FaceTime sometime.
289
00:21:43,720 --> 00:21:45,200
An, really?
290
00:21:45,280 --> 00:21:47,960
Really? Yeah, fun. I will tell her.
291
00:21:49,120 --> 00:21:53,120
And how are you doing? And your book?Did you hand everything in?
292
00:21:54,000 --> 00:21:55,000
Shit.
293
00:21:56,720 --> 00:21:58,440
Yes, it's fine.
294
00:21:58,520 --> 00:22:02,560
Still some minor rewrites to do,
some fine-tuning and stuff.
295
00:22:04,120 --> 00:22:07,960
I'm so proud of you.You just wrote your first novel. So cool.
296
00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:09,360
Yes.
297
00:22:14,480 --> 00:22:17,920
Hey, if there's something wrong,you need to tell me, okay?
298
00:22:19,120 --> 00:22:21,360
Or if you don't feel comfortable?
299
00:22:21,880 --> 00:22:23,240
No, everything's fine.
300
00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:28,880
I love you, right?
301
00:22:31,200 --> 00:22:32,120
I love you too.
302
00:22:54,320 --> 00:22:55,160
So…
303
00:22:57,360 --> 00:23:01,600
We can only date another personif we both feel good about it.
304
00:23:07,440 --> 00:23:08,320
Yes.
305
00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:12,880
And do we want to know everything?
306
00:23:14,360 --> 00:23:17,880
I mean, maybe not if it's only sex,
but what if it turns into dating?
307
00:23:18,840 --> 00:23:19,760
Well…
308
00:23:21,480 --> 00:23:24,680
Yes, I don't know.
Just continue to communicate, right?
309
00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:28,920
Yes, can I have that in writing?
That you will continue to communicate?
310
00:23:30,480 --> 00:23:34,320
No, I'm joking.
No, but seriously, that sounds good.
311
00:23:34,400 --> 00:23:35,360
Yes.
312
00:23:36,280 --> 00:23:41,200
And also, keep voicing
doubts and boundaries.
313
00:23:42,640 --> 00:23:44,080
Yes.
314
00:23:44,160 --> 00:23:45,760
And also give each other freedom
315
00:23:45,840 --> 00:23:49,320
because that is the idea
behind a polyamorous relationship, right?
316
00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:50,280
Yes.
317
00:23:51,560 --> 00:23:55,320
Yeah, I think it is so good
and healthy that we're doing this.
318
00:23:56,000 --> 00:24:00,080
-Right? Look at us.
-Yes.
319
00:25:09,880 --> 00:25:11,640
Yeah, great. Looks good.
320
00:25:14,920 --> 00:25:17,480
No, this was still in there.
321
00:25:17,560 --> 00:25:19,360
Yeah. No problem.
322
00:25:20,240 --> 00:25:22,800
-It's 40, right?
-Yes, 40.
323
00:25:41,720 --> 00:25:43,240
Oh God, how do you do this again?
324
00:25:49,720 --> 00:25:50,600
Okay.
325
00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:52,400
Hey.
326
00:25:54,960 --> 00:25:56,320
-Nice.
-Yes.
327
00:25:56,840 --> 00:25:59,000
What are your pronouns?
328
00:26:00,360 --> 00:26:01,360
She/her.
329
00:26:02,040 --> 00:26:04,760
Okay, cool. Mine are they, them and their.
330
00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:06,240
I knew that from your Instagram.
331
00:26:06,320 --> 00:26:07,440
Great.
332
00:26:08,080 --> 00:26:11,040
Just like how pretty muchall my exes like your photos.
333
00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:15,200
It is such a nice feeling, right,
when you walk onto the stage
334
00:26:15,280 --> 00:26:17,320
and you hear everyone going like…
335
00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:21,320
I don't think I could ever do that,
be a drag king.
336
00:26:21,400 --> 00:26:22,360
Why not?
337
00:26:23,480 --> 00:26:26,160
Yeah, being on that stage
with everybody watching.
338
00:26:26,240 --> 00:26:28,400
And then acting all sexy.
339
00:26:28,480 --> 00:26:31,440
-Do you find it difficult to feel sexy?
-Me?
340
00:26:37,680 --> 00:26:41,680
I don't know. Well, I'm not really
actively thinking about it, I guess.
341
00:26:42,720 --> 00:26:46,280
Okay. When do you feel the most sexy?
342
00:26:49,720 --> 00:26:51,480
When I'm confident, I think.
343
00:26:53,160 --> 00:26:57,600
Yes, I'm not really into sexy clothing
or lingerie and stuff, that…
344
00:26:58,480 --> 00:27:00,960
No, I actually never
really feel sexy sexy.
345
00:27:01,680 --> 00:27:03,440
Whatever that means, but--
346
00:27:03,520 --> 00:27:06,760
No, I can think,
"I'm looking good," but sexy?
347
00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:07,680
That's…
348
00:27:08,440 --> 00:27:09,320
No.
349
00:27:10,040 --> 00:27:12,240
Sexy is quite a broad concept, right?
350
00:27:12,320 --> 00:27:16,120
It's just not all about
sexy clothing or lingerie.
351
00:27:16,200 --> 00:27:19,720
-It's something different for everyone.
-Yes, exactly, I think so too.
352
00:27:21,960 --> 00:27:23,680
My girlfriend, Sara, for instance,
353
00:27:23,760 --> 00:27:26,240
she likes to wear
pretty lingerie and stuff, but…
354
00:27:27,400 --> 00:27:30,760
but that actually does very little for me.
355
00:27:31,400 --> 00:27:36,080
No, I find her very sexy, really,
but just when she's feeling good,
356
00:27:36,160 --> 00:27:38,400
when she's making coffee
in her underwear,
357
00:27:39,320 --> 00:27:42,920
when she's in total work mode
on a Zoom call
358
00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:45,680
with colleagues from all over the world.
That is sexy.
359
00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:49,560
But anyway, yeah.
360
00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:52,640
You have a girlfriend?
361
00:27:56,080 --> 00:27:57,200
Yes.
362
00:27:58,800 --> 00:28:01,080
Yes, but we are open, poly.
363
00:28:02,120 --> 00:28:04,080
Hey, but wait a minute, right?
364
00:28:04,160 --> 00:28:09,200
You're writing a book and then you're off
to the other side of the world? Why?
365
00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:11,800
Well, that's just the plan.
366
00:28:13,720 --> 00:28:14,960
Weird plan.
367
00:28:16,360 --> 00:28:17,200
Yes.
368
00:28:18,040 --> 00:28:19,000
-Yes.
-Yes.
369
00:28:21,240 --> 00:28:23,520
I just want to write a kick-ass book.
370
00:28:25,240 --> 00:28:26,440
But then…
371
00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:31,360
My publisher asked me
what I actually have to say.
372
00:28:33,400 --> 00:28:34,280
Yes.
373
00:28:35,160 --> 00:28:39,240
So now I'm thinking the whole time,
"What actually is my life experience?"
374
00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:44,040
"Why do I have to write a book?
Is that what the world is waiting for?"
375
00:28:45,200 --> 00:28:47,040
What do you want to write about?
376
00:28:47,840 --> 00:28:53,080
About friendship and relationships
and love and identity.
377
00:28:53,960 --> 00:28:57,200
Gender, expression, about being queer.
378
00:28:57,800 --> 00:29:01,240
Okay. What does being queer mean to you?
379
00:29:02,200 --> 00:29:03,120
I don't know.
380
00:29:03,760 --> 00:29:05,480
Or, well, I actually do know.
381
00:29:06,160 --> 00:29:10,400
Being lesbian, or being queer,
and coming out
382
00:29:10,480 --> 00:29:13,080
has completely shaped me
into who I am now.
383
00:29:14,160 --> 00:29:16,560
So yeah, I would never want it differently
384
00:29:16,640 --> 00:29:20,760
because it's such a big part
of my identity. It's really my whole life.
385
00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:25,640
But as a queer person,
I live in a heteronormative society,
386
00:29:25,720 --> 00:29:28,840
so then you approach everything
automatically from you being queer.
387
00:29:28,920 --> 00:29:32,400
And I think,
"Yes, I just want to tell that story."
388
00:29:34,440 --> 00:29:36,760
Show how fun it is to be queer.
389
00:29:37,760 --> 00:29:41,080
And bring people into that world
because being queer is just fun
390
00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:44,400
and exciting, and complicated.
391
00:29:45,840 --> 00:29:49,960
And real and loving.
392
00:29:50,480 --> 00:29:53,360
And everything.
393
00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:57,640
Being queer is just everything. Yeah…
394
00:30:02,240 --> 00:30:05,560
Yeah, it's so much more than I imagined
when I was in the closet.
395
00:30:06,560 --> 00:30:07,440
Yes.
396
00:30:08,680 --> 00:30:10,960
Well, I'm also just happy that now I…
397
00:30:12,840 --> 00:30:16,560
That I can now be proud of something
that I used to be ashamed of for so long.
398
00:30:17,160 --> 00:30:19,520
So I want to just show that and…
399
00:30:19,600 --> 00:30:22,600
Yeah, that I feel
so much more comfortable now.
400
00:30:24,400 --> 00:30:25,600
And why is that?
401
00:30:26,280 --> 00:30:28,000
That I feel more comfortable?
402
00:30:31,880 --> 00:30:33,120
Because of time.
403
00:30:34,280 --> 00:30:37,320
Yeah, things just take time, right?
404
00:30:37,840 --> 00:30:40,720
Yeah, and I've also become
very mature, of course.
405
00:30:45,200 --> 00:30:46,240
Yes.
406
00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:48,440
YOU'VE SKIPPED
YOUR FRENCH LESSON FOR 3 DAYS
407
00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:51,640
But you have to keep doing it,
you have to keep trying,
408
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:53,840
and not avoid it just because it's easier.
409
00:30:53,920 --> 00:30:58,240
Talking works, patience works, must talk…
410
00:30:58,320 --> 00:31:01,240
Okay, I sometimes take them… Stop it.
411
00:31:02,200 --> 00:31:04,920
I take them to queer lectures
or films or something.
412
00:31:05,000 --> 00:31:07,080
Bring them into my world for a bit.
413
00:31:08,080 --> 00:31:12,000
Yeah, okay, but I really don't see
that happening with my parents.
414
00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:13,800
Why not? Just do it.
415
00:31:13,880 --> 00:31:16,160
Yes, Lou, I'm happy for you
and your parents,
416
00:31:16,240 --> 00:31:17,920
but my process is just different.
417
00:31:18,000 --> 00:31:19,240
Oh, sorry.
418
00:31:21,200 --> 00:31:25,960
But anyway, tell me your political story.
419
00:31:27,920 --> 00:31:29,000
-Yeah?
-Yeah.
420
00:31:29,520 --> 00:31:31,320
-Are you sure?
-Throw it at me.
421
00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:34,040
Okay, here it is, right?
422
00:31:34,120 --> 00:31:36,840
Well, we divide the world
into two categories.
423
00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:38,800
That determines how we treat each other.
424
00:31:38,880 --> 00:31:41,560
Men are not allowed to cry,
women can't do DIY,
425
00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:45,120
and women are actually
totally subordinate anyway, right?
426
00:31:45,200 --> 00:31:47,600
That's a bizarre system
when you think about it.
427
00:31:47,680 --> 00:31:49,760
That was invented by all of us together.
428
00:31:49,840 --> 00:31:55,680
Yeah, there is so fucking little freedom
in what being a woman can look like.
429
00:31:56,520 --> 00:31:59,560
Exactly,
and we invented everything anyway.
430
00:31:59,640 --> 00:32:02,720
Money, we invented that,
we just print it like that. Bam, bam!
431
00:32:03,640 --> 00:32:05,720
The internet was invented by us.
432
00:32:05,800 --> 00:32:10,320
Language, photography, art, politics,
gender constructs.
433
00:32:10,400 --> 00:32:11,440
We invented that.
434
00:32:11,520 --> 00:32:15,840
So why can we not keep inventing?
Or re-inventing?
435
00:32:15,920 --> 00:32:20,080
Why is being nonbinary and wanting
to break free from invented constructs
436
00:32:20,160 --> 00:32:21,920
not done for so many people?
437
00:32:22,880 --> 00:32:23,840
Yes.
438
00:32:23,920 --> 00:32:25,120
And just like language,
439
00:32:25,200 --> 00:32:29,040
it keeps renewing
and that is actually the beauty of it.
440
00:32:30,000 --> 00:32:35,680
So what's the matter, tell me,
with they, them and their pronouns?
441
00:32:37,520 --> 00:32:40,280
Yes, completely.
442
00:32:40,360 --> 00:32:42,280
Yeah, well, exactly that.
443
00:32:42,880 --> 00:32:44,080
Well, you got me.
444
00:32:57,040 --> 00:32:59,000
-Hey, Jippie.
-Yo, An.
445
00:32:59,880 --> 00:33:01,640
Hey, are you still talking to Saar?
446
00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:06,920
-Why?
-Well, I got a text.
447
00:33:07,720 --> 00:33:10,920
A text from her, that she hasn't
spoken to you in a few days
448
00:33:11,000 --> 00:33:12,680
and also can't get hold of you.
449
00:33:12,760 --> 00:33:13,760
Fuck.
450
00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:16,640
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