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These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:01:20,612 --> 00:01:25,612 Provided by explosiveskull https://twitter.com/kaboomskull 2 00:01:47,432 --> 00:01:48,201 Here you go, baby. 3 00:01:48,233 --> 00:01:49,267 Oh, thank you. 4 00:01:49,301 --> 00:01:50,368 - Oh, you're welcome. - Oh, this looks great. 5 00:01:51,204 --> 00:01:52,171 Cheers. 6 00:01:52,205 --> 00:01:52,972 Cheers to you. 7 00:01:55,208 --> 00:01:56,341 Mm. 8 00:01:56,374 --> 00:01:58,010 Oh yeah, nice. 9 00:01:58,044 --> 00:01:59,178 Today was such a beautiful day. 10 00:01:59,212 --> 00:02:01,446 We're so blessed with our beautiful family. 11 00:02:01,480 --> 00:02:02,815 We are. 12 00:02:02,849 --> 00:02:05,317 Oh, which reminds me, I have something for you. 13 00:02:05,350 --> 00:02:07,186 - You do? - Yeah. 14 00:02:09,122 --> 00:02:09,889 - What is it? - Ah! 15 00:02:09,922 --> 00:02:10,690 Hey! 16 00:02:11,590 --> 00:02:12,390 What is it? 17 00:02:12,424 --> 00:02:13,926 Something corny. 18 00:02:13,960 --> 00:02:18,231 No, it's a, it's a bunch of our family photos, my favorites. 19 00:02:19,766 --> 00:02:21,100 I mean, I've made you a playlist a thousand times. 20 00:02:21,134 --> 00:02:22,201 I just thought I'd do something different for you. 21 00:02:22,235 --> 00:02:23,602 This is so sweet, I love it. 22 00:02:23,636 --> 00:02:24,536 Aw, you wanna look at it? 23 00:02:24,569 --> 00:02:25,604 - Yes. - Come on. 24 00:02:25,638 --> 00:02:26,505 - Let's watch it. - Come on. 25 00:02:26,538 --> 00:02:27,673 - Oh. - I'll show you. 26 00:02:27,707 --> 00:02:28,440 Better there? 27 00:02:28,473 --> 00:02:29,742 It's so nice. 28 00:02:29,776 --> 00:02:30,943 Start like this. 29 00:02:33,246 --> 00:02:34,113 Oh my God. 30 00:02:35,280 --> 00:02:36,381 These are so great! 31 00:02:36,414 --> 00:02:38,050 Look at this, look at this. 32 00:02:38,084 --> 00:02:39,018 Oh. 33 00:02:39,051 --> 00:02:39,986 Look at this one. 34 00:02:40,019 --> 00:02:40,953 Wait, this one's one of my favorites, right? 35 00:02:40,987 --> 00:02:41,954 Oh, wow. 36 00:02:41,988 --> 00:02:42,822 Oh my God. 37 00:02:42,855 --> 00:02:43,622 Look at your hair. 38 00:02:43,656 --> 00:02:44,623 Look at my hair! 39 00:02:44,657 --> 00:02:45,423 Ooh, ooh. 40 00:02:45,457 --> 00:02:46,591 Awesome! 41 00:02:46,626 --> 00:02:47,459 Oh my God. 42 00:02:47,492 --> 00:02:48,261 - Look at you. - Oh. 43 00:02:48,293 --> 00:02:49,461 Aw, aw, look at him. 44 00:02:49,494 --> 00:02:50,797 - Oh, babe. - Wow. 45 00:02:50,830 --> 00:02:51,764 Maybe not my best look. 46 00:02:51,798 --> 00:02:52,732 Aw. 47 00:02:52,765 --> 00:02:54,233 Look, you're always traveling. 48 00:02:54,267 --> 00:02:55,467 I just wanted you to know 49 00:02:55,500 --> 00:02:57,236 that we're always with you, alright? 50 00:02:57,270 --> 00:02:58,204 I love it. 51 00:02:58,237 --> 00:02:58,971 Good, I'm glad. 52 00:02:59,005 --> 00:02:59,772 Thank you. 53 00:02:59,806 --> 00:03:00,572 You're welcome. 54 00:03:00,605 --> 00:03:01,406 Oh my gosh. 55 00:03:01,439 --> 00:03:02,241 Look at this. 56 00:03:02,275 --> 00:03:03,709 This is amazing! 57 00:03:03,743 --> 00:03:04,509 Look at the mess here. 58 00:03:05,343 --> 00:03:06,746 This is so sweet! 59 00:03:07,579 --> 00:03:09,447 I'm glad you like it. 60 00:03:20,325 --> 00:03:22,394 Mm, smells good. 61 00:03:22,427 --> 00:03:24,030 Mm, it does. 62 00:03:24,063 --> 00:03:25,363 Are you doing this salad tomorrow? 63 00:03:25,397 --> 00:03:26,666 Nope, it's already done. 64 00:03:26,699 --> 00:03:28,100 Oh, wow. 65 00:03:28,134 --> 00:03:29,302 You do know what time it is, don't you? 66 00:03:29,334 --> 00:03:30,502 Oh, no, no, no, no, no. 67 00:03:30,535 --> 00:03:31,369 It's time for the dance! 68 00:03:31,403 --> 00:03:33,005 You are so silly. 69 00:03:33,039 --> 00:03:33,806 Stop that. 70 00:03:35,340 --> 00:03:36,508 Just because you're some big time music executive, 71 00:03:36,541 --> 00:03:37,509 doesn't mean you can make me dance. 72 00:03:37,542 --> 00:03:39,011 Oh, but I can. 73 00:03:39,045 --> 00:03:40,313 Oh. 74 00:03:40,345 --> 00:03:41,479 I love you Abby Thompson. 75 00:03:41,513 --> 00:03:43,316 And I love you, Daniel Thompson. 76 00:03:44,349 --> 00:03:47,220 - Mm, oh, this is great! - Nice. 77 00:03:47,253 --> 00:03:48,321 - You guys are gonna love it. - Ooh. 78 00:03:48,353 --> 00:03:49,354 Oh yeah, look at this. 79 00:03:49,387 --> 00:03:50,555 Thank you. 80 00:03:50,589 --> 00:03:51,356 You're welcome, you're welcome. 81 00:03:51,389 --> 00:03:52,524 Alright. 82 00:03:52,557 --> 00:03:53,693 - That looks so good. - That looks great. 83 00:03:53,726 --> 00:03:55,027 Who wants to say grace? 84 00:03:55,061 --> 00:03:57,029 You know, I'd like to say it tonight. 85 00:03:57,930 --> 00:03:58,731 Alright. 86 00:03:59,899 --> 00:04:01,334 Dear heavenly Father, 87 00:04:01,366 --> 00:04:03,568 we thank you for the blessings bestowed upon us, 88 00:04:04,937 --> 00:04:06,404 for the food before us, 89 00:04:07,340 --> 00:04:08,908 for the roof above us, 90 00:04:08,941 --> 00:04:10,710 for our family together, 91 00:04:10,743 --> 00:04:13,411 and for all the love we share between us. 92 00:04:13,445 --> 00:04:14,379 Amen. 93 00:04:14,412 --> 00:04:15,348 Amen. 94 00:04:15,380 --> 00:04:16,448 That was beautiful, Mom. 95 00:04:16,481 --> 00:04:17,382 Thank you. 96 00:04:17,415 --> 00:04:18,383 It was a beautiful day. 97 00:04:18,416 --> 00:04:19,652 You're beautiful. 98 00:04:19,685 --> 00:04:21,419 Uh, thank you, Jay. 99 00:04:22,621 --> 00:04:25,024 Is there something you want, Jay? 100 00:04:25,057 --> 00:04:26,491 No, I mean it. 101 00:04:26,524 --> 00:04:28,027 I do not want anything. 102 00:04:28,060 --> 00:04:29,996 Mm hmm. 103 00:04:30,029 --> 00:04:33,833 Well, unless I can get something. 104 00:04:33,866 --> 00:04:36,534 We already have everything we need. 105 00:04:36,568 --> 00:04:38,237 Oh, which reminds me. 106 00:04:38,271 --> 00:04:39,537 Mm hmm? 107 00:04:39,571 --> 00:04:41,073 Time you leaving for your trip tomorrow? 108 00:04:41,107 --> 00:04:42,642 Oh, that's right, I still have to pack. 109 00:04:42,675 --> 00:04:44,277 I'm gonna get on the road at eight tomorrow morning. 110 00:04:44,310 --> 00:04:47,512 Mm, yikes, you're gonna hit a lot of city traffic. 111 00:04:47,545 --> 00:04:48,814 I know. 112 00:04:48,848 --> 00:04:50,149 How long are you gonna be gone this time? 113 00:04:50,182 --> 00:04:51,150 Ah, should just be overnight. 114 00:04:51,183 --> 00:04:53,019 One meeting, a couple of signatures, 115 00:04:53,052 --> 00:04:54,287 and then I'll be headed home. 116 00:04:54,320 --> 00:04:56,289 Good, I want you to be here for the dance. 117 00:04:56,322 --> 00:04:58,724 Oh, I wouldn't miss it for the world. 118 00:04:58,758 --> 00:05:01,928 I would, unless I could be the photographer? 119 00:05:01,961 --> 00:05:03,195 Jay, when you get to high school, 120 00:05:03,229 --> 00:05:04,897 you can be on the school paper like me, 121 00:05:04,931 --> 00:05:06,265 and you can be the photographer. 122 00:05:06,299 --> 00:05:07,366 Great. 123 00:05:07,400 --> 00:05:08,301 There you go. 124 00:05:08,334 --> 00:05:09,368 That's it. 125 00:05:09,402 --> 00:05:10,970 Eat up, guys. 126 00:05:11,003 --> 00:05:11,904 This looks great. 127 00:05:11,938 --> 00:05:13,372 Mm, glad you like it. 128 00:05:13,406 --> 00:05:15,540 Mm, oh, the macaroni's good. 129 00:05:15,573 --> 00:05:16,776 - It's very good. - Good, it is. 130 00:05:22,048 --> 00:05:22,915 Are you Daniel Thompson? 131 00:05:22,949 --> 00:05:24,383 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 132 00:05:24,417 --> 00:05:25,617 What do you need? 133 00:05:25,651 --> 00:05:28,054 Sir, there's been an accident. 134 00:05:28,087 --> 00:05:28,854 Okay. 135 00:05:28,888 --> 00:05:30,089 Your wife. 136 00:05:30,122 --> 00:05:31,390 Whoa, wait, wait, wait, wait, Abby? 137 00:05:31,424 --> 00:05:32,925 Mom? 138 00:05:32,959 --> 00:05:34,260 Wait, wait, yeah, is she alright, where is she? 139 00:05:34,293 --> 00:05:35,328 I'm sorry, sir. 140 00:05:35,361 --> 00:05:37,063 She was in an accident, 141 00:05:37,096 --> 00:05:38,664 and she was killed on impact. 142 00:05:41,767 --> 00:05:42,635 What? 143 00:05:44,704 --> 00:05:45,871 You're lying! 144 00:05:45,905 --> 00:05:46,672 No! 145 00:05:48,606 --> 00:05:49,574 Sir, I'm sorry. 146 00:05:49,607 --> 00:05:50,776 No. 147 00:05:50,810 --> 00:05:53,312 We found all her belongings in the car. 148 00:05:53,346 --> 00:05:58,351 We're gonna need you to come down and identify her. 149 00:05:59,452 --> 00:06:01,320 Abby, no, no. 150 00:06:05,191 --> 00:06:06,058 I need you to come down, 151 00:06:06,092 --> 00:06:08,361 and call me on your way, 152 00:06:09,494 --> 00:06:10,796 and I'll meet you there, okay? 153 00:06:10,830 --> 00:06:11,697 Okay. 154 00:06:11,731 --> 00:06:12,832 Here's my card. 155 00:06:16,501 --> 00:06:17,470 Alright. 156 00:06:17,502 --> 00:06:18,871 I'm sorry again. 157 00:06:23,376 --> 00:06:24,477 - Abby. - Mommy. 158 00:06:25,444 --> 00:06:26,479 - No. - Mommy. 159 00:06:38,324 --> 00:06:39,358 Jay, are you okay? 160 00:06:39,392 --> 00:06:40,359 No. 161 00:06:42,028 --> 00:06:44,363 Okay, it's gonna be okay. 162 00:06:44,397 --> 00:06:46,432 You gotta just take it one day at a time. 163 00:06:47,400 --> 00:06:48,634 Where's my mom? 164 00:06:48,667 --> 00:06:51,370 She was so good. 165 00:06:51,404 --> 00:06:52,204 She loved us. 166 00:06:53,506 --> 00:06:55,474 I don't know, Josh. 167 00:06:55,508 --> 00:06:57,743 I don't think there's a God. 168 00:06:57,777 --> 00:06:59,145 Why would he do this? 169 00:07:00,513 --> 00:07:01,714 I don't think God did this. 170 00:07:01,747 --> 00:07:04,150 Okay, this was a drunk driver, Josh. 171 00:07:04,183 --> 00:07:05,718 An accident. 172 00:07:05,751 --> 00:07:07,520 But she didn't have to die. 173 00:07:09,922 --> 00:07:11,623 Do you think there's a God? 174 00:07:15,361 --> 00:07:18,497 I don't know what to think right now. 175 00:07:18,531 --> 00:07:19,564 I just miss Mom. 176 00:07:20,598 --> 00:07:21,901 Beautiful. 177 00:07:21,934 --> 00:07:23,302 You think so? 178 00:07:23,335 --> 00:07:24,437 My baby girl's all grown up! 179 00:07:26,372 --> 00:07:27,473 I just miss Mom. 180 00:07:27,506 --> 00:07:29,442 I do too. 181 00:07:29,475 --> 00:07:30,843 I know, I know. 182 00:07:32,945 --> 00:07:36,415 Daniel, I'm so sorry about what happened. 183 00:07:36,449 --> 00:07:37,716 She was a beautiful person. 184 00:07:37,750 --> 00:07:38,851 We all loved her. 185 00:07:38,884 --> 00:07:40,519 Thank you. 186 00:07:40,553 --> 00:07:41,586 I'm so sorry. 187 00:07:41,619 --> 00:07:43,556 Oh, thank you so much for coming. 188 00:07:43,588 --> 00:07:45,324 Brandon, please say hi to the family. 189 00:07:45,357 --> 00:07:46,292 Thank you. 190 00:07:46,325 --> 00:07:47,893 The church is there for you, 191 00:07:47,927 --> 00:07:51,130 your family is there for you, I'm there for you. 192 00:07:51,163 --> 00:07:52,364 I know. 193 00:07:52,398 --> 00:07:53,566 Did you know I brought your kids back 194 00:07:53,598 --> 00:07:54,366 from the church? 195 00:07:54,400 --> 00:07:55,167 Thanks. 196 00:07:56,001 --> 00:07:57,570 Nice to see you, Jack. 197 00:07:57,602 --> 00:07:58,504 Jack? 198 00:08:00,605 --> 00:08:02,274 Hey, hey, Pop? 199 00:08:02,308 --> 00:08:05,444 Oh, pastor, it was a beautiful service. 200 00:08:05,478 --> 00:08:06,412 Well, thank you. 201 00:08:06,445 --> 00:08:07,780 I'm glad you liked it, Jack. 202 00:08:07,813 --> 00:08:10,449 You guys wanna go with me and greet the guests? 203 00:08:10,483 --> 00:08:11,250 I do. 204 00:08:11,283 --> 00:08:12,785 We can't, Jay. 205 00:08:12,818 --> 00:08:13,886 Sorry, Grandpa, 206 00:08:13,919 --> 00:08:15,154 our dad needs us. 207 00:08:15,187 --> 00:08:16,555 Okay, but if you wanna get away, 208 00:08:16,589 --> 00:08:18,190 I have a getaway car outside. 209 00:08:18,224 --> 00:08:20,526 If you kids feel you wanna get away, let me know, okay? 210 00:08:20,559 --> 00:08:22,161 I'm sure they'll take you up on the offer. 211 00:08:22,194 --> 00:08:23,562 - Thank you. - Thanks, Pop. 212 00:08:26,298 --> 00:08:27,533 How are you two doing? 213 00:08:29,034 --> 00:08:30,669 We're not good. 214 00:08:31,871 --> 00:08:34,573 Lindsey, do you know Pastor John? 215 00:08:34,607 --> 00:08:38,110 He runs the youth group at the church. 216 00:08:38,144 --> 00:08:39,612 Yeah, I've met him. 217 00:08:41,113 --> 00:08:44,750 Pastor John runs a grief support group as well. 218 00:08:45,951 --> 00:08:50,556 Lindsey, please, we would like you to join 219 00:08:50,589 --> 00:08:53,692 our grief support group when you're ready. 220 00:08:55,629 --> 00:08:58,230 Jay, you can come too. 221 00:08:58,264 --> 00:08:59,365 Thanks, pastor. 222 00:09:01,233 --> 00:09:02,034 I'm not ready yet. 223 00:09:02,067 --> 00:09:04,303 I know, I know. 224 00:09:05,504 --> 00:09:08,674 When you are, we're there for you. 225 00:09:15,649 --> 00:09:17,483 Thanks, pastor, really. 226 00:09:18,684 --> 00:09:20,753 And the church is there for you too, 227 00:09:20,786 --> 00:09:22,955 and we'll always be there for you. 228 00:09:22,988 --> 00:09:24,156 You've been a lifelong friend. 229 00:09:24,190 --> 00:09:25,691 We appreciate it, alright? 230 00:09:25,724 --> 00:09:26,892 Thank you, thank you. 231 00:09:26,926 --> 00:09:27,693 Alright. 232 00:09:27,726 --> 00:09:28,662 God bless. 233 00:09:28,694 --> 00:09:29,995 God bless you. 234 00:09:32,998 --> 00:09:34,800 Hey, how're you doing? 235 00:09:38,571 --> 00:09:40,674 Oh, God. 236 00:09:43,409 --> 00:09:45,711 Oh, God, I'm gonna be late! 237 00:09:47,880 --> 00:09:49,281 Where is it? 238 00:09:49,315 --> 00:09:51,717 I thought it was... 239 00:09:57,022 --> 00:09:59,258 Mom, I can't do this without you. 240 00:10:01,360 --> 00:10:03,229 God, why would you take her away from me? 241 00:10:03,262 --> 00:10:04,530 Why? 242 00:10:04,563 --> 00:10:05,531 Hey? 243 00:10:06,700 --> 00:10:07,634 Is everything alright? 244 00:10:07,667 --> 00:10:09,568 No, nothing is alright! 245 00:10:09,602 --> 00:10:11,203 Why can't you understand that? 246 00:10:12,271 --> 00:10:13,872 I think I might be able to. 247 00:10:13,906 --> 00:10:16,075 No, you can't, because I'm 16. 248 00:10:16,108 --> 00:10:17,644 I should still have my Mom! 249 00:10:17,677 --> 00:10:19,044 Hey, hey! 250 00:10:19,078 --> 00:10:20,879 Have you forgotten that your mother was my wife? 251 00:10:20,913 --> 00:10:22,716 I lost her too! 252 00:10:22,748 --> 00:10:24,116 I lost her! 253 00:10:24,149 --> 00:10:24,917 I'm sorry. 254 00:10:24,950 --> 00:10:26,318 Oh God. 255 00:10:26,352 --> 00:10:27,886 - I'm sorry, Dad, I didn't... - No, no, no, no. 256 00:10:27,920 --> 00:10:29,421 - Oh, no, no, no, no, no. - I'm sorry, Dad. 257 00:10:29,455 --> 00:10:31,857 - I'm sorry. - I'm sorry, I'm sorry. 258 00:10:31,890 --> 00:10:33,158 I'm sorry. 259 00:10:33,192 --> 00:10:34,793 Look, we're all going through this, alright? 260 00:10:34,827 --> 00:10:36,595 We all lost her. 261 00:10:36,630 --> 00:10:40,032 Lindsey, look, do you remember that group 262 00:10:40,065 --> 00:10:41,033 the pastor was talking about? 263 00:10:41,066 --> 00:10:42,234 No, please, 264 00:10:42,268 --> 00:10:43,202 - that's not gonna help. - No, no, no. 265 00:10:43,235 --> 00:10:43,969 No, it's not gonna help. 266 00:10:44,003 --> 00:10:44,937 It won't bring Mom back. 267 00:10:44,970 --> 00:10:47,206 No, but it can't hurt either. 268 00:10:48,807 --> 00:10:49,775 Look, no, listen, 269 00:10:50,876 --> 00:10:52,077 your heart is so pained, 270 00:10:52,111 --> 00:10:53,279 your mother would never want you to feel this way. 271 00:10:53,312 --> 00:10:54,681 Please, just go for me. 272 00:10:54,714 --> 00:10:56,716 Just go, please, just once, just once. 273 00:10:56,750 --> 00:10:57,751 - Please, okay? - Fine. 274 00:10:59,418 --> 00:11:00,754 But I wanna do this on my own. 275 00:11:03,757 --> 00:11:04,556 Okay. 276 00:11:07,126 --> 00:11:08,762 Let me drive, okay? 277 00:11:10,996 --> 00:11:11,964 - Okay. - Come on. 278 00:11:27,846 --> 00:11:29,615 How's your week been, Ava? 279 00:11:29,649 --> 00:11:30,416 Good. 280 00:11:30,449 --> 00:11:31,685 That's good. 281 00:11:31,718 --> 00:11:33,152 We're glad to see you back again. 282 00:11:33,185 --> 00:11:34,486 Yeah, it's been a, it's been a wonderful week. 283 00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:36,221 We had a lot going on with the church. 284 00:11:36,255 --> 00:11:37,956 And, yeah, so we're very excited 285 00:11:37,990 --> 00:11:40,760 to have those special activity things lined up as well, 286 00:11:40,794 --> 00:11:42,696 so it's always fun with them. 287 00:11:42,729 --> 00:11:43,829 Ricky, how've you been this week? 288 00:11:43,862 --> 00:11:45,431 For those of you just joining us, 289 00:11:45,464 --> 00:11:47,032 I'd like to tell you a bit about what we do here 290 00:11:47,066 --> 00:11:48,668 in the group. 291 00:11:48,702 --> 00:11:52,739 Our grief support group is a place of healing and of hope. 292 00:11:52,772 --> 00:11:54,741 We like to remember our loved ones out loud. 293 00:11:54,774 --> 00:11:57,843 We share stories, we share memories good and bad, 294 00:11:57,876 --> 00:11:59,912 but more importantly, we support each other 295 00:11:59,945 --> 00:12:01,781 through the sadness of loss, 296 00:12:01,815 --> 00:12:04,283 and we move into the comfort of knowing 297 00:12:04,316 --> 00:12:08,220 that they remain in our hearts and our memories forever. 298 00:12:09,388 --> 00:12:10,956 Now, I'd like to have our new members 299 00:12:10,989 --> 00:12:12,124 go ahead and introduce themselves, 300 00:12:12,157 --> 00:12:13,793 then we'll share some stories. 301 00:12:15,060 --> 00:12:17,396 Would you like to go first? 302 00:12:18,897 --> 00:12:21,200 Hi, I'm Lindsey. 303 00:12:21,233 --> 00:12:23,535 I lost my mom a few months ago. 304 00:12:25,604 --> 00:12:26,405 Hi, Lindsey. 305 00:12:26,438 --> 00:12:27,774 We're happy to meet you. 306 00:12:27,807 --> 00:12:29,174 Thank you for being here. 307 00:12:29,208 --> 00:12:30,576 And how about you? 308 00:12:31,678 --> 00:12:34,748 Hi, I'm, I'm Andrew. 309 00:12:34,781 --> 00:12:37,449 I lost my brother in a car accident about a year ago, 310 00:12:37,483 --> 00:12:40,586 and things haven't really gotten better, 311 00:12:40,619 --> 00:12:43,055 so my mom recommended I come to a support group. 312 00:12:44,123 --> 00:12:45,725 Well, thank you, Andrew. 313 00:12:45,759 --> 00:12:47,694 At the very least, we hope you can find some comfort here, 314 00:12:47,727 --> 00:12:49,261 and know you're not alone. 315 00:12:49,294 --> 00:12:50,864 Thank you. 316 00:12:50,896 --> 00:12:53,767 So, would anyone like to begin by sharing a story? 317 00:12:54,868 --> 00:12:56,235 I'd like to share my story, John. 318 00:12:56,268 --> 00:12:57,569 Oh, Ava, please. 319 00:12:59,773 --> 00:13:03,108 My husband and I were trying to have a baby for so long. 320 00:13:04,376 --> 00:13:06,880 We thought after IVF and for trying for so long 321 00:13:06,912 --> 00:13:08,380 that it would never happen, 322 00:13:09,883 --> 00:13:11,885 but we were happy because we knew that we had options. 323 00:13:14,620 --> 00:13:19,626 One night we went to a restaurant with my husband's boss. 324 00:13:20,959 --> 00:13:23,128 It was this restaurant on the top of a building, 325 00:13:23,162 --> 00:13:24,430 really high up. 326 00:13:24,463 --> 00:13:25,899 Now, I don't do heights, 327 00:13:25,931 --> 00:13:28,635 so I got really sick. 328 00:13:29,601 --> 00:13:31,036 It was so embarrassing. 329 00:13:33,840 --> 00:13:36,776 The next night I was still sick. 330 00:13:36,810 --> 00:13:39,813 I mean, every smell, just about anything made me feel sick. 331 00:13:41,580 --> 00:13:43,215 He knew I was pregnant, 332 00:13:43,248 --> 00:13:46,552 but I was like, "No, I mean, it can't be." 333 00:13:46,585 --> 00:13:48,220 He went out, he bought me a test, 334 00:13:48,253 --> 00:13:50,589 and it turns out he was right, I was pregnant. 335 00:13:52,257 --> 00:13:53,927 We were so happy. 336 00:13:56,128 --> 00:13:58,263 I mean, it was probably one of the second best moments 337 00:13:58,297 --> 00:13:59,131 of our lives. 338 00:14:00,566 --> 00:14:03,435 Our first was when our baby boy was born. 339 00:14:04,637 --> 00:14:06,004 It was pure joy. 340 00:14:07,707 --> 00:14:08,942 Our family was complete. 341 00:14:13,111 --> 00:14:17,149 A week later, he went on a business trip, 342 00:14:17,182 --> 00:14:20,552 and the plane crashed, 343 00:14:20,586 --> 00:14:21,688 and he didn't make it. 344 00:14:25,357 --> 00:14:27,326 But he got to meet Ryan Junior. 345 00:14:29,428 --> 00:14:31,931 Ava, thank you so much for sharing that story. 346 00:14:31,965 --> 00:14:32,799 You're welcome. 347 00:14:34,600 --> 00:14:39,605 It's hard, but I realized through the process of healing, 348 00:14:43,141 --> 00:14:46,178 there are more good memories than there could ever be bad. 349 00:14:50,215 --> 00:14:54,353 I just wish that I could hear him again, or see him. 350 00:14:57,657 --> 00:14:58,457 Thank you. 351 00:15:02,361 --> 00:15:05,364 Would any of our new members like to share a story? 352 00:15:09,769 --> 00:15:10,770 I'm not ready yet. 353 00:15:11,838 --> 00:15:12,672 That's okay. 354 00:15:13,773 --> 00:15:15,574 When you're ready, we'll be here. 355 00:15:15,607 --> 00:15:17,276 You know, remembering our loved ones out loud 356 00:15:17,309 --> 00:15:20,245 is greatly helpful. 357 00:15:21,346 --> 00:15:22,982 It keeps them in our hearts. 358 00:15:24,383 --> 00:15:26,986 Andrew, would you like to share? 359 00:15:27,987 --> 00:15:29,889 I guess, yeah, yeah. 360 00:15:29,923 --> 00:15:30,723 Yeah, I'll go. 361 00:15:32,357 --> 00:15:35,294 But it's kind of hard to remember things right now. 362 00:15:38,263 --> 00:15:42,534 No good memories, no bad ones, just, it just all sucks. 363 00:15:45,103 --> 00:15:48,473 You know, I was in that car accident where my brother died. 364 00:15:50,175 --> 00:15:51,711 Why not me? 365 00:15:51,744 --> 00:15:53,846 What makes me so special? 366 00:15:53,880 --> 00:15:54,681 He was my brother. 367 00:15:54,714 --> 00:15:55,480 He was my twin. 368 00:15:55,514 --> 00:15:56,683 He was a part of me. 369 00:16:00,053 --> 00:16:02,021 We were supposed to travel the world together, 370 00:16:02,055 --> 00:16:03,455 and now it's just me, 371 00:16:05,290 --> 00:16:06,926 and that ain't right. 372 00:16:09,062 --> 00:16:12,031 Andrew, it's, it's not just you. 373 00:16:12,065 --> 00:16:14,499 You know, he's still part of you, 374 00:16:14,533 --> 00:16:16,401 and remembering him is gonna help you. 375 00:16:18,938 --> 00:16:20,039 Thank you for sharing. 376 00:16:21,139 --> 00:16:22,574 Pastor John? 377 00:16:22,608 --> 00:16:24,276 Yes, Lindsey. 378 00:16:24,309 --> 00:16:26,713 Could I tell a little about my mom, maybe? 379 00:16:26,746 --> 00:16:28,113 Yes, I think we'd love that. 380 00:16:30,750 --> 00:16:32,150 My last memory of her, 381 00:16:32,184 --> 00:16:33,886 she was helping me pick out my dress 382 00:16:33,920 --> 00:16:35,487 for my first school dance. 383 00:16:38,256 --> 00:16:41,094 My mom was so sweet, always loving. 384 00:16:43,730 --> 00:16:46,633 Her dream was to be there for me at my wedding, 385 00:16:51,136 --> 00:16:53,138 but now she won't be able to. 386 00:16:58,811 --> 00:17:00,880 I'm sorry, I can't talk about this yet. 387 00:17:01,814 --> 00:17:02,715 And that's okay. 388 00:17:02,749 --> 00:17:04,349 Thank you so much for sharing. 389 00:17:04,383 --> 00:17:06,119 You know, the healing process takes time. 390 00:17:06,151 --> 00:17:09,488 And Lindsey, when you're ready, we'll be here to listen. 391 00:17:12,157 --> 00:17:15,061 Well, I think that's a good place to leave it. 392 00:17:15,094 --> 00:17:17,830 We do have some flyers over on the table there. 393 00:17:17,864 --> 00:17:20,833 It has some fun activities to help the healing process. 394 00:17:20,867 --> 00:17:22,467 And before we go, 395 00:17:22,501 --> 00:17:25,504 I'd like you do a little bit of homework 396 00:17:25,537 --> 00:17:27,172 for this, this next week. 397 00:17:27,205 --> 00:17:30,242 Now, before you look at me like that, it's nothing hard. 398 00:17:30,275 --> 00:17:33,211 I'd like you to talk to a relative or a mutual friend, 399 00:17:33,245 --> 00:17:37,016 and have them share a good memory with you. 400 00:17:37,050 --> 00:17:37,950 I'd like you to write it down, 401 00:17:37,984 --> 00:17:40,153 and if you feel comfortable, 402 00:17:40,185 --> 00:17:41,988 share it when you come back next week, 403 00:17:42,021 --> 00:17:43,756 and we'll start on our memory books. 404 00:17:45,257 --> 00:17:47,026 Alright? 405 00:17:47,060 --> 00:17:48,393 Thanks again for coming everybody. 406 00:17:48,427 --> 00:17:50,863 Remember, there are some flyers over by the coffee, 407 00:17:50,897 --> 00:17:52,131 that have some recommended reading. 408 00:17:52,165 --> 00:17:54,167 As always, if you need to talk to me at all, 409 00:17:55,168 --> 00:17:56,535 feel free to come find me. 410 00:17:57,837 --> 00:17:58,738 Have a wonderful week. 411 00:18:04,576 --> 00:18:07,013 Chocolate chip was Matthew's favorite cookie. 412 00:18:09,749 --> 00:18:12,284 Hey, I'm sorry about your brother. 413 00:18:12,317 --> 00:18:13,186 Thanks. 414 00:18:14,219 --> 00:18:16,189 Sorry about your mother too. 415 00:18:16,221 --> 00:18:19,158 Guess we all gotta lose someone at some point. 416 00:18:19,192 --> 00:18:21,393 Yeah, but it doesn't feel fair. 417 00:18:21,426 --> 00:18:22,260 I know. 418 00:18:24,030 --> 00:18:26,199 Were you close to your brother? 419 00:18:26,231 --> 00:18:29,601 Yeah, we were pretty much like the same person. 420 00:18:31,204 --> 00:18:33,706 We even had our own way of talking to each other. 421 00:18:33,740 --> 00:18:35,208 Yeah, I've heard that, 422 00:18:35,240 --> 00:18:37,210 that twins can have their own secret language. 423 00:18:37,242 --> 00:18:38,978 That's actually really cool. 424 00:18:39,011 --> 00:18:41,214 Yeah, yeah, guess so. 425 00:18:42,280 --> 00:18:44,751 Well, I gotta go, my dad's waiting. 426 00:18:44,784 --> 00:18:47,053 But it was nice to meet you. 427 00:18:47,086 --> 00:18:50,255 Hey, I hope you come back. 428 00:18:52,692 --> 00:18:53,525 I think I will. 429 00:18:59,799 --> 00:19:02,735 Ugh, it's a hot day today, man. 430 00:19:02,769 --> 00:19:04,203 Hey, you alright? 431 00:19:08,241 --> 00:19:10,143 No, seriously, you okay? 432 00:19:10,176 --> 00:19:15,148 I don't know. 433 00:19:16,215 --> 00:19:17,549 What's wrong? 434 00:19:18,517 --> 00:19:19,719 I don't know. 435 00:19:19,752 --> 00:19:21,586 Alright, you wanna talk about it? 436 00:19:21,620 --> 00:19:23,189 Why? 437 00:19:23,222 --> 00:19:24,257 It won't bring Mom back! 438 00:19:25,557 --> 00:19:28,995 No, but it's nice to remember her. 439 00:19:30,295 --> 00:19:32,999 Lindsey says Mom is living in heaven now with God. 440 00:19:33,032 --> 00:19:34,867 I just wish I could talk to her, Dad. 441 00:19:34,901 --> 00:19:38,237 It would be so nice if a text or phone call 442 00:19:38,271 --> 00:19:40,405 could reach all the way up to heaven. 443 00:19:40,438 --> 00:19:41,274 I know. 444 00:19:42,642 --> 00:19:44,442 Look, I knew someone that wrote a message in a- 445 00:19:44,476 --> 00:19:46,646 - I don't want that, I want Mom! 446 00:19:46,679 --> 00:19:48,815 I want Mom too, okay? 447 00:19:48,848 --> 00:19:50,683 I'm sorry things have changed. 448 00:19:51,951 --> 00:19:54,220 Dad, I don't wanna hike today. 449 00:19:54,253 --> 00:19:55,420 I just wanna go back home. 450 00:19:56,289 --> 00:19:58,191 Right, you don't wanna hike? 451 00:19:58,224 --> 00:19:59,424 You just wanna go home? 452 00:19:59,457 --> 00:20:00,893 Yeah. 453 00:20:00,927 --> 00:20:02,261 Watch a movie with me? 454 00:20:02,295 --> 00:20:03,296 Sure. 455 00:20:04,297 --> 00:20:05,765 It's hot anyway, right? 456 00:20:05,798 --> 00:20:06,966 Come on, come on. 457 00:20:32,424 --> 00:20:34,392 I'm having a real hard time here, Abby. 458 00:20:40,565 --> 00:20:42,068 The kids are so sad. 459 00:20:44,337 --> 00:20:46,339 I'm just trying to make them feel loved. 460 00:20:54,146 --> 00:20:57,884 Just don't laugh at me if I start to cry. 461 00:20:59,318 --> 00:21:00,686 You know, I remember you saying once 462 00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:03,189 that real men do cry. 463 00:21:06,359 --> 00:21:07,727 Well, this man cries for you. 464 00:21:09,862 --> 00:21:10,663 I love you, Abby. 465 00:21:28,446 --> 00:21:30,116 Oh, man. 466 00:21:30,149 --> 00:21:32,385 Those cookies smell great. 467 00:21:32,417 --> 00:21:34,387 If it's cookies, you know it's for me. 468 00:21:34,419 --> 00:21:35,420 Every kid loves cookies. 469 00:21:35,453 --> 00:21:37,489 Dad, it's for group. 470 00:21:37,522 --> 00:21:38,357 Oh. 471 00:21:38,391 --> 00:21:39,926 Can we just have one? 472 00:21:39,959 --> 00:21:41,193 Just one? 473 00:21:41,227 --> 00:21:43,863 Not unless you come to group with me. 474 00:21:43,896 --> 00:21:44,664 Good luck. 475 00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:49,368 This is a real nice thing you're doing here. 476 00:21:49,402 --> 00:21:50,403 Thanks, Dad. 477 00:21:51,737 --> 00:21:53,406 How about one for the old man? 478 00:21:55,641 --> 00:21:56,441 Want an apple? 479 00:21:59,979 --> 00:22:01,380 Sure. 480 00:22:22,835 --> 00:22:25,271 Andrew, this is my little brother, Josh. 481 00:22:25,304 --> 00:22:26,272 Josh, meet Andrew. 482 00:22:27,807 --> 00:22:29,175 Hey, Josh. 483 00:22:29,208 --> 00:22:31,243 So, you're the reason 484 00:22:31,277 --> 00:22:34,413 my sister won't let me have any cookies, aren't you? 485 00:22:34,447 --> 00:22:35,414 Me? 486 00:22:36,682 --> 00:22:38,417 Well, nice to meet you too, Josh. 487 00:22:41,053 --> 00:22:43,089 I'm gonna go sit down. 488 00:22:43,122 --> 00:22:44,290 You can stop now. 489 00:22:44,323 --> 00:22:45,825 I'm just messing with you, little man. 490 00:22:45,858 --> 00:22:47,259 Coming to a good spot. 491 00:22:47,293 --> 00:22:48,593 Place helps me out a lot. 492 00:22:48,627 --> 00:22:50,396 Sure. 493 00:22:50,429 --> 00:22:52,331 How's your week been? 494 00:22:52,365 --> 00:22:53,232 I've had a good week. 495 00:22:53,265 --> 00:22:54,000 Did you have a good week? 496 00:22:54,033 --> 00:22:55,401 Yeah, it was. 497 00:22:55,434 --> 00:22:57,103 My dad set up to scholarship in my mom's name, 498 00:22:57,136 --> 00:22:58,971 and we met a few of the recipients. 499 00:22:59,005 --> 00:23:00,373 Oh, that's cool. 500 00:23:00,406 --> 00:23:02,074 Yeah, it really was. 501 00:23:05,378 --> 00:23:07,446 Hey, you wanna go get coffee sometime? 502 00:23:07,480 --> 00:23:11,951 Maybe talk about your mother, or my brother, or the weather? 503 00:23:11,984 --> 00:23:13,252 Yeah, I'd like that. 504 00:23:13,285 --> 00:23:15,287 Maybe you can meet my best friend, Katie. 505 00:23:15,321 --> 00:23:16,689 Yeah, yeah, that'd be cool. 506 00:23:17,690 --> 00:23:19,025 Okay, let's go. 507 00:23:19,058 --> 00:23:19,859 Yeah. 508 00:23:22,728 --> 00:23:23,796 Alright, everyone. 509 00:23:23,829 --> 00:23:24,764 Well, let's go ahead and take our seats, 510 00:23:24,797 --> 00:23:25,563 and we can begin. 511 00:23:27,599 --> 00:23:30,469 It's always nice to see new faces in the group. 512 00:23:30,503 --> 00:23:31,637 And as a little reminder, 513 00:23:31,670 --> 00:23:34,340 I like to say what it is we do in this group. 514 00:23:35,674 --> 00:23:38,277 Our grief support group is a place of healing and hope. 515 00:23:39,512 --> 00:23:42,481 We like to remember our loved ones out loud. 516 00:23:42,515 --> 00:23:46,152 We share stories, we share memories, good and bad, 517 00:23:46,185 --> 00:23:48,387 and more importantly, we like to support each other, 518 00:23:48,421 --> 00:23:51,057 as we move from the sadness of loss, 519 00:23:51,090 --> 00:23:52,525 to finding the comfort 520 00:23:52,557 --> 00:23:55,027 of knowing that our loved ones reside in our hearts 521 00:23:55,061 --> 00:23:56,395 and our memories forever. 522 00:23:57,562 --> 00:23:59,532 I'd like the new faces in the group 523 00:23:59,564 --> 00:24:00,866 to go ahead and introduce themselves. 524 00:24:00,900 --> 00:24:03,202 And we'll go ahead and start sharing some stories. 525 00:24:03,235 --> 00:24:08,240 My name's Josh and my sister made me come. 526 00:24:09,308 --> 00:24:10,242 Well, it's good to see you, Josh. 527 00:24:10,276 --> 00:24:11,410 Thank you for coming. 528 00:24:11,444 --> 00:24:12,545 Thanks for bringing him, Lindsey. 529 00:24:12,577 --> 00:24:13,379 And? 530 00:24:15,114 --> 00:24:17,016 Hi, my name is Carrie. 531 00:24:17,917 --> 00:24:20,086 I lost my baby boy. 532 00:24:21,287 --> 00:24:22,521 He had cancer. 533 00:24:23,923 --> 00:24:25,257 Hi, Carrie. 534 00:24:25,291 --> 00:24:26,492 I really hope both of you 535 00:24:26,525 --> 00:24:28,227 can find some comfort in being here with us. 536 00:24:29,462 --> 00:24:30,763 Carrie, would you like to share a little more 537 00:24:30,796 --> 00:24:31,997 about your story? 538 00:24:32,031 --> 00:24:33,532 No pressure. 539 00:24:33,566 --> 00:24:35,901 No, I'm not ready. 540 00:24:35,935 --> 00:24:39,738 It's, it's hard to talk about still. 541 00:24:41,107 --> 00:24:42,308 We're glad you're here. 542 00:24:42,341 --> 00:24:44,577 If you need to talk, I'm always here. 543 00:24:46,312 --> 00:24:49,081 I lost my mom not too long ago, 544 00:24:49,115 --> 00:24:50,683 and I know it's not the same, 545 00:24:50,716 --> 00:24:53,586 but this group is really helping me. 546 00:24:55,221 --> 00:24:56,589 Thank you, Lindsey. 547 00:24:56,621 --> 00:24:58,224 Whatever we can do to help, 548 00:24:58,257 --> 00:24:59,391 that's why we're here. 549 00:25:00,493 --> 00:25:02,695 So, everyone, how's the week been? 550 00:25:06,665 --> 00:25:07,633 It's been better. 551 00:25:11,670 --> 00:25:14,740 My mother and I went to see my dad's grave. 552 00:25:16,609 --> 00:25:20,613 So, well, she decided to start a scholarship 553 00:25:24,450 --> 00:25:25,451 in his name, so. 554 00:25:27,653 --> 00:25:28,521 That's wonderful, 555 00:25:28,554 --> 00:25:30,422 and I'm sure he'd be very proud. 556 00:25:30,456 --> 00:25:31,724 Thank you for sharing, Ricky. 557 00:25:32,658 --> 00:25:34,426 How's your week been, Ava? 558 00:25:34,460 --> 00:25:37,596 Oh, mine, mine actually has been really good. 559 00:25:37,631 --> 00:25:39,465 I've had more good days than bad, 560 00:25:39,498 --> 00:25:41,267 which I never thought would happen. 561 00:25:42,668 --> 00:25:44,336 We're actually planning a trip to see Ryan's parents 562 00:25:44,370 --> 00:25:45,204 this weekend, so. 563 00:25:46,505 --> 00:25:48,674 That sounds like a wonderful trip. 564 00:25:49,675 --> 00:25:52,011 Yeah, I might be missing a few meetings. 565 00:25:52,044 --> 00:25:53,779 Oh, well, that's okay. 566 00:25:53,812 --> 00:25:54,980 Certainly a good reason. 567 00:25:55,014 --> 00:25:55,781 Yeah. 568 00:25:57,049 --> 00:25:58,984 Andy, how's your week been, sir? 569 00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:05,624 You know, I'm still having a hard time. 570 00:26:05,659 --> 00:26:09,261 You know, sometimes I still feel angry about it all, 571 00:26:09,295 --> 00:26:11,597 him dying and me surviving. 572 00:26:11,631 --> 00:26:15,301 But my mom was actually going through his stuff, 573 00:26:15,334 --> 00:26:17,637 and she found this dictionary. 574 00:26:17,671 --> 00:26:19,338 It's the dictionary, we used to use it, 575 00:26:19,371 --> 00:26:21,507 to make our own language. 576 00:26:22,676 --> 00:26:24,644 When I looked at it, something clicked. 577 00:26:24,678 --> 00:26:26,545 Just realized he was a part of me. 578 00:26:28,013 --> 00:26:30,382 And how has that impacted your healing? 579 00:26:30,416 --> 00:26:33,252 Well, I can at least talk about him. 580 00:26:33,285 --> 00:26:35,554 You know, that's a big step for me. 581 00:26:35,588 --> 00:26:36,855 That's a great start. 582 00:26:36,889 --> 00:26:41,160 You know, continuing to remember our loved ones out loud 583 00:26:41,193 --> 00:26:43,796 is always so helpful, you know? 584 00:26:43,829 --> 00:26:45,497 It keeps them right in our hearts. 585 00:26:45,531 --> 00:26:46,700 Yeah. 586 00:26:46,732 --> 00:26:48,367 It hasn't been easy, but I've been trying. 587 00:26:49,368 --> 00:26:50,603 Lindsay, how you been? 588 00:26:51,671 --> 00:26:53,572 Honestly, I'm okay. 589 00:26:53,606 --> 00:26:56,342 You know, I know my mom's always with me, 590 00:26:56,375 --> 00:27:00,714 and my dad and I, we did some things in her memory. 591 00:27:02,248 --> 00:27:04,383 And I guess I'm just not as angry as I was before. 592 00:27:07,286 --> 00:27:08,520 That's great to hear. 593 00:27:08,554 --> 00:27:10,289 I'm happy to hear with your progress. 594 00:27:11,190 --> 00:27:12,626 I'm really proud of all of you. 595 00:27:12,659 --> 00:27:16,395 You know, these, these reports are great, you know? 596 00:27:16,428 --> 00:27:18,897 I'd actually like to take a time of prayer. 597 00:27:19,765 --> 00:27:20,966 Bow our heads in prayer. 598 00:27:24,770 --> 00:27:27,039 Heavenly father, we thank you 599 00:27:27,072 --> 00:27:29,241 for this wonderful night you've given us. 600 00:27:30,309 --> 00:27:31,610 Thank you for reminding us 601 00:27:31,645 --> 00:27:33,879 that your mercies are new every day. 602 00:27:33,912 --> 00:27:34,913 It says in the book of Matthew, 603 00:27:34,947 --> 00:27:37,449 that blessed are those who mourn, 604 00:27:37,483 --> 00:27:38,817 for they will be shown mercy. 605 00:27:40,085 --> 00:27:42,788 We pray that your grace continuously follows us 606 00:27:42,821 --> 00:27:44,423 through our day. 607 00:27:44,456 --> 00:27:46,726 And we pray that you bless our going 608 00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:49,094 as you blessed our coming here tonight. 609 00:27:49,128 --> 00:27:50,029 Thank you. 610 00:27:50,062 --> 00:27:52,097 It's in your name we pray. 611 00:27:52,131 --> 00:27:52,931 Amen. 612 00:28:05,177 --> 00:28:06,278 Dad, Dad. 613 00:28:06,312 --> 00:28:07,179 Yeah. 614 00:28:07,212 --> 00:28:08,180 Teach me to play guitar. 615 00:28:09,315 --> 00:28:10,549 What now? 616 00:28:10,582 --> 00:28:11,685 Yeah, I wanna write songs like you do. 617 00:28:11,718 --> 00:28:12,518 Look. 618 00:28:13,619 --> 00:28:14,620 What have you got? 619 00:28:18,624 --> 00:28:20,660 This is pretty good. 620 00:28:20,694 --> 00:28:23,763 Yeah, it's for Mom. 621 00:28:23,797 --> 00:28:24,764 You know what, here, you got it. 622 00:28:24,798 --> 00:28:26,498 Here, give me that guitar. 623 00:28:26,532 --> 00:28:27,866 Take the old man's guitar. 624 00:28:27,900 --> 00:28:30,602 Do you remember that E minor chord that I showed you 625 00:28:30,637 --> 00:28:31,370 - a while back? - Yeah. 626 00:28:31,403 --> 00:28:32,237 Yeah? 627 00:28:32,271 --> 00:28:33,038 Let's see what you got. 628 00:28:34,206 --> 00:28:34,973 Here, take the pick. 629 00:28:35,007 --> 00:28:35,874 Try that. 630 00:28:36,842 --> 00:28:38,177 Yeah, you're right on the mark. 631 00:28:38,210 --> 00:28:38,977 Let's do another one. 632 00:28:39,011 --> 00:28:40,212 Do you remember D7? 633 00:28:41,613 --> 00:28:42,915 Yeah, one there. 634 00:28:42,948 --> 00:28:44,850 Actually, no, put this finger up here. 635 00:28:45,851 --> 00:28:46,985 Hit that. 636 00:28:47,019 --> 00:28:48,822 See how that works? 637 00:28:48,854 --> 00:28:49,922 Not bad, could be better. 638 00:28:49,955 --> 00:28:52,991 Very good! 639 00:28:57,797 --> 00:29:00,065 Hey, there you go. 640 00:29:00,099 --> 00:29:01,200 Thank you. 641 00:29:01,233 --> 00:29:03,569 Of course, you're welcome. 642 00:29:03,602 --> 00:29:07,841 So, did you enjoy group last time? 643 00:29:07,873 --> 00:29:10,075 I dunno, I'm starting to really like it. 644 00:29:10,109 --> 00:29:11,678 Like, it's helping me. 645 00:29:11,711 --> 00:29:12,846 Me too. 646 00:29:12,878 --> 00:29:14,880 I didn't think I could stop feeling angry 647 00:29:14,913 --> 00:29:16,014 or guilty about it all, 648 00:29:16,048 --> 00:29:18,217 but little by little, I am. 649 00:29:18,250 --> 00:29:19,985 That's good. 650 00:29:20,018 --> 00:29:21,086 Oh, there's Katie. 651 00:29:22,221 --> 00:29:23,122 Katie's here. 652 00:29:23,155 --> 00:29:25,891 Hi. 653 00:29:25,924 --> 00:29:26,892 Hey, Katie. 654 00:29:26,925 --> 00:29:27,727 Hi, hi. 655 00:29:30,062 --> 00:29:32,197 Katie, this is Andrew from group. 656 00:29:32,231 --> 00:29:35,167 Andrew, this is Katie, from like my whole life. 657 00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:36,168 Hi, hi, how you doing? 658 00:29:36,201 --> 00:29:37,436 Hi. 659 00:29:37,469 --> 00:29:39,905 So, you're the one that eats all the cookies. 660 00:29:39,938 --> 00:29:41,741 Um, how did you know? 661 00:29:42,876 --> 00:29:44,977 I heard. 662 00:29:47,146 --> 00:29:48,480 Hmm. 663 00:29:53,887 --> 00:29:55,254 Hey, Dad. 664 00:29:55,287 --> 00:29:56,321 Oh hey, pumpkin. 665 00:29:56,355 --> 00:29:57,356 How was your day? 666 00:29:57,389 --> 00:29:58,257 It was great. 667 00:29:58,290 --> 00:29:59,057 Oh, that's right, 668 00:29:59,091 --> 00:29:59,859 it was your third date. 669 00:29:59,893 --> 00:30:00,860 How'd it go? 670 00:30:00,894 --> 00:30:02,361 Dad, it's not a date. 671 00:30:02,394 --> 00:30:06,532 Alright, alright, it wasn't a date. 672 00:30:06,565 --> 00:30:08,934 Look, I got some dinner in the fridge for you, alright? 673 00:30:08,967 --> 00:30:10,269 Don't be up too late, school tomorrow. 674 00:30:10,302 --> 00:30:11,236 I won't. 675 00:30:11,270 --> 00:30:12,037 - Thanks, Dad. - Alright, alright. 676 00:30:12,070 --> 00:30:12,938 Goodnight. 677 00:30:15,140 --> 00:30:16,910 We're gonna be okay, Abby, girl. 678 00:30:24,116 --> 00:30:26,018 So, I was thinking we could go to Mayfields. 679 00:30:26,051 --> 00:30:27,854 I heard they have a sale, so. 680 00:30:29,756 --> 00:30:31,891 Katie, Katie, are you okay? 681 00:30:33,893 --> 00:30:34,828 Sorry, what? 682 00:30:36,763 --> 00:30:38,397 Is everything alright? 683 00:30:40,834 --> 00:30:41,801 No, not really. 684 00:30:43,937 --> 00:30:46,271 Okay, I can just pull over. 685 00:30:52,946 --> 00:30:53,813 What's going on? 686 00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:56,348 Everything, Lindsey. 687 00:30:57,951 --> 00:30:58,852 Tell me. 688 00:31:02,254 --> 00:31:03,622 My mom has cancer. 689 00:31:05,023 --> 00:31:06,024 Stage four. 690 00:31:07,894 --> 00:31:08,994 What? 691 00:31:09,027 --> 00:31:12,632 I'm trying to be strong. 692 00:31:12,665 --> 00:31:13,766 We just found out. 693 00:31:14,968 --> 00:31:16,970 It's bad, but she said she's going to fight. 694 00:31:18,103 --> 00:31:19,238 I'm so sorry. 695 00:31:19,271 --> 00:31:20,572 God, I can't even... 696 00:31:20,606 --> 00:31:22,809 I don't know what to do. 697 00:31:24,009 --> 00:31:25,979 I don't want her to see me crying. 698 00:31:26,011 --> 00:31:27,112 I'm so scared. 699 00:31:28,146 --> 00:31:29,581 Hey, hey, it's gonna be okay. 700 00:31:29,615 --> 00:31:31,951 I'm gonna be here for you no matter what, okay? 701 00:31:35,922 --> 00:31:36,890 Thank you. 702 00:31:40,192 --> 00:31:41,995 How about we talk about some happy stuff? 703 00:31:42,027 --> 00:31:43,663 Okay. 704 00:31:43,696 --> 00:31:46,900 Isn't that, what's his face who's taking you to prom, 705 00:31:46,933 --> 00:31:47,867 that guy? 706 00:31:47,901 --> 00:31:48,935 Brett. 707 00:31:48,968 --> 00:31:52,538 Brett, the basketball guy, yeah. 708 00:31:52,571 --> 00:31:54,473 He hasn't asked me yet, 709 00:31:54,506 --> 00:31:56,508 but I was thinking it'd be fun 710 00:31:56,542 --> 00:31:59,344 if just a bunch of us went together. 711 00:31:59,378 --> 00:32:00,546 Yeah, gonna be fine. 712 00:32:00,579 --> 00:32:02,214 We can get a limo, ride in style. 713 00:32:05,752 --> 00:32:07,020 Love you, girl. 714 00:32:07,052 --> 00:32:08,053 It's gonna be okay. 715 00:32:18,798 --> 00:32:20,733 So, you excited for prom tonight? 716 00:32:20,767 --> 00:32:21,567 Yeah. 717 00:32:22,936 --> 00:32:23,903 Do you think it's weird, 718 00:32:23,937 --> 00:32:25,137 Lindsey and I decided not to go with any boys, 719 00:32:25,170 --> 00:32:27,539 and just go with our girlfriends? 720 00:32:27,573 --> 00:32:29,042 Oh, yeah, it's so weird, Kat, 721 00:32:30,643 --> 00:32:32,578 but better for your dad and I. 722 00:32:32,611 --> 00:32:34,013 Now, we don't have to do 723 00:32:34,047 --> 00:32:37,549 that whole crazy father parent thing that dads do. 724 00:32:42,621 --> 00:32:44,523 Here's the lovely Miss Lindsey. 725 00:32:44,556 --> 00:32:45,324 Hi! 726 00:32:46,258 --> 00:32:47,426 I'll be right back. 727 00:32:47,459 --> 00:32:49,227 Hello, Sara, how are you doing? 728 00:32:49,261 --> 00:32:50,863 I'm fighting hard. 729 00:32:50,897 --> 00:32:52,097 It's good to see you. 730 00:32:52,130 --> 00:32:54,033 It's good to see you too. 731 00:32:54,067 --> 00:32:55,233 Why don't we go get ready? 732 00:32:55,267 --> 00:32:56,803 Okay, bye. 733 00:32:56,836 --> 00:32:58,203 You girls have fun. 734 00:32:58,236 --> 00:32:59,237 Thank you, Mom. 735 00:33:04,142 --> 00:33:06,946 Sorry, I left my makeup bag. 736 00:33:06,980 --> 00:33:09,082 Actually, I'm glad you're here. 737 00:33:09,114 --> 00:33:10,683 Can you sit with me for a minute? 738 00:33:12,150 --> 00:33:13,086 Yeah, of course. 739 00:33:13,118 --> 00:33:14,087 What's wrong? 740 00:33:14,119 --> 00:33:16,121 I need your help, Lindsey. 741 00:33:16,154 --> 00:33:17,790 I don't have long. 742 00:33:19,025 --> 00:33:21,027 I'm struggling with it. 743 00:33:22,494 --> 00:33:26,131 And I know that Katie is not gonna do well when I'm gone. 744 00:33:28,101 --> 00:33:29,769 I wanna do something for her, 745 00:33:30,770 --> 00:33:32,105 that'll bring her comfort 746 00:33:33,305 --> 00:33:35,108 you know, during important times in her life. 747 00:33:36,643 --> 00:33:39,344 Will you help me make a video message for her? 748 00:33:41,114 --> 00:33:42,314 Yeah. 749 00:33:42,347 --> 00:33:44,117 Yeah, of course. 750 00:33:44,149 --> 00:33:46,351 And don't tell her. 751 00:33:48,121 --> 00:33:49,154 I'll entrust them to you, 752 00:33:50,522 --> 00:33:52,792 and you just make sure she gets them 753 00:33:52,825 --> 00:33:55,128 when the time's right, okay? 754 00:33:57,162 --> 00:33:58,665 Okay. 755 00:33:58,698 --> 00:33:59,832 Okay. 756 00:33:59,866 --> 00:34:00,933 You go on, get ready. 757 00:34:02,135 --> 00:34:05,504 I'll contact you to set up a day and time soon. 758 00:34:07,140 --> 00:34:08,141 I'll see you. 759 00:34:09,008 --> 00:34:09,809 Bye. 760 00:34:14,579 --> 00:34:15,882 - Tom? - Yes, dear. 761 00:34:15,915 --> 00:34:17,684 Can you bring me my Bible, please? 762 00:34:20,585 --> 00:34:22,121 Anything for you, my love. 763 00:34:25,223 --> 00:34:26,491 You mind if I read with you? 764 00:34:26,525 --> 00:34:27,325 No. 765 00:34:38,705 --> 00:34:40,305 Oh, oh, thank you. 766 00:34:42,374 --> 00:34:44,644 Katie sure did look beautiful for the prom tonight, 767 00:34:44,677 --> 00:34:45,444 didn't she? 768 00:34:45,477 --> 00:34:46,244 Oh, she did. 769 00:34:50,482 --> 00:34:51,718 There you go. 770 00:34:56,823 --> 00:34:58,024 Thank you, honey. 771 00:34:58,057 --> 00:34:59,892 Huh, for what? 772 00:34:59,926 --> 00:35:01,293 You know. 773 00:35:01,326 --> 00:35:02,527 What, for loving you? 774 00:35:04,197 --> 00:35:05,564 I love you, Tom. 775 00:35:06,699 --> 00:35:10,036 And I know you're going to do the right thing, 776 00:35:10,069 --> 00:35:12,337 and raise our daughter right. 777 00:35:13,238 --> 00:35:15,141 I'm not giving up on you, Sara. 778 00:35:16,274 --> 00:35:21,279 I know. 779 00:35:37,163 --> 00:35:38,631 Thank you for this, Lindsey. 780 00:35:38,664 --> 00:35:39,832 You're welcome, Sara. 781 00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:43,169 I know how much this is gonna mean to Katie. 782 00:35:44,402 --> 00:35:45,270 Right. 783 00:35:46,839 --> 00:35:48,273 It means everything to me too. 784 00:35:50,475 --> 00:35:52,979 I don't have much I can leave her, 785 00:35:54,513 --> 00:35:58,885 but reminders of how proud I am of her, 786 00:36:00,787 --> 00:36:01,788 how much I love her, 787 00:36:03,790 --> 00:36:05,758 bring me some peace. 788 00:36:05,792 --> 00:36:07,592 She's gonna be here in about 30 minutes, 789 00:36:07,627 --> 00:36:10,263 so we should get started. 790 00:36:12,297 --> 00:36:15,101 I'm just gonna put some lipstick on. 791 00:36:15,134 --> 00:36:16,235 Of course, 792 00:36:24,677 --> 00:36:25,778 How does that look? 793 00:36:26,779 --> 00:36:28,281 You look beautiful. 794 00:36:32,317 --> 00:36:34,787 Okay, I'm ready when you are. 795 00:36:38,791 --> 00:36:42,094 Katie, when you receive this message, 796 00:36:44,263 --> 00:36:49,068 I'll be with God and our savior, Jesus Christ, 797 00:36:49,101 --> 00:36:51,536 in heaven and free of pain. 798 00:36:55,507 --> 00:36:59,212 I will always be watching over you in spirit. 799 00:37:02,281 --> 00:37:04,283 And today is such a special day. 800 00:37:05,617 --> 00:37:09,322 You're graduating from high school with honors, 801 00:37:11,356 --> 00:37:13,358 and I'm so proud of you. 802 00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:17,495 I want you to enjoy it, 803 00:37:21,334 --> 00:37:25,370 and take tons of pictures with your friends and your dad. 804 00:37:26,939 --> 00:37:28,373 And enjoy that moment, 805 00:37:29,342 --> 00:37:30,575 when you move your tassel, 806 00:37:32,377 --> 00:37:33,913 and throw your hat in the air. 807 00:37:37,283 --> 00:37:41,386 Going to UF is going to be amazing for you, 808 00:37:44,323 --> 00:37:46,025 and I hope that you have 809 00:37:46,058 --> 00:37:49,262 a memorable college experience, honey. 810 00:37:51,429 --> 00:37:56,434 Katie, please try and go to church regularly. 811 00:37:58,403 --> 00:38:01,406 Read your Bible and pray. 812 00:38:04,409 --> 00:38:05,945 I've left my Bible for you, 813 00:38:09,115 --> 00:38:13,551 and I've had Pastor Mark notate all my favorite Bible verses 814 00:38:14,820 --> 00:38:16,122 for you to reference, 815 00:38:19,025 --> 00:38:20,126 and give you strength. 816 00:38:22,460 --> 00:38:25,197 I will always be with you. 817 00:38:29,467 --> 00:38:30,703 I love you, Katie. 818 00:38:42,114 --> 00:38:43,416 Okay, I got it. 819 00:38:46,618 --> 00:38:49,088 Lindsey, I have one more favor. 820 00:38:50,488 --> 00:38:51,424 Yeah. 821 00:38:53,993 --> 00:38:54,794 Anything. 822 00:38:56,963 --> 00:38:58,898 I got a graduation card for Katie. 823 00:39:02,134 --> 00:39:05,271 Can you make sure she gets it when she graduates? 824 00:39:08,606 --> 00:39:10,443 Yeah, of course. 825 00:39:11,811 --> 00:39:16,449 But you'll be able to give it to her, right? 826 00:39:20,485 --> 00:39:21,454 Appreciate it. 827 00:39:30,528 --> 00:39:32,264 Thank you so much for sharing, Rick, 828 00:39:32,298 --> 00:39:34,200 and let's put that in your memory book. 829 00:39:35,368 --> 00:39:36,469 Hello, Lindsey. 830 00:39:38,471 --> 00:39:39,872 - Hi. - Hey, Lindsey. 831 00:39:39,905 --> 00:39:41,440 I'm sorry I'm late. 832 00:39:41,474 --> 00:39:43,242 I was helping my friend's mom with something. 833 00:39:43,275 --> 00:39:44,143 No, that's okay. 834 00:39:44,176 --> 00:39:45,177 Sometimes we have things to do. 835 00:39:45,211 --> 00:39:46,445 Don't worry about it. 836 00:39:46,479 --> 00:39:48,180 Well, it wouldn't be the same without you. 837 00:39:49,448 --> 00:39:51,751 I'm having a hard time with this one. 838 00:39:51,784 --> 00:39:52,617 Why? 839 00:39:54,220 --> 00:39:57,957 It's my best friend's mom, she's dying, 840 00:39:57,990 --> 00:40:00,760 and I'm trying to do something special for Katie 841 00:40:00,793 --> 00:40:03,496 so she can have something after she's gone. 842 00:40:03,528 --> 00:40:06,132 Well, that's very sweet of you to help her. 843 00:40:06,165 --> 00:40:07,233 But are you okay? 844 00:40:08,401 --> 00:40:12,738 I am, but I can't stop thinking about my mom. 845 00:40:14,306 --> 00:40:16,742 Sometimes, it's just like I lost her all over again. 846 00:40:19,045 --> 00:40:21,213 Well, I'm sure what you're doing to help Katie 847 00:40:21,247 --> 00:40:22,580 will bring her great comfort. 848 00:40:24,549 --> 00:40:26,986 Well, I'm helping her mom make a video message for her, 849 00:40:27,019 --> 00:40:28,387 and I still have to edit it 850 00:40:28,421 --> 00:40:29,688 with some of her mom's favorite pictures at the end. 851 00:40:29,722 --> 00:40:33,426 But, I don't know. 852 00:40:33,459 --> 00:40:34,260 I like that. 853 00:40:35,661 --> 00:40:37,430 I'd love to see my brother again. 854 00:40:38,431 --> 00:40:39,932 Or my baby. 855 00:40:39,965 --> 00:40:40,766 Or my husband. 856 00:40:41,934 --> 00:40:42,735 My father. 857 00:40:43,903 --> 00:40:44,703 My mom. 858 00:40:46,604 --> 00:40:48,474 You know, I think we all have someone 859 00:40:48,507 --> 00:40:50,509 whose voice we'd love to hear again. 860 00:40:51,911 --> 00:40:54,180 I think it's very sweet of you to help your friend. 861 00:40:54,213 --> 00:40:56,749 And you know, you could always invite Katie here, you know? 862 00:40:56,782 --> 00:40:59,351 She doesn't have to wait until her mother passes 863 00:40:59,385 --> 00:41:00,753 to get support. 864 00:41:00,786 --> 00:41:02,088 I don't know. 865 00:41:02,121 --> 00:41:03,556 She's not ready to deal with her mom dying yet. 866 00:41:05,558 --> 00:41:07,293 And Sara's still fighting. 867 00:41:08,127 --> 00:41:09,195 Maybe she'll make it. 868 00:41:10,029 --> 00:41:10,796 It's true. 869 00:41:10,830 --> 00:41:11,630 We'll be praying. 870 00:41:12,965 --> 00:41:13,799 Thanks. 871 00:41:15,568 --> 00:41:16,435 Ava would you like 872 00:41:16,469 --> 00:41:17,236 to continue with your story? 873 00:41:17,269 --> 00:41:18,170 Alright. 874 00:41:18,204 --> 00:41:19,138 Oh, why don't you go ahead 875 00:41:19,171 --> 00:41:20,005 and check that? 876 00:41:20,039 --> 00:41:20,773 It doesn't happen often, 877 00:41:20,806 --> 00:41:22,208 it might be important. 878 00:41:22,241 --> 00:41:22,975 I'm so sorry. 879 00:41:23,008 --> 00:41:24,844 I have to go. 880 00:41:24,877 --> 00:41:25,644 No worries. 881 00:41:33,452 --> 00:41:35,888 Where are you? 882 00:41:40,759 --> 00:41:41,560 Dad, what happened? 883 00:41:41,594 --> 00:41:42,528 You're scaring me. 884 00:41:47,833 --> 00:41:49,602 Katie's mom passed away. 885 00:41:49,635 --> 00:41:50,703 Oh, I need to go see her. 886 00:41:50,736 --> 00:41:51,937 No, no, no, no, no, listen, you can't. 887 00:41:51,971 --> 00:41:53,539 They're at the hospital. 888 00:41:53,572 --> 00:41:55,040 You're not gonna be able to see them until tomorrow. 889 00:41:55,074 --> 00:41:55,841 I'm sorry. 890 00:41:57,510 --> 00:42:00,613 We finished just in time. 891 00:42:00,646 --> 00:42:03,315 What, what did you, what? 892 00:42:03,349 --> 00:42:04,583 What? 893 00:42:04,617 --> 00:42:06,485 Her mom and I, we made this video for Katie 894 00:42:06,519 --> 00:42:07,686 for her graduation. 895 00:42:09,555 --> 00:42:10,656 It's like, she knew. 896 00:42:12,658 --> 00:42:14,793 That's gonna mean the world to her. 897 00:42:14,827 --> 00:42:17,563 It's like losing Mom all over again. 898 00:42:17,596 --> 00:42:18,330 Yeah, I know. 899 00:42:18,364 --> 00:42:19,431 That's why I wanted to- 900 00:42:19,465 --> 00:42:20,766 - Hey, Dad, I really, I really need to be alone. 901 00:42:20,799 --> 00:42:22,701 No, no, no just wait. 902 00:42:41,487 --> 00:42:42,855 This is so beautiful, Mom. 903 00:42:44,658 --> 00:42:46,660 I wonder what you would have said to me. 904 00:42:48,394 --> 00:42:49,895 But I know this will help Katie. 905 00:42:51,665 --> 00:42:52,632 I just know. 906 00:43:21,227 --> 00:43:24,029 I think Mom would have liked the ceremony. 907 00:43:24,063 --> 00:43:25,731 Yeah, I think so too. 908 00:43:31,705 --> 00:43:33,038 Does the pain ever go away? 909 00:43:34,740 --> 00:43:36,208 Honestly? 910 00:43:36,242 --> 00:43:38,210 It does and it doesn't. 911 00:43:41,213 --> 00:43:42,548 We'll never stop missing them. 912 00:43:44,383 --> 00:43:45,719 I don't know how you did it. 913 00:43:46,720 --> 00:43:47,519 It's so hard. 914 00:43:50,289 --> 00:43:53,025 Time, remember the good things. 915 00:43:54,893 --> 00:43:56,895 Mom, do you think I can do it? 916 00:43:56,929 --> 00:43:57,763 You can do it, Lindsey. 917 00:43:57,796 --> 00:43:58,864 I believe in you. 918 00:44:04,937 --> 00:44:07,006 I guess that sometimes helps. 919 00:44:07,973 --> 00:44:09,643 We graduate in one month. 920 00:44:11,745 --> 00:44:13,680 She wanted to be here so bad for that. 921 00:44:13,713 --> 00:44:15,214 Just one more month. 922 00:44:17,751 --> 00:44:20,486 I know this probably won't mean much right now, 923 00:44:23,255 --> 00:44:25,491 but I truly believe that she's here with us. 924 00:44:27,661 --> 00:44:28,762 She's with God now. 925 00:44:32,097 --> 00:44:33,098 It's not the same. 926 00:44:39,773 --> 00:44:40,539 Hey. 927 00:44:47,479 --> 00:44:48,782 Just, I wonder why she's not here yet. 928 00:44:48,814 --> 00:44:50,115 She's never late. 929 00:44:50,149 --> 00:44:51,350 I don't know. 930 00:44:51,383 --> 00:44:53,218 Maybe call her? 931 00:44:53,252 --> 00:44:54,620 I don't know. 932 00:44:54,654 --> 00:44:55,821 I have a really bad feeling about this, 933 00:44:55,854 --> 00:44:57,589 like she's not okay. 934 00:44:57,623 --> 00:44:58,991 I'm sure she's alright. 935 00:44:59,024 --> 00:45:00,592 Just call her. 936 00:45:00,627 --> 00:45:01,527 Okay, well. 937 00:45:03,829 --> 00:45:05,164 Oh, I bet that's her now. 938 00:45:11,470 --> 00:45:13,005 Everything okay? 939 00:45:13,038 --> 00:45:14,139 No, it's not. 940 00:45:14,173 --> 00:45:15,809 Katie's not okay. 941 00:45:15,841 --> 00:45:16,942 What happened? 942 00:45:16,975 --> 00:45:18,077 She said she's not coming. 943 00:45:18,110 --> 00:45:19,912 She said she can't stop crying. 944 00:45:20,979 --> 00:45:22,816 It's gonna be alright. 945 00:45:22,881 --> 00:45:24,651 What should I do? 946 00:45:24,684 --> 00:45:26,151 What can you do? 947 00:45:26,185 --> 00:45:28,887 I mean, I can go give her the message from her mom. 948 00:45:30,022 --> 00:45:31,590 I know it's supposed to be for the graduation, 949 00:45:31,623 --> 00:45:34,694 but I think she needs it now. 950 00:45:34,728 --> 00:45:35,829 You sure? 951 00:45:35,861 --> 00:45:37,029 I mean, it is your party. 952 00:45:38,597 --> 00:45:40,165 You sure? 953 00:45:40,199 --> 00:45:42,000 I don't know. 954 00:45:42,034 --> 00:45:43,969 Why do bad things happen to good people? 955 00:45:44,002 --> 00:45:45,371 I just don't understand. 956 00:45:45,404 --> 00:45:46,972 Hey, hey, hey, you know what? 957 00:45:47,005 --> 00:45:49,375 You know what, listen, 958 00:45:49,408 --> 00:45:50,876 I'll finish these decorations up, 959 00:45:50,909 --> 00:45:52,277 and you go see Katie. 960 00:45:52,311 --> 00:45:53,879 Deliver that message to her. 961 00:45:53,912 --> 00:45:54,814 Are you sure? 962 00:45:54,848 --> 00:45:55,815 I'm sure, alright. 963 00:45:55,849 --> 00:45:57,616 Parties come and go, 964 00:45:57,650 --> 00:45:59,151 but best friends are forever. 965 00:45:59,184 --> 00:46:00,185 Thank you. 966 00:46:17,871 --> 00:46:18,838 Katie. 967 00:46:20,072 --> 00:46:21,473 Lindsey. 968 00:46:21,507 --> 00:46:23,275 Hey, it's gonna be okay. 969 00:46:24,910 --> 00:46:25,779 I'm not so sure. 970 00:46:28,313 --> 00:46:30,416 I'm not ready to be without my mom. 971 00:46:30,449 --> 00:46:32,886 I know, I know, but she's with you. 972 00:46:32,918 --> 00:46:33,952 How would you know? 973 00:46:34,953 --> 00:46:36,422 I have something for you? 974 00:46:37,923 --> 00:46:39,925 I was supposed to give it to you after graduation, 975 00:46:39,958 --> 00:46:41,059 but I don't think your mom would mind 976 00:46:41,093 --> 00:46:41,994 if I gave it to you now. 977 00:46:42,027 --> 00:46:43,095 What do you mean, my mom? 978 00:46:43,128 --> 00:46:44,864 It's from your mom. 979 00:46:44,898 --> 00:46:46,031 She made it for you. 980 00:46:46,064 --> 00:46:47,032 What is this about? 981 00:46:47,065 --> 00:46:48,100 What is this? 982 00:46:48,133 --> 00:46:48,934 Just trust me. 983 00:46:52,104 --> 00:46:53,272 Watch it. 984 00:46:53,305 --> 00:46:57,309 Katie, when you receive this message, 985 00:46:58,944 --> 00:47:03,783 I'll be with God and our savior, Jesus Christ, 986 00:47:03,817 --> 00:47:06,552 in heaven and free of pain. 987 00:47:10,155 --> 00:47:13,927 I will always be watching over you in spirit. 988 00:47:17,129 --> 00:47:19,097 Today is such a special day. 989 00:47:20,532 --> 00:47:23,602 You're graduating from high school with honors, 990 00:47:26,371 --> 00:47:28,006 and I'm so proud of you. 991 00:47:31,009 --> 00:47:32,812 I want you to enjoy it. 992 00:47:32,846 --> 00:47:33,947 I'm sorry, Katie. 993 00:47:33,979 --> 00:47:35,949 I didn't mean to make you cry like this. 994 00:47:36,014 --> 00:47:37,282 - Take tons of pictures - No. 995 00:47:37,316 --> 00:47:38,984 with your friends and your dad. 996 00:47:39,017 --> 00:47:40,619 No, it's just so beautiful. 997 00:47:41,688 --> 00:47:43,555 And enjoy that moment. 998 00:47:43,589 --> 00:47:44,824 I miss her so much. 999 00:47:44,858 --> 00:47:45,692 When you move your tassel. 1000 00:47:45,725 --> 00:47:46,926 Thank you. 1001 00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:47,827 - Yeah. - And throw your hat 1002 00:47:47,861 --> 00:47:49,461 in the air. 1003 00:47:49,495 --> 00:47:51,330 Kat, you should come to group with me sometime. 1004 00:47:51,363 --> 00:47:52,130 Maybe. 1005 00:47:52,164 --> 00:47:53,198 Going to you UF, 1006 00:47:54,199 --> 00:47:55,367 - I'll just take it - is going to be 1007 00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:56,602 - one day at a time. - amazing for you. 1008 00:47:56,636 --> 00:47:57,436 Okay. 1009 00:47:57,469 --> 00:47:58,237 Katie. 1010 00:47:58,270 --> 00:48:00,907 Oh, open your card. 1011 00:48:00,940 --> 00:48:03,877 Please try and go to church regularly. 1012 00:48:05,043 --> 00:48:05,979 Read your Bible. 1013 00:48:07,981 --> 00:48:12,819 I, I've left my Bible for you. 1014 00:48:14,821 --> 00:48:15,955 Thank you. 1015 00:48:15,989 --> 00:48:17,155 And I've had Pastor Mark, 1016 00:48:17,189 --> 00:48:18,490 I have to go and show Dad, but thank you! 1017 00:48:18,524 --> 00:48:19,692 - notate all my favorite - Thank you so much. 1018 00:48:19,726 --> 00:48:20,894 - readings, - I really needed this. 1019 00:48:21,861 --> 00:48:22,795 for you to reference 1020 00:48:25,097 --> 00:48:26,365 and give you strength. 1021 00:48:28,935 --> 00:48:31,470 Dad, Dad, look, you have to come watch! 1022 00:48:31,503 --> 00:48:32,304 What's happening? 1023 00:48:32,337 --> 00:48:33,438 Look, just come watch. 1024 00:48:36,141 --> 00:48:36,976 What is it? 1025 00:48:37,010 --> 00:48:38,878 Just watch, trust me. 1026 00:48:38,912 --> 00:48:41,014 And I'm so proud of you. 1027 00:48:44,017 --> 00:48:45,417 I want you to enjoy it. 1028 00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:47,720 That's... 1029 00:48:48,888 --> 00:48:49,789 Mom. 1030 00:48:49,822 --> 00:48:50,990 Take tons of pictures. 1031 00:48:51,024 --> 00:48:53,693 She left it me for my graduation. 1032 00:48:53,726 --> 00:48:54,994 She remembered me. 1033 00:48:55,028 --> 00:48:57,062 And enjoy that moment, 1034 00:48:57,095 --> 00:48:58,397 when you move your tassel. 1035 00:48:58,430 --> 00:49:00,198 She's here with us. 1036 00:49:00,232 --> 00:49:01,533 And throw your hat in the air. 1037 00:49:01,567 --> 00:49:05,070 And she's with God watching over us. 1038 00:49:05,103 --> 00:49:06,739 Going to UF 1039 00:49:06,773 --> 00:49:08,942 - is going to be amazing - She loves us. 1040 00:49:08,975 --> 00:49:10,509 for you. 1041 00:49:10,542 --> 00:49:11,343 Katie. 1042 00:49:19,518 --> 00:49:20,385 Hey, honey. 1043 00:49:20,419 --> 00:49:21,286 Hey, Dad. 1044 00:49:22,889 --> 00:49:24,089 Okay, I was just thinking, 1045 00:49:24,122 --> 00:49:27,092 you know that video that Sara made for Katie? 1046 00:49:27,125 --> 00:49:28,027 Yeah. 1047 00:49:28,061 --> 00:49:29,428 I mean, it really helped her. 1048 00:49:29,461 --> 00:49:30,997 You know, I thought it was gonna make her more sad, 1049 00:49:31,030 --> 00:49:32,799 but she was excited, 1050 00:49:32,832 --> 00:49:34,600 and she ran and told her dad. 1051 00:49:34,634 --> 00:49:36,268 Oh, I'm happy to hear that. 1052 00:49:36,301 --> 00:49:38,370 You know, I've been researching, 1053 00:49:38,403 --> 00:49:40,773 and I wanna do this for more people, you know? 1054 00:49:40,807 --> 00:49:44,176 Do you think I'm too young to start a nonprofit? 1055 00:49:44,209 --> 00:49:46,244 No, no, I don't think so. 1056 00:49:46,278 --> 00:49:47,747 Let's do a little research. 1057 00:49:49,048 --> 00:49:50,449 With a little faith, 1058 00:49:50,482 --> 00:49:52,652 I'm pretty sure you're the one that can do that. 1059 00:49:52,685 --> 00:49:53,552 Thanks, Dad. 1060 00:49:54,386 --> 00:49:55,320 Goodnight, alright? 1061 00:49:55,354 --> 00:49:56,154 Night. 1062 00:50:08,467 --> 00:50:09,736 Hey, come sit by me. 1063 00:50:11,169 --> 00:50:13,271 Katie, it's good to see you again. 1064 00:50:13,305 --> 00:50:14,139 Thank you. 1065 00:50:15,607 --> 00:50:17,644 Katie, you're Lindsey's friend? 1066 00:50:17,677 --> 00:50:20,046 Yeah, since elementary school. 1067 00:50:20,079 --> 00:50:22,280 Oh, well it's great to have you here with us. 1068 00:50:22,314 --> 00:50:23,116 Thank you. 1069 00:50:24,583 --> 00:50:27,152 I'm not sure I'm ready to talk about it yet, 1070 00:50:27,185 --> 00:50:29,088 but thank you. 1071 00:50:29,122 --> 00:50:30,089 That's quite alright. 1072 00:50:30,123 --> 00:50:31,124 Thank you for being here. 1073 00:50:31,156 --> 00:50:32,091 Alright, everyone, 1074 00:50:32,125 --> 00:50:33,092 let's go ahead and get started. 1075 00:50:33,126 --> 00:50:34,426 You know, as always, 1076 00:50:34,459 --> 00:50:35,662 I like to just put a little reminder out there, 1077 00:50:35,695 --> 00:50:37,396 about what we do here in this group. 1078 00:50:37,429 --> 00:50:40,667 Our grief support group is a place of healing and hope. 1079 00:50:40,700 --> 00:50:43,468 We like to remember our loved ones out loud. 1080 00:50:43,502 --> 00:50:44,737 You know, we share stories, 1081 00:50:44,771 --> 00:50:47,172 we share memories good and bad, 1082 00:50:47,205 --> 00:50:48,975 and more importantly, we support each other 1083 00:50:49,008 --> 00:50:51,443 and move through the sadness of loss 1084 00:50:51,476 --> 00:50:53,112 to find the comfort 1085 00:50:53,146 --> 00:50:55,682 in knowing that our loved ones remain in our heart, 1086 00:50:55,715 --> 00:50:57,616 and in our memories forever. 1087 00:50:57,650 --> 00:50:58,918 Now, before we get started, 1088 00:50:58,951 --> 00:51:01,186 I'd like to have our guest introduce herself, 1089 00:51:01,219 --> 00:51:03,188 and then we'll go ahead and share some stories. 1090 00:51:03,221 --> 00:51:05,658 Hi, everyone, I'm Katie. 1091 00:51:08,027 --> 00:51:10,195 I lost my mom to cancer. 1092 00:51:10,228 --> 00:51:12,065 I'm just taking it one day at a time. 1093 00:51:13,365 --> 00:51:14,801 Well, thank you for being here, Katie. 1094 00:51:14,834 --> 00:51:16,535 This is a great place of healing, 1095 00:51:16,568 --> 00:51:18,638 and to know you're not alone in this process. 1096 00:51:18,671 --> 00:51:21,674 Pastor, Katie's the one I helped make the video for. 1097 00:51:21,708 --> 00:51:22,842 Oh, that's great. 1098 00:51:22,875 --> 00:51:24,376 We've heard great things. 1099 00:51:24,409 --> 00:51:26,012 How did it make you feel, Katie? 1100 00:51:27,345 --> 00:51:30,650 Honestly, until Lindsey showed me that video, 1101 00:51:30,683 --> 00:51:33,152 I didn't know I was going to be okay. 1102 00:51:33,186 --> 00:51:35,822 But seeing my mom and hearing her voice, 1103 00:51:35,855 --> 00:51:38,658 I felt so close to her, close to God. 1104 00:51:38,691 --> 00:51:40,459 I was angry until that moment. 1105 00:51:41,426 --> 00:51:42,494 I showed my dad right away, 1106 00:51:42,527 --> 00:51:44,197 and we laughed and cried 1107 00:51:44,229 --> 00:51:48,400 and pulled out the family videos and photo albums. 1108 00:51:49,267 --> 00:51:51,204 And I mean, it helped us realize 1109 00:51:51,236 --> 00:51:53,740 that my mom was always going to be with us. 1110 00:51:55,208 --> 00:51:56,809 I just wish Lindsey would've gotten a video like that 1111 00:51:56,843 --> 00:51:57,777 from her mom. 1112 00:51:58,745 --> 00:51:59,578 Me too. 1113 00:52:02,215 --> 00:52:03,716 Yeah. 1114 00:52:03,750 --> 00:52:07,220 Well, I mean, I bet everyone would like to hear a message 1115 00:52:07,252 --> 00:52:08,386 from their loved ones. 1116 00:52:12,624 --> 00:52:14,694 I think that's a wonderful legacy to leave, 1117 00:52:14,727 --> 00:52:18,231 you know, for anyone's loved one. 1118 00:52:18,263 --> 00:52:21,067 Yeah, I think getting a message from your loved one 1119 00:52:21,100 --> 00:52:22,601 can be really comforting. 1120 00:52:22,635 --> 00:52:24,237 - The legacy of love. - Yeah. 1121 00:52:24,269 --> 00:52:26,072 Pastor, I've been thinking about this a lot, 1122 00:52:26,105 --> 00:52:27,439 and I think there's a way 1123 00:52:27,472 --> 00:52:30,542 that we can channel all of our pain and our suffering, 1124 00:52:30,575 --> 00:52:32,111 into something that can help others 1125 00:52:32,145 --> 00:52:34,213 who are grieving like us one day. 1126 00:52:34,247 --> 00:52:35,313 What do you mean? 1127 00:52:35,347 --> 00:52:36,749 Well, I've been researching, 1128 00:52:36,783 --> 00:52:39,252 and I think a nonprofit could be created. 1129 00:52:39,284 --> 00:52:41,520 Call it the Living Legacy of Love. 1130 00:52:41,553 --> 00:52:44,123 We can reach out to those who soon may be transitioning, 1131 00:52:44,157 --> 00:52:46,959 and help them leave messages for their loved ones. 1132 00:52:46,993 --> 00:52:48,127 I'd be down. 1133 00:52:48,161 --> 00:52:49,095 You could help out a lot of people. 1134 00:52:49,128 --> 00:52:50,897 - Yeah. - I'd be game. 1135 00:52:50,930 --> 00:52:52,265 We should do it. 1136 00:52:52,297 --> 00:52:53,266 Wait, what? 1137 00:52:54,667 --> 00:52:57,770 Do you really think that you can help these people? 1138 00:52:57,804 --> 00:53:00,338 What if you cause more pain? 1139 00:53:00,372 --> 00:53:02,775 Like, are you really thinking this through? 1140 00:53:02,809 --> 00:53:03,943 I hadn't thought about that. 1141 00:53:03,976 --> 00:53:06,411 I just know what I witnessed with Katie. 1142 00:53:06,444 --> 00:53:09,347 Yeah, I mean, I get what you're saying, 1143 00:53:09,381 --> 00:53:13,186 but what if it actually does provide comfort? 1144 00:53:13,219 --> 00:53:14,187 What if? 1145 00:53:15,288 --> 00:53:16,722 You don't know that. 1146 00:53:16,756 --> 00:53:17,957 I understand where you're coming from, 1147 00:53:17,990 --> 00:53:19,826 but I think it could bring more love, 1148 00:53:19,859 --> 00:53:21,828 and a reminder to a deeper connection 1149 00:53:21,861 --> 00:53:23,129 with those who passed on. 1150 00:53:23,162 --> 00:53:24,596 Yeah, that's what I was thinking. 1151 00:53:24,630 --> 00:53:25,998 Well, I'd like to know more. 1152 00:53:26,032 --> 00:53:26,866 Yeah. 1153 00:53:28,734 --> 00:53:30,970 I'm not saying I don't approve of this, 1154 00:53:32,305 --> 00:53:37,310 but what if you're reminding them of what they lost? 1155 00:53:38,376 --> 00:53:39,645 I can't speak for other people, 1156 00:53:39,679 --> 00:53:43,015 but that message gave me strength. 1157 00:53:43,049 --> 00:53:43,850 It gave me hope. 1158 00:53:45,051 --> 00:53:46,819 I mean, it's worth a shot. 1159 00:53:46,853 --> 00:53:49,121 Losing someone you love is just too painful. 1160 00:53:50,957 --> 00:53:52,258 How do we start? 1161 00:53:52,291 --> 00:53:54,327 Well, we start where there's the most need. 1162 00:53:54,359 --> 00:53:58,297 Hospice, hospitals, assisted living, you know, 1163 00:53:58,331 --> 00:53:59,699 things like that. 1164 00:53:59,732 --> 00:54:02,467 Yeah, and we can, we can, 1165 00:54:02,500 --> 00:54:04,036 We could make flyers! 1166 00:54:04,070 --> 00:54:05,972 Yeah, and we can let them know it's free, and- 1167 00:54:06,005 --> 00:54:06,939 - That'd be so cool. 1168 00:54:06,973 --> 00:54:08,074 And I bet a lot of people would help out. 1169 00:54:08,107 --> 00:54:08,908 Yeah, totally. 1170 00:54:09,909 --> 00:54:11,543 I'm not crazy about the idea, 1171 00:54:13,346 --> 00:54:16,148 but I work at an assisted living facility. 1172 00:54:17,415 --> 00:54:19,752 I can ask if you can speak with the residents. 1173 00:54:19,785 --> 00:54:21,220 You can bring your flyers. 1174 00:54:21,254 --> 00:54:23,356 That would be so awesome. 1175 00:54:23,388 --> 00:54:25,390 I do know that the community center 1176 00:54:25,423 --> 00:54:27,360 rents out camera equipment from time to time. 1177 00:54:27,392 --> 00:54:28,560 I can talk to them. 1178 00:54:28,593 --> 00:54:29,862 And, you know, I mean, you know, 1179 00:54:29,896 --> 00:54:31,264 I think we should do this, you know? 1180 00:54:31,297 --> 00:54:33,531 But we have to make sure we do it the right way. 1181 00:54:33,565 --> 00:54:35,500 Okay, well, my dad's already set up. 1182 00:54:35,533 --> 00:54:37,469 He's trying to get the nonprofit rolling. 1183 00:54:37,502 --> 00:54:40,039 And it'd be great if you all wanted to join. 1184 00:54:41,140 --> 00:54:42,074 I wanna help. 1185 00:54:43,109 --> 00:54:45,044 It's brought me so much comfort. 1186 00:54:45,077 --> 00:54:45,878 I want to. 1187 00:54:47,246 --> 00:54:48,413 You know, I'll go ahead 1188 00:54:48,446 --> 00:54:49,916 and get in contact with your father. 1189 00:54:49,949 --> 00:54:52,351 That way we can kind of have this thing all taken care of. 1190 00:54:52,385 --> 00:54:54,353 And you know, I'd like to talk about it more in depth 1191 00:54:54,387 --> 00:54:55,955 after the, after group, okay? 1192 00:54:57,089 --> 00:54:58,357 Thank you. 1193 00:55:07,767 --> 00:55:09,702 Pastor John, I have good news. 1194 00:55:09,735 --> 00:55:11,103 Well, you must have with that smile. 1195 00:55:11,137 --> 00:55:12,405 Go ahead and tell me. 1196 00:55:12,437 --> 00:55:14,240 My dad says a Living Legacy of Love 1197 00:55:14,273 --> 00:55:16,042 is ready to begin helping people. 1198 00:55:16,075 --> 00:55:17,376 Well, that is good news. 1199 00:55:17,410 --> 00:55:18,443 Okay, well, let's let everybody know 1200 00:55:18,476 --> 00:55:20,313 to get ready to distribute these flyers, 1201 00:55:20,346 --> 00:55:22,181 and we can start spreading the word. 1202 00:55:22,214 --> 00:55:24,449 Well here, what do you think of this? 1203 00:55:25,685 --> 00:55:27,286 I love it. 1204 00:55:27,320 --> 00:55:28,354 Well, good. 1205 00:55:28,387 --> 00:55:29,454 Call Katie and Andy, 1206 00:55:29,487 --> 00:55:30,588 let them know the flyers are ready, 1207 00:55:30,622 --> 00:55:31,857 and the shirts will be done in a few days. 1208 00:55:31,891 --> 00:55:32,658 I will. 1209 00:55:32,692 --> 00:55:34,393 We need to put these everywhere. 1210 00:55:34,427 --> 00:55:36,262 I hope people will respond. 1211 00:55:36,295 --> 00:55:37,630 I believe they will. 1212 00:55:37,663 --> 00:55:38,463 I do too. 1213 00:55:44,103 --> 00:55:46,439 Hey, Pastor John, I put flyers everywhere. 1214 00:55:46,471 --> 00:55:47,273 Oh, good work, Andy. 1215 00:55:47,306 --> 00:55:48,274 Thank you. 1216 00:55:48,307 --> 00:55:49,075 Now what? 1217 00:55:49,108 --> 00:55:50,810 Do we do more flyers? 1218 00:55:50,843 --> 00:55:53,079 Guys, why hasn't anyone called yet? 1219 00:55:53,112 --> 00:55:54,780 Maybe I'm wrong. 1220 00:55:54,814 --> 00:55:56,481 No, you're not wrong. 1221 00:55:56,514 --> 00:55:57,984 Ladies, have faith, you know? 1222 00:55:58,017 --> 00:55:58,951 We're meant to help people. 1223 00:55:58,985 --> 00:56:00,485 Just give it some time. 1224 00:56:08,461 --> 00:56:10,696 Hi, this is the Living Legacy of Love. 1225 00:56:12,198 --> 00:56:14,400 Hi, can I talk to Lindsey? 1226 00:56:14,433 --> 00:56:15,500 This is Lindsey. 1227 00:56:16,501 --> 00:56:18,637 Well, Lindsey, I just got your flyer, 1228 00:56:18,671 --> 00:56:21,140 and I would like to record a message 1229 00:56:21,173 --> 00:56:22,441 for my daughter. 1230 00:56:22,475 --> 00:56:23,476 Yeah, of course. 1231 00:56:23,508 --> 00:56:25,277 What time do you want us to come? 1232 00:56:26,712 --> 00:56:28,280 Wednesday at six? 1233 00:56:28,314 --> 00:56:30,016 Okay, we'll be there. 1234 00:56:30,049 --> 00:56:31,183 Thank you so much. 1235 00:56:32,885 --> 00:56:35,688 Guys, we just got our first client. 1236 00:56:35,721 --> 00:56:37,123 Wow. 1237 00:56:37,156 --> 00:56:38,523 - Let's go! - That's awesome. 1238 00:56:38,556 --> 00:56:39,392 Go! 1239 00:56:40,826 --> 00:56:42,128 That's very awesome. 1240 00:56:49,001 --> 00:56:50,736 Hey, Brian, nice to meet you. 1241 00:56:50,770 --> 00:56:51,771 Hey, how you doing, man? 1242 00:56:51,804 --> 00:56:53,039 - Good, good. - Hey, Brian. 1243 00:56:53,072 --> 00:56:54,273 - Pleased to meet you. - How are you guys? 1244 00:56:54,306 --> 00:56:56,776 - Good. - Oh man, I've been better. 1245 00:56:56,809 --> 00:56:58,576 I love what you guys do here. 1246 00:56:58,610 --> 00:56:59,478 Well, we're glad you're here. 1247 00:56:59,512 --> 00:57:00,413 Thank you. 1248 00:57:00,446 --> 00:57:01,447 We'll give you a hand with- 1249 00:57:01,480 --> 00:57:02,415 - Oh, thank you, thank you. 1250 00:57:02,448 --> 00:57:03,449 Yeah, I got it, I got it. 1251 00:57:03,482 --> 00:57:04,750 Thank you, you're too kind. 1252 00:57:08,521 --> 00:57:09,488 How you doing, man? 1253 00:57:09,522 --> 00:57:10,890 Oh, I've been a little better. 1254 00:57:10,923 --> 00:57:14,026 But, one day at a time. 1255 00:57:14,060 --> 00:57:17,396 But hey, I was wondering, 1256 00:57:18,531 --> 00:57:20,565 can you visit my little brother for me? 1257 00:57:20,598 --> 00:57:22,168 He's gonna need someone 1258 00:57:22,201 --> 00:57:24,503 to teach him how to ride his board. 1259 00:57:24,537 --> 00:57:25,838 - Yeah. - You know, 1260 00:57:25,871 --> 00:57:29,208 it was only the beginning before this happened. 1261 00:57:29,241 --> 00:57:30,509 Yeah, yeah, I got you. 1262 00:57:30,543 --> 00:57:32,211 What's his name? 1263 00:57:32,244 --> 00:57:33,712 His name is Jake. 1264 00:57:33,746 --> 00:57:36,182 Yeah, yeah, I'll deliver it myself. 1265 00:57:36,215 --> 00:57:37,516 Oh, thank you, man, thank you. 1266 00:57:37,550 --> 00:57:40,186 Oh, one more thing? 1267 00:57:40,219 --> 00:57:41,153 Yeah, what is it? 1268 00:57:42,721 --> 00:57:44,090 50, actually. 1269 00:57:44,123 --> 00:57:45,891 What do you mean? 1270 00:57:45,925 --> 00:57:47,526 It's, it's for my dad. 1271 00:57:49,795 --> 00:57:51,964 Yeah, there's a few notes and whatnot for my mom, 1272 00:57:51,997 --> 00:57:54,467 but his birthday is next month. 1273 00:57:58,904 --> 00:58:00,306 That's so sweet. 1274 00:58:01,640 --> 00:58:02,741 Thanks. 1275 00:58:02,775 --> 00:58:05,311 Hopefully he can get some laughs out of it. 1276 00:58:06,645 --> 00:58:08,047 You know, we are pretty close, 1277 00:58:08,080 --> 00:58:11,016 and he hasn't been taking this very well. 1278 00:58:16,922 --> 00:58:19,624 Well, Brian, we're actually just about ready. 1279 00:58:19,658 --> 00:58:20,626 How you doing? 1280 00:58:21,627 --> 00:58:23,095 Oh, I've been better, 1281 00:58:23,129 --> 00:58:24,396 but I'm gonna say, 1282 00:58:24,430 --> 00:58:26,765 this is, this is great. 1283 00:58:28,567 --> 00:58:31,203 I'm just thankful I could even do this. 1284 00:58:31,237 --> 00:58:33,539 Hopefully it brings me some peace. 1285 00:58:33,572 --> 00:58:35,341 Well, before we all start crying, 1286 00:58:36,308 --> 00:58:37,877 Brian, you ready? 1287 00:58:39,178 --> 00:58:43,015 Just tell me when. 1288 00:58:43,048 --> 00:58:45,584 Whenever you're ready, the camera's rolling. 1289 00:58:45,618 --> 00:58:46,452 Alright. 1290 00:58:48,587 --> 00:58:53,526 So, Dad, I hear you're turning 50 next month, man. 1291 00:58:56,262 --> 00:58:57,596 Oh, geez. 1292 00:58:57,631 --> 00:58:59,633 Looks like you're heading over that hill, huh? 1293 00:59:01,200 --> 00:59:03,637 Look, I just, I just wanted to wish you happy birthday. 1294 00:59:04,904 --> 00:59:09,308 Mom, give the old man a hug from me, yeah? 1295 00:59:13,512 --> 00:59:18,317 Look, Mom, I'm sure when you had children, you know, 1296 00:59:20,219 --> 00:59:25,224 this wasn't exactly what you had in mind for our future 1297 00:59:25,424 --> 00:59:26,225 or anything. 1298 00:59:28,394 --> 00:59:33,432 But I just want to let you know, 1299 00:59:39,171 --> 00:59:42,174 even though my time here is short, 1300 00:59:48,247 --> 00:59:49,748 I had a wonderful life. 1301 00:59:50,983 --> 00:59:52,985 I couldn't have asked for a better family. 1302 00:59:56,021 --> 00:59:58,190 I'm always gonna be watching over you, kid. 1303 00:59:59,258 --> 01:00:00,593 Because God has a plan. 1304 01:00:02,962 --> 01:00:04,664 So, remember these two things, 1305 01:00:08,702 --> 01:00:09,768 keep your faith, 1306 01:00:11,604 --> 01:00:12,805 and I will always love you. 1307 01:00:17,610 --> 01:00:22,181 Thank you for giving me such a wonderful life. 1308 01:00:39,832 --> 01:00:41,000 He was really sweet. 1309 01:00:42,736 --> 01:00:43,502 He was. 1310 01:00:45,304 --> 01:00:47,439 It must be hard for them, 1311 01:00:47,473 --> 01:00:49,308 not having their parents know who they are. 1312 01:00:51,143 --> 01:00:53,112 I mean, at least they have each other. 1313 01:00:54,980 --> 01:00:56,650 Yeah. 1314 01:00:56,683 --> 01:00:58,652 Me and Josh really needed each other when my mom died. 1315 01:00:59,785 --> 01:01:01,553 I never realized just how much. 1316 01:01:02,722 --> 01:01:05,759 No, it isn't easy what we're doing. 1317 01:01:05,791 --> 01:01:10,796 It, you know, it doesn't make the pain and loss go away. 1318 01:01:12,264 --> 01:01:14,466 But I hope that it makes them feel less alone. 1319 01:01:15,434 --> 01:01:18,270 Yeah, me too. 1320 01:01:27,446 --> 01:01:29,749 I can't believe we've already helped 50 people. 1321 01:01:29,783 --> 01:01:30,816 Yeah, I know, it's crazy. 1322 01:01:30,849 --> 01:01:32,418 We've helped a lot of people out. 1323 01:01:32,451 --> 01:01:34,887 Like, I was thinking people, like, wouldn't like my idea, 1324 01:01:34,920 --> 01:01:37,823 but it's helped people so much to see their loved ones, 1325 01:01:37,856 --> 01:01:38,957 - you know? - Yeah, yeah, 1326 01:01:38,991 --> 01:01:40,959 I mean, we're impacting a lot of lives. 1327 01:01:40,993 --> 01:01:43,829 A lot of people are gonna be impacted by what we're doing. 1328 01:01:43,862 --> 01:01:45,097 And there's hundreds more. 1329 01:01:45,130 --> 01:01:46,800 It can never end. 1330 01:01:46,832 --> 01:01:47,933 We could do this forever. 1331 01:01:47,966 --> 01:01:49,368 Yeah. 1332 01:01:49,401 --> 01:01:50,202 I can't. 1333 01:01:52,471 --> 01:01:53,640 Hey Linds? 1334 01:01:53,673 --> 01:01:55,207 Yeah? 1335 01:01:55,240 --> 01:01:59,111 I was thinking maybe, maybe we can go to dinner sometime? 1336 01:01:59,144 --> 01:02:00,279 - Hang out a bit. - That'd be fun. 1337 01:02:00,312 --> 01:02:02,816 We can invite Katie. 1338 01:02:02,848 --> 01:02:03,783 Hey. 1339 01:02:03,817 --> 01:02:04,651 Hey, Ricky. 1340 01:02:05,551 --> 01:02:06,985 - Got my camera. - What's up? 1341 01:02:07,821 --> 01:02:09,621 Yeah, we're good. 1342 01:02:09,656 --> 01:02:12,191 Yeah, but I was thinking more me and you, 1343 01:02:12,224 --> 01:02:13,359 more of a me and you thing. 1344 01:02:13,392 --> 01:02:14,960 Not really all of us. 1345 01:02:14,993 --> 01:02:16,696 Like a date? 1346 01:02:16,730 --> 01:02:18,263 Yeah, if you want to. 1347 01:02:18,297 --> 01:02:19,465 - No, no, yeah, of course. - I'm not trying 1348 01:02:19,498 --> 01:02:20,232 to pressure you but- 1349 01:02:20,265 --> 01:02:22,501 - Yeah, I can call Katie later. 1350 01:02:22,534 --> 01:02:23,569 Okay, yeah. 1351 01:02:25,237 --> 01:02:26,405 You ready to? 1352 01:02:27,674 --> 01:02:28,808 Let's get out of here. 1353 01:02:28,842 --> 01:02:33,646 Mikey, Michael, by the time you see this, 1354 01:02:35,013 --> 01:02:36,548 you'll be heading off to college, or you better be. 1355 01:02:38,450 --> 01:02:40,452 But I'll be proud of you no matter what. 1356 01:02:41,887 --> 01:02:43,489 Cut. 1357 01:02:43,522 --> 01:02:44,890 One down, two to go. 1358 01:02:46,659 --> 01:02:48,193 You're strong, man. 1359 01:02:48,227 --> 01:02:49,863 It must be hard doing this so many times. 1360 01:02:49,895 --> 01:02:51,263 Yeah, it is. 1361 01:02:51,296 --> 01:02:53,999 But hey, maybe we'll get lucky and we won't need them. 1362 01:02:54,032 --> 01:02:55,869 They say I got some time. 1363 01:02:55,901 --> 01:02:56,902 I'm starting chemo. 1364 01:02:58,237 --> 01:03:00,339 But I knew that when I saw this, 1365 01:03:00,372 --> 01:03:02,574 that it was a great opportunity 1366 01:03:02,608 --> 01:03:05,144 to leave something beautiful for my family, 1367 01:03:05,177 --> 01:03:07,112 just in case. 1368 01:03:07,946 --> 01:03:09,581 Well, why this park? 1369 01:03:10,416 --> 01:03:11,283 I've always been a runner. 1370 01:03:11,316 --> 01:03:13,318 It's the only way I can unwind. 1371 01:03:14,586 --> 01:03:16,890 I bring the kids with me on shorter runs, 1372 01:03:16,922 --> 01:03:19,558 and we always stop here, right at this bench. 1373 01:03:20,794 --> 01:03:24,463 We just, you know, talk and laugh and goof off. 1374 01:03:25,665 --> 01:03:27,867 That's a great reason to pick this place. 1375 01:03:29,234 --> 01:03:31,937 Ready for another? 1376 01:03:31,970 --> 01:03:33,439 Ready. 1377 01:03:33,472 --> 01:03:34,573 Camera's rolling. 1378 01:03:35,474 --> 01:03:36,942 I just want you to know 1379 01:03:36,975 --> 01:03:40,379 that you have always amazed me with your brilliance, 1380 01:03:40,412 --> 01:03:42,948 your ability to solve problems. 1381 01:03:42,981 --> 01:03:44,784 You are such a kind soul. 1382 01:03:46,452 --> 01:03:48,153 I did a good job with you. 1383 01:03:48,187 --> 01:03:50,088 Ah, your mom helped a little. 1384 01:03:52,124 --> 01:03:54,928 What I'm saying is I love you. 1385 01:03:56,428 --> 01:03:57,897 And as you graduate, 1386 01:03:57,931 --> 01:04:01,166 know that I am with you and watching over you always. 1387 01:04:02,568 --> 01:04:03,770 So, say your prayers, 1388 01:04:03,803 --> 01:04:05,939 and believe that great things can happen, 1389 01:04:07,172 --> 01:04:09,141 because they can and they do. 1390 01:04:11,577 --> 01:04:14,848 And keep me in your life by remembering me out loud. 1391 01:04:16,482 --> 01:04:18,751 Go with your mom to church. 1392 01:04:18,785 --> 01:04:19,953 Seek comfort in God, 1393 01:04:19,985 --> 01:04:23,957 because God and I, we got you. 1394 01:04:26,726 --> 01:04:27,526 I love you, kid. 1395 01:04:28,994 --> 01:04:29,963 You did good. 1396 01:04:47,045 --> 01:04:50,315 I can't believe how many people we've helped so far. 1397 01:04:50,349 --> 01:04:52,518 It's a blessing for us and for them. 1398 01:04:52,551 --> 01:04:54,954 I feel like this is my purpose, you know, 1399 01:04:54,988 --> 01:04:56,088 to help these people. 1400 01:04:56,121 --> 01:04:56,956 I don't- 1401 01:04:56,990 --> 01:04:58,691 Excuse me. 1402 01:04:58,725 --> 01:05:00,960 Hi, yes, how many we help you? 1403 01:05:00,994 --> 01:05:02,695 My name's Rebecca Alton. 1404 01:05:02,729 --> 01:05:03,963 I got a call from someone 1405 01:05:03,997 --> 01:05:05,965 that my mother left something for me here? 1406 01:05:05,999 --> 01:05:07,132 Yes, hi, Rebecca. 1407 01:05:07,165 --> 01:05:08,968 Yeah, hi, I'm Lindsey. 1408 01:05:09,002 --> 01:05:10,970 We do have something from you, 1409 01:05:11,004 --> 01:05:12,872 actually from your mother. 1410 01:05:14,306 --> 01:05:17,010 My mom passed away a few weeks ago, so how can you? 1411 01:05:17,042 --> 01:05:18,678 Well, Rebecca, we met your mother two months ago, 1412 01:05:18,711 --> 01:05:21,014 and she left you a message. 1413 01:05:21,046 --> 01:05:22,214 Would you like to watch it now? 1414 01:05:22,247 --> 01:05:24,017 Please, it'll bring you comfort. 1415 01:05:24,049 --> 01:05:25,018 She loves you. 1416 01:05:26,385 --> 01:05:28,620 I'm not sure that I understand that, but okay. 1417 01:05:33,525 --> 01:05:34,861 My darling little girl, 1418 01:05:37,062 --> 01:05:38,263 when you watch this, 1419 01:05:38,297 --> 01:05:40,365 I will have moved on to be with the Lord, 1420 01:05:41,734 --> 01:05:43,870 but I will always be with you 1421 01:05:44,971 --> 01:05:46,438 on the journey through this life. 1422 01:05:48,140 --> 01:05:50,643 I want you to know, I love you, 1423 01:05:51,543 --> 01:05:53,478 I'm so proud of you, 1424 01:05:53,512 --> 01:05:56,615 and you will never be alone. 1425 01:05:56,649 --> 01:06:00,285 I'm always be with you in your heart. 1426 01:06:01,486 --> 01:06:02,621 I'm watching over you. 1427 01:06:04,691 --> 01:06:06,693 I love you, Mom. 1428 01:06:06,726 --> 01:06:08,061 I love you, Rebecca. 1429 01:06:34,020 --> 01:06:36,121 Excuse me, sir. 1430 01:06:38,156 --> 01:06:39,826 What do you want? 1431 01:06:39,859 --> 01:06:41,094 I'm sorry to bother you. 1432 01:06:41,126 --> 01:06:42,996 I'm from a Living Legacy of Love. 1433 01:06:43,029 --> 01:06:45,197 Your son, Brian, sent me. 1434 01:06:45,230 --> 01:06:48,200 Robert, Robert? 1435 01:06:50,135 --> 01:06:51,303 What's going on here? 1436 01:06:51,336 --> 01:06:54,306 This guy, he said that Brian sent him. 1437 01:06:56,643 --> 01:06:57,644 Why? 1438 01:06:57,677 --> 01:06:58,978 Brian's dead, leave! 1439 01:06:59,012 --> 01:07:00,780 Jake, Jake, please. 1440 01:07:00,813 --> 01:07:02,081 Brian sent us for you. 1441 01:07:02,115 --> 01:07:03,148 Why? 1442 01:07:03,181 --> 01:07:05,417 He said you needed a big brother figure. 1443 01:07:05,450 --> 01:07:07,053 He wanted me to teach you. 1444 01:07:07,086 --> 01:07:09,588 I don't need anything from you. 1445 01:07:09,621 --> 01:07:11,590 Jake, please just listen to me. 1446 01:07:12,725 --> 01:07:14,292 I understand what you're going through. 1447 01:07:14,326 --> 01:07:15,527 I lost my brother too. 1448 01:07:16,996 --> 01:07:20,099 We just wanna share the message that Brian left for you. 1449 01:07:20,133 --> 01:07:22,167 I can leave this here and go? 1450 01:07:22,200 --> 01:07:23,970 Come on, let's go. 1451 01:07:24,003 --> 01:07:25,004 Come inside. 1452 01:07:25,038 --> 01:07:25,838 Let's talk. 1453 01:07:32,945 --> 01:07:34,113 I don't understand. 1454 01:07:34,147 --> 01:07:36,115 What is it that Brian did? 1455 01:07:36,149 --> 01:07:38,383 Here, this is for you all. 1456 01:07:38,417 --> 01:07:39,451 What is this? 1457 01:07:40,619 --> 01:07:45,024 It's a message from your son, Brian. 1458 01:07:45,058 --> 01:07:45,825 What does it say? 1459 01:07:45,858 --> 01:07:46,959 I can't say. 1460 01:07:46,993 --> 01:07:48,094 Just, just watch. 1461 01:07:49,194 --> 01:07:50,963 Go on. 1462 01:07:50,997 --> 01:07:53,766 Son, it's, go ahead and hit play. 1463 01:07:55,267 --> 01:07:57,436 Looks like you're heading over that hill, huh? 1464 01:07:57,469 --> 01:08:00,707 Look, I just, I just wanted to wish you a happy birthday. 1465 01:08:01,974 --> 01:08:04,209 Mom, give the old man a hug from me, yeah? 1466 01:08:08,047 --> 01:08:11,184 Even though my time here is short, 1467 01:08:17,056 --> 01:08:21,961 I had a wonderful life, and support, 1468 01:08:24,764 --> 01:08:27,800 and I want, I want you to feel the same as well. 1469 01:08:30,770 --> 01:08:32,705 I hope this message brings you comfort. 1470 01:08:36,943 --> 01:08:41,114 Even though I'd much rather be here in my own body, 1471 01:08:45,985 --> 01:08:48,154 I'm always gonna be watching over you, kid, 1472 01:08:49,287 --> 01:08:50,422 because God has a plan. 1473 01:08:52,992 --> 01:08:54,459 So, remember these two things, 1474 01:08:58,497 --> 01:09:02,400 keep your faith and I will always love you. 1475 01:09:04,269 --> 01:09:05,437 Thank you for listening. 1476 01:09:06,304 --> 01:09:07,339 Jake, whenever you're ready, 1477 01:09:07,372 --> 01:09:08,540 just give me a call, 1478 01:09:08,573 --> 01:09:10,575 and I'll teach you how to use that thing. 1479 01:09:10,609 --> 01:09:11,744 Okay. 1480 01:09:11,778 --> 01:09:13,278 Thank you. 1481 01:09:13,311 --> 01:09:14,279 Of course. 1482 01:09:14,312 --> 01:09:15,214 Thank you so much. 1483 01:09:15,248 --> 01:09:16,249 This was so beautiful. 1484 01:09:17,216 --> 01:09:18,684 You're welcome. 1485 01:10:00,927 --> 01:10:03,095 Seriously, don't push me in again. 1486 01:10:03,129 --> 01:10:04,997 I'm sorry, I couldn't resist. 1487 01:10:05,031 --> 01:10:05,865 You're so bad. 1488 01:10:07,300 --> 01:10:09,902 Oh, yeah, how'd it go with Brian's family? 1489 01:10:09,936 --> 01:10:11,304 I wish you were there, 1490 01:10:11,336 --> 01:10:12,537 but it went pretty well. 1491 01:10:13,973 --> 01:10:16,309 The mom seemed to be really moved by the message. 1492 01:10:16,341 --> 01:10:19,212 You can, you can tell the family's still hurt by it all. 1493 01:10:20,478 --> 01:10:22,849 But I think seeing Brian's message brought them some hope. 1494 01:10:22,882 --> 01:10:24,317 So glad we're doing this together. 1495 01:10:24,349 --> 01:10:25,218 It just feels right. 1496 01:10:25,251 --> 01:10:26,518 It does. 1497 01:10:26,551 --> 01:10:27,854 Yeah, me too, me too. 1498 01:10:29,387 --> 01:10:30,690 Hey, I'll give you two seconds to swim. 1499 01:10:43,169 --> 01:10:44,469 Dad, it's 24! 1500 01:10:44,502 --> 01:10:45,338 I knew you'd get it. 1501 01:10:45,370 --> 01:10:46,272 Very good. 1502 01:10:47,505 --> 01:10:48,741 What else do we have here? 1503 01:10:48,774 --> 01:10:50,575 Hello, this is Lindsey. 1504 01:10:50,609 --> 01:10:52,011 Hi, Lindsey. 1505 01:10:52,044 --> 01:10:53,212 We'd like to send our news reporter, 1506 01:10:53,246 --> 01:10:54,213 to interview you 1507 01:10:54,247 --> 01:10:56,048 about a Legacy of Love. 1508 01:10:56,082 --> 01:10:57,415 Yes, yes, when? 1509 01:10:58,751 --> 01:11:00,720 How about Monday at 6 p.m.? 1510 01:11:00,753 --> 01:11:03,789 Okay, I'll be there, Monday at six. 1511 01:11:03,823 --> 01:11:04,891 Thank you so much. 1512 01:11:06,359 --> 01:11:08,327 Dad, Dad, I need to tell you something! 1513 01:11:16,434 --> 01:11:18,838 This message really hit me hard. 1514 01:11:18,871 --> 01:11:20,072 So much heart. 1515 01:11:21,473 --> 01:11:24,076 Dean really did love his wife. 1516 01:11:24,110 --> 01:11:24,911 I know. 1517 01:11:27,346 --> 01:11:30,415 I'm glad he called us to record him. 1518 01:11:30,448 --> 01:11:33,352 It doesn't get easier, doing what we're doing, 1519 01:11:33,386 --> 01:11:34,820 making these videos, 1520 01:11:34,854 --> 01:11:38,391 but there's a genuine comfort in knowing 1521 01:11:38,423 --> 01:11:40,693 that even a little bit of their loved ones 1522 01:11:40,726 --> 01:11:41,593 are gonna come back to them 1523 01:11:41,627 --> 01:11:43,495 through what we're doing. 1524 01:11:43,528 --> 01:11:44,830 It's something for them 1525 01:11:44,864 --> 01:11:46,399 that will live on through generations. 1526 01:11:46,431 --> 01:11:48,734 A living legacy of love. 1527 01:11:50,069 --> 01:11:51,603 So, that's where the name comes from. 1528 01:11:51,637 --> 01:11:52,939 It all makes sense now. 1529 01:11:59,477 --> 01:12:00,512 Living Legacy of Love. 1530 01:12:00,545 --> 01:12:01,479 How can I help you? 1531 01:12:03,448 --> 01:12:05,885 Okay, yeah, we can come to you, 1532 01:12:05,918 --> 01:12:07,286 or you can come to us. 1533 01:12:09,322 --> 01:12:10,588 Okay, perfect. 1534 01:12:10,622 --> 01:12:11,757 What's the address? 1535 01:12:15,460 --> 01:12:17,630 Okay, Wednesday at six. 1536 01:12:20,333 --> 01:12:21,466 We'll be there. 1537 01:12:21,499 --> 01:12:22,500 Thank you. 1538 01:12:25,537 --> 01:12:28,140 Hey, you know what'd be nice? 1539 01:12:29,775 --> 01:12:31,344 If we invited everyone we gave the videos to, 1540 01:12:31,377 --> 01:12:32,577 to come to group. 1541 01:12:34,780 --> 01:12:35,715 We could do that. 1542 01:12:35,748 --> 01:12:36,916 Yeah, that's a great idea. 1543 01:12:36,949 --> 01:12:38,417 We can prepare a special invitation, 1544 01:12:38,451 --> 01:12:40,686 and bring it with the messages when we deliver them. 1545 01:12:42,655 --> 01:12:43,555 I love it. 1546 01:12:47,893 --> 01:12:49,362 Here they come, let's go. 1547 01:12:50,196 --> 01:12:51,430 Fantastic, okay we'll do that. 1548 01:12:51,464 --> 01:12:53,132 Yeah. 1549 01:12:53,165 --> 01:12:54,566 Are you the Living Legacy of Love group? 1550 01:12:54,599 --> 01:12:56,168 Yeah. 1551 01:12:56,202 --> 01:12:59,205 Lindsey, the Living Legacy of Love was your brain child. 1552 01:12:59,238 --> 01:13:01,474 Now, that you've helped over a hundred people, 1553 01:13:01,506 --> 01:13:02,475 how do you feel? 1554 01:13:03,376 --> 01:13:05,111 Well, I'm at peace with it, 1555 01:13:05,144 --> 01:13:07,780 but there are hundreds more and it will never end. 1556 01:13:07,813 --> 01:13:10,349 As long as we can keep bringing love and peace to people, 1557 01:13:10,383 --> 01:13:13,686 then the Living Legacy of Love will have a place. 1558 01:13:13,719 --> 01:13:15,121 It's never ending. 1559 01:13:15,154 --> 01:13:16,588 That's beautiful. 1560 01:13:16,621 --> 01:13:20,525 Lindsey, how was the name Living Legacy of Love chosen? 1561 01:13:20,558 --> 01:13:22,495 Was there something that inspired you? 1562 01:13:22,527 --> 01:13:23,496 Yeah. 1563 01:13:23,528 --> 01:13:24,830 Well, our loved ones are alive 1564 01:13:24,864 --> 01:13:26,265 when they record their message. 1565 01:13:26,298 --> 01:13:28,300 And their message is a gift of love, 1566 01:13:28,334 --> 01:13:30,503 and it's a legacy they leave for us. 1567 01:13:31,504 --> 01:13:32,905 I mean, it's priceless, 1568 01:13:32,938 --> 01:13:35,875 worth more than any material thing could ever be. 1569 01:13:35,908 --> 01:13:37,777 It can be shared with the loved ones left behind, 1570 01:13:37,810 --> 01:13:40,079 and even with future family members. 1571 01:13:40,112 --> 01:13:41,981 It's a living legacy of love, 1572 01:13:42,014 --> 01:13:44,517 as it brings them back to us, 1573 01:13:44,549 --> 01:13:46,519 even if it's just for a few moments at a time. 1574 01:13:46,584 --> 01:13:48,854 Yeah, the name just felt right. 1575 01:13:48,888 --> 01:13:49,889 I can see that. 1576 01:13:49,922 --> 01:13:51,290 It's so powerful to know 1577 01:13:51,323 --> 01:13:53,292 that when someone's hurting so much, 1578 01:13:53,325 --> 01:13:55,294 that they can be touched by a loved one's message. 1579 01:13:55,327 --> 01:13:58,531 What would you want us to take away from your experiences 1580 01:13:58,563 --> 01:14:00,733 and path of giving that? 1581 01:14:00,766 --> 01:14:02,535 When my mom died, I was so lost. 1582 01:14:02,567 --> 01:14:05,638 I didn't think my life could have a purpose, 1583 01:14:05,671 --> 01:14:08,507 or a direction without her in it. 1584 01:14:08,541 --> 01:14:11,010 But slowly I realized that we all have a purpose, 1585 01:14:11,043 --> 01:14:13,012 and we're never alone. 1586 01:14:13,045 --> 01:14:14,747 God is with us always. 1587 01:14:14,780 --> 01:14:16,549 Our loved ones are always with us. 1588 01:14:16,581 --> 01:14:18,084 And I really want people to know 1589 01:14:18,117 --> 01:14:20,753 that even though their loved one has crossed over, 1590 01:14:20,786 --> 01:14:22,755 they're always with you, 1591 01:14:22,788 --> 01:14:24,356 and that love never dies. 1592 01:14:25,558 --> 01:14:27,259 I think she said it perfectly, folks. 1593 01:14:27,293 --> 01:14:30,062 If you'd like to learn more about Living Legacy of Love, 1594 01:14:30,096 --> 01:14:32,932 go to our website and you can find their information 1595 01:14:32,965 --> 01:14:36,068 and their links. 1596 01:14:36,102 --> 01:14:37,870 Alright, thank you so much. 1597 01:14:51,750 --> 01:14:53,219 Dad? 1598 01:14:53,252 --> 01:14:54,019 Yeah. 1599 01:14:55,287 --> 01:14:56,522 Don't you think Grandpa's dementia 1600 01:14:56,555 --> 01:14:58,791 is getting kind of bad? 1601 01:14:58,824 --> 01:15:00,459 I mean... 1602 01:15:00,493 --> 01:15:03,529 Yeah, look, you know how Grandma's in the hospital 1603 01:15:03,562 --> 01:15:04,363 for hip surgery, 1604 01:15:06,398 --> 01:15:11,403 well when she's not around, his memory begins to fade and... 1605 01:15:11,937 --> 01:15:13,572 Yeah. 1606 01:15:13,606 --> 01:15:16,609 I don't know, maybe we could play a video of her, 1607 01:15:16,642 --> 01:15:18,644 see if he remembers? 1608 01:15:18,677 --> 01:15:19,612 Yeah, do you have one? 1609 01:15:19,645 --> 01:15:20,913 Yeah, I have multiple. 1610 01:15:22,314 --> 01:15:23,415 We could play that one? 1611 01:15:23,449 --> 01:15:25,151 That was a good day. 1612 01:15:25,184 --> 01:15:26,352 Give it a shot. 1613 01:15:26,385 --> 01:15:27,153 Right. 1614 01:15:27,186 --> 01:15:28,420 Hey, Grandpa. 1615 01:15:28,454 --> 01:15:29,221 Hey, Pop. 1616 01:15:29,255 --> 01:15:30,055 Hey, we- 1617 01:15:30,089 --> 01:15:30,956 - Pop, Pop. 1618 01:15:30,990 --> 01:15:32,925 We have a video of Grandma. 1619 01:15:32,958 --> 01:15:34,193 Oh, let me see. 1620 01:15:35,394 --> 01:15:36,162 You remember Grandma? 1621 01:15:36,195 --> 01:15:37,096 Grandma? 1622 01:15:37,129 --> 01:15:38,097 Okay, open it. 1623 01:15:38,130 --> 01:15:39,265 Where is she? 1624 01:15:39,298 --> 01:15:40,599 - Are you ready? - She's in the hospital. 1625 01:15:40,634 --> 01:15:42,601 She's in the hospital for her hip surgery. 1626 01:15:45,639 --> 01:15:48,274 Hey, look, it's her. 1627 01:15:48,307 --> 01:15:49,441 - Really? - Really. 1628 01:15:49,475 --> 01:15:51,744 Really? 1629 01:15:51,777 --> 01:15:54,648 You know I love wine and chocolate. 1630 01:15:54,680 --> 01:15:56,615 She is so beautiful. 1631 01:15:56,650 --> 01:15:57,616 I miss her. 1632 01:15:58,617 --> 01:16:00,686 She's, look at her. 1633 01:16:00,719 --> 01:16:01,954 Oh, well, what a beautiful, 1634 01:16:01,987 --> 01:16:03,522 her smile just radiates. 1635 01:16:03,556 --> 01:16:05,191 - Aw. - I love her, oh. 1636 01:16:05,224 --> 01:16:06,325 Oh, look at that. 1637 01:16:06,358 --> 01:16:07,627 Oh my goodness, that's... 1638 01:16:07,661 --> 01:16:09,962 Yeah, that's the best. 1639 01:16:09,995 --> 01:16:11,030 You used to give a fig, Grandpa. 1640 01:16:11,063 --> 01:16:11,964 Oh my goodness. 1641 01:16:11,997 --> 01:16:14,033 I do love it. 1642 01:16:14,066 --> 01:16:16,735 We could be twinsies 1643 01:16:21,473 --> 01:16:22,875 Cookies, again? 1644 01:16:22,908 --> 01:16:24,476 Yeah! 1645 01:16:24,510 --> 01:16:26,612 You know I wouldn't mind being with you. 1646 01:16:27,613 --> 01:16:28,614 I gotta go though. 1647 01:16:28,648 --> 01:16:30,482 My dad says we have to be home. 1648 01:16:30,516 --> 01:16:32,851 Linds, before we go, 1649 01:16:32,885 --> 01:16:34,887 could I talk to you about something? 1650 01:16:34,920 --> 01:16:36,622 Yeah, of course, babe, what's up? 1651 01:16:38,157 --> 01:16:40,192 I brought you something. 1652 01:16:40,226 --> 01:16:42,662 It's little, but it means a lot to me. 1653 01:16:45,030 --> 01:16:47,066 Linds, you mean the world to me. 1654 01:16:47,099 --> 01:16:49,301 Since we met at the church, 1655 01:16:49,335 --> 01:16:52,238 you fully restored faith in my life. 1656 01:16:52,271 --> 01:16:53,707 And not only in my life, 1657 01:16:53,739 --> 01:16:56,676 but we've helped so many people restore their hope 1658 01:16:56,710 --> 01:16:58,110 and their love. 1659 01:16:59,578 --> 01:17:02,314 Most importantly, we brought love back to them. 1660 01:17:03,582 --> 01:17:06,686 Mom, how do you know when it's true love? 1661 01:17:06,720 --> 01:17:09,188 Well, you just know, 1662 01:17:09,221 --> 01:17:10,724 like your dad and I. 1663 01:17:10,756 --> 01:17:13,727 The right person will represent hope and faith and love. 1664 01:17:15,561 --> 01:17:16,730 I wouldn't worry about that. 1665 01:17:18,732 --> 01:17:21,333 You look so beautiful. 1666 01:17:21,367 --> 01:17:22,835 I don't know what to say. 1667 01:17:22,868 --> 01:17:26,238 Linds, when you wear this necklace, 1668 01:17:27,707 --> 01:17:29,775 I want you to be reminded of three things. 1669 01:17:31,377 --> 01:17:32,778 The cross represents faith, 1670 01:17:35,247 --> 01:17:36,782 the anchor represents hope, 1671 01:17:38,584 --> 01:17:39,952 and the heart represents love, 1672 01:17:41,120 --> 01:17:42,689 which is everything you are to me. 1673 01:18:01,840 --> 01:18:04,043 It's beautiful, Andrew. 1674 01:18:04,076 --> 01:18:05,210 You look great in it. 1675 01:18:10,916 --> 01:18:11,984 Thank you, I love it. 1676 01:18:12,017 --> 01:18:14,186 You're welcome. 1677 01:18:36,942 --> 01:18:38,745 I would give anything 1678 01:18:38,778 --> 01:18:40,346 to have my mom here with me. 1679 01:18:45,050 --> 01:18:48,520 For a long time, I was angry with my own pain. 1680 01:18:49,555 --> 01:18:52,591 Sometimes people grieving, well, 1681 01:18:52,624 --> 01:18:54,193 we get caught up in our own pain, 1682 01:18:57,896 --> 01:18:59,865 so much so, we can't see 1683 01:18:59,898 --> 01:19:02,935 how serving others in pain would help, 1684 01:19:02,968 --> 01:19:05,070 or why we should even do it. 1685 01:19:06,338 --> 01:19:10,744 I was just so angry with life, with God, 1686 01:19:12,878 --> 01:19:15,581 but I grew in my faith. 1687 01:19:19,385 --> 01:19:23,489 I realized that helping people also helped me heal. 1688 01:19:24,890 --> 01:19:29,194 For me, being able to help people heal and have faith 1689 01:19:29,228 --> 01:19:32,564 has been the greatest gift from God. 1690 01:19:40,038 --> 01:19:42,809 I know that a Living Legacy of Love 1691 01:19:42,842 --> 01:19:44,910 has brought hope to so many people, 1692 01:19:45,879 --> 01:19:47,379 and it will for years to come. 1693 01:19:48,914 --> 01:19:50,048 Never feel alone. 1694 01:19:51,183 --> 01:19:54,953 Know that God is always with you. 1695 01:21:51,503 --> 01:21:52,371 Hey, Mom. 1696 01:21:56,743 --> 01:21:59,311 First off, I wanna say thank you 1697 01:21:59,344 --> 01:22:02,682 for finally sharing that secret lasagna recipe with me. 1698 01:22:03,883 --> 01:22:06,886 You made Tony and my boys so happy. 1699 01:22:08,554 --> 01:22:10,422 Maybe you could make it for them too. 1700 01:22:13,693 --> 01:22:15,060 I also, I just, 1701 01:22:16,395 --> 01:22:18,564 I wanna say that, that being your daughter, 1702 01:22:20,065 --> 01:22:21,533 has been such an honor. 1703 01:22:23,569 --> 01:22:25,070 You've always been my hero. 1704 01:22:27,072 --> 01:22:28,440 I hope I've made you proud. 1705 01:22:33,612 --> 01:22:35,715 I'm gonna miss your hugs. 1706 01:22:36,849 --> 01:22:37,717 I'm gonna miss your hugs 1707 01:22:37,750 --> 01:22:40,552 and your weird mom jokes. 1708 01:22:41,921 --> 01:22:44,489 Please tell them to my boys. 1709 01:22:44,523 --> 01:22:46,759 Help them remember who I am. 1710 01:22:46,793 --> 01:22:48,928 And remember that they're your family too. 1711 01:22:52,197 --> 01:22:57,070 Don't be sad and don't be alone. 1712 01:22:59,104 --> 01:23:00,439 I love you, Mom. 1713 01:23:02,608 --> 01:23:03,542 I love you. 1714 01:23:05,110 --> 01:23:09,716 Carla, this message means that I'm watching over you. 1715 01:23:12,618 --> 01:23:13,886 Please don't be sad. 1716 01:23:15,554 --> 01:23:17,957 We had 20 beautiful years, 1717 01:23:18,925 --> 01:23:20,760 and three beautiful children. 1718 01:23:23,428 --> 01:23:28,433 I want you to laugh, feel joy, and tell stories about me, 1719 01:23:29,669 --> 01:23:32,571 so that our children and our grandchildren 1720 01:23:32,604 --> 01:23:35,173 would know how much I love you and our family. 1721 01:23:38,845 --> 01:23:41,748 Until we meet again, I love you, my sweet wife. 1722 01:23:44,616 --> 01:23:47,352 Thank you for so many wonderful years. 1723 01:23:51,991 --> 01:23:55,862 Oh, honey, I know you're hurting without me. 1724 01:23:55,895 --> 01:23:57,897 That's why I wanted to try to do this, a tape, 1725 01:23:57,930 --> 01:23:59,032 while I still could. 1726 01:24:01,834 --> 01:24:03,803 I can't thank you enough 1727 01:24:03,836 --> 01:24:06,739 for being there for me all these years, 1728 01:24:06,773 --> 01:24:09,142 and facing the big C with me. 1729 01:24:10,175 --> 01:24:11,443 I know it wasn't easy. 1730 01:24:14,246 --> 01:24:15,180 How could it be? 1731 01:24:16,983 --> 01:24:21,688 I wasn't always myself and I'm sorry for that. 1732 01:24:23,690 --> 01:24:24,691 It just wasn't fair. 1733 01:24:27,192 --> 01:24:28,695 But I want you to know 1734 01:24:28,728 --> 01:24:31,798 that you weren't just the love of my life, 1735 01:24:31,831 --> 01:24:33,298 you were my life, 1736 01:24:33,331 --> 01:24:37,369 and you brought so much joy and laughter into this family. 1737 01:24:37,402 --> 01:24:41,007 But now it's time for you to live, baby, 1738 01:24:41,040 --> 01:24:44,110 and share that big, beautiful light inside of yours, 1739 01:24:44,143 --> 01:24:45,144 with the world. 1740 01:24:46,411 --> 01:24:51,017 Hey, Megs, I know everyone says this in the movies, 1741 01:24:51,851 --> 01:24:53,452 but if you are watching this, 1742 01:24:56,221 --> 01:24:57,522 I have left this world. 1743 01:25:02,427 --> 01:25:04,362 I wanted to leave you something 1744 01:25:05,765 --> 01:25:10,402 that not only would inspire you, but comfort you. 1745 01:25:11,838 --> 01:25:13,305 And even though I'm not in this world with you physically, 1746 01:25:15,340 --> 01:25:17,777 I will always be with you here. 1747 01:25:23,116 --> 01:25:23,916 No tears. 1748 01:25:32,591 --> 01:25:35,661 You have to keep your chin up, okay? 1749 01:25:35,695 --> 01:25:37,797 You have to be strong for Scotty, alright? 1750 01:25:42,467 --> 01:25:46,873 Promise me you'll fill yours and Scotty's life 1751 01:25:46,906 --> 01:25:49,742 with as much love as this world can give you. 1752 01:25:57,650 --> 01:26:01,453 In this life, the afterlife, 1753 01:26:01,486 --> 01:26:02,922 and in the lives to follow, 1754 01:26:07,160 --> 01:26:08,293 together forever. 1755 01:26:12,698 --> 01:26:14,399 Until we are together again, 1756 01:26:18,503 --> 01:26:20,239 I love you so much. 1757 01:26:20,369 --> 01:26:25,369 Provided by explosiveskull https://twitter.com/kaboomskull 111853

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