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FILMMAKER: Why did I ask you to
film grandma during quarantine?
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JANET: You thought I was bored.
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You wanted to keep me busy.
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You didn't think she'd
make it through quarantine.
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You probably thought it
would be interesting to see
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two generations of people
forced to live together in hell.
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[jazz music playing]
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SYLVIA: I'm dividing
his hair into sections.
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I didn't know you
had so much hair.
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What is that doing for you?
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It's pulling on
these muscles here.
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I like the fat.
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It quivers.
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This is lovely having
dinner with you.
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Sometimes you cook
something, you never
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know how it's going to turn out.
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Cheers.
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Oh, I'm cheering.
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And cheers to a
long and happy life.
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Mm-mhm.
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And I love living with you.
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I love living with you.
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Oh, that's good.
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We can do that forever.
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[jazz music playing]
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Vodka is no disinfectant,
but self-medication soars--
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FILMMAKER: I asked my mom
to record her days living
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with my grandmother in Tribeca
during the COVID lockdown
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so that I could
feel closer to them.
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I mean, my grandmother
is 90 years old.
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I was afraid that
something might
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happen while I wasn't there.
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So I am now waiting
for the water to boil.
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And it's boiled.
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And it's now boiling.
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It's like three minutes.
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Oh, my God.
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Mom.
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I didn't know that.
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FILMMAKER: I thought they
might drive each other crazy.
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Mom, it's like all over
the floor and the stove.
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So we have something
to do later.
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And now the powdered sugar,
just to give it that great look.
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Mhm, mhm.
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To you and to everybody else.
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Delicious.
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I just want you to notice
where the mark is on this vodka
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bottle, today,
which is Thursday,
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and we'll see where it is
by the end of the week.
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OK.
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Sunday, June 21.
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This has been my life.
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Hello, hello, hello.
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I know, but let's not get hammy.
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It sent out.
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That's not working either.
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It's not working.
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Oh, it's too far away.
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It's hard to do.
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What?
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Why don't you bring
it right here?
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Mom, then it gets the table,
it doesn't get the people.
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It'll get the people.
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Oh, really?
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OK, here.
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See who-- who's in it, mom?
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Now come on in.
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Who's in?
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The white-- the angle's wrong.
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No, it's not the angle.
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It's just too close up.
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So I'm going to move it back.
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Here we go.
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FILMMAKER: As soon as I
could, I drove to New York
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from Texas to be with them.
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All right, the three
generations are here.
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Number one, number two, and the
camera person is number three.
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What do you think
about three generations
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of getting to know
your granddaughter.
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You've spent a lot of
quality time now with her.
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Well, she talks to me a little
bit, but not in great depth.
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We talk about
relationships and friends.
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But I want to know if she
has a boyfriend, what's
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he like, what does he do, is
that going to go any place,
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or is this just an
interim relationship.
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We've had a conversation.
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This is what we talked--
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I wasn't on tape.
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You want to be on
tape about that?
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Yeah.
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Well, we're talking
about what we're
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exploring about each other
and the relationships.
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Now you're divorced, and
what's going to happen to you?
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Do you want to be alone?
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Do you want to look for a
partner or part time partner?
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Friends?
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Or just stay with women friends?
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My feeling is, if it
happens, it happens.
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I'm not looking for a partner.
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I'm not going on dating sites.
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I did it after my
divorce, and it's--
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to me, it's not
worth the effort.
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I do well on dating
sites, but then
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when we have a conversation--
and now it's COVID,
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so I can't even answer to that.
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But before it was COVID, I met
people and I went on dates.
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And I found myself turning
back into the person who
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listens and asks questions.
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I was not being myself
in a lot of ways.
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And then I would come away
saying, God, that was boring.
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I don't need to
learn about metadata.
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Look.
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FILMMAKER: I like it.
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I think you look good.
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JANET: Oh, that's
very sweet of you.
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You wouldn't have divorced me?
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(LAUGHING)
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No.
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When you cut your hair?
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No.
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No, when I had chemo.
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Oh.
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[laughter]
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When I had breast cancer.
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No.
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No.
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Never.
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Here's Janet and
Peter's failed wedding.
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That's what you wrote
in the description?
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Yes.
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Why is isn't this working?
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Maybe--
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And he what?
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Finish the sentence.
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When he admitted that
he had an affair.
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What did he say?
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And then-- I don't know.
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In a conversation,
somehow, he just said,
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you always knew I was a breast
man, or something like that.
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(LAUGHING) No he didn't.
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You always know I
was a breast man?
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I think it's so hard
to fathom hearing that
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from someone, let alone my dad.
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How about the man
you were married to?
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Dana?
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Yeah.
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Does he realize that--
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That that's offensive?
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Yes.
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Does he know--
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No.
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Does he realize what that was?
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I think he-- I should
have said, I always
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liked men who are slim.
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Yes.
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I didn't think like that.
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With a stiff cock,
which you don't have.
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Mom--
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It's limp.
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--can we just not go there,
even with that terminology.
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I don't like it.
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You don't like it?
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I like it.
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I know you do because you think
it's shocking and provocative.
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Well, it is provocative.
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No, it isn't.
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It means you're guttural.
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No.
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And I would rather
people have more--
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Oh, you want me to say penis.
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Yeah.
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I think that's more impressive.
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OK.
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I would say that.
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OK.
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Thank you.
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A weak penis that
bends in the middle.
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I am very careful about
imposing myself on my family.
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In other words, I don't tell
my daughters what I think,
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unless I'm asked.
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And even when I'm asked, I try
to be very diplomatic about it
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because I'm not sure everybody
really wants to know the truth,
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especially if it's not
the most flattering thing.
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So it's best to
bite your tongue.
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I think your illness
scared Peter off.
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He couldn't deal with it.
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No, he couldn't.
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But I didn't put it on him,
mom, you know what I mean.
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Some people, it's like--
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he didn't have
much to do for me.
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I could do it myself.
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Yeah, but he wasn't supportive.
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He wasn't supportive.
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I know, but I don't know why.
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I think--
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He didn't know what
to do, I guess.
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He didn't know what to do.
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He could assure you
that all will be well,
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everything will be OK.
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Well, he didn't know, so
he couldn't lie, I guess.
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He wasn't a good liar then.
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He became a good liar later.
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When he was cheating?
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Right.
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Then he became a good liar.
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I don't think I said to
her, point blank, well,
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we haven't been sleeping
together for years.
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I don't think I said
that because she
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was so successful
in her marriage
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and also in pleasing herself.
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[laughter]
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What if you weren't
in the mood for sex?
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These are the questions
I never asked you.
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Was I ever--
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Not in the mood.
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Oh, is that what
you're trying to say?
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No, come on, seriously.
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What if you were
not in the mood?
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Then I'd say, I'm
not in the mood.
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I'm tired.
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I want to go to sleep.
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And--
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And that was the end of that.
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Nobody persisted.
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We were respectful
of each other.
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We really were.
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So I think , you
know, you accommodate.
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Sometimes when you're
not in the mood,
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you help the other partner out.
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What does that mean?
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You're accommodating.
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What does that mean?
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You have sex even though
you're not in the mood.
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Oh.
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You talk yourself into it.
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Because your partner
really wanted sex,
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and you want to
please your partner.
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And sometimes you want sex,
and you say to your partner,
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I'm hot tonight, and
he'll accommodate you.
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Hopefully.
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At this point, I'm 90.
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My husband is dead two years.
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I miss him terribly.
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Am I contented?
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I am satisfied, in a sense
that, I feel complete.
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I miss him, terribly, of course.
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But I have a full life.
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And I was taught to be
independent, and I am.
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A marriage is like a liaison.
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They say, when you
make mayonnaise,
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you take olive oil and eggs
and you whip it together,
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and that's what makes a maison.
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It's called a liaison, and
that's what a marriage is.
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But you know what, if you
leave mayonnaise out too long,
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you can get really sick.
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I know.
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Don't leave it out.
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You have to cherish it.
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And that's like a marriage.
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You may have tried all your
best to make a marriage work,
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but there was a partner
in this, and that partner
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didn't want to make it work.
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You can't do something
all by yourself.
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That's true.
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Oh, thank you.
266
00:10:57,190 --> 00:10:58,290
That's perfect.
267
00:11:01,294 --> 00:11:06,099
FILMMAKER: I didn't realize how
close their relationship is,
268
00:11:06,133 --> 00:11:12,405
and how much my mother,
no matter what she says,
269
00:11:12,439 --> 00:11:14,307
values my grandmother's opinion.
270
00:11:18,145 --> 00:11:20,680
How do you think things will
change when grandma's not here
271
00:11:20,714 --> 00:11:22,750
anymore?
272
00:11:22,783 --> 00:11:25,185
For me, or in general?
273
00:11:25,218 --> 00:11:25,685
For you.
274
00:11:54,314 --> 00:11:55,015
FILMMAKER: Keep going.
275
00:12:02,355 --> 00:12:03,623
Take his picture too.
276
00:12:03,656 --> 00:12:04,391
[laughter]
277
00:12:04,424 --> 00:12:06,426
How are you today?
278
00:12:06,459 --> 00:12:08,395
OK, let's do some scallops.
279
00:12:08,428 --> 00:12:09,129
Right here.
280
00:12:09,162 --> 00:12:10,263
And this is--
281
00:12:10,297 --> 00:12:11,131
Swordfish.
282
00:12:11,164 --> 00:12:12,499
Swordfish.
283
00:12:12,532 --> 00:12:14,034
You like swordfish?
284
00:12:14,067 --> 00:12:14,935
Yeah.
285
00:12:14,968 --> 00:12:18,138
So we'll do grilled
swordfish tonight.
286
00:12:18,171 --> 00:12:19,506
I don't need a whole bunch.
287
00:12:19,539 --> 00:12:21,341
Can I have just
a couple of them.
288
00:12:21,374 --> 00:12:23,576
Do we sell the
peppers by the pound?
289
00:12:23,610 --> 00:12:24,144
Yeah.
290
00:12:24,177 --> 00:12:25,478
You just want a couple?
291
00:12:25,512 --> 00:12:26,313
Yeah, just give me a couple.
292
00:12:26,346 --> 00:12:27,114
Yeah.
293
00:12:27,147 --> 00:12:28,281
That good?
294
00:12:28,315 --> 00:12:29,817
That can do for two days.
295
00:12:29,850 --> 00:12:31,184
Right.
296
00:12:31,218 --> 00:12:32,652
I do have a garlic.
297
00:12:41,795 --> 00:12:43,063
OK.
298
00:12:43,096 --> 00:12:44,164
That's the potatoes.
299
00:12:44,197 --> 00:12:44,865
Put this back.
300
00:12:44,898 --> 00:12:45,232
What do you call that?
301
00:12:45,265 --> 00:12:46,433
I think--
302
00:12:46,466 --> 00:12:47,634
All right.
303
00:12:47,667 --> 00:12:50,070
Now let's get the
food out from here.
304
00:12:50,103 --> 00:12:52,639
Dana, go get your food
and sit down to dine.
305
00:12:55,375 --> 00:12:58,345
Let's go for-- here's a chicken.
306
00:12:58,378 --> 00:12:59,813
It is the clitoris.
307
00:12:59,847 --> 00:13:06,653
That is the area that is the
exciting part for orgasms.
308
00:13:06,686 --> 00:13:08,321
I think everyone knows that.
309
00:13:08,355 --> 00:13:09,222
No.
310
00:13:09,256 --> 00:13:10,290
No, they don't.
311
00:13:10,323 --> 00:13:11,724
I think they do.
312
00:13:11,758 --> 00:13:12,292
No, they don't.
313
00:13:12,325 --> 00:13:14,661
Your generation knows.
314
00:13:14,694 --> 00:13:16,864
Mom.
315
00:13:16,897 --> 00:13:17,831
No.
316
00:13:17,865 --> 00:13:21,201
There's more ways to
have an orgasm than just
317
00:13:21,234 --> 00:13:21,701
through the clitoris.
318
00:13:24,872 --> 00:13:29,409
I hope you're getting her
face on camera because she's
319
00:13:29,442 --> 00:13:31,544
looking at me like--
320
00:13:31,578 --> 00:13:33,380
What are all the other ways?
321
00:13:33,413 --> 00:13:36,183
He said, she squirts.
322
00:13:36,216 --> 00:13:36,749
She what?
323
00:13:36,783 --> 00:13:38,218
I'll never forget that.
324
00:13:38,251 --> 00:13:39,519
She what?
325
00:13:39,552 --> 00:13:41,221
Now no one can forget that.
326
00:13:41,254 --> 00:13:43,323
What was the word?
327
00:13:43,356 --> 00:13:45,225
She what?
328
00:13:45,258 --> 00:13:47,861
[laughter]
329
00:13:47,895 --> 00:13:49,162
She what?
330
00:13:49,196 --> 00:13:51,698
Huh?
331
00:13:51,731 --> 00:13:53,233
You're not going to tell me?
332
00:13:53,266 --> 00:13:53,867
She what?
333
00:13:53,901 --> 00:13:55,268
What does she do?
334
00:13:55,302 --> 00:13:56,369
She squirts.
335
00:13:56,403 --> 00:13:57,437
She squirts?
336
00:13:57,470 --> 00:13:58,771
We're cutting that out.
337
00:13:58,805 --> 00:14:00,373
Don't worry, we're going
to cut that right out.
338
00:14:00,407 --> 00:14:02,709
I was like, huh?!
339
00:14:02,742 --> 00:14:03,944
[laughter]
340
00:14:03,977 --> 00:14:05,778
I mean, that's the thing that
happens with such a weird--
341
00:14:05,812 --> 00:14:07,214
it's just weird.
342
00:14:07,247 --> 00:14:08,081
It's too much information.
343
00:14:08,115 --> 00:14:09,416
I didn't need that
much information.
344
00:14:09,449 --> 00:14:10,183
But she has to--
345
00:14:10,217 --> 00:14:11,251
I know, but--
346
00:14:11,284 --> 00:14:11,885
She has to urinate.
347
00:14:11,919 --> 00:14:12,519
No.
348
00:14:12,552 --> 00:14:14,454
The concept of squirting.
349
00:14:14,487 --> 00:14:17,424
Squirting is a concept.
350
00:14:17,457 --> 00:14:20,928
Some women ejaculate.
351
00:14:20,961 --> 00:14:22,262
It's not urine.
352
00:14:22,295 --> 00:14:25,432
It's like-- whatever.
353
00:14:25,465 --> 00:14:26,799
I never heard that.
354
00:14:26,833 --> 00:14:27,534
I never-- I don't know
what you're talking about.
355
00:14:27,567 --> 00:14:28,368
It's a thing.
356
00:14:28,401 --> 00:14:29,569
But to say that--
357
00:14:29,602 --> 00:14:30,537
I don't think it's a thing.
358
00:14:30,570 --> 00:14:31,571
It is a thing.
359
00:14:31,604 --> 00:14:33,140
No, I think she has to urinate.
360
00:14:36,343 --> 00:14:37,277
Or it's a little bit.
361
00:14:37,310 --> 00:14:38,211
It's a drop.
362
00:14:38,245 --> 00:14:38,946
No, mom.
363
00:14:38,979 --> 00:14:40,247
It's not urine.
364
00:14:40,280 --> 00:14:42,182
(GASPING) No.
365
00:14:42,215 --> 00:14:43,450
What?
366
00:14:43,483 --> 00:14:44,884
RBG died.
367
00:14:44,918 --> 00:14:45,919
Shut up.
368
00:14:45,953 --> 00:14:46,553
Oh.
369
00:14:46,586 --> 00:14:49,256
During this conversation?
370
00:14:49,289 --> 00:14:49,889
Oh, did she?
371
00:14:54,394 --> 00:14:55,595
The nerve of her.
372
00:14:58,598 --> 00:14:59,299
You sure?
373
00:14:59,332 --> 00:15:00,333
Yeah.
374
00:15:00,367 --> 00:15:01,401
Beth just told me.
375
00:15:01,434 --> 00:15:04,271
Jesus Christ.
376
00:15:04,304 --> 00:15:04,671
Wow.
377
00:15:08,508 --> 00:15:10,510
Pancreatic cancer.
378
00:15:10,543 --> 00:15:14,781
Do I worry at this point?
379
00:15:14,814 --> 00:15:16,016
No.
380
00:15:16,049 --> 00:15:20,320
I sometimes contemplate what
the exit plan would be for me,
381
00:15:20,353 --> 00:15:23,957
but I don't think about it as
often as a lot of people do.
382
00:15:23,991 --> 00:15:27,294
Look, there's a
natural order in life.
383
00:15:27,327 --> 00:15:28,962
Things happen.
384
00:15:28,996 --> 00:15:32,299
And at certain times,
it's the best thing.
385
00:15:32,332 --> 00:15:34,801
So fear not, you have
a wonderful daughter,
386
00:15:34,834 --> 00:15:36,503
and she's going to
worry about you.
387
00:15:36,536 --> 00:15:38,638
So it's cyclic.
388
00:15:38,671 --> 00:15:40,673
Isn't it, Dana.
389
00:15:40,707 --> 00:15:42,976
Don't you think life
is cyclic in a way?
390
00:15:43,010 --> 00:15:43,710
Cyclical.
391
00:15:43,743 --> 00:15:46,479
[laughter] Cyclic.
392
00:15:46,513 --> 00:15:49,482
Well, cyclical.
393
00:15:49,516 --> 00:15:51,951
I am worried about her.
394
00:15:51,985 --> 00:15:56,023
Can you imagine Dana
taking care of me?
395
00:15:56,056 --> 00:15:58,858
[laughter]
396
00:15:58,891 --> 00:16:00,393
Excuse me, but
that's going to be--
397
00:16:00,427 --> 00:16:02,295
You don't think--
398
00:16:02,329 --> 00:16:05,365
I think about-- [laughter]
I have to think about that.
399
00:16:05,398 --> 00:16:06,599
No.
400
00:16:06,633 --> 00:16:07,834
We don't see it in your nature.
401
00:16:07,867 --> 00:16:09,036
Why?
402
00:16:09,069 --> 00:16:13,373
Because I see you at the moment
as being a little flighty.
403
00:16:13,406 --> 00:16:14,874
Oh.
404
00:16:14,907 --> 00:16:18,545
I have to go walk the
dogs on that note.
405
00:16:18,578 --> 00:16:19,512
Hello, darling dog.
406
00:16:19,546 --> 00:16:21,348
That was insulting.
407
00:16:21,381 --> 00:16:22,315
It's not insulting.
408
00:16:22,349 --> 00:16:24,051
Mom, do you think I
can take care of you?
409
00:16:24,084 --> 00:16:24,984
No.
410
00:16:25,018 --> 00:16:26,986
No, I don't think
you need your mother.
411
00:16:27,020 --> 00:16:29,589
I think right now at
your stage in life
412
00:16:29,622 --> 00:16:31,024
you should focus on yourself.
413
00:16:31,058 --> 00:16:32,425
Absolutely.
414
00:16:32,459 --> 00:16:32,825
As you do.
415
00:16:36,329 --> 00:16:38,031
[jazz music]
416
00:16:38,065 --> 00:16:41,468
[speaking in background]
417
00:16:41,501 --> 00:16:44,471
JANET: I never really thought
of somebody taking care of me
418
00:16:44,504 --> 00:16:46,606
as I'm taking care of my mother.
419
00:16:49,609 --> 00:16:52,845
I want her to have a quality
of life, she deserves it.
420
00:16:52,879 --> 00:16:54,947
Should we say a
prayer before we eat?
421
00:16:54,981 --> 00:16:56,415
Well, hope--
422
00:16:56,449 --> 00:16:58,351
Yeah, grandma you should
lead us in a prayer.
423
00:16:58,385 --> 00:16:59,552
Yeah.
424
00:16:59,586 --> 00:17:01,421
Let's hope Trump drops dead.
425
00:17:01,454 --> 00:17:02,422
Great prayer, mom.
426
00:17:02,455 --> 00:17:03,456
Happy New Year.
427
00:17:03,490 --> 00:17:06,393
Happy New Year.
428
00:17:06,425 --> 00:17:11,631
Listen, they're playing
music, 7 o'clock.
429
00:17:11,664 --> 00:17:14,634
Can you open the window?
430
00:17:14,666 --> 00:17:15,568
One of the windows.
431
00:17:15,602 --> 00:17:16,603
Why?
432
00:17:16,636 --> 00:17:17,837
You gonna hear it?
433
00:17:17,869 --> 00:17:18,771
Well, you know, I
can sort of hear it.
434
00:17:22,075 --> 00:17:22,642
Honking.
435
00:17:30,950 --> 00:17:32,752
Yeah.
436
00:17:32,785 --> 00:17:33,453
A lot of music.
437
00:17:33,486 --> 00:17:33,920
Listen.
438
00:17:40,893 --> 00:17:43,596
Think we should
bang pots and pans?
439
00:17:43,630 --> 00:17:45,098
Want to bang pots?
440
00:17:45,132 --> 00:17:46,466
No.
441
00:17:46,499 --> 00:17:47,400
Not my pots.
442
00:17:47,434 --> 00:17:49,136
OK.
443
00:17:49,169 --> 00:17:50,470
Want to play music?
444
00:17:50,503 --> 00:17:52,004
Mm-mm.
445
00:17:52,038 --> 00:17:52,639
OK.
446
00:17:56,509 --> 00:17:58,778
We could clap.
447
00:17:58,811 --> 00:17:59,612
Come here and clap.
448
00:17:59,646 --> 00:18:00,980
You know I--
449
00:18:01,013 --> 00:18:04,117
The city is trying
to come together.
450
00:18:04,151 --> 00:18:06,619
Do want to clap?
451
00:18:06,653 --> 00:18:07,487
No.
452
00:18:07,520 --> 00:18:09,122
[clapping]
453
00:18:09,156 --> 00:18:11,090
Woo!
454
00:18:11,124 --> 00:18:13,860
[clapping]
455
00:18:13,893 --> 00:18:15,695
Who's gonna hear you?
456
00:18:15,728 --> 00:18:16,629
It doesn't matter.
457
00:18:16,663 --> 00:18:17,830
You're adding to it.
458
00:18:17,864 --> 00:18:20,167
It's your sense of spirit.
459
00:18:20,200 --> 00:18:25,805
It's thanking all the workers
for all their efforts,
460
00:18:25,838 --> 00:18:28,007
the hospital workers, the--
461
00:18:28,040 --> 00:18:30,877
Then we should go
down to the street.
462
00:18:30,910 --> 00:18:33,646
I'm not leaving my spaghetti.
463
00:18:33,680 --> 00:18:35,482
[clapping]
464
00:18:35,515 --> 00:18:36,115
Scream out.
465
00:18:36,149 --> 00:18:37,650
Hello.
466
00:18:37,684 --> 00:18:38,718
Good luck.
467
00:18:38,751 --> 00:18:40,153
Thank you.
468
00:18:40,187 --> 00:18:41,521
Thank you.
469
00:18:41,554 --> 00:18:43,723
We ban together.
470
00:18:43,756 --> 00:18:46,659
We'll get out of this mess.
471
00:18:46,693 --> 00:18:50,430
[jazz music playing]
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