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♪ your love is like a river ♪
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♪ flowing through my veins ♪
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♪ your love is the fever ♪
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♪ I can't get enough ♪
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♪ I'm on fire ♪
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♪ we're on fire ♪
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♪ our love is too much ♪
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♪ for just one heart to take ♪
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It's time to get up.
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It's time to get up,
little bed creature.
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How much do you
love the morning?
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I'm not a morning person.
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Um, and Anthony used to just
pour a glass of water on me
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or threaten to,
to wake me up in the morning.
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But Vanessa has
a very different tactic.
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Couldn't we just sleep
a little bit more?
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We've grown to know
each other's bodies
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in a way that it feels
unique to each other.
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I think of her body
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as just the sexiest thing
in the whole world,
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and I feel honored and lucky
every time I get to touch it.
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Lindsey and I actually had sex
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before Anthony and I had sex.
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And neither of us had as much
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experience having sex
with women,
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and so we've actually
gone through
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a really beautiful growth
in the last few years.
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It's becoming more
sexually intimate.
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And now we have sex
with a strap-on,
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and it's like a way bigger range
of sexual experience
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that we get to have.
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And it's a new part
of my sexual personality
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that's come out recently.
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I really enjoy it.
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- I love you.
- I love you.
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You're so sexy.
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Get off my cock.
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Whoo.
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You broke it, you beast.
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I adored her from
afar for many years,
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and now I get to actually touch
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the body that
I've loved so long.
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She's gonna make a morning
person out of me in the end.
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Hey, are you getting ready
for your date with Roxanne?
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Yeah, I am.
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Do you need to tell me
anything about it, Kamala?
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Before anybody goes on a date,
we usually check in.
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Like, here's a chance
to make any objections.
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And if not,
I've got your blessings,
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and I'm gonna do what I want.
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I was more nervous than usual
because I felt like
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there was some unsaid tension.
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Things are good
with me and Roxanne.
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I wanna make sure things
are good with us.
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- Mm-hmm.
- You know that you're not
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gonna be upset.
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I just don't wanna be
on my date
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and have
my husband home, hurting,
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because I'm not sharing her.
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The reason that Kamala wants
to be with Roxanne exclusively
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is because she doesn't want
Roxanne treating other people
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that are close to her
in the same way,
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which is not completely poly.
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I wanna reconnect with her
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and let her know
how much I love her.
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And I want that
to be okay with you.
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Yeah, you know, you're working
through that stuff. I get it.
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- You know that's an issue.
- Mm-hmm.
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And I'm okay with you having
a deep relationship with her,
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but it's, you know,
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it hasn't been really,
you know, fair.
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I've told Kamala what I feel.
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I hope that eventually Kamala
will come around
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and do the right thing.
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Hey, Michael.
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Oh, hey, Jen.
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- What are you up to?
- Where's Kamala?
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Uh, she's getting ready,
actually.
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She's going off to see Roxanne.
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- Oh, cool.
- So--
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- All right.
- Yeah, cool.
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I'll go say hi.
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- All right, have a good day.
- Yeah, you too.
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When Kamala and Michael
were having that conversation
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about Roxanne,
he was really sort of
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putting her on the spot.
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I actually kind of
felt for her.
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I know what it's like to just
have someone as an escape,
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and I understand how Michael
might feel left out.
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You know, I don't have
a proper nail clipper.
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It just broke,
and so I'm clipping away,
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hoping to get lucky, you know?
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Are you seeing Roxanne today?
Is that why?
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- Uh-huh, that's why.
- Oh, cool.
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So what are you guys gonna do?
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I just wanna see where she's at
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and how she feels
about Michael.
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Oh, about him not dating her?
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Yeah, I'm starting
to look at that
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and I wanted to see
where she's at.
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When Michael told me that
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I was acting like
a monogamous person,
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that really hurt.
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And so I'm rethinking
my policy about Roxanne.
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I mean, is she even
interested in Michael?
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I have... not really asked her
'cause I'm afraid to know.
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Oh, in case she says yes?
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Yeah, so I'm like, "okay,
I need to find out
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what the truth is instead of
kinda being in denial."
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Right.
So are you nervous?
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A little.
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Are you feeling
pressure from Michael,
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or is it something that you
really wanna do?
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No, I'm doing it
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because I wanna know,
what's the true level
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of attraction
between all my lovers?
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And I don't wanna be
the limiting step, so--
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And that doesn't mean
it has to go anywhere.
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- That's right.
- Okay.
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I would love to share Roxanne
with Michael in theory,
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but for the last year,
my relationship with Roxanne
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has been so enhancing
and enriching.
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I'm willing to look
at changing it, but I'm scared.
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I'm going to go see my friend
and lover, Ilya, today.
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There's something going
on with the triad
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that I want
to talk to him about.
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- Hey.
- Hey.
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I have such a relaxed
relationship with Ilya.
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We talk, we have sex, we don't
have sex, and I care about him.
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And that's why I'm
so comfortable with him.
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So how are your better thirds,
Anthony and Lindsey?
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Haven't seen them.
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- They're really good.
- Yeah?
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Really good.
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We've been talking about
our life commitment forever.
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- Mm-hmm.
- Um, we act like it's a given.
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Like, we're gonna be together
for life, we're a family.
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But we're out together,
the three of us,
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husband, wife, girlfriend,
I'm not taken
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as seriously
when I'm introduced that way,
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and I feel it.
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Probably the hardest thing
for me about being
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in a triad with a married couple
is that no matter what,
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I am always left out of things.
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If they get invited
to a wedding, it's a plus one.
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It's never a plus two.
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And, you know, I have to fight
every day to be recognized
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as a legitimate partner.
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So... I haven't talked to anyone
about this yet.
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- But...
- What?
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- I'm gonna propose to them.
- Really?
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Uh-huh.
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But why you?
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Why are you the one
doing the proposing?
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Uh, I think I'm the one that
has the most urgency about it.
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They're married
already, so--
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They really feel like
it's clear to me
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that we're all
gonna be together forever
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and that that's good, you know?
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Do you think it's gonna make
that big of a difference?
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A title change, essentially?
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Public life commitment?
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You think that's
just a title change?
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I mean, I think a lot of people
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treat it that way, certainly.
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So prejudiced.
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- This is prejudice.
- Is it?
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A queer woman proposing
to her poly couple?
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A person who can't
get married legally
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who makes the decision to make
a life commitment is doing
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way more than just asking
for a title change
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on the relationship.
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They're married,
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but I'm the one
who's getting fucked here.
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- I want the legitimacy.
- Right.
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I'm ready for there to be,
like, a symbol, ritual,
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a commitment, like,
I want that really badly,
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so I'm gonna ask for it.
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I'm so excited,
I'm overwhelmed,
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but there's
a little bit of terror.
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There are people we're not out
to, and that's all gonna change.
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Vanessa, you have
the biggest balls of anybody...
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I've ever met.
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And I've always said that,
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and I will always
continue to say that, so--
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- Thank you.
- Of course.
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The way my relationship is
with Roxanne,
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I don't share her with anyone
except her boyfriend.
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It's like an escape away from
my life with Devin and Michael.
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Girlfriend!
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Hey, cutie.
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And being with Roxanne,
it's like
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the ultimate
hot lesbian fantasy for me.
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I feel like a little puppy
that missed you.
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I know.
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So no matter what my agenda was
before I showed up,
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as soon as I was with her,
my agenda was, like,
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let's just get close.
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But I'm definitely not
as rational with her
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as I am with everybody else.
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You're like this sexy,
hot tigress.
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That makes you my prey.
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You're so cute.
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The deepest poly philosophy
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is that you can't get all
your needs met from one person.
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Michael meets most of my needs,
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like, 99% of them.
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And where he might not be
the most romantic man,
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I have found the most romantic
woman on the planet.
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Yeah.
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Mm-hmm.
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My sexual connection
with Roxanne is off the charts.
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Sometimes I think that
when I make love with Roxanne
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that she can read my mind
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and that there's nothing
I'm thinking or feeling
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that she doesn't feel too.
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Did you work up an appetite?
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Mm-hmm.
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It feels so good to finally
get a break from the household.
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Mm-hmm.
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Um... The day
that you came over?
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- Yeah.
- Um... Michael started to ask
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- about our relationship.
- Mm-hmm.
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And he's always been really
accepting and okay...
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- Mm-hmm.
- About you and I having our
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- exclusive little affair.
- Right.
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But he's starting
to feel left out.
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- Aww.
- Yeah.
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Maybe you guys should, you know,
maybe get to know each other.
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It's been a year, you know, that
we've been seeing each other.
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It kinda makes sense
that you'd get to know him.
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Yeah.
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So I'm thinking maybe I could
do it like a special gesture.
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Like as a gift, I wanna give you
a tea and a chat with Roxanne.
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But is he gonna think
a tea and a chat is, like,
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a tea and a chat
or a tea and a chat?
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Like what kind of-- You know?
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I don't want to lead him on into
thinking, like, we're on a date.
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I'd like to go on,
like, a friendship.
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Like, you know,
you get to know somebody first.
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- Yeah, yeah.
- I mean m-- Don't get me wrong.
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Michael's hot, he's funny,
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he has all these
amazing qualities,
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but I don't have
that chemistry with him
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- that I have with you.
- Yeah.
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Like, I'm not
holding anything back.
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Yeah, and I wouldn't-- I mean,
there's no leading on
249
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'cause I don't think
I'd be okay with you guys,
250
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like, really getting down.
251
00:11:41,570 --> 00:11:44,539
But I would definitely
be okay with you guys
252
00:11:44,573 --> 00:11:47,274
getting closer
and seeing what's there.
253
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- I'm totally game.
- Okay.
254
00:11:48,643 --> 00:11:50,811
I'm game for that
'cause I love you.
255
00:11:50,845 --> 00:11:52,579
And if you guys wanted
more than that,
256
00:11:52,613 --> 00:11:54,481
then we would have
to have a conversation.
257
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Right.
258
00:11:55,684 --> 00:11:59,519
Polyamory's about loving
without limits.
259
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So I got this idea to let
260
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Michael go on a date
with Roxanne.
261
00:12:03,523 --> 00:12:05,992
I wanna open the relationship
so that I'm not being such
262
00:12:06,026 --> 00:12:11,030
a hypocrite so that my behavior
actually matches my philosophy.
263
00:12:24,210 --> 00:12:25,911
Hi.
264
00:12:25,945 --> 00:12:28,947
I don't often meet Anthony
for lunch at school
265
00:12:28,981 --> 00:12:31,349
because we're often
in totally different places
266
00:12:31,383 --> 00:12:32,918
with schedules
that don't align.
267
00:12:32,952 --> 00:12:34,152
And when they do...
268
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We take advantage of it.
269
00:12:38,790 --> 00:12:40,991
Here we are.
270
00:12:41,026 --> 00:12:44,494
I'm both nervous and excited
about what is gonna happen
271
00:12:44,529 --> 00:12:46,597
with our relationship now.
272
00:12:46,631 --> 00:12:50,734
I feel a little bad about
the confrontation with Krystof.
273
00:12:50,768 --> 00:12:53,669
I actually
am interested in you,
274
00:12:53,704 --> 00:12:55,671
if you want,
having a boyfriend.
275
00:12:55,706 --> 00:12:57,741
But maybe find one
in Los Angeles,
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especially because
then I get to enjoy it.
277
00:13:00,477 --> 00:13:02,245
You know how I am.
278
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Poly, for me, is about love
in the grandest sense.
279
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A perfect of example of this
280
00:13:06,416 --> 00:13:07,850
is we have a term
called compersion--
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Actually getting pleasure
282
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out of your partner
with another person.
283
00:13:12,656 --> 00:13:15,591
That notion of love,
where you're just happy
284
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at everything that
makes them happy.
285
00:13:17,394 --> 00:13:20,028
My hands are full with you two.
286
00:13:20,063 --> 00:13:21,797
If you don't want it,
you don't want it.
287
00:13:21,831 --> 00:13:23,132
- But--
- But I'm open.
288
00:13:23,166 --> 00:13:24,932
You know, I'm always open
to meeting good people.
289
00:13:24,967 --> 00:13:26,568
I have the hookup
with great men.
290
00:13:27,703 --> 00:13:31,373
My wife's happiness is
paramount to me.
291
00:13:31,407 --> 00:13:33,908
If that involves us,
alone as a triad,
292
00:13:33,942 --> 00:13:35,577
her finding
a new boyfriend--
293
00:13:35,611 --> 00:13:39,013
Oh, oh, Jacob is playing a gig.
294
00:13:39,047 --> 00:13:41,582
Jacob is a previous lover.
295
00:13:41,616 --> 00:13:46,453
He is a musician, and I haven't
heard from him in a while.
296
00:13:46,488 --> 00:13:49,423
So tonight, we're all gonna go
to Jacob's gig,
297
00:13:49,457 --> 00:13:51,925
and I wanna see what's
going on in his life.
298
00:13:51,959 --> 00:13:53,960
All right, so when
we go to this show,
299
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I'm gonna be your wingman.
300
00:13:55,729 --> 00:13:58,998
Don't worry, if you get nervous,
I will help.
301
00:13:59,032 --> 00:14:00,900
What I do when they go,
"oh, you have a husband?
302
00:14:00,934 --> 00:14:02,835
Oh, I don't wanna
interfere with that."
303
00:14:02,869 --> 00:14:04,537
- I know a good one.
- Hmm?
304
00:14:04,571 --> 00:14:07,139
"Hey, if it makes you feel
better, he can sit and watch.
305
00:14:07,174 --> 00:14:10,075
And then you know that
it's not about--"
306
00:14:10,110 --> 00:14:12,844
I have the most amazing
husband ever.
307
00:14:12,878 --> 00:14:17,816
He is not threatened by me
getting joy or pleasure
308
00:14:17,850 --> 00:14:19,384
or happiness from other men.
309
00:14:19,419 --> 00:14:21,520
In fact, he encourages it.
310
00:14:21,554 --> 00:14:24,289
Cheers to me being back.
311
00:14:41,606 --> 00:14:43,641
- Hey, Michelle.
- Hey, Michael.
312
00:14:43,675 --> 00:14:46,810
Jen's sister Michelle
is very hot,
313
00:14:46,845 --> 00:14:50,780
and she flirts with me all
the time, but she's monogamous,
314
00:14:50,815 --> 00:14:53,317
which does seem a little bit
hypocritical to me.
315
00:14:53,351 --> 00:14:54,651
Hi, Jen.
316
00:14:54,685 --> 00:14:56,553
My sister came to visit
because we usually see
317
00:14:56,587 --> 00:14:57,620
each other about once a month,
318
00:14:57,655 --> 00:15:00,090
and I wanted her
to see my new place
319
00:15:00,124 --> 00:15:03,192
and see how cool I thought it
was and just reconnect with her.
320
00:15:03,227 --> 00:15:05,228
So this is my place.
321
00:15:05,262 --> 00:15:08,231
I li--
It looks--
322
00:15:08,265 --> 00:15:09,566
It looks really good.
323
00:15:09,600 --> 00:15:10,700
Did you see the family photo?
324
00:15:10,735 --> 00:15:13,370
I did see the family photo.
325
00:15:13,404 --> 00:15:15,304
- It's hard to miss.
- Right.
326
00:15:15,339 --> 00:15:17,373
- Okay.
- It's very big.
327
00:15:17,407 --> 00:15:19,641
And, um, you know,
this is the bed
328
00:15:19,676 --> 00:15:21,343
- we had from the old house...
- Okay.
329
00:15:21,378 --> 00:15:25,681
And that bed over there is
for lovers who wanna sleep over.
330
00:15:25,715 --> 00:15:27,883
Okay.
331
00:15:27,917 --> 00:15:29,418
I knew right away
that she was like,
332
00:15:29,452 --> 00:15:32,587
"yeah, you guys
are fucking crazy."
333
00:15:32,621 --> 00:15:33,855
You don't like it?
334
00:15:33,889 --> 00:15:35,690
I just don't get it.
335
00:15:35,724 --> 00:15:38,826
What don't you get?
336
00:15:38,861 --> 00:15:43,531
Just why you would move
into a place with other people.
337
00:15:43,565 --> 00:15:45,132
You have a husband.
338
00:15:45,166 --> 00:15:48,335
You know, you just,
what, share everything?
339
00:15:48,370 --> 00:15:50,303
I love Michael, I love Kamala,
340
00:15:50,337 --> 00:15:52,506
and we just all
wanted to be together.
341
00:15:56,511 --> 00:15:57,677
Let's just go have some coffee.
342
00:15:57,712 --> 00:16:00,580
- All right.
- Okay?
343
00:16:00,615 --> 00:16:03,116
I really love my sister, and I
really care what she thinks.
344
00:16:03,150 --> 00:16:06,719
I don't want to, but I do.
345
00:16:06,753 --> 00:16:11,157
Jennifer, you move
into this tiny little room
346
00:16:11,191 --> 00:16:14,193
with other people that
you're fucking all the time,
347
00:16:14,228 --> 00:16:15,895
and I just don't get it.
348
00:16:15,930 --> 00:16:18,164
I don't even understand
why it doesn't make sense.
349
00:16:18,198 --> 00:16:21,266
Because you're married.
350
00:16:21,301 --> 00:16:23,936
I'm married, but everything
I do is with his knowledge.
351
00:16:23,970 --> 00:16:27,505
It's with his knowledge,
but I don't think doing things
352
00:16:27,540 --> 00:16:28,807
like that's healthy,
I think it's weird.
353
00:16:28,841 --> 00:16:30,675
We've been doing it
for quite a long time...
354
00:16:30,709 --> 00:16:31,676
- And I don't get it.
- And it's working.
355
00:16:31,710 --> 00:16:32,744
And I would just not have
356
00:16:32,778 --> 00:16:33,812
a man who wanted to go out
357
00:16:33,846 --> 00:16:34,813
and stick his dick in everyone.
358
00:16:34,847 --> 00:16:37,248
My sister thinks I'm poly
359
00:16:37,282 --> 00:16:38,249
because of Tahl.
360
00:16:38,283 --> 00:16:39,250
It's not the case.
361
00:16:39,284 --> 00:16:40,918
It was my idea,
and I'm enjoying
362
00:16:40,953 --> 00:16:44,088
my relationships outside
of my relationship with Tahl.
363
00:16:44,122 --> 00:16:45,556
I really, truly am.
364
00:16:45,590 --> 00:16:49,126
Do you think that any boyfriend
that you've ever had or husband
365
00:16:49,161 --> 00:16:50,561
doesn't look at other women
and find them attractive?
366
00:16:50,595 --> 00:16:53,296
I didn't say that.
Did you hear me say that?
367
00:16:53,331 --> 00:16:55,332
I mean, they think that,
and they just don't tell you.
368
00:16:55,366 --> 00:16:58,801
And then they go out and cheat,
and then the marriage breaks up.
369
00:16:58,836 --> 00:17:01,004
And then maybe kids are left.
Why do that?
370
00:17:01,038 --> 00:17:03,006
Why not stay married
to the person you love
371
00:17:03,040 --> 00:17:05,141
and also have
some sexual freedom?
372
00:17:05,176 --> 00:17:06,742
You're acting like
a single person.
373
00:17:06,777 --> 00:17:07,910
Be single.
Just be single.
374
00:17:07,945 --> 00:17:09,211
I'm not acting
like a single person.
375
00:17:09,245 --> 00:17:10,479
- A single person would--
- Yeah, you're going out,
376
00:17:10,513 --> 00:17:11,680
and you're fucking
all these different guys.
377
00:17:11,714 --> 00:17:12,747
I'm not fucking all these
different guys.
378
00:17:12,782 --> 00:17:14,149
- Yes, you are.
- No.
379
00:17:14,184 --> 00:17:18,287
I have Kamala, Michael,
Jesse, and Tahl.
380
00:17:18,321 --> 00:17:21,423
A lot of monogamous people,
when they hear the word "lover,"
381
00:17:21,458 --> 00:17:23,425
they're probably assuming
that I'm fucking them.
382
00:17:23,460 --> 00:17:25,360
Just because I call
someone a lover,
383
00:17:25,394 --> 00:17:27,528
it doesn't mean I'm having
intercourse with them.
384
00:17:27,562 --> 00:17:29,663
Different boundaries come up
with different people.
385
00:17:29,698 --> 00:17:32,467
Everybody who knows,
they're just gonna look at you
386
00:17:32,501 --> 00:17:34,268
like you're a big, ol' slut.
387
00:17:34,303 --> 00:17:36,104
That's fine, I mean,
what is a slut?
388
00:17:36,138 --> 00:17:38,873
Because I enjoy having sex?
You enjoy having sex.
389
00:17:38,907 --> 00:17:41,041
Because I've had sex with
more than one person, so what?
390
00:17:41,075 --> 00:17:42,809
My hope is that people
will see the love
391
00:17:42,843 --> 00:17:46,380
more than that
they'll see the sex.
392
00:17:46,414 --> 00:17:48,882
I don't think she understands
that it's not all about sex.
393
00:17:48,916 --> 00:17:50,217
I think that's what
she thinks it is,
394
00:17:50,251 --> 00:17:52,319
um, but because she's never
experienced it.
395
00:17:52,353 --> 00:17:53,553
You guys doing okay over here?
396
00:17:53,587 --> 00:17:54,787
Yes, we're doing great.
Thank you.
397
00:17:54,822 --> 00:17:56,023
- Can I get you anything else?
- Not yet.
398
00:17:56,057 --> 00:17:58,157
No, thank you.
399
00:17:58,191 --> 00:17:59,625
He's cute.
400
00:17:59,659 --> 00:18:02,028
Oh, so what,
do you wanna fuck him too?
401
00:18:02,062 --> 00:18:05,697
Just because I'm poly doesn't
mean I wanna fuck everybody.
402
00:18:05,732 --> 00:18:06,932
Okay.
403
00:18:06,966 --> 00:18:10,802
I know that I'm
being very judge-y,
404
00:18:10,837 --> 00:18:15,106
and I don't get-- I just don't
get it at all, but I love you.
405
00:18:15,141 --> 00:18:16,474
- I still love you.
- Thank you, Michelle.
406
00:18:16,509 --> 00:18:17,776
I love you too.
407
00:18:17,810 --> 00:18:20,511
Just don't touch me--
No, I'm just kidding.
408
00:18:20,546 --> 00:18:22,513
Did you wash?
409
00:18:22,548 --> 00:18:25,049
- You mean since I was--
- Eww!
410
00:18:25,083 --> 00:18:26,651
Yes, I washed my hands.
411
00:18:26,685 --> 00:18:27,652
I won't touch you
with this hand.
412
00:18:27,686 --> 00:18:30,821
I'm just kidding.
413
00:18:30,856 --> 00:18:33,123
I'm pretty much used to what
my sister thinks,
414
00:18:33,158 --> 00:18:35,792
but if I based my life
on what other people thought
415
00:18:35,826 --> 00:18:37,994
or their judgment, I wouldn't
be able to do anything.
416
00:18:38,029 --> 00:18:39,529
And I really can't live
my life,
417
00:18:39,564 --> 00:18:42,065
worried about what my family
and friends think.
418
00:18:47,371 --> 00:18:50,473
So how about your date with,
uh, Roxanne?
419
00:18:50,507 --> 00:18:53,108
- I had a very hot time.
- You did?
420
00:18:53,142 --> 00:18:54,810
- I know.
- What did you do?
421
00:18:54,844 --> 00:18:56,378
- You wanna know, don't you?
- You don't want to know.
422
00:18:56,412 --> 00:18:57,813
- Mm-hmm.
- Hmm.
423
00:18:57,847 --> 00:18:59,481
We normally don't keep secrets,
424
00:18:59,515 --> 00:19:03,085
but when I got it in my head
that I wanted to give Michael
425
00:19:03,119 --> 00:19:08,056
permission to date Roxanne, it
was hard for me to not tell him.
426
00:19:08,090 --> 00:19:09,490
So it's kind of a surprise.
427
00:19:09,524 --> 00:19:11,525
What did you guys do
specifically,
428
00:19:11,560 --> 00:19:13,160
like, sexually and stuff?
429
00:19:13,195 --> 00:19:14,762
- Ooh, don't you wanna know?
- Ooh, do tell.
430
00:19:14,797 --> 00:19:15,863
Of course.
We always talk about that stuff.
431
00:19:15,898 --> 00:19:19,067
I think we all wanna know.
432
00:19:19,101 --> 00:19:21,268
It seems to me that Kamala
433
00:19:21,303 --> 00:19:23,369
is doing secret things
behind my back.
434
00:19:23,404 --> 00:19:26,439
We don't do secrets,
and so it's unusual.
435
00:19:26,474 --> 00:19:29,342
I just love our time together.
436
00:19:29,376 --> 00:19:30,543
It's just really magical.
437
00:19:30,578 --> 00:19:33,080
We can't keep
our hands off each other.
438
00:19:33,114 --> 00:19:35,048
Oh, now we're all interested.
439
00:19:35,083 --> 00:19:36,483
How do you end it on that?
440
00:19:36,517 --> 00:19:38,418
I know how to shut you up.
441
00:19:38,452 --> 00:19:41,386
- Mmm.
- Mmm.
442
00:19:56,168 --> 00:19:59,537
Hey, just be my friend.
443
00:19:59,571 --> 00:20:02,641
We're all going out tonight
to Jacob's gig...
444
00:20:02,675 --> 00:20:04,009
Whoo-hoo!
445
00:20:04,043 --> 00:20:06,310
With our friends
Alan and Charlotte
446
00:20:06,345 --> 00:20:09,247
and my brother Louis
and his girlfriend, Katira.
447
00:20:09,281 --> 00:20:10,648
And we're all excited about it.
448
00:20:10,682 --> 00:20:13,350
- Is this it?
- This is it.
449
00:20:13,384 --> 00:20:17,755
♪ And child ♪
450
00:20:17,789 --> 00:20:19,823
Jacob is a former lover,
451
00:20:19,858 --> 00:20:21,959
fantastic musician,
452
00:20:21,993 --> 00:20:24,995
and someone that I really
wanna reconnect with.
453
00:20:25,030 --> 00:20:27,997
♪ And maybe ♪
454
00:20:28,032 --> 00:20:29,966
♪ maybe your river won't seem ♪
455
00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:35,738
♪ won't seem so long, girl ♪
456
00:20:35,773 --> 00:20:37,306
I'm feeling pretty overwhelmed.
457
00:20:37,340 --> 00:20:40,543
You know, we're out having
this great night together,
458
00:20:40,577 --> 00:20:46,347
and I plan to propose a life
commitment-- A marriage--
459
00:20:46,382 --> 00:20:50,652
To Anthony and Lindsey, and I'm
keeping it a secret from them.
460
00:20:50,687 --> 00:20:52,788
The whole time, in the back
of my mind, I'm like,
461
00:20:52,822 --> 00:20:54,422
"I'm gonna propose to them,
I'm gonna propose to them,
462
00:20:54,456 --> 00:20:55,857
I'm gonna propose to them."
463
00:20:55,892 --> 00:20:58,293
And I just have to,
like, not say it.
464
00:20:58,327 --> 00:20:59,493
It's super hard.
465
00:20:59,527 --> 00:21:02,029
♪ So long ♪
466
00:21:03,131 --> 00:21:05,632
That's how to make music!
467
00:21:05,667 --> 00:21:07,968
Yeah!
468
00:21:08,003 --> 00:21:11,271
Right now, I wanna bring up
469
00:21:11,306 --> 00:21:13,340
a really, really
special friend of mine.
470
00:21:13,374 --> 00:21:15,575
Her name is
Lindsey Kate Cristofani.
471
00:21:15,609 --> 00:21:18,945
She's gonna come up and help me
sing a song that she wrote.
472
00:21:18,979 --> 00:21:22,381
I was really surprised that
Jacob called me up onstage.
473
00:21:22,416 --> 00:21:26,452
I had a recording deal that fell
through last spring.
474
00:21:26,486 --> 00:21:28,454
It's been so long
since I've performed in general.
475
00:21:28,488 --> 00:21:29,823
Are you ready?
476
00:21:29,857 --> 00:21:31,389
You don't look ready.
Are you ready?
477
00:21:31,424 --> 00:21:32,825
Ladies and gentlemen,
give it up.
478
00:21:40,700 --> 00:21:46,105
I'd like to dedicate this song
to my husband
479
00:21:46,139 --> 00:21:49,573
and our girlfriend...
480
00:21:49,608 --> 00:21:53,811
And all the potential lovers
in this room right now.
481
00:21:59,451 --> 00:22:01,819
♪ Let me get under you skin ♪
482
00:22:01,854 --> 00:22:03,987
♪ is this your life
or your eye ♪
483
00:22:04,021 --> 00:22:06,489
♪ let me get under your skin ♪
484
00:22:06,523 --> 00:22:08,691
Seeing Lindsey onstage
is truly inspiring.
485
00:22:08,726 --> 00:22:10,393
She so sexy,
and she's so weird.
486
00:22:10,427 --> 00:22:16,399
Here I am in a moment with
people who make my life better.
487
00:22:16,433 --> 00:22:21,637
I was so thoroughly
enjoying myself
488
00:22:21,671 --> 00:22:24,473
and the dynamic
between Jacob and I.
489
00:22:24,507 --> 00:22:27,542
♪ So, oh ♪
490
00:22:27,577 --> 00:22:29,544
Lindsey Kate Cristofani!
491
00:22:33,150 --> 00:22:36,851
After the performance,
Jacob and I went to the bar
492
00:22:36,886 --> 00:22:39,220
and got a drink together
and started catching up.
493
00:22:39,255 --> 00:22:41,722
I wanna know
what's going on with you.
494
00:22:41,757 --> 00:22:44,259
Are you still celibate?
495
00:22:44,293 --> 00:22:45,960
The last time we talked,
you were celibate.
496
00:22:45,995 --> 00:22:47,728
The last time we talked, I was
celibate because I was waiting
497
00:22:47,763 --> 00:22:50,131
for my girlfriend to get back
from Thailand.
498
00:22:50,166 --> 00:22:53,500
And she came back,
and then the day she got back,
499
00:22:53,534 --> 00:22:56,804
I was no longer celibate.
500
00:22:56,838 --> 00:22:59,072
But monogamous, I'm that.
501
00:22:59,107 --> 00:23:00,707
How-- How's that going?
502
00:23:00,741 --> 00:23:02,609
Um, I love it.
503
00:23:02,643 --> 00:23:04,912
I mean, I love this girl.
504
00:23:04,946 --> 00:23:07,313
He does, indeed,
have a girlfriend.
505
00:23:07,347 --> 00:23:11,918
Of course there's a small part
of me that's disappointed,
506
00:23:11,952 --> 00:23:15,188
but the overwhelming feeling
that I have is being
507
00:23:15,222 --> 00:23:18,557
totally happy for him
that he's in love.
508
00:23:18,591 --> 00:23:22,561
I miss you.
509
00:23:22,595 --> 00:23:26,431
- Let's be in touch more.
- Yeah.
510
00:23:26,465 --> 00:23:27,833
- Hey.
- What's up?
511
00:23:27,867 --> 00:23:29,134
I just talked to Jacob.
512
00:23:29,168 --> 00:23:31,169
And are you gonna
get back together?
513
00:23:31,204 --> 00:23:32,804
No.
514
00:23:32,839 --> 00:23:34,672
We are not going
to be lovers again
515
00:23:34,707 --> 00:23:37,275
because he is in a closed,
516
00:23:37,310 --> 00:23:39,310
monogamous relationship
right now.
517
00:23:39,344 --> 00:23:42,079
I'm thrilled by this
'cause it also means
518
00:23:42,113 --> 00:23:45,382
more attention for me.
519
00:23:45,416 --> 00:23:47,151
So you bummed?
520
00:23:47,185 --> 00:23:49,619
No, not really.
521
00:23:49,654 --> 00:23:52,323
Jacob and I can go in and out
of being lovers.
522
00:23:52,357 --> 00:23:56,259
We could be just friends,
platonic friends for a while,
523
00:23:56,293 --> 00:23:58,094
and it's not a big deal.
524
00:23:58,128 --> 00:24:01,064
I want to just kick back,
have a few drinks,
525
00:24:01,098 --> 00:24:02,498
enjoy our friends,
526
00:24:02,532 --> 00:24:04,433
and maybe meet some new people.
527
00:24:04,468 --> 00:24:05,434
Who knows?
528
00:24:05,469 --> 00:24:08,504
Belina, are you
the sharing type?
529
00:24:08,538 --> 00:24:09,839
- Yeah.
- You are the sharing type.
530
00:24:09,874 --> 00:24:10,840
- I am.
- All right.
531
00:24:10,874 --> 00:24:12,807
Awesome.
I'm a share bear too.
532
00:24:12,842 --> 00:24:16,578
I feel like it's a waste for
Lindsey and Wayne not to talk.
533
00:24:16,612 --> 00:24:18,747
I'm not possessive.
534
00:24:18,781 --> 00:24:20,916
I think one of the most
liberating things
535
00:24:20,950 --> 00:24:22,284
about being poly--
536
00:24:22,318 --> 00:24:25,988
It's not necessarily about sex
and relationships.
537
00:24:26,022 --> 00:24:28,622
I mean, maybe we could go over
and dance while they talk?
538
00:24:28,656 --> 00:24:30,057
Sure, let's go have
a conversation.
539
00:24:31,393 --> 00:24:33,594
We can go out and flirt
with whoever we want
540
00:24:33,628 --> 00:24:34,862
whenever we want.
541
00:24:34,897 --> 00:24:36,697
There's nothing like the energy
of flirting.
542
00:24:36,731 --> 00:24:39,267
Everybody loves it.
543
00:24:39,301 --> 00:24:42,336
- Hello.
- Hi.
544
00:24:42,371 --> 00:24:43,437
So what's up?
545
00:24:46,708 --> 00:24:48,876
♪ Seen enough ♪
546
00:24:48,910 --> 00:24:50,977
♪ seen enough to know that ♪
547
00:24:51,012 --> 00:24:53,046
♪ it's you I need ♪
548
00:24:53,080 --> 00:24:56,349
Long drive, you know,
L.A. traffic sucks.
549
00:24:56,384 --> 00:24:58,385
Anthony introduced Wayne and I.
550
00:24:58,420 --> 00:25:00,787
I liked him, but I didn't want
to do anything more.
551
00:25:00,821 --> 00:25:02,855
There's no spark.
552
00:25:02,890 --> 00:25:06,158
There's no desire to--
to go further.
553
00:25:06,192 --> 00:25:08,027
Is there anyone
you're taking home?
554
00:25:08,061 --> 00:25:11,464
I enjoy flirting with them,
but what I'm realizing is
555
00:25:11,498 --> 00:25:13,032
I don't want a boyfriend
right now.
556
00:25:13,066 --> 00:25:14,600
I'm not interested in that.
557
00:25:14,635 --> 00:25:18,437
I want to reconnect with you,
558
00:25:18,471 --> 00:25:21,306
I want to reconnect and build
the strength of our triad,
559
00:25:21,340 --> 00:25:25,009
and I want to incorporate
our best friends into it.
560
00:25:25,044 --> 00:25:28,279
I can't wait till we get,
like, a big house,
561
00:25:28,314 --> 00:25:31,182
and everybody lives in it.
562
00:25:31,216 --> 00:25:36,253
I know that Anthony and Lindsey
are committed to me for life.
563
00:25:36,287 --> 00:25:39,657
I feel totally certain.
564
00:25:39,691 --> 00:25:44,595
And I can't wait to propose
on our anniversary.
565
00:25:44,629 --> 00:25:48,397
I trust us totally.
566
00:25:48,432 --> 00:25:52,168
- I love you guys.
- Mmm.
567
00:25:59,743 --> 00:26:06,748
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