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(ominous music)
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(breathing heavily)
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(crying)
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(knocking)
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(mic tapping)
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(upbeat music)
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- [Charles] How 'bout you
start at the very beginning?
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Tell us about your early childhood.
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- My early childhood.
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Well, my parents adopted
me when I was a baby.
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And about four years later,
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they adopted my younger brother, Gabe.
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- [Charles] And was he a
welcome addition to the family
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or an intruder?
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- We got along great.
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Things were good up until about age nine.
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- [Charles] What happened?
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- Well, my dad took a new job
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that kept him out of the
house most of the time.
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So I barely saw him and
I started acting out.
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The times that I did see him,
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I tended to bring more anger out of him.
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- Was he ever abusive towards you?
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- I wouldn't call it abusive.
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It was a stressful time
for him and our family.
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But unfortunately,
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any closeness that I had with my dad
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started to unravel at that time.
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- [Charles] Did your family
have any improvements
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by the time you reached your teen years?
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- No, things pretty much stayed the same,
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but one thing that they
changed with me though
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is who I started hanging around.
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When I was 14, I met this kid named Dave
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and it wasn't long before him and I
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were real good friends.
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- Alright, let's see what we got here.
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No, no, no, no, no.
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Hey, what's that?
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- That's the story I'm writing.
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- What are you writing a story for?
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- It's for my writing class.
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- That stinks, man.
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- Well, it's not that bad.
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I'm kind of enjoying writing it.
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- Whatever, man.
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Why isn't there every anything on?
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Oh, here we go.
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(laughing)
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(bell tolling)
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- Do you guys value the
people in your life?
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Do you guys value your friends?
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How about your parents and siblings?
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Do you guys value them?
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How about the bully at your school?
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How many of you value him or her?
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Nobody ever loves the bullies, do they?
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Not something you typically
think about, right?
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But you know what?
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Jesus loves them.
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In fact,
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Jesus loved and approached
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the people who were
looked down on the most
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in the society of his day.
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The guy we're gonna take
a look at was despised.
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Like a bully
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who might shake down
someone for the lunch money,
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this guy would shake down
people for extra money
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on top of what they owed in taxes.
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His name was Zacchaeus
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and we're gonna look at how
Jesus responded to this man.
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Turn with me to Luke chapter 19.
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- How was Sunday school boys?
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- Good.
- Fine.
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- What'd you learn?
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John, what was the lesson about?
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- It was,
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he was talking about this short dude
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and I think his name was like Zach.
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- Zacchaeus?
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- Yeah, yeah, I think that was it.
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- What'd you learn about Zacchaeus?
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- I don't remember.
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- How many times do I need to tell you
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you need to pay attention in class?
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Pastor Marcus brought
this up several times.
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You need to pay attention in class
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and stop distracting other kids.
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How many times do we have
to have this conversation?
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- Then she came stomping
down the stairs in a fury,
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stomped her way into the living room
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and got right up into her dad's face.
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"Why won't you let me go to
the prom, " she exclaimed.
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(phone ringing)
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Hello?
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- [Dave] Hey John, you've
got to come over, man.
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- Why, what's going on?
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- My brother invited
us to a party tonight.
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- I don't know.
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I'm kind of in the middle of something.
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- [Dave] You're not gonna
want to miss this party, man.
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There's gonna be high school chicks there.
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- Really?
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- [Dave] Yeah, now come over.
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- All right, I'm coming.
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(hip hop music)
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- Why don't you guys take a look around,
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see if you know anybody?
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- Come on, let's go.
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- Hey, you guys want some of this?
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- No, thanks.
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- You sure man?
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What about you?
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- Yeah, yeah, I'll try.
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- Oh yeah dude, puff it up, bro.
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(coughing)
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- It's good, man.
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Come on.
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- [Male] Try it.
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- Man, let me see that thing.
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(coughing)
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(upbeat music)
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(knocking)
(ominous music)
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- [Female] Jasmine, are you okay?
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What happened?
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- Please, lock the door.
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- [Female] Jasmine, talk to me.
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What happened?
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- I was raped.
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- What?
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Oh my God, Jasmine, I am so sorry.
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Is there anything, anything I can do?
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- Could you stay here a while?
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I really don't want to be alone right now.
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- Come here, come here.
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(crying)
(sad music)
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- [Charles] So after that
party, what happened?
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- Dave and I continued smoking weed.
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And when we got bored with that,
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we started trying other things.
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That certainly didn't help
things with my parents.
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Eventually, it reached a tipping point.
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I remember that day so clearly.
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It was a few days before my 18th birthday,
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They gave me an ultimatum
and I wasn't having it
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so I moved out.
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- [Charles] What did you do?
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How did you get by?
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- I thought I had it all figured out.
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I moved in with Dave and his brother
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and sure, things were fine for awhile.
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But then reality came.
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We spent most of our money on drugs
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instead of on bills
that needed to be paid.
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In fact, we even stole from
neighbors a couple of times
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to come up with money.
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- Ugh.
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What about your family during this time?
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Did they try to reach out
to you, try to help you?
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- Yeah, they tried.
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I just didn't respond.
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- Was there anything good
that came out of that time?
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- Yeah.
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I met Kayla.
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Then her and I got
married in April of 2008.
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- Did things ever
improve with your family?
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- A little bit.
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As much as I would allow.
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Do we really need to go to
my parents' house today?
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- Yes, we made plans with them.
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- Why did I do that?
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Can we just cancel with them?
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- Look, you've already bought a gift.
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Let's just go, have dinner,
and then we can leave, okay?
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- Yeah, okay.
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I'm 'bout to take the dog out.
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- Alright.
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(dark music)
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John, you ready to go?
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(dark music)
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(sighs)
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(dark music)
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John?
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(dark music)
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What are you doing?
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- The light was on in the garage.
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You ready to go?
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- Yeah.
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- Let's go.
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(knocking)
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- Hey guys, glad you could make it.
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- Hey dad.
- Hey.
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Kayla.
- Hi.
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- Come on in.
- Thanks.
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- Hey guys.
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- Hey Gabe, still haven't
moved out of here yet?
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- Not yet.
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- What are you, like 24?
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- 23.
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- What's the hold up, man?
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- Actually Gabe's working
on that right now.
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- Oh yeah, how you doing that?
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- He's applying around to colleges.
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- What are you, his spokesperson, dad?
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Let him answer for himself.
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- John, Kayla.
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Hey.
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Oh, so good to see you.
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- Happy mother's day mom.
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- Ah thanks.
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- Happy mother's day.
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- They're beautiful.
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So how are you two doing?
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- We're all right.
- Yeah.
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- Well, come on in,
make yourselves at home.
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Dinner's almost ready.
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- John, how's the job coming along?
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- It's a job.
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Nothing new to report.
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- Kayla, how about you?
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How's the dentist office treating you?
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- My job's going great, yeah.
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- Got to go to the bathroom.
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I'll be back.
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- So how was the drive over here, Kayla?
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- Oh, it was smooth.
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That was until we hit traffic.
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I swear, couldn't it be
just one time in the year
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where there's like no
construction anywhere?
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Just one time, that's all I ask, you know?
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- Can you excuse me?
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- And maybe it's just me,
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but it seems like every time I get
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to one of those constructions,
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it's right when that sign flips to stop
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and then they make me sit
there and wait like forever?
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You know what I mean?
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Yeah?
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(toilet flushing)
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- Hey dad, what's up?
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- Everything okay?
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- What do you mean?
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- You were in there for quite a while.
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- You think I was in there
using drugs, don't you?
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- I didn't say that, did I?
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- You didn't have to say it.
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I could see it on your face.
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Why is it every time I come over here,
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you got to do this to me, man?
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- I'm just trying to look out for you.
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- Oh yeah, by accusing me?
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By trying to run my life?
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- I am not trying to run your life.
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- Really?
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- Yes really.
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- What is going on over here?
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- Nothing, we're leaving.
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Come on, get your purse.
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- What?
- Come on.
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- Please don't go.
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- I'm sorry, mom.
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(crying)
(sad music)
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- Why did you get into it with him again?
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- I'm sorry, I didn't intend
to start an argument with him.
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- We've talked about this.
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You've got to meet him where he's at.
270
00:18:29,470 --> 00:18:30,603
- How do you do it?
271
00:18:32,520 --> 00:18:33,713
How do you talk to him?
272
00:18:35,280 --> 00:18:38,767
- Try to make him see that you love him.
273
00:18:41,610 --> 00:18:42,860
- You're right.
274
00:18:43,834 --> 00:18:46,167
(sad music)
275
00:19:01,500 --> 00:19:03,940
- Wow, it's like clockwork.
276
00:19:03,940 --> 00:19:05,910
You're always out of here right at three.
277
00:19:05,910 --> 00:19:06,743
- Yep.
278
00:19:08,020 --> 00:19:09,200
- All right, I'll see you tomorrow, man.
279
00:19:09,200 --> 00:19:10,243
- See you tomorrow.
280
00:19:12,354 --> 00:19:14,937
(gentle music)
281
00:19:37,326 --> 00:19:39,753
Hey man, hey, where's Dave at?
282
00:19:41,800 --> 00:19:42,633
- Kitchen.
283
00:19:49,310 --> 00:19:50,953
- Hey buddy, how you doing?
284
00:19:52,240 --> 00:19:53,093
- Hey Dave.
285
00:19:54,695 --> 00:19:55,893
- Got your stuff right here.
286
00:20:06,780 --> 00:20:10,563
Actually, I'm gonna need
$150 from you this time.
287
00:20:12,369 --> 00:20:14,160
- I always pay $120 a gram.
288
00:20:14,160 --> 00:20:15,010
- What can I say?
289
00:20:15,852 --> 00:20:16,685
The price has gone up.
290
00:20:18,028 --> 00:20:19,009
- You're gonna treat me
291
00:20:19,009 --> 00:20:20,153
like any of your other customers, man?
292
00:20:20,153 --> 00:20:21,303
Come on, we're friends.
293
00:20:22,412 --> 00:20:25,090
- It's business, John, nothing personal.
294
00:20:25,090 --> 00:20:27,533
It's $150, take it or leave it.
295
00:20:30,860 --> 00:20:32,593
- Can't believe I'm doing this.
296
00:20:37,250 --> 00:20:39,433
You know, there's other
dealers I can go to.
297
00:20:40,400 --> 00:20:43,520
- Yeah, but even at 150 bucks,
298
00:20:43,520 --> 00:20:45,670
you're still getting
a better deal from me.
299
00:20:46,890 --> 00:20:47,723
So quit whining.
300
00:20:49,287 --> 00:20:50,551
- Thanks, friend.
301
00:20:50,551 --> 00:20:51,637
- Any time, buddy.
302
00:20:56,855 --> 00:20:59,522
(ominous music)
303
00:21:13,959 --> 00:21:18,959
(grunting)
(ominous music)
304
00:22:07,703 --> 00:22:10,650
- Where did you learn
your survival skills?
305
00:22:10,650 --> 00:22:12,903
- [Male] Oh, I picked it up
along the way through life.
306
00:22:14,215 --> 00:22:15,048
Who taught you to hunt?
307
00:22:17,335 --> 00:22:18,473
- I learned a little along the way.
308
00:22:20,017 --> 00:22:21,567
I'm mainly though, a scavenger.
309
00:22:45,260 --> 00:22:48,665
People need people though,
that's how we're designed.
310
00:22:48,665 --> 00:22:51,740
I mean based off of how someone was raised
311
00:22:51,740 --> 00:22:54,373
or how their parents parented them.
312
00:23:05,850 --> 00:23:06,700
- What you doing?
313
00:23:07,827 --> 00:23:09,553
- What's it look like I'm doing?
314
00:23:11,399 --> 00:23:14,310
- You messing with that
stupid novel again?
315
00:23:14,310 --> 00:23:16,470
Why do you even waste your time with that?
316
00:23:16,470 --> 00:23:18,630
- It's not a waste of time.
317
00:23:18,630 --> 00:23:20,380
I'm making progress.
318
00:23:20,380 --> 00:23:21,213
- Oh.
319
00:23:21,213 --> 00:23:23,036
- I wrote a page the other day.
320
00:23:23,036 --> 00:23:25,857
- Oh, well woopty doo, you wrote a page.
321
00:23:25,857 --> 00:23:27,340
John, you've been messing with that thing
322
00:23:27,340 --> 00:23:28,400
for as long as I've known you.
323
00:23:28,400 --> 00:23:29,790
You're never gonna finish it.
324
00:23:29,790 --> 00:23:32,556
Just accept it, you're
not a writer, honey.
325
00:23:32,556 --> 00:23:35,060
- What do you know Kayla?
326
00:23:35,060 --> 00:23:36,430
Just 'cause you have no ambitions,
327
00:23:36,430 --> 00:23:38,160
doesn't mean you got to
trample all over mine.
328
00:23:38,160 --> 00:23:40,428
- That is not true and you know it.
329
00:23:40,428 --> 00:23:42,040
- It is true and I know that.
330
00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:44,033
You're still what, a receptionist?
331
00:23:44,033 --> 00:23:45,031
- So?
332
00:23:45,031 --> 00:23:45,870
- You said you wanted
to be hygienist, right?
333
00:23:45,870 --> 00:23:47,271
- [Kayla] Yeah.
334
00:23:47,271 --> 00:23:48,284
- What's going on with that?
335
00:23:48,284 --> 00:23:49,117
- I'm still thinking about it.
336
00:23:49,117 --> 00:23:49,950
- Okay, but you're not doing.
337
00:23:49,950 --> 00:23:51,800
I'm doing something here.
- I've been looking online.
338
00:23:51,800 --> 00:23:54,080
- Yes, yes, are you looking to do it?
339
00:23:54,080 --> 00:23:56,280
Get a book, start reading, start writing,
340
00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:57,927
start pushing yourself.
341
00:23:57,927 --> 00:23:58,920
- What have you done for years?
342
00:23:58,920 --> 00:24:00,289
Nothing!
343
00:24:00,289 --> 00:24:02,311
- I've listened to you
run me into the ground.
344
00:24:02,311 --> 00:24:04,280
You're supposed to be my muse.
345
00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:06,710
But every time you come
around, I'm uninspired.
346
00:24:06,710 --> 00:24:08,510
I should be here showing you my work
347
00:24:08,510 --> 00:24:09,380
but I'm putting it away.
348
00:24:09,380 --> 00:24:10,590
- How is it my fault?
349
00:24:10,590 --> 00:24:11,743
- It's just your fault.
350
00:24:31,030 --> 00:24:33,447
(dark music)
351
00:25:33,799 --> 00:25:36,549
- Kayla, what are you doing here?
352
00:25:37,710 --> 00:25:38,793
- What am I doing here?
353
00:25:38,793 --> 00:25:39,833
What are you doing in here?
354
00:25:40,880 --> 00:25:43,090
What's that behind your back?
355
00:25:43,090 --> 00:25:44,340
- It's just a socket set.
356
00:25:45,380 --> 00:25:47,292
- Then why are you hiding
it behind your back?
357
00:25:47,292 --> 00:25:51,933
- I don't know, you scared me, just, see?
358
00:25:54,063 --> 00:25:55,513
I'm just organizing my tools.
359
00:25:57,870 --> 00:25:59,270
- This early in the morning?
360
00:26:01,920 --> 00:26:03,460
Can I see what's inside the box?
361
00:26:03,460 --> 00:26:04,605
- Why?
362
00:26:04,605 --> 00:26:06,597
Since when are you interested in tools?
363
00:26:06,597 --> 00:26:10,150
- I'm not, I just want to
see what's inside the box.
364
00:26:10,150 --> 00:26:12,300
- It's just a socket set, Kayla.
365
00:26:12,300 --> 00:26:15,190
- Then you shouldn't have
any trouble showing it to me.
366
00:26:15,190 --> 00:26:18,142
- Why don't you just go
back inside the house
367
00:26:18,142 --> 00:26:19,040
and leave me alone?
368
00:26:19,040 --> 00:26:22,993
- No, not until you show
me what's in that box.
369
00:26:25,500 --> 00:26:27,860
- I told you it was just a socket set.
370
00:26:27,860 --> 00:26:30,469
I shouldn't have to show
you what's in this box.
371
00:26:30,469 --> 00:26:31,302
Let it go.
372
00:26:31,302 --> 00:26:32,363
Let it go, let it go.
373
00:26:32,363 --> 00:26:33,891
(glass breaking)
374
00:26:33,891 --> 00:26:36,391
(dark music)
375
00:26:42,776 --> 00:26:44,026
- What is that?
376
00:26:48,700 --> 00:26:49,600
- What do you think it is?
377
00:26:49,600 --> 00:26:51,653
- If I knew, I wouldn't have asked you.
378
00:26:53,220 --> 00:26:55,993
Obviously it's some kind of drug.
379
00:26:57,510 --> 00:26:58,343
What kind?
380
00:27:00,983 --> 00:27:02,439
Answer me!
381
00:27:02,439 --> 00:27:04,459
- It's heroine.
382
00:27:04,459 --> 00:27:05,542
It's heroine.
383
00:27:09,601 --> 00:27:10,434
- How long you been doing this?
384
00:27:14,430 --> 00:27:15,263
- A long time.
385
00:27:19,280 --> 00:27:21,273
- God, since before we met?
386
00:27:27,480 --> 00:27:28,883
I can't believe you.
387
00:27:30,657 --> 00:27:32,557
You kept this from me the entire time?
388
00:27:37,105 --> 00:27:39,239
I don't even know who you are.
389
00:27:39,239 --> 00:27:41,800
(ominous music)
390
00:27:41,800 --> 00:27:42,913
- Kayla, wait!
391
00:27:57,630 --> 00:27:58,580
What are you doing?
392
00:27:59,463 --> 00:28:00,465
- What does it look like?
393
00:28:00,465 --> 00:28:01,298
I'm leaving.
394
00:28:01,298 --> 00:28:02,481
- Why?
395
00:28:02,481 --> 00:28:03,484
We can work this out.
396
00:28:03,484 --> 00:28:05,760
- Oh, you think it's
that simple, huh John?
397
00:28:05,760 --> 00:28:08,610
You kept this from me for the
entire time I've known you.
398
00:28:10,204 --> 00:28:11,870
How can I trust anything you say anymore?
399
00:28:17,475 --> 00:28:19,463
I'm going to my mother's house.
400
00:28:19,463 --> 00:28:22,073
- Kayla, how can I fix this?
401
00:28:23,740 --> 00:28:26,310
(dark music)
402
00:28:26,310 --> 00:28:27,143
Don't go.
403
00:28:28,060 --> 00:28:30,477
(dark music)
404
00:28:33,841 --> 00:28:34,674
Bye John.
405
00:28:35,783 --> 00:28:38,116
(sad music)
406
00:29:25,415 --> 00:29:27,998
(gentle music)
407
00:29:48,178 --> 00:29:49,261
- No, no way.
408
00:29:52,130 --> 00:29:54,713
(gentle music)
409
00:29:56,633 --> 00:29:59,115
- [Mother] It's gonna
be all right, Jasmine.
410
00:29:59,115 --> 00:30:00,470
- How's it gonna be all right?
411
00:30:00,470 --> 00:30:02,711
- You're gonna go to that clinic
412
00:30:02,711 --> 00:30:05,159
and you're gonna take care of this.
413
00:30:05,159 --> 00:30:06,790
- So you really think I should?
414
00:30:06,790 --> 00:30:09,283
- I don't see that you
have any other choice.
415
00:30:10,120 --> 00:30:11,823
You're not ready to be a mother.
416
00:30:13,460 --> 00:30:14,410
- Your mom's right.
417
00:30:15,630 --> 00:30:17,277
You didn't ask for this
418
00:30:17,277 --> 00:30:19,177
and you shouldn't be burdened with it.
419
00:30:23,410 --> 00:30:25,230
- I don't know.
420
00:30:25,230 --> 00:30:26,580
- How would you support it?
421
00:30:28,534 --> 00:30:29,773
It's your only good option.
422
00:30:35,837 --> 00:30:38,120
- [Charles] So when your wife walked out,
423
00:30:38,120 --> 00:30:39,863
how did you process that?
424
00:30:42,615 --> 00:30:43,763
- Anger,
425
00:30:46,040 --> 00:30:46,903
self pity,
426
00:30:49,440 --> 00:30:54,440
and honestly, I didn't want to
take any of the blame for it.
427
00:30:58,957 --> 00:31:02,327
I made excuses for myself
and I blamed everyone else,
428
00:31:04,500 --> 00:31:05,333
including her.
429
00:31:08,271 --> 00:31:09,104
But
430
00:31:12,098 --> 00:31:16,380
I couldn't deny that I
wanted her back in my life.
431
00:31:20,514 --> 00:31:22,693
- Was there any kind of
a wake up call for you?
432
00:31:24,420 --> 00:31:27,823
- No, quite the contrary, my friend.
433
00:31:29,650 --> 00:31:32,463
I actually spiraled
further out of control.
434
00:31:35,575 --> 00:31:38,242
(ominous music)
435
00:32:26,970 --> 00:32:29,463
- Hi John, this is Rick calling again.
436
00:32:30,450 --> 00:32:33,050
I'm wondering why you didn't
show up for work today.
437
00:32:34,511 --> 00:32:36,353
You need to call me back ASAP.
438
00:32:38,100 --> 00:32:38,933
Goodbye.
439
00:32:40,430 --> 00:32:43,180
(ominous music)
440
00:32:46,910 --> 00:32:48,320
Okay, alright.
441
00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:50,883
I'll take care of it, yeah.
442
00:32:51,731 --> 00:32:52,564
I got to go.
443
00:32:52,564 --> 00:32:53,960
Come in.
444
00:32:53,960 --> 00:32:55,853
John, close the door, have a seat.
445
00:33:02,430 --> 00:33:03,593
So where were you yesterday?
446
00:33:05,520 --> 00:33:07,320
- I was at home sick.
447
00:33:07,320 --> 00:33:08,920
- Why didn't you give us a call?
448
00:33:13,930 --> 00:33:17,150
- I guess I fell asleep
449
00:33:18,617 --> 00:33:21,360
and I lost track of time.
450
00:33:21,360 --> 00:33:23,730
- Well, you know that's no excuse John.
451
00:33:23,730 --> 00:33:25,260
You know, you've got to give us a call
452
00:33:25,260 --> 00:33:26,563
no matter what the reason.
453
00:33:27,470 --> 00:33:28,913
Don't let this happen again.
454
00:33:30,390 --> 00:33:31,223
- I won't.
455
00:33:32,530 --> 00:33:33,363
- Alright.
456
00:33:36,620 --> 00:33:37,533
You okay?
457
00:33:38,800 --> 00:33:39,950
You don't look so good.
458
00:33:41,758 --> 00:33:42,890
- I'm fine.
459
00:33:42,890 --> 00:33:43,723
I'm alright.
460
00:33:44,810 --> 00:33:45,643
- Okay.
461
00:33:46,900 --> 00:33:49,277
Well then you can get back to work.
462
00:34:03,794 --> 00:34:06,711
(dark piano music)
463
00:34:44,031 --> 00:34:46,956
(phone buzzing)
- Call from John Yessima.
464
00:34:46,956 --> 00:34:51,956
Call from (phone buzzing)
465
00:34:58,171 --> 00:35:00,088
Call from John Yessima.
466
00:35:05,358 --> 00:35:07,358
(sighs)
467
00:35:10,601 --> 00:35:11,817
(beeping)
468
00:35:11,817 --> 00:35:12,650
- [Kayla] This is Kayla.
469
00:35:12,650 --> 00:35:14,574
Sorry you missed me, leave me a message.
470
00:35:14,574 --> 00:35:16,741
(beeping)
471
00:35:19,401 --> 00:35:21,818
(sadd music)
472
00:35:30,105 --> 00:35:31,543
- Gonna this weekend?
473
00:35:33,420 --> 00:35:34,253
- Nope.
474
00:35:37,690 --> 00:35:40,217
- John, is everything all right?
475
00:35:45,286 --> 00:35:47,586
- Just had a rough couple
of days, that's all.
476
00:35:48,770 --> 00:35:50,978
- I'm sorry to hear that, man.
477
00:35:50,978 --> 00:35:52,613
Is there anything I can do to help?
478
00:35:57,050 --> 00:36:00,268
- There's nothing you
can do for me, George.
479
00:36:00,268 --> 00:36:02,970
- You want to talk about it?
480
00:36:02,970 --> 00:36:03,803
- Nope.
481
00:36:06,213 --> 00:36:08,470
- Well, if you ever change your mind,
482
00:36:09,340 --> 00:36:10,540
I'd love to talk to you.
483
00:36:11,770 --> 00:36:14,290
I've been through some
rough things myself,
484
00:36:14,290 --> 00:36:16,490
including some bad
habits I had to overcome.
485
00:36:18,360 --> 00:36:20,493
Maybe you can relate to
my story in some way.
486
00:36:23,201 --> 00:36:24,493
- What kind of bad habits did you have?
487
00:36:25,803 --> 00:36:27,070
- You name it, man,
488
00:36:27,070 --> 00:36:31,763
alcohol, cocaine, prescription drugs.
489
00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:34,420
I was in really bad shape,
490
00:36:35,609 --> 00:36:38,593
but the Lord came and rescued
me when I was at my lowest.
491
00:36:40,090 --> 00:36:41,033
So what about you?
492
00:36:43,479 --> 00:36:45,529
Are you dealing with something like that?
493
00:36:47,490 --> 00:36:49,440
- I don't want to talk about it.
494
00:36:49,440 --> 00:36:51,333
- All right, I respect that.
495
00:36:53,817 --> 00:36:54,993
Well if you decide you want to talk,
496
00:36:55,861 --> 00:36:56,730
you know where to find me.
497
00:36:57,977 --> 00:36:58,810
- Yeah.
498
00:37:05,404 --> 00:37:08,071
(ominous music)
499
00:37:39,215 --> 00:37:40,971
- [Male] John, you love
your wife a lot, right?
500
00:37:40,971 --> 00:37:43,381
(phone buzzing)
- Call from John.
501
00:37:43,381 --> 00:37:48,381
Call from John.
502
00:37:56,188 --> 00:38:00,230
- Hi John.
503
00:38:00,230 --> 00:38:01,063
- Hi, Kayla.
504
00:38:03,066 --> 00:38:03,899
- What is it, John?
505
00:38:06,040 --> 00:38:07,250
- I just want to talk.
506
00:38:08,210 --> 00:38:09,643
- So talk.
507
00:38:13,400 --> 00:38:15,467
- Well, how are you doing?
508
00:38:19,567 --> 00:38:21,117
- How am I doing?
509
00:38:21,117 --> 00:38:22,893
How do you think I'm doing?
510
00:38:23,910 --> 00:38:25,280
I found out a couple of days ago
511
00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:27,240
that my husband is a drug addict.
512
00:38:27,240 --> 00:38:29,643
- Kayla, what can I do
to say that I'm sorry?
513
00:38:31,730 --> 00:38:32,913
- Stop using drugs.
514
00:38:33,763 --> 00:38:34,596
- I will.
515
00:38:34,596 --> 00:38:35,962
I promise.
516
00:38:35,962 --> 00:38:37,363
- Yeah, I believe that when I see it.
517
00:38:38,287 --> 00:38:39,660
- [John] I will quit.
518
00:38:39,660 --> 00:38:42,033
- I don't trust you anymore, John.
519
00:38:43,290 --> 00:38:45,100
You've lied to me.
520
00:38:45,100 --> 00:38:49,000
- I know that I lied,
but I'm not lying now.
521
00:38:49,000 --> 00:38:52,549
- All of these years, you've lied to me.
522
00:38:52,549 --> 00:38:53,382
- I will quit.
523
00:38:56,229 --> 00:39:01,175
- Yeah, I heard all that
before from my drunk dad.
524
00:39:01,175 --> 00:39:02,342
- I'm not him.
525
00:39:03,410 --> 00:39:04,243
I will quit.
526
00:39:08,820 --> 00:39:13,693
Can I come over there and
talk to you in person?
527
00:39:14,550 --> 00:39:17,950
- No, I don't want to see you right now.
528
00:39:17,950 --> 00:39:19,250
- When then?
529
00:39:19,250 --> 00:39:22,810
- You stop using drugs
and then we'll talk.
530
00:39:28,338 --> 00:39:29,640
I got to go, bye.
531
00:39:29,640 --> 00:39:30,994
- [John] Wait, don't hang...
532
00:39:30,994 --> 00:39:33,327
(sad music)
533
00:39:54,508 --> 00:39:56,675
(yelling)
534
00:39:58,274 --> 00:40:01,024
(dramatic music)
535
00:41:14,098 --> 00:41:15,015
- Hey Dave.
536
00:41:18,054 --> 00:41:20,903
I'm gonna need you to deliver
some more to my house.
537
00:41:23,000 --> 00:41:24,400
I don't know, bring a bunch.
538
00:41:30,253 --> 00:41:33,703
All right, see you soon.
539
00:41:36,813 --> 00:41:39,480
(ominous music)
540
00:41:52,296 --> 00:41:54,546
(snorting)
541
00:41:56,291 --> 00:41:58,958
(ominous music)
542
00:42:08,218 --> 00:42:10,130
(knocking)
543
00:42:10,130 --> 00:42:11,130
- John you in there?
544
00:42:13,823 --> 00:42:15,420
(knocking)
545
00:42:15,420 --> 00:42:17,233
John, what's up, man?
546
00:42:18,437 --> 00:42:19,333
You want this stuff or not?
547
00:42:25,594 --> 00:42:28,011
(dark music)
548
00:42:29,538 --> 00:42:30,371
John, are you here?
549
00:42:36,157 --> 00:42:37,596
John?
550
00:42:37,596 --> 00:42:38,693
Come on John, wake up, man.
551
00:42:41,720 --> 00:42:44,137
(dark music)
552
00:42:51,901 --> 00:42:54,568
(phone ringing)
553
00:43:00,776 --> 00:43:03,526
(dramatic music)
554
00:43:07,126 --> 00:43:09,478
(crying)
555
00:43:09,478 --> 00:43:11,006
Is John in there?
556
00:43:11,006 --> 00:43:12,090
I'm his mom.
557
00:43:12,090 --> 00:43:14,222
- He's alive, but we need to leave
558
00:43:14,222 --> 00:43:15,790
for the hospital right now, okay?
559
00:43:15,790 --> 00:43:18,603
You're welcome to ride
along, but we need to go now.
560
00:43:18,603 --> 00:43:19,766
- I'm gonna ride with them.
561
00:43:19,766 --> 00:43:20,785
Can you follow us?
562
00:43:20,785 --> 00:43:21,747
- Yeah.
563
00:43:21,747 --> 00:43:24,164
(dark music)
564
00:43:36,910 --> 00:43:38,745
- I called Gabe and Kayla
565
00:43:38,745 --> 00:43:41,030
and they're both on their way up here.
566
00:43:41,030 --> 00:43:43,020
- How is he?
567
00:43:43,020 --> 00:43:43,853
- He's stable.
568
00:43:44,882 --> 00:43:46,240
He's lucky the paramedics
got there when they did.
569
00:43:46,240 --> 00:43:47,550
- How soon can we see him?
570
00:43:47,550 --> 00:43:48,440
- Soon.
571
00:43:48,440 --> 00:43:49,790
I'll come back out and let you know.
572
00:43:49,790 --> 00:43:51,486
- Thank you, doctor.
573
00:43:51,486 --> 00:43:52,836
- Thank you, appreciate it.
574
00:43:56,451 --> 00:43:59,368
(machines beeping)
575
00:44:02,046 --> 00:44:03,870
- [Gabe] Like I said, I'm
glad he's fine in recovery.
576
00:44:03,870 --> 00:44:06,830
I'm only saying you guys
have to face the facts here,
577
00:44:06,830 --> 00:44:10,523
John's a screw up and he's
always gonna be a screw up.
578
00:44:10,523 --> 00:44:11,507
- Keep your voice down.
579
00:44:11,507 --> 00:44:13,209
He's right there.
580
00:44:13,209 --> 00:44:14,042
- [Gabe] I don't care if he hears me.
581
00:44:14,042 --> 00:44:15,810
John is not going to change.
582
00:44:15,810 --> 00:44:17,390
The sooner you guys realize that,
583
00:44:17,390 --> 00:44:19,523
the better off you're going to be.
584
00:44:19,523 --> 00:44:21,856
(sad music)
585
00:44:27,683 --> 00:44:28,516
- Morning, John.
586
00:44:30,250 --> 00:44:31,083
- Morning.
587
00:44:32,210 --> 00:44:33,310
- How are you feeling?
588
00:44:35,510 --> 00:44:36,343
- Miserable.
589
00:44:38,090 --> 00:44:39,540
How else should I be feeling?
590
00:44:45,200 --> 00:44:46,783
So, where's everyone else?
591
00:44:48,190 --> 00:44:49,023
- They're here.
592
00:44:50,820 --> 00:44:53,310
- What, they don't want
to come in and see me?
593
00:44:53,310 --> 00:44:55,623
- No, they do and they will.
594
00:44:59,235 --> 00:45:01,254
- What about Kayla?
595
00:45:01,254 --> 00:45:02,930
Is she here?
596
00:45:02,930 --> 00:45:03,983
- Yeah, she's here.
597
00:45:08,650 --> 00:45:09,700
- And what about you?
598
00:45:12,323 --> 00:45:13,156
- What about me?
599
00:45:16,471 --> 00:45:18,500
- You come here here to lecture me?
600
00:45:19,840 --> 00:45:20,673
- No.
601
00:45:23,907 --> 00:45:24,850
- Then why are you the
only one in here dad?
602
00:45:24,850 --> 00:45:25,803
What do you want?
603
00:45:31,920 --> 00:45:33,103
- Where do I begin?
604
00:45:39,350 --> 00:45:40,503
I'm sorry, John.
605
00:45:42,642 --> 00:45:43,559
- For what?
606
00:45:47,260 --> 00:45:49,623
- I'm sorry for being
an absent father to you.
607
00:45:55,902 --> 00:45:58,552
My dad when I was younger
was always too busy for me.
608
00:46:01,340 --> 00:46:04,293
He was hardly around and
I barely got to know him.
609
00:46:06,760 --> 00:46:09,830
I promised myself when I had kids,
610
00:46:09,830 --> 00:46:13,580
I wouldn't do that, but I did
611
00:46:16,147 --> 00:46:17,123
and I have to own that.
612
00:46:18,686 --> 00:46:19,519
I'm sorry.
613
00:46:22,620 --> 00:46:26,840
So am asking can you forgive me
614
00:46:26,840 --> 00:46:29,643
for all the times that I've
been a lousy father to you?
615
00:46:51,331 --> 00:46:52,164
Thank you.
616
00:46:53,755 --> 00:46:55,443
I love you, John.
617
00:46:57,465 --> 00:46:58,463
I hope you know that.
618
00:47:00,630 --> 00:47:02,320
I'll send the others in.
619
00:47:12,371 --> 00:47:14,454
(crying)
620
00:47:32,350 --> 00:47:33,267
- Love you.
621
00:47:40,585 --> 00:47:41,418
- I love you, John.
622
00:47:42,430 --> 00:47:43,263
- See you later.
623
00:47:49,043 --> 00:47:51,710
(phone ringing)
624
00:48:00,630 --> 00:48:01,503
Hey Dave.
625
00:48:02,420 --> 00:48:04,953
- [Dave] John, how's it going?
626
00:48:04,953 --> 00:48:06,740
- Fine, what do you want?
627
00:48:06,740 --> 00:48:08,250
- Come on, man.
628
00:48:08,250 --> 00:48:11,123
Is that any way to talk to the
friend who saved your life?
629
00:48:12,030 --> 00:48:13,430
- So is that why you called?
630
00:48:14,590 --> 00:48:17,140
- Well then, because we
never got to make our deal.
631
00:48:17,980 --> 00:48:19,563
- It's not gonna happen, man.
632
00:48:21,246 --> 00:48:24,010
Ruined my marriage, it almost killed me.
633
00:48:24,010 --> 00:48:26,450
- Well, you're fine now, aren't you?
634
00:48:26,450 --> 00:48:29,913
What you think you're the
only one who's ever overdosed?
635
00:48:30,810 --> 00:48:31,810
Happens all the time
636
00:48:31,810 --> 00:48:33,840
and people get right back on their feet.
637
00:48:33,840 --> 00:48:35,053
- The answer's no, Dave.
638
00:48:36,250 --> 00:48:39,160
Don't ever bring that stuff
over here again, you got it?
639
00:48:39,160 --> 00:48:40,543
- Come on, John.
640
00:48:48,142 --> 00:48:51,913
- John, where you been
the past couple days?
641
00:48:51,913 --> 00:48:54,040
- Long story, George.
642
00:48:54,040 --> 00:48:56,390
- I better warn you, Rick
is really mad at you.
643
00:48:58,425 --> 00:49:00,913
Don't look now but here he comes.
644
00:49:04,163 --> 00:49:05,960
- Meet me in my office, John.
645
00:49:05,960 --> 00:49:07,333
You and I need to talk.
646
00:49:23,710 --> 00:49:24,910
- So what happened, man?
647
00:49:27,630 --> 00:49:29,040
- What's it look like, man?
648
00:49:30,627 --> 00:49:31,460
He fired me.
649
00:49:37,390 --> 00:49:38,640
Nice knowing you, George.
650
00:49:39,890 --> 00:49:43,523
- Well hey, it doesn't
have to end like that.
651
00:49:43,523 --> 00:49:45,067
Get a hold of me sometime.
652
00:49:45,067 --> 00:49:46,146
I don't know, maybe we hang out
653
00:49:46,146 --> 00:49:46,979
and get a burger or something.
654
00:49:48,425 --> 00:49:49,592
- Yeah, maybe.
655
00:50:30,011 --> 00:50:32,678
(ominous music)
656
00:50:50,310 --> 00:50:52,560
(knocking)
657
00:50:58,590 --> 00:51:00,053
- Come on, John, I know you're in there.
658
00:51:01,637 --> 00:51:03,233
Come on, open the door.
659
00:51:05,882 --> 00:51:08,132
(knocking)
660
00:51:09,580 --> 00:51:11,223
- What do you want, Dave?
661
00:51:12,570 --> 00:51:15,080
- I'm just stopping by
to see how you're doing.
662
00:51:15,080 --> 00:51:16,030
Come on, let me in.
663
00:51:21,140 --> 00:51:22,700
What's going on man?
664
00:51:22,700 --> 00:51:24,400
You don't got time for me anymore?
665
00:51:35,201 --> 00:51:38,803
- All right, get to the point, Dave.
666
00:51:40,100 --> 00:51:43,353
- Well, I thought you might
like to see my new product.
667
00:51:47,141 --> 00:51:49,030
- I told you not to bring
that stuff over here.
668
00:51:49,030 --> 00:51:51,233
- Sure, man but I know
you better than that.
669
00:51:52,990 --> 00:51:55,440
- Well you're just wasting
your time anyway, man.
670
00:51:57,582 --> 00:51:59,107
I just got fired from my job
671
00:51:59,107 --> 00:52:02,573
so you won't be able to
make much money off of me.
672
00:52:03,462 --> 00:52:06,370
- That's okay because
tonight it's on the house.
673
00:52:06,370 --> 00:52:08,040
I thought you and I
could do a line together
674
00:52:08,040 --> 00:52:09,183
for old time's sake.
675
00:52:11,450 --> 00:52:12,710
Man, I'm telling you,
676
00:52:12,710 --> 00:52:16,533
this stuff is the best
high you'll ever have.
677
00:52:23,780 --> 00:52:26,430
Johnny, I thought maybe
you'd like to have this back.
678
00:52:29,945 --> 00:52:32,612
(ominous music)
679
00:52:56,686 --> 00:52:59,422
I knew you'd come around.
680
00:52:59,422 --> 00:53:02,089
(ominous music)
681
00:53:28,342 --> 00:53:31,009
(gentle music)
682
00:54:02,025 --> 00:54:03,358
- I'm worthless.
683
00:54:08,222 --> 00:54:10,555
God, if you're really there,
684
00:54:16,308 --> 00:54:17,141
show me.
685
00:54:18,513 --> 00:54:20,846
(sad music)
686
00:54:45,683 --> 00:54:46,516
- [George] Hi, John.
687
00:54:46,516 --> 00:54:47,690
I hope you read this.
688
00:54:47,690 --> 00:54:49,030
I slipped this into your lunch bag
689
00:54:49,030 --> 00:54:50,760
while you were meeting with Rick.
690
00:54:50,760 --> 00:54:54,193
My number is 248-555-0199.
691
00:54:55,290 --> 00:54:58,040
I would like to meet up
sometime and tell you my story.
692
00:54:58,040 --> 00:55:00,870
Or if you just want to call
and talk, that's fine too.
693
00:55:00,870 --> 00:55:02,513
Your friend, George.
694
00:55:33,726 --> 00:55:34,726
- Hi George.
695
00:55:39,726 --> 00:55:41,476
I'm hanging in there.
696
00:55:45,679 --> 00:55:49,846
I found the message that
you left in my lunch bag.
697
00:55:53,140 --> 00:55:53,973
Yeah.
698
00:55:58,108 --> 00:55:59,253
Yeah.
699
00:56:01,969 --> 00:56:02,973
Let's do that.
700
00:56:07,684 --> 00:56:08,517
- So then I tell Rick,
701
00:56:08,517 --> 00:56:11,290
for all I know he's climbing
on Mount Everest right now.
702
00:56:11,290 --> 00:56:14,369
So then he stares at me and
doesn't even crack a smile.
703
00:56:14,369 --> 00:56:16,169
Then he turns around and walks away.
704
00:56:18,360 --> 00:56:21,033
All right, enough about work.
705
00:56:22,200 --> 00:56:26,520
So what made you decide
to meet with me for lunch
706
00:56:26,520 --> 00:56:27,353
anyway, John?
707
00:56:34,050 --> 00:56:35,363
- My life's a mess, man.
708
00:56:38,846 --> 00:56:39,773
I feel hopeless.
709
00:56:43,550 --> 00:56:46,467
I don't know what to do about that.
710
00:56:48,230 --> 00:56:49,330
- I know that feeling.
711
00:56:50,370 --> 00:56:51,203
I've been there.
712
00:56:53,920 --> 00:56:54,820
- What did you do?
713
00:56:57,949 --> 00:56:59,799
- Well, it took me a while to see it,
714
00:57:01,400 --> 00:57:03,400
but eventually I realized I needed help.
715
00:57:04,280 --> 00:57:05,880
I was getting nowhere on my own.
716
00:57:08,470 --> 00:57:10,670
- So how did you get help?
717
00:57:10,670 --> 00:57:11,503
- You remember when I told you
718
00:57:11,503 --> 00:57:13,563
I was going through some
rough things, right?
719
00:57:15,100 --> 00:57:16,637
Can I tell you about it?
720
00:57:19,710 --> 00:57:20,543
- Sure.
721
00:57:21,500 --> 00:57:22,333
- All right.
722
00:57:24,250 --> 00:57:29,250
Well, I grew up with a abusive
drug dealer for a father.
723
00:57:30,930 --> 00:57:32,950
And even though we despised him,
724
00:57:32,950 --> 00:57:34,870
my brother and I followed his example.
725
00:57:34,870 --> 00:57:36,750
But using and dealing drugs
726
00:57:36,750 --> 00:57:40,240
eventually landed me in prison
on a three year sentence.
727
00:57:40,240 --> 00:57:42,080
Yeah, I was miserable.
728
00:57:42,080 --> 00:57:43,370
And believe me at that time,
729
00:57:43,370 --> 00:57:44,970
I wanted nothing to do with God,
730
00:57:45,969 --> 00:57:48,763
but that didn't stop God
from reaching out to me.
731
00:57:50,164 --> 00:57:52,064
You see, there was this preacher there
732
00:57:52,990 --> 00:57:55,326
and he would come to the prison every week
733
00:57:55,326 --> 00:57:58,000
and share his testimony
and hold Bible studies.
734
00:57:58,000 --> 00:58:00,220
He would tell us how God changed him
735
00:58:00,220 --> 00:58:02,420
and took him from being
thief to a preacher.
736
00:58:03,680 --> 00:58:05,080
Yeah, I was still skeptical,
737
00:58:06,040 --> 00:58:08,990
but I saw joy and peace in this
guy that I couldn't ignore.
738
00:58:10,612 --> 00:58:15,612
So a few years later, I
find myself a free man,
739
00:58:18,470 --> 00:58:19,720
but I wasn't really free.
740
00:58:20,890 --> 00:58:22,170
After being clean for a few weeks,
741
00:58:22,170 --> 00:58:23,873
I went right back to using drugs.
742
00:58:25,210 --> 00:58:27,410
I bounced from one job to another,
743
00:58:27,410 --> 00:58:30,010
making a enough to survive
and supply my drug habit.
744
00:58:32,500 --> 00:58:34,823
Eventually I got evicted
from my apartment.
745
00:58:36,160 --> 00:58:39,590
So I stumbled my way over to
this Christian run rehab clinic
746
00:58:39,590 --> 00:58:41,340
and while I was there,
747
00:58:41,340 --> 00:58:43,290
this Christian therapist befriended me.
748
00:58:44,274 --> 00:58:46,653
He also told me how Jesus changed him.
749
00:58:47,902 --> 00:58:49,430
And you know what?
750
00:58:49,430 --> 00:58:50,680
I started to believe him.
751
00:58:52,004 --> 00:58:54,153
And I realized Jesus
could do the same for me.
752
00:58:55,460 --> 00:58:57,010
He told me that I needed to make Jesus
753
00:58:57,010 --> 00:58:59,883
the Lord and savior of
my life and so I did.
754
00:59:01,281 --> 00:59:02,114
And it's true,
755
00:59:02,114 --> 00:59:05,000
Jesus has completely changed my life.
756
00:59:05,000 --> 00:59:07,403
It didn't happen
overnight, but it happened.
757
00:59:09,430 --> 00:59:13,820
I am now a different person
today and with God's help,
758
00:59:13,820 --> 00:59:16,420
I made it through rehab and
eventually stayed clean.
759
00:59:18,150 --> 00:59:20,893
The Lord can help you too,
John, and he wants to,
760
00:59:22,240 --> 00:59:24,250
but he isn't gonna force
his way into your life,
761
00:59:24,250 --> 00:59:25,403
you have to let him in.
762
00:59:33,406 --> 00:59:35,213
- Tell me more about this rehab place.
763
00:59:36,259 --> 00:59:37,700
- They have an awesome staff there
764
00:59:37,700 --> 00:59:38,920
that treat you with love and dignity
765
00:59:38,920 --> 00:59:41,120
and they recognize their
great value to God.
766
00:59:42,081 --> 00:59:44,230
They want to see lives change through him.
767
00:59:44,230 --> 00:59:46,063
They'll be a huge help to you, John.
768
00:59:48,601 --> 00:59:49,851
Think about it.
769
00:59:52,694 --> 00:59:55,361
(phone ringing)
770
00:59:59,580 --> 01:00:00,413
- Hello?
771
01:00:01,300 --> 01:00:04,213
- Hey Jasmine, I have some bad news.
772
01:00:06,070 --> 01:00:07,070
Our car won't start.
773
01:00:09,423 --> 01:00:10,763
- Please tell me you're joking.
774
01:00:12,281 --> 01:00:14,148
- [Dad] No, I'm not.
775
01:00:14,148 --> 01:00:15,145
- Of all the days,
776
01:00:15,145 --> 01:00:17,645
your car chooses today to break down?
777
01:00:17,645 --> 01:00:19,380
- I don't know what to tell you.
778
01:00:19,380 --> 01:00:21,124
Maybe you could reschedule.
779
01:00:21,124 --> 01:00:23,182
- No, no, I'm not rescheduling.
780
01:00:23,182 --> 01:00:24,520
I want this done and over with.
781
01:00:24,520 --> 01:00:25,720
I'll just catch the bus.
782
01:00:27,124 --> 01:00:28,250
- Jasmine, your mother and I
783
01:00:28,250 --> 01:00:31,010
really wanted to be there with you today.
784
01:00:31,010 --> 01:00:31,843
- I know.
785
01:00:34,825 --> 01:00:36,622
- We love you.
786
01:00:36,622 --> 01:00:37,872
- Love you too.
787
01:00:52,260 --> 01:00:54,041
Excuse me, do you mind if
I sit right here, dear?
788
01:00:54,041 --> 01:00:54,874
- Not at all, dear.
789
01:01:03,102 --> 01:01:04,150
How far along are you?
790
01:01:04,150 --> 01:01:05,143
- Excuse me?
791
01:01:06,950 --> 01:01:10,210
- You're not showing
very much, but trust me,
792
01:01:10,210 --> 01:01:12,383
I know when someone's pregnant.
793
01:01:14,760 --> 01:01:16,563
- I'm a little over four months.
794
01:01:17,820 --> 01:01:20,523
- I always wondered what it
would be like to have a child.
795
01:01:25,400 --> 01:01:30,286
So you get to find out what
it's like in five months,
796
01:01:30,286 --> 01:01:32,353
assuming this is your first child.
797
01:01:35,821 --> 01:01:37,223
Is this is your first child?
798
01:01:38,087 --> 01:01:39,380
- You know, I really don't
want to talk about this.
799
01:01:39,380 --> 01:01:40,883
- Okay, I won't press you.
800
01:01:55,490 --> 01:01:56,773
Where are you headed?
801
01:01:57,697 --> 01:01:58,530
- Does it matter?
802
01:01:59,420 --> 01:02:01,443
- You certainly don't have to tell me.
803
01:02:02,630 --> 01:02:04,233
I'm just making conversation.
804
01:02:11,550 --> 01:02:14,223
Do you want to know why I
don't have any children?
805
01:02:15,140 --> 01:02:16,830
I was pregnant once,
806
01:02:16,830 --> 01:02:19,140
I was about your age.
807
01:02:19,140 --> 01:02:21,750
I decided I didn't want the baby,
808
01:02:21,750 --> 01:02:24,423
so I went to the clinic
and I had an abortion.
809
01:02:27,570 --> 01:02:29,980
Now I know God has forgiven me,
810
01:02:29,980 --> 01:02:31,830
but I've never forgotten about it.
811
01:02:31,830 --> 01:02:34,143
I wish I could take it back, but I can't.
812
01:02:35,741 --> 01:02:37,373
I hope you don't make that same mistake.
813
01:02:38,360 --> 01:02:41,407
Think about what I said
before you go through with it.
814
01:02:42,797 --> 01:02:45,130
(sad music)
815
01:02:54,034 --> 01:02:54,867
- So what was it about George
816
01:02:54,867 --> 01:02:56,550
that influenced you to go to rehab?
817
01:02:57,730 --> 01:03:00,723
- George didn't seem like a
former addict to me, you know?
818
01:03:01,811 --> 01:03:04,310
He seemed so different
819
01:03:04,310 --> 01:03:06,980
from the former life
that he described to me.
820
01:03:06,980 --> 01:03:11,290
So I concluded that it
must have been rehab
821
01:03:11,290 --> 01:03:12,530
that did that for him.
822
01:03:12,530 --> 01:03:15,000
- But he did credit Jesus, right?
823
01:03:15,000 --> 01:03:17,223
- Right and I didn't believe him.
824
01:03:18,920 --> 01:03:21,260
- So here you are
825
01:03:21,260 --> 01:03:23,653
ready to enter this
Christian run rehab clinic.
826
01:03:24,780 --> 01:03:27,230
What were your thoughts
before you went in there?
827
01:03:28,920 --> 01:03:31,003
- I kept trying to psych myself up,
828
01:03:32,186 --> 01:03:36,690
telling myself if George
could do it, I can do it.
829
01:03:36,690 --> 01:03:37,860
- All right, gentlemen,
830
01:03:37,860 --> 01:03:39,800
we have a copy of the schedule
831
01:03:39,800 --> 01:03:41,230
posted out here in the hallway.
832
01:03:41,230 --> 01:03:44,823
Breakfast is at seven,
followed by morning meds.
833
01:03:46,137 --> 01:03:47,120
Here's a list of classes,
834
01:03:47,120 --> 01:03:50,000
as well as group and
individual therapy sessions.
835
01:03:50,000 --> 01:03:51,720
Now if you need anything at all,
836
01:03:51,720 --> 01:03:54,820
you come find me or
one of the other techs.
837
01:03:54,820 --> 01:03:56,220
We'll be glad to assist you.
838
01:03:57,077 --> 01:03:57,910
- All right.
839
01:03:57,910 --> 01:03:58,910
- [Tech] See you around John.
840
01:03:58,910 --> 01:03:59,810
It's good to meet you.
841
01:03:59,810 --> 01:04:00,643
- You too.
842
01:04:02,550 --> 01:04:03,870
- George, you're a good man.
843
01:04:03,870 --> 01:04:04,703
Thank you.
844
01:04:05,750 --> 01:04:06,717
- Ready?
845
01:04:06,717 --> 01:04:07,733
I'll be praying for you, brother.
846
01:04:10,890 --> 01:04:14,550
- Wow, this place brings back memories.
847
01:04:14,550 --> 01:04:15,550
That's a good thing.
848
01:04:16,570 --> 01:04:18,563
This is where everything
turned around for me.
849
01:04:20,360 --> 01:04:21,573
- Honestly, George,
850
01:04:24,950 --> 01:04:26,150
I'm having second thoughts
851
01:04:26,150 --> 01:04:28,570
about this whole rehab thing, man.
852
01:04:28,570 --> 01:04:30,020
- You're gonna be fine, John.
853
01:04:30,974 --> 01:04:33,570
I felt the same way when
I first came in here.
854
01:04:33,570 --> 01:04:35,170
You have my number.
855
01:04:35,170 --> 01:04:36,453
You can call me anytime.
856
01:04:37,710 --> 01:04:40,137
Believe me, John, I have your back
857
01:04:40,137 --> 01:04:42,100
and the people in here, they're great.
858
01:04:42,100 --> 01:04:44,150
They'll do whatever they can to help you.
859
01:04:48,275 --> 01:04:49,630
(knocking)
860
01:04:49,630 --> 01:04:50,463
- Come in.
861
01:04:54,960 --> 01:04:56,243
Good afternoon, John.
862
01:04:58,540 --> 01:04:59,890
Come on in and have a seat.
863
01:05:02,432 --> 01:05:05,193
So how are you feeling today?
864
01:05:06,110 --> 01:05:07,410
- How do you think I feel?
865
01:05:08,440 --> 01:05:11,190
- I understand if you're
not in a good mood, John.
866
01:05:11,190 --> 01:05:14,511
There's nothing easy
about detoxing from drugs.
867
01:05:14,511 --> 01:05:17,283
But you're here, that's what counts.
868
01:05:18,670 --> 01:05:21,403
But I have to ask, why did
you decide to come here?
869
01:05:22,510 --> 01:05:24,910
- I don't see any other
way to get my life back.
870
01:05:26,050 --> 01:05:27,100
- Tell me about that.
871
01:05:28,060 --> 01:05:29,813
What have you lost in your life?
872
01:05:31,210 --> 01:05:36,210
- Well, let's see my
wife, my job, my health.
873
01:05:38,160 --> 01:05:39,313
What haven't I lost?
874
01:05:40,421 --> 01:05:42,960
- I'm sorry to hear that, John.
875
01:05:42,960 --> 01:05:44,323
That's a lot to deal with.
876
01:05:45,874 --> 01:05:49,537
Now I want to ask you some
things about your family
877
01:05:49,537 --> 01:05:50,370
if that's okay.
878
01:05:50,370 --> 01:05:51,890
- Go ahead.
879
01:05:51,890 --> 01:05:55,530
- Are you close with
your parents or brother?
880
01:05:55,530 --> 01:05:56,363
- No.
881
01:05:57,560 --> 01:05:59,784
- How do you feel when you're around them?
882
01:05:59,784 --> 01:06:02,150
- I don't know.
883
01:06:02,150 --> 01:06:07,150
I mean, I'm not around
'em much, but when I am,
884
01:06:08,162 --> 01:06:11,523
I want the visit to end
as quickly as possible.
885
01:06:12,584 --> 01:06:13,417
- I see.
886
01:06:14,264 --> 01:06:16,323
And why is it you don't
want to be around them?
887
01:06:17,990 --> 01:06:19,363
- It's been a long time,
888
01:06:20,300 --> 01:06:25,224
but I guess it all started
889
01:06:25,224 --> 01:06:28,973
when I had a falling out with
my parents as a teenager.
890
01:06:29,842 --> 01:06:31,123
- Tell me about that.
891
01:06:33,870 --> 01:06:38,000
- I remember I felt like
they wanted to control me,
892
01:06:45,220 --> 01:06:47,580
especially my dad.
893
01:06:47,580 --> 01:06:49,821
- In what way did they control you?
894
01:06:49,821 --> 01:06:51,190
- I don't know.
895
01:06:51,190 --> 01:06:54,230
Stuff like making me go to church,
896
01:06:54,230 --> 01:06:56,690
trying to keep me from my friends,
897
01:06:56,690 --> 01:06:59,090
setting ridiculous curfews.
898
01:06:59,090 --> 01:07:02,463
And they yelled at me all the time.
899
01:07:04,550 --> 01:07:08,270
Do you think that actions
were motivated out of concern
900
01:07:08,270 --> 01:07:10,763
or did they just enjoy
telling you what to do?
901
01:07:13,460 --> 01:07:14,873
- Probably out of concern.
902
01:07:18,460 --> 01:07:20,520
- Let's digress a little.
903
01:07:20,520 --> 01:07:23,930
You were adopted, right?
904
01:07:23,930 --> 01:07:25,538
- Yes.
905
01:07:25,538 --> 01:07:28,936
- Have you ever met your
biological mother or father?
906
01:07:28,936 --> 01:07:30,790
- No.
907
01:07:30,790 --> 01:07:31,840
- Have you wanted to?
908
01:07:33,826 --> 01:07:38,826
- My birth mom, yes, but not my birth dad.
909
01:07:40,810 --> 01:07:43,033
- Why not your birth dad?
910
01:07:46,770 --> 01:07:51,583
- Because he raped my mom.
911
01:07:57,180 --> 01:07:58,730
- I'm sorry to hear that, John.
912
01:08:00,570 --> 01:08:02,920
I can tell that is a
sensitive subject for you.
913
01:08:04,653 --> 01:08:05,630
We don't have to talk about that right now
914
01:08:05,630 --> 01:08:06,680
if you don't want to.
915
01:08:10,940 --> 01:08:12,790
- I never talked to anyone about that
916
01:08:14,610 --> 01:08:15,710
other than my parents.
917
01:08:17,357 --> 01:08:20,493
- Well, I'm here to help John,
if you want to talk about it,
918
01:08:24,069 --> 01:08:26,940
- I don't even know
where to begin with that.
919
01:08:26,940 --> 01:08:29,663
- Well, how old were you
920
01:08:29,663 --> 01:08:31,792
when you found out about the assault?
921
01:08:34,059 --> 01:08:35,510
- I'll never forget that day.
922
01:08:38,587 --> 01:08:41,219
It was right after my 15th birthday.
923
01:08:43,059 --> 01:08:46,719
- What were you feeling when
you first found out about it?
924
01:08:46,719 --> 01:08:50,657
- Uh, confused, angry.
925
01:08:56,639 --> 01:08:58,603
Up until that point,
926
01:08:58,603 --> 01:09:01,219
I barely knew anything about my birth mom
927
01:09:02,130 --> 01:09:05,303
and nothing about my birth dad.
928
01:09:08,399 --> 01:09:09,700
I used to wonder about him
929
01:09:11,969 --> 01:09:16,969
But after that, I hated him.
930
01:09:23,870 --> 01:09:28,870
I always used to ask myself
why my birth mom gave me up.
931
01:09:32,600 --> 01:09:36,413
But suddenly it all made sense to me.
932
01:09:42,895 --> 01:09:45,062
It made me feel worthless,
933
01:09:50,280 --> 01:09:55,233
like I was a big mistake.
934
01:10:00,040 --> 01:10:01,883
- You're not a mistake, John.
935
01:10:04,064 --> 01:10:05,414
And you're not your father.
936
01:10:07,150 --> 01:10:10,850
You've been created in the image of God
937
01:10:10,850 --> 01:10:12,740
and he loves you and values you
938
01:10:13,869 --> 01:10:15,543
regardless of where you came from.
939
01:10:18,184 --> 01:10:20,413
I really hope that you'll
come to accept that.
940
01:10:21,710 --> 01:10:24,583
- Yeah, me too.
941
01:11:00,719 --> 01:11:02,280
- Gabe.
942
01:11:02,280 --> 01:11:03,112
- John.
943
01:11:05,990 --> 01:11:07,900
- All right, well,
944
01:11:07,900 --> 01:11:10,240
I want to thank the three
of you for coming in here
945
01:11:10,240 --> 01:11:12,593
to join John and have
this talk as a family.
946
01:11:14,180 --> 01:11:16,469
John, I want to start
947
01:11:16,469 --> 01:11:18,790
by asking you to share your
thoughts with your family
948
01:11:18,790 --> 01:11:19,903
about why you're here.
949
01:11:22,120 --> 01:11:22,952
- Well,
950
01:11:27,660 --> 01:11:32,630
my life is a mess and
951
01:11:36,460 --> 01:11:38,260
I needed to do something about that.
952
01:11:39,752 --> 01:11:42,187
So I'm here
953
01:11:44,557 --> 01:11:47,974
and I hope that you guys will support me.
954
01:11:51,517 --> 01:11:53,432
- Of course, we'll support you John.
955
01:11:53,432 --> 01:11:55,073
- And we're 100% behind you.
956
01:11:56,317 --> 01:11:58,517
- Yeah, I mean, we're
all here for you, man.
957
01:12:01,799 --> 01:12:06,799
- Now, I want each of you to take turns
958
01:12:07,634 --> 01:12:09,300
expressing how you feel towards John
959
01:12:09,300 --> 01:12:10,133
and how you would like
960
01:12:10,133 --> 01:12:13,309
to see your relationship improve with him
961
01:12:13,309 --> 01:12:14,383
and as a family.
962
01:12:16,023 --> 01:12:18,743
Gabe, let's start with you.
963
01:12:21,130 --> 01:12:25,183
- Well, it's good you're getting help.
964
01:12:27,565 --> 01:12:30,173
So how do I feel toward you?
965
01:12:31,148 --> 01:12:33,963
I guess I feel distant,
966
01:12:34,850 --> 01:12:35,683
that's all I can think of.
967
01:12:36,929 --> 01:12:40,210
Would you like to expound
on that a little, Gabe?
968
01:12:40,210 --> 01:12:42,483
Why do you feel distant from John?
969
01:12:45,385 --> 01:12:47,903
- I used to look up to
you when I was younger,
970
01:12:49,340 --> 01:12:52,698
but then one day you up and left
971
01:12:52,698 --> 01:12:54,340
and it's like you wanted
nothing else to do with me
972
01:12:54,340 --> 01:12:55,173
after that.
973
01:12:56,630 --> 01:12:57,710
Why man?
974
01:12:57,710 --> 01:12:59,350
Why did you disown us?
975
01:12:59,350 --> 01:13:01,540
What did we do to drive you away?
976
01:13:01,540 --> 01:13:03,043
Or was it that you cared more about drugs
977
01:13:03,043 --> 01:13:04,923
than you cared about us?
978
01:13:09,393 --> 01:13:12,376
What, you're not going to answer me?
979
01:13:12,376 --> 01:13:13,395
- [Mother] Gabe.
980
01:13:13,395 --> 01:13:15,030
- Well, why isn't he answering me?
981
01:13:15,030 --> 01:13:17,782
What did we do to drive you away?
982
01:13:20,770 --> 01:13:22,202
- You didn't do anything.
983
01:13:26,230 --> 01:13:27,130
None of you did.
984
01:13:29,816 --> 01:13:33,032
I just stopped caring about everything.
985
01:13:33,920 --> 01:13:37,030
- You stopped caring about everything,
986
01:13:37,030 --> 01:13:38,713
including your family?
987
01:13:39,950 --> 01:13:43,040
So where do we stand with you now, John?
988
01:13:43,040 --> 01:13:45,830
- Let's try to keep our tone constructive.
989
01:13:45,830 --> 01:13:47,938
- I asked him a simple question.
990
01:13:47,938 --> 01:13:49,000
- I know you're angry
991
01:13:49,000 --> 01:13:51,770
but let's try to keep a civil tone.
992
01:13:51,770 --> 01:13:52,779
- You know what?
993
01:13:52,779 --> 01:13:53,778
This whole thing is stupid.
994
01:13:53,778 --> 01:13:55,000
I don't even know why I'm here.
995
01:13:55,000 --> 01:13:56,380
- Gabe.
996
01:13:56,380 --> 01:13:57,333
- [Gabe] This isn't helping anything.
997
01:14:02,020 --> 01:14:03,177
- I'll go talk to him.
998
01:14:13,442 --> 01:14:16,920
- You know, he's right about me.
999
01:14:16,920 --> 01:14:18,620
What he said back at the hospital,
1000
01:14:21,141 --> 01:14:22,023
I'm a worthless screw up.
1001
01:14:23,070 --> 01:14:24,163
No dad, I am.
1002
01:14:25,600 --> 01:14:28,400
I don't even know why the two
of you would stick around.
1003
01:14:29,464 --> 01:14:32,650
- John, we may not approve
of everything you do,
1004
01:14:32,650 --> 01:14:33,670
but we love you
1005
01:14:34,650 --> 01:14:36,452
and nothing's going to change that.
1006
01:14:37,740 --> 01:14:39,487
We'll never give up on you.
1007
01:14:40,482 --> 01:14:42,815
(sad music)
1008
01:14:52,999 --> 01:14:55,832
(inspiring music)
1009
01:15:13,769 --> 01:15:14,602
(knocking)
1010
01:15:14,602 --> 01:15:15,434
- Come in.
1011
01:15:17,260 --> 01:15:20,160
- John, my friend, ready
to grab some lunch?
1012
01:15:20,160 --> 01:15:21,673
- Yeah, I'm ready.
1013
01:15:22,537 --> 01:15:25,068
- Hey, you've been reading the Bible?
1014
01:15:25,068 --> 01:15:26,710
- Yeah.
1015
01:15:26,710 --> 01:15:27,930
- Well that's great.
1016
01:15:27,930 --> 01:15:30,076
What are you reading right now?
1017
01:15:30,076 --> 01:15:32,020
- John Chapter 10.
1018
01:15:32,020 --> 01:15:33,500
- I'm very familiar with that chapter.
1019
01:15:33,500 --> 01:15:34,900
You have any thoughts on it?
1020
01:15:35,768 --> 01:15:39,830
- Well, verse 10 really stood out to me.
1021
01:15:39,830 --> 01:15:41,850
I've been sitting here thinking about it.
1022
01:15:41,850 --> 01:15:43,977
- That's a great verse.
1023
01:15:43,977 --> 01:15:48,977
"The thief come not but for
to steal, kill and to destroy.
1024
01:15:49,520 --> 01:15:52,600
I am come that they might have life
1025
01:15:52,600 --> 01:15:55,100
and that they might have
it more abundantly."
1026
01:15:55,100 --> 01:15:56,744
- Yeah.
1027
01:15:56,744 --> 01:16:00,510
What does Jesus mean
by more abundant life?
1028
01:16:00,510 --> 01:16:02,520
- I believe he means that in him
1029
01:16:02,520 --> 01:16:04,513
he wants us to live a thriving life,
1030
01:16:05,360 --> 01:16:07,163
one full of joy and purpose.
1031
01:16:09,151 --> 01:16:12,010
Anybody breathing can live a life,
1032
01:16:12,010 --> 01:16:14,360
but in Jesus that life
could mean so much more.
1033
01:16:15,650 --> 01:16:17,903
Take it from me, John, I lived both.
1034
01:16:20,369 --> 01:16:23,019
And thank God I don't have
to go back to where I was.
1035
01:16:25,575 --> 01:16:27,110
- John, can't you see it?
1036
01:16:27,110 --> 01:16:31,280
God has been reaching out
to you left and right.
1037
01:16:31,280 --> 01:16:33,243
I mean look at your parents.
1038
01:16:34,200 --> 01:16:36,107
They loved you unconditionally
1039
01:16:36,107 --> 01:16:38,139
and have stood by your side
1040
01:16:38,139 --> 01:16:40,440
with everything they've
been through with you.
1041
01:16:41,510 --> 01:16:43,983
That's because of God in their lives.
1042
01:16:45,582 --> 01:16:47,740
And look at George.
1043
01:16:47,740 --> 01:16:50,973
How God's been working through
him to reach out to you.
1044
01:16:52,840 --> 01:16:54,743
These are not the coincidences.
1045
01:16:56,295 --> 01:17:00,123
John, what are you waiting for?
1046
01:17:04,812 --> 01:17:05,645
- Why?
1047
01:17:08,559 --> 01:17:12,713
Why has God been trying
to reach out to me?
1048
01:17:15,200 --> 01:17:16,933
I've done nothing good in my life.
1049
01:17:20,842 --> 01:17:22,353
- He loves you, John.
1050
01:17:28,900 --> 01:17:33,763
He always has and always will.
1051
01:17:39,780 --> 01:17:41,013
- What do I do now?
1052
01:17:45,630 --> 01:17:46,477
- Let him in.
1053
01:17:47,947 --> 01:17:51,443
Let Jesus in as Lord and savior.
1054
01:18:05,050 --> 01:18:09,620
- Okay, Adam, we will
see you in six months.
1055
01:18:09,620 --> 01:18:10,730
- Thanks, have a good day.
1056
01:18:10,730 --> 01:18:11,563
- You too.
1057
01:18:15,998 --> 01:18:18,910
- I have a delivery for our Kayla Gessler.
1058
01:18:18,910 --> 01:18:19,860
- That's me.
1059
01:18:19,860 --> 01:18:21,083
- You, sign here.
1060
01:18:27,790 --> 01:18:29,246
Thank you.
1061
01:18:29,246 --> 01:18:30,231
Have a great day.
1062
01:18:30,231 --> 01:18:31,244
- You too.
1063
01:18:31,244 --> 01:18:33,161
- So who are they from?
1064
01:18:34,056 --> 01:18:37,883
- There's not a name, but it's a poem.
1065
01:18:40,487 --> 01:18:42,270
"I don't deserve you Kayla, this is true,
1066
01:18:42,270 --> 01:18:44,840
but that doesn't stop me from loving you.
1067
01:18:44,840 --> 01:18:46,160
If you love the flowers,
1068
01:18:46,160 --> 01:18:47,800
there's more to bloom.
1069
01:18:47,800 --> 01:18:48,770
Come out of the office,
1070
01:18:48,770 --> 01:18:50,327
I'm in the next room."
1071
01:18:51,702 --> 01:18:52,743
- [Dentist] Who's out there Kayla?
1072
01:18:53,665 --> 01:18:55,082
- I have no idea.
1073
01:18:56,225 --> 01:18:58,808
(gentle music)
1074
01:19:13,825 --> 01:19:14,742
- Hi Kayla.
1075
01:19:16,039 --> 01:19:16,871
- Hey.
1076
01:19:21,628 --> 01:19:24,630
- Join me for dinner tonight?
1077
01:19:24,630 --> 01:19:27,030
I made reservations at
your favorite restaurant.
1078
01:19:28,469 --> 01:19:29,303
- You did, huh?
1079
01:19:31,090 --> 01:19:32,190
Why should I join you?
1080
01:19:33,880 --> 01:19:38,880
- Kayla, I am so, so
sorry that I hurt you.
1081
01:19:42,710 --> 01:19:46,639
And if I could take it all back, I would.
1082
01:19:46,639 --> 01:19:47,520
All I'm asking
1083
01:19:49,059 --> 01:19:53,362
is for you to let me try
and earn your trust back.
1084
01:19:57,889 --> 01:19:58,723
- Wow.
1085
01:20:02,930 --> 01:20:04,043
You seem different.
1086
01:20:05,960 --> 01:20:08,760
- Come to dinner with me and
I'll tell you all about it.
1087
01:20:14,638 --> 01:20:16,003
- Okay, I'll join you.
1088
01:20:18,840 --> 01:20:20,110
What time?
1089
01:20:20,110 --> 01:20:21,930
- As soon as you're done here.
1090
01:20:21,930 --> 01:20:24,003
I'll be right here sitting right there,
1091
01:20:24,882 --> 01:20:27,110
not going anywhere.
1092
01:20:27,110 --> 01:20:27,943
- Okay.
1093
01:20:33,346 --> 01:20:36,263
Oh by the way, you look good, John.
1094
01:20:42,380 --> 01:20:45,467
- Kayla, you look as beautiful as ever.
1095
01:20:50,050 --> 01:20:52,633
(gentle music)
1096
01:21:22,898 --> 01:21:25,330
(knocking)
1097
01:21:25,330 --> 01:21:27,996
(ominous music)
1098
01:21:51,416 --> 01:21:53,749
(sad music)
1099
01:22:03,790 --> 01:22:07,958
- Hello, read this please
before you make your choice.
1100
01:22:07,958 --> 01:22:12,958
(heartbeat pounding)
(sad music)
1101
01:22:47,809 --> 01:22:49,687
- Laura Reel.
1102
01:22:49,687 --> 01:22:52,020
(sad music)
1103
01:23:03,447 --> 01:23:05,909
- [Mother] You're not
ready to be a mother.
1104
01:23:05,909 --> 01:23:07,212
- [Father] How are you gonna support it?
1105
01:23:07,212 --> 01:23:10,050
It's your only good option.
1106
01:23:10,050 --> 01:23:12,112
- [Female] Read this please,
before you make your choice.
1107
01:23:13,840 --> 01:23:15,287
- [Female] Think about what I said
1108
01:23:15,287 --> 01:23:16,787
before you go through with it.
1109
01:23:22,564 --> 01:23:23,692
- Bless you.
1110
01:23:23,692 --> 01:23:26,639
You know, if you like, we
can help you at our center.
1111
01:23:26,639 --> 01:23:29,450
We have resources and
counselors available.
1112
01:23:29,450 --> 01:23:30,410
Don't hesitate to call us
1113
01:23:30,410 --> 01:23:32,670
if there's anything we
can do for you, okay?
1114
01:23:35,120 --> 01:23:36,090
- So what was it like
1115
01:23:36,090 --> 01:23:38,603
to take your first
steps as a new believer?
1116
01:23:40,500 --> 01:23:41,403
- It felt great.
1117
01:23:42,600 --> 01:23:43,809
God was opening my eyes
1118
01:23:43,809 --> 01:23:46,173
to all kinds of things that I hadn't seen.
1119
01:23:47,420 --> 01:23:50,143
It was tough in many ways.
1120
01:23:52,300 --> 01:23:54,030
I had hurt a lot of people,
1121
01:23:54,030 --> 01:23:55,870
especially my family,
1122
01:23:55,870 --> 01:23:58,800
and I had a lot of
relationships to try to repair,
1123
01:23:58,800 --> 01:24:00,782
but my family could see
1124
01:24:00,782 --> 01:24:02,770
that I was seriously
trying to kick my addiction
1125
01:24:03,670 --> 01:24:04,763
and my parents,
1126
01:24:06,360 --> 01:24:09,563
they demonstrated what
unconditional love was like.
1127
01:24:10,806 --> 01:24:11,993
- How 'bout the rest of your family?
1128
01:24:12,940 --> 01:24:15,373
- Kayla and Gabe were more of a challenge.
1129
01:24:16,572 --> 01:24:18,230
With Gabe, it took a long time
1130
01:24:19,191 --> 01:24:21,809
before we could really
open up to each other.
1131
01:24:21,809 --> 01:24:23,370
- And how about Kayla?
1132
01:24:23,370 --> 01:24:25,219
How did you patch things up with her?
1133
01:24:27,228 --> 01:24:28,407
- She struggled with letting go
1134
01:24:28,407 --> 01:24:30,200
of the past wounds that I had caused her
1135
01:24:30,200 --> 01:24:33,650
and my ongoing battle with
drugs didn't help matters,
1136
01:24:33,650 --> 01:24:34,483
but God,
1137
01:24:35,898 --> 01:24:39,690
but God definitely helped me.
1138
01:24:39,690 --> 01:24:42,830
And she could see my growth
with my walk with the Lord.
1139
01:24:42,830 --> 01:24:47,830
I can joyfully report that
Kayla has now accepted Christ
1140
01:24:48,564 --> 01:24:52,940
and our relationship is healthier
having him at the center.
1141
01:24:52,940 --> 01:24:54,230
- Amazing.
1142
01:24:54,230 --> 01:24:56,585
God certainly makes a better captain
1143
01:24:56,585 --> 01:24:58,840
of our lives and
relationships than we can.
1144
01:24:58,840 --> 01:25:00,469
Speaking of which,
1145
01:25:00,469 --> 01:25:04,823
how did you eventually surrender
your drug addiction to him?
1146
01:25:05,964 --> 01:25:09,719
- I wish that rehab had
cured me the first time,
1147
01:25:09,719 --> 01:25:14,719
but I ended up going back twice
1148
01:25:14,725 --> 01:25:16,770
and every time I got out,
1149
01:25:16,770 --> 01:25:20,523
my good old friend, Dave was
there to offer me freebies.
1150
01:25:20,523 --> 01:25:24,250
- How did you eventually deal with Dave?
1151
01:25:24,250 --> 01:25:29,059
- Well, I needed help 24/7.
1152
01:25:29,059 --> 01:25:31,193
So after I got out that third time,
1153
01:25:32,139 --> 01:25:33,550
I wasn't left alone
1154
01:25:33,550 --> 01:25:36,350
and Dave never found another
opportunity to come around.
1155
01:25:37,650 --> 01:25:39,680
- So here you are,
1156
01:25:39,680 --> 01:25:43,492
off of drugs growing in your
relationship with the Lord,
1157
01:25:43,492 --> 01:25:46,070
how did you eventually sense God's calling
1158
01:25:46,070 --> 01:25:47,112
to write your book?
1159
01:25:48,050 --> 01:25:49,490
- Well, I started writing
1160
01:25:49,490 --> 01:25:51,849
just to put my thoughts down on paper
1161
01:25:51,849 --> 01:25:55,940
and then after I prayed and
reached out to God about it,
1162
01:25:55,940 --> 01:25:58,290
I felt like he wanted me
to write my own story.
1163
01:25:59,190 --> 01:26:02,530
I had no idea what would come of it,
1164
01:26:02,530 --> 01:26:05,250
but I trusted his lead
and I started writing.
1165
01:26:05,250 --> 01:26:07,309
- So what's come of it?
1166
01:26:07,309 --> 01:26:08,143
- I released it
1167
01:26:08,143 --> 01:26:10,410
on the fourth year
anniversary of my sobriety
1168
01:26:11,593 --> 01:26:16,593
and God no doubt has opened
up many doors because of that.
1169
01:26:18,331 --> 01:26:21,353
And invitations flowed
1170
01:26:21,353 --> 01:26:24,973
to speak to various groups about
the book and about my life.
1171
01:26:27,330 --> 01:26:29,860
Thank you for coming to hear me tonight
1172
01:26:29,860 --> 01:26:32,112
and please know that
I'm here for you guys.
1173
01:26:33,110 --> 01:26:37,903
If you want to talk or need
to pray, just let me know.
1174
01:26:39,609 --> 01:26:42,776
(audience applauding)
1175
01:26:44,105 --> 01:26:44,938
Thank you.
1176
01:26:46,126 --> 01:26:47,073
Do any of you have any questions?
1177
01:26:48,639 --> 01:26:49,473
Yes?
1178
01:26:50,625 --> 01:26:51,624
- How long did it take
1179
01:26:51,624 --> 01:26:53,924
before you cravings completely went away?
1180
01:26:53,924 --> 01:26:56,273
- I don't have a clear
cut answer for that one.
1181
01:26:57,526 --> 01:27:01,532
Truth is I can't let my guard
down even till this day.
1182
01:27:03,230 --> 01:27:05,532
Is it a struggle like it used to be?
1183
01:27:06,870 --> 01:27:07,702
No.
1184
01:27:09,040 --> 01:27:12,059
But I have to be careful
1185
01:27:12,059 --> 01:27:14,380
not to place myself in any situations
1186
01:27:14,380 --> 01:27:16,559
where I can find myself tempted.
1187
01:27:16,559 --> 01:27:17,393
Yes?
1188
01:27:18,270 --> 01:27:20,520
(knocking)
1189
01:27:21,572 --> 01:27:22,405
- Hi John.
1190
01:27:22,405 --> 01:27:24,100
- Hey mom, happy mother's day.
1191
01:27:24,100 --> 01:27:25,406
- Thank you.
1192
01:27:25,406 --> 01:27:26,800
- Happy mother's day.
1193
01:27:26,800 --> 01:27:28,620
- Thank you, Kayla.
1194
01:27:28,620 --> 01:27:30,840
They're beautiful.
1195
01:27:30,840 --> 01:27:31,673
Thank you.
1196
01:27:32,628 --> 01:27:33,886
- You're welcome.
1197
01:27:33,886 --> 01:27:34,719
(timer dinging)
1198
01:27:34,719 --> 01:27:35,552
- Oh, that's the timer.
1199
01:27:35,552 --> 01:27:36,830
I have to go check on the chicken.
1200
01:27:36,830 --> 01:27:38,300
Come on in, make yourselves at home.
1201
01:27:38,300 --> 01:27:39,309
Your dad and Gabe
1202
01:27:39,309 --> 01:27:41,600
are watching the baseball
game in the family room.
1203
01:27:41,600 --> 01:27:42,927
- I'm on it.
1204
01:27:42,927 --> 01:27:43,873
- So is there anything
I can help you with?
1205
01:27:47,450 --> 01:27:49,250
- What's up guys?
1206
01:27:49,250 --> 01:27:50,112
- Hey John.
1207
01:27:51,120 --> 01:27:52,253
Good to see you.
1208
01:27:52,253 --> 01:27:54,143
- Good to see you too, old man.
1209
01:27:55,342 --> 01:27:56,996
- Hey bro.
1210
01:27:56,996 --> 01:27:58,597
- What's up, bro?
1211
01:27:58,597 --> 01:27:59,430
How you doing man?
1212
01:27:59,430 --> 01:28:01,629
- Good.
1213
01:28:01,629 --> 01:28:02,809
- So how'd your speaking engagement
1214
01:28:02,809 --> 01:28:04,403
go with the kids?
1215
01:28:04,403 --> 01:28:05,236
- I think it went good.
1216
01:28:05,236 --> 01:28:07,000
I got a lot of great questions afterwards
1217
01:28:07,000 --> 01:28:09,300
and I trust that God
will touch their hearts
1218
01:28:09,300 --> 01:28:10,520
with some of what I said.
1219
01:28:10,520 --> 01:28:11,820
- I'm sure he will.
1220
01:28:11,820 --> 01:28:13,370
- God does say his word will do
1221
01:28:13,370 --> 01:28:15,550
what it set out to accomplish.
1222
01:28:15,550 --> 01:28:17,459
You planted that seed.
1223
01:28:17,459 --> 01:28:19,063
- Thanks guys.
1224
01:28:20,180 --> 01:28:21,590
So who's winning?
1225
01:28:21,590 --> 01:28:23,960
- The Tigers are up one nothing.
1226
01:28:23,960 --> 01:28:25,003
- All right.
1227
01:28:35,943 --> 01:28:36,777
- Where you going?
1228
01:28:38,307 --> 01:28:40,452
- I'm going to visit Dave today, remember?
1229
01:28:41,290 --> 01:28:42,773
- Oh, okay.
1230
01:28:44,124 --> 01:28:44,957
- What?
1231
01:28:46,647 --> 01:28:50,170
- I was just thinking, why do
you keep visiting that guy?
1232
01:28:50,170 --> 01:28:53,264
It sounds like he doesn't
want anything to do with you.
1233
01:28:53,264 --> 01:28:56,683
- I know, but I don't
want to give up on him.
1234
01:28:59,418 --> 01:29:04,418
- Well, you do what you need to do.
1235
01:29:09,377 --> 01:29:13,800
- Well, I'll be back in a little while.
1236
01:29:13,800 --> 01:29:14,633
- Okay.
1237
01:29:15,501 --> 01:29:16,750
- Love you.
- I love you, too.
1238
01:29:21,237 --> 01:29:23,404
(buzzing)
1239
01:29:50,295 --> 01:29:51,128
- Hi Dave.
1240
01:29:52,755 --> 01:29:53,588
- John.
1241
01:29:55,096 --> 01:29:56,590
- How you doing?
1242
01:29:56,590 --> 01:29:57,862
- I'm still here.
1243
01:29:59,070 --> 01:30:01,530
- So you finding activities to do?
1244
01:30:01,530 --> 01:30:03,020
- Why do you come here John?
1245
01:30:03,020 --> 01:30:03,920
- Well I told you.
1246
01:30:04,957 --> 01:30:06,070
- I know he had told me.
1247
01:30:06,070 --> 01:30:07,969
Why do you still consider me a friend?
1248
01:30:13,507 --> 01:30:16,403
- Let me tell you about
this person that I know.
1249
01:30:20,180 --> 01:30:21,313
He had a hard heart.
1250
01:30:24,875 --> 01:30:28,452
He didn't care about
the people around him,
1251
01:30:28,452 --> 01:30:31,036
didn't even care about himself,
1252
01:30:32,576 --> 01:30:34,770
but then there was someone
1253
01:30:34,770 --> 01:30:36,523
that saw something of value in him
1254
01:30:37,587 --> 01:30:41,253
and he reached out to him
with unconditional love.
1255
01:30:43,940 --> 01:30:48,940
That person, he now
knows that he's valued,
1256
01:30:51,870 --> 01:30:55,293
he now knows that he's forgiven.
1257
01:30:56,670 --> 01:30:58,007
- Okay, what does that mean?
1258
01:30:58,007 --> 01:30:59,623
Who are you talking about?
1259
01:31:00,612 --> 01:31:01,446
- Me.
1260
01:31:03,791 --> 01:31:05,142
I'm talking about me, Dave.
1261
01:31:06,150 --> 01:31:11,150
God reached out to me and he changed me
1262
01:31:13,120 --> 01:31:14,920
and he changed my heart towards you.
1263
01:31:17,333 --> 01:31:19,750
So I guess the bottom line is
1264
01:31:24,091 --> 01:31:26,083
whether what I'm saying
to you makes sense or not,
1265
01:31:27,050 --> 01:31:29,183
I still want to be your friend.
1266
01:31:32,559 --> 01:31:34,153
- I've been playing basketball.
1267
01:31:36,138 --> 01:31:37,253
- What?
1268
01:31:38,555 --> 01:31:39,630
- You asked me about activities,
1269
01:31:39,630 --> 01:31:41,313
I've been playing basketball.
1270
01:31:42,200 --> 01:31:45,073
- Great, that's great, man.
1271
01:31:46,700 --> 01:31:50,059
Are you playing by yourself
or playing with other guys?
1272
01:31:50,059 --> 01:31:54,170
- I don't shoot hoops by
myself like some loser, no man,
1273
01:31:54,170 --> 01:31:56,330
I play two on two with a couple of guys.
1274
01:31:56,330 --> 01:31:58,380
- That's awesome, man.
1275
01:31:58,380 --> 01:31:59,730
That's progress, right?
1276
01:31:59,730 --> 01:32:00,580
- It's all right.
1277
01:32:02,133 --> 01:32:04,716
(gentle music)
1278
01:32:06,612 --> 01:32:08,183
- You have an amazing story, John.
1279
01:32:09,173 --> 01:32:10,150
But it's not over yet.
1280
01:32:10,150 --> 01:32:12,683
You had a very interesting
evening recently.
1281
01:32:13,740 --> 01:32:15,309
Care to give us some details?
1282
01:32:15,309 --> 01:32:16,860
- Absolutely.
1283
01:32:16,860 --> 01:32:18,260
I'll take one more question.
1284
01:32:19,130 --> 01:32:20,500
Yes sir?
1285
01:32:20,500 --> 01:32:25,500
- Yeah, do any of the proceeds
of your book go to charity?
1286
01:32:25,690 --> 01:32:26,523
- That's a great question.
1287
01:32:26,523 --> 01:32:28,360
Thank you for asking that.
1288
01:32:28,360 --> 01:32:30,550
I donate to several charities,
1289
01:32:30,550 --> 01:32:32,210
including 10% of the profits
1290
01:32:32,210 --> 01:32:34,273
to Victorious Living Rehab Center.
1291
01:32:35,350 --> 01:32:36,580
As I shared earlier,
1292
01:32:36,580 --> 01:32:38,690
that's where I eventually got clean
1293
01:32:38,690 --> 01:32:40,389
and where I came to know the Lord.
1294
01:32:41,736 --> 01:32:44,800
Well folks, we're going to
have to wrap things up here.
1295
01:32:44,800 --> 01:32:46,410
I want to thank each and every one of you
1296
01:32:46,410 --> 01:32:49,290
for allowing me to come
and speak to you tonight.
1297
01:32:49,290 --> 01:32:51,653
Be safe and God bless you.
1298
01:32:51,653 --> 01:32:54,091
(audience applause)
1299
01:32:54,091 --> 01:32:56,674
(gentle music)
1300
01:33:26,155 --> 01:33:28,987
(woman screaming)
1301
01:33:31,121 --> 01:33:33,788
(ominous music)
1302
01:33:51,991 --> 01:33:54,824
(woman screaming)
1303
01:33:59,861 --> 01:34:01,028
Lord, help me.
1304
01:34:02,693 --> 01:34:05,361
(ominous music)
1305
01:34:08,923 --> 01:34:11,755
(woman screaming)
1306
01:34:15,840 --> 01:34:17,590
Hey, leave her alone.
1307
01:34:20,094 --> 01:34:22,762
(ominous music)
1308
01:34:24,341 --> 01:34:25,859
Just walk away, man,
1309
01:34:25,859 --> 01:34:27,920
no one has to get hurt here.
1310
01:34:27,920 --> 01:34:30,587
(ominous music)
1311
01:34:35,179 --> 01:34:36,583
- [Male] Should've mind your business.
1312
01:34:37,874 --> 01:34:40,541
(ominous music)
1313
01:34:43,317 --> 01:34:44,320
What's that?
1314
01:34:44,320 --> 01:34:46,070
What's that, come on.
1315
01:34:48,235 --> 01:34:49,666
Come on, boy.
1316
01:34:49,666 --> 01:34:52,416
(dramatic music)
1317
01:34:54,202 --> 01:34:56,452
(grunting)
1318
01:35:04,270 --> 01:35:06,290
- [Therapist] You're not a mistake John
1319
01:35:07,440 --> 01:35:08,273
and you're not your father.
1320
01:35:09,760 --> 01:35:12,343
(gentle music)
1321
01:35:15,317 --> 01:35:18,067
(sirens blaring)
1322
01:35:21,260 --> 01:35:23,843
(gentle music)
1323
01:35:48,164 --> 01:35:51,414
- Oh, come on let's go get some treats.
1324
01:35:53,483 --> 01:35:54,316
Come on.
1325
01:36:04,016 --> 01:36:05,270
- [Male] And for other
birds migrating south
1326
01:36:05,270 --> 01:36:06,853
to stop and rest in safety.
1327
01:36:07,900 --> 01:36:09,469
One of the main migratory birds
1328
01:36:09,469 --> 01:36:12,163
that marsh is known for
is the redhead duck.
1329
01:36:13,020 --> 01:36:13,969
- Through your mind
1330
01:36:14,971 --> 01:36:16,059
as you ran to save that woman in distress
1331
01:36:16,059 --> 01:36:18,059
and came face to face with her attacker?
1332
01:36:19,020 --> 01:36:23,423
- Honestly, I didn't know what
I was getting myself into.
1333
01:36:24,760 --> 01:36:27,809
I kept thinking and praying to God
1334
01:36:27,809 --> 01:36:29,303
the whole time to help me.
1335
01:36:30,370 --> 01:36:34,155
Then, the attacker got violent with me
1336
01:36:34,155 --> 01:36:38,139
so my mind just went into survival mode
1337
01:36:38,139 --> 01:36:42,423
and I did my best to defend
her and myself at that point.
1338
01:36:43,300 --> 01:36:45,700
It was just by the grace
of God that we made it.
1339
01:36:47,335 --> 01:36:48,543
- Well, we're glad that you're both safe.
1340
01:36:49,393 --> 01:36:50,840
- Thank you, Robin.
1341
01:36:50,840 --> 01:36:53,673
(inspiring music)
1342
01:36:57,755 --> 01:36:58,588
- Oh God.
1343
01:37:02,370 --> 01:37:05,480
- [Charles] I have one
final question to ask you.
1344
01:37:05,480 --> 01:37:07,114
- Okay.
1345
01:37:07,114 --> 01:37:07,947
- It's about your birth mother.
1346
01:37:07,947 --> 01:37:09,680
Have you ever thought
about tracking her down
1347
01:37:09,680 --> 01:37:10,593
and meeting her?
1348
01:37:11,800 --> 01:37:13,083
- I have.
1349
01:37:14,610 --> 01:37:16,410
I thought about it a lot growing up.
1350
01:37:18,296 --> 01:37:21,803
Life issues and my bad
choices distracted me,
1351
01:37:22,820 --> 01:37:27,820
but I haven't determined how
or when I would actually do it.
1352
01:37:30,790 --> 01:37:32,940
- Do you have any leads
on how to find her?
1353
01:37:33,870 --> 01:37:35,750
- No, not much.
1354
01:37:35,750 --> 01:37:37,200
I know very little about her.
1355
01:37:38,600 --> 01:37:40,100
- If you don't mind me asking,
1356
01:37:42,550 --> 01:37:44,850
what would you say to
her if you did find her?
1357
01:37:46,400 --> 01:37:47,300
- I'd let her know
1358
01:37:48,557 --> 01:37:50,480
that I'm grateful that she gave me life
1359
01:37:52,059 --> 01:37:54,072
and I hope to get to know her.
1360
01:37:54,072 --> 01:37:56,155
(crying)
1361
01:37:57,597 --> 01:37:59,960
- I hope you get that opportunity, John.
1362
01:37:59,960 --> 01:38:00,793
- Thanks.
1363
01:38:01,784 --> 01:38:04,415
- [Charles] Thank you
so much for joining us
1364
01:38:04,415 --> 01:38:06,337
on Foundations of the Family.
1365
01:38:06,337 --> 01:38:07,873
- [John] Thank you Charles, for having me.
1366
01:38:14,610 --> 01:38:16,252
- John.
1367
01:38:16,252 --> 01:38:19,002
(dramatic music)
1368
01:38:52,633 --> 01:38:55,868
♪ It's just like Jesus ♪
1369
01:38:55,868 --> 01:38:59,021
♪ To roll the clouds away ♪
1370
01:38:59,021 --> 01:39:01,797
♪ It's just like Jesus ♪
1371
01:39:01,797 --> 01:39:04,818
♪ To give me day by day ♪
1372
01:39:04,818 --> 01:39:08,316
♪ It's just like Jesus ♪
1373
01:39:08,316 --> 01:39:10,920
♪ All along the way ♪
1374
01:39:10,920 --> 01:39:14,920
♪ It's just like his great love ♪
1375
01:39:17,021 --> 01:39:19,688
(clears throat)
1376
01:39:20,800 --> 01:39:22,170
- I once thought of life
1377
01:39:23,389 --> 01:39:26,243
as having no meaning or purpose.
1378
01:39:27,925 --> 01:39:31,673
We live, we die,
1379
01:39:33,600 --> 01:39:35,500
and nothing in between really matters.
1380
01:39:38,559 --> 01:39:43,559
But I now know that life
is so much more than that.
1381
01:39:46,570 --> 01:39:50,993
Yes, life is a journey
full of ups and downs,
1382
01:39:52,710 --> 01:39:55,612
joys, heartaches,
1383
01:39:58,160 --> 01:40:01,443
struggles, victories,
1384
01:40:03,588 --> 01:40:08,588
but in the midst of all that,
there is meaning and purpose
1385
01:40:10,559 --> 01:40:15,559
and there's a God out there
who wants us to know him
1386
01:40:17,600 --> 01:40:19,763
and that purpose for which he created us.
1387
01:40:21,529 --> 01:40:25,903
He wants us to know how
greatly valued we really are,
1388
01:40:27,440 --> 01:40:32,243
so much so that he sent
his only son to die for us.
1389
01:40:33,611 --> 01:40:36,593
So considering our value to God,
1390
01:40:39,150 --> 01:40:40,600
I've come to this conclusion,
1391
01:40:42,330 --> 01:40:44,653
a life is worth giving birth to,
1392
01:40:49,110 --> 01:40:50,803
worth spending time with,
1393
01:40:54,010 --> 01:40:55,983
worth loving unconditionally,
1394
01:40:59,160 --> 01:41:00,623
worth taking a risk for.
1395
01:41:04,731 --> 01:41:06,133
A life is worth living.
1396
01:41:08,808 --> 01:41:10,746
And I can now say, by God's grace,
1397
01:41:14,540 --> 01:41:15,380
I'm living well.
1398
01:41:16,734 --> 01:41:21,734
(inspiring music)
(audience applause)
1399
01:41:23,710 --> 01:41:25,428
♪ It's just like Jesus ♪
1400
01:41:25,428 --> 01:41:28,169
♪ To roll the clouds away ♪
1401
01:41:28,169 --> 01:41:31,468
♪ It's just like Jesus ♪
1402
01:41:31,468 --> 01:41:34,291
♪ To keep me day by day ♪
1403
01:41:34,291 --> 01:41:37,630
♪ It's just like Jesus ♪
1404
01:41:37,630 --> 01:41:40,233
♪ All along the way ♪
1405
01:41:40,233 --> 01:41:45,233
♪ It's just like his great love ♪
1406
01:41:46,431 --> 01:41:51,431
♪ A friend I have called Jesus ♪
1407
01:41:52,175 --> 01:41:57,175
♪ Who's love is strong and true ♪
1408
01:41:57,849 --> 01:42:02,849
♪ Oh, he never, never
fails however tried ♪
1409
01:42:04,313 --> 01:42:09,313
♪ No matter what I do ♪
1410
01:42:09,956 --> 01:42:14,956
♪ Oh this love of his ♪
1411
01:42:16,442 --> 01:42:21,442
♪ But when the nails to pray ♪
1412
01:42:22,308 --> 01:42:27,308
♪ Confessing all my guilt to him ♪
1413
01:42:28,990 --> 01:42:33,990
♪ The sins are thrown away ♪
1414
01:42:35,888 --> 01:42:38,889
♪ It's just like Jesus ♪
1415
01:42:38,889 --> 01:42:41,689
♪ To roll the clouds away ♪
1416
01:42:41,689 --> 01:42:44,852
♪ It's just like Jesus ♪
1417
01:42:44,852 --> 01:42:47,753
♪ To give me day by day ♪
1418
01:42:47,753 --> 01:42:51,129
♪ It's just like Jesus ♪
1419
01:42:51,129 --> 01:42:53,630
♪ All along the way ♪
1420
01:42:53,630 --> 01:42:58,630
♪ It's just like his great love ♪
1421
01:42:59,833 --> 01:43:04,833
♪ When sorrows clouds overtake me ♪
1422
01:43:06,313 --> 01:43:11,313
♪ Break upon my head ♪
1423
01:43:11,948 --> 01:43:16,948
♪ When life seems worse than useless ♪
1424
01:43:17,727 --> 01:43:22,727
♪ And I will better days ♪
1425
01:43:23,855 --> 01:43:28,855
♪ I take my grief to Jesus ♪
1426
01:43:29,067 --> 01:43:34,067
♪ Then nor do I go in grace ♪
1427
01:43:35,311 --> 01:43:39,161
♪ For heavenly, heavenly joy ♪
1428
01:43:39,161 --> 01:43:41,481
♪ We kiss the tears ♪
1429
01:43:41,481 --> 01:43:46,481
♪ Like sunshine after rain ♪
1430
01:43:48,550 --> 01:43:50,916
♪ It's just like Jesus ♪
1431
01:43:50,916 --> 01:43:53,775
♪ To roll the clouds away ♪
1432
01:43:53,775 --> 01:43:56,868
♪ It's just like Jesus ♪
1433
01:43:56,868 --> 01:43:59,934
♪ To keep me day by day ♪
1434
01:43:59,934 --> 01:44:02,895
♪ It's just like Jesus ♪
1435
01:44:02,895 --> 01:44:05,852
♪ All along the way ♪
1436
01:44:05,852 --> 01:44:10,852
♪ It's just like his great love ♪
1437
01:44:11,992 --> 01:44:16,992
♪ It's just like his great ♪
1438
01:44:20,031 --> 01:44:21,948
♪ Love ♪
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