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Would you like to inspect the original subtitles? These are the user uploaded subtitles that are being translated: 1 00:00:01,120 --> 00:00:05,440 Hello, YouTube viewers. I'm going to make another fun video... 2 00:00:05,560 --> 00:00:08,400 and I hope you will like it. 3 00:01:07,280 --> 00:01:13,880 'Hello everybody, I really hate my life, so I want to die. 4 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:20,920 My life is horrible and I fucking hate Youth Care and all those people.' 5 00:01:21,040 --> 00:01:26,400 'To this government and the people I became attached to... 6 00:01:26,520 --> 00:01:29,960 and all the people that abandoned me: 7 00:01:30,080 --> 00:01:33,240 No institution can continue to make money off me.' 8 00:01:33,360 --> 00:01:39,160 'That is why I chose to do this. See you in heaven or, slash, hell. 9 00:01:39,280 --> 00:01:44,880 I love you Mum, Ros, Chal, Dad, Nini, and myself of course. 10 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:50,200 For the people I love: heart. Cheers, Kiki. Asshole government.' 11 00:02:33,160 --> 00:02:37,600 Sorry, dear. What I just heard is outrageous. I'm sorry. 12 00:02:37,720 --> 00:02:41,280 I think it's terrible that you had to go through this. 13 00:02:41,400 --> 00:02:45,320 We're getting close to the house. 100 metres to go. 14 00:02:45,440 --> 00:02:48,080 This is private property. -There's no need for shoving. 15 00:03:01,360 --> 00:03:02,760 This is a house of horrors. 16 00:03:02,880 --> 00:03:06,560 I was often abused. I've had to fight many times. 17 00:03:06,680 --> 00:03:09,560 Life there was pure survival. 18 00:03:10,760 --> 00:03:15,840 I really wonder whether there are a lot of cases of fraud... 19 00:03:15,960 --> 00:03:19,560 to make money at the expense of the children. 20 00:03:46,160 --> 00:03:50,760 At the end of 2019 an investigative report was published... 21 00:03:50,880 --> 00:03:56,400 about Youth Care in its entirety. This was the conclusion, nationally: 22 00:03:57,720 --> 00:04:02,880 'The quality of Youth Care is dangerously low.' Dangerously low. 23 00:04:05,520 --> 00:04:07,120 It looks like a witch hunt. 24 00:04:07,240 --> 00:04:10,480 If you see how many children are placed out of home here... 25 00:04:10,600 --> 00:04:14,840 compared to other countries we score really high. 26 00:04:16,280 --> 00:04:22,080 What they tried to do in my case was to break me emotionally. Yes. 27 00:04:27,840 --> 00:04:32,520 For a child the Netherlands is a fantastic country to grow up in... 28 00:04:32,640 --> 00:04:35,480 if you have a carefree life as a child. 29 00:04:35,600 --> 00:04:41,560 But so much happens behind closed doors or is swept under the carpet. 30 00:04:41,680 --> 00:04:45,840 It is about time they find a solution for that. 31 00:04:53,000 --> 00:04:59,800 '...recommended to warn at an early stage that they are violating the law.' 32 00:04:59,920 --> 00:05:04,080 It's an awkward sentence, but it is telling. 33 00:05:08,560 --> 00:05:11,320 I have not seen my daughter in ten years... 34 00:05:11,440 --> 00:05:17,480 and after fifteen years I now have a pleasant contact with my son. 35 00:05:17,600 --> 00:05:20,520 And with one daughter I have no contact at all. 36 00:05:20,640 --> 00:05:25,840 So you might say that I have lost 45 years of my children's lives. 37 00:05:25,960 --> 00:05:29,920 Van Nispen, Elian. -Yes, how was the mood on the boat? 38 00:05:30,040 --> 00:05:34,400 At work they would ask me, do you have children? 39 00:05:34,520 --> 00:05:37,200 But I hadn't seen them in six years. 40 00:05:37,320 --> 00:05:41,320 And you want the earth to swallow you up, thinking: 41 00:05:41,440 --> 00:05:47,400 What will they think of me? Try to explain not seeing your children in six years. 42 00:05:47,520 --> 00:05:50,680 Then something very serious must have happened. 43 00:05:50,800 --> 00:05:55,160 But that was not the case, so you feel quite uncomfortable. 44 00:05:55,280 --> 00:06:00,600 So many parents don't talk about it. They are ashamed about something... 45 00:06:00,720 --> 00:06:03,680 that they mustn't be ashamed of, but which is awful. 46 00:06:03,800 --> 00:06:06,360 But they don't know how to deal with it. 47 00:06:09,240 --> 00:06:11,560 I did file a police report once. 48 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:17,000 It's odd, because I work for the police, only now I'm on the opposite side. 49 00:06:17,120 --> 00:06:20,600 So you end up in the awkward position of writing your story. 50 00:06:20,720 --> 00:06:23,280 Then it goes to the Public Prosecutor. 51 00:06:23,400 --> 00:06:27,920 Before you know it the case is dismissed and you think, I don't believe it. 52 00:06:28,040 --> 00:06:32,320 It is a strange realisation when you yourself work for that side... 53 00:06:32,440 --> 00:06:36,800 how easily they reach the conclusion to dismiss the case. 54 00:06:39,520 --> 00:06:43,880 So Bas and I started investigating many of these cases... 55 00:06:44,000 --> 00:06:50,320 and it didn't take long for us to see how parents got into trouble... 56 00:06:50,440 --> 00:06:54,680 with Youth Care, among others, and that a lot of things went wrong. 57 00:07:02,040 --> 00:07:09,240 Often one parent refuses to recognise the authority of the other parent. 58 00:07:09,360 --> 00:07:13,880 If that happens on an international level, they act on it... 59 00:07:14,000 --> 00:07:19,280 but the odd thing is: if it happens within our own border, they do nothing. 60 00:07:19,400 --> 00:07:24,080 And the children are contacted by Youth Care because somehow... 61 00:07:24,200 --> 00:07:28,120 they are sent a report by someone. It could be a worried teacher... 62 00:07:28,240 --> 00:07:32,880 the neighbours, a parent, the police could send a report. 63 00:07:33,000 --> 00:07:40,240 And based on a one-sided story, Youth Care takes all sorts of steps... 64 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:45,080 that often lose track of reality... 65 00:07:45,200 --> 00:07:51,800 and Youth Care very quickly chooses sides, for the father or mother. 66 00:07:51,920 --> 00:07:56,000 It throws off the balance, and a parent... 67 00:07:56,120 --> 00:07:59,520 often the father, loses touch with the children. 68 00:07:59,640 --> 00:08:06,320 You end up in an astonishing horror scenario... 69 00:08:06,440 --> 00:08:12,680 where you might be allowed to see your child for an hour under supervision. 70 00:08:12,800 --> 00:08:16,600 Discussions arise over whether you can give your child 3 or 4 tomatoes. 71 00:08:16,720 --> 00:08:20,760 That's where you can show that you are a nice father, if you get that far. 72 00:08:27,280 --> 00:08:31,240 The first seven years I had almost no contact with my children. 73 00:08:31,360 --> 00:08:37,240 Every time the mother would thwart it, even if I had visitation rights. 74 00:08:37,360 --> 00:08:39,760 And on Child Protection advice... 75 00:08:39,880 --> 00:08:44,800 Youth Care got involved and I could visit under supervision. 76 00:08:45,960 --> 00:08:51,240 You lose your children from one day to the next, and the first weeks... 77 00:08:51,360 --> 00:08:55,600 you are living in a haze: this can't true, it will be fixed. 78 00:08:55,720 --> 00:09:01,000 People around me would say, let it be, it will sort itself out. 79 00:09:01,960 --> 00:09:05,600 Then the chronic pain of missing your children sets in. 80 00:09:05,760 --> 00:09:11,120 Responsible mothers, and fathers as well, have chronic pain... 81 00:09:11,240 --> 00:09:14,880 when you can't give your children the care and guidance they need. 82 00:09:15,000 --> 00:09:17,400 You want them to have a bright future... 83 00:09:17,520 --> 00:09:20,600 and you want to rid yourself of the chronic pain. 84 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:26,480 Today you see children do strange things like cut themselves to get rid of it. 85 00:09:26,600 --> 00:09:33,200 But I am amazed that there are so few family tragedies... 86 00:09:33,320 --> 00:09:38,600 because I did think at times, why don't we all stop and end it all? 87 00:09:41,480 --> 00:09:48,000 As you can see, I am still not in touch. Ben has no contact with one child. 88 00:09:48,120 --> 00:09:51,440 I have no contact with my daughter, we never reconnected. 89 00:09:51,560 --> 00:09:54,520 She remains stuck in loyalty issues. 90 00:09:54,640 --> 00:09:58,480 She now has two children, so I am a grandfather now. 91 00:09:58,600 --> 00:10:01,480 I have never even seen my grandchildren. 92 00:10:01,600 --> 00:10:08,120 I have a foster daughter who has been living with me for three years now. 93 00:10:08,240 --> 00:10:13,680 A weekend foster daughter and the thought has occurred to me... 94 00:10:13,800 --> 00:10:17,640 that Youth Care didn't think I could take care of my own children... 95 00:10:17,760 --> 00:10:21,480 but I am allowed to take care of a more complex situation. 96 00:10:21,600 --> 00:10:26,640 Apparently I am capable of doing that. It doesn't make any sense. 97 00:10:29,200 --> 00:10:33,560 We know various colleagues in various positions... 98 00:10:33,680 --> 00:10:37,400 who had the same thing happen to them and they too are stumped. 99 00:10:37,520 --> 00:10:42,440 Even judges. When this occurs in their private life... 100 00:10:42,560 --> 00:10:47,200 you often see that they stop working, because they can't deal with it. 101 00:10:47,320 --> 00:10:52,040 That's when they are faced with this enormous injustice. 102 00:10:52,160 --> 00:10:56,480 It's so bizarre that people who haven't been through this can't imagine it. 103 00:11:01,760 --> 00:11:03,400 It looks like a witch hunt. 104 00:11:03,520 --> 00:11:06,720 If you see how many children are removed from home here... 105 00:11:06,840 --> 00:11:10,160 compared to other countries we score really high. 106 00:11:11,040 --> 00:11:17,680 Have you ever heard of telephone taps? The telephones of parents are tapped. 107 00:11:17,800 --> 00:11:19,960 That is a punishable offence. 108 00:11:20,080 --> 00:11:28,080 A magistrate must give permission to do that. It's a criminal procedure. 109 00:11:28,200 --> 00:11:32,560 And it turns out, and I can prove it, that Youth Care... 110 00:11:32,680 --> 00:11:36,840 has access to the reports of the telephone taps. 111 00:11:39,320 --> 00:11:45,720 The reports typed by the police were forwarded to Youth Care. 112 00:11:46,240 --> 00:11:51,520 With all the information in it. There is no division of power. 113 00:11:51,640 --> 00:11:56,400 Youth Care admits it, they call it chain partners. 114 00:11:56,520 --> 00:11:59,920 Let's go back to the separation of power: 115 00:12:00,040 --> 00:12:06,480 The judicial and legislative powers must be separate. 116 00:12:07,320 --> 00:12:12,800 But if the judicial power says that Youth Care is a chain partner... 117 00:12:12,920 --> 00:12:18,120 the balance is lost. A judge must treat Youth Care the same way... 118 00:12:18,240 --> 00:12:21,680 as the parent defending him or herself. 119 00:12:23,480 --> 00:12:29,040 But now it turns out that Youth Care is already a step ahead in the process. 120 00:12:33,240 --> 00:12:34,880 Hello, good afternoon. 121 00:12:39,360 --> 00:12:43,600 I ask for help and the whole system turns against me. 122 00:12:43,720 --> 00:12:50,680 And I feel like I was backed into a wall at gun-point and told to cooperate. 123 00:12:50,800 --> 00:12:55,680 If you don't, you will lose your children. And that's exactly what happened. 124 00:12:55,800 --> 00:13:02,280 I'm in a meeting at home with colleagues in India, Marseille and Estonia... 125 00:13:02,400 --> 00:13:07,120 and they ring me, a private number: 'We collected your children at school.' 126 00:13:09,440 --> 00:13:12,240 I didn't know what hit me. 127 00:13:12,360 --> 00:13:15,840 I'm disqualified as a father, but I've done nothing wrong. 128 00:13:15,960 --> 00:13:22,960 I have no addictions, no debts, I have a job, OK? 129 00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:27,320 I have a huge network, I come from a close-knit family. 130 00:13:32,040 --> 00:13:37,840 What they tried to do in my case is to break me emotionally. Yes. 131 00:13:41,120 --> 00:13:44,680 But not just emotionally, financially as well. 132 00:13:44,800 --> 00:13:48,480 When your income is higher than a certain level, like mine is... 133 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:52,600 and I'm not complaining, but I don't qualify for allowances. 134 00:13:52,720 --> 00:14:00,040 Or for subsidised legal aid, so I am paying 200-300 euros an hour. 135 00:14:00,160 --> 00:14:04,800 If my solicitor takes 15 minutes to send an email, you do the math. 136 00:14:04,920 --> 00:14:09,160 I paid nearly 100 grand in legal fees. 137 00:14:09,280 --> 00:14:13,560 In this country that calls itself constitutional state... 138 00:14:13,680 --> 00:14:16,400 I simply tried to protect my children. 139 00:14:16,520 --> 00:14:22,640 And I experienced enormous opposition from a child protection institute. 140 00:14:23,840 --> 00:14:26,800 That's madness. 141 00:14:26,920 --> 00:14:31,120 If I had known what I know now about Youth Care and Child Protection... 142 00:14:31,240 --> 00:14:36,080 and about 'Veilig Thuis' and how that whole system is set up... 143 00:14:36,200 --> 00:14:39,680 I would never in my whole life, my biggest mistake ever... 144 00:14:39,800 --> 00:14:43,520 have asked Child Protection to start a safety investigation. 145 00:14:43,640 --> 00:14:49,760 Ata is an honest man who is genuinely worried. 146 00:14:49,880 --> 00:14:53,520 And I don't want to let him down, so the first thing we do... 147 00:14:53,640 --> 00:14:56,600 is to collect all the documents... 148 00:14:56,720 --> 00:15:04,440 to see what happened and where the leak is and what mistakes were made. 149 00:15:07,200 --> 00:15:10,400 Ata's children were placed out of home just like that. 150 00:15:11,000 --> 00:15:18,720 Based on a report that was not meant for it. 151 00:15:19,440 --> 00:15:25,600 Even the investigator stated: 'We did not consider placing them out of home. 152 00:15:25,720 --> 00:15:30,840 I do not appreciate you misusing our report in this way.' 153 00:15:31,760 --> 00:15:35,480 But we only discovered it in the file six months later. 154 00:15:37,520 --> 00:15:39,520 It is not in this folder. 155 00:15:41,320 --> 00:15:46,400 After much searching at the agency that performed the investigation... 156 00:15:46,520 --> 00:15:51,360 we unearthed that email, but Youth Care withheld it. 157 00:15:54,320 --> 00:15:58,400 Youth Care should not be involved in complex divorces. Why? 158 00:15:58,520 --> 00:16:03,720 They do not have the knowledge and expertise for that. They don't know. 159 00:16:03,840 --> 00:16:08,920 The scope of a child protection officer is limited. 160 00:16:09,040 --> 00:16:13,760 She must investigate and asses a situation. 161 00:16:13,880 --> 00:16:21,000 But what does she do? Starts providing assistance, which is against the law. 162 00:16:21,120 --> 00:16:25,840 Article 3.2, paragraph 2 of the Child Care Act states that certified agencies... 163 00:16:25,960 --> 00:16:31,200 may not provide assistance. But it happens on a massive scale. 164 00:16:31,320 --> 00:16:35,960 Now my children are under supervision for three years by Youth Care West. 165 00:16:36,080 --> 00:16:40,800 The no-contact rule was violated multiple times, and was not enforced. 166 00:16:40,920 --> 00:16:45,800 They did not offer to help my children, they only focussed on me. 167 00:16:48,680 --> 00:16:50,600 I wrote to the board of directors. 168 00:16:50,720 --> 00:16:55,560 The big boss of the Youth Care centre that supervises my children. 169 00:16:55,680 --> 00:17:00,360 I wrote the board of supervisors that supervises the board of directors. 170 00:17:00,480 --> 00:17:06,560 They all know about it. I have had discussions with this lady... 171 00:17:06,680 --> 00:17:11,520 I'm tempted to name her, and two members of parliament. 172 00:17:11,640 --> 00:17:16,040 I also wrote the director-general of the Ministry of Justice and Security. 173 00:17:17,800 --> 00:17:19,920 But no answers. 174 00:17:20,040 --> 00:17:26,960 Or a polite form letter stating that they will use it to improve the process. 175 00:17:27,080 --> 00:17:29,800 It doesn't get me anywhere. 176 00:17:29,920 --> 00:17:32,480 Look at the parents in the tax scandal. 177 00:17:33,880 --> 00:17:40,480 How is it possible that all those parents accused of fraud... 178 00:17:40,600 --> 00:17:43,400 were suddenly visited by Youth Care? 179 00:17:43,520 --> 00:17:46,520 Did the red light on their door start flashing... 180 00:17:46,640 --> 00:17:50,680 to warn everyone that these people have committed fraud? 181 00:17:50,800 --> 00:17:53,800 They made life miserable for these people. 182 00:17:53,920 --> 00:17:57,360 But how did that information end up at Youth Care? 183 00:17:59,000 --> 00:18:05,680 Well, the tax authorities also shared the fraud list with the public prosecutor. 184 00:18:07,560 --> 00:18:11,960 And they in turn are linked to Child Protection. 185 00:18:13,800 --> 00:18:19,560 I hope there will be a parliamentary inquiry to investigate those links. 186 00:18:19,680 --> 00:18:26,000 How is it possible that 'Veilig Thuis', Child Protection and other agencies... 187 00:18:26,120 --> 00:18:29,160 knew what was going on? 188 00:18:30,640 --> 00:18:34,680 Those parents suffered a great deal, but the children as well. 189 00:18:38,320 --> 00:18:43,760 A child protection officer can lie, documented lies, and no action is taken. 190 00:18:43,880 --> 00:18:46,920 I cannot act against a lying child protection officer. 191 00:18:47,040 --> 00:18:51,440 I reported her, but it was rejected. I had to file a disciplinary complaint. 192 00:18:51,560 --> 00:18:54,800 So I filed a disciplinary complaint, now get this: 193 00:18:54,920 --> 00:18:59,200 The SKJ, which handles complaints, has sealed itself off. 194 00:19:00,720 --> 00:19:06,080 They work with the tax authorities to discourage parents to file complaints. 195 00:19:06,200 --> 00:19:12,320 They limited the grounds for complaints. They don't investigate the facts either. 196 00:19:12,440 --> 00:19:16,720 So everything the child protection officer says is accepted as the truth. 197 00:19:17,720 --> 00:19:22,480 If you look at youth and family law, you have no rights. 198 00:19:22,600 --> 00:19:26,400 You have no rights. On paper you do have rights. On paper. 199 00:19:26,520 --> 00:19:32,160 In practice you must deal with network corruption and a misleading chain. 200 00:19:32,280 --> 00:19:35,000 They cover each other. 201 00:19:35,120 --> 00:19:40,040 We pump billions into the system, but the system is not safe. 202 00:19:41,320 --> 00:19:44,760 It is prone to errors. It's perverted. 203 00:19:44,880 --> 00:19:50,040 Things happen that cannot stand the light of day. 204 00:20:02,080 --> 00:20:07,840 As a judge I have many years of experience with Youth Care. 205 00:20:07,960 --> 00:20:13,440 You see that children are often caught in a jam with the parenting situation... 206 00:20:13,560 --> 00:20:16,520 where an intervention is necessary. 207 00:20:16,640 --> 00:20:20,120 What we see now, which is different from before... 208 00:20:20,240 --> 00:20:24,120 is that youth care in general is having huge problems... 209 00:20:24,240 --> 00:20:28,440 in finding enough manpower to give assistance. 210 00:20:28,560 --> 00:20:32,880 And the availability of youth care services is extremely fragmented here. 211 00:20:33,000 --> 00:20:37,720 Since 2015 some 1500 new institutions have opened... 212 00:20:37,840 --> 00:20:41,400 that deal with minor forms of youth care. 213 00:20:41,520 --> 00:20:45,440 In their own way they all attempt to do something... 214 00:20:45,560 --> 00:20:51,280 but all use different methods to solve the problems. 215 00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:55,120 So there is an agency for almost any problem. 216 00:20:55,240 --> 00:21:00,320 But if an agency cannot deal with your problem, you must go to another one. 217 00:21:00,440 --> 00:21:04,720 Yes, these are all commercial agencies. 218 00:21:04,840 --> 00:21:07,600 Some say they are the cowboys in youth care: 219 00:21:07,720 --> 00:21:12,080 People who think they can make money with few means. 220 00:21:12,200 --> 00:21:18,520 They start a foundation or a business and say, we offer these services... 221 00:21:18,640 --> 00:21:24,200 but often the problems they can treat are quite limited. 222 00:21:24,320 --> 00:21:30,960 I think the fragmented availability, and state secretary Van Ooijen saw this... 223 00:21:31,080 --> 00:21:36,600 prevents young people and parents from getting the help they need. 224 00:21:36,720 --> 00:21:41,400 And that has to change, but that's what one faces in youth care. 225 00:21:41,520 --> 00:21:47,040 And judges deciding on someone being placed out of home also faces that. 226 00:21:47,160 --> 00:21:51,480 Does the child get the care, do parents get the help they need... 227 00:21:51,600 --> 00:21:55,960 to ensure that the family can function normally again? 228 00:21:56,080 --> 00:21:58,280 And that's the big problem. 229 00:21:59,560 --> 00:22:03,480 In the Netherlands there are cases where mistakes have been made... 230 00:22:03,600 --> 00:22:08,520 by agencies or foster parents or relevant institutions. 231 00:22:08,640 --> 00:22:15,520 We had to deal with a case of abuse in a foster family. 232 00:22:15,640 --> 00:22:19,760 We had situations where foster parents put their charges to work. 233 00:22:19,880 --> 00:22:24,640 But I must say that as a juvenile court judge, I've seen... 234 00:22:24,760 --> 00:22:29,760 cases of children with broken bones, brain damage... 235 00:22:29,880 --> 00:22:37,120 with burns caused by being held against a hot kettle. 236 00:22:37,240 --> 00:22:41,280 Yes, inflicted by parents or the person raising the child. 237 00:22:41,400 --> 00:22:45,800 Those situation are unacceptable and should not be allowed to exist. 238 00:22:45,920 --> 00:22:51,640 It is very important that if parents think that their child is in an institution... 239 00:22:51,760 --> 00:22:54,840 and isn't getting proper care, that they report it. 240 00:22:54,960 --> 00:22:59,560 They can report it to inspectors, to the juvenile court judge. 241 00:22:59,680 --> 00:23:02,000 There are several options. 242 00:23:02,120 --> 00:23:07,200 We must ensure that the revenue model that some municipalities use... 243 00:23:07,320 --> 00:23:13,520 namely that the municipality authorises the least expensive agency... 244 00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:17,520 to offer assistance, that is something we must avoid. 245 00:23:17,640 --> 00:23:25,600 There are always profiteers and nasty agencies that only do it for the money. 246 00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:30,560 Families with many foster children where parents think, really? 247 00:23:30,680 --> 00:23:34,640 But there are also foster families with many children that flourish. 248 00:23:34,760 --> 00:23:37,520 So it depends on so many factors... 249 00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:41,920 but they must look at those factors critically, that is important. 250 00:23:49,200 --> 00:23:55,200 I think it's like this: that money, politics... 251 00:23:55,320 --> 00:23:59,520 and the market, the healthcare market, are so entangled... 252 00:23:59,640 --> 00:24:03,160 that they cannot possibly stop doing this. 253 00:24:06,240 --> 00:24:09,480 Too many interested parties, that's dangerous. 254 00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:15,920 That is why most people feel threatened in their personal life... 255 00:24:16,040 --> 00:24:17,800 and are afraid to talk. 256 00:24:18,400 --> 00:24:20,680 And what I'll say now is dangerous. 257 00:24:20,800 --> 00:24:26,840 Me and a few others have recently discovered that there are councillors... 258 00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:34,040 city councillors, who manage foster family homes where children... 259 00:24:34,160 --> 00:24:39,600 They make decisions about youth care in their foster family homes. Now really. 260 00:24:39,720 --> 00:24:43,120 That is corruption, yes. Many former politicians... 261 00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:49,400 have become directors of care facilities. That's how the system is set up now. 262 00:24:49,520 --> 00:24:53,160 Once a child is placed out of home, the money starts rolling. 263 00:24:57,000 --> 00:25:02,920 I read many annual reports of various youth care institutions... 264 00:25:03,040 --> 00:25:08,320 and what I notice is that the Salvation Army has a number of entities... 265 00:25:08,440 --> 00:25:13,200 including the Salvation Army Welfare and Care... 266 00:25:13,320 --> 00:25:19,400 Youth Protection and Probation, as well as the Salvation Army church. 267 00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:23,240 And in several annual reports I see... 268 00:25:23,360 --> 00:25:27,840 money from the juvenile law budget goes to the Salvation Army church. 269 00:25:27,960 --> 00:25:34,920 So money for juveniles is used to preach the gospel. 270 00:25:35,040 --> 00:25:39,640 I don't understand how that is allowed in the Netherlands. 271 00:25:39,760 --> 00:25:45,720 And their assets show that the Salvation Army church is their wealthiest entity. 272 00:25:45,840 --> 00:25:50,840 I believe that their assets add up to more than 39 million euros. 273 00:25:50,960 --> 00:25:55,600 Where does it come from? Donations and such, but juvenile law... 274 00:25:55,720 --> 00:25:58,560 adds to the church's coffers. 275 00:25:58,680 --> 00:26:02,440 It's impossible to check. I cannot imagine... 276 00:26:02,560 --> 00:26:07,000 the city than must supervise it and is responsible for its implementation... 277 00:26:07,120 --> 00:26:13,520 that it can verify all those amounts. The money flows in every direction. 278 00:26:16,680 --> 00:26:21,000 I'm Maaike van der Aar, I work for the FNV union as administrator... 279 00:26:21,120 --> 00:26:24,200 national administrator Youth Care. 280 00:26:24,320 --> 00:26:29,560 I look after the collective interests of the employees at Youth Care. 281 00:26:31,680 --> 00:26:34,760 Many things go wrong at Youth Care. 282 00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:40,480 Over time we realised that it has to do with the way it has been set up. 283 00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:45,840 We have come to the conclusion that the way Youth Care was set up... 284 00:26:45,960 --> 00:26:49,400 people call it 'the system'... 285 00:26:49,520 --> 00:26:54,520 is the cause of all the problems, we can firmly say. 286 00:26:56,880 --> 00:27:02,280 In 2015 Youth Care was relegated to city councils, hailed as 'decentralisation'. 287 00:27:02,400 --> 00:27:06,800 It meant that the 12 provinces... 288 00:27:06,920 --> 00:27:10,600 relegated Youth Care to 355 local councils. 289 00:27:10,720 --> 00:27:14,280 There are two ministries: Justice and Security... 290 00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:17,520 handles youth protection, the compulsory side of the care... 291 00:27:17,640 --> 00:27:21,240 and probation for youths who committed a crime, and youth aid. 292 00:27:21,360 --> 00:27:26,280 They give assistance to families and children. 293 00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:32,200 Justice and Security and the Ministry of Health, Welfare and Sport... 294 00:27:32,320 --> 00:27:34,720 and they fund 355 local councils. 295 00:27:36,360 --> 00:27:39,920 The councils are 'in the lead'. They must ensure that... 296 00:27:40,040 --> 00:27:45,400 children get the right care, which they must purchase... 297 00:27:45,520 --> 00:27:48,080 and they are responsible for the money. 298 00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:51,360 So with the money they get from the government... 299 00:27:51,480 --> 00:27:57,480 the council must decide how much they want to spend on youth care... 300 00:27:57,600 --> 00:28:01,720 what must we purchase for that under what conditions... 301 00:28:01,840 --> 00:28:06,440 and then comes the Youth Care organisation that does the work... 302 00:28:06,560 --> 00:28:11,800 and then, after a layer of managers, come the Youth Care workers... 303 00:28:11,920 --> 00:28:13,880 who do the actual work. 304 00:28:14,000 --> 00:28:19,040 There are so many layers above them who all determine what they must do... 305 00:28:19,160 --> 00:28:22,320 while we, as a society, hire Youth Care workers... 306 00:28:22,440 --> 00:28:28,760 to work with children we no longer know how to raise or how we can help them. 307 00:28:28,880 --> 00:28:34,240 And the person we hire to do it is at the very bottom of the organisation. 308 00:28:36,920 --> 00:28:41,560 We feel that the multi-expertise team, that has many expertises... 309 00:28:41,680 --> 00:28:45,960 should be at the front of the organisation. A weighty expertise. 310 00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:50,360 Because they can investigate what is happening... 311 00:28:50,480 --> 00:28:53,600 and with their expertise they can form a clear picture. 312 00:28:53,720 --> 00:28:57,040 With educated people who have the knowhow at the front... 313 00:28:57,160 --> 00:29:00,120 we can implement the correct care much faster. 314 00:29:01,560 --> 00:29:07,920 We want that highly-specialised youth care and youth protection... 315 00:29:08,040 --> 00:29:13,160 to be funded exclusively by the government... 316 00:29:13,280 --> 00:29:17,240 and no longer by 355 councils. No. 317 00:29:17,360 --> 00:29:20,440 The care for children who really need it must be ensured. 318 00:29:20,560 --> 00:29:23,920 Meaning it must be available at all times. 319 00:29:24,040 --> 00:29:29,240 And to do that you need one responsible party and that's the government. 320 00:29:29,360 --> 00:29:34,680 Youth Care workers said long ago that the system is failing and must change. 321 00:29:34,800 --> 00:29:36,880 Youth Care workers say that. 322 00:29:37,000 --> 00:29:40,240 Employers are almost on board, they are hesitant. 323 00:29:40,360 --> 00:29:47,760 Councils say that it needs to be better, but they are not as determined as us. 324 00:29:47,880 --> 00:29:52,880 But now they are arguing with the government about power and money. 325 00:29:53,000 --> 00:29:59,240 It's not about youth care and children and how can we let people do their job. 326 00:29:59,360 --> 00:30:04,440 The arguments between the local councils and the government... 327 00:30:04,560 --> 00:30:09,680 are about who pays for what, who has the authority over what. 328 00:30:09,800 --> 00:30:15,560 We do our job as best we can, but we must accept that it is not working. 329 00:30:15,680 --> 00:30:18,320 The quality is deteriorating... 330 00:30:18,440 --> 00:30:23,560 and we can no longer offer professional and quality youth care. 331 00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:27,000 They have been saying it for seven years, and my problem is: 332 00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:31,160 Now that it's gone this far, and it's collapsing and it's code black... 333 00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:34,200 children get no help, the quality is tanking... 334 00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:38,600 not enough child protection or care workers, children on waiting lists... 335 00:30:38,720 --> 00:30:41,920 now that it's come this far, they get the blame. Sorry, no. 336 00:30:42,040 --> 00:30:44,400 They have been saying it for seven years. 337 00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:51,200 The ball is in the Cabinet's court. The minister for child protection care... 338 00:30:51,320 --> 00:30:54,600 and the minister's state secretary for youth care... 339 00:30:54,720 --> 00:30:58,680 are the two responsible parties and they need to act... 340 00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:04,400 change things, show courage, break through, change laws if necessary. 341 00:31:04,520 --> 00:31:08,760 The only option left now is simply that they must do what must be done. 342 00:31:08,880 --> 00:31:13,800 And at this point we and all the child protection and care workers say: 343 00:31:13,920 --> 00:31:20,040 If The Hague, employers or anybody higher up who are responsible really... 344 00:31:20,160 --> 00:31:25,200 for the system, and letting these lists and friends and things happen... 345 00:31:25,320 --> 00:31:30,400 if no-one takes responsibility to change things, we must do it ourselves. 346 00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:32,800 The problem is so big, so problematic... 347 00:31:32,920 --> 00:31:38,480 you might say that the wound has been festering for so long... 348 00:31:38,600 --> 00:31:41,760 that you're tempted to say, tear it down and start over. 349 00:31:43,960 --> 00:31:49,880 Is Youth Care a revenue model? I wouldn't say it's a general term. 350 00:31:50,000 --> 00:31:55,040 Eighty per cent of Youth Care in this country are large foundations... 351 00:31:55,160 --> 00:31:58,880 of at least 100 people. We call them the system institutions: 352 00:31:59,000 --> 00:32:02,720 Large institutions united under the banner of Youth Care. 353 00:32:02,840 --> 00:32:06,560 That's the employers' association, which is eighty per cent. 354 00:32:06,680 --> 00:32:10,960 That leaves twenty per cent. They are one-person businesses, freelancers... 355 00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:16,400 small businesses, private companies, care cowboys in it for the money. 356 00:32:16,520 --> 00:32:19,520 Unfortunately this sector also has them. 357 00:32:21,000 --> 00:32:23,160 A lot of money is spent on them. 358 00:32:23,280 --> 00:32:29,000 But we worry about that twenty per cent, because hardly anyone supervises that. 359 00:32:30,840 --> 00:32:34,800 But if your organisation is only paid for slept-in beds... 360 00:32:34,920 --> 00:32:42,280 you must still pay for your building, you need groceries for the children, a staff. 361 00:32:42,400 --> 00:32:45,320 But if you don't have a steady income... 362 00:32:45,440 --> 00:32:50,880 your organisation must make sure your beds are slept in to survive. 363 00:32:51,000 --> 00:32:55,840 But what we want, from an idealistic point of view... 364 00:32:55,960 --> 00:32:58,800 we don't want children to sleep somewhere else. 365 00:32:58,920 --> 00:33:01,600 We want them to sleep in their own beds. 366 00:33:01,720 --> 00:33:06,840 So it is a perverse and strange system if slept-in beds is how you pay for things. 367 00:33:06,960 --> 00:33:10,840 There have been studies into the rising care costs. 368 00:33:10,960 --> 00:33:17,120 They say: the first 1000 days are crucial for the start of the child. 369 00:33:17,240 --> 00:33:23,600 At one point former Minister of Health de Jonge came up with an action plan: 370 00:33:23,720 --> 00:33:28,200 To invest in the first 1000 days of a child. If something goes wrong then... 371 00:33:28,320 --> 00:33:32,360 such as poverty in the family, or lack of parental skills... 372 00:33:32,480 --> 00:33:36,880 or if the child is not developing properly for whatever reason... 373 00:33:37,000 --> 00:33:41,680 we must be there those first 1000 days. They are crucial in its development. 374 00:33:41,800 --> 00:33:46,040 But you must be stupid to come up with that. If this is already too much. 375 00:33:46,160 --> 00:33:51,760 This is the phoney risk... -But you're already overextended... 376 00:33:51,880 --> 00:33:55,240 and then you add more to your workload with prenatal care. 377 00:33:55,360 --> 00:34:01,360 He should solve the problem first. -I wonder, this is the risk... 378 00:34:01,480 --> 00:34:07,240 Soon there will be 200,000 workers at Youth Care. All checked off. 379 00:34:07,360 --> 00:34:12,480 And that's the system we feel must be torn down. Yes. 380 00:34:12,600 --> 00:34:17,240 And I cannot understand why the sense of urgency is not present... 381 00:34:17,360 --> 00:34:22,760 in this Cabinet and in the councils. 382 00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:28,200 The indifference they show for the issue really angers me. 383 00:34:33,680 --> 00:34:39,000 Emily speaking. -Hi, Emily. Kim Feenstra here. 384 00:34:40,320 --> 00:34:45,680 I would like to ask you a few questions. 385 00:34:45,800 --> 00:34:50,640 OK. What exactly are you ringing me about? 386 00:34:50,760 --> 00:34:56,400 It's about Youth Care. I am making a documentary about Youth Care... 387 00:34:56,520 --> 00:35:01,120 and I understand you are the spokesperson of Maarten van Ooijen... 388 00:35:01,240 --> 00:35:08,480 the state secretary who is responsible for policy. 389 00:35:08,600 --> 00:35:12,840 I did some research and I was astonished... 390 00:35:12,960 --> 00:35:20,640 by the amount of money that is made, I repeat, at the expense of children. 391 00:35:20,760 --> 00:35:25,080 I wonder why that is? Don't you put pressure... 392 00:35:25,200 --> 00:35:29,560 on reuniting children with their parents? 393 00:35:29,680 --> 00:35:34,880 What's happening at Youth Care seems like some kind of revenue model. 394 00:35:35,600 --> 00:35:40,280 Yes, that's true. The state secretary also noticed... 395 00:35:40,400 --> 00:35:46,880 that there is a market mechanism in Youth Care which is undesirable... 396 00:35:47,000 --> 00:35:51,280 and is detrimental to the care of the most vulnerable children. 397 00:35:51,400 --> 00:35:57,840 He has indicated that he wants to tackle the market mechanism. 398 00:35:57,960 --> 00:36:01,320 For instance by putting a maximum on profit margins... 399 00:36:01,440 --> 00:36:04,560 and limiting the number of new care providers. 400 00:36:04,680 --> 00:36:11,000 Especially, providers that offer light ambulatory care... 401 00:36:11,120 --> 00:36:17,120 that can have larger profit margins than providers of complex care... 402 00:36:17,240 --> 00:36:20,520 of which there are often shortages. 403 00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:24,440 He wants to add incentives to the system that make it more attractive... 404 00:36:24,560 --> 00:36:28,320 to specifically offer specialised care instead of... 405 00:36:28,440 --> 00:36:32,720 more light care where the shortages are marginal. 406 00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:37,000 That is something that he also noticed and wants to tackle. 407 00:36:37,120 --> 00:36:40,800 That is good news, but how long will that take... 408 00:36:40,920 --> 00:36:44,880 because this problem has been going on for years now. 409 00:36:45,000 --> 00:36:52,720 And administrators of Youth Care have sent urgent letters to the ministry... 410 00:36:52,840 --> 00:36:58,480 for years now, but the letters were virtually ignored. 411 00:36:58,600 --> 00:37:02,240 So what do you think will happen this year? 412 00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:08,320 The reform agenda is due this fall, so after the summer. 413 00:37:08,440 --> 00:37:13,120 It will contain the details of the plans... 414 00:37:13,240 --> 00:37:16,800 and then the implementation will take place. 415 00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:20,480 For some items it could mean that the law must be changed... 416 00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:23,000 and implementation will take longer. 417 00:37:23,120 --> 00:37:30,040 Others only need new agreements with providers, councils and professionals. 418 00:37:30,160 --> 00:37:36,400 And that can have a direct influence on the everyday reality. 419 00:37:36,520 --> 00:37:43,840 And all this is a consequence of the signals we have received... 420 00:37:43,960 --> 00:37:48,360 from all the parties, like the urgent letters you mentioned... 421 00:37:50,600 --> 00:37:53,480 and reports in the media which we have also read. 422 00:37:53,600 --> 00:37:57,760 Many signals indicating that things are not going well at Youth Care. 423 00:37:57,880 --> 00:38:00,800 That is the reason reforms are on their way. 424 00:38:00,920 --> 00:38:06,800 So they actually admit that things are not going well... 425 00:38:06,920 --> 00:38:14,440 and that there are investors that have a financial interest in it. 426 00:38:14,560 --> 00:38:18,040 Things are going really well in the Netherlands. 427 00:38:53,320 --> 00:38:57,360 I feel personally involved with the fate of the children. 428 00:38:57,480 --> 00:39:02,560 I was also a child once and things in my family... 429 00:39:02,680 --> 00:39:07,840 weren't always a bed of roses. 430 00:39:07,960 --> 00:39:12,080 That has had an influence on who I am... 431 00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:15,720 and who I have become to this very day. 432 00:39:21,160 --> 00:39:24,760 My sister and I used to live with a foster family. 433 00:39:24,880 --> 00:39:29,160 I was seven or eight and my sister was still a baby. 434 00:39:29,280 --> 00:39:33,760 I was picked up at school, I don't remember what form I was in... 435 00:39:33,880 --> 00:39:39,080 I believe it was in the second form, by the police... 436 00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:44,800 and they said I had to go with them because we're taking you someplace. 437 00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:48,760 That was quite traumatic, because you are at school... 438 00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:51,680 you don't know what's going on, the police is there. 439 00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:55,680 As a child anyone wearing a uniform... 440 00:39:55,800 --> 00:39:59,600 is scary, you feel a bit ill at ease. 441 00:39:59,720 --> 00:40:04,920 I quickly realised that something was wrong. 442 00:40:05,040 --> 00:40:09,800 So they took me with them and at the police station... 443 00:40:09,920 --> 00:40:14,360 I saw that my sister was there too, then we went into a police car... 444 00:40:14,480 --> 00:40:18,320 and they took us to a foster family. They had told us that... 445 00:40:18,440 --> 00:40:21,960 but all I did was call for my mother. 446 00:40:22,080 --> 00:40:25,720 And I remember that we stopped in front of that house... 447 00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:30,400 and in my mind I thought, I'll never forget that, if we stop... 448 00:40:30,520 --> 00:40:34,880 once I'm out of the car I'll run away, I didn't want a foster family. 449 00:40:35,000 --> 00:40:39,560 So I started running, but they caught me. 450 00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:45,360 They weren't rough or anything, but I was in hysterics and I was crying... 451 00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:50,160 because I wanted my mum. I didn't want to go to a foster family or to strangers. 452 00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:58,520 But it was short, I was there three weeks, only I do know... 453 00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:04,160 that there was no need for them to place us out of home. 454 00:41:04,720 --> 00:41:07,600 I did not have a nice childhood. 455 00:41:07,720 --> 00:41:15,120 A childhood with plenty of misery, a lot of traumatic events. 456 00:41:16,200 --> 00:41:19,960 My sister's father physically abused my mother, not us. 457 00:41:20,080 --> 00:41:23,440 He never abused me or my sister. 458 00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:31,480 It was a dark period for me, I was working as a prostitute... 459 00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:34,560 and doing things that weren't good for me. 460 00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:40,840 But I was very young when I started doing that. 461 00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:46,080 I believe in the universe and I believe in God... 462 00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:52,160 and two nights before that I cried a lot and prayed to God... 463 00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:56,200 to give me something to help me get out of this. I didn't know how. 464 00:41:56,320 --> 00:42:02,000 And when I was nineteen I was scouted and taken off the street... 465 00:42:02,120 --> 00:42:04,880 by a Parisian modelling agency. 466 00:42:09,160 --> 00:42:13,560 That was a turning point and I thought, I was given this chance... 467 00:42:13,680 --> 00:42:19,920 and I'll never let this slip away, so I worked really hard on my career. 468 00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:25,480 And everything my mother taught me: 'Become independent. 469 00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:29,920 That is the most powerful thing I can give you.' 470 00:42:30,040 --> 00:42:36,800 I tried to do that and I think I did rather well, if I say so myself. 471 00:42:41,720 --> 00:42:44,800 It was quite a rollercoaster. 472 00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:49,720 It certainly formed me, of course it also damaged me. 473 00:42:49,840 --> 00:42:55,680 I'm processing all that now, because I am a mother... 474 00:42:55,800 --> 00:42:59,040 and look at my child and think... 475 00:42:59,160 --> 00:43:02,840 I got such a primal feeling of having to protect my child. 476 00:43:02,960 --> 00:43:05,600 Hello, gorgeous baby. 477 00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:13,360 Yes, they are delicious. 478 00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:18,240 I now feel called upon... 479 00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:22,200 to try and contribute my part... 480 00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:28,400 to make sure things do change, because it's important for the children... 481 00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:32,120 who really need Youth Care's help. 482 00:43:32,240 --> 00:43:35,600 And it's important for the parents who need help... 483 00:43:35,720 --> 00:43:40,160 because that's where it goes wrong. I believe that... 484 00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:45,600 the parents who are in an unstable situation due to a divorce... 485 00:43:45,720 --> 00:43:50,560 or financial problems need someone to guide them through it. 486 00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:56,160 That doesn't mean that a child should be placed out of home right away. 487 00:44:17,360 --> 00:44:24,000 We've been together 6.5 years? -Yes, and married nearly 4 years. 488 00:44:24,120 --> 00:44:25,520 Yes. -Is that right? 489 00:44:29,320 --> 00:44:34,080 You fall in love with a man in the process of a divorce... 490 00:44:34,200 --> 00:44:38,040 and you expect that it will be sorted. 491 00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:41,840 And then Pandora's box is opened. 492 00:44:45,240 --> 00:44:52,680 It's been seven years and today I had session number 22. 493 00:44:54,680 --> 00:44:59,000 And this year there will be at least three or four more. Yes. 494 00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:04,040 The session today was about a continuation... 495 00:45:04,160 --> 00:45:09,200 of one of my daughters being placed out of home. 496 00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:16,200 I can accept that it will be continued... 497 00:45:16,320 --> 00:45:23,680 but the way the certified institution's approaches care... 498 00:45:23,800 --> 00:45:26,440 leaves a lot to be desired. 499 00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:33,240 Youth Care's involvement has nothing to do with the divorce now. 500 00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:36,320 They were at first, when we could not communicate. 501 00:45:36,440 --> 00:45:38,560 But at some point you find a way. 502 00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:42,160 Children aren't too bothered if parents don't communicate. 503 00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:45,360 It's tough at first, but everyone finds a way. 504 00:45:45,480 --> 00:45:49,800 The fact that Youth Care is involved in my situation... 505 00:45:49,920 --> 00:45:53,120 kept getting bigger and bigger and bigger. 506 00:45:53,240 --> 00:45:56,320 And Youth Care has damaged my children. 507 00:45:56,440 --> 00:46:03,680 So at one point we filed a complaint against the Salvation Army. 508 00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:06,480 At the time we thought it would have results. 509 00:46:06,600 --> 00:46:10,360 And the commission literally said that the family guardians... 510 00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:16,520 have endangered the health of my children. Literally. 511 00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:22,480 But then what happens next? Absolutely nothing. 512 00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:28,360 The LJNR, the Salvation Army Youth Protection and Probation, I believe... 513 00:46:28,480 --> 00:46:33,120 must have a complaint commission. There's probably a law somewhere. 514 00:46:33,240 --> 00:46:37,920 An independent complaint commission that files an annual report. 515 00:46:38,040 --> 00:46:42,080 So the day before the sessions, I was given the name of the chairman... 516 00:46:42,200 --> 00:46:45,680 and I googled her and found a few annual reports instead. 517 00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:49,240 Her name popped up with the name of the Salvation Army. 518 00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:54,400 And to my amazement in the past five years 9 of my 10 complaints... 519 00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:57,280 were already dealt with by the same commission. 520 00:46:57,400 --> 00:47:00,960 And there's the glitch: yes, they must have a commission... 521 00:47:01,080 --> 00:47:03,880 it must be independent and file a report... 522 00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:09,640 the director must comment on it. And that's where it ends. 523 00:47:13,880 --> 00:47:18,280 The law does not state: you must act on the recommendations... 524 00:47:18,400 --> 00:47:22,320 stemming from complaints. You must act on them, change procedures. 525 00:47:22,440 --> 00:47:28,040 You must ensure that what happened does not happen again. 526 00:47:28,160 --> 00:47:30,360 No, there is no such obligation. 527 00:47:30,480 --> 00:47:34,880 So a complaint commission is totally useless. 528 00:47:38,320 --> 00:47:40,720 Truth-finding is also not required. 529 00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:47,120 It's what you run into time and again: truth-finding is also not required. 530 00:47:47,240 --> 00:47:54,680 So even if you have proof of how things happened, it doesn't matter. 531 00:47:54,800 --> 00:48:00,360 They don't do truth-finding. And judges will not do it either... 532 00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:07,000 because they assume that the information from a certified institution... 533 00:48:07,120 --> 00:48:12,080 is accurate. So judges rule based on that. 534 00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:18,880 It is a money machine. Children are no longer seen as vulnerable... 535 00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:26,320 but as numbers, figures and a way of making money. 536 00:48:26,440 --> 00:48:33,720 Not one of the files was in order, the report showed. 537 00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:41,120 Everybody knows that Youth Care is a huge, stinking mess. 538 00:48:41,240 --> 00:48:43,640 But we don't take action. 539 00:48:43,760 --> 00:48:50,160 I am trying every way I can to be here for him. 540 00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:56,360 I started studying Law, because we couldn't afford the solicitor anymore. 541 00:48:56,480 --> 00:48:59,640 So I started writing the legal drafts. 542 00:48:59,760 --> 00:49:06,960 Also because the time we spent on that was time not spent on the children. 543 00:49:07,080 --> 00:49:11,360 It was important to me that he spent time with the children instead of me. 544 00:49:11,480 --> 00:49:19,240 So I wrote the drafts to give the solicitors the input they needed for the case. 545 00:49:20,480 --> 00:49:26,400 I want to say that people should be careful with cases like this. 546 00:49:26,520 --> 00:49:31,960 Especially with the contact with 'Veilig Thuis' and Child Protection. 547 00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:38,560 I would advise people involved in this: go with someone, tape all conversations... 548 00:49:38,680 --> 00:49:41,520 write the minutes of meetings yourself. 549 00:49:41,640 --> 00:49:45,680 Do not allow Child Protection to write the minutes. 550 00:50:34,080 --> 00:50:37,160 Candlelight makes everything cosy, she said. 551 00:50:42,280 --> 00:50:45,840 Of all the nonsense uttered that night, that was the winner. 552 00:50:47,880 --> 00:50:52,040 But that was the moment I sold my soul. 553 00:50:55,840 --> 00:50:58,360 That night she was my mother, I was the daughter. 554 00:50:58,480 --> 00:51:01,480 Who would we be in the morning light? 555 00:51:04,200 --> 00:51:08,280 How would it be to move the screen and look each other in the eye... 556 00:51:08,400 --> 00:51:11,800 and let go of our roles to say goodbye? 557 00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:18,640 She murmurs, we'll miss each other, but means that we'll miss how it used to be. 558 00:51:21,360 --> 00:51:24,880 My mother had a psychotic episode, that's why... 559 00:51:25,000 --> 00:51:29,600 we had a talk with Child Protection or Youth Care... 560 00:51:29,720 --> 00:51:34,760 And the institution that admitted the mother had a talk with her... 561 00:51:34,880 --> 00:51:39,200 where she said that the IHT was a Vincent van Gogh of the GGZ in Venlo. 562 00:51:39,320 --> 00:51:41,920 He said, yes, your mother is seriously ill. 563 00:51:45,680 --> 00:51:48,800 They often sell it by saying, you can choose. 564 00:51:52,400 --> 00:51:55,000 Can you imagine the panic that causes her? 565 00:51:55,120 --> 00:52:00,280 Is that how you protect her, with a question like that. 566 00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:09,200 Let's look at some photos, Louise, shall we? 567 00:52:11,880 --> 00:52:14,480 Remember that one? You don't? -No. 568 00:52:14,600 --> 00:52:18,200 It doesn't matter what you say, they already decided of how... 569 00:52:19,880 --> 00:52:24,120 how things are and who the bad parent is and what to do with the children. 570 00:52:24,240 --> 00:52:29,600 You can go back to say your piece, but it doesn't make any difference. 571 00:52:29,720 --> 00:52:34,120 They are not helping. They threaten and blackmail you, that's what it is. 572 00:52:35,440 --> 00:52:39,240 You don't remember that, do you? -No. 573 00:52:39,360 --> 00:52:42,400 All of us were afraid: imagine if they come back. 574 00:52:42,520 --> 00:52:47,480 The decision of the court in Den Bosch had arrived. 575 00:52:47,600 --> 00:52:51,280 The next day I got an email from Youth Care saying they wanted... 576 00:52:51,400 --> 00:52:55,760 a few final talks with me and my children. 577 00:52:55,880 --> 00:53:01,120 Well, that lady got an earful and I never saw her again. 578 00:53:02,200 --> 00:53:07,000 I told her off right away. But imagine if you can't stand up for yourself... 579 00:53:07,120 --> 00:53:12,000 and such a person comes and they find something and they start over again. 580 00:53:13,480 --> 00:53:19,360 But the worst part is that they could not care less, and it's obvious. 581 00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:21,040 I think that's awful. 582 00:53:22,280 --> 00:53:26,120 The lies, the threats, the blackmail. It's criminal behaviour. 583 00:53:26,240 --> 00:53:29,880 The child abuse, abuse in general, that's what hurts the most. 584 00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:32,640 It's beyond comprehension. 585 00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:39,960 Abuse is a very mild expression for what they do. 586 00:53:40,080 --> 00:53:43,640 And the position of power they think they have. 587 00:53:45,280 --> 00:53:49,920 And it really is abuse in general, especially child abuse. 588 00:53:50,040 --> 00:53:55,240 The most vulnerable group in society. -Yes. 589 00:53:55,360 --> 00:54:01,440 As a nation we should be happy with children, they are our future. 590 00:54:01,560 --> 00:54:06,160 You ought to treat them properly, right? Not the Dutch state. 591 00:54:06,280 --> 00:54:10,960 And politicians refuse to do something about it and that the judiciary... 592 00:54:11,080 --> 00:54:14,200 and the politicians don't act and don't want to act... 593 00:54:14,320 --> 00:54:17,520 I think that is just beyond disgraceful. 594 00:54:31,480 --> 00:54:34,000 He wants to put some makeup on. 595 00:54:37,720 --> 00:54:39,520 Hello, Wybren. 596 00:54:42,320 --> 00:54:47,240 I would like to discuss with you what we can do... 597 00:54:47,360 --> 00:54:51,840 to amend the problems at Youth Care... 598 00:54:51,960 --> 00:54:56,240 because based on what I have heard and what I have researched... 599 00:54:56,360 --> 00:55:00,960 the system, the way it is now, must be dismantled. 600 00:55:01,080 --> 00:55:04,280 As for me, they can tear it down and rebuild it. 601 00:55:04,400 --> 00:55:07,640 How can we do that and what is needed for that? 602 00:55:07,760 --> 00:55:14,080 It's already on the agenda, but Dutch citizens can get an item on the agenda... 603 00:55:14,200 --> 00:55:19,840 by starting a petition and if you get, say, 40,000 signatures... 604 00:55:19,960 --> 00:55:23,040 you can raise the issue in a plenary session. 605 00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:27,880 But a member of parliament can also put it on the agenda... 606 00:55:28,000 --> 00:55:31,840 and it's discussed. But system corruption is so widespread... 607 00:55:31,960 --> 00:55:37,400 Look, Azarkan, Leijten and Omtzigt uncovered the tax allowance affair. 608 00:55:37,520 --> 00:55:44,280 That was a criminal systems error. They did good work: the Cabinet fell. 609 00:55:44,400 --> 00:55:47,480 What do you see in this corrupt system? It carries on. 610 00:55:47,600 --> 00:55:52,200 The same people are ministers again, Mark Rutte is still Prime Minister. 611 00:55:52,320 --> 00:55:56,720 But these people are responsible for the issues. 612 00:55:56,840 --> 00:56:01,480 The 1650 children who were placed out of home are still not home. 613 00:56:01,600 --> 00:56:06,200 I asked Mark Rutte in the debate: Isn't this a scandal? 614 00:56:06,320 --> 00:56:13,880 Isn't this a terrible thing? He said: No, the allowance affair was a scandal... 615 00:56:14,000 --> 00:56:18,200 but the problem of out-of-home placements will be solved, but years later... 616 00:56:18,320 --> 00:56:23,240 some children are still in it. Their mothers think, it's not a scandal? 617 00:56:23,360 --> 00:56:27,440 Of course. If a child is placed out of home because of the allowance affair... 618 00:56:27,560 --> 00:56:31,600 it is a God awful scandal, a humongous scandal. 619 00:56:31,720 --> 00:56:35,560 But now that this has a prominent place on the agenda... 620 00:56:35,680 --> 00:56:40,280 Youth Care is caught in the crosshairs. That is another system's error... 621 00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:44,840 and we must solve it. Is it being solved? Not with the current Cabinet. 622 00:56:44,960 --> 00:56:50,400 And it simply continues. We must put an end to this corruption in the system. 623 00:56:50,520 --> 00:56:54,800 Since we know that 1650 children were placed out of home... 624 00:56:54,920 --> 00:57:00,440 as a result of the allowance affair people are ringing us like mad. 625 00:57:00,560 --> 00:57:03,520 A lot of mothers ring us. 626 00:57:03,640 --> 00:57:09,960 Even mothers whose children were not taken. It means something is wrong. 627 00:57:10,080 --> 00:57:12,920 Are they terrible parents? I don't think so. 628 00:57:13,040 --> 00:57:18,480 Only after their children were taken did they start recording conversations. 629 00:57:18,600 --> 00:57:25,440 I would advise anyone dealing with Youth Care to record everything, film it... 630 00:57:25,560 --> 00:57:29,840 because the cases we heard of are devastating. 631 00:57:29,960 --> 00:57:34,840 It's intimidation, it's blackmail, and that cannot be allowed to happen. 632 00:57:40,240 --> 00:57:43,720 It's mad, nothing makes sense. 633 00:57:45,080 --> 00:57:50,960 That's what I mean, it's kidnapping. My son was simply kidnapped. 634 00:57:57,040 --> 00:58:04,920 When my ex and I separated we fell into the hands of Youth Care. 635 00:58:05,040 --> 00:58:09,200 And for eight years now it's been court cases, struggles... 636 00:58:09,320 --> 00:58:15,920 and seven months ago they won and have placed my son out of home. 637 00:58:18,240 --> 00:58:24,320 I got every solicitor I could get my hands on, at one point I had three of them... 638 00:58:24,440 --> 00:58:27,800 to ensure that my son could come home. 639 00:58:27,920 --> 00:58:33,040 You say that you have been working on the whole process for eight years. 640 00:58:33,160 --> 00:58:37,880 So before that you've had discussions and such. 641 00:58:38,000 --> 00:58:41,960 So they could have seen that there was nothing wrong with you. 642 00:58:42,080 --> 00:58:48,200 The part I don't understand and I would like to know is... 643 00:58:48,320 --> 00:58:54,760 Why the switch? -Yes, why did they decide after 8 years... 644 00:58:54,880 --> 00:58:57,360 I can explain it: a change in family manager. 645 00:58:57,480 --> 00:59:02,280 Until two years ago we had the same family manager... 646 00:59:02,400 --> 00:59:04,360 he thought everything was fine. 647 00:59:04,480 --> 00:59:07,640 Two years later we got a new family manager... 648 00:59:07,760 --> 00:59:10,360 and all she wanted was to place Lon out of home. 649 00:59:10,480 --> 00:59:16,760 It's totally baseless. Youth Care had never set foot in my house. 650 00:59:16,880 --> 00:59:20,440 How can they say it is unsafe? -So no-one has been here... 651 00:59:20,560 --> 00:59:26,040 with a checklist to see how things are in your household? 652 00:59:26,160 --> 00:59:28,680 No, no observations, nothing. 653 00:59:28,800 --> 00:59:34,840 The worst thing about placing him out of home is, you know it's not right. 654 00:59:34,960 --> 00:59:38,440 There were no grounds for placing him out of home. 655 00:59:38,560 --> 00:59:44,040 At the start of the process I couldn't have contact with my child for two weeks. 656 00:59:44,160 --> 00:59:47,280 For two weeks you didn't... -Know where he was. 657 00:59:47,400 --> 00:59:52,720 Isn't it scary to have no idea where your child is... 658 00:59:52,840 --> 00:59:56,680 and what's going on within those walls? -Scary as hell. 659 00:59:56,800 --> 01:00:02,960 And you read horror stories about children being abused, battered. 660 01:00:03,080 --> 01:00:05,760 Scary as hell. But there is nothing I can do. 661 01:00:05,880 --> 01:00:08,880 I cannot even protect my own child. 662 01:00:09,680 --> 01:00:13,640 Against an organisation that is meant to be protecting children. 663 01:00:13,760 --> 01:00:15,360 It is so twisted. 664 01:00:16,440 --> 01:00:19,400 Youth Care knew they were in error. 665 01:00:19,520 --> 01:00:22,600 Youth Care knew what they were doing was wrong. 666 01:00:22,720 --> 01:00:26,880 So what Youth Care then tried to do was... 667 01:00:27,000 --> 01:00:33,080 blame me to make sure they had grounds to place my son out of home. 668 01:00:33,200 --> 01:00:36,080 So it was a topsy-turvy world. 669 01:00:36,200 --> 01:00:40,800 Yes, I had to sign a paper prohibiting me to talk to the media. 670 01:00:40,920 --> 01:00:47,200 So I kept very quiet, because I was terrified the press would pick it up... 671 01:00:47,320 --> 01:00:49,760 since we are reasonably press-worthy. 672 01:00:49,880 --> 01:00:53,520 So I told very few people about it, because I was terrified... 673 01:00:53,640 --> 01:00:57,960 it would leak to the media, not by me, but someone else... 674 01:00:58,080 --> 01:01:03,000 causing Youth Care to accuse me of breaking the media clause. 675 01:01:03,880 --> 01:01:06,760 So how did they manage to do it? 676 01:01:06,880 --> 01:01:12,520 For instance by saying that I was emotionally unstable. 677 01:01:12,640 --> 01:01:17,680 But the thing is, I was accused before I was able to prove the opposite. 678 01:01:17,800 --> 01:01:22,280 So I had to go to a therapist to get a declaration that I was fine emotionally. 679 01:01:22,400 --> 01:01:26,880 But at that point London was already taken. So what did Youth Care do then? 680 01:01:27,000 --> 01:01:33,000 They imposed penalties on me. I received a 25,000 euro penalty. 681 01:01:33,120 --> 01:01:39,920 Youth Care sent debt collectors and they froze my bank accounts. 682 01:01:40,040 --> 01:01:45,640 In many cases parents cannot afford a solicitor. 683 01:01:45,760 --> 01:01:49,960 I spent hundreds of thousands of euros on solicitors. 684 01:01:50,080 --> 01:01:55,080 So all my money went to solicitors to protect my child. 685 01:01:55,200 --> 01:01:58,080 And Youth Care is not used to that. 686 01:01:58,200 --> 01:02:03,480 Because that's what it is: the state kidnapped my child. No more, no less. 687 01:02:03,600 --> 01:02:06,320 I wouldn't mind a cup of coffee. -Good idea. 688 01:02:15,040 --> 01:02:19,480 It's too ridiculous for words that Youth Care can issue fines. 689 01:02:19,600 --> 01:02:21,200 It's outrageous. 690 01:02:21,320 --> 01:02:27,760 How can Youth Care fine a single mother? 691 01:02:29,520 --> 01:02:34,120 So what did Youth Care do? They started searching my shortcomings... 692 01:02:34,240 --> 01:02:38,600 to see if they could find a reason to say, you see? 693 01:02:38,720 --> 01:02:42,360 'We were right in placing him out of home.' Then at some point... 694 01:02:42,480 --> 01:02:48,640 I get parental access and I have to sign a contract or document... 695 01:02:48,760 --> 01:02:53,120 forbidding me to make recordings. So I felt that something was going on. 696 01:02:53,240 --> 01:02:56,920 They had something up their sleeve, I knew they were searching... 697 01:02:57,040 --> 01:03:02,880 for things that would prove that they were right. 698 01:03:03,000 --> 01:03:06,280 I signed the document saying I wouldn't make recordings... 699 01:03:06,400 --> 01:03:13,440 and I had to hand in my phone before I could go into my son's room. 700 01:03:13,560 --> 01:03:19,360 But I put an extra phone in my handbag and I did record that conversation. 701 01:03:21,360 --> 01:03:24,400 I'll let you hear the recordings. 702 01:03:26,040 --> 01:03:29,080 I'll put this... Oh, it's yours. -Mine. 703 01:03:30,240 --> 01:03:36,600 At one point my son and I are reading a book about Indonesia. 704 01:03:36,720 --> 01:03:39,080 We were planning on going to Bali. 705 01:03:39,200 --> 01:03:43,680 So we are reading a few Indonesian words out loud. 706 01:03:43,800 --> 01:03:50,360 Because you're so good in languages, here is a new book with a new language. 707 01:03:50,480 --> 01:03:54,000 Now you start learning your first words for when we go to Bali. 708 01:03:54,120 --> 01:03:59,480 And suddenly the Youth Care employee says: 709 01:03:59,600 --> 01:04:04,240 'I'm going to stop this visit for safety reasons.' 710 01:04:04,360 --> 01:04:09,480 Are we going to Bali. Why? I thought we were going to... what's it called? 711 01:04:09,600 --> 01:04:13,800 Indonesia. That is Bali. What? -I'm going to stop the visit. 712 01:04:13,920 --> 01:04:18,040 You are what? Why? -For breaking the safety agreement. 713 01:04:18,160 --> 01:04:21,880 What do you mean? -No promises in visits.* 714 01:04:22,000 --> 01:04:24,920 Why? -We are not discussing it now. 715 01:04:25,040 --> 01:04:28,120 What's the matter? Do I have to go? 716 01:04:28,240 --> 01:04:33,400 What are we doing wrong? We're going on holiday in Bali. 717 01:04:33,520 --> 01:04:37,000 What are you talking about? We're reading words. What are you doing? 718 01:04:37,120 --> 01:04:40,280 'Right, I am not having this discussion while your son is present.' 719 01:04:40,400 --> 01:04:44,400 It was in general. We will go to Indonesia one day. We are Indonesian. 720 01:04:44,520 --> 01:04:47,920 That's nice, but I am ending the visit now. 721 01:04:48,040 --> 01:04:50,680 Why? -Why? Explain it to me. 722 01:04:50,800 --> 01:04:54,880 Give me a chance. -Let's go into the hall... 723 01:04:55,000 --> 01:05:00,000 and you can explain why you are ending it and what the safety conditions are. 724 01:05:00,120 --> 01:05:04,720 What's wrong? My son starts crying, no, please give us another chance. 725 01:05:04,840 --> 01:05:06,920 It was heart-rending. 726 01:05:07,040 --> 01:05:08,800 Get your things. -Go outside. 727 01:05:08,920 --> 01:05:12,320 No. -I did nothing wrong. 728 01:05:13,440 --> 01:05:17,080 All I did was talk about... I didn't do anything wrong. 729 01:05:17,200 --> 01:05:18,840 Mama. 730 01:05:20,280 --> 01:05:25,480 Mama. -Let's go. Give her a hug and let's go. 731 01:05:25,600 --> 01:05:29,880 Sorry, dear. What I just heard is outrageous. I'm sorry. 732 01:05:30,000 --> 01:05:34,160 She then presses the security button, the security guards come in... 733 01:05:34,280 --> 01:05:40,440 and she told them that I threatened her. But there is no threat on the recording. 734 01:05:40,560 --> 01:05:42,400 I don't want to wait a week. 735 01:05:42,520 --> 01:05:44,280 Jesus, how awful. 736 01:05:44,400 --> 01:05:47,520 Come here. -You'll see mama again real soon. 737 01:05:47,640 --> 01:05:52,200 Come here, come here. -Can't you give us another chance? 738 01:05:52,320 --> 01:05:56,520 No, we are ending this right now. -There is no good reason for this. 739 01:05:56,640 --> 01:06:00,640 I want you to leave now, Jamie. -No, please. 740 01:06:00,760 --> 01:06:03,360 Now I have to wait another week. 741 01:06:05,760 --> 01:06:13,600 Anyone with a normal set of brains, any judge or supervisor or whatever... 742 01:06:13,720 --> 01:06:19,680 who hears this... A team manager or whatever must see... 743 01:06:19,800 --> 01:06:26,200 when they hear your child that he only wants to be with you... 744 01:06:26,320 --> 01:06:30,440 and that he is willing to do anything to do that. It's disgraceful. 745 01:06:30,560 --> 01:06:34,920 It is, and I had to leave him there. -He's so young, you know? 746 01:06:35,040 --> 01:06:40,800 I mean, I think this is so heavy. As you know, I also have a little boy... 747 01:06:40,920 --> 01:06:48,760 when I think about it, this is madness. -It is. They didn't know I recorded it. 748 01:06:48,880 --> 01:06:53,880 They wanted to accuse me of making threats, so that when we went to court... 749 01:06:54,000 --> 01:06:58,040 Youth Care and me, and Youth Care would say... 750 01:06:58,160 --> 01:07:03,160 the lady threatened us and I deny it, the judge would believe Youth Care. 751 01:07:03,280 --> 01:07:07,520 If I didn't have that recording, my son would never have come home. 752 01:07:10,240 --> 01:07:14,600 I think it's terrible that you had to go through this. 753 01:07:14,720 --> 01:07:16,760 Yes, it was horrible. 754 01:07:19,760 --> 01:07:23,760 What did you do with it? -I sent it to the child ombudsman. 755 01:07:23,880 --> 01:07:27,840 He said it gave him goose pimples all over his body. 756 01:07:27,960 --> 01:07:33,600 The Youth Care employee didn't want to deal with my family and withdrew. 757 01:07:33,720 --> 01:07:40,200 She knew this was all wrong. And Child Protection took Youth Care to court. 758 01:07:40,320 --> 01:07:44,560 It was the first time in 21 years that Child Protection... 759 01:07:44,680 --> 01:07:48,480 faced Youth Care in court. -And what did the judge decide? 760 01:07:48,600 --> 01:07:52,560 Youth Care was taken off the case right away and my son was to go home. 761 01:07:53,400 --> 01:07:57,600 The last judge finally ordered... 762 01:07:57,720 --> 01:08:03,720 an independent investigation into our case and their conclusion was... 763 01:08:03,840 --> 01:08:10,960 that taking my son was unfounded and that Youth Care damaged the child. 764 01:08:11,080 --> 01:08:15,760 The whole time my son was placed out of home was for nothing. 765 01:08:15,880 --> 01:08:17,840 I have it in black and white. 766 01:08:18,720 --> 01:08:25,800 The denial and 'supporting' the mother with penalties and written instructions... 767 01:08:25,920 --> 01:08:31,480 and placing her son out of home, I feel has caused a double trauma. 768 01:08:31,600 --> 01:08:37,440 As such all parties have been wronged. For London it was incredibly confusing. 769 01:08:37,560 --> 01:08:41,480 Child Protection... 770 01:08:41,600 --> 01:08:45,800 took Youth Care to court because they knew... 771 01:08:45,920 --> 01:08:49,960 that my son should never have been placed out of home. 772 01:08:50,080 --> 01:08:57,800 It's seven months out of our lives, my son's most traumatic experience ever. 773 01:08:57,920 --> 01:09:01,320 All for nothing, unfounded. 774 01:09:01,440 --> 01:09:04,920 How can this happen in a country like the Netherlands? 775 01:09:05,040 --> 01:09:11,520 Your son is coming home soon. How long did that take? 776 01:09:11,640 --> 01:09:15,800 Since the judge took Youth Care off the case? 777 01:09:15,920 --> 01:09:19,440 And ordering the release of your son. -Another two months. 778 01:09:19,560 --> 01:09:21,440 Two months? -Yes. 779 01:09:22,440 --> 01:09:24,640 Yes, it's bizarre. 780 01:09:24,760 --> 01:09:30,280 It really is... -Yes, I know, but I cannot believe... 781 01:09:30,400 --> 01:09:33,960 That this can happen. -Even after a judge ordered... 782 01:09:34,080 --> 01:09:37,240 an independent investigation which concluded... 783 01:09:37,360 --> 01:09:45,200 that he was wrongfully taken, they kept him away from his mum two months... 784 01:09:45,320 --> 01:09:50,920 While they stated that every day away from home causes damage. 785 01:09:51,040 --> 01:09:56,360 When they say that placing a child out of home is only in the interest of the child... 786 01:09:56,480 --> 01:10:00,240 so it can have a normal life, they are lying. 787 01:10:00,360 --> 01:10:04,120 Are you tired? -I am totally exhausted. 788 01:10:04,240 --> 01:10:07,960 I had to fight against so much injustice. 789 01:10:34,120 --> 01:10:37,920 Hi, I'm Kim. -Nice to meet you. Marie Carine. 790 01:10:39,080 --> 01:10:41,000 Chalisa. -Hi, I'm Kim. 791 01:10:41,120 --> 01:10:45,000 Welcome. -It looks so wonderful. 792 01:10:45,120 --> 01:10:48,880 My son was three, my eldest daughter was two... 793 01:10:49,000 --> 01:10:53,280 and my youngest daughter was one when they were taken out of my care. 794 01:10:53,400 --> 01:10:57,600 How is it possible for you to have three children... 795 01:10:57,720 --> 01:11:01,240 and have all three of them removed from your custody? 796 01:11:01,360 --> 01:11:07,120 Why exactly did Youth Services disapprove of your situation? 797 01:11:07,240 --> 01:11:11,480 I was what you call a teenage mother. 798 01:11:11,600 --> 01:11:15,840 I was sixteen years old and had broken up with the father. 799 01:11:15,960 --> 01:11:21,360 Was there ever the possibility of being reunited with your children? 800 01:11:21,480 --> 01:11:27,800 Absolutely. At the age of eighteen, I started a job at an insurance company. 801 01:11:27,920 --> 01:11:33,880 From that time on, every two years or so... 802 01:11:34,000 --> 01:11:39,040 I made court claims to prove I was more than fit to raise my children. 803 01:11:39,160 --> 01:11:43,480 But still I was denied the right to raise my own children. 804 01:11:43,600 --> 01:11:47,200 Initially because I was too young and traumatised. 805 01:11:47,320 --> 01:11:51,840 Then it was because the children were traumatised themselves. 806 01:11:51,960 --> 01:11:55,920 The court ordered Child Protection... 807 01:11:56,040 --> 01:12:01,480 to draw up a psychological evaluation. 808 01:12:01,600 --> 01:12:04,920 A psychiatrist was asked to assess... 809 01:12:05,040 --> 01:12:08,360 whether or not I was able to take care of my children. 810 01:12:08,480 --> 01:12:13,120 The answer was yes. But they chose to disregard the report... 811 01:12:13,240 --> 01:12:17,120 for the same reasons as before: 812 01:12:17,240 --> 01:12:21,560 'Your children are traumatised, so unable to stay with you.' 813 01:12:21,680 --> 01:12:24,040 Despite my positive evaluation. 814 01:12:24,880 --> 01:12:29,120 A very dramatic ordeal. -I'll say. 815 01:12:29,240 --> 01:12:32,800 Nearly everything went wrong. 816 01:12:32,920 --> 01:12:38,200 It's mind-boggling to see the disastrous course this case took. 817 01:12:38,320 --> 01:12:43,680 It makes sense for such a young mother to have measures taken... 818 01:12:43,800 --> 01:12:49,640 to accommodate the entire process. That would be understandable. 819 01:12:49,760 --> 01:12:53,600 But to see it fly off the rails like that... 820 01:12:53,720 --> 01:12:58,680 with a piling up of countless measures... 821 01:12:58,800 --> 01:13:06,360 and incorrect assessments and guidance by Youth Care... 822 01:13:06,480 --> 01:13:08,480 I'm simply at a loss for words. 823 01:13:12,280 --> 01:13:17,040 I'm genuinely shocked. As a solicitor I've handled many cases... 824 01:13:17,160 --> 01:13:20,800 in the field of youth care. But these events... 825 01:13:20,920 --> 01:13:24,920 eventually led to a person's death. 826 01:13:25,040 --> 01:13:29,760 It's very hard for me not to... 827 01:13:29,880 --> 01:13:35,320 You obviously get professionally involved in each case that crosses your path. 828 01:13:35,440 --> 01:13:41,920 But the way this situation unfolded, is heart-breaking. Just horrible. 829 01:13:44,920 --> 01:13:49,120 Look how small you were. So adorable. 830 01:13:49,240 --> 01:13:52,760 We saw each other once a month back then. 831 01:13:52,880 --> 01:13:54,720 That one is cute. 832 01:13:54,840 --> 01:13:59,920 I was at school, and I was sent out of class. 833 01:14:00,040 --> 01:14:04,760 I lived somewhere else. Suddenly I saw counsellors approaching with the police. 834 01:14:04,880 --> 01:14:10,440 I saw my guardian and thought: What are they all doing here? 835 01:14:11,480 --> 01:14:17,080 They wanted to talk. I thought I was in trouble for disrupting the class. 836 01:14:18,080 --> 01:14:23,760 So we went into a room. They didn't even break the news gently... 837 01:14:23,880 --> 01:14:28,840 by saying something was wrong. They just told me my sister had died. 838 01:14:31,480 --> 01:14:36,000 Just like that. I said: 'No way. You're messing with me. 839 01:14:36,120 --> 01:14:41,560 It's not funny.' I was in shock, I didn't know what to say. 840 01:14:41,680 --> 01:14:47,280 I was so confused. I went completely numb. 841 01:14:50,440 --> 01:14:55,160 When I arrived at home, my father rang me up in tears. 842 01:14:55,280 --> 01:15:03,200 He said: 'Chal, I'm coming for you. I'm getting you out of there.' 843 01:15:03,320 --> 01:15:06,680 My father was there in a heartbeat. 844 01:15:06,800 --> 01:15:13,760 We drove to Delft and went to the mortuary. 845 01:15:13,880 --> 01:15:15,960 And there she was. 846 01:15:18,400 --> 01:15:24,600 She was beautiful. It looked as if she was sleeping. 847 01:15:25,600 --> 01:15:31,760 We were told not to touch her. 848 01:15:31,880 --> 01:15:34,680 But it was my baby sister. 849 01:15:35,960 --> 01:15:39,480 I held her hand. It had gone stone cold. 850 01:15:39,600 --> 01:15:43,800 You could see the marks around her neck from where she hung herself. 851 01:15:43,920 --> 01:15:49,120 Her neck was all black and blue, and her wrists showed cut injuries. 852 01:15:50,480 --> 01:15:52,760 I remember thinking: Oh, my God. 853 01:15:54,680 --> 01:15:57,600 I was completely in shock. 854 01:16:07,120 --> 01:16:11,360 The night before Kimtie took her own life... 855 01:16:11,480 --> 01:16:16,320 she rang her sister several times. She really wanted to talk to her sister. 856 01:16:16,440 --> 01:16:20,360 She rang me the day before she killed herself. 857 01:16:20,480 --> 01:16:22,840 Crying. 858 01:16:22,960 --> 01:16:28,200 But I wasn't allowed to use the phone that day, so they took it from me. 859 01:16:28,320 --> 01:16:32,880 When perhaps that could have helped prevent her... 860 01:16:33,000 --> 01:16:35,760 from going through with it. 861 01:17:54,960 --> 01:17:57,960 I swear on my life... 862 01:17:58,080 --> 01:18:02,160 I won't run away for the next six weeks. -Now raise your hand. 863 01:18:05,040 --> 01:18:07,840 Why did she run away? 864 01:18:07,960 --> 01:18:12,160 She constantly ran away, because she wasn't happy there. 865 01:18:12,280 --> 01:18:15,000 She often fell victim to abuse. 866 01:18:18,800 --> 01:18:23,760 Do you feel partly responsible for her passing? 867 01:18:23,880 --> 01:18:25,680 Absolutely. 868 01:18:27,880 --> 01:18:30,160 Most definitely. 869 01:18:30,280 --> 01:18:34,880 The last time she ran away, she came to me. 870 01:18:35,000 --> 01:18:40,600 A team of twelve police officers came for her shortly after. 871 01:18:42,760 --> 01:18:47,320 She wanted to join her brother for a party on Saturday. 872 01:18:47,440 --> 01:18:50,720 I remember, because I had to work that day. 873 01:18:50,840 --> 01:18:56,200 I decided to let her go with her brother. 874 01:18:56,320 --> 01:19:01,920 She was apprehended on the train by the police and train guards. 875 01:19:07,480 --> 01:19:13,120 What was it like for you after your daughter had passed away? 876 01:19:13,240 --> 01:19:17,360 I was very depressed. I honestly just wanted to... 877 01:19:17,480 --> 01:19:24,640 It sounds harsh, but I wanted to die, just so I could be with her. 878 01:19:24,760 --> 01:19:27,200 She's my youngest baby. 879 01:19:29,920 --> 01:19:34,000 It was very difficult. 880 01:19:35,920 --> 01:19:40,840 Yeah... I even tried an attempt. 881 01:19:40,960 --> 01:19:46,920 I tried to drown myself, thinking: This is the end for me. 882 01:19:47,040 --> 01:19:53,680 I remember having flashbacks. I saw my whole life flash before my eyes. 883 01:19:53,800 --> 01:19:58,360 A police officer pulled me out. 884 01:19:58,480 --> 01:20:03,320 I just didn't want to go on anymore. But I'm glad he saved my life. 885 01:20:03,440 --> 01:20:10,400 I was also struggling. It was just so hard to accept. 886 01:20:10,520 --> 01:20:16,240 I was put in a secure facility somewhere in Noord-Holland. 887 01:20:16,360 --> 01:20:23,600 Suddenly I was all alone, with Mum living all the way over here. 888 01:20:23,720 --> 01:20:28,400 I was completely distraught. I was just so over it. 889 01:20:35,920 --> 01:20:40,440 I tried to commit suicide by hanging myself. 890 01:20:40,560 --> 01:20:44,360 By the time they came to collect everyone for dinner... 891 01:20:44,480 --> 01:20:46,640 I was already hanging there. 892 01:20:48,640 --> 01:20:52,640 They tried to resuscitate me... 893 01:20:52,760 --> 01:20:57,080 because I had already lost consciousness. 894 01:20:57,200 --> 01:21:04,440 I woke up clear-headed and just pretended nothing had happened. 895 01:21:06,320 --> 01:21:10,160 They stayed at a very decent facility before. 896 01:21:10,280 --> 01:21:16,760 But after certain incidents, such as... Do you mind me telling them? 897 01:21:17,680 --> 01:21:23,880 It's embarrassing, but go ahead. People should hear the truth. 898 01:21:24,000 --> 01:21:29,600 At this particular group home he was so fortunate to be admitted to... 899 01:21:29,720 --> 01:21:37,080 he was assaulted by one of the employees. She sexually abused him for two years. 900 01:21:37,200 --> 01:21:44,800 A 35-year-old female social worker, who was also his personal counsellor. 901 01:21:44,920 --> 01:21:47,640 She was very close to both of them. 902 01:21:47,760 --> 01:21:55,120 Rosario ended up in secure youth care, which should never have happened. 903 01:21:55,240 --> 01:21:58,800 A secure facility makes 700 euros a day on each child. 904 01:21:58,920 --> 01:22:03,000 A rather sizeable amount, I would say. 905 01:22:03,120 --> 01:22:07,520 So they have a financial interest in maintaining the status quo. 906 01:22:07,640 --> 01:22:11,560 We were placed in foster care in Friesland. 907 01:22:11,680 --> 01:22:14,360 It was a renovated farm. 908 01:22:14,480 --> 01:22:18,040 My sister's phone doesn't work properly anymore. 909 01:22:18,160 --> 01:22:21,480 But you can still see the bruise on her forehead. 910 01:22:21,600 --> 01:22:27,240 She had a scar of sorts when I last saw her. 911 01:22:27,360 --> 01:22:31,280 She told me she was roughed up during her last visitation. 912 01:22:31,400 --> 01:22:38,000 They forcefully pushed her head and knee against the floor. 913 01:22:39,000 --> 01:22:44,840 Gruesome incidents like these seemed to be everyday occurrences. 914 01:22:44,960 --> 01:22:50,880 There were only two foster parents. That's when things went completely awry. 915 01:22:56,760 --> 01:23:01,120 It's a bit creepy going back to the place where all of this happened. 916 01:23:01,240 --> 01:23:06,320 Someone's coming. I don't know who. -I think we should go. 917 01:23:07,360 --> 01:23:09,720 This is a house of horrors. 918 01:23:09,840 --> 01:23:15,400 This visit will be very confronting for the two of them. 919 01:23:16,480 --> 01:23:21,120 I have to admit, this really gets to me as well. 920 01:23:21,240 --> 01:23:27,120 I'm talking abuse and assault. I've had to fight many times. 921 01:23:27,240 --> 01:23:31,200 Life there was pure survival. Pure survival. 922 01:23:32,400 --> 01:23:37,440 I was once locked for three days without food or water. 923 01:23:37,560 --> 01:23:44,880 My sister came to me one day and said: 'Josja's making me do dirty things.' 924 01:23:45,000 --> 01:23:49,480 This foster-brother was doing things with more than one girl. 925 01:23:49,600 --> 01:23:53,400 He was doing dirty things, but we didn't know what sex was. 926 01:23:53,520 --> 01:23:59,200 I couldn't believe it. She said: 'Just come and hide in my room tonight.' 927 01:23:59,320 --> 01:24:02,920 At midnight, I heard someone open the door... 928 01:24:03,040 --> 01:24:09,400 and crawl into bed with my sister. My sister was crying for our mother. 929 01:24:10,440 --> 01:24:15,320 My daughter Chalisa kept record of the abuse in a diary. 930 01:24:15,440 --> 01:24:23,200 The things I read in her diary almost gave me a heart attack. 931 01:24:25,240 --> 01:24:27,440 Help me. 932 01:24:30,680 --> 01:24:32,400 Let go of me. 933 01:24:32,520 --> 01:24:36,520 Certainly there's evidence. We even have camera footage... 934 01:24:36,640 --> 01:24:41,840 of Kimtie telling her story to the police's vice unit. 935 01:24:41,960 --> 01:24:48,240 I informed the police of the many cameras both inside and outside of the building. 936 01:24:48,360 --> 01:24:56,120 That same week, a tactical unit of men in black came to the house... 937 01:24:56,240 --> 01:24:59,440 to remove all of the cameras. 938 01:24:59,560 --> 01:25:06,600 It's highly incriminating footage. Not only to the perpetrator... 939 01:25:06,720 --> 01:25:11,320 but to the group home parents involved at the time as well. 940 01:25:11,440 --> 01:25:15,600 When highly incriminating footage like that surfaces... 941 01:25:15,720 --> 01:25:19,920 you can be sure it will prompt a criminal investigation... 942 01:25:20,040 --> 01:25:22,520 to apprehend the culprit. 943 01:25:25,440 --> 01:25:29,360 We're getting close to the house. 100 metres to go. 944 01:25:33,720 --> 01:25:36,600 Hello. Can we ask you a question? 945 01:25:38,160 --> 01:25:41,680 Do you work at this group home? -No, I don't. 946 01:25:41,800 --> 01:25:45,360 What's your name? What is it that you do here? 947 01:25:45,480 --> 01:25:49,680 None of your business. -We're going with you. Yes, we are. 948 01:25:49,800 --> 01:25:53,760 This is private property. -There's no need for shoving. 949 01:25:53,880 --> 01:25:56,960 Calm down. Who are you exactly? 950 01:25:57,080 --> 01:26:00,120 He's Foka's husband. Foka's husband. 951 01:26:00,240 --> 01:26:02,400 Piss off. 952 01:26:02,520 --> 01:26:07,160 This girl who took her own life. She was abused. 953 01:26:07,280 --> 01:26:10,360 Where can we find the owner? 954 01:26:10,480 --> 01:26:15,160 I used to live here, man. Foka's over there. 955 01:26:15,280 --> 01:26:18,000 Why don't I take this. -Please leave. 956 01:26:18,120 --> 01:26:21,760 We just want to talk. -I want you to leave our premises. 957 01:26:21,880 --> 01:26:25,880 Kimtie Jokhoe used to live here, along with some others. 958 01:26:26,000 --> 01:26:31,240 This girl committed suicide. She was sexually abused at your facility. 959 01:26:31,360 --> 01:26:35,360 That's what we want to talk to you about. 960 01:26:35,480 --> 01:26:39,480 I want you to leave right now. -All we want, is to talk. 961 01:26:39,600 --> 01:26:42,120 There's no need to put your hands on me. 962 01:26:42,240 --> 01:26:47,400 Could you please leave? Could you please leave, I said. 963 01:26:47,520 --> 01:26:49,680 Take it easy. 964 01:26:49,800 --> 01:26:54,000 Don't freak out, man. -Get out of here right now. 965 01:26:54,120 --> 01:26:56,760 Calm down. -Get out of here. 966 01:26:56,880 --> 01:27:01,360 What are you doing? Get him. Control yourself, man. 967 01:27:01,480 --> 01:27:05,080 Don't touch me, mate. Get off this property. 968 01:27:05,200 --> 01:27:08,720 Get off this property. -Who are you? 969 01:27:08,840 --> 01:27:11,000 That goes for you as well. 970 01:27:12,880 --> 01:27:16,720 Why are you so aggressive? You're incredibly hostile. 971 01:27:19,040 --> 01:27:22,480 Take it easy. -What do you want, bro? 972 01:27:22,600 --> 01:27:25,800 Calm down. Just calm down. 973 01:27:25,920 --> 01:27:29,800 Go stand over there. Just go stand over there if you want. 974 01:27:29,920 --> 01:27:33,440 And you're working at a group home? -Go that way, I said. 975 01:27:33,560 --> 01:27:36,600 Why are you winding me up? Move. 976 01:27:36,720 --> 01:27:42,400 And these people are responsible for keeping children safe. Look at this. 977 01:27:42,520 --> 01:27:46,600 This is abnormal behaviour. -Do you want me to call the police? 978 01:27:46,720 --> 01:27:51,960 These people are responsible for keeping children safe. 979 01:27:52,080 --> 01:27:55,400 This is outrageous. I just want to talk. 980 01:27:55,520 --> 01:27:58,680 I was pushed around, I only just avoided a beating. 981 01:27:58,800 --> 01:28:04,600 I'm sorry, but this behaviour is absolutely ridiculous. I'm shaking. 982 01:28:04,720 --> 01:28:06,880 We're making a documentary. 983 01:28:07,000 --> 01:28:12,240 She was even awarded a royal decoration. The facility is called Bissy4Kids. 984 01:28:12,360 --> 01:28:19,600 It's a farm, housing over 30 children, who are left to their own devices. 985 01:28:19,720 --> 01:28:23,840 And this earns you a decoration by the Mayor. 986 01:28:23,960 --> 01:28:29,800 She was named a hero for her work helping the children. 987 01:28:29,920 --> 01:28:32,120 She was simply rewarded. 988 01:28:32,240 --> 01:28:35,160 They've even expanded to four more locations. 989 01:28:35,280 --> 01:28:40,080 And these are children of the state. It was the state that decided... 990 01:28:40,200 --> 01:28:45,920 the children were better off with them than with their teenage mother. 991 01:28:46,040 --> 01:28:51,600 Now I'm left with one deceased child and two uneducated, traumatised children. 992 01:28:51,720 --> 01:28:55,440 I'm at a loss. I'm completely desperate. 993 01:29:02,120 --> 01:29:05,840 Kim Feenstra. -Tom Knijp, nice to meet you. 994 01:29:05,960 --> 01:29:08,280 Make yourself comfortable. 995 01:29:08,400 --> 01:29:15,800 Just the thought of 33 children still trapped in Bissy4Kids' group home... 996 01:29:15,920 --> 01:29:18,720 fills me with horror. 997 01:29:18,840 --> 01:29:21,800 One thing I still don't understand... 998 01:29:21,920 --> 01:29:28,400 is the Salvation Army's involvement in her funeral. 999 01:29:28,520 --> 01:29:33,560 It was the Salvation Army that made sure... 1000 01:29:33,680 --> 01:29:37,920 her daughter ended up in a secure youth care facility. 1001 01:29:38,040 --> 01:29:43,440 They first provided her with a budget to finance the tombstone. 1002 01:29:43,560 --> 01:29:49,360 Next they try and get her to sign a non-disclosure agreement. 1003 01:29:49,480 --> 01:29:53,640 An actual non-disclosure agreement. I have it right here. 1004 01:29:53,760 --> 01:30:00,960 This is from the insurance companies. In a letter to her former solicitor... 1005 01:30:01,080 --> 01:30:05,720 they included a draft agreement for her to sign. 1006 01:30:05,840 --> 01:30:11,400 It says: 'If your client agrees to the proposed practical arrangement...' 1007 01:30:11,520 --> 01:30:18,840 a non-disclosure agreement, that is, '...liability inquiries are suspended'. 1008 01:30:18,960 --> 01:30:22,240 Basically they want her to keep quiet. 1009 01:30:22,360 --> 01:30:29,920 But by using such legal phrasing... 1010 01:30:30,040 --> 01:30:35,720 an outsider won't recognise it as being a non-disclosure agreement. 1011 01:30:35,840 --> 01:30:41,200 The legal guardian, so to speak, was with the Salvation Army. 1012 01:30:41,320 --> 01:30:45,320 So they had supervisory responsibility. 1013 01:30:45,440 --> 01:30:51,000 Then isn't the guardian also responsible for everything that went wrong? 1014 01:30:51,120 --> 01:30:54,560 Right. -The way I see it, at least. 1015 01:30:54,680 --> 01:30:58,360 You're absolutely right, from a legal standpoint as well. 1016 01:30:58,480 --> 01:31:04,440 That particular guardian chose to look the other way so often... 1017 01:31:04,560 --> 01:31:10,400 despite all of the signals, and previous mentions of sexual abuse... 1018 01:31:10,520 --> 01:31:14,840 he has been so negligent, that we now consider this to be... 1019 01:31:14,960 --> 01:31:18,680 the mildest type of intent. 1020 01:31:18,800 --> 01:31:23,000 Marie Carine and I plan on pressing charges for murder. 1021 01:31:24,480 --> 01:31:28,200 But who will be the one to be criminally prosecuted? 1022 01:31:28,320 --> 01:31:32,640 The Salvation Army and the secure youth care facility... 1023 01:31:32,760 --> 01:31:39,920 or its management, should be able to be prosecuted for wilful murder. 1024 01:31:40,040 --> 01:31:43,840 Also a number of individual people involved... 1025 01:31:43,960 --> 01:31:50,360 including that Salvation Army's guardian, should be held accountable... 1026 01:31:50,480 --> 01:31:54,320 for murder. -What you're saying right now... 1027 01:31:54,440 --> 01:32:01,680 isn't it very dangerous? This is rather a bold statement. 1028 01:32:01,800 --> 01:32:05,280 Right. I have to admit... 1029 01:32:05,400 --> 01:32:09,440 I'm sometimes a bit scared for my personal safety. 1030 01:32:09,560 --> 01:32:15,880 Especially since handling these cases. Looking back on last week's visit... 1031 01:32:16,000 --> 01:32:21,040 to that creepy group home with those aggressive ruffians... 1032 01:32:21,160 --> 01:32:24,760 made me realise these people are capable of anything. 1033 01:32:24,880 --> 01:32:30,520 I'm very much aware that making public statements like these... 1034 01:32:30,640 --> 01:32:33,640 comes at personal risk. 1035 01:32:33,760 --> 01:32:39,720 But you know, Kim, this is so upsetting and so very important to me... 1036 01:32:39,840 --> 01:32:45,320 that I'm like: This is so much bigger than me, I just have to do this. 1037 01:32:45,440 --> 01:32:47,480 So that's why. 1038 01:32:47,600 --> 01:32:54,160 That group home you visited recently, and those thugs you mentioned... 1039 01:32:54,280 --> 01:32:57,280 do you think they have certificates of conduct? 1040 01:32:57,400 --> 01:33:04,120 There's actually a good chance the foster parents have such certificates. 1041 01:33:04,240 --> 01:33:12,000 If you are unable to report any incidents, being dismissed by the Inspectorate... 1042 01:33:12,120 --> 01:33:17,200 and unable to press charges, since all charges are always ignored... 1043 01:33:17,320 --> 01:33:20,320 this group home will never be under scrutiny. 1044 01:33:20,440 --> 01:33:25,080 So these people are free to continue their practices. 1045 01:33:25,200 --> 01:33:30,120 If you look back on all of the cases you were involved with... 1046 01:33:30,240 --> 01:33:35,520 would you say they're linked by a common theme? 1047 01:33:35,640 --> 01:33:40,400 Would you say it has to do with finances? 1048 01:33:40,520 --> 01:33:47,800 It looks to me as if this is nothing more than common child exploitation. 1049 01:33:47,920 --> 01:33:52,440 For the most part, it's nothing but common exploitation. 1050 01:33:52,560 --> 01:33:58,320 In the end, investment companies like eHUB that profit the most. 1051 01:33:58,440 --> 01:34:03,280 Often accredited institutions are blamed, such as the Salvation Army. 1052 01:34:03,400 --> 01:34:09,440 They do profit, but in the end, it's often the investors who are getting rich. 1053 01:34:09,560 --> 01:34:16,440 This is an aspect worth looking into. But it's mostly exploitation. 1054 01:34:16,560 --> 01:34:20,040 It's also a matter of conflicts of interest. 1055 01:34:20,160 --> 01:34:24,760 Just look at the careless way Public Prosecution handles these cases. 1056 01:34:24,880 --> 01:34:26,840 There's no supervision. 1057 01:34:26,960 --> 01:34:33,160 Parents can't really report malpractices, because there's usually no follow-up. 1058 01:34:33,280 --> 01:34:39,520 Children have rights, but simply lack the opportunity to exercise them. 1059 01:34:39,640 --> 01:34:45,080 Legal aid falls short miserably. Solicitors aren't properly trained. 1060 01:34:45,200 --> 01:34:49,280 Even the Education Programme is largely inadequate. 1061 01:34:49,400 --> 01:34:54,000 Most cases rely on government-funded legal aid... 1062 01:34:54,120 --> 01:34:58,880 submitting solicitors with a most modest budget... 1063 01:34:59,000 --> 01:35:02,760 when case like these are highly complex. 1064 01:35:02,880 --> 01:35:09,440 So the quality of their legal counsel thus comes under severe pressure. 1065 01:35:09,560 --> 01:35:13,840 These are only a few issues. The problem is far more expansive. 1066 01:35:13,960 --> 01:35:20,080 With all of these issues, it's no wonder Youth Care is so chaotic. 1067 01:35:20,200 --> 01:35:23,880 I would have long suggested a parliamentary inquiry. 1068 01:35:26,120 --> 01:35:32,400 Next we have a father talking to the Health and Youth Care Inspectorate. 1069 01:35:32,520 --> 01:35:38,720 He complains about a foster carer of some other group home in Friesland. 1070 01:35:38,840 --> 01:35:42,640 He reports a case of sexually inappropriate behaviour. 1071 01:35:42,760 --> 01:35:48,880 It seems the carer keeps coming into his twelve-year-old daughter's room. 1072 01:35:49,000 --> 01:35:53,880 This obviously upsets him, so he decides to report the incident. 1073 01:35:54,000 --> 01:35:58,120 Just have a listen at the Inspectorate's response. 1074 01:35:58,240 --> 01:36:02,320 It is absolutely not true your information is disregarded. 1075 01:36:02,440 --> 01:36:07,680 It would have been different if... We sometimes act on individual cases... 1076 01:36:07,800 --> 01:36:13,920 of physical abuse or sexually inappropriate behaviour. 1077 01:36:14,040 --> 01:36:18,320 Let me just pause here for a moment. So what she's saying, is: 1078 01:36:18,440 --> 01:36:26,440 'It would have been different if... We sometimes act on individual cases...' 1079 01:36:26,560 --> 01:36:31,440 Only sometimes. Depending on whatever they feel like doing. 1080 01:36:31,560 --> 01:36:38,640 Some cases of child abuse call for intervention, and others don't. 1081 01:36:38,760 --> 01:36:40,960 Utter madness. 1082 01:36:41,920 --> 01:36:45,960 That's what happened. This foster carer... 1083 01:36:46,080 --> 01:36:50,160 goes into my daughter's room even when she's getting dressed. 1084 01:36:50,280 --> 01:36:54,560 That's not considered sexually inappropriate behaviour. 1085 01:36:54,680 --> 01:36:59,960 I see. She has to have the full experience for the Inspectorate to say... 1086 01:37:00,080 --> 01:37:04,280 Worst case scenario, this could be penetration by a carer... 1087 01:37:04,400 --> 01:37:11,920 or teenagers having sexual relations, resulting in pregnancy, and such. 1088 01:37:12,040 --> 01:37:16,280 These are considered forms of inappropriate sexual behaviour. 1089 01:37:16,400 --> 01:37:21,640 So the Inspectorate wants the situation to get terribly out of hand first... 1090 01:37:21,760 --> 01:37:27,960 before taking steps to protect the children. That's what you're saying. 1091 01:37:28,080 --> 01:37:32,720 I understand your question, but it's a difficult one to answer. 1092 01:37:32,840 --> 01:37:35,680 But I don't agree. Nor do my colleagues. 1093 01:37:35,800 --> 01:37:40,600 But that's what you're saying. -Only then are we able to investigate. 1094 01:37:40,720 --> 01:37:45,360 Based on your information, we don't see any immediate danger. 1095 01:37:47,920 --> 01:37:52,040 She's basically saying: 'Your daughter has to be abused first. 1096 01:37:52,160 --> 01:37:57,800 Only then are we able to consider taking measures. Or not.' 1097 01:37:57,920 --> 01:38:04,080 It's absolutely bizarre. Such a reaction shows a total lack of empathy. 1098 01:38:04,200 --> 01:38:11,160 Not only are they saying a pervert staring at an undressing twelve-year-old girl... 1099 01:38:11,280 --> 01:38:16,120 isn't inappropriate, they're saying actual penetration has to take place. 1100 01:38:16,240 --> 01:38:19,120 What crackpot looks at twelve-year-olds... 1101 01:38:19,240 --> 01:38:23,040 only to have someone else say it's not at all inappropriate? 1102 01:38:23,160 --> 01:38:28,120 How far are you willing to go to reach your goal? 1103 01:38:28,240 --> 01:38:34,240 How far I'm willing to go? I won't stop until the system, like you said... 1104 01:38:34,360 --> 01:38:38,920 is rebuilt from the ground up, a criminal investigation is launched... 1105 01:38:39,040 --> 01:38:46,360 and the culprits are brought to court for an impartial judge to review the case. 1106 01:38:46,480 --> 01:38:49,000 That's what I'm fighting for. 1107 01:38:49,120 --> 01:38:56,600 Even at the risk of personal safety, I'm willing to go to any lengths... 1108 01:38:56,720 --> 01:39:00,520 within the confines of the law, to make this happen. 1109 01:39:00,640 --> 01:39:04,040 And I will not rest until I reach this goal. 1110 01:39:38,360 --> 01:39:44,440 It feels a bit inappropriate saying this, since her death shouldn't have happened. 1111 01:39:44,560 --> 01:39:49,960 But I hope her death hasn't been in vain, and will bring about actual change. 1112 01:39:50,080 --> 01:39:53,680 Without her knowing it... 1113 01:39:53,800 --> 01:39:57,760 or perhaps she's looking down and actually does know... 1114 01:39:59,360 --> 01:40:04,440 that despite her actions, she's become somewhat of a hero. 1115 01:40:04,560 --> 01:40:10,680 She's my hero. I watch her photograph every day, thinking: 1116 01:40:12,480 --> 01:40:15,280 I'm doing all of this for you. 1117 01:40:15,400 --> 01:40:19,560 I'm going to find justice for all those kids... 1118 01:40:19,680 --> 01:40:25,000 who are still struggling. We're just going to tackle this problem. 1119 01:40:25,120 --> 01:40:29,200 Because the system has to change. 1120 01:40:29,320 --> 01:40:33,520 Do you remember Kimtie's final words to you? 1121 01:40:33,640 --> 01:40:37,000 I do. 'I love you, Mum'. 1122 01:40:43,800 --> 01:40:48,400 If you could say something to her, what do you think it would be? 1123 01:40:54,360 --> 01:40:59,280 I would just tell her how much I love and miss her. 1124 01:41:00,480 --> 01:41:05,480 I just really wish she was sitting here with me right now. 1125 01:41:19,160 --> 01:41:22,000 Can I give you a hug? -Of course. 1126 01:42:04,760 --> 01:42:06,760 Thank you for watching. 107675

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