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Hello, YouTube viewers.
I'm going to make another fun video...
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and I hope you will like it.
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'Hello everybody,
I really hate my life, so I want to die.
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My life is horrible and I fucking hate
Youth Care and all those people.'
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'To this government
and the people I became attached to...
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and all the people that abandoned me:
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No institution can continue
to make money off me.'
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'That is why I chose to do this.
See you in heaven or, slash, hell.
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I love you Mum, Ros, Chal,
Dad, Nini, and myself of course.
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For the people I love: heart.
Cheers, Kiki. Asshole government.'
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Sorry, dear. What I just heard
is outrageous. I'm sorry.
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I think it's terrible
that you had to go through this.
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We're getting close to the house.
100 metres to go.
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This is private property.
-There's no need for shoving.
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This is a house of horrors.
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I was often abused.
I've had to fight many times.
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Life there was pure survival.
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I really wonder whether
there are a lot of cases of fraud...
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to make money
at the expense of the children.
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At the end of 2019
an investigative report was published...
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about Youth Care in its entirety.
This was the conclusion, nationally:
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'The quality of Youth Care is
dangerously low.' Dangerously low.
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It looks like a witch hunt.
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If you see how many children
are placed out of home here...
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compared to other countries
we score really high.
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What they tried to do in my case
was to break me emotionally. Yes.
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For a child the Netherlands is
a fantastic country to grow up in...
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if you have a carefree life as a child.
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But so much happens behind closed
doors or is swept under the carpet.
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It is about time
they find a solution for that.
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'...recommended to warn at an early
stage that they are violating the law.'
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It's an awkward sentence,
but it is telling.
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I have not seen
my daughter in ten years...
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and after fifteen years I now have
a pleasant contact with my son.
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And with one daughter
I have no contact at all.
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So you might say that I have lost
45 years of my children's lives.
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Van Nispen, Elian.
-Yes, how was the mood on the boat?
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At work they would ask me,
do you have children?
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But I hadn't seen them in six years.
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And you want the earth
to swallow you up, thinking:
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What will they think of me? Try to explain
not seeing your children in six years.
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Then something very serious
must have happened.
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But that was not the case,
so you feel quite uncomfortable.
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So many parents don't talk about it.
They are ashamed about something...
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that they mustn't be ashamed of,
but which is awful.
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But they don't know how to deal with it.
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I did file a police report once.
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It's odd, because I work for the police,
only now I'm on the opposite side.
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So you end up in the awkward position
of writing your story.
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Then it goes to the Public Prosecutor.
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Before you know it the case is dismissed
and you think, I don't believe it.
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It is a strange realisation
when you yourself work for that side...
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how easily they reach the conclusion
to dismiss the case.
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So Bas and I started investigating
many of these cases...
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and it didn't take long for us to see
how parents got into trouble...
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with Youth Care, among others,
and that a lot of things went wrong.
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Often one parent refuses to recognise
the authority of the other parent.
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If that happens on an international level,
they act on it...
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but the odd thing is: if it happens
within our own border, they do nothing.
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And the children are contacted
by Youth Care because somehow...
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they are sent a report by someone.
It could be a worried teacher...
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the neighbours, a parent,
the police could send a report.
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And based on a one-sided story,
Youth Care takes all sorts of steps...
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that often lose track of reality...
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and Youth Care very quickly chooses
sides, for the father or mother.
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It throws off the balance,
and a parent...
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often the father,
loses touch with the children.
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You end up in
an astonishing horror scenario...
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where you might be allowed to see your
child for an hour under supervision.
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Discussions arise over whether you can
give your child 3 or 4 tomatoes.
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That's where you can show that you
are a nice father, if you get that far.
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The first seven years I had almost
no contact with my children.
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Every time the mother would thwart it,
even if I had visitation rights.
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And on Child Protection advice...
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Youth Care got involved
and I could visit under supervision.
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You lose your children from one day
to the next, and the first weeks...
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you are living in a haze:
this can't true, it will be fixed.
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People around me would say,
let it be, it will sort itself out.
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Then the chronic pain
of missing your children sets in.
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Responsible mothers,
and fathers as well, have chronic pain...
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when you can't give your children
the care and guidance they need.
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You want them to have a bright future...
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and you want
to rid yourself of the chronic pain.
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Today you see children do strange things
like cut themselves to get rid of it.
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But I am amazed that
there are so few family tragedies...
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because I did think at times,
why don't we all stop and end it all?
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As you can see, I am still not in touch.
Ben has no contact with one child.
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I have no contact with my daughter,
we never reconnected.
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She remains stuck in loyalty issues.
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She now has two children,
so I am a grandfather now.
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I have never even seen
my grandchildren.
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I have a foster daughter who has been
living with me for three years now.
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A weekend foster daughter
and the thought has occurred to me...
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that Youth Care didn't think
I could take care of my own children...
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but I am allowed to take care
of a more complex situation.
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Apparently I am capable of doing that.
It doesn't make any sense.
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We know various colleagues
in various positions...
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who had the same thing happen to them
and they too are stumped.
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Even judges.
When this occurs in their private life...
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you often see that they stop working,
because they can't deal with it.
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That's when they are faced
with this enormous injustice.
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It's so bizarre that people who haven't
been through this can't imagine it.
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It looks like a witch hunt.
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If you see how many children
are removed from home here...
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compared to other countries
we score really high.
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Have you ever heard of telephone taps?
The telephones of parents are tapped.
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That is a punishable offence.
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A magistrate must give permission
to do that. It's a criminal procedure.
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And it turns out, and I can prove it,
that Youth Care...
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has access to the reports
of the telephone taps.
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The reports typed by the police
were forwarded to Youth Care.
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With all the information in it.
There is no division of power.
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Youth Care admits it,
they call it chain partners.
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Let's go back to the separation of power:
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The judicial and legislative powers
must be separate.
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But if the judicial power says
that Youth Care is a chain partner...
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the balance is lost. A judge must treat
Youth Care the same way...
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as the parent defending him or herself.
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But now it turns out that Youth Care
is already a step ahead in the process.
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Hello, good afternoon.
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I ask for help
and the whole system turns against me.
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And I feel like I was backed into a wall
at gun-point and told to cooperate.
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If you don't, you will lose your children.
And that's exactly what happened.
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I'm in a meeting at home with colleagues
in India, Marseille and Estonia...
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and they ring me, a private number:
'We collected your children at school.'
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I didn't know what hit me.
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I'm disqualified as a father,
but I've done nothing wrong.
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I have no addictions,
no debts, I have a job, OK?
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I have a huge network,
I come from a close-knit family.
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What they tried to do in my case
is to break me emotionally. Yes.
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But not just emotionally,
financially as well.
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When your income is higher
than a certain level, like mine is...
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and I'm not complaining,
but I don't qualify for allowances.
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Or for subsidised legal aid, so I am
paying 200-300 euros an hour.
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If my solicitor takes 15 minutes
to send an email, you do the math.
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I paid nearly 100 grand in legal fees.
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In this country
that calls itself constitutional state...
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I simply tried to protect my children.
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And I experienced enormous opposition
from a child protection institute.
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That's madness.
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If I had known what I know now about
Youth Care and Child Protection...
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and about 'Veilig Thuis'
and how that whole system is set up...
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I would never in my whole life,
my biggest mistake ever...
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have asked Child Protection
to start a safety investigation.
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Ata is an honest man
who is genuinely worried.
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And I don't want to let him down,
so the first thing we do...
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is to collect all the documents...
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to see what happened and where the
leak is and what mistakes were made.
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Ata's children were placed out of home
just like that.
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Based on a report
that was not meant for it.
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Even the investigator stated: 'We did
not consider placing them out of home.
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I do not appreciate you
misusing our report in this way.'
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But we only discovered it
in the file six months later.
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It is not in this folder.
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After much searching at the agency
that performed the investigation...
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we unearthed that email,
but Youth Care withheld it.
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Youth Care should not be involved
in complex divorces. Why?
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They do not have the knowledge
and expertise for that. They don't know.
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The scope of a child protection officer
is limited.
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She must investigate
and asses a situation.
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But what does she do? Starts providing
assistance, which is against the law.
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Article 3.2, paragraph 2 of the Child
Care Act states that certified agencies...
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may not provide assistance.
But it happens on a massive scale.
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Now my children are under supervision
for three years by Youth Care West.
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The no-contact rule was violated
multiple times, and was not enforced.
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They did not offer to help my children,
they only focussed on me.
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I wrote to the board of directors.
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The big boss of the Youth Care centre
that supervises my children.
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I wrote the board of supervisors
that supervises the board of directors.
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They all know about it.
I have had discussions with this lady...
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I'm tempted to name her,
and two members of parliament.
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I also wrote the director-general
of the Ministry of Justice and Security.
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But no answers.
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Or a polite form letter stating that
they will use it to improve the process.
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It doesn't get me anywhere.
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Look at the parents in the tax scandal.
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How is it possible that
all those parents accused of fraud...
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were suddenly visited by Youth Care?
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Did the red light
on their door start flashing...
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to warn everyone that
these people have committed fraud?
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They made life miserable
for these people.
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But how did that information
end up at Youth Care?
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Well, the tax authorities also shared
the fraud list with the public prosecutor.
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And they in turn are linked
to Child Protection.
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I hope there will be a parliamentary
inquiry to investigate those links.
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How is it possible that 'Veilig Thuis',
Child Protection and other agencies...
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knew what was going on?
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Those parents suffered a great deal,
but the children as well.
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A child protection officer can lie,
documented lies, and no action is taken.
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I cannot act against
a lying child protection officer.
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I reported her, but it was rejected.
I had to file a disciplinary complaint.
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So I filed a disciplinary complaint,
now get this:
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The SKJ, which handles complaints,
has sealed itself off.
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They work with the tax authorities
to discourage parents to file complaints.
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They limited the grounds for complaints.
They don't investigate the facts either.
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So everything the child protection officer
says is accepted as the truth.
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If you look at youth and family law,
you have no rights.
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You have no rights.
On paper you do have rights. On paper.
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In practice you must deal with network
corruption and a misleading chain.
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They cover each other.
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We pump billions into the system,
but the system is not safe.
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It is prone to errors. It's perverted.
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Things happen
that cannot stand the light of day.
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As a judge I have many years
of experience with Youth Care.
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You see that children are often caught
in a jam with the parenting situation...
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where an intervention is necessary.
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What we see now,
which is different from before...
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is that youth care in general
is having huge problems...
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in finding enough manpower
to give assistance.
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And the availability of youth care
services is extremely fragmented here.
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Since 2015 some 1500 new institutions
have opened...
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that deal with minor forms
of youth care.
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In their own way
they all attempt to do something...
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but all use different methods
to solve the problems.
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So there is an agency
for almost any problem.
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But if an agency cannot deal with your
problem, you must go to another one.
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Yes, these are all commercial agencies.
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Some say
they are the cowboys in youth care:
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People who think they can make money
with few means.
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They start a foundation or a business
and say, we offer these services...
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but often the problems
they can treat are quite limited.
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I think the fragmented availability, and
state secretary Van Ooijen saw this...
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prevents young people and parents
from getting the help they need.
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And that has to change,
but that's what one faces in youth care.
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And judges deciding on someone being
placed out of home also faces that.
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Does the child get the care,
do parents get the help they need...
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to ensure that the family
can function normally again?
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And that's the big problem.
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In the Netherlands there are cases
where mistakes have been made...
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by agencies or foster parents
or relevant institutions.
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We had to deal with
a case of abuse in a foster family.
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We had situations where foster parents
put their charges to work.
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But I must say that as
a juvenile court judge, I've seen...
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cases of children with broken bones,
brain damage...
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with burns caused by
being held against a hot kettle.
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Yes, inflicted by parents
or the person raising the child.
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Those situation are unacceptable
and should not be allowed to exist.
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It is very important that if parents think
that their child is in an institution...
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and isn't getting proper care,
that they report it.
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They can report it to inspectors,
to the juvenile court judge.
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There are several options.
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We must ensure that the revenue model
that some municipalities use...
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namely that the municipality authorises
the least expensive agency...
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to offer assistance,
that is something we must avoid.
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There are always profiteers and nasty
agencies that only do it for the money.
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Families with many foster children
where parents think, really?
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But there are also foster families
with many children that flourish.
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So it depends on so many factors...
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but they must look at those factors
critically, that is important.
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I think it's like this:
that money, politics...
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and the market, the healthcare market,
are so entangled...
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that they cannot possibly stop doing this.
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Too many interested parties,
that's dangerous.
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That is why most people feel
threatened in their personal life...
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and are afraid to talk.
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And what I'll say now is dangerous.
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Me and a few others have recently
discovered that there are councillors...
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city councillors, who manage
foster family homes where children...
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They make decisions about youth care
in their foster family homes. Now really.
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That is corruption, yes.
Many former politicians...
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have become directors of care facilities.
That's how the system is set up now.
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Once a child is placed out of home,
the money starts rolling.
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I read many annual reports
of various youth care institutions...
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and what I notice is that the Salvation
Army has a number of entities...
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including the Salvation Army
Welfare and Care...
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Youth Protection and Probation,
as well as the Salvation Army church.
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And in several annual reports I see...
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money from the juvenile law budget
goes to the Salvation Army church.
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So money for juveniles is used
to preach the gospel.
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I don't understand how
that is allowed in the Netherlands.
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And their assets show that the Salvation
Army church is their wealthiest entity.
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I believe that their assets add up
to more than 39 million euros.
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Where does it come from? Donations
and such, but juvenile law...
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adds to the church's coffers.
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It's impossible to check.
I cannot imagine...
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the city than must supervise it and is
responsible for its implementation...
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that it can verify all those amounts.
The money flows in every direction.
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I'm Maaike van der Aar, I work
for the FNV union as administrator...
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national administrator Youth Care.
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I look after the collective interests
of the employees at Youth Care.
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Many things go wrong at Youth Care.
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Over time we realised that it has to do
with the way it has been set up.
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We have come to the conclusion
that the way Youth Care was set up...
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people call it 'the system'...
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is the cause of all the problems,
we can firmly say.
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In 2015 Youth Care was relegated to city
councils, hailed as 'decentralisation'.
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It meant that the 12 provinces...
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relegated Youth Care
to 355 local councils.
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There are two ministries:
Justice and Security...
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handles youth protection,
the compulsory side of the care...
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and probation for youths
who committed a crime, and youth aid.
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They give assistance
to families and children.
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Justice and Security and the Ministry
of Health, Welfare and Sport...
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and they fund 355 local councils.
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The councils are 'in the lead'.
They must ensure that...
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children get the right care,
which they must purchase...
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and they are responsible for the money.
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So with the money
they get from the government...
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the council must decide how much
they want to spend on youth care...
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what must we purchase for that
under what conditions...
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and then comes the Youth Care
organisation that does the work...
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and then, after a layer of managers,
come the Youth Care workers...
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who do the actual work.
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There are so many layers above them
who all determine what they must do...
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while we, as a society,
hire Youth Care workers...
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to work with children we no longer know
how to raise or how we can help them.
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And the person we hire to do it
is at the very bottom of the organisation.
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We feel that the multi-expertise team,
that has many expertises...
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should be at the front of the
organisation. A weighty expertise.
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Because they can investigate
what is happening...
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and with their expertise
they can form a clear picture.
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With educated people
who have the knowhow at the front...
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we can implement
the correct care much faster.
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We want that highly-specialised
youth care and youth protection...
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to be funded exclusively
by the government...
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and no longer by 355 councils. No.
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The care for children
who really need it must be ensured.
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Meaning it must be available
at all times.
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And to do that you need one responsible
party and that's the government.
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Youth Care workers said long ago that
the system is failing and must change.
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Youth Care workers say that.
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Employers are almost on board,
they are hesitant.
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Councils say that it needs to be better,
but they are not as determined as us.
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But now they are arguing with the
government about power and money.
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It's not about youth care and children
and how can we let people do their job.
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The arguments between
the local councils and the government...
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are about who pays for what,
who has the authority over what.
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We do our job as best we can, but
we must accept that it is not working.
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The quality is deteriorating...
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and we can no longer offer professional
and quality youth care.
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They have been saying it for seven years,
and my problem is:
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Now that it's gone this far,
and it's collapsing and it's code black...
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children get no help,
the quality is tanking...
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not enough child protection or care
workers, children on waiting lists...
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now that it's come this far,
they get the blame. Sorry, no.
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They have been saying it for seven years.
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The ball is in the Cabinet's court.
The minister for child protection care...
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and the minister's state secretary
for youth care...
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are the two responsible parties
and they need to act...
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change things, show courage, break
through, change laws if necessary.
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The only option left now is simply that
they must do what must be done.
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And at this point we and all the child
protection and care workers say:
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If The Hague, employers or anybody
higher up who are responsible really...
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for the system, and letting these lists
and friends and things happen...
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if no-one takes responsibility to change
things, we must do it ourselves.
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The problem is so big, so problematic...
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you might say that the wound
has been festering for so long...
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that you're tempted to say,
tear it down and start over.
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Is Youth Care a revenue model?
I wouldn't say it's a general term.
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Eighty per cent of Youth Care
in this country are large foundations...
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of at least 100 people.
We call them the system institutions:
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Large institutions united
under the banner of Youth Care.
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That's the employers' association,
which is eighty per cent.
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That leaves twenty per cent. They are
one-person businesses, freelancers...
355
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small businesses, private companies,
care cowboys in it for the money.
356
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Unfortunately this sector also has them.
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A lot of money is spent on them.
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But we worry about that twenty per cent,
because hardly anyone supervises that.
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But if your organisation
is only paid for slept-in beds...
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you must still pay for your building, you
need groceries for the children, a staff.
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But if you don't have a steady income...
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your organisation must make sure
your beds are slept in to survive.
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But what we want,
from an idealistic point of view...
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we don't want children
to sleep somewhere else.
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We want them
to sleep in their own beds.
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So it is a perverse and strange system
if slept-in beds is how you pay for things.
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There have been studies
into the rising care costs.
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They say: the first 1000 days are crucial
for the start of the child.
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At one point former Minister of Health
de Jonge came up with an action plan:
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To invest in the first 1000 days of a child.
If something goes wrong then...
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such as poverty in the family,
or lack of parental skills...
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or if the child is not developing properly
for whatever reason...
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we must be there those first 1000 days.
They are crucial in its development.
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But you must be stupid to come up
with that. If this is already too much.
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This is the phoney risk...
-But you're already overextended...
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and then you add more to your workload
with prenatal care.
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He should solve the problem first.
-I wonder, this is the risk...
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Soon there will be 200,000 workers
at Youth Care. All checked off.
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And that's the system
we feel must be torn down. Yes.
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And I cannot understand why
the sense of urgency is not present...
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in this Cabinet and in the councils.
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The indifference they show for the issue
really angers me.
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Emily speaking.
-Hi, Emily. Kim Feenstra here.
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I would like to ask you a few questions.
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OK. What exactly
are you ringing me about?
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It's about Youth Care. I am making
a documentary about Youth Care...
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and I understand you are the
spokesperson of Maarten van Ooijen...
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the state secretary
who is responsible for policy.
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I did some research
and I was astonished...
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by the amount of money that is made,
I repeat, at the expense of children.
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I wonder why that is?
Don't you put pressure...
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on reuniting children
with their parents?
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What's happening at Youth Care
seems like some kind of revenue model.
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Yes, that's true.
The state secretary also noticed...
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that there is a market mechanism
in Youth Care which is undesirable...
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and is detrimental to the care
of the most vulnerable children.
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He has indicated that he wants
to tackle the market mechanism.
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For instance by putting
a maximum on profit margins...
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and limiting the number
of new care providers.
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Especially, providers that offer
light ambulatory care...
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that can have larger profit margins
than providers of complex care...
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of which there are often shortages.
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He wants to add incentives to the
system that make it more attractive...
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to specifically offer specialised care
instead of...
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more light care
where the shortages are marginal.
406
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That is something that he also noticed
and wants to tackle.
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That is good news,
but how long will that take...
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because this problem
has been going on for years now.
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And administrators of Youth Care have
sent urgent letters to the ministry...
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for years now,
but the letters were virtually ignored.
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So what do you think
will happen this year?
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The reform agenda is due this fall,
so after the summer.
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It will contain the details of the plans...
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and then the implementation
will take place.
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For some items it could mean
that the law must be changed...
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and implementation will take longer.
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Others only need new agreements with
providers, councils and professionals.
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And that can have a direct influence
on the everyday reality.
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And all this is a consequence
of the signals we have received...
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from all the parties,
like the urgent letters you mentioned...
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and reports in the media
which we have also read.
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Many signals indicating that things
are not going well at Youth Care.
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That is the reason
reforms are on their way.
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So they actually admit
that things are not going well...
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and that there are investors
that have a financial interest in it.
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Things are going really well
in the Netherlands.
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I feel personally involved
with the fate of the children.
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I was also a child once
and things in my family...
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weren't always a bed of roses.
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That has had an influence
on who I am...
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and who I have become
to this very day.
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My sister and I used to live
with a foster family.
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I was seven or eight
and my sister was still a baby.
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I was picked up at school,
I don't remember what form I was in...
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I believe it was in the second form,
by the police...
436
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and they said I had to go with them
because we're taking you someplace.
437
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That was quite traumatic,
because you are at school...
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you don't know what's going on,
the police is there.
439
00:39:51,800 --> 00:39:55,680
As a child
anyone wearing a uniform...
440
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is scary, you feel a bit ill at ease.
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I quickly realised
that something was wrong.
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So they took me with them
and at the police station...
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I saw that my sister was there too,
then we went into a police car...
444
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and they took us to a foster family.
They had told us that...
445
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but all I did was call for my mother.
446
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And I remember that we stopped
in front of that house...
447
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and in my mind I thought,
I'll never forget that, if we stop...
448
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once I'm out of the car I'll run away,
I didn't want a foster family.
449
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So I started running,
but they caught me.
450
00:40:39,680 --> 00:40:45,360
They weren't rough or anything, but
I was in hysterics and I was crying...
451
00:40:45,480 --> 00:40:50,160
because I wanted my mum. I didn't want
to go to a foster family or to strangers.
452
00:40:53,400 --> 00:40:58,520
But it was short, I was there
three weeks, only I do know...
453
00:40:58,640 --> 00:41:04,160
that there was no need for them
to place us out of home.
454
00:41:04,720 --> 00:41:07,600
I did not have a nice childhood.
455
00:41:07,720 --> 00:41:15,120
A childhood with plenty of misery,
a lot of traumatic events.
456
00:41:16,200 --> 00:41:19,960
My sister's father physically abused
my mother, not us.
457
00:41:20,080 --> 00:41:23,440
He never abused me or my sister.
458
00:41:23,560 --> 00:41:31,480
It was a dark period for me,
I was working as a prostitute...
459
00:41:31,600 --> 00:41:34,560
and doing things
that weren't good for me.
460
00:41:34,680 --> 00:41:40,840
But I was very young
when I started doing that.
461
00:41:40,960 --> 00:41:46,080
I believe in the universe
and I believe in God...
462
00:41:46,200 --> 00:41:52,160
and two nights before that I cried a lot
and prayed to God...
463
00:41:52,280 --> 00:41:56,200
to give me something to help me
get out of this. I didn't know how.
464
00:41:56,320 --> 00:42:02,000
And when I was nineteen I was scouted
and taken off the street...
465
00:42:02,120 --> 00:42:04,880
by a Parisian modelling agency.
466
00:42:09,160 --> 00:42:13,560
That was a turning point and I thought,
I was given this chance...
467
00:42:13,680 --> 00:42:19,920
and I'll never let this slip away,
so I worked really hard on my career.
468
00:42:20,040 --> 00:42:25,480
And everything my mother taught me:
'Become independent.
469
00:42:25,600 --> 00:42:29,920
That is the most powerful thing
I can give you.'
470
00:42:30,040 --> 00:42:36,800
I tried to do that and I think I did
rather well, if I say so myself.
471
00:42:41,720 --> 00:42:44,800
It was quite a rollercoaster.
472
00:42:45,800 --> 00:42:49,720
It certainly formed me,
of course it also damaged me.
473
00:42:49,840 --> 00:42:55,680
I'm processing all that now,
because I am a mother...
474
00:42:55,800 --> 00:42:59,040
and look at my child and think...
475
00:42:59,160 --> 00:43:02,840
I got such a primal feeling
of having to protect my child.
476
00:43:02,960 --> 00:43:05,600
Hello, gorgeous baby.
477
00:43:11,160 --> 00:43:13,360
Yes, they are delicious.
478
00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:18,240
I now feel called upon...
479
00:43:18,360 --> 00:43:22,200
to try and contribute my part...
480
00:43:22,320 --> 00:43:28,400
to make sure things do change,
because it's important for the children...
481
00:43:28,520 --> 00:43:32,120
who really need Youth Care's help.
482
00:43:32,240 --> 00:43:35,600
And it's important for the parents
who need help...
483
00:43:35,720 --> 00:43:40,160
because that's where it goes wrong.
I believe that...
484
00:43:40,280 --> 00:43:45,600
the parents who are in an unstable
situation due to a divorce...
485
00:43:45,720 --> 00:43:50,560
or financial problems
need someone to guide them through it.
486
00:43:50,680 --> 00:43:56,160
That doesn't mean that a child should be
placed out of home right away.
487
00:44:17,360 --> 00:44:24,000
We've been together 6.5 years?
-Yes, and married nearly 4 years.
488
00:44:24,120 --> 00:44:25,520
Yes.
-Is that right?
489
00:44:29,320 --> 00:44:34,080
You fall in love with a man
in the process of a divorce...
490
00:44:34,200 --> 00:44:38,040
and you expect that it will be sorted.
491
00:44:38,880 --> 00:44:41,840
And then Pandora's box is opened.
492
00:44:45,240 --> 00:44:52,680
It's been seven years
and today I had session number 22.
493
00:44:54,680 --> 00:44:59,000
And this year there will be at least three
or four more. Yes.
494
00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:04,040
The session today
was about a continuation...
495
00:45:04,160 --> 00:45:09,200
of one of my daughters
being placed out of home.
496
00:45:09,320 --> 00:45:16,200
I can accept that it will be continued...
497
00:45:16,320 --> 00:45:23,680
but the way the certified institution's
approaches care...
498
00:45:23,800 --> 00:45:26,440
leaves a lot to be desired.
499
00:45:28,360 --> 00:45:33,240
Youth Care's involvement
has nothing to do with the divorce now.
500
00:45:33,360 --> 00:45:36,320
They were at first,
when we could not communicate.
501
00:45:36,440 --> 00:45:38,560
But at some point you find a way.
502
00:45:38,680 --> 00:45:42,160
Children aren't too bothered
if parents don't communicate.
503
00:45:42,280 --> 00:45:45,360
It's tough at first,
but everyone finds a way.
504
00:45:45,480 --> 00:45:49,800
The fact that Youth Care
is involved in my situation...
505
00:45:49,920 --> 00:45:53,120
kept getting bigger
and bigger and bigger.
506
00:45:53,240 --> 00:45:56,320
And Youth Care
has damaged my children.
507
00:45:56,440 --> 00:46:03,680
So at one point we filed
a complaint against the Salvation Army.
508
00:46:03,800 --> 00:46:06,480
At the time
we thought it would have results.
509
00:46:06,600 --> 00:46:10,360
And the commission literally said
that the family guardians...
510
00:46:10,480 --> 00:46:16,520
have endangered the health
of my children. Literally.
511
00:46:18,880 --> 00:46:22,480
But then what happens next?
Absolutely nothing.
512
00:46:22,600 --> 00:46:28,360
The LJNR, the Salvation Army Youth
Protection and Probation, I believe...
513
00:46:28,480 --> 00:46:33,120
must have a complaint commission.
There's probably a law somewhere.
514
00:46:33,240 --> 00:46:37,920
An independent complaint commission
that files an annual report.
515
00:46:38,040 --> 00:46:42,080
So the day before the sessions, I was
given the name of the chairman...
516
00:46:42,200 --> 00:46:45,680
and I googled her and found
a few annual reports instead.
517
00:46:45,800 --> 00:46:49,240
Her name popped up
with the name of the Salvation Army.
518
00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:54,400
And to my amazement in the past
five years 9 of my 10 complaints...
519
00:46:54,520 --> 00:46:57,280
were already dealt with
by the same commission.
520
00:46:57,400 --> 00:47:00,960
And there's the glitch:
yes, they must have a commission...
521
00:47:01,080 --> 00:47:03,880
it must be independent
and file a report...
522
00:47:04,000 --> 00:47:09,640
the director must comment on it.
And that's where it ends.
523
00:47:13,880 --> 00:47:18,280
The law does not state: you must act
on the recommendations...
524
00:47:18,400 --> 00:47:22,320
stemming from complaints. You must
act on them, change procedures.
525
00:47:22,440 --> 00:47:28,040
You must ensure that what happened
does not happen again.
526
00:47:28,160 --> 00:47:30,360
No, there is no such obligation.
527
00:47:30,480 --> 00:47:34,880
So a complaint commission
is totally useless.
528
00:47:38,320 --> 00:47:40,720
Truth-finding is also not required.
529
00:47:40,840 --> 00:47:47,120
It's what you run into time and again:
truth-finding is also not required.
530
00:47:47,240 --> 00:47:54,680
So even if you have proof of how things
happened, it doesn't matter.
531
00:47:54,800 --> 00:48:00,360
They don't do truth-finding.
And judges will not do it either...
532
00:48:00,480 --> 00:48:07,000
because they assume that the
information from a certified institution...
533
00:48:07,120 --> 00:48:12,080
is accurate.
So judges rule based on that.
534
00:48:12,200 --> 00:48:18,880
It is a money machine. Children are
no longer seen as vulnerable...
535
00:48:19,000 --> 00:48:26,320
but as numbers, figures
and a way of making money.
536
00:48:26,440 --> 00:48:33,720
Not one of the files was in order,
the report showed.
537
00:48:35,320 --> 00:48:41,120
Everybody knows that
Youth Care is a huge, stinking mess.
538
00:48:41,240 --> 00:48:43,640
But we don't take action.
539
00:48:43,760 --> 00:48:50,160
I am trying every way I can
to be here for him.
540
00:48:50,280 --> 00:48:56,360
I started studying Law, because we
couldn't afford the solicitor anymore.
541
00:48:56,480 --> 00:48:59,640
So I started writing the legal drafts.
542
00:48:59,760 --> 00:49:06,960
Also because the time we spent on that
was time not spent on the children.
543
00:49:07,080 --> 00:49:11,360
It was important to me that he spent
time with the children instead of me.
544
00:49:11,480 --> 00:49:19,240
So I wrote the drafts to give the solicitors
the input they needed for the case.
545
00:49:20,480 --> 00:49:26,400
I want to say that people
should be careful with cases like this.
546
00:49:26,520 --> 00:49:31,960
Especially with the contact with
'Veilig Thuis' and Child Protection.
547
00:49:32,080 --> 00:49:38,560
I would advise people involved in this: go
with someone, tape all conversations...
548
00:49:38,680 --> 00:49:41,520
write the minutes
of meetings yourself.
549
00:49:41,640 --> 00:49:45,680
Do not allow Child Protection
to write the minutes.
550
00:50:34,080 --> 00:50:37,160
Candlelight makes everything cosy,
she said.
551
00:50:42,280 --> 00:50:45,840
Of all the nonsense uttered that night,
that was the winner.
552
00:50:47,880 --> 00:50:52,040
But that was the moment I sold my soul.
553
00:50:55,840 --> 00:50:58,360
That night she was my mother,
I was the daughter.
554
00:50:58,480 --> 00:51:01,480
Who would we be
in the morning light?
555
00:51:04,200 --> 00:51:08,280
How would it be to move the screen
and look each other in the eye...
556
00:51:08,400 --> 00:51:11,800
and let go of our roles to say goodbye?
557
00:51:13,960 --> 00:51:18,640
She murmurs, we'll miss each other, but
means that we'll miss how it used to be.
558
00:51:21,360 --> 00:51:24,880
My mother had a psychotic episode,
that's why...
559
00:51:25,000 --> 00:51:29,600
we had a talk with Child Protection
or Youth Care...
560
00:51:29,720 --> 00:51:34,760
And the institution that admitted
the mother had a talk with her...
561
00:51:34,880 --> 00:51:39,200
where she said that the IHT was a
Vincent van Gogh of the GGZ in Venlo.
562
00:51:39,320 --> 00:51:41,920
He said, yes, your mother is seriously ill.
563
00:51:45,680 --> 00:51:48,800
They often sell it by saying,
you can choose.
564
00:51:52,400 --> 00:51:55,000
Can you imagine
the panic that causes her?
565
00:51:55,120 --> 00:52:00,280
Is that how you protect her,
with a question like that.
566
00:52:06,440 --> 00:52:09,200
Let's look at some photos, Louise,
shall we?
567
00:52:11,880 --> 00:52:14,480
Remember that one? You don't?
-No.
568
00:52:14,600 --> 00:52:18,200
It doesn't matter what you say,
they already decided of how...
569
00:52:19,880 --> 00:52:24,120
how things are and who the bad parent
is and what to do with the children.
570
00:52:24,240 --> 00:52:29,600
You can go back to say your piece,
but it doesn't make any difference.
571
00:52:29,720 --> 00:52:34,120
They are not helping. They threaten
and blackmail you, that's what it is.
572
00:52:35,440 --> 00:52:39,240
You don't remember that, do you?
-No.
573
00:52:39,360 --> 00:52:42,400
All of us were afraid:
imagine if they come back.
574
00:52:42,520 --> 00:52:47,480
The decision of the court in Den Bosch
had arrived.
575
00:52:47,600 --> 00:52:51,280
The next day I got an email
from Youth Care saying they wanted...
576
00:52:51,400 --> 00:52:55,760
a few final talks with me and my children.
577
00:52:55,880 --> 00:53:01,120
Well, that lady got an earful
and I never saw her again.
578
00:53:02,200 --> 00:53:07,000
I told her off right away. But imagine
if you can't stand up for yourself...
579
00:53:07,120 --> 00:53:12,000
and such a person comes and they find
something and they start over again.
580
00:53:13,480 --> 00:53:19,360
But the worst part is that they could
not care less, and it's obvious.
581
00:53:19,480 --> 00:53:21,040
I think that's awful.
582
00:53:22,280 --> 00:53:26,120
The lies, the threats, the blackmail.
It's criminal behaviour.
583
00:53:26,240 --> 00:53:29,880
The child abuse, abuse in general,
that's what hurts the most.
584
00:53:30,480 --> 00:53:32,640
It's beyond comprehension.
585
00:53:34,120 --> 00:53:39,960
Abuse is a very mild expression
for what they do.
586
00:53:40,080 --> 00:53:43,640
And the position of power
they think they have.
587
00:53:45,280 --> 00:53:49,920
And it really is abuse in general,
especially child abuse.
588
00:53:50,040 --> 00:53:55,240
The most vulnerable group in society.
-Yes.
589
00:53:55,360 --> 00:54:01,440
As a nation we should be happy
with children, they are our future.
590
00:54:01,560 --> 00:54:06,160
You ought to treat them properly, right?
Not the Dutch state.
591
00:54:06,280 --> 00:54:10,960
And politicians refuse to do something
about it and that the judiciary...
592
00:54:11,080 --> 00:54:14,200
and the politicians don't act
and don't want to act...
593
00:54:14,320 --> 00:54:17,520
I think that is just beyond disgraceful.
594
00:54:31,480 --> 00:54:34,000
He wants to put some makeup on.
595
00:54:37,720 --> 00:54:39,520
Hello, Wybren.
596
00:54:42,320 --> 00:54:47,240
I would like to discuss with you
what we can do...
597
00:54:47,360 --> 00:54:51,840
to amend
the problems at Youth Care...
598
00:54:51,960 --> 00:54:56,240
because based on what I have heard
and what I have researched...
599
00:54:56,360 --> 00:55:00,960
the system, the way it is now,
must be dismantled.
600
00:55:01,080 --> 00:55:04,280
As for me, they can tear it down
and rebuild it.
601
00:55:04,400 --> 00:55:07,640
How can we do that
and what is needed for that?
602
00:55:07,760 --> 00:55:14,080
It's already on the agenda, but Dutch
citizens can get an item on the agenda...
603
00:55:14,200 --> 00:55:19,840
by starting a petition and if you get,
say, 40,000 signatures...
604
00:55:19,960 --> 00:55:23,040
you can raise the issue
in a plenary session.
605
00:55:23,160 --> 00:55:27,880
But a member of parliament
can also put it on the agenda...
606
00:55:28,000 --> 00:55:31,840
and it's discussed. But system
corruption is so widespread...
607
00:55:31,960 --> 00:55:37,400
Look, Azarkan, Leijten and Omtzigt
uncovered the tax allowance affair.
608
00:55:37,520 --> 00:55:44,280
That was a criminal systems error.
They did good work: the Cabinet fell.
609
00:55:44,400 --> 00:55:47,480
What do you see in this corrupt system?
It carries on.
610
00:55:47,600 --> 00:55:52,200
The same people are ministers again,
Mark Rutte is still Prime Minister.
611
00:55:52,320 --> 00:55:56,720
But these people are responsible
for the issues.
612
00:55:56,840 --> 00:56:01,480
The 1650 children who were
placed out of home are still not home.
613
00:56:01,600 --> 00:56:06,200
I asked Mark Rutte in the debate:
Isn't this a scandal?
614
00:56:06,320 --> 00:56:13,880
Isn't this a terrible thing? He said:
No, the allowance affair was a scandal...
615
00:56:14,000 --> 00:56:18,200
but the problem of out-of-home placements
will be solved, but years later...
616
00:56:18,320 --> 00:56:23,240
some children are still in it. Their
mothers think, it's not a scandal?
617
00:56:23,360 --> 00:56:27,440
Of course. If a child is placed out of home
because of the allowance affair...
618
00:56:27,560 --> 00:56:31,600
it is a God awful scandal,
a humongous scandal.
619
00:56:31,720 --> 00:56:35,560
But now that this has
a prominent place on the agenda...
620
00:56:35,680 --> 00:56:40,280
Youth Care is caught in the crosshairs.
That is another system's error...
621
00:56:40,400 --> 00:56:44,840
and we must solve it. Is it being solved?
Not with the current Cabinet.
622
00:56:44,960 --> 00:56:50,400
And it simply continues. We must put
an end to this corruption in the system.
623
00:56:50,520 --> 00:56:54,800
Since we know that 1650 children
were placed out of home...
624
00:56:54,920 --> 00:57:00,440
as a result of the allowance affair
people are ringing us like mad.
625
00:57:00,560 --> 00:57:03,520
A lot of mothers ring us.
626
00:57:03,640 --> 00:57:09,960
Even mothers whose children were not
taken. It means something is wrong.
627
00:57:10,080 --> 00:57:12,920
Are they terrible parents?
I don't think so.
628
00:57:13,040 --> 00:57:18,480
Only after their children were taken did
they start recording conversations.
629
00:57:18,600 --> 00:57:25,440
I would advise anyone dealing with
Youth Care to record everything, film it...
630
00:57:25,560 --> 00:57:29,840
because the cases we heard of
are devastating.
631
00:57:29,960 --> 00:57:34,840
It's intimidation, it's blackmail,
and that cannot be allowed to happen.
632
00:57:40,240 --> 00:57:43,720
It's mad, nothing makes sense.
633
00:57:45,080 --> 00:57:50,960
That's what I mean, it's kidnapping.
My son was simply kidnapped.
634
00:57:57,040 --> 00:58:04,920
When my ex and I separated
we fell into the hands of Youth Care.
635
00:58:05,040 --> 00:58:09,200
And for eight years now
it's been court cases, struggles...
636
00:58:09,320 --> 00:58:15,920
and seven months ago they won
and have placed my son out of home.
637
00:58:18,240 --> 00:58:24,320
I got every solicitor I could get my hands
on, at one point I had three of them...
638
00:58:24,440 --> 00:58:27,800
to ensure that my son could come home.
639
00:58:27,920 --> 00:58:33,040
You say that you have been working
on the whole process for eight years.
640
00:58:33,160 --> 00:58:37,880
So before that
you've had discussions and such.
641
00:58:38,000 --> 00:58:41,960
So they could have seen
that there was nothing wrong with you.
642
00:58:42,080 --> 00:58:48,200
The part I don't understand
and I would like to know is...
643
00:58:48,320 --> 00:58:54,760
Why the switch?
-Yes, why did they decide after 8 years...
644
00:58:54,880 --> 00:58:57,360
I can explain it:
a change in family manager.
645
00:58:57,480 --> 00:59:02,280
Until two years ago
we had the same family manager...
646
00:59:02,400 --> 00:59:04,360
he thought everything was fine.
647
00:59:04,480 --> 00:59:07,640
Two years later
we got a new family manager...
648
00:59:07,760 --> 00:59:10,360
and all she wanted was
to place Lon out of home.
649
00:59:10,480 --> 00:59:16,760
It's totally baseless. Youth Care
had never set foot in my house.
650
00:59:16,880 --> 00:59:20,440
How can they say it is unsafe?
-So no-one has been here...
651
00:59:20,560 --> 00:59:26,040
with a checklist to see how things are
in your household?
652
00:59:26,160 --> 00:59:28,680
No, no observations, nothing.
653
00:59:28,800 --> 00:59:34,840
The worst thing about placing him
out of home is, you know it's not right.
654
00:59:34,960 --> 00:59:38,440
There were no grounds
for placing him out of home.
655
00:59:38,560 --> 00:59:44,040
At the start of the process I couldn't have
contact with my child for two weeks.
656
00:59:44,160 --> 00:59:47,280
For two weeks you didn't...
-Know where he was.
657
00:59:47,400 --> 00:59:52,720
Isn't it scary to have no idea
where your child is...
658
00:59:52,840 --> 00:59:56,680
and what's going on within those walls?
-Scary as hell.
659
00:59:56,800 --> 01:00:02,960
And you read horror stories about
children being abused, battered.
660
01:00:03,080 --> 01:00:05,760
Scary as hell.
But there is nothing I can do.
661
01:00:05,880 --> 01:00:08,880
I cannot even protect my own child.
662
01:00:09,680 --> 01:00:13,640
Against an organisation
that is meant to be protecting children.
663
01:00:13,760 --> 01:00:15,360
It is so twisted.
664
01:00:16,440 --> 01:00:19,400
Youth Care knew they were in error.
665
01:00:19,520 --> 01:00:22,600
Youth Care knew
what they were doing was wrong.
666
01:00:22,720 --> 01:00:26,880
So what Youth Care
then tried to do was...
667
01:00:27,000 --> 01:00:33,080
blame me to make sure they had grounds
to place my son out of home.
668
01:00:33,200 --> 01:00:36,080
So it was a topsy-turvy world.
669
01:00:36,200 --> 01:00:40,800
Yes, I had to sign a paper
prohibiting me to talk to the media.
670
01:00:40,920 --> 01:00:47,200
So I kept very quiet, because I was
terrified the press would pick it up...
671
01:00:47,320 --> 01:00:49,760
since we are reasonably press-worthy.
672
01:00:49,880 --> 01:00:53,520
So I told very few people about it,
because I was terrified...
673
01:00:53,640 --> 01:00:57,960
it would leak to the media,
not by me, but someone else...
674
01:00:58,080 --> 01:01:03,000
causing Youth Care to accuse me
of breaking the media clause.
675
01:01:03,880 --> 01:01:06,760
So how did they manage to do it?
676
01:01:06,880 --> 01:01:12,520
For instance by saying
that I was emotionally unstable.
677
01:01:12,640 --> 01:01:17,680
But the thing is, I was accused
before I was able to prove the opposite.
678
01:01:17,800 --> 01:01:22,280
So I had to go to a therapist to get a
declaration that I was fine emotionally.
679
01:01:22,400 --> 01:01:26,880
But at that point London was already
taken. So what did Youth Care do then?
680
01:01:27,000 --> 01:01:33,000
They imposed penalties on me.
I received a 25,000 euro penalty.
681
01:01:33,120 --> 01:01:39,920
Youth Care sent debt collectors
and they froze my bank accounts.
682
01:01:40,040 --> 01:01:45,640
In many cases
parents cannot afford a solicitor.
683
01:01:45,760 --> 01:01:49,960
I spent hundreds of thousands of euros
on solicitors.
684
01:01:50,080 --> 01:01:55,080
So all my money went to solicitors
to protect my child.
685
01:01:55,200 --> 01:01:58,080
And Youth Care is not used to that.
686
01:01:58,200 --> 01:02:03,480
Because that's what it is: the state
kidnapped my child. No more, no less.
687
01:02:03,600 --> 01:02:06,320
I wouldn't mind a cup of coffee.
-Good idea.
688
01:02:15,040 --> 01:02:19,480
It's too ridiculous for words
that Youth Care can issue fines.
689
01:02:19,600 --> 01:02:21,200
It's outrageous.
690
01:02:21,320 --> 01:02:27,760
How can
Youth Care fine a single mother?
691
01:02:29,520 --> 01:02:34,120
So what did Youth Care do? They
started searching my shortcomings...
692
01:02:34,240 --> 01:02:38,600
to see if they could find a reason to say,
you see?
693
01:02:38,720 --> 01:02:42,360
'We were right in placing him out of home.'
Then at some point...
694
01:02:42,480 --> 01:02:48,640
I get parental access and I have to sign
a contract or document...
695
01:02:48,760 --> 01:02:53,120
forbidding me to make recordings.
So I felt that something was going on.
696
01:02:53,240 --> 01:02:56,920
They had something up their sleeve,
I knew they were searching...
697
01:02:57,040 --> 01:03:02,880
for things that would prove
that they were right.
698
01:03:03,000 --> 01:03:06,280
I signed the document saying
I wouldn't make recordings...
699
01:03:06,400 --> 01:03:13,440
and I had to hand in my phone
before I could go into my son's room.
700
01:03:13,560 --> 01:03:19,360
But I put an extra phone in my handbag
and I did record that conversation.
701
01:03:21,360 --> 01:03:24,400
I'll let you hear the recordings.
702
01:03:26,040 --> 01:03:29,080
I'll put this... Oh, it's yours.
-Mine.
703
01:03:30,240 --> 01:03:36,600
At one point my son and I are reading
a book about Indonesia.
704
01:03:36,720 --> 01:03:39,080
We were planning on going to Bali.
705
01:03:39,200 --> 01:03:43,680
So we are reading
a few Indonesian words out loud.
706
01:03:43,800 --> 01:03:50,360
Because you're so good in languages,
here is a new book with a new language.
707
01:03:50,480 --> 01:03:54,000
Now you start learning your first words
for when we go to Bali.
708
01:03:54,120 --> 01:03:59,480
And suddenly
the Youth Care employee says:
709
01:03:59,600 --> 01:04:04,240
'I'm going to stop this visit
for safety reasons.'
710
01:04:04,360 --> 01:04:09,480
Are we going to Bali. Why? I thought
we were going to... what's it called?
711
01:04:09,600 --> 01:04:13,800
Indonesia. That is Bali. What?
-I'm going to stop the visit.
712
01:04:13,920 --> 01:04:18,040
You are what? Why?
-For breaking the safety agreement.
713
01:04:18,160 --> 01:04:21,880
What do you mean?
-No promises in visits.*
714
01:04:22,000 --> 01:04:24,920
Why?
-We are not discussing it now.
715
01:04:25,040 --> 01:04:28,120
What's the matter? Do I have to go?
716
01:04:28,240 --> 01:04:33,400
What are we doing wrong?
We're going on holiday in Bali.
717
01:04:33,520 --> 01:04:37,000
What are you talking about? We're
reading words. What are you doing?
718
01:04:37,120 --> 01:04:40,280
'Right, I am not having this discussion
while your son is present.'
719
01:04:40,400 --> 01:04:44,400
It was in general. We will go to Indonesia
one day. We are Indonesian.
720
01:04:44,520 --> 01:04:47,920
That's nice,
but I am ending the visit now.
721
01:04:48,040 --> 01:04:50,680
Why?
-Why? Explain it to me.
722
01:04:50,800 --> 01:04:54,880
Give me a chance.
-Let's go into the hall...
723
01:04:55,000 --> 01:05:00,000
and you can explain why you are ending
it and what the safety conditions are.
724
01:05:00,120 --> 01:05:04,720
What's wrong? My son starts crying,
no, please give us another chance.
725
01:05:04,840 --> 01:05:06,920
It was heart-rending.
726
01:05:07,040 --> 01:05:08,800
Get your things.
-Go outside.
727
01:05:08,920 --> 01:05:12,320
No.
-I did nothing wrong.
728
01:05:13,440 --> 01:05:17,080
All I did was talk about...
I didn't do anything wrong.
729
01:05:17,200 --> 01:05:18,840
Mama.
730
01:05:20,280 --> 01:05:25,480
Mama.
-Let's go. Give her a hug and let's go.
731
01:05:25,600 --> 01:05:29,880
Sorry, dear. What I just heard
is outrageous. I'm sorry.
732
01:05:30,000 --> 01:05:34,160
She then presses the security button,
the security guards come in...
733
01:05:34,280 --> 01:05:40,440
and she told them that I threatened her.
But there is no threat on the recording.
734
01:05:40,560 --> 01:05:42,400
I don't want to wait a week.
735
01:05:42,520 --> 01:05:44,280
Jesus, how awful.
736
01:05:44,400 --> 01:05:47,520
Come here.
-You'll see mama again real soon.
737
01:05:47,640 --> 01:05:52,200
Come here, come here.
-Can't you give us another chance?
738
01:05:52,320 --> 01:05:56,520
No, we are ending this right now.
-There is no good reason for this.
739
01:05:56,640 --> 01:06:00,640
I want you to leave now, Jamie.
-No, please.
740
01:06:00,760 --> 01:06:03,360
Now I have to wait another week.
741
01:06:05,760 --> 01:06:13,600
Anyone with a normal set of brains,
any judge or supervisor or whatever...
742
01:06:13,720 --> 01:06:19,680
who hears this...
A team manager or whatever must see...
743
01:06:19,800 --> 01:06:26,200
when they hear your child
that he only wants to be with you...
744
01:06:26,320 --> 01:06:30,440
and that he is willing to do anything
to do that. It's disgraceful.
745
01:06:30,560 --> 01:06:34,920
It is, and I had to leave him there.
-He's so young, you know?
746
01:06:35,040 --> 01:06:40,800
I mean, I think this is so heavy.
As you know, I also have a little boy...
747
01:06:40,920 --> 01:06:48,760
when I think about it, this is madness.
-It is. They didn't know I recorded it.
748
01:06:48,880 --> 01:06:53,880
They wanted to accuse me of making
threats, so that when we went to court...
749
01:06:54,000 --> 01:06:58,040
Youth Care and me,
and Youth Care would say...
750
01:06:58,160 --> 01:07:03,160
the lady threatened us and I deny it,
the judge would believe Youth Care.
751
01:07:03,280 --> 01:07:07,520
If I didn't have that recording,
my son would never have come home.
752
01:07:10,240 --> 01:07:14,600
I think it's terrible
that you had to go through this.
753
01:07:14,720 --> 01:07:16,760
Yes, it was horrible.
754
01:07:19,760 --> 01:07:23,760
What did you do with it?
-I sent it to the child ombudsman.
755
01:07:23,880 --> 01:07:27,840
He said it gave him goose pimples
all over his body.
756
01:07:27,960 --> 01:07:33,600
The Youth Care employee didn't want
to deal with my family and withdrew.
757
01:07:33,720 --> 01:07:40,200
She knew this was all wrong. And Child
Protection took Youth Care to court.
758
01:07:40,320 --> 01:07:44,560
It was the first time in 21 years
that Child Protection...
759
01:07:44,680 --> 01:07:48,480
faced Youth Care in court.
-And what did the judge decide?
760
01:07:48,600 --> 01:07:52,560
Youth Care was taken off the case
right away and my son was to go home.
761
01:07:53,400 --> 01:07:57,600
The last judge finally ordered...
762
01:07:57,720 --> 01:08:03,720
an independent investigation into
our case and their conclusion was...
763
01:08:03,840 --> 01:08:10,960
that taking my son was unfounded and
that Youth Care damaged the child.
764
01:08:11,080 --> 01:08:15,760
The whole time my son was
placed out of home was for nothing.
765
01:08:15,880 --> 01:08:17,840
I have it in black and white.
766
01:08:18,720 --> 01:08:25,800
The denial and 'supporting' the mother
with penalties and written instructions...
767
01:08:25,920 --> 01:08:31,480
and placing her son out of home,
I feel has caused a double trauma.
768
01:08:31,600 --> 01:08:37,440
As such all parties have been wronged.
For London it was incredibly confusing.
769
01:08:37,560 --> 01:08:41,480
Child Protection...
770
01:08:41,600 --> 01:08:45,800
took Youth Care to court
because they knew...
771
01:08:45,920 --> 01:08:49,960
that my son should never
have been placed out of home.
772
01:08:50,080 --> 01:08:57,800
It's seven months out of our lives, my
son's most traumatic experience ever.
773
01:08:57,920 --> 01:09:01,320
All for nothing, unfounded.
774
01:09:01,440 --> 01:09:04,920
How can this happen
in a country like the Netherlands?
775
01:09:05,040 --> 01:09:11,520
Your son is coming home soon.
How long did that take?
776
01:09:11,640 --> 01:09:15,800
Since the judge
took Youth Care off the case?
777
01:09:15,920 --> 01:09:19,440
And ordering the release of your son.
-Another two months.
778
01:09:19,560 --> 01:09:21,440
Two months?
-Yes.
779
01:09:22,440 --> 01:09:24,640
Yes, it's bizarre.
780
01:09:24,760 --> 01:09:30,280
It really is...
-Yes, I know, but I cannot believe...
781
01:09:30,400 --> 01:09:33,960
That this can happen.
-Even after a judge ordered...
782
01:09:34,080 --> 01:09:37,240
an independent investigation
which concluded...
783
01:09:37,360 --> 01:09:45,200
that he was wrongfully taken, they kept
him away from his mum two months...
784
01:09:45,320 --> 01:09:50,920
While they stated that every day
away from home causes damage.
785
01:09:51,040 --> 01:09:56,360
When they say that placing a child out of
home is only in the interest of the child...
786
01:09:56,480 --> 01:10:00,240
so it can have a normal life,
they are lying.
787
01:10:00,360 --> 01:10:04,120
Are you tired?
-I am totally exhausted.
788
01:10:04,240 --> 01:10:07,960
I had to fight against so much injustice.
789
01:10:34,120 --> 01:10:37,920
Hi, I'm Kim.
-Nice to meet you. Marie Carine.
790
01:10:39,080 --> 01:10:41,000
Chalisa.
-Hi, I'm Kim.
791
01:10:41,120 --> 01:10:45,000
Welcome.
-It looks so wonderful.
792
01:10:45,120 --> 01:10:48,880
My son was three,
my eldest daughter was two...
793
01:10:49,000 --> 01:10:53,280
and my youngest daughter was one
when they were taken out of my care.
794
01:10:53,400 --> 01:10:57,600
How is it possible
for you to have three children...
795
01:10:57,720 --> 01:11:01,240
and have all three of them
removed from your custody?
796
01:11:01,360 --> 01:11:07,120
Why exactly did Youth Services
disapprove of your situation?
797
01:11:07,240 --> 01:11:11,480
I was what you call a teenage mother.
798
01:11:11,600 --> 01:11:15,840
I was sixteen years old
and had broken up with the father.
799
01:11:15,960 --> 01:11:21,360
Was there ever the possibility
of being reunited with your children?
800
01:11:21,480 --> 01:11:27,800
Absolutely. At the age of eighteen,
I started a job at an insurance company.
801
01:11:27,920 --> 01:11:33,880
From that time on,
every two years or so...
802
01:11:34,000 --> 01:11:39,040
I made court claims to prove
I was more than fit to raise my children.
803
01:11:39,160 --> 01:11:43,480
But still I was denied
the right to raise my own children.
804
01:11:43,600 --> 01:11:47,200
Initially because I was
too young and traumatised.
805
01:11:47,320 --> 01:11:51,840
Then it was because the children
were traumatised themselves.
806
01:11:51,960 --> 01:11:55,920
The court ordered Child Protection...
807
01:11:56,040 --> 01:12:01,480
to draw up a psychological evaluation.
808
01:12:01,600 --> 01:12:04,920
A psychiatrist was asked to assess...
809
01:12:05,040 --> 01:12:08,360
whether or not I was able
to take care of my children.
810
01:12:08,480 --> 01:12:13,120
The answer was yes.
But they chose to disregard the report...
811
01:12:13,240 --> 01:12:17,120
for the same reasons as before:
812
01:12:17,240 --> 01:12:21,560
'Your children are traumatised,
so unable to stay with you.'
813
01:12:21,680 --> 01:12:24,040
Despite my positive evaluation.
814
01:12:24,880 --> 01:12:29,120
A very dramatic ordeal.
-I'll say.
815
01:12:29,240 --> 01:12:32,800
Nearly everything went wrong.
816
01:12:32,920 --> 01:12:38,200
It's mind-boggling to see
the disastrous course this case took.
817
01:12:38,320 --> 01:12:43,680
It makes sense for such a young mother
to have measures taken...
818
01:12:43,800 --> 01:12:49,640
to accommodate the entire process.
That would be understandable.
819
01:12:49,760 --> 01:12:53,600
But to see it
fly off the rails like that...
820
01:12:53,720 --> 01:12:58,680
with a piling up of countless measures...
821
01:12:58,800 --> 01:13:06,360
and incorrect assessments
and guidance by Youth Care...
822
01:13:06,480 --> 01:13:08,480
I'm simply at a loss for words.
823
01:13:12,280 --> 01:13:17,040
I'm genuinely shocked.
As a solicitor I've handled many cases...
824
01:13:17,160 --> 01:13:20,800
in the field of youth care.
But these events...
825
01:13:20,920 --> 01:13:24,920
eventually led to a person's death.
826
01:13:25,040 --> 01:13:29,760
It's very hard for me not to...
827
01:13:29,880 --> 01:13:35,320
You obviously get professionally involved
in each case that crosses your path.
828
01:13:35,440 --> 01:13:41,920
But the way this situation unfolded,
is heart-breaking. Just horrible.
829
01:13:44,920 --> 01:13:49,120
Look how small you were.
So adorable.
830
01:13:49,240 --> 01:13:52,760
We saw each other
once a month back then.
831
01:13:52,880 --> 01:13:54,720
That one is cute.
832
01:13:54,840 --> 01:13:59,920
I was at school,
and I was sent out of class.
833
01:14:00,040 --> 01:14:04,760
I lived somewhere else. Suddenly I saw
counsellors approaching with the police.
834
01:14:04,880 --> 01:14:10,440
I saw my guardian and thought:
What are they all doing here?
835
01:14:11,480 --> 01:14:17,080
They wanted to talk. I thought I was
in trouble for disrupting the class.
836
01:14:18,080 --> 01:14:23,760
So we went into a room.
They didn't even break the news gently...
837
01:14:23,880 --> 01:14:28,840
by saying something was wrong.
They just told me my sister had died.
838
01:14:31,480 --> 01:14:36,000
Just like that. I said:
'No way. You're messing with me.
839
01:14:36,120 --> 01:14:41,560
It's not funny.' I was in shock,
I didn't know what to say.
840
01:14:41,680 --> 01:14:47,280
I was so confused.
I went completely numb.
841
01:14:50,440 --> 01:14:55,160
When I arrived at home,
my father rang me up in tears.
842
01:14:55,280 --> 01:15:03,200
He said: 'Chal, I'm coming for you.
I'm getting you out of there.'
843
01:15:03,320 --> 01:15:06,680
My father was there in a heartbeat.
844
01:15:06,800 --> 01:15:13,760
We drove to Delft
and went to the mortuary.
845
01:15:13,880 --> 01:15:15,960
And there she was.
846
01:15:18,400 --> 01:15:24,600
She was beautiful.
It looked as if she was sleeping.
847
01:15:25,600 --> 01:15:31,760
We were told not to touch her.
848
01:15:31,880 --> 01:15:34,680
But it was my baby sister.
849
01:15:35,960 --> 01:15:39,480
I held her hand.
It had gone stone cold.
850
01:15:39,600 --> 01:15:43,800
You could see the marks around her neck
from where she hung herself.
851
01:15:43,920 --> 01:15:49,120
Her neck was all black and blue,
and her wrists showed cut injuries.
852
01:15:50,480 --> 01:15:52,760
I remember thinking: Oh, my God.
853
01:15:54,680 --> 01:15:57,600
I was completely in shock.
854
01:16:07,120 --> 01:16:11,360
The night before Kimtie
took her own life...
855
01:16:11,480 --> 01:16:16,320
she rang her sister several times.
She really wanted to talk to her sister.
856
01:16:16,440 --> 01:16:20,360
She rang me
the day before she killed herself.
857
01:16:20,480 --> 01:16:22,840
Crying.
858
01:16:22,960 --> 01:16:28,200
But I wasn't allowed to use the phone
that day, so they took it from me.
859
01:16:28,320 --> 01:16:32,880
When perhaps that could have
helped prevent her...
860
01:16:33,000 --> 01:16:35,760
from going through with it.
861
01:17:54,960 --> 01:17:57,960
I swear on my life...
862
01:17:58,080 --> 01:18:02,160
I won't run away for the next six weeks.
-Now raise your hand.
863
01:18:05,040 --> 01:18:07,840
Why did she run away?
864
01:18:07,960 --> 01:18:12,160
She constantly ran away,
because she wasn't happy there.
865
01:18:12,280 --> 01:18:15,000
She often fell victim to abuse.
866
01:18:18,800 --> 01:18:23,760
Do you feel partly responsible
for her passing?
867
01:18:23,880 --> 01:18:25,680
Absolutely.
868
01:18:27,880 --> 01:18:30,160
Most definitely.
869
01:18:30,280 --> 01:18:34,880
The last time she ran away,
she came to me.
870
01:18:35,000 --> 01:18:40,600
A team of twelve police officers
came for her shortly after.
871
01:18:42,760 --> 01:18:47,320
She wanted to join her brother
for a party on Saturday.
872
01:18:47,440 --> 01:18:50,720
I remember,
because I had to work that day.
873
01:18:50,840 --> 01:18:56,200
I decided to let her go with her brother.
874
01:18:56,320 --> 01:19:01,920
She was apprehended on the train
by the police and train guards.
875
01:19:07,480 --> 01:19:13,120
What was it like for you
after your daughter had passed away?
876
01:19:13,240 --> 01:19:17,360
I was very depressed.
I honestly just wanted to...
877
01:19:17,480 --> 01:19:24,640
It sounds harsh, but I wanted to die,
just so I could be with her.
878
01:19:24,760 --> 01:19:27,200
She's my youngest baby.
879
01:19:29,920 --> 01:19:34,000
It was very difficult.
880
01:19:35,920 --> 01:19:40,840
Yeah... I even tried an attempt.
881
01:19:40,960 --> 01:19:46,920
I tried to drown myself, thinking:
This is the end for me.
882
01:19:47,040 --> 01:19:53,680
I remember having flashbacks.
I saw my whole life flash before my eyes.
883
01:19:53,800 --> 01:19:58,360
A police officer pulled me out.
884
01:19:58,480 --> 01:20:03,320
I just didn't want to go on anymore.
But I'm glad he saved my life.
885
01:20:03,440 --> 01:20:10,400
I was also struggling.
It was just so hard to accept.
886
01:20:10,520 --> 01:20:16,240
I was put in a secure facility
somewhere in Noord-Holland.
887
01:20:16,360 --> 01:20:23,600
Suddenly I was all alone,
with Mum living all the way over here.
888
01:20:23,720 --> 01:20:28,400
I was completely distraught.
I was just so over it.
889
01:20:35,920 --> 01:20:40,440
I tried to commit suicide
by hanging myself.
890
01:20:40,560 --> 01:20:44,360
By the time they came
to collect everyone for dinner...
891
01:20:44,480 --> 01:20:46,640
I was already hanging there.
892
01:20:48,640 --> 01:20:52,640
They tried to resuscitate me...
893
01:20:52,760 --> 01:20:57,080
because I had already lost consciousness.
894
01:20:57,200 --> 01:21:04,440
I woke up clear-headed
and just pretended nothing had happened.
895
01:21:06,320 --> 01:21:10,160
They stayed
at a very decent facility before.
896
01:21:10,280 --> 01:21:16,760
But after certain incidents, such as...
Do you mind me telling them?
897
01:21:17,680 --> 01:21:23,880
It's embarrassing, but go ahead.
People should hear the truth.
898
01:21:24,000 --> 01:21:29,600
At this particular group home
he was so fortunate to be admitted to...
899
01:21:29,720 --> 01:21:37,080
he was assaulted by one of the employees.
She sexually abused him for two years.
900
01:21:37,200 --> 01:21:44,800
A 35-year-old female social worker,
who was also his personal counsellor.
901
01:21:44,920 --> 01:21:47,640
She was very close to both of them.
902
01:21:47,760 --> 01:21:55,120
Rosario ended up in secure youth care,
which should never have happened.
903
01:21:55,240 --> 01:21:58,800
A secure facility makes
700 euros a day on each child.
904
01:21:58,920 --> 01:22:03,000
A rather sizeable amount, I would say.
905
01:22:03,120 --> 01:22:07,520
So they have a financial interest
in maintaining the status quo.
906
01:22:07,640 --> 01:22:11,560
We were placed
in foster care in Friesland.
907
01:22:11,680 --> 01:22:14,360
It was a renovated farm.
908
01:22:14,480 --> 01:22:18,040
My sister's phone
doesn't work properly anymore.
909
01:22:18,160 --> 01:22:21,480
But you can still see
the bruise on her forehead.
910
01:22:21,600 --> 01:22:27,240
She had a scar of sorts
when I last saw her.
911
01:22:27,360 --> 01:22:31,280
She told me she was roughed up
during her last visitation.
912
01:22:31,400 --> 01:22:38,000
They forcefully pushed her head
and knee against the floor.
913
01:22:39,000 --> 01:22:44,840
Gruesome incidents like these
seemed to be everyday occurrences.
914
01:22:44,960 --> 01:22:50,880
There were only two foster parents.
That's when things went completely awry.
915
01:22:56,760 --> 01:23:01,120
It's a bit creepy going back
to the place where all of this happened.
916
01:23:01,240 --> 01:23:06,320
Someone's coming. I don't know who.
-I think we should go.
917
01:23:07,360 --> 01:23:09,720
This is a house of horrors.
918
01:23:09,840 --> 01:23:15,400
This visit will be very confronting
for the two of them.
919
01:23:16,480 --> 01:23:21,120
I have to admit,
this really gets to me as well.
920
01:23:21,240 --> 01:23:27,120
I'm talking abuse and assault.
I've had to fight many times.
921
01:23:27,240 --> 01:23:31,200
Life there was pure survival.
Pure survival.
922
01:23:32,400 --> 01:23:37,440
I was once locked for three days
without food or water.
923
01:23:37,560 --> 01:23:44,880
My sister came to me one day and said:
'Josja's making me do dirty things.'
924
01:23:45,000 --> 01:23:49,480
This foster-brother was
doing things with more than one girl.
925
01:23:49,600 --> 01:23:53,400
He was doing dirty things,
but we didn't know what sex was.
926
01:23:53,520 --> 01:23:59,200
I couldn't believe it. She said:
'Just come and hide in my room tonight.'
927
01:23:59,320 --> 01:24:02,920
At midnight,
I heard someone open the door...
928
01:24:03,040 --> 01:24:09,400
and crawl into bed with my sister.
My sister was crying for our mother.
929
01:24:10,440 --> 01:24:15,320
My daughter Chalisa kept record
of the abuse in a diary.
930
01:24:15,440 --> 01:24:23,200
The things I read in her diary
almost gave me a heart attack.
931
01:24:25,240 --> 01:24:27,440
Help me.
932
01:24:30,680 --> 01:24:32,400
Let go of me.
933
01:24:32,520 --> 01:24:36,520
Certainly there's evidence.
We even have camera footage...
934
01:24:36,640 --> 01:24:41,840
of Kimtie telling her story
to the police's vice unit.
935
01:24:41,960 --> 01:24:48,240
I informed the police of the many cameras
both inside and outside of the building.
936
01:24:48,360 --> 01:24:56,120
That same week, a tactical unit
of men in black came to the house...
937
01:24:56,240 --> 01:24:59,440
to remove all of the cameras.
938
01:24:59,560 --> 01:25:06,600
It's highly incriminating footage.
Not only to the perpetrator...
939
01:25:06,720 --> 01:25:11,320
but to the group home parents
involved at the time as well.
940
01:25:11,440 --> 01:25:15,600
When highly incriminating footage
like that surfaces...
941
01:25:15,720 --> 01:25:19,920
you can be sure it will prompt
a criminal investigation...
942
01:25:20,040 --> 01:25:22,520
to apprehend the culprit.
943
01:25:25,440 --> 01:25:29,360
We're getting close to the house.
100 metres to go.
944
01:25:33,720 --> 01:25:36,600
Hello.
Can we ask you a question?
945
01:25:38,160 --> 01:25:41,680
Do you work at this group home?
-No, I don't.
946
01:25:41,800 --> 01:25:45,360
What's your name?
What is it that you do here?
947
01:25:45,480 --> 01:25:49,680
None of your business.
-We're going with you. Yes, we are.
948
01:25:49,800 --> 01:25:53,760
This is private property.
-There's no need for shoving.
949
01:25:53,880 --> 01:25:56,960
Calm down.
Who are you exactly?
950
01:25:57,080 --> 01:26:00,120
He's Foka's husband.
Foka's husband.
951
01:26:00,240 --> 01:26:02,400
Piss off.
952
01:26:02,520 --> 01:26:07,160
This girl who took her own life.
She was abused.
953
01:26:07,280 --> 01:26:10,360
Where can we find the owner?
954
01:26:10,480 --> 01:26:15,160
I used to live here, man.
Foka's over there.
955
01:26:15,280 --> 01:26:18,000
Why don't I take this.
-Please leave.
956
01:26:18,120 --> 01:26:21,760
We just want to talk.
-I want you to leave our premises.
957
01:26:21,880 --> 01:26:25,880
Kimtie Jokhoe used to live here,
along with some others.
958
01:26:26,000 --> 01:26:31,240
This girl committed suicide.
She was sexually abused at your facility.
959
01:26:31,360 --> 01:26:35,360
That's what we want to talk to you about.
960
01:26:35,480 --> 01:26:39,480
I want you to leave right now.
-All we want, is to talk.
961
01:26:39,600 --> 01:26:42,120
There's no need to put your hands on me.
962
01:26:42,240 --> 01:26:47,400
Could you please leave?
Could you please leave, I said.
963
01:26:47,520 --> 01:26:49,680
Take it easy.
964
01:26:49,800 --> 01:26:54,000
Don't freak out, man.
-Get out of here right now.
965
01:26:54,120 --> 01:26:56,760
Calm down.
-Get out of here.
966
01:26:56,880 --> 01:27:01,360
What are you doing?
Get him. Control yourself, man.
967
01:27:01,480 --> 01:27:05,080
Don't touch me, mate.
Get off this property.
968
01:27:05,200 --> 01:27:08,720
Get off this property.
-Who are you?
969
01:27:08,840 --> 01:27:11,000
That goes for you as well.
970
01:27:12,880 --> 01:27:16,720
Why are you so aggressive?
You're incredibly hostile.
971
01:27:19,040 --> 01:27:22,480
Take it easy.
-What do you want, bro?
972
01:27:22,600 --> 01:27:25,800
Calm down. Just calm down.
973
01:27:25,920 --> 01:27:29,800
Go stand over there.
Just go stand over there if you want.
974
01:27:29,920 --> 01:27:33,440
And you're working at a group home?
-Go that way, I said.
975
01:27:33,560 --> 01:27:36,600
Why are you winding me up? Move.
976
01:27:36,720 --> 01:27:42,400
And these people are responsible
for keeping children safe. Look at this.
977
01:27:42,520 --> 01:27:46,600
This is abnormal behaviour.
-Do you want me to call the police?
978
01:27:46,720 --> 01:27:51,960
These people are responsible
for keeping children safe.
979
01:27:52,080 --> 01:27:55,400
This is outrageous.
I just want to talk.
980
01:27:55,520 --> 01:27:58,680
I was pushed around,
I only just avoided a beating.
981
01:27:58,800 --> 01:28:04,600
I'm sorry, but this behaviour
is absolutely ridiculous. I'm shaking.
982
01:28:04,720 --> 01:28:06,880
We're making a documentary.
983
01:28:07,000 --> 01:28:12,240
She was even awarded a royal decoration.
The facility is called Bissy4Kids.
984
01:28:12,360 --> 01:28:19,600
It's a farm, housing over 30 children,
who are left to their own devices.
985
01:28:19,720 --> 01:28:23,840
And this earns you
a decoration by the Mayor.
986
01:28:23,960 --> 01:28:29,800
She was named a hero
for her work helping the children.
987
01:28:29,920 --> 01:28:32,120
She was simply rewarded.
988
01:28:32,240 --> 01:28:35,160
They've even expanded to
four more locations.
989
01:28:35,280 --> 01:28:40,080
And these are children of the state.
It was the state that decided...
990
01:28:40,200 --> 01:28:45,920
the children were better off with them
than with their teenage mother.
991
01:28:46,040 --> 01:28:51,600
Now I'm left with one deceased child
and two uneducated, traumatised children.
992
01:28:51,720 --> 01:28:55,440
I'm at a loss.
I'm completely desperate.
993
01:29:02,120 --> 01:29:05,840
Kim Feenstra.
-Tom Knijp, nice to meet you.
994
01:29:05,960 --> 01:29:08,280
Make yourself comfortable.
995
01:29:08,400 --> 01:29:15,800
Just the thought of 33 children
still trapped in Bissy4Kids' group home...
996
01:29:15,920 --> 01:29:18,720
fills me with horror.
997
01:29:18,840 --> 01:29:21,800
One thing I still don't understand...
998
01:29:21,920 --> 01:29:28,400
is the Salvation Army's
involvement in her funeral.
999
01:29:28,520 --> 01:29:33,560
It was the Salvation Army
that made sure...
1000
01:29:33,680 --> 01:29:37,920
her daughter ended up
in a secure youth care facility.
1001
01:29:38,040 --> 01:29:43,440
They first provided her with a budget
to finance the tombstone.
1002
01:29:43,560 --> 01:29:49,360
Next they try and get her to sign
a non-disclosure agreement.
1003
01:29:49,480 --> 01:29:53,640
An actual non-disclosure agreement.
I have it right here.
1004
01:29:53,760 --> 01:30:00,960
This is from the insurance companies.
In a letter to her former solicitor...
1005
01:30:01,080 --> 01:30:05,720
they included a draft agreement
for her to sign.
1006
01:30:05,840 --> 01:30:11,400
It says: 'If your client agrees
to the proposed practical arrangement...'
1007
01:30:11,520 --> 01:30:18,840
a non-disclosure agreement, that is,
'...liability inquiries are suspended'.
1008
01:30:18,960 --> 01:30:22,240
Basically they want her to keep quiet.
1009
01:30:22,360 --> 01:30:29,920
But by using such legal phrasing...
1010
01:30:30,040 --> 01:30:35,720
an outsider won't recognise it
as being a non-disclosure agreement.
1011
01:30:35,840 --> 01:30:41,200
The legal guardian, so to speak,
was with the Salvation Army.
1012
01:30:41,320 --> 01:30:45,320
So they had supervisory responsibility.
1013
01:30:45,440 --> 01:30:51,000
Then isn't the guardian also responsible
for everything that went wrong?
1014
01:30:51,120 --> 01:30:54,560
Right.
-The way I see it, at least.
1015
01:30:54,680 --> 01:30:58,360
You're absolutely right,
from a legal standpoint as well.
1016
01:30:58,480 --> 01:31:04,440
That particular guardian
chose to look the other way so often...
1017
01:31:04,560 --> 01:31:10,400
despite all of the signals,
and previous mentions of sexual abuse...
1018
01:31:10,520 --> 01:31:14,840
he has been so negligent,
that we now consider this to be...
1019
01:31:14,960 --> 01:31:18,680
the mildest type of intent.
1020
01:31:18,800 --> 01:31:23,000
Marie Carine and I plan on
pressing charges for murder.
1021
01:31:24,480 --> 01:31:28,200
But who will be the one
to be criminally prosecuted?
1022
01:31:28,320 --> 01:31:32,640
The Salvation Army
and the secure youth care facility...
1023
01:31:32,760 --> 01:31:39,920
or its management, should be able to
be prosecuted for wilful murder.
1024
01:31:40,040 --> 01:31:43,840
Also a number
of individual people involved...
1025
01:31:43,960 --> 01:31:50,360
including that Salvation Army's guardian,
should be held accountable...
1026
01:31:50,480 --> 01:31:54,320
for murder.
-What you're saying right now...
1027
01:31:54,440 --> 01:32:01,680
isn't it very dangerous?
This is rather a bold statement.
1028
01:32:01,800 --> 01:32:05,280
Right. I have to admit...
1029
01:32:05,400 --> 01:32:09,440
I'm sometimes a bit scared
for my personal safety.
1030
01:32:09,560 --> 01:32:15,880
Especially since handling these cases.
Looking back on last week's visit...
1031
01:32:16,000 --> 01:32:21,040
to that creepy group home
with those aggressive ruffians...
1032
01:32:21,160 --> 01:32:24,760
made me realise these people
are capable of anything.
1033
01:32:24,880 --> 01:32:30,520
I'm very much aware that making
public statements like these...
1034
01:32:30,640 --> 01:32:33,640
comes at personal risk.
1035
01:32:33,760 --> 01:32:39,720
But you know, Kim, this is so upsetting
and so very important to me...
1036
01:32:39,840 --> 01:32:45,320
that I'm like: This is so much bigger
than me, I just have to do this.
1037
01:32:45,440 --> 01:32:47,480
So that's why.
1038
01:32:47,600 --> 01:32:54,160
That group home you visited recently,
and those thugs you mentioned...
1039
01:32:54,280 --> 01:32:57,280
do you think
they have certificates of conduct?
1040
01:32:57,400 --> 01:33:04,120
There's actually a good chance
the foster parents have such certificates.
1041
01:33:04,240 --> 01:33:12,000
If you are unable to report any incidents,
being dismissed by the Inspectorate...
1042
01:33:12,120 --> 01:33:17,200
and unable to press charges,
since all charges are always ignored...
1043
01:33:17,320 --> 01:33:20,320
this group home
will never be under scrutiny.
1044
01:33:20,440 --> 01:33:25,080
So these people are free to
continue their practices.
1045
01:33:25,200 --> 01:33:30,120
If you look back on all of the cases
you were involved with...
1046
01:33:30,240 --> 01:33:35,520
would you say they're linked
by a common theme?
1047
01:33:35,640 --> 01:33:40,400
Would you say it has to do with finances?
1048
01:33:40,520 --> 01:33:47,800
It looks to me as if this is nothing more
than common child exploitation.
1049
01:33:47,920 --> 01:33:52,440
For the most part,
it's nothing but common exploitation.
1050
01:33:52,560 --> 01:33:58,320
In the end, investment companies
like eHUB that profit the most.
1051
01:33:58,440 --> 01:34:03,280
Often accredited institutions are blamed,
such as the Salvation Army.
1052
01:34:03,400 --> 01:34:09,440
They do profit, but in the end, it's often
the investors who are getting rich.
1053
01:34:09,560 --> 01:34:16,440
This is an aspect worth looking into.
But it's mostly exploitation.
1054
01:34:16,560 --> 01:34:20,040
It's also a matter
of conflicts of interest.
1055
01:34:20,160 --> 01:34:24,760
Just look at the careless way
Public Prosecution handles these cases.
1056
01:34:24,880 --> 01:34:26,840
There's no supervision.
1057
01:34:26,960 --> 01:34:33,160
Parents can't really report malpractices,
because there's usually no follow-up.
1058
01:34:33,280 --> 01:34:39,520
Children have rights, but simply lack
the opportunity to exercise them.
1059
01:34:39,640 --> 01:34:45,080
Legal aid falls short miserably.
Solicitors aren't properly trained.
1060
01:34:45,200 --> 01:34:49,280
Even the Education Programme
is largely inadequate.
1061
01:34:49,400 --> 01:34:54,000
Most cases rely
on government-funded legal aid...
1062
01:34:54,120 --> 01:34:58,880
submitting solicitors
with a most modest budget...
1063
01:34:59,000 --> 01:35:02,760
when case like these are highly complex.
1064
01:35:02,880 --> 01:35:09,440
So the quality of their legal counsel thus
comes under severe pressure.
1065
01:35:09,560 --> 01:35:13,840
These are only a few issues.
The problem is far more expansive.
1066
01:35:13,960 --> 01:35:20,080
With all of these issues, it's no wonder
Youth Care is so chaotic.
1067
01:35:20,200 --> 01:35:23,880
I would have long suggested
a parliamentary inquiry.
1068
01:35:26,120 --> 01:35:32,400
Next we have a father talking to
the Health and Youth Care Inspectorate.
1069
01:35:32,520 --> 01:35:38,720
He complains about a foster carer
of some other group home in Friesland.
1070
01:35:38,840 --> 01:35:42,640
He reports a case
of sexually inappropriate behaviour.
1071
01:35:42,760 --> 01:35:48,880
It seems the carer keeps coming into
his twelve-year-old daughter's room.
1072
01:35:49,000 --> 01:35:53,880
This obviously upsets him,
so he decides to report the incident.
1073
01:35:54,000 --> 01:35:58,120
Just have a listen
at the Inspectorate's response.
1074
01:35:58,240 --> 01:36:02,320
It is absolutely not true
your information is disregarded.
1075
01:36:02,440 --> 01:36:07,680
It would have been different if...
We sometimes act on individual cases...
1076
01:36:07,800 --> 01:36:13,920
of physical abuse
or sexually inappropriate behaviour.
1077
01:36:14,040 --> 01:36:18,320
Let me just pause here for a moment.
So what she's saying, is:
1078
01:36:18,440 --> 01:36:26,440
'It would have been different if...
We sometimes act on individual cases...'
1079
01:36:26,560 --> 01:36:31,440
Only sometimes. Depending on
whatever they feel like doing.
1080
01:36:31,560 --> 01:36:38,640
Some cases of child abuse
call for intervention, and others don't.
1081
01:36:38,760 --> 01:36:40,960
Utter madness.
1082
01:36:41,920 --> 01:36:45,960
That's what happened.
This foster carer...
1083
01:36:46,080 --> 01:36:50,160
goes into my daughter's room
even when she's getting dressed.
1084
01:36:50,280 --> 01:36:54,560
That's not considered
sexually inappropriate behaviour.
1085
01:36:54,680 --> 01:36:59,960
I see. She has to have the full experience
for the Inspectorate to say...
1086
01:37:00,080 --> 01:37:04,280
Worst case scenario,
this could be penetration by a carer...
1087
01:37:04,400 --> 01:37:11,920
or teenagers having sexual relations,
resulting in pregnancy, and such.
1088
01:37:12,040 --> 01:37:16,280
These are considered forms
of inappropriate sexual behaviour.
1089
01:37:16,400 --> 01:37:21,640
So the Inspectorate wants the situation
to get terribly out of hand first...
1090
01:37:21,760 --> 01:37:27,960
before taking steps to protect
the children. That's what you're saying.
1091
01:37:28,080 --> 01:37:32,720
I understand your question,
but it's a difficult one to answer.
1092
01:37:32,840 --> 01:37:35,680
But I don't agree.
Nor do my colleagues.
1093
01:37:35,800 --> 01:37:40,600
But that's what you're saying.
-Only then are we able to investigate.
1094
01:37:40,720 --> 01:37:45,360
Based on your information,
we don't see any immediate danger.
1095
01:37:47,920 --> 01:37:52,040
She's basically saying:
'Your daughter has to be abused first.
1096
01:37:52,160 --> 01:37:57,800
Only then are we able to consider
taking measures. Or not.'
1097
01:37:57,920 --> 01:38:04,080
It's absolutely bizarre. Such a reaction
shows a total lack of empathy.
1098
01:38:04,200 --> 01:38:11,160
Not only are they saying a pervert staring
at an undressing twelve-year-old girl...
1099
01:38:11,280 --> 01:38:16,120
isn't inappropriate, they're saying
actual penetration has to take place.
1100
01:38:16,240 --> 01:38:19,120
What crackpot looks at twelve-year-olds...
1101
01:38:19,240 --> 01:38:23,040
only to have someone else say
it's not at all inappropriate?
1102
01:38:23,160 --> 01:38:28,120
How far are you willing to go
to reach your goal?
1103
01:38:28,240 --> 01:38:34,240
How far I'm willing to go? I won't stop
until the system, like you said...
1104
01:38:34,360 --> 01:38:38,920
is rebuilt from the ground up,
a criminal investigation is launched...
1105
01:38:39,040 --> 01:38:46,360
and the culprits are brought to court
for an impartial judge to review the case.
1106
01:38:46,480 --> 01:38:49,000
That's what I'm fighting for.
1107
01:38:49,120 --> 01:38:56,600
Even at the risk of personal safety,
I'm willing to go to any lengths...
1108
01:38:56,720 --> 01:39:00,520
within the confines of the law,
to make this happen.
1109
01:39:00,640 --> 01:39:04,040
And I will not rest until I reach this goal.
1110
01:39:38,360 --> 01:39:44,440
It feels a bit inappropriate saying this,
since her death shouldn't have happened.
1111
01:39:44,560 --> 01:39:49,960
But I hope her death hasn't been in vain,
and will bring about actual change.
1112
01:39:50,080 --> 01:39:53,680
Without her knowing it...
1113
01:39:53,800 --> 01:39:57,760
or perhaps she's looking down
and actually does know...
1114
01:39:59,360 --> 01:40:04,440
that despite her actions,
she's become somewhat of a hero.
1115
01:40:04,560 --> 01:40:10,680
She's my hero. I watch
her photograph every day, thinking:
1116
01:40:12,480 --> 01:40:15,280
I'm doing all of this for you.
1117
01:40:15,400 --> 01:40:19,560
I'm going to find justice
for all those kids...
1118
01:40:19,680 --> 01:40:25,000
who are still struggling.
We're just going to tackle this problem.
1119
01:40:25,120 --> 01:40:29,200
Because the system has to change.
1120
01:40:29,320 --> 01:40:33,520
Do you remember
Kimtie's final words to you?
1121
01:40:33,640 --> 01:40:37,000
I do.
'I love you, Mum'.
1122
01:40:43,800 --> 01:40:48,400
If you could say something to her,
what do you think it would be?
1123
01:40:54,360 --> 01:40:59,280
I would just tell her
how much I love and miss her.
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I just really wish she was sitting
here with me right now.
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Can I give you a hug?
-Of course.
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Thank you for watching.
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