All language subtitles for Because This Is My First Life E11

My family is having the annual
kimchi-making ritual this week.

But your home is in Namhae.

How could I…

That's not for me to figure out.

I'll text you the time and place.

You're up early.

Yes.

That's my red ginseng.

This one's yours.

Oh.

Yes.

You're going out already?

Yes.

I've agreed to meet Bok-nam for
breakfast.

Together at the cafe.

I see.

Oh.

Our monthly rental agreement.

No.

Our monthly rental marriage
contract.

I'm taking mine with me.

The other day your mother opened
all the drawers everywhere.

So I was going to keep mine at
the cafe.

It seems safer there.

Oh. She won't be coming anymore.

I made it clear to her and
I changed the passcode, too.

Yes.

Conversations between
mother and son aren't my business.

Just in case,
I think it's best for you

to leave yours at your
office too, Landlord.

The contract, should it be seen
by others, would be troublesome.

Yes.

Then...

Good job, Yoon Ji-ho.
It was perfect.

I was completely emotionless.

Poker face.

She's properly pissed off. Right?

Huh?

Oh, why are you in there now?

Let's go out.

They are attacking us
negatively outright.

They seemed to be playing off
our "Don't Marry, Date" name.

The issue is that it's working.

They're rated higher than
us in the app store already.

Barely a month
after they launched.

So I saw that app,

it even includes one's parent's
jobs and yearly salaries.

That's working for
the unexpectedly

traditional
children-conscious clientele.

Those who date
with marriage in mind

want a definitive relationship.

Chief Nam, what's your thought
on this urgent crisis?

The design concept

is excellent.

But if they'd put the event banner
on the bottom of the profile,

it would've been much better.

Chief Nam?

We're not asking you to talk about

your impression
as a designer here.

Maybe it's time we also
changed our main concept?

The premise of saying
that the dating market

and the marriage market are
separate is rather risky.

Uh-huh.

I think the app was named
wrongly from the get-go.

Don't Marry, Date?

Who named this app?

The one who did that is the
only one here who is married.

Then, let's continue the
concept meeting tomorrow.

Whether we should continue to go

with the current concept
of dating only,

or if we should switch to a
concept that includes marriage.

Let's meet again tomorrow
after everyone

has thought about it
some more. Okay?

Yes.

Why did you come today?

Then you should've refused
after an appropriate amount of time.

Or said you had work.

Why, when you're someone
who usually defends well?

Ji-ho, though this
wasn't in our contract,

for today's unjustified
labor you had to do,

I hope this can cover it.

Ha!

Is he Won Bin? What's with,
"How much will do?"

Did something happen
with the landlord?

Hey, when did you…

I read it, and it
sounds pretty good.

I think I should do a
contract marriage too, later on.

You've got a house and you've
got a motorcycle. Why would you?

Having a house and car is
still completely different

than having a person.

I feel lonely being
home alone nowadays.

You are at least less lonely since
your husband is at home with you.

Hey, do you know why a
husband is called 'nam-pyeon'?

It's because they're
always on others' sides.

There's an old saying
that goes like this,

'Give the
easy tasks to your daughter,

and the hard tasks
to your daughter-in-law.'

A daughter-in-law
that's like a real daughter?

If that's what she wanted,
then she should make me her

foster daughter. Why did she
take me as her daughter-in-law?

What's wrong?

Sister. You resemble someone
I know so much right now.

Who?

The woman next door to me.

What?

That woman, every day…

she speaks ill of her
husband with that exact face.

How can your expression be
exactly the same as hers?

You were so innocent when
you first came to work here.

But who would've thought
I would end up

seeing that woman's
face on you.

I think I'm just not
going to get married.

I mean, the setup was
wrong from the get-go.

Don't Marry, Date? Even
the name is so unaffectionate.

It's too pessimistic.

- Yeah, that's true.
- I always thought that.

I said that before, too.

So, now,

I think it's right for our app
to go with the concept

of putting marriage
front and center.

Yeah.

That's a good idea.

Everyone. Look at this.

Amidst this crisis, on a weekday,
someone's applied for a day off.

Shall we try to guess
who that was?

Not me.

Application for day off.
Department? Design team.

Name? Nam Se-hee.

So it's Chief Nam.

I've got a personal reason.
Inevitably, on a weekday.

Which company employee
would have such personal,

inevitable reason,
on a weekday?

I need to go and make kimchi.

Make kimchi?

What's Make Kimchi?
A newly developed program?

You mean your actually
going to make kimchi?

Yes. Precisely.

How far are you going to make
kimchi that you need a day off?

Namhae. My wife's home.

No, my in-laws' home. I need
to go and make kimchi there.

I've never applied for
a day off this year.

I request your speedy approval.

Our app name,
I think it's best to leave it

as 'Don't Marry, Date' after all.

Yeah.

The name is just fine as is.

Yeah. Marriage sucks.

Getting married is something
that scary. Won-seok.

Oh, Manager, you're on that
app too? Don't Marry, Date?

My boyfriend works at this
company, so I just installed it.

Really?

Oh. You got so many hearts.

Well, I'm on it just for fun
anyway.

It's true. You'll be a married
woman soon anyway.

Did you two set a date yet?

Huh?

We're still discussing that.

You guys all checked
today's lunch reservations?

Yes.

Hello?

Yes, hi.

Yes. Oh, you're here in Seoul?

What?

Right in front of my office?
Yes, I'll come out now.

You should have dinner with
Rang and I before you leave.

I need to go home and
make dinner for her father.

I've got some time
before the bus leaves,

so I thought I'd come and
see my son-in-law's face

instead of my daughter's.

Son-in-law?

I saw the picture, and the
rock on the ring is so big.

Didn't you overdo it?

No. I should get at least
that much for Rang.

That's right.

She's my daughter,
so I can say this.

These days, you can't find
a girl like my Ho-rang.

Once you marry her, she's someone
who'd manage your household

and be a supportive wife to you.

She learned it since she was
little from watching me.

I know that.

Then...

About when do you plan
to have the wedding?

What did your parents say?

That. I haven't
told my family yet.

You should hurry and tell them.
It's not so good to drag it out.

Rang, too. She can't live with
Soo-ji in that apartment forever.

Right. Of course.

Seok, are you still living
in that rooftop room?

Yes, I'm still staying there.

Does that place even have
hot water? Is it wind-proof?

Yes, of course. It all works well.

Rang, what do you mean getting
married in a year or two?

How can we marry
in a year or two?

Why can't we get married
in a year or two?

We've saved up all
this money, all this time.

I mean, the two of us saved up
for two years at $500 each,

every paycheck.

So that's $1,000 times
24 months.

It's no less than…

Please take your bankbook.

It's no less than a lot!

Where did I take it off?

Maybe I didn't put one
on at home at all?

Yes, Deputy Park.

Deputy Woo, what's taking so long?
The food's coming out.

Yes, I'm coming.

I'll just leave on my coat.

This is good.

Eat a lot.

I'm sweating.

It's hot.

Deputy Woo, aren't you hot?

You should take that off
when you eat.

I'm alright.

Oh, I'm sorry. Sorry.

It spilled. Wet wipe.

Give it to me. I'll wipe it.

I'm sorry. It was slippery.

I told you. She
doesn't wear one. I told you so.

Cough up.
$50 each. Give it.

But how can she go
around without a bra?

Is that common
for women these days?

She should be
about a B cup, right?

B? B? No, no, no.

A very full A.

- A very full A.
- How do you know that?

You just look and you know.
I'm very accurate.

Seriously,
if I just wasn't married,

Deputy Woo and I, together, huh!

I would…

Deputy Woo.

How long have you been there?

Can you give me a light?

So you do smoke.

Did you win a lot?

Your betting on me being a no-bra.

I'm a very full A cup,
as you can see,

so it was pretty obvious, huh?

Deputy Park, I think
you're the same size as me.

Let me know if you don't
plan to shed some weight

by working out. I'll lend you mine.

Put that away.

That gaze that
doesn't reveal your intention.

You know I dislike that.

What exactly happens
when you marry?

Your impenetrable IT world,

how did kimchi-making
and a day-off penetrate it?

Well, it's something
that could be expected.

In-law-life started and
I plan to pay that back

the same way with labor.

She was summoned to my family's
memorial service.

Ji-ho was.

I got it.

You know Byeong-moon, right?
Eom Byeong-moon?

After the Thanksgiving holiday,
he needs to take care

of his wife for a month
like a slave.

Why? Because she says she
doesn't want to even look

at anyone with
the last name Eom.

So if he gets kicked out,
then he will lie

on the sofa
in the living room.

Then, when his parents
show up, he'll go, "Ehem,"

and put on the 'head of
the household' act again.

I really don't know what that is.

That's nothing other than
a social disease

created by Korean parents.

Inflict physical labor
upon other people's kids

with 'family' as their pretext.

And also demand psychological
labor, then in return,

have that all come back
to them as their

children's spousal fights,
then divorce.

For a rational-thinking
human being,

it's a system that they would
never choose. That is marriage.

So, never...

But how come someone like
you chose that system?

It's really very shocking,
isn't it?

A left-loan and
right-cat guy like you.

Why would you choose
such an irrational system?

I mean, is your wife
the cat's butler?

Or are you getting rent
from your wife, maybe?

I mean, it's very questionable.

She's pretty.

No matter how pretty she is,
still…

Did you forget?
She's pretty, I said.

A man is an animal
with what weakness?

- Sight?
- So if a pretty woman

is in front of him,

- does he look at her or not?
- He does.

Then, if that man can see
that pretty woman every day,

does he marry or not marry?

He marries no matter what.

That's right.
So you understand it.

I'm at your company's
side entrance parking lot.

Run here within twenty minutes.

I really need to work off my
frustration today, so be prepared.

Hey, you go in first.
I'll see you tomorrow.

CEO Ma, you said you had
an important meeting today.

An even more important
meeting came up.

Is that the side entrance?

No.

The side entrance is this way.

See you later.

Oh, sorry. I'm so busy, though.

Sorry. See you tomorrow.
See you later.

Ta-da. Hello, my baby.

I got it.

I got it, so let's eat
first before we go on our date.

I told you. I need to work
off my frustration today.

What?

Something must have
happened at work today.

Nope. Like what?

What? Nothing happened. For real.

Tell me. I mean, please tell me.

Something happened, right?

Just something
irritating happened.

The male employees
made bets on me.

- What kind of a bet?
- They bet on whether

I wear a bra or not. For $50.

What?

Those bastards.

Forget it.
I already threw them a punch.

- How?
- I threw the my cigarette butt

in that bastard Deputy Park's
coffee cup, like this.

Oh, those bastards
are making me crazy.

I will seriously earn lots of
money and buy your company,

so those employee bastards,

I'll enslave them
for my entire life.

Those punks.
Is that something to bet on?

How can they take
a person so lightly?

I mean, what woman goes to
her work in a no-bra state?

Me.

- What?
- Me. I am no-bra today.

Really?

Yeah, what?

I'm on my way home already!

Did you eat dinner?

Would I have eaten? At this hour?

No. I'll eat at home.

I haven't either.

Should we
eat something out together?

What? Eat out?

Why eat out, when we're
both tight on funds?

- I'll just eat at home...
- Just take out what's in

the fridge and stuff yourself!

He should think about what he does
before he suggests eating out!

Oh, he's not a husband,
he's my mortal enemy.

Oh, why did I get married?

Sister, you resemble someone
I know a lot right now.

- Who?
- The woman next door.

She is always speaking ill of her
husband with that exact face.

How come even the
expression is the same?

What? "Isn't it enough
that I earn money for you?"

That paltry little supplement
to our living costs?

But he acts like a big shot
about it all year long.

Ah, he disgusts me.

Geez, he makes my skin crawl.

Oh. I took tomorrow off work.

Oh. Did you?

Yes. If you let me know
the Namhae home address,

I'll get there in time
for kimchi making.

Yes. I'll send it to you.
The address.

Oh, but I can't go tomorrow.

Yes, I know. You need
to work at the cafe.

You went to my family's
ancestral rite alone so I should

go to your family's
kimchi-making alone too.

Six hours of labor.
I'll fulfill the same time

that you put in, and return home.

Oh. That contract. Did
you take it and store it at work?

Oh. No. I will keep it in my bag.

CEO Ma tends to dig through my
paperwork in the desk sometimes.

So it's safer this way, I think.

I see. Yes, we can't have
CEO Ma know. That'll be bad.

Right. We can't.

Then, Soo-ji will know too.

What?

Did you not know?

That CEO Ma and Soo-ji are dating?

They're dating?

I mean, how did
CEO Ma and Soo-ji end up together?

That's what I mean. Human
beings are really fascinating.

They do not suit each other at
all. How can they be dating?

What is he saying?

We even got married.

No-bra? My girlfriend is a no-bra?

Other people would see them.

You think others don't know,
right?

But, when they look,
they know right away.

If they look, it's their fault.
Is it my fault?

The one who did the looking is
the one at fault. Very bad! But!

Tell me honestly.
Has this happened before

when you went to work, too?

Yeah, a few times.

When I'm working away from
the office, I take my bra off

and there are times when
I forgot to put it back on.

My God!

You're crazy!

If I were crazy I'd go around
completely naked.

You can't help but talk
back to everything!

I'm telling you to understand me!
I don't like it! I don't!

Why are you this angry?

Woo Soo-ji, you don't hear the
voice of my heart right now?

This honest heart that loves
and worries for his girlfriend?

Not sure. It sounds to my ears
like you're trying

to wrap your own
possessiveness as affection

to rationalize your behavior.
Why is that?

Why? Why is this
sounding like that to you?

This is different from
what the contract said.

Why are you intervening
in my personal life?

Oh, you did well mentioning it.

You know what you wrote
in the contract, right?

Look. Is this personal life? Huh?

What's this contract? It's weird.

So now, where did
you get that bad habit

of trying to dodge
out of it, huh?

Look here.

Our two-year term
of tenancy-marriage contract…

This, what is this?

What is this?

Ji-ho. Oh.

You should look at this.

What is this?

Dating contract?

Yes. It seems to be
a dating contract

between CEO Ma and Soo-ji.

What did I say? They're
not a good match for each other.

And, look here.

Soo-ji is the owner,
and CEO Ma is the contractor.

Oh, so it's true.

Wow, this girl...

Why would anyone write
a contract for dating?

I guess we're not in the position
to comment on this, though.

But how did you end up
getting this?

Oh, I bumped into CEO Ma earlier.

Our things got mixed up.
So, I ended up bringing this.

Oh, they got mixed up.

It's not as if this was switched
with our contract, though, right?

What?

It hasn't been that long,
and already marriage?

There are a lot of people
who get married

after just two
or three months.

Since earlier,
why have you kept referring

to your husband
as your landlord?

I did?

A part-time job? Why?

Oh, I need to work
for the monthly ren…

I have to pay for daily expenses
and my phone bill.

Yoon Ji-ho, that nutcase!

What did you want to
give me this late at night?

Last time, the marinated
crab my mom sent.

She gave me this
to share with others.

I haven't given you yours yet.

Thanks. I better get in touch with
your mom.

She's doing well, right?

- Yeah, of course.
- She's not feeling unwell?

No, she's fine.

She knows you married
for housing, too?

Yeah, of...

The monthly rent is $250.

Hey, you can't find a room
that cheap these days.

Soo-ji, that...

Two years later, if you're okay
with it, can I go in next,

as your husband's next bride?

- Hey!
- What?

You're the one who did it.

Goodness, crazy girl.

You crazy punk.

Still. No matter what
the case, how? Marriage?

Well, human beings
have various ways

of living their lives.

But how, for a home?
For rent, of all things?

For a home, you say?

For such a mere thing as rent?

But that "home" is so important.

Money…

can be such a scary thing.

To me, it was just a spare room
that I had.

But to her, it was a room that she
really needed. A desperate space.

So I just shared it
using a suitable system.

Well, I also needed the money.

When you saw Ji-ho,

you thought of her?

I'm sorry I couldn't tell you
that it was a fake marriage.

Of course, you wouldn't
be able to tell me.

How could you tell anyone?

And why are you sorry to me?

You're the one who has it tough.

Are you really okay?

Yeah. This is what I chose.

For me, it always take me
a while to make the decision,

but once I choose, you
know I don't usually regret it.

But it doesn't seem
like simple business.

This marriage, to you I feel it's
not just some work transaction.

Ji-ho, your husband, no...

I mean, your landlord,
you like him.

There's someone I like.

- What are you saying?
- Huh? Who?

My husband.

I don't think you liked him
from the beginning.

Did you start to like him
while living with him?

No, that's not it.

Maybe I liked him
from the beginning?

I don't know when, exactly.

What about him?

Does he like you, too?

No.

He doesn't know

that I like him.

Even a heart should
have a path to it.

If there's a path,

that path clearly should
have a starting point.

Rang!

Rang!

Ta-da!

Oh, you made it?

Wow, I'll deposit it
right away too. $500.

Seok, let's really put in $500
each a month as we promised.

We will save up diligently,
and when we move out

in three years, let's find
a better place. Okay?

Okay.

But we've got $1,000
in there already!

At this point, we could end up
buying a house with a yard.

I prefer an apartment.

If you want an apartment…

Okay, apartment it is!

I finally feel at ease.

Even now isn't too soon if you
want to have kids and raise them.

So you can't make my
Ho-rang suffer, okay?

Yes, ma'am.

Your present for getting a job.

Work hard and for a
long time at the company.

Don't ever think about developing
something by yourself again. Okay?

Yes. Thank you for this.

Alright.

If there's a place
where emotions start,

then clearly somewhere

there must be a place
for them to meet.

Rang, are you asleep?

You came?

You're late.

You smell like soju.

I drank a little.

Rang, should we go on
a date this weekend?

Date?

Yep, a date.

It's been a while since we've
gone out, eaten delicious food,

and watched a movie.

Didn't you say there was a play
that you wanted to see?

I'll reserve the tickets.

Okay. Let's do that.

Okay. Let's do that.

At the place where
our hearts meet,

will it be possible
to start on another path?

But the thing I'm most afraid of

isn't that your path
and mine are different

or that our paths will never meet.

It's that to your heart…

I spoke with CEO Ma.

I'll sleep first.

there is no path at all.

There might not be
a way to your heart

in the first place.
That's what I'm afraid of.

I received the address.

I will go make kimchi and return.

But for now,

I can't do anything about it.

Even if I don't know
the path to his heart,

he knows the path to go
make kimchi. And this man...

I've ended up liking him.

For now,

that is enough.

Oh, is that all?
On kimchi-making day,

will just a few bottles
of rice wine be enough?

You need to buy
a big barrel of it. Yes!

Okay, got it.

Ji-seok will be here
with his wife soon.

Is making kimchi
some national event?

How can you tell your pregnant
daughter-in-law to come?

When did Ji-ho say
she will be here?

When would Ji-ho have
the time to be doing this?

She's busy trying to
make a living in Seoul.

She's a stay-at-home wife,
why would she be busy?

And shouldn't she learn how to
make kimchi since she is married?

Really! Well...

Ji-ho, what's going on?

What? Who's coming here?

Yeah, later to help you.

How can you come
here during a weekday?

No, I can't go.

Wait, and he'll arrive soon.

Who are you saying is coming here?

It's cold, close the window!

You've deviated
from the original course.

- What?
- Your in-law's home is not this way.

Rerouting.

Goodness, you sure prepare a lot.

Why did you buy 100 heads
of cabbage, anyway?

You don't even have enough
workers to go through it all!

Oh, don't worry.

It'll be done by the
time your husbands

come by to eat pork wraps.

But did Ji-ho say
she's not coming?

- Ji-ho?
- Yes.

Right,

she said someone else
was coming instead.

Who?

- Excuse...
- Not sure, she told me to wait.

Excuse me!

Hello.

Oh, Se-hee?

How come you're here?

- Yes.
- He's Ji-ho's husband!

- He's good-looking.
- Very good-looking.

He looks fine.

- Maybe he should be your groom.
- Sounds good to me!

Gosh, just work already.

The neighborhood became brighter!

I came to help with making kimchi.

Then when she said
someone was coming…

- Yes, it was me.
- Who's here?

Oh, our son-in-law! Wow!

Right, what brings you here?

I came to make kimchi.

Make kimchi?

Yes.

Good that you came. Come right in.

Come in. Once the kimchi
is made, let's eat pork wraps.

- Sit.
- No,

I didn't come to eat pork wraps,
but to help make kimchi.

I must make kimchi.

Truthfully, Ji-ho helped
with the ancestral rites at

my parents' house a few days ago.
So we settled on exchanging

the same amount
of labor and effort.

What nonsense is that?

It's expected for the daughter-in-law
to help prepare the rites!

Did she? Ancestral rites?

Yes.

Don't speak nonsense and sit!

Have a drink with me.

Can you make kimchi
wearing those clothes?

If you're going to do it,
you need to change first.

Shall I give you my work clothes?

Yes, I would be grateful
if you gave them to me.

Okay.

I arrived safely.

I will start to make kimchi now.

Anything the matter?

Nope.

It's Soo-ji.

She's pretty today too.

Totally my style.

What?

Nothing, you very quickly change

who your style is.

You used to tell me
I was so pretty.

I just thought you
were a little cute.

You're not my style originally.

What? He went to make kimchi?

Yes.

Wow, you're something else,

but your landlord husband
is the real piece of work.

Well, that's probably why you
two made a contract like that.

What if he gets so fatigued that
he can't even come back?

Your mom probably bought at
least 100 heads of cabbage, right?

Nah, my family would not make
their son-in-law work that hard.

He'll probably eat some
pork wraps and come back.

You already know she won't
really make him make kimchi.

- Put that in here.
- Wash this.

- More cabbages.
- Here.

How come you're so weak?

Pull it!

My goodness.

Put it over there.

- Pretty stressful, huh?
- Yes.

These have been soaked in brine,
so they're really salty.

- Soaked in brine?
- That's right.

Then, without letting the
other seasonings touch them,

swish them several times
in plain water,

shake off the water,
and put them in there,

and it's done. Understand?

Do this in plain water,

after the water drips off,

put it... in there?

Yeah, try it.

Don't do it limply like that.

With energy, like this, like this.

Yes, energy.

What will you do, when
your son-in-law is so weak?

If he keeps this up, would you
ever even see your grandchild?

Goodness, don't you know
that the skinny ones

are better at those things?

Be quiet.

Watch what you say
in front of my son-in-law.

Oh my, please
swipe it one more time.

You want me to... swipe it?

No, like this.
She wants you to wipe it.

Ah, yes. Like this.

I mean, just one more time,

rinse it. With energy.

Oh, what will we do with him?

Why are you beating my
son-in-law on his back like that?

Huh? What is this?

He's really making kimchi.

What is this?
Why are they hitting him?

Gosh, seriously!
This lady must be crazy.

I'd like to order, please.

Yes.

I'll take the order, you can go.

- Go where?
- To your husband.

If you're so worried
about him, hurry and go.

Instead, come in and work all
weekend and cover my shifts, okay?

Oh my, like this,
we will be working all night.

Do it a little better, like this.

Huh?

Huh?

Se-hee!

- Yes!
- Come and squeeze these cabbages.

Why's he squatting
there next to the fire?

Wow, Se-hee really came
to make kimchi, huh?

He is truly weird.

Squeeze it well.

I put food in Kitty's bowl...

but where is she?

Kitty? Kitty?

You were here?

You're here?

When did you come in here?

Oh my, you caused trouble, huh?

Oh, I really wanted
to read this book.

It would be all right if
I borrowed this, right?

I'll read it with great care and
make sure to return it, okay?

So this book was a gift
from someone.

That's enough now.
You can go inside.

No, there is still time left
before I fulfill my promise.

Since I took leave from
work today, I have to finish it.

Se-hee, are you all right?

Yes.

Sis!

What's up? You were screaming
and throwing fits last night.

What is this?

Are you going to shut down your app
and start selling underwear?

I bought the most comfortable
design from all the brands around.

At least one of them should fit you.

So just try it, please.

If it's still uncomfortable,
I will do whatever I can

to find another one for you.

Something that you
find comfortable.

If it felt like I was giving you
pressure or that I was butting in,

I am really sorry.
I'll do my best to fix that.

But please be a little more
considerate towards me.

And to be honest,
I can dislike it.

That someone would
continue to stare at my woman,

and think impure thoughts,

I can dislike that.

All right. I am sorry for only
thinking of it as you butting in.

And so you just turn
off your phone?

Think about how anxious
that would make me feel!

I turned it off because
of a work meeting.

Wait just one hour.
Then let's have dinner together.

- Dinner?
- Stay in this area, okay?

Damn, I'm so happy I can die.

Thank you.

Are you all right?

Your shoulders and your
back, how do you feel?

Well, it aches a little, but I'm

sure it will be fine
in a little while.

No, before it gets worse,
I'll go to the pharmacy

and buy some medicine
and pain relief patches.

Ji-ho.

Why did you come here?

What about your job at the cafe?

Ah, I took care of it,
so there won't be problems.

You don't have to worry.

Did you come...

because you were worried about me?

Yes.

I see.

I was very glad to see you
when you came.

Thank you.

Someone is coming to visit…

is a tremendous thing.

That person's past, his present,

and his future

are all coming along with him.

Because his entire life
is coming with him.

Because it is fragile,

it may have already
been broken before...

that heart of his is coming.

To your heart

what path is there?

I was curious.

And the moment
I learned of the path…

the reason my heart hurt so much

was not because of jealousy

or despair.

Twelve years ago,
on this very same day…

I dreamed of love…

and you...

ended your love.

That truth..

made me a bit sad.

All right, drink up!

Oh my, my son-in-law.
You worked hard today.

Accept a drink from me.

Have you seen such
a son-in-law anywhere?

A son-in-law who comes
all this way to his

in-laws' home to help
make kimchi?

Oh my, you must be so
henpecked by your wife.

How can a man come to his in-laws'
home to make kimchi?

Henpecked? Goodness, no.

If a man has a pretty bride,

he would even bow to a
wooden post, they say.

So think about how
pretty our Ji-ho is,

that he would do this for her.

Oh my, look at her,
boasting about her daughter!

Is that right?
You came all this way

because she's
so pretty to you?

Hurry and answer me!

Yes. She is so pretty.

Yes, you are right.

Goodness, I like you, boy.

Accept another drink from me.

Uh... I already have some.

What are you doing?
You should empty that quickly

and accept a drink from me!

Yes.

Drink it.

Drink it!

Yes.

Drink it!

Se-hee! Come here please!

- Yes!
- Come here please!

- Is it urgent?
- Yes, yes, yes!

All right, let's drink up.

Are you all right?
You drank a lot.

I wouldn't say I'm alright.

I am not.

I'm only a few more
drinks away from my limit.

Where did this house's
son-in-law go?

Hurry! Hurry!

If you get caught by that man,
then there's no way out.

If you just drink what he
gives you, then you will die.

You should have given me that

important information
ahead of time.

What about Ji-ho?
Did she go somewhere?

Ah! She went to buy medicine for
me and she still hasn't come back.

Then don't come right home.
Go and take a walk.

That's right. Call her
and enjoy a date together.

Okay.

Let's go.

Do you know this is the first time
that we are eating together?

Is that so?

We ate together that last time,
before we went elsewhere.

Ate what?

We just drank rice wine.
You were the one

who drank six bottles
and got drunk. Goodness.

Rice wine is rice, so isn't
that considered eating?

From now on,
let's eat together like this

at least three times a week.
That's an order.

Why whine about eating?

You know how important
a meal is, right?

Do you think people say
stuff like "rice strength"

and "rice affection"
for nothing?

There's nothing like a meal
to nourish mutual attachment.

Well...

That's why Ji-ho fell.

Huh? Where would Ji-ho fall?

That...

Ji-ho fell for her landlord.

My friend likes your friend.

Don't tell your friend.

It seems like it's only one-sided.

Is it really one-sided?

What?

Would Se-hee really not know

that Ji-ho likes him?

Ji-ho!

Ji-ho!

Ji-ho!

That Ji-ho likes him?

Then what about Se-hee?

What does he feel towards Ji-ho?

This place tastes good.
It must be fresh rice.

Jeez! Ji-ho's been
single her whole life!

She doesn't know anything!

I'm so worried.

Se-hee must be scared
since he knows.

Since he knows what love is...

maybe Se-hee could be
more scared because of it?

You should have
declined the rice wine.

Someone who is usually
good at declining things,

why can't you, in that situation?

Why?

This must be how you felt.

When I asked why you went to
my family's memorial service.

This regrettable feeling.

It's nice, the sea.

It's been a long time.

Me too. The sea...

it's my first time.

Besides my family and friends,

coming to see the beach
with someone else.

With a man...

It's my first time seeing it.

Unexpectedly, you have a
lot of things you haven't done.

That's right.

I was constantly busy in my 20s.

That's why I...

have a lot of things
I haven't done yet.

That's why I also have a
lot of things I don't know.

I...

liked a poem when I was in my 20s.

In that poem, it says this.

When a person comes,

that person's entire life
comes with him.

It's fragile, so it may
have already been broken,

that heart has come.

When I liked that poem,

I didn't know what it meant.

When I found out what it meant,

I could no longer enjoy that poem.

Once you know something,

there are many things you
can no longer do. That is life.

That's why I...

am envious of you, Ji-ho.

Not knowing..

is a good thing.

That's why,

don't worry too much.

The same goes for you, Se-hee.

Even if it's the same ocean
that I saw before,

today, this ocean,
it's the first time for me.

Even things that I know,
things that I have done,

in that moment, with that person,
it's the first time.

Us... just like our marriage.

Like the kiss at the bus stop.

The things that happen
after that moment...

I think they're not anyone's fault.

They just...

happened like that.

Like how some waves just flow by,

and some waves break.

It just happens. That's why,

Se-hee, you too,

shouldn't worry too much.

Just because you
have lived yesterday,

it doesn't mean

that you know
everything about today.

A person coming

is in fact a tremendous thing.

It is because one person's

entire life is coming with them.

Because it is fragile,

and so

it may have been broken before

that heart

comes.

Now I understand why
people come to see the ocean

when they are frustrated.

Here, you are able to
meet your own feelings.

Pardon?

But you know,

there is something I've been
wanting to correct for a while.

What you did at the bus stop
was not a kiss. It was a peck.

Ah...

Did you really have to…

Yes.

The truth is,
you can't even call it a peck.

If one had to
define it accurately,

it was just skin-to-skin contact,
which just happened to be of lips.

Yes, that would be
an accurate definition.

Yes. I understand.

You can't call that a kiss.

That is not how you do a kiss.

I get it, I said.
I didn't do it well.

Yes. That's what I am saying.

A kiss...

is done like this.

Now... do you understand better?

If not...

do you need to know more?

More... I want to know more.

Because it is fragile

that's why it may have
been broken before,

that heart of his...

came to me.

All the romance cells in
my body have woken up.

This woman is pretty.

You don't want to do it
with your landlord?

You live in the same house,
doesn't your body...

Go and shower first.

Why did I do that? Why?

In a day how many times

do I think about kissing?
You inexperienced girl!

About our wedding, can
you wait a little bit longer?

I am just curious about
my girlfriend's house.

You came?

These days, what do
people do when on a date?

- Oh?
- Oh?

I... am scared of myself,

in case I might
hurt someone again.