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Here you go, baby.
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Oh, thank you.
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- Oh, you're welcome.
- Oh, this looks great.
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Cheers.
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Cheers to you.
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Mm.
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Oh yeah, nice.
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Today was such
a beautiful day.
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We're so blessed with
our beautiful family.
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We are.
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Oh, which reminds me, I
have something for you.
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- You do?
- Yeah.
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- What is it?
- Ah!
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Hey!
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What is it?
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Something corny.
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No, it's a, it's a bunch of our
family photos, my favorites.
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I mean, I've made you a
playlist a thousand times.
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I just thought I'd do
something different for you.
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This is so sweet, I love it.
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Aw, you wanna look at it?
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- Yes.
- Come on.
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- Let's watch it.
- Come on.
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- Oh.
- I'll show you.
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Better there?
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It's so nice.
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Start like this.
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Oh my God.
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These are so great!
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Look at
this, look at this.
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Oh.
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Look at this one.
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Wait, this one's one
of my favorites, right?
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Oh, wow.
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Oh my God.
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Look at your hair.
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Look at my hair!
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Ooh, ooh.
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Awesome!
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Oh my God.
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- Look at you.
- Oh.
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Aw, aw, look at him.
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- Oh, babe.
- Wow.
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Maybe not my best look.
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Aw.
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Look, you're always traveling.
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I just wanted you to know
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that we're always
with you, alright?
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I love it.
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Good, I'm glad.
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Thank you.
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You're welcome.
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Oh my gosh.
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Look at this.
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This is amazing!
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Look at the mess here.
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This is so sweet!
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I'm glad you like it.
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Mm, smells good.
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Mm, it does.
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Are you doing
this salad tomorrow?
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Nope, it's already done.
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Oh, wow.
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You do know what
time it is, don't you?
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Oh, no, no, no, no, no.
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It's time for
the dance!
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You are so silly.
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Stop that.
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Just because you're some
big time music executive,
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doesn't mean you
can make me dance.
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Oh, but I can.
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Oh.
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I love you Abby Thompson.
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And I love you,
Daniel Thompson.
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- Mm, oh, this is great!
- Nice.
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- You guys are gonna love it.
- Ooh.
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Oh yeah, look at this.
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Thank you.
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You're welcome,
you're welcome.
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Alright.
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- That looks so good.
- That looks great.
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Who wants to say grace?
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You know, I'd like
to say it tonight.
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Alright.
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Dear heavenly Father,
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we thank you for the
blessings bestowed upon us,
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for the food before us,
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for the roof above us,
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for our family together,
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and for all the love
we share between us.
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Amen.
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Amen.
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That was beautiful, Mom.
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Thank you.
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It was a beautiful day.
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You're beautiful.
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Uh, thank you, Jay.
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Is there something
you want, Jay?
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No, I mean it.
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I do not want anything.
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Mm hmm.
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Well, unless I
can get something.
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We already have
everything we need.
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Oh, which reminds me.
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Mm hmm?
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Time you leaving for
your trip tomorrow?
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Oh, that's right,
I still have to pack.
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I'm gonna get on the road
at eight tomorrow morning.
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Mm, yikes, you're gonna
hit a lot of city traffic.
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I know.
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How long are
you gonna be gone this time?
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Ah, should just be overnight.
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One meeting, a
couple of signatures,
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and then I'll be headed home.
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Good, I want you to
be here for the dance.
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Oh, I wouldn't miss
it for the world.
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I would, unless I
could be the photographer?
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Jay, when you
get to high school,
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you can be on the
school paper like me,
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and you can be the photographer.
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Great.
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There you go.
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That's it.
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Eat up, guys.
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This looks great.
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Mm, glad you like it.
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Mm, oh, the
macaroni's good.
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- It's very good.
- Good, it is.
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Are you
Daniel Thompson?
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Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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What do you need?
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Sir, there's
been an accident.
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Okay.
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Your wife.
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Whoa, wait, wait,
wait, wait, Abby?
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Mom?
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Wait, wait, yeah, is
she alright, where is she?
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I'm sorry, sir.
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She was in an accident,
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and she was killed on impact.
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What?
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You're lying!
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No!
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Sir, I'm sorry.
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No.
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We found all her
belongings in the car.
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We're gonna need you to
come down and identify her.
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Abby, no, no.
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I need you to come down,
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and call me on your way,
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and I'll meet you there, okay?
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Okay.
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Here's my card.
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Alright.
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I'm sorry again.
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- Abby.
- Mommy.
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- No.
- Mommy.
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Jay, are you okay?
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No.
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Okay, it's gonna be okay.
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You gotta just take
it one day at a time.
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Where's my mom?
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She was so good.
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She loved us.
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I don't know, Josh.
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I don't think there's a God.
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Why would he do this?
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I don't think God did this.
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Okay, this was a
drunk driver, Josh.
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An accident.
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But she didn't have to die.
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Do you think there's a God?
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I don't know what
to think right now.
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I just miss Mom.
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Beautiful.
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You think so?
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My baby girl's all grown up!
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I just miss Mom.
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I do too.
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I know, I know.
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Daniel, I'm so sorry
about what happened.
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She was a beautiful person.
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We all loved her.
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Thank you.
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I'm so sorry.
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Oh, thank you so
much for coming.
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Brandon, please say
hi to the family.
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Thank you.
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The church is there for you,
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your family is there for
you, I'm there for you.
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I know.
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Did you know I
brought your kids back
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from the church?
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Thanks.
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Nice to see you, Jack.
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Jack?
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Hey, hey, Pop?
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Oh, pastor, it was
a beautiful service.
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Well, thank you.
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I'm glad you liked it, Jack.
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You guys wanna go with
me and greet the guests?
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I do.
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We can't, Jay.
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Sorry, Grandpa,
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our dad needs us.
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Okay, but if you
wanna get away,
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I have a getaway car outside.
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If you kids feel you wanna
get away, let me know, okay?
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I'm sure they'll take
you up on the offer.
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- Thank you.
- Thanks, Pop.
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How are you two doing?
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We're not good.
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Lindsey, do you
know Pastor John?
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He runs the youth
group at the church.
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Yeah, I've met him.
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Pastor John runs a grief
support group as well.
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Lindsey, please, we
would like you to join
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our grief support group
when you're ready.
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Jay, you can come too.
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Thanks, pastor.
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I'm not ready yet.
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I know, I know.
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When you are, we're
there for you.
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Thanks, pastor, really.
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And the church is
there for you too,
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and we'll always
be there for you.
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You've been
a lifelong friend.
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We appreciate it, alright?
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Thank you, thank you.
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Alright.
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God bless.
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God bless you.
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Hey, how're you doing?
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Oh, God.
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Oh, God, I'm gonna be late!
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Where is it?
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I thought it was...
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Mom, I can't do
this without you.
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God, why would you
take her away from me?
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Why?
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Hey?
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Is everything alright?
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No, nothing is alright!
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Why can't you understand that?
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I think I might be able to.
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No, you can't, because I'm 16.
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I should still have my Mom!
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Hey, hey!
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Have you forgotten that
your mother was my wife?
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I lost her too!
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I lost her!
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I'm sorry.
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Oh God.
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- I'm sorry, Dad, I didn't...
- No, no, no, no.
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- Oh, no, no, no, no, no.
- I'm sorry, Dad.
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- I'm sorry.
- I'm sorry, I'm sorry.
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I'm sorry.
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Look, we're all going
through this, alright?
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We all lost her.
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Lindsey, look, do you
remember that group
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the pastor was talking about?
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No, please,
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- that's not gonna help.
- No, no, no.
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No, it's not gonna help.
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It won't bring Mom back.
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No, but it can't hurt either.
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Look, no, listen,
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your heart is so pained,
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your mother would never
want you to feel this way.
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Please, just go for me.
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Just go, please,
just once, just once.
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- Please, okay?
- Fine.
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But I wanna do this on my own.
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00:11:03,757 --> 00:11:04,556
Okay.
276
00:11:07,126 --> 00:11:08,762
Let me drive, okay?
277
00:11:10,996 --> 00:11:11,964
- Okay.
- Come on.
278
00:11:27,846 --> 00:11:29,615
How's your
week been, Ava?
279
00:11:29,649 --> 00:11:30,416
Good.
280
00:11:30,449 --> 00:11:31,685
That's good.
281
00:11:31,718 --> 00:11:33,152
We're glad to see
you back again.
282
00:11:33,185 --> 00:11:34,486
Yeah, it's been a, it's
been a wonderful week.
283
00:11:34,520 --> 00:11:36,221
We had a lot going
on with the church.
284
00:11:36,255 --> 00:11:37,956
And, yeah, so we're very excited
285
00:11:37,990 --> 00:11:40,760
to have those special activity
things lined up as well,
286
00:11:40,794 --> 00:11:42,696
so it's always fun with them.
287
00:11:42,729 --> 00:11:43,829
Ricky, how've you
been this week?
288
00:11:43,862 --> 00:11:45,431
For those of you
just joining us,
289
00:11:45,464 --> 00:11:47,032
I'd like to tell you a
bit about what we do here
290
00:11:47,066 --> 00:11:48,668
in the group.
291
00:11:48,702 --> 00:11:52,739
Our grief support group is a
place of healing and of hope.
292
00:11:52,772 --> 00:11:54,741
We like to remember our
loved ones out loud.
293
00:11:54,774 --> 00:11:57,843
We share stories, we share
memories good and bad,
294
00:11:57,876 --> 00:11:59,912
but more importantly,
we support each other
295
00:11:59,945 --> 00:12:01,781
through the sadness of loss,
296
00:12:01,815 --> 00:12:04,283
and we move into the
comfort of knowing
297
00:12:04,316 --> 00:12:08,220
that they remain in our hearts
and our memories forever.
298
00:12:09,388 --> 00:12:10,956
Now, I'd like to
have our new members
299
00:12:10,989 --> 00:12:12,124
go ahead and
introduce themselves,
300
00:12:12,157 --> 00:12:13,793
then we'll share some stories.
301
00:12:15,060 --> 00:12:17,396
Would you like to go first?
302
00:12:18,897 --> 00:12:21,200
Hi, I'm Lindsey.
303
00:12:21,233 --> 00:12:23,535
I lost my mom a few months ago.
304
00:12:25,604 --> 00:12:26,405
Hi, Lindsey.
305
00:12:26,438 --> 00:12:27,774
We're happy to meet you.
306
00:12:27,807 --> 00:12:29,174
Thank you for being here.
307
00:12:29,208 --> 00:12:30,576
And how about you?
308
00:12:31,678 --> 00:12:34,748
Hi, I'm, I'm Andrew.
309
00:12:34,781 --> 00:12:37,449
I lost my brother in a car
accident about a year ago,
310
00:12:37,483 --> 00:12:40,586
and things haven't
really gotten better,
311
00:12:40,619 --> 00:12:43,055
so my mom recommended I
come to a support group.
312
00:12:44,123 --> 00:12:45,725
Well, thank you, Andrew.
313
00:12:45,759 --> 00:12:47,694
At the very least, we hope you
can find some comfort here,
314
00:12:47,727 --> 00:12:49,261
and know you're not alone.
315
00:12:49,294 --> 00:12:50,864
Thank you.
316
00:12:50,896 --> 00:12:53,767
So, would anyone like to
begin by sharing a story?
317
00:12:54,868 --> 00:12:56,235
I'd like to share
my story, John.
318
00:12:56,268 --> 00:12:57,569
Oh, Ava, please.
319
00:12:59,773 --> 00:13:03,108
My husband and I were trying
to have a baby for so long.
320
00:13:04,376 --> 00:13:06,880
We thought after IVF and
for trying for so long
321
00:13:06,912 --> 00:13:08,380
that it would never happen,
322
00:13:09,883 --> 00:13:11,885
but we were happy because
we knew that we had options.
323
00:13:14,620 --> 00:13:19,626
One night we went to a restaurant
with my husband's boss.
324
00:13:20,959 --> 00:13:23,128
It was this restaurant
on the top of a building,
325
00:13:23,162 --> 00:13:24,430
really high up.
326
00:13:24,463 --> 00:13:25,899
Now, I don't do heights,
327
00:13:25,931 --> 00:13:28,635
so I got really sick.
328
00:13:29,601 --> 00:13:31,036
It was so embarrassing.
329
00:13:33,840 --> 00:13:36,776
The next night I was still sick.
330
00:13:36,810 --> 00:13:39,813
I mean, every smell, just about
anything made me feel sick.
331
00:13:41,580 --> 00:13:43,215
He knew I was pregnant,
332
00:13:43,248 --> 00:13:46,552
but I was like, "No,
I mean, it can't be."
333
00:13:46,585 --> 00:13:48,220
He went out, he
bought me a test,
334
00:13:48,253 --> 00:13:50,589
and it turns out he was
right, I was pregnant.
335
00:13:52,257 --> 00:13:53,927
We were so happy.
336
00:13:56,128 --> 00:13:58,263
I mean, it was probably one
of the second best moments
337
00:13:58,297 --> 00:13:59,131
of our lives.
338
00:14:00,566 --> 00:14:03,435
Our first was when
our baby boy was born.
339
00:14:04,637 --> 00:14:06,004
It was pure joy.
340
00:14:07,707 --> 00:14:08,942
Our family was complete.
341
00:14:13,111 --> 00:14:17,149
A week later, he went
on a business trip,
342
00:14:17,182 --> 00:14:20,552
and the plane crashed,
343
00:14:20,586 --> 00:14:21,688
and he didn't make it.
344
00:14:25,357 --> 00:14:27,326
But he got to meet Ryan Junior.
345
00:14:29,428 --> 00:14:31,931
Ava, thank you so
much for sharing that story.
346
00:14:31,965 --> 00:14:32,799
You're welcome.
347
00:14:34,600 --> 00:14:39,605
It's hard, but I realized
through the process of healing,
348
00:14:43,141 --> 00:14:46,178
there are more good memories
than there could ever be bad.
349
00:14:50,215 --> 00:14:54,353
I just wish that I could
hear him again, or see him.
350
00:14:57,657 --> 00:14:58,457
Thank you.
351
00:15:02,361 --> 00:15:05,364
Would any of our new members
like to share a story?
352
00:15:09,769 --> 00:15:10,770
I'm not ready yet.
353
00:15:11,838 --> 00:15:12,672
That's okay.
354
00:15:13,773 --> 00:15:15,574
When you're ready,
we'll be here.
355
00:15:15,607 --> 00:15:17,276
You know, remembering
our loved ones out loud
356
00:15:17,309 --> 00:15:20,245
is greatly helpful.
357
00:15:21,346 --> 00:15:22,982
It keeps them in our hearts.
358
00:15:24,383 --> 00:15:26,986
Andrew, would you like to share?
359
00:15:27,987 --> 00:15:29,889
I guess, yeah, yeah.
360
00:15:29,923 --> 00:15:30,723
Yeah, I'll go.
361
00:15:32,357 --> 00:15:35,294
But it's kind of hard to
remember things right now.
362
00:15:38,263 --> 00:15:42,534
No good memories, no bad
ones, just, it just all sucks.
363
00:15:45,103 --> 00:15:48,473
You know, I was in that car
accident where my brother died.
364
00:15:50,175 --> 00:15:51,711
Why not me?
365
00:15:51,744 --> 00:15:53,846
What makes me so special?
366
00:15:53,880 --> 00:15:54,681
He was my brother.
367
00:15:54,714 --> 00:15:55,480
He was my twin.
368
00:15:55,514 --> 00:15:56,683
He was a part of me.
369
00:16:00,053 --> 00:16:02,021
We were supposed to
travel the world together,
370
00:16:02,055 --> 00:16:03,455
and now it's just me,
371
00:16:05,290 --> 00:16:06,926
and that ain't right.
372
00:16:09,062 --> 00:16:12,031
Andrew, it's,
it's not just you.
373
00:16:12,065 --> 00:16:14,499
You know, he's
still part of you,
374
00:16:14,533 --> 00:16:16,401
and remembering him
is gonna help you.
375
00:16:18,938 --> 00:16:20,039
Thank you for sharing.
376
00:16:21,139 --> 00:16:22,574
Pastor John?
377
00:16:22,608 --> 00:16:24,276
Yes, Lindsey.
378
00:16:24,309 --> 00:16:26,713
Could I tell a little
about my mom, maybe?
379
00:16:26,746 --> 00:16:28,113
Yes, I think we'd love that.
380
00:16:30,750 --> 00:16:32,150
My last memory of her,
381
00:16:32,184 --> 00:16:33,886
she was helping me
pick out my dress
382
00:16:33,920 --> 00:16:35,487
for my first school dance.
383
00:16:38,256 --> 00:16:41,094
My mom was so sweet,
always loving.
384
00:16:43,730 --> 00:16:46,633
Her dream was to be there
for me at my wedding,
385
00:16:51,136 --> 00:16:53,138
but now she won't be able to.
386
00:16:58,811 --> 00:17:00,880
I'm sorry, I can't
talk about this yet.
387
00:17:01,814 --> 00:17:02,715
And that's okay.
388
00:17:02,749 --> 00:17:04,349
Thank you so much for sharing.
389
00:17:04,383 --> 00:17:06,119
You know, the healing
process takes time.
390
00:17:06,151 --> 00:17:09,488
And Lindsey, when you're
ready, we'll be here to listen.
391
00:17:12,157 --> 00:17:15,061
Well, I think that's a
good place to leave it.
392
00:17:15,094 --> 00:17:17,830
We do have some flyers
over on the table there.
393
00:17:17,864 --> 00:17:20,833
It has some fun activities
to help the healing process.
394
00:17:20,867 --> 00:17:22,467
And before we go,
395
00:17:22,501 --> 00:17:25,504
I'd like you do a
little bit of homework
396
00:17:25,537 --> 00:17:27,172
for this, this next week.
397
00:17:27,205 --> 00:17:30,242
Now, before you look at me
like that, it's nothing hard.
398
00:17:30,275 --> 00:17:33,211
I'd like you to talk to a
relative or a mutual friend,
399
00:17:33,245 --> 00:17:37,016
and have them share a
good memory with you.
400
00:17:37,050 --> 00:17:37,950
I'd like you to write it down,
401
00:17:37,984 --> 00:17:40,153
and if you feel comfortable,
402
00:17:40,185 --> 00:17:41,988
share it when you
come back next week,
403
00:17:42,021 --> 00:17:43,756
and we'll start on
our memory books.
404
00:17:45,257 --> 00:17:47,026
Alright?
405
00:17:47,060 --> 00:17:48,393
Thanks again for
coming everybody.
406
00:17:48,427 --> 00:17:50,863
Remember, there are some
flyers over by the coffee,
407
00:17:50,897 --> 00:17:52,131
that have some
recommended reading.
408
00:17:52,165 --> 00:17:54,167
As always, if you need
to talk to me at all,
409
00:17:55,168 --> 00:17:56,535
feel free to come find me.
410
00:17:57,837 --> 00:17:58,738
Have a wonderful week.
411
00:18:04,576 --> 00:18:07,013
Chocolate chip was
Matthew's favorite cookie.
412
00:18:09,749 --> 00:18:12,284
Hey, I'm sorry
about your brother.
413
00:18:12,317 --> 00:18:13,186
Thanks.
414
00:18:14,219 --> 00:18:16,189
Sorry about your mother too.
415
00:18:16,221 --> 00:18:19,158
Guess we all gotta lose
someone at some point.
416
00:18:19,192 --> 00:18:21,393
Yeah, but it
doesn't feel fair.
417
00:18:21,426 --> 00:18:22,260
I know.
418
00:18:24,030 --> 00:18:26,199
Were you close
to your brother?
419
00:18:26,231 --> 00:18:29,601
Yeah, we were pretty
much like the same person.
420
00:18:31,204 --> 00:18:33,706
We even had our own way
of talking to each other.
421
00:18:33,740 --> 00:18:35,208
Yeah, I've heard that,
422
00:18:35,240 --> 00:18:37,210
that twins can have their
own secret language.
423
00:18:37,242 --> 00:18:38,978
That's actually really cool.
424
00:18:39,011 --> 00:18:41,214
Yeah, yeah, guess so.
425
00:18:42,280 --> 00:18:44,751
Well, I gotta go,
my dad's waiting.
426
00:18:44,784 --> 00:18:47,053
But it was nice to meet you.
427
00:18:47,086 --> 00:18:50,255
Hey, I hope you come back.
428
00:18:52,692 --> 00:18:53,525
I think I will.
429
00:18:59,799 --> 00:19:02,735
Ugh, it's
a hot day today, man.
430
00:19:02,769 --> 00:19:04,203
Hey, you alright?
431
00:19:08,241 --> 00:19:10,143
No, seriously, you okay?
432
00:19:10,176 --> 00:19:15,148
I don't know.
433
00:19:16,215 --> 00:19:17,549
What's wrong?
434
00:19:18,517 --> 00:19:19,719
I don't know.
435
00:19:19,752 --> 00:19:21,586
Alright, you
wanna talk about it?
436
00:19:21,620 --> 00:19:23,189
Why?
437
00:19:23,222 --> 00:19:24,257
It won't bring Mom back!
438
00:19:25,557 --> 00:19:28,995
No, but it's nice
to remember her.
439
00:19:30,295 --> 00:19:32,999
Lindsey says Mom is living
in heaven now with God.
440
00:19:33,032 --> 00:19:34,867
I just wish I could
talk to her, Dad.
441
00:19:34,901 --> 00:19:38,237
It would be so nice if
a text or phone call
442
00:19:38,271 --> 00:19:40,405
could reach all the
way up to heaven.
443
00:19:40,438 --> 00:19:41,274
I know.
444
00:19:42,642 --> 00:19:44,442
Look, I knew someone that
wrote a message in a-
445
00:19:44,476 --> 00:19:46,646
- I don't want that, I want Mom!
446
00:19:46,679 --> 00:19:48,815
I want Mom too, okay?
447
00:19:48,848 --> 00:19:50,683
I'm sorry things have changed.
448
00:19:51,951 --> 00:19:54,220
Dad, I don't wanna hike today.
449
00:19:54,253 --> 00:19:55,420
I just wanna go back home.
450
00:19:56,289 --> 00:19:58,191
Right, you don't wanna hike?
451
00:19:58,224 --> 00:19:59,424
You just wanna go home?
452
00:19:59,457 --> 00:20:00,893
Yeah.
453
00:20:00,927 --> 00:20:02,261
Watch a movie with me?
454
00:20:02,295 --> 00:20:03,296
Sure.
455
00:20:04,297 --> 00:20:05,765
It's hot anyway, right?
456
00:20:05,798 --> 00:20:06,966
Come on, come on.
457
00:20:32,424 --> 00:20:34,392
I'm having a real
hard time here, Abby.
458
00:20:40,565 --> 00:20:42,068
The kids are so sad.
459
00:20:44,337 --> 00:20:46,339
I'm just trying to
make them feel loved.
460
00:20:54,146 --> 00:20:57,884
Just don't laugh at me if
I start to cry.
461
00:20:59,318 --> 00:21:00,686
You know, I remember
you saying once
462
00:21:00,720 --> 00:21:03,189
that real men do cry.
463
00:21:06,359 --> 00:21:07,727
Well, this man cries for you.
464
00:21:09,862 --> 00:21:10,663
I love you, Abby.
465
00:21:28,446 --> 00:21:30,116
Oh, man.
466
00:21:30,149 --> 00:21:32,385
Those cookies smell great.
467
00:21:32,417 --> 00:21:34,387
If it's cookies,
you know it's for me.
468
00:21:34,419 --> 00:21:35,420
Every kid loves cookies.
469
00:21:35,453 --> 00:21:37,489
Dad, it's for group.
470
00:21:37,522 --> 00:21:38,357
Oh.
471
00:21:38,391 --> 00:21:39,926
Can we just have one?
472
00:21:39,959 --> 00:21:41,193
Just one?
473
00:21:41,227 --> 00:21:43,863
Not unless you come
to group with me.
474
00:21:43,896 --> 00:21:44,664
Good luck.
475
00:21:47,400 --> 00:21:49,368
This is a real nice
thing you're doing here.
476
00:21:49,402 --> 00:21:50,403
Thanks, Dad.
477
00:21:51,737 --> 00:21:53,406
How about one for the old man?
478
00:21:55,641 --> 00:21:56,441
Want an apple?
479
00:21:59,979 --> 00:22:01,380
Sure.
480
00:22:22,835 --> 00:22:25,271
Andrew, this is my
little brother, Josh.
481
00:22:25,304 --> 00:22:26,272
Josh, meet Andrew.
482
00:22:27,807 --> 00:22:29,175
Hey, Josh.
483
00:22:29,208 --> 00:22:31,243
So, you're the reason
484
00:22:31,277 --> 00:22:34,413
my sister won't let me have
any cookies, aren't you?
485
00:22:34,447 --> 00:22:35,414
Me?
486
00:22:36,682 --> 00:22:38,417
Well, nice to meet
you too, Josh.
487
00:22:41,053 --> 00:22:43,089
I'm gonna go sit down.
488
00:22:43,122 --> 00:22:44,290
You can stop now.
489
00:22:44,323 --> 00:22:45,825
I'm just messing
with you, little man.
490
00:22:45,858 --> 00:22:47,259
Coming to a good spot.
491
00:22:47,293 --> 00:22:48,593
Place helps me out a lot.
492
00:22:48,627 --> 00:22:50,396
Sure.
493
00:22:50,429 --> 00:22:52,331
How's your week been?
494
00:22:52,365 --> 00:22:53,232
I've had a good week.
495
00:22:53,265 --> 00:22:54,000
Did you have a good week?
496
00:22:54,033 --> 00:22:55,401
Yeah, it was.
497
00:22:55,434 --> 00:22:57,103
My dad set up to scholarship
in my mom's name,
498
00:22:57,136 --> 00:22:58,971
and we met a few
of the recipients.
499
00:22:59,005 --> 00:23:00,373
Oh, that's cool.
500
00:23:00,406 --> 00:23:02,074
Yeah, it really was.
501
00:23:05,378 --> 00:23:07,446
Hey, you wanna go
get coffee sometime?
502
00:23:07,480 --> 00:23:11,951
Maybe talk about your mother,
or my brother, or the weather?
503
00:23:11,984 --> 00:23:13,252
Yeah, I'd like that.
504
00:23:13,285 --> 00:23:15,287
Maybe you can meet my
best friend, Katie.
505
00:23:15,321 --> 00:23:16,689
Yeah, yeah, that'd be cool.
506
00:23:17,690 --> 00:23:19,025
Okay, let's go.
507
00:23:19,058 --> 00:23:19,859
Yeah.
508
00:23:22,728 --> 00:23:23,796
Alright, everyone.
509
00:23:23,829 --> 00:23:24,764
Well, let's go ahead
and take our seats,
510
00:23:24,797 --> 00:23:25,563
and we can begin.
511
00:23:27,599 --> 00:23:30,469
It's always nice to see
new faces in the group.
512
00:23:30,503 --> 00:23:31,637
And as a little reminder,
513
00:23:31,670 --> 00:23:34,340
I like to say what it
is we do in this group.
514
00:23:35,674 --> 00:23:38,277
Our grief support group is
a place of healing and hope.
515
00:23:39,512 --> 00:23:42,481
We like to remember our
loved ones out loud.
516
00:23:42,515 --> 00:23:46,152
We share stories, we share
memories, good and bad,
517
00:23:46,185 --> 00:23:48,387
and more importantly, we
like to support each other,
518
00:23:48,421 --> 00:23:51,057
as we move from the
sadness of loss,
519
00:23:51,090 --> 00:23:52,525
to finding the comfort
520
00:23:52,557 --> 00:23:55,027
of knowing that our loved
ones reside in our hearts
521
00:23:55,061 --> 00:23:56,395
and our memories forever.
522
00:23:57,562 --> 00:23:59,532
I'd like the new
faces in the group
523
00:23:59,564 --> 00:24:00,866
to go ahead and
introduce themselves.
524
00:24:00,900 --> 00:24:03,202
And we'll go ahead and
start sharing some stories.
525
00:24:03,235 --> 00:24:08,240
My name's Josh and
my sister made me come.
526
00:24:09,308 --> 00:24:10,242
Well, it's good
to see you, Josh.
527
00:24:10,276 --> 00:24:11,410
Thank you for coming.
528
00:24:11,444 --> 00:24:12,545
Thanks for bringing
him, Lindsey.
529
00:24:12,577 --> 00:24:13,379
And?
530
00:24:15,114 --> 00:24:17,016
Hi, my name is Carrie.
531
00:24:17,917 --> 00:24:20,086
I lost my baby boy.
532
00:24:21,287 --> 00:24:22,521
He had cancer.
533
00:24:23,923 --> 00:24:25,257
Hi, Carrie.
534
00:24:25,291 --> 00:24:26,492
I really hope both of you
535
00:24:26,525 --> 00:24:28,227
can find some comfort
in being here with us.
536
00:24:29,462 --> 00:24:30,763
Carrie, would you like
to share a little more
537
00:24:30,796 --> 00:24:31,997
about your story?
538
00:24:32,031 --> 00:24:33,532
No pressure.
539
00:24:33,566 --> 00:24:35,901
No, I'm not ready.
540
00:24:35,935 --> 00:24:39,738
It's, it's hard to
talk about still.
541
00:24:41,107 --> 00:24:42,308
We're glad you're here.
542
00:24:42,341 --> 00:24:44,577
If you need to talk,
I'm always here.
543
00:24:46,312 --> 00:24:49,081
I lost my mom not too long ago,
544
00:24:49,115 --> 00:24:50,683
and I know it's not the same,
545
00:24:50,716 --> 00:24:53,586
but this group is
really helping me.
546
00:24:55,221 --> 00:24:56,589
Thank you, Lindsey.
547
00:24:56,621 --> 00:24:58,224
Whatever we can do to help,
548
00:24:58,257 --> 00:24:59,391
that's why we're here.
549
00:25:00,493 --> 00:25:02,695
So, everyone, how's
the week been?
550
00:25:06,665 --> 00:25:07,633
It's been better.
551
00:25:11,670 --> 00:25:14,740
My mother and I went
to see my dad's grave.
552
00:25:16,609 --> 00:25:20,613
So, well, she decided
to start a scholarship
553
00:25:24,450 --> 00:25:25,451
in his name, so.
554
00:25:27,653 --> 00:25:28,521
That's wonderful,
555
00:25:28,554 --> 00:25:30,422
and I'm sure he'd be very proud.
556
00:25:30,456 --> 00:25:31,724
Thank you for sharing, Ricky.
557
00:25:32,658 --> 00:25:34,426
How's your week been, Ava?
558
00:25:34,460 --> 00:25:37,596
Oh, mine, mine actually
has been really good.
559
00:25:37,631 --> 00:25:39,465
I've had more good
days than bad,
560
00:25:39,498 --> 00:25:41,267
which I never
thought would happen.
561
00:25:42,668 --> 00:25:44,336
We're actually planning a
trip to see Ryan's parents
562
00:25:44,370 --> 00:25:45,204
this weekend, so.
563
00:25:46,505 --> 00:25:48,674
That sounds
like a wonderful trip.
564
00:25:49,675 --> 00:25:52,011
Yeah, I might be
missing a few meetings.
565
00:25:52,044 --> 00:25:53,779
Oh, well, that's okay.
566
00:25:53,812 --> 00:25:54,980
Certainly a good reason.
567
00:25:55,014 --> 00:25:55,781
Yeah.
568
00:25:57,049 --> 00:25:58,984
Andy, how's your
week been, sir?
569
00:26:01,720 --> 00:26:05,624
You know, I'm still
having a hard time.
570
00:26:05,659 --> 00:26:09,261
You know, sometimes I still
feel angry about it all,
571
00:26:09,295 --> 00:26:11,597
him dying and me surviving.
572
00:26:11,631 --> 00:26:15,301
But my mom was actually
going through his stuff,
573
00:26:15,334 --> 00:26:17,637
and she found this dictionary.
574
00:26:17,671 --> 00:26:19,338
It's the dictionary,
we used to use it,
575
00:26:19,371 --> 00:26:21,507
to make our own language.
576
00:26:22,676 --> 00:26:24,644
When I looked at it,
something clicked.
577
00:26:24,678 --> 00:26:26,545
Just realized he
was a part of me.
578
00:26:28,013 --> 00:26:30,382
And how has that
impacted your healing?
579
00:26:30,416 --> 00:26:33,252
Well, I can at
least talk about him.
580
00:26:33,285 --> 00:26:35,554
You know, that's
a big step for me.
581
00:26:35,588 --> 00:26:36,855
That's a great start.
582
00:26:36,889 --> 00:26:41,160
You know, continuing to
remember our loved ones out loud
583
00:26:41,193 --> 00:26:43,796
is always so helpful, you know?
584
00:26:43,829 --> 00:26:45,497
It keeps them right
in our hearts.
585
00:26:45,531 --> 00:26:46,700
Yeah.
586
00:26:46,732 --> 00:26:48,367
It hasn't been easy,
but I've been trying.
587
00:26:49,368 --> 00:26:50,603
Lindsay, how you been?
588
00:26:51,671 --> 00:26:53,572
Honestly, I'm okay.
589
00:26:53,606 --> 00:26:56,342
You know, I know my
mom's always with me,
590
00:26:56,375 --> 00:27:00,714
and my dad and I, we did
some things in her memory.
591
00:27:02,248 --> 00:27:04,383
And I guess I'm just not
as angry as I was before.
592
00:27:07,286 --> 00:27:08,520
That's great to hear.
593
00:27:08,554 --> 00:27:10,289
I'm happy to hear
with your progress.
594
00:27:11,190 --> 00:27:12,626
I'm really proud of all of you.
595
00:27:12,659 --> 00:27:16,395
You know, these, these
reports are great, you know?
596
00:27:16,428 --> 00:27:18,897
I'd actually like to
take a time of prayer.
597
00:27:19,765 --> 00:27:20,966
Bow our heads in prayer.
598
00:27:24,770 --> 00:27:27,039
Heavenly father, we thank you
599
00:27:27,072 --> 00:27:29,241
for this wonderful
night you've given us.
600
00:27:30,309 --> 00:27:31,610
Thank you for reminding us
601
00:27:31,645 --> 00:27:33,879
that your mercies
are new every day.
602
00:27:33,912 --> 00:27:34,913
It says in the book of Matthew,
603
00:27:34,947 --> 00:27:37,449
that blessed are
those who mourn,
604
00:27:37,483 --> 00:27:38,817
for they will be shown mercy.
605
00:27:40,085 --> 00:27:42,788
We pray that your grace
continuously follows us
606
00:27:42,821 --> 00:27:44,423
through our day.
607
00:27:44,456 --> 00:27:46,726
And we pray that
you bless our going
608
00:27:46,760 --> 00:27:49,094
as you blessed our
coming here tonight.
609
00:27:49,128 --> 00:27:50,029
Thank you.
610
00:27:50,062 --> 00:27:52,097
It's in your name we pray.
611
00:27:52,131 --> 00:27:52,931
Amen.
612
00:28:05,177 --> 00:28:06,278
Dad, Dad.
613
00:28:06,312 --> 00:28:07,179
Yeah.
614
00:28:07,212 --> 00:28:08,180
Teach me to play guitar.
615
00:28:09,315 --> 00:28:10,549
What now?
616
00:28:10,582 --> 00:28:11,685
Yeah, I wanna write
songs like you do.
617
00:28:11,718 --> 00:28:12,518
Look.
618
00:28:13,619 --> 00:28:14,620
What have you got?
619
00:28:18,624 --> 00:28:20,660
This is pretty good.
620
00:28:20,694 --> 00:28:23,763
Yeah, it's for Mom.
621
00:28:23,797 --> 00:28:24,764
You know what,
here, you got it.
622
00:28:24,798 --> 00:28:26,498
Here, give me that guitar.
623
00:28:26,532 --> 00:28:27,866
Take the old man's guitar.
624
00:28:27,900 --> 00:28:30,602
Do you remember that E minor
chord that I showed you
625
00:28:30,637 --> 00:28:31,370
- a while back?
- Yeah.
626
00:28:31,403 --> 00:28:32,237
Yeah?
627
00:28:32,271 --> 00:28:33,038
Let's see what you got.
628
00:28:34,206 --> 00:28:34,973
Here, take the pick.
629
00:28:35,007 --> 00:28:35,874
Try that.
630
00:28:36,842 --> 00:28:38,177
Yeah, you're right on the mark.
631
00:28:38,210 --> 00:28:38,977
Let's do another one.
632
00:28:39,011 --> 00:28:40,212
Do you remember D7?
633
00:28:41,613 --> 00:28:42,915
Yeah, one there.
634
00:28:42,948 --> 00:28:44,850
Actually, no, put
this finger up here.
635
00:28:45,851 --> 00:28:46,985
Hit that.
636
00:28:47,019 --> 00:28:48,822
See how that works?
637
00:28:48,854 --> 00:28:49,922
Not bad, could be better.
638
00:28:49,955 --> 00:28:52,991
Very good!
639
00:28:57,797 --> 00:29:00,065
Hey, there you go.
640
00:29:00,099 --> 00:29:01,200
Thank you.
641
00:29:01,233 --> 00:29:03,569
Of course, you're welcome.
642
00:29:03,602 --> 00:29:07,841
So, did you enjoy
group last time?
643
00:29:07,873 --> 00:29:10,075
I dunno, I'm starting
to really like it.
644
00:29:10,109 --> 00:29:11,678
Like, it's helping me.
645
00:29:11,711 --> 00:29:12,846
Me too.
646
00:29:12,878 --> 00:29:14,880
I didn't think I could
stop feeling angry
647
00:29:14,913 --> 00:29:16,014
or guilty about it all,
648
00:29:16,048 --> 00:29:18,217
but little by little, I am.
649
00:29:18,250 --> 00:29:19,985
That's good.
650
00:29:20,018 --> 00:29:21,086
Oh, there's Katie.
651
00:29:22,221 --> 00:29:23,122
Katie's here.
652
00:29:23,155 --> 00:29:25,891
Hi.
653
00:29:25,924 --> 00:29:26,892
Hey, Katie.
654
00:29:26,925 --> 00:29:27,727
Hi, hi.
655
00:29:30,062 --> 00:29:32,197
Katie, this is
Andrew from group.
656
00:29:32,231 --> 00:29:35,167
Andrew, this is Katie,
from like my whole life.
657
00:29:35,200 --> 00:29:36,168
Hi,
hi, how you doing?
658
00:29:36,201 --> 00:29:37,436
Hi.
659
00:29:37,469 --> 00:29:39,905
So, you're the one that
eats all the cookies.
660
00:29:39,938 --> 00:29:41,741
Um, how did you know?
661
00:29:42,876 --> 00:29:44,977
I heard.
662
00:29:47,146 --> 00:29:48,480
Hmm.
663
00:29:53,887 --> 00:29:55,254
Hey, Dad.
664
00:29:55,287 --> 00:29:56,321
Oh hey, pumpkin.
665
00:29:56,355 --> 00:29:57,356
How was your day?
666
00:29:57,389 --> 00:29:58,257
It was great.
667
00:29:58,290 --> 00:29:59,057
Oh, that's right,
668
00:29:59,091 --> 00:29:59,859
it was your third date.
669
00:29:59,893 --> 00:30:00,860
How'd it go?
670
00:30:00,894 --> 00:30:02,361
Dad, it's not a date.
671
00:30:02,394 --> 00:30:06,532
Alright, alright, it
wasn't a date.
672
00:30:06,565 --> 00:30:08,934
Look, I got some dinner in
the fridge for you, alright?
673
00:30:08,967 --> 00:30:10,269
Don't be up too late,
school tomorrow.
674
00:30:10,302 --> 00:30:11,236
I won't.
675
00:30:11,270 --> 00:30:12,037
- Thanks, Dad.
- Alright, alright.
676
00:30:12,070 --> 00:30:12,938
Goodnight.
677
00:30:15,140 --> 00:30:16,910
We're gonna be okay, Abby, girl.
678
00:30:24,116 --> 00:30:26,018
So, I was thinking we
could go to Mayfields.
679
00:30:26,051 --> 00:30:27,854
I heard they have a sale, so.
680
00:30:29,756 --> 00:30:31,891
Katie, Katie, are you okay?
681
00:30:33,893 --> 00:30:34,828
Sorry, what?
682
00:30:36,763 --> 00:30:38,397
Is everything alright?
683
00:30:40,834 --> 00:30:41,801
No, not really.
684
00:30:43,937 --> 00:30:46,271
Okay, I can just pull over.
685
00:30:52,946 --> 00:30:53,813
What's going on?
686
00:30:55,280 --> 00:30:56,348
Everything, Lindsey.
687
00:30:57,951 --> 00:30:58,852
Tell me.
688
00:31:02,254 --> 00:31:03,622
My mom has cancer.
689
00:31:05,023 --> 00:31:06,024
Stage four.
690
00:31:07,894 --> 00:31:08,994
What?
691
00:31:09,027 --> 00:31:12,632
I'm trying to be
strong.
692
00:31:12,665 --> 00:31:13,766
We just found out.
693
00:31:14,968 --> 00:31:16,970
It's bad, but she said
she's going to fight.
694
00:31:18,103 --> 00:31:19,238
I'm so sorry.
695
00:31:19,271 --> 00:31:20,572
God, I can't even...
696
00:31:20,606 --> 00:31:22,809
I don't know what to do.
697
00:31:24,009 --> 00:31:25,979
I don't want her
to see me crying.
698
00:31:26,011 --> 00:31:27,112
I'm so scared.
699
00:31:28,146 --> 00:31:29,581
Hey, hey, it's gonna be okay.
700
00:31:29,615 --> 00:31:31,951
I'm gonna be here for
you no matter what, okay?
701
00:31:35,922 --> 00:31:36,890
Thank you.
702
00:31:40,192 --> 00:31:41,995
How about we talk
about some happy stuff?
703
00:31:42,027 --> 00:31:43,663
Okay.
704
00:31:43,696 --> 00:31:46,900
Isn't that, what's his face
who's taking you to prom,
705
00:31:46,933 --> 00:31:47,867
that guy?
706
00:31:47,901 --> 00:31:48,935
Brett.
707
00:31:48,968 --> 00:31:52,538
Brett, the
basketball guy, yeah.
708
00:31:52,571 --> 00:31:54,473
He hasn't asked me yet,
709
00:31:54,506 --> 00:31:56,508
but I was thinking it'd be fun
710
00:31:56,542 --> 00:31:59,344
if just a bunch of
us went together.
711
00:31:59,378 --> 00:32:00,546
Yeah, gonna be fine.
712
00:32:00,579 --> 00:32:02,214
We can get a limo,
ride in style.
713
00:32:05,752 --> 00:32:07,020
Love you, girl.
714
00:32:07,052 --> 00:32:08,053
It's gonna be okay.
715
00:32:18,798 --> 00:32:20,733
So, you excited
for prom tonight?
716
00:32:20,767 --> 00:32:21,567
Yeah.
717
00:32:22,936 --> 00:32:23,903
Do you think it's weird,
718
00:32:23,937 --> 00:32:25,137
Lindsey and I decided
not to go with any boys,
719
00:32:25,170 --> 00:32:27,539
and just go with
our girlfriends?
720
00:32:27,573 --> 00:32:29,042
Oh, yeah, it's so weird, Kat,
721
00:32:30,643 --> 00:32:32,578
but better for your dad and I.
722
00:32:32,611 --> 00:32:34,013
Now, we don't have to do
723
00:32:34,047 --> 00:32:37,549
that whole crazy father
parent thing that dads do.
724
00:32:42,621 --> 00:32:44,523
Here's the lovely
Miss Lindsey.
725
00:32:44,556 --> 00:32:45,324
Hi!
726
00:32:46,258 --> 00:32:47,426
I'll be right back.
727
00:32:47,459 --> 00:32:49,227
Hello,
Sara, how are you doing?
728
00:32:49,261 --> 00:32:50,863
I'm fighting hard.
729
00:32:50,897 --> 00:32:52,097
It's good to see you.
730
00:32:52,130 --> 00:32:54,033
It's
good to see you too.
731
00:32:54,067 --> 00:32:55,233
Why don't we go get ready?
732
00:32:55,267 --> 00:32:56,803
Okay, bye.
733
00:32:56,836 --> 00:32:58,203
You girls have fun.
734
00:32:58,236 --> 00:32:59,237
Thank you, Mom.
735
00:33:04,142 --> 00:33:06,946
Sorry, I
left my makeup bag.
736
00:33:06,980 --> 00:33:09,082
Actually, I'm
glad you're here.
737
00:33:09,114 --> 00:33:10,683
Can you sit with
me for a minute?
738
00:33:12,150 --> 00:33:13,086
Yeah, of course.
739
00:33:13,118 --> 00:33:14,087
What's wrong?
740
00:33:14,119 --> 00:33:16,121
I need your help, Lindsey.
741
00:33:16,154 --> 00:33:17,790
I don't have long.
742
00:33:19,025 --> 00:33:21,027
I'm struggling with it.
743
00:33:22,494 --> 00:33:26,131
And I know that Katie is not
gonna do well when I'm gone.
744
00:33:28,101 --> 00:33:29,769
I wanna do something for her,
745
00:33:30,770 --> 00:33:32,105
that'll bring her comfort
746
00:33:33,305 --> 00:33:35,108
you know, during important
times in her life.
747
00:33:36,643 --> 00:33:39,344
Will you help me make a
video message for her?
748
00:33:41,114 --> 00:33:42,314
Yeah.
749
00:33:42,347 --> 00:33:44,117
Yeah, of course.
750
00:33:44,149 --> 00:33:46,351
And don't tell her.
751
00:33:48,121 --> 00:33:49,154
I'll entrust them to you,
752
00:33:50,522 --> 00:33:52,792
and you just make
sure she gets them
753
00:33:52,825 --> 00:33:55,128
when the time's right, okay?
754
00:33:57,162 --> 00:33:58,665
Okay.
755
00:33:58,698 --> 00:33:59,832
Okay.
756
00:33:59,866 --> 00:34:00,933
You go on, get ready.
757
00:34:02,135 --> 00:34:05,504
I'll contact you to set
up a day and time soon.
758
00:34:07,140 --> 00:34:08,141
I'll see you.
759
00:34:09,008 --> 00:34:09,809
Bye.
760
00:34:14,579 --> 00:34:15,882
- Tom?
- Yes, dear.
761
00:34:15,915 --> 00:34:17,684
Can you bring me
my Bible, please?
762
00:34:20,585 --> 00:34:22,121
Anything for you, my love.
763
00:34:25,223 --> 00:34:26,491
You mind if I read with you?
764
00:34:26,525 --> 00:34:27,325
No.
765
00:34:38,705 --> 00:34:40,305
Oh, oh, thank you.
766
00:34:42,374 --> 00:34:44,644
Katie sure did look
beautiful for the prom tonight,
767
00:34:44,677 --> 00:34:45,444
didn't she?
768
00:34:45,477 --> 00:34:46,244
Oh, she did.
769
00:34:50,482 --> 00:34:51,718
There you go.
770
00:34:56,823 --> 00:34:58,024
Thank you, honey.
771
00:34:58,057 --> 00:34:59,892
Huh, for what?
772
00:34:59,926 --> 00:35:01,293
You know.
773
00:35:01,326 --> 00:35:02,527
What, for loving you?
774
00:35:04,197 --> 00:35:05,564
I love you, Tom.
775
00:35:06,699 --> 00:35:10,036
And I know you're going
to do the right thing,
776
00:35:10,069 --> 00:35:12,337
and raise our daughter right.
777
00:35:13,238 --> 00:35:15,141
I'm not giving
up on you, Sara.
778
00:35:16,274 --> 00:35:21,279
I know.
779
00:35:37,163 --> 00:35:38,631
Thank you for this, Lindsey.
780
00:35:38,664 --> 00:35:39,832
You're welcome, Sara.
781
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:43,169
I know how much this
is gonna mean to Katie.
782
00:35:44,402 --> 00:35:45,270
Right.
783
00:35:46,839 --> 00:35:48,273
It means everything to me too.
784
00:35:50,475 --> 00:35:52,979
I don't have much
I can leave her,
785
00:35:54,513 --> 00:35:58,885
but reminders of how
proud I am of her,
786
00:36:00,787 --> 00:36:01,788
how much I love her,
787
00:36:03,790 --> 00:36:05,758
bring me some peace.
788
00:36:05,792 --> 00:36:07,592
She's gonna be here
in about 30 minutes,
789
00:36:07,627 --> 00:36:10,263
so we should get started.
790
00:36:12,297 --> 00:36:15,101
I'm just gonna put
some lipstick on.
791
00:36:15,134 --> 00:36:16,235
Of course,
792
00:36:24,677 --> 00:36:25,778
How does that look?
793
00:36:26,779 --> 00:36:28,281
You look beautiful.
794
00:36:32,317 --> 00:36:34,787
Okay, I'm ready when you are.
795
00:36:38,791 --> 00:36:42,094
Katie, when you
receive this message,
796
00:36:44,263 --> 00:36:49,068
I'll be with God and our
savior, Jesus Christ,
797
00:36:49,101 --> 00:36:51,536
in heaven and free of pain.
798
00:36:55,507 --> 00:36:59,212
I will always be watching
over you in spirit.
799
00:37:02,281 --> 00:37:04,283
And today is such a special day.
800
00:37:05,617 --> 00:37:09,322
You're graduating from
high school with honors,
801
00:37:11,356 --> 00:37:13,358
and I'm so proud of you.
802
00:37:15,560 --> 00:37:17,495
I want you to enjoy it,
803
00:37:21,334 --> 00:37:25,370
and take tons of pictures with
your friends and your dad.
804
00:37:26,939 --> 00:37:28,373
And enjoy that moment,
805
00:37:29,342 --> 00:37:30,575
when you move your tassel,
806
00:37:32,377 --> 00:37:33,913
and throw your hat in the air.
807
00:37:37,283 --> 00:37:41,386
Going to UF is going
to be amazing for you,
808
00:37:44,323 --> 00:37:46,025
and I hope that you have
809
00:37:46,058 --> 00:37:49,262
a memorable college
experience, honey.
810
00:37:51,429 --> 00:37:56,434
Katie, please try and
go to church regularly.
811
00:37:58,403 --> 00:38:01,406
Read your Bible and pray.
812
00:38:04,409 --> 00:38:05,945
I've left my Bible for you,
813
00:38:09,115 --> 00:38:13,551
and I've had Pastor Mark notate
all my favorite Bible verses
814
00:38:14,820 --> 00:38:16,122
for you to reference,
815
00:38:19,025 --> 00:38:20,126
and give you strength.
816
00:38:22,460 --> 00:38:25,197
I will always be with you.
817
00:38:29,467 --> 00:38:30,703
I love you, Katie.
818
00:38:42,114 --> 00:38:43,416
Okay, I got it.
819
00:38:46,618 --> 00:38:49,088
Lindsey, I have
one more favor.
820
00:38:50,488 --> 00:38:51,424
Yeah.
821
00:38:53,993 --> 00:38:54,794
Anything.
822
00:38:56,963 --> 00:38:58,898
I got a graduation
card for Katie.
823
00:39:02,134 --> 00:39:05,271
Can you make sure she gets
it when she graduates?
824
00:39:08,606 --> 00:39:10,443
Yeah, of course.
825
00:39:11,811 --> 00:39:16,449
But you'll be able to
give it to her, right?
826
00:39:20,485 --> 00:39:21,454
Appreciate it.
827
00:39:30,528 --> 00:39:32,264
Thank you so much
for sharing, Rick,
828
00:39:32,298 --> 00:39:34,200
and let's put that
in your memory book.
829
00:39:35,368 --> 00:39:36,469
Hello, Lindsey.
830
00:39:38,471 --> 00:39:39,872
- Hi.
- Hey, Lindsey.
831
00:39:39,905 --> 00:39:41,440
I'm sorry I'm late.
832
00:39:41,474 --> 00:39:43,242
I was helping my friend's
mom with something.
833
00:39:43,275 --> 00:39:44,143
No, that's okay.
834
00:39:44,176 --> 00:39:45,177
Sometimes we have things to do.
835
00:39:45,211 --> 00:39:46,445
Don't worry about it.
836
00:39:46,479 --> 00:39:48,180
Well, it wouldn't be
the same without you.
837
00:39:49,448 --> 00:39:51,751
I'm having a hard
time with this one.
838
00:39:51,784 --> 00:39:52,617
Why?
839
00:39:54,220 --> 00:39:57,957
It's my best friend's
mom, she's dying,
840
00:39:57,990 --> 00:40:00,760
and I'm trying to do
something special for Katie
841
00:40:00,793 --> 00:40:03,496
so she can have something
after she's gone.
842
00:40:03,528 --> 00:40:06,132
Well, that's very
sweet of you to help her.
843
00:40:06,165 --> 00:40:07,233
But are you okay?
844
00:40:08,401 --> 00:40:12,738
I am, but I can't stop
thinking about my mom.
845
00:40:14,306 --> 00:40:16,742
Sometimes, it's just like
I lost her all over again.
846
00:40:19,045 --> 00:40:21,213
Well, I'm sure what
you're doing to help Katie
847
00:40:21,247 --> 00:40:22,580
will bring her great comfort.
848
00:40:24,549 --> 00:40:26,986
Well, I'm helping her mom
make a video message for her,
849
00:40:27,019 --> 00:40:28,387
and I still have to edit it
850
00:40:28,421 --> 00:40:29,688
with some of her mom's
favorite pictures at the end.
851
00:40:29,722 --> 00:40:33,426
But, I don't know.
852
00:40:33,459 --> 00:40:34,260
I like that.
853
00:40:35,661 --> 00:40:37,430
I'd love to see
my brother again.
854
00:40:38,431 --> 00:40:39,932
Or my baby.
855
00:40:39,965 --> 00:40:40,766
Or my husband.
856
00:40:41,934 --> 00:40:42,735
My father.
857
00:40:43,903 --> 00:40:44,703
My mom.
858
00:40:46,604 --> 00:40:48,474
You know, I think
we all have someone
859
00:40:48,507 --> 00:40:50,509
whose voice we'd
love to hear again.
860
00:40:51,911 --> 00:40:54,180
I think it's very sweet of
you to help your friend.
861
00:40:54,213 --> 00:40:56,749
And you know, you could always
invite Katie here, you know?
862
00:40:56,782 --> 00:40:59,351
She doesn't have to wait
until her mother passes
863
00:40:59,385 --> 00:41:00,753
to get support.
864
00:41:00,786 --> 00:41:02,088
I don't know.
865
00:41:02,121 --> 00:41:03,556
She's not ready to deal
with her mom dying yet.
866
00:41:05,558 --> 00:41:07,293
And Sara's still fighting.
867
00:41:08,127 --> 00:41:09,195
Maybe she'll make it.
868
00:41:10,029 --> 00:41:10,796
It's true.
869
00:41:10,830 --> 00:41:11,630
We'll be praying.
870
00:41:12,965 --> 00:41:13,799
Thanks.
871
00:41:15,568 --> 00:41:16,435
Ava would you like
872
00:41:16,469 --> 00:41:17,236
to continue with your story?
873
00:41:17,269 --> 00:41:18,170
Alright.
874
00:41:18,204 --> 00:41:19,138
Oh, why
don't you go ahead
875
00:41:19,171 --> 00:41:20,005
and check that?
876
00:41:20,039 --> 00:41:20,773
It doesn't happen often,
877
00:41:20,806 --> 00:41:22,208
it might be important.
878
00:41:22,241 --> 00:41:22,975
I'm so sorry.
879
00:41:23,008 --> 00:41:24,844
I have to go.
880
00:41:24,877 --> 00:41:25,644
No worries.
881
00:41:33,452 --> 00:41:35,888
Where are you?
882
00:41:40,759 --> 00:41:41,560
Dad, what happened?
883
00:41:41,594 --> 00:41:42,528
You're scaring me.
884
00:41:47,833 --> 00:41:49,602
Katie's mom passed away.
885
00:41:49,635 --> 00:41:50,703
Oh, I need to go see her.
886
00:41:50,736 --> 00:41:51,937
No, no, no, no, no,
listen, you can't.
887
00:41:51,971 --> 00:41:53,539
They're at the hospital.
888
00:41:53,572 --> 00:41:55,040
You're not gonna be able
to see them until tomorrow.
889
00:41:55,074 --> 00:41:55,841
I'm sorry.
890
00:41:57,510 --> 00:42:00,613
We finished just in time.
891
00:42:00,646 --> 00:42:03,315
What, what did you, what?
892
00:42:03,349 --> 00:42:04,583
What?
893
00:42:04,617 --> 00:42:06,485
Her mom and I, we made
this video for Katie
894
00:42:06,519 --> 00:42:07,686
for her graduation.
895
00:42:09,555 --> 00:42:10,656
It's like, she knew.
896
00:42:12,658 --> 00:42:14,793
That's gonna mean
the world to her.
897
00:42:14,827 --> 00:42:17,563
It's like losing
Mom all over again.
898
00:42:17,596 --> 00:42:18,330
Yeah, I know.
899
00:42:18,364 --> 00:42:19,431
That's why I wanted to-
900
00:42:19,465 --> 00:42:20,766
- Hey, Dad, I really, I
really need to be alone.
901
00:42:20,799 --> 00:42:22,701
No, no, no just wait.
902
00:42:41,487 --> 00:42:42,855
This is so beautiful, Mom.
903
00:42:44,658 --> 00:42:46,660
I wonder what you
would have said to me.
904
00:42:48,394 --> 00:42:49,895
But I know this will help Katie.
905
00:42:51,665 --> 00:42:52,632
I just know.
906
00:43:21,227 --> 00:43:24,029
I think Mom would
have liked the ceremony.
907
00:43:24,063 --> 00:43:25,731
Yeah, I think so too.
908
00:43:31,705 --> 00:43:33,038
Does the pain ever go away?
909
00:43:34,740 --> 00:43:36,208
Honestly?
910
00:43:36,242 --> 00:43:38,210
It does and it doesn't.
911
00:43:41,213 --> 00:43:42,548
We'll never stop missing them.
912
00:43:44,383 --> 00:43:45,719
I don't know how you did it.
913
00:43:46,720 --> 00:43:47,519
It's so hard.
914
00:43:50,289 --> 00:43:53,025
Time, remember
the good things.
915
00:43:54,893 --> 00:43:56,895
Mom, do you think I can do it?
916
00:43:56,929 --> 00:43:57,763
You can do it, Lindsey.
917
00:43:57,796 --> 00:43:58,864
I believe in you.
918
00:44:04,937 --> 00:44:07,006
I guess
that sometimes helps.
919
00:44:07,973 --> 00:44:09,643
We graduate in one month.
920
00:44:11,745 --> 00:44:13,680
She wanted to be
here so bad for that.
921
00:44:13,713 --> 00:44:15,214
Just one more month.
922
00:44:17,751 --> 00:44:20,486
I know this probably
won't mean much right now,
923
00:44:23,255 --> 00:44:25,491
but I truly believe
that she's here with us.
924
00:44:27,661 --> 00:44:28,762
She's with God now.
925
00:44:32,097 --> 00:44:33,098
It's not the same.
926
00:44:39,773 --> 00:44:40,539
Hey.
927
00:44:47,479 --> 00:44:48,782
Just, I wonder why
she's not here yet.
928
00:44:48,814 --> 00:44:50,115
She's never late.
929
00:44:50,149 --> 00:44:51,350
I don't know.
930
00:44:51,383 --> 00:44:53,218
Maybe call her?
931
00:44:53,252 --> 00:44:54,620
I don't know.
932
00:44:54,654 --> 00:44:55,821
I have a really bad
feeling about this,
933
00:44:55,854 --> 00:44:57,589
like she's not okay.
934
00:44:57,623 --> 00:44:58,991
I'm sure she's alright.
935
00:44:59,024 --> 00:45:00,592
Just call her.
936
00:45:00,627 --> 00:45:01,527
Okay, well.
937
00:45:03,829 --> 00:45:05,164
Oh, I bet that's her now.
938
00:45:11,470 --> 00:45:13,005
Everything okay?
939
00:45:13,038 --> 00:45:14,139
No, it's not.
940
00:45:14,173 --> 00:45:15,809
Katie's not okay.
941
00:45:15,841 --> 00:45:16,942
What happened?
942
00:45:16,975 --> 00:45:18,077
She said she's not coming.
943
00:45:18,110 --> 00:45:19,912
She said she can't stop crying.
944
00:45:20,979 --> 00:45:22,816
It's gonna be alright.
945
00:45:22,881 --> 00:45:24,651
What should I do?
946
00:45:24,684 --> 00:45:26,151
What can you do?
947
00:45:26,185 --> 00:45:28,887
I mean, I can go give her
the message from her mom.
948
00:45:30,022 --> 00:45:31,590
I know it's supposed to
be for the graduation,
949
00:45:31,623 --> 00:45:34,694
but I think she needs it now.
950
00:45:34,728 --> 00:45:35,829
You sure?
951
00:45:35,861 --> 00:45:37,029
I mean, it is your party.
952
00:45:38,597 --> 00:45:40,165
You sure?
953
00:45:40,199 --> 00:45:42,000
I don't know.
954
00:45:42,034 --> 00:45:43,969
Why do bad things
happen to good people?
955
00:45:44,002 --> 00:45:45,371
I just don't understand.
956
00:45:45,404 --> 00:45:46,972
Hey, hey, hey, you know what?
957
00:45:47,005 --> 00:45:49,375
You know what, listen,
958
00:45:49,408 --> 00:45:50,876
I'll finish these
decorations up,
959
00:45:50,909 --> 00:45:52,277
and you go see Katie.
960
00:45:52,311 --> 00:45:53,879
Deliver that message to her.
961
00:45:53,912 --> 00:45:54,814
Are you sure?
962
00:45:54,848 --> 00:45:55,815
I'm sure, alright.
963
00:45:55,849 --> 00:45:57,616
Parties come and go,
964
00:45:57,650 --> 00:45:59,151
but best friends are forever.
965
00:45:59,184 --> 00:46:00,185
Thank you.
966
00:46:17,871 --> 00:46:18,838
Katie.
967
00:46:20,072 --> 00:46:21,473
Lindsey.
968
00:46:21,507 --> 00:46:23,275
Hey, it's gonna be okay.
969
00:46:24,910 --> 00:46:25,779
I'm not so sure.
970
00:46:28,313 --> 00:46:30,416
I'm not ready to
be without my mom.
971
00:46:30,449 --> 00:46:32,886
I know, I know,
but she's with you.
972
00:46:32,918 --> 00:46:33,952
How would you know?
973
00:46:34,953 --> 00:46:36,422
I have something for you?
974
00:46:37,923 --> 00:46:39,925
I was supposed to give it
to you after graduation,
975
00:46:39,958 --> 00:46:41,059
but I don't think
your mom would mind
976
00:46:41,093 --> 00:46:41,994
if I gave it to you now.
977
00:46:42,027 --> 00:46:43,095
What do you mean, my mom?
978
00:46:43,128 --> 00:46:44,864
It's from your mom.
979
00:46:44,898 --> 00:46:46,031
She made it for you.
980
00:46:46,064 --> 00:46:47,032
What is this about?
981
00:46:47,065 --> 00:46:48,100
What is this?
982
00:46:48,133 --> 00:46:48,934
Just trust me.
983
00:46:52,104 --> 00:46:53,272
Watch it.
984
00:46:53,305 --> 00:46:57,309
Katie, when you
receive this message,
985
00:46:58,944 --> 00:47:03,783
I'll be with God and our
savior, Jesus Christ,
986
00:47:03,817 --> 00:47:06,552
in heaven and free of pain.
987
00:47:10,155 --> 00:47:13,927
I will always be watching
over you in spirit.
988
00:47:17,129 --> 00:47:19,097
Today is such a special day.
989
00:47:20,532 --> 00:47:23,602
You're graduating from
high school with honors,
990
00:47:26,371 --> 00:47:28,006
and I'm so proud of you.
991
00:47:31,009 --> 00:47:32,812
I want you to enjoy it.
992
00:47:32,846 --> 00:47:33,947
I'm sorry, Katie.
993
00:47:33,979 --> 00:47:35,949
I didn't mean to make
you cry like this.
994
00:47:36,014 --> 00:47:37,282
- Take tons of pictures
- No.
995
00:47:37,316 --> 00:47:38,984
with your
friends and your dad.
996
00:47:39,017 --> 00:47:40,619
No, it's just so beautiful.
997
00:47:41,688 --> 00:47:43,555
And enjoy that moment.
998
00:47:43,589 --> 00:47:44,824
I miss her so much.
999
00:47:44,858 --> 00:47:45,692
When you
move your tassel.
1000
00:47:45,725 --> 00:47:46,926
Thank you.
1001
00:47:46,960 --> 00:47:47,827
- Yeah.
- And throw your hat
1002
00:47:47,861 --> 00:47:49,461
in the air.
1003
00:47:49,495 --> 00:47:51,330
Kat, you should come to
group with me sometime.
1004
00:47:51,363 --> 00:47:52,130
Maybe.
1005
00:47:52,164 --> 00:47:53,198
Going to you UF,
1006
00:47:54,199 --> 00:47:55,367
- I'll just take it
- is going to be
1007
00:47:55,400 --> 00:47:56,602
- one day at a time.
- amazing for you.
1008
00:47:56,636 --> 00:47:57,436
Okay.
1009
00:47:57,469 --> 00:47:58,237
Katie.
1010
00:47:58,270 --> 00:48:00,907
Oh, open your card.
1011
00:48:00,940 --> 00:48:03,877
Please try and
go to church regularly.
1012
00:48:05,043 --> 00:48:05,979
Read your Bible.
1013
00:48:07,981 --> 00:48:12,819
I, I've left my Bible for you.
1014
00:48:14,821 --> 00:48:15,955
Thank you.
1015
00:48:15,989 --> 00:48:17,155
And I've
had Pastor Mark,
1016
00:48:17,189 --> 00:48:18,490
I have to go and show
Dad, but thank you!
1017
00:48:18,524 --> 00:48:19,692
- notate all my favorite
- Thank you so much.
1018
00:48:19,726 --> 00:48:20,894
- readings,
- I really needed this.
1019
00:48:21,861 --> 00:48:22,795
for you to reference
1020
00:48:25,097 --> 00:48:26,365
and give you strength.
1021
00:48:28,935 --> 00:48:31,470
Dad, Dad, look, you
have to come watch!
1022
00:48:31,503 --> 00:48:32,304
What's happening?
1023
00:48:32,337 --> 00:48:33,438
Look, just come watch.
1024
00:48:36,141 --> 00:48:36,976
What is it?
1025
00:48:37,010 --> 00:48:38,878
Just watch, trust me.
1026
00:48:38,912 --> 00:48:41,014
And I'm
so proud of you.
1027
00:48:44,017 --> 00:48:45,417
I want you to enjoy it.
1028
00:48:46,920 --> 00:48:47,720
That's...
1029
00:48:48,888 --> 00:48:49,789
Mom.
1030
00:48:49,822 --> 00:48:50,990
Take tons of pictures.
1031
00:48:51,024 --> 00:48:53,693
She left it me
for my graduation.
1032
00:48:53,726 --> 00:48:54,994
She remembered me.
1033
00:48:55,028 --> 00:48:57,062
And enjoy that moment,
1034
00:48:57,095 --> 00:48:58,397
when you move your tassel.
1035
00:48:58,430 --> 00:49:00,198
She's here with us.
1036
00:49:00,232 --> 00:49:01,533
And throw
your hat in the air.
1037
00:49:01,567 --> 00:49:05,070
And she's with God
watching over us.
1038
00:49:05,103 --> 00:49:06,739
Going to UF
1039
00:49:06,773 --> 00:49:08,942
- is going to be amazing
- She loves us.
1040
00:49:08,975 --> 00:49:10,509
for you.
1041
00:49:10,542 --> 00:49:11,343
Katie.
1042
00:49:19,518 --> 00:49:20,385
Hey, honey.
1043
00:49:20,419 --> 00:49:21,286
Hey, Dad.
1044
00:49:22,889 --> 00:49:24,089
Okay, I was just thinking,
1045
00:49:24,122 --> 00:49:27,092
you know that video that
Sara made for Katie?
1046
00:49:27,125 --> 00:49:28,027
Yeah.
1047
00:49:28,061 --> 00:49:29,428
I mean, it really helped her.
1048
00:49:29,461 --> 00:49:30,997
You know, I thought it was
gonna make her more sad,
1049
00:49:31,030 --> 00:49:32,799
but she was excited,
1050
00:49:32,832 --> 00:49:34,600
and she ran and told her dad.
1051
00:49:34,634 --> 00:49:36,268
Oh, I'm happy to hear that.
1052
00:49:36,301 --> 00:49:38,370
You know, I've
been researching,
1053
00:49:38,403 --> 00:49:40,773
and I wanna do this for
more people, you know?
1054
00:49:40,807 --> 00:49:44,176
Do you think I'm too young
to start a nonprofit?
1055
00:49:44,209 --> 00:49:46,244
No, no, I don't think so.
1056
00:49:46,278 --> 00:49:47,747
Let's do a little research.
1057
00:49:49,048 --> 00:49:50,449
With a little faith,
1058
00:49:50,482 --> 00:49:52,652
I'm pretty sure you're
the one that can do that.
1059
00:49:52,685 --> 00:49:53,552
Thanks, Dad.
1060
00:49:54,386 --> 00:49:55,320
Goodnight, alright?
1061
00:49:55,354 --> 00:49:56,154
Night.
1062
00:50:08,467 --> 00:50:09,736
Hey, come sit by me.
1063
00:50:11,169 --> 00:50:13,271
Katie, it's good
to see you again.
1064
00:50:13,305 --> 00:50:14,139
Thank you.
1065
00:50:15,607 --> 00:50:17,644
Katie, you're
Lindsey's friend?
1066
00:50:17,677 --> 00:50:20,046
Yeah, since elementary school.
1067
00:50:20,079 --> 00:50:22,280
Oh, well it's great
to have you here with us.
1068
00:50:22,314 --> 00:50:23,116
Thank you.
1069
00:50:24,583 --> 00:50:27,152
I'm not sure I'm ready
to talk about it yet,
1070
00:50:27,185 --> 00:50:29,088
but thank you.
1071
00:50:29,122 --> 00:50:30,089
That's quite alright.
1072
00:50:30,123 --> 00:50:31,124
Thank you for being here.
1073
00:50:31,156 --> 00:50:32,091
Alright, everyone,
1074
00:50:32,125 --> 00:50:33,092
let's go ahead and get started.
1075
00:50:33,126 --> 00:50:34,426
You know, as always,
1076
00:50:34,459 --> 00:50:35,662
I like to just put a
little reminder out there,
1077
00:50:35,695 --> 00:50:37,396
about what we do
here in this group.
1078
00:50:37,429 --> 00:50:40,667
Our grief support group is
a place of healing and hope.
1079
00:50:40,700 --> 00:50:43,468
We like to remember our
loved ones out loud.
1080
00:50:43,502 --> 00:50:44,737
You know, we share stories,
1081
00:50:44,771 --> 00:50:47,172
we share memories good and bad,
1082
00:50:47,205 --> 00:50:48,975
and more importantly,
we support each other
1083
00:50:49,008 --> 00:50:51,443
and move through
the sadness of loss
1084
00:50:51,476 --> 00:50:53,112
to find the comfort
1085
00:50:53,146 --> 00:50:55,682
in knowing that our loved
ones remain in our heart,
1086
00:50:55,715 --> 00:50:57,616
and in our memories forever.
1087
00:50:57,650 --> 00:50:58,918
Now, before we get started,
1088
00:50:58,951 --> 00:51:01,186
I'd like to have our
guest introduce herself,
1089
00:51:01,219 --> 00:51:03,188
and then we'll go ahead
and share some stories.
1090
00:51:03,221 --> 00:51:05,658
Hi, everyone, I'm Katie.
1091
00:51:08,027 --> 00:51:10,195
I lost my mom to cancer.
1092
00:51:10,228 --> 00:51:12,065
I'm just taking it
one day at a time.
1093
00:51:13,365 --> 00:51:14,801
Well, thank you for
being here, Katie.
1094
00:51:14,834 --> 00:51:16,535
This is a great
place of healing,
1095
00:51:16,568 --> 00:51:18,638
and to know you're not
alone in this process.
1096
00:51:18,671 --> 00:51:21,674
Pastor, Katie's the one I
helped make the video for.
1097
00:51:21,708 --> 00:51:22,842
Oh, that's great.
1098
00:51:22,875 --> 00:51:24,376
We've heard great things.
1099
00:51:24,409 --> 00:51:26,012
How did it make you feel, Katie?
1100
00:51:27,345 --> 00:51:30,650
Honestly, until Lindsey
showed me that video,
1101
00:51:30,683 --> 00:51:33,152
I didn't know I was
going to be okay.
1102
00:51:33,186 --> 00:51:35,822
But seeing my mom and
hearing her voice,
1103
00:51:35,855 --> 00:51:38,658
I felt so close to
her, close to God.
1104
00:51:38,691 --> 00:51:40,459
I was angry until that moment.
1105
00:51:41,426 --> 00:51:42,494
I showed my dad right away,
1106
00:51:42,527 --> 00:51:44,197
and we laughed and cried
1107
00:51:44,229 --> 00:51:48,400
and pulled out the family
videos and photo albums.
1108
00:51:49,267 --> 00:51:51,204
And I mean, it helped us realize
1109
00:51:51,236 --> 00:51:53,740
that my mom was always
going to be with us.
1110
00:51:55,208 --> 00:51:56,809
I just wish Lindsey would've
gotten a video like that
1111
00:51:56,843 --> 00:51:57,777
from her mom.
1112
00:51:58,745 --> 00:51:59,578
Me too.
1113
00:52:02,215 --> 00:52:03,716
Yeah.
1114
00:52:03,750 --> 00:52:07,220
Well, I mean, I bet everyone
would like to hear a message
1115
00:52:07,252 --> 00:52:08,386
from their loved ones.
1116
00:52:12,624 --> 00:52:14,694
I think that's a
wonderful legacy to leave,
1117
00:52:14,727 --> 00:52:18,231
you know, for
anyone's loved one.
1118
00:52:18,263 --> 00:52:21,067
Yeah, I think getting a
message from your loved one
1119
00:52:21,100 --> 00:52:22,601
can be really comforting.
1120
00:52:22,635 --> 00:52:24,237
- The legacy of love.
- Yeah.
1121
00:52:24,269 --> 00:52:26,072
Pastor, I've been
thinking about this a lot,
1122
00:52:26,105 --> 00:52:27,439
and I think there's a way
1123
00:52:27,472 --> 00:52:30,542
that we can channel all of
our pain and our suffering,
1124
00:52:30,575 --> 00:52:32,111
into something that
can help others
1125
00:52:32,145 --> 00:52:34,213
who are grieving
like us one day.
1126
00:52:34,247 --> 00:52:35,313
What do you mean?
1127
00:52:35,347 --> 00:52:36,749
Well, I've been researching,
1128
00:52:36,783 --> 00:52:39,252
and I think a nonprofit
could be created.
1129
00:52:39,284 --> 00:52:41,520
Call it the Living
Legacy of Love.
1130
00:52:41,553 --> 00:52:44,123
We can reach out to those who
soon may be transitioning,
1131
00:52:44,157 --> 00:52:46,959
and help them leave messages
for their loved ones.
1132
00:52:46,993 --> 00:52:48,127
I'd be down.
1133
00:52:48,161 --> 00:52:49,095
You could help out
a lot of people.
1134
00:52:49,128 --> 00:52:50,897
- Yeah.
- I'd be game.
1135
00:52:50,930 --> 00:52:52,265
We should do it.
1136
00:52:52,297 --> 00:52:53,266
Wait, what?
1137
00:52:54,667 --> 00:52:57,770
Do you really think that
you can help these people?
1138
00:52:57,804 --> 00:53:00,338
What if you cause more pain?
1139
00:53:00,372 --> 00:53:02,775
Like, are you really
thinking this through?
1140
00:53:02,809 --> 00:53:03,943
I hadn't thought about that.
1141
00:53:03,976 --> 00:53:06,411
I just know what I
witnessed with Katie.
1142
00:53:06,444 --> 00:53:09,347
Yeah, I mean, I get
what you're saying,
1143
00:53:09,381 --> 00:53:13,186
but what if it actually
does provide comfort?
1144
00:53:13,219 --> 00:53:14,187
What if?
1145
00:53:15,288 --> 00:53:16,722
You don't know that.
1146
00:53:16,756 --> 00:53:17,957
I understand where
you're coming from,
1147
00:53:17,990 --> 00:53:19,826
but I think it could
bring more love,
1148
00:53:19,859 --> 00:53:21,828
and a reminder to
a deeper connection
1149
00:53:21,861 --> 00:53:23,129
with those who passed on.
1150
00:53:23,162 --> 00:53:24,596
Yeah, that's what
I was thinking.
1151
00:53:24,630 --> 00:53:25,998
Well, I'd
like to know more.
1152
00:53:26,032 --> 00:53:26,866
Yeah.
1153
00:53:28,734 --> 00:53:30,970
I'm not saying I
don't approve of this,
1154
00:53:32,305 --> 00:53:37,310
but what if you're reminding
them of what they lost?
1155
00:53:38,376 --> 00:53:39,645
I can't speak
for other people,
1156
00:53:39,679 --> 00:53:43,015
but that message
gave me strength.
1157
00:53:43,049 --> 00:53:43,850
It gave me hope.
1158
00:53:45,051 --> 00:53:46,819
I mean,
it's worth a shot.
1159
00:53:46,853 --> 00:53:49,121
Losing someone you love
is just too painful.
1160
00:53:50,957 --> 00:53:52,258
How do we start?
1161
00:53:52,291 --> 00:53:54,327
Well, we start where
there's the most need.
1162
00:53:54,359 --> 00:53:58,297
Hospice, hospitals,
assisted living, you know,
1163
00:53:58,331 --> 00:53:59,699
things like that.
1164
00:53:59,732 --> 00:54:02,467
Yeah, and we can, we can,
1165
00:54:02,500 --> 00:54:04,036
We could make flyers!
1166
00:54:04,070 --> 00:54:05,972
Yeah, and we can let
them know it's free, and-
1167
00:54:06,005 --> 00:54:06,939
- That'd be so cool.
1168
00:54:06,973 --> 00:54:08,074
And I bet a lot of
people would help out.
1169
00:54:08,107 --> 00:54:08,908
Yeah, totally.
1170
00:54:09,909 --> 00:54:11,543
I'm not crazy about the idea,
1171
00:54:13,346 --> 00:54:16,148
but I work at an
assisted living facility.
1172
00:54:17,415 --> 00:54:19,752
I can ask if you can
speak with the residents.
1173
00:54:19,785 --> 00:54:21,220
You can bring your flyers.
1174
00:54:21,254 --> 00:54:23,356
That would be so awesome.
1175
00:54:23,388 --> 00:54:25,390
I do know that
the community center
1176
00:54:25,423 --> 00:54:27,360
rents out camera equipment
from time to time.
1177
00:54:27,392 --> 00:54:28,560
I can talk to them.
1178
00:54:28,593 --> 00:54:29,862
And, you know, I mean, you know,
1179
00:54:29,896 --> 00:54:31,264
I think we should
do this, you know?
1180
00:54:31,297 --> 00:54:33,531
But we have to make sure
we do it the right way.
1181
00:54:33,565 --> 00:54:35,500
Okay, well, my
dad's already set up.
1182
00:54:35,533 --> 00:54:37,469
He's trying to get
the nonprofit rolling.
1183
00:54:37,502 --> 00:54:40,039
And it'd be great if
you all wanted to join.
1184
00:54:41,140 --> 00:54:42,074
I wanna help.
1185
00:54:43,109 --> 00:54:45,044
It's brought me so much comfort.
1186
00:54:45,077 --> 00:54:45,878
I want to.
1187
00:54:47,246 --> 00:54:48,413
You know, I'll go ahead
1188
00:54:48,446 --> 00:54:49,916
and get in contact
with your father.
1189
00:54:49,949 --> 00:54:52,351
That way we can kind of have
this thing all taken care of.
1190
00:54:52,385 --> 00:54:54,353
And you know, I'd like to
talk about it more in depth
1191
00:54:54,387 --> 00:54:55,955
after the, after group, okay?
1192
00:54:57,089 --> 00:54:58,357
Thank you.
1193
00:55:07,767 --> 00:55:09,702
Pastor John, I have good news.
1194
00:55:09,735 --> 00:55:11,103
Well, you must
have with that smile.
1195
00:55:11,137 --> 00:55:12,405
Go ahead and tell me.
1196
00:55:12,437 --> 00:55:14,240
My dad says a
Living Legacy of Love
1197
00:55:14,273 --> 00:55:16,042
is ready to begin
helping people.
1198
00:55:16,075 --> 00:55:17,376
Well, that is good news.
1199
00:55:17,410 --> 00:55:18,443
Okay, well, let's
let everybody know
1200
00:55:18,476 --> 00:55:20,313
to get ready to
distribute these flyers,
1201
00:55:20,346 --> 00:55:22,181
and we can start
spreading the word.
1202
00:55:22,214 --> 00:55:24,449
Well here, what do
you think of this?
1203
00:55:25,685 --> 00:55:27,286
I love it.
1204
00:55:27,320 --> 00:55:28,354
Well, good.
1205
00:55:28,387 --> 00:55:29,454
Call Katie and Andy,
1206
00:55:29,487 --> 00:55:30,588
let them know the
flyers are ready,
1207
00:55:30,622 --> 00:55:31,857
and the shirts will
be done in a few days.
1208
00:55:31,891 --> 00:55:32,658
I will.
1209
00:55:32,692 --> 00:55:34,393
We need to put these everywhere.
1210
00:55:34,427 --> 00:55:36,262
I hope people will respond.
1211
00:55:36,295 --> 00:55:37,630
I believe they will.
1212
00:55:37,663 --> 00:55:38,463
I do too.
1213
00:55:44,103 --> 00:55:46,439
Hey, Pastor John, I
put flyers everywhere.
1214
00:55:46,471 --> 00:55:47,273
Oh, good work, Andy.
1215
00:55:47,306 --> 00:55:48,274
Thank you.
1216
00:55:48,307 --> 00:55:49,075
Now what?
1217
00:55:49,108 --> 00:55:50,810
Do we do more flyers?
1218
00:55:50,843 --> 00:55:53,079
Guys, why hasn't
anyone called yet?
1219
00:55:53,112 --> 00:55:54,780
Maybe I'm wrong.
1220
00:55:54,814 --> 00:55:56,481
No, you're not wrong.
1221
00:55:56,514 --> 00:55:57,984
Ladies, have faith, you know?
1222
00:55:58,017 --> 00:55:58,951
We're meant to help people.
1223
00:55:58,985 --> 00:56:00,485
Just give it some time.
1224
00:56:08,461 --> 00:56:10,696
Hi, this is the
Living Legacy of Love.
1225
00:56:12,198 --> 00:56:14,400
Hi, can
I talk to Lindsey?
1226
00:56:14,433 --> 00:56:15,500
This is Lindsey.
1227
00:56:16,501 --> 00:56:18,637
Well, Lindsey, I
just got your flyer,
1228
00:56:18,671 --> 00:56:21,140
and I would like
to record a message
1229
00:56:21,173 --> 00:56:22,441
for my daughter.
1230
00:56:22,475 --> 00:56:23,476
Yeah, of course.
1231
00:56:23,508 --> 00:56:25,277
What time do you
want us to come?
1232
00:56:26,712 --> 00:56:28,280
Wednesday at six?
1233
00:56:28,314 --> 00:56:30,016
Okay, we'll be there.
1234
00:56:30,049 --> 00:56:31,183
Thank you so much.
1235
00:56:32,885 --> 00:56:35,688
Guys, we just got
our first client.
1236
00:56:35,721 --> 00:56:37,123
Wow.
1237
00:56:37,156 --> 00:56:38,523
- Let's go!
- That's awesome.
1238
00:56:38,556 --> 00:56:39,392
Go!
1239
00:56:40,826 --> 00:56:42,128
That's very awesome.
1240
00:56:49,001 --> 00:56:50,736
Hey, Brian, nice to meet you.
1241
00:56:50,770 --> 00:56:51,771
Hey, how
you doing, man?
1242
00:56:51,804 --> 00:56:53,039
- Good, good.
- Hey, Brian.
1243
00:56:53,072 --> 00:56:54,273
- Pleased to meet you.
- How are you guys?
1244
00:56:54,306 --> 00:56:56,776
- Good.
- Oh man, I've been better.
1245
00:56:56,809 --> 00:56:58,576
I love what you guys do here.
1246
00:56:58,610 --> 00:56:59,478
Well, we're
glad you're here.
1247
00:56:59,512 --> 00:57:00,413
Thank you.
1248
00:57:00,446 --> 00:57:01,447
We'll give you a hand with-
1249
00:57:01,480 --> 00:57:02,415
- Oh, thank you, thank you.
1250
00:57:02,448 --> 00:57:03,449
Yeah, I got it, I got it.
1251
00:57:03,482 --> 00:57:04,750
Thank you, you're too kind.
1252
00:57:08,521 --> 00:57:09,488
How you doing, man?
1253
00:57:09,522 --> 00:57:10,890
Oh, I've been a little better.
1254
00:57:10,923 --> 00:57:14,026
But, one day at a time.
1255
00:57:14,060 --> 00:57:17,396
But hey, I was wondering,
1256
00:57:18,531 --> 00:57:20,565
can you visit my
little brother for me?
1257
00:57:20,598 --> 00:57:22,168
He's gonna need someone
1258
00:57:22,201 --> 00:57:24,503
to teach him how
to ride his board.
1259
00:57:24,537 --> 00:57:25,838
- Yeah.
- You know,
1260
00:57:25,871 --> 00:57:29,208
it was only the beginning
before this happened.
1261
00:57:29,241 --> 00:57:30,509
Yeah, yeah, I got you.
1262
00:57:30,543 --> 00:57:32,211
What's his name?
1263
00:57:32,244 --> 00:57:33,712
His name is Jake.
1264
00:57:33,746 --> 00:57:36,182
Yeah, yeah, I'll
deliver it myself.
1265
00:57:36,215 --> 00:57:37,516
Oh, thank you, man, thank you.
1266
00:57:37,550 --> 00:57:40,186
Oh, one more thing?
1267
00:57:40,219 --> 00:57:41,153
Yeah, what is it?
1268
00:57:42,721 --> 00:57:44,090
50, actually.
1269
00:57:44,123 --> 00:57:45,891
What do you mean?
1270
00:57:45,925 --> 00:57:47,526
It's, it's for my dad.
1271
00:57:49,795 --> 00:57:51,964
Yeah, there's a few notes
and whatnot for my mom,
1272
00:57:51,997 --> 00:57:54,467
but his birthday is next month.
1273
00:57:58,904 --> 00:58:00,306
That's so sweet.
1274
00:58:01,640 --> 00:58:02,741
Thanks.
1275
00:58:02,775 --> 00:58:05,311
Hopefully he can get
some laughs out of it.
1276
00:58:06,645 --> 00:58:08,047
You know, we are pretty close,
1277
00:58:08,080 --> 00:58:11,016
and he hasn't been
taking this very well.
1278
00:58:16,922 --> 00:58:19,624
Well, Brian, we're
actually just about ready.
1279
00:58:19,658 --> 00:58:20,626
How you doing?
1280
00:58:21,627 --> 00:58:23,095
Oh, I've been better,
1281
00:58:23,129 --> 00:58:24,396
but I'm gonna say,
1282
00:58:24,430 --> 00:58:26,765
this is, this is great.
1283
00:58:28,567 --> 00:58:31,203
I'm just thankful I
could even do this.
1284
00:58:31,237 --> 00:58:33,539
Hopefully it brings
me some peace.
1285
00:58:33,572 --> 00:58:35,341
Well, before we
all start crying,
1286
00:58:36,308 --> 00:58:37,877
Brian, you ready?
1287
00:58:39,178 --> 00:58:43,015
Just tell me when.
1288
00:58:43,048 --> 00:58:45,584
Whenever you're
ready, the camera's rolling.
1289
00:58:45,618 --> 00:58:46,452
Alright.
1290
00:58:48,587 --> 00:58:53,526
So, Dad, I hear you're
turning 50 next month, man.
1291
00:58:56,262 --> 00:58:57,596
Oh, geez.
1292
00:58:57,631 --> 00:58:59,633
Looks like you're heading
over that hill, huh?
1293
00:59:01,200 --> 00:59:03,637
Look, I just, I just wanted
to wish you happy birthday.
1294
00:59:04,904 --> 00:59:09,308
Mom, give the old man a
hug from me, yeah?
1295
00:59:13,512 --> 00:59:18,317
Look, Mom, I'm sure when
you had children, you know,
1296
00:59:20,219 --> 00:59:25,224
this wasn't exactly what you
had in mind for our future
1297
00:59:25,424 --> 00:59:26,225
or anything.
1298
00:59:28,394 --> 00:59:33,432
But I just want to
let you know,
1299
00:59:39,171 --> 00:59:42,174
even though my
time here is short,
1300
00:59:48,247 --> 00:59:49,748
I had a wonderful life.
1301
00:59:50,983 --> 00:59:52,985
I couldn't have asked
for a better family.
1302
00:59:56,021 --> 00:59:58,190
I'm always gonna be
watching over you, kid.
1303
00:59:59,258 --> 01:00:00,593
Because God has a plan.
1304
01:00:02,962 --> 01:00:04,664
So, remember these two things,
1305
01:00:08,702 --> 01:00:09,768
keep your faith,
1306
01:00:11,604 --> 01:00:12,805
and I will always love you.
1307
01:00:17,610 --> 01:00:22,181
Thank you for giving me
such a wonderful life.
1308
01:00:39,832 --> 01:00:41,000
He was really sweet.
1309
01:00:42,736 --> 01:00:43,502
He was.
1310
01:00:45,304 --> 01:00:47,439
It must be hard for them,
1311
01:00:47,473 --> 01:00:49,308
not having their parents
know who they are.
1312
01:00:51,143 --> 01:00:53,112
I mean, at least
they have each other.
1313
01:00:54,980 --> 01:00:56,650
Yeah.
1314
01:00:56,683 --> 01:00:58,652
Me and Josh really needed
each other when my mom died.
1315
01:00:59,785 --> 01:01:01,553
I never realized just how much.
1316
01:01:02,722 --> 01:01:05,759
No, it isn't easy
what we're doing.
1317
01:01:05,791 --> 01:01:10,796
It, you know, it doesn't make
the pain and loss go away.
1318
01:01:12,264 --> 01:01:14,466
But I hope that it makes
them feel less alone.
1319
01:01:15,434 --> 01:01:18,270
Yeah, me too.
1320
01:01:27,446 --> 01:01:29,749
I can't believe we've
already helped 50 people.
1321
01:01:29,783 --> 01:01:30,816
Yeah, I know, it's crazy.
1322
01:01:30,849 --> 01:01:32,418
We've helped a
lot of people out.
1323
01:01:32,451 --> 01:01:34,887
Like, I was thinking people,
like, wouldn't like my idea,
1324
01:01:34,920 --> 01:01:37,823
but it's helped people so
much to see their loved ones,
1325
01:01:37,856 --> 01:01:38,957
- you know?
- Yeah, yeah,
1326
01:01:38,991 --> 01:01:40,959
I mean, we're impacting
a lot of lives.
1327
01:01:40,993 --> 01:01:43,829
A lot of people are gonna be
impacted by what we're doing.
1328
01:01:43,862 --> 01:01:45,097
And there's hundreds more.
1329
01:01:45,130 --> 01:01:46,800
It can never end.
1330
01:01:46,832 --> 01:01:47,933
We could do this forever.
1331
01:01:47,966 --> 01:01:49,368
Yeah.
1332
01:01:49,401 --> 01:01:50,202
I can't.
1333
01:01:52,471 --> 01:01:53,640
Hey Linds?
1334
01:01:53,673 --> 01:01:55,207
Yeah?
1335
01:01:55,240 --> 01:01:59,111
I was thinking maybe, maybe
we can go to dinner sometime?
1336
01:01:59,144 --> 01:02:00,279
- Hang out a bit.
- That'd be fun.
1337
01:02:00,312 --> 01:02:02,816
We can invite Katie.
1338
01:02:02,848 --> 01:02:03,783
Hey.
1339
01:02:03,817 --> 01:02:04,651
Hey, Ricky.
1340
01:02:05,551 --> 01:02:06,985
- Got my camera.
- What's up?
1341
01:02:07,821 --> 01:02:09,621
Yeah, we're good.
1342
01:02:09,656 --> 01:02:12,191
Yeah, but I was
thinking more me and you,
1343
01:02:12,224 --> 01:02:13,359
more of a me and you thing.
1344
01:02:13,392 --> 01:02:14,960
Not really all of us.
1345
01:02:14,993 --> 01:02:16,696
Like a date?
1346
01:02:16,730 --> 01:02:18,263
Yeah, if you want to.
1347
01:02:18,297 --> 01:02:19,465
- No, no, yeah, of course.
- I'm not trying
1348
01:02:19,498 --> 01:02:20,232
to pressure you but-
1349
01:02:20,265 --> 01:02:22,501
- Yeah, I can call Katie later.
1350
01:02:22,534 --> 01:02:23,569
Okay, yeah.
1351
01:02:25,237 --> 01:02:26,405
You ready to?
1352
01:02:27,674 --> 01:02:28,808
Let's get out of here.
1353
01:02:28,842 --> 01:02:33,646
Mikey, Michael, by
the time you see this,
1354
01:02:35,013 --> 01:02:36,548
you'll be heading off to
college, or you better be.
1355
01:02:38,450 --> 01:02:40,452
But I'll be proud of
you no matter what.
1356
01:02:41,887 --> 01:02:43,489
Cut.
1357
01:02:43,522 --> 01:02:44,890
One down, two to go.
1358
01:02:46,659 --> 01:02:48,193
You're strong, man.
1359
01:02:48,227 --> 01:02:49,863
It must be hard doing
this so many times.
1360
01:02:49,895 --> 01:02:51,263
Yeah, it is.
1361
01:02:51,296 --> 01:02:53,999
But hey, maybe we'll get
lucky and we won't need them.
1362
01:02:54,032 --> 01:02:55,869
They say I got some time.
1363
01:02:55,901 --> 01:02:56,902
I'm starting chemo.
1364
01:02:58,237 --> 01:03:00,339
But I knew that when I saw this,
1365
01:03:00,372 --> 01:03:02,574
that it was a great opportunity
1366
01:03:02,608 --> 01:03:05,144
to leave something
beautiful for my family,
1367
01:03:05,177 --> 01:03:07,112
just in case.
1368
01:03:07,946 --> 01:03:09,581
Well, why this park?
1369
01:03:10,416 --> 01:03:11,283
I've always been a runner.
1370
01:03:11,316 --> 01:03:13,318
It's the only way I can unwind.
1371
01:03:14,586 --> 01:03:16,890
I bring the kids with
me on shorter runs,
1372
01:03:16,922 --> 01:03:19,558
and we always stop here,
right at this bench.
1373
01:03:20,794 --> 01:03:24,463
We just, you know, talk
and laugh and goof off.
1374
01:03:25,665 --> 01:03:27,867
That's a great reason
to pick this place.
1375
01:03:29,234 --> 01:03:31,937
Ready for another?
1376
01:03:31,970 --> 01:03:33,439
Ready.
1377
01:03:33,472 --> 01:03:34,573
Camera's rolling.
1378
01:03:35,474 --> 01:03:36,942
I just want you to know
1379
01:03:36,975 --> 01:03:40,379
that you have always amazed
me with your brilliance,
1380
01:03:40,412 --> 01:03:42,948
your ability to solve problems.
1381
01:03:42,981 --> 01:03:44,784
You are such a kind soul.
1382
01:03:46,452 --> 01:03:48,153
I did a good job with you.
1383
01:03:48,187 --> 01:03:50,088
Ah, your mom helped a little.
1384
01:03:52,124 --> 01:03:54,928
What I'm saying is I love you.
1385
01:03:56,428 --> 01:03:57,897
And as you graduate,
1386
01:03:57,931 --> 01:04:01,166
know that I am with you and
watching over you always.
1387
01:04:02,568 --> 01:04:03,770
So, say your prayers,
1388
01:04:03,803 --> 01:04:05,939
and believe that great
things can happen,
1389
01:04:07,172 --> 01:04:09,141
because they can and they do.
1390
01:04:11,577 --> 01:04:14,848
And keep me in your life
by remembering me out loud.
1391
01:04:16,482 --> 01:04:18,751
Go with your mom to church.
1392
01:04:18,785 --> 01:04:19,953
Seek comfort in God,
1393
01:04:19,985 --> 01:04:23,957
because God and I, we got you.
1394
01:04:26,726 --> 01:04:27,526
I love you, kid.
1395
01:04:28,994 --> 01:04:29,963
You did good.
1396
01:04:47,045 --> 01:04:50,315
I can't believe how many
people we've helped so far.
1397
01:04:50,349 --> 01:04:52,518
It's a blessing
for us and for them.
1398
01:04:52,551 --> 01:04:54,954
I feel like this is
my purpose, you know,
1399
01:04:54,988 --> 01:04:56,088
to help these people.
1400
01:04:56,121 --> 01:04:56,956
I don't-
1401
01:04:56,990 --> 01:04:58,691
Excuse me.
1402
01:04:58,725 --> 01:05:00,960
Hi, yes,
how many we help you?
1403
01:05:00,994 --> 01:05:02,695
My name's Rebecca Alton.
1404
01:05:02,729 --> 01:05:03,963
I got a call from someone
1405
01:05:03,997 --> 01:05:05,965
that my mother left
something for me here?
1406
01:05:05,999 --> 01:05:07,132
Yes, hi, Rebecca.
1407
01:05:07,165 --> 01:05:08,968
Yeah, hi, I'm Lindsey.
1408
01:05:09,002 --> 01:05:10,970
We do have something from you,
1409
01:05:11,004 --> 01:05:12,872
actually from your mother.
1410
01:05:14,306 --> 01:05:17,010
My mom passed away a few
weeks ago, so how can you?
1411
01:05:17,042 --> 01:05:18,678
Well, Rebecca, we met
your mother two months ago,
1412
01:05:18,711 --> 01:05:21,014
and she left you a message.
1413
01:05:21,046 --> 01:05:22,214
Would you like to watch it now?
1414
01:05:22,247 --> 01:05:24,017
Please, it'll
bring you comfort.
1415
01:05:24,049 --> 01:05:25,018
She loves you.
1416
01:05:26,385 --> 01:05:28,620
I'm not sure that I
understand that, but okay.
1417
01:05:33,525 --> 01:05:34,861
My darling little girl,
1418
01:05:37,062 --> 01:05:38,263
when you watch this,
1419
01:05:38,297 --> 01:05:40,365
I will have moved on
to be with the Lord,
1420
01:05:41,734 --> 01:05:43,870
but I will always be with you
1421
01:05:44,971 --> 01:05:46,438
on the journey
through this life.
1422
01:05:48,140 --> 01:05:50,643
I want you to know, I love you,
1423
01:05:51,543 --> 01:05:53,478
I'm so proud of you,
1424
01:05:53,512 --> 01:05:56,615
and you will never be alone.
1425
01:05:56,649 --> 01:06:00,285
I'm always be with
you in your heart.
1426
01:06:01,486 --> 01:06:02,621
I'm watching over you.
1427
01:06:04,691 --> 01:06:06,693
I love you, Mom.
1428
01:06:06,726 --> 01:06:08,061
I love you, Rebecca.
1429
01:06:34,020 --> 01:06:36,121
Excuse me, sir.
1430
01:06:38,156 --> 01:06:39,826
What do you want?
1431
01:06:39,859 --> 01:06:41,094
I'm sorry to bother you.
1432
01:06:41,126 --> 01:06:42,996
I'm from a Living
Legacy of Love.
1433
01:06:43,029 --> 01:06:45,197
Your son, Brian, sent me.
1434
01:06:45,230 --> 01:06:48,200
Robert, Robert?
1435
01:06:50,135 --> 01:06:51,303
What's going on here?
1436
01:06:51,336 --> 01:06:54,306
This guy, he said
that Brian sent him.
1437
01:06:56,643 --> 01:06:57,644
Why?
1438
01:06:57,677 --> 01:06:58,978
Brian's dead, leave!
1439
01:06:59,012 --> 01:07:00,780
Jake, Jake, please.
1440
01:07:00,813 --> 01:07:02,081
Brian sent us for you.
1441
01:07:02,115 --> 01:07:03,148
Why?
1442
01:07:03,181 --> 01:07:05,417
He said you needed
a big brother figure.
1443
01:07:05,450 --> 01:07:07,053
He wanted me to teach you.
1444
01:07:07,086 --> 01:07:09,588
I don't need
anything from you.
1445
01:07:09,621 --> 01:07:11,590
Jake, please
just listen to me.
1446
01:07:12,725 --> 01:07:14,292
I understand what
you're going through.
1447
01:07:14,326 --> 01:07:15,527
I lost my brother too.
1448
01:07:16,996 --> 01:07:20,099
We just wanna share the message
that Brian left for you.
1449
01:07:20,133 --> 01:07:22,167
I can leave this here and go?
1450
01:07:22,200 --> 01:07:23,970
Come on, let's go.
1451
01:07:24,003 --> 01:07:25,004
Come inside.
1452
01:07:25,038 --> 01:07:25,838
Let's talk.
1453
01:07:32,945 --> 01:07:34,113
I don't understand.
1454
01:07:34,147 --> 01:07:36,115
What is it that Brian did?
1455
01:07:36,149 --> 01:07:38,383
Here,
this is for you all.
1456
01:07:38,417 --> 01:07:39,451
What is this?
1457
01:07:40,619 --> 01:07:45,024
It's a message
from your son, Brian.
1458
01:07:45,058 --> 01:07:45,825
What does it say?
1459
01:07:45,858 --> 01:07:46,959
I can't say.
1460
01:07:46,993 --> 01:07:48,094
Just, just watch.
1461
01:07:49,194 --> 01:07:50,963
Go on.
1462
01:07:50,997 --> 01:07:53,766
Son, it's, go
ahead and hit play.
1463
01:07:55,267 --> 01:07:57,436
Looks like you're heading
over that hill, huh?
1464
01:07:57,469 --> 01:08:00,707
Look, I just, I just wanted
to wish you a happy birthday.
1465
01:08:01,974 --> 01:08:04,209
Mom, give the old man
a hug from me, yeah?
1466
01:08:08,047 --> 01:08:11,184
Even though my
time here is short,
1467
01:08:17,056 --> 01:08:21,961
I had a wonderful
life, and support,
1468
01:08:24,764 --> 01:08:27,800
and I want, I want you
to feel the same as well.
1469
01:08:30,770 --> 01:08:32,705
I hope this message
brings you comfort.
1470
01:08:36,943 --> 01:08:41,114
Even though I'd much rather
be here in my own body,
1471
01:08:45,985 --> 01:08:48,154
I'm always gonna be
watching over you, kid,
1472
01:08:49,287 --> 01:08:50,422
because God has a plan.
1473
01:08:52,992 --> 01:08:54,459
So, remember these two things,
1474
01:08:58,497 --> 01:09:02,400
keep your faith and I
will always love you.
1475
01:09:04,269 --> 01:09:05,437
Thank you for listening.
1476
01:09:06,304 --> 01:09:07,339
Jake, whenever you're ready,
1477
01:09:07,372 --> 01:09:08,540
just give me a call,
1478
01:09:08,573 --> 01:09:10,575
and I'll teach you
how to use that thing.
1479
01:09:10,609 --> 01:09:11,744
Okay.
1480
01:09:11,778 --> 01:09:13,278
Thank you.
1481
01:09:13,311 --> 01:09:14,279
Of course.
1482
01:09:14,312 --> 01:09:15,214
Thank you so much.
1483
01:09:15,248 --> 01:09:16,249
This was so beautiful.
1484
01:09:17,216 --> 01:09:18,684
You're welcome.
1485
01:10:00,927 --> 01:10:03,095
Seriously, don't
push me in again.
1486
01:10:03,129 --> 01:10:04,997
I'm sorry, I couldn't resist.
1487
01:10:05,031 --> 01:10:05,865
You're so bad.
1488
01:10:07,300 --> 01:10:09,902
Oh, yeah, how'd it go
with Brian's family?
1489
01:10:09,936 --> 01:10:11,304
I wish you were there,
1490
01:10:11,336 --> 01:10:12,537
but it went pretty well.
1491
01:10:13,973 --> 01:10:16,309
The mom seemed to be really
moved by the message.
1492
01:10:16,341 --> 01:10:19,212
You can, you can tell the
family's still hurt by it all.
1493
01:10:20,478 --> 01:10:22,849
But I think seeing Brian's
message brought them some hope.
1494
01:10:22,882 --> 01:10:24,317
So glad we're
doing this together.
1495
01:10:24,349 --> 01:10:25,218
It just feels right.
1496
01:10:25,251 --> 01:10:26,518
It does.
1497
01:10:26,551 --> 01:10:27,854
Yeah, me too, me too.
1498
01:10:29,387 --> 01:10:30,690
Hey, I'll give you
two seconds to swim.
1499
01:10:43,169 --> 01:10:44,469
Dad, it's 24!
1500
01:10:44,502 --> 01:10:45,338
I knew you'd get it.
1501
01:10:45,370 --> 01:10:46,272
Very good.
1502
01:10:47,505 --> 01:10:48,741
What else do we have here?
1503
01:10:48,774 --> 01:10:50,575
Hello, this is Lindsey.
1504
01:10:50,609 --> 01:10:52,011
Hi, Lindsey.
1505
01:10:52,044 --> 01:10:53,212
We'd like to send
our news reporter,
1506
01:10:53,246 --> 01:10:54,213
to interview you
1507
01:10:54,247 --> 01:10:56,048
about a Legacy of Love.
1508
01:10:56,082 --> 01:10:57,415
Yes, yes, when?
1509
01:10:58,751 --> 01:11:00,720
How about
Monday at 6 p.m.?
1510
01:11:00,753 --> 01:11:03,789
Okay, I'll be
there, Monday at six.
1511
01:11:03,823 --> 01:11:04,891
Thank you so much.
1512
01:11:06,359 --> 01:11:08,327
Dad, Dad, I need to
tell you something!
1513
01:11:16,434 --> 01:11:18,838
This message
really hit me hard.
1514
01:11:18,871 --> 01:11:20,072
So much heart.
1515
01:11:21,473 --> 01:11:24,076
Dean really did love his wife.
1516
01:11:24,110 --> 01:11:24,911
I know.
1517
01:11:27,346 --> 01:11:30,415
I'm glad he called
us to record him.
1518
01:11:30,448 --> 01:11:33,352
It doesn't get easier,
doing what we're doing,
1519
01:11:33,386 --> 01:11:34,820
making these videos,
1520
01:11:34,854 --> 01:11:38,391
but there's a genuine
comfort in knowing
1521
01:11:38,423 --> 01:11:40,693
that even a little bit
of their loved ones
1522
01:11:40,726 --> 01:11:41,593
are gonna come back to them
1523
01:11:41,627 --> 01:11:43,495
through what we're doing.
1524
01:11:43,528 --> 01:11:44,830
It's something for them
1525
01:11:44,864 --> 01:11:46,399
that will live on
through generations.
1526
01:11:46,431 --> 01:11:48,734
A living legacy of love.
1527
01:11:50,069 --> 01:11:51,603
So, that's where
the name comes from.
1528
01:11:51,637 --> 01:11:52,939
It all makes sense now.
1529
01:11:59,477 --> 01:12:00,512
Living Legacy of Love.
1530
01:12:00,545 --> 01:12:01,479
How can I help you?
1531
01:12:03,448 --> 01:12:05,885
Okay, yeah, we can come to you,
1532
01:12:05,918 --> 01:12:07,286
or you can come to us.
1533
01:12:09,322 --> 01:12:10,588
Okay, perfect.
1534
01:12:10,622 --> 01:12:11,757
What's the address?
1535
01:12:15,460 --> 01:12:17,630
Okay, Wednesday at six.
1536
01:12:20,333 --> 01:12:21,466
We'll be there.
1537
01:12:21,499 --> 01:12:22,500
Thank you.
1538
01:12:25,537 --> 01:12:28,140
Hey, you know what'd be nice?
1539
01:12:29,775 --> 01:12:31,344
If we invited everyone
we gave the videos to,
1540
01:12:31,377 --> 01:12:32,577
to come to group.
1541
01:12:34,780 --> 01:12:35,715
We could do that.
1542
01:12:35,748 --> 01:12:36,916
Yeah, that's a great idea.
1543
01:12:36,949 --> 01:12:38,417
We can prepare a
special invitation,
1544
01:12:38,451 --> 01:12:40,686
and bring it with the
messages when we deliver them.
1545
01:12:42,655 --> 01:12:43,555
I love it.
1546
01:12:47,893 --> 01:12:49,362
Here they come, let's go.
1547
01:12:50,196 --> 01:12:51,430
Fantastic, okay we'll do that.
1548
01:12:51,464 --> 01:12:53,132
Yeah.
1549
01:12:53,165 --> 01:12:54,566
Are you the
Living Legacy of Love group?
1550
01:12:54,599 --> 01:12:56,168
Yeah.
1551
01:12:56,202 --> 01:12:59,205
Lindsey, the Living Legacy
of Love was your brain child.
1552
01:12:59,238 --> 01:13:01,474
Now, that you've helped
over a hundred people,
1553
01:13:01,506 --> 01:13:02,475
how do you feel?
1554
01:13:03,376 --> 01:13:05,111
Well, I'm at peace with it,
1555
01:13:05,144 --> 01:13:07,780
but there are hundreds
more and it will never end.
1556
01:13:07,813 --> 01:13:10,349
As long as we can keep bringing
love and peace to people,
1557
01:13:10,383 --> 01:13:13,686
then the Living Legacy of
Love will have a place.
1558
01:13:13,719 --> 01:13:15,121
It's never ending.
1559
01:13:15,154 --> 01:13:16,588
That's beautiful.
1560
01:13:16,621 --> 01:13:20,525
Lindsey, how was the name
Living Legacy of Love chosen?
1561
01:13:20,558 --> 01:13:22,495
Was there something
that inspired you?
1562
01:13:22,527 --> 01:13:23,496
Yeah.
1563
01:13:23,528 --> 01:13:24,830
Well, our loved ones are alive
1564
01:13:24,864 --> 01:13:26,265
when they record their message.
1565
01:13:26,298 --> 01:13:28,300
And their message
is a gift of love,
1566
01:13:28,334 --> 01:13:30,503
and it's a legacy
they leave for us.
1567
01:13:31,504 --> 01:13:32,905
I mean, it's priceless,
1568
01:13:32,938 --> 01:13:35,875
worth more than any material
thing could ever be.
1569
01:13:35,908 --> 01:13:37,777
It can be shared with the
loved ones left behind,
1570
01:13:37,810 --> 01:13:40,079
and even with future
family members.
1571
01:13:40,112 --> 01:13:41,981
It's a living legacy of love,
1572
01:13:42,014 --> 01:13:44,517
as it brings them back to us,
1573
01:13:44,549 --> 01:13:46,519
even if it's just for a
few moments at a time.
1574
01:13:46,584 --> 01:13:48,854
Yeah, the name just felt right.
1575
01:13:48,888 --> 01:13:49,889
I can see that.
1576
01:13:49,922 --> 01:13:51,290
It's so powerful to know
1577
01:13:51,323 --> 01:13:53,292
that when someone's
hurting so much,
1578
01:13:53,325 --> 01:13:55,294
that they can be touched
by a loved one's message.
1579
01:13:55,327 --> 01:13:58,531
What would you want us to take
away from your experiences
1580
01:13:58,563 --> 01:14:00,733
and path of giving that?
1581
01:14:00,766 --> 01:14:02,535
When my mom died,
I was so lost.
1582
01:14:02,567 --> 01:14:05,638
I didn't think my life
could have a purpose,
1583
01:14:05,671 --> 01:14:08,507
or a direction
without her in it.
1584
01:14:08,541 --> 01:14:11,010
But slowly I realized that
we all have a purpose,
1585
01:14:11,043 --> 01:14:13,012
and we're never alone.
1586
01:14:13,045 --> 01:14:14,747
God is with us always.
1587
01:14:14,780 --> 01:14:16,549
Our loved ones are
always with us.
1588
01:14:16,581 --> 01:14:18,084
And I really want people to know
1589
01:14:18,117 --> 01:14:20,753
that even though their
loved one has crossed over,
1590
01:14:20,786 --> 01:14:22,755
they're always with you,
1591
01:14:22,788 --> 01:14:24,356
and that love never dies.
1592
01:14:25,558 --> 01:14:27,259
I think she said
it perfectly, folks.
1593
01:14:27,293 --> 01:14:30,062
If you'd like to learn more
about Living Legacy of Love,
1594
01:14:30,096 --> 01:14:32,932
go to our website and you
can find their information
1595
01:14:32,965 --> 01:14:36,068
and their links.
1596
01:14:36,102 --> 01:14:37,870
Alright, thank you so much.
1597
01:14:51,750 --> 01:14:53,219
Dad?
1598
01:14:53,252 --> 01:14:54,019
Yeah.
1599
01:14:55,287 --> 01:14:56,522
Don't you think
Grandpa's dementia
1600
01:14:56,555 --> 01:14:58,791
is getting kind of bad?
1601
01:14:58,824 --> 01:15:00,459
I mean...
1602
01:15:00,493 --> 01:15:03,529
Yeah, look, you know how
Grandma's in the hospital
1603
01:15:03,562 --> 01:15:04,363
for hip surgery,
1604
01:15:06,398 --> 01:15:11,403
well when she's not around, his
memory begins to fade and...
1605
01:15:11,937 --> 01:15:13,572
Yeah.
1606
01:15:13,606 --> 01:15:16,609
I don't know, maybe we
could play a video of her,
1607
01:15:16,642 --> 01:15:18,644
see if he remembers?
1608
01:15:18,677 --> 01:15:19,612
Yeah, do you have one?
1609
01:15:19,645 --> 01:15:20,913
Yeah, I have multiple.
1610
01:15:22,314 --> 01:15:23,415
We could play that one?
1611
01:15:23,449 --> 01:15:25,151
That was a good day.
1612
01:15:25,184 --> 01:15:26,352
Give it a shot.
1613
01:15:26,385 --> 01:15:27,153
Right.
1614
01:15:27,186 --> 01:15:28,420
Hey, Grandpa.
1615
01:15:28,454 --> 01:15:29,221
Hey, Pop.
1616
01:15:29,255 --> 01:15:30,055
Hey, we-
1617
01:15:30,089 --> 01:15:30,956
- Pop, Pop.
1618
01:15:30,990 --> 01:15:32,925
We have a video of Grandma.
1619
01:15:32,958 --> 01:15:34,193
Oh, let me see.
1620
01:15:35,394 --> 01:15:36,162
You remember Grandma?
1621
01:15:36,195 --> 01:15:37,096
Grandma?
1622
01:15:37,129 --> 01:15:38,097
Okay, open it.
1623
01:15:38,130 --> 01:15:39,265
Where is she?
1624
01:15:39,298 --> 01:15:40,599
- Are you ready?
- She's in the hospital.
1625
01:15:40,634 --> 01:15:42,601
She's in the hospital
for her hip surgery.
1626
01:15:45,639 --> 01:15:48,274
Hey, look, it's her.
1627
01:15:48,307 --> 01:15:49,441
- Really?
- Really.
1628
01:15:49,475 --> 01:15:51,744
Really?
1629
01:15:51,777 --> 01:15:54,648
You know I love
wine and chocolate.
1630
01:15:54,680 --> 01:15:56,615
She is so beautiful.
1631
01:15:56,650 --> 01:15:57,616
I miss her.
1632
01:15:58,617 --> 01:16:00,686
She's, look at her.
1633
01:16:00,719 --> 01:16:01,954
Oh, well, what a beautiful,
1634
01:16:01,987 --> 01:16:03,522
her smile just radiates.
1635
01:16:03,556 --> 01:16:05,191
- Aw.
- I love her, oh.
1636
01:16:05,224 --> 01:16:06,325
Oh, look at that.
1637
01:16:06,358 --> 01:16:07,627
Oh my goodness, that's...
1638
01:16:07,661 --> 01:16:09,962
Yeah, that's the best.
1639
01:16:09,995 --> 01:16:11,030
You used to give
a fig, Grandpa.
1640
01:16:11,063 --> 01:16:11,964
Oh my goodness.
1641
01:16:11,997 --> 01:16:14,033
I do love it.
1642
01:16:14,066 --> 01:16:16,735
We could be twinsies
1643
01:16:21,473 --> 01:16:22,875
Cookies, again?
1644
01:16:22,908 --> 01:16:24,476
Yeah!
1645
01:16:24,510 --> 01:16:26,612
You know I wouldn't
mind being with you.
1646
01:16:27,613 --> 01:16:28,614
I gotta go though.
1647
01:16:28,648 --> 01:16:30,482
My dad says we have to be home.
1648
01:16:30,516 --> 01:16:32,851
Linds, before we go,
1649
01:16:32,885 --> 01:16:34,887
could I talk to you
about something?
1650
01:16:34,920 --> 01:16:36,622
Yeah, of course,
babe, what's up?
1651
01:16:38,157 --> 01:16:40,192
I brought you something.
1652
01:16:40,226 --> 01:16:42,662
It's little, but it
means a lot to me.
1653
01:16:45,030 --> 01:16:47,066
Linds, you mean the world to me.
1654
01:16:47,099 --> 01:16:49,301
Since we met at the church,
1655
01:16:49,335 --> 01:16:52,238
you fully restored
faith in my life.
1656
01:16:52,271 --> 01:16:53,707
And not only in my life,
1657
01:16:53,739 --> 01:16:56,676
but we've helped so many
people restore their hope
1658
01:16:56,710 --> 01:16:58,110
and their love.
1659
01:16:59,578 --> 01:17:02,314
Most importantly, we
brought love back to them.
1660
01:17:03,582 --> 01:17:06,686
Mom, how do you know
when it's true love?
1661
01:17:06,720 --> 01:17:09,188
Well, you just know,
1662
01:17:09,221 --> 01:17:10,724
like your dad and I.
1663
01:17:10,756 --> 01:17:13,727
The right person will represent
hope and faith and love.
1664
01:17:15,561 --> 01:17:16,730
I wouldn't worry about that.
1665
01:17:18,732 --> 01:17:21,333
You look so beautiful.
1666
01:17:21,367 --> 01:17:22,835
I don't know what to say.
1667
01:17:22,868 --> 01:17:26,238
Linds, when you
wear this necklace,
1668
01:17:27,707 --> 01:17:29,775
I want you to be
reminded of three things.
1669
01:17:31,377 --> 01:17:32,778
The cross represents faith,
1670
01:17:35,247 --> 01:17:36,782
the anchor represents hope,
1671
01:17:38,584 --> 01:17:39,952
and the heart represents love,
1672
01:17:41,120 --> 01:17:42,689
which is everything
you are to me.
1673
01:18:01,840 --> 01:18:04,043
It's beautiful, Andrew.
1674
01:18:04,076 --> 01:18:05,210
You look great in it.
1675
01:18:10,916 --> 01:18:11,984
Thank
you, I love it.
1676
01:18:12,017 --> 01:18:14,186
You're welcome.
1677
01:18:36,942 --> 01:18:38,745
I
would give anything
1678
01:18:38,778 --> 01:18:40,346
to have my mom here with me.
1679
01:18:45,050 --> 01:18:48,520
For a long time, I was
angry with my own pain.
1680
01:18:49,555 --> 01:18:52,591
Sometimes people grieving, well,
1681
01:18:52,624 --> 01:18:54,193
we get caught up
in our own pain,
1682
01:18:57,896 --> 01:18:59,865
so much so, we can't see
1683
01:18:59,898 --> 01:19:02,935
how serving others
in pain would help,
1684
01:19:02,968 --> 01:19:05,070
or why we should even do it.
1685
01:19:06,338 --> 01:19:10,744
I was just so angry
with life, with God,
1686
01:19:12,878 --> 01:19:15,581
but I grew in my faith.
1687
01:19:19,385 --> 01:19:23,489
I realized that helping
people also helped me heal.
1688
01:19:24,890 --> 01:19:29,194
For me, being able to help
people heal and have faith
1689
01:19:29,228 --> 01:19:32,564
has been the greatest
gift from God.
1690
01:19:40,038 --> 01:19:42,809
I know that a Living
Legacy of Love
1691
01:19:42,842 --> 01:19:44,910
has brought hope
to so many people,
1692
01:19:45,879 --> 01:19:47,379
and it will for years to come.
1693
01:19:48,914 --> 01:19:50,048
Never feel alone.
1694
01:19:51,183 --> 01:19:54,953
Know that God is
always with you.
1695
01:21:51,503 --> 01:21:52,371
Hey, Mom.
1696
01:21:56,743 --> 01:21:59,311
First off, I wanna say thank you
1697
01:21:59,344 --> 01:22:02,682
for finally sharing that
secret lasagna recipe with me.
1698
01:22:03,883 --> 01:22:06,886
You made Tony and
my boys so happy.
1699
01:22:08,554 --> 01:22:10,422
Maybe you could make
it for them too.
1700
01:22:13,693 --> 01:22:15,060
I also, I just,
1701
01:22:16,395 --> 01:22:18,564
I wanna say that, that
being your daughter,
1702
01:22:20,065 --> 01:22:21,533
has been such an honor.
1703
01:22:23,569 --> 01:22:25,070
You've always been my hero.
1704
01:22:27,072 --> 01:22:28,440
I hope I've made you proud.
1705
01:22:33,612 --> 01:22:35,715
I'm gonna miss your hugs.
1706
01:22:36,849 --> 01:22:37,717
I'm gonna miss your hugs
1707
01:22:37,750 --> 01:22:40,552
and your weird mom jokes.
1708
01:22:41,921 --> 01:22:44,489
Please tell them to my boys.
1709
01:22:44,523 --> 01:22:46,759
Help them remember who I am.
1710
01:22:46,793 --> 01:22:48,928
And remember that
they're your family too.
1711
01:22:52,197 --> 01:22:57,070
Don't be sad and don't be alone.
1712
01:22:59,104 --> 01:23:00,439
I love you, Mom.
1713
01:23:02,608 --> 01:23:03,542
I love you.
1714
01:23:05,110 --> 01:23:09,716
Carla, this message means
that I'm watching over you.
1715
01:23:12,618 --> 01:23:13,886
Please don't be sad.
1716
01:23:15,554 --> 01:23:17,957
We had 20 beautiful years,
1717
01:23:18,925 --> 01:23:20,760
and three beautiful children.
1718
01:23:23,428 --> 01:23:28,433
I want you to laugh, feel joy,
and tell stories about me,
1719
01:23:29,669 --> 01:23:32,571
so that our children
and our grandchildren
1720
01:23:32,604 --> 01:23:35,173
would know how much I
love you and our family.
1721
01:23:38,845 --> 01:23:41,748
Until we meet again, I
love you, my sweet wife.
1722
01:23:44,616 --> 01:23:47,352
Thank you for so
many wonderful years.
1723
01:23:51,991 --> 01:23:55,862
Oh, honey, I know
you're hurting without me.
1724
01:23:55,895 --> 01:23:57,897
That's why I wanted to
try to do this, a tape,
1725
01:23:57,930 --> 01:23:59,032
while I still could.
1726
01:24:01,834 --> 01:24:03,803
I can't thank you enough
1727
01:24:03,836 --> 01:24:06,739
for being there for
me all these years,
1728
01:24:06,773 --> 01:24:09,142
and facing the big C with me.
1729
01:24:10,175 --> 01:24:11,443
I know it wasn't easy.
1730
01:24:14,246 --> 01:24:15,180
How could it be?
1731
01:24:16,983 --> 01:24:21,688
I wasn't always myself
and I'm sorry for that.
1732
01:24:23,690 --> 01:24:24,691
It just wasn't fair.
1733
01:24:27,192 --> 01:24:28,695
But I want you to know
1734
01:24:28,728 --> 01:24:31,798
that you weren't just
the love of my life,
1735
01:24:31,831 --> 01:24:33,298
you were my life,
1736
01:24:33,331 --> 01:24:37,369
and you brought so much joy
and laughter into this family.
1737
01:24:37,402 --> 01:24:41,007
But now it's time for
you to live, baby,
1738
01:24:41,040 --> 01:24:44,110
and share that big, beautiful
light inside of yours,
1739
01:24:44,143 --> 01:24:45,144
with the world.
1740
01:24:46,411 --> 01:24:51,017
Hey, Megs, I know everyone
says this in the movies,
1741
01:24:51,851 --> 01:24:53,452
but if you are watching this,
1742
01:24:56,221 --> 01:24:57,522
I have left this world.
1743
01:25:02,427 --> 01:25:04,362
I wanted to leave you something
1744
01:25:05,765 --> 01:25:10,402
that not only would inspire
you, but comfort you.
1745
01:25:11,838 --> 01:25:13,305
And even though I'm not in
this world with you physically,
1746
01:25:15,340 --> 01:25:17,777
I will always be with you here.
1747
01:25:23,116 --> 01:25:23,916
No tears.
1748
01:25:32,591 --> 01:25:35,661
You have to keep
your chin up, okay?
1749
01:25:35,695 --> 01:25:37,797
You have to be strong
for Scotty, alright?
1750
01:25:42,467 --> 01:25:46,873
Promise me you'll fill
yours and Scotty's life
1751
01:25:46,906 --> 01:25:49,742
with as much love as
this world can give you.
1752
01:25:57,650 --> 01:26:01,453
In this life, the afterlife,
1753
01:26:01,486 --> 01:26:02,922
and in the lives to follow,
1754
01:26:07,160 --> 01:26:08,293
together forever.
1755
01:26:12,698 --> 01:26:14,399
Until we are together again,
1756
01:26:18,503 --> 01:26:20,239
I love you so much.
1757
01:26:20,369 --> 01:26:25,369
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