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[ "America The Beautiful"
plays ] Dre: The American Dream
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pay your dues, and anything
you ever want can be yours.
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Unless you're Black.
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To get even a tiny drop
of that respect we deserve,
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Black people
have to be the best.
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No, the greatest.
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And because
we have to be great,
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that excellence oozes
through everything we do --
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how we walk, how we talk,
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and especially how we look.
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We don't have a choice.
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Our path to the American Dream
is so narrow
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that one perceived slip
brings out the haters.
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Serena was on her way
to winning another French Open,
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but all they could talk about
was her catsuit.
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Barack Obama went three racks
in his closet,
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and everyone lost their minds.
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So, as always,
Black people gotta do
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even more than we already do.
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That's why the Johnsons
always bring it.
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Time for
- a freshness check. - Okay.
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So, Adidas top
and sweats,
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and I even got the socks.
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Okay. No notes.
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You are my favorite.
Get outta here.
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These shoes don't drop
for another month.
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Don't listen
to what I just told him.
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- You're my favorite.
- Alright.
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[ Ominous chord strikes ]
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Whoa! Whoa! Do you think
you're leaving this house
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looking like you've been rolling
around in flour all day?!
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Don't you move.
You stay right there.
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Unh-unh! Did you really think
you were gonna leave this house
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with them
fire-startin' legs?
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What you think
this is, huh?
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Mnh-mnh.
I ain't the one.
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Devante,
I ain't the one.
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What are you doing?
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He thinks I'm the one, Bow.
I ain't the one.
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Come here, boy.
Okay. Oh --
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[ Scoffs ] Like I'm gonna let
this little boy's knees
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undo all of Dr. King's work.
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You are presentable.
Beat it. Unh!
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I get it, Dre.
He's ashy.
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But don't you think you went
a little bit overboard there?
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I'm having flashbacks
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to when you
shaved Jack's head
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because his lineup
was off.
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There's no such thing
as overreacting
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when your family's honor
is at stake.
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What my baby
talkin' about?
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Our family honor?
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This one was
gonna let Devante
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go to school ashy.
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Oh, Lord.
Rainbow: Dre, that's not what I said.
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She tryin'
to get that baby snatched up
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by Black CPS!
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Mm-hmm.
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What's... Black CPS?
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Black Child
Protective Services!
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Okay. That's --
That's not a thing.
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Oh, it's a thing.
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They guard our kids
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against Black parents
who ain't got no damn sense.
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Okay.
You.
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Snatched up that Baxter boy
when Dre was 7
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'cause he always had
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crusty eyes
and chapped lips.
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That...didn't happen.
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You better believe
it happened.
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[ Scoffs ]
Swooped in like the feds
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with that, uh,
Elián González
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and placed him
with a family of witnesses
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on the good side
of the 10 Freeway!
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Uh, thank you so --
Thank you so much, Ruby.
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- Ashy.
- Yeah, thank you.
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[ Scoffs ]
Thank you.
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Yeah, no.
She's right.
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Is she?
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Yea--
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I'm talking about Devante
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knowing he should never
leave this house
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looking like
a little Dennis Rodman.
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Well, I think you need to be
a little less worried
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about Devante's legs
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and a little bit
more worried
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about the things
you say to him.
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The things
I say to him? Yeah.
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I'm talking no different than
how I talk to all of our kids.
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What we learned
about parenting
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has evolved
since we had Zoey.
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It is very important for us
to stay up on what's new.
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Just last week,
I heard a podcast
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where they shared
new research...
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Mm-hmm....saying that the words
we use have meaning,
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including the positive ones.
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So when we say to our kids,
"Oh, you're so smart,
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you're so pretty,
you're so strong,"
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they think that
they have no value
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if they are not
those things.
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Well, what makes a child
valuable?
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Because they don't have
no money.
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Okay, well,
I just don't want us
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to give our kids
a complex.
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We're four for four, Bow!
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Zoey went to college,
Junior has a job,
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Diane takes
all honor classes,
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and Jack --
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Jack used the can opener
the other day.
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I'm not worried.
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You know what? Fine, Dre.
Forget I said anything.
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I already have.
Okay, great.
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I love you so much.
Bye-bye. Love you, too.
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Olivia: Wow.
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I'm impressed with the whole
routine they have here.
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When I was in school,
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any old pervert
could walk on campus.
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Oh, no. It used to be
like that over here, too,
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before we found out Coach Weeks
wasn't a gym teacher.
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Whoa! Wha-- You guys have
Picture Day tomorrow?!
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See, this is the kind
of stuff that should be in the calendar.
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Yep, and I know exactly
what my look is gonna be.
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Bookish beauty
who turns heads
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just by taking off
her glasses.
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Mm. Diane, that's just
some dumb movie trope. You --
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Oh, my God!
You're stunning!
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Thank you.
Mm-hmm.
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What about you, Jack?
What do you got planned?
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Oh, I'm just gonna hit it
with my classic --
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the "bless 'em."
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♪
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Okay. Are you sure you want
to go with that, Jack?
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Your high-school
yearbook photo
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is one of your top-four
lifetime photos of all time!
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Yeah.
It's right up there with your driver's license,
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your passport,
and your wedding photo.
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And my personal favorite --
mugshot.
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Look at these baby waves.
I'm not pressed. I got this.
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Okay, no, Jack,
this is not a joke.
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This picture
will follow you forever.
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In mine, there was
a weird shadow on my chest,
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and everybody thought
I was stuffing my bra.
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They called me "Crinkle Cups"
every day after that
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for three years.
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It's how they announced me
at graduation.
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Wow.
Yeah.
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Uh, thank you, Olivia.
I-I guess it is a big photo.
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It is, yeah.
I said that.
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Yeah, but you're
- unreliable. - Yeah, seriously, though.
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Shouldn't you be at work
right now?
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- Get out.
- Get a job, bro.
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I got a job.
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Jack:
- Disappointed. - Don't play with my bag.
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♪
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That's a hundred.
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Wow. I did not think
you were gonna do it.
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And all
for just $44.
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Oh, yeah.
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Uh, this might be
a bad time to ask,
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but I actually need
to borrow exactly $44.
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Hey. What's going on,
fellas?[ Muffled cough ]
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Check this out.
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Bow thinks the way
I talk to Devante
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is gonna mess him up.
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Mm.
Well, you named him Devante.
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Uh, that doomed him
to ride the bus.
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But lookit. So what?
You know, he's had trauma in his life.
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Big deal.
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Trauma actually makes kids
better, okay?
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Look at Kawhi Leonard,
Prince Harry, Batman.
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Don't forget about Simba.
[ Chuckles ]
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I had an uncle
just like that.
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He tried to kill me
a gang of times.
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Yeah. Dre, think about all
the great men we'd miss out on
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if they didn't go
through trauma as kids.
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I haven't
traumatized him, okay?
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I'm just telling him
like it is,
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and if I come off blunt,
no big deal, alright?
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Kids are resilient.
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I completely agree.
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It is a father's duty
to be direct,
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to prepare them
- for the world. - Mm!
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It's all this touchy-feely crap
that the moms tell 'em.
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That's what
screws 'em up.
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Yeah, like, uh, "Someone will
love you for who you are."
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"Bullies are just
jealous of you."
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"No one's gonna make fun
of your tail, Josh."
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You had a tail?
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That tracks.
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Hey, Dre?
Dre: Mm?
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Freak here is right.
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The real world
needs real talk.
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Exactly. If I didn't
give it to him raw,
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I wouldn't be doing my job
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as a loving, present
Black father.
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That's right.
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My Black father
was very present.
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Gave me notes
on everything --
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how to chew my food,
my handwriting, how to snore...
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how weird my nipples look
through my shirts.
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By pointing out my flaws,
it made me a better person.
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Wait, wait, wait.
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Is that why you wear vests
all the time?
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Because of
your weird nipples?
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Fashion choice only.
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Okay, guys,
thank you for your input,
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and my children will not be
developing any weird complexes.
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They know
that I love them all
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and I'm coming
from a good place.
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Now, if you'll excuse me,
I have some real work to do.
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You can see them
through my hands?
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Here's the thing --
I know I'm a good dad.
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I'm teaching my children
the right lessons,
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and that's why
they're just fine.
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Kids! Come get this
fancy-ass pizza that's...
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not as good but more expensive
than Pizza Hut!
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Devante:
I'm ashy, Daddy.
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I don't want to be ashy.
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Oh, man.
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I broke my kid.
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[ Clattering ]
What the hell?
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Man:
Police, police, police!
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Okay!
Black CPS.
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Where's the child you broke?
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♪
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We're taking you with us
to La Jolla.
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You'll be safe there.
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Devante: Bye, Daddy.
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But you didn't see him,
man!
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Every time he took a step,
his knees ignited a fire!
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It's his mama's fault!
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♪
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[ Sighs ]
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Okay, buddy.
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I tried to fight it,
but Bow was right.
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I gave our kids a complex.
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Why do you have
that guilty face?
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What did you do?
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I think
I broke our baby, Bow.
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He was putting lotion on
like a redhead on a beach!
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The whole room smelled like
a Bath & Body Works.
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Oh, Dre...
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Dre, Dre, Dre, Dre, Dre.
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It seems as if your...drive
to be the best dad ever
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has skidded on the lotion
of your bad decisions.
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I told you
this would happen.
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Words have consequences!
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Two years of saying
"pee in the toilet,"
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and this is what sticks?
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00:09:40,405 --> 00:09:42,190
Ah, I think I messed up
one of our kids.
251
00:09:42,233 --> 00:09:44,496
Mnh.
One of your kids?
252
00:09:44,540 --> 00:09:47,369
Come on, big guy.
All of us need therapy.
253
00:09:47,412 --> 00:09:49,023
What are you talking about?
You're fine, boy.
254
00:09:49,066 --> 00:09:51,112
I can't even play games
'cause you told me
255
00:09:51,155 --> 00:09:52,592
the only point
of competition
256
00:09:52,635 --> 00:09:54,376
is to wipe the floor
with the blood of your enemies.
257
00:09:54,419 --> 00:09:55,812
And?
258
00:09:55,856 --> 00:09:57,901
He breaks out into hives
before game night.
259
00:09:57,945 --> 00:09:59,599
See, Dre?
260
00:09:59,642 --> 00:10:01,252
Words are very powerful.
261
00:10:01,296 --> 00:10:03,864
But now that you're ready
to evolve, I...
262
00:10:03,907 --> 00:10:07,258
I have the perfect podcast
for you.
263
00:10:07,302 --> 00:10:11,001
[ Sweetly ]
A child is like a boat,
264
00:10:11,045 --> 00:10:16,224
and a parent
is like a gentle breeze.
265
00:10:16,267 --> 00:10:18,313
Those are just my thoughts.
266
00:10:18,356 --> 00:10:20,620
Thoughts from a doctor.
267
00:10:20,663 --> 00:10:23,840
I'm Dr. Rainbow Johnson.
268
00:10:23,884 --> 00:10:28,018
Thank you for listening
to "Bow Knows Parenting"
269
00:10:28,062 --> 00:10:32,109
with Dr. Rainbow Johnson, MD.
270
00:10:36,244 --> 00:10:39,073
[ Normal voice ] Okay.
Well, that did not record.
271
00:10:40,770 --> 00:10:43,425
I didn't mean
to mess up my kid.
272
00:10:43,468 --> 00:10:46,036
I guess I just got to
figure out a way to fix this.
273
00:10:46,080 --> 00:10:50,171
No, no! Let the expert
handle Devante.
274
00:10:50,214 --> 00:10:52,869
You just try not to cause
any more damage, alright?
275
00:10:52,913 --> 00:10:54,175
Yeah.
276
00:10:54,218 --> 00:10:56,525
I'm gonna go save
my -- my kid.
277
00:10:58,701 --> 00:11:00,921
Okay, look.
I know this looks bad,
278
00:11:00,964 --> 00:11:02,966
but if we
learned anything
279
00:11:03,010 --> 00:11:04,489
from the Michael Jordan
documentary,
280
00:11:04,533 --> 00:11:07,405
it's that there's
a price for greatness.
281
00:11:07,449 --> 00:11:08,929
Oh, no.
Here come the hives.
282
00:11:08,972 --> 00:11:10,495
Okay...
[ Groans ]
283
00:11:10,539 --> 00:11:15,500
♪
284
00:11:15,544 --> 00:11:16,850
Look. Please don't stop
on my account.
285
00:11:16,893 --> 00:11:18,460
I am very entertained.
286
00:11:18,503 --> 00:11:20,288
I've been here for hours,
but I can't figure out
287
00:11:20,331 --> 00:11:21,898
what I'm gonna do
for this school picture.
288
00:11:21,942 --> 00:11:23,334
Nothing I'm trying
is gonna make an impression
289
00:11:23,378 --> 00:11:24,640
that'll stand
the test of time.
290
00:11:24,684 --> 00:11:26,033
Look, look.
Pew, pew, pew!
291
00:11:28,688 --> 00:11:29,950
See? Forgettable.
292
00:11:29,993 --> 00:11:32,039
[ Groans ]
Bro, you are missing
293
00:11:32,082 --> 00:11:34,432
the forest
for the trees, man.
294
00:11:34,476 --> 00:11:37,261
It's about the whole
look and the vibe you bring into it.
295
00:11:37,305 --> 00:11:39,786
Okay, um,
what's my vibe right now?
296
00:11:41,178 --> 00:11:44,573
"Grown man who watches
children's movies...alone."
297
00:11:44,616 --> 00:11:46,967
I'm gonna blow this.
298
00:11:48,185 --> 00:11:50,797
Look.
Don't you worry, friend.
299
00:11:50,840 --> 00:11:52,842
I've got your back.
300
00:11:52,886 --> 00:11:55,627
[ Kool & the Gang's
"Hollywood Swinging" plays ]
301
00:11:55,671 --> 00:11:58,456
♪
302
00:11:58,500 --> 00:12:02,896
So, Diane had gotten
her hooks into Jack,
303
00:12:02,939 --> 00:12:05,855
and it was going to be a test
of whether I could keep myself
304
00:12:05,899 --> 00:12:08,118
from doing lasting damage
to my kids.
305
00:12:08,162 --> 00:12:09,554
♪ Hey, hey, hey
306
00:12:09,598 --> 00:12:11,774
Because this...
307
00:12:11,818 --> 00:12:13,558
this was not it.
308
00:12:13,602 --> 00:12:14,908
♪
309
00:12:14,951 --> 00:12:16,170
[ Bell dinging ]
310
00:12:16,213 --> 00:12:19,608
♪ Say hey, hey, hey
311
00:12:19,651 --> 00:12:20,565
♪ What ya got to say?
312
00:12:20,609 --> 00:12:22,742
Look...
313
00:12:22,785 --> 00:12:23,960
at you.
314
00:12:24,004 --> 00:12:25,701
See, Diane's
made me realize
315
00:12:25,745 --> 00:12:27,572
that the way to make
a lasting impression
316
00:12:27,616 --> 00:12:29,618
is to channel
those NBA greats.
317
00:12:29,661 --> 00:12:32,273
If my classmates are gonna
remember me for anything,
318
00:12:32,316 --> 00:12:35,363
it's gonna be that I pulled off
the Full Westbrook.
319
00:12:35,406 --> 00:12:37,017
Wait.
320
00:12:37,060 --> 00:12:39,323
Ah. Can't forget
my timepiece.
321
00:12:39,367 --> 00:12:41,238
It makes the fit.
322
00:12:41,282 --> 00:12:43,110
Yes, it does.
323
00:12:43,153 --> 00:12:44,328
Thanks for your help.
324
00:12:44,372 --> 00:12:46,678
The pleasure
was truly all mine.
325
00:12:46,722 --> 00:12:48,158
What?
326
00:12:48,202 --> 00:12:50,552
While I succeeded
at biting my tongue,
327
00:12:50,595 --> 00:12:53,250
Bow tried to clean up
my mess with Devante.
328
00:12:53,294 --> 00:12:55,731
[ Chuckles ]
Hi, sweetheart.
329
00:12:55,775 --> 00:12:57,167
Look at that nice truck!
330
00:12:57,211 --> 00:12:59,517
Vroom, vroom, vroom!
331
00:12:59,561 --> 00:13:02,042
So, honey, I wanted
to talk to you
332
00:13:02,085 --> 00:13:05,262
about how crazy
Daddy was yesterday.
333
00:13:05,306 --> 00:13:07,351
He was so crazy, right?
334
00:13:07,395 --> 00:13:09,571
Talking about
all that lotion stuff?
335
00:13:09,614 --> 00:13:11,616
My God, I wish I could say
he's gonna be better,
336
00:13:11,660 --> 00:13:14,184
but we both know he's not.
337
00:13:14,228 --> 00:13:16,404
So...
338
00:13:16,447 --> 00:13:17,840
honey, I just want
to make sure you know
339
00:13:17,884 --> 00:13:20,538
that there's nothing wrong
with your skin.
340
00:13:20,582 --> 00:13:22,410
You're so strong
341
00:13:22,453 --> 00:13:25,717
and so handsome and...
342
00:13:25,761 --> 00:13:27,415
Wait a minute.
343
00:13:27,458 --> 00:13:29,939
Okay, the podcast said
do not focus on beauty
344
00:13:29,983 --> 00:13:31,636
or he is going to become
an egomaniac.
345
00:13:31,680 --> 00:13:32,855
I got this.
346
00:13:32,899 --> 00:13:34,552
[ Inhales sharply ]
347
00:13:34,596 --> 00:13:37,033
Devante...
348
00:13:37,077 --> 00:13:39,383
you are so smart.
349
00:13:41,733 --> 00:13:45,563
Goop said compliments
are the new smoking.
350
00:13:45,607 --> 00:13:47,827
Okay. Honey...
351
00:13:47,870 --> 00:13:49,872
I just want you to understand
352
00:13:49,916 --> 00:13:52,179
that you...
353
00:13:52,222 --> 00:13:55,399
you are
my special little boy --
354
00:13:55,443 --> 00:13:58,881
but not so special
or so handsome or so smart
355
00:13:58,925 --> 00:14:00,317
that you're gonna --
356
00:14:00,361 --> 00:14:03,668
you're gonna become
a sociopath, so...
357
00:14:03,712 --> 00:14:05,018
Do you understand?
358
00:14:05,061 --> 00:14:06,584
[ Devante crying ]
359
00:14:06,628 --> 00:14:09,631
Oh, my God. No.
Oh, God. Oh, no, no.
360
00:14:09,674 --> 00:14:11,938
Okay. Um --
No, please don't cry!
361
00:14:11,981 --> 00:14:14,331
Please don't cry!
Okay. It's okay.
362
00:14:14,375 --> 00:14:15,550
Sweetheart, it's fine.
363
00:14:15,593 --> 00:14:16,551
Listen. Come here.
364
00:14:16,594 --> 00:14:18,074
Vroom! Vroom!
365
00:14:18,118 --> 00:14:20,816
Look at this truck!
This is my favorite truck!
366
00:14:20,860 --> 00:14:22,470
Vroom, vroom!
367
00:14:22,513 --> 00:14:24,298
Do you want ice cream
for dinner, honey?
368
00:14:24,341 --> 00:14:25,603
[ Crying continues ]
369
00:14:27,736 --> 00:14:30,826
Oh, look at you!
You look beautiful, baby.
370
00:14:30,870 --> 00:14:33,176
I killed Picture Day.
371
00:14:33,220 --> 00:14:36,876
See, without my glasses, people
saw a whole new Diane Johnson.
372
00:14:36,919 --> 00:14:38,660
See, Miguel Juarez
did a double take
373
00:14:38,703 --> 00:14:40,183
when I walked by
like a beer commercial,
374
00:14:40,227 --> 00:14:42,185
and his girlfriend
was maaad.
375
00:14:42,229 --> 00:14:45,188
That feeling never
gets old, you know.
376
00:14:45,232 --> 00:14:46,711
The other day,
I started a fight
377
00:14:46,755 --> 00:14:48,626
between a couple
at the fruit stand.
378
00:14:48,670 --> 00:14:49,540
Oh.
[ Laughs ]
379
00:14:49,584 --> 00:14:50,933
Ho!
380
00:14:50,977 --> 00:14:52,543
That's what you wore
for Picture Day?
381
00:14:52,587 --> 00:14:54,850
Yeah. Isn't it dope?
What you think, Grandma?
382
00:14:54,894 --> 00:14:57,722
Well, what I think is,
um...
383
00:15:00,160 --> 00:15:02,118
I'm gonna buy
a dozen yearbooks
384
00:15:02,162 --> 00:15:04,425
and pass 'em out
to all my friends.
385
00:15:04,468 --> 00:15:06,209
Well, you got to let me
autograph 'em
386
00:15:06,253 --> 00:15:07,689
- before you pass 'em out.
- Alright, now.
387
00:15:07,732 --> 00:15:09,996
Dre: Mm-hmm.
388
00:15:10,039 --> 00:15:12,389
You cannot
be okay with that.
389
00:15:12,433 --> 00:15:15,175
Well, you know, he's just
expressing himself.
390
00:15:15,218 --> 00:15:17,829
He looks like
he's expressing himself
391
00:15:17,873 --> 00:15:19,788
right into clown college!
392
00:15:19,831 --> 00:15:21,442
You know, I think
I have a connect
393
00:15:21,485 --> 00:15:22,704
on the yearbook committee.
394
00:15:22,747 --> 00:15:24,924
Maybe I can get
the photo wiped?
395
00:15:24,967 --> 00:15:26,490
How you gonna
have your son
396
00:15:26,534 --> 00:15:28,275
out in the streets
looking like that?
397
00:15:28,318 --> 00:15:31,278
Why didn't you talk some sense
into that boy?
398
00:15:31,321 --> 00:15:33,889
I'm trying to watch
how I talk to our kids
399
00:15:33,933 --> 00:15:37,023
because I'm afraid
I'm messing them up.
400
00:15:37,066 --> 00:15:38,981
What you talking about?
Those kids are fine.
401
00:15:39,025 --> 00:15:41,549
Are they?
Because I don't know that.
402
00:15:41,592 --> 00:15:44,987
Warning Devante not to be ashy
probably gave him nightmares.
403
00:15:45,031 --> 00:15:47,337
And if I tell him to work hard,
is he gonna get obsessive?
404
00:15:47,381 --> 00:15:49,687
And if I tell him
work isn't everything, is he gonna get lazy?
405
00:15:49,731 --> 00:15:51,080
And if I tell him
to keep his chin up,
406
00:15:51,124 --> 00:15:52,516
is he gonna get
plastic surgery
407
00:15:52,560 --> 00:15:54,214
and end up looking like
Michael Jackson?!
408
00:15:54,257 --> 00:15:56,433
Hey, hey, now.
Come on.
409
00:15:56,477 --> 00:15:59,088
Ain't no sense in getting
all emotional, pumpkin.
410
00:15:59,132 --> 00:16:00,481
I'm not emotional!
411
00:16:00,524 --> 00:16:02,570
Yes, you are.
412
00:16:02,613 --> 00:16:04,920
Now, you the man
of this house.
413
00:16:04,964 --> 00:16:07,227
You got to keep
your emotions in check!
414
00:16:07,270 --> 00:16:09,359
Just like I've been telling you
since you were a kid!
415
00:16:09,403 --> 00:16:11,187
[ Voice breaking ]
You're right, Mama.
416
00:16:11,231 --> 00:16:12,710
I'll keep my emotions
in check.
417
00:16:12,754 --> 00:16:14,190
'Course I'm right.
418
00:16:15,757 --> 00:16:18,673
You go on over there and make
yourself a snack or somethin'.
419
00:16:18,716 --> 00:16:20,588
And if you're gonna cry,
you go somewhere
420
00:16:20,631 --> 00:16:22,155
where them kids
won't hear you!
421
00:16:22,198 --> 00:16:23,460
Yes, ma'am.
422
00:16:23,504 --> 00:16:25,462
[ Scoffs ]
423
00:16:25,506 --> 00:16:27,029
I'll cry quietly.
424
00:16:27,073 --> 00:16:29,727
Rainbow: Dre?
[ Sobbing ]
425
00:16:29,771 --> 00:16:32,339
Dre!
What are you doing?
426
00:16:32,382 --> 00:16:34,036
[ Crying ] My mom said
I shouldn't cry
427
00:16:34,080 --> 00:16:35,777
in front of the babies.
428
00:16:35,820 --> 00:16:37,909
I guess our kids aren't the only
ones that are affected
429
00:16:37,953 --> 00:16:41,348
by something that their parents
have said to them.
430
00:16:41,391 --> 00:16:42,566
Yeah.
431
00:16:42,610 --> 00:16:43,959
Well...
432
00:16:45,830 --> 00:16:49,051
At least I fixed Devante.
433
00:16:49,095 --> 00:16:50,270
[ Whimpers ]
434
00:16:50,313 --> 00:16:52,054
[ Strained sob ]
435
00:16:52,098 --> 00:16:53,838
No, I didn't.
436
00:16:56,363 --> 00:16:59,235
I blew it!
I blew it big-time!
437
00:16:59,279 --> 00:17:02,325
[ Sobbing ]
438
00:17:02,369 --> 00:17:04,066
I want cake.
439
00:17:04,110 --> 00:17:05,981
[ Sobbing ] There's more
under the sink!
440
00:17:06,025 --> 00:17:07,635
Really?
Yeah.
441
00:17:07,678 --> 00:17:09,680
Chocolate, strawberry.
442
00:17:13,162 --> 00:17:14,642
[ Sighs ]
443
00:17:16,818 --> 00:17:18,907
Babe.
Yeah?
444
00:17:20,343 --> 00:17:23,259
Do you think I've been
using these secret cakes
445
00:17:23,303 --> 00:17:25,261
as a way to soothe myself
as I'm trying to control
446
00:17:25,305 --> 00:17:27,220
the natural emotions
I'm pushing down?
447
00:17:27,263 --> 00:17:29,526
Well, Dre, when Junior
dropped out of college,
448
00:17:29,570 --> 00:17:32,747
you gave the bakery half
of your paycheck every month,
449
00:17:32,790 --> 00:17:34,053
so, you know...
450
00:17:34,096 --> 00:17:36,055
Yeah. I'm sorry.
451
00:17:36,098 --> 00:17:37,578
I don't know
what all that was.
452
00:17:37,621 --> 00:17:40,885
You know, I'm just now
starting to realize that...
453
00:17:40,929 --> 00:17:42,800
it was a lot of pressure
growing up in a house
454
00:17:42,844 --> 00:17:44,628
where I was told
to check my emotions
455
00:17:44,672 --> 00:17:46,543
because I was
the man of the house.
456
00:17:46,587 --> 00:17:50,112
Ugh. That's a lot of
responsibility on a child.
457
00:17:50,156 --> 00:17:52,375
Yeah, but get this.
Hmm?
458
00:17:52,419 --> 00:17:54,290
I understand why she was
telling me that.
459
00:17:54,334 --> 00:17:56,205
Why?
460
00:17:56,249 --> 00:17:58,033
She was doing her best
to prepare me
461
00:17:58,077 --> 00:18:00,122
for the world
that I was in.
462
00:18:00,166 --> 00:18:01,341
Hmm.
463
00:18:01,384 --> 00:18:05,432
But still... I always
had a voice in my head
464
00:18:05,475 --> 00:18:09,566
making me feel bad
every time I got emotional.
465
00:18:11,264 --> 00:18:14,397
And today I realized
that voice was my mama.
466
00:18:14,441 --> 00:18:16,399
Dre.
Hmm?
467
00:18:16,443 --> 00:18:20,099
We are gonna be the voice
in our child's head.
468
00:18:22,318 --> 00:18:23,537
So what are we gonna do
about it?
469
00:18:23,580 --> 00:18:25,539
I do not know.
470
00:18:25,582 --> 00:18:27,584
You know, if -- if we're gonna
fail no matter what...
471
00:18:27,628 --> 00:18:29,151
Mm-hmm.
472
00:18:29,195 --> 00:18:31,719
...do we just lean into it?
I-I don't know.
473
00:18:31,762 --> 00:18:33,373
A-Abandon them?
No, Dre.
474
00:18:33,416 --> 00:18:35,114
That's still illegal.
475
00:18:35,157 --> 00:18:36,811
Okay, so we just
live with the fact
476
00:18:36,854 --> 00:18:39,205
knowing we're gonna be the voice
in their heads influencing them
477
00:18:39,248 --> 00:18:42,164
towards every good and bad
decision that they'll ever make.
478
00:18:42,208 --> 00:18:43,557
Yes, I think so.
479
00:18:43,600 --> 00:18:45,515
Mm!
480
00:18:45,559 --> 00:18:48,953
You know, I -- I have my
parents' voices in my head, too.
481
00:18:48,997 --> 00:18:50,955
- Mm-hmm.
- But they're super positive.
482
00:18:50,999 --> 00:18:53,001
They were constantly telling me
over and over and over
483
00:18:53,044 --> 00:18:54,829
and over again
how smart I was, you know?
484
00:18:54,872 --> 00:18:56,439
But it made me believe
485
00:18:56,483 --> 00:18:58,659
that the way
to make people happy...
486
00:18:58,702 --> 00:19:00,313
is to achieve.
487
00:19:00,356 --> 00:19:01,531
Mm.
488
00:19:01,575 --> 00:19:03,272
Oh.
489
00:19:03,316 --> 00:19:05,622
That's why I'm always telling
people that I'm a doctor!
490
00:19:05,666 --> 00:19:07,842
Ha ha! Yeah!
It's the voice in my head!
491
00:19:07,885 --> 00:19:10,192
Ah.
[ Laughing ]
492
00:19:10,236 --> 00:19:13,152
Well, maybe now that you
realize it, you'll stop.
493
00:19:13,195 --> 00:19:15,719
No.
I'm not hurting anybody.
494
00:19:15,763 --> 00:19:17,199
No, you're just
killing them.
495
00:19:17,243 --> 00:19:18,853
I am not killing people,
Dre.
496
00:19:18,896 --> 00:19:20,202
There's, like, one a year.
497
00:19:20,246 --> 00:19:21,856
And I don't kill them.
They just die.
498
00:19:21,899 --> 00:19:23,074
It's not my fault.
499
00:19:25,642 --> 00:19:28,210
[ Cellphone chimes ]
500
00:19:30,386 --> 00:19:33,694
Oh, wow.
Jack, I am really sorry.
501
00:19:33,737 --> 00:19:36,784
What? Did you make me eat
something that's not food again?
502
00:19:36,827 --> 00:19:39,265
No, somebody from the yearbook
committee leaked your photos.
503
00:19:39,308 --> 00:19:40,440
They're everywhere.
504
00:19:40,483 --> 00:19:41,354
Really?
505
00:19:43,747 --> 00:19:46,533
Oh, no, yo.
They made you a meme.
506
00:19:46,576 --> 00:19:47,621
Gimme that.
507
00:19:50,014 --> 00:19:51,755
This is dope!
508
00:19:51,799 --> 00:19:52,843
- Wait. What?!
- Wait. What?!
509
00:19:52,887 --> 00:19:54,280
I'm being shared everywhere.
510
00:19:54,323 --> 00:19:56,107
I got to make merch
and an Instagram
511
00:19:56,151 --> 00:19:58,109
where I can localize
all the posts.
512
00:19:59,415 --> 00:20:01,678
Oh, my God.
I could be an NFT.
513
00:20:01,722 --> 00:20:03,027
I'm gonna be a legend!
514
00:20:05,726 --> 00:20:07,554
We do not deserve him.
515
00:20:07,597 --> 00:20:10,948
I've got to figure out
how to screw him out of that NFT money.
516
00:20:10,992 --> 00:20:14,604
I'm not perfect.
I'm going to make mistakes.
517
00:20:14,648 --> 00:20:18,521
But knowing those mistakes
will become voices in his head
518
00:20:18,565 --> 00:20:20,567
makes the stakes feel too high.
519
00:20:20,610 --> 00:20:24,048
All I'm saying is...
we can be imperfect together
520
00:20:24,092 --> 00:20:26,007
on the path
to getting better.
521
00:20:26,050 --> 00:20:27,400
Alright?
You get me, son?
522
00:20:28,705 --> 00:20:31,665
I love you, Daddy.
Oh.
523
00:20:31,708 --> 00:20:35,190
But as long as one of those
voices is me saying...
524
00:20:35,234 --> 00:20:37,932
I love you, too,
Devante.
525
00:20:37,975 --> 00:20:41,544
...I've done my job
as a parent.
526
00:20:41,588 --> 00:20:43,154
Okay. Go get ready.
527
00:20:45,374 --> 00:20:47,289
I love you, too, Dad.
528
00:20:47,333 --> 00:20:49,117
Don't you have
your own place?
529
00:20:51,162 --> 00:20:52,468
Jack:
When that meme first dropped,
530
00:20:52,512 --> 00:20:54,383
I thought it would die down
in a few days.
531
00:20:54,427 --> 00:20:56,994
But before I knew it,
it took on a life of its own.
532
00:20:57,038 --> 00:20:59,301
I was getting offers
left and right.
533
00:20:59,345 --> 00:21:01,042
My face was on billboards,
they let me dance
534
00:21:01,085 --> 00:21:03,174
at the Puppy Bowl
halftime show,
535
00:21:03,218 --> 00:21:06,134
and I became the co-host
of a new "Soul Train"
536
00:21:06,177 --> 00:21:08,397
with a hologram Don Cornelius.
537
00:21:08,441 --> 00:21:10,181
The meme
became so popular
538
00:21:10,225 --> 00:21:11,531
that I sold my life rights
539
00:21:11,574 --> 00:21:13,228
to the highest
corporate bidder.
540
00:21:13,272 --> 00:21:14,708
That's how I became
a trillionaire.
541
00:21:14,751 --> 00:21:17,885
And that's also how
you guys got your names,
542
00:21:17,928 --> 00:21:20,017
Sierra Mist
and Mountain Dew.
543
00:21:21,497 --> 00:21:23,586
Anyway, let's take
that warp-speed jet
544
00:21:23,630 --> 00:21:25,501
to visit Aunt Diane
and Uncle Michael B. Jordan.
545
00:21:25,545 --> 00:21:27,155
Come on.
546
00:21:27,205 --> 00:21:31,755
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