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- Don't you dare cheat.
- I am not!
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- I can't see shit.
- Great. Hold on.
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Ok. Step in.
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Charlotte, you know I don't wanna party.
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Don't be such a bitch.
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Ok. You ready?
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Yes...
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No
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Happy Bacherlorette Party!
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Guys...
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Really?
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I'm going to need a drink now.
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You go girl!
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He's coming, he's coming.
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Hi, merci, merci.
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Where's Magic Mike?
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I don't know,
but this one is so not Channing Tatum.
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Shut-up!
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Oh come on, they don't understand us.
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Tu ne pa comprends, right?
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Yes.
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'Yes' is the only thing you can say,
right?
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Yes!
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No fair.
You're having all the fun.
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- Well it is my party!
- Come on you.
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Go, go-go.
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Viva France!
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- Can we touch?
- (Oh my god!)
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You have no idea
how much I love him.
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I love him so much I could eat his face.
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You are so lucky to have Jim.
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I can't believe you two
are getting married.
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I'm getting married.
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I'm getting married.
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Tomorrow.
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I- I'm getting married tomorrow.
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She's getting married tomorrow!
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Yeah.
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What time is it?
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Fifteen to eleven (10:45)
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God- Really?
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Uh, I should go.
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- What?
- I have to go.
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No you don't.
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Yes I do, I have to be fresh
for tomorrow!
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No one's ever fresh at their wedding.
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And that's why they all have
shitty wedding pictures.
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Don't go.
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Thank you for tonight ladies.
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Enjoy your not-so-Magic-Mike stripper.
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Merci beaucoup for the lap-dance.
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Good night, sleep tight!
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- Sweet sex dreams.
- Goodnight.
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Judith. What the hell
are you doing here?
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Going to sleep. What the hell
are you two doing here?
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Forgot my credit card an-and your fiance
here is running out of cash.
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- Hey... whatever...
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Hey.
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Hey.
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How was your night?
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Ok.
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And yours?
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Ok.
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Really annoying,
if you want to know the truth.
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Me too.
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Yeah
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I mean this, isn't this the most
frustrating night you've ever had?
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Yes
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I missed you.
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I know.
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I can't wait to get married.
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I know
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I don't wanna be free.
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- Oh come on guys.
Stop it, both of you.
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You're such a disapointment.
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Found your card?
- Yeah it was in my pocket.
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- But you knew
that already right?
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- K, let's go now!
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Night
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And don't you dare leave me at some club
to sneak into your room.
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*Knock on the door*
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- Bonsoir.
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Bonsoir.
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You speak French.
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- You don't speak French?
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Un peu.
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No, you don't
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Thanks
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Is this your first time in Paris?
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No.
It's my second.
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I first came here when I was
a teen with my parents.
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I love it here so much,
I always wanted to come back.
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It's so beautiful
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My fiance
always wanted to get married abroad.
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So this is like,
the perfect occasion to come back
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You're getting married?
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Yeah...
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Tomorrow.
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I see.
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*Speaks in French*
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What?
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You're shy.
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That's ok.
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We don't need to rush.
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I have plenty of time.
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This feels silly.
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To be with a girl
or with an escort?
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Both.
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Why did you ask me to come then?
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I'm not sure anymore
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- Um, I'm sorry.
- That's ok.
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You need some encouragement,
that's all.
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I'm sorry, but...
114
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But, does this actually work?
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Fait ce qui marche?
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This!
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All this flirting.
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Yes.
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- Yes, of course it works.
- With men, I guess.
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With men, with women. With everyone.
121
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So you've been with a woman?
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Of course.
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As your client?
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Of course as my client.
What else?
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You didn't contact me to chat, right?
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No.
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No.
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So let's do it. Ok.
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Maybe this is a not the right time for you.
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I'm getting married tomorrow.
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This is the only time.
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So you've never been with a woman?
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Can't you tell?
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Well you know it's,
it's not the fiftees anymore.
135
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It's not that complicated
to get with a girl.
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I know.
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Looks to me like...
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You don't really want to do it.
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So...
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How long have you been doing this for?
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This?
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You mean being an escort?
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Yeah.
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Is this an interview?
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No.
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Two years.
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- Why?
- What do you think?
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To meet extremely diversified and
intelligent people...
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Money. Of course.
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It's easy.
And it doesn't take long.
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Usually.
152
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So...
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Why an escort?
154
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Why not just going out
in a gay bar?
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I guess it just seemed
easier to hire someone.
156
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Plu simple.
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Yes...
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Plu simple.
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Am I different from
your other clients?
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Women, you mean?
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Yeah.
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Yeah, of course you are.
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In what way?
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Well...
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You are younger,
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you are not married.
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Not for long.
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And they know what they're doing.
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Funny.
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You really know how to
talk to people.
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Yes...
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Yes, I believe I do.
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Might be better in French though.
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Well...
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Here we are.
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That moment.
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That moment when,
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everything that was completely sure to
happen is,
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completely unsure.
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We were certain to have sex tonight,
right?
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That's why you hired me.
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Plu simple.
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Everything was planned and...
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And then, we end up at that moment.
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Well you know, in every um...
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in every date...
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you're always sure at first, to get what
you are here for.
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Sex?
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Yes.
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Sex.
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You're confident,
192
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you're sure to be desired by the person
you're meeting.
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Why would you two be dating if not, right?
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Right.
195
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And then, everytime...
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there is that moment when you're
talking or
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or doing something else and,
198
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you come to realize that the people
you're meeting are not that into you
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You might not be that into them,
'neither.
200
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But when you come to realize that...
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that they might not be interested in you,
202
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that's when you start wanting
them more.
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Suddenly when you realize that nothing
is going to happen that night...
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that you actually
want it to happen.
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It's like a challenge.
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Un défaite
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But isn't that the best moment?
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When nothing is sure?
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The best?
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Yeah, the best.
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That uncertainty...
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and fear of being rejected.
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It's exciting.
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Yeah.
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I guess it is.
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We need that feeling so badly...
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People are willing to pay for it...
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- Or to see a girl...
- Or to cheat on their husband-to-be...
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*Credits rolling*
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Subtitles by FilmDoo
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Because.
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It's so embarrassing!
223
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Do you remember?
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We had so much fun.
225
00:16:20,698 --> 00:16:22,702
I love this song.
226
00:16:23,145 --> 00:16:25,911
Change the station. I can't stand that man.
227
00:16:25,911 --> 00:16:27,911
What? You're so exaggerated...
228
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The car is so old, the radio doesn't work.
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It's so cool.
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No way!
231
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There's the call phone cable if you want...
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What do you want to listen to?
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Whatever you want.
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Fuck, this guy is not answering.
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Paula, come, not again.
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No, seriously...
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We went out, we had fun... and what now?
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That's what you get when you
fuck someone the first night...
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Don't be such a bitch.
240
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I'm already feeling like shit.
241
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He is online and he is not texting me...
242
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Just put some music on.
243
00:17:21,065 --> 00:17:23,324
What were you expecting?
244
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To find the love of your life
on a dating app?
245
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Not the love of my life...
246
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but it works for some people.
247
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It works to get laid.
248
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You know that 'cause you already
fucked everyone.
249
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Well, I think you're doing pretty much
the same...
250
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Don't be upset.
251
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You have to stop thinking about
that guy.
252
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Maybe we meet a cute guy tonight.
253
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Of course not.
254
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We'll be the only spinsters in
that weddings.
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I hate this...
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At least we go together.
257
00:18:20,068 --> 00:18:21,268
What's the matter?
258
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What's that face?
- Nothing
259
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Is something bothering you?
260
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You drink two shots and you get so foolish.
261
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Does it bother?
262
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'Cause is didn't seem so the other day.
263
00:18:36,792 --> 00:18:37,859
Are you serious?
264
00:18:38,789 --> 00:18:40,290
Why are you avoiding everything?
265
00:18:40,290 --> 00:18:41,290
Stop.
266
00:18:41,305 --> 00:18:42,305
Avoiding what?
267
00:18:42,349 --> 00:18:45,788
Vicky...
Stop. You're so annoying.
268
00:19:05,795 --> 00:19:08,290
I told you.
I don't want to talk about that.
269
00:19:08,290 --> 00:19:09,303
So what should we do?
270
00:19:09,303 --> 00:19:10,436
'Cause I want to.
271
00:19:13,238 --> 00:19:15,468
Fuck, I've been thinking so much
about it.
272
00:19:17,011 --> 00:19:19,411
It comes to my mind again and again.
273
00:19:21,230 --> 00:19:22,230
It's past now.
274
00:19:23,660 --> 00:19:25,927
Why do you keep thinking about it?
275
00:19:30,515 --> 00:19:33,382
Fuck, Santiago and Cristina were behind us.
276
00:19:33,716 --> 00:19:34,716
Vicky, wait...
277
00:19:38,393 --> 00:19:40,126
Did you forget it or what?
278
00:19:41,618 --> 00:19:43,722
I don't want to think about it...
279
00:19:43,722 --> 00:19:46,214
...but it's so weird.
-Weird?
280
00:19:47,016 --> 00:19:48,464
Yes...
281
00:19:48,965 --> 00:19:50,465
What would people think?
282
00:19:50,518 --> 00:19:52,459
No, no... Damn it.
283
00:19:53,768 --> 00:19:54,768
This is not me.
284
00:19:55,471 --> 00:19:56,471
Me neither.
285
00:19:58,112 --> 00:20:01,711
It shouldn't have happened.
286
00:20:02,461 --> 00:20:05,113
But I keep thinking about it.
287
00:20:05,113 --> 00:20:07,113
But this can't be.
288
00:20:13,224 --> 00:20:14,224
Why not?
289
00:20:17,523 --> 00:20:18,523
Because.
290
00:20:23,100 --> 00:20:26,100
I don't know why we keep messing
things up.
291
00:20:26,447 --> 00:20:29,645
You could have taken some
guy to this party...
292
00:20:29,645 --> 00:20:32,378
... and we wouldn't be in this situation.
293
00:20:34,119 --> 00:20:35,260
But what should I do?
294
00:20:36,799 --> 00:20:37,902
I am very confused.
295
00:20:37,902 --> 00:20:39,635
I shouldn't said anything.
296
00:20:39,784 --> 00:20:42,559
You're so messed up.
297
00:20:45,828 --> 00:20:47,800
I told you...
298
00:20:49,208 --> 00:20:51,556
and you told me...
299
00:20:51,823 --> 00:20:54,546
Two minutes ago you were talking about
that jerk.
300
00:20:54,546 --> 00:20:55,551
I know.
301
00:20:55,551 --> 00:20:57,053
I don't know what to say.
302
00:20:57,053 --> 00:21:00,100
I'm trying to move on.
303
00:21:00,642 --> 00:21:02,617
You're so messed up.
304
00:21:02,642 --> 00:21:04,823
Nobody gets you.
305
00:21:04,823 --> 00:21:06,823
You act like nothing happened.
306
00:21:07,511 --> 00:21:09,539
And you flirted with everyone.
307
00:21:10,032 --> 00:21:12,536
And you fucked them all.
308
00:21:13,558 --> 00:21:15,690
And what did you want me to do?
309
00:21:15,715 --> 00:21:16,783
Wait, for what?
310
00:21:18,253 --> 00:21:21,539
I don't know Vicky.
311
00:21:26,403 --> 00:21:28,783
I didn't start with this shit.
312
00:21:28,783 --> 00:21:31,792
"Match with this guy, match with
this other guy..."
313
00:21:31,792 --> 00:21:33,286
"How cute is this one..."
314
00:21:33,286 --> 00:21:36,037
It wasn't me who started
flirting with everyone
315
00:21:36,037 --> 00:21:39,041
and it was the day after Paula.
316
00:21:39,041 --> 00:21:41,533
and you start with this?
317
00:21:41,533 --> 00:21:42,791
Touching me in the car?
318
00:21:42,791 --> 00:21:45,174
Don't say that.
- Shut up.
319
00:21:45,174 --> 00:21:47,454
It would be terrible if my
parents knew about this
320
00:21:47,454 --> 00:21:48,357
Shut up.
321
00:21:48,382 --> 00:21:49,256
You shut up.
322
00:21:49,293 --> 00:21:50,527
This is serious
323
00:21:50,840 --> 00:21:53,497
I should marry a good man,
324
00:21:53,497 --> 00:21:54,550
have children, travel...
325
00:21:54,824 --> 00:21:56,067
and what now?
326
00:21:56,135 --> 00:21:58,213
Everything is fucked up because
I'm the town lesbian.
327
00:21:58,230 --> 00:22:02,403
You? What about me? I'm "the maneater" of
the group!
328
00:22:02,496 --> 00:22:06,501
I don't want to wear plaid shirts,
329
00:22:06,501 --> 00:22:09,009
walk like a man
330
00:22:09,009 --> 00:22:10,417
I don't like that. It's disgusting.
331
00:22:10,417 --> 00:22:12,932
What are you talking about?
- It's not me.
332
00:22:13,183 --> 00:22:15,454
What if my parents find out about this
- Paula shut up.
333
00:22:15,454 --> 00:22:16,934
No more, please
334
00:22:16,934 --> 00:22:17,934
I like it, ok?
335
00:22:25,105 --> 00:22:28,200
I loved it.
- What?
336
00:22:29,387 --> 00:22:31,208
I loved it. Don't you hear me?
337
00:22:40,448 --> 00:22:42,048
I don't know what to say
338
00:22:46,445 --> 00:22:48,392
Vicky, I don't know
339
00:26:19,579 --> 00:26:23,226
Let's go. We're gonna be late.
340
00:26:23,226 --> 00:26:27,159
It's so embarrassing if they see us
arriving in this car.
341
00:26:49,645 --> 00:26:50,645
Answer
342
00:26:55,165 --> 00:26:56,165
Hello?
343
00:27:00,924 --> 00:27:03,087
Fine, and you?
344
00:27:06,114 --> 00:27:08,344
Yes...
345
00:27:08,344 --> 00:27:11,011
I am going to that wedding I told about.
346
00:27:11,749 --> 00:27:12,749
Yes, so lame.
347
00:27:16,675 --> 00:27:19,208
We come back to Bogota. With a driver.
348
00:27:23,345 --> 00:27:24,345
Tomorrow?
349
00:27:28,116 --> 00:27:29,116
It could be.
350
00:27:30,268 --> 00:27:31,268
Yes...
351
00:27:31,686 --> 00:27:33,619
to recover from the hangover.
352
00:27:37,706 --> 00:27:39,106
Why were you so lost?
353
00:27:42,987 --> 00:27:45,691
Ah, poor baby
354
00:29:19,368 --> 00:29:21,370
Love
355
00:29:23,334 --> 00:29:26,330
Oh god... It's a happy feeling
356
00:29:26,330 --> 00:29:29,324
It's whenever you want to be around
someone all the time
357
00:29:31,324 --> 00:29:35,360
I think love is really just giving
everything else to another person
358
00:29:35,360 --> 00:29:39,374
and doing so unconditionally
359
00:29:42,374 --> 00:29:46,302
There's so many different kinds of love
and so many different ways to love
360
00:29:46,302 --> 00:29:49,348
and so many different ways that people
show love, and people interpret love
361
00:29:49,364 --> 00:29:52,693
that I think it's just one
of those things that no
362
00:29:52,718 --> 00:29:56,112
one will ever really be
able to explain what it is.
363
00:30:12,384 --> 00:30:14,366
Who am I?
364
00:30:15,316 --> 00:30:17,340
Evita is
365
00:30:18,362 --> 00:30:21,328
a mother, a wife
366
00:30:22,344 --> 00:30:26,300
She's a big dork, nerdy
367
00:30:26,372 --> 00:30:29,152
strange, ecclectic
368
00:30:29,316 --> 00:30:30,386
unique
369
00:30:31,364 --> 00:30:33,378
Evita is bisexual
370
00:30:35,328 --> 00:30:38,384
I think those are big parts of who she is
371
00:30:40,318 --> 00:30:41,396
She is Evita
372
00:30:43,396 --> 00:30:46,348
I am 33 years old
373
00:30:46,376 --> 00:30:51,304
and I have been married to
my husband Kevin for 12 years
374
00:30:51,328 --> 00:30:53,372
I'm sitting next to you
375
00:30:53,394 --> 00:30:56,312
Aww!
Pretend I like you
376
00:30:57,334 --> 00:31:01,656
I remember the first day I saw her.
I walked into a church
377
00:31:01,678 --> 00:31:05,358
and I looked across the room
378
00:31:05,368 --> 00:31:08,398
and I heard her laugh, saw her smile
379
00:31:09,314 --> 00:31:12,306
and her laugh, and immedietely
I was into her
380
00:31:13,366 --> 00:31:17,384
It was a very conservative church, I would
even say borderline cult-ish
381
00:31:18,374 --> 00:31:22,336
We couldn't have TVs,
we couldn't go to the movies
382
00:31:22,388 --> 00:31:25,304
the men couldn't have beards.
383
00:31:27,314 --> 00:31:31,318
And one of the things that was wrong
was being homosexual, you know, being gay
384
00:31:31,344 --> 00:31:35,356
or being bisexual, or being a lesbian
or anything like that
385
00:31:36,310 --> 00:31:38,374
So when you'd get up and give testimonies
386
00:31:38,374 --> 00:31:42,306
about what things the Lord has
delivered you from
387
00:31:42,336 --> 00:31:46,316
that was one of the things that he was to
have supposedly have delivered me from
388
00:31:46,316 --> 00:31:48,316
which is having same-sex tendancies
389
00:31:48,316 --> 00:31:50,316
but that was never really the case.
390
00:31:56,390 --> 00:31:59,396
I am Brianna Garduno, I'm 26 years old
391
00:32:00,324 --> 00:32:01,396
and I'm in San Diego California
392
00:32:03,360 --> 00:32:09,320
I dated boys up until high school
393
00:32:09,320 --> 00:32:13,396
my very first sexual experience was not a
very good one
394
00:32:14,314 --> 00:32:16,304
so I sworn off men
395
00:32:16,304 --> 00:32:18,368
and I decided if this is what sex with men
is like
396
00:32:18,380 --> 00:32:20,368
I don't want any part of it
397
00:32:22,368 --> 00:32:27,318
It was a guy I'd known for a while,
so I kind of trusted him
398
00:32:29,362 --> 00:32:31,376
and so I was like ok, we'll do it
399
00:32:32,308 --> 00:32:36,388
and so he started and it hurt so I started
crying and was like I want to stop
400
00:32:38,332 --> 00:32:42,394
and he said no, no, no. And he didn't stop
until I was like I think I'm a lesbian.
401
00:32:43,380 --> 00:32:46,326
And he was like what?
So I don't trust men
402
00:32:46,390 --> 00:32:48,326
that easily.
403
00:32:48,384 --> 00:32:53,376
Well one of the things I love about you,
is your beauty, your intellect
404
00:32:57,710 --> 00:33:01,189
We just kind of started talking, and
we would serve together in church
405
00:33:01,189 --> 00:33:03,693
and that's how we
started interacting with eachother
406
00:33:03,693 --> 00:33:05,453
we fell pretty hard for eachother
407
00:33:14,392 --> 00:33:21,332
She's the spice to my life. My life
would be so very boring without Evita.
408
00:33:21,369 --> 00:33:22,369
She's my spice.
409
00:33:24,336 --> 00:33:28,177
As much as I love
my relationship with
410
00:33:28,177 --> 00:33:29,948
Kevin, one of the
issues that we had was
411
00:33:29,948 --> 00:33:33,937
we had difficulty in our sexual life.
412
00:33:33,937 --> 00:33:36,086
He'd never been a very sexual
person, at all.
413
00:33:36,111 --> 00:33:39,687
I would beg him sometimes,
please, please please
414
00:33:39,687 --> 00:33:42,302
I wanna do something and he'd be just like
"no, no, no"
415
00:33:42,318 --> 00:33:44,448
- And now - I'd go pray
416
00:33:44,448 --> 00:33:49,324
I would literally go into the closet, and
just stay in the closet for hours and pray
417
00:33:49,344 --> 00:33:51,392
and read his bible, study the bible.
418
00:33:51,392 --> 00:33:55,340
and kind of leave me out there, hanging.
419
00:33:59,346 --> 00:34:07,386
Being so closed up in regard to sexuality,
I just wasn't open.
420
00:34:10,312 --> 00:34:13,281
I came out to my family
and everyone as a
421
00:34:13,306 --> 00:34:16,320
lesbian when I was
Sophomore in highschool
422
00:34:16,336 --> 00:34:24,336
and I just dated women until then. I met my
ex fiance of five years in 2009
423
00:34:24,370 --> 00:34:28,360
he and I ended things in May
424
00:34:31,330 --> 00:34:34,340
I've always wanted to be a mom, I wanted
to have kids
425
00:34:34,380 --> 00:34:38,310
the whole nine yards, so whenever I got
with JL
426
00:34:38,332 --> 00:34:43,326
that's what I wanted, I wanted to have
kids, he wanted to have kids.
427
00:34:44,362 --> 00:34:49,932
I have three children,
they are twin boys
428
00:34:49,932 --> 00:34:52,695
that are 9 and a five
year old daughter.
429
00:34:52,695 --> 00:34:57,881
Hi my name is Vivian,
so the tall one is named
430
00:34:57,906 --> 00:35:02,870
Dimitrius and the medium
sized one is Darius
431
00:35:09,316 --> 00:35:12,350
Do you want to start
432
00:35:13,312 --> 00:35:18,866
In 2012, in September, Darius got diagnosed
with medulloblastoma
433
00:35:18,988 --> 00:35:21,204
Which is a brain cancer
434
00:35:21,326 --> 00:35:26,580
We got sent in the abulance to Los Angeles,
we spent two months in the hospital
435
00:35:26,600 --> 00:35:29,638
because he had to get brain surgery,
436
00:35:29,656 --> 00:35:33,060
and he had to go through
six weeks of radiation
437
00:35:33,060 --> 00:35:35,648
and then about a year and
a half of chemotherapy.
438
00:35:37,332 --> 00:35:44,676
The surgery left him a vegetable really,
for weeks
439
00:35:44,690 --> 00:35:48,612
he had to re-learn how to talk,
how to eat
440
00:35:48,694 --> 00:35:52,638
He couldn't even swallow his own spit.
441
00:35:53,302 --> 00:35:56,467
You kinda say to yourself,
they're gonna get
442
00:35:56,467 --> 00:36:00,210
older and they're gonna
grow up and move on
443
00:36:00,210 --> 00:36:02,843
and go and live their own lives,
and now we're looking
444
00:36:02,843 --> 00:36:05,129
at... that may not
be possible for him
445
00:36:05,176 --> 00:36:09,944
Sometimes I wonder if
he's gonna get to a place
446
00:36:09,944 --> 00:36:12,189
where he starts to
feel sorry for himself
447
00:36:13,679 --> 00:36:17,491
Or want to know why
448
00:36:17,554 --> 00:36:22,241
Or be angry, that this happened to him.
449
00:36:22,340 --> 00:36:26,770
And I don't really have a lot of answers,
I don't know how to help him with that
450
00:36:27,320 --> 00:36:35,346
And when something like this happens, it's
like you try to fit this massive situation
451
00:36:35,360 --> 00:36:39,624
into your box of religion and it
doesn't fit.
452
00:36:39,624 --> 00:36:46,310
In that sense, I felt let down, I suppose.
453
00:36:46,348 --> 00:36:53,240
and that what made me seperate myself
from religion
454
00:36:53,240 --> 00:36:55,438
because I felt like
when it came down to the
455
00:36:55,438 --> 00:36:58,717
tough times in life,
it didn't help me out
456
00:37:07,300 --> 00:37:12,346
I just can't believe it, this is our church
457
00:37:16,338 --> 00:37:21,715
It's just funny because we're such
different people now
458
00:37:23,352 --> 00:37:28,186
That environment overall is not a place
where I felt like we could stay
459
00:37:28,304 --> 00:37:32,394
It was a lot, lot, lot to deal with
460
00:37:33,316 --> 00:37:38,179
I think we got into the swinging thing,
just to kindof get away, and escape
461
00:37:40,332 --> 00:37:42,905
I was on Meetup.com because I
462
00:37:42,905 --> 00:37:45,692
was in a bisexual women's group
463
00:37:45,692 --> 00:37:50,689
and so it suggested some other groups that
were similar, so I joined one of the groups
464
00:37:52,310 --> 00:37:57,692
and they had a party, a swinger party,
and so we decided to go
465
00:37:59,713 --> 00:38:02,452
Swinging is always something
that I was like oh...
466
00:38:02,452 --> 00:38:05,452
that sounds really sexy but I don't know
if I would ever do it
467
00:38:05,452 --> 00:38:08,229
so once I became single I was like
well, if I'm gonna
468
00:38:08,254 --> 00:38:10,697
try it, I might as well
try it while I'm single
469
00:38:10,697 --> 00:38:14,322
I got invited to that swinger
party and that's basically what
470
00:38:14,347 --> 00:38:17,971
it came down to, like "I'm scared
but I'm gonna do it anyway"
471
00:38:18,394 --> 00:38:25,368
It was, honestly kind of surreal, because,
the environment we came from
472
00:38:25,382 --> 00:38:31,700
and it was at a party and they're were
probably like 10 other people in the room.
473
00:38:32,350 --> 00:38:34,344
Oh it was wild.
474
00:38:34,374 --> 00:38:38,282
I was actually thinking about
leaving, but then
475
00:38:38,307 --> 00:38:41,969
Evita walks in,
I heard her before I saw her
476
00:38:44,374 --> 00:38:49,191
and then Kevin came up and he approached
me that night
477
00:38:50,316 --> 00:38:54,452
and he was like "hey, what's going on,
do you wanna do something?"
478
00:38:54,452 --> 00:38:59,452
and that was the night I was like, I think
I just wanna play with women.
479
00:38:59,475 --> 00:39:03,695
he did try to talk to me first but I was
like eh.
480
00:39:03,695 --> 00:39:09,059
So he was like ok, ok. And then later on in
the evening is whenever Evita talked to me.
481
00:39:09,059 --> 00:39:15,567
I never felt like I would ever find a
female that I like that liked me.
482
00:39:15,937 --> 00:39:18,204
It was almost unbelievable for me,
483
00:39:19,368 --> 00:39:26,215
that here it is this girl that I'm so into
and she likes me back.
484
00:39:28,324 --> 00:39:31,827
That's how that world opened
up to us and then through the
485
00:39:31,852 --> 00:39:35,231
world of Swinging we discovered
the world of Polyamory
486
00:39:35,362 --> 00:39:40,221
I knew I liked women, I'd had sex with
women but I never had a girlfriend
487
00:39:40,444 --> 00:39:44,692
So I wanted that experience. So we actually
got into Poly to date seperately
488
00:39:45,177 --> 00:39:48,079
he was going to seek to
find a partner for himself,
489
00:39:48,104 --> 00:39:50,950
and I was gonna seek to
find a partner for myself
490
00:39:51,177 --> 00:39:55,699
but then we met Bri and she was just
someone that we both were into
491
00:39:55,699 --> 00:39:59,177
and that's where our Poly stort went
492
00:40:13,318 --> 00:40:16,178
She'd mentioned that
she wanted a girlfriend
493
00:40:16,178 --> 00:40:20,700
and I didn't know
if she meant me
494
00:40:20,700 --> 00:40:23,925
I was thrown by the idea,
because she's married.
495
00:40:23,950 --> 00:40:26,713
But we all just went
really well together
496
00:40:29,183 --> 00:40:34,932
At first I did not want to, I told my wife
497
00:40:34,932 --> 00:40:39,942
that that could be a relationship for her
to explore that side of herself
498
00:40:39,942 --> 00:40:47,352
and I wanted to stay out of it, but they
both invited me in, so I willingly
499
00:40:47,382 --> 00:40:52,710
decided to get involved in joining
the relationship.
500
00:41:00,306 --> 00:41:05,192
It started off just swinging,
we were all just having a good
501
00:41:05,192 --> 00:41:10,445
time together, it all started
from a sexual relationship.
502
00:41:12,191 --> 00:41:16,193
We had threesomes,
I would come over to their house
503
00:41:16,193 --> 00:41:18,447
occassionally,
I started spending the night there
504
00:41:18,447 --> 00:41:22,394
and like I said the kids were at their
grandmother's house
505
00:41:23,326 --> 00:41:27,683
for an entire month, so it was just an
entire month of fun and everything
506
00:41:27,683 --> 00:41:29,711
So we were just running
around, cavorting around
507
00:41:29,711 --> 00:41:32,441
San Diego, just acting
like everything was great
508
00:41:32,441 --> 00:41:37,200
and once the kids came back it was like,
woah, this is real, this is a family.
509
00:41:47,320 --> 00:41:50,954
Just from there,
spending so much time together
510
00:41:50,954 --> 00:41:55,929
like that in an intimate
setting, feelings just developed from that
511
00:41:56,936 --> 00:41:59,066
it was just always the
trajectory of the relationship,
512
00:41:59,091 --> 00:42:02,562
I don't think it was
any one person's idea
513
00:42:02,562 --> 00:42:06,695
Really we got together and we just starting
running. - Yeah we punched it.
514
00:42:06,695 --> 00:42:10,572
We got together and it was just went from
0 to 100, really quickly
515
00:42:34,328 --> 00:42:40,832
My name's Kevin -I'm Evita -And I'm Brianna
-And we're Polyamorous!
516
00:43:09,390 --> 00:43:19,080
It's complicated in a sense, but the
children already had two stable parents.
517
00:43:19,080 --> 00:43:24,198
so it was pretty much us
figuring out how to integrate
518
00:43:24,198 --> 00:43:29,120
Brianna into what we
already had established.
519
00:43:30,372 --> 00:43:34,781
This is Bri, she's like
family, she doesn't always
520
00:43:34,806 --> 00:43:38,844
stay but she'll come
over and act like a mom.
521
00:43:38,844 --> 00:43:43,917
This is me winning a pumpkin.
522
00:43:43,917 --> 00:43:53,667
This is Dad, this is Bri, this is me
523
00:43:56,308 --> 00:44:01,186
We told the kids- one day we sat them
down with Bri. It was funny because I
524
00:44:01,211 --> 00:44:05,936
had to come out to the kids as bisexual,
they didn't know what that was.
525
00:44:05,936 --> 00:44:11,955
And I explained that to them, and then
after that we told them who she was
526
00:44:11,955 --> 00:44:14,302
and we just said she's our partner, the
way mommy and daddy are
527
00:44:14,322 --> 00:44:18,461
romantically involved with eachother,
we're romantically involved with her.
528
00:44:18,952 --> 00:44:23,415
and you're to respect her and
treat her like you would any adult,
529
00:44:23,415 --> 00:44:25,663
care for her and love her.
530
00:44:25,663 --> 00:44:27,914
And they were just like "O.K"
and that was the end of it.
531
00:44:28,328 --> 00:44:32,173
Sometimes she'll pick us
up from school
532
00:44:32,596 --> 00:44:36,103
-Sometimes she'll take care of us when
mommy and daddy are gone
533
00:44:43,318 --> 00:44:46,189
It's like living in a house
with your family
534
00:44:46,189 --> 00:44:49,938
you're all there, you all pitch
in whenever you need to
535
00:44:49,938 --> 00:44:52,265
Somebody does the dishes,
somebody does the cooking,
536
00:44:52,290 --> 00:44:54,220
somebody helps the kids
with their homework
537
00:44:55,302 --> 00:44:58,080
It's just like living with a big family.
538
00:44:58,450 --> 00:45:02,978
The smart and intelligent the same thing?
-I love you - I love you babe - I love you
539
00:45:03,210 --> 00:45:04,915
I'll see you ladies soon
540
00:45:04,917 --> 00:45:10,694
What made Bri special was the fact that
both of us enjoy her
541
00:45:11,193 --> 00:45:16,299
We're so opposite on so many
things
542
00:45:16,554 --> 00:45:20,176
but there was this one person that
we could both get into
543
00:45:20,176 --> 00:45:22,438
and that was exciting for us
544
00:45:23,336 --> 00:45:28,578
I'd never had a girlfriend before that,
she was like a dream come true for me
545
00:45:41,378 --> 00:45:46,912
Alright baby, I'm over here - I love you
546
00:45:46,912 --> 00:45:49,668
We talked about having
a commitment ceremony,
547
00:45:49,668 --> 00:45:53,710
and usually that's the
equivalent of a wedding.
548
00:45:54,338 --> 00:45:59,332
Planning a life, having children together,
and things like that.
549
00:46:01,332 --> 00:46:05,184
A lot of people think that because you're
in Polyamorous relationships
550
00:46:05,184 --> 00:46:07,688
that jealousy doesn't happen, or it
shouldn't happen
551
00:46:07,688 --> 00:46:11,439
and that is just not the case. It comes up
so often sometimes
552
00:46:11,439 --> 00:46:13,430
you just learn to cope with it better.
553
00:46:14,195 --> 00:46:17,445
I've done some pretty immature shit
in this relationship,
554
00:46:17,445 --> 00:46:21,336
like I've done a lot of things that I'm
not particularly proud of
555
00:46:22,415 --> 00:46:27,560
Kevin and Bri used to use condoms together
and I've shredded them up sometimes
556
00:46:27,560 --> 00:46:29,916
because I was upset about something
557
00:46:29,918 --> 00:46:34,417
and I'd go in his drawer and get them out
and I'd just rip em apart
558
00:46:34,417 --> 00:46:36,674
If you're poly but you're dating seperately
559
00:46:36,674 --> 00:46:41,176
a lot of what would be
happening with the person's
560
00:46:41,176 --> 00:46:43,440
other partner is
happening apart from you.
561
00:46:43,440 --> 00:46:45,945
but with a triad it's like right in your
face.
562
00:46:45,945 --> 00:46:48,304
This is the first time I've made him
a salad
563
00:46:48,324 --> 00:46:51,688
and it almost sometimes feels like a
double betrayal
564
00:46:51,688 --> 00:46:56,209
because both of your partners are with
someone else
565
00:46:56,209 --> 00:46:58,201
and that someone else is eachother.
566
00:46:58,201 --> 00:47:00,332
Can you scoop it in a bowl babe? - sure
567
00:47:00,356 --> 00:47:04,449
Thankyou, thankyou - Are you talking to
this babe or that babe?
568
00:47:04,449 --> 00:47:09,354
Any babe, ok, the first babe that responds
569
00:47:09,368 --> 00:47:11,167
Oh did you hear that?
570
00:47:11,167 --> 00:47:14,918
What? - She said you talking to me
because you don't call her babe.
571
00:47:14,918 --> 00:47:16,286
Oh, what do I call you then?
572
00:47:16,310 --> 00:47:24,932
One of the problems was just navigating
through a couple who are already married
573
00:47:24,932 --> 00:47:31,189
and dealing with feelings that they had
about that and dealing with my own feelings
574
00:47:32,316 --> 00:47:34,560
There were a lot of
things that she wanted
575
00:47:34,585 --> 00:47:38,690
out of life that we
really couldn't give her
576
00:47:38,690 --> 00:47:44,201
She wanted to have a baby, and it wasn't
that we weren't willing to give them to her
577
00:47:44,201 --> 00:47:46,200
we just couldn't right now.
578
00:47:47,308 --> 00:47:53,164
I think the last year and a half of
us journeying through Polyamory
579
00:47:53,164 --> 00:47:55,953
has been the most difficult time of our
marriage
580
00:48:02,320 --> 00:48:08,429
Anyway, real quick you guys, just to let
you guys know.
581
00:48:08,429 --> 00:48:12,450
Bri's not gonna be here for a little while
582
00:48:12,687 --> 00:48:15,938
for maybe just a couple of weeks.
- Where's she going?
583
00:48:15,938 --> 00:48:19,203
she's spending some time with her
grandma.
584
00:48:19,386 --> 00:48:24,328
So, what happened yesterday
585
00:48:24,328 --> 00:48:28,625
it started out with
something that was small
586
00:48:28,650 --> 00:48:32,540
and it really just blew
out of proportion.
587
00:48:32,540 --> 00:48:37,420
Evita and I got into a bit of a
disagreement and things just went
588
00:48:37,420 --> 00:48:39,352
way further than they had before.
589
00:48:42,424 --> 00:48:45,924
So we decided it was just time to end
things
590
00:48:45,924 --> 00:48:49,432
She was asleep and I was here in the house
591
00:48:49,432 --> 00:48:53,837
and I was watching TV and putting a puzzle
together and waiting for her to wake up
592
00:48:53,934 --> 00:48:55,184
so we could start our day
593
00:48:55,439 --> 00:48:59,941
And then she downstairs and she was visibly
upset
594
00:48:59,941 --> 00:49:01,946
I was like "Good morning honey" and she
was just like "Hey."
595
00:49:01,946 --> 00:49:02,946
So I was like ok well, something is wrong.
596
00:49:02,946 --> 00:49:05,313
I really like to deal
with things internally
597
00:49:05,338 --> 00:49:07,469
and that's just not
always a good thing.
598
00:49:07,469 --> 00:49:09,453
so it's something I still need to work on
599
00:49:09,660 --> 00:49:11,921
But she never really did
600
00:49:11,921 --> 00:49:13,915
she would say she was dealing with her
feeling internally
601
00:49:13,915 --> 00:49:16,429
but it would always manifest itself in her
behaviour
602
00:49:16,429 --> 00:49:18,927
so that's not really you dealing with your
feelings internally
603
00:49:18,927 --> 00:49:20,421
that's you acting out
604
00:49:20,421 --> 00:49:23,692
So I kept asking her what was wrong
and she said "nothing nothing nothing"
605
00:49:23,692 --> 00:49:25,197
"I'm fine I'm fine I'm fine"
606
00:49:25,197 --> 00:49:29,433
And at that moment, I just got really
pissed off
607
00:49:30,931 --> 00:49:32,185
She was packing her things to leave
608
00:49:32,185 --> 00:49:35,964
and I was like if you're gonna go, if you
walk out that door, we're done.
609
00:49:36,685 --> 00:49:38,191
That's it, leave, go.
610
00:49:38,191 --> 00:49:41,440
And she was like fine, I know that. So she
packed her stuff and she walked out.
611
00:49:41,566 --> 00:49:43,822
So I was like ok, well, now we're done.
612
00:49:44,947 --> 00:49:49,210
We were just in very different places in
life.
613
00:49:49,210 --> 00:49:57,956
in very different places of maturity,
in different places of financially
614
00:49:57,956 --> 00:50:01,966
in just every area you could think of we
were just in different places.
615
00:50:03,171 --> 00:50:06,443
And that's about it, that's all you guys
need to know for right now.
616
00:50:06,443 --> 00:50:11,945
It's gonna be like we never met Bri!
617
00:50:11,945 --> 00:50:15,691
I wouldn't say that. - Yeah me neither!
618
00:50:15,928 --> 00:50:22,202
It's gonna be like we didn't even know
Bri when Mom told us of that
619
00:50:22,202 --> 00:50:24,326
No, it won't be that.
620
00:50:24,330 --> 00:50:28,452
I don't think that this happened because of
Polyamory
621
00:50:28,452 --> 00:50:32,705
I just think it's who we are as
individuals.
622
00:50:32,705 --> 00:50:35,829
Maybe she and I just weren't meant to
be together.
623
00:50:41,318 --> 00:50:44,428
I love what we had, I loved the little
family that we were creating
624
00:50:45,344 --> 00:50:54,685
When I was in it, I felt like it was worth
the work that it took to keep it together
625
00:50:59,689 --> 00:51:04,439
It sucks, you know. Because in this I was
building relationships with the kids
626
00:51:04,439 --> 00:51:06,172
and I love them so much, and so now even
627
00:51:06,197 --> 00:51:09,945
Kevin came to bring me my things last night
628
00:51:09,952 --> 00:51:15,198
and I'm like it sucks because I don't even
get to see the kids anymore
629
00:51:15,200 --> 00:51:16,701
It sucks.
630
00:51:17,164 --> 00:51:24,162
I don't wanna say that I love them as
their mother
631
00:51:24,162 --> 00:51:27,419
because I don't know what that feels
like as a true parent
632
00:51:27,419 --> 00:51:32,179
but I love them as much as I could love
somebody else.
633
00:51:34,679 --> 00:51:37,437
It hurts so much because you spent the
time and the effort
634
00:51:37,437 --> 00:51:39,940
and now where is it?
635
00:51:47,193 --> 00:51:51,950
I told Kevin that if I put myself in
his shoes
636
00:51:51,950 --> 00:51:54,711
if I had a partner that I loved
637
00:51:54,711 --> 00:51:56,452
or person that I loved that loved me
638
00:51:56,452 --> 00:52:03,222
that I wouldn't want to say goodbyr to that
until I was ready to
639
00:52:03,222 --> 00:52:11,585
And... for that reason alone, I said I
think you should continue on with her.
640
00:52:35,200 --> 00:52:36,198
Do you already know what you're going
to have? -
641
00:52:36,198 --> 00:52:38,199
Yeah, I'm gonna get the white chicken
chillie
642
00:52:38,304 --> 00:52:44,334
We got into Poly together, we dated this
person together
643
00:52:44,334 --> 00:52:48,594
and now it feels like we're moving apart
644
00:52:48,594 --> 00:52:51,257
it feels like a seperation, like he's
going on without me
645
00:52:51,330 --> 00:52:54,677
And charting his course
and he knows where
646
00:52:54,677 --> 00:52:56,176
it's going and he's
moving on without me
647
00:52:56,176 --> 00:53:00,192
and I feel like I'm steering off into this
Poly wilderness
648
00:53:00,356 --> 00:53:05,705
and I don't know what it holds and I'm
all alone.
649
00:53:09,507 --> 00:53:13,452
Tonight is Halloween and we're going
trick-or-treating with the kids.
650
00:53:13,452 --> 00:53:15,193
and we're gonna get ourselves some
candy
651
00:53:17,450 --> 00:53:23,045
-Trick or Treat! - Hi, happy Halloween,
there you go.
652
00:53:23,045 --> 00:53:27,041
There's a Cookie Monster with cookies
inside
653
00:53:27,041 --> 00:53:29,924
I'm dealing with the sadness of him having
another partner
654
00:53:29,924 --> 00:53:34,682
and me not having another partner, me
not knowing if I'll ever find someone...
655
00:53:34,682 --> 00:53:36,927
find what he has with Bri with someone
656
00:53:36,927 --> 00:53:41,929
and having to date again and meet people
and deal with all that bullshit
657
00:53:43,398 --> 00:53:46,686
Hey! - How's it going?
658
00:53:49,191 --> 00:53:55,190
Mommy, look how much candy I have.
-Wow that's incredible
659
00:53:55,382 --> 00:54:01,701
We're trying to work on our friendship
and I feel like as time goes further
660
00:54:01,701 --> 00:54:03,203
it'll just be easier
661
00:54:18,427 --> 00:54:20,943
And... we are back together
662
00:54:26,358 --> 00:54:31,943
Bri and I kepy in contact throughout
the breakup
663
00:54:33,698 --> 00:54:36,699
She asked me to go to dinner
and...
664
00:54:37,443 --> 00:54:41,964
I was like OK, we can go to dinner. Then
I asked her if it was gonna be a date
665
00:54:41,964 --> 00:54:46,340
and was like "I'd like it to be" so I was
like alright, we can do that
666
00:54:47,416 --> 00:54:53,956
Oh so gently! -It's corny but she liked it,
you like being corny
667
00:54:53,956 --> 00:54:55,447
Oh I love you!
668
00:54:55,447 --> 00:54:58,445
You know it's just another relatioship
option and that's really all it is
669
00:54:58,445 --> 00:55:03,061
For me it's really about the freedom to
be who I am
670
00:55:03,061 --> 00:55:05,128
That's what Polyamory is about for me.
671
00:55:18,697 --> 00:55:23,715
Polyamory is not for everyone, it's really
not
672
00:55:23,715 --> 00:55:27,715
I wouldn't recommend just jumping in,
not knowing
673
00:55:27,715 --> 00:55:32,917
because then you won't be as prepared for
some problems that arise
674
00:55:32,917 --> 00:55:37,192
I think there is a hightened level of
communication in Polyamory
675
00:55:37,192 --> 00:55:43,178
You don't really learn how to communicate
and in Poly you have to
676
00:55:43,178 --> 00:55:46,364
It has to be something that everyone is
willing
677
00:55:46,677 --> 00:55:49,927
and is willing to participate in.
678
00:56:39,419 --> 00:56:40,763
Where have you been?
679
00:56:40,787 --> 00:56:42,508
Don't you know we are having
guests tonight?
680
00:56:42,533 --> 00:56:43,705
The bus was late!
681
00:56:43,745 --> 00:56:45,071
The village headman is here.
682
00:56:45,072 --> 00:56:46,072
Hurry up!
683
00:56:47,564 --> 00:56:49,193
Diella, bring me the tray.
684
00:56:49,693 --> 00:56:51,584
Faster.
685
00:57:25,953 --> 00:57:30,292
If your sister is unmarried,
you are obliged to find a husband for her.
686
00:57:30,292 --> 00:57:33,632
There is a further obligation that you
must fulfill
687
00:57:33,657 --> 00:57:38,070
If she dies without having children,
you are obliged to organize her funeral.
688
00:57:38,095 --> 00:57:41,095
A sister has no right to inherit
any wealth.
689
00:57:41,591 --> 00:57:46,991
It is crucial to know that when brothers
want to divide the ancestral property,
690
00:57:47,047 --> 00:57:55,944
they must distribute it among themselves,
whereas she, has no right to ingeritance.
691
00:57:55,969 --> 00:58:03,855
She shouldget marries and have children.
692
00:58:03,880 --> 00:58:07,358
Once again, let me remind you that
693
00:58:07,358 --> 00:58:13,346
brother are obliged to assist their sister
to find a husband and get married.
694
00:59:27,014 --> 00:59:31,319
I am very pleased to hear that you are
legally seeking your equal share of your ancestral property.
695
00:59:31,319 --> 00:59:35,025
This is in accordance with the constitution,
thus your request is legitimate.
696
00:59:35,050 --> 00:59:39,018
However, there is a problem,
a significant one.
697
00:59:39,018 --> 00:59:42,663
Usually these cases last for a very long
time in the court,
698
00:59:42,663 --> 00:59:47,955
as a result they remain undecided,
since this is not the court's priority
699
00:59:47,956 --> 00:59:52,681
Take my advice, try to come to an
arrangement with your family members.
700
00:59:53,188 --> 00:59:56,588
I insist this is the best and
most efficiant way.
701
00:59:58,004 --> 01:00:00,890
Have a good day.
702
01:00:39,662 --> 01:00:41,688
Put some lipstick on.
703
01:00:43,832 --> 01:00:45,852
Take it!
704
01:01:34,092 --> 01:01:36,327
What would you like to drink?
- A cup of tea.
705
01:01:37,092 --> 01:01:38,790
Would you like the same?
706
01:01:39,392 --> 01:01:40,392
Make that two.
707
01:01:52,751 --> 01:01:57,893
Hava, I believe Qazim already told
you about me.
708
01:01:57,918 --> 01:02:02,647
I am a mechanic. I fix cars.
My garage is nearby.
709
01:02:02,647 --> 01:02:05,314
Our fathers used to know eachother well.
710
01:02:06,704 --> 01:02:10,013
Did you have a conversation with
Muhamed?
711
01:02:10,657 --> 01:02:14,179
He is a good and hardworking guy
712
01:02:14,683 --> 01:02:18,950
Unfortunately, luck wasn't on his side,
his wife passed away recently.
713
01:02:21,605 --> 01:02:27,929
Listen sister, he asked about you,
he is interested in you.
714
01:02:28,437 --> 01:02:31,970
I gave him my aproval because I know
him personally.
715
01:02:32,960 --> 01:02:36,530
I knew his father as well.
716
01:02:37,811 --> 01:02:42,078
Now that you are getting older,
I would like you to settle down
717
01:02:47,624 --> 01:02:48,824
What's the matter?
718
01:02:49,853 --> 01:02:53,386
Why are you so silent,
are you even listening to me?
719
01:02:54,216 --> 01:02:56,457
It's for your own good
720
01:02:56,620 --> 01:02:59,963
Next week, they will ask you for your
hand in marriage.
721
01:02:59,963 --> 01:03:02,230
Be very careful with you decision.
722
01:03:03,964 --> 01:03:05,297
No, I don't want to.
723
01:03:07,049 --> 01:03:09,183
I am not interested in that man.
724
01:03:09,471 --> 01:03:11,337
I don't want to get married.
725
01:03:11,402 --> 01:03:14,268
Nobody can decide my future,
not even you.
726
01:03:15,451 --> 01:03:17,560
I never want to hear this
conversation again!
727
01:03:47,577 --> 01:03:52,600
Add flour and slim it carefully.
728
01:03:52,625 --> 01:03:54,558
Use you palm to add pressure.
729
01:03:56,172 --> 01:03:58,772
You have to learn before it's too late.
730
01:03:58,786 --> 01:04:01,560
You can't leave these things after
you get married.
731
01:04:01,560 --> 01:04:03,627
That's more like it, well done.
732
01:04:13,624 --> 01:04:16,157
Hava?
Qazim wants to speak with you.
733
01:04:26,989 --> 01:04:28,056
Is she learning?
734
01:04:28,289 --> 01:04:30,956
Of course, she is doing better
than me.
735
01:04:33,236 --> 01:04:35,524
How are you Hava?
- Alright, how about you?
736
01:04:35,549 --> 01:04:36,549
I'm good.
737
01:04:36,565 --> 01:04:38,456
Great.
738
01:04:38,456 --> 01:04:39,973
Are you going to work tomorrow?
739
01:04:39,973 --> 01:04:41,477
Yes.
740
01:04:41,723 --> 01:04:42,723
At what time?
741
01:04:42,723 --> 01:04:44,236
Evening shift.
742
01:04:44,236 --> 01:04:45,236
Very well.
743
01:04:45,268 --> 01:04:48,935
Get you clothes ready, tomorrow at ten
we are going to our aunt's place
744
01:04:48,935 --> 01:04:52,972
You will stay there for a couple of days,
until I find you a place to rent.
745
01:05:29,287 --> 01:05:36,460
Qaze, I don't know what to say.
It is difficult to find an apartment.
746
01:05:36,932 --> 01:05:42,537
Considering her income,
expenses are quite high.
747
01:05:43,188 --> 01:05:47,428
She will have to pay for rent, electricity,
water and waste
748
01:05:47,694 --> 01:05:50,291
I'm not sure she can cope with it.
749
01:05:50,693 --> 01:05:55,105
I'll pay for the first six months,
no problem.
750
01:05:57,597 --> 01:06:00,276
Yes but Qaze, what about afterwards?
751
01:06:00,276 --> 01:06:02,515
We will find a solution.
752
01:06:03,253 --> 01:06:07,426
She can stay at my place for a few days.
753
01:06:07,426 --> 01:06:10,622
But, as you can see I don't
have enough space
754
01:06:10,647 --> 01:06:13,879
Only a room to do everything,
eat, drink and sleep.
755
01:06:15,383 --> 01:06:18,104
It's hard enough for me as it is.
756
01:06:18,104 --> 01:06:19,237
It's suffocating!
757
01:06:20,097 --> 01:06:25,603
However, I will do my best to find her
an apartment
758
01:08:15,839 --> 01:08:16,839
How is the boy?
759
01:08:17,231 --> 01:08:18,552
He is doing better
760
01:08:19,847 --> 01:08:23,580
Yesterday he had a fever,
but he is feeling better now.
761
01:08:24,597 --> 01:08:26,103
What's going on?
762
01:08:29,161 --> 01:08:31,348
He came back last night.
763
01:08:33,487 --> 01:08:36,850
We didn't know anything about it,
he just showed up.
764
01:08:37,871 --> 01:08:41,471
They didn't give him the permanant
residency permit.
765
01:08:47,983 --> 01:08:51,352
I know that from now on it
will be difficult for us,
766
01:08:53,353 --> 01:08:55,820
but we cannot see each other anymore.
767
01:08:57,733 --> 01:09:00,847
Now that he is here,
it's dangerous for us to see each other.
768
01:09:28,704 --> 01:09:31,089
My blood pressure is high
and it's killing me.
769
01:09:31,114 --> 01:09:33,433
I am on medication,
but it doesn't seem to have an effect.
770
01:09:33,449 --> 01:09:35,349
Don't worry,
the weather is changing constantly
771
01:09:35,374 --> 01:09:38,448
it's probably something
to do with that.
772
01:09:38,473 --> 01:09:39,557
I hope so.
773
01:09:39,557 --> 01:09:41,827
How are you doing my dear,
how was work?
774
01:09:41,828 --> 01:09:44,471
Not bad aunty, how are you?
775
01:09:47,711 --> 01:09:51,141
This is my niece Hava,
she is a really good girl,
776
01:09:51,141 --> 01:09:53,578
you won't have any problems with her.
777
01:09:54,047 --> 01:09:59,459
Thank you for renting your
apartment cheaper.
778
01:09:59,484 --> 01:10:01,602
May God reward you in return!
779
01:10:01,938 --> 01:10:04,343
Do no worry about it ma'am
780
01:10:04,348 --> 01:10:07,215
I am not using my apartment
at the moment.
781
01:10:07,874 --> 01:10:11,910
People say, who does good
finds good!
782
01:10:11,953 --> 01:10:13,892
Thank you!
783
01:10:14,347 --> 01:10:18,272
I would have her stay here but
I have no space.
784
01:10:18,272 --> 01:10:20,471
I have health conditions
785
01:10:20,534 --> 01:10:23,868
I need to have my space,
she needs to have hers.
786
01:10:24,450 --> 01:10:28,930
Her brothers divided
the ancestral property,
787
01:10:28,930 --> 01:10:32,197
whereas she is not in a
very pleasant position.
788
01:11:15,391 --> 01:11:16,827
Please, get in.
789
01:11:19,065 --> 01:11:21,750
This is the apartment you are going
to live.
790
01:11:21,775 --> 01:11:29,179
You will find anything you need here.
791
01:11:35,891 --> 01:11:38,392
In case you don't have enough money
to pay rent,
792
01:11:38,408 --> 01:11:40,343
just call me.
793
01:11:41,064 --> 01:11:42,864
I understand your situation
794
01:14:02,518 --> 01:14:03,518
Go upstairs!
795
01:14:09,065 --> 01:14:10,065
What happened?
796
01:14:10,112 --> 01:14:11,112
I'm back.
797
01:14:12,003 --> 01:14:13,003
Where?
798
01:14:13,513 --> 01:14:18,519
In my home! I have just as much
right as you do to live here
799
01:14:18,519 --> 01:14:21,986
was born in this house;
I have nowhere else to go.
800
01:14:23,152 --> 01:14:26,814
Hava, I have taken care of you as you
were my own child
801
01:14:27,058 --> 01:14:28,518
I got you a job
802
01:14:29,182 --> 01:14:34,477
I wanted to find you a husband,
but you refused everyone that I proposed.
803
01:14:35,667 --> 01:14:36,801
Isn't that right?
804
01:14:39,464 --> 01:14:40,864
What do you want now?
805
01:14:41,807 --> 01:14:43,402
This is not your home!
806
01:14:43,417 --> 01:14:45,308
I will not leave!
807
01:14:46,156 --> 01:14:49,370
Don't you understand what
I'm saying?
808
01:14:50,261 --> 01:14:52,934
Your brother's property is not your
business.
809
01:14:52,934 --> 01:14:56,073
I don't want to see you face around
here again!
810
01:14:57,276 --> 01:14:58,892
If you have any complaints,
811
01:14:58,917 --> 01:15:04,702
go to the courts,
they will find you a solution.
812
01:15:05,700 --> 01:15:06,700
Get lost now!
813
01:16:34,946 --> 01:16:36,664
What's in the bag?
814
01:16:36,695 --> 01:16:38,946
Where are you heading?
815
01:16:40,697 --> 01:16:42,230
I have been kicked out.
816
01:16:46,697 --> 01:16:49,307
My brother divided the property
among themselves
817
01:16:49,323 --> 01:16:52,071
They have no place for me.
818
01:16:52,822 --> 01:16:54,622
They don't need me anymore!
819
01:16:56,326 --> 01:16:58,558
What will you do now?
820
01:17:00,807 --> 01:17:02,558
I want to run away.
821
01:17:04,068 --> 01:17:05,068
Where?
822
01:17:06,494 --> 01:17:09,325
As far as I can.
823
01:17:11,700 --> 01:17:13,466
Please come with me.
824
01:17:19,169 --> 01:17:21,068
I can't.
825
01:17:23,485 --> 01:17:25,218
I can't leave my children!
826
01:17:39,452 --> 01:17:41,463
I know.
827
01:20:08,826 --> 01:20:09,826
- Um...
828
01:20:09,869 --> 01:20:12,617
Actually, we need to talk to you about that
829
01:20:12,642 --> 01:20:14,407
Oh well you don't have to pay me for lunch
830
01:20:17,644 --> 01:20:18,911
- No, it's not that
831
01:20:22,566 --> 01:20:25,422
We're thinking about cutting back
on their painting lessons
832
01:20:28,524 --> 01:20:30,070
- I'm sorry, it's just...
833
01:20:31,555 --> 01:20:34,795
- I know we probably should have talked to
you about it in advance, but
834
01:20:34,820 --> 01:20:36,203
- They're test is in two weeks
835
01:20:36,228 --> 01:20:37,967
It's fine
836
01:20:37,992 --> 01:20:39,267
- Dad!
837
01:20:39,431 --> 01:20:41,608
- But Dad... please?
838
01:20:41,633 --> 01:20:44,222
No argument.
That's the deal.
839
01:20:46,362 --> 01:20:48,289
I gotta make a phone call.
840
01:21:12,593 --> 01:21:17,316
Everything that happens between us,
stays in this room
841
01:21:27,442 --> 01:21:30,063
Um...
- Will we see you next week?
842
01:21:30,088 --> 01:21:33,719
Hmm... Aww, it's ok sweetheart,
you know what?
843
01:21:33,744 --> 01:21:36,934
We'll paint something together really soon,
ok?
844
01:21:43,926 --> 01:21:45,219
- Are you ok?
845
01:21:47,074 --> 01:21:48,855
I needed a smoke break.
846
01:21:49,332 --> 01:21:51,892
I'm sorry, we're not trying to be mean,
it's just-
847
01:21:51,917 --> 01:21:54,425
I totally understand.
848
01:21:54,871 --> 01:21:59,156
We can talk about their schedule when the
school year's over.
849
01:21:59,422 --> 01:22:02,297
Alright, I'll see you soon.
850
01:22:11,990 --> 01:22:13,538
- Come inside.
851
01:22:13,763 --> 01:22:15,763
- What the hell are you doing?
852
01:22:19,962 --> 01:22:20,962
Don't!
853
01:22:25,620 --> 01:22:27,353
The neighbours might see
854
01:22:27,446 --> 01:22:28,846
I don't care
855
01:22:29,856 --> 01:22:32,904
Ariel, I'm sorry
856
01:22:32,929 --> 01:22:36,491
We talked about cutting the class, but I didn't think
he would do it so soon
857
01:22:36,516 --> 01:22:39,487
I was going to tell you-
When are you going to tell him?
858
01:22:42,571 --> 01:22:43,571
When!?
859
01:22:43,596 --> 01:22:48,095
I.. I was trying to tell you, Ariel.
I just need more time
860
01:22:49,844 --> 01:22:51,263
You know what?
861
01:22:51,288 --> 01:22:53,547
Don't even worry about it
862
01:22:53,805 --> 01:22:54,836
It doesn't even matter
863
01:22:56,118 --> 01:22:57,688
Because we're just lovers
864
01:22:57,815 --> 01:22:59,282
We're not just lovers!
865
01:23:01,478 --> 01:23:03,787
Please just try to understand
866
01:23:04,254 --> 01:23:09,514
I have a family to consider,
I am responsible for them.
867
01:23:10,413 --> 01:23:14,259
So, what about us?
Huh?
868
01:23:22,514 --> 01:23:23,514
Stop
869
01:24:28,037 --> 01:24:31,156
- Mommy!
The door is closed!
870
01:24:31,190 --> 01:24:32,190
Hide!
871
01:24:37,241 --> 01:24:39,233
Go, go, go!
-I'm not -Go!
872
01:24:40,028 --> 01:24:41,028
Tera!
873
01:24:47,420 --> 01:24:51,945
*Muffled voices*
874
01:24:57,611 --> 01:24:59,480
(Man) - Hunny, are you here?
875
01:24:59,505 --> 01:25:03,076
*Children's laughter*
(Man) - You guys cool it, Mom is working
876
01:25:04,287 --> 01:25:05,543
(Man) - Are you finished yet?
877
01:25:06,714 --> 01:25:10,935
No... I tried to work on it but I just,
I don't feel well
878
01:25:10,960 --> 01:25:12,743
- Headache again?
Yeah.
879
01:25:13,991 --> 01:25:15,874
I thought you would be back later?
880
01:25:16,224 --> 01:25:18,157
- Let me get you some aspirin
881
01:25:18,182 --> 01:25:19,515
Don't worry, Michael
882
01:25:45,628 --> 01:25:46,928
You should take it easy
883
01:25:47,938 --> 01:25:49,542
I'll take care of the kids
884
01:25:49,567 --> 01:25:51,207
Like you always do
885
01:25:51,232 --> 01:25:52,502
Do I have a choice?
886
01:25:55,596 --> 01:25:56,596
Yeah
887
01:25:58,318 --> 01:26:00,641
I think I can push it back later
888
01:26:01,883 --> 01:26:03,508
If it's not too much trouble?
889
01:26:03,533 --> 01:26:04,792
- Are you sure?
890
01:26:04,817 --> 01:26:06,084
I'll get it done tomorrow...
891
01:26:07,841 --> 01:26:09,297
What is this?
892
01:26:10,593 --> 01:26:14,450
It's um, round and shiny
893
01:26:18,056 --> 01:26:19,058
What?
894
01:26:19,083 --> 01:26:23,194
A ring? I got you something
that was like, five bucks
895
01:26:23,219 --> 01:26:24,498
Ok, I'mma take this back
896
01:26:24,523 --> 01:26:25,605
No, no, no, no, no, no
897
01:26:25,605 --> 01:26:29,921
No, I want it, c'mon...
Give it to me
898
01:26:35,736 --> 01:26:36,736
Mommy!
899
01:26:39,080 --> 01:26:40,647
- Hey sweetheart
900
01:26:45,048 --> 01:26:47,289
- Oh, they're cleaning the pool, baby
901
01:26:47,314 --> 01:26:50,727
I told you it's because of the bottom
of the pool's blue!
902
01:26:50,752 --> 01:26:53,170
- No it's not!
Yes it is!
903
01:26:53,195 --> 01:26:57,950
*Children giggling*
904
01:27:00,174 --> 01:27:05,728
This is yours, and this is mine
905
01:27:09,220 --> 01:27:10,978
This studio is in Spain
906
01:27:11,003 --> 01:27:13,103
Boo!
*Playful scream*
907
01:27:13,939 --> 01:27:16,111
- Let's go to Spain
908
01:27:18,072 --> 01:27:20,324
(Man) -Alright guys, hey I've got an idea
909
01:27:20,348 --> 01:27:22,728
- Just you and me?
910
01:27:23,955 --> 01:27:26,852
Yep. Just you and me
911
01:27:42,086 --> 01:27:47,837
They're going out for a movie.
Just wait one minute
912
01:27:55,210 --> 01:27:58,460
How are we going to deal with this?
913
01:28:03,163 --> 01:28:05,664
Keep it a secret
914
01:28:19,702 --> 01:28:20,955
Well d'you love me, mom?
915
01:28:24,196 --> 01:28:29,848
Everything that happens between us,
stays in this room
69587