All language subtitles for Psychologist EP07 _ YOUKU

♫With no specter to cut off the waves♫

♫With no halo bestowed by heaven♫

♫I should admit I was born ordinary♫

♫But I'm not resigned to the silence on stage♫

♫Break it down♫

♫I'm taking over now♫

♫Tough it out. That's what I'm all about.♫

♫We are destined to break through a mental wall♫

♫To unlock a ray of light♫

♫We know there will be infinite waves♫

♫Getting in my way♫

♫They will build up into roads that enable me to climb high and see far♫

♫To test me, inspire me, make me and give me courage♫

♫I am the master♫

♫Of my own destiny♫

This TV series is produced with a special fund for guiding and supporting TV series in 2020 from the National Radio and Television Administration and is a key TV series project supported by the Hainan Free Trade Port.

Episode 7

Are you the one

who hung up that banner out there?

There must be

some misunderstanding here.

Sis.

Why are you holding her hand?

How are you related?

So it is you!

You guys are so mean to me!

You guys are so mean to me!

Why are you all so mean to me?

Are you all right?

Please don't!

Wen, what are you doing?

I think you know me.

You know me, don't you?

He Dun, the psychologist,

the one

who ruined others' family.

You're so famous.

How could I not know you?

Don't be afraid.

I won't hurt you.

I can tell

you've got a serious problem with me.

Am I right?

Since you have a problem with me,

why don't you

tell everyone about it

on the live radio show

so that everyone could hear you?

The show will be on air

in less than five minutes.

Despite the scene you created,

you don't want the debut

of Qian Kaiyi's new program

to hit rocket bottom,

do you?

I also believe Qian Kaiyi

would like to solve this problem

in a more proper way, right?

Yeah.

Would you give it a thought?

Okay.

Are you ready?

Five.

Four.

Three.

Two.

Dear audience,

good evening.

This is FM 99.7.

Haifeng Radio International.

This is the new version of

our classic show of Night Talk to Your Heart.

I'm the host Yi.

Perhaps our old audience

would remember

Night Talk to Your Heart

as a loyal friend

for their psychological growth.

The show was the top

among the emotional programs in the 1990s.

This time,

we managed to

keep the essence of this program

and also invited

Miss He Dun,

a prestigious psychologist,

as guest to

our show.

Now let's welcome He Dun.

Hello, everyone.

I'm He Dun, an interlocutor devoted to bringing people happiness.

Well, now,

we got

the first call

for today's show.

Let's answer it together.

Hello, listener.

Hello, Mr. Qian.

I'm Wen.

Hello, Wen.

Mr. Qian, I have a question for you.

Go ahead, please.

Mr. Qian,

why would you choose

an expelled psychologist

to be your partner?

Was that intentional?

How could she say that?

He Dun is so unlucky.

She met someone who caused trouble at the start.

Her mind might get blank.

I don't think so.

First, I'd say

sometimes what we hear and see

on the internet

doesn't cover the whole story.

I hope

you can treat the issue rationally.

Second,

I chose Miss He

because of a word

she once said to me.

There is a limit to how much suicide intervention can do.

I want to help more people.

She wants to get more people

out of the mire.

Then, I'd like to

ask Miss He.

Miss He, did you get out of the mire?

Are you afraid to answer my question?

If I tell you

that I've led myself out of the mire

and that I'll never get involved

in another mire,

will you believe me?

No, I don't believe you.

Wen,

we all need to go through

our own hardships.

It's impossible for us

to avoid

such suffering.

Me neither.

Growing up is a lesson

for us to learn in our life.

What we can do

is to keep dynamical balance.

Everyone gets lost now and then.

I believe you just got lost.

You will finally lead yourself through it.

That's right. Wen,

for any doubts you have

in your life,

you're welcome to tell us.

Perhaps we can help you.

You abandoned me

because of her.

Dear listener,

thank you for your appreciation.

Also, thank you

for your support for the show.

However, you need to

respect the truth.

Do you know her or not?

If you know her,

I need to know about it.

It's necessary for our communication.

I really don't know her.

Qian Kaiyi,

are you humiliating me in public?

How could you do that to me?

Well.

Calm down.

Let He Dun handle this.

Wen,

can I have a chat with you?

I have nothing to say to you.

You wouldn't have made this call

if you didn't want to talk to me.

Your calling us

showed that you still wanted to

talk to someone, right?

You've been doubting me

during the live radio show.

You said some fierce words.

I understand

you were doing this

to frighten me.

However, I saw fear

in your eyes.

I know

you recognize me

as a great threat.

You think I'm destroying a relationship

which you deem very precious.

That is,

the relationship between you and Qian Kaiyi,

right?

However, I can tell

that Mr. Qian

doesn't remember much about you.

If what I think is correct,

you two

have never met before, have you?

No.

We haven't met before.

But you know him.

You two have connections.

Yes.

We've been in contact.

We communicate on a weekly basis.

I've been sending Mr. Qian email

every week.

And Mr. Qian replies my email

every time.

We...

We're good friends.

You're

that listener

who keeps sending me emails.

Yes, that's me.

It's me, Mr. Qian.

We've been

in contact.

However...

However, you hardly

replied my emails recently.

No.

Did you dump me

for someone else?

Wen, I can tell

that Mr. Qian

didn't realize

how important he is to you.

But you trust him

and rely on him very much.

You even take your daily communication

as your emotional support.

When

your communication

suddenly ceased,

Mr. Qian, I'm wondering why you didn't reply my email. You're not talking to me anymore? All I want is your reply, only a word would be fine. Did you even read my email?
suddenly ceased,

Mr. Qian, I'm wondering why you didn't reply my email. You're not talking to me anymore? All I want is your reply, only a word would be fine. Did you even read my email?

you started to feel depressed
Mr. Qian, I'm wondering why you didn't reply my email. You're not talking to me anymore? All I want is your reply, only a word would be fine. Did you even read my email?

you started to feel depressed

and broke down.

That's right.

That's how it is.

Every week, I've been waiting for Mr. Qian

to reply to me.

You never bailed on me

before.

Let me guess,

this is not the first time

that you have

this pattern of relationship.

You had similar pattern of relationship

before Mr. Qian.

You became very dependent

in this kind of relationship.

But in the later part of this kind of relationship,

you always felt that you were abandoned,

right?

I don't know why.

Why this always happened?

So you're afraid

that Mr. Qian will abandon you, give up on you

like all the others did.

Wen,

I remember you.

You've been an important listener

to me.

However, I never realized

that I've become

so important to you.

I felt bewildered recently.

I didn't mean to

distance myself from you.

I've been working on a show

that means a lot

to me.

Perhaps

our first meeting

is not perfect.

But I want you to know

that you're still

the most important listener to me.

Wen,

you may have experienced

this pattern of relationship many times,

all of which

made you feel vulnerable

and depressed.

But trust me,

you can come out of

that terrible suffering.

If you trust me,

I could give the name

of a prestigious psychological counselor.

Would you give yourself

such a chance?

You're back.

Hey, Jiahui.

Taking out the trash?

Yeah.

Congratulations!

I listened to the radio show.

It was great.

Thanks.

As a psychologist

specialized in crisis intervention,

you're admirable.

Such crisis

won't happen again.

What happened to your elbow?

It's okay.

It's just a graze.

You can go to my place.

I'll treat your wound.

Never mind.

It's no big deal.

It's okay.

Just think of it as my paying back your fruit.

Otherwise I'll feel I owe you something.

Jiahui,

it's actually a minor injury.

I'm totally fine.

Now I see you never let yourself

to be taken care of by others.

Actually, they have treated my wound

back in the radio station.

As for what happened today

in the radio station,

that girl seems to be a bigot

who has the delusion of being loved.

Generally, people like that are self-consistent.

They're unlikely to turn to someone for help.

Each setback or detrimental mutations

is with the same or greater beneficial seeds.

By Emerson.

Actually, I wanted to help her.

But I can't do that.

She's paranoid and suspicious,

which drove her to attack you.

She showed great hostility toward me.

If I start a counselling relationship

with her,

her animosity

will do her no good.

So I referred her to

a psychological counselor

whom I trust a lot.

When the wound becomes inflamed,

white blood cells start to devour foreign material.

Then the white blood cells die and are lost from the body.

That's the end of disinfection and sterilization of the wound.

No harm, no heal.

It's takes a lot of effort

for a psychological counselor

to get to know someone's mind.

She is not a god.

Jiahui, thank you.

It's getting late.

I'll leave you alone.

I'm going.

Please let me walk you home.

Please don't.

If Tang Lili sees you

sending me home late at night,

we'll never hear the end of it.

Bye.

Cool, the show has become a trending topic.

We got so many comments.

I have but two hands.

Great.

Let me help you.

Good for you, Qian.

The show went trending right after its debut.

Come on, ask Director Pan to give you credit.

Come on.

I owe you guys

big time.

I'll treat you to a nice dinner.

You're gonna keep your word.

We'll have hotpot and barbecue.

Okay, I'll tell Xiong Qiao.

Yi, come over here.

See?

I heard the girl in that room

is also a psychological counselor.

Is Wang Zhuo trying to...

It's my honor to have Miss Wen

in our radio station.

Mr. Wang, I've heard of you a lot.

Enjoy the tea.

Recently,

I feel upset,

restless

and miserable.

Every night, I lie in bed

with my eyes wide open,

staring at the ceiling

till it is light.

Everything

tastes like

sawdust to me.

I've gone to all the prestigious hospitals,

only to be told that I'm all right.

Report?

I mean your medical examination report.

I've been to departments of medicine, surgery,

E.N.T

and cardiology.

I've undergone CT,

Patient list Examine Review Print System

blood test,

massage

and acupuncture.

Am I alright?

According to your medical examination report,

there is nothing wrong with you.

I feel I'm dying.

How come there is nothing wrong with me?

Director,

am I under a spell?

Let go of me!

Let go of me!

Get out of here!

Sir, are you alright?

Do you need a carer?

I'm sick.

I need to see a doctor.

Mr. Xun, Mr. Xun...

Well...

What are you doing here?

Why wouldn't you stay at home?

You insisted on visiting the hospital

and now you got mistreated.

I went to

this public hospital

because I wanted to

have a thorough

physical checkup

in all the departments.

However...

Cool down, cool down.

No one

would tell me the truth.

Mr. Xun,

please don't say that.

Look at me.

I'm absolutely loyal to you.

Then answer my question.

Do I look sick to you?

What's wrong with you?

You psychopath!

Who called me a psychopath?

You're a psychopath!

That's the last piece of the puzzle!

Hey.

It's me, Ji.

Why are you calling at this hour?

Well, well, here is the thing.

A friend of mine

has gone mental.

You're a

prestigious

psychology professor.

Do you think you can meet him?

Xun,

I'm afraid my hands are tied here.

How come?

We've been good friends for so many years.

The duality of the relationship is not conducive to counselling.

Besides,

maybe your friend

hasn't been diagnosed yet.

It's better to talk to a counsellor

to see

if psychiatric expertise

is necessary.

Who am I gonna turn to?

Well,

don't worry.

I'll refer you to someone.

Who?

He Dun.

Horton?

What's wrong?

You don't like the mask?

It's average.

So it's not working.

I thought we use the same mask.

Not really.

I used a different one.

Then what is it?

Are you running a test on my face?

Nope.

My last video

went viral.

And somehow I received

testers from various brands.

So I let you

test the product.

Guess that's why

I feel my face itching.

Do I have allergies?

Look.

It's okay.

I got many soothing serums

upstairs.

You can use them.

Otherwise it will keep you from going to the show.

That would be fantastic.

That would be a great excuse

not to be on the show.

Do you hate Qian Kaiyi

that much?

He's been doing all the nice things for you.

Also, he brought about justice

for me.

He really is a nice guy.

I don't thinks so.

He has an ulterior motive.

He wants me to be

his show partner, okay?

What about the guy lives next door?

It seems

he's interested in you.

He made a music box

for you.

That's very thoughtful.

Now that you brought it up,

did you know

he's a psychiatrist?

You met my friend

in a bar

and then became her neighbor.

Isn't that coincidence too conspicuous?

My grandma

doesn't feel well these years.

She often asks me to come back to City H.

This is the location

of the nursing house my grandma stays in.

Only 700 meters from here.

Yeah, I knew.

Why didn't you tell me?

If I told you,

you'd overthink it.

Isn't that weird to you?

The first time we met him,

he was taking medicine after drinking wine.

Now he happens to

be our neighbor.

Sir, how do you like this house?

I tried to probe him yesterday.

His answer was very obscure.

Do you not see how weird that is?

You must be thinking

why would a medical school graduate

take medicine after drinking wine.

Actually,

there are many similarities

between psychiatry and psychological counseling.

Yet there are many differences.

Come on,

do you want him

to tell you directly

that he had the intention to commit suicide?

Come on, keep your voice down.

Anyway, what you said

sounds reasonable.

Come on in.

The show is a hit.

What makes you upset?

The show being a hit

makes me upset.

Kaiyi,

I know that this show

is like your child.

Don't you want to

make it a top show?

Of course I do.

But I want to do it on my own.

As for Wang Zhuo,

don't you think

you owe me an explanation?

Wang Zhuo...

That day,

I just brought it up casually,

seeing if

he got any good idea

to inspire you.

Come on, Director Pan,

I just don't get it.

Why would you

make me feel like a failure all the time?

The show budget document.

I've signed it.

Then, Wang Zhuo...

Wang Zhuo came to me the other day,

saying that he knew

a prestigious psychological counselor.

I didn't give it much thought.

Thank you, Director Pan.

Well, I,

I feel much better now.

I'll be on my way.

I'll close the door for you.

Can you hear me?

Can you hear me?

Yes, yes.

I'm listening.

Ring the bell.

Mr. Xun...

I can't. I can't.

Well,

I just can't.

Come on!

Is it so hard to ring the bell?

Well,

I'm not an actor.

I'm not a veteran actor.

I'm afraid I can't pass for you.

You received my money.

Now you're telling me you can't do it?

You psychopath!

Who called me a psychopath?

You're a psychopath!

That's the last piece of the puzzle!

I'm sorry for what happened just now.

Do you

need a carer?

Let me think about it.

How much do you earn a day

as a carer?

500 yuan.

I'll hire you for one day.

Really?

Wait a moment, sunglasses.

Alright,

I'll give you 500 yuan more.

Really?

Then, Mr., Xun,

would you give me more...

You're reminding me.

With that money,

not only a veteran actor,

I may even hire a movie star.

It's okay if you won't ring the bell.

Just give me back my money.

Hello,

I'm Xun.

Thank you for having me here.

Come in, please.

Later,

I need to you repeat after me.

Okay, no problem.

This place is so fancy.

I'm He Dun. Nice to meet you, Mr. Xun.

Sure, I'll let Mr. Xun know it.

Well, Mr. Xun...

Speak it out.

Well...

Tissue.

What's wrong?

Face.

I'm Xun.

I know you're Mr. Xun.

Mr. Xun,

well,

we're required

to pay another 5 million yuan

as the commission for the sale.

Another 5 million yuan?

Mr. Xun,

what do you do for a living?

Are we doing charity?

Charity.

They won't sign the contract

unless we pay

the 5 million commission for the sale.

What happened to

the PR department?

Are they good for nothing?

Charity?

I'm interested in this field.

What stuff

do you do?

Let them goof off.

I'll fire them very soon.

Goof off.

And fire people.

Mr. Xun,

that's impressive and courageous.

Well,

let's get started.

Mr. Xun, do you feel unwell

these days?

I should go there?

People in the PR department

are limbs missing?

Mr. Xun?

Limbs missing.

But I still need to go there.

Okay, I'll be on my way.

Wait a moment.

Do you do exercise?

Do ten push-ups

and learn your lesson.

Yes.

I do push-ups.

And twenty high knees.

And high knees.

Hey,

I got scolded for it.

Mr. Xun,

you look very healthy to me.

Mr. Xun,

the PR department called again,

asking you to take a step a back.

Take a step back?

Two, three or four steps?

Is this a ballroom dancing?

Do I need to perform

square dancing for him?

I also do square dancing.

Alright, get off the phone.

I'll call him myself.

Okay.

Mr. Xun,

are you tired?

Do you want to have a chat upstairs?

I see,

you want to know

why I'd ask someone to pretend to be me.

But most importantly, you're here.

I'm here

because I'm at the end of my rope.

So, you have no faith

in psychological counseling

and try to test me by finding someone

to pretend to be you, am I right?

If that's what you want to call it.

I just wanted to test you.

Did I pass your test?

It's okay.

Just act as you see fit.

Our conversation is confidential.

You don't have to answer this question

if you don't want to.

I'm gonna ask you

many questions,

which will be the basis

for our communication.

Is that okay for you?

You didn't trust me.

And you tested me by finding someone to pretend to be you.

But now you're here.

So I gather

that you have

certain expectations

for this psychological counselling.

Is this Horton

as brilliant as you said?

He Dun is a very talented,

diligent student.

If you can trust me,

then you can trust her.

Don't let her know

that I'm behind it.

Okay.

To be honest,

I feel that I have an incurable disease.

I've been to all the major hospitals,

seeing the experts and professors

of all the departments,

only to be told that I'm all fine,

that I'm in good condition.

But there must be something wrong

with me.

I'm here

because a friend of mine

suggested that I see a psychological counselor.

What symptoms

do you think you have?

At first,

I sweated and trembled.

Then my chest went weak

and I lost my breathe.

I also felt sick.

When I was in bed,

I felt I was dying.

I had a white blindness.

My soul was leaving my body.

Despite these obvious symptoms,

they just couldn't find the reason.

These experts and professors

are nothing but charlatans.

Mr. Xun, take your time.

Try to remember

what were you thinking

when such symptoms were gone.

I was thinking

I wanted to stay alive.

I wanted to live a few more years

to see...

To see my son.

With this weird disease,

I'm not going to last long.

But according to your medical examination report,

there is nothing wrong

with your bodily functions.

That's the worst part!

I had this relative back in my hometown

who was as strong as a horse

and died suddenly.

I'm growing

older and older.

At my age,

you don't look for disease

but disease will look for you.

Besides,

my family is not blessed with longevity genes,

not within several generations.

Mr. Xun, do you want to know

what I think?

I'm listening.

You're having anxiety.

Anxiety?

That's right.

Doctors asked you

to see a psychological counselor

not because they couldn't

find your physical problem

but because they could see

what you have is

typical psychological symptoms.

In psychology,

it's known as panic disorder.

The initial symptom

is trembling and sweating.

Soon,

you'd be aware of

your physical changes. Am I right?

Exactly.

I can tell

that you're very concerned

with your health.

So, upon the first attack,

you went to see doctors

frequently,

only to be told

that there is nothing wrong with your body.

During the next attack,

you found yourself in a worse situation.

At the height of it,

you experienced nausea, vomiting,

heart rate speeding up

and loss of breath.

Mr. Xun, are you alright?

Mr. Xun?

As time moves forward,

it often doesn't last long

before your body

calms down.

The attack

lasts about three to five minutes.

Am I right?

Exactly.

Every time the symptoms were gone,

I was dog-tired.

Well,

how come you know so well

about these details?

Mr. Xun,

this is what we called

panic attack.

When these symptoms occur,

you'd have a near-death experience.

But this is not a problem

with your body.

Nor is it an incurable disease.

In fact, among ordinary people,

about three to five percent of them

have experienced panic attack.

Some of them

would pay special attention to it

and feel anxious about it.

That's when it becomes a problem.

So, what you're saying is this weird disease

also happens to other people

and it's not a terminal disease

and it can be cured?

It can be cured.

Every time you come here,

you'd leave my grapevine

bare.

You're exaggerating.

I just pick two clusters of grapes.

I'm craving for grapes.

You don't go abroad anymore?

With everything fantastic at home,

why would I want to go abroad?

But you don't even

go home.

So,

you're here to mediate.

I'm not mediating.

It's that someone is in a bad place.

I feel sorry for him.

He's been suffering

from all kinds of discomfort.

It won't be long

before he goes to

all the hospitals in the province.

What happened?

He was fine a few days ago.

I've no idea.

I think the answer lies in you.

Since when do you start

beating the bush?

The cat will be out of the bag

if you still stay at my place.

Miss He, could you tell me

why I got this disease?

It never happened to me before.

Why did I

have

panic disorder?

I should ask you the same question.

Did anything

happen to you

recently?

Not that I'm aware of.

I noticed

that you denied it

immediately.

But before that,

during our conversation,

you've been

in doubt.

I totally understand

that it takes time for you to trust me.

I also totally understand

that you find it difficult to open yourself to me

in this face-to-face conversation.

However, if you can't

face me

and talk to me

in a genuine way,

then there is a limit

to how much I can help you.

Sometimes, it's even harder

to deal with our feelings

than with our work.

We can control

our behavior.

However, sometimes

it's hard for us

to talk about our feelings.

Mr. Xun, we're not in a hurry.

You can take your time.

If you

want to call it a day,

I'm totally okay with that.

My son went abroad.

You promised that you won't go abroad.

Why did you change your mind?

Do you still see me

as your father?

You'll lose me as your father

if you still go abroad.

And I'll lose you as my son.

Panic attack

happens after

your son's call.

This is not the first time that you have panic attack.

The symptoms

have become obvious.

He wants me dead.

Son
He wants me dead.

Son

He wants me dead.
Son

He wants me dead.

Bai, drive faster.

Hao's plane is about to take off.

I can't miss it.

No problem, Mr. Xun.

Asshole! Asshole!

Mr. Xun?

Are you alright, Mr. Xun? Mr. Xun?

Mr. Xun?

I'll send you to the hospital, Mr. Xun.

Xun Hao sent a message:

Dad, I've already left.

There is no need to see me off.

The father and son didn't get to see each other

even before the departure.

Recently, many countries have declared the outbreak of the pandemic.

According to incomplete statistics...

How does it happen like this?

Near ten thousands of people have been infected.

The governments appealed to the crowd...

How does it happen like this?

To minimize outdoor activities and gathering.

No suspected case has been detected in the province.

Latest News: Outbreak of Pandemic in Various Countries; the Number of Confirmed Cases Continues to Climb

Come on,

whatever I do, I do for his own good.

I do for his own good.

I've been worrying about him.

Why was he so disobedient

and still went abroad?

Well,

should anything happen to him,

what will become of me?

Did he ever think about that?

Mr. Xun,

I think I've learned

your situation.

However, I still want you

to say it yourself.

This is a family tray.

This tray is a tool

for you to talk to yourself.

Maybe I'm not able

to fix your problem today.

However, we may get to know

the origin of your problem.

Then,

what am I going to do?

See those figurines

in the bag?

These figurines can represent anyone,

me, you,

or Xun Hao.

You can pick some figurines from the bag

to represent persons

who are important to you

and place them on the tray as you see fit.

Asshole! Asshole!

Why did you choose the black one?

I've no idea.

Go on, please.

Who is this one?

My wife.

Fang.

What are you trying to say? Come on!

I'm listening.

The psychological counseling cases in this TV series are artistically stylized for visual presentation purposes. Please seek help from professional psychological counseling institutions if you encounter similar cases or have other psychological distress.

♫Each dawn blooms with a word of flowers♫

♫Here is an aroma of coffee and you♫

♫Whether the haze turns into a rain or the weather suddenly clears up♫

♫I wish to be with you♫

♫A shower of rain gently floats far out of the sky♫

♫Taking with it my blue and cloudy memories♫

♫I bloom a scenery as clear as a song♫

♫I see your eyes as bright as a star♫

♫They warm my smile and listen to my true voice♫

♫Giving me the gentlest response♫

♫I see the sudden arrival♫

♫Of beautiful love♫

♫Holding you hand, I can feel your heart♫

♫Holding you hand, I can feel your heart♫