All language subtitles for secret energy of happiness (english) part 3-it.srt 12.14

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there is nobody here who wants to be

unhappy but now tell me

is there somebody here that truly knows

what he wants

i won't ask that young boy what he wants

but i would like an elderly person to

tell me what he wants

then we'll discuss i will not i will not

uh

downgrade you or insult you or something

but i'll try and explain what's wrong

with what you want in the way you want

it

so what you want doesn't have to be

right or wrong but you have to know what

you want and i'm asking you this because

you will see

that the formulation of what you want is

not clear in your consciousness in your

mind

so if there's somebody who

dares

to say i want this then i'll try and

explain what that means

or what that does not mean

see

to realize god

so that is a wanting

that he will never

never ever attain

to realize god

will he attain that

and if he doesn't say does that mean

that he's going to be unhappy

okay that is something so abstract how

many you don't know you have realized

god see it is not defined

so if you say

what i want is to meet god physically

then at least there's something concrete

to that when you meet him see i have met

him

but then already you should know that

this is something not possible because

god does not exist in a physical body

and

there can be people

who

are avatars

people who have

higher

state of consciousness and so on like

mother earth all of our great sannyasis

our great

philosophers

all these great masters

are great people they are very realized

they are they are very evolved people

but

god as such the concept of god is that

it's not there physically

then if you say to me

tree or window

is god to me then i can say yes that is

possible but he's dead so you can't meet

him

okay

and if you say yes

i

your god to me

you are alive you can meet me i said

again wrong because i'm not god

i don't want to be god i want to be me

it's true

i am me

the thing is i will give you an example

somebody will say

my objective is to be successful

okay i want to be successful so then the

question comes what is success

and this is becoming academy this is why

this is a seminar that you have to be

very concrete

in order

to realize something

okay

so if you say i want to be successful

then you have to define what is success

and

if the gentleman sitting at the end says

for me success is when my business

goes in profit lines that it's not

losing any more money is making profit

for him it is defined the moment he

starts making profit even one percent

more then for him is success fantastic

he can achieve that but he has defined

it

another person will say i want success

in my business but it has to increase by

10 every year

these are very concrete ways how the

american business corporations and so on

operate they have very concrete plans

what should be reproduction

great

very clear

and they can follow it day to day

okay and i've heard i have been

consultants to big businesses

yeah

adelies

are the

fiat family in italy they built fiat

cars that are

i was asked by the family for their

personal health problems and also for uh

emotional problems and other family

problems and so on but also for business

problems

of illness between managers that there's

so many die

of heart attacks and so on and the

production then falls and all that so a

lot of things that we can teach people

to

medicine but also through spirituality

for you very important to know what you

want

who you are

and most of you have

a negative concept of yourself i have

really met some there are people who

brag i'm just i'm that but

inside they are very insecure and so

why because they don't know really who

they are

okay and this is where this is very

important that you know for yourself who

you are

what are your strengths and what are

your weaknesses

and not be ashamed of it

you know i would like to be tall and big

and handsome like your film stars in

india

but i'm small and i'm not handsome and i

don't even have hair on my head

but i feel pretty comfortable with

myself

yeah

so see i know what i want

for me my looks

are not the primary object

and then again when you know what you

want then

you have to ask yourself if what you

want is realistic

and if it's done able

so if

you are

that let me say

a medical doctor like me

and then i say oh i would like to be an

astronaut

then that's unrealistic even though i

might be intelligent and have knowledge

and education because

that particular line

of success is totally out of

my field of education

okay

and space science is very very complex

and very complicated so i can't become

an astronaut it's real but if i'm a

doctor

and i want to become a yoga teacher that

is no problem

teaching

you know

yoga gymnastics or whatever

or if i'm a medical doctor and i want to

teach

in a school or something that is

possible i can teach

mathematics or languages or something

so it should be within your capacity and

it should be realistic

but most people put their aims very low

and we can do much more and i prove that

i've shown people

who are not

able to do anything give you a classical

example of what human will is

a young german man 35 36 years old comes

to me

well dressed

he came from a very large city he came

to my office in

berlin and he came from another very

very

large

german city this young man

i could see that he was very institute

when he when he came and shook hands

with me and looked at me and i was

looking at him good looking man well

dressed

36 years old

and

he sits on i said what can i do for you

he says i want

to tell you a secret that nobody knows

so since i am never serious i said don't

tell me that you killed your

your mother-in-law

please

i said no i'm joking

so he tells you what is it that you have

never told anybody what's the secret and

he tells you i'm 36 years old

i'm married i'm a two-year-old girl

and i can't read or write

imagine

in germany a well-dressed man

and i said

how come

how do you earn your living

so i work for ups it's a united parcel

service i don't know if they have that

in india but they do they

they deliver parcels

and this is my my friend drives and he

tells me this parcel goes to that door

this parcel goes to that door and i

earned my living right there

i said

and he told me the story

that he suffered as a child a lot

because the father used to be both the

kids and they were very poor and all

that and when children get abused at

home

they forget what they have learned in

school but even adults

if right now suddenly the fire fire

alarm rings and we all rush out because

we think there's a fire or an attack a

terrorist attack

you'll be so scared that when you come

back again

because it was a false alarm you will

not remember anything i told you

it will be like that we know this in

neurology we have done tests

neurological tests we can do

and then the tumor

so they as kids

he could not his brother has become

psychotic

had to be admitted in psychiatry and he

very intelligent young man he was so

clever he passed through and got himself

a job and all that and a wife a child

but now he says

i said so now what do you want to do he

says i will not i want to be able to

read and write

see he knew exactly what he wanted he

wants to learn how to read and write i

said that's possible all you need

you have to help me

with self-esteem and confidence in

myself no problem there are very

interesting exercises that we try and do

a couple of them here if it's possible

that can help you program yourself

then i said is there anything else he

said yes very important i said what

i want to be rich

and he's earning very little as a ups

employee

so i said yes you want to be rich

you want to learn to read and write

learn to read and write you can

rich you can also become but you have to

know

how

because richness has no

picture

when you want something you have to have

a picture of it

it should be so precise that you know

exactly what you want

so he understands the concept of

richness which is against poverty that

says that your money to spend and all

that but there's not a concrete image of

richness

so i said

let's put an image to how what you want

to what you call for rich and how you

want to become he says i

want

to have my own logistic business

when people change houses

that you go from your one house to

another house in chennai or wherever

like we move from berlin to the island

of sardinia italy

and korea

and

it's trucks that move you

okay so he wanted to start a business

like i said that is starting to be more

concrete

so now that he can visualize that he has

drugs that transport people so it's

concrete and he knows what it means to

be in a trucking business that they take

furniture and everything they pack them

they deliver them they unpack and

everything

very good do you know that this young

man

in four years

became a millionaire

he invited my wife and me from berlin to

come to his city

he put us up in the best hotel there was

he showed me how his business is going

his business

he visualized with me a visualization

it's very important

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