All language subtitles for A Girls Guide to 21st Century Sex 6 (2006)

tonight on a Girl's Guide to 21st
century sex

when three is not too crowded by having
sex with multiple partners is becoming

increasingly popular

lichen sclerosus a potentially
devastating skin conditions

the can make pitch to have sex
impossible and the art of spanking

dramatic foreplay there

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home

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welcome to the Girls Guide to 21st
century sex

I'm docked Catherine hood and in this
series I've been examining

all aspects lovemaking bring tips advice
and new techniques

to give a greater confidence to try
something new and invigorate your sex

life

every week will dissect and analyze the
world's favorite sexual positions

with a specially designed cameras we'll
see what really happens to a body during

intercourse

and each week the Girls Guide sexpert
stopped

Ava Cadell and Lou Paget from Los
Angeles bookie be your very own personal

coaching sessions

on everything from how to reach a peak
sexual fitness

to food that will make your sex sessions
last longer the coming up tonight

this week's exposition the exposition
could lead to mass in lovemaking

sessions

and multiple orgasms first though

is having sex if more than one partner
the key to satisfaction

the group sex

is sex involving more than two people at
the same time it lotsa people present

is sometimes called orgy all gang bang
but it's also common

swinging all-white something parties and
rainbow parties which can involve

oral sex

there's no one group individuals who
take part in groupsex

people of all ages and sexual persuasion
scanning gate in the practice

although three sons are more common
among young people where is the older

married generation may participate in
Black swapping all swinging

the old she has time notoriety in
pornographic films

group sex clubs do exist if you're
willing to learn

there is something about having sex with
a large group

people way you can lie back and shut
your eyes natan

five minutes later and not known how
many people touching your body because

your same comment in flash win-lose
marriage

ended in divorce it was the trigger for
her to want to act out her sexual

fantasies

so she went to a club mandel's teen
group sex

she like the experience so much the
group sex has now become a large part of

her life

up

Luc Nam regularly attends swinging
parties where couples have sex with many

partners

group sex from me has definitely been

a massive UK based I E and

advertise myself Indian cinema I have
literally hundreds

people telling me that I think I'm
peaceful and

they want me XI miss a group sex may
well be the

unpredictability uncertainty over its
because

comparison to say that having sex in
your regular partner where

most the time people know what to expect
people often

we've reduce themselves quite limited
repertoire

sexual behaviors why the exiled group
sex is that but isn't the case and

you're doing

multiple partners many of whom are
probably new to you

I can go to the club I'm walkin in now
the FB

para hines will be on me when I can't
stop club

and sometimes I just feel like tight
pornstar

for people who don't know much about
swinging assume that it's a big

free-for-all

orgy in fact it's not that way at all
usually the women

are in control at swingers parties and

no means knowing people don't touch
unless there is some kind of Q

given off by the other person mature its
okay group sex sessions

generally have a own code of conduct for
anyone wanting to take part

the biggest tool etiquette

in groupsex A's 9 means you need to have
to say no

on and someone will call US ask

before touching someone no pain knee
pain neck pain

is when Ms common McRath

if a couple are going to have to 6 been
the most important thing

overall is to communicate properly been
used to be consent from both of them

they need to be totally comfortable with
the idea

and have talked to three beforehand and
be able to talk through

afterwards if he can't doing tonight is
a recipe for disaster

hearted blues favorite ways at meeting
multiple partners

is to attend an organized event well in
a cup in violent

people stop means paying and I love the
outfit you wearing where to buy it

to you being asked to pose on the podium

and literally have thirty or forty men
come up

and had my mind clitoris and tell me how
beautifully

is and how amazing my piercings on how
amazing they make me look

say I mean I've had from your ordinary
everyday compliments he really profit

personal things that people just expound
on how wonderful

I am I look my pics open sometimes women
can give

subtle mating cheers like a smile or

batting eyelashes but usually there will
be some kind of talking

some swingers parties have safe sex
policies where they'll put condoms and

lubricant

out and insist that everyone do that and

if somebody doesn't then the guards cost
them out other swingers parties are

they don't care it's up to you to do
whatever kinda safe-sex practices you

wanna

however safe the sex may be

there are other risks to be aware of the
group sex parties the

law single man

on the Greek sexy I can

be slightly more pissy I'm I think you
if you just use common sense

if you make sure the single women backed

you don't go to a couple party here and
there is someone to keep an eye on

and that when you meet single men you do
it safely

that there isn't any particular problem
with them

as long as you are prepared teen say no
family

and not get offended by

slight pressure in her so anyone who has
any sexual tastes at all

you have any left confident at a body
that looks like

anything into I'm basically

there is a space for you somewhere at
within-group hack

the wild groupsex opens its doors to
people

all shapes and sizes was lost different
ways that you can end up camping

group sex you can organizing me and

maybe not the couple that you know or
several singles between

and you can how group except party

orders docking or and

game to end club where you can have sat
it can be

anyone just walking into the room and
wanting

play with him it's the fact that they
want being

and desperately want you don't do
anything to have you

that it's just such unique AP

East there is still a lot of to do
surrounding group sex

but what do you approve or not the
effect it had on lose life has been

dramatic

I've got in my head be middle-aged
housewife to

having light total postpone South sex
feeling

and creamy dream fantasy desire even
thought

set across my mind

changing me into a happier person thing

three months old crap like by the home

a friend if you think

group sex might be for you his doctor a
to Cadel with her team's

and Demps the in my opinion the power of
suggestion

is the most exciting way to live at all
your fantasies

don't wanna be a fairness is it having
sex with lots of people

created in your mind and talk about what
they're doing to you what they're doing

t allow other

and you'll be safer then catching std's
or having embarrassing moment now

if you really want to have group sex
make sure

that your partner does 20 make sure
you're both on the same wavelength

how you do it Chaske 4 fun

I'm and her use it as a weapon in an
argument

later on in your relationship that's the
Doosan don't group sec

the if you participate in group sex

you increase the risk of catching a
sexually transmitted infection

so always wear condoms in using new one
each time

change partner coming up

the sexual technique

that's high on energy and satisfaction
we demonstrate

the exposition welcome back to Girl's
Guide to 21st century sex

coming up why some men engage in bizarre
and sometimes dangerous me chills to get

their sexual fix

first most is only have sex in one of
two positions

but hundreds imaginative and inventive
positions

in school system partner eat has its own
particular benefits

for example some more appropriate if you
are pregnant or overweight

well others most suitable apart a small
penis

tonight St exposition particularly good
if you like your sessions to go on for

hours

to this you need a high-level stamina
and a good pain threshold

I should warn you that the material
you're about to see

is a particularly explicit nature the
getting its name from the way that both

partners felman X like arrangement

disposition consists of both parties
lying on my back was

up seat each other once the penis is
inserted

you hold hands and gently rocking a way
to mutual pleasure

%uh the exposition is an unusual sexual
union

which lends itself well to more
adventures for playing

such as the surprisingly popular
practice spanking

adult spanking as a form of sexual
titillation

has been popular throughout history and
in the 16th century

became fashionable in the French Quarter
I'll

one and fanned averotica graduations the
French Queen

Catherine de Medici who's notorious for
taking delight in witnessing the

spanking a young females

in the 18th century its notoriety in
beast

when it was openly practiced by the
famous libertine the marquee decide

could pay to spank and be spanked with

spent still remains popular the 2005
cosmopolitan survey finding the sexy

spanking schoolteacher

the most popular male fantasy Inc gentle
spanking

can arouse the senses and prepare the
mind and body into calls

that massage the area first to begin the
arousing process

as well as this highly intimate former
masage being a rousing due to its

proximity to the genitals

it's also a good way to prepare the
buttocks for less gentle type of

attention

duties Maximus is the biggest muscle in
the body

covered with fact and skin we call them
the tix

they are different in men and women but
share

common nerve endings with the gentler
and therefore %ah

equally sensitive and erosions book

but there are subtle anatomical
differences between male and female

assets

women's buttocks larger fleischer

than a month they also will indicate

much bigger a wider pelvis which denotes

fertility and the anthropologists
believe that its

this sort of indicator fertility that
meant unprotected

to get into the exposition the match
starts by sitting facing his partner

she places her right leg under his left
leg

and hooks her left leg over his right
leg

once the pins inserted they both lean
back

was holding hands been direct aid their
hips

and gently thrust and slow prolonged
movements

if you want to look at each other's
faces or communicate

you can do so by prop yourself up onto
elbows

if you require more direct stimulation
to be to peak arousal

you can tilt up and put weight on only
one album

leaving your other hand free to
stimulate your clitoris

due to the very steep and love entry in
this position

the head of the penis but strictly into
the anterior wall

vagina thought to be the location of the
g-spot and localize pressure should be

felt on it ok

variation at the exposition can be
achieved if the woman

moves her left leg over her partner's
left leg andress have food on the bed

bringing the legs close together if the
man props himself up onto his arms to

they're both in a good position to build
up momentum a trusting

and in this way

the woman gains control of the movement
and create too tight a tunnel for the

man's penis

the increased grip provides greater
stimulation for both palms

and at the point Wilkinson the first few
contractions

are incredibly strong and push up

the vast majority of semen and sperm in
one go

and then you get a series a small
contractions

which gradually diminishing Beach the
exposition can be very tiring

and you're more likely to enjoy it the
fitter you both are to take you time

overexertion can pick you off his stride
the now it despite some horrific disease

in this series

but this skin condition can cause
terrible disfigurement your sexual

organs

the hill lichen sclerosus

is a rare disease that affects men women
and children

but is most common in women

it primarily attacks the skin if the sex
organs can spread elsewhere

the skin becomes pale with bright red or
purple discoloration from bleeding

inside the skin layers

more severe cases lichen sclerosus
produce scarring

that may cause the in ellipses devoted
to shrink and disappear

the teachers to become covered with scar
tissue the opening for China to narrated

that damage to my father and son
believable the the clitoral hood

is welded to my clitoris part of my

in a labia is welded to the front my
clitoris

26-year-old dunya Bella be

is living with the skin condition lichen
sclerosus which is ruining her sex life

my vagina is closing up is

welding together my labia is vanishing
for my very eyes

steps I clips on the inside lips is dry

Brito it cracks slicks

lichen sclerosus or s is thought to
affect

up to one in three hundred women yet
little is known about it outside to the

specialist medical circles

lichen sclerosus is a skin condition

commonly affecting women although
disaffected men as well

usually affects the full

area and the anal area it's what we call
in autoimmune condition

where party attacks body essentially the
body's immune system the body's defense

mechanisms

attack other parts of the body this

an underlying inflammatory process going
on the skin is inflamed

and as the inflammation settles

sclerosus of fibrosis all scarring
develops and this leads to

various changes in the skin in severe
cases

this inflammation and scarring results
in irreversible damage to the affected

area

the side is her picture normal for you
can see the top

the clitoris here but the clitoral hood
and this is the external

labia minority here amateur on the
outside

dissipation Liz long-standing lichen
sclerosus

first thing you notice is that this
Palin's

the skin this'll akers pigment generally
the skin looks quite

white on the main fished lichen
sclerosus is the Los anatomy you can see

where the

labia the lips have been reabsorbed

and the clitoris has said she
disappeared

because the extreme inflammation the
normal architecture

patrol for has been rented

most sufferers about lesser in the
thirties or forties

but young children can also be affected
I was about five years old when I first

well I subsequently terrible pain down
there

activities bombing walking cycling
anything like that was

agony philip has been cut into
Eastbourne H staying

from doctors kept telling done yet the
help ames imaginary

for her first sexual experience it
sixteen convinced to something was

seriously wrong

it was my sometimes champion knifing may
have something you know that

a just use take your breath away

as this pierced went in it would be like
only just create a shin curl your toes

up

in just 90 like that until it was over
and done with on a cruise off to a child

persian able to walk I was applied two
free weeks afterwards

well-equipped open I place this

come up until published this and I
couldn't pay every time up to guys the

toy I actually had to sit in the bar

guys torn it was that painful

it was to be several years after this
traumatic experience

done you was finally given a diagnosis

then she was given the devastating news
that she may never be able to enjoy anal

sex life

aftershock the trauma okay I was
traumatized

felt sick Daisy going kill myself

really really wanted to go and talk
myself and

yeah scrutiny

lichen sclerosus to make a woman give up
sex because scarring

confusing around the phone for make any
touch of friction on Baron

the skin becomes priest in

without treatment in it lacks stretch

lacks suppleness and when a woman tries
to have sex

Spanish sex it splits just to the boss
in here

is the four shit and this is where one
would split unions course

because the skin splits and his pain

often penetration is impossible

and problems that arise because the
woman

anticipate pain every time she s sex
because tonya's condition went untreated

for so many years

another consequence have LS developed
which makes full sexual intercourse

a physical impossibility my

actual vagina the whole is closing I
have fusing

at the base pay I it just freaks me out
everytime I look at it

I look at it and think black can be my
body it can be mutilating it said surely

but is tanya has been advised to use
plastic dilate is on a weekly basis

to stop the entrance to have a china
closing up further

these this post to be inserted and left
in place for a few minutes

she doesn't find this easy for the
little one day

medium-size why normal size one in the
pic 1

that is an absolute late screaming in
agony

push I can get the medium size 18 in
that

the big ones that syria says painful

the courses have lichen sclerosus are
not completely known

but some doctors think there may be a
genetic component

soon after she was diagnosed done yet
found out that her mom

choice was also suffering from the same
condition when I had two years house

particularly difficult I had stitches

stitches and name would not kill 12

course all the time it was saying ms

now passed on to you my sex life

this very difficult

to me soon tunes and it was never

never right level right

because the pain and discomfort tonya
hasn't attempted to have sex for six

years

I don't want to talk about sex used to
have these dreams literati dreams

and on just large way a teams doing it'd
be nice and everything and i dont wake

up

on for 30 seconds as you wake up
everything's okay and you really feel it

you just had sex in implant

your way there's no cure for ALS but
certain prescription creams can help

slow the condition

but tanya is facing an uncertain future
how far away

can the pic shrink how fused can
clitoris become

how fuse come the whole become you know
that does frighten me

really does lichen sclerosus

isn't infectious and you can catch it
from having sex

many women with the condition initially
think they have thrush

but if you experience teaching for over
a year despite treatment

it may be a good idea to CTP now if you
don't use sex toys

either on your own or in a relationship
you know that some could be more

daunting than others

he's Lou Paget with the best the worst

and how to get the most out of them

people

often start with something like this the
park a block

rather than just using a vibrator like
this which can be too much

to San it's better to do crossways
motion

a circular motion something that built
sensation coming down this is the rabbit

pearl this is

truly the classic a little nose is used
on

on clitoral area as a little years

and then the speed tier once inserted
inside

Evelyn vaginally she takes her PC muscle
around here its can heighten the

sensation

so you d this is that you get to
stimulate both systems

this is the one that has to speech that
is incredibly strong

now well women will do is they'll put
this on a pillow and ride it

day will put it between their legs this
thing

is hugely powerful it's designed as a
back massager

in more than a novelty category

tax gone bad people can use it this
point for one

here head your choice these

are little sleepy can be worn on your
finger

to change sensation for him or for you
cell a woman can use them

like this on her cell or like this on a
man

okay

this lady's

is a thing called the G spot ur it's
designed the way it is said that it goes

in it follows the natural

health occur into the vagina so cuz

and like this and then up like this so
you can then

call right on with the G spot areas in
women and men are both capable having

orgasm simply from having

anal stimulation is an anal toy that
would be answers he was but the flange

anything that has a plan to the basal it
is going to be an ideal

for you play local all the way in

so this is one style

avail time and their is this

anal beads now they would be inserted

up to here and then at the moment orgasm
jog back and forth and

pulled out balancing tagged

up

and anytime that is used mainly is not
to be used actually so that's the sex

toy segment

I trust to give you at least some
expanded awareness

shop well and have fun coming up

extreme sexual behavior and white
dressing up in leather

rubber and plastic can be a turn on from

welcome back to a Girl's Guide to 21st
century sex

45 percent of couples have incorporated
light bondage into their sex lives

but what happens when this fifty she's
taken one step further

fetishism is the displacement have
designed fancy

onto objects on body parts with can't
resist temptations

mummification is the practice of
restrain the human body

head to toe with anything from bandages
to read the strips

from body bags to cling film 32-year-old

patty has been practicing self
mummification in secret

over three years more comes like this

I am wearing clothes atlanta has not
been outlined a

large enough internal

Watson C called

clinton also managed

looking at myself in the mirror and and
a scene the whaler

a and it made 71 commit more exciting

mapping you something

film way of becoming aroused by
separating yourself from the world

by Tom Danielson misgivings souter

author 15 self-assured making think

a time rapid Brett myself so that

everything is as tight loans to the
feelings absolutely the same life but I

want some distort

Lisa another's I imagine that's what it
felt like if you were

inserted into the Regina's warm soft

and the same load they think that
mummies Mummy Mummy

being back inside to mask the wetness
not found two thieves

wanting to get back inside the room it's
like a very strong regression

it's actually about wanting to be back
in the uterus

the last

tough love years inside hmm

figured out how to move my head mental
blocks stage

welcome rap more or less my entire body
on the dangers indication

would be prince would age would be
suffocation the concern

and see if you wrap something around
somebody's faithful

paid around the windpipe social
something realistic

dreams that's highly dangerous Samuels

chin things to avoid Atlanta

the years have to that myself

tightly in certain directions but not in
others say that

I still have to foot the bill to see to
believe it's an SK

or distancing from the real world Clank

the world I feel asylum

completely removed from the universe the

I only exist within the clingfilm

Austin my conscious minds outside but on
my body feels like it's

not in the world next thing I want to
use maps & Al's

little bit bored record myself so

like seeing rat an attractive girl in
take some pictures with anything

amazing different people willing gauge
in different behaviors when they're

mummified some will make it sexual and
like to engage in sexual behaviors while

Bob they are mummified normally I chose

masturbate within that linked him and
was in taking a painter

masturbated other people are looking for
other kinds of experience

some people who have a lot going on in
their lives

they just wanna shut down and require

of sip let us acts known as party banks

on sleeping sacks can also be used from
the medication

this to people that are in Sec heavy
bondage feeling totally helpless

and once mummified left for and was on
and off had someone down here 14 hours

mummified 50 shop owner missed

s and his play partner Adam into
experimenting with this Puma bondage

this is Adam and tonight he's gonna be
my way

and put in bondage and nowhere to sleep
sack

the appeal of this fetish is to
surrender control is your senses

created condition that can lead to
disorientation

what even how to party experience

actually fairly simple to get into it
him up

to go senses away from in his eyesight

this hearing really is a feeling of
total loss control

if you trust body enough to have them
take your control

away from you it mentally which to a
place where

your an emotion into that with a year
you letting go

sitting around with it

is like a meditation can be

because it's a little more than sexual
they can take you to other places

isn't that a motherhood least I G hit
like this for 24 hours

you really do lose touch with her where
you are

the sounds around you can't see anything
its

me sensory deprivation to the ultimate
the dungeon

total sensory deprivation but today

as the danger within depravation

are hallucinations official or touching

apart from the wrists your mental health
their physical dangers to

okay

up some people might get very frightened
Spurs threat it possible for people

might experience a panic attack

and injure themselves by thrashing
around trying to escape

and a yeah are you okay now yessir

agreed-upon had someone that went blind
in session from panic

and then actually went dead for panic

because the mind want me to play that
body would not allow it once that

happens in panic attacks

starts then you know you to convey

someone pass out somewhat suffocate this
type effects play

can be an extreme game where the desire
for pain becomes more important than the

sexual act itself

taking proper precautions these games
rarely cause lasting damage either

physical or mental

the drive to sexual arousal is a
powerful one

and this kind of extreme behavior will
stretch both mind and body further than

they've ever been

this title bondage is only practice by
minority

remember sex is what you make it dressed

I'm dressed our mission on the Girls
Guide to 21st century sex

is to get you experiencing and enjoying
better sex

all we can do is keep it tips and advice
ultimately it's up to you to express

yourself and put it all into action

to join us next week as we continue our
amazing journey

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