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Welcome to our Loving Sex series. Hi, I'm Dr.
Bernie Zilbergeld, a psychologist and sex
therapist.
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For over 25 years I have been working with
couples and individuals to enrich intimacy, the
romantic and sexual aspects of their relationships.
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In order to have really good sex, it's crucial to know
a number of things. One of the most importantof
which is to know what your partner wants.
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Women have always been curious about what men
want sexually and many of them complain that
men are not as forthcoming about their desires...
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and that they are not as direct and assertive
about their sexual preferences as they could
be
and as their partners want them to be.
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So we went out and spoke with men
who were willing to talk.
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You'll notice that men don't always agree.
That's just reality. Despite myths to the
contrary, all men are not the same.
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Different men have different preferences.
The only way to know for sure what
your man wants is to ask him.
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Does he like this or that?
Does he want it this way or that way,
or even both ways?
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We hope watching this video will lead
to such conversations.
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Despite the differences, there do seem
to be some commonalties in what men want.
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In general, men want a partner who is
interested
in sex as much as they are...
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who shows her interest by initiating
sexual activity and coming up with
new ways, new acts, and new places.
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The woman initiating is extremely important
to men. It lets them know they are dealing
with an equally interested partner...
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not someone who is just going along with
the ride or having sex out of obligation.
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The woman being creative is also important
because it makes men feel that you care
enough to share the "work" of sex.
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These days men are very much interested
in satisfying their partners.
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They want to make you feel as good as
possible.
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You can let them know how happy you are
with
your movements, your sounds, and your words.
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This lets your partner know he is making
you happy and doing a good job.
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Let's start with relationships. While it's true
that
men are into looks - after all, men are very
visual creatures - they actually want a lot
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Sensitivity, commitment, assertiveness,
good communication...
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I look for honesty and open communication.
I wanna be able to say what I want to say and
expect that back from my partner.
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At this point in my life,
I'm looking actually for a commitment.
You know...
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Basically, I'm looking for a relationship
that's going to lead to a serious commitment,
that's going to lead to marriage.
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Uh, excitement, steadfastness,
um... flexibility, uh, love.
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I like being romantic, because when
I'm romantic Diane really responds.
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A quick relationship sexually is like shallow
well. Rather than, I'd rather dig deep, and
find out,
and get to know a woman.
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She has to be, she has be smart, she has to
know what she's about, she has to know what
she wants.
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She can't... I... I don't, I go for a very...
very intelligent... very intelligent women
are...
are usually my choice...
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because they... they seem to know
a little bit more about what's going on.
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I find, I guess the most appealing thing to
me, um, in a relationship is probably, um, the
care that, that's there between two partners.
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Um, the sensitivity, uh, about feelings, um,
and about just companionship, being together.
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I'd say initiation on their part can,
I can find very attractive.
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I like it when she takes me out on a date,
you know. When a woman finally takes you
out
on a date... be in charge, I like that.
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When a woman wants you too much and
shows it sometimes it takes that, um,
feeling of, of, a, a challenge away.
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So, if she's too sexually assertive sometimes
it, it, it makes you back off a little.
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I like a self-asserting woman,
you know, aggressiveness.
That shows me reassurance.
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Uh, you know, just a little bit of
inventiveness.
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Sex in the shower can be really hot.
I mean, you take a shower in the morning
with,
uh, your partner and just start fucking.
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I love being seduced, ‘cause
Diane is really good at it.
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My wife is the best seductress in the world.
She likes to play these little games
but I know a few, too.
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Men like it when their partners are creative
and come up with interesting ways
of going about sex.
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The pictures on the stairs certainly
meet these criteria.
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Another thing most men really want in sex is
the woman to take the lead and initiate
just as Tina does.
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Look how she just pulls him into the shower.
Now, that's real assertiveness.
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Just like women, men want to feel desired.
The woman initiating lets them know
they are really wanted.
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Hand- jobs, especially with lubrication,
are always appreciated.
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Whoal
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Whoal
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Hmmmmmm...
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Oh my god. Where the hell is she?
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[Water running]
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Male: I like the picture!
Female: You did?
Male: Mmmmm...
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Male: That thing looks better though.
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Female: Come here.
Have fun in the shower.
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[moaning]
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Female: He's growing! Why is that?
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Male: I don't know!
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[moaning]
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Male: Uh baby! Oh!
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What makes a woman good in bed?
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The ability to let go, be uninhibited, and just
experiment. Try things, different positions,
oral sex, whatever is the mood.
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I think the most sexiest woman
is a woman with no inhibitions.
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Body language, sex appeal,
um... just her reaction to my touch.
Um, that's what I find appealing.
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Oh, Janet's really responsive.
It's, like, even when we're in bed, and
she comes, and she wants me to stop...
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I just keep going and going.
It drives her nuts all over again.
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Men like a woman who is responsive, who
thoroughly gets into sex, who is uninhibited.
Someone who lets it all hang out.
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Note how Janet shows her involvement by
stimulating her own nipples and by how she
uses her fingers and mouth.
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By the way, you don't have to be truly
uninhibited to do this. Just act as if you
were.
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And Janet's sounds and words.
This is a kind of communication
that men can really understand.
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She lets Steve know how much pleasure
he's giving her and how much
enjoyment she's having.
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Men absolutely love this kind of feedback.
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Male: Hi.
Female: Hi.
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Male: Did you enjoy your little sunbathing?
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Female: I sure do.
I like feeling the sun on my body.
It feels so good.
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Male: It looks so good, too.
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Female: [moaning]
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Female: [moaning] That feels so good.
Oh yes. No, stop, stop. It feels so good.
Stop please.
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Male: Come on baby.
Why do you want me to stop?
Hmm?
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Female: Because it feels so good
I can't take it no more.
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Male: Yes you can.
Female: Uh, uh.
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Male: Mm-hmm.
Female: Oh nol
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Male: Mm-hmm.
Female: You drive me crazy!
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Male: Mm-hmm.
[laughing]
Female: You little brat.
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Male: Mm-hmm. Yeah.
Female: Oh yeah.
[moaning]
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Female: Stop, stop, please wait.
Just wait, just wait.
[moaning]
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Female: I wanna be on top.
It's my turn!
Male: Mmmmml
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Female: Scoot over this way.
Mmmmmm...
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Male: Oh yeah.
[moaning]
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Female: Ooohhlll
Stop, stop. Ahhh!
Male: Mmm mmm.
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Female: Mmmm... three down.
Male: And two to go!
[moaning]
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Female: Oh stop, oh wait, oh wait,
oh stop. Oh stop!
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Do it slowly. Oh yeah. Oh, stop.
That's it, oh yeah.
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Mmm hmm, I like that.
Mmm hmm.
[moaning]
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Okay stop, stop.
Please, sweetie.
Oh wait.
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Male: Oh yeah. Mm-hmm.
Female: Ahl Ah!
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Female: [moaning] Stop, stop.
Oh yeah. Mmm! Ah! Stop, stop.
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Female: That's nice and easy.
Uh huh. Ahhh...
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Male: Oh yeah. Uh-huh. [moaning]
Female: Ahhhl Ahhh!
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Female: You drove me crazy.
Male: Mmm mmm.
[moaning]
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What do you think of sex outside the
bedroom?
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I think, I think any form of sex outdoors is, is
pretty fun. Where there's a chance that, uh, you
might actually get caught maybe, um, adds to it.
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Or on any form of, like, transportation,
something like that.
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Basically, the top of a mountain area, the
local mountains or whatever. Just, you know,
kind of out in nature kind of thing if you, if
you will.
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I'd like to try sex outdoors,
but I've never really done that.
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I think that sex in nature is just a wonderful feeling. I
mean, to be outside under the warm sun having sex
by a stream or alongside the beach it's extraordinary.
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It's a wonderful feeling.
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One of the things I really love about Sharon
is that she'll have sex anywhere.
She's very adventurous.
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There is no doubt that men love making love
in different locations.
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Doing so provides variety and, if youdo it in
a place where you might be caught, a sense of
positive anxiety and adventure.
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Cars and vans are wonderful places to have
sex.
Note how playful this couple is and
how much fun they're having.
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Men very much appreciate a woman who
shares these adventures with them.
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Male: Hi honey.
Female: Honey, it's dripping.
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Male: Good one.
Female: Phew!
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Male: Thanks babe.
Female: Mmmm...
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Male: You sure look nice in your little dress.
All nice and open.
Mmmm, Mmmm, Mmmm!
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Female: You think so?
Male: Mm-hmm, beautiful.
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Female: I like these little rips in your jeans.
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Male: There's other stuff in my jeans
you might like, tool
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Female: I already know what's in your jeans.
[laughing]
Male: Mm-hmm.
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Male: This is so nasty here in this parking lot.
Female: Don't, don't move. Just act...
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Male: I'll just pretend like I'm listening to
the radio or something.
Female: Act normal. Nothing's happening.
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Female: Mmmmm...
Male: You're so bad!
[moaning]
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Male: You know, we better go in the back.
Lets go in the back!
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Male: You know what? You better look up
there and see if anybody's looking, or if
there's any cops around, or anything.
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Male: Can you see? Keep looking.
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Female: There's a, there's a car coming.
Male: Well, keep looking.
Look to the North, look to the West.
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Female: [laughing]
Male: [moaning]
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Female: Um, there, there's, um, a black
Mercedes.
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Male: Keep looking, keep looking.
Female: [laughing]
There's too many people here. We can't do
this!
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Male: Yes we can, yes we can.
Female: Okay. Wait, wait, wait.
Wait 'til that car passes.
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Male: Is that your mom?
Just joking. Keep looking, keep looking.
Female: I'm looking.
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Male: Keep looking.
Female: I'm looking. [moaning]
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Female: Aaahl
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Female: [moaning]
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Female: Ahhhl
Male: Mmmmm...
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Male: Come here you.
Female: Yeah. [moaning]
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Female: Oh!
Male: Mmmmm...
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Female: Oh yeah.
Male: Oh yeah. Baby. Oh yeah.
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Female: Oh yeah. Oh yeah.
Male: Oh yeah. Oh my god. Oh yeah, oh yeah.
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Female: Oh god.
Male: Oh yeah.
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Male: Oh my god!
[moaning]
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Female: Oh fuck.
Male: Oh baby.
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I like oral sex.
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I guess I'm an exhibitionist.
I don't mind if somebody watches.
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I really love to have sex right in the
middle of the day, right at lunch time.
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I like oral sex, but I like giving it
more than receiving it.
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Here we have another location. Swimming
pools,
spas and hot tubs are great for sex.
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Female: The water feels good.
Male: Oh yeah it does.
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Female: How was your day?
Male: It was nice.
[moaning]
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Male: Mmmmm...
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Female: [moaning]
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Male: You're a brat. Bad baby!
[laughing]
Female: Ow! Sit on the side.
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Male: Hmm?
Female: Come sit up here.
Male: You going to get me?
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Female: Uh-huh. [moaning]
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Male: [moaning]
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Male: Ahh!
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Men love to be made love to.
They like it when their woman takes her time
to thoroughly pleasure her man.
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And yes, the all American favorite. Breathes
there a man anywhere who doesn't absolutely
love a blow job?
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Even when it doesn't go to orgasm, men love
the idea and the sensations of their penis in
a woman's mouth.
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Male: [moaning]
Oh yeah!
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Male: Anybody else there?
Female: Hello!
Male: [laughing]
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Male: That was Diane. She's saying hello now.
[laughing]
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Male: Suck me baby to cum.
Suck me with everything. Oh yeah, oh yeah.
[moaning]
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Male: Because you don't know somebody's
watching. [moaning]
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Female: [moaning]
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Female: Ahhhl
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Male: Shh, you're going to wake up the
neighbors. Female: [moaning]
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Men adore it when a woman shows how much
pleasure she's getting from the man's efforts.
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Diane shows with her sounds, her hands, and
her
feet and legs, actually with her whole body,
how much joy she's feeling.
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Never be afraid to be "unladylike" and let
your man know how much you're enjoying
yourself.
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Men love this. They really do want
to satisfy their partners.
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Female: [moaning]
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Male: Come onl
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Female: Ah god! Ohl
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There is something very real-life like and
important in this segment.
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Although Ted seems to get a lot of joy from
the activities, he never has a full erection or
an orgasm.
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Diane responds in a way most men appreciate.
She doesn't ask anxious questions about
whether she's turning him on or stimulating
him correctly.
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She just goes on with the show
and both end up having a terrific time.
That's a good way to handle this kind of
situation.
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Do you like to be surprised by a woman?
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Well, I like to be surprised. I like a woman
with imagination and, um, very uninhibited
that,
um, even kinky.
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I love it when Brenda totally plans out a
sexy evening.
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Uh, I wish my girlfriend would surprise me
with some sexual fantasy or escapade and
just really take control.
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Yes, indeed, most men like to be sexually
surprised by their woman.
Whatever the exact nature of the surprise...
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and the activities that follow these kinds of
actions on the part of the woman assure the
man that she likes sex with him,
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that she's willing to put energy and thought
into it, and that the whole burden of
initiation and
creativity is not left up to him.
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Female 1: Hil
Female 2: Hil
Female 1: You been waiting long?
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Female 2: No. Female 1: Oh good. Oh, just
leave that there. I'll show you where
everything is since he's on his way.
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Female 1: Come on in.
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Female 1: Okay. So, this is it and we can go
ahead and get everything set up.
Female 2: Okay.
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Female: Hi hon.
Male: How you doing?
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Male: So where are you taking me tonight?
Female: Right in here.
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Male: Aren't we going out?
So, where we going- you gonna tell me?
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Female: No. We're going right here.
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Male: Oh, what do you have?
Some sort of surprise?
Female: Mm-hmm.
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Male: What's the surprise?
Female: If I told you it wouldn't be
a surprise would it?
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Male: I guess I'm at your disposal.
Female: Uh-huh.
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Male: Okay. So, what's going on?
Female: You'll see.
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Male: Wow. What's all this? Massage?
Female: Happy birthday honey.
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Male: Mmm, thank you honey. This is great.
Female: This is Melanie.
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Male: Hey, how you doing Melanie?
Female 2: Fine.
Male: Nice to meet you.
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Female 1: Take good care of him.
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Female 2: So...
Male: So, should I, uh, get undressed?
Female 2: Mm-hmm.
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Female 2: Save that for your wife.
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Female: So?
Male: What a great massage.
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Female: Yeah?
Male: Mm-hmm.
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Female: You like your present?
Male: Yeah. Where are my other presents?
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Female: You'll get them later.
Male: Yeah?
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Female: Mm-hmm.
Male: Do I get a hint?
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Female: Nope.
Male: Are you going to surprise
me again now?
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Female: I try.
Male: Mmm.
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Female: I say we go continue this in the
jacuzzi.
Male: Mmm, sounds good.
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Female: Happy birthday.
Male: Mmm.
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You don't have to be a professional to give a
decent massage. Just do what the guy wants.
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But if you want to learn more about giving a
massage, and specifically, genital massage, check
out the Ultimate Massage video in this series.
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We hope this video has given you some ideas
about what men want. But remember, no
matter what men in general may like, your
man,
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being an individual, may be different.
You need to talk with him, work with him,
to determine his preferences.
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If he's shy or reluctant to open up, why not
model it for him? By telling and showing him
your preferences, you'll help him to do the
same.
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Talking about our sexual likes and wants is
one of the most important and sexy things a
couple can do.
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Why not open up such a conversation
with your partner?
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