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I was baptized into
the Jehovah's Witness religion
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when I was 15 years old,
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and I never questioned it.
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There were adults
in the congregation
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that knew about the abuse.
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I went those elders...
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I was putting
my life on the line
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because my mom found out that
I told anyone about the abuse,
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she would have killed me.
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And his brother said,
go home and obey your mother.
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Think about the apostate-driven
lies that Jehovah's organization
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is permissive toward pedophiles.
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I mean, that is ridiculous,
isn't it?
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I knew inside
how wrong it felt,
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I knew how sick I felt,
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how could you not say something?
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You're in a false religion,
you're in a cult.
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I feel like the religion preys
on people
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at their most vulnerable.
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This organization is made
to put people in a box,
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make them fearful
for their lives.
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Maybe God is real,
but it's not this.
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So much hidden documentation
of child abuse
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that Watchtower does not want
the public to know about.
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I knew that this was not going
to get out
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unless someone did something
about it.
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The problem of sexual abuse
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in the Jehovah's Witness
organization
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is much, much more significant
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than in the Catholic Church.
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Once you believe in something
this strongly,
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it could be anything...
you'll do it.
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I can't leave it alone!
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I know what this organization
is responsible for doing.
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We're attempting to leave,
but we're kind of encircled
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at the moment.
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We should do the right thing.
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But they don't
do the right thing.
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I was a happy Witness
for 43 years.
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Ever since I was a child,
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I've always been
a proponent for justice.
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And so I became a Witness
because I thought this was just,
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that the world would get better.
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It was the atomic bomb age.
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There was concentration camps.
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I took those scriptures
literally about
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a paradise Earth that God would
bring it back,
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because I wanted all people
to be treated justly.
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Surely all of us are thrilld
at the prospect
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of surviving the end
of this wicked world
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and living on God's
righteous new order.
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What a grand future awaits u.
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Jehovah's Witnesses think
that the world is ending,
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and so since everything
in this world
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is going to be basically
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burned up at Armageddon,
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the most important thing
to do right now is to preach
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so that you can teach it
to others
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and save yourself
and save other people.
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The thing that attracted me
to the Watchtower Society
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was that they taught
that Armageddon was so close
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that those who were living now
would never have to die,
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but that they
could live forever.
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The basic beliefs
of Jehovah's Witnesses,
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that this world one day
will come to an end
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and God will bring
in a paradise Earth.
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Jehovah's Witnesses came along
with a positive message,
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I thought, from the Bible,
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and that is what I wanted...
to please God.
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Jehovah's Witnesses feel
that they have the truth.
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I enjoyed being different
to a certain degree.
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I liked not being
one of the masses
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who weren't enlightened.
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There was a certain allure
to that,
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feeling like I had the truth.
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I felt that I had won
the lottery.
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I was born into
the only true religion.
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The Jehovah's Witness
religion itself
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was based upon the original work
of Charles Russell
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back in the 1800s.
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Charles Taze Russell was a
prolific writer
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and a very good business man.
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He was very much
into the publishing
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and selling of his books.
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Charles Taze Russell
had no intention
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of starting a new religion.
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The "Watch Tower" was basically
the name of the journal.
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He started the "Watch Tower"
magazine in 1879,
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so I don't know that you would
call it a religion
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from its outset.
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Russell established
a corporation,
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Watch Tower Bible
and Tract Society.
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They saw the need to purchase
their own printing equipment
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and move to a place
that was close
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to the shipping lanes
in the East River.
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So Charles Russell
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moved the organization
to Brooklyn, New York.
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The organization was expanding
so rapidly
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and it's interesting
to look back
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and see all of those videos
of the printing presses
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going back in the 1950s,
'60s and '70s.
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The Jehovah's Witnesses started
expanding outside of the US
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and they continue to expand
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until now there is well over
200 countries around the world.
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In 1969, Watchtower purchased
Squibb pharmaceutical buildings
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at 2530 Columbia Heights,
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and they turn them
into the famous
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Watchtower headquarters complex.
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There is such an iconic image
of the Watchtower
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overlooking the East River
and the Brooklyn Bridge.
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They were so proud of the fact
that they were in the middle
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of the most important
city in America.
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My husband and I were invited
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to be part of the headquarters
staff of the Watchtower.
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The Jehovah's Witnesses were
going through a growth period.
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There were 4,000 people
in the complex
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at the foot
of the Brooklyn Bridge.
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I was transferred into
the writing department.
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The writing department generates
all the articles that appear
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and all of
the organization's literature.
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The October 8th, 1991
Awake! magazine
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had an article about how to deal
with victims of child abuse.
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So there's eight million people
all reading this,
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and the article really opened
a Pandora's box
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for the Watchtower organization.
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It received more response
than almost any other article
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in the history of
the Watchtower.
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And there was a windstorm
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of remarks and statements
and letters.
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Around the world,
Jehovah's Witnesses thought that
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this article about child abuse
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was a time to talk
about their child abuse...
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that, "this Jehovah's Witness
molested me when I was a child."
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I wanted to help
to make this issue known
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because the lives
of children were at stake.
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The Awake! editor and I
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decided to
put a package together
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of material
to show the Governing Body,
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who were presiding elders,
the immense problem,
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and to prove to them that
something had to be done.
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The Governing Body
are eight men,
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they've come up through the
ranks of Jehovah's Witnesses,
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they claim to be
anointed by God.
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They're celebrities,
I think, to a degree.
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And they are
the only individuals
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on the face of the Earth
who are spokespeople for God.
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It took great faith to break
free from the darkness
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brought on by centuries
of false religious practice.
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You represent
the most high God Jehovah,
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and you also have
to have conduct
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that supports the fact that you
do worship this true God.
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There will be many others
who will come back
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who will have to abandon
their former way of life.
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I was thinking, as an example,
a homosexual.
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They're the conduit
for the Almighty God
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that you believe in and worship.
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And so if you don't believe
these people,
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who are
the spokespeople for God,
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then you're disobeying God.
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And that's actually
what the Witnesses teach.
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I just wanted to do my part
to clean out known molesters,
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because that's what
the Bible says to do,
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to put out the wicked man.
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They couldn't agree on what
to do about it,
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and some said it was a fad.
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If you were a woman
and a mother,
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and you learned what I did,
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you would do the same thing.
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You wouldn't rest at night.
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But people don't say anything.
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This is an organization
that you don't march with signs
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and say, "Remove them!
Remove them!"
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The dirty little secrets
are well kept.
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The first time we got a call
was in 2010,
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and he was a victim of a serial
perpetrator here in San Diego.
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We start to learn a little bit
about Jehovah's Witnesses.
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That's how it all got started.
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This organization has allowed
the sexual abuse of children
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to fester within its ranks
for decades.
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I was very, very involved
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with the Catholic
priest abuse scandal
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that swept the nation since
The Boston Globe story
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broke in 2002.
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We did battle
with the Catholic Church,
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but at the end of the day,
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they fessed up to the fact
that they had a problem.
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Not so with Jehovah's Witnesses.
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The Jehovah's Witnesses
continue to insist
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they don't have a problem.
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They would much rather
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prove the...
the accuser wrong
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and cover up what happened,
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because then you don't have
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the problem of... of
the organization looking bad.
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They care about
their reputation.
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They don't want their names
dragged through the mud.
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Their way of dealing with it
is to try to keep the lid on
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as much as possible.
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We were the first ones really
to get to them with litigation.
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We learned early in our
litigation against them
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that there was a call put out
to all of the elders
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of all of the congregations
in the United States
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in March of 1997.
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Back when I was dealing
with this, this is 1997,
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an article came out
in the Awake! magazine...
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"Abhor What Is Wicked."
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And in this article,
the statement was made
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that this organization would not
appoint a known molester
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to a position of authority.
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That was great.
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That was my moment of saying,
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"Ah, five years
I worked on this,
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and they're doing
something about it."
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But what they didn't say
in the article
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is that they had been doing it
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for probably four
or five decades.
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I wrote to the editor
and he wrote me back a letter.
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So I'm reading
what he said there,
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and I'm astounded.
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And he said, "Thanks to our
Legal Department,
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we no longer will have
more megabuck lawsuits."
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Well, that was a shocker to me.
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I didn't know
they had megabuck lawsuits.
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If I had to pay up megabuck
money in a lawsuit,
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I would certainly do something
that that wouldn't happen again.
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After all, this organization
is supported by donations.
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So donations were paying for
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the megabuck lawsuit
settlements.
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At this point, Watchtower was
becoming to understand that
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they had a problem internally
with child sexual abuse.
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So in 1997,
Watchtower sent a letter
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to all 10,000
of its US congregations
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with a questionnaire.
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It said, if you suspect that you
have a child predator
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in your congregation,
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please take this questionnaire,
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fill out these questions.
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Put it in this special
blue envelope
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and mail it back
to Watchtower headquarters
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and keep a copy of it
in your file
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in your Kingdom Hall,
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When this letter to all elders
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throughout the world
came out,
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it said that we would like
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to know the names
of known molesters.
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So that made up a file.
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That is how Watchtower
inadvertently wound up
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creating this massive database
of child molesters.
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That is the file
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that the Watchtower
has never made public,
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and that is the file
that the lawyers want.
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We knew
what the database contained
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because of
the March 1997 letter.
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They emphasized the legal risk
that they were facing
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of having potentially
known molesters
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within the congregation.
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So they were worried
about their legal exposure.
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I remember where I was standing
at that moment
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when I read that letter.
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I said, enough, enough.
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It was at that moment
I left the religion.
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For us to get
to a tipping point
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in the litigation against
the Jehovah's Witnesses,
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we need to get, first
and foremost, these documents.
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Once we start asking
for these files,
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they started coming up
with all kinds of lies about,
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"Well, we... we don't have them,
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we'd have to go
searching for them.
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It would take 20 years of
man hours to find these files,"
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and all this nonsense.
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Court ordered them
to produce it.
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They said, no,
we're not doing it.
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Not only did
Jehovah's Witnesses
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refuse to turn
over the documents,
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but they elected to pay
a $4,000 per day fine
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rather than to turn over
those documents.
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Ultimately, that $4,000
had accrued
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to about $2 million.
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They didn't produce
the documents,
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and what happened was they ended
up settling that case.
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I first found out about
the Jehovah's Witnesses
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as a potential reporting topic
in January 2018.
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I was contacted by a guy
I know on Twitter
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who was
an ex-Jehovah's Witness,
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and he had suggested there was
some deep rooted problems
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in the religion.
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I would find if I talked
to one abuse survivor,
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they would put me in touch with
another one and another one,
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you know, and within
the space of a few weeks,
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I had, you know, more than
a dozen ex-Witnesses
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who were willing to tell me
their experience.
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This is really
a worldwide problem.
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Mark O'Donnell is one of
the ex-Jehovah's Witnesses
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that I came in contact with,
I think pretty early on,
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for the first story
that we published.
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What interested me
about Mark
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was that he was
the first person apparently
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to really get his hands
on aspects of the database,
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which nobody had ever
managed to do before,
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and that he was behind leaking
some of these documents.
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Mark is a very mild-mannered,
soft-spoken,
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intelligent,
unassuming, unemotional guy.
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Mark is the last guy on Earth
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that you would think
would be an activist,
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and when you speak to Mark,
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it takes a little while
to understand
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what's going on
behind those glasses
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and what's turning
in that head.
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As a child, I didn't feel
that I needed to question
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my faith because I believed
what I was being taught.
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My awakening came around
the age of 46
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when I began to peer
into the outside world
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and become a little bit
more aware
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of what was going on around me.
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I just wanted to know truth.
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I wanted to know what was real
and what was not real.
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And I began to realize that
everything I had been taught
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was false.
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It was shocking to me
that growing up
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as one of
Jehovah's Witnesses,
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we believed in truth
and honesty and transparency,
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and yet Jehovah's Witnesses
have done everything possible
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to conceal these documents that
would have helped the victims,
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that would have
exposed the problem.
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Why?
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Why would they do this?
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What was it that
they were hiding?
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What was it that they didn't
want the court to know?
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What was it that they didn't
want the attorneys to know?
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I believe that now
we're uncovering this
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because it had been concealed
for so many years,
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that, like other movements,
when one person comes forward,
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then another person feels
the strength to come forward,
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to realize that
there are individuals
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who are inside the organization
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who are waking up,
who have questions.
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They might be elders, they might
be the circuit overseers,
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they might be people who are
just leaving the organization.
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They are going to reveal
a lot more
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about what's really going on
behind the scenes
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in the Jehovah's Witness
organization.
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Finding out what was in the
secret database of pedophiles
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became the search
for the Holy Grail.
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I was born into this.
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I feel as though
I was brainwashed
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being raised
as a Jehovah's Witness.
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I'm PIMO... "physically in,
mentally out."
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And basically what that means is
I'm stuck in the organization,
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but I made the conscious
decision of saying,
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okay, I don't
believe this anymore.
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Basically, I have days
where I feel very anxious
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because if I do get outed
as somebody who doesn't believe,
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then I may lose my family
and everybody I love forever.
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Because you can't say
that you don't believe
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and still have your family.
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When I decided to uncover
the truth about the organization
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that I had spent my entire life
as a part of,
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I went online
and I created the account
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"John Redwood" on Facebook.
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The reason for using an alias
is because Jehovah's Witnesses
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cannot simply leave
the organization and speak out
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or say anything critical
of the organization
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without fear
of being disfellowshipped.
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It's either, you're in,
you're with us;
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or you're not with us
and you don't have your family.
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That's how controlling
this organization is.
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And it's an incredibly powerful
behavior control tactic
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to say if you ever question
the group
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or break one of our rules,
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you risk being expelled
or excommunicated...
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or "disfellowshipped"
is the Watchtower term...
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and then no one will be able
to have a relationship with you
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or even acknowledge you
and talk with you.
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When you're a part of
a community as tight knit
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as the Jehovah's Witnesses,
where all of your friends,
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most of their family
is Witnesses,
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disfellowshipping
is very severe,
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it can be like
a death sentence.
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I mean, people have
killed themselves
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due to being shunned
in this way.
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If you speak out against them,
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if you point out the
discrepancies in the religion,
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then you're disfellowshipped.
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And that's one of
their tactics of control.
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They do not
tolerate dissents.
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The 11th commandment
of Jehovah's Witnesses
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is "Thou shalt not go public."
And I did.
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Good evening;
at some point it may stop
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being news each time
another person comes forward
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to say they were
sexually abused as a child
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by a trusted
religious figure.
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00:22:29,787 --> 00:22:32,423
This woman, Barbara Anderson,
worked for a decade
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inside Jehovah's Witness
headquarters.
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What she found,
she says, sickened her.
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00:22:37,629 --> 00:22:41,065
The Watchtower Society
didn't want to acknowledge
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00:22:41,099 --> 00:22:43,534
that these girls
were telling the truth
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because they were accusing
elders of molesting them.
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This is the story
of Candace Conti,
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a young woman stepping
out of the shadows...
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Go 'head and step forward.
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00:23:08,493 --> 00:23:10,428
To take on
the all-male leadership
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00:23:10,461 --> 00:23:13,564
of a wealthy,
secretive religion who she says
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00:23:13,598 --> 00:23:18,303
failed to protect her
from a predatory pedophile.
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00:23:18,335 --> 00:23:21,073
Candace Conti was a young girl
that was abused.
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00:23:21,105 --> 00:23:24,308
They didn't believe her.
They did not believe her.
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00:23:24,342 --> 00:23:27,344
There had been lots of lawsuits
previous to Candace Conti,
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00:23:27,378 --> 00:23:30,314
but they were
all settled in quiet.
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00:23:30,348 --> 00:23:34,119
She was the first one
to take Watchtower to court.
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00:23:34,151 --> 00:23:37,121
They made the mistake
in the Candace Conti case
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00:23:37,155 --> 00:23:40,859
of going to trial
and getting hammered by a jury
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once how they handled
these cases got exposed.
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All right, sir, if you'll
please raise your right hand.
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When Candace and her attorney
began conducting depositions
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with local church leaders,
known as elders,
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they learned
something astonishing.
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Do you recall becoming aware
at any time
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of sexual abuse
of a child
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by Jonathan Kendrick.
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00:24:00,844 --> 00:24:02,413
Um... yes.
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In the case of Conti,
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crimes that were committed
were known to
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not only one elder,
not two elders,
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00:24:09,653 --> 00:24:13,457
but entire bodies of elders
in multiple congregations,
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00:24:13,490 --> 00:24:17,361
and they had been advised
not to call the authorities,
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00:24:17,394 --> 00:24:20,164
which further endangered
other victims.
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00:24:20,198 --> 00:24:23,400
I was disfellowshipped a week
before "Dateline" aired.
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00:24:23,434 --> 00:24:26,805
My son went
to the headquarters
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00:24:26,838 --> 00:24:30,575
and discussed my appearance
on "Dateline."
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00:24:30,608 --> 00:24:36,248
He was told that, because your
mother went forward,
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00:24:36,281 --> 00:24:39,518
thousands of people
have left the organization,
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00:24:39,551 --> 00:24:45,357
and so she's responsible
for their deaths at Armageddon.
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00:24:45,390 --> 00:24:46,824
If I'm supposed
to be responsible
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for thousands of people who left
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00:24:48,825 --> 00:24:51,563
because I spoke the truth
to the public,
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00:24:51,595 --> 00:24:54,298
then they responsible
for their policies
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00:24:54,332 --> 00:24:57,835
over what has happened
to literally... literally...
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00:24:57,869 --> 00:25:01,406
tens of thousands
and thousands of children!
439
00:25:01,438 --> 00:25:04,842
They said that
I was disfellowshipped
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00:25:04,876 --> 00:25:08,547
because I was a gross sinner.
441
00:25:08,580 --> 00:25:11,483
I was a threat
to the organization.
442
00:25:11,515 --> 00:25:13,584
And so what do you do?
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00:25:16,987 --> 00:25:21,293
We have no family any longer.
444
00:25:21,325 --> 00:25:26,698
We lost our son to the fact
that he shuns us.
445
00:25:26,730 --> 00:25:29,500
I know many people wonder
446
00:25:29,534 --> 00:25:34,539
how in the world can you shun
someone that you love?
447
00:25:34,572 --> 00:25:38,610
How in the world
would you shun your mother?
448
00:25:38,642 --> 00:25:43,314
It is because you are told
it's an act of love.
449
00:25:43,348 --> 00:25:45,517
We found out that
we have a granddaughter.
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00:25:45,550 --> 00:25:47,252
We don't know her name.
451
00:25:47,284 --> 00:25:51,957
The shunning policy's torture.
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00:25:51,989 --> 00:25:54,858
Because you don't choose
to be part of a religion,
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00:25:54,891 --> 00:25:57,528
you have to be punished
like that?
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00:26:00,331 --> 00:26:02,734
One of the features
of destructive cults
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is information control.
456
00:26:04,369 --> 00:26:07,005
Destructive cults
leave out information,
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00:26:07,037 --> 00:26:10,275
they distort information,
and they outright lie.
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00:26:10,307 --> 00:26:14,612
They find all of these ways
to keep people in the dark.
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00:26:14,646 --> 00:26:17,482
The spread of rumors
is like wildfire.
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00:26:17,515 --> 00:26:18,917
It is hard to control.
461
00:26:18,949 --> 00:26:21,553
They were told,
"Don't go on the Internet,
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00:26:21,585 --> 00:26:24,889
don't read worldly magazines
or newspapers.
463
00:26:24,921 --> 00:26:26,624
You can't trust the news.
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00:26:26,658 --> 00:26:28,525
You can't trust the media.
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00:26:28,559 --> 00:26:30,362
Don't speak to apostates."
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00:26:30,394 --> 00:26:33,731
I was very surprised to find
that my pseudonym, John Redwood,
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00:26:33,765 --> 00:26:36,301
began to have more of
a following
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00:26:36,333 --> 00:26:38,602
than I ever expected.
469
00:26:38,636 --> 00:26:41,873
I began to investigate
and to write,
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00:26:41,906 --> 00:26:45,510
and I realized that many people
were relying on the information
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00:26:45,543 --> 00:26:47,712
that I was sharing with
the public.
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00:26:47,745 --> 00:26:50,915
Jehovah's Witnesses
define "apostate"
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00:26:50,948 --> 00:26:54,552
as someone
who leaves Jehovah
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00:26:54,584 --> 00:26:57,021
and then becomes
an enemy of Jehovah
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00:26:57,054 --> 00:27:01,659
by speaking out
against the organization.
476
00:27:01,692 --> 00:27:03,360
An apostate is the worst thing
477
00:27:03,393 --> 00:27:06,563
you can be as
a Jehovah's Witness,
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00:27:06,596 --> 00:27:09,733
and that's because
an apostate is a threat.
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00:27:09,766 --> 00:27:13,037
Whoever, therefore, wants to be
a friend of the world,
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00:27:13,071 --> 00:27:17,909
is making himself
an enemy of God.
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00:27:17,941 --> 00:27:21,512
They will vanish like smoke.
482
00:27:21,545 --> 00:27:25,516
Here's what Jehovah's promising.
483
00:27:25,550 --> 00:27:26,818
Hey.
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00:27:34,592 --> 00:27:39,030
In 2016 was when I actually
gave myself
485
00:27:39,063 --> 00:27:43,435
the okay to look at other
material besides material
486
00:27:43,467 --> 00:27:47,973
that was published
by the Jehovah's Witnesses.
487
00:27:50,842 --> 00:27:55,112
And that's when I broke down.
488
00:28:00,118 --> 00:28:03,053
It would have been
expected of me
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00:28:03,086 --> 00:28:05,522
to run and tattle
on my husband.
490
00:28:05,555 --> 00:28:08,860
After Mark
stopped going to meetings,
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00:28:08,892 --> 00:28:11,795
they would come to me and say,
Mark's hiding a secret.
492
00:28:11,829 --> 00:28:13,531
Mark must be cheating on you.
493
00:28:13,563 --> 00:28:15,600
Mark must be doing drugs.
494
00:28:15,632 --> 00:28:17,736
They encouraged me
all the time to leave him.
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00:28:21,872 --> 00:28:24,441
So I would walk
into Mark's office
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00:28:24,475 --> 00:28:26,878
and he would turn
his monitor off.
497
00:28:26,910 --> 00:28:28,746
He would flip
his Kindle over.
498
00:28:28,780 --> 00:28:32,083
You would go in the back yard to
be on his phone or his laptop.
499
00:28:32,115 --> 00:28:34,051
So then for a very
short period of time,
500
00:28:34,084 --> 00:28:36,487
I started to question,
are they right?
501
00:28:36,521 --> 00:28:38,089
Is he hiding
something from me?
502
00:28:38,121 --> 00:28:40,425
Mark was hiding something.
503
00:28:40,457 --> 00:28:42,393
I didn't really know Mark,
504
00:28:42,427 --> 00:28:44,862
and that made
a small crack for me.
505
00:28:51,736 --> 00:28:55,806
Every witnesses is taught that
Armageddon can come in any day,
506
00:28:55,840 --> 00:28:58,109
and if you are not fully in,
507
00:28:58,141 --> 00:29:02,479
you're going to die with
everyone else on the planet.
508
00:29:02,513 --> 00:29:06,451
Even as a kid,
that fear was put in me.
509
00:29:06,484 --> 00:29:08,453
It doesn't matter
how young you are,
510
00:29:08,486 --> 00:29:11,456
if you don't follow
Jehovah's Ways
511
00:29:11,488 --> 00:29:14,124
based on what
the Jehovah's Witnesses say,
512
00:29:14,158 --> 00:29:17,928
you are going to die
when Armageddon comes.
513
00:29:21,932 --> 00:29:24,134
There will be a complete
genocide,
514
00:29:24,168 --> 00:29:25,803
seven billion,
eight billion,
515
00:29:25,836 --> 00:29:27,971
however many people there
on the Earth,
516
00:29:28,005 --> 00:29:29,707
they're dying
at Armageddon.
517
00:29:29,739 --> 00:29:34,746
Only Jehovah's Witnesses
will be safe.
518
00:29:34,778 --> 00:29:37,648
They have Armageddon
hanging over the heads
519
00:29:37,681 --> 00:29:39,516
of all its members.
520
00:29:39,550 --> 00:29:42,086
If you are not with Jehovah,
521
00:29:42,119 --> 00:29:43,955
you are with the world
522
00:29:43,987 --> 00:29:48,125
and the world was going to end,
and it's going to end soon.
523
00:29:48,159 --> 00:29:52,464
They teach fear, they...
they want you to be afraid.
524
00:29:52,496 --> 00:29:55,900
Growing up,
I was primed for fear.
525
00:29:55,932 --> 00:30:00,637
If I heard, like,
a thunderstorm,
526
00:30:00,670 --> 00:30:04,141
my mind instantly would go
to thinking it was Armageddon,
527
00:30:04,175 --> 00:30:06,077
like, oh, shit,
they were right.
528
00:30:06,110 --> 00:30:09,948
It's terrifying, especially
for a little child.
529
00:30:09,980 --> 00:30:12,650
It's fire coming out of the sky.
530
00:30:12,682 --> 00:30:14,651
People are just dying left
and right.
531
00:30:14,685 --> 00:30:17,155
It's just intense.
532
00:30:17,188 --> 00:30:19,591
The end game in terms
of the doctrine
533
00:30:19,623 --> 00:30:22,759
and what they promise people
for all of these years
534
00:30:22,793 --> 00:30:25,530
of kind of compliance
and being a Jehovah's Witness
535
00:30:25,563 --> 00:30:28,967
is living forever
in a paradise on Earth,
536
00:30:28,999 --> 00:30:31,669
and it's called the new system.
537
00:30:41,211 --> 00:30:42,946
I never questioned my faith
538
00:30:42,979 --> 00:30:47,551
because I honestly wanted
the new system to come.
539
00:30:47,584 --> 00:30:52,090
I just needed to know that there
was something better out there.
540
00:30:52,122 --> 00:30:54,158
That was my drive.
541
00:30:54,190 --> 00:30:57,828
If I can make it
to the new system,
542
00:30:57,861 --> 00:31:00,998
I can finally be happy.
543
00:31:01,032 --> 00:31:04,202
Some of the most powerful
images from my childhood,
544
00:31:04,235 --> 00:31:07,839
aside from the very
negative pictures of Armageddon,
545
00:31:07,871 --> 00:31:11,609
would be the positive pictures,
the contract.
546
00:31:11,641 --> 00:31:12,976
Things that we wouldn't see now,
547
00:31:13,009 --> 00:31:15,246
we would see in
the new system of things,
548
00:31:15,278 --> 00:31:18,048
and many people
really bought into that
549
00:31:18,082 --> 00:31:21,718
and they believe that this was
the correct Bible teaching...
550
00:31:21,752 --> 00:31:24,556
that Jehovah wanted people
to be happy
551
00:31:24,589 --> 00:31:26,591
and to live in paradise Earth.
552
00:31:31,629 --> 00:31:34,698
♪ Paradise ♪
553
00:31:34,732 --> 00:31:38,603
♪ All who bring joy,
as we sing... ♪
554
00:31:38,636 --> 00:31:40,171
When you're a Witness,
you believe
555
00:31:40,204 --> 00:31:44,275
that this life you're living now
is just a life in waiting.
556
00:31:44,307 --> 00:31:46,176
It's not the real life.
557
00:31:46,209 --> 00:31:49,680
Everything is put off
to future paradise.
558
00:31:49,714 --> 00:31:51,683
You don't live
in the present.
559
00:31:51,716 --> 00:31:53,284
This isn't the real world.
560
00:31:53,316 --> 00:31:56,653
So when that's the basis
for your outlook on life,
561
00:31:56,687 --> 00:31:59,023
it affects
every decision you make.
562
00:32:03,660 --> 00:32:05,862
Mark and I
did not have children.
563
00:32:05,896 --> 00:32:07,932
My main reason
for not having children
564
00:32:07,965 --> 00:32:10,601
was because I could have kids
in the new system.
565
00:32:10,634 --> 00:32:11,702
So what's the rush?
566
00:32:11,736 --> 00:32:13,036
The life I was living now
567
00:32:13,070 --> 00:32:14,906
was really a kind of
a temporary life.
568
00:32:14,938 --> 00:32:16,106
I just have to get through,
569
00:32:16,140 --> 00:32:17,909
and then I can have
the real life...
570
00:32:17,941 --> 00:32:19,643
and they call it the real life.
571
00:32:23,813 --> 00:32:25,248
At least I got my cats.
572
00:32:30,021 --> 00:32:33,890
In November of 2013,
Mark and I were on our way
573
00:32:33,923 --> 00:32:36,326
to some friend's house
for the weekend,
574
00:32:36,360 --> 00:32:39,263
and he sat down and said,
"I can't do this anymore."
575
00:32:39,295 --> 00:32:41,164
And he at that point proceeded
to let me know
576
00:32:41,198 --> 00:32:44,768
that he just wasn't
going to be a Witness anymore.
577
00:32:44,802 --> 00:32:47,338
And of course,
that was devastating to me.
578
00:32:50,740 --> 00:32:53,010
Mark and I had been married
15 years,
579
00:32:53,044 --> 00:32:55,213
and we never had a real honest
conversation with each other
580
00:32:55,246 --> 00:32:56,980
in 15 years...
581
00:32:57,014 --> 00:32:59,016
I couldn't really tell him
what I thought.
582
00:32:59,050 --> 00:33:01,052
Mark Jeffrey O'Donnell,
583
00:33:01,084 --> 00:33:02,687
in the presence of
Jehovah God
584
00:33:02,719 --> 00:33:06,089
and these witnesses,
take Kimberly Ann Weber
585
00:33:06,122 --> 00:33:08,825
to be your wedded wife,
in accordance with divine law
586
00:33:08,859 --> 00:33:10,662
as outlined in
the holy scriptures
587
00:33:10,695 --> 00:33:13,731
for Christian husbands for as
long as you both may live.
588
00:33:13,764 --> 00:33:15,400
I do.
589
00:33:19,402 --> 00:33:22,406
I continued to go
to meetings and preach.
590
00:33:24,842 --> 00:33:27,344
Mark and I would walk at night,
and we would talk.
591
00:33:27,378 --> 00:33:31,082
For me, I wanted to know what
was going on in Mark's head,
592
00:33:31,114 --> 00:33:32,717
so I would ask him
to just tell me
593
00:33:32,749 --> 00:33:34,685
what he was thinking
and feeling,
594
00:33:34,718 --> 00:33:37,255
and that I understood...
I wouldn't agree with it,
595
00:33:37,287 --> 00:33:38,955
but I needed to know that;
596
00:33:38,988 --> 00:33:40,725
I wanted
to be supportive for him.
597
00:33:40,757 --> 00:33:42,459
So he was very careful
and very selective
598
00:33:42,493 --> 00:33:44,195
of some things that he told me.
599
00:33:44,227 --> 00:33:47,031
One thing that
he mentioned to me
600
00:33:47,063 --> 00:33:49,833
was the case
about Candace Conti.
601
00:33:49,867 --> 00:33:53,204
I went home and I looked up
the court documents.
602
00:33:54,905 --> 00:33:59,744
I was shocked... Candace Conti
sued Watchtower over her abuse
603
00:33:59,776 --> 00:34:02,112
and how it was mishandled
by the elders
604
00:34:02,146 --> 00:34:04,916
and not reported to the police.
605
00:34:04,948 --> 00:34:08,719
And immediately
that resonated with me.
606
00:34:08,753 --> 00:34:10,987
That's my personal experience,
607
00:34:11,021 --> 00:34:13,957
where I was told not to report
to the police
608
00:34:13,990 --> 00:34:14,991
for m-my abuse.
609
00:34:15,025 --> 00:34:16,928
I was shocked to learn that
610
00:34:16,960 --> 00:34:19,896
the "Two witness rule"
was actually a policy
611
00:34:19,930 --> 00:34:22,400
of the Governing Body
of Jehovah's Witnesses.
612
00:34:22,432 --> 00:34:25,969
That "Two witness rule"
affected me personally,
613
00:34:26,003 --> 00:34:27,305
it r-really ruined my life.
614
00:34:27,338 --> 00:34:29,372
The "Two witness rule"
615
00:34:29,405 --> 00:34:32,110
is really central doctrine
616
00:34:32,142 --> 00:34:34,244
for the Jehovah's Witnesses.
617
00:34:40,950 --> 00:34:44,789
The scriptures is ex...
is very, very clear.
618
00:34:44,822 --> 00:34:49,327
It says, "No single witness may
convict another for any error
619
00:34:49,360 --> 00:34:51,361
or any sin that he may commit."
620
00:34:51,394 --> 00:34:53,163
It's very clear, isn't it?
621
00:34:53,197 --> 00:34:56,066
There are a lot of people
that have been sexually abused
622
00:34:56,099 --> 00:34:59,202
and it's all been swept
under the rug
623
00:34:59,235 --> 00:35:01,338
because of
the "Two witness rule."
624
00:35:01,372 --> 00:35:05,877
You can't apply that rule
to sexual assault.
625
00:35:05,910 --> 00:35:07,945
You can't.
626
00:35:07,977 --> 00:35:11,381
Where is there going to be
two witnesses to such a crime?
627
00:35:14,885 --> 00:35:17,121
My mother suffered from
a personality disorder
628
00:35:17,153 --> 00:35:19,990
which wasn't diagnosed
till later in life.
629
00:35:20,023 --> 00:35:21,992
She was extremely abusive.
630
00:35:22,026 --> 00:35:24,962
She's not a very nice person.
631
00:35:24,994 --> 00:35:27,264
So she was one of
Jehovah's Witnesses,
632
00:35:27,298 --> 00:35:29,233
and she would kind
of use the Bible
633
00:35:29,265 --> 00:35:31,068
as part of her abuse with us.
634
00:35:31,101 --> 00:35:33,171
She would read scriptures
to us about, you know,
635
00:35:33,204 --> 00:35:36,407
make sure you obey your mother,
and then she would beat us
636
00:35:36,439 --> 00:35:39,376
and did certain,
you know, awful things.
637
00:35:44,481 --> 00:35:47,151
I have an older brother
and older sister.
638
00:35:47,184 --> 00:35:49,153
My mom would lock us in rooms,
639
00:35:49,186 --> 00:35:51,421
she turned the...
the door knob,
640
00:35:51,454 --> 00:35:54,257
so the lock was on the outside
so she could lock us for days
641
00:35:54,291 --> 00:35:56,093
at a time in our...
in our room,
642
00:35:56,126 --> 00:35:58,262
with no access to the restroom.
643
00:35:58,294 --> 00:36:01,532
You'd have to, you know, go out
the window or use a litter box.
644
00:36:01,564 --> 00:36:05,135
We would watch her drown, uh,
kittens in front of us,
645
00:36:05,168 --> 00:36:08,438
to kind of threatened us that
if we spoke up about the abuse,
646
00:36:08,472 --> 00:36:11,108
this is kind of
what would happen to us.
647
00:36:11,140 --> 00:36:12,510
Um, she would beat us.
648
00:36:12,543 --> 00:36:13,977
Uh, she would starve us.
649
00:36:14,010 --> 00:36:15,412
I was malnourished.
650
00:36:15,445 --> 00:36:17,614
I was very skinny.
651
00:36:17,648 --> 00:36:19,550
I was all skin and bones.
652
00:36:19,582 --> 00:36:21,385
My clavicle
was always sticking out.
653
00:36:21,418 --> 00:36:24,555
I had dark circles
under my eyes.
654
00:36:24,588 --> 00:36:29,026
I was sexually abused as well
by my mother.
655
00:36:29,059 --> 00:36:31,361
My father worked
different shifts at his job,
656
00:36:31,394 --> 00:36:34,197
so there were times he worked
11:00 p.m. to 7:00 a.m.,
657
00:36:34,231 --> 00:36:38,135
and so we were
left alone with my mom.
658
00:36:38,168 --> 00:36:40,371
She would make us lay in bed
next to her
659
00:36:40,403 --> 00:36:43,940
while she masturbated.
660
00:36:43,974 --> 00:36:47,111
Twelve years old,
went to an elder,
661
00:36:47,144 --> 00:36:49,981
and I informed him
about the serious abuse
662
00:36:50,014 --> 00:36:51,916
that was going on in our home,
663
00:36:51,948 --> 00:36:54,918
but because it was my word
against my mother's word,
664
00:36:54,952 --> 00:36:57,287
they would take no action.
665
00:36:57,320 --> 00:37:00,490
I asked for help, they actually
reasoned with me that
666
00:37:00,523 --> 00:37:02,626
if I died
at the hands of my mother,
667
00:37:02,660 --> 00:37:04,962
which was a real possibility,
668
00:37:04,994 --> 00:37:08,098
could she stop Jehovah
from resurrecting me?
669
00:37:08,131 --> 00:37:10,334
And of course,
the logical answer was no.
670
00:37:10,367 --> 00:37:12,637
And so instead of giving me
any practical help,
671
00:37:12,669 --> 00:37:15,106
even providing some food
672
00:37:15,139 --> 00:37:18,309
or reporting to
Child Protective Services,
673
00:37:18,342 --> 00:37:23,146
I was sent back home to face
this horrible, horrific abuse.
674
00:37:25,182 --> 00:37:27,985
On top, I was told
I couldn't report it
675
00:37:28,017 --> 00:37:31,155
because, um, it would make
the organization look bad.
676
00:37:33,122 --> 00:37:37,093
The abuse was so bad
that I actually remember
677
00:37:37,126 --> 00:37:41,231
looking at my mom and thinking,
if I just kill her right now,
678
00:37:41,264 --> 00:37:43,600
or I kill myself,
this would be over.
679
00:37:43,633 --> 00:37:46,670
And, um...
680
00:37:46,704 --> 00:37:49,673
She...
Sorry.
681
00:37:49,706 --> 00:37:51,975
I always have in my mind, um,
682
00:37:52,008 --> 00:37:54,177
a picture of a little girl
that I pushed down.
683
00:37:54,211 --> 00:37:56,714
And so she's the one
that was abused
684
00:37:56,747 --> 00:37:59,517
and I had to separate myself.
685
00:38:03,086 --> 00:38:06,456
If those brothers had helped me
when I was 12...
686
00:38:08,691 --> 00:38:11,594
I wouldn't have had to deal with
what I dealt with.
687
00:38:11,628 --> 00:38:15,733
If they had made one phone call
to Child Protective Services.
688
00:38:20,470 --> 00:38:23,006
She's still an active Witness.
689
00:38:23,039 --> 00:38:25,742
She's around children.
690
00:38:25,776 --> 00:38:27,278
I have nightmares,
691
00:38:27,311 --> 00:38:30,247
my mom flushing kittens
down the toilet,
692
00:38:30,280 --> 00:38:31,682
or tying them up
in a plastic bag
693
00:38:31,715 --> 00:38:34,418
and listening to them cry
and die in front of me.
694
00:38:34,450 --> 00:38:36,153
She's a psychopath..
695
00:38:36,186 --> 00:38:37,755
So you don't say anything.
696
00:38:37,787 --> 00:38:40,523
I just put a smile on my face.
697
00:38:40,557 --> 00:38:44,428
No one knew
what was going on outside.
698
00:38:44,461 --> 00:38:46,697
No one knew,
and I knew the risk that I took.
699
00:38:46,729 --> 00:38:49,532
I went to those elders... I was
putting my life on the line
700
00:38:49,566 --> 00:38:52,436
because if my mom found out that
I told anyone about the abuse,
701
00:38:52,468 --> 00:38:54,137
she would have killed me.
702
00:38:54,171 --> 00:38:57,707
And those brothers said,
go home and obey your mother.
703
00:39:02,678 --> 00:39:07,318
She didn't talk about it until
after I left the organization.
704
00:39:07,351 --> 00:39:10,053
She didn't talk about the fact
that the elders
705
00:39:10,086 --> 00:39:13,189
had covered up
specific allegations of abuse
706
00:39:13,222 --> 00:39:17,260
and told her to leave the matter
in Jehovah's hands.
707
00:39:17,293 --> 00:39:19,096
Now it was personal.
708
00:39:21,164 --> 00:39:22,800
I gave my life
to this organization.
709
00:39:22,832 --> 00:39:28,338
I turned down a full scholarship
to an Ivy League school,
710
00:39:28,372 --> 00:39:31,207
and I wanted to be a doctor.
711
00:39:31,240 --> 00:39:33,744
And instead I turned that
all down for an organization
712
00:39:33,776 --> 00:39:35,512
that wouldn't protect me.
713
00:39:43,586 --> 00:39:44,755
Being a Witness
is an everyday commitment.
714
00:39:44,787 --> 00:39:46,590
It's not enough to just believe
715
00:39:46,622 --> 00:39:49,427
and then have a normal life
outside of your belief system,
716
00:39:49,459 --> 00:39:52,463
you are to spend hours
in the ministry
717
00:39:52,496 --> 00:39:54,831
going out,
knocking on doors,
718
00:39:54,865 --> 00:39:56,667
because that's how you
demonstrate your faith to God.
719
00:39:56,700 --> 00:39:58,235
You can't celebrate Christmas.
720
00:39:58,267 --> 00:40:00,303
You can't go to
a birthday party.
721
00:40:00,336 --> 00:40:01,738
It's a really busy life.
722
00:40:01,771 --> 00:40:04,240
You're spending
the vast majority of your time
723
00:40:04,273 --> 00:40:08,111
doing things that have to do
with being a Witness.
724
00:40:08,144 --> 00:40:12,749
And that was the price that you
willingly paid for the truth.
725
00:40:12,782 --> 00:40:15,518
They degrade colleges
and universities.
726
00:40:15,552 --> 00:40:17,153
They degrade professors.
727
00:40:17,186 --> 00:40:19,122
You'll see that smattered
728
00:40:19,155 --> 00:40:21,624
all over
Jehovah's Witness literature,
729
00:40:21,657 --> 00:40:23,360
their talks, their videos,
730
00:40:23,392 --> 00:40:25,329
the dangers of higher education.
731
00:40:25,361 --> 00:40:29,834
Higher education often instills
a sense of superiority
732
00:40:29,867 --> 00:40:32,403
and self-reliance
733
00:40:32,436 --> 00:40:35,439
that is in direct opposition
to the Christian personality.
734
00:40:35,472 --> 00:40:39,776
We will not need doctors
or lawyers after Armageddon,
735
00:40:39,809 --> 00:40:43,546
but we will need
carpenters and plumbers
736
00:40:43,579 --> 00:40:46,816
and similar construction trades.
737
00:40:46,849 --> 00:40:51,255
It requires faith
to decline higher education
738
00:40:51,287 --> 00:40:53,858
and have the confidence that
our material needs will be
739
00:40:53,890 --> 00:40:57,427
cared for
by training in other fields.
740
00:40:59,363 --> 00:41:01,398
We really believed.
741
00:41:01,430 --> 00:41:05,135
We studied, we made sacrifices
for this religion.
742
00:41:05,168 --> 00:41:07,270
I served as a pioneer,
which would mean
743
00:41:07,303 --> 00:41:09,340
working as a volunteer
full time.
744
00:41:11,307 --> 00:41:14,744
The organization taught that
we should either be pioneers,
745
00:41:14,778 --> 00:41:16,280
meaning full-time ministry,
746
00:41:16,313 --> 00:41:17,881
or we should be
building kingdom halls,
747
00:41:17,914 --> 00:41:19,617
we're going to Bethel to work
748
00:41:19,650 --> 00:41:22,153
at the world headquarters
complexes.
749
00:41:22,186 --> 00:41:23,921
Every time that there was
a crossroad,
750
00:41:23,954 --> 00:41:26,289
I would give something up
to continue
751
00:41:26,322 --> 00:41:28,424
being a good Jehovah's Witness.
752
00:41:28,457 --> 00:41:30,193
Once I left, I realized that
753
00:41:30,227 --> 00:41:33,230
I was living
under constant stress.
754
00:41:33,262 --> 00:41:34,797
They teach you
you're not good enough,
755
00:41:34,831 --> 00:41:36,599
that you were born imperfect
756
00:41:36,633 --> 00:41:40,404
and that you will never be
perfect until the new system.
757
00:41:40,436 --> 00:41:44,240
Let's remember these words
and this counsel,
758
00:41:44,273 --> 00:41:47,377
"When you have done
all the things assigned to you,
759
00:41:47,410 --> 00:41:50,481
say we are good
for nothing, slaves.
760
00:41:50,514 --> 00:41:54,584
What we have done is what we
ought to have done."
761
00:41:54,617 --> 00:41:55,885
I remember growing up
762
00:41:55,918 --> 00:41:58,388
and hearing talks
throughout my whole life,
763
00:41:58,421 --> 00:42:02,226
"You are
a good-for-nothing slave,"
764
00:42:02,258 --> 00:42:03,860
and we would repeat that.
765
00:42:03,894 --> 00:42:06,930
"We are good-for-nothing
slaves."
766
00:42:06,963 --> 00:42:11,267
We owe our lives to God
because he created us.
767
00:42:17,273 --> 00:42:20,310
Turning around
and asking yourself,
768
00:42:20,343 --> 00:42:22,746
can I...
can I start over again?
769
00:42:22,778 --> 00:42:27,383
Do I have the strength to do
that... is a very scary thing.
770
00:42:27,416 --> 00:42:29,252
From an early age,
771
00:42:29,285 --> 00:42:30,820
you're raised
with no self-esteem,
772
00:42:30,854 --> 00:42:34,525
no self-awareness,
no confidence.
773
00:42:34,557 --> 00:42:36,526
I didn't have prom,
I didn't have birthdays,
774
00:42:36,559 --> 00:42:38,861
I didn't have dates,
I didn't have college.
775
00:42:38,894 --> 00:42:41,698
You feel like you're robbed.
776
00:42:41,731 --> 00:42:43,967
Like someone stole
something from you.
777
00:42:44,001 --> 00:42:47,738
And you feel angry,
and justifiably so.
778
00:42:50,773 --> 00:42:54,711
My first memories as a child
was being pushed in a stroller
779
00:42:54,744 --> 00:42:58,414
and going door to door with my
mother trying to recruit people.
780
00:42:58,447 --> 00:43:01,517
This is my book bag that I would
carry around with me
781
00:43:01,550 --> 00:43:05,288
when I would go door to door,
full time pioneering,
782
00:43:05,322 --> 00:43:07,590
so it's just full time
knocking on doors,
783
00:43:07,624 --> 00:43:09,360
and trying to recruit people.
784
00:43:11,061 --> 00:43:14,999
This brings back memories.
785
00:43:15,032 --> 00:43:18,269
It all started with my mom.
786
00:43:18,302 --> 00:43:20,604
We met a Jehovah's Witness,
787
00:43:20,637 --> 00:43:22,439
and they showed her a couple of
scriptures from the Bible
788
00:43:22,472 --> 00:43:24,275
she'd never seen before.
789
00:43:24,307 --> 00:43:26,443
So at the time
she was pregnant with me,
790
00:43:26,476 --> 00:43:28,646
I never had a father figure,
she was mom and dad.
791
00:43:28,678 --> 00:43:31,948
I was baptized, and in here...
792
00:43:31,981 --> 00:43:34,985
I just found this shit,
I still have the T-shirt
793
00:43:35,017 --> 00:43:37,954
I was baptized in.
794
00:43:37,988 --> 00:43:40,390
It was in San Francisco,
at the Cow Palace,
795
00:43:40,423 --> 00:43:42,659
with 10,000 Jehovah's Witnesses,
like, watching.
796
00:43:42,693 --> 00:43:45,496
I was hyped and had to
wear the white shirt,
797
00:43:45,528 --> 00:43:48,532
because that means you're
starting new, it's fresh,
798
00:43:48,564 --> 00:43:50,668
it's loose-fitting, it's modest.
799
00:43:50,700 --> 00:43:52,535
My mom was excited.
800
00:43:52,568 --> 00:43:54,737
Here's Kameron!
801
00:43:54,771 --> 00:43:57,608
I remember, like, even walking
into the heated pool,
802
00:43:57,640 --> 00:43:59,976
something feeling
like it left my body.
803
00:44:01,945 --> 00:44:04,548
I felt like I was dirty
and that was restarting,
804
00:44:04,581 --> 00:44:06,082
so I felt clean again
805
00:44:06,115 --> 00:44:09,352
and I felt something
like a spirit had left my body.
806
00:44:09,385 --> 00:44:10,753
Like, when I came out
of the water,
807
00:44:10,787 --> 00:44:13,991
I felt, you know,
I had a second chance at life
808
00:44:14,023 --> 00:44:16,592
because I was born a sinner.
809
00:44:16,626 --> 00:44:17,995
But I also felt a lot
more pressure
810
00:44:18,028 --> 00:44:20,497
because you're basically
marrying Jehovah God,
811
00:44:20,530 --> 00:44:23,467
you're dedicated to him
no matter what.
812
00:44:25,735 --> 00:44:28,338
You're always under pressure
to be perfect
813
00:44:28,372 --> 00:44:30,941
and to set the right example
and, you know,
814
00:44:30,974 --> 00:44:34,345
every time it's not, it's...
something's wrong with you.
815
00:44:38,849 --> 00:44:42,653
I was like four or five.
816
00:44:42,686 --> 00:44:44,421
And it was your classic,
you know,
817
00:44:44,454 --> 00:44:46,356
they're close to the family,
818
00:44:46,389 --> 00:44:50,927
trusted member of the family,
you're left alone.
819
00:44:50,961 --> 00:44:53,664
I spent the night at his house,
820
00:44:53,697 --> 00:44:55,932
and, um,
he took advantage one night
821
00:44:55,965 --> 00:44:57,800
and I knew I wanted to leave,
822
00:44:57,834 --> 00:45:00,704
I just didn't know what to do
because I was four years old.
823
00:45:00,736 --> 00:45:04,374
He was 17, 18...
so he's not super old,
824
00:45:04,407 --> 00:45:08,746
but he was old enough to know
that, like, that was not okay.
825
00:45:08,778 --> 00:45:12,048
He said, "Yeah, don't talk about
this, this is just between us."
826
00:45:12,081 --> 00:45:14,450
My mom comes from abuse.
827
00:45:14,483 --> 00:45:15,852
I guess I was saying
some weird things,
828
00:45:15,885 --> 00:45:17,820
and she's like,
"Wait, what does that mean?
829
00:45:17,854 --> 00:45:19,490
Tell me what happened."
830
00:45:19,523 --> 00:45:23,593
And then she immediately, like,
burst into tears
831
00:45:23,626 --> 00:45:25,695
and set up a meeting
with the elders.
832
00:45:25,729 --> 00:45:29,466
She was taught to talk to them
for direction for everything.
833
00:45:29,499 --> 00:45:32,035
They told her the classics,
like, don't talk about it,
834
00:45:32,068 --> 00:45:33,970
we don't want to bring
a reproach on Jehovah's name,
835
00:45:34,003 --> 00:45:35,805
so we don't want to make
the religion look bad.
836
00:45:35,838 --> 00:45:37,507
It's in Jehovah's Hands,
he'll fix it in the new system
837
00:45:37,541 --> 00:45:38,976
when the world ends
and everyone was not
838
00:45:39,008 --> 00:45:40,777
a Jehovah's Witness will die.
839
00:45:40,811 --> 00:45:45,548
And, uh, they just pretty much
dismissed everything.
840
00:45:45,581 --> 00:45:49,719
When I woke up, it was about
a solid month of depression
841
00:45:49,753 --> 00:45:52,456
and sadness and crying and panic
and anxiety attacks...
842
00:45:52,488 --> 00:45:54,490
found out everything
I was taught was a lie.
843
00:45:59,996 --> 00:46:02,432
Once someone starts learning
about the group
844
00:46:02,465 --> 00:46:04,834
and it kind of hits them
that they've been in a cult,
845
00:46:04,867 --> 00:46:07,637
there's a lot of trauma
that can happen around that,
846
00:46:07,671 --> 00:46:11,875
realizing that you've missed out
on a lot of things in life,
847
00:46:11,907 --> 00:46:13,476
lost milestones,
848
00:46:13,510 --> 00:46:15,746
lost achievements
and accomplishments.
849
00:46:15,778 --> 00:46:18,014
It's very distressing.
850
00:46:18,048 --> 00:46:20,617
Month later,
851
00:46:20,650 --> 00:46:23,454
I... I had my little DSLR
that I had saved up for
852
00:46:23,486 --> 00:46:24,988
because I wanted to be
a filmmaker,
853
00:46:25,021 --> 00:46:26,457
and all of a sudden I was free
to, like, chase that,
854
00:46:26,490 --> 00:46:27,858
and I was like,
I'm going to blog
855
00:46:27,890 --> 00:46:29,860
'cause people need
to know about this,
856
00:46:29,892 --> 00:46:32,061
and I just want
to help 10 people.
857
00:46:35,865 --> 00:46:40,204
So that got me involved
in activism with child abuse.
858
00:46:40,236 --> 00:46:43,740
When I started,
there was a handful of YouTubers
859
00:46:43,773 --> 00:46:45,575
and there's a lot
of Reddit posts,
860
00:46:45,608 --> 00:46:47,177
but now there's
tons of YouTubers.
861
00:46:47,209 --> 00:46:50,880
I am a survivor
of childhood sexual abuse.
862
00:46:50,914 --> 00:46:53,217
I don't remember exactly
when the abuse started.
863
00:46:53,249 --> 00:46:56,753
Lots of people knew;
nobody did anything about it.
864
00:46:56,785 --> 00:46:58,155
No one called the police.
865
00:46:58,188 --> 00:47:00,189
I myself have been
through a ton of abuse.
866
00:47:00,222 --> 00:47:03,693
It's their policies
that's protecting pedophiles.
867
00:47:03,727 --> 00:47:05,929
I went to the Internet
868
00:47:05,961 --> 00:47:08,664
to search for
Jehovah's Witness teachings,
869
00:47:08,697 --> 00:47:12,935
and I saw that there were
a lot of people
870
00:47:12,968 --> 00:47:17,673
who came out as victims of
child abuse in the organization.
871
00:47:17,706 --> 00:47:20,743
I knew what child abuse was,
but never in my life
872
00:47:20,776 --> 00:47:22,278
had I imagined
873
00:47:22,311 --> 00:47:25,147
that this was such a strong,
ongoing issue.
874
00:47:25,180 --> 00:47:28,217
I discovered that
the Jehovah's Witnesses
875
00:47:28,251 --> 00:47:31,255
were not giving their documents
876
00:47:31,287 --> 00:47:34,492
about alleged abuse
to the court.
877
00:47:36,660 --> 00:47:38,928
They decided to keep this
all hidden
878
00:47:38,961 --> 00:47:40,963
somewhere
in the Kingdom Hall,
879
00:47:40,997 --> 00:47:43,100
and most members
inside the organization
880
00:47:43,133 --> 00:47:45,736
didn't even know
it was occurring.
881
00:47:45,769 --> 00:47:49,740
I think that 95% to 99%
of active Jehovah's Witnesses
882
00:47:49,773 --> 00:47:52,575
have no clue
about the abuse that goes on.
883
00:47:52,608 --> 00:47:55,111
If they were looking at it
like this actually happened,
884
00:47:55,144 --> 00:47:56,847
it would blow most people away.
885
00:47:56,880 --> 00:47:59,249
I had a very good idea
886
00:47:59,282 --> 00:48:03,153
of where
these documents were kept.
887
00:48:03,186 --> 00:48:04,921
I went back to
the ,
888
00:48:04,954 --> 00:48:06,989
I was hoping to have
some kind of proof.
889
00:48:07,023 --> 00:48:10,994
I knew that someone had to go
into the kingdom halls
890
00:48:11,026 --> 00:48:13,329
and get these documents.
891
00:48:20,637 --> 00:48:23,740
I found this elder,
I grew up with him,
892
00:48:23,773 --> 00:48:27,010
I had a past history
and relationship with him,
893
00:48:27,043 --> 00:48:29,313
and I was hoping that
this would trigger
894
00:48:29,345 --> 00:48:31,148
something human
to come out.
895
00:48:31,180 --> 00:48:33,249
Should be some guys dressed
kind of nice...
896
00:48:33,282 --> 00:48:34,985
- Right there.
- Right here?
897
00:48:35,017 --> 00:48:36,619
Yeah, I think so.
898
00:48:36,653 --> 00:48:38,221
I was hoping to have
some kind of proof
899
00:48:38,253 --> 00:48:41,157
and get
a confession about my abuse.
900
00:48:41,191 --> 00:48:42,793
And he said that he'd love
to talk to me
901
00:48:42,825 --> 00:48:44,695
about the depression
that I was going through
902
00:48:44,727 --> 00:48:47,898
and how I was feeling
about my child abuse growing up.
903
00:50:06,843 --> 00:50:09,178
I don't think anything has
changed in the organization.
904
00:50:09,211 --> 00:50:12,314
It is one of the most stubborn
religious organizations
905
00:50:12,347 --> 00:50:14,985
where they just throw children's
lives away like it's nothing.
906
00:50:15,017 --> 00:50:19,755
People need to know about this.
907
00:50:19,789 --> 00:50:21,725
There's no protections
in place for children,
908
00:50:21,758 --> 00:50:23,260
and they're going to take
the side of the abuser
909
00:50:23,293 --> 00:50:26,963
because there's no eyewitness...
so nothing's changed.
910
00:50:26,996 --> 00:50:29,131
Hey, brothers and sisters,
if you haven't seen
911
00:50:29,164 --> 00:50:32,068
the "Going to a memorial
as an apostate" video yet,
912
00:50:32,102 --> 00:50:33,403
you should watch that.
913
00:50:33,436 --> 00:50:35,439
Although the Governing Body
tries to say
914
00:50:35,472 --> 00:50:38,008
that people will lie about us
on the Internet...
915
00:50:38,041 --> 00:50:40,043
Be careful on the Internet.
916
00:50:40,075 --> 00:50:41,711
We're just warning you,
917
00:50:41,744 --> 00:50:43,479
that's all we can do
is admonish.
918
00:50:43,512 --> 00:50:46,849
Stick with what
we have authorized.
919
00:50:46,883 --> 00:50:48,151
You'll be safe.
920
00:50:48,184 --> 00:50:49,886
There's no way that
921
00:50:49,918 --> 00:50:51,353
this could all be lied about.
922
00:50:51,387 --> 00:50:53,189
New sexual abuse
allegations tonight
923
00:50:53,222 --> 00:50:55,791
- against Jehovah's Witness.
- The alleged victims' claims
924
00:50:55,825 --> 00:50:58,195
- an elder...
- Says she was molested
925
00:50:58,227 --> 00:50:59,930
by a fellow church member.
926
00:50:59,963 --> 00:51:01,731
A pattern of alleged
child abuse.
927
00:51:01,764 --> 00:51:03,299
The commission learned that
of those hundreds of cases,
928
00:51:03,332 --> 00:51:06,302
none... none...
was reported to police.
929
00:51:06,336 --> 00:51:10,173
At the time I was still
a member of the Congregation.
930
00:51:10,206 --> 00:51:12,843
This is what Jehovah, the God of
Israel, says...
931
00:51:12,876 --> 00:51:15,979
So everyone in the congregation
saw me as a regular,
932
00:51:16,012 --> 00:51:18,448
spiritually strong,
trusted member...
933
00:51:18,481 --> 00:51:21,151
Before he resurrects them,
he's going to create
934
00:51:21,184 --> 00:51:23,986
a perfect place for them,
a paradise here on Earth.
935
00:51:24,019 --> 00:51:26,856
But on the inside
I had my doubts.
936
00:51:26,889 --> 00:51:31,494
I was only going there
to keep my family and friends.
937
00:51:31,528 --> 00:51:34,798
My father was very high up.
938
00:51:34,831 --> 00:51:37,066
He was a well respected member.
939
00:51:37,099 --> 00:51:39,468
He had a lot of privilege
and he pretty much
940
00:51:39,501 --> 00:51:41,971
was the leader
of our congregation.
941
00:51:42,005 --> 00:51:45,976
He wanted myself to grow up
and be the same way.
942
00:51:46,008 --> 00:51:49,345
So he taught me a lot,
and I found that growing up
943
00:51:49,378 --> 00:51:51,947
I knew much more
than the typical Witness
944
00:51:51,981 --> 00:51:55,185
regarding what goes on
behind the scenes.
945
00:51:55,218 --> 00:51:58,488
My father taught me that when
something occurred
946
00:51:58,521 --> 00:52:01,258
inside the Kingdom Hall,
that brother or sister
947
00:52:01,291 --> 00:52:05,461
would meet with a couple
of elders in a secret meeting.
948
00:52:05,494 --> 00:52:08,831
It was just that person
who had some problem
949
00:52:08,865 --> 00:52:12,869
and two or three elders
speaking with them.
950
00:52:12,901 --> 00:52:16,572
A judicial committee is a group
of three elders
951
00:52:16,606 --> 00:52:19,376
in the congregation
who will convene
952
00:52:19,409 --> 00:52:22,244
for a series of private meetings
953
00:52:22,278 --> 00:52:26,349
with someone who has
committed a sin,
954
00:52:26,381 --> 00:52:29,885
or to hear an accusation
955
00:52:29,918 --> 00:52:32,321
they believe and they're trying
to get to the bottom of it,
956
00:52:32,354 --> 00:52:35,559
with the end goal of,
do we have mercy on this person
957
00:52:35,592 --> 00:52:37,494
or do we disfellowship them?
958
00:52:37,526 --> 00:52:41,264
This would all be documented
and filed away
959
00:52:41,296 --> 00:52:45,467
and locked for no one
to see except the elders.
960
00:52:45,501 --> 00:52:47,403
I was curious as to
961
00:52:47,436 --> 00:52:50,573
what is really hidden
in the kingdom halls,
962
00:52:50,606 --> 00:52:53,375
what's really locked away.
963
00:52:53,409 --> 00:52:56,479
At that point, when Judas
started getting curious,
964
00:52:56,512 --> 00:53:00,115
we had been dating
for about five or six years.
965
00:53:00,148 --> 00:53:04,453
I felt the need to take action
because we had the ability to.
966
00:53:07,990 --> 00:53:11,227
We had a set of picks
that we used,
967
00:53:11,260 --> 00:53:14,230
some doors were very difficult
to get open.
968
00:53:14,264 --> 00:53:17,032
So in that instance, we would go
to meetings during the day,
969
00:53:17,066 --> 00:53:19,436
crack open one of the windows,
and then come back later
970
00:53:19,468 --> 00:53:21,871
at night
and crawl through the windows.
971
00:53:23,372 --> 00:53:27,878
I was paranoid the whole time.
972
00:53:27,910 --> 00:53:29,579
Every small noise I heard,
973
00:53:29,611 --> 00:53:31,514
I would pause.
974
00:53:31,546 --> 00:53:32,948
Be quiet.
975
00:53:32,981 --> 00:53:34,550
Then we can continue.
976
00:53:39,421 --> 00:53:43,059
We went through all the files
that we thought were suspicious.
977
00:53:43,092 --> 00:53:46,997
We had little knives
to cut open the files.
978
00:53:47,030 --> 00:53:49,399
We had our glue sticks
and then glue it back together
979
00:53:49,432 --> 00:53:51,234
as if it were never opened.
980
00:53:51,267 --> 00:53:53,102
I came across this big envelope
981
00:53:53,135 --> 00:53:56,305
titled
"Child Abuse, Do Not Destroy."
982
00:53:59,242 --> 00:54:04,046
We found way more pedophile
activity than we anticipated.
983
00:54:04,079 --> 00:54:08,418
Hundreds of pages in just
one congregation.
984
00:54:08,450 --> 00:54:11,086
These were people
I grew up with.
985
00:54:11,119 --> 00:54:13,355
These are people I knew.
986
00:54:13,389 --> 00:54:16,293
So it shocked me.
987
00:54:16,325 --> 00:54:21,130
I could not believe what I was
reading and how extensive,
988
00:54:21,164 --> 00:54:25,068
how severe and how detailed
these documents were.
989
00:54:25,101 --> 00:54:27,303
It was horrifying.
990
00:54:27,336 --> 00:54:30,273
Seeing the pedophiles
not getting the consequences
991
00:54:30,305 --> 00:54:32,708
they deserved infuriated me.
992
00:54:32,742 --> 00:54:37,613
So that caused us to act
and get as many files
993
00:54:37,646 --> 00:54:40,115
as we could on them.
994
00:54:40,148 --> 00:54:43,352
I felt that it was
my responsibility
995
00:54:43,385 --> 00:54:46,255
to get these documents
and get them out to the public
996
00:54:46,289 --> 00:54:50,459
and really show the true nature
of the organization.
997
00:54:50,492 --> 00:54:55,331
I ended up posting on an ex-JW
page on the Internet
998
00:54:55,365 --> 00:54:58,435
with one small letter
that I found...
999
00:54:58,468 --> 00:55:02,539
a sample, so to speak.
1000
00:55:02,572 --> 00:55:05,275
Once I posted that,
I began to receive
1001
00:55:05,307 --> 00:55:07,409
a lot of messages.
1002
00:55:07,443 --> 00:55:10,246
One message
that grabbed my attention
1003
00:55:10,278 --> 00:55:13,115
was from someone named
John Redwood.
1004
00:55:15,785 --> 00:55:18,655
There is a subreddit group
called ex-JW,
1005
00:55:18,688 --> 00:55:22,325
which has something like
55,000 members.
1006
00:55:22,358 --> 00:55:26,095
And an individual had posted
some information that indicated
1007
00:55:26,128 --> 00:55:28,097
that he may have found
some documents
1008
00:55:28,131 --> 00:55:29,566
inside of congregations
1009
00:55:29,599 --> 00:55:34,704
that dealt directly with
child sexual abuse.
1010
00:55:34,736 --> 00:55:36,439
We gained each other's trust,
1011
00:55:36,472 --> 00:55:40,043
and I saw that we were fighting
for the same cause.
1012
00:55:43,345 --> 00:55:47,316
I received an anonymous
package of documents,
1013
00:55:47,349 --> 00:55:51,153
which was very extensive.
1014
00:55:51,186 --> 00:55:53,722
Many of the documents
were handwritten notes.
1015
00:55:53,756 --> 00:55:55,425
They were notes from elders,
1016
00:55:55,457 --> 00:55:58,494
they were notes from
the victims themselves
1017
00:55:58,528 --> 00:56:02,198
and from Watchtower's
communication back and forth
1018
00:56:02,231 --> 00:56:03,700
to the congregations.
1019
00:56:03,733 --> 00:56:07,736
And I knew immediately
that this was serious.
1020
00:56:22,617 --> 00:56:27,489
I really have evolved
over the decades
1021
00:56:27,523 --> 00:56:30,626
as I've learned more and more
about the Jehovah's Witnesses
1022
00:56:30,660 --> 00:56:32,095
to really think of them
1023
00:56:32,128 --> 00:56:36,198
as a more
and more destructive cult.
1024
00:56:36,231 --> 00:56:42,271
The pedophilia, uh,
predatory institution,
1025
00:56:42,305 --> 00:56:46,109
the shunning, uh,
the fear of Armageddon.
1026
00:56:46,142 --> 00:56:51,514
How many people have been harmed
by that institutional abuse?
1027
00:56:51,546 --> 00:56:54,117
For example, if you take
the blood issue,
1028
00:56:54,150 --> 00:56:57,119
tens and tens of thousands
of people have died
1029
00:56:57,153 --> 00:56:59,289
for not taking
a blood transfusion.
1030
00:57:03,126 --> 00:57:05,328
People have died for no reason
1031
00:57:05,360 --> 00:57:09,798
based on an arbitrary misreading
of the Torah.
1032
00:57:09,831 --> 00:57:12,134
Refusing blood transfusions
1033
00:57:12,168 --> 00:57:14,204
comes from a loosely
interpreted scripture
1034
00:57:14,236 --> 00:57:20,142
in Acts where you are told
not to eat blood.
1035
00:57:20,175 --> 00:57:24,447
And apparently that's the same
as taking a blood transfusion,
1036
00:57:24,479 --> 00:57:26,381
I guess...
1037
00:57:26,414 --> 00:57:28,150
that's... that's
how they see it anyway.
1038
00:57:28,184 --> 00:57:31,754
What does the Bible say
about blood transfusions?
1039
00:57:31,787 --> 00:57:35,125
The Bible commands
that we not ingest blood.
1040
00:57:35,157 --> 00:57:40,130
Note the following scriptures:
Genesis 9:4.
1041
00:57:40,162 --> 00:57:42,865
God allowed Noah and his family
to add animal flesh
1042
00:57:42,898 --> 00:57:44,833
to their diet after the flood,
1043
00:57:44,867 --> 00:57:48,403
but commanded them
not to eat the blood.
1044
00:57:48,436 --> 00:57:50,339
People die for this
all the time,
1045
00:57:50,372 --> 00:57:51,707
like, even children,
1046
00:57:51,740 --> 00:57:54,276
like, little babies die from it.
1047
00:57:54,309 --> 00:57:56,178
And nobody bats and eye...
1048
00:57:56,211 --> 00:57:59,414
in fact, people will usually,
1049
00:57:59,447 --> 00:58:01,183
like, put these people on
a pedestal,
1050
00:58:01,217 --> 00:58:03,452
the people that die.
1051
00:58:03,485 --> 00:58:04,887
They're martyred.
1052
00:58:04,921 --> 00:58:06,489
That's something
that I think is...
1053
00:58:06,521 --> 00:58:08,290
is hard for people
to wrap their minds around
1054
00:58:08,323 --> 00:58:10,159
if they're not
a part of the religion.
1055
00:58:10,193 --> 00:58:11,928
The seven year old boy
facing
1056
00:58:11,961 --> 00:58:14,631
death because his parents'
religious beliefs
1057
00:58:14,664 --> 00:58:16,299
prohibit blood transfusions.
1058
00:58:16,331 --> 00:58:18,467
Because both parents
are Jehovah's Witnesses,
1059
00:58:18,501 --> 00:58:21,738
they do not want to see their
baby girl get any foreign blood,
1060
00:58:21,771 --> 00:58:24,606
even if it is a matter
of life and death.
1061
00:58:24,639 --> 00:58:26,708
It's thought the medical team
wanted to carry out
1062
00:58:26,742 --> 00:58:28,444
a blood transfusion,
but the family,
1063
00:58:28,477 --> 00:58:31,281
being Jehovah's Witnesses,
refused.
1064
00:58:31,314 --> 00:58:33,716
Six hours later he died.
1065
00:58:33,749 --> 00:58:36,352
Jehovah's Witnesses are causing
people to die
1066
00:58:36,385 --> 00:58:37,787
due to not taking
blood transfusions,
1067
00:58:37,820 --> 00:58:39,889
that shouldn't be dead.
1068
00:58:39,921 --> 00:58:42,691
It's pretty nefarious.
1069
00:58:42,724 --> 00:58:46,563
I believe that God
wanted us to be loyal
1070
00:58:46,595 --> 00:58:48,298
and not accept
a blood transfusion
1071
00:58:48,331 --> 00:58:49,865
because the life was
in the blood.
1072
00:58:49,898 --> 00:58:51,934
I never questioned
any of that.
1073
00:58:51,968 --> 00:58:53,636
To me, it was always
a matter of loyalty.
1074
00:58:53,668 --> 00:58:55,704
You can change
people's thoughts
1075
00:58:55,738 --> 00:58:57,573
and get them to engage in
behaviors that are
1076
00:58:57,606 --> 00:58:59,909
against self preservation.
1077
00:58:59,941 --> 00:59:01,476
And I think that's
the scary thing.
1078
00:59:01,510 --> 00:59:03,379
And Witnesses do that really,
really well.
1079
00:59:03,412 --> 00:59:06,282
Most people will do what
they've been taught
1080
00:59:06,314 --> 00:59:07,550
is the right thing to do,
1081
00:59:07,582 --> 00:59:10,485
even if it means
losing their life.
1082
00:59:18,727 --> 00:59:22,932
I had already started
questioning the religion,
1083
00:59:22,965 --> 00:59:25,300
the cult.
1084
00:59:25,334 --> 00:59:30,406
And eventually I started
to think maybe God is real,
1085
00:59:30,439 --> 00:59:32,542
but it's not this.
1086
00:59:34,510 --> 00:59:38,615
I don't know what I'm doing.
1087
00:59:38,648 --> 00:59:41,584
My mom was baptized
when she was 12.
1088
00:59:44,552 --> 00:59:48,457
My mom was married
when she was 14.
1089
00:59:48,490 --> 00:59:50,025
The elders sanctioned that,
by the way...
1090
00:59:50,059 --> 00:59:53,263
they were the ones who told
my grandmother to do that.
1091
00:59:55,331 --> 00:59:57,599
My grandma tried to make my mom
live with my dad,
1092
00:59:57,633 --> 01:00:00,803
but my mom was a kid and she
wanted to come back home,
1093
01:00:00,836 --> 01:00:03,473
and she did come back home.
1094
01:00:03,506 --> 01:00:07,377
Originally, I was raised
by my mother.
1095
01:00:07,410 --> 01:00:09,712
I was living with her and
my grandmother at the same time.
1096
01:00:09,744 --> 01:00:12,281
Hey, I'm over here, babe.
1097
01:00:14,749 --> 01:00:18,722
I was indoctrinated
from, like, the womb on.
1098
01:00:21,923 --> 01:00:24,026
I was two years old
1099
01:00:24,059 --> 01:00:27,596
and I'm walking around
quoting scripture.
1100
01:00:27,630 --> 01:00:29,865
I had questions
my whole childhood,
1101
01:00:29,898 --> 01:00:32,734
and they never got answered.
1102
01:00:32,767 --> 01:00:34,603
Growing up
as a Jehovah's Witness
1103
01:00:34,637 --> 01:00:38,707
and being part of the LGBT
community was very stressful
1104
01:00:38,740 --> 01:00:43,478
and it was filled with a lot
of self-hatred and repression.
1105
01:00:43,512 --> 01:00:47,550
Keep clean before Jehovah
and enjoy his blessing.
1106
01:00:47,582 --> 01:00:49,084
The first way you can do this
1107
01:00:49,117 --> 01:00:52,020
is by avoiding
tight-fitting clothes
1108
01:00:52,053 --> 01:00:55,425
that can identify you
with homosexuality.
1109
01:00:55,457 --> 01:00:57,626
These clothes contribute
to changing
1110
01:00:57,660 --> 01:01:00,563
people's opinion
of homosexuality
1111
01:01:00,595 --> 01:01:04,666
because they come to see it
as normal and acceptable.
1112
01:01:04,700 --> 01:01:06,535
I asked my grandmother,
I remember,
1113
01:01:06,568 --> 01:01:09,005
"How do we know that we're
the right religion?
1114
01:01:09,037 --> 01:01:11,474
How do we know
it's not something else?"
1115
01:01:11,506 --> 01:01:16,979
And she would just tell me,
"Because the Bible says so."
1116
01:01:17,012 --> 01:01:18,780
She would always
give me answers like that,
1117
01:01:18,814 --> 01:01:22,618
that just weren't satisfying
and didn't make sense.
1118
01:01:22,651 --> 01:01:26,956
My mom started to drink more
in her early to mid 20s.
1119
01:01:26,988 --> 01:01:29,693
Work, work, work.
1120
01:01:32,494 --> 01:01:36,031
She started abusing
painkillers.
1121
01:01:36,064 --> 01:01:39,034
When I was 17 years old,
1122
01:01:39,068 --> 01:01:43,406
my mom got very ill
after a car accident
1123
01:01:43,439 --> 01:01:46,509
and she ended up
in the hospital.
1124
01:01:46,541 --> 01:01:47,976
We didn't realize
it at the time,
1125
01:01:48,010 --> 01:01:50,780
but she was suffering
from a lot of organ damage
1126
01:01:50,813 --> 01:01:52,782
from chronic alcoholism.
1127
01:01:52,814 --> 01:01:55,952
All of her organs were failing.
1128
01:01:55,985 --> 01:02:00,390
They were telling us that
she needed a blood transfusion.
1129
01:02:00,423 --> 01:02:02,625
My mom had brain swelling
at the time,
1130
01:02:02,657 --> 01:02:05,694
so they said that she couldn't
make the decision for herself.
1131
01:02:05,727 --> 01:02:09,030
They were leaving the choice
up to my grandma.
1132
01:02:09,064 --> 01:02:11,667
I distinctly remember there
being, um,
1133
01:02:11,700 --> 01:02:13,436
like a whole swarm of elders.
1134
01:02:13,468 --> 01:02:15,405
They were the Hospital
Liaison Committee,
1135
01:02:15,438 --> 01:02:17,106
that's what they're called.
1136
01:02:22,077 --> 01:02:24,981
Serious medical situations
are stressful,
1137
01:02:25,014 --> 01:02:28,017
and decisions often need to be
made quickly,
1138
01:02:28,050 --> 01:02:30,852
including those involving blood.
1139
01:02:30,885 --> 01:02:34,456
The Hospital Liaison Committee
arrangement provides comfort
1140
01:02:34,490 --> 01:02:37,727
and help at the right time.
1141
01:02:37,760 --> 01:02:40,162
They were there basically
to make sure
1142
01:02:40,195 --> 01:02:43,965
that my grandmother
made the "right" choice.
1143
01:02:43,999 --> 01:02:46,669
The Hospital Liaison Committees
1144
01:02:46,702 --> 01:02:50,740
have been a very powerful tool
in the hand of Jehovah
1145
01:02:50,773 --> 01:02:54,110
to provide this support
and strength
1146
01:02:54,142 --> 01:02:56,445
when the blood issue arises.
1147
01:02:56,479 --> 01:02:59,948
What a beautiful gift Jehovah
has given his people
1148
01:02:59,981 --> 01:03:03,885
through the fine work of
the Hospital Liaison Committees.
1149
01:03:03,918 --> 01:03:08,023
Truly, this has been
a strengthening aid for us
1150
01:03:08,057 --> 01:03:11,461
to keep abstaining from blood.
1151
01:03:11,494 --> 01:03:14,162
Often these brothers coming,
this committee,
1152
01:03:14,195 --> 01:03:16,531
to the bedside
of a Jehovah's Witness
1153
01:03:16,564 --> 01:03:21,838
who is in distress
or in a health situation,
1154
01:03:21,871 --> 01:03:24,840
it can turn into coercion,
1155
01:03:24,874 --> 01:03:27,176
like trying to convince a person
1156
01:03:27,209 --> 01:03:30,046
not to take blood
that could save their life.
1157
01:03:30,079 --> 01:03:31,781
When a child
or any family member
1158
01:03:31,814 --> 01:03:34,684
needs a blood transfusion
and they can't do it,
1159
01:03:34,717 --> 01:03:36,852
you know, Jehovah's Witnesses
will make sure
1160
01:03:36,885 --> 01:03:38,688
that they're always
on the scene
1161
01:03:38,720 --> 01:03:42,925
reminding you of the reasons
why you should obey these things
1162
01:03:42,957 --> 01:03:45,227
even though they're against
human nature as a parent.
1163
01:03:45,260 --> 01:03:47,929
They would be
in the waiting room.
1164
01:03:47,963 --> 01:03:51,200
They were in her room,
they were surrounding her bed.
1165
01:03:51,233 --> 01:03:54,035
You know, just bunch of suits
strongarming an old lady
1166
01:03:54,068 --> 01:03:57,606
into killing her daughter.
1167
01:03:57,639 --> 01:04:01,510
What did you buy this for,
Mami?
1168
01:04:01,543 --> 01:04:04,546
My grandmother knew
what she was supposed to do.
1169
01:04:04,579 --> 01:04:08,016
She was supposed to sacrifice
her daughter
1170
01:04:08,050 --> 01:04:10,952
to the organization.
1171
01:04:10,985 --> 01:04:13,221
For hours and hours,
different doctors came in
1172
01:04:13,255 --> 01:04:15,758
and they were trying to, like,
tell her the mortal peril
1173
01:04:15,791 --> 01:04:17,959
she was putting my...
my mother in
1174
01:04:17,992 --> 01:04:20,630
by allowing her
to have this surgery
1175
01:04:20,662 --> 01:04:24,065
without any blood transfusion.
1176
01:04:24,099 --> 01:04:26,702
But still, even after
all those hours of deliberation,
1177
01:04:26,735 --> 01:04:29,805
my grandmother, of course,
said no blood
1178
01:04:29,838 --> 01:04:32,642
and signed off
on the consent form,
1179
01:04:32,675 --> 01:04:36,245
and that was it.
1180
01:04:39,782 --> 01:04:40,983
She passed away.
1181
01:04:51,026 --> 01:04:52,695
When my mother died,
1182
01:04:52,727 --> 01:04:54,963
that was pretty much
the last straw for me.
1183
01:04:54,997 --> 01:04:59,969
I had such a...
such a hard time reconciling
1184
01:05:00,001 --> 01:05:03,005
how somebody could do that
to their own child.
1185
01:05:03,037 --> 01:05:04,706
I took that as a sign, like,
1186
01:05:04,740 --> 01:05:07,209
my family means business
about this religion,
1187
01:05:07,242 --> 01:05:11,680
like, they're willing to
kill each other over this.
1188
01:05:26,794 --> 01:05:28,930
I'm going to go and try to talk
to my grandmother
1189
01:05:28,963 --> 01:05:32,901
about what happened
with my mother.
1190
01:05:32,934 --> 01:05:37,907
The last time I spoke to her
was over a year ago.
1191
01:05:37,939 --> 01:05:39,941
I just want to understand why.
1192
01:05:39,974 --> 01:05:41,943
I'm on my way
1193
01:05:41,977 --> 01:05:44,714
to go and confront
my grandmother.
1194
01:05:44,747 --> 01:05:47,049
It's been over a year
since I've seen her,
1195
01:05:47,081 --> 01:05:50,652
and I'm really hoping
that I can just have
1196
01:05:50,686 --> 01:05:52,921
at least a coherent
conversation with her.
1197
01:05:52,954 --> 01:05:55,056
Oh, shit, that's
my grandma's garage opening!
1198
01:05:55,090 --> 01:05:56,659
That's fantas...
Oh, fuck!
1199
01:05:56,691 --> 01:05:58,126
We can do it, all right.
1200
01:06:06,934 --> 01:06:08,670
Hi.
1201
01:06:20,849 --> 01:06:23,119
- Hi.
- Hi.
1202
01:06:23,151 --> 01:06:25,153
- Can I have a hug?
- Huh?
1203
01:06:25,186 --> 01:06:26,721
Can I have a hug?
1204
01:06:26,755 --> 01:06:29,825
It's been like a year
since I've seen you.
1205
01:06:29,858 --> 01:06:32,294
I'm sorry, I look... I just...
1206
01:06:32,327 --> 01:06:35,097
I just haven't seen you
in forever.
1207
01:06:35,130 --> 01:06:39,035
There's always been some stuff
I wanted to ask you, like...
1208
01:06:39,068 --> 01:06:40,369
about my mom.
1209
01:06:40,401 --> 01:06:43,104
When... when you had
to make that choice,
1210
01:06:43,137 --> 01:06:45,407
- was it hard?
- She chose.
1211
01:06:45,441 --> 01:06:47,009
And naturally I am happy.
1212
01:06:47,041 --> 01:06:48,376
- But it... it...
- To make the right decision.
1213
01:06:48,410 --> 01:06:50,146
- It didn't hurt?
- No.
1214
01:06:50,178 --> 01:06:52,148
It didn't hurt you
to do that?
1215
01:06:52,180 --> 01:06:54,082
- No, honey...
- Not at all?
1216
01:06:54,115 --> 01:06:55,784
That's what she wanted.
1217
01:06:55,818 --> 01:06:58,086
- She'll be resurrected.
- Yeah, but she wasn't even
1218
01:06:58,119 --> 01:06:59,988
a practicing Jehovah's Witness
at the time.
1219
01:07:00,021 --> 01:07:03,858
It doesn't matter.
She make a good choice.
1220
01:07:03,892 --> 01:07:06,062
- And I'm so happy.
- One more hug.
1221
01:07:06,095 --> 01:07:07,930
I'm sorry, I never
get to see you anymore.
1222
01:07:07,963 --> 01:07:10,399
- Okay. Well...
- I hope everything's okay.
1223
01:07:10,432 --> 01:07:13,002
- Remember, time is short...
- Time is short.
1224
01:07:13,035 --> 01:07:15,905
And you can see your mom again
1225
01:07:15,938 --> 01:07:18,907
because she is
going to be resurrected.
1226
01:07:26,347 --> 01:07:31,387
It's upsetting that a group
would control people this way.
1227
01:07:31,419 --> 01:07:34,122
So once it kind of hits them,
1228
01:07:34,155 --> 01:07:36,891
it's going through
the process of saying,
1229
01:07:36,925 --> 01:07:40,996
"I'm still here,
I'm still alive,
1230
01:07:41,028 --> 01:07:44,867
and I'm going to make
the most of this."
1231
01:07:44,900 --> 01:07:47,436
It becomes very important
to speak up
1232
01:07:47,468 --> 01:07:49,104
and everyone finds
their own way to do that.
1233
01:07:49,137 --> 01:07:51,306
A lot of Jehovah's Witnesses,
when you leave,
1234
01:07:51,340 --> 01:07:54,276
people are empowered now to say,
hey, this happened to me
1235
01:07:54,309 --> 01:07:56,312
and I'm going to speak up
about it because it was wrong.
1236
01:07:56,345 --> 01:07:59,082
And I don't want it to happen
to somebody else.
1237
01:08:00,948 --> 01:08:02,918
I've always wanted to crash
Kingdom Halls,
1238
01:08:02,950 --> 01:08:04,419
I've always wanted to go
in there
1239
01:08:04,452 --> 01:08:06,354
and say something to them.
1240
01:08:09,791 --> 01:08:11,893
I can't help but think about
all the people
1241
01:08:11,927 --> 01:08:14,829
that are still stuck
in the cult.
1242
01:08:14,863 --> 01:08:18,033
I'm planting some kind of
a seed.
1243
01:08:18,066 --> 01:08:21,837
I just want them to hear
some of what I'm saying.
1244
01:08:21,869 --> 01:08:24,239
They don't
have to hear everything,
1245
01:08:24,273 --> 01:08:27,343
just enough to make them think,
1246
01:08:27,375 --> 01:08:30,378
"Is that something
that's worth looking into?"
1247
01:08:34,982 --> 01:08:38,320
Jehovah, our Heavenly Father,
I come to you in prayer
1248
01:08:38,353 --> 01:08:40,122
and ask that you please
forgive us
1249
01:08:40,155 --> 01:08:42,124
for your ever
changing blood doctrine,
1250
01:08:42,156 --> 01:08:44,293
which has caused
so many needless deaths...
1251
01:08:44,326 --> 01:08:46,962
- No, no, no, no, no...
- Including that of my mother,
1252
01:08:46,995 --> 01:08:48,464
Elizabeth van Hassel!
1253
01:08:48,496 --> 01:08:50,532
- Please sit down...
- My mother died...
1254
01:08:50,566 --> 01:08:52,835
- Please step down.
- My mother died from the bu...
1255
01:08:52,867 --> 01:08:55,403
the blood doctor, her name is
Elizabeth van Hassel.
1256
01:08:55,437 --> 01:08:57,872
She was only 32 years old
when she passed away.
1257
01:08:57,906 --> 01:09:01,376
- You have a choice, you either...
- My mother, my... my mother died
1258
01:09:01,410 --> 01:09:06,115
because... because her mother...
actually, her mother made
1259
01:09:06,147 --> 01:09:09,951
the choice for her not to...
for her not to have blood.
1260
01:09:09,985 --> 01:09:12,822
Not only that, but there are
people that you are shunning...
1261
01:09:12,854 --> 01:09:14,189
- Right now, get off right now.
- And they are
1262
01:09:14,223 --> 01:09:15,424
- committing suicide...
- Get off.
1263
01:09:15,456 --> 01:09:17,192
Please don't shun your family
members!
1264
01:09:17,226 --> 01:09:19,495
Please, I beg you,
do not shun your family members,
1265
01:09:19,527 --> 01:09:21,396
we love you,
we care about you,
1266
01:09:21,429 --> 01:09:24,999
we don't want...
we don't want you to shun us.
1267
01:09:25,032 --> 01:09:26,501
We care about you.
1268
01:09:26,535 --> 01:09:29,004
Also...
1269
01:09:29,036 --> 01:09:31,439
- Sir, sir...
- Do you know...
1270
01:09:31,473 --> 01:09:33,475
Let go of you, sir,
you cannot be touching me.
1271
01:09:33,508 --> 01:09:35,878
Do you practice...
1272
01:09:35,911 --> 01:09:38,480
You're a Jehovah's Witness,
that is against the law.
1273
01:09:38,513 --> 01:09:42,885
I really want people to look at
my videos
1274
01:09:42,918 --> 01:09:47,121
and I want them to see
an example of what they can do.
1275
01:09:47,155 --> 01:09:51,227
I want them to see
a human being suffering
1276
01:09:51,259 --> 01:09:56,164
because it's very real
and it happens all the time.
1277
01:09:56,197 --> 01:09:58,566
I want them to see...
1278
01:09:58,599 --> 01:10:00,535
hell...
1279
01:10:00,568 --> 01:10:02,905
in a human...
1280
01:10:02,937 --> 01:10:05,039
And see what that does
to somebody.
1281
01:10:05,072 --> 01:10:07,442
Jehovah Witnesses are
continuing a more
1282
01:10:07,476 --> 01:10:10,478
than month-long convention
at the Santander Arena.
1283
01:10:10,512 --> 01:10:14,183
It's expected to draw more than
25,000 Jehovah Witnesses
1284
01:10:14,215 --> 01:10:18,286
from 218 congregations
in Pennsylvania.
1285
01:10:18,320 --> 01:10:22,892
Right when the convention
was starting on Sunday morning,
1286
01:10:22,924 --> 01:10:28,162
I was unattended, and I just
went on the ex-JW Reddit page,
1287
01:10:28,196 --> 01:10:32,401
and I just made a post that said
they were checking lapel badges
1288
01:10:32,433 --> 01:10:35,670
and making sure that
no protesters got inside
1289
01:10:35,704 --> 01:10:37,539
and started talking to people.
1290
01:10:37,571 --> 01:10:40,241
Thirty minutes into
the Sunday convention,
1291
01:10:40,275 --> 01:10:43,245
I see a comment
from John Redwood.
1292
01:10:46,481 --> 01:10:50,352
My abuser's rights were
protected and I was silenced.
1293
01:10:50,384 --> 01:10:53,254
My four year old daughter
was the molested
1294
01:10:53,287 --> 01:10:56,125
by teenage boy
in the Kingdom Hall.
1295
01:10:56,157 --> 01:11:00,128
It was very important to us
as parents of a survivor
1296
01:11:00,161 --> 01:11:03,231
of child sex abuse
to let other parents know
1297
01:11:03,264 --> 01:11:06,367
that there are abusers
in the organization.
1298
01:11:06,401 --> 01:11:09,638
These elders who sit here
on these judicial committees
1299
01:11:09,670 --> 01:11:11,439
who know of some of this stuff,
1300
01:11:11,473 --> 01:11:15,978
say at conventions and across
the stage at congregations
1301
01:11:16,010 --> 01:11:19,214
that we abstain
from this type of stuff.
1302
01:11:19,246 --> 01:11:21,316
Report it to the police,
not to the elders.
1303
01:11:21,349 --> 01:11:24,053
It's okay.
It's okay to read.
1304
01:11:24,085 --> 01:11:27,222
Thanks, guys.
Good morning.
1305
01:11:27,254 --> 01:11:30,692
Their stock response is that
Jehovah's Witnesses
1306
01:11:30,726 --> 01:11:32,695
abhor child abuse...
1307
01:11:32,728 --> 01:11:34,396
and they are correct.
1308
01:11:34,429 --> 01:11:37,399
They do abhor child abuse,
that's not the issue.
1309
01:11:37,432 --> 01:11:42,371
The issue is how do they handle
a child abuse allegation?
1310
01:11:47,009 --> 01:11:49,178
So here we have a group
of elders
1311
01:11:49,210 --> 01:11:52,080
that are debriefing a victim
who has said
1312
01:11:52,113 --> 01:11:55,084
that there were multiple men
sexually assaulting her,
1313
01:11:55,116 --> 01:11:58,019
going all the way back to
when she was four years of age.
1314
01:11:58,053 --> 01:11:59,421
"How old were you
when this happened?"
1315
01:11:59,454 --> 01:12:02,256
Answer, "Four years old."
"Did he do anything
1316
01:12:02,290 --> 01:12:04,560
of a sexual nature, like touch
your private parts?"
1317
01:12:04,593 --> 01:12:06,394
Answer, "Yes."
Can you tell us
1318
01:12:06,428 --> 01:12:09,430
who was in the room?"
Answer...
1319
01:12:09,464 --> 01:12:12,568
who was convicted of raping
his half sister
1320
01:12:12,601 --> 01:12:16,571
a blond man was there, a red
haired man with a red beard
1321
01:12:16,604 --> 01:12:20,209
and who is
the main perpetrator
1322
01:12:20,241 --> 01:12:22,043
in the Palmer Leaks case.
1323
01:12:22,076 --> 01:12:23,611
These documents represent
the fact
1324
01:12:23,644 --> 01:12:26,548
that there was an internal
investigation at great depth
1325
01:12:26,580 --> 01:12:30,251
into the crimes committed
by this perpetrator
1326
01:12:30,285 --> 01:12:34,023
and other perpetrators who
were also Jehovah's Witnesses.
1327
01:12:37,358 --> 01:12:40,361
The package of documents
from Judas
1328
01:12:40,394 --> 01:12:45,133
contained multiple cases
of child sexual abuse,
1329
01:12:45,166 --> 01:12:47,803
none of which were ever
turned over to the police
1330
01:12:47,835 --> 01:12:50,338
by the congregation elders.
1331
01:12:53,407 --> 01:12:55,076
There was one case
in particular
1332
01:12:55,110 --> 01:12:56,711
called the Palmer Leaks,
1333
01:12:56,745 --> 01:13:01,215
and this involved the Palmer
congregation in Massachusetts.
1334
01:13:01,249 --> 01:13:05,320
What we discover is that
the two daughters of this man,
1335
01:13:05,353 --> 01:13:07,489
who was an elder
for some period of time,
1336
01:13:07,522 --> 01:13:13,762
had been viciously and severely
abused by their father.
1337
01:13:13,795 --> 01:13:18,100
I knew that Palmer congregation
is just one congregation.
1338
01:13:18,133 --> 01:13:20,369
I also knew that
there were hundreds,
1339
01:13:20,402 --> 01:13:24,673
maybe tens of thousands of cases
that were not released.
1340
01:13:24,705 --> 01:13:30,511
And this was just one case...
a sample, so to speak.
1341
01:13:30,545 --> 01:13:33,782
I had no choice
but to do something about it.
1342
01:13:33,814 --> 01:13:36,117
If I didn't speak up,
1343
01:13:36,151 --> 01:13:39,088
then this information
would be buried forever.
1344
01:13:53,134 --> 01:13:56,472
When the Palmer Leaks came out,
it was a big story.
1345
01:13:56,504 --> 01:13:59,140
It was picked up by media
all over the world.
1346
01:14:03,512 --> 01:14:07,648
The documents were incendiary
because these were essentially
1347
01:14:07,682 --> 01:14:12,420
the first time that copies
of database documents
1348
01:14:12,454 --> 01:14:14,122
were seen by the public.
1349
01:14:14,156 --> 01:14:15,890
By any estimation,
there are
1350
01:14:15,924 --> 01:14:19,161
tens of thousands
of people named in the database.
1351
01:14:19,193 --> 01:14:21,562
This was just a sample
of what people imagined
1352
01:14:21,595 --> 01:14:23,131
could be in the database.
1353
01:14:23,165 --> 01:14:25,134
The reason why I think
they're so adamant
1354
01:14:25,166 --> 01:14:27,702
in protecting these files
is because they must have
1355
01:14:27,736 --> 01:14:31,240
a concern with what these files
are going to tell the world
1356
01:14:31,272 --> 01:14:33,307
about their organization
1357
01:14:33,340 --> 01:14:36,178
and how they don't
protect children,
1358
01:14:36,210 --> 01:14:38,847
and instead protect
these pedophiles...
1359
01:14:38,879 --> 01:14:41,717
and their "brand,"
if you will.
1360
01:14:41,750 --> 01:14:44,386
Watchtower has sued
the organization
1361
01:14:44,419 --> 01:14:48,357
who was actually hosting
the documents.
1362
01:14:48,389 --> 01:14:51,860
But as a result of the release
of those documents
1363
01:14:51,893 --> 01:14:53,695
to not only the public,
but to the police,
1364
01:14:53,728 --> 01:14:57,265
there is now
an investigation by the police.
1365
01:15:03,571 --> 01:15:08,209
What it boils down to is people
seeing first hand
1366
01:15:08,242 --> 01:15:10,379
a serious, serious problem
1367
01:15:10,411 --> 01:15:13,381
that is not otherwise
ever going to be addressed
1368
01:15:13,415 --> 01:15:15,817
by this large institution
that's behind it.
1369
01:15:15,849 --> 01:15:19,353
I am on a mission... I haven't
seen or talked to my mother
1370
01:15:19,387 --> 01:15:22,291
maybe three or four times
in the last three or four years.
1371
01:15:22,323 --> 01:15:23,959
We set up a loose time
and a loose date for us
1372
01:15:23,991 --> 01:15:26,861
to meet up for coffee
on the weekend; she disappears.
1373
01:15:26,894 --> 01:15:29,363
I just...
I just don't hear from her.
1374
01:15:29,397 --> 01:15:31,366
She wasn't there,
and I end up finding out why,
1375
01:15:31,398 --> 01:15:32,800
because she knew
I would be there,
1376
01:15:32,834 --> 01:15:35,504
it would be too painful
for her to see.
1377
01:15:35,536 --> 01:15:39,273
Instead, I ran into
one of my abusers.
1378
01:15:39,307 --> 01:15:41,476
I didn't see him
until the very end.
1379
01:15:41,509 --> 01:15:44,379
I just remember feeling, like,
really angry and just upset.
1380
01:15:44,411 --> 01:15:48,816
It infuriated me because...
1381
01:15:52,687 --> 01:15:56,325
You know, this guy...
1382
01:15:56,357 --> 01:15:59,860
who fucked up my childhood...
1383
01:15:59,893 --> 01:16:01,463
I kept thinking about, like,
1384
01:16:01,495 --> 01:16:03,531
"What about the next kid,"
you know?
1385
01:16:03,564 --> 01:16:05,800
Ended up finding out
something happened
1386
01:16:05,834 --> 01:16:07,603
and I couldn't be there
to protect him.
1387
01:16:11,673 --> 01:16:14,675
You know,
I couldn't be there to...
1388
01:16:14,709 --> 01:16:16,311
protect my family.
1389
01:16:16,344 --> 01:16:21,350
I just felt, like,
useless and powerless because...
1390
01:16:21,383 --> 01:16:23,818
That's how the system is built,
it's for these child abusers
1391
01:16:23,852 --> 01:16:26,488
to get away with this shit.
1392
01:16:26,521 --> 01:16:29,691
Watchtower's legal department
looks for a loophole
1393
01:16:29,723 --> 01:16:32,460
in how to escape
mandatory reporting...
1394
01:16:32,494 --> 01:16:34,830
because most states
have mandatory reporting.
1395
01:16:34,862 --> 01:16:39,700
The Jehovah's Witnesses argue
that all of this information,
1396
01:16:39,733 --> 01:16:41,436
by their religious tenets,
1397
01:16:41,469 --> 01:16:43,772
are... is to be kept
confidential
1398
01:16:43,804 --> 01:16:46,540
no matter who gets to see it.
1399
01:16:46,573 --> 01:16:50,445
They tell the elders, you have
no obligation to report.
1400
01:16:50,478 --> 01:16:52,581
That's their loophole that they
made and they stuck to.
1401
01:16:52,613 --> 01:16:56,718
They want to manage
their own judicial process,
1402
01:16:56,750 --> 01:16:59,353
which includes child abuse,
and because of that,
1403
01:16:59,387 --> 01:17:02,390
we have this conflict
between church and state.
1404
01:17:04,491 --> 01:17:07,461
I think they've become
much more entrenched,
1405
01:17:07,495 --> 01:17:09,031
they've become
much more defiant.
1406
01:17:09,063 --> 01:17:14,735
They have done very little
to improve the risk factors
1407
01:17:14,768 --> 01:17:18,339
that would lead up
to child sexual abuse.
1408
01:17:36,590 --> 01:17:38,492
After the Atlantic article
came out,
1409
01:17:38,526 --> 01:17:40,495
the very next day,
1410
01:17:40,527 --> 01:17:43,597
two elders
from our local congregation
1411
01:17:43,630 --> 01:17:47,436
made multiple attempts
to reach us.
1412
01:17:47,469 --> 01:17:50,372
It was obvious
they were trying to bully us
1413
01:17:50,405 --> 01:17:54,375
and to hold us accountable
for speaking out.
1414
01:17:56,577 --> 01:17:59,447
My article for The Atlantic
was a larger look
1415
01:17:59,481 --> 01:18:00,881
at the Jehovah's Witness
organization,
1416
01:18:00,915 --> 01:18:02,517
at the religion,
1417
01:18:02,549 --> 01:18:04,518
at their
child sexual abuse issues,
1418
01:18:04,552 --> 01:18:07,522
and it was also a profile
of Mark O'Donnell.
1419
01:18:07,554 --> 01:18:12,960
The Atlantic article was
released March 22nd, 2019,
1420
01:18:12,994 --> 01:18:15,664
and exactly one day later,
1421
01:18:15,696 --> 01:18:18,999
there were two elders
that came to our front door.
1422
01:18:19,032 --> 01:18:21,836
The two elders that had come
to my home
1423
01:18:21,870 --> 01:18:24,372
were elders that we were
very familiar with.
1424
01:18:24,406 --> 01:18:27,743
In fact, the first elder
was the elder
1425
01:18:27,776 --> 01:18:30,679
who conducted
our marriage ceremony
1426
01:18:30,711 --> 01:18:35,351
and now he's at our door
and we were not there.
1427
01:18:37,585 --> 01:18:41,089
Within a few weeks, we had
received two certified letters,
1428
01:18:41,121 --> 01:18:43,724
one to Kimmy,
one addressed to me,
1429
01:18:43,758 --> 01:18:45,794
and those letters were
basically demanding
1430
01:18:45,826 --> 01:18:47,161
that we come to
a judicial hearing
1431
01:18:47,195 --> 01:18:50,098
at the Perry Hall Kingdom Hall
1432
01:18:50,130 --> 01:18:52,733
on the charge
of causing divisions.
1433
01:18:52,767 --> 01:18:55,836
They felt that we were somehow
disrupting the congregation
1434
01:18:55,870 --> 01:18:58,840
or causing divisions.
1435
01:18:58,872 --> 01:19:03,178
I knew that they were seeking
our disfellowshipping.
1436
01:19:03,210 --> 01:19:07,681
I really didn't care as much
as I did care about the effect
1437
01:19:07,714 --> 01:19:10,818
that it had
on my elderly mother.
1438
01:19:10,852 --> 01:19:13,822
She is a faithful Witness
and she has a very strong belief
1439
01:19:13,854 --> 01:19:15,689
in the Bible
and the resurrection.
1440
01:19:15,723 --> 01:19:17,826
She doesn't have
any other children.
1441
01:19:17,858 --> 01:19:21,929
So we are the only family
that she has.
1442
01:19:21,963 --> 01:19:24,499
It would really hurt her to know
1443
01:19:24,531 --> 01:19:27,701
that her only son
has been disfellowshipped
1444
01:19:27,735 --> 01:19:31,939
and can no longer speak
to any Witnesses whatsoever.
1445
01:19:35,910 --> 01:19:38,479
As mentioned, we do have
quite a few announcements,
1446
01:19:38,513 --> 01:19:40,015
so please bear with me.
1447
01:19:40,048 --> 01:19:41,750
First, this is to inform
the congregation
1448
01:19:41,782 --> 01:19:43,751
that Mark O'Donnell
is no longer
1449
01:19:43,785 --> 01:19:45,153
one of Jehovah's Witnesses.
1450
01:19:45,186 --> 01:19:46,987
And this is to inform
the congregation
1451
01:19:47,021 --> 01:19:48,689
that Kimberly O'Donnell
is no longer
1452
01:19:48,723 --> 01:19:50,459
one of Jehovah's Witnesses.
1453
01:20:07,775 --> 01:20:10,812
I'm not a fool,
I know that the organization
1454
01:20:10,844 --> 01:20:14,782
goes after whistleblowers...
it has for decades.
1455
01:20:14,816 --> 01:20:17,018
Anyone who speaks out against
the organization
1456
01:20:17,050 --> 01:20:21,589
or its policies,
they will be disfellowshipped.
1457
01:20:21,622 --> 01:20:23,959
I really feel that the timing
of our disfellowshipping
1458
01:20:23,991 --> 01:20:26,660
says a lot about
this organization,
1459
01:20:26,693 --> 01:20:29,030
the fact that we would
speak our truth
1460
01:20:29,062 --> 01:20:31,532
and tell our story
in The Atlantic
1461
01:20:31,566 --> 01:20:34,970
and we were disfellowshipped,
1462
01:20:35,003 --> 01:20:36,571
It says a lot about the lengths
1463
01:20:36,603 --> 01:20:38,673
that the organization
of Jehovah's Witnesses
1464
01:20:38,705 --> 01:20:40,207
will go to,
1465
01:20:40,241 --> 01:20:43,512
to chase down
a whistleblower.
1466
01:20:43,545 --> 01:20:45,680
Mark has absolutely had
a huge impact
1467
01:20:45,713 --> 01:20:47,616
and is likely to...
1468
01:20:47,648 --> 01:20:48,916
I think... I think Mark
is at the very beginning
1469
01:20:48,950 --> 01:20:50,552
of what he's doing;
I think
1470
01:20:50,585 --> 01:20:52,787
in the next 10
to 20 years,
1471
01:20:52,820 --> 01:20:55,557
we're going to see
the real breadth of impact
1472
01:20:55,589 --> 01:20:57,092
that Mark is going to have.
1473
01:20:57,125 --> 01:20:58,827
We'll continue
to do what we can
1474
01:20:58,860 --> 01:21:00,896
to bring about transparency
1475
01:21:00,929 --> 01:21:02,564
and bring about change
1476
01:21:02,597 --> 01:21:07,736
and to be... be here
to support people as they leave.
1477
01:21:07,768 --> 01:21:09,970
We had been married 15 years
1478
01:21:10,004 --> 01:21:13,575
before we really opened up
to one another.
1479
01:21:18,012 --> 01:21:21,883
You can leave and be happy.
1480
01:21:21,915 --> 01:21:23,784
And I'm happy.
1481
01:21:27,821 --> 01:21:29,957
I'm still terrified of what
my family is going to say,
1482
01:21:29,991 --> 01:21:34,563
because, you know, I crash
all those halls and everything
1483
01:21:34,595 --> 01:21:36,897
and I go out
and I protest and everything,
1484
01:21:36,930 --> 01:21:40,201
but I didn't really
fully understand myself
1485
01:21:40,233 --> 01:21:42,771
until actually just recently.
1486
01:21:42,804 --> 01:21:48,276
I'm finally out as being a man,
1487
01:21:48,308 --> 01:21:49,910
I can't believe it took
that long,
1488
01:21:49,943 --> 01:21:52,847
like, I still can't believe
it took that long.
1489
01:21:52,879 --> 01:21:55,816
So, yeah, my family
would not be very pleased
1490
01:21:55,849 --> 01:21:59,620
if they knew that not only
am I trans, but I'm also gay.
1491
01:21:59,653 --> 01:22:03,592
I think that'll shut
the door forever.
1492
01:22:10,999 --> 01:22:15,202
It feels terrible, feels awful
to know that the mother
1493
01:22:15,236 --> 01:22:18,273
that is supposed to love you
1494
01:22:18,305 --> 01:22:20,976
doesn't want to see you because
you changed your beliefs.
1495
01:22:25,713 --> 01:22:28,183
I don't know if I'll have a
relationship with my mom again.
1496
01:22:28,215 --> 01:22:31,753
It's been years.
1497
01:22:31,786 --> 01:22:34,356
That's probably my biggest fear
is, um,
1498
01:22:34,388 --> 01:22:37,358
her passing away
1499
01:22:37,392 --> 01:22:40,362
and me finding out months
or years later.
1500
01:22:41,829 --> 01:22:43,932
I wish that she could be
a part of my life,
1501
01:22:43,964 --> 01:22:45,366
I wish that she could,
you know,
1502
01:22:45,400 --> 01:22:47,669
see the production company
I'm doing,
1503
01:22:47,701 --> 01:22:51,639
and even see the activism
and see how good it is.
1504
01:22:51,673 --> 01:22:53,808
I wish she could see
the good things.
1505
01:23:02,082 --> 01:23:04,018
Here we go!
1506
01:23:04,052 --> 01:23:06,121
All right.
Second or first?
1507
01:23:13,260 --> 01:23:15,830
After we left the organization,
1508
01:23:15,862 --> 01:23:18,165
it was nice to just exist
as Mark and Kimmy
1509
01:23:18,198 --> 01:23:21,835
and figure out who we were
and what we liked
1510
01:23:21,869 --> 01:23:25,139
and... and find that...
that connection.
1511
01:23:25,173 --> 01:23:26,775
- Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- You're at base, Kimmy.
1512
01:23:26,808 --> 01:23:28,143
Am I up?
1513
01:23:28,175 --> 01:23:29,777
- Probably not.
- It's supposed to rain, I think?
1514
01:23:29,811 --> 01:23:31,780
- My legs hurt.
- Tomorrow it's supposed to rain.
1515
01:23:31,812 --> 01:23:33,914
You can be friends
with non-Witnesses
1516
01:23:33,947 --> 01:23:36,418
and they're not going
to rob you or rape you.
1517
01:23:46,193 --> 01:23:47,327
There we go, there we go!
1518
01:23:47,361 --> 01:23:49,229
Great, great, great, great!
1519
01:23:49,263 --> 01:23:52,300
News alert... according to
their terminology
1520
01:23:52,332 --> 01:23:53,934
and their doctrine,
1521
01:23:53,968 --> 01:23:56,470
Mark and I will not be
part of the new system.
1522
01:23:56,504 --> 01:24:00,308
Come on, Mark!
Get ready to run!
1523
01:24:00,340 --> 01:24:03,210
Nice shot, nice shot!
1524
01:24:03,244 --> 01:24:05,280
We will be, um...
1525
01:24:05,312 --> 01:24:07,314
killed here at Armageddon
1526
01:24:07,348 --> 01:24:09,217
if we don't die before then.
1527
01:24:09,250 --> 01:24:11,386
We've had our final judgment.
1528
01:24:11,419 --> 01:24:13,955
Yeah...
Yeah.
1529
01:24:13,987 --> 01:24:16,223
But we do have freedom.
1530
01:24:16,256 --> 01:24:19,094
Freedom of thought,
freedom to do what we want.
1531
01:24:19,126 --> 01:24:22,263
Right, so no longer
living this temporary life,
1532
01:24:22,295 --> 01:24:24,264
we're having fun, we're enjoying
ourselves, we have,
1533
01:24:24,298 --> 01:24:26,134
you know, real relationships.
1534
01:24:26,166 --> 01:24:27,968
So now we're living.
1535
01:24:43,183 --> 01:24:45,853
Until a watchtower accepts
that this is not
1536
01:24:45,887 --> 01:24:47,822
strictly a moral failing,
1537
01:24:47,854 --> 01:24:50,825
that there is
a psychological problem
1538
01:24:50,857 --> 01:24:53,827
and that these people need help,
they need medical attention,
1539
01:24:53,861 --> 01:24:57,432
they need to be reported
to the authorities...
1540
01:24:57,464 --> 01:24:59,833
this is going to continue
to happen.
1541
01:24:59,866 --> 01:25:03,837
I think if... if developments
keep coming at the pace
1542
01:25:03,870 --> 01:25:05,439
and rate that they have so far,
1543
01:25:05,473 --> 01:25:08,343
within a few years' time
we'll be looking at,
1544
01:25:08,375 --> 01:25:10,945
you know,
one of the largest cover ups
1545
01:25:10,978 --> 01:25:14,849
of religious institutionalized
sexual abuse
1546
01:25:14,881 --> 01:25:17,152
that anyone has ever heard of.
1547
01:25:17,184 --> 01:25:21,321
If they had reported it
immediately to the authorities,
1548
01:25:21,354 --> 01:25:24,526
it would have prevented other
children from getting molested.
1549
01:25:24,558 --> 01:25:29,797
I have publicly made
this statement since 2002,
1550
01:25:29,830 --> 01:25:33,000
that it is not just a sin,
1551
01:25:33,034 --> 01:25:34,501
it's a crime,
1552
01:25:34,535 --> 01:25:37,972
and you report crime
to the authorities.
1553
01:25:38,004 --> 01:25:40,507
The organization has changed
over time.
1554
01:25:40,540 --> 01:25:42,342
They've been forced to:
they predicted the end of
1555
01:25:42,375 --> 01:25:44,178
the world, and the end of
the world hasn't come.
1556
01:25:44,211 --> 01:25:45,580
So they... they've changed.
1557
01:25:45,612 --> 01:25:47,981
They can change.
1558
01:25:48,014 --> 01:25:51,820
But so far,
they've shown no appetite
1559
01:25:51,853 --> 01:25:54,989
to change in these areas.
1560
01:26:00,061 --> 01:26:02,130
The scriptures are very clear:
1561
01:26:02,162 --> 01:26:05,400
before a judicial committee
can be convened,
1562
01:26:05,433 --> 01:26:09,571
there has to be a confession
or two witnesses,
1563
01:26:09,603 --> 01:26:11,338
so we will never
1564
01:26:11,371 --> 01:26:15,242
change our scriptural position
on that subject.
1565
01:26:23,351 --> 01:26:25,420
And we get rid of all drafts.
1566
01:26:25,452 --> 01:26:27,487
We... we no longer keep drafts.
1567
01:26:27,521 --> 01:26:29,490
So once we've finalized
our document,
1568
01:26:29,522 --> 01:26:31,124
we clean out all the drafts.
1569
01:26:31,157 --> 01:26:32,893
And the reason is,
is because there's many comments
1570
01:26:32,927 --> 01:26:34,996
that are sometimes
made on drafts.
1571
01:26:35,028 --> 01:26:36,496
Those are the ones
that get us in trouble.
1572
01:26:36,530 --> 01:26:39,032
Well, we know that the scene
of this world is changing
1573
01:26:39,066 --> 01:26:41,169
and we know Satan's
coming after us.
1574
01:26:41,201 --> 01:26:44,171
And he's going to go
for us legally.
1575
01:26:48,409 --> 01:26:51,079
I want to be
whoever I want to be,
1576
01:26:51,112 --> 01:26:53,381
and that's why I left.
1577
01:26:53,414 --> 01:26:55,383
Better your life,
better yourself
1578
01:26:55,415 --> 01:26:59,186
without that organization.
1579
01:26:59,219 --> 01:27:02,089
This is a brand new world
for me and my family,
1580
01:27:02,122 --> 01:27:03,290
but it's exciting.
1581
01:27:03,323 --> 01:27:05,026
I couldn't be happier now
1582
01:27:05,058 --> 01:27:08,963
to be able to share my story
and my trip with you.
1583
01:27:08,995 --> 01:27:10,364
The world needs to see that
1584
01:27:10,397 --> 01:27:12,532
the Jehovah's Witnesses
do not give a shit.
1585
01:27:12,566 --> 01:27:14,402
I hope that it helps
somebody out there,
1586
01:27:14,434 --> 01:27:17,205
that it touches some person who
is still stuck in the cold.
1587
01:27:17,237 --> 01:27:19,473
There's so much to do
in this world.
1588
01:27:19,506 --> 01:27:20,974
It's a much bigger place
1589
01:27:21,008 --> 01:27:22,610
than the Witnesses
make to seem to be,
1590
01:27:22,643 --> 01:27:24,345
and a much more loving place.
1591
01:27:35,807 --> 01:27:40,807
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