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For today's kids, it's easy
to get a complete picture
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of the adults in your life.
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Maybe even too complete.
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But growing up in 1985,
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we had to work with
the information we were given.
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And some family members
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were easier to figure out than others.
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I knew my parents loved
social justice, pescetarianism,
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and wearing socks with sandals.
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And I knew my Aunt Dee-Dee
worked at Pan Am,
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loved her stories,
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and had what she called
"a lot of guy friends."
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But when it came to my granddad,
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the details were kind of... one-note.
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God, he loved that Ferrari.
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I wonder if the Smurfs' commune
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ever got raided by the ATF.
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Who wants $5?
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Granddad!
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Sorry, Dad says you can't
give us any more money.
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Narc.
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So, I hope you brought
gifts we can pawn.
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I brought something even better.
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'Cause I'm gonna take you guys
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to Family Day at the country club.
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My country club... Twin Rivers.
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It's got tennis courts,
a golf course, two pools,
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and it's up on a hill,
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so you can literally look down
on the poor side of town.
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Is that ice cream on fire?
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- Did you say "ice cream"?
- Did you say "fire"?
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That's Baked Alaska.
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You can order as many of them
at the club as you want.
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Most of my experiences with
my granddad had been at home,
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so I was excited
to see him in his element
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and hopeful that I might finally get
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a more complete view of who he was.
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Hey. What's all the excitement about?
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If it's about Daddy's squash,
I hate to disappoint you,
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- but the flea beetles got there first.
- Mm.
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We're going to Granddad's
country club for Family Day.
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The country club?
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Absolutely not.
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? In the mix ?
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? Oh, oh, oh, they keep trying ?
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? But they can't stop us ?
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? 'Cause we got a love ?
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? That keeps rising up ?
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? In the mix ?
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? Life turns around ?
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? 'Round and 'round it goes ?
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? Ooh, it's a mixed-up world ?
? Ooh, it's a mixed-up ?
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? And that's for sure ?
? Mixed-up ?
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? In the mix ?
? Baby ?
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? We're gonna get by ?
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? We're gonna ?
? On our own, side by side ?
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? Love's all we need to be free ?
? Lo-o-o-ve is all ?
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? I got you, you got me ?
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? Yaaaaay us! ?
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? I-I-In the mix ?
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? Yaaaaay us! ?
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? I-I-In the mix-ish ?
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Come on, Paul, what is so bad
about the country club?
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You were practically raised there.
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No one there looks like
my family, do they?
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Of course not.
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I mean, these clubs haven't
been the most excited
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about letting people like me inside.
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Well, technically...
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Unless they're working.
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Okay.
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But times have changed.
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Now the club is very diverse.
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We got doctors, lawyers.
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We even have a ginger.
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He can't use the pool, though.
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The sun is not his friend.
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I hate to say it,
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but Alicia's white husband is right...
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those clubs are racist.
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First, they didn't let in black people,
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then Jewish people,
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magicians...
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though I get that one.
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Don't trick me and expect me to clap.
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Shame on you.
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- Thank you, Denise.
- Mm-hmm.
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And that is why we are not going.
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Hold on. We can go?
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And the "we" includes me?
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Then forget everything
I was just saying.
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Wait, why do you want to go?
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Because Mama and Daddy
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never, ever, ever would have
been allowed to go there.
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It's called reparations.
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I'm gonna get my 40 crab legs
and a Moscow Mule.
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Look, uh, I didn't say anything
when you wouldn't let me
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take the kids to see
"Back to the Future"
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because it showed a white man
inventing rock 'n' roll.
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And I didn't say anything
when you tried to stop me
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from buying them the View-Master
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because it had the word "master" in it.
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But I'm putting my foot down on this
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because the club is actually
something I care about,
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it's a big part of my life,
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and I want to share it
with my grandkids.
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Well, when I put my foot down,
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I put my foot down,
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and we're not going.
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Now, if you'll excuse me,
I lost a bet with Santi,
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and I have to pick up her toys.
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I feel like I'm already learning so much
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about Granddad Harrison.
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Did you know he wore shorts?
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I didn't even know he had legs.
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Guys, we don't know Granddad at all.
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He's more than just a man in a suit
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who makes Dad feel bad about himself.
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He also likes to whistle at the honeys.
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Look, we need to go
to that country club.
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It could be the only chance we have
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to learn more about him.
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Yeah, he's really old.
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Like... 40.
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I think Denise is right.
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We should go to the club.
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But, babe, you just said
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those clubs aren't excited
about having us there.
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And neither were
the lunch counters in the South
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that we fought hard to sit at.
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I remember how I felt
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not being allowed
to go to certain places.
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I don't want our kids to ever feel that.
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This is important for them.
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What's really going on?
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Nothing.
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Something is up.
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You just missed a chance to tell me
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about how you sat with Dr. King
at the lunch counter.
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It's like my dad hasn't
accepted that I've changed.
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And inviting us to
a lily-white country club
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is just proof that
he doesn't get my family.
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Let's show them who we are.
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And who knows?
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You and them might have fun.
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I mean, I know I will.
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Like Denise said,
I'm getting my 40 crab legs.
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You know, this could be
like when we first met.
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You mean when we siphoned the gas
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out of all those police cars?
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Yeah, the rush of tearing down
the establishment
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- demanding equality...
- Mm.
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...protesting the patriarchy.
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Mm.
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You should probably keep that on.
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Ooh, it's so sexy
when you care about my edges.
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We've been talking and...
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- Oh!
- Uh...
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- Kids, we're going to the club.
- Yeah.
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Yay!
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- Go to your room. Now. Goodnight.
- Don't even brush. Just go.
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I knew my granddad was rich,
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but this country club was another level.
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Ever been to a place where you can feel
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your credit score go up
just by looking at it?
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That was this.
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And we hadn't even gone inside yet.
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Here we go.
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- Ooh.
- Wow.
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I want to get married here.
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A bunch of times.
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Look at this, Dee.
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Mama and Daddy wouldn't believe it.
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I haven't eaten for 72 hours
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in preparations for my reparations.
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Oh, I'm ready to stick it to the man
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and show this place what I've become,
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whether they like it or not.
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Fun journey, but don't
mess this up for us.
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I'm not leaving before I taste
and touch everything.
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Hey, kids!
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- Grandpa!
- Come here!
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Wow, Granddad, your house is huge.
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I want to see everything
and meet your friends and...
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Whoa, slow down, Bowdie. We got all day.
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- Ready to make waves, babe?
- You know me, baby.
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You two go have fun.
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We'll be on the patio.
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Now, can you point me
to the poncho check?
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Uh-oh. Here come the management.
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Hi. Can I take your order?
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Oh. You're the waiter?
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You absolutely can take our order.
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And you can take my dry-cleaning.
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Now, what's market price today?
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- The crab legs.
- Oh, we'll have all of them.
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And french fries for the table.
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And I'll have what that nice white lady
is having over there.
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That's our French onion soup.
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Oh, I meant literally,
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I want to have what she's having.
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I want you to go over there,
snatch it from her,
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and bring it back to me.
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Being the only black guests
at the country club,
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my mom expected
to attract some attention.
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I don't even like bread.
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What she didn't expect
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was that most of that attention
came from black employees.
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I mean, they were proud to have
black people there
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but expected them
to act right in public.
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That's the way my mom was raised.
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Denise, Alicia,
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you better not embarrass me in
front of all these white people.
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While my Aunt Dee-Dee
stayed true to her rebel ways,
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my mom was snapped right back
into worrying
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about getting in trouble.
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Larry, can we have
some more bread, please?
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So sorry about that. Thank you, Larry.
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Yeah, thank you, Larry.
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Your dad came here
every Saturday for 17 years.
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Yeah, Rainbow, that was until I realized
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I could do much more for the world
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outside of these gates.
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I was already learning
so much about my granddad,
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like how he and all
his rich white friends
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called each other by their full names.
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- Fred Burnish.
- Harrison Jackson.
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Bowdie, watch this.
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Good to see you.
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Mm-hmm.
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You see how he didn't say "thank you"?
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A lot of the members here
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forget to treat the staff like people.
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Cucumber sandwich, sir?
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Sir? No, please, please, call me Paul.
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And you shouldn't be
serving me a sandwich.
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You're a human being, with dignity,
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- just like any of us.
- It's really okay.
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- Well, you know, I can take these...
- No, I got it, sir...
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- ...myself and I'll serve my...
- Sir, you don't need to ser...
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- Thank you, but no thank you...
- If you just give me th... I'll just...
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I'll grab that, and...
Thank you so much.
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We'd all just be better off
if we did our own part. Mmm!
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I have to throw away
everything you touched.
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Paul Jackson, it's been years.
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- How have you been?
- Oh.
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I-I'm shocked you recognize me.
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I'm so different.
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Not just the outside,
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but my soul has done a complete 180.
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You know, the old Paul would've
named his daughter Betty.
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New Paul... I named my daughter
Rainbow Johnson.
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She took her mother's last name
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because the new Paul is also a feminist.
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Ah.
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Hi, Fred Burnish.
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Pleasure to meet you, Rainbow.
258
00:09:22,007 --> 00:09:23,874
Harrison Jackson here
won't stop bragging
259
00:09:23,976 --> 00:09:25,876
about you and your beautiful family.
260
00:09:25,944 --> 00:09:28,011
Oh, wow, Dad.
261
00:09:28,113 --> 00:09:30,414
- I had no idea.
- Don't ruin your mascara.
262
00:09:30,482 --> 00:09:31,448
So, you're off to the court?
263
00:09:31,517 --> 00:09:33,316
Uh, yeah, I got a date
with George Woodcomb.
264
00:09:33,419 --> 00:09:34,618
We can make it doubles
265
00:09:34,686 --> 00:09:36,472
if you two want to lose a little money.
266
00:09:36,519 --> 00:09:37,821
Oh, okay.
267
00:09:37,890 --> 00:09:39,340
You know how you love tennis.
268
00:09:39,386 --> 00:09:41,958
- Nah.
- Come on, Dad. It sounds like fun.
269
00:09:43,829 --> 00:09:45,295
Okay. Sure.
270
00:09:45,397 --> 00:09:46,930
- Let's give it a shot.
- All right!
271
00:09:47,032 --> 00:09:48,698
So, while we had a plan,
272
00:09:48,767 --> 00:09:51,740
Johan and Santi were left
to explore Twin Rivers.
273
00:09:54,958 --> 00:09:57,881
I live in the cold weather.
274
00:09:57,943 --> 00:10:02,292
My husband makes people
sleep vith the fishes.
275
00:10:08,053 --> 00:10:10,153
Cool.
276
00:10:13,592 --> 00:10:14,791
Mm!
277
00:10:14,893 --> 00:10:16,726
Oh, thank you so much.
278
00:10:16,795 --> 00:10:18,628
Oh, it's in the shell.
279
00:10:18,697 --> 00:10:19,929
I don't want to make a mess.
280
00:10:19,983 --> 00:10:21,702
Would you like me to take it
to the kitchen
281
00:10:21,779 --> 00:10:24,341
- and shell it for you?
- Would you also like my purse?
282
00:10:24,436 --> 00:10:25,602
- Denise.
- What?
283
00:10:25,671 --> 00:10:26,703
You think he's gonna go back there
284
00:10:26,772 --> 00:10:28,038
and get that crab meat out
in the kitchen
285
00:10:28,107 --> 00:10:30,240
and not get a taste?
286
00:10:30,342 --> 00:10:31,808
Oh.
287
00:10:33,011 --> 00:10:34,678
All right.
288
00:10:36,381 --> 00:10:38,482
You're not gonna use the tools? Okay.
289
00:10:38,584 --> 00:10:39,850
Mm. Good one, sis.
290
00:10:39,918 --> 00:10:42,085
What's next? You expect me to
stop eating when I'm full?
291
00:10:42,154 --> 00:10:43,653
Mmm.
292
00:10:43,755 --> 00:10:45,088
Mm.
293
00:10:45,157 --> 00:10:46,423
Oh, gosh.
294
00:10:46,492 --> 00:10:47,924
- People are watching.
- Mmm!
295
00:10:48,026 --> 00:10:49,292
Good.
296
00:10:49,361 --> 00:10:50,927
- Mmm.
- Mommy!
297
00:10:51,029 --> 00:10:52,095
Oh!
298
00:10:52,197 --> 00:10:54,197
What happened? You two are filthy.
299
00:10:54,266 --> 00:10:57,748
Yeah, rich people's dirt is just
as dirty as regular dirt.
300
00:10:57,795 --> 00:11:00,003
Don't worry, I washed my hands.
301
00:11:00,072 --> 00:11:01,138
Now, crab me!
302
00:11:01,206 --> 00:11:02,339
- Here you go.
- Yeah.
303
00:11:02,407 --> 00:11:04,841
Thank you very much.
304
00:11:08,647 --> 00:11:09,613
Use your muscles.
305
00:11:09,715 --> 00:11:11,114
Get in there, baby.
306
00:11:11,984 --> 00:11:13,283
Good luck! I hope you win.
307
00:11:13,385 --> 00:11:14,618
It's not about winning.
308
00:11:14,720 --> 00:11:15,719
It's about having fun.
309
00:11:15,787 --> 00:11:17,387
Granddad told me that's what losers say
310
00:11:17,456 --> 00:11:18,522
so they can sleep at night.
311
00:11:20,259 --> 00:11:21,866
Ace! Suck it, Fred Burnish!
312
00:11:21,983 --> 00:11:23,209
Dad, relax, it's just a game.
313
00:11:23,311 --> 00:11:24,794
A game you used to be good at
314
00:11:24,897 --> 00:11:26,522
before you started squatting to pee.
315
00:11:26,592 --> 00:11:28,331
You know what? This is exactly why I...
316
00:11:28,400 --> 00:11:30,333
Listen, I know you didn't
want to come here,
317
00:11:30,402 --> 00:11:31,801
but you want to stick it to the man?
318
00:11:31,870 --> 00:11:35,172
Fred Burnish grossed $85 mil last year,
319
00:11:35,240 --> 00:11:38,108
and he refuses to give
his workers disability.
320
00:11:38,210 --> 00:11:41,211
Plus, he hires illegals...
321
00:11:41,313 --> 00:11:42,771
so they can't unionize.
322
00:11:46,485 --> 00:11:49,186
15-Love.
323
00:11:52,424 --> 00:11:54,024
- Suck it! Whoo!
- Whoo!
324
00:11:58,564 --> 00:11:59,863
Suck it again, Burnish!
325
00:11:59,892 --> 00:12:00,830
Suck it!
326
00:12:00,933 --> 00:12:02,065
- Whoo!
- Whoo!
327
00:12:06,038 --> 00:12:07,103
See? Huh?
328
00:12:07,206 --> 00:12:09,506
We still got our doubles mojo.
329
00:12:09,608 --> 00:12:11,074
Yeah, I guess we do.
330
00:12:12,658 --> 00:12:15,010
I'm really sorry.
We've run out of crab legs.
331
00:12:15,034 --> 00:12:15,969
Oh.
332
00:12:15,994 --> 00:12:18,014
But can I interest you in dessert?
333
00:12:18,116 --> 00:12:20,784
We have apple pie a la mode,
chocolate cake,
334
00:12:20,809 --> 00:12:21,883
and snow cones for the kids.
335
00:12:21,908 --> 00:12:23,820
What if I want a snow cone?
336
00:12:23,889 --> 00:12:25,121
You can order one, ma'am.
337
00:12:25,190 --> 00:12:26,523
Maybe I will, Larry.
338
00:12:26,592 --> 00:12:27,791
I want one.
339
00:12:27,893 --> 00:12:29,059
What flavors are we working with?
340
00:12:29,161 --> 00:12:30,694
Cherry, watermelon...
341
00:12:30,796 --> 00:12:32,596
Cherry snow cones for the table.
342
00:12:32,664 --> 00:12:34,331
But I don't want cherry.
I want watermelon.
343
00:12:34,433 --> 00:12:36,485
- I want watermelon, too.
- I want double watermelon.
344
00:12:36,554 --> 00:12:38,001
We're not ordering that.
345
00:12:38,070 --> 00:12:39,469
We're all getting cherry.
346
00:12:39,546 --> 00:12:41,779
Are you really pressed about
ordering watermelon?
347
00:12:41,873 --> 00:12:43,473
It's all red syrup over ice.
348
00:12:43,542 --> 00:12:45,308
- No one will know.
- I will know.
349
00:12:45,510 --> 00:12:46,943
Everyone but her
350
00:12:47,012 --> 00:12:48,745
will have double watermelon.
351
00:12:48,814 --> 00:12:50,513
Can you please stop saying that fruit?
352
00:12:50,615 --> 00:12:51,848
I can't say watermelon?
353
00:12:51,950 --> 00:12:53,450
Please use your inside voice.
354
00:12:53,552 --> 00:12:55,352
Watermelon. Watermelon.
355
00:12:55,454 --> 00:12:57,654
Watermelon!
356
00:12:57,756 --> 00:12:59,022
Okay. Everybody stop!
357
00:12:59,124 --> 00:13:00,957
Sit down. Sit down.
358
00:13:01,059 --> 00:13:03,960
Well, my mom's plan to not
live up to racist stereotypes
359
00:13:04,029 --> 00:13:05,070
was going great.
360
00:13:05,095 --> 00:13:06,896
You can't do that here.
361
00:13:06,998 --> 00:13:09,232
- But isn't that why we came here?
- No.
362
00:13:09,301 --> 00:13:12,535
I meant drinking Pimm's cups
with my pinky out.
363
00:13:12,637 --> 00:13:14,604
Not sitting around a table
full of black people
364
00:13:14,673 --> 00:13:16,339
chanting a fruit that you know
365
00:13:16,441 --> 00:13:18,875
has a delicious, yet painful history.
366
00:13:18,944 --> 00:13:21,144
All I'm doing
is trying to enjoy my lunch.
367
00:13:21,213 --> 00:13:23,380
Why do you care so much about
what these white folk think?
368
00:13:23,482 --> 00:13:24,814
I don't.
369
00:13:24,883 --> 00:13:25,815
Please lower you voice.
370
00:13:25,917 --> 00:13:28,051
- I will raise my voice.
- Oh.
371
00:13:28,153 --> 00:13:30,387
And my blood alcohol level.
372
00:13:30,455 --> 00:13:33,256
Excuse me. I need a drink.
373
00:13:36,428 --> 00:13:37,594
Oh, what can I get for you?
374
00:13:37,696 --> 00:13:39,763
You know how people
put drinks in coconuts?
375
00:13:39,831 --> 00:13:42,165
Is there any way you could
carve out a watermelon,
376
00:13:42,267 --> 00:13:44,100
put a few ounces of whatever in it,
377
00:13:44,202 --> 00:13:46,536
and send it to the black woman
on the patio?
378
00:13:46,638 --> 00:13:47,771
Hey, Aunt Dee-Dee.
379
00:13:47,873 --> 00:13:49,739
Oh, hey, Bow. You having a good time?
380
00:13:49,841 --> 00:13:51,508
The best time.
381
00:13:51,610 --> 00:13:52,942
Granddad's gonna order me something
382
00:13:53,044 --> 00:13:54,444
called a virgin mint julep,
383
00:13:54,546 --> 00:13:55,912
and then I'm gonna
drive his golf cart...
384
00:13:56,014 --> 00:13:57,280
Excuse me.
385
00:13:57,382 --> 00:13:58,515
May I help you?
386
00:13:58,617 --> 00:14:00,683
You can help us with my dry cleaning.
387
00:14:00,786 --> 00:14:02,719
And whose guest are you?
388
00:14:02,821 --> 00:14:05,488
We're with Mr. Harrison Jackson.
389
00:14:05,590 --> 00:14:07,837
I'm going need both of you to follow me.
390
00:14:09,161 --> 00:14:10,760
Oh, I see.
391
00:14:10,862 --> 00:14:13,392
You come over here just to
be a melanin marshal,
392
00:14:13,470 --> 00:14:15,498
pigment patrol, corporal of color,
393
00:14:15,600 --> 00:14:17,133
secretary of skin tone...
394
00:14:17,235 --> 00:14:18,802
bigot!
395
00:14:18,904 --> 00:14:20,603
L-Let's not make things unpleasant.
396
00:14:20,705 --> 00:14:22,338
For who?
397
00:14:22,441 --> 00:14:23,807
I'm not going anywhere.
398
00:14:23,909 --> 00:14:24,941
What's going on?
399
00:14:25,043 --> 00:14:26,342
Dad, they think we're lying.
400
00:14:26,445 --> 00:14:28,311
These idiots think
just because I'm black,
401
00:14:28,413 --> 00:14:29,679
I can't have a sister
402
00:14:29,739 --> 00:14:31,548
- who married a white man with a rich dad.
- Hold on.
403
00:14:31,650 --> 00:14:33,018
You don't think I know how this works?
404
00:14:33,088 --> 00:14:34,818
I marched with Dr. King.
405
00:14:34,920 --> 00:14:36,820
If they're getting arrested,
I'm getting arrested, too.
406
00:14:36,922 --> 00:14:39,022
- Arrested?
- No one is arresting anyone.
407
00:14:39,124 --> 00:14:40,657
I don't even carry handcuffs.
408
00:14:40,759 --> 00:14:42,025
I really don't want to
go to jail with you.
409
00:14:42,127 --> 00:14:43,827
Calm down, everyone.
410
00:14:43,929 --> 00:14:46,696
- Yes, they are my guests.
- Oh.
411
00:14:46,798 --> 00:14:48,364
Oh, I'm sorry, Mr. Jackson.
I didn't realize.
412
00:14:48,467 --> 00:14:49,966
It's all right.
It was an honest mistake.
413
00:14:50,068 --> 00:14:51,768
You calling that an honest mistake?
414
00:14:51,870 --> 00:14:54,024
Paul, help me out.
They're just doing their job.
415
00:14:55,072 --> 00:14:56,806
This was the image of my grandad
416
00:14:56,908 --> 00:14:59,275
that my father did not want me to see.
417
00:14:59,377 --> 00:15:01,211
"Help you out"?
418
00:15:01,313 --> 00:15:02,879
They're harassing my family.
419
00:15:02,981 --> 00:15:04,814
Just relax.
420
00:15:05,346 --> 00:15:07,517
No, you know what?
421
00:15:07,619 --> 00:15:09,252
This is my fault.
422
00:15:09,330 --> 00:15:10,510
I knew we shouldn't have come here.
423
00:15:12,370 --> 00:15:13,803
Let's go.
424
00:15:15,268 --> 00:15:18,336
Can you bring my dry cleaning
by the house?
425
00:15:18,430 --> 00:15:21,156
W... They don't do dry cleaning here.
426
00:15:21,225 --> 00:15:22,857
Who gave you this?
427
00:15:24,266 --> 00:15:25,828
Hey, BowBow.
428
00:15:26,502 --> 00:15:28,589
I know today was a little intense.
429
00:15:28,644 --> 00:15:30,738
Is there anything
you want to talk about?
430
00:15:30,807 --> 00:15:32,386
Why would Granddad belong to a place
431
00:15:32,442 --> 00:15:34,284
that treats his family like that?
432
00:15:34,336 --> 00:15:35,889
It's complicated.
433
00:15:35,964 --> 00:15:38,231
No, it's not.
434
00:15:38,333 --> 00:15:39,566
You've always said that people
435
00:15:39,635 --> 00:15:41,534
should be treated the same
no matter what.
436
00:15:41,637 --> 00:15:44,537
- I know, but...
- But what?
437
00:15:44,606 --> 00:15:48,041
I'm just... so mad at him.
438
00:15:48,110 --> 00:15:50,644
And you can be mad at him.
439
00:15:50,746 --> 00:15:52,078
That's fair.
440
00:15:53,615 --> 00:15:57,617
Did you know that Granddad
didn't always have money?
441
00:15:57,686 --> 00:16:00,320
Yeah. He grew up in the Depression.
442
00:16:00,389 --> 00:16:02,756
And he once told me a story
that when he was a kid,
443
00:16:02,824 --> 00:16:05,425
he didn't have anything to eat
for a couple days,
444
00:16:05,527 --> 00:16:06,626
and he just kept telling himself
445
00:16:06,695 --> 00:16:10,363
that he was going to be rich one day.
446
00:16:10,432 --> 00:16:13,133
So, belonging to that club
is like keeping that promise
447
00:16:13,201 --> 00:16:15,435
to that little boy he used to be.
448
00:16:15,504 --> 00:16:17,537
Now, I'm not saying
that makes it okay, but...
449
00:16:17,606 --> 00:16:20,373
That's why we see things
a certain way, and he doesn't.
450
00:16:20,442 --> 00:16:22,175
Yeah.
451
00:16:22,244 --> 00:16:23,937
I sometimes forget that.
452
00:16:25,914 --> 00:16:27,781
But you're exactly right.
453
00:16:27,849 --> 00:16:30,450
You know, and I used to be
almost as blind
454
00:16:30,552 --> 00:16:32,552
as he is to things.
455
00:16:32,621 --> 00:16:33,787
But after I moved away,
456
00:16:33,855 --> 00:16:35,488
I started to see the world differently.
457
00:16:35,657 --> 00:16:37,253
So, if you changed,
458
00:16:37,359 --> 00:16:40,460
then maybe Granddad Harrison can change.
459
00:16:40,562 --> 00:16:42,562
Maybe.
460
00:16:43,899 --> 00:16:46,266
I hope so.
461
00:16:46,368 --> 00:16:47,968
I hope so, too.
462
00:16:48,036 --> 00:16:51,004
Look, I know I was
a little uptight today.
463
00:16:51,073 --> 00:16:52,572
You mean a little whack?
464
00:16:54,076 --> 00:16:56,910
When I saw all the black
staff looking at us,
465
00:16:57,012 --> 00:16:58,478
I thought about how our parents
466
00:16:58,547 --> 00:17:00,680
taught us how to act
in front of white people.
467
00:17:00,749 --> 00:17:03,083
And I guess I got snapped back in time.
468
00:17:03,151 --> 00:17:06,653
You tried to snap
the kids back to it, too.
469
00:17:06,722 --> 00:17:08,688
I guess I shouldn't think the whole race
470
00:17:08,757 --> 00:17:12,225
depends on how I behave
in front of company.
471
00:17:12,327 --> 00:17:13,526
It's not like white people care
472
00:17:13,629 --> 00:17:15,562
about how they behave in front of us.
473
00:17:17,232 --> 00:17:19,599
I'm proud of what we did today.
474
00:17:19,701 --> 00:17:20,967
Me too.
475
00:17:22,571 --> 00:17:24,871
And I have to give you credit.
476
00:17:24,973 --> 00:17:27,641
Sending a watermelon over?
477
00:17:27,743 --> 00:17:28,975
That was pretty good.
478
00:17:29,044 --> 00:17:31,344
To be honest, I was a little concerned
479
00:17:31,413 --> 00:17:33,613
at how excited she was to make it.
480
00:17:35,484 --> 00:17:37,083
I tried to tell you.
481
00:17:37,185 --> 00:17:38,084
Mm.
482
00:17:42,024 --> 00:17:44,758
You forgot your poncho.
483
00:17:44,826 --> 00:17:46,726
I want to talk about what happened.
484
00:17:49,765 --> 00:17:52,899
Well, I just had to explain
to your granddaughter
485
00:17:53,001 --> 00:17:55,368
that you grew up in a different time,
486
00:17:55,470 --> 00:17:58,538
that you can't help say
some of the things you say.
487
00:17:58,640 --> 00:18:00,173
But that is the last time
488
00:18:00,242 --> 00:18:01,841
I am ever gonna have that conversation
489
00:18:01,944 --> 00:18:03,510
with her or any of my kids.
490
00:18:03,578 --> 00:18:06,012
You don't have to explain me to Rainbow.
491
00:18:06,114 --> 00:18:06,947
She knows me.
492
00:18:07,049 --> 00:18:08,882
She doesn't, Dad.
493
00:18:08,984 --> 00:18:11,217
She's getting to know who you are.
494
00:18:11,286 --> 00:18:14,321
And you think being a big shot
at some fancy club
495
00:18:14,423 --> 00:18:15,488
is gonna show her.
496
00:18:15,590 --> 00:18:17,590
Did I want to show them
a good time? Yes.
497
00:18:17,693 --> 00:18:18,792
But what is so bad
498
00:18:18,894 --> 00:18:20,961
about being proud of how hard I worked
499
00:18:21,029 --> 00:18:22,562
to get a seat at the table
500
00:18:22,631 --> 00:18:24,664
and then trying to share
that seat with my family?
501
00:18:24,766 --> 00:18:27,233
You can rub elbows with people like that
502
00:18:27,336 --> 00:18:29,369
and pretend that you don't know
what they're really thinking.
503
00:18:29,438 --> 00:18:32,439
But I don't have that luxury
'cause my kids are brown.
504
00:18:32,541 --> 00:18:35,842
My wife is black. My life is different.
505
00:18:35,911 --> 00:18:39,045
But you refuse to accept that.
506
00:18:40,615 --> 00:18:42,549
I know you've changed.
507
00:18:42,617 --> 00:18:43,783
How could I not?
508
00:18:45,420 --> 00:18:47,687
The boy I raised,
the one that loved tennis,
509
00:18:47,789 --> 00:18:50,256
loved the club, loved me...
510
00:18:50,359 --> 00:18:53,560
oh, he's long gone.
511
00:18:53,628 --> 00:18:55,352
And I miss him.
512
00:18:57,666 --> 00:19:00,100
Oh, God. I sound like a broad.
513
00:19:03,505 --> 00:19:05,705
My kids adore you, Dad.
514
00:19:05,807 --> 00:19:07,073
But if you want to be in their lives...
515
00:19:07,175 --> 00:19:10,010
and I really want you to be...
516
00:19:10,078 --> 00:19:11,578
you need to make some changes.
517
00:19:16,318 --> 00:19:19,652
Look, I'm not making any promises,
but...
518
00:19:19,755 --> 00:19:24,624
I did make the change
from a Jaguar to a Ferrari.
519
00:19:24,726 --> 00:19:27,394
I have a Ferrari.
520
00:19:27,496 --> 00:19:28,895
We know, Dad.
521
00:19:28,964 --> 00:19:31,952
Granddad was a man
born in a different time.
522
00:19:31,977 --> 00:19:33,066
Just saying.
523
00:19:33,118 --> 00:19:35,211
I wish I could say
he was perfect after that day,
524
00:19:35,281 --> 00:19:36,711
but that's not real.
525
00:19:36,782 --> 00:19:39,572
What I can say is that he loved us.
526
00:19:39,641 --> 00:19:41,041
And he tried.
527
00:19:41,143 --> 00:19:43,910
I know!
528
00:19:43,979 --> 00:19:45,712
A lot of who you are as a person
529
00:19:45,814 --> 00:19:48,226
is because of
how your parents raised you.
530
00:19:49,451 --> 00:19:51,484
But who you are is also shaped
531
00:19:51,586 --> 00:19:53,353
by who you decide you want to be.
532
00:19:53,455 --> 00:19:54,621
Look at your granddad.
533
00:20:03,532 --> 00:20:05,265
What I learned from my granddad
534
00:20:05,367 --> 00:20:08,368
is that there is hope for everyone.
535
00:20:08,470 --> 00:20:10,837
And never give up
on the people you love,
536
00:20:10,939 --> 00:20:13,606
because one day,
537
00:20:13,708 --> 00:20:16,242
they might finally become
the beautiful picture
538
00:20:16,344 --> 00:20:19,212
you already had of them in your mind.
539
00:20:23,847 --> 00:20:25,550
Okay, Paul's gone.
540
00:20:25,850 --> 00:20:26,951
I still can't.
541
00:20:26,976 --> 00:20:28,444
Just pretend it's cherry.
542
00:20:28,500 --> 00:20:30,007
But what if Paul comes home?
543
00:20:30,062 --> 00:20:31,304
So what if he does?
544
00:20:31,337 --> 00:20:33,045
Everybody loves watermelon.
545
00:20:33,100 --> 00:20:34,277
Yeah, but... Mm.
546
00:20:34,310 --> 00:20:35,678
Come on. We'll do it together on three.
547
00:20:36,807 --> 00:20:38,916
One, two, three.
548
00:20:38,949 --> 00:20:41,532
- Oh! Uh...
- Oh, snow cones.
549
00:20:41,564 --> 00:20:42,853
What flavor?
550
00:20:42,907 --> 00:20:44,970
- Cherry!
- Love cherry.
551
00:20:45,001 --> 00:20:46,860
- Can I have some?
- Oh!
552
00:20:46,892 --> 00:20:48,726
Mine's bad.
553
00:20:48,758 --> 00:20:50,693
I'm really hungry.
554
00:20:51,728 --> 00:20:53,572
Mmm.
555
00:20:54,297 --> 00:20:55,494
Yeah.
556
00:20:55,580 --> 00:20:57,314
All gone.
557
00:20:57,385 --> 00:20:59,111
Save some for me.
558
00:20:59,135 --> 00:21:00,635
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